Families Thames Valley East Magazine July/Aug 2019 Issue 103

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In this issue...

3-7 News & Information 8 News & Competitions

EDUCATION

9 Education News 11 Top tips for de-stressing term time routines 12 Why is home-education growing in popularity?

SUMMER FUN

...endless ideas for families of young children in Maidenhead • Windsor • Marlow • Ascot • Slough • Egham

........From the Editors........

The summer holidays are upon us already and we’ve got plenty of ideas for ways to make them memorable this issue. Check out our Summer Fun section from p.14. There’s also some tips on how to take the stress out of the back to school routine on p.11 and we were very excited to catch up with award-winning children’s author Rob Biddulph - read our interview with him on pp.30-31. We even have two copies of his new book up for grabs! Plus, on p.8 there’s another chance to win a Family ticket for Go Ape in Black Park.

14-15 Local Summer camps and classes guide 16-19 How to fill the summer holidays 20 Free and fun activities in Nature

PARENTING

21 Common toddler behaviours 22 Parenting for your children’s mental health

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28 Taking the next step in our parenting journey 29 Surviving the summer holidays

30-31 BOOK CLUB

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Making a Parenting Plan School holidays raise tensions between many separated parents and it’s usually much better for children if their parents make suitable plans in advance of the holidays starting.

Arguments and differences between separated parents often reach breaking point during school holidays according to Thames Valley Family Mediation Service.

Families find parenting arrangements that worked well before have become outdated because the children are growing up, and the circumstances of their

own lives have changed, or plans have never been discussed or agreed following a recent separation.

Any number of factors force separated couples into crisis during the school holidays including pickup/drop-offs, extra costs and day to day living arrangements.

Frustrations and resentments may resurface, with children caught in the middle.

A Parenting Plan, agreed by both parents, is easier to achieve than many people think. If the children are old enough, their views can be

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incorporated into the plan. It’s simply an agreement made by separated parents, covering how the children will be supported and cared for after separation or divorce.

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LegolandⓇ Windsor Resort Introduces The Haunted House Monster Party ride At the start of the season we were lucky enough to get to try out the new ride at LegolandⓇ. As we made our way to the entrance of the Haunted House, I kept picturing some kind of Ghost Train ride with the odd skeleton hand drifting past our shoulders! We were with my fearless eight year old and my slightly more nervous 4 year old, but I’m happy to report, both were happy to enter the house! We were greeted by joketelling Lego brick gargoyles and talking statues, Lego bunting, banners and balloons. Inside

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Lord Vampyre’s Haunted House, we took our seats on the ride at a banquet table in a magnificent hall, brimming with ghastly monster party food, cauldrons, potion bottles and goblets. Once sitting comfortably, Lord Vampyre revealed his magical party trick – bringing the banquet hall swinging to life and turning the room upside down! There definitely weren’t any trains in sight! The children loved the ride, but I have to say we did all come out wondering ‘Well, what actually went on there?’ Definitely a different

experience. We also went on to enjoy other rides during our jam-packed day including: The Dragon (the eight year old insists on this one), Fire Academy (a must for my 4 year old!), NINJAGO (they are both crazy about NINJAGO right now) and the Viking River Splash (at the end, so everyone gets soaked at the end of the day!). A great day was had by all and the Haunted House definitely adds something unusual to Legoland! www.legoland.co.uk

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Celebrate Play on Playday UK! Playday is the national day for play in the UK, and will take place this year on Wednesday 7 August.

Playday is an annual celebration of children's play with thousands of children and families playing outside at events across the UK. It is an opportunity to raise awareness of the importance of children's play and the need for quality play opportunities every day of the year.

From small-scale community events to thousands of children taking part in events organised in parks and open spaces, Playday is celebrated by each community in a way that suits them.

As well as a celebration of children’s right to play, Playday is a campaign that highlights the importance of play in children’s lives.

You can hold and register your own Playday event or find one close to you by visiting www.playday.org.uk

Time for New School Shoes?

It’s that time of year again where school shoe buying is high on the agenda for the start of the new school year! The Children’s Shoe Company, based in Marlow, gives us some advice on fitting new school shoes: • It’s important to have children’s feet measured by a professional shoe fitter every 12 weeks, as their feet grow in fits and starts. Your children’s feet should be measured from the tip of their longest toe to the back of their heel and across the widest part of the foot.

• Always remember to bring school socks to the fitting.

• In between professional fittings you can check the fit of your child’s shoes yourself.

Check the position of your child's toes on the insole of the shoe - there should always be a gap between the position of the imprint and the end of the insole.

• What signs indicate the shoes are not fitting properly? Look out for blisters, rubbing, collapsed heel cup of the shoe, the ability to take off the school shoes without undoing

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them, poor posture or a rolling gait, reluctance to wear shoes or refusing to wear socks.

• For new school shoes, a supportive heel cup is very important. If the heel leans to one side or the other, pain and postural problems could arise. Try pressing on the sides of the heel - if it sinks in easily, the shoe is not providing sufficient support.

• The shoe should have a strap, velcro or laces to prevent the shoe from slipping forward and scrunching your child’s toes. The sole should be flexible at the ball of the foot only and the shoes should have a supportive instep. You should feel a small bump inside the shoe where the arch of your child's foot would sit.

• Shoe material should be breathable and have a natural resistance to water, like leather or have a waterproof tex membrane. If your child’s feet can’t breathe, smelly feet and fungal infections can result.

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Talk, Sing and Play to Build Brains Almost two thirds of parents are unaware that back and forth interaction with their child from birth can help their babies’ social, emotional and cognitive development.

A survey of more than 2,000 parents and expectant parents by the NSPCC found that 62% were unaware that moments playing, singing or telling stories can be brain-building ones.

NSPCC research has found some parents struggle with ideas about how to interact with their young child beyond eye contact and cuddling, especially in the early months when they do not receive obvious feedback from their babies.

In response, the charity is launching a campaign, ‘Look, Say, Sing, Play,’ to encourage new parents to use everyday scenarios to have more two-way interactions with their babies.

Going to the shops, having a bath, going to bed – whatever you and your baby are doing can be turned into a back-and-forth.

Parents can sign up to get weekly brain building tips that are fun and age appropriate.

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Turtle Tots pool party to raise money for charities Looking for something fun to do with the kids during the holiday? Turtle Tots Berks & Bucks are holding their annual Charity Pool Party on Sunday 4th August from 11am to 2pm at St Pirans school, Gringer Hill, Maidenhead and this years party is not one to be missed. Tickets are £5 per child and adults go free.

You can have a nice family dip in the lovely warm indoor pool, enjoy the fabulous childrens entertainment provided throughout the morning, have a bounce in the bouncy castle and browse their numerous stalls, all geared towards you and your little people. To order your ticket contact Louise on louise.james@turtletots.com or just come along on the day and help them raise money for chosen charities Alexander Devine & Wexham Park Hospital Special Care Baby Unit.

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One lucky reader will win a Family Ticket offering 4 people the chance to experience one of the activities on offer at Go Ape, Black Park. Choose from: Nets Adventure: Tree top walkways, giant ball nets, treehouses and slides 30 feet up in the forest canopy completely enclosed in hammock-like netting. Suitable for 1+ yrs.

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Forest School Introduced at Little Monkeys Windsor Nursery Little Monkey’s Windsor has a new senior management team and, as part of the ongoing improvement of curricular activities offered to their children, are excited to be introducing Forest School sessions.

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Education News Herries School opens up new Showtime Summer School to all local children Run by Herries teacher Rob Castell, an actor, songwriter and musician best-known for his work with Barbershopera Productions, the new summer school will run from 19-23 August. Following the carnival theme, Rob’s aim is to provide local children with an opportunity to create a fantastic show from start to finish in five days. The showcase will feature music, dance, story-telling and drama - something for everyone. Rob currently teaches piano, guitar and voice lessons at the school covering everything from classical music to hip-hop, with some students going for grades, some preparing for concerts and some just having fun and growing in confidence. He also runs a School of Rock club each week. For more information on the summer school or to book your place, please contact Rob on 07860 671303 or email rob.castell@herries.org.uk www.herriesshowtime.co.uk - www.robcastell.com

Redroofs School of Performing Arts branches out Established in 1947, Redroofs has long prided itself in its thriving performing arts training. Outstanding teaching, countless performance opportunities, the ability to nurture enthusiasm and to recognise and guide talent and potential are all provided within the framework of a happy confidence building environment for all ages. Until recently the school has operated mainly from Maidenhead and we have all come to know the prominent white school building on the A4. Now, the performing arts school is delighted to announce they are also expanding out to other areas; those being Windsor, Gerrards Cross, Wokingham, Mayfair, Reading and Weybridge. All schools are now taking bookings for the ‘Exceptional Saturday Performing Arts Programme’ for children ages 31⁄2 - 14+ years, which will be available at the new venues from September 2019. Please contact info@redroofs.co.uk for a prospectus or more information.

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Top Tips for De-Stressing Term Time Routines

By Linda Stone

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fter the long school holidays in the summer, I guiltily look forward to getting our daughter and by default, our family, “back into routine.” I suspect I’m not alone. Once I’m deep into term time again though, I find myself wishing the “routine” was a little less demanding, easier to cope with and didn’t involve the brains of my husband and I being packed full of “Don’t forgets…” and “Remember…” – often communicated between us last thing at night when, of course, they are most likely to be forgotten and unremembered….

Having chatted with other parents, I know we are not alone in this experience. So, here are some tips from my parent network for making the all-important “stress points” of the term time week – before school, after school, weekend – a little easier.

Before School Tip One: The Crucial 10 Minutes Experiment with getting up 10 minutes earlier. This may give you a chance to grab a cup of tea or coffee, have a shower and get dressed in less of a rush than usual.

Being up 10 minutes earlier does, in theory, also give you a fair chance of making sure both you and your children are ready 10 minutes before you have to leave! This will give you time to gather your thoughts and make sure you have everything. No more (or perhaps just less) rushing out of the door and rushing back to pick up forgotten items!

Tip Two: Have a Checklist Either write an actual checklist for your child’s school morning routine, or just verbally repeat the jobs they are expected to do until they remember them. A checklist could include: eating breakfast, getting dressed, brushing teeth and hair, packing lunch and water

bottle, putting on shoes and coat.

It’s good to have a plan of their weekly school routine somewhere handy too so that you know when school library books are due back, which day is swimming or games and so on.

Tip Three: Use Devices Set reminders on your phone for special tasks such as remembering to give your child signed permission slips or leaving early for a school club. Think about an alarm for children who struggle to wake up. Set a timer for tasks such as 15 minutes to eat breakfast or 5 minutes for showering, so that you can keep your children on schedule.

The Night Before Tip One: Get the Homework Done It’s SO easy to let your child leave it until they are too tired to do it. So beware the pleas to do homework after dinner. This is always a disaster for us as it leaves our daughter “tired but wired” and often in bed later than is ideal or struggling to switch off and go to sleep. It definitely works for us to give our daughter 30 minutes of wind down time when she gets home, but then, homework!

Tip Two: Do Preparation with your Child Before Bed Retrieve the items of uniform strewn around the house – your child will need to help you find items that are hidden behind the couch or the curtains! Put dirty items in the laundry and lay out the remainder for the next day. Check all homework and sports kit are bagged up for the next morning.

Make showers/baths and hair

washes part of the night time routine, rather than obstacles to overcome in the morning.

It works to make sure you get a really good chat in with your child before they get into bed – otherwise, in my experience, they will delay going to sleep until said chat has been had!

Tip Three: Build in Quiet Time Our daughter seems to need at least an hour of “unwind” time after dinner, if she’s to go to bed and to sleep quickly. She would like to dress up, dance, sing, watch screens, and research online.

Instead, we have a compulsory half hour (minimum) of quiet activity eg reading to herself or drawing.

Tip Four: Do your Prep Make packed lunches, sort snacks, fill in permission slips, ensure you’ve written in your child’s homework or reading diary.

At Weekends Tip One: Don’t Over Schedule Having too much scheduled activity at the weekend often means our daughter doesn’t get to catch her breath and replenish her energy before Monday. Try to make sure there’s chill time for everyone.

Tip Two: Get the Homework Done Part 2 In my experience, like toothache, the longer you leave it, the worse it gets! Don’t let homework hang over the heads of the family all weekend. Try dividing the work into two parts and schedule one on both days.

Tip Three: Plan the Schedule As a family, we chat about the week ahead at dinner on Sunday evening. We check email from our daughter’s school to see what’s happening in the coming week and make sure we note extra sport/music practices, Book Club books, late finishes, early starts etc on our calendar.

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Why is Home-Education Growing in Popularity?

By Dr Alison Baverstock

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chooldays are ‘the happiest days of your life’ or so the old adage goes. Whether or not this is true – and I certainly had my doubts when I was growing up – our schooldays tend to be much remembered, with those we are at school with, and small incidents that happened whilst we are there, firmly lodging in our memory.

So why then are parents in increasing numbers opting for their children not to experience school; one of the major shared experiences society offers?

In April 2018, the BBC reported that the number of children being home-educated had risen by around 40% over three years, estimating that ‘across the UK 48,000 children were being homeeducated in 2016-17, up from about 34,000 in 2014-15.’ The issue is starting to attract wider attention, with politicians (both in government and opposition) considering the need for formal guidance on the rights and responsibilities of homeeducation and councils seeking

more monitoring powers, and perhaps the establishment of a register of those who are homeeducated.

Many people refer to the process as ‘home-schooling’ but, in general, those involved tend to prefer the term ‘home-education.’ This reflects an important principle; that homeeducation is about the whole experience of growing up and learning, not just the schooling bit.

Home-educators talk enthusiastically about how every experience can be used to inform a child’s education, from weighing ingredients for cooking (maths, chemistry, nutrition) to expeditions that reinforce what has been learned (history, geography, politics). Home-educators tend to see learning as a holistic process that does not stop at the school gate.

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block a more stimulating learning experience for their child. There are others whose children are dealing with complex mental health or individual learning difficulties that encourage them to think they may be more effectively educated at home. Then there are parents whose children are facing possible or actual exclusion from school who may decide to home-educate instead, as well as those who want to travel, or cater for a child’s exceptional gifts (e.g. musical, sport, acting) and so find a more mobile education helpful.

These various reasons for choosing home-education have prompted a variety of solutions, from flexi-schooling (some days at home, some days in school, which is increasingly permitted and can sometimes make a difference to a rural school remaining open) to local educational networks where parents share curriculum planning and teaching. According to our research, it seems that those who have transferred their children back into the school system for the final years of their education (e.g. A levels) have found that successful university applications can be made by home-educated children with fewer GCSEs, it being accepted that the home-educated are unlikely to achieve the breadth of subjects available via more traditional education routes.

However, one should not assume that home-education is the best option. That will depend on individual circumstances.

Once the decision to homeeducate has been reached, a child must simply be ‘deregistered’ from school, or not enrolled if they have

not yet started. However, before you start home-educating, it is sensible to get some advice on areas your home education curriculum should seek to cover, how to turn everyday activities into optimised learning events and how to develop social competences in children. There are many resources available such as Quizlet www.quizlet.com/en-gb, a website that allows you to create online teaching materials and lessons and Times Education Supplement (TES) Resources www.tes.com/teachingresources with 700,000 resources from diagrams to lesson and topic plans.

Don’t underestimate the amount of work home-education involves.

Managing learning, whether through educational resources available to you, finding and employing tutors, arranging sharedlearning sessions with other parents of home-educated children and coordinating overlaps, takes a lot of effort. The rewards tend to be that the educational experience can be truly tailored to the individual and the whole family is often involved in the learning in ways that can bring them together as a stronger and more involved unit. The parents we talked to had found the experience stimulating, highly involving – and above all memorable.

Dr Alison Baverstock is an academic, author and mother of four. She has recently published The Home Education Handbook (published by Piatkus at RRP £14.99) with educator Gill Hines.

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Holiday Camps and Classes Wondering how to fill the summer? Here’s a reminder of our pick of local children’s camps and activities.

Amanda’s Art Classes for small groups of children aged 7–12. Amanda will be running summer art workshops in Ascot 10-12am and 2-4pm; call 01344 885086 or 0796 882 4560 or email a.kavanagh@amandasart.co.uk for further details. www.amandasart.co.uk Bucks School of Dance are running a Summer Dance camp for 5-8 year olds at The Berkshire College of Agriculture, Burchetts Green, near Maidenhead from 19-23rd August. 10-4pm. This is a week-long dance camp, with a showcase at the end. Previously known as KSA DANCE CAMPS (2004-2018).

Dance tuition, T shirt, medal, certificate included. Contact Karen Stuart on 07985 252129 karen@bucksschoolofdance.co.uk www.bucksschoolofdance.co.uk Bray Lake Watersports are offering their ever-popular school holiday activities again this year. With a variety of 5 day courses running weekdays from 9.30am-5pm your child can learn to kayak, canoe, stand up paddleboard, dinghy sail and windsurf. They can work towards one sport or gain essential skills in a variety of sports. Courses are suitable for 8-15 years with sibling discounts available. Course prices include wetsuits, buoyancy aids and all 5-day courses include relevant RYA and BC log-books and certificates. 5-day courses: £270 info@braylake.com 01628 638860;www.braylake.com Busy Buttons Creative Wellbeing Camp. "I really enjoyed my time here, and I would recommend this camp to you whether you are 4 years old or 14 years old because there is something for everyone" shares an excited 11 year old student after her first time at the camp. The Camp offers 3 -14 year olds a creative, safe, fun, experiential and

educational learning programme. With a focus on art, children are exposed to various aspects of a selected theme exploring it with 3D, traditional and digital arts using imaginative techniques and mediums, tutored by professional creative educators from the film and television industry. Educational day trips, team building and confidence boosting challenges, yoga, swimming, sports, nutrition, fitness and customised insights by professionals, give children a diverse, whole experience offered by a non-franchise in the heart of Windsor at Busy Buttons Design Centre 15 July to 30 August, 8:30am - 4pm (Extn hours 8am - 6pm) Siblings & RBWM Advantage Card discount and more.

07952418212 / 0800 101 8332 www.busybuttons.org Court garden Leisure Complex offers intensive swimming throughout the summer holidays. Very popular due to the following: 1. The convenience of taking lessons in the school holidays 2.

Improving water confidence and stroke technique 3. An extra boost towards achieving their next stage certificate and badge. Intensive courses run in weekly blocks of 5 day lessons Monday to Friday (not including bank holidays).

All lessons are 30 minutes with a maximum capacity of 4 children per lesson. 01628 405 200 or visit www.courtgardenleisurecomplex.org Hands-On Art Adventures in Old Windsor: creativity for all ages & abilities. Pop-in anytime to decorate a wide range of ceramics with coloured glazes or foam clay. Plus Extra Holiday Workshops: Canvas Painting, Clay & Story Ceramics + Potters Wheel experiences. Free Parking! For more details please contact Janet: Tel. 01753 206 265 Tues-Sat 10am-5pm email:

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office@hands-onart.co.uk www.hands-onartadventures.co.uk Herries Preparatory School in Cookham is running a Showtime Summer School from 19-23 August.

The camp will run from 10am-3pm daily with parents invited to watch the final performance on the Friday afternoon. Run by Herries teacher, actor, songwriter and musician, Rob Castell, the show will feature music, dance, story-telling and drama. £250 plus option to pay extra £6 per day for extended hours. Sibling discount also available. For more information or to book your place, please contact Rob on 07860 671303 or email rob.castell@herries.org.uk Jump in Trampoline Park, Slough have partnered up with Wise Owls to deliver a holiday camp for children aged 5-14 years from Monday 22nd July - Friday 23rd August 2019. Book through www.wiseowlschildcare.co.uk Longridge, Marlow holiday activities are for young people between the ages of 8 and 14 who are looking to explore some adventurous activities and get active during the school holidays. Four of their adventurous activities throughout the day and a packed lunch, all for just £40. Drop them off at 8.45am and pick them up at 5pm – booking available online or through the bookings team. Longridge is also a recognised child care provider, so if you wish to pay using childcare vouchers then please contact their bookings team on bookings@adventurelearning.org.uk or 033 0303 0101. www.adventurelearning.org.uk Phoenix Gymnastics Club will be holding their popular daily summer camps: Summersaults throughout the holidays for 5-12 year olds, members and non members. Have fun and be taught gymnastics by their British Gymnastics qualified coaches and enjoy the experience in their fully equipped gym with sprung floor, beam, bars and vaults. Go to www.phoenixgym.co.uk for all the information, email info@phoenixgym.co.uk or call 01628 778 881 to book a place Phoenix Trampoline Club will be holding their Just Bounce summer classes at East Berkshire College, Langley throughout the holidays. Please go to www.phoenixgym.co.uk for all the information, email trampolining@phoenixgym.co.uk or call on 01628 778881 to find out more and book a place. Available for members and non-members.

Playball Camps in Windsor. Are you are looking for something active for your kids to do during the Summer holidays, why not consider Playball? An allencompassing sports holiday camp, full

of fun-filled games, skills and drills. The camps cater for a mixture of ages from 3-8 and encourage social interaction and non-stop fun! Camps start at 10am and run through to 1pm. Contact them at windsor@playballkids.com to find out more details or have look at their website: www.playballkids.com Redroofs School for the Performing Arts is running onstage holiday weeks at their school in Littlewick Green, Maidenhead, SL6 3QY. ‘My Mummy Says I'm a Miracle’ Matilda Week is Monday 29th July - Friday 2nd August for ages 6-13+. ‘A Little Light Fantastic’ Mary Poppins Returns Week is being held Monday 5th - Friday 9th August and Monday 19th - Friday 23rd August for ages 7-13+. ‘Don’t Just Fly - SOAR Into Disney’ Dumbo Week! is being held Monday 12th - Friday 16th August for ages 7-13+. ‘Trolls, Rainbows & Unicorns’ Week runs Tuesday 27th August - Friday 30th August for ages 41⁄2 - 9+.

The only Musical Theatre courses where children can enjoy a refreshing dip in a heated outdoor pool, beautiful gardens and an onstage real theatre experience. £245 for all except Trolls, Rainbows and unicorns which is £195.

Call 01628 674092; www.redroofs.co.uk or email emayling@redroofs-school.co.uk Seriously Fun Swimming Schools are running 5 day intensive course swimming lessons during the summer holidays (Mon 29th July to Fri 2nd Aug) for children aged 3 to 12 years of all abilities for just £80 per child at St Piran's School (Maidenhead), Teikyo Japanese School (Slough), Thorpe House School (Gerrards Cross) and Aylesbury Grammar School. Book online at www.seriouslyfun.net, email office@seriouslyfun.com or call 01753 364 364.

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Showstopper Tots offers a unique blend of popular musical theatre show tunes and themes together with original songs, that let your tots experience the sights and sounds of the theatre. Drop in classes are available for 18 months - 41⁄2 years on Mondays from 3pm at St.Peter’s church hall in Maidenhead with classes running during the summer holidays.

Showstopper Babies classes also run during holidays, booking essential. Call 07885 150034 or email mairi@showstopperuk.com for more information. www.showstopperuk.com Stagecoach Holiday Workshops. Make new friends, learn new skills and gain confidence during oneweek holiday workshops which focus on singing, dancing and acting skills which end in a performance for friends and family. Designed for 6 to 18 year olds and some areas tailor the workshop to kids aged 4-6.

There are limited spaces available, so advisable to book soon. For availability, dates and more information please check your local Stagecoach website: www.stagecoach.co.uk/maidenhead www.stagecoach.co.uk/windsor www.stagecoach.co.uk/ascot www.stagecoach.co.uk/bracknellnorth www.stagecoach.co.uk/henleyand marlow www.stagecoach.co.uk/highwycombe Stepping Notes Music School for the 2s to 8s run a structured programme of group musicianship classes for children ages 2-8 on Tuesday afternoons and Saturday mornings. Location: Jurgens Centre, 91 Harvest Road, Englefield Green. Contact Nikhil Dally, 01932 241196. They also run violin and cello lessons, string ensemble & piano musicianship classes for ages 6-18+. Location: Shepperton. Contact Angela Dally, 01932 241196. www.dally.org.uk/steppingnotes Stoke Park Country Club, Spa and Hotel has its Leadbetter Kids Golf Camp running from July 22 to August 30 where structured practice sessions are provided in the morning, followed by course play in the afternoon. Children do not need to be members.

The Golf camp is £65/day, £280/5 days, sibling discount available. For more info:golfacademy@stokepark.com call 01753 717184.

They will also be hosting Multi-Sports Holiday camps to include tennis, padel, football, cricket and rounders (Wednesdays and Thursdays only, 10am – 4pm. 31st July – 30thAugust) Members - £60 per child per day, Non-members - £75 per child per day, £10 sibling discount. For more info:

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spareception@stokepark.com 01753 71 71 73 www.stokepark.com The Jelly Lounge Family Club in Windsor are running summer camps Tuesdays and Thursdays for 5-10yrs from 30 July -22 Aug. 10am-3pm £35 per child per day. Includes a hot lunch and entry to the soft play. Sibling discount: £5 for second child on the same camp. Experiments, performing arts, street dance, circus skills and more! For under 4’s they offer a fabulous creche (all year round). Call 01753 290 175 or visit www.thejellylounge.co.uk/book The Little Gym Windsor, offers a chance for kids to burn energy, make friends and get creative this summer! Children have an endless supply of energy and a natural desire to conquer the world. So how can you harness that sense of wonderment and adventure in the summer holidays? The Little Gym Windsor offers an amazing variety of fun camps for 3 to 12 year olds. Daily summer camps combine gymnastics, sports, and arts and crafts to get your little one moving and unleash their creativity.

Qualified instructors get them giggling as they learn, make new friends, and burn energy! Super Kid Quest Camps (3-8 years) and Skill Thrill camps (6-12 years) run all week. Each camp is 3 hours long and lots of healthy snacks are provided. Book 4 and get your 5th

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Visit www.windsor.thelittlegym.eu or phone 01753 968488 to book.

Turtle Tots will be running summer baby and toddler swimming courses every Tuesday throughout the month of August at Oakley Court Hotel Windsor.

Contact berkshire@turtletots.com for more information or keep an eye on their Facebook page @turtletotsberks www.turtletots.com Twinkle Tots Ballet summer schools are being held again this summer at Sunningdale Village Hall, Church Rd, Sunningdale, SL5 0NJ from the 29th July – 2nd August. Join Miss Katherine for a fun filled week of dancing, suitable for age 2 and upwards. With a daily ballet class, themed arts and crafts, and then help create your own ballet show to perform on the Friday to friends and family! This year’s theme is The Magic Garden. 2-4 year olds meet daily from 2.30-3.30pm cost £40 for the week; 4 years + meet daily 3.305.30pm and cost £70 for the week. Online enrolments are now open Visit www.twinkletotsdance.com for more information,Tel: 07828 857061 or email: summerschool@twinkletotsdance.com Places are limited.

Under the Canopy Forest School run inspirational outdoor experiences at their Velarium Holiday Club in Gerrards Cross during the holidays. Sessions are 10am-12pm or 2-4pm and cost £20 for an unaccompanied 5-10 year old (Juniors) and £15 for ages 4 and under (Minis) who must be accompanied by a responsible adult. Sessions run on 29th and 30th July. Other dates are 22nd, 23rd August Youth ages 8+ 10-3pm (£40). 27th, 28th,29th August Juniors ages 5+ 11-1pm (£20). 30th August Minis 11-1pm ages 4 and under (£15). For more information or to book, email: Info@underthecanopy.org.uk visit www.underthecanopy.org.uk or call 07971 406 671 Wise Owls Club will be running at Highfield School, West Road, Maidenhead, from Monday 22nd July – Friday 30th August. JUNIOR CLUB at Highfield for ages 3-7 DISCOVERY CLUB at Highfield for ages 714. 9.00am-5.00pm, extended day 8am-6pm. www.wiseowlschildcare.co.uk Yvonne Thomas is a specialist teacher with 20 years experience who runs holiday courses in touch-typing for children. Working memory booster techniques are used to help students improve recall and memorise the use of correct fingers. Focus and self esteem are encouraged through this holistic approach. The programme Yvonne uses has clear simple screens and the different keys are introduced sequentially following a phonics programme. The programme also has a multi-sensory approach tailored to the pace of the learner. Two teachers are present with a small group of students in a dedicated classroom, which promotes rapid learning. 29th, 30th & 31st July and 24th, 25th & 26th August To book a course with Yvonne Thomas in Maidenhead call 07929 528642 or visit www.dttts.co.uk Details correct at time of going to press (June 2019) but may be subject to change.

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How to fill the Summer holidays!

If you’re wondering how to keep the kids entertained this summer holidays, Families has plenty of suggestions for what’s on offer in and around the local area. From days out to suggestions for keeping them occupied at home, there’s plenty to help make those six weeks memorable and fun!

BIG dinosaurs and more The Look Out Discovery Centre is a great place to visit as there is plenty to do whatever the weather. Inside, there are over 90 hands-on science and discovery activities, aimed at toddlers to under 12’s. Build an unfinished house with ride-on diggers, test your speed with Batak or leave your shadow on the wall. This summer they are running the fun BIG Dinosaur show from 2 July until 8 September. Help the presenter dig through sand to find the fossils, identify smell to keep the Dinosaur herd alive – this interactive show will leave your children roaring for more. Check out www.bracknellforest.gov.uk/thelookoutdiscoverycentre for more details

Everything you need for a perfect staycation in Maidenhead Norden Farm Centre for the Arts has everything you need for a fun packed summer. The Maidenhead Beach is back, inspired by the laid back tropical paradise that is Goa. Relax at a beachside café table while the little ones play in the sand. Join Norden Farm for the grand opening featuring free entertainment on Wednesday 24 July at 10.30am. The beach is open daily between 10am - 4pm from Wednesday 24 July until Sunday 25 August. Admission is free. For maximum relaxation, explore the indoor sensory space in their Gallery. Beach Life is a special installation designed to be a relaxing sensory delight for everyone,

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Norden Farm Kite Festival inspired by the beach huts of Goa. Designed for children with SEND and features work from local schools. They are also running Kite Workshops across the school holidays. In these drop-in sessions practitioners will guide you through the process of making either the Patang Kite – the Indian Fighter Kite, or a classic Trapezoid Kite. Make and decorate your kite to stand out in the sky at the Community Kite Festival which takes place in Boyn Grove Park (Punt Hill) on Sunday 1 September.

Plus, why not try a Tech Taster Workshop on Saturday 3 or 17 August.

Draw, animate and narrate swashbuckling adventures in 3D or create your own stop motion movie, perfect for ages 8+. With Storytelling,

Summer activity weeks, family films and theatre, there’s something on offer for all ages. Take a look at our What’s On pages (pp.23-27) or visit www.nordenfarm.org for more information.

Experience a live performance at the Theatre Consider yourself at home at Theatre Royal Windsor this summer, when TRW Summer School present the Lionel Bart's classic musical, Oliver!, based on the Charles Dickens novel. Well loved by children, this classic is on from Tuesday 20 to Saturday 24 August www.theatreroyalwindsor.co.uk Brave the elements and enjoy a family outing watching an outdoor performance in a beautiful setting.

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Summer Fun Cliveden are showing a re-telling of Kenneth Graeme's classic children's tale, The Wind in the Willows on 30 and 31 July and David Walliam’s book, Gangsta Granny on 13/14/15 August. All performed in the open air on the lawn in Cliveden's Water Garden at 2.30pm. Adult £17, Child £10.50, book online at www.nationaltrust.org.uk/cliveden The Savill Garden also has some lovely open air theatre events coming up. On Saturday August 24 join the Chapterhouse Theatre Company for a brand-new adaptation of everyone’s favourite swashbuckling pirate adventure: Robert Louis Stevenson’s ‘Treasure Island’. When he stumbles across a coveted treasure map, young Jim Hawkins finds himself on an epic adventure in the hope of finding Treasure Island. But not everyone is to be trusted and a dark secret is lurking on board the ship.

Alternatively on Sunday August 25, the gardens are showing ‘The Secret Garden’. Join young Mary Lennox on a journey of discovery as she is sent to her uncle’s house in the countryside, where mysteries and secrets lurk round every corner... As she makes new friends and encounters magical creatures, Mary has one burning question: where is the location of her uncle’s secret garden and where has he hidden the key? This enchanting story is loved by children and adults alike. The garden is also open to ticket holders from 4.30pm. Purchase tickets from The Savill Garden Centre or seetickets.com. Other performances are Pride and Prejudice on 22 August and A Midsummer Night’s Dream on 23 August. www.windsorgreatpark.co.uk

Hang out at the Maidenhead Festival this summer The 2019 two-day Maidenhead Festival will take place over the weekend of 20th & 21st July in Kidwell’s Park. The family-focused event will feature live music, a beach, fairground, stalls and side shows and if you're lucky you might spot a friendly clown or acrobat. Back by popular demand is the Maidenhead Festival beach, which will be surrounded by a bustling marketplace with stalls to browse, along with a wide variety of food with flavours from around the world. The Circus will also be in town, with shows running on both days and the chance for adults and kids to learn new circus skills. Headlining Saturday night are

local favourites Bottle Kids, followed by Sharna Adela, a Diana Ross tribute act and to round things off, JD King as Elvis. Of course, this will be followed by the outstanding free fireworks display!

On Sunday Lauren Porter will entertain the crowds as Lady Gaga and Pink, while The Rock of the Ages Experience will rock your socks off and close the weekend.

Admission is free over the weekend. Charges will apply to refreshments and some activities.

To keep up to date on all Festival news like their Facebook Page: www.fb.com/MaidenheadFestival

Get the adrenalin going with go karting or laser tagging Absolutely Go Karting at The Arena, Stafferton Way, Maidenhead is taking go karting to a whole new level with a new, safe, exciting double level track. ‘Arrive and Drive’ looks like the perfect option for families and children (8+). A half-hour drive with unlimited laps, you can choose to have children-only, familyonly or adults-only. There are also specialised kids karts. www.absolutely-karting.co.uk/maidenhead At the same venue there is also Absolutely’s Laser tag arena. Suitable for children between 5-13 years old, Absolutely Laser has a wide range of scenarios to ensure that every game is different. Get your group together and book a session that will keep your team on their toes and burning some energy! www.absolutely-laser.co.uk For both Absolutely Go Karting and Absolutely Laser call 0300 30 33 548 Go back in time!

Why not try Chiltern Open Air Museum in Chalfont St Giles, for a host of historical fun. Here is their top 10 of things to do: construct model buildings in Northolt Barn, explore the site with one of their sensory trail maps, try on a WWI uniform in the Nissen Hut and listen to fighter planes roaring overhead, play in the adventure playground which is inspired by the historic buildings, explore the farm, explore the woodland, try out orienteering, “spend a penny” in real Edwardian public conveniences, put your spare change down the wellhead on the village green and hear the well spirits talk, play with historic children’s games in Thame vicarage room and the 1940s Amersham prefab and try on Victorian accessories in Haddenham croft cottage. Also look out for special events this summer including: A Living History in the Tudor Court Room, Ragged Victorians, Medieval Warbow and Terrific Tuesdays! Visit www.coam.org.uk continued on p.18

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Summer Fun Jumping, bouncing fun Whether you need to escape any summer rain or have a break from the sun, Jump In Trampoline Park Slough is great for all. Summer offers include 5 one hour jumps for £35 and 10 one hr jumps for £60 (available until the 31st August). Check out what else is on throughout the Summer, including under 5's jumps www.gojumpin.com/slough Make the most of the outdoors Cliveden near Maidenhead is the perfect place to enjoy precious family time over the summer. Let little ones run wild in the storybook play den or through the giant maze. Roly poly down the hill or take a wander down to the river. Perfect for ages 4-11 years, Cliveden’s summer adventure trail changes every two weeks so that there are lots of reasons to come back throughout the holidays. Each trail follows the ‘summer of colour’ theme and involves exploring nature and creating a craft to take home. £2 per trail, on the day. If you fancy sleeping under the stars, take part in their family camping event, weekends of 12-13, 1920 and 26-27 in July. The whole family will love taking part in an evening under the stars. Exploring, wildlife spotting, marshmallow toasting and storytelling round the camp-fire. Arrive from 4pm at the event field. Hot and cold soft

drinks will be provided. Wake up to a complimentary breakfast followed by a morning scavenger hunt. Tickets need to be booked in advance, Adult £28, child £18. You can also try tree climbing in the woods on 25 and 26 July. Visit www.nationaltrust.org.uk/cliveden to book online or call 01628 605069 for any queries.

If you’re a National Trust member there are plenty of great places to visit within an hour’s drive. Basildon Park, Grey’s Court, Hughenden, Stowe, The Vyne and Waddesdon are all favourites with us.

Another great local place to visit is the Marlow trenches at Pullinghill Wood and Marlow Common. Amongst the beautiful beech woodland with amazing views of the start of The Chilterns, you will come across some old WW1 training grounds where troops practised trench warfare before the real thing. Children love exploring the trenches and it makes for a couple of good hours of fresh air and fun! www.woodlandtrust.org.uk If you want to get close to nature, plan a cycle or walk, perhaps spot a deer or visit the 100 foot Totem Pole at Virginia Water lake, don’t forget Windsor Great Park. The Long Walk also provides an accessible place for an amble, kick around or picnic with the children without the worry of too much traffic www.windsorgreatpark.co.uk

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Pack your bucket and spade and head to the seaside A visit to the English seaside is a great summer holiday tradition if you don’t mind a bit of a drive. Pack your sunhat and sunscreen (or maybe even your wellies, it’s a British summer after all!) and head off for a paddle. West Wittering beach is arguably the nearest sandy beach.

Pitch a tent in the back garden How about spending a night under canvas in the luxury of your own back garden. You could embrace the outdoor lifestyle and dine alfresco with a BBQ for tea. Make sure you don’t forget those marshmallows for roasting or there could be trouble!

Take a Train trip to London Never underestimate the excitement that comes with taking the train into the capital city! Your destination does not need to be expensive; both the Science museum and the Natural History museum are free to visit and if you’re getting the train into Paddington, it’s a lovely walk through Hyde Park and Kensington Gardens. Inspired by Peter Pan and with an impressive wooden pirate ship as its centre piece, it’s also worth stopping at the Princess Diana Memorial Playground. There is restricted entry on busy days though so be prepared to queue. If you have a Merlin pass make the most of free entry to the London Eye, Sea Life Aquarium and Shrek’s adventure!

Take part in the 2019 Summer Reading Challenge The Summer Reading Challenge encourages children aged 4 to 11 to read six library books during the long summer holiday.

Children's reading can decline during the summer holidays if they don't have regular access to books or encouragement to read for pleasure.

This year the challenge will focus on the theme ‘Space Chase’ - an out-ofthis-world adventure inspired by the 50th anniversary of the first moon landing. Children are challenged to read at least six library books over the school holidays and collect rewards, such as stickers, on their way to receiving their challenge certificate and medal. The Challenge will launch in libraries on Saturday 13 July 2019.

For competitions, book recommendations and special online badges and rewards visit www.summerreadingchallenge.org.uk

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Tree top fun Nets Adventure at Go Ape, Black Park is an expansive network of tree top trampolines, giant ball nets, walkways and slides – all 30 feet up in the forest canopy. With two hours of fun for your whole Tribe to bounce, crawl and clamber through, Black Park’s newest adventure is completely encased in hammock-like netting – safe as treehouses. There’s even a few of those too! What adventure is complete without a treehouse? Children over 6 can go up by themselves with an adult supervising from the ground, those younger than 6 can go up with an adult joining them. £20 per child for a two hour session (under 6’s and over 18s are £10). Nets Adventure is just one of the four adventures available at Go Ape, Black Park. Don’t forget to check out our competition to win a family ticket on p.8 www.goape.co.uk Try a new sport As it’s summer why not make it a water sport?

Windsurfing, sailing, canoeing, kayaking and stand up paddle-boarding are all fun activities that are offered at Bray Lake Watersports The centre offers courses, instruction and hire for all levels in a safe and friendly environment. www.braylake.com Visit a Farm At Odds Farm Park, the Oddsocks Family are back for new adventures this summer, bringing with them different themes, shows, crafts and games to discover.

Combined with acres of indoor and outdoor play and plenty of furry friends to meet, there’s so much to do.

Plus, don’t forget to take your wellies or swim suits and prepare to get wet in the ‘one of a kind’ water play attraction, H2Odds! Amazing Summer Adventures at Odds Farm Park are available daily from 25 July to 3 September. www.oddsfarm.co.uk

Watch a movie at Kidwells Park Look out for Maidenhead at the Movies - a free outdoor cinema in Kidwells Park. Usually on midAugust, check website for dates and to pick the movie that’s right for you or the family. www.enjoymaidenhead.com Water fun Liquid Leisure is the World’s leading water sports and activity provider, with two locations in the South East of England. Both the Surrey and Windsor parks are set on beautiful freshwater lakes, with Aqua Parks being the largest attractions. Liquid Leisure Windsor is also home to the UK’s number one water sports facilities, with boat and cable wakeboarding, water skiing, slalom and kneeboarding. As well as an amazing Aqua Park. Liquid Leisure Surrey has a fantastic paddle water sports area with stand up paddleboarding available www.liquidleisure.com Windsor Tel: 01753 542 500, Surrey Tel: 01932 761 555 Seeking free water fun for your little ones? Try Runnymede Pleasure Grounds in Englefield Green which opens its paddling pool during the summer months. The splash pad at Locks Ride Recreation Ground, Winkfield Row is also great for a hot day and includes fountains and tipping baskets (11am-1pm and 3-5pm). Jocks Lane Park, Binfield Road, Bracknell also has a playground and splash pad for younger children.

Windsor Castle Why not plan a visit with the children. Access to the castle itself is free with an advantage card (available to those living in Windsor or Maidenhead). www.royalcollection.org.uk/visit/windsorcastle

Join us for a quintessentially British summer's day in the beautiful surroundings of Cliveden's formal gardens. Enjoy the re-telling of Kenneth Graeme's classic children's tale, ‘The Wind in the Willows’ on 30/31 July. Followed by the comedy production of David Walliam’s bestselling book, ‘Gangsta Granny’ on 13/14/15 August.

Bring rugs and chairs, as well as a picnic hamper filled with your favourite treats from home, to enjoy whilst watching the show.

Adult tickets £17, child tickets £10.50, inclusive of entry to the estate. Booking is essential, you can book your tickets online at www.nationaltrust.org.uk/cliveden or by calling 0344 249 1895.

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The Woodland Trust has put together it’s top outdoor adventures to keep children active this summer

You will need: A container, such as a plastic box or old washing up bowl • Earth • A collection of natural materials: small stones or pebbles, sticks, moss, leaves, and perhaps some small flowering plants.

Fill your container with earth (if you’re using living plants, put some stones in the bottom for drainage).

Use some leafy twigs to make trees.

Build a fence or little seat with sticks. You could even make a pond by sinking a plastic cup or another small container into the earth and filling it with water. You’re bound to think of lots more ideas once you get started…

Embark upon a Woodland Challenge Set up challenges to complete on a day out in the woods and have a competition with your family and friends. Remember to decide how many points each challenge is worth.

Free and Fun Activities in Nature this Summer Here are some challenge ideas: • Climb a tree (make sure there’s an adult around though!)

• Balance on a fallen tree trunk and walk along • Find three types of flower • Cross a stream without getting your feet wet • Identify three different tree species • Find some wild animal evidence –

tracks, a fox or rabbit hole, some fur caught on a bush, or even some poo!

Tip: you can use the downloadable summer flowers ID sheet at www.woodlandtrust.org.uk/natured etectives/ for this challenge Host a Teddy Bears’ Picnic This is sure to be a hit with younger children, especially if they can invite some friends from nursery. Use a teddy cookie cutter to make some little bear-shaped sandwiches. Cut out some pictures of bears and hide them in the surrounding area for kids to find (just remember to take them home with you when you leave). There are lots of fun picnic ideas at www.woodlandtrust.org.uk Learn to Skim Stones You can do this on a pond, river, or calm sea. Just be careful not to get too near the water’s edge or make sure you don’t hit any ducks – or swimmers! Find some round, flat, smooth stones. Hold a stone flat between your thumb and forefinger Get down low and throw it across the water with a spinning action. Do persevere as it might take a bit of practice.

Try a Barefoot Walk Let the grass tickle your toes, splash through a stream, and stomp in some squidgy mud. Did you know you have over 7,000 nerve endings in each foot, so walking barefoot is a great way to get in touch with nature? Just make sure you avoid

anything sharp on the ground. Some parks and attractions have special barefoot trails, so search online for one near you. You could even try setting up a barefoot walk in your back garden.

Go on a Butterfly Hunt Summer brings with it throngs of colourful butterflies. You will find a downloadable butterfly caterpillars ID sheet at www.woodlandtrust.org.uk/natured etectives which you can use to hunt fluttery butterflies in woodland clearings. If it’s too wet to go outside, why not cheer yourself up with a gorgeous butterfly mobile instead?

You will need: several sticks of similar length string or wire • paper – coloured, patterned, or white if you want to colour the butterflies yourself • colouring pens • glitter (optional) • a needle and some strong thread Cross the sticks over in the middle and fasten them with string or wire to make the frame.

Fold a piece of paper in two and draw half a butterfly along the folded edge. Cut around it and open it out. Repeat for lots more butterflies. Decorate them if you wish.

Attach a thread to each butterfly using the needle and tie the other end to a stick. Hang up your mobile and admire your cloud of colourful butterflies!

The Woodland Trust charity runs its Nature Detectives family offering with lots of idea to get busy and out in nature. You can post pictures on Twitter or Instagram using #NatureDetectives too or visit www.woodlandtrust.org.uk/naturedetectives for more activity ideas.

You can also find your local Woodland Trust wood at www.woodlandtrust.org.uk/visiting-woods

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Create a Fairy Garden Use your imagination to design a fantastic fairy garden! You can do this indoors if it’s raining.

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Common Toddler Behaviours

By Tanith Carey

Do you sometimes wonder what goes on in your child’s head when they kick up a fuss? Do you often search for exactly the right words to calm them down?

In the following extracts from a new book What’s My Child Thinking by Tanith Carey with psychologist Dr Angharad Rudkin, you will find evidencebased strategies to help you respond to two common toddler behaviours: separation anxiety and demanding your phone.

‘Mummy Don’t Go’ Scenario: When you try to drop your child off at the gym crèche for the first time, your toddler clings to you.

What she’s thinking: ‘I only want Mummy to look after me.’

What you’re thinking: ‘Why’s she kicking up such a fuss? I will only be forty minutes. I feel so guilty when she begs me not to go.’

Nothing is quite the same as the love and care a parent gives.

Toddlers are also only just learning that you continue to exist when you are out of their sight so seeing you leave can be scary for them.

How your child reacts will also depend on how sensitive she is to change and whether she’s had sad or happy experiences when you’ve left her to be cared for by others before.

So far if she’s mainly been used to being at home with mummy or daddy, the challenge of being in a new environment makes her hold on to you as her security.

What to do: Show Faith in your Child’s Carer Your child will take her cues from you. Introduce the nursery worker, smile, ask their name and ask both them and your child if there are activities they might like to do together.

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Use Distraction Help your child shift her focus from her upset feelings outwards. Ask her to engage her curiosity and look around at the new toys she can play with. Point out other children who are already having fun as they will fascinate your child the most.

Turn Parting into a Ritual Saying goodbye will be easier if your farewell is predictable every time. Give your child a hug and two kisses, and tell her what you will do together when you collect her, like going to the park, in order to give her something to look forward to.

‘Want your phone’ Scenario: While you’re waiting for your lunch in a café, your child says he wants to play with your phone.

What’s he’s thinking: I don’t want to wait and sit still. The bright flashy colours on Daddy’s phone are more interesting.

What you’re thinking: ‘At least it will keep him busy until the food comes. If I say no now he may throw a tantrum which would be embarrassing.’

As every parent knows, it’s tempting to hand over your phone.

It gives you a few moments to yourself and may even be a welcome break from some of the repetitive conversation that toddlers have at this age.

However, by giving your child your phone you are giving him the message that phones are more interesting than people – and that rather than engage with him you are happy to give him a substitute for your time and attention.

If you give in to a tantrum, you will also be sending the message that you will give in if he makes enough of a fuss.

What to do: Limit your Own Phone Use Your child is watching you. Keep checking and conversations to a minimum when you are with your child. In this situation, put your phone out of sight immediately which will mean he will forget about it more quickly.

Distract Him Come up with a game he loves to play. Ultimately remember that

toddlers would always rather have engaged, one-on-one play-time with you than play alone in a one-dimensional digital world.

Take a Longer-Term View While a phone may seem to work miracles to calm a fractious child, keep an eye on the bigger picture.

It‘s going to be easier if you set clear boundaries now, rather than try to rein back his usage when he’s older.

What’s My Child Thinking: Practical Child Psychology for Modern Parents

by Tanith Carey with Dr Angharad Rudkin, looks at how young children think. It uses those insights to work out the best ways to help keep them calm and happy in more than 100 everyday situations, including suffering from separation anxiety or demanding your phone. The book is published by DK, priced £16.99.

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Parenting There is no way to guarantee perfect mental health for your children. However there’s a lot you can do, and be, to help.

Parenting for your Children’s Mental Health

By Philippa Perry

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irstly, parents need to show warmth, acceptance and understanding. They need to be available physically and emotionally. They must be able to love, trust, respect and they need to know how to soothe, play and be generous with their attention and time. They need to love and to have boundaries.

We have these qualities already: the trouble is, other things can get in the way. Things like childcare, money, school, work, tiredness, lack of time and busy-ness … and this is not an exhaustive list. What gets in the way more than any of this is what was given to us when we were babies and children. If we don’t look at how we were brought up and the affect it has had on us, it can come back to bite us.

Remember when you last remarked something along the lines of: “I opened my mouth and my mother’s words came out?”

Think back to your childhood: were you ever made to feel ‘bad,’ in the wrong, or even responsible for your parents’ bad moods? If this happened to you, it is all too easy to try to

repair your feeling of being wrong by making someone else feel wrong. The victims of this can be our children. So, we also need to be humble, flexible and admit to our kids when we’ve slipped up. We want them to know how and when to apologise, and not to hold on to being right when they have been mistaken. The only way to really teach our children this, is to show it.

Luckily, we make mistakes ourselves, so all have plenty of opportunities to model this. I never realised I was modelling every time I said ‘sorry’ to my daughter. I didn’t realise she was learning to do this herself until one day, aged about 4, she said to me: “Sorry I was grumpy in the car, I was hungry, I’m alright now.”’ I said something like: “That’s okay.” But inside I was: ‘Wow!’ Another quality we need is optimism. Optimism that our children will pick up all the skills we model that everyone needs to get along: flexibility, problem-solving skills, tolerance for frustration and empathy. We all do better when someone we respect believes in us.

Good relationships with our children depend so much on being a good listener and observer. So often we only see and hear what we want to, or sometimes we think we’ve heard but immediately interpret what they’ve said as an attack. For example, your child might say to you: “We never go out” when just last week you’ve taken them to a theme park. You might want to explode with: “How can you say that, we went to Legoland last week?” This would probably lead to an argument. If instead you listened to the feelings under those words and said: “You sound bored and fed up. What would you like to do?” and then they’d say something like: “I want to go back to Legoland again.” You could then have a moment of connection and say: “Yeah that was fun”.

When we really listen to our children, we will hear that for a lot of the time, they don’t want us to fix them, they want us to understand them. They want to be felt with, not dealt with.

If our children can feel heard, understood and seen, and especially if parents can help them put their feelings into words, they will be able to confide in you rather than hide from you.

More than anything what our children need from us is our loving attention; to be taken seriously and understood. Being seen is a good defence against being driven crazy. More than anything we need to remember that children are not projects - something we get right or ruin, or chores to get through, but people to relate to. ““It is a joy to be hidden, and disaster not to be found.” Donald Winnacott

Philippa Perry is the author of The Book You Wish Your Parents Had Read (and Your Children Will Be Glad That You Did), published by Penguin Life.

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The Look Out Discovery Centre, ongoing

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Mondays and Wednesdays in July STAY AND PLAY Under the Canopy Forest School, Dukes Valley Windsor Road Gerrards Cross SL9 8SR. Age 18 months4 years. www.underthecanopy.org.uk call 07971 406 671 Tuesdays in July and August STORYTIME AT MARLOW BOOKSHOP 22-26 Spittal St, Marlow SL7 1DB Enjoy a story at the town’s independent book store. 10-10.30am, ideal for babies and pre-schoolers. www.marlowbookshop.co.uk Sundays in July VISIT ETON NATURAL HISTORY MUSEUM Eton College, South Meadow Lane, Eton SL4 6DW Housing the Thackeray Collection of British Birds and other collections with more than 15,000 specimens, donated from the nineteenth century onwards. The museum is open every Sunday afternoon from 2.30-5pm. www.Etonnhm.com

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See the Butterflies at Maidenhead Thicket, July 6

Every Sunday in summer RUNNING DAY AT GREAT COCKCROW RAILWAY Hardwick Lane, Lyne, Chertsey, Surrey, KT16 0AD, 01932 565 474 Miniature train rides for 2+ years. Every Sunday from 1pm4.15pm until October 27. The booking office closes at 4.45pm. www.cockcrow.co.uk Ongoing SCIENCE EXHIBITION The Look Out Discovery Centre Nine Mile Ride, Bracknell, RG12 7QW 01344 354400 More than 90 activities which children of all ages can enjoy and learn from: launch a hydrogen rocket, play with boats in the indoor stream or build a house with your friends. Look out for ‘The BIG dinosaur show’ running from July 20 to Sept 8. You can help the presenter dig through sand to find the fossils and identify smell to keep the Dinosaur herd alive! Show is £1.95 per person in addition to the main entrance price. www.bracknellforest.gov.uk/leisure-services/look-out

Ongoing through July and August SKIPPERED RIVER CRUISES Cliveden National Trust, Taplow, SL6 0JA. Call 01628 605069 ext.121 or book on a cruise at the information centre. Enjoy the river on a 45 minute cruise down Cliveden's Thames stretch. Adult £11.50, child from £6.

Walking to the river from the main car park takes approximately 30 minutes and includes 172 steps. Boat ticket holders who are less able to walk can take a ride on the free boat bus. There are also rowing and motor boat self drive options too. www.nationaltrust.org.uk/cliveden Monday July 1 MEET THE RANGER AND THE BUGS AND BEASTIES Burnham Beeches Hawthorn Lane, Lord Mayors Drive, Burnham SL2 3TE. One of the rangers will be at the information point showing off some of the fabulous creepy crawlies that live in the woodland.

10.45am-12.30pm. www.cityoflondon.gov.uk/burnhambeeches

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The Big Camp at Cliveden July 12 to July 13 Wednesdays from July 3 TOY LIBRARY Highview, 6 North Road, Maidenhead, SL6 1PL 10am-noon, and on the first Sunday of each month from 3-5pm Thursday July 4 TEEN RANGERS WINDSOR GREAT PARK Windsor Great Park Environmental Centre (access is via Forest Gate off the A332 between Windsor and Ascot, SL4 2BY). Monthly wildlife club for young people 12-16 years. Spend time outdoors in the park and forest to discover who and what lives there. Budding naturalists can test their animal tracking, shelter building and bushcraft skills to learn more about the flora and fauna. 6-8pm. £5. www.bbowt.org.uk/whats-on Friday July 5 TWILIGHT FOREST SCHOOL Under the Canopy Forest School, Dukes Valley Windsor Road Gerrards Cross Bucks, SL9 8SR. 5-6.30pm.

Ages 5-10. From £18. www.underthecanopy.org.uk call 07971 406 671. Also July 12 and 19.

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Saturday July 6 BUTTERFLY WALK Maidenhead Thicket National Trust Car Park, Henley Road, Maidenhead SL6 6QL (meeting point). Call 01628 605069 to book. Come and observe majestic butterflies as they flit across woodland glades at Maidenhead Thicket. Adults £8, child £4, under 5s free. 12 noon-2pm. www.nationaltrust.org.uk/maidenheadand-cookham-commons Sunday July 7 NATIONAL MEADOWS DAY Runnymede National Trust, Old Windsor, SL4 2JL, 01784 432891. Come and celebrate the magnificent meadows of Runnymede with guided walks for all. FREE event. 11.30am-4pm. 11.30am: Guided meadows walk Sunday July 7 PARTY IN THE PARK Victory Field Recreation Ground, Ascot SL5 7DG. Live music, cream teas, beer tent, BBQ and hot food available, plus skate park display and children's fairground rides. Bring along your own picnic and enjoy the atmosphere and sunshine. FREE entry. 1-5.30pm.

Enjoy The Paper Moon at Norden Farm, July 24 to 25 August

Tuesday July 9 YOUNG RANGERS WINDSOR GREAT PARK Windsor Great Park Environmental Centre, (access by Forest Gate off the A332 between Windsor and Ascot), SL4 2BY Monthly wildlife club for children aged 8-12 years. Explore and discover who and what lives in the park and forest. Become a nature detective to find out about birds, bats, deer, minibeasts and more! Action packed activities such as pond dipping, bug hunts, animal tracking, shelter building and bushcraft. Drinks provided. 6-7.30pm. Sessions also available on Wednesday July 10 (6-7.30pm) and July 31 (Sessions starting at either 10.30am or 1.30pm). www.bbowt.org.uk Friday July 12 NATURE TOTS - WINDSOR GREAT PARK as above. Have fun in natural surroundings. Each session includes seasonal nature discovery, games, crafts and lots of fun! Story-time and drinks included. All children must be accompanied. Suitable for 18 months to 4 years (younger siblings

The Look Out Discovery Centre

• Science and Discovery Fun • Over 90 hands-on activities

OPEN

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Nine Mile Ride, Bracknell, Berkshire, RG12 7QW

welcome) Session is 10-11.30am. Two sessions also on Monday July 15: start at either 10am or 1pm. £7 per child. www.bbowt.org.uk Friday July 12 to Saturday July 13 BIG CAMP Cliveden National Trust, Cliveden Road, Taplow, SL6 0JA Call 0344 249 1895 to book. The whole family will love taking part in an evening under the stars.

Exploring, wildlife spotting, marshmallow toasting and storytelling round the campfire. Arrive from 4pm at the event field. Hot and cold soft drinks will be provided. Wake up to a complimentary breakfast followed by a morning scavenger hunt. Adult £28, child £18. Also July 19, 20, 26 and 27 www.nationaltrust.org.uk/cliveden Sunday July 14 FAMILIES UNDER THE CANOPY Under the Canopy Forest School, Dukes Valley Windsor Road Gerrards Cross SL9 8SR. Opportunity for families to experience the outdoors together. Includes campfire and marshmallow toasting.

11-1pm. From £20. call 07971 406 671 www.underthecanopy.org.uk Friday July 19 NATURE TOTS MAIDENHEAD Hasker House, Woolley Firs, Cherry Garden Ln, Maidenhead SL6 3LJ. Have fun in natural surroundings. Each session includes seasonal nature discovery, games, crafts and lots of fun! Story-time and drinks included. All children must be accompanied. Suitable for 18 months to 4 years (younger siblings welcome) Session is 9.30-11.30. Two sessions also on Monday July 22: start at either 9.30am or 1.00pm. £7 per child. Booking essential. www.bbowt.org.uk

Saturday July 20 ROCK N ROLL CONCERTINI WITH MATT BOND AND THE POOR BOYS GOOD TIME BAND Marlow Opportunity Playgroup, Scout HQ, Watery Lane, Wooburn Green, HP10 0NE. For SEND children and their families. Join Matt Bond and The Poor Boys Good Time Band on a journey of some of the best loved Rock n Roll themes from the 50’s and beyond. Be inspired by the sounds of the Beatles, the Stones and Elvis whilst the kids dance sing or just chill out on our Bean Bags. Contact Julia on info@concertini.co.uk 07973 335146 Saturday July 20 to Tuesday Sept 3 WOODLAND WONDERS SUMMER TRAIL Burnham Beeches Hawthorn Lane, Lord Mayors Drive, Burnham SL2 3TE. Something fun for the holidays - a summer trail, aimed at children up to 12. Pick up a leaflet from the Information Point and guide yourself along the route. Suggested donation £2. Bring a pencil. www.cityoflondon.gov.uk/burnhambeeches

Saturday July 20 and Sunday July 21 MAIDENHEAD FESTIVAL Kidwells Park, Bath Road, Maidenhead, SL6 8AQ, 01628 685 333. A feast of fun comes to the park with over 30 music acts on the main stage, a big top with circus shows, dance, a Festival Train and the Festival Beach and funfair and kids zone plus street food stalls.

Don’t miss the fireworks at the end of Saturday night. Admission free, charges apply to refreshments and some activities. www.mheadfestival.weebly.com

Bring this voucher to get one free child with one full paying adult*.

10am - 5pm every day

Be Amazed...

Visit Norden Farm’s Goan-style beach, July 24 to August 25

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Valid until 06/09/19 *Terms and conditions apply.

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Outdoor Theatre Cliveden shows Wind in the Willows July 30 and 31 Wednesday July 24 WOODLAND WONDERS TRAIL Burnham Beeches Hawthorn Lane, Lord Mayors Drive, Burnham SL2 3TE. Nature based fun and craft activities aimed at children aged 4 12. Suggested donation £3. 10.45am2.45pm. Also Wednesday July 31 Wednesday July 24 to Sunday August 25 GOAN BEACH AND CREATIVE SESSIONS Norden Farm Centre for the Arts, Altwood Road, Maidenhead, SL6 2PF, 01628 788997. The ever popular beach is back this year, inspired by the laid back tropical paradise that is Goa. It’s free to play from 10am to 4pm. There are beachside tables available for snacks and lunch from the Cafe Bar (including children’s picnic bags). Also, you can peel yourself off the beach and get creative with your little ones in the centre’s beach craft sessions: Arts and Crafts (45 mins) £5 per child, week days 10am or relax in the story den for Storytelling sessions (20 mins) £2 per person Monday to Saturday 11am and 1.30pm. Alternatively, explore the indoor sensory space in the Gallery designed for children with SEND. www.norden.farm Wednesday July 24 to Sunday August 25 THE PAPER MOON Norden Farm as above, 01628 788997. “Welcome to the town of Blank Page! Meet its inhabitants as they take you on a scrinchy scrunchy papery journey.” What would you draw on the biggest piece of paper you've ever seen? A gentle first adventure into theatre for babies, young children and their grownups. Age Guidance 0-3 years. Times are; 11am, 1.30pm and 3pm (35 mins) / £12 standard (includes a baby/infant under 3 years), additional child £8. www.norden.farm Thursday July 25 to Thursday September 3 AMAZING SUMMER ADVENTURES Odds Farm Park, Wooburn Common, HP10 0LX 01628 520 188 The Oddsocks Family return, bringing with them themed shows, arts, crafts and Summer-time games. Plus the new water attraction will be open. www.oddsfarm.co.uk Thursday July 25 - Monday Sep 2 SUMMER HOLIDAY TRAIL Cliveden National Trust, Cliveden Road, Taplow, SL6 0JA Call 0344 249 1895. Explore shapes in nature and create a craft to take home.

Normal admission prices and trail is Trail £2. www.nationaltrust.org.uk/cliveden Wednesday July 25 WOODLAND WONDERS CRAFTS Burnham Beeches Hawthorn Lane, Lord Mayors Drive, Burnham SL2 3TE. Nature-based fun and craft activities aimed at children aged 4-12.

Suggested donation £2.

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Saturday July 27 FAMILY ZOO DAY BCA Animal Management centre, Burchetts Green Road, Burchett's Green, Maidenhead SL6 6QR 01628 824444.Come and admire the amazing array of species at the college, including otters, skunks, snakes, frogs, meerkats and many more! Look around the zoo and watch their keepers running educational talks, feeding displays and handling demonstrations. Open 1-4pm.

Tickets must be bought in advance. Also Saturday 31 August www.bca.ac.uk/events Saturday July 27 to Sunday 28 CLASSIC VEHICLES SHOW Chiltern Open Air Museum, Newland Park, Gorlands Lane, Chalfont St Giles, HP8 4AB. Come and admire an amazing collection of classic cars, lorries, traditional fire engines, motorcycles and historic bicycles. You will also be able to come and see a collection of historic tractors and wagons on our farm, which was once used for filming TV drama Downton Abbey. If you own a classic vehicle, Register to bring it along for a spin. www.coam.org.uk Monday July 29 to Friday August 1 SUMMER CIRCUS WEEK Norden Farm. Led

by Albert and Friends. A week of incredible circus skills and performing. Learn to walk on stilts, ride a unicycle, walk the tightrope and perform on a trapeze! 7 to 13 years.

10am to 4pm, £115 (£110 with Advantage Card). www.norden.farm Tuesday July 30 TERRIFIC TUESDAYS EARTH Chiltern Open Air Museum as above. The museum’s education team have created special themed family activities, games and crafts all for the standard admission price. This year each Terrific Tuesday date in the summer is one of the four elements - this one is ‘earth’. www.coam.org.uk Monday July 30 BUGS AND BEASTIES IN THE PARK- WINDSOR GREAT PARK Windsor Great Park Environmental Centre (access via Forest Gate, A332 between Windsor and Ascot, SL4 2BY). Come to Windsor Great Park and search for bugs and minibeasts in the meadow and woodland. A chance to get up close to the microscopic animals that form an important part of the food chain. All children must be accompanied. Suitable for 4-11 years. Session is 10am - 2pm. £7 per child. www.bbowt.org.uk Tuesday July 30 & Wednesday July 31 OUTDOOR THEATRE - WIND IN THE WILLOWS Cliveden National Trust, Cliveden Road, Taplow, SL6 0JA. Call 0344 249 1895 to book. A re-telling of Kenneth Graeme's classic children's tale, set on the river Thames. Join Moley, Ratty, Mr Toad and friends for a fun adventure. Performed in the open air on the lawn in Cliveden's Water Garden. Adult £17, child £10.50.

Show at 2.30pm. www.nationaltrust.org.uk/cliveden

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Tech Taster Days at Norden Farm, August 3 and 17

Saturday August 3 to Sunday 4 LEARN ABOUT WELLINGTON’S ARMY Chiltern Open Air Museum, Newland Park, Gorlands Lane, Chalfont St Giles, HP8 4AB. Meet Napoleonic soldiers and find out about the life of a Rifleman in Wellington’s army during the Peninsular War. Visit the living history encampment and learn how the soldiers’ families live.

Watch a thrilling display of military skill as the soldiers skirmish (please note that this will include gunfire). Standard admission prices apply. www.coam.org.uk Saturday August 3 and August 17 TECH TASTER DAYS Norden Farm Centre for the Arts, Altwood Road, Maidenhead, SL6 2PF, 01628 788997. Toontastic 3D runs 10am-10.45am for 8+, Vlogging and iMovie runs 11am-11.45 for 8+, Family Workshop: Fun with Photos runs 12noon12.45pm. Family workshop: Stop Motion Animation runs 1.30pm-2.15pm for 5+. All workshops £2 per person, per workshop. www.norden.farm Sunday August 4 TURTLE TOTS CHARITY POOL PARTY St Pirans school, Gringer Hill Maidenhead SL6 7LZ Have a nice family dip in the lovely warm indoor pool, enjoy children’s entertainment provided throughout the morning, have a bounce in the bouncy castle and browse their numerous stalls. Help them raise money for chosen charities Alexander Devine & Wexham Park Hospital Special Care Baby Unit. Adults £5 and children free. Book ticket through louise.james@turtletots.com or just come along on the day.

Monday August 5 to Friday August 9 ART WEEK Norden Farm Centre for the Arts, Altwood Road, Maidenhead, SL6 2PF, 01628 788997. Led by Michaela Clarke, work on individual craft activities with lots of messy materials and also work together on a group art project. Age Guidance 8+ years. 10am-4pm. £115 (£110 Advantage Card holders) www.norden.farm

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Tuesday August 6 TERRIFIC TUESDAYS AIR Chiltern Open Air Museum, Newland Park, Gorlands Lane, Chalfont St Giles, HP8 4AB. The museum’s education team have created special themed family activities, games and crafts all for the standard admission price. This year each Terrific Tuesday date in the summer is one of the four elements - this one is ‘air’. www.coam.org.uk Wednesday August 7 WOODLAND WONDERS CRAFTS Burnham Beeches Hawthorn Lane, Lord Mayors Drive, Burnham SL2 3TE. Nature-based fun and craft activities aimed at children aged 412. Suggested donation £2.

Wednesday August 7 and 14 and Saturday August 24 KITE MAKING WORKSHOPS Norden Farm Centre for the Arts, Altwood Road, Maidenhead, SL6 2PF, 01628 788997. In these drop-in sessions you will be guided through the process of making either the Patang Kite – the Indian Fighter Kite, or a classic Trapezoid Kite. Make and decorate your kite to stand out in the sky at the Community Kite Festival which takes place in Boyn Grove Park on Sunday 1 September. 11.30am-1pm and 2pm3.30pm / £5 per person. www.norden.farm Wednesday August 7 and Thursday August 8 GARLIC THEATRE PRESENT ‘EGGS ON LEGS’ Norden Farm as above, 01628 788997. A cracking family show full of wonder and surprise. Garlic Theatre bring you a Dr Zeuss world filled with funny, crazy eggs that hatch in the most unexpected places. Full of clowning, puppets and zany music to make you roll around with laughter. Age Guidance 3-7 years. 11.30am and 2pm (45 mins). £11 (£9 under 16s), Family & Friends (4 people) £36 www.norden.farm Saturday August 10th FIFIELD FUN DAY Deep Meadows, Fifield, Stalls, entertainment and lots to eat and drink. All proceeds go to charity. Volunteers welcomed. https://en-gb.facebook.com/FifieldFunDay

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Norden Farm’s Eggs on Legs is on August 7 and 8 Saturday August 10 and Sunday 11 A LIVING HISTORY TUDOR COURTROOM Chiltern Open Air Museum, Newland Park, Gorlands Lane, Chalfont St Giles, HP8 4AB The year is 1585 and a Justice of the Peace commissioned by Queen Elizabeth I has arrived to hold court. Come and learn about the intrigues of village life and join in to help decide the rights and wrongs of each case. Has the landlord watered the beer? Will Goodwife Manwood be granted a divorce? Who abducted Widow Besser’s grandson? Will the village scold be sent to the ducking stool? Become the jury and participate in the court cases.

Standard admission prices apply. www.coam.org.uk Monday August 12 to Wednesday 14 DANCE INTENSIVE LED BY CHARLIE DIXON Norden Farm Centre for the Arts, Altwood Road, Maidenhead, SL6 2PF, 01628 788997. Experience being an ATroupe dancer in a real dance studio.

Kite Making Workshops at Norden Farm 7, 14 ,24 August

Work with a professional dancer to develop your technique, learn routines and create your own choreography. No audition necessary. Age Guidance 8+ years. 10am-4pm, £100 (£90 Advantage Card holders. www.norden.farm Saturday 13th August SUMMER MILE FAMILY RACE DAY Royal Ascot Racecourse, Ascot, SL5 7JX. Summer Mile Family Raceday features a dedicated family zone with a host of attractions to thrill children aged 4-15. All Under 18s tickets free and kids under 12 will also be able to enjoy free food at certain outlets in the family enclosure.The family only enclosure, located in the Old Paddock, will be divided into zones, including Entertainers, Lifestyle, Explorers and Thrillseekers. In addition to clip clop pony and fairground rides there will be workshops, and a stage with music between races. Check website for adult main entrance prices www.ascot.co.uk

The Bucks School of Dance Presents….

Summer Dance Camp for Students aged 5-20 Join Miss Karen and guest teachers for a week of dancing fun over the summer holidays! Improve your technique, learn new genres of dance and make new friends.

A Living History Tudor Courtroom at Chiltern Open Air Museum, August 10 and 11

Tuesday August 13 TERRIFIC TUESDAYS - FIRE Chiltern Open Air Museum, Newland Park, Gorlands Lane, Chalfont St Giles, HP8 4AB. The museum’s education team have created special themed family activities, games and crafts all for the standard admission price. This year each Terrific Tuesday date in the summer is one of the four elements - this one is ‘fire’. www.coam.org.uk Tuesday 13 August to Thursday 15 OUTDOOR THEATRE - GANGSTA GRANNY Cliveden National Trust, Cliveden Road, Taplow, SL6 0JA Call 0344 249 1895 to book. Bring rugs and a picnic.

Presented in Cliveden's Water Garden.

Performances start at 2.30pm. www.nationaltrust.org.uk/cliveden Thursday August 15 CLARE HOLLINGWORTH AND THE SCOOP OF THE CENTURY Norden Farm Centre for the Arts, Altwood Road, Maidenhead, SL6 2PF, 01628 788997. “29 August, 1939. A young, intrepid journalist crossed over the border from Poland to Germany. There, she saw something that would change her life and history forever…”. The tale of fearless journalist Clare Hollingworth from the busy newspaper offices in London to the frontline during World War II. A highly interactive show bursting with storytelling, songs and the scoop of the century. Age Guidance 4+ years. 11.30am and 2pm (50 mins) £11 (£9 under 16s), Family & Friends (4 people) £36 www.norden.farm Saturday August 17 and Sunday 18 RAGGED VICTORIANS Chiltern Open Air Museum, Newland Park, Gorlands Lane, Chalfont St Giles, HP8 4AB Meet costumed re-enactors in and around the Museum site. Look out for shady characters including the rat catcher and his rats; street urchins; doctor (with real leeches!), rogues and vagabonds. Great for kids learning about the Victorians at school. Watch out for pickpockets!

Standard admission prices apply. www.coam.org.uk

Saturday August 17 and Friday 23 August BAT WALK Maidenhead Thicket National Trust Carpark, Henley Road, Maidenhead, SL6 6QL (meeting point). Call 0344 249 1895 to book. Join our expert and immerse yourself in the world of bats and learn about the woods they call home. £12, 8.30-10pm. www.nationaltrust.org.uk/maidenheadand-cookham-commons Monday August 19 to Friday 23 August THEATRE WEEK Norden Farm Centre for the Arts, Altwood Road, Maidenhead, SL6 2PF, 01628 788997. Led by Troublemaker Theatre Company, create an entire show from idea to performance. Experience all aspects of theatre, from lighting to stage blocking to acting with the help of professional directors. 10am-4pm (6pm Fri) £115 (£110 Advantage Card holders).

Age Guidance 10-6 years. www.norden.farm Tuesday August 20 TERRIFIC TUESDAYS - WATER Chiltern Open Air Museum, Newland Park, Gorlands Lane, Chalfont St Giles, HP8 4AB. The museum’s education team have created special themed family activities, games and crafts all for the standard admission price. This year each Terrific Tuesday date in the summer is one of the four elements - this one is ‘water’. www.coam.org.uk Tuesday August 20 to Saturday 24 OLIVER! Theatre Royal Windsor, Thames Street, SL4 1PS 01753 853 888. Consider yourself at home at Theatre Royal Windsor this summer, when TRW Summer School present Lionel Bart's classic musical based on the Charles Dickens novel. You can also sign up now to be part of this exciting production of one of the most loved musicals of all time through a three-week intensive summer project. For more details email Learning@theatreroyalwindsor.co.uk www.theatreroyalwindsor.co.uk

19th August - 23rd August Berkshire College of Agriculture For more info email karen@bucksschoolofdance.co.uk 07985 252129 Supported by The Pat Steel School of Dance

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Ragged Victorians at Chiltern Open Air Museum, August 17 and 18

Medieval Warbow at Chiltern Open Air Museum, August 31 to September 1

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Wednesday August 21 FAMILY FUN DAY Hanover Way, Windsor, SL4 5NW. Hosted by Achieving for Children (RBWM Children’s Centres). Come meet Peppa pig or take a ride on a tractor. Meet Basil and his friendly farm animals or try your luck on the coconut shy and other side show games. Burgers, Ice creams, soft play, face painting available. Plus, get up and close to a real police car. 11-3pm.

Wednesday August 21 WOODLAND WONDERS FAMILY WILDLIFE WALK Burnham Beeches Hawthorn Lane, Lord Mayors Drive, Burnham SL2 3TE Join them for a two-hour morning wildlife walk with bug hunts, games and fun in woods. Suggested donation £4.

Booking required. www.cityoflondon.gov.uk/burnhambeeches Saturday August 24 OPEN AIR THEATRE - TREASURE ISLAND The Savill Garden, Wick Lane, Englefield Green, TW20 0UU. Join the Chapterhouse Theatre Company for this brand-new adaptation of everyone’s favourite swashbuckling pirate adventure: Robert Louis Stevenson’s Treasure Island. When he stumbles across a coveted treasure map, young Jim Hawkins finds himself on an epic adventure in the hope of finding Treasure

Island. But not everyone is to be trusted, and a dark secret is lurking on board the ship. Theatre ticket holders have special access to picnic in the Garden from 4.30pm. Picnic is not allowed in the performance area.

7pm -10pm with interval. 4 years+. Purchase tickets from The Savill Garden Centre or www.seetickets.com www.windsorgreatpark.co.uk Saturday August 25 OPEN AIR THEATRE - THE SECRET GARDEN The Savill Garden as above. Join young Mary Lennox on a journey of discovery as she is sent to her uncle’s house in the countryside, where mysteries and secrets lurk round every corner... As she makes new friends and encounters magical creatures, Mary has one burning question: where is the location of her uncle’s secret garden, and where has he hidden the key? This enchanting story, loved by children and adults alike.

Theatre ticket holders have special access to picnic in the Garden from 4.30pm. Picnic is not allowed in the performance area. 7pm-10pm with interval. 4 years +.

Purchase tickets from The Savill Garden Centre or seetickets.com. Other performances are Pride and Prejudice on August 22 and A Midsummer Night’s Dream on 23. www.windsorgreatpark.co.uk

Tuesday August 27 TERRIFIC TUESDAYS: ELEMENT OF SURPRISE Chiltern Open Air Museum, Newland Park, Gorlands Lane, Chalfont St Giles, HP8 4AB. The museum’s education team have created special themed family activities, games and crafts all for the standard admission price. This year each Terrific Tuesday date in the summer is one of the four elements; this final Tuesday is a collection of them all. www.coam.org.uk Saturday August 31 and Sunday September 1 MEDIEVAL WARBOW COAM as above. Come and see the Free Company Aquitaine demonstrating the art and skill of the medieval warbow. Watch demonstrations of archery, see and learn about the arming of the knight and talk to the blacksmith/armourer, bowyer, spinster and surgeon about the medieval way of life. Perhaps you fancy testing your strength at drawing the bowstring to your ear? Standard admission prices apply. www.coam.org.uk Sunday September 1 COMMUNITY KITE FESTIVAL Boyn Grove Park, Maidenhead. The popular Kite Festival, run

by Norden Farm returns for 2019! Get involved at Kite Making Workshops at Norden Farm across the school holidays (see above), then see your creation take to the sky at Boyne Grove Park or bring your own kite and join in the fun! 1pm-4pm. Free. www.norden.farm

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Taking the next step in our parenting journey

By Rachel Bailey

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ith the twins starting school in September, it feels a bit like the end of an era in our house! In many ways, having an older brother with a social life has meant the end of the pre-school years has felt less of a big deal, especially as they’ve been at nursery for both breakfast and lunch club each day. It’s not like having all three children at school full-time will actually extend my working hours by much, but it’s a significant milestone along their road to independence and I will really miss spending those couple of hours each day with them. A friend asked me if I was going to request they be put in separate classes or kept together and when I explained that I was happy to be

guided by their pre-school teachers as I can’t comment on how they work alongside each other in an environment where I’m not there, it hit me that this is it.

From now on, they will be spending the majority of their day without me and the only glimpses I will have into their world, will be the ones they choose to share with me. Sometimes no doubt I’ll be given next to no information about what they’ve been up to and if today’s descriptions are anything to go by, having claimed (and backed each other up), that they went on a school trip to a gingerbread house in which their teacher drank tea and made up a story, I may still be none the wiser!* Despite having definitely fallen

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foul of 2nd (and 3rd) child syndrome (it was only after a fellow mum asked if they’d got into their school of choice that I even remembered to check the RBWM website for school admissions. A far cry from hitting refresh on the screen the day the results were published for my eldest child), we’ve settled happily into a routine of rushed library and park visits, food shopping, sports clubs and the occasional soft play, before returning for school pick up.

Having less rushing around to do in the day and a quieter house, will, I’m sure, take some getting used to.

My energies will no doubt be more focused on dealing with over-tired children, juggling after school clubs (I’ve yet to get my head around how we’ll deal with catering for 3 different interests in the short time between the end of the school day and bedtime and still get everyone fed!) and homework - the thought of helping with 3 lots is enough to send me into a mild panic, my only hope is that by the time the twins are of the age that theirs steps up a bit, Jonah will be more independent. Parenting will be more about making sure I’m available to give reassurance when needed, listen to stories of friendship dramas, offer advice (and cuddles), encouragement and celebrate their achievements.

This last term at nursery, I’ve made the most of my flexible working hours to pop in for Stay and Play a bit more regularly (It’s as much of a wrench saying goodbye to the wonderful staff there). I’ve also taken the opportunity to take it in turns to send one twin in and keep one off for a special day out just the two of us. Ironically both chose the same day trip which meant I had to experience it twice, but each visit turned out to be very different and a special time for both of us.

Of course, it’s mainly me that is feeling apprehensive about school.

The twins themselves are ready for their new adventure (one of them has been asking for weeks if they’re off to Reception yet). They have a whole host of new experiences to look forward to. They’ll be busy developing their own characters, making new friends, discovering new likes and dislikes and hopefully having a whole heap of fun along the way. Meanwhile, I’ll be here to support them, whilst brushing up on my secretarial skills too, social and otherwise – there’s so much paperwork involved in having school aged children! *Upon clarification with said teacher, elements of this did in fact turn out to be true!

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Surviving the Summer Holidays

by Anna Collins

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am lucky that doing the job that I do, there is some flexibility in my life and I get to spend a good chunk of the summer holidays with my kids. Admittedly, this does seem to both simultaneously delight and scare the living daylights out of me as we approach the holidays. However, one thing’s for certain; I feel better with a plan!

Every time I plan for the school holidays it always strikes me that pacing the days out, activities, play dates and attendance at any clubs is key. Let’s face it you can both overdo it and underdo it! Overdo it and your children are shattered, possibly making them whingey and ungrateful. Underdo it and your children can get fed up, bored and you will be longing for the holidays to end! There is definitely a balance to be struck.

If you are lucky enough to factor in a holiday into the time off school, then that can be useful as it gives you something to focus on and plan around. If you can book the holiday for the midway point, that might help, as you can both build up to the holiday and then leave plenty of time to sort school shoes and uniforms etc when you get back. If you are struggling with the cost of holidays, then think about visiting family, house swaps or maybe have a go at camping. Exploring new environments works wonders with children.

We all know good weather is our friend. Last summer we had an abundance of sun and what bliss that was. Good weather means plenty of outdoors, exercise, picnics and can be a low-cost option. If you are not going away try to make a list of new local places to explore. Try not to be scared of an OS map; it’s great for kids to see how a traditional map works. If you prefer technology, then how about a bit of Geocaching? Participants use GPS to hide and seek containers, called "geocaches" or "caches", at specific locations marked by coordinates all over the world. I haven’t tried this yet, but it’s one for my summer list.

There’s also the dreaded question of how much homework do we do? This probably depends on your children’s ages and how their education is going. I like to build in plenty of time for reading. Luckily my 8-year old has found some books he loves (thank you JK Rowling!) but I think my 4-year old (who currently tosses ‘learning books’ away) will need some encouragement this summer to keep up his phonics before year 1. Many kids love the Summer Reading Challenge too and for my youngest maybe that will take us away from ‘the learning books’ for a bit. Some people may decide to use summer tutors for a familiesonline.co.uk

bit of catch up too. Education also emerges out of some of the activities and places you visit anyway; which is often the best way for our kids to learn.

While we’re on the subject of work; should you try and work with the kids there? Again, I guess it depends hugely on their age. Perhaps 5+ the odd movie afternoon may help you out.

You may find you can do a few low-level pieces of work in the mornings, but make sure everyone gets out later in the day. Check out our holiday club’s directory too (pages 14 & 15).

Maybe you don’t have the need for them to go every day, but perhaps one or two days a week may be beneficial to all? If they need to attend more holiday clubs to cover your work, then

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maybe mix them up a little.

With young children, don’t underestimate simple activities like making ice lollies, freezing plastic toys in a giant ice cube for the kids to crack open, board games and paddling pools.

These are all firm favourites. You may panic and think you have to spend the whole day playing; instead try and break it down to a couple of 30 minute sessions per day where you can get immersed in what the kids do or at least start them off on a new project and then, of course, you can get on with other jobs without the guilt (and let’s face it the chores don’t just go away over the summer!). Try to enjoy the summer and perhaps make sure you, as a parent or carer, get a few breaks too!

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What did you do before you became an author/illustrator and what made you choose the wonderful world of children’s books?

I was a magazine art director. I worked for lots of famous titles including Just Seventeen, the NME and The Observer. I only left The Observer three years ago to become a fulltime author and illustrator. I initially decided to try and get published when I started buying lots of picture books to read to my daughters. We would read them every night and I’d think, “Ooh, this looks like a nice thing to do. I’m going to have a go!” I didn’t realise quite how difficult and competitive the world of children’s publishing is, however, and it took me about four years to get my first book deal.

Are all your books written in rhyme? Why? Yes. Rhyming stories are the ones I enjoy reading out loud the most. I love the way that the children at my live events join in as I read, and sometimes finish off the lines for me. I guess it’s a bit like remembering song lyrics.

There is also a lot of potential for humour within the rhyming structure, and that’s really fun to play around with. A great example of a funny rhyme is How The Grinch Stole Christmas by Dr Seuss. It’s just perfect, and my favourite children’s text ever.

I think I initially used the rhyming structure as something to hide behind. I spent years working on magazines and newspapers with some of the best writers in the world and I guess that as a result I felt I wasn’t worthy of the title “author” and that if I wrote in prose it would expose me as a charlatan. Writing in rhyme, I thought, was more like puzzle solving.

I do really enjoy the writing process. It doesn’t come easily – sometimes those stories that take about ten minutes to read can take up to a year to write. I believe that rhyming stories should be perfect – no half rhymes, no speeding up to fit in more syllables – and that is really, hard to do. There’s nothing worse than a bad rhyme. When you finally have your story working smoothly all the way through, the sense of achievement is amazing.

We’re a bit late in congratulating you on being chosen as the Official World Book Day illustrator, but what has that involved?

I had to come up with the look and feel for the entire campaign. We wanted it to be character based so I came up with lots of little bookmark people. I thought it would be good to have hundreds of different ones, dressed up in all kinds of outfits (a bit like the sausage dogs in my book Odd Dog Out) because then, hopefully, every child would have at least one character that they could relate to. Then it was a question of producing the artwork, promoting the big day and then finally going on the WBD Tour. I’ve also had to go on telly a few times (I even went on Blue Peter and got a badge!), visit 10 Downing Street, and present

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Here at Families we love snuggling up with a good book! It’s never too early to start nurturing a love of books and sharing a story with your child is the perfect excuse to cuddle up together on the sofa, or at bedtime.

Best-selling author/illustrator Rob Biddulph’s picture books have won many awards and are loved by children all over the world. Rachel Bailey talks to Rob about being chosen as the Official World Book Day illustrator for 2019/20 and his newest book ‘Show and Tell’ which is published in August.

an award at the British Book Awards. Also, I’m off to the Houses of Parliament in a few weeks to make a speech. All very exciting stuff. I really love being involved with WBD – it’s such a great charity and I’m really passionate about encouraging children to read for pleasure, which is what the whole WBD movement is all about.

If you had to dress up as a character from one of your books, who would you choose?

Probably the Odd Dog Out. Lots of children dressed up as her this year and there was one costume in particular that blew my mind. It was so good! Upon further investigation we found out that the mother of the child who was wearing it was a costume designer for film and tv.

What’s your favourite childhood book?

I loved anything and everything by Richard Scarry. I would spend hours marvelling at the detail. It was great because even on the tenth reading of one of his books I’d still spot something I hadn’t noticed before. I try to include lots of layers of detail in my own books as a direct result.

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Which book do you wish you had written?

Probably How The Grinch Stole Christmas, for the reasons stated earlier. I mean, just look at this verse: The Grinch hated Christmas! The whole Christmas season!

Now, please don't ask why. No one quite knows the reason.

It could be his head wasn't screwed on just right.

It could be, perhaps, that his shoes were too tight.

But I think that the most likely reason of all May have been that his heart was two sizes too small.

So, so good!

We’re particular fans of Dinosaur Juniors in our house, do you have a favourite book that you’ve written?

Well, I’ll always be very fond of Blown Away the story that gave me my big break, but my favourite is probably Odd Dog Out. The reaction I get from children (and adults) is astonishing. It really seems to strike a chord with people, which is lovely. I also like Kevin, because it’s based on my middle daughter’s “real” imaginary friend. I’m glad that I’ve managed to capture that little piece of her childhood in a book.

We’re looking forward to reading your new book, Show and Tell, next month. Have your children ever taken you into school for ‘Show and Tell’?

Ha. No, I’d be far too embarrassing! I have visited their school quite a few times to read my stories and do some drawing, however. I usually try out my live show there before I take it on the road. If I can survive my own daughters’ criticisms I can survive anything!

What’s it like illustrating books for other authors?

I really like it. It’s fun to step inside somebody else’s head for a few weeks, interpret their words and try and find the look for their characters. It’s a very different process, actually.

post-it note in her lunchbox to cheer her up at lunchtime. It worked really well and that evening Poppy asked me what I was going to draw for her the following day. Six years (and over 1000 post-its) later they are still going strong. They have garnered a fair bit of attention - I was even interviewed by ABC News in the States at one point - so now I feel the pressure to make them good! Apart from anything else, it's actually a really good discipline for me. Drawing is like a muscle you have to exercise. Yes, they do all make it home in one piece. A couple have been through the washing machine but I think that’s quite charming. It makes them more authentic. I've told Poppy I'll keep doing them until she leaves primary school (which is in a year's time) and then maybe we'll put on an exhibition somewhere. Hopefully they're something she'll treasure when she's older. I post them everyday on Twitter and Instagram under the hashtag #PackedLunchPostIt, so do take a look and feel free to come up with suggestions of things for me to draw!

What’s your favourite way to spend time with your family?

We’ve just got a puppy. He’s a ten week-old cocker spaniel called Ringo. He’s so great! I’m really looking forward to when we can all take him out for walks (he’s still got to have a couple of his jabs before we can do that). I think that will be a great way of spending some quality time together. Apart from that, I still read bedtime stories to the girls.

It’s a truly magical thing to do. That oneon-one time is so precious. I hope it never stops!

Do you have a favourite phrase/amusing habit that your children use and you hope they never grow out of?

The two youngest girls had trouble with the word “caterpillar” when they were very young.

They would say “CALERPITTAR”. It was so cute that we didn’t ever correct them. To this day they still occasionally say it. Probably not great parenting practice, but still… very sweet!

Show and Tell will be available in hardback from 8th August priced £12.99.

Families have two copies to give away to the first two people to email their details to competitions@familiestveast.co.uk Visit Rob’s website: www.robbiddulph.com or follow him on: Facebook: @robbiddulphauthor Twitter: @robbiddulph Instagram: @rbiddulph

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I’ve got into the habit of writing a message on a banana every day for school lunchboxes and I daren’t show my son your ‘packed lunch post its’! How did they come about and do they come home at the end of the day as a keepsake?

Well, it began when my youngest daughter Poppy was four and starting school. Up until that point she had been going into nursery for the mornings only, so staying on for lunch was a BIG deal. She was really nervous about it so someone had the idea of hiding an illustrated

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