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So it’s that time of year for new beginnings and aspirations for the year ahead. It’s always good to think about stretching yourself and experiencing new things in life, so, on page 4 we look at some challenges for the year ahead that could take you out of your comfort zone. You never know what you may discover.
As ever in Families, education is a key topic. In this issue, our education articles look at mentoring, shared reading and logical thinking. We are also running a double page feature on Anxiety which unfortunately, in today’s demanding society seems to be on the increase - turn to pages 12 and 13 to find out more and what you as a parent or carer can do about it.
Finally, to help beat those Winter blues do make sure you get out in the fresh air or if you can, book up something to look forward to soon. For inspiration don’t forget to check What’s On on pages 14 and 15.
We wish you a good start to 2023,
Anna & Rach
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@FamiliesWest FamiliesWest 4 New Year challenges 5-6 News & information EDUCATION 8 How logical thinking helps children achieve goals 9 Shared reading and language development 10 The importance of mentoring HEALTH 12-13 Top tips for alleviating children’s anxiety 14-15 WHAT’S ON familiesonline.co.uk editor@FamiliesWest.co.uk Families West London 3
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New Year challenges
By Claire Winter
Every New Year we are inundated with health, fitness and self-improvement messages. Often, if we do decide to challenge ourselves and make a change, we don’t feel adequately supported and quickly lose motivation. One way of addressing this is to take on a new challenge as a family. Not only do you all have to get up off the sofa but you get to spend quality time with each other too!
Does your family thrive on a bit of competition? You could make your challenge a goalorientated one. Or perhaps you have family members who want to nail screen time, healthy eating or exercise? Call a family meeting and decide which challenge will suit you all. If you can’t decide, hold a vote! Here are some challenge ideas.
Get wild
We know that spending time in nature is good for you and science backs it up. Challenge each other to name different trees on every walk you go on, see shapes in clouds, identify birdsong; whatever it takes to draw the family into the fresh air.
The RSPB has some great wild challenge suggestions for families; check out fun and learning at www.rspb.org.uk.
Reduce screen time
If you decide as a family to spend less time on devices, there are some great apps like AppDetox or AntiSocial which can help. Plan family fun as a healthier and more inclusive use of your time.
Catch me if you can
Coach Martin Sharp (www.martinsharp.com) suggests a family running challenge. ‘You could keep it simple and see how many laps of the park you can all do. But if you want to make it more exciting you could enter a Color Run (www.colorrun.co.uk) or a Tough Mudder (www.toughmudder.co.uk) says Martin. ‘Exercise doesn’t have to be the same thing day-in, day-out; with a bit of imagination it can turn into a grand adventure.’
Make a family chart and log everyone’s goals and achievements.
Eat around the world
Bored with your normal meals? Inspire yourselves by researching healthy ingredients you’ve never tried before. Then plan a family challenge to cook meals from around the world. Everyone gets to try something they’ve not eaten before.
Be mindful
In this stressful world, taking time to ‘just be’ is so important. Try some relaxing yoga and meditation every evening for just five to ten minutes, for a month. Insight Timer (www.insighttimer. com) is a free meditation app, packed with different tracks and exercises.
Use workout cards
Fitness expert Lauren Allen (www.strongasamum.co.uk) suggests using playing cards to mix up workout challenges. Allocate a movement or an exercise to each suit. For example, clubs is squats, spades is push-ups, diamonds is star jumps and hearts is high knees. Shuffle your deck and deal out the whole pack to everyone. The number on the card represents how many repetitions of the exercise you need to complete. Set a timer and whoever clears their hand in the quickest time wins the round.
Be brave
Try a new activity that stretches the family’s comfort zone, such as ice skating, wild swimming, rock climbing or paddleboarding. Set yourself an achievable goal and get started!
Ready, steady, cook!
Cook up your own version of Come Dine with Me, with the aim of making your meals healthier. Social media platforms are full of inspiring chefs whipping up feasts you can copy at home.
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Flock to Odds Farm park for ‘Cutest Event of the Year’
Running between February 11 and 19 the farm’s annual ‘Lambwatch’ event is perfectly timed for the half term holiday where guests will be able to see new lambs born over the course of the nine-day break. Visitors will have the opportunity to learn all about lambing and see newborn lambs take their first steps in the Little Hooves Lamb Nursery.
Assistant General Manager, Louise Winslow said: “We love February half term on the farm! With new lambs expected to arrive throughout the school holiday it really feels like Spring is on the way! There will be plenty of lambs to watch at Lambwatch and some lucky guests will also have the chance to see lambs being born during their visit.” The knowledgeable livestock team at Odds will also be on hand to explain lambing to little ones.
Louise adds: “Back by popular demand is our lamb-themed trail around the farm which gets families exploring the rest of the farm with a prize at the end for all the children who complete it. We will also have our arts and crafts marquee set up and we can’t wait to see everyone’s b-ewe-tiful creations.”
There is also plenty of weather-proof fun at Odds Farm Park in the indoor soft play barn, and outside all the animals will be more than pleased to meet ewe.
Visit www.oddsfarm.co.uk or like and follow @OddsFarmPark on Facebook and Instagram for all the latest news and updates.
Wear a Hat for a better future!
Wear A Hat Day, an iconic and fun annual event, is one of the UK’s most popular and family-friendly charitable fundraisers and it’s happening again on Friday, 31 March!
Running for more than ten years, this event raises millions for vital research into brain tumours – the biggest cancer killer of children and adults under the age of 40. Wear A Hat Day events help children explore their individuality and creativity, whilst learning to work together and think of others – in a really fun way.
Participation fosters friendships, creates better local and school communities, offers unique learning opportunities and provides new ways for children to explore ideas around different life experiences, all while giving hope to brain tumour patients and their loved ones. Join this event, as a family or by persuading your local school to take part. Register now for more information and your FREE fundraising pack. Just use the quick and easy webform at www.wearahatday.org
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Have you considered a bilingual nursery?
Nursery is the perfect time for children to learn an additional language, and children attending a bilingual nursery learn a new language but benefit from many other social and academic advantages. Being bilingual has a profound effect on the brain, learning a second language boosts brain capacity in areas such as creative thinking, pattern recognition, problem-solving and memory. Young learners also develop greater linguistic awareness, a better understanding of their native language and increased self-esteem. The brain of a bilingual child is regularly challenged to recognise, find meaning and communicate in multiple languages. This cognitive flexibility makes them more able to think critically and to analyse complex information. Bilingual pupils are better at shifting their perspective and understanding the world from others’ points of view, allowing them to appreciate cultural differences and to be more tolerant. Knowing another language also opens doors in the future for those who wish to work abroad.
Kensington Wade is the only bilingual Chinese-English nursery and prep school in Europe. Life in the nursery is busy, fun and actionpacked! Children follow an immersive bilingual model which allows them to be exposed to both languages for equal amounts of time. Their model imitates how children learned their first language, new vocabulary is introduced in an everyday context and within a secure environment.
To book a visit or to find out more about their unique nursery and school, visit www.kensingtonwade.com
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How To Create A Montessori Learning Environment At Home
The Montessori approach is about responding to human’s natural development and supporting children to develop physically, emotionally, mentally, and socially for themselves. Experienced Montessori teacher and mother Emma Wong Singh is a Montessori in the Home trainer at the Maria Montessori Institute, she shares some tips for creating a Montessori learning environment at home:
• Make space for the child at home by placing items at their level to make it easy for them to participate in housework. This contributes to their sense of self-worth and supports the coordination of their movements.
• Offer the child a wide variety of developmentally appropriate activities first to see where their interests lie. Which activities do they choose again and again? How can you extend the activity to offer a greater challenge? The greatest respect we can give them is to offer a further challenge after a job well-done, instead of blanket praise or a reward.
• Establish a routine and a consistent (so therefore predictable) environment for the young child. The order they see and experience in their daily life then serves to help better internalise the order they are creating mentally.
• Offer the child one activity at a time so as to encourage them to focus their attention on a single set of movements. Giving less, not more, allows the child to find what they are interested in and so seek or be offered, further challenge. It is via activities that interest them that they have the opportunity to practice and refine their skills.
• Contact with reality is all the magic a young child needs. Open the child to the wonders of nature by slowing down and pausing to listen to the rustle in the trees from a breeze or to watch the scurrying ant cross your path. As parents and carers if we see the magic in our world, then our child will too.
The Maria Montessori Institute offers Montessori teacher training and short courses and a London school with five sites in North and West London for children aged from 2½ years.
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Stepping Stones Nursery in W12 launches new day-care nursery
Bryony Dodd has been the proud owner of Stepping Stones Nursery school, W12, for over 20 years. The nursery is rated ‘Outstanding’ by Ofsted.
As an experienced Headteacher, Bryony recognises that the key to achieving consistently high standards of education, is to build evaluation into all that they offer to the children and their families. Developing their practice should the need arise, is at the centre of all that they do as a nursery.
This enabled them to quickly overcome challenges presented by the pandemic in order to safely remain open. However, once restrictions eased, it was evident the needs of families had changed. Most notably, many parents’ childcare needs were different, requiring a more tailormade combination of the best early years pre-school education, whilst offering flexibility to enable parents to work from home, or return to the office as needed.
Having listened to requests from existing parents, from January 2023 Stepping Stones are launching their new day care nursery offering a combination of pre-school, structured early-years teaching, whilst incorporating longer days from 8am - 6pm, over more weeks of the year.
If you are interested in being amongst their first intake of new families, please contact the nursery office as soon as possible, as places are already being offered.
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Put a spring in your child’s step with Perform!
Happy spring term!
Perform’s confidence-building classes are sure to blow away the winter cobwebs and help children feel energised and inspired. This term sees children aged 4 to 7 trapezing and somersaulting into a Circus Adventure whilst those aged 7 to 12 work on a fun and funky adaptation of Robin Hood, in Outlaw. Imaginations will soar as children work towards a magical performance for family and friends. Perform is not like other children’s drama schools. Its classes have a special emphasis on child development and use a mix of drama, dance and singing to bring out every child’s potential. Run by experienced actor-teachers, Perform classes focus on developing the 4 Cs: Confidence, Communication, Coordination and Concentration. With all abilities welcome, children can join at any point in the term and will take part in the performance. The only requirement is to get ready to have the best fun of the week!
Children are welcome to try a FREE class. With local venues in Acton, Chiswick, Ealing, Earls Court, Hammersmith, Kensington, Notting Hill, and Uxbridge there’s sure to be a class near you.
Find the right class and book at www.perform.org.uk/try
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How logical thinking helps children achieve goals
By Usha Patel
My 6-year-old nephew came around the other day for tea and cake. In the middle of a conversation, he loudly declared he was on his eighth ‘mini-cake.’ These were bite-sized morsels made for tiny hands. It made me chuckle that a child of just 6 years would think to measure the increasing joy that eating cake could bring! I looked down at my plate and wondered how many I had gobbled up….
However, many children don’t see patterns, numbers or the need for measuring.
A 10-year-old student I recently worked with really wanted to play football but was reluctant because she had great difficulty tying her shoelaces. I taught her how to do it in five easy steps, explaining that she would achieve her goal but that some steps might be trickier than others.
Before our work together, she had thought of tying laces as one task. By breaking down the task into a series of logical steps, she could see which parts were more complex and which were manageable. She quickly got the hang of it by paying closer attention to those bits she thought were fiddly and not feeling as frustrated as she had before.
With my instruction, she practised regularly at home and each time she would get faster at the bits she found tricky. When she returned a couple of weeks later, she boasted she could now tie her laces very quickly and insisted on showing me with her brand-new trainers.
So what does this teach us? That when tasks are broken down into logical steps, success is possible.
When a child does not apply logic and reasoning to a difficult task, how they feel about the task dominates their approach. But we can’t measure feelings in the same way we can measure steps - or even cake! They are not objective and so the cycle of frustration continues and a child reinforces an unfair bias against their own ability.
Measuring progress allows a child to see for themselves what is going wrong. They then can problem-solve, achieve success and meet their intended goal.
Logical thinking takes time to nurture but once success is achieved, parents should celebrate. Decide on another goal and repeat a similar logical process.
Usha Patel is a neurocognitive therapist who runs Raviv Practice London (www.ravivpracticelondon.co.uk).
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By Dr Jamie Lingwood
Early language development is incredibly important and sitting down to read with your child gives them a big advantage. Here are my thoughts on the ‘hows’ and ‘whys’ of shared reading.
Make it a conversation
Shared reading is so much more than simply reading books aloud from start to finish. It’s powerful as an interactive experience, creating a conversation along the way. Evidence suggests that asking children lots of open questions about books can really boost language skills. Exposure to new words builds their vocabulary and the more they hear spoken language, the more easily they can use it themselves. The earlier you start, the better their reading ages will be at school. Research has demonstrated how shared reading protects against a lot of language difficulties and delays. It can even predict how successful children could be as adults in terms of income!
Doing it your own way
Parents, grandparents, carers or sibling will each have their own reading styles; and that’s a good thing. Find the flow that comes most naturally to you, making the experience more interactive as you go along.
Picture books are a good start
Picture books with few or no words are great starting points. A good example is Hug by Jez Alborough, which simply repeats the word ‘hug’ on each page. It’s then down to the adult to create a story around this, starting a conversation with the child. Talking with them about what they see and what they think about the story naturally involves using a mix of words and grammatically structured sentences. The book becomes a prompt for children to express themselves.
Reading the same book over and over...
I hear this a lot from parents: ‘My child wants to read the same book over and over again.’ As an adult, what do you do? Do you read the book for the thirty fifth time this week or encourage
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them to read something else? A recent study suggests that reading the same book repeatedly can help with a child’s memory, in terms of building familiarity with particular words. The biggest challenge is your stamina - knowing it’s all in a good cause might help here!
When and where?
When it comes to shared reading, little and often is the way forward. You don’t have to sit down and rigidly read with your child for a set hour at a time. Five minutes here and there is just as useful, particularly when it comes to keeping them motivated.
Fit reading around what works for you and the structure of your own lives. You may well choose a time towards the end of the day when you’re settling them down for bed. But for a lot of people, that isn’t successful because, by that point, their child is too tired to engage properly. Remember it doesn’t have to be bedtime. Pick a different point in the day. Or grab five minutes when you’re travelling on the bus together, for example.
And finally…
Do it yourself! When your child sees you reading and clearly enjoying it, they will want to copy you. This will help them develop a habit that will open up a lifelong world of adventures and learning.
Dr Jamie Lingwood is a Lecturer in Psychology at Liverpool Hope University (www.hope.ac.uk/psychology) and belongs to the ChildLab research group, a group of psychologists and educators who are interested in researching how children develop and grow.
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The importance of mentoring
By Jemma Zoe Smith
There are many different strategies which enable someone to ‘be the best they can be.’ In the adult world, the two commonly debated methods are coaching and mentoring. Whilst they are often discussed together, they are in fact two different concepts. As a mentor to teens and tweens, I have often found myself wondering if mentoring would work for primary aged children?
Some in the field of education may feel that mentoring is not appropriate for children of this age. How can you mentor someone who is just getting to grips with learning, formulating their ideas and their opinions?
However, mentoring can be very effective in instilling a love of learning, enabling open discussion and promoting self awareness at an early age. At its most simple, a mentor is ‘an experienced person who advises and helps somebody with less experience over a period of time’ 1. This period could be whilst a young child gets used to a new classroom or a change in family circumstances.
A mentor offers advice, using the benefit of their experience but always taking into account the fact that the child is an individual and that their background and experiences in life may be very different to that of the mentor’s.
Mentors do not have to be adults - instead, mentoring can be a peer-to-peer setup, with volunteer opportunities galore for schools to trial peer to peer encouragement and support techniques. Mentoring is about helping a child to recognise their true qualities and abilities, rather than moulding them into something that is not true to themselves.
If a child is interested in sports, a good mentor will connect with them, using this interest, even if it isn’t necessarily a shared interest between them. A mentor guides but also allows a mentee to discover who they are.
Having a mentor or studying in an environment such as a classroom with a mentoring ethos can help children to get to know themselves and make sense of the world in which they find themselves.
In the age of social media, with an ever-increasing number of platforms telling children who they should be, I think mentoring is more important than ever to help children peel back the curtain and feel as if they have the permission to be their own person.
Jemma Zoe Smith is Director of The Education Hotel (www.educationhotel.co.uk).
Can a family member be a mentor?
A mentor can be any trusted person to whom a child can take their worries and work through them without fear of judgement. A child who has someone sensible to talk to, someone with whom to process their emotions and someone who helps them to build their self-esteem will undoubtedly cope better when problems occur, particularly in the school environment.
As a child gets older, they will experience more competitive situations such as sporting events and school entrance exams and having a mentor will help them become more skilled at coping with the stresses that these events bring.
When a child demonstrates seemingly negative behaviours, it is often because there has been a breakdown in their ability to communicate their feelings somewhere along the line. This could be because they are unsure how to articulate these feelings or not confident of being understood. So the increased resilience that comes with being supported by another family member can help with this.
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Ten top tips for alleviating children’s anxiety
By Claire Moreau
Parenting is often marvellous and rewarding but it’s also complex, especially if your child is struggling with anxiety and you are unsure what to do next. Families asked Claire Moreau, a qualified mindfulness teacher, to share her tips for lessening children’s anxiety. Don’t be deceived by the simplicity of these…try putting them into practice – they do work!
Avoid fuelling anxiety
Children absorb emotions like sponges and if they don’t know how to manage them, they can feel frustrated, powerless and overwhelmed. Overhearing the news or emotionally-charged adult conversation can fuel children’s anxiety. Teenagers can be alarmed by news threads on social media. Besides climate change and Covid, younger generations are now worrying about the war in Ukraine and its potential consequences.
Top tip: Avoid watching/listening to the news with young children; talk to teenagers about the news threads they follow; keep adult conversation amongst adults. Without altogether avoiding sensitive topics, discussions can be held within families in an age-appropriate way.
Encourage children to express feelings
Children are more likely to express their feelings when they sense that we are fully available. Sitting in an area they pass by when returning from school or a weekend activity and gently inviting them to join us can be a start.
Teenagers might be more reluctant than young children to express how they feel. Letting them know that we’re ready to welcome whatever troubles them might not produce an immediate result, but, in time, it can prompt them to open up.
Top tip: tell them they have the right to feel overwhelmed or stressed – ‘it’s okay not to be okay.’ Listen intently to them without moving into ‘fix-it mode.’ Sometimes they just need a steady, listening ear.
Be fully present
Mobile phones are part of our lives and essential communication devices. Yet, the alerts and notifications keep us constantly looking at them and family members often have to compete.
Being fully present with the activity or conversation we’re having with our children - without being distracted by mobile phones - demonstrates that we value ‘real’ time together over virtual communication with other people and that we are fully available.
Top tip: at mealtimes, get everyone to put their phones away for a set length of time.
Limit screen time
Research has found that too much screen time can lead to mental health issues in children, such as anxiety and depression. Most children prefer electronic media to playing and interacting with family and peers, which impacts their social development.
Monitor screen time, ensure the content is age-appropriate, communicate with children about inappropriate images and model healthy device habits.
Top tip: playing board games, reading and listening to music are great alternatives. Ask your kids to help you discover their musical tastes – this can lead to rich intergenerational conversations!
Offer reassurance
Small steps can go a long way. If they worry about the future, bring them back to the present moment—’right here, right now, with you, all is well.’ Tell them that you love them no matter what. These are both pillars of mindfulness.
Create a family routine that dissolves their worries even if only for a short time - in my family, every other Friday evening, homemade pizza is sacred. We catch up while cooking, then we watch a film together.
Top tip: Empower them by doing something as a family to help the situation they are worrying about – for instance, organise a car boot sale or a family run to raise money for charity.
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Spend time in nature
The term nature-deficit disorder (NDD) was coined by Richard Louv in his 2005 book Last Child in the Woods. NDD can contribute to many problems, including higher rates of physical and emotional illnesses. The good news is it can easily be reversed. Spending time in nature is easier than we think: village greens, parks, commons and nature reserves abound in the UK. They provide the perfect setting for free family activities: walking, cycling, playing frisbee or racket sports helps lift the mood; watching nature’s life cycle is always a treat.
Top tip: Swap a meal indoors for a picnic, yes, even if it is cold! Nothing beats a good walk or cycle ride before returning home to a hot drink or meal.
Struggling to fall asleep?
With little ones, creating a comforting, wind down routine can help (reading a book together, listening to soothing music).
With teenagers, blocking the mobile phone at a set time is recommended. Finally, at all ages, placing hands on the belly, breathing easily and focusing on the breath, following the gentle movement of the belly that rises and falls. Counting the breath to ten (inone, out – two, in – three, out – four etc) over and over can quieten a busy mind.
Top tip: whatever their ages, no screens before bedtime. If, despite your best intentions and care, your child’s behaviour or anxiety level becomes worrying, it is best to seek medical advice. GPs can refer a child to a psychologist or occupational therapist with training in mental health.
Top tip: getting support for yourself while you’re supporting your children is critical. Charities like www.youngminds.org.uk run a parent’s helpline and provide free advice and support.
Claire has over ten years of meditation and yoga practice and three years of experience teaching mindfulness. She is particularly interested in how mindfulness can help parents and children develop well-being and cultivate emotional resilience, kindness and compassion. For more information on her courses, visit www.bridgemakermindfulness.com
There are many mindfulness apps/recorded meditations for adults and children which may help them to relax and unwind. However, nothing compares with attending a course with a qualified mindfulness teacher. Such a course teaches key mindfulness skills that help children and adults identify and manage emotions, improve concentration, relax and strengthen inner resources. Parents and children can benefit from simple exercises that help establish a strong mindfulness practice.
Top tip: children’s courses are only taught in person but many adults courses are now delivered on Zoom so it is easier to fit them around family life.
Reading not only provides a good alternative to screen time but it’s also relaxing. A 2009 study from the University of Sussex has found that reading can reduce stress by up to sixty eight percent. Just six minutes of relaxing into a good book can lower blood pressure and muscle tension. It’s a great distraction technique.
Top tip: reading can also become a special family moment—older children can read a story to younger siblings or parent and child can each read a page aloud.
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DAILY UNTIL FEBRUARY 25
ICE SKATING, CANARY WHARF
Canada Square Park, Canary Wharf, London, E14 5AB www.icerinkcanarywharf.co.uk
UNTIL APRIL 16
THE BABY SHOW
Unicorn Theatre, 147 Tooley St SE1 2HZ 6-18 months. Sensory performance with images and sounds to keep little ones rapt. www.unicorntheatre.com/events/baby-show
JanuarySATURDAY 7 AND SATURDAY JANUARY 21
DUCK POND MARKET
Chiswick House, Burlington lane, W4 2RP www.chiswickhouseandgardens.org.uk/whatson/duck-pond-market
TUESDAY 10 AND TUESDAY JANUARY 24
ADVENTURE BABIES
Natural History Museum, Cromwell road SW7 5BD
Sensory storytelling class designed to boost baby’s development and nurture a love for books. www.nhm.ac.uk/events/adventure-babies
SATURDAY JANUARY 28
WOODLAND TALES WITH GRANDAD
Lyric Hammersmith Theatre, Lyric Square, King St W6 0QL Age 3+ www.lyric.co.uk/shows/woodland-tales-withgranddad
SATURDAY JAN 28 AND SATURDAY FEB 4
COSTUME ILLUSTRATION WORKSHOP
Art Studio, Learning Centre, V&A, SW7 2RL £12, age 7-13 www.vam.ac.uk/event/4GreZwO3vKn/makeit-costume-illustration-jan-feb-2023
TUESDAY JANUARY 31
MATILDA THE MUSICAL
Beck Theatre, Hayes UB3 2UE Film rated PG. 7.30pm www.becktheatre.org.uk/Online/tickets-filmmatilda-the-musical-hayes-2023
February
SATURDAY FEBRUARY 4
MISCHIEF AND MYSTERY IN MOOMIN VALLEY
Lyric Hammersmith Theatre, Lyric Square, King St W6 0QL
Age 4-7 www.lyric.co.uk/shows/mischief-and-mysteryin-moomin-valley
SATURDAY 4 AND SATURDAY FEBRUARY 18
DUCK
POND MARKET
Chiswick House, Burlington lane, W4 2RP www.chiswickhouseandgardens.org.uk/whatson/duck-pond-market
TUESDAY 7 AND TUESDAY FEBRUARY 21
ADVENTURE BABIES
Natural History Museum, Cromwell road SW7 5BD
Sensory storytelling class designed to boost baby’s development and nurture a love for books. www.nhm.ac.uk/events/adventure-babies
WEDNESDAY 8 TO SATURDAY FEBRUARY 18
IMAGINE CHILDREN’S FESTIVAL
Southbank Centre SE1 8XX www.southbankcentre.co.uk
SATURDAY FEBRUARY 11
MARY ANNING AND THE SANDS OF TIME
Lyric Hammersmith Theatre, Lyric Square, King St W6 0QL
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Join our creative family workshops this February half-term Booking opens in January foundlingmuseum.org.uk Russell Square What’s On? Please email editor@familieswest.co.uk with any events. Event times and dates do change, please try and check that an event is still going ahead before you head out. For the littlest theatre lovers, explore our Spring 2023 Season, on sale now. New shows every Saturday and half-term Tickets from £8 Lyric Hammersmith Theatre presents Lyric Hammersmith Theatre Lyric Square, King Street London, W6 0QL 020 8741 6850 / www.lyric.co.uk
Join Mary Anning and her little dog Tray on this wonderful adventure of science and discovery! Age 3+ www.lyric.co.uk/shows/mary-anning-and-thesands-of-time
SATURDAY 11 TO SUNDAY FEBRUARY 19
MEET THE NEWBORN LAMBS
Odds Farm Park, Wooburn Green HP10 0LX Meet newborn lambs taking their first steps in the Little Hooves Lamb Nursery www.oddsfarm.co.uk
SATURDAY 11 TO SUNDAY FEBRUARY 19
HUNTING TREASURES
Windsor Castle Learning Centre, Windsor Castle SL4 1NJ
Create some fabulous treasures before heading to The Castle to hunt for the real thing. 10am3pm.Free upon admission to the Castle.
MONDAY 13 TO THURSDAY FEBRUARY 16
JTL FOOTBALL
CLUB
SCHOOL HOLIDAY CAMP
St Charles Sixth Form College, W10
Coaching staff have experience at premier teams – Paris Saint Germain, Crystal Palace FC and RC Lens. All about fun, learning and great football skills! After School Football Club also available. Free trials too - so you can try before joining. contact@jtlfcacademy.com www.jtlfcacademy.com
TUESDAY 14 TO SATURDAY FEBRUARY 18
BURGLAR BILL
Lyric Hammersmith Theatre, Lyric Square, King St W6 0QL Age 3+ www.lyric.co.uk/shows/burglar-bill
MONDAY 13 AND SATURDAY FEBRUARY 18
MORNING STARS
Royal Observatory, Blackheath Ave, London SE10 8XJ
These shows are designed for those who would enjoy relaxed, calm entertainment, for example those with ASD. www.rmg.co.uk/whats-on/royal-observatory/ morning-stars
TUESDAY
14 AND WEDNESDAY FEBRUARY 15
OUT OF THIS WORLD: MARS
Royal Observatory, Blackheath Ave, London SE10 8XJ
www.rmg.co.uk/whats-on/royal-observatory/ out-world-mars
TUESDAY 14 TO FRIDAY FEBRUARY 17
CHILDREN’S WORKSHOPS
The Foundling Museum, 40 Brunswick Square WC1N 1AZ
Re-make & animate history with their artists & makers through a range of imaginative workshops inspired by their Tiny Traces exhibition. www.foundlingmuseum.org.uk/event/halfterm-workshops
SATURDAY FEBRUARY 25
TOM THUMB
Lyric Hammersmith Theatre, Lyric Square, King St W6 0QL
Age 3+ www.lyric.co.uk/shows/tom-thumb
MONDAY 13 TO WEDNESDAY FEBRUARY 15
SATURDAY FEBRUARY 25
STEP
INTO THE MAGIC OF NARNIA WITH PERFORM THIS HALF-TERM
Kensington URC, Allen St W8 6BL
The Tabernacle, 35 Powis Square, W11 2AY A drama, dance and singing adventure for 4-10s awaits on the other side of the wardrobe this February half-term in a holiday course based on The Lion, the Witch & the Wardobe. With magical creatures and a triumphant royal victory, this production is the perfect half-term treat. Age range: 4-10 years. Three day courses from 10am to 3pm each day.
T: 020 7255 9120 / enquiries@perform.org.uk www.perform.org.uk/lion
ALICE IN WONDERLAND EXPERIENCE
Southbank
Escape room style experience. Start times are between 9am and 2pm from a secret starting location emailed to you ahead of time www.cluedupp.com/products/alice-southbank-london-february
SUNDAY FEBRUARY 26
COPPELIA
Beck Theatre, Hayes UB3 2UE
English Youth Ballet. Performances at 2.30pm and 7pm www.becktheatre.org.uk/Online/tickets-coppelia-hayes-2023
Clubs, Classes and Activities
If you are looking for a new club for your child, want to help them burn off some excess energy, or find a new hobby, below are some great suggestions for you to check out! When you call please don’t forget to say you saw them in Families West London Magazine.
West London Dance Academy www.westlondondanceacademy.com
Classes in Ballet, Tap & Contemporary Modern Jazz.
Exams and Shows.
Venue: WLDA Dance Annex, Chiswick W4 4NL Contact: 07795578781 email: natalieparnell.wlda@gmail.com
WEST LONDON DANCE ACADEMY
Perform - www.perform.org.uk/try
Weekly Classes with Perform!
Confidence building weekly drama, dance and singing classes for 4-7s and 7-12s. Classes are designed to boost confidence, communication, concentration and coordination. Visit www.perform.org.uk/try, email enquiries@perform.org.uk or call 020 7255 9120 to book a FREE trial class in one of the following venues:
• St. Peter’s Hall, 59a Portobello Rd, Notting Hill W11 3DB
• St. Paul’s Church Hall, Ridley Ave, Ealing W13 9XW
• St. Barnabas Millenium Hall, Pitshanger Lane, Ealing W5 1QG
• The Advent Centre, 37 Brendan St, Marylebone W1H 5JE
• Masbro Children’s Centre, 87 Masbro Rd, Brook Green W14 0LR
• St. Michael’s Hall, Elmwood Road, Chiswick W4 3DY
• Christ Church W4 Mission Hall, Cunnington St, Chiswick Park W4 5ER
• Holy Innocents Church, Paddenswick Rd, Hammersmith W6 0UB
• Kensington United Reformed Church, Allen St W8 6BL
• NEW St Mary’s Acton, 1 The Mount W3 9NW
• NEW St. Phillips Church Hall, Earls Court Rd W8 6QH
• NEW Christ Church Watts Hall, Redford Way, Belmont Rd UB8 1SZ
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IMAGINE CHILDREN’S
FESTIVAL Dive into the best children’s t heatre, literature and music, with plenty of workshops and free events for everyone Draw, write, read, play, sing, dance and create For ages 0-11 Book ahead for shows such as The Very Hungry Caterpillar, The adventures of Supertato and The Curious Scrapbook of Josephine Bean amongst many others See website for more details
UNICORN THEATRE
SE1 2HZ
www unicorntheatre com 31 Jan-1 Mar THE BEE IN ME- LET’S FLY AWAY One ordinary boy living an ordinary life Every day the same: parents still asleep, late again for school, can’t find his clean trousers But today is different Today is a game Today he has wings Fly out of your room Congratulations! Level two Get dressed, find breakfast, don’t wake your parents, get to school, reach level three, keep going Don’t get flattened Level four Full of warmth and sorrow, dreamlike and kaleidoscopic, it celebrates a child discovering inner resources - resilience,
determination and ingenuity - and finding a kind of freedom For ages 8-12
As you sit together in the cosy space, share in your baby’s excitement at the building anticipation of Christmas Day and all things present-related - including the very best bit: crumpling, rumpling and scrunching that wrapping paper! Ushers will be on hand to look after you, and highchairs, babychanging and bottle-warming facilities are available For ages 6-18 months
CONCERTS
BACH TO BABY
www bachtobaby com/londonnorth
All concerts at 10 30am
27 Jan, 17 Feb in Notting Hill
(St John's Church, Lansdowne Crescent, W11)
17 Jan, 21 Feb in Chiswick
(St Michael and All Angels, Bath Road, W4)
15 Jan, 19 Feb in Kensington
(Saint Stephen's Church, Gloucester Road SW7)
8 Feb in Ealing
(Haven Green Baptist Church, 2 Castlebar Road, W5)
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