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March 2019

VOLUME 6 | ISSUE 8

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Outback Deck

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Body Language Communicating Without Words

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Spring Cleaning and Decluttering Tips

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.......................... Perspective

................ Woodstock Minute

.............................. Calendar

......................... Book Review

................... Sheriff Reynolds

.................... Community Life

................... Senator Speaks

............... Community Partner

......................... Artist Profile

.................... Ribbon Cuttings

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If we cut through our prejudices, motivations, and biases and choose to look at the facts over our personal emotions, we can find or create more common ground on which to solve our differences. In doing so, we will be able to reach more comfortable places of compromise and clarity and progress closer to a solution for real problems at hand. We are, in fact, all in this together. Life is a lot more fun when we all play well together.

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We need to shield ourselves against motivated reasoning. I’m not much of a sports fan, but one can easily begin motivated reasoning during a sporting event. Penalty calls or a close play at the plate or the goal line can spark a heated debate. If the call is in your team’s favor, it’s, “Oh, that’s a good call, good call!” If not, the fans are like, “What? No way! C’mon!” Each side will attempt to make a point that is motivated by feeling over fact. Be cautious of that. Resist those motivated reasonings. Seek truth over bias.

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Enter every conversation or debate with the presumption that you have something to learn. Listen not with the intent to reply but to better understand. Be curious and open minded. Be prepared to find out amazing things about people, and in turn, be amazed at what can happen as a result.

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Steven Anderson, Shannon Barnes, James B. Depew, Joshua Fuder, Corey Harkins, Lisa-Marie Haygood, Bonnie Medford, Tim Morris, Savanna Morrison, Vishant Nath, Michael Petrosky, Preston Pooser, Frank Reynolds, Andy Rogers, Tracey Satterfield, Sen. Bruce Thompson, Katie Wise, Ferdinand Yates, Farris Yawn

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ood conversation should leave us feeling fulfilled and appreciated. We each like to walk away inspired and motivated while relishing the moment. Sometimes though, not so much. It seems that even the two basic safety stops, the weather and our health, are topics that are up for debate with issues like global warming and vaccinations. The reality of a conversation without fear of an argument may be slipping away. So, let’s embrace the discomfort and use it to everyone’s advantage.

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Woodstock Minute

Not Your Average Senior Center By Preston Pooser

he William G. Long Senior Center is a place where members expand their experiences and enjoy life through daily interactions, activities, special interest classes, and trips. By providing an inviting and comfortable environment for 630 members, the staff strives to make each senior feel welcome and at home every day. Members enjoy many fun weekly activities, especially line dancing, exercise classes, billiards, woodcarving, and various card and board games. An extensive library on site and two computer stations provide members with a place to read, research on the internet, and email friends and family. The Center also offers weekly special interest classes such as bridge, Mahjongg, painting, weight loss classes, sewing, knitting, and crocheting. In addition, members may attend ongoing informational/educational programs and classes on a variety of subjects, including an A.A.R.P. driver safety class, internet safety, wills and probate, and senior health issues. For members who are interested in traveling with the companionship of other seniors, the Center offers a variety of day trips. The most popular are Atlanta Braves games, Atlanta United Soccer games, concerts, museums, botanical gardens, historical sites, and attractions in and outside of Georgia. For active and adventurous members, the Center organizes more extreme activities like white water rafting, zip lining, and later this year — sky diving. The dedicated staff works closely with professional tour companies to plan and facilitate one, or more, extended-stay tours each year. In the past, members have enjoyed charter bus tours to Washington, D.C.; Branson, MO; Niagara Falls; Pennsylvania’s Amish Country; and Ashville, NC. Longer trips have included cruises to Mexico, the Bahamas, and Alaska, and an Amtrak train trip to New Orleans. The most adventurous trip will happen later this year when a group of seniors will travel to Hawaii. Members come together throughout the year to celebrate holiday traditions and parties such as Black History Month, Valentine’s Day, St. Patrick’s Day, Mother’s Day, Father’s Day, Halloween, Veterans Day, Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year’s Eve. Located at 223 Arnold Mill Road, the William G. Long Senior Center is open Monday through Friday from 9:00am-4:00pm. For additional information or to tour the facility, please call 678-445-6518. You can also find information by visiting the website at WoodstockParksAndRec.com or the Facebook page at Facebook.com/Woodstock.Senior.Center.

Preston Pooser is director of Parks and Recreation for the City of Woodstock. 770-517-6788

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Somebunny Special — Cherokee Recreation and Parks Association collects Easter baskets each year, which will be delivered to children in need throughout Cherokee County. Their goal is to reach 300 children (150 boys and 150 girls). All baskets must be pre‐ filled. You may purchase a pre-made basket, or create a basket with your own personal touch. Baskets should have Easter‐related items only (i.e. candy, stuffed animals, toys, etc.). Donations may be dropped off during regular business hours at the Recreation Center, 7545 Main Street, Building 200, Woodstock. LCollett@CherokeeGa.com. CRPA.net

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The Tour of the Southern Highlands Cycling Stage Race — This is the only race of this caliber east of the Rocky Mountains. There will be fun events and race viewing opportunities throughout the weekend. Various times, Woodstock and Ball Ground. ClippedIn. bike/event/2019-tour-of-the-southernhighlands-racing-trip

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Cherokee County Board of Education Elementary School Student Art Show — Peruse an exhibit of artwork created by many Cherokee County schoolchildren. An opening reception will be held March 7. Tuesday-Friday 11:00am-5:00pm and Saturday 12:00-5:00pm, Cherokee Arts Center Gallery, 94 North Street, Canton. 770-704-6244. CherokeeArts.org

Sleeping Beauty Story Time — Sleeping Beauty will read a story, meet and greet guests, as well as pose for pictures. This event is free to attend. Book purchase is appreciated. 11:00am, FoxTale Book Shoppe, 105 E. Main Street, Suite 138, Woodstock. 770-516-9989. FoxTaleBookShoppe.com

ONGOING March Is Women’s History Month — The large majority of ancient cultures were patriarchal, and they practiced customs that held women in low esteem and limited their freedom. Through the centuries, many courageous women have stepped forward to fight inequality and to champion causes for the benefit of society. Their work to break down barriers has allowed future generations of women to pass through without resistance.

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Author Donna Everhart — The author will present her new book, The Forgiving Kind. 2:00pm, FoxTale Book Shoppe, 105 E. Main Street, Suite 138, Woodstock. 770-516-9989. FoxTaleBookShoppe.com

CCEF 5th Annual Celebration of Education Gala Fundraiser — This black-tie night includes dinner, the “CCSD’s Got Talent” Student Talent Show,

silent auction, and special recognitions of outstanding alumni and educators. The Cherokee County Educational Foundation is a charitable (501c3) nonprofit organization dedicated to supporting the students and staff of the Cherokee County School District by promoting teaching and learning and celebrating achievements. 6:30pm cocktail reception and silent auction, 7:30pm dinner, awards, and entertainment, Northside Hospital

Papa's Pantry Volunteer With Your Kids Volunteer with your kids on the second Saturday of every month. Space is limited, and preregistratiion is available. 9:3011:00am, Papa’s Pantry, 6551 Commerce Parkway, Woodstock. 770-591-4730. PapasPantry.org Free CPR/AED Certification Class — On the last Saturday of each month, this fundraiser benefits the Hickory Flat Volunteer Association. Donations are appreciated ($75 value). Preregistration is required. 9:00am-12:00pm, Cherokee County Fire Station 23, 7625 Vaughn Road, Canton. 770-406-6657. HFVA.org/ Class-Registration.php

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Cherokee Conference Center, 1130 Bluffs Parkway, Canton. 770-704-4213. CherokeeCountyEducationalFoundation. org/category/events

iThink Improv — This fun show is back and ready to get audiences rolling down the aisle with laughter. 8:00-9:00pm, City Center Auditorium, 8534 Main Street, Woodstock. 678-494-4251. ElmStreetArts.org

Author Greg Iles — The author will present his new book, Cemetery Road. 2:00pm, FoxTale Book Shoppe, 105 E. Main Street, Suite 138, Woodstock. 770-516-9989. FoxTaleBookShoppe.com

Cherokee Career Expo — Hosted by the Cherokee Office of Economic Development and the Georgia Department of Labor, the annual Cherokee

Career Expo attracts more than 40 of Cherokee's top employers and provides job seekers with on-site resume review assistance. 2:00-6:00pm, Northside Cherokee Conference Center, 1130 Bluffs Parkway, Canton. 770-345-0600. CherokeeGa.org

Volunteer Aging Council (VAC) Fundraising Luncheon — Support VAC programs and get a wonderful lunch for only $5! Bring a friend, coworker, family member, or yourself, and enjoy a tasty lunch while supporting the seniors and veterans of Cherokee County. Stay and eat, or pick up and go. RSVP the location, so the amazing chefs can be prepared for all who come to support. 11:30am-

1:00pm, Benton House, 3385 Trickum Road, Woodstock. 678-230-4067. VACCherokeeGa.org

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Of Mice and Men — This is the classic story of George Milton and Lennie Small, two displaced migrant ranch workers, who move from place to place in California in search of new job opportunities during the Great Depression. Friday/Saturday 7:30pm and American Craft Show Sunday 2:30pm, City Center — As one of the largest Auditorium, 8534 Main Street, juried fine craft shows in the Southeast, Woodstock. 678-494-4251. this event features 250 of the country’s ElmStreetArts.org top contemporary craft artists, specializing in everything from handmade ceramics to fine jewelry, apparel, furniture, home decor, and textiles. Friday 10:00am8:00pm, Saturday 10:00am-6:00pm, and Sunday 11:00am-5:00pm, Cobb Galleria Centre, Two Galleria Parkway SE, Atlanta. The Lunch Circuit — The CraftCouncil.org/atlanta third Wednesday of March,

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Morning INfluence — On the last Friday of the month (except November and December), breakfast is served! Enjoy this monthly morning networking event, which includes a brief presentation that focuses on updates given by greater Woodstock or Cherokee County officials on important issues or services offered that affect the community. 8:00-9:00am, Chambers at City Center, 8534 Main Street, Woodstock. 770-592-6056. InWDSTK.org/events

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Parent’s Night Out Drop the kids off at the pool, so you can enjoy adult time. Kids will play in the pool, enjoy a pizza dinner, do crafts, play games, and end the night with a movie. 5:30-10:00pm, Cherokee Aquatic Center, 1200 Wellstar Way, Canton. 678-8804760. CRPA.net

entrepreneurs can meet other local entrepreneurs, both current and aspiring, share a meal, and learn their story. At each Lunch Circuit, a different entrepreneur will be interviewed regarding wins, losses, and lessons learned on their adventure. Event cost is $20/ person and includes lunch, community, and the program. Seats are limited to 30 people. 11:30am-1:00pm, The Circuit, 1 Innovation Way, Woodstock. 770-3450600. CircuitWoodstock.com

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Cherokee Chorale Concert, Arise — The Cherokee Chorale continues its 31st season with a performance of A High Lonesome Bluegrass Mass and other American music. Gainesville's own Chuck Nation Band, veterans of both Carnegie Hall and the Ryman Auditorium, will be featured in this exciting performance. Adults $15, students $5. 3:00pm, Canton First United Methodist Church, 930 Lower Scott Mill Road, Canton. 614-302-0160. CherokeeChorale.org

Agriculture Expo — Enjoy visiting over 30 different agriculture display booths. This event is FREE and open to the public. Farmer Sue and TheArtBarn Crew from Morning Glory Farm will be there with several furry/ feathery friends to celebrate art, animals, agriculture, and education. Locally grown foods, plants, animals, and hand-crafted products will be available. Farmers Markets, 4-H, Future Farmers of America, and Master Gardeners will be on hand and will offer several gardening classes. 4:00-7:00pm, Hickory Flat Fellowship Church, 5301 Hickory Flat Highway, Canton. 770-479-1481 x0.

Cherokee Recreation and Parks Association Cornhole Tournament — Cornhole is a fun game played by tailgaters across America. Teams of two compete in a double elimination tournament. $50. 6:30pm, Recreation Center Gym, 7545 Main Street, Building 200, Woodstock. CThomas@CherokeeGa.com. CRPA.net

Authors Jolina Petersheim & Lauren Denton — These authors will present their latest novels: How the Light Gets In and Glory Road. 6:30pm, FoxTale Book Shoppe, 105 E. Main Street, Suite 138, Woodstock. 770-5169989. FoxTaleBookShoppe.com IN Season Committee Meeting — This committee creates projects that help activate and beautify the Woodstock community. They meet monthly to discuss plantings, seasonal decor, tactical urbanism, and engagement events. 6:00-7:00pm, IN WDSTK Office, 1 Innovation Way, Woodstock. 770-5926056. InWDSTK.org

ONGOING Where do I find it?

Brew HaHa — Belly laughs + beer on tap with iThink Improv! Join local performers for improv games. 7:00-8:30pm, Reformation Brewery, 105 Elm Street, Woodstock. 678-341-0828. ReformationBrewery.com

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Creative Problem-Solvers — Every first and third Tuesday of the month, meet up with this gathering of local entrepreneurs and innovators dedicated to crowdsourcing solutions to their business problems in a community brain trust rather than alone. 7:00-8:30am, The Circuit, 1 Innovation Way, Woodstock. 770-345-0600. CircuitWoodstock.com

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Wag & Walk — For $5 per dog, enjoy a 1-mile walk, doggie treat bag, and breakfast items for sale. Dogs must be up to date on shots, no female dogs in heat, and unruly dogs will be asked to leave. Preregistration is required. 9:00am, Pawtriots (Patriots) Park, 1485 Kellogg Creek Road, Acworth. LCollett@ CherokeeGa.com. CRPA.net

Woodstock WordPress Meetup — Every first and third Wednesday of the month, meet up with fellow business professionals to discuss this popular internet tool. 11:30am-1:00pm, The Circuit, 1 Innovation Way, Woodstock. 770-345-0600. CircuitWoodstock.com Women’s Entrepreneur Meetup — Every third Friday of the month, meet with current and aspiring fellow businesswomen to take action and hold each other accountable for stated goals. This is not a lead exchange or a referral program. 11:30am-1:00pm, The Circuit, 1 Innovation Way, Woodstock. 770-3450600. CircuitWoodstock.com

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Eclipse Glow Run 5K - Glow in the Park — Team Eclipse is the competitive gymnastics team from 360 Tumble and Gymnastics in Holly Springs. They serve more than 700 families and raise funds annually to support their efforts to grow as gymnasts as well as serve the community with service projects and raise money for various causes. A portion of the proceeds of this race will benefit CURE Childhood Cancer Association. 7:00-10:30pm, Cherokee Veterans Park, 7345 Cumming Highway, Canton. Active.com/canton-ga/running/distancerunning/eclipse-glow-run-5k-glow-in-the-park-2019

Author Susan Meissner — The author will present her new book, The Last Year of the War. 2:00pm, FoxTale Book Shoppe, 105 E. Main Street, Suite 138, Woodstock. 770-516-9989. FoxTaleBookShoppe.com

Mastermind — This quarterly series offers FREE learning opportunities to IN WDSTK investors, and it is aimed at providing information and idea sharing for business leaders. If you are not currently an investor, please register as a guest. $10. 8:00-9:30am, The Chambers at City Center, 8534 Main Street, Woodstock. 770-592-6056. InWDSTK.org

semi-dwarf apple trees that they grafted. Participants can bring their own scion material but should contact Josh Fuder at JFuder@UGA.edu early, as material will need to be collected and stored prior to the class. Classes are limited to 30 people, so early registration is required. $30. 2:00-4:30pm and 5:30-8:00pm, Ball Ground Community Center, 250 Civic Drive, Ball Ground. 770-721-7803. Extension.UGA.edu/calendar.html

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SPLISH SPLASH Break Camp — Camp includes lots of pool fun, arts and crafts, off-site field trips, and more! To attend camp, children must be able to pass a 25-yard, deep water swim test with no assistance. 7:30-9:00am drop off, 9:00am-4:00pm camp activities, 4:00-6:00pm pick-up, Cherokee County Aquatic Center, 1200 Wellstar Way, Canton. 678-880-4760. CRPA.net

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Women Who Code — Every fourth Wednesday of the month, all experience levels and languages are welcome — from newbie to guru. This is a great place to dedicate some quality time to learn a new language or work on a new project. 6:00-8:00pm, The Circuit, 1 Innovation Way, Woodstock. 770-345-0600. CircuitWoodstock.com

9:00am, Semper Fi Bar and Grille, 9770 Main Street, Woodstock. 770-672-0026.

Detachment 1311 — Every third Saturday of the month, veterans share their firsthand war experiences, which are then used as editorial research data to assist others. The Woodstock Detachment #1311 is chartered as a subsidiary organization of the Marine Corps League.

Square Dancing — On the second and fourth Friday of each month, enjoy square dancing with the Cherokee Squares. 8:00-10:00pm, Woodstock Jaycee Hall, 216 Rope Mill Road, Woodstock. 404-4083180 or 901-337-5330. CherokeeSquares. com

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YPOW A.M. Coffee — Each Thursday morning, join Young Professionals of Woodstock for coffee and networking. 7:00am, Copper Coin Coffee, 400 Chambers Street, Woodstock. 770-5926056. InWDSTK.org/events

1 Million Cups — The second and fourth Wednesday of the month, attend this FREE, nationwide program designed to educate, engage, and accelerate early-stage startups. The notion is that entrepreneurs can discover solutions and thrive when they collaborate over a million cups of coffee. Drop in on this community of innovators to connect with and support local startups. 9:00-10:00am, the first Wednesday is at The Circuit, 1 Innovation Way, Woodstock; check the online schedule for the location of the third Wednesday, which changes monthly. InWDSTK.org/events

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SequoyahRegionalLibrary.org HICKORY FLAT 2740 East Cherokee Drive, Canton, 770-345-7565 ROSE CREEK 4476 Towne Lake Parkway, Woodstock, 770-591-1491 WOODSTOCK 7735 Main Street, Woodstock, 770-926-5859 MUSIC AND MOVES March 6, 10:30am, Hickory Flat Get moving and grooving with friends from Go Noodle. It’ll be a dance party to remember! Experience parachute play, music, gross motor skills, and storytelling in one actionpacked hour. Children 9 and under must be accompanied by an adult. BASIC CPR CLASS March 9, 10:30am, Hickory Flat Learn basic CPR and how to operate an AED. This noncertified class is led by Pennie Lamanac, a sergeant from Cherokee County Fire & Emergency Services with 36 years of experience. CURIOUS KIDS SCIENCE CLUB March 11, 4:00pm, Rose Creek Find out what a magnet is and how magnetic fields work. This is for grades K-5; children must be accompanied by an adult. Registration is required by calling 770-591-1491. TEEN LIBRARY SCAVENGER HUNT March 12, 6:00pm, Woodstock Teens in grades 6-12 are invited to a scavenger hunt and to play Book Cover BINGO for books and other cool prizes. VIRTUAL AUTHOR VISIT — MARTHA HALL KELLY March 14, 11:00am, Rose Creek Listen to bestselling author Martha Hall Kelly discuss the history-making women in her novel Lilac Girls and the upcoming release of the prequel Lost Roses during this author chat and Q&A session. POP-UP PI PARTY March 14, 6:00pm, Rose Creek Celebrate Pi Day with the library’s new Raspberry Pi computers. This is for grades 5+. Registration is required by calling 770-591-1491.

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PROJECT PINTEREST March 17, 3:00pm, Woodstock Explore Pinterest-inspired creative projects at the library. BOOK DISCUSSION GROUP March 19, 12:00pm, Woodstock Enjoy coffee, conversation, and a book discussion with new friends. This month’s selection is The Great Alone by Kristin Hannah. All ages are welcome; new members are encouraged. MANGA CLUB March 19, 5:00pm, Hickory Flat Teens are encouraged to read and discuss different manga series and related topics. This month, read and discuss My Hero Academia, draw characters, and compete in manga/ anime-inspired group games. SEQUOYAH-CON March 23, All Day, Woodstock The Sequoyah Regional Library System presents a free mini convention featuring popular fandoms, panels, activities, and programs. All ages are welcome to participate in scheduled events that will take place.

Friday Night Live — Thanks to the extended hours during this fun event, everyone has a chance to explore the variety of shops downtown. Events and live music at various locations create a street-party style atmosphere that is sure to offer everyone something to do. 6:009:00pm, downtown Woodstock. 770-5926056. VisitWoodstockGa.com

A Greener World Starts at Home — This large, one-day gardening symposium will include renowned speakers, researchers, chefs, educational displays, local vendors, door prizes, food, and a silent auction. There will be 10 educational sessions in addition to keynote speaker Erica Glasener, celebrated author, newspaper columnist, and former host of HGTV’s A Gardener’s Diary. 9:00am4:00pm, Yanmar EVO Center, 5889 Old Alabama Road, Acworth. 770-7217803. CherokeeMasterGardenersInc. WildApricot.org

DIY BEADED WIND CHIMES March 25, 6:30pm, Hickory Flat Create an eye-catching, beaded wind chime. Materials are provided. This is for ages 5+. Registration is required by calling 770-345-7565. CAR SEAT SAFETY March 28, 11:00am, Rose Creek Cherokee County Office of Fire & Emergency Services’ Beth Elder will provide educational information about car seat safety. Parents and caregivers will get to take home materials. Parents and children are invited to attend. LEGO ROBOTICS CLUB March 28, 6:00pm, Rose Creek Teens in grades 6-12 are invited to join in on the LEGO fun. Take apart, re-build, and program the library’s LEGO Mindstorm robots.

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Book Review BY FARRIS YAWN

The Vietnam War has been the topic of numerous books, movies, and TV series. So much so that even those of us not directly affected by the conflict almost feel like we know everything about it. Author Donnie Henriques has used his experiences in Vietnam to create a compelling story about an aspect of that terrible war. Patrick Haney was a young Air Force clerk who, upon arriving in Vietnam, found himself assigned to a new program designed to improve race relations and curb drug use among the personnel serving in the war. Social Actions was the new program that soon brought Patrick into conflict with those profiting from the drug trade. As if adjusting to living in a war zone was not difficult enough, Patrick also had to fend off physical and professional attacks, sometimes from those he thought he could trust. Those around him also paid the price, sometimes with their life. Patrick’s troubles didn’t end when he got home either. Social Actions: A Vietnam Story is a gritty, compelling read that is perfect for anyone interested in getting a glimpse into an aspect of the war we don’t hear much about. Donnie Henriques is a first-time author, born in New Orleans, LA and is now living in Woodstock, where he has served as mayor since 2006. Henriques is a Vietnam veteran with four years of service in the Air Force. Henriques lives with his wife of over 32 years, Dr. Jan Henriques, and has three children and three grandchildren. Since graduating from Louisiana State University New Orleans in 1979, he worked in the restaurant industry followed by the medical administration field for over 20 years. The book is available on Amazon.com, YawnsPublishing.com and at Yawn’s Publishing office in Canton.

Farris Yawn is the owner of Yawn’s Publishing, 2555 Marietta Highway, #103, Canton. 678-880-1922. YawnsPublishing.com

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Public Safety

The Family Behind the Badge By Sheriff Frank Reynolds

Meet Scott, Becky, Abby, Dale, Elijah, Ezequiel, Simeon, Asher, Tofy, Orli, and Yona.

t is not the badge that makes the person, but rather it is the person who makes the badge.

I am often inspired by the amazing men and women I get to work with at the Sheriff’s Office. These people make a difference in the lives of so many others, on and off duty. This month, I would like to tell you about Sergeant Scott Ryder. Although he is an outstanding law enforcement officer, it is his character that inspires me to be a better person. Scott and his lovely wife, Becky, are the proud parents of nine children. When Scott and Becky discovered they could not have children, they decided to move forward with God’s call to take care of the “widow and the orphan,” (James 1:27). Their mission began in December 2008. Abby (16) and Dale (14), Scott’s biological children from a previous marriage, have been an integral part of making this family so special. Elijah was the first child adopted by the Ryder family. He is from Uganda, Africa. As a newborn, he was abandoned in a ditch and found by a police officer.

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Ezequiel, the next child they adopted, is from Ayacucho, Peru. Abandoned at a clinic when he was about 2 years old, Ezequiel has dwarfism. He was adopted by Scott and Becky when he was 7. He has a giant smile that warms your heart. Ezequiel had two dreams — to become a police officer and to have a daddy. He ended up with a daddy who is a police officer. Simeon and Asher were adopted at the same time. They were abandoned in different cities in China and ended up in orphanages. Simeon is deaf, and Asher has severe limb differences. Simeon is beginning to hear and speak, and Asher can now run. Toby, who was adopted next, is also from China. He was abandoned very young because of physical deformities. Since there were no birth records for Toby, his age at adoption was estimated at 6 years old. He is more than likely younger, and severe malnourishment has set him back. However, he is a fighter and is making great strides. Orli was adopted from China a few months before her 14th birthday. She had to be adopted before then, or her fate would have been sealed as a life abandoned. God really moved on this adoption since Scott

and Becky were able to bring her home within days of her birthday. Orli has spina bifida and hydrocephalus, but that is no match for her beauty and humor. The most recent adoption was completed this past August. Yona, an 11-year-old boy from Colombia, was abandoned to the state by his mother at age 8. He is aware of what happened, but he is quite happy now and is recovering from the trauma very well. I am sure it is quite the sight to see all nine kids perched around the barn watching their dad work on his motorcycle. I would like to thank Scott and Becky for allowing me to tell a little about their family. I am truly inspired by their story of unconditional love and hope for these amazing children. This is the person, the family, behind the badge.

Frank Reynolds is the sheriff for Cherokee County. 678-493-4100. CherokeeGa-Sheriff.org

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Community

CCSD Recognizes STAR Students and Teachers The STAR (Student Teacher Achievement Recognition) student honor is awarded to one high school senior from each Georgia public and private high school, who has the highest score on any single test date of the SAT taken through the November test date of senior year and who ranks in the top 10 percent or top 10 students of his/her class based on grade point average. Each honored student is invited to select his or her

Etowah High School

STAR Student Riley McCready

STAR Teacher John Murnan

favorite teacher to be named that schoolâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s STAR teacher. STAR students compete for school system titles, and the overall CCSD STAR student is a tie between Riley McCready of Etowah HS and Jordan Vaughn of Sequoyah HS. Riley selected Etowah HS science teacher John Murnan as her STAR teacher; Jordan selected Adam Lundy from her former high school in California.

System STAR students compete for region-wide honors in the 12 STAR Regions, and region winners compete for the statewide title, sponsored by the Professional Association of Georgia Educators, as well as scholarships and awards. STAR teachers continue with their STAR students at every level of the program.

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STAR Student Hailey Martin

STAR Teacher Ansley Sand

Woodstock High School

STAR Student Andy Jiang

STAR Teacher Henry Oglesby

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Community The Cherokee County Chamber of Commerce is pleased to announce 2019 award winners for First Citizen, Small Business of the Year, Nonprofit of the Year, and Green Business of the Year. All recipients were chosen by out-of-town judges.

First Citizen – Raymond Rollins The title of First Citizen of Cherokee County is bestowed upon a resident who has resided in Cherokee County for at least five years and who has shown meritorious service to his/her community through family, civic, and/or religious involvement. Rollins, a 71-year Cherokee resident, was awarded First Citizen of Cherokee County in recognition of his involvement in law enforcement, military, veterans benefits advocacy, and community events.

Cherokee Chamber Announces 2019 Award Winners “The Cherokee County Chamber was honored to name Rollins as the 44th recipient of the prestigious First Citizen of Cherokee County Award. It is obvious, based upon his accomplishments, why he was selected,” remarked John Barker, 2019 Chamber board chair.

Small Business – In Harmony Pediatric Therapy In Harmony Pediatric Therapy is a multidisciplinary therapeutic clinic housing both Rising Stars Children’s Therapy and Therabeat, Inc., which serves children with special needs and their families. The company provides occupational, physical, speech-language, and music therapy to children ages birth to adolescence.

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Nonprofit – Service League of Cherokee County Serving the children of Cherokee County for more than 80 years, the Service League of Cherokee County is the deserving winner of the Nonprofit of the Year award. The money raised by the Service League is directed back into the community to help provide food, clothing, medical and dental care, eyeglasses, scholarships, and much more to identified children in need. Green Business – Art Jewelers Art Jewelers Diamonds & Design, a custom-design and repair jewelry store, was awarded the 2019 Green Business of the Year Award. The Chamber’s Going Green initiative recognizes businesses for their efforts to reduce their impact on the environment.

Open House -- Give a Kid a Chance Since its inception in 2006, Cherokee County’s Give a Kid a Chance program has helped more than 31,500 kids prepare for the school year with new backpacks, school supplies, clothing, books, and medical screenings — all free of charge. The organization is holding an open house at its warehouse on the Ace Academy campus, March 28, 6:30-8:30pm, 8871 Knox Bridge Highway, Canton. Directors and board members will be on hand to talk about 2019 fundraising and to answer questions regarding the July 13 event.

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Cherokee Wins Green Community Award, Bronze Level The Atlanta Regional Commission (ARC) recertified Cherokee County as a Green Community at the Bronze Level.

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e (Front Row L-R): April kee Class of 2019 includ ero Ch p shi der Lea the Members of iversity; Tina Farmer, oy, Kennesaw State Un Val nta ha Zac .; P.C , rvices; Stephanie Weeks, Weeks Law p, R & D Mechanical Se ho Bis tie Ka t; tric Dis ce of Cherokee County School ch, Cherokee County Offi lence Center; Kryss Ro Vio ily Fam kee House. ero k Ch Oa r, Villaseno .; Brian Cain, The Rose & Associates, P.C se, Ro ny Jen ; ral ne hte Ge t; Janet Ponic ra, the Solicitor odstock Fire Departmen Wo of y Cit y, Ele my Jim sch, City of (Second Row L-R): CPA Services; Kristi Bo s; Tosha Ginn, North GA on ati n blic Pu Life ily org Fam oke Ford, Ge ia Divisio e Hospital Cherokee; Bro sid rth No r, o rte rm Po e ille Kyl Gu ): Waleska; (Third Row L-R c Rein, Renasant Bank. Eri ; ces rvi Se en ildr De Ch of Family & Sheriff’s Office; metria Sims, Cherokee County ris Ch ; tem Sys h alt He ne; Bryon Reeves, Sanabia, WellStar der, Dentistr y of Olde Tow Slu ob Jac Dr. y; an mp mer, United Lane, The Coca-Cola Co borne Canton; Brett Tim w L-R): Josh Neville, Air Ro ck (Ba d. un Gro ll Ba City of Georgia. Blakey, Credit Union of Community Bank; Jason The Cherokee County Chamber of Commerce has selected the Leadership Cherokee Class of 2019. This 31st Anniversary Class was chosen following participation in a nomination, application, and interview process. The 23 class members recently attended a retreat at Brasstown Valley Resort, where team-building exercises enabled them to learn about themselves and each other through a look at personality types and communication styles. Over the course of nine months, the class will participate in sessions that focus on topics such as economic development,

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infrastructure, government, justice, education, recreation, tourism, public safety, healthcare, and social/human services. “The knowledge gained from the programs offered through Leadership Cherokee will prepare the class members for a more active role in the community,” said John Barker, 2019 Cherokee Chamber chair. Following the nine-month program, the class will graduate during a ceremony in September. For information on the Leadership Cherokee Class of 2020, contact the Chamber office at 770-3450400, or visit CherokeeChamber.com.

The ARC’s Green Communities voluntar y certification program helps local governments implement measures to reduce environmental impact. It recognizes their commitment to environmental stewardship and their leadership in sustainability practices. Measures that earned Cherokee certification points include: •

Transforming an abandoned athletic facility into the Cherokee County Marshall’s Office rather than building on undeveloped land • Allowing new building occupants to use existing parking, and encouraging neighboring organizations and businesses to share parking, which reduces impervious surfaces while increasing walkability • Auditing all county-owned facilities for energy efficiency and making necessary upgrades • Designating two areas as Opportunity Zones to revitalize underdeveloped commercial buildings and blighted residential communities • Opening two glass recycling drop-off centers after private trash haulers discontinued glass recycling services

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CCWSA Student Photography Contest Winners

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Cherokee County Water and Sewerag e Authority (CCWSA) announced winners of the 2018 CCW SA student photography contest. Elizabeth Thor nton, 6th grade student from Mill Creek MS, won the K-6th grade category with her photograph entitled Palm Paradise. Maddie Howe, 10th grade student from Che rokee High School, won the 7th-12th grade category with her photograph entitled Before They Fall. The pho tographs depict reflective properties of water.

Win Top Awards at Winterfest

Cherokee County Fire & Emergency Services’ Explorer Post 469 brought home 10 awards during the 45th Annual Winterfest Competition held in Gatlinburg, TN. More than 3,100 Explorers and Venturers from 26 states competed in the event, which is the largest scout assembly for co-ed youth ages 14-21. Explorer Post 469 participated in a variety of competitive activities throughout the weekend, bringing home 10 top-three finishes. They placed first in Cardiac Arrest Management, Denver Drill, Medical Emergency Management, Pittsburgh Drill, and Trauma Emergency Management. They earned second place trophies in Medical Emergency Management and Trauma Emergency Management, and they placed third in Honor Guard Competition, Rapid Dress Individual, and Table Top Display Contest. The explorer program is a career-based learning opportunity open to young people ages 14 years old (completed eighth grade) and not yet 21 years old with an interest in learning about fire and emergency services careers. For more information about Explorer Post 469, contact Sgt. Michael Sims at 678-6441377 or MRSims@cherokeega.com.

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Mill Creek MS’s Elizabeth Thompson ’s winning photo, Palm Paradise.

TCAR Procedure Treats Carotid Disease in High-Risk Patients Northside Hospital Heart and Vascular Institute has been named a Center of Excellence for a minimally invasive stenting procedure that effectively treats carotid artery disease in older and highrisk patients. This technology is available at its Atlanta, Cherokee, and Forsyth locations. The procedure, called Trans Carotid Artery Revascularization (TCAR), treats blockages in the carotid (neck) artery to reduce the risk of stroke, particularly in patients older than 75 years, and in patients at high risk for conventional open surgery. In 2016, Dr. Siddharth Patel, a general and vascular surgeon at Northside Hospital Heart and Vascular Institute, was the first physician to perform TCAR at Northside. He ranks in the top 10 for all physicians doing TCAR, with over 60 cases thus far.

CCSD High Schools Earn State Recognition for AP Programs For the ninth year in a row, all CCSD traditional high schools were named Georgia AP Honor Schools for commendable student performance and participation on AP exams. As a district, CCSD ranks fifth overall in Georgia for AP exam pass rates. AP courses and exams are administered by the College Board, which also administers the SAT. Students who receive a 3, 4, or 5 on AP exams are often eligible to receive college credit, reducing the cost of earning a college degree. CCSD high schools earned recognition in all four categories for which its schools were eligible. All CCSD high schools continued their presence on the AP STEM Schools and AP STEM Achievement Schools lists, five were named AP Humanities Schools (Creekview, Etowah, River Ridge, Sequoyah, and Woodstock), and two schools won a place on the Merit School list (Creekview and Etowah).

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Senator Speaks

he first quarter of 2019 is nearly over, and it has been one for the history books. Back in January, I watched with amusement as the world witnessed what those of us close to Trevor Lawrence already knew — that is he is something special. I don’t mean because he was the quarterback who handed Alabama its worst loss in recent history in the National Championship game, or because he was a freshman who didn’t start until game five. He’s special because he has maturity far beyond his years, and a humility that is rarely seen in today’s athletes. Whether you are a Clemson fan or not, you must agree it is refreshing to see a wholesome young man share that his faith is his motivation to be better, not fame. The stock market continues to rise and fall like a beach ball bouncing in the crowd at a baseball game during a hot summer

afternoon. One day it seems to stabilize, climbing 300 points, only to suddenly drop 500 points in a matter of hours. Some would say much of the fluctuation is caused artificially by market manipulation from news outlets intentionally publishing untrue information designed to help or hurt a stock or industry. Others say the market is victim to layering, which is when short-term investors place large orders with no intention of having them filled. When other investors see this action and place their orders at the same level, at the last moment, the short-term investor pulls the order and watches as the other investors have their orders filled. Since the large order was pulled, the stock begins to decline. Once it does, the shortterm investor buys in at the lower price. The opposite of this technique is bear raiding. This is when a trader (or group of traders) attempts to force a stock price lower by placing large short-sell orders. Regardless of the tactic, there is an increasing sentiment that the stock market is becoming more like a trip to Las Vegas.

During this first quarter, we also witnessed the U.S. government shutdown make history after reaching 35 days of stalemate. I’m not saying whether the shutdown was warranted or not, but it is a sad day in American history when the two parties act like young children squabbling on the baseball field. If they don’t get their way, they grab their bat or ball and head home, leaving the other players wondering what is next. And even though federal employees did not receive their paycheck, we witnessed that most government entities could operate just fine with a lean staff. One thing I did notice as I traveled through the airport, the TSA agents who were working were much more focused, polite, and efficient than before the shutdown.

Bruce Thompson is a state senator for District 14, which includes Canton. 404-656-0065. BruceThompsonGa.com

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COVER STORY By Cyndi Braun

magine entertaining friends on a beautiful custom-built deck with wrought iron railings, drinking coffee in the shade of your screened-in porch, or warming your hands in front of a built-in stone fireplace on your backyard patio. Beautiful outdoor living spaces like these transform the average into the extraordinary and make backyard living more fun. When it’s time to create that outdoor space you’re dreaming of, it’s time to call Outback Deck, Inc. “We are on the cutting edge of the industry. If you can dream it, we can build it,” said Bryan Miller, co-owner of Outback Deck. “When we build a deck, we can put in an underdeck and a paver patio with a retaining wall and firepit. When we build a porch, we might transform it into interior

spaces with Eze-Breeze systems that make it like a three-and-a-half season room with an outdoor fireplace and kitchen.”

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A well-designed deck is an affordable way to expand living space for relaxation and entertaining. Outback Deck installs ground-level, raised, or multilevel decks that coordinate

with your home and its landscaping. Experienced project managers work with clients to design and build a custom deck based on specific needs, such as areas for cooking, dining, spa, and lounging. For clients seeking more privacy, they can build trellises and pergolas. Outback Deck builds decks using a wide range of materials. Many customers choose composite or PVC decking because these materials are more durable and carry longer warranties than traditional wood decks. With the rain, humidity, heat, sunshine, and pollen in Georgia, a synthetic or composite deck offers low maintenance in an array of colors and styles, some of which resemble hardwood products. For customers interested in using traditional materials, Outback Deck has several exotic, long-lasting hardwoods they can use to provide a high-quality finish for your new deck.

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budgets and individual needs, including screens durable enough to protect against tearing from weather, pets, and children. Maintenance-free porches, a durable alternative to traditional wood, provide beautiful outdoor living without the hassle and expense of annual refinishing.

The Beauty of Design

Outback Deck prides itself on guiding customers through the process of design, ensuring that the customer is an integral part of the overall creation. Solution Specialists take time to ask questions, provide feedback, and communicate. “We believe that thoughtful design

ensures a spectacular result. Your deck, patio, porch, or hardscape should fit your lifestyle, taste, and specific needs. We will guide you through the process and make sure the end result exceeds your expectations,” said John Gwaltney, co-owner. “We’ll build your outdoor living project right, or we won’t do it at all. We’re by the book.”

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If you want to get closer to nature and transform your backyard into a great space for entertaining, it’s time to investigate hardscaping. Hardscapes include walkways, patios, retaining walls, chimneys, and firepits. When it’s time to design your patio, consider including hardscaping features like a stone wall, firepit, or outdoor kitchen. Pavers come in a variety of colors, shapes, and sizes, which Outback Deck can blend into existing landscaping elements. If you’re interested in outdoor entertaining, an outdoor kitchen is an excellent addition. Expert masons construct kitchens with built-in grills, counters, and storage. Other fun ideas are outdoor pizza ovens, fireplaces, and chimineas.

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[HealthyLife] If your teeth could talk, what might they say? Sometimes, they may not say things you want to hear, but you really need to listen if they utter the following:

“Wash Me, Please.” Washing your teeth daily by brushing and flossing helps keep your mouth healthy and free from plaque and bacteria. You should brush your teeth twice a day, gently and thoroughly, for about two minutes. Why twice a day? Brush at night to remove the day’s food debris, so bacteria has less nutrients to thrive upon during the night. Brush in the morning to destroy the bacteria and plaque buildup that has gone undisturbed while you sleep. Also, saliva production is reduced during sleep, and saliva provides a barrier to plaque buildup and the harmful bacterial acids that erode our teeth and gums.

“Ouch! That’s too Rough.”

“It Stinks Around Here.”

You can brush too hard and too often, causing permanent damage to your teeth and gums. Look closely to see if you have grooves in the side of your teeth directly at the gumline. Often, you can feel the grooves with your fingernail. These grooves are where you have brushed away the protective enamel and soft gums. If you have grooves, speak to your dentist immediately about restoring the damaged teeth and gums.

Bad breath (halitosis) can have several causes. Leftover food debris and not cleaning your teeth twice daily are common causes. Brushing your tongue can help relieve bad breath, too.

Always use a soft-bristled toothbrush. Medium- and hard-bristled toothbrushes are only good for cleaning golf clubs — seriously — never use these toothbrushes in your mouth. Use the tips of your fingers to hold your toothbrush rather than grasping it with the palm of your hand. This will reduce the force you apply while brushing. Also, consider using an electric toothbrush.

Your diet often contributes to halitosis, especially if you drink coffee, smoke, or consume garlic/onions. Sometimes, medicine can cause bad breath. Persistent bad breath can be a sign of a serious oral disease known as periodontitis (gum disease). Although periodontitis initially affects gums, this serious disease can eventually destroy the jawbone that supports your teeth. If you have chronic bad breath, speak to your dentist immediately to schedule an examination for periodontal disease. Occasional bad breath is often resolved with over-the-counter remedies like mouth rinses and/or mints. If you elect to use mints or gum, be sure to consider sugarfree options, as regular sugar consumption is very harmful to your teeth.

“Why Am I so Wiggly?” Unless you are a pre-adolescent or a young teen, wiggly teeth are not normal and may be a sign of a more serious dental problem. As previously explained, periodontitis often leads to loose teeth and tooth loss. Periodontitis has longterm, negative health consequences ranging from diabetes and cardiovascular disease to low-birth-weight babies. Your dentist should examine and evaluate for periodontitis and discuss the risk factors associated with this serious oral disease. After all, great dentistry focuses on you, so respect your teeth by “listening” to what they have to “say.”

Dr. Steven Anderson is owner/ dentist with Anderson Dental of Woodstock and East Cobb. 650 Claremore Professional Way, Suite 200, Woodstock. 770-384-8505. DrStevenAnderson.com

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Three Steps to Debt Reduction By Katie Wise

If you’re like most people, you’re carrying some debt. Many reports suggest that eight out of 10 Americans are in debt to some degree. Of course, some debt, like that from your mortgage, is a necessity. But debt can be a problem if it gets out of hand or is tied to high interest rates. Here are some steps you can take to reduce your interest rate, thereby reducing your debt:

1. Consolidate your debt. One of the biggest barriers to debt reduction is high interest rates. Some people are paying 20 percent or more on credit card debt, making it difficult for them to reduce the balance. To make an impact, it’s imperative to reduce that rate to a reasonable amount, which you can do through debt consolidation. If your debt is related to credit cards, you can take advantage of a credit card balance transfer offer. These offers allow you to transfer your debt from other credit cards to one credit card at a low rate for a predetermined amount of time. For instance, you could transfer balances from two cards with 21 percent interest rates to a card offering 3.99 percent for a period of one year. This dramatically reduces the amount of interest in your payments, allowing you to pay down the balance instead of simply paying the interest due. Check your local credit unions for special balance transfer offers. Another option is a personal loan. This loan offered by credit unions can be used for everything from debt consolidation to home repairs. Typically, the interest rate is far lower than most credit cards (often in the 8 percent APR range). While this is higher than what you’d pay with a balance transfer offer, you won’t be limited to a specified amount of time.

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2. Pay as much as you can afford. If you’ve only been making the minimum payment on your loans, it could take years to pay off. Once you’ve consolidated your debt and reduced your interest rates, you can start focusing on the principal. Look at how much you can afford to pay, then create a pay down strategy and increase your monthly payments. Once you’ve set a realistic goal and determined your monthly payments, stick to your plan.

3. Don’t incur more debt. When you’ve gotten your debt under control, you might be tempted to reward yourself with a new phone or another expensive purchase. Rather than incurring more debt, think about how gratifying it will be to purchase that new phone with actual money that you’ve saved. Look for savings and checking accounts that pay good interest, making it easier to save money.

You can take control of your finances. Start with a trip to your local trusted financial institution to consolidate your debt at a reduced rate (and be wary of TV ads promising quick debt reduction). Then, create a plan and make a commitment to stick to it. In no time, you’ll be on your way to better financial health. L

Katie Wise is the Woodstock Financial Center manager at LGE Community Credit Union.12186 Highway 92, Suite 111B, Woodstock. 770-424-0060. KathrynW@LGEccu.org, LGEccu.org

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The Baby Is Crying – It’s Your Turn! By Ferdinand Yates, Jr., M.D., M.A. [HealthyLife] Congratulations on the birth of your infant! Upcoming hopes and dreams? To be sure. Future fears and tears? Unfortunately, yes. The cry of an infant can sometimes cause much anxiety because the baby can’t talk to us or tell us what is wrong. Parents and pediatricians often must use the information they have to make guesses. As the infant’s cry is initially the only way to communicate with parents, it may be used to vocalize myriad potential problems. Observe the situation, and be sure that the infant is safe, warm, comfortable, fed, has a clean diaper, and is consolable. Remember, not every cry requires an immediate response, and pretty quickly, parents will come to recognize the nature of their infant’s cry. Please also know that there are many medical conditions that may cause persistent crying and discomfort, and your infant’s doctor can help identify these situations. Doctors use “developmental crying” as a phrase that helps to explain nonspecific crying that may be totally unexpected, resistant to soothing, persistent, more intense in the evening, and may intensify for no apparent reason. Remember, even infants can have a “bad hair day.”

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Dr. Harvey Karp’s “5 S’s” from his book The Happiest Baby on the Block may be helpful: 1. 2. 3. 4. 5.

Swaddling Side or stomach positioning — not for sleeping Shushing noises — music, fan, or other calming background noise Swinging gently (never shaking) Sucking on hands or fingers

As for parents… 1. 2. 3. 4.

You are not alone. It’s likely that your mother had the same difficulty. Don’t be afraid to ask for help. Take a break. “Time-outs” are not just for disciplining children. Take advantage of your medical support system. Enjoy great relief in knowing that your infant is growing and developing normally.

Enjoy your baby. And remember, your infant brings out the big and beautiful you!

Dr. Yates is a pediatrician at Woodstock Pediatric Medicine, 2000 Professional Way, Woodstock. 770-517-0250. WoodstockPeds.com

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A Hairstyle to Match Your Lifestyle By Savanna Morrison

[Lifestyle] With all the school projects, sports practices, and meetings many of us have after our regular workday is done, it can be easy to feel like there just isn’t enough time in the day. One of the ways you can simplify to your busy, everchanging schedule is to have a hairstyle that matches your lifestyle. Finding the right haircut may not be at the top of your priority list, but it could completely change your morning routine for the better. Here are some tips for finding a haircut that works for you.

Women On-the-Go For thin or fine hair, haircuts such as long bobs and over-the-shoulder cuts with minimal layers work well. Blunt cuts create the illusion of thickness, allowing you to rock a stylish haircut with minimal styling and minimal product weighing your hair down. Women with thick or straight hair may want to try a haircut with long layers and bangs. Long layers allow volume without taking away from your natural texture, and longer bangs do not require as much maintenance as shorter bangs.

For women with wavy hair, long bobs and pixie cuts also work well. A shorter haircut with wavy hair will allow movement and body, despite the shorter length of hair. For longer haircuts, face-framing layers will be best for allowing movement without overpowering your face.

and gives the “I woke up like this” look without seeming messy and unkempt. You can add a fade to this cut to minimize the need for maintenance. With a bit of pomade or paste, work through the ends and comb through with a brush or your hands.

If you have curly hair, angular bobs or long haircuts full of layers will allow your natural curls to thrive. Taking weight out of your hair will allow movement in your curls without being overbearing to the cut or your face.

Making sure your hairstyle matches your lifestyle will bring ease to your look while freeing up a little of your time. There are a multitude of different options for haircuts depending on your texture, preferred length, and maintenance, but making sure you’re comfortable and confident is, ultimately, the key. L

Men On-the-Go For straight, thin, or fine hair, taper cuts and short side parts work well. These allow the full-bodied illusion on top while still giving a clean-cut look. You can slick back these styles, or add a pomade or paste for more fine-tuned variations. Men with thick or wavy hair may want to try a cut with blended sides and textured layers that keep the body without seeming all over the place. A haircut that has minimal layers and no blunt cuts works best for men with medium-length hair

Savanna Morrison is an experience coordinator at Jyl Craven Hair Design of Canton. 770-345-9411. JylCraven.com

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By Shannon Barnes, L.P.C.

he very idea that people communicate through body language can be extremely intriguing. Experts believe that approximately 80 percent of communication is interpreted by the listener from nonverbal cues. Why do people want to interpret body language? It is most likely because they are needing reassurance. We are looking for tangible proof that verbal information is either believable or not believable. Other reasons pertain to human development. People have evolved over the centuries using body language to communicate when verbal communication was not available or effective. Body language is a popular topic among pop psychology. However, the study of body language is not an exact science. While body language is universal, meaning everyone in the world communicates through body language, it is also customized to culture and environment. For example, most everyone in the United States knows that a person walking along the side of the road with a thumb up indicates that person needs a ride. Everyone in the United States knows that a hand in the air waving is communicating hello or goodbye. However, this may not be the case in other countries. It is believed that facial expressions that communicate emotions are universal regardless of culture. But emotions are provoked differently in individual areas of the world. Therefore, interpreting emotions through body language may not be universal. If you want to pay attention to body language when communicating with others, here are a few facts to consider:

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In everyday life, body language is primarily used to enhance verbal communication. Hand gestures when telling a story, facial expressions to convey feelings, or gestures that indicate thought and emotion can enhance what is being said. This is normal for all humans, and it is reflexive. It is how the brain orders the body to move in space based on the information it is processing at that moment. Boisterous body language, which is more intentional, is typically used to draw attention or to emphasize a point. When people are placing blame on others, they will point to the accused. When people try to interpret body language as a stand-alone communication, the likelihood of misunderstanding is increased. For example, people sitting with their legs crossed are assumed to be avoidant; however, social etiquette teaches females that sitting with crossed legs is proper manners.

Environments vary; therefore, the interpretation of body language can vary between environments. Body language has universal themes. An example is holding hands up, which symbolizes a surrender. This is shown when criminals hold their hands up when being arrested, and people raise their hands in worship. But this is not a guarantee that the person has a

surrendering mindset, and it should not be assumed this is a truth for all environments. At concerts and dance clubs, people hold their hands up to dance. Athletes often raise their hands after a victory.

Be aware that people are interpreting body language based on how their brain processes information. The brain can only pull from information that it has. For this reason, people interpret body language based on their own experiences. People most likely will interpret body language through a biased perspective. For example, the person who experienced a boss who always exhibited a fake smile may assume all bosses are fake when they smile.

To interpret body language with the most success, people should understand that body language is almost always an indicator of mindset and thoughts. Although it may be misinterpreted by the viewer, people cannot make their bodies do the opposite of what the brain is telling it to do. So, if a person is defensive, they will exhibit a firm stance. If a person is deciding to voice thoughts or keep them silent to be polite, hesitation may be observed. People will fake a smile if they are being polite, but they will smile with eyes open wide if they are truly happy to see you.

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When people are sad, their eyes will droop, and they will look down. When people are cautious, they will examine their environment with their eyes. When people are amused, they will exhibit a relaxed smile. When people are nervous or trying to control other intense emotions, they will fidget. When people are attempting to fake their body language, they can only fake for a short time period.

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Overall, effective communication will include body language as well as verbal statements, tone of voice, and context, all of which are at the mercy of the listenerâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s ability to understand the information being communicated using personal perceptions and past experiences.

Dr. Shannon Barnes is a licensed professional counselor at Tranquility Counseling Services, 8744 Main Street, Suite 303, Woodstock. 770-278-9459. TranquilityCounselingServ.com

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[HealthyLife] An avulsed tooth is a true dental emergency. When a permanent tooth is knocked out, or even significantly loose, it’s important to act as quickly as possible to try to save the tooth. Oftentimes, injuries that knock out a tooth can also cause other types of significant head, neck, or facial trauma. As with any injury to the head, it’s always best to rule out other significant injuries by visiting a medical facility. If the knocked-out/loose tooth is a primary (baby) tooth, reinsertion should not be attempted. Reinsertion of a primary tooth can cause damage to the developing permanent tooth. However, even though the primary tooth cannot be saved, it’s still important to see your child’s dentist as a follow-up. Depending on the situation, it may be necessary to make sure that adequate space is kept in the mouth for the permanent tooth to emerge if the primary tooth was lost prematurely.

Avulsed Teeth By Vishant Nath, D.M.D.

If a permanent tooth is knocked out, there are specific steps to take to improve the chances of saving the tooth. If possible, it’s best to reinsert the tooth in the socket as soon as possible after it is knocked out. Avoid touching the root of the tooth. The tooth can be rinsed under cold running water briefly to clean it. Once it is

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reinserted, have the patient bite down on a clean cloth to keep the tooth in place until you can get to your dentist’s office. Many pediatric dental offices have afterhours emergency phone numbers. If your dentist does not have an emergency number, or you are unable to get through to someone on the after-hours line, do not wait. Get to an emergency room where the situation can be addressed and treated. If you are unable to reinsert the tooth, for whatever reason, the next best situation is to put the tooth in a clean cup containing milk or the patient’s saliva, then take the patient and tooth either to the dentist or the emergency room if your dentist is not available.

Dr. Vishant Nath is the owner of Canton/Alpharetta/Roswell Pediatric Dentistry & Orthodontics. 678-352-1090. KidsHappyTeeth.com

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Spring Cleaning and Decluttering Tips

Living in a clean and uncluttered environment has many advantages. Not only is it good for your physical wellbeing, but also your mental state. How often have we been overwhelmed with anxiety before finally making the time to do a little cleaning and organizing? We instantly feel less weight on our shoulders when we remove some of the clutter around us.

By Tracey Satterfield

Many people confuse decluttering and organizing with cleaning. However, decluttering and cleaning are two very different things. The first step to “spring cleaning” is decluttering. Here are a few basic organizing tips that really impact the look of a home: •Place all dirty clothes in a basket or container. It’s best if each family member has a separate container in their bedroom or bathroom, so when they undress, they can drop their clothes in immediately. •Make a rule that all family members need to bring their cups, plates, and utensils to the kitchen every night before going to bed. •Place a trash can in the kitchen, laundry room, all bedrooms, and bathrooms. •Make it a daily habit to pick up all shoes, jackets, toys, and school/ work items from shared living areas each night before going to bed. •Keep mail contained to one area. Go through it weekly and throw away all junk mail. Keep bills that need to be paid in a file. •Make your bed. Bedrooms look much more organized when you complete this simple task.

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“The first step to spring cleaning is decluttering.”

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Our health can be negatively affected by not keeping our home clean. Often, individuals can become physically ill from dirt, mold, dust, and other unsanitary items such as toilet seats, countertops, and bedding. Allergies, colds, rashes, and even flu-like symptoms can occur. Making housecleaning a priority can be tough in our busy lives because it requires time, energy, and effort from the whole family. Another option is to hire a cleaning service to help with scheduled, consistent cleaning of your home. If you want to tackle this important task on your own, here are some basic suggestions that make a big difference: •Wash your bedding. It is important to wash/ change your sheets weekly, especially if you have animals who like to snuggle. Animals leave behind dander, fur, and other allergens that you inhale each night while sleeping. •Vacuum floors often. Even if you don’t have time to clean the whole house, you’ll be amazed by how vacuuming the carpet will improve the look of a room. Vacuuming also helps to remove animal hair, dirt, and dust. If your vacuum has a bag or filter, be sure to change/clean it often. This will also help to keep dust mites out of your home. •Wipe down kitchen and bathroom counters daily. Just think how many hands are touching these areas as well as containers, grocery bags, cans, food, school bags, pocketbooks, and mail. The germ sources are numerous. •Clean toilets weekly, especially the seat, which is in direct contact with the body. •Dust your home at least twice a month. Everything in your home can collect dust. Ceiling fans, blinds, picture frames, artificial plants, bedspreads, pillows, rugs, furniture, shelves, and even unused toys are a few of the items that can collect dust. Some people experience an improvement in their allergies simply by keeping dust under control. •Sanitize doorknobs, light switches, cabinet handles, toilet handles, and even car door handles. We are constantly touching these items with our hands. This is often how illness is spread from family member to family member.

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If a family can make decluttering a priority, half the battle is won. The other half is spending a little time cleaning regularly. If everyone in the family pitches in, great progress can be made in two hours or less.

“Bedrooms look much more organized when the bed is made.”

Try to devote one hour to picking up and decluttering. Then, spend the next hour dividing responsibilities to make the cleaning possible. Mom can take the bathrooms, Dad can take the kitchen, and the children can vacuum and dust. The next thing you know, anxiety is lower, and mood is improved. Guess what, kids? Keep your ears perked because you may hear the words, “Let’s reward ourselves by grabbing a bite to eat and seeing a movie!”

Tracey Satterfield is the owner of Live Clean, Inc., 120 Rachel Drive, Canton. 770-345-8035. LiveCleanInc.com

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Spring Into a Better Version of Yourself

breasts. As your skin loses its elasticity, your breasts often lose their shape and firmness.

the perfect time to see what you can do to make yourself feel and look better.

A breast lift can help you regain the selfconfidence and figure you deserve. Breast lift surgery is an enhancement procedure that raises and reshapes sagging breasts. Your breast lift will be customized to meet your needs and expectations. The amount of lifting to restore breasts to their most aesthetically pleasing position will vary from patient to patient based on the amount of skin elasticity and tissue in each breast.

Do you desire to regain the figure you had before childbirth, aging, or weight change? Have your breasts taken on a droopier or flatter appearance? Over the years, factors such as pregnancy, nursing, significant weight fluctuations, and gravity can all have drastic effects on your

If youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re planning on having more children, it may be a good idea to postpone surgery. Although there are no special risks that affect future pregnancies, your ability to breastfeed may be compromised. Plus, pregnancy is likely to stretch your breasts and offset the procedure.

By Drs. Petrosky, Harkins, and Depew Spring is in the air, which is [HealthyLife]

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Mastopexy, or breast lift surgery, tightens lax breast skin, repositions the nipple, and reshapes the breast. If the areolas (the darker pigmented skin surrounding the nipples) are enlarged, they may be reduced in the process. Breast tissue may also be removed if the patient wants smaller breasts. If larger breasts are desired, breast implants may be inserted to increase breast volume. As with any procedure you are considering, make sure you consult with a specialty trained, board-certified plastic surgeon, so the best procedure can be agreed upon, and the best outcome can be achieved. Drs. Petrosky and Harkins are board-certified plastic surgeons, and Dr. Depew is a board-eligible plastic surgeon at Plastic Surgery Center of the South. 770-421-1242. PlasticSurgeryCenterOf TheSouth.net

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he Mill on Etowah is one of the most exciting adaptive reuse projects in the state. The Reformation Brewery facility is virtually completed, and the company will begin brewing in the next few weeks. Additional tenants include six new restaurants; Thrive coworking space;

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Gardening Lectures and Symposium By Joshua Fuder Horticulture is a broad field of [HomeLife] study that interests many. The University of Georgia Cooperative Extension and the Cherokee County Master Gardeners exist to help the public find answers to horticulture-related questions. They also deliver lectures and workshops on a variety horticulture topics throughout the year. Their Saturday morning lecture series, “Gardening With the Masters,” start at 10:30am and is held at Hickory Flat Library, Senior Services Center in Canton, or Rose Creek Library. These programs are free and open to the public or sometimes have a nominal materials fee. This year’s lectures will be “Organic Vegetable Gardening,” “Container and Raised Bed Gardening,” “Heavenly Hydrangeas,” “Seed Saving,”

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The Mill on Etowah

ClickFunnels, an online e-commerce sales funnel builder; and current tenant, Liberty Hill Church. In addition to current and future tenants and mixed-use applications, the new front entrance of the development will feature a

“Fall Vegetable Gardening,” “Bulbs and Companion Plants,” “Tree and Shrub Selection and Planting,” and “Holiday Wreath Making.” Details of the topics, program locations, and registration information can be found on the Cherokee County Extension website, Cherokee County Master Gardener website or by picking up a brochure at various locations like libraries, nurseries, and senior centers throughout the county. This year, there will also be a large one-day gardening symposium, “A Greener World Starts at Home,” on April 6. The event will take place at the Yanmar EVO Center at 5889 Old Alabama Road in Acworth and will include renowned speakers, researchers, chefs, educational displays, local vendors, door prizes, food, and a silent auction. The symposium will have 10 concurrent educational sessions (one hour each) in addition to keynote speaker Erica Glasener.

common outdoor courtyard/public space between the historic cotton mill buildings and the Etowah River. Like the public space at Avalon in Alpharetta, the green space will feature a grass-turf lawn with tables, benches, public restrooms, and special events.

Glasener is a celebrated author, newspaper columnist, and hosted A Gardener’s Diary on HGTV. The 10 educational sessions will include “Orchid Cultivation,” “Camelias in the Landscape,” “Gardening for Birds and Pollinators,” “Wonderful Wildflowers,” “Fundamentals of Pruning,” “Quick Ways to Use Fresh Herbs,” “Backyard Reptiles,” “Garden Design for Year-Round Pleasure,” “Chestnut Restoration and New Forest Threats,” and “Common Landscape Diseases.” There really is something for everyone. Details on how to register can be found in our previously mentioned brochure or on the Cherokee County Master Gardeners website: CherokeeMasterGardenersInc. WildApricot.org

Joshua Fuder is an agriculture and natural resources agent at the UGA Cooperative Extension Cherokee County. 770-721-7830. CAES.UGA. edu/extension/cherokee

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but looked much older. No one in her house cared about what they put her through. My grandmother would often stay with one of her daughters just to get away. She died of heart failure before she turned 65. The stress of her daily life certainly contributed to her poor health.

Living Your Golden Years

By Tim Morris

[Lifestyle] st articles, I’ve shared some stories and memories of my grandmother (my father’s mother). She was a strong, self-sufficient woman who knew everything there was to know about how to run her farm. She truly lived her golden years to the best of her ability, and she was happy. My other grandmother (my mom’s mother), who we referred as Maw Maw, had a rougher time. Maw Maw didn’t have a lot, and her living conditions were poor, but

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she was always nice to everyone. She dealt with so much drama in her home because of her grown sons and husband. Whenever we visited, something bad was guaranteed to happen, especially later in the day. My mom would immediately round up my siblings and me and get us far away from the situation. Maw Maw always stayed to try to diffuse the problem, which eventually took a toll on her. She was in her early 60s

Senior Services sometimes receives calls about stories like my Maw Maw’s — grandparents who just want to enjoy their golden years but are saddled with grown children and grandchildren living with them and living off them. In most cases, it’s not a good situation for any of them. If you know a senior whose health and well-being are being compromised by people who take advantage of them, please call Adult Protective Services. L

Tim Morris is the director of Cherokee County Senior Services. 1001 Univeter Road, Canton. 770-479-7438. www.CherokeeGa.com/SeniorServices

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Community Partner

Music. Animals. Community. Rock for Rescues showcases Atlantabased homegrown, original music to benefit local animal welfare charities. Events are offered throughout the year, with a season-ending festival held on April 27 in Milton.

Discovering Local Music A program of the Vox Artium Foundation, Rock for Rescues curates an annual list of the best Georgia-based bands that write and perform their own original music. Many music venues in the metro area prefer to book cover bands that play wellknown music made popular by alreadyfamous artists, even though Atlanta has a vibrant original music scene made up of talented musicians and composers. Rock for Rescues creates unique events that feature local musical talent while simultaneously creating awareness and fundraising for animal welfare organizations in our community.

Saving Local Animals Each year, the Rock for Rescues team researches, interviews, and evaluates the financial documentation and demonstrated overall impact of dozens of local animal welfare programs based on peer and industry recommendations. The resulting list is a carefully considered group that represents the broadest range of unique beneficiaries. Every Rock for Rescues event includes opportunities for the nonprofit lineup organizations to participate. Their human (and sometimes furry or feathered) representatives attend to educate people about their mission and promote awareness of their programs. Every event is a fundraiser, with 100 percent of net proceeds from all events donated in equal shares to those organizations. The 2019 Rock for Rescues animal welfare beneficiaries are: AWARE Wildlife Center, Canine CellMates, Furkids,

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Georgia House Rabbit Society, and Special Equestrians of Georgia.

Building Community If you like music or animals, this is the program for you. Now in its second year, the interest and support from individuals, municipal and community groups, and businesses large and small have created an interconnected community of likeminded people across the metro area.

tent for exclusive mingling with Rock for Rescues musicians, local celebrities, and dignitaries. The VIP tent will also provide covered seating, a private bar area, and other perks to be announced.

Join the Community! Rock for Rescues is made possible by corporate sponsors and partners as well as individual donors like you. For details about attending an upcoming event, sponsoring an event, or making a donation, visit RockForRescues.org.

For the biggest, most inclusive Rock for Rescues experience, don’t miss the season finale capstone event: the Milton Rock for Rescues Festival. This free, family-friendly street festival will be held Saturday, April 27, from 1:00-10:00pm on Crabapple Road in Milton. This year’s festival will feature live musical performances throughout the day from Walden, the Last Chance Riders, Pony League, the Chip McGuire Band, a slow boat to china, Sister Moon, and Music Matters Rock U teen bands. In addition to live music, the event includes food and beverage trucks, local vendors, games and crafts for children of all ages, and animal representatives ready to meet and greet your whole crew. New at this year’s festival will be reserved tables available near the stage and a VIP

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Artist Profile BY BONNIE MEDFORD

ocal sculptor Betsy Khuri often draws inspiration from old pictures, found objects, her three children, and her two “bonus kids.” She says her children are her biggest accomplishment. Khuri’s current projects are inspired by the Renaissance. The pieces have the head of an animal and a human body — feminine bodies contrasting with masculine animal features. Khuri says that for most of her life, she thought that there was something wrong with her. Her thought patterns and visions were different from her peers. As a child, Khuri was taught that art was a hobby and not a career, so she earned an MBA and worked in the computer industry. She says, “Growing up in a family that alphabetizes their spices and always has their shoes tied wasn’t easy.” Now, she is grateful for her unique ideas, her gifts, and for simply being herself. She also seeks to encourage similar individuals. Khuri has always been creative. One of her favorite childhood memories is of creating art in elementary school. She made a linoleum print that she then carved into the shape of a sun entitled Sunshine. The artist says she can still remember the joy it gave her. Now, she feels that liberating joy every day.

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When her children were little, Khuri created works from clay on a potter’s wheel but was ultimately disappointed when there was little variation. After all, “Everything was round!” By changing shapes and adding sculptures, she realized that there was another path she needed to follow, leading her to where she is now. She took a few classes in figurative sculpture but is primarily a selftaught artist. Some of her first sculptures were created when she worked with Debra Fritts, who is now working in Abiquiu, NM.

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Best in Show, Roswell Art Center West (2015) Third Place, Canton Festival of the Arts (2018)

Khuri and her apprentices are also involved in the City of Woodstock’s “Free Art Friday.” On Fridays, they post a photo of a piece of art hidden in downtown Woodstock along with clues to its location. Whoever finds the location posts a photo of themselves and their free art using #FAFWoodstockGA on Instagram.

Since then, Khuri has been making sculptures and teaching for about 15 years. She started with children’s classes. She says, “I can easily relate to children because of my own short attention span, unfiltered spirit, and unwillingness to follow the rules. Teaching adults is more of a challenge. As we age, we let go of all those things that help make great art.” Her advice to other artists is to create your truth, keep working, be proud, and find your people. In addition to her business, Betsy Oh Art, Khuri’s accomplishments include: • •

Published piece, 500 Figurative Sculptures (2014) Best in Show, Canton Festival of the Arts (2015)

Bonnie Medford is a student in the MFA creative writing program at Reinhardt University, 7300 Reinhardt College Circle, Waleska. 770-720-5582. Reinhardt.edu/ Graduate/MFA-CW

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Five Core Competencies of Social-Emotional Learning By Lisa-Marie Haygood

Twenty years ago, school [AcademicLife] was mostly about reading, writing, and arithmetic. Public schools today are responsible for so much more than just academics. Why is it different? The truth is that family dynamics have evolved over time. More and more children have parents and stepparents or are being raised by single parents or grandparents. Often, both Mom and Dad have a full-time job, leaving less time to stay home to raise children, which changes their influences and learning environment. Many social and emotional skills are no longer being developed at home, so that has shifted some of the responsibility for what school officials call “social-emotional learning” squarely to the shoulders of our educators.

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Social-emotional learning is a framework of life skills that includes five core competencies: 1. Self Awareness: This is a “growth mindset” that comes from understanding strengths and weaknesses, physical and mental limitations, and finding a place of confidence and optimism in personal abilities. 2. Self Management: Students learn to control stress, impulses, and feelings, and this control is used to set and achieve goals. 3. Social Awareness: Students learn to try to understand the perspectives and challenges of others, including those from different cultures and backgrounds. 4. Relationship Skills: Students are taught to seek help and offer help when warranted. This is the art of clear communication, listening to others, working well with others, gaining understanding of social pressures that are appropriate as well as those that are unacceptable.

5. Responsible Decision Making: Students learn to make informed choices about personal behavior and social interactions based largely on ethics, safety, and normal social occurrences. This framework helps to ensure a positive learning environment for our children, and it provides life skills they need to be successful. Understanding where your child is with these skills, and helping to enforce them in your home, is an excellent way to continue to partner with his/her teachers to ensure he/she can meet the challenges of tomorrow.

Lisa-Marie Haygood is the executive director for the Cherokee County Educational Foundation. 770-704-4213. CherokeeCountyEducationalFoundation. org

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What’s Love Got to Do With It? By Pastor Andy Rogers

[InGoodFaith] Ever hear Tina Turner’s song, “What’s Love Got to Do With It?” While the song is catchy, the question is one that many have probably wrestled with in their relationships. The song lyrics claim love is simply “a secondhand emotion.” The singer’s pain from having been in an unhealthy marriage may have facilitated her desire to guard her heart from future hurt by dismissing the power of love. Many relationships have been bruised or broken, inspiring lots of people to concur with Turner’s lyrics. So, they enter relationships void of love, or with a distorted view of love, with past wounds that have not healed. This often perpetuates the pain, bad habits, and vicious cycle of relationships that leave us longing for, yet afraid of, love. If you’re asking, “What’s love got to do with it?” the answer is, “everything.” However, love doesn’t flow from our relationships with

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one another, but from God. Author Henri Nouwen was not immune from the pain associated with broken relationships. But rather than dismiss love based on its human expression, Nouwen embraced the unconditional love that God offers. In his book, In the Name of Jesus, Nouwen writes: “This unconditional and unlimited love is what the evangelist John calls God’s first love. ‘Let us love,’ he says, ‘because God loved us first,’ (1 John 4:19). The love that often leaves us doubtful, frustrated, angry, and resentful is the second love, that is to say, the affirmation, affection, sympathy, encouragement, and support we receive from our parents, teachers, spouses, and friends. We all know how limited, broken, and very fragile that love is. The radical good news is that the second love is only a broken reflection of the first love, and that the first love is offered to us by a God in whom there are no shadows. Jesus’ heart is the incarnation of the shadow-free first love of God.” Next time you find yourself asking, “What’s love got to do with it?” may you turn your eyes toward Jesus and what he did upon the cross.

Andy Rogers is lead pastor at City On A Hill United Methodist Church, 7745 Main Street, Woodstock. 678-445-3480. COAHUMC.org

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