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Spring is (nearly) here and we’re getting very excited about the things that will be happening soon. Not only have we daffodils, lambs and Easter eggs to look forward to, but we’re already talking about the Diamond Jubilee and the London 2012 Olympic and Paralympic Games. OK they’re not until the summer, but the build up starts here with our handy feature on how to get involved with the games with your children. Don’t worry if it’s not your bag, there’s plenty else to keep you entertained over the spring and summer months with our what’s on pages brimming with things to do be it sporty or Spring. Happy Easter and a very Happy Mother’s Day. Families Sussex Coast. Families Sussex Coast covers: Brighton, Hove, Eastbourne, Worthing, Lewes, Burgess Hill, Hassocks and everywhere in between. Next issue May/June 2012: Advertising and editorial deadline is April 2012. You can contribute to Families Sussex Coast through advertising, editorial and our what’s on pages. Contact Families Sussex Coast: 01273 881106 editor@familiessussexcoast.co.uk Families Sussex Coast, PO Box 5189, Brighton BN50 9WN Printed by: Warners Midlands Plc, www.warners.co.uk Please recycle your copy of Families Sussex Coast when you have finished with it. Copyright: Families Sussex Coast, February 2012. Data protection: If you send us your name and address in order to receive free samples or to enter a competition, we may supply your details to the company offering the samples or prizes. If you would prefer us NOT to do so, please state this clearly on your entry. Disclaimer: We take care preparing this magazine but the publishers and distributors cannot be held responsible for the claims of advertisers, nor for the accuracy of the contents nor for any consequence. Families Group: Families Sussex Coast is part of a group established in 1990 and headed by Families South West. All magazines in the Group are independently owned and operated under licence.
March / April 2012
What’s inside News
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Earth hour, new A&E for children, Baby Sensory and wear a hat day
Your child’s education 6 How home life can make a difference
Education news
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Learning a language
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School news, Of Ofsted and more It’s not just repeat after me
Get ready to celebrate 9 the London 2012 Games Tantrums
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Mothers’ Day ideas
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Luca and Maya
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What’s on
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Setting the boundaries What mums really want Decorating Easter Eggs
Peppa Pig, Easter Egg Hunts, Gruffalo Pie, Mother’s Day and more.
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OUTSTANDING
fostering service
WEAR A HAT for Brain Tumour Research Research, said, “Brain Tumour Research receives less than 1% of national cancer
The Fostering Service in East Sussex has
research spending in the UK yet the deadly
been given a glowing report by Ofsted who
disease kills more children and people under
concluded that the service is “outstanding”.
the age of 40 than any other cancer. ‘Wear a Hat Day’ is a fun way of increasing awareness
The County Council’s fostering service is
and getting people raising money for an often
responsible for foster carers who look after approximately 520 young people in care. The service was judged against criteria including how it helps children to be healthy, how carers are supported and trained and how the service is organised and managed.
overlooked form of cancer”. On the 30th of March 2012 the charity Brain Tumour Research will be encouraging you to take part in ‘Wear a Hat Day’ at your nursery, school or work place. The campaign aims to raise awareness of brain tumours and the need
The inspectors concluded there was a “clear emphasis” on promoting young people’s health and on ensuring they reach their full potential
for vital research. Sue Farrington-Smith, Director of Brain Tumour
Philip Treacy, celebrity hat designer and patron to the charity, commented, “how better to express your passion and commitment to a subject such as brain tumour research than by wearing a fantastic hat?” To get involved and request your fundraising packs visit www.braintumourresearch.org.
educationally. There was also praise for the way the fostering service “actively seeks out the views of its stakeholders and uses these to improve the service”. The East Sussex Fostering Service is currently
Fun family day at North Park Farm
FREE taster session
of Sing and Sign!
A free family fun day with free refreshments,
Have you heard
facepainting and magic is on Saturday 24th
of baby signing?
March at North Park Farm near Albourne. It’s
It’s easy to do
a fabulous opportunity to test-drive lots of
and wonderfully
garden games and toys for children of all ages
rewarding. Babies
- even mum and dad are guaranteed a fun
naturally use all kinds
EARTH HOUR
day out! You can see their new range of play
of gestures before
Whether you’ve taken part in WWF’s Earth Hour
great value wooden play towers plus the best
they may point, clap their hands and wave. You
range of climbing frames, swings and slides
can help this blossoming communication and
as well as lovely wooden dolls houses, farms,
encourage your baby’s speech by introducing
riding schools and forts.
some extra gestures like milk, more, change
looking for new carers. For more information contact 01323 747407 or visit www.eastsussex.gov.uk/fostering
WWF’s
before or not, don’t miss it on Saturday 31 March at 8.30pm. A chance to get involved in a global phenomenon, join hundreds of millions of people turning off their lights for one hour on the same night, all across the planet. But it’s not just to save an hour’s electricity - Earth Hour is about people coming together to celebrate the planet and focus on how we need to protect it. Sign up at www.wwf.org.uk.
talking, for example
equipment, an enormous 15ft oval trampoline,
nappy or tired, in fact any words your baby may Visit www.northparkfarm.co.uk and ‘like’
enjoy. You will be amazed by what your baby is
their Facebook page during March to
capable of telling you before being able to talk.
receive a £5.00 gift voucher* (terms and conditions apply) www.northparkfarm.co.uk.
Award winning Sing and Sign teaches baby signing through music and rhyme so it’s easy to pick up, and good fun too! Classes are in Brighton, Hove and Hurstpierpoint. 01273 540266
Newhaven Fort opens for 2012 season Newhaven’s historic Fort re-opens on Thursday 1st March 2012 and promises visitors a quality day out to remember. Newhaven Fort offers visitors the chance to enjoy interactive wartime displays and exhibits, fascinating architecture and breathtaking clifftop views of the Sussex coastline. With a programme of open-air theatre and live music to military re-enactments and children’s activities, during the school holidays, Newhaven Fort has something for everyone. To find out what’s going on visit www.newhavenfort.org.uk.
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Yummy Mummy fundraising
National Yummy Mummy Week runs from 1018 March (Mother’s Day) and is a fundraising campaign all about mums doing something yummy to raise money for children and young people with cancer. Mums can hold any type of event from cake sales and coffee mornings to dinner parties or pamper nights. All money raised from their event will help the charity CLIC Sargent and make a real difference to families affected by childhood cancer. To find out more visit www.yummymummy.org.uk or call 08451 206 658 for your fundraising pack.
News Families
NEW children’s
AWARD WINNING
at the Royal Alexandra
in Eastbourne
A&E opens
Children in Brighton &
Baby Sensory
Hove who need emergency
Parents and their
hospital treatment can now
babies can now
go to their own dedicated
enjoy the award
A&E in the Royal Alexandra
winning Baby
Children’s Hospital, the
Sensory classes in
first stand-alone children’s
the Eastbourne area
emergency department in the
thanks to Christelle
South East.
Laumiere.
BSUH Chief Executive
Baby Sensory has been specifically designed for
Duncan Selbie said: “Having
babies from birth to 13 months and consists of
listened to parent stories about bringing their
hundreds of different activities for you and your
children to the adult department, we decided to
baby to enjoy. Activities incorporate every possible
transfer our young patients to a more appropriate
sensory experience including baby signing,
paediatric setting.”
fibre optic light shows, amazing bouncy light
Located on Eastern Road, Brighton, next to the Royal Sussex County Hospital and with comfortable waiting and play areas, the Alex is
balls, rainbows, bubbles, bells, holistic massage and much more. Baby Sensory is designed to encourage early development.
fully equipped to treat emergency conditions and
For more details and to book a FREE
provide a fast response to injuries or illnesses.
taster session contact Christelle at
The new paediatric A&E will sees children and young people in need of emergency care 24 hours a day, seven days a week. It is a significant move for the Alex, which continues to strengthen its position as a leading UK specialist healthcare
eastbourne@babysensory.co.uk, or 07799 050 374 or visit www.babysensory.com.
Help families,
centre for children.
Chancellor urged
To find out more visit www.theroyalalex.co.uk.
The single parents’ campaigning group Gingerbread is urging Chancellor George Osborne to use his March budget to reverse some of the cuts they say
Say you saw it in
March /April 2012
are most damaging to family finances. Gingerbread chief executive Fiona Weir said families in some areas were facing real hardship, in part because of recent cuts, and called on Mr Osborne to ease off families and set out what she called “a credible plan” to reduce child poverty rates across Britain.
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Your child’s education starts at home
Did you know that just by keeping books in your home can significantly increase your children’s likelihood of going to university and that’s irrespective of background, size of family, where they live, parents occupation or any other social factor? Further research has also shown that the biggest impact on a child’s educational development is reading to them from a very early age. So if your child is starting school for the first time this year, or they are already progressing rapidly through the school years, undertaking a few small activities at home can make a huge difference to the development and education of children and powerfully build on the learning they receive from school.
Why bother... Most of us want our children to do well at school and a parents role in
development for children and keep it fun. n Problem solving. Encourage your children to think things through and work things out for themselves. Ask them why they think metal goes rusty, why the sky is grey, why the Police car makes a noise, etc. Point out things that are different to home - buildings, accents, clothes, food, and customs. Experts suggest giving your child a simple map of where they are going, also following a recipe together are great techniques to boost concentration. n Keep talking. New experiences and discoveries are always stimulating, so encourage your child to try new things. Look for opportunities to talk to your child about their day - children enjoy sharing what they are learning. n Get number crunching.
that success cannot be underestimated. Studies in Britain have shown
Talk about numbers and show them
that children who are supported by their families with homework are likely
how useful numbers are in almost
to perform significantly better in academic examinations at 16 years old
everything we do. Measure their
and beyond, than those who do not. Recent reports show boys are still
height and work out how much
having difficulties with literacy (reading, writing or spelling), and girls with
they have grown, spot speed signs
numeracy, despite improvements in primary school results. Even the best
and funny number plates, say the
and brightest teachers can be hard pressed to address the individual
time out load and how long before
needs of every child, especially in a crowded classroom. And what if your
the next stop, compare the prices of vegetables in the supermarket
child shows a particular interest or aptitude towards a certain topic? A
and how much money you will need to pay, how long tea will take to
love of physics can start at any age. Similarly, if your child finds a topic
cook, how much milk you pour on your cornflakes, etc.
difficult, your interest as a parent will help, no matter how well or how fast your child understands what they are being taught. Parents small actions can plug these gaps, support children and really boost their development.
What activities can be taken? Activities that involve reading, listening, writing, number awareness, sequencing, counting and learning to become aware of the world that surrounds them are perfect. They will help encourage a love and understanding of language, maths and science which are basic tools to boost any child’s education. n Keep a library. A few books placed in reach of your children to pick up any time for browsing or talking about. A recent study conducted
n Put a pen in their hands. Help them develop their handwriting skills by writing words and sentences for them to copy. Point out examples of lovely handwriting and pictures when you see them, encourage them to ‘sign’ birthday and Christmas cards to their friends, and always get them to sign their own artwork. Overall, making sure your activities with them are fun will make a real difference. Children thrive on encouragement, someone who will listen to them when they are struggling as well as achieving. Giving them a little personal attention that they can’t get in the classroom, all add up to fun learning for your child and peace of mind for you that they are achieving the best they can.
in the US found that children coming from a “bookish home” remained in education for around three years longer than young people born into families with empty bookshelves. n Read to your children. Sharing stories and reading together are vital to the development of a child’s literacy skills. Just ten minutes at the start or end of the day will be enough to help them to acquire the skills they need to develop as a reader. n Download free games, activities, and worksheets online. There are many websites offering free activities that encourage basic skill
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Education Families
EDUCATION news Early years
Moira House Girls School
at St Bede’s holiday activities Due to the huge success of their Summer Discovery Camps, Moira House Girls School is pleased to now offer Easter Camps. Just like the Summer Camps, children of all ages can book daily or weekly places and enjoy a wide variety of activities such as drumming, jewellery making, swimming and cheerleading. The Discovery Camp runs from 2 to 20 April
More children have ‘special needs’ A new report shows that the number of children diagnosed with special needs has risen by 10 per cent in the past five years, amid concerns that schools are “playing the system” to disguise poor exam results. According to the Department for Education, around 1.7m school children in England, which is more than one in five, have been diagnosed with special educational needs and suffer from behavioural problems, learning difficulties or physical disabilities. A
St Bede’s Baby Unit, Nursery and Pre-
during the Easter holidays (excluding the bank
Prep School are situated on the site of St
holidays) and from 2 July to 10 August in the
Bede’s Prep School, nestling under the
summer.
concluded that both boys and children from the
Moira House also has an Easter Intensive Swim
to be classified special needs than any other
School running from 2 to 5 April and 10 to 13
group. The study also underlined the link between
April for beginners to intermediate. Visit
special needs and poor examination results,
www.moirahouse.co.uk for more details or
with only one-fifth of children with special needs
call 01323 636800.
leaving school with five good GCSEs.
South Downs and overlooking the sea in Eastbourne. At St Bede’s they believe getting the early years right are crucial for a child’s future success at school and further in to adult life. Their aim is to develop positive attitudes and key skills which we do through a very practical based curriculum. From
they can problem solve, be creative and
Smart lunch boxes
have the ability to transfer their skills to new
Goodyn’s smart and totally
challenges they encounter from the earliest
functional lunch boxes are great
age. To find out more contact
for easy to pack different foods
www.stbedesschool.org
for your child’s lunch. Without
age two they have access to a huge range of experiences including swimming, ICT, music, dance and sports hall activities. They encourage children to be thinkers so that
report published this winter by the Department most deprived backgrounds were more likely
Learn languages with little ones Come along to a French or Spanish for Fidgets class and
the need for cling film or foil they
you’ll be truly amazed
reduce waste and with sticker sheets including allergy
at how easily little
labels and pictures your child’s lunch box will be the envy
children can learn
of their class mates. Visit www.quirkybags.co.uk.
languages. Because
No-notice Ofsted inspections
their brains are like sponges, they can soak up hundreds of
From Autumn 2012 schools will face
visiting. The “great majority of schools conduct
inspections without being given notice, Ofsted
themselves properly”, Sir Michael said, but
new words and phrases and they are fantastic
chief announces. Sir Michael Wilshaw, HM
added that if there is any thought that a school
at picking up accents. Research also shows that
chief inspector, said the move was a “logical”
is not, Ofsted must address it. However,
children who speak a foreign language do better
progression, adding that it was vital the
school leaders revealed they had “real doubts”
all round at school.
public had confidence in inspections and that
that the move would improve inspections,
inspectors must see schools “as they really are
raising concern that the change had been
in the corridors, classrooms and staffroom”.
announced without consulting headteachers.
Interviewed by the Press Association, Sir
Brian Lightman, general secretary of the
Michael said the introduction of new guidelines
Association of School and College Leaders
offered a “good opportunity” to cut the notice
(ASCL), said: “We welcome moves to
period given to all schools, not just those
improve the effectiveness of inspection, but
causing concern. This comes after new
I have real doubts that no-notice inspection
worries that some schools were using tactics
will accomplish this. An effective inspection
such as sending less successful teachers and
system is based on mutual trust and respect,
unruly pupils home when inspectors were
not the premise that schools are trying to
To book or find out more call 01273 833 340 or
‘cheat’ and need to be caught out.”
visit www.littlefidgets.co.uk.
March /April 2012
The Fidgets method makes language learning a really fun experience using all the 5 senses with action songs, tasty snacks, cute puppets and stunning resources to delight and surprise you every week. Fidgets classes have been featured on BBC TV and are very popular in nurseries. Local classes for 2-11 year olds are available in Patcham, Westdene, Palmeira Square, Hurstpierpoint and Dyke Road.
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There’s more to learning a language than repeat-after-me Growing up in the 1970s, we had to rely on our imaginations and ingenuity to make playtime as fun as possible. These days, pre-school children have options we could only have dreamed of. The world is an endless
in Spanish, and action songs and games help develop their physical
source of fascination
co-ordination. As their learning continues they become familiar with basic
for small children. From
verbs, and increase their speaking and listening skills.
myriad sounds and smells to pictures, rhymes
This is a very gentle and fun-focused introduction to Spanish, which
and rhythms, children
keeps children motivated and engaged and has surprisingly positive
experience on a daily basis
effects on their learning. To keep it interesting, and because children learn
a feast for all five senses.
at different speeds, classes are split into two age brackets:
Your little one is like a
6 months – 2 ½ year-olds, and 2 ½ – 5 year-olds.
sponge, mimicking everything they see and hear around them, regardless of the source or origin, which is why it makes perfect sense to immerse them in weekly Spanish playtime. At Buenos Dias, pre-school children are involved in interactive games, songs and storytelling in a fun, vibrant and gently-focused atmosphere.
Unsure if Spanish playtime is right for your little one? Buenos Dias makes your decision easy with a free trial for babies, toddlers and pre-schoolers. Call 01273 323431 to book or email info@buenosdias.co.uk Please also visit www.buenosdias.co.uk for more details.
Native Spanish speakers use a range of themes including the human body, farm animals, fruit and veg and the beach to introduce children to everyday objects that resonate with their own experience. Children quickly learn to count, name colours and introduce themselves
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Families News &Olympics Reviews Families
Get ready to celebrate the London 2012 Games By Rebecca Carr
This summer, the London 2012 Olympic and Paralympic Games will be an amazing festival of sport and culture: a breathtaking event that the whole nation can get excited about. the highest jumpers and the strongest swimmers. Here’s how you too can
The Family Activity Challenge
get involved and be a part of the greatest sporting event in the world.
This challenge is all about doing sports together and is perfect for
Be a Local Leader
families. Learn one new sport and or try a family run, walk, cycle or swim.
You will get to see the very best athletes in the world, the fastest runners,
It’s accessible for younger children or those who want to involve elder The Local Leader programme is an opportunity for people in communities across the UK to be at the heart of the London 2012 Games and celebrate them in your
local area. Millions of people will be celebrating and at the heart of every celebration will be the one person who makes a difference, an organiser
members of the family too. The Youth and Family Gold Challenge offers three challenge options to choose from. This is your challenge and you can choose how you do it: n
Complete your challenge indoors or outdoors
n
Choose new sports, or push yourself further in your favourite sport
n
Complete it as an individual or as a family.
or someone who makes things happen. So if this sounds like you, why
1. The 2012km Challenge
not become a London 2012 Local Leader and plan an activity that can
Celebrating the Olympic year, choose your target distance at 2,012, 201.2
include the whole family.
or 20.12km and then complete this in your preferred sport. You need to
All you need is an idea of how you will celebrate the Games. You can
be aged seven or over to register.
create your own events or use the ideas communities across the UK
Cover your chosen distance via one or more of the following sports (for
suggested to London 2012. From gardening for the games to planning a
families or groups this can be an aggregated total):
sports quiz or a super Saturday family BBQ, get your friends, family and
n
neighbours ready to celebrate the greatest sporting event in the world.
n
Walking
n
Cycling
n
Swimming
n
Canoeing/kayaking
Dig out your trowel and get planting! Use your window pots, garden or
n
Horse-riding
community allotment to celebrate through all things floral. You can use
n
Rowing
Olympic colours or Union Jack themes.
n
Sailing.
H
2. Olympic Sport Challenge
Ideas to get you started and involve the whole family:
H
Let’s get gardening
School’s out
Running
This challenge is for those of you
Every week during the school holidays keep the family busy during the
who want to try out new sports.
holidays with the toolkit from London 2012. Packed with ideas and
Pick five Olympic or Paralympic
learning opportunities.
H
sports to learn or improve on, then coach or take part in a competitive
Design a flag
Why not design an Olympic flag to wave when the Olympic Torch passes
event to complete your challenge.
through your town or village.
You need to be aged seven or over to register.
For more information and to register visit: www.london2012.com/localleaders
3. The Family Activity Challenge This is a two part challenge, perfect for families as it’s all about doing
Youth and Family Gold Challenge The Youth and Family Gold Challenge is the charity challenge where you take on Olympic and Paralympic Sports to raise money for charity. Everyone aged five and over can take part either as an individual, as part of a team, or with your family and fundraise money for one of Gold Challenge’s 125 charities.
sports together, regardless of age or ability. Firstly, choose one new sport to learn then do two of the following as a family: n
Swim 500 metres
n
Run 1,500 metres
n
Walk 5,000 metres
n
Cycle 10,000 metres
The Family Activity Challenge can be done anywhere you choose but you must complete it together as a family. More information is available at www.goldchallenge.org.
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The cuteness of tantrums...
...setting boundaries
By Helena Foss
Relentless: That is the word I tend to mutter when I’m stomping around in a grumpy haze, steadying myself on walls and furniture, hand clamped onto forehead, begging the powers that be for strength as I surrender to the teeth-clenching exasperation that sometimes constitutes motherhood. ‘Relentless! Why did no-one
The Blame Game
tell me just how damn hard this
See, I know that blame is the easy option. The popular American family
‘It’s just relentless.’ I hiss to myself.
parenting thing was going to be?’ Actually, mothering is only really relentless when I am not quite rising to the challenges it is chucking at me. And the last few months, I have mostly been struggling with: boundaries. Ah yes, that old brick wall that children just love kicking against, for as long as they possibly can, until their little metaphorical feet hurt too much to keep going. What is it with little ones? Why do they
therapist Dr Phil insists that you have to teach people how to treat you. In fact, it is your job to point out when people are taking you for granted. But this takes courage, tenacity and, importantly, respect for oneself. It means giving up the niceness and need-to-be-needed so prevalent in the female conditioning. Lying in bed that night, still stunned at just how hellish my afternoon had been, it dawned on me that I had been giving into everyone’s wants apart from my own – and lost my sense of self in the process. It was indeed mortifying to mentally assess just how resentful towards my family I had become; how relentless everyone’s needs felt upon me. My son had given me the gift of reflecting back just how secretly angry I was at myself, for relentlessly ignoring my own needs.
give us such a hard time? I mean,
The art of good taking good care of oneself, as well as our children, I
where is their respect?
have found, is being able to set ground rules as a matter of fact. ‘This is
Copyright Franck Boston
Losing It Not long ago I found myself in that awful position of being the kind of mother I thought I would never be, losing my rag as I attempted to manage an all-guns-blazing tantrum, smack bang in the middle of town,
Mummy time’ has to be said in the same straightforward manner as ‘the grass is green’. It is just how it is; no need to defend it with barbed wire and machine guns. As a friend of mine likes to say, ‘once everyone in the family knows their place, even the dog and the cat, we can all relax.’
Cute Tantrums
at rush hour. Reasoning was not getting anywhere. Neither was shouting.
‘You know, when I think back to those days of tantrums,’ a mother of
In the end, I had to grab my boy by the scruff of the neck and yank him
several teenagers reminisced to me recently, ‘I actually think it was really
onto a bus, holding him at arms length to avoid his attempts to scratch
cute.’
me. Determinedly ignoring the bus full of tut-tutting commuters, I pulled him and his flailing limbs upstairs and mercifully found a place right at the back for him to howl himself into exhaustion. Not my finest hour.
Cute? It took me a while to get my head round that one. Children’s little brains, I have to remind myself, are not wired for considered, rational behaviour. If they want something they want it. Now. Not having it
I really thought I knew about boundaries. Not only do I have a background
can bring on a full-blown grief reaction. As overt as they are with their
in therapy, hey, I watched almost every episode of BBC3’s ‘The House
sadness, they are with their happiness and love too. There is nothing quite
of Tiny Tearaways’ with child psychology expert Professor Tanya Byron
like my son running up to fling his arms around me when I walk through
at the helm. The theory is great; but practically speaking, I had no idea
the door, after nipping to the corner shop.
how tough it would be to draw that all important line without resorting to threats, bribery or a big stick.
The other week, my son’s school nursery teacher told me she had asked the class if anyone knew what a tantrum was. My boy’s hand, apparently,
With the jigging motion of sitting on the back seat of that bus starting
shot up. ‘A tantrum,’ he said solemnly as he stood in front of the class,
to calm us both down and normalise my blood pressure, I noticed that
‘is when you just pry and pry and pry.’ (He hasn’t got the hard ‘c’ sound
my internal dialogue was sounding horribly judgemental: ‘After all I have
nailed in that particular word just yet). The discussion opened up and, one
done for you,’ my inner embittered doormat moaned, ‘you ungrateful
by one, the faces of his nursery chums lit up. ‘Oh yes,’ they chimed, ‘I
little...’ Cue the scratchy sound of a needle veering off an old vinyl record.
do that sometimes too!’ And: ‘So do I!’ A four-year-olds tantrum support
‘Noooooo!’ I yelled inwardly, sitting up with a jolt as if waking up out of a
group! Awwwww. Now that really is cute.
nightmare. This was not the person I ever wanted to be.
Helena is a hypnotherapist and writer about all things holistic and spiritual. Visit www.helenafoss.co.uk.
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Mother’s Day Families
What mums really want
for Mother’s Day
Warning: This is a page for dads only – mums, look elsewhere (or leave the magazine conveniently open on this page where it might be found by your other half...) Psst, dads – want to know what mum really wants for Mothers’ Day? Here are some ideas to show her how much you care.
A family gathering
maybe you could secretly liaise with them and organise a weekend away?
Mothering Sunday was originally a day-off from Lent, when servants were allowed to travel home to see their mums, and have a slap-up dinner
Time with you, alone
together. Traditional presents were flowers and cakes – and you won’t go
Chances are, since the kids came along, life’s been a little (or a lot) less
too far wrong if you stick to tradition. What mum doesn’t love having the family all around one table, with cake and flowers thrown in? But mum’s not making the feast, or doing the washing up – oh no. Book her favourite restaurant or pub, or make the meal yourself - and make sure you wash
You’ll be rolling in brownie points after any of these.
romantic. Mother’s Day is the perfect time to put this right, with a hotel reservation slipped inside the card and the grandparents on standby for next weekend. Happy days all round.
up afterwards.
Personalised works of art
Breakfast in bed
If home is where your woman’s heart is, then a few personal touches Again, a traditional but excellent choice. Try making Jamie Oliver’s ridiculously easy American-style pancakes (1 cup each of flour and milk, plus one large egg: www. jamieoliver.com) with fruit and maple syrup, add flowers and a pot of tea, and Bob’s your auntie’s live-in lover. Follow up with a family walk – or take the kids off yourself to let her really enjoy that extended lie-in.
to beautify it won’t go far wrong. Book a portrait session for the whole family with a great local photographer, or find a local service that turns an existing photo into a fantastic artwork. What woman could resist a framed print of her wedding day as a romantic gesture?
Something really unique With a little planning ahead, you and the kids can present mum with a truly unique and handmade creation. Take the children’s fingerprints or hand or foot casts, and have them made into pictures, keepsakes or jewellery – there are lots of places that do this now. A home made cake is always well received or alternatively, take the kids to a pottery painting shop and have a great time making a personalised plate, mug or vase
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Time to herself
that mum will treasure forever. Whatever you decide, we hope every mum has a wonderful Mothers’ Day!
This is one thing we mums often crave more than anything, so organise her some proper “me time”. Book her a spa day or indulge her hobby with a weekend course. If she doesn’t get to see her closest friends enough,
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What’s on Families
Our What’s On pages are put together several weeks beforehand and whilst we aim to be as accurate as we can, there may be some changes. Always contact the venue in advance to check details.
Theatre
Oliver!
Dreamboats and Petticoats
The Rattonian Youth Group performs one of the country’s best loved musicals, Oliver! 01323 412000 www.eastbournetheatres.co.uk
4-7 April Devonshire Park Theatre, Eastbourne
5-10 March Theatre Royal Brighton Dreamboats and Petticoats The Musical features some of the greatest hit songs of the Rock ‘n’ Roll era. 08448 717 650 www.atgtickets.com/brighton
Legally Blonde the Musical 13-2 March 13-24 Theatre Royal Brighton This all-singing, all-dancing romantic comedy is about knowing who you are and showing what you’ve got! 08448 717 650 www.atgtickets.com/brighton
Travels with Grandad
6-10 March Congress Theatre, Eastbourne
Cinderella On Ice features all your favourite fairytale characters in this wonderful show that the whole family will enjoy. 01323 412000 www.eastbournetheatres.co.uk
Music and Arts Festival Gala Concert 11 March Winter Garden, Floral Hall, Eastbourne
This year’s Music and Arts Festival Gala Concert will once again be produced and hosted by Festival Director Spencer Freeman. Performers from the two week festival return once more for your entertainment. 01323 412000 www.eastbournetheatres.co.uk
Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat
27-31 March Pavilion Theatre, Worthing
Retelling the Biblical story of Joseph, his eleven brothers and the coat of many colours, this magical musical is full of unforgettable songs including Any Dream Will Do and Close Every Door To Me. 01903 206206 www.worthingtheatres.co.uk
Sam Rose in the Shadows Age 6+
1 April, 11.30am and 2.30pm Pavilion Theatre, Brighton Dome Ivan Rose is six years old. Shut away in his little house in the city watched by his ageing tutor, he dreams about the outside world. His father, Sam, spends most of his time away, and Ivan can only imagine he is off fighting dragons and generally being a hero! 01273 709709 www.brightondome.org
7-8 April Pavilion Theatre, Brighton Dome Meet Granddad, eccentric traveller and storyteller extraordinaire. Enter his battered Bedouin tent to hear intrepid tales of courageous deed and valiant adventure in both real and imaginary worlds. 01273 709709 www.brightondome.org
10-14 April Congress Theatre, Eastbourne
Dreamboats and Petticoats The Musical features some of the greatest hit songs of the Rock ‘n’ Roll era. 01323 412000 www.eastbournetheatres.co.uk
Tiddler and Other Terrific Tales
23-25 April Devonshire Park Theatre, Eastbourne A magical collection of Julia Donaldson’s most popular titles including Tiddler, The Smartest Giant In Town, A Squash and A Squeeze and Monkey Puzzle. Under sea, over land, on the farm and in the jungle, these tales are woven together with live music, songs, puppets and a host of colourful characters. 01323 412000 www.eastbournetheatres.co.uk
11 March Congress Theatre, Eastbourne We all want to meet people from history - the problem is everyone is dead. Don’t miss this horribly good chance to travel back in time. 01323 412000 www.eastbournetheatres.co.uk
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All the Fun of the Fair 3-7 April Congress Theatre, Eastbourne
Dodgems and motorbikes, crafty cons and candy floss, fairground horses, along with romance and rock and roll means you’re sure to go on a rollercoaster of a ride, but beware... all is not always fun at the fair! 01323 412000 www.eastbournetheatres.co.uk
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Gruffalo Pie Go for a stroll in the deep, dark wood. and have loads of fun, Seven Sisters, 4 April
The Diary of Anne Frank 1-5 May Devonshire Park Theatre, Eastbourne Anne Frank’s famous diary charts two years of her life from 1942 to 1944. An extraordinary personal account of hope, courage and survival. 01323 412000 www.eastbournetheatres.co.uk
Cinema Big Scream!
Duke of York Cinema, Brighton Every Wednesday morning at 11am mums, dads and carers with babies under one can enjoy a great film at the Duke of York Cinema, Brighton. See website for films. www.picturehouses.co.uk
Saturday morning Kids’ Club
Duke of York cinema, Brighton Starts 10.30am with drawing and a competition with a film at 11am. Check website for films. 0871 704 2056 www.picturehouses.co.uk
Saturday morning pictures Connaught 2 Screen, Worthing Every Saturday at 10.15am
Activities and events
3-5 April Pavilion Theatre, Worthing
Horrible Histories: Terrible Tudors and Vile Victorians
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Peppa Pig Every little one’s favourite pink pig Theatre Royal Brighton, 25-26 March
Check website for films. 01903 206206 www.worthingtheatres.co.uk
Chinese State Circus From the land of legends and warrior Shaolin monks comes the incredible new Chinese State Circus production - the live acrobatic spectacular Yin Yang. 01903 206206 www.worthingtheatres.co.uk
Our top picks for March and April
Age 3-7
Dreamboats and Petticoats Cinderella on Ice
Families favourites
Story time Peppa Pig’s Treasure Hunt
Every week day at 4pm The Book Nook, First Avenue, Hove
25-26 April Theatre Royal Brighton
01273 911988 www.booknookuk.com
Ahoy there me Hearties! Peppa Pig and her friends are going on a treasure hunt and need your help! Peppa, George and Danny Dog are up to fun and games on a day out on Grandad Dog’s boat. Help them, with Pedro Pony, Polly Parrot and Zoe Zebra to follow the clues and find their treasure. 08448 717 650 www.atgtickets.com/brighton
Storytime
Every week Hove Library Fridays at 10.15am 01273 290700
Jubilee Library Wednesdays 10.15am 01273 296960
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Sensory story telling for children with special needs Last Saturday every month, 2.30pm Jubilee Library, Brighton First Tuesday every month, 10.15-10.45am Hove Library Discover the magic of sensory stories particularly suited to children with profound and multiple learning disabilities. 01273 296960 www.brighton-hove.gov.uk
Tots That Rock
Every Friday and Monday The Bridge Inn, 87 High Street , Shoreham By Sea Singing and dancing and chat with other mums, dads and carers. totsthatrock@yahoo.com
Mumpreneurs Networking Club
Beechwood Hall Hotel, Worthing 9 March Chambers Bistro Old Town Hall, Shoreham 15 March The Woolpack Inn, West Street, Burgess Hill 23 March The Cock Inn, Lewes 13 March www www.agoodgossip .co.uk
Science Festival Weekend
10-11 March The Observatory Science Centre, Herstmonceux A family fun activity weekend to celebrate National Science and Engineering week. 01323 832731 www.the-observatory.org
17 March New Road, Brighton
17 -18 March Hove Centre
Best Veggie Sausage competition plus veggie cookery demos, entertainment, music, performance, talks and product presentations. www.brighton.vegfest.co.uk
Free Children’s Storytelling Age 4+ 17 March and 21 April, 10am Founders Room, Brighton Dome Lively, interactive sessions for children that are fun, entertaining and the perfect introduction to the ancient art of telling tales 01273 709709 www.brightondome.org
Follow in the webbed footsteps of our amphibian cousins as we search for water and wildlife in the wilds of Bedelands Farm Nature Reserve. www.sussexwildlifetrust.org.uk
Sport Relief
25 March Madeira Drive, Brighton
Family fun day at North Park Farm
Join the fun and dance away those winter blues! 07809 437703 www.dinkidisco.com
Family Open Evening for National Science and Engineering Week 17 March The Observatory Science Centre, Herstmonceux
Have you ever wondered what it would be like to look at the stars, planets and the moon through some of the country’s largest telescopes? Well here is your opportunity! 01323 832731 www.the-observatory.org
31 March - 15 April The Observatory Science Centre, Herstmonceux
In addition to the hands-on exhibits there will be daily telescope tours and science shows. Telescope Tours usually at 12pm, 2pm and 4pm. Spectacular Materials Show usually at 11am, 1pm and 3pm. We also have additional drop-in activities in the Zany Zone and fantastic pre-booked half day and full day workshops for children. See website for details. 01323 832731 www.the-observatory.org
24 March North Park Farm, near Albourne Enjoy a free family fun day with free refreshments, face painting and magic whilst trying out the new range of slides and climbing frames. www.northparkfarm.co.uk.
Spring Harvest’ Brighton and Hove Food and Drink Festival
30 March - 9 May Venues across Brighton and Hove A 10 day food festival taking place at venues across the city with a strong focus on seasonal Sussex ales, wines and local food. www.brightonfoodfestival.com
4 April Drusillas Park
Gruffalo Pie 5-7 years 4 April, 10.30am-1pm Meet at the Pump Barn behind the Visitor Centre at Seven Sisters Country Park Come for a stroll through the deep, dark wood with mouse and meet the other animals in Friston Forest. Enjoy lots of hands on activities on the way before gathering around the campfire for a Gruffalo Pie feast. www.sussexwildlifetrust.org.uk
Easter holiday club 6-11 years 4 April, 10.30am-2.30pm Stanmer Park, Brighton Come and enjoy four hours of environmental fun and games. www.sussexwildlifetrust.org.uk
5-12 years
Experience the eco-build and be inspired to respond to climate change. www.lowcarbon.co.uk
17 March The King Alfred Ballroom, Kingsway, Hove Seafront
Easter holidays at the Observatory Science Centre
Wildlife Safari 25 March Meet at Leylands Park Football Club car park (off Maple Drive, follow the brown reserve sighsn), Burgess Hill.
Ben and Holly at Drusillas The enchantment of the Little Kingdom will be cast over Drusillas, as Ben Elf and Princess Holly return to the Park 01323 874100 www.drusillas.co.uk.
Veg Fest UK
11 March, 8 April Stanmer Park, Brighton
Dinki Disco
Easter holidays
The perfect place to stock up on delicious Easter gifts and indulge your passion for all things chocolate. www.festivalchocolate.co.uk
The Sainsbury’s Sport Relief Mile in Brighton is back! Whether you do 1, 3 or 6 miles, everyone is guaranteed to have a brilliant day out! www.comicrelief.com
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Easter holiday club: The Friston Camp 7-11 years
The Fat Controller at Drusillas 3 April Drusillas Park
The Fat Controller will be causing a locomotion, when he alights at the park to take control of the efficient running of the railway. 01323 874100 www.drusillas.co.uk.
Easter holiday club: The Friston Trail 7-11 years 3 April, 10.30am-2.30pm Meet at the Pump Barn behind the Visitor Centre at Seven Sisters Country Park, Exceat, nr. Seaford Using a compass and map follow our trail through Friston Forest to find our secret camp site in the midst of the woodland. Help us to set up a camp and earn your reward with a treat cooked over a fire which you have helped to light. www.sussexwildlifetrust.org.uk
Easter fun at Yellowave Beach Sports Centre Madeira Drive, Brighton 3 April, 2-3pm
Beach sports fun and climb. 6-9 years.
3 April 2-3pm Beach volleyball. 10-15 years.
11 April April, 2-3.30pm Beach sports fun and climbs. 6-9 years
3 April 3.30-5pm Beach volleyball. 10-15 years. 01273 672222 www.yellowave.co.uk
5 April, 10.30am-2.30pm Seven Sisters Country Park Join us at the Friston forest camp. Explore the woodland with us, practice fire lighting and learn some basic woodcraft skills including shelter building and tool use. www.sussexwildlifetrust.org.uk
Easter Science Trail 6-9 April The Observatory Science Centre, Herstmonceux
Our alternative to an Easter Egg Hunt. Follow the sheet of science questions that will lead you around the centre and then claim your mini Easter Egg if the answers are correct. 01323 832731 www.the-observatory.org
Children’s Open Day 6 April, 2-5pm Brighton Dome Foyer
Brighton & Hove Children’s Festival launches with a packed afternoon of music and free family-friendly activities and entertainment based around the theme of bravery. 01273 709709 www.brightondome.org
Weird and Wonderful Animal Encounters 6 April Drusillas Park
Meet some of nature’s most quirky and unusual creatures and learn a little more about them. Amongst the animals taking up residence in the Discovery Centre for one day only will be a marvellous armadillo, tremendous turtles, fabulous frogs and a superb skunk. 01323 874100 www.drusillas.co.uk.
What’s on Families
To publicise your event in Families Sussex Coast what’s on pages email editor@familiessussexcoast.co.uk.. Children’s Festival 6-15 April Venues across Brighton and Hove
A ten day multi-arts festival for children under 11 and their families. www.thechildrensfestival.co.uk
Eastbourne Festival
7-29 April Venues across Eastbourne
Easter holiday club 6-11 years 11 April, 10.30am-2.30pm Stanmer Park, Brighton Come and enjoy four hours of environmental fun and games. www.sussexwildlifetrust.org.uk
We’re Going on a Bear Hunt 4-7 years
12 April, 10.30am-2.30pm Seven Sisters Country Park
Opening with the Streets of Eastbourne, featuring two stages with performance and workshops as well as classical music, theatre, dance, comedy and the visual arts in venues across Eastbourne. www.eastbournefestival.co.uk
Bring your teddy bears down to Friston Forest for a picnic and discover what other animals live in the woods. www.sussexwildlifetrust.org.uk
Easter Eggspress
Brighton Marathon and Mini mile races
8 April Eastbourne Miniature Steam Railway Park Easter fun at Eastbourne Miniature Steam Railway Park. www.emsr.co.uk
Reptile Roadshow 9 April Drusillas Park
Reptile experts will take up residence in the Discovery Centre displaying their collection of exotic animals and providing an insight into the lives of these fascinating creatures. 01323 874100 www.drusillas.co.uk.
Easter holiday club: Trails and Signs 7-11 years 10 April Seven Sisters Country Park Find our camp again and develop some tracking and trailing skills. Enjoy lunch around the fire, have a go at cooking on an open fire and practice using tools to make objects out of green wood. www.sussexwildlifetrust.org.uk
15 April Starts in Preston Park and ends on the seafront Cheer on the runners as they complete the 26 miles and 365 years. The Grand Hotel Mini Mile Races are along the seafront covering a one mile distance - a fantastic opportunity to capture the atmosphere of a mass participation race. www.brightonmarathon.co.uk
Galleries and museums Early years Age 2-5 Brighton and Hove Museums Sessions include art and stories. 01273 290900 www.brighton-hove-museum.org.uk
Dreams of Here New work by Julian Bell, Tom Hammick and Andrzej Jackowski 18 February - 10 June Brighton Museum and Art Gallery
Enjoy this beautiful exhibition of new work by three nationally recognised contemporary painters and printmakers, each with a strong connection to Sussex. 03000 290900 www.brighton-hove-museums.org.uk
Charlotte, the Forgotten Princess
10 March - 10 March 2013 Prince Regent Gallery, Royal Pavilion, Brighton
Bob the BuilderTM Never Mind the Breezleblocks Live 11 April Drusillas Park
Cementing his place as one of TV’s best-loved children’s characters, Bob the Builder will be downing tools to make his way to Drusillas Park. Accompanied by Wendy and Spud the tuneful trio will be performing hits from the album, Never mind the Breezeblocks live on stage. 01323 874100 www.drusillas.co.uk.
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An exhibition devoted to the short life and tragic death of Princess Charlotte Augusta of Wales. 03000 290900 www.brighton-hove-pavilion.org.uk
The Garden of Forgotten Engineers, Smiths and Bicycles 21 January - 5 May Worthing Museum and Art Gallery
Made from broken agricultural machinery, old garden tools and even dentist’s equipment the exhibition includes a rusty Belling heater which becomes a bee and an old farmer’s plough is transformed into a huge helicopter called a ‘Helicopterix’. www.worthingmuseum.co.uk
Your Paintings
18 February - 21 April Worthing Museum and Art Gallery Discover paintings and their stories from the Museum Art Store chosen by local community groups, museum volunteers, and a local school. www.worthingmuseum.co.uk
My Favourite Toy Exhibition From 10 March Hove Museum and Art Gallery
Bring the family to enjoy this celebration of toys from across the eras presented in exciting displays created by local children. 03000 290900 www.brighton-hove-museums.org.uk
Studio day: Mother’s Day cards 17 March Brighton Museum and Art Gallery
Work with talented illustrator to explore drawing techniques and collage. Use your new skills to create beautiful hand-made Mother’s Day cards. 10.30am and 1.30pm. Free drop-in, for all ages 03000 290900 www.brighton-hove-museums.org.uk
Mother’s Day tours: Regency Elegance 18 March, 11.15am, 12.30pm and 2.15pm and 3.30pm, Royal Pavilion, Brighton
Experience the splendour of the Royal Pavilion and learn all about Regency elegance on a tour conducted by a costumed guide from the Jane Austen era. Free with admission. 03000 290900 www.brighton-hove-pavilion.org.uk
Megabeasts
New Eyes
11 April Booth Museum, Brighton
Inspired by the Marcel Proust quote “The real journey of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes”, six artists from local artist network Bluemonkeynet have curated a stimulating new collection display. www.townereastbourne.org.uk
Meet giant lizards, snakes and all manner of creepy-crawlies in this popular holiday activity. 03000 290900 www.brighton-hove-museums.org.uk
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Studio days: My Favourite Toy Animation
13 April, 10.30am and 1.30pm Hove Museum and Art Gallery Create an animation featuring your very own toys! In groups, build an imaginary world and fill it with your favourite bears, dolls or robots and watch the finished result with the group. 03000 290900 www.brighton-hove-museums.org.uk
Farmers’ markets Mermaid Market Saturdays and Sundays 11am-4pm
Brighton Marina Square
Lewes Farmers’ Market First Saturday every month
Cliffe Pedestrian Precinct, Lewes 01273 470900 www.commoncause.org.uk
Brighton Farm Market Every Saturday 9am-3pm North Road, Brighton www.brightonfarmmarket.co.uk
Upper Gardner Street Market Every Saturday 7am-5pm Upper Gardner Street, Brighton www.brightonfarmmarket.co.uk
Shoreham Farmers’ Market
Second Saturday every month 9am-1pm East Street, Shoreham-by-Sea
Worthing Farmers’ Market
Fourth Saturday each month South Street Square, Worthing 01903 203252
Motcombe Village Farmers’ Market
Last Sat each month 10-1pm Community Wise, Ocklynge Road, Eastbourne 01323 722924
Southwick and Shoreham Country Market Every Friday 9.15-11am Porter Room, Southwick Community Centre Homemade cakes, plants, fresh eggs, handmade crafts and gifts. figarosfancies@googlemail.com
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