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MBATHA Loving life, people & connecting

FEEL THE VIBE

There

was a distinct feel-good vibe while working on this issue –perhaps because advertisers have started punting their Christmas offerings quite early.

By the time you're reading this, Christmas will be less than two month’s away. How this year has gone by in a flash.

Someone who oozes positivity, always has a smile on his face, and who has embraced every opportunity that has come his way, is our cover personality Styles Mbatha. You might have tuned into his Saturday morning show on East Coast Radio so have had first-hand experience at how well he relates to and connects with people, but meeting him in person to do the cover shoot was certainly an uplifting and memorable occasion. He is so likeable, full of fun and energy and went the extra mile to get the perfect shot – I couldn’t help sharing some of the different “faces” of

Styles – see below. Read his story on page 10.

Another heart-warming and inspiring story on page 18 highlights the road to recognition and success for Advocate Sandhya Mahabeer who was recently elected the first female chairperson of the Advocates Society of KwaZuluNatal. What an achievement for women!

A shout out also for TeKayha Sukuram, who at age 20 is a model, dancer and has just landed her first major role in a movie. So young, pretty and talented. Read more about TeKayha on page 30 – and I’m sure we’ll be seeing loads more of her in the years to come.

So many people have been asking about the old Children’s Hospital at South Beach. Renovations are ploughing on – but there’s still much more to be achieved. Page 12 gives readers an update on the latest developments.

All too quickly the festive

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To get you in the mood for the festive season, turn to page 44 and whip up one of Ant's cocktails – the answer to hot, balmy days.

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LOCAL DESIGNER WINS HERITAGE MONTH COMPETITION

The #JockeyLovesLocal heritage month campaign that included an online voting competition for SA’s favourite design by two local designers which Jockey South Africa hosted, has been won by Durban based designer, Siphelele Ntombela from African Renaissance Designs.

Born and bred in Ladysmith, Siphelele has always drawn inspiration from his late mother Joyce Nosimilo Ntombela and his older brother Nkululeko Ntombela. His fresh prints, rich textures and inspired collections have gained him much acclaim over the years. According to Siphelele, his winning design is deeply rooted in an intimate

relationship between shapes and colours.

“For my locally inspired #JockeyLovesLocal design that seems to have really resonated with the public, I incorporated detailed outlines and artistic silhouettes that were paired with a beautifully feminine colour palette to

NEW MARINE WALK OPENS IN SIBAYA

The opening of the Marine Walk Shopping Centre at the end of September in the Sibaya node is a welcome boost for residents in the area, offering them a safe, convenient and familycentric retail space right on their doorstep. Tenants comprise of some of South Africa’s most popular brands like Dis-Chem, Kauai, Mr Price, Milady’s and Mugg & Bean, as well as

create a patchwork of cultural richness that complements every style and shape,” explains an extremely grateful and elated Siphelele.

Over the years Siphelele has accumulated several accolades as a designer, and has also featured on many runways including being

a number of ownerrun stores, the uMdloti family-run Casa Nostra restaurant, Waxy O’Connors, and the very first Woolworths W.Edit store in KZN. A new SuperSpar – with a dedicated gelato counter, sushi station, wood fired pizza offering, and an inhouse cafe to sit, work, chat and eat at – will offer an extraordinary shopping experience.

LEFT: Leeaquadth Khan and Sushmita Naicker shopped till they dropped.

selected as one of 50 Design Indaba Emerging Creatives, and has showcased his work at leading galleries and exhibitions across the country. This latest accolade saw Siphelele take home R15 000 cash and a contract to produce a limited-edition range to be released in time for Christmas.

THE BEAST LAUNCHES WINE COLLECTION

Legendary former Springbok prop Tendai “The Beast” Mtawarira has poured his passion into a new business project that is sure to be talked about – and savoured – at the next dinner party.

As a self-confessed “secret wine lover”, The Beast has launched of his very own bespoke wine collection, founded on a brand philosophy of excellence, resilience, and passion.

The full bouquet of products are now available to purchase online in South Africa and soon globally.

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While our voices are consistently warm, inspiring, encouraging and informative,

FLAGSHIP STORE

After complete destruction from the riots and looting in 2021, Kingsmead Shoes have rebuilt, revamped and reopened their Springfield Value Centre store, which boasts state-of-the-art interactive digital messaging being implemented for the first time,

a store layout and design that is bright and vibrant, offering an inviting feel for shoppers.

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THE MICHAEL JACKSON HISTORY SHOW IS BACK

The Michael Jackson HIStory Show tribute concert is set to return to Durban for its first local shows in four years, coming to The Globe at Suncoast from December 21-24, 2022.

you think ‘spectacular’ you think Michael Jackson – he was

the king of showmanship and creating amazing sensory experiences, and that’s what we’ll be recreating on stage,” says director Johnny Van Grinsven from Showtime Australia.

Johannesburg local Dantanio will play the role of Michael Jackson, with a host of international musicians and dancers alongside.

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STYLES MBATHA makingthe connection

ON AIR AND IN PERSON, HE’S CHARISMATIC, OPEN, WARM, AND PLAYFULLY RESPECTFUL TO EVERYONE WITH WHOM HE INTERACTS. THERE’S ANOTHER SIDE TO HIM TOO, AND IT’S THOSE COMPLEX LAYERS WHICH MAKE HIM RELATABLE TO HIS RISING LISTENERSHIP ON EAST COAST RADIO, WRITES ANNE SCHAUFFER

You don’t need young Styles Mbatha, East Coast Radio presenter, to tell you he loves people. He’s open and welcoming from the second he sees you, and you feel the feeling strongly. This low dose of ego is slightly surprising for someone who’s not only going places, who’s determined to keep climbing, but as his name suggests, looks the part!

It’s no real surprise to learn his working life began in hospitality, particularly working and playing with children. He’s fun, young at heart and, as it turns out, adventurous. South African born, raised and matriculated, when Styles began analysing his strengths with a view to his future, he knew one thing for sure: “I love people,” so he thought “hospitality”.

He spent three months in Zinkwazi running a children’s holiday programme, and for the next eight, ran similar entertainment programmes in Drakensberg resorts. He believed he’d found his niche – but nothing’s ever cast in stone.

Covid hit, and being in one of the

worst affected industries, he ended up locked down for six months on a farm in Bergville. A grin: “I learnt to be a farmer.” This was never going to be his career.

Back in Durban, he won’t ever forget a particular Wednesday: “I was busy frying chicken at a Durban North takeaway, and my phone pinged with a link to The East Coast Radio Presenter Search –my friends believed this would be for me. I had until Friday midnight to put it together. Long story short, I wanted a fresh challenge, and was intrigued by this. My dad had passed away in 2019, and not long before, he’d asked what I’d like to do with my life. ‘Be a radio presenter’ was my reply.”

This competition seemed serendipitous: “With no clear idea of what was required, I listened and watched other entrants online. The video had to be posted on the entrant’s social media platforms, with the relevant hash tags and that of East Coast Radio.” When entries closed, there were 5 000 submissions.

Styles chose videographer Kyron Allen: “I wanted to shoot my content

in a different way. I showcased Durban, places that people knew – the beachfront or the Sharks stadium – all recognisable. Instead of introducing myself in a predictable way, I interviewed random people about random topics, I learnt to ride a bicycle, I showcased myself through my surroundings.” Styles’ video squeaked in before the deadline and, just before he was heading to bed, a friend phoned to tell him to check his social media: “They’re loving you!” Over 50 000 views, people he knew and many

he didn’t, from KZN to Gauteng.”

Next morning, he woke to an email announcing he was in the quarter finals. He jumped through the various hoops, and finally, gets the call live on air – “Hello Hi,” he answers with his trademark greeting –he’d bagged the number one slot on the East Coast Radio Presenter Search.

Yes, a contract with East Coast Radio, R20 000, and a range of merchandise was his. His life changed from that moment, not only because of his Saturday 2 to 6 show, but the wonderful spinoffs. For

about the Disney shoot, but they were very cool items. I have a strong audience from Grade 7 to late 20s; on air, my audience is quite a bit older, so I’m talking to a wide age range.”

From the outside looking in, Styles is a good-looking young man with the world at his feet. Before Styles, he was Cecil. Styles came about back when he was a freeSTYLE rapper, and his friends dubbed him Styles. He’s happy with Styles, and very happy with this new life: “I feel most alive when I’m in front of people entertaining them –anything that involves complete strangers and showcasing who I am. For that split second, you’re giving everything of yourself, and they’re receiving it. It’s just a moment of connection, but I value that.”

Styles understands the value of that connection, and he puts it down to “how relatable your story is”. He believes his story is relatable, even though he’s firm

Styles, this world of sponsorship or ambassadorship was a foreign one. He represents a brand within Edgars called J Exchange, which has grown to include fragrances and beauty; he works with Cell C campaigns, and he has a sponsored Toyota Urban Cruiser vehicle. He’s loving all this, and understands that as a public figure, he can’t be that guy in flip flops all the time: “I now own two suits,” he grins.

“First suit I’ve ever owned. Mind blowing.”

A few weeks ago, he wore Mickey Mouse pjs. Another laugh, “I was quite nervous

about radio’s focus on the listener, not the presenter. He’s a facilitator. That said, he feels “Listeners are trying to find a friend in a voice. Why do you think radio listenership rose so substantially during lockdown?”

Whether it’s radio or sporting the latest PUMA sneakers – he’s a self-confessed sneakerhead – Styles is adamant: “Be the best version of yourself, whatever you’re doing. Always give more than is expected.” He has a great work ethic, but it’s not just a job, it’s a future: “I’m afraid of a lot of things, but one thing I’m not afraid of is work. I have a blueprint in my mind of what I want for the next five years. I’ve accomplished three of them, and look forward to watching the other two play out,” he grins conspiratorially. “You must be your best ‘hype man’, no one else can be that person. Only you know yourself; know what you’re capable of. I aim high – over there, but further.”

Listen on the radio or watch this space. *

Styles is adamant: “Be the best version of yourself, whatever you’re doing. Always give more than is expected”

Picture: Val Adamson

KZN

CHILDREN’S hospital

IF YOU WANT SOMETHING TO BE PROUD ABOUT IN DURBAN, HERE’S THE THING: THE KZN CHILDREN’S HOSPITAL IS A MAGNIFICENT PROJECT THAT, WITHOUT FANFARE, IS WORKING QUIETLY BEHIND THE RESTORED FACADES OF ITS HERITAGE BUILDINGS, TO BRING A SPECIALIST RANGE OF HEALTHCARE FACILITIES TO THE CHILDREN OF THE PROVINCE, WRITES ANNE SCHAUFFER

Conversations

usually falter at some point of the walk on the south side of Durban’s Promenade, as everyone asks: “Anything happening at Addington Children’s Hospital?” Plenty, as it happens.

With sleeves firmly rolled up, KZN Children’s Hospital Trust CEO Taryn Millar and Treasurer and board member Camilla Singh, know exactly what’s happening. Walking through the hospital, it’s crystal clear this project is one of Durban’s public-private partnership success stories. Behind the discreet signs of restoration visible from the beachfront, a team of professionals from all walks of life is inside – either treating children, restoring the buildings to their former glory, or repurposing aspects of the site and hospital to fit its new brief. Don’t think for a moment that nothing’s happening – the Outpatient Neurodevelopmental Assessment Centre has been fully functional since 2013, a full nine years, and over 30 000 young patients have been professionally treated during that time.

The hospital goes back to the 1920s to Mary Siedle – a city counsellor and one-time deputy mayor. She’d heard the story of a young boy, Mickey Freshwater, who, with dysentery, trekked from Mayville to Addington Hospital only to be turned away because there wasn’t a bed. Mary had lost a son in the First World War, and that tragedy drove her mission to get this hospital built – she fired up Durban to support her, and they did. Today, the exquisitely restored ceramic plaques honouring donors have been retained in the walls of the new hospital: donors from Durban Girls’ College to Gordon Road Girls’ School, to local women’s guilds, citizens and celebrities.

The hospital opened in 1931, and tragically in 1984 was closed by the apartheid government because of its multiracial admissions policy. Numerous attempts to reopen it failed, until 2009, when provincial cabinet approved the decision to renovate. The late Dr Arthi Ramkissoon – former CEO – and Professor Jerry Coovadia were highly instrumental in getting the project off the ground, and in 2011, the KZN Children’s

Hospital Trust was registered.

Taryn Millar says, “That’s where we come in. We work in a public-private partnership with the KZN Department of Health, and our relationship is governed by a service level agreement. As the Trust, we fundraise, project-manage, handle the architects and quantity surveyors. Essentially, we complete a building, and hand it over to the Department of Health and they run with operations.”

This is not a standard children’s hospital, nor is it a walk-in, it’s only referrals. Taryn explained: “At the outset, the KZN Department of Health completed a needs assessment of the province –the gaps they identified were children with neurodevelopmental disorders, and mental health conditions. Those are the services the hospital provides.”

The KZN Children’s Hospital site »

TOP: The restored hospital building.

LEFT: 1931 – the opening of the Addington Children’s Hospital.

RIGHT TOP AND BOTTOM: A before and after of a Mary Stainbank sculpture – restored to its former glory.

has four heritage buildings – the old main hospital building, the nurses’ home, and two unrenovated buildings still untouched. The architects, Ruben Reddy Architects, work with the heritage architects, Trish Emmett and Rodney Harber, who then liaise with AMAFA to ensure compliance with heritage guidelines.

To date, the exterior of the old main hospital building and nurses’ home has been renovated. On the west side of the hospital, a vast area was excavated to create underground parking for 120 cars, and to the north, pillars indicate where the new seven-storey medical facility – the Rainbow Tower – will lie.

“The Neurodevelopmental Assessment Centre sees children with autism, epilepsy, cerebral palsy, and various other neuro-diverse conditions,” says Taryn. “It’s a multidisciplinary facility, with a very different approach to healthcare and treatment. The child is seen by the paediatric neurologist, the OT, the physiotherapist, the dietician, the audiologist, the speech therapist, the psychologist and the social worker and, together, they come up with a treatment plan.”

A work in progress, the old main hospital will function as a Centre for Mental Health – with specialists in psychology and psychiatry for both

outpatient and inpatient care – there will be 40 inpatient beds. The proposed Rainbow Tower will house a palliative care ward, orofacial clinic and support services such as diagnostic radiology, a rehab gym and pool.

The Trust has nine board members, each bringing a wealth of skills, experience and expertise to the table. There’s a clear blueprint for the hospital, and Camilla says they’ll need a further

LEFT AND RIGHT: The run down entrance to the children’s hospital; today the entrance has been refreshingly restored.

John Aids Foundation and USAID – as have a number of smaller donors who’ve contributed professional services at discounted rates.

Camilla says the Trust requires around R180 000 a month to fund running costs such as insurance and security. They’re looking to install a Clearvu perimeter fence, so if you’re keen to be part of building a legacy, make the call. You could also contribute by buying a brick on the website.

R500-million to complete the complex: “We’ve raised R200-million so far, so we have a way to go.”

The KZN Children’s Hospital was always going to be a long-term project, with restoration and facilities moving ahead when funding materialised. A number of major donors have put substantial weight behind the project –recently Victor Daitz Foundation, Elton

To see the detailed restoration of this heritage site and building is a joy, and it’s hard not to admire the patience and commitment to a vision which can only move at the pace of the donor funding. So much has been achieved, and the attention paid to the decorative relief work, sculptures inside and out, ceramic detailing, graceful archways and even the landscaping makes you realise how drive, dedication and generosity can effect change.

So, next time you’re ambling along the Promenade, the answer is “Plenty is Happening.” *

FOR MORE INFO www.kznchildrenshospital.org; tmillar@kznchildrenshospital.org

There’s a clear blueprint for the hospital, and Camilla says they’ll need a further R500million to complete the complex

With

rising inflation in South Africa as well as global economic instability, a real estate grounded fund is beneficial as a means of safeguarding finances. Besides the benefits of owning a property in another country, the opportunity of a Golden Visa is also an attractive incentive for South Africans seeking future security for their families. So, for South Africans opting for citizenship through property investment, is there currently a destination that is attracting a lot more attention than others?

“Investing in offshore property is an excellent way for South Africans to get access to emigration and residency in a foreign country. Statistically, Portugal rates as one of the most popular Golden Visa and investment destinations for South Africans due to the enticing familyfriendly lifestyle and climate. This –together with other strong fundamentals – is how Portugal’s property market has lured a significant percentage of High Net Worth Individuals, particularly from South Africa. A key attraction for investors is Portugal’s stable economy and healthy property market,” explains Stuart Ferguson, Director of 12 Star Capital and CEO and Founder of American Dream.

WHY PORTUGAL GETS AN A+ AS AN EMIGRATION DESTINATION

The quality of education in Portugal is also a strong drawcard for South Africans choosing this European country as their top emigration destination. Public education is free except for extras such as meals and teaching materials, and 80% of scholars in Portugal attend public schools due to their excellent level of education. There are also private schools – including many international schools – if families prefer that option. Both public and private schools in Portugal offer a holistic education environment which includes physical and recreational activities. Furthermore, Portugal boasts many prestigious universities which are highly rated on the international rankings of higher education.

Investors can gain citizenship within

packing for PORTUGAL

AS A SOUTH AFRICAN, PLANNING YOUR FUTURE TO BENEFIT YOUR FAMILY IN THE LONG RUN HAS NEVER BEEN MORE IMPORTANT – AND A GOLDEN VISA MIGHT JUST BE THE INCENTIVE TO CEMENT YOUR FUTURE SECURITY. 12 STAR CAPITAL UNPACK THE PROSPECTS

five to six years once their Golden Visa has been approved, and once citizenship in Portugal has been obtained – besides travel within Schengen countries – they are able to live and work anywhere within the EU. Other benefits to South Africans for offshore property investment in Portugal are long-term capital appreciation prospects and currency hedge. The same would apply in large to other investors from emerging markets such as Brazil and Turkey, for example.

WHY THE LONG-TERM RETURNS IN PORTUGAL ADD UP

While most investments provide potential for long-term returns, offshore

investments give the opportunity to outperform inflation in most cases and grow capital in a stronger currency. Offshore investments provide access to global markets, allowing investors’ money to work harder within a diversified portfolio. Structuring of investments can achieve sustainability, minimisation of the tax burden, and ultimately ensure generational planning and the ability to leave a legacy.

“The structure would be determined by your objectives, but the use of joint accounts or trust structures might be useful tools for those looking to provide estate planning benefits. The importance of dealing with established

and reputable entities within this space cannot be stressed enough. We have in recent times formalised a relationship with South African based 12 Star Capital who have a wealth of experience and contacts when it comes to offshore property investment and boast an impressive success rate of processing emigration and Golden Visa applications in countries like Portugal, Grenada, Mauritius and even the United States,” says Sheldon Halerow, Executive Partner at CALEO.

GOING THROUGH THE RIGHT CHANNELS IS KEY

EQTY Capital, based in Portugal, also have a collaborative relationship with the likes of 12 Star Capital and according to Garth Martin of EQTY Capital, this

relationship allows investors to facilitate their offshore investment with confidence that the money being invested is secured in opportunities that have been scrutinised and assessed by experts in the field.

“With all the businesses we work with – locally and abroad – we do extensive research to identify only the best of the best with Portugal partners for collaboration. Golden Visa investors have ‘risk mitigation’ at the forefront of their thoughts, so it is paramount we ensure, for example, that investments presented comply with this and are not overextended to one asset type or real estate developer,” adds Ferguson.

Quality of life with safety, security and access to world-class public health and other services is paramount. However,

About 12 Star Capital

Boasting 10 years’ experience in Citizenship by Investment Programmes, 12 Star Capital have a distinct understanding of the application process and have affiliated with experts in the field of immigration to ensure success is achieved. With a strong South African presence and office in Johannesburg, American Dream and 12 Star Capital are easily accessible for South African investors, and they understand the various hurdles that might be encountered. Our objective is to ensure you experience a streamlined process through the investment programme and acquire an alternative residency. Additionally, 12 Star Capital is a member of Investment Migration Council and IIUSA and a lifetime member of AIIA.

when offering the final word of advice for people looking to identify offshore property investments – Ferguson says: “If a Golden Visa was not attached to this particular investment, would you still be interested in it? Fundamentally, is it a good investment? People looking to obtain citizenship in other countries through offshore property investment shouldn’t lose sight that due diligence should be done on the investment side as well as the visa application aspect.”

Speaking from her uMhlanga office with its sweeping view of the coastline, Sandhya Mahabeer SC, believes that her two-year tenure as leader of 339 fellow advocates based in both Durban and Pietermaritzburg will be an exciting time, but also admits it may not be easy.

“It’s about trying to look at things differently. We’re going through very trying times, but I feel that, fundamentally, it’s up to each individual to save this country, to help in whatever way they can and to encourage people to rebuild. We need and deserve a strong Bench, so we need a strong panel of judges. I believe that the Bar has an important role to play in that – we have an important goal,” she says.

For Sandhya, achieving this is not so much about her, but about the council functioning in a cohesive, interactive and dynamic fashion.

“I think the Bar represents a microcosm of industry in this country, especially post Covid. Why I am particularly proud to take over as chair is because this Bar Council is the most transformed we’ve ever had. We have predominantly female members and many women of colour. Covid and all the hardships and challenges it brought caused each and every one of us to relook and rethink how we practice,” she explains.

Of late, the legal profession has faced its fair share of upheavals, according to Sandhya.

The new Legal Practice Act that came into force a few years ago saw a complete change in the regulation

RAISING thebar

SHIRLEY LE GUERN CATCHES UP WITH SANDHYA MAHABEER, THE RECENTLY ELECTED FIRST FEMALE CHAIRPERSON OF THE ADVOCATES SOCIETY OF KWAZULU-NATAL

of the profession, adding complications that she admits many are still trying to learn their way around.

De-centralisation came next. “Previously, we were based in the Durban CBD. But the CBD has, unfortunately, degenerated over the years. With this came the challenge of having to leave that environment,” she says.

The end result is that this single legal hub has devolved

into 10 sets of chambers in Durban and three in Pietermaritzburg. This brought new opportunities to reorganise into groups that were more representative of the Bar.

Another challenge has been transformation. “There’s been a push for more women of colour to become involved in the business of the Bar and to be briefed in more challenging and more lucrative work. The mindset has begun to

change. I believe that where we go in the next two years will determine the relevance and the future of the Bar.”

But, financial challenges around Covid have seen many members, especially women, leave and practices fail.

“As a woman, it’s particularly challenging because, as a whole, this is still a maledominated profession. You have to work harder to get the same recognition as men. It is so difficult if you come in as a mother or young wife or even a sole breadwinner. It is hard to get your practice to the same level as quickly as men do,” she explains.

During her career, Sandhya has had firsthand experience of many of these issues.

Raised and schooled in Isipingo Beach, she admits that law wasn’t her first career choice.

Her love for the sea meant she wanted to be a marine biologist. But, during apartheid, career choices were limited

and she only had law and medicine from which to choose.

Rather than go directly from school to university, she spent a year in Australia as a Rotary student. This, she admits, was a culture shock. Communication was not what it is today and she found herself in a very rural area.

“But, I met the most wonderful people and it was an important part of my growth. I met people there who I still consider my family and I connect with from time to time,” she says.

She returned to begin her BA LLB at Howard College in 1990. After graduating, she followed her sister and then brother-in-law into the legal profession, joining their practice in Isipingo Beach in 2002, which exposed her to both criminal and civil law,

providing a good grounding in both.

When she realised she’d reached her ceiling here, she faced the choice of opening her own practice or moving to Johannesburg to work for a large corporate law firm.

However, her career moved in a totally different direction after she received a message from a colleague. The Bar was looking for a strong, woman of colour who would specialise in civil work.

“The thought intimidated me, but I took the plunge anyway. I have not had a single regret. It took some time to build my practice – it was the early 2000s – so it was a different time,” she says.

Career highlights include serving as an acting judge in 2018 and being granted silk status – conferred on advocates in recognition of excellence –from President Cyril Ramaphosa

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It comes as no surprise that Sandhya has little time for anything outside of law and her small amounts of time off are spent with her much-loved family and friends. She is an avid reader and enjoys walking and swimming *

ABOVE: Sandhya Mahabeer SC, the recently elected first female chairperson of the Advocates Society of KwaZulu-Natal.

It’s up to each individual to save this country, to help in whatever way they can and to encourage people to rebuild

SORBET LA LUCIA – JOIN US TO CELEBRATE 10 DAYS OF GRATITUDE –OUR SPOIL TO YOU

grit, glam, groom & GRATITUDE

After enduring a tough 24 months with Covid and other challenges, it’s gratifying to see that the health and beauty industry is back –South Africans have grown to realise that self-care is not a luxury, but a necessity. We persevered, and today we celebrate our 10th birthday.

Neerita Naidoo, mom, wife and franchise partner of the Sorbet Group, is the proud owner of Sorbet Salon and Sorbet Man in La Lucia Mall.

The newly revamped salon consists of seven manicure stations, six pedicure stations, a wax room and three cosy treatment rooms, with professional staff qualified in nail technology, skin strategy and also offering microneedling and dermaplaning. The Sorbet

Man team of barbers and therapists offer full head-totoe grooming.

Sorbet La Lucia specialises in skincare, guided by Neerita’s expertise as a qualified somatologist, a graduate of Camelot International. Your daily regime can be found in store with the likes of Dermalogica, Environ, DMK and Exuviance.

Award-winning Sorbet La Lucia is a hub known for its warm hospitality, guest satisfaction, hygiene standards and expert advice. The team has created a place of wellbeing where you can relax and unwind while enjoying an exceptional beauty experience. Service is based on personalisation and the Total

RIGHT: Neerita Naidoo (centre back) – owner of the La Lucia Mall Sorbet Salon and Sorbet Man – poses with her team.

Guest Experience: “We are here to service your grooming needs and want you to leave feeling like you ‘got that feeling’,” says Neerita.

“Our qualified staff follow the core Sorbet principles of integrity, respect, humility and serving the community in the best way they can. Our culture is the heart of our business.

“As we embark on this

Message from Sorbet

CEO: Linda Sinclair

“What an incredible achievement and milestone!

Daily, you serve your guests and community with such passion, pride and commitment. May you continue to touch the lives of many in a positive, meaningful way.”

milestone, I would like to thank our team for their service, dedication and for touching people’s lives, our guests for their support and growth in our footprint, and our team at Sorbet’s Support Office who keeps us educated and always on trend.”

FOR MORE INFO

To Get That Feeling and Get That Glow, book on 031 572 6632 or lalucia@sorbet.co.za

Founded

in 1895 as a holiday destination, that breezy, beachy vibe still infuses The Village today. With its lush coastal forest, sandy beaches and the warm Indian Ocean, it wasn’t too long before uMhlanga became one of the country’s most sought-after holiday destinations. Its strong appeal to holidaymakers still adds to its seasonal charm.

“It’s bright, exciting, young and buzzy. There is something for everyone, all along one compact strip of awesome,” says Butcher Boys’ content creator, Candice Hamilton. “You can swing in and pick a direction. You’ll find shopping, eating, everything. I love the little businesses and hideaway spots as well.”

Characterised by “old favourites” and an ever-changing mix of new concepts – if there’s something new, chances are it will hit The Village first.

“In the perfect location, you can experience a unique blend of cultures. Mediterranean-style restaurants rub shoulders with Asian, Middle Eastern and exotic African restaurants,” says uMhlanga Tourism vice-chairman, Sabelo Didi.

The Village is a unique space where visitors can leave their hotels and walk to any number of places, without having

RIGHT: Back in the mid-70s, the Oyster Box Hotel and Beverly Hills Hotel stood side-by-side, with the start of The Village in the background.

every day is a HOLIDAY

VEGAS HAS THE STRIP; LA HAS SUNSET BOULEVARD AND UMHLANGA HAS THE VILLAGE. IT’S THE PULSATING HEART OF THE TOWN WHERE PEOPLE MEET AND MINGLE ON ANY GIVEN DAY, FROM EARLY MORNING TO LATE AT NIGHT

to go through gates. It’s an old-school freedom that really comes to life during sporting events.

“The Village is a social place,” says Jocky Mendes who has operated restaurants on the strip for 17 years. “It was incredible here during the British and Irish Lions’ tour and the World Cups.”

A striking characteristic of The Village is its multigenerational appeal. Seeing this first hand is Gerhard Rothmann, manager at Lord Prawn. Operating from the uMhlanga Plaza for 35 of its 47 years, he says, “It’s quite something hosting couples who came to the restaurant in the 80s, coming in now with their children and grandchildren.”

New hotels and apartment blocks stand

tall next to the old dames and low rises built in the laid-back town of the 60s and 70s. “Developments bring more choice, more competition but also more visitors,” says Jocky.

“It’s going to be a bright summer festive season. The Village will be the place to relax and unwind for many locals and tourists – national and international –and we’re looking forward to that,” says Candice.

Whether it’s for an early morning coffee, brunch, light lunch, late afternoon sundowner or fine dining experience, The Village is the place that offers it all – turn the page to be tempted by some of the food and drink offerings in uMhlanga. See you there.

CURRY & COCKTAILS

With five decades of great Natal Indian recipes – handed down and perfected at the Beverly Hills Hotel – Executive Chef Nathania Wasserman has blended all the beautiful flavours and aromas of Natal curries in one sitting. Don’t miss Wednesdays at the Elements Cafe, where a scrumptious array of mouth-watering curries are served in an Indian-styled family feast of colours and flavours.

Starters comprise of Chilli Bites, Puri Pathas, Brinjal Bhaji, Cocktail Mince Samosas and a Bombay Crush. For mains

be tempted with the Beverly Hills bestselling Lamb Curry, Butter Chicken Curry, Broad Bean and Potato Curry, or the Fish Curry served with turmeric basmati rice, sambals, pickles and carrot salad.

This entire feast costs only R295 and if the mood takes you, wash it all down with a trio of gin-based cocktails at only R70 per cocktail. Every Wednesday lunch or dinner at Elements Cafe overlooking the pool and the ocean. Wednesdays have never tasted this good!

FOR MORE INFO: 031 561 2211; beverlyhills.reservations@southernsun.com

BURST OF FLAMES

To flambé – to drench with a liquor, such as brandy, and ignite – is the art of preparing dishes at the tableside with style and flair.

Chef Ntsiki’s Prawn Flambé has become a firm favourite with diners as she amazes them with special flavours in a bid to bring out the best of local ingredients and theatrics.

Whether it is a romantic twosome or a formal business dinner where the buttery prawns are prepared fresh, this dish never fails to impress as the flames light up the dining area!

Chef Ntsiki finishes the evening off with a wonderful Crepe Suzette – the perfect decadent dessert that will leave you wanting more.

FOR MORE INFO: 031 561 2211; beverlyhills.reservations@southernsun.com

STEAKHOUSE IN ITS “PRIME”

There is nothing better than a truly great South African steak – and there’s nowhere better to get that steak than at Butcher Boys.

It takes something special to carve out space for yourself on the Durban steakhouse scene, and the fact that The Boys have been getting it “just right” for nearly 25 years now, really says it all.

With top-tier service, happy ambiance, a temperature controlled fine wine cellar, fully stocked bar – and of course

incredible cuts of mature and tender steaks you can personally select – as well as an extensive menu to suit all tastes, Butcher Boys is a rare (and well done) dining experience.

Great for anyone looking for an unforgettable meal out, from intimate tables for two, to big groups of friends in it for the atmosphere, attention to detail and impeccable food. The vibey, young uMhlanga Village scene rounds off an experience worth remembering.

FOR MORE INFO: 031 561 4106; butcherboysgrill.co.za

WHERE FUN & ELEGANCE MEET

Standing majestically on uMhlanga’s prestigious beachfront, with sweeping views of the Indian Ocean, the elegant Oyster Box Hotel has been providing guests with special memories for almost 70 years. Much loved by all who visit, The Oyster Box is renowned for exceptional hospitality and wining and dining in four top-class restaurants and bars, for high tea, lunch, dinner or sundowners. Start your summer at the Oyster Box!

FOR MORE INFO: 031 514 5000; www.oysterboxhotel.com

TIKI TONGA COFFEE ROASTERS

There’s no better place for coffee and convo in The Village than at Tiki Tonga Coffee. Grab our legendary Cortado with latte art, sit back, relax and feel like you’re in Europe. Aromas of coffee while sitting under the trees in The Village enjoying a smashed avo on toast – the

perfect coffee setting. Chat to the locals, laugh with the baristas, feel like you belong. At Tiki Tonga choose from different coffee blends on offer, as well as their full food menu. Tiki Tonga –uMhlanga’s perfect coffee and conversation destination.

FOR MORE INFO: 087 808 9719; @tikitongacoffeesa

THE BEACH HOUSE

Dedicated to the days when misfits and vagabond travellers roamed the rugged SA coastline searching for waves, The Beach House pays homage to Durban’s legendary surf heritage.

With renowned chef and owner, Brendan Newport in the galley, it’s coastal cooking at its best, with a delicious and decadent look at seafood.

An oyster bar serves up the freshest oysters and a menu of old-school classics, smaller experimental tapasstyle plates and local seafood favourites, along with a cool range of burgers. Our

rock lobsters are locally sourced and are our epic take on the Lobster Roll – an institution in SA surf culture. All our food is prepared fresh, with a seasonal, ocean/ farm to table inspiration.

The Beach House is the perfect spot to catch up with a friend, finish up work, or just simply take a break to breathe. All our wines have been hand-selected for their nautical theme and can be paired with any dish on the menu; or try one of our cutting-edge cocktails masterfully shaken or stirred.

FOR MORE INFO: 031 943 3044; www.thebeachhousedbn.co.za

FIRELAKE GRILL HOUSE & COCKTAIL BAR

New kid on the block, Radisson Blu Hotel uMhlanga Durban is home to FireLake Grill House & Cocktail Bar, a unique escape in the heart of uMhlanga offering a North American open flame culinary journey.

Offering creative cocktails, fine wines and classic whiskies, guests can look forward to an inimitable, unique ambience while experiencing an unforgettable dining experience.

Stand-out gastronomy gems include, but isn’t limited to, the Far North dish featuring grilled fresh Norwegian salmon, gremolata, saffron, mussel ragout, sautéed artichokes, fine green beans and potato croquettes, Karoo Lamb Loin Chops lathered with home-made sauce of your choice, and a melt-in-the-mouth Top Deck dessert.

Classic flavours and techniques, presented in fresh, creative and contemporary ways to delight both destination diners and hotel guests alike.

FOR MORE INFO: 031 575 8500; www.radissonhotels.com/en-us/hotels/radissonblu-durban

STUDY AT SA’S TOP IT&Business Collegein2023

RICHFIELD IS THE LEADER IN IT AND BUSINESS QUALIFICATIONS, WITH CAMPUSES LOCATED IN PARK SQUARE UMHLANGA AND A BRAND NEW CAMPUS IN MUSGRAVE OPENING IN DECEMBER

Asa leading Information Technology and Business institution for over 30 years, Richfield recognises the business sector is changing, with an increase in technological advancements and companies expanding globally, organisations seek out graduates who acquire critical thinking skills to assess and identify problems and formulate creative solutions. Proficiency in technology is key for the next level of 4IR thus the ability to use technology to improve efficiency and productivity makes candidates more desirable.

According to a 2021 critical skills survey by Xpatweb, 98% of organisations agreed that ICT skills were essential to their ongoing operational success, with a growing demand for Web Developers, Software Engineers, Data Analysts, Mobile App Developers and Digital Marketers.

Richfield offers undergraduate and postgraduate degrees in Information Technology, Business and Public Management, and an extensive MBA programme to help executives, managers, and entrepreneurs take their careers to the next level. The Faculty of Information

Technology is the perfect environment for individuals who wish to tackle the IT skills shortage in South Africa and make an impact in global organisations such as Microsoft, Meta, Google Africa, Amazon Africa and more.

Their modules are built to make

students more forward-thinking, with topics ranging from Robotics and Automation to Mobile App Development, Simulation and Modelling.

For those interested in the economics and finance sector, The Faculty of Business Management Sciences offers

qualifications in Commerce, Business Administration, Leadership, Supply Chain and Marketing Management in order to make a real impact in the commercial space.

With a majority of unexpected industries moving more online, changing their business models, or re-evaluating their brand message to fit the new socio-cultural environment, this faculty is shaping the brilliant minds who will help them do just that. Bianca Sheriff,

As a potential student at Richfield, you can look forward to incredible fun and knowledge because Richfield is more than just a degree. – Bianca Sheriff, second year Bcom Marketing Management

a proud second year Bcom Marketing Management student from our Park Square, uMhlanga campus states:

“Being a part of a Richfield campus gives you an opportunity to show your true potential. To see the capacity you have TO DO ANYTHING you put your mind to. As a potential student at Richfield, you can look forward to incredible fun and knowledge because Richfield is more than just a degree.”

These business qualifications will become handy for those who may wish to participate in their growth initiative, The Entrepreneurship Hub – a platform that aims to decrease youth unemployment in South Africa by providing young entrepreneurs with the opportunity to create business ideas with the potential for investment. The future of business is exciting, and Richfield wants to put you at the forefront.

Scan the QR Code for our uMhlanga campus

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“You

have to have a passion for something if you want to do it. You have to be prepared to work hard and make sacrifices to be the best. You can’t have everything, so you have to prioritise. You also have to have a positive mindset. Then, you will find opportunity in everything,” says 20-year-old dancer, model and now actress, TeKayha Sukuram.

In July, TeKayha auditioned for, and won, one of the leading roles in the film adaption of Rubendra Govender’s book, Sugar Cane Boy. This authentic account of Indian and African co-existence on the sugar plantations of KwaZulu-Natal during apartheid is already a popular English set work at several Durban secondary schools.

The movie will be shot in November and December and released in mid-2023, says an excited TeKayha who is looking forward to unpacking the complex character of Seyuri Murugappa, the adult love interest of the main character, Soya Sivaramen.

“She is very snooty because she is the princess of Groenberg, the sugar plantation. She comes from a very, very wealthy family and has this air about herself and thinks she is superior to others,” she explains.

The movie is currently in pre-production and TeKayha has just completed her first reading and rehearsal.

“We got our scripts for the first time. The director and producers told us more about the movie and the cast did some scenes and performed and got some direction,” she continues.

This is her first big role, although she is currently working on another short film.

TeKayha says she has always wanted to act. She began dancing – Bollywood and hip hop – when she was just five.

“My family would leave Bollywood movies playing in the lounge and I would stand in front of the screen and join in. My grandfather had a guitar, and when he came home late from work at about 10 o’clock, I would jump out of bed and run into the room. He’d start playing and I would start dancing,” she recalls.

By the time she was 10, she was taking dancing lessons, and today she is hired to dance at corporate events and weddings.

She also made her mark at school, matriculating from Mount Edgecombe Private

BEAUTY &brains

FOR 20-YEAR-OLD TEKAYHA SUKURAM, LANDING ONE OF THE LEADING ROLES IN THE FILM ADAPTATION OF RUBENDRA GOVENDER’S BOOK, SUGAR CANE BOY, IS A DREAM COME TRUE, WRITES SHIRLEY LE GUERN

ABOVE: TeKayha with her family, her biggest fans and support. From left, her father Rohan, brother Sohan, TeKayha and her mother, Roslynn.

LEFT: TeKayha Sukuram. Picture: iamuphotography

School in 2019 as both head girl and dux with five distinctions, the Principal’s Award and the Dux Award.

She was also a Miss Teenager South Africa 2022 finalist and, after signing up with a modelling agency at the end of 2019, began photographic modelling.

Right now, TeKayha is studying a

BComm Accounting at UKZN as a safety net while she develops her career in the creative arts.

“I guess I’m what you would call a glass half full type of person. I take things very seriously and I’m a bit of a perfectionist,” explains this vivacious young woman who, despite loving the outdoors, fashion, watching movies and spending time with friends, spends a lot of time honing her acting skills online. She has already completed international workshops hosted by the New York Film Academy and several award-winning actors.

TeKayha sees her upcoming role as an important stepping stone. Never give up is her mantra and she says she is fortunate to have the full support of her family –including brother Sohan, a keen cricketer with the Dolphins Academy.

The next step up will be representing Africa at an International Modelling and

Talent Association event in New York next year. The largest talent convention in the world, this will see her perform for 300 talent scouts and agents. Watch this space. *

I guess I’m what you would call a glass half full type of person. I take things very seriously and I’m a bit of a perfectionist

find your FREEDOM

DIAGNOSED WITH ADULT ADHD, JESS BASSON RELATES HER PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS

If you look up the definition of “undiagnosed adult ADHD”, you won’t find any scientific information. You’ll just see a photo of me.

Before being officially diagnosed with adult Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, I didn’t have an explanation for why I was the mom who dropped her kids off at school the day before the new term started. Twice.

I couldn’t explain why I was the woman who is on her third wedding ring. To be clear, I had the same husband – but was on my third wedding ring. I won’t go into details except to say that one involved

getting the dog X-rayed, digging through poop for two weeks, and getting one of those metal detector guys to walk through the garden.

I didn’t know why I was like this, so I just made up the reasons. My forgetfulness, my scatter-brained diary, my inability to know where my sunglasses, keys and cellphone were at any given moment were annoying. Annoying but accumulating into labels that started to encircle me more fixedly. I lived inside these repetitive dynamics every day, unable to escape the frustrations they brought me, no matter how hard I tried.

My most insidious symptoms of undiagnosed ADHD – the ones most people never saw – were my shame, my sensitivity, and my wounded self-esteem. These beliefs that I was hazy, lazy and crazy had been galvanised over the years and started to close in on me from above, like bars. Not being able to explain my emotional intensity and anger was eroding my relationships. The niggling feeling that I was always failing made me defensive

and over-sensitive. The cruel, berating self-talk that no one except me heard was getting louder and louder, as the lack of explanation for my inefficiency left me with no other conclusions.

In the absence of truth, we inevitably believe lies. Lies are what lock us into the cages we feel trapped in. My cage had me believing I was a small person with a

Lies are what lock us into the cages we feel trapped in

RIGHT: Jess Basson is an author, speaker, pastor and life coach.

small life. On a good day, I could explain all of this with the resignation that I’m just not a high-capacity person. At worst, the absence of an explanation made me feel irreparable. Without language for the problem, there is no hope for a solution.

But then, I found the real cause of my symptoms. It was not a character defect. It was a neurological disorder. Suddenly, a key was dropped into that cage.

Reflecting on my journey with ADHD, I have come to believe this:

Name your cage.

Find your freedom.

Maybe you feel like you’ve lost yourself somewhere to lies. Perhaps you don’t know what your next step is.

It doesn’t have to be this way.

You were made to be soaring, flourishing and free.

So reach out, ask for help and walk out that door. *

FOR MORE INFO

You can buy Jess’ book, Empty Cages – Keys To Finding Freedom, at www.jessbasson.com

barefoot IS BEST

I HAVE SUCH TERRIFIC TOES; I TAKE THEM WITH ME WHEREVER I GOES; I HAVE SUCH FANTASTIC FEET; NO MATTER WHAT, THEY STILL SMELL SWEET. LITTLE FEET MIGHT BE CUTE AND CUDDLY, BUT, SAYS NELFRIE KEMP, BEING BAREFOOT IS AN IMPORTANT STEP OF THEIR DEVELOPMENT

Littlefeet and toes are just born cute. At birth our bones are cartilage, and through a maturing process called ossification, the transition to bone occurs at different ages for different bones in our feet (and bodies). Most toddler’s feet appear flat due to a fatty pad on top of the feet and on the inside of the foot. Through development and once walking, the arches should develop. It’s best for kids to be barefoot and exposed to all surfaces every day – grass, sand, climbing,

running and jumping – which helps with their normal development and sensory awareness.

Babies

Socks, booties and babygrows should fit loosely around the feet and not cause the toes to curl in. With babygrows there should be space in the feet area even with their legs fully extended. Cut nails regularly to avoid them from cutting into the adjacent toes or causing discomfort in socks and babygrows.

Crawling

Their feet seem to take a pounding while crawling, but this is a very important role in normal development. As much as possible avoid shoes while kids are crawling, and take care with socks which may cause them to slip. If their feet need to be covered, then an option is leather “shoes”/socks –manufactured by a well-known brand in SA, they are flexible, protective and lightweight, and come in very cute designs.

Walking

Milestones in kid’s development are important but if they are a few weeks behind in walking, it’s not the end of the world. If you are concerned, seek professional advice from someone who specialises in children. As mentioned, going barefoot is best, but when they do need to wear shoes, extreme care must be taken that the shoes do not interfere with or compensate their walking. Take care with shoes that are too soft and collapse under the foot, which can lead to altering the walking pattern.

Cracked skin

Although barefoot is best it can cause painful cracked skin especially around the toes and heels. Obviously there can be other skin conditions, but in general cracked skin is caused by dryness. Apply cream daily to their feet after bathing, and if you can, get them to wear socks for a while to keep the feet moisturised.

Shoe shopping

My advice is to buy a few pairs of shoes and try them on at home when your child’s feet are clean and they’re in the mood for trying on shoes. In the shop it’s possible they’ll fall in love with the incorrect shoe,

while at home you can watch them walk and make sure it’s the correct fit.

When to seek medical advice

It’s difficult to give exact guidelines when to be concerned about a child’s feet and walking, but here are some guidelines: If you notice a deterioration in their mobility; if they trip and fall more than usual; if they avoid stepping over something, climbing or jumping; a change in behaviour – like wanting to be picked up or avoiding walking/ crawling; when other people are concerned about their crawl or walk – often grandparents notice these things. *

FOR MORE INFO

Nelfrie Kemp: www.nelfriekemp.co.za; @nelfriekemp W @nelfriekemp

5 tips when buying children’s shoes

1. The shoe should be lightweight.

2. Flexible over the ball of the foot.

3. Accommodate the feet –width, length and instep.

4. Adjustable straps to allow for a comfortable secure fit.

5. The foot and shoe should function as a unit. There should be no need for the toes to grip and hold on to the shoe.

Lucy

Cronje – teacher and school leader of Ocean View Montessori – has been steeped in every aspect of the Montesssori philosophy for over 30 years, as a teacher, parent, Master’s graduate and school leader. She’s as passionate today about the methodologies and outcome as she was when she first encountered –and resonated with – Maria Montessori’s vision.

Maria Montessori had recognised that learning is most effective when the child can choose their area of focus, and is able to explore it through movement and their senses. In response to this, she created learning environments and a teaching approach that facilitate both, and allowed for constructive choices in activities.

Lucy is aware that the idea of choice and freedom of movement ring alarm bells for many traditional educators: “Those on their first visit to a Montessori school may come along with the preconceived notion that this is the place where children do exactly as they wish, whenever they wish, and that they have freedom to do so without any limits. These are myths that committed Montessori teachers ‘bust’ every day. They do so through their approach to behaviour management, planning and delivery.

“The ‘freedoms’ are governed by positively expressed ground rules that provide a framework for behaviour, helping children to develop self-discipline, task management and collaboration. The children’s choice of activities is guided by the teacher’s observations of each individual child’s interests and

EDUCATION for todayÕs child

MARIA MONTESSORI (1870 TO 1952) WAS A VISIONARY EDUCATOR WITH A VERY CLEAR UNDERSTANDING OF CHILD DEVELOPMENT. TODAY, THE OCEAN VIEW MONTESSORI SCHOOL PROVIDES A TODDLER GROUP, PRE-PRIMARY, JUNIOR PRIMARY SCHOOL AND A LEARNING STUDIO FOR GRADE 4 UPWARDS REFLECTING HER PHILOSOPHY

development. Record keeping is used to inform ongoing planning and track progress against required outcomes.”

Lucy firmly believes the Montessori approach to be of increasing relevance for today’s children: “We are in urgent need of a method of education that encourages activity for healthy minds and bodies, fuels curiosity for learning, boosts emotional intelligence, and connects children with nature and their communities. Modern research in neuroscience evidences the outstanding growth that a Montessori education can provide – check out the QR code.

“An authentic Montessori education delivered by fully qualified and experienced teachers, such as the Ocean View team, is a launchpad for life. Not only preparing the child fully for their

RIGHT: Lucy Cronje, leader of Ocean View Montessori in Durban North.

future steps in mainstream education, but to pursue careers of their choice with confidence and excellence.”

FOR MORE INFO

Visit www.oceanviewmontessorischool.co.za to book your school tour.

School

A high level of foundation phase education within a nurturing and nature-based environment.

Small classes, individual attention.

Family orientated

Pupils are fully prepared to enter mainstream schooling

at grade one and grade four.

Book your visit with us.

Toddlers,

todayStudio with

The dinner table can sometimes be a battlefield, especially when our children are young. In our attempt to ensure our children’s growing bodies get the nutrients they need, we find ourselves begging, pleading, threatening and punishing, just to get those veggies down. As a result, the table becomes a place we dread, a time fraught with anxiety, where no one is having a good time.

Perhaps we are fighting the wrong battles? Perhaps shifting the focus from what we are eating to who we are eating with would serve the whole family better. Don’t get me wrong, I am very invested in feeding my family healthy, balanced meals, but I am equally – if not more – invested in building and fostering a life-giving environment of conversation and connection that the dinner table offers us.

If our focus is on forcing our children to finish their food instead of finding out how they are doing and what they are thinking, we give up one of the most powerful familystrengtheners there is – time together to ask questions, share experiences and build belonging. It is so important, from the time our children are in highchairs until they are full-grown adults, that the dinner table is where we want

CONNECTING thefamily

MEALTIMES ROUND THE DINNER TABLE CAN BE STRESSFUL, BUT ARE WE FIGHTING THE RIGHT BATTLES? CHRISTY HERSELMAN GIVES US FOOD FOR THOUGHT

to be, a place where we can process our feelings in a safe way, a place we learn to listen and disagree respectfully, a place we laugh and love as we fill our tummies and our souls.

A couple of thoughts on how to make this happen:

• Never force your children to eat anything. Offer healthy options, let them dish up for themselves and leave them to it. As my midwife once told me, no child ever starved themselves to death.

• Encourage your children to try all foods and be adventurous eaters. Reading our kids Dr Suess’s Green Eggs And Ham was how we got this right!

• Have a little structure – sharing a daily highlight/ lowlight or pulling out a jar of dinner table questions can help get the chatting going.

• Make the table a place where no questions are stupid or off limits, curiosity and discussion are encouraged and all ideas and views are respected.

• Remember that tea and toast or take-aways are just as sacred as meat and three veg. Life is busy. Whatever you are eating, just try and make sure it is around a table.

• The table should be a strictly device-free space where we are fully present and engaged.

• Welcome visitors to your table often, including people who are very different to your family. Hospitality and inclusion build community.

So as we raise our families around the table, let’s nourish our souls and relationships, not just our bodies. As we do so, we teach our children valuable life skills and make sure they always feel seen, heard and loved. *

Scan this QR code to find out more about Christy Herselman and her culture-shaping movement The Chat!

MORE thanalifestyle

WITH A FULLY EQUIPPED CONFERENCE CENTRE NOW IN OPERATION AT MAX’S LIFESTYLE VILLAGE IN UMLAZI, BOOK NOW FOR YOUR END-OF-YEAR CHRISTMAS FUNCTION OR NEXT BUSINESS CONFERENCE

Nestled

in the heart of the bustling township of

Umlazi, south of Durban in KwaZulu-Natal, and founded by Max Mqadi (above) in 2002, Max’s Lifestyle is a trendy eatery which has become a must-visit and ritzy hangout for anyone wanting to enjoy a slice of township lifestyle, in a

safe and secure environment.

Since the beginning Max has had a vision – to turn Max’s Lifestyle into one of the top venues in the country. Not just a place where people meet and have their cars washed while they enjoy food and good company, but a venue where businessmen can forge new deals and plan for tomorrow; where companies – big

and small – can gather to celebrate milestones in an exclusive setting offering the very best money can buy.

Max’s Lifestyle was voted by the influential lifestyle magazine, Conde Nast Traveler, as one of the world’s best 2017 restaurants globally, and today, Max’s Lifestyle is proud to be at the forefront of warm hospitality, good food and a state-of-theart venue with a conference centre featuring everything needed to make your company occasion one to remember.

SPECIAL EVENTS & PRIVATE FUNCTIONS

Max’s Lifestyle has changed the township tourism landscape, by bringing major events, such as the Vodacom Durban July to Umlazi. As Max’s Lifestyle, we also cater for private functions such as birthday parties, bridal showers, etc.

BUSINESS CONFERENCES

Producing a business conference is an excellent way to bring people within a company or industry together, to share ideas and to learn about new trends and opportunities. Organising a conference is a complex undertaking that can involve months of planning to ensure the event is a success. We make everything easy for you by bringing you the best place to host your conference.

YEAR-END CHRISTMAS PARTIES

Christmas comes round once a year, but leave it to us to cater for your needs because our aim is for you to have the most memorable time at Max’s Lifestyle. We offer tailor-made packages for corporates who want to use our establishment for meetings, team-building exercises, or Christmas parties. We have also become

famous for hosting glittering special events throughout the year in partnership with corporates who want to leverage

CHRISTMAS BRAAI BUFFET

Family time is special, and Max’s Lifestyle want to make sure you and your family are taken care of while having the best time on Christmas Day.

Whether you’re planning an end-of-year Christmas

party for your family or your company staff, or are looking for a conference venue that ticks all the boxes for your business, make enquiries now to secure Max’s Lifestyle for your next corporate function.

Whitepicket fences, neighbours gathering for a catch up at the end of their roads, kids laughing as they ride their bikes up and down cul-desacs on hot summer days – for most people this is what they envision when they think of living in a family-friendly neighbourhood. The essence of a true neighbourhood is what most of us long for and Lalela Estate’s community-centric values focus on the nostalgia of an ideal neighbourhood environment. Through its design, lifestyle and amenities, Lalela is zoning in on what makes a quintessential neighbourhood setting and reviving our most loved characteristics of living in a true community.

The reality is that most gated estates were built for security rather than the notion of being a neighbourhood. However, one of the drawcards many estates promote about living in gated environments is the sense of community. Despite this, the architecture of many estates doesn’t lend itself to the true notion of neighbourhood living, with layouts often being linear with one main road, some feature circular roads and perhaps a spattering of cul-de-sacs.

The market demand for property in estates continues to increase, and this is clearly evident in the rate of increase in the number of gated estates from 6 500 in 2016 to over 8 600 in 2022 as per research from Lightstone.

“Living in a gated estate may be regarded as one of the top items on the wish list of many South Africans because of the security, amenities and lifestyle they provide. At Lalela Estate, we’ve created the perfect marriage of a traditional gated estate with a true neighbourhood feel – the opportunity for small neighbourhoods to exist within the larger estate through the creation of lane architecture leading to a cul-de-sac. The cul-de-sac and the benefits of living in a cul-de-sac is what drives the vision of Lalela,” explains Geoff Perkins, Head of Residential Projects, Collins Residential.

The formation of these small aterial roads and cul-de-sacs will allow

a lifestyle of BELONGING

WITH BREAKING GROUND DUE TO TAKE PLACE WITHIN A FEW MONTHS, LALELA ESTATE IS ALL ABOUT BRINGING BACK THE “NEIGHBOUR” IN “NEIGHBOURHOOD”

neighbours to live with one another in a community without divisive walls and enough privacy to live comfortably without prying eyes. These lanes will facilitate small pods allowing for the creation of ecosystems of connected families, which are intrinsic to one’s psychological well-being – giving the definition of neighbour a feeling once lost.

At Lalela

connecting with your neighbours and being able to share with the one’s who live closest to you. This was the inspiration behind the family inspired Lalela Estate. The two- and three-bedroom homes go beyond the walls but fit comfortably within the 104-hectares of lush greenery and natural wetlands. Drawing you closer to nature, residents will enjoy serene living and a sense of reconnecting with nature and the people closest to you.”

Homeowners will be able to choose from five custom designed, single-storey architectural layouts with their own private garden and parking. Starting from R2 295-million with no transfer duty and no conveyancing fees, there is only a R50 000 reservation fee required.

This will impart a true feeling of belonging for residents while also providing an additional layer of security.

Geoff adds, “The past couple of years have reminded us of the importance of

Over the years the term neighbour had lost the zest it once had. It’s refreshing to see community centric estates such as Lalela coming to the fore, reminding us to stop, listen and embrace the beauty around us. Reminding us that it takes a village to raise a child and that it’s better to do life with neighbours you know.

Estate, we’ve created the perfect marriage of a traditional gated estate with a true neighbourhood feel

Weall love the summer holidays, but looking good and feeling good are paramount to enjoying every moment of sunshine. Follow these tips and you will already be on the road to success:

1. Removing temptation from your lifestyle can help a lot. Researchers have concluded that the mind can only make a certain amount of conscious decisions each day. It takes self-control to walk past a tempting snack, but when your self-control “runs” out, temptation wins. Remove all unhealthy food from your kitchen and stock up on healthy options your body needs. I even limit most fruits because fruit is nature’s candy and adds to your calorie intake.

2. Visualise how you will cope when you are tempted. Yes, you will have to face unhealthy food at work or events you attend – so prepare your mind before you are tempted. Prepare yourself mentally to opt for the healthy option or perhaps even some refreshing water. Alternatively, eat before you leave home, as hunger can tempt you to “break the rules”.

3. Eat mindfully. Make your mealtimes an event, where you sit down to eat and appreciate your food. Sometimes we eat “on the go”, not realising how much we eat, and are not always fully satisfied afterwards. Remove electronic devices from your mealtimes, look at your food and enjoy the flavours. One is more likely to be satisfied quicker and eat less when practicing mindful eating.

4. Make your healthy food interesting by using a variety of different foods every day. I like to experiment with different flavours, textures, colours, herbs and spices. Besides, when a salad looks pretty, it’s just so much nicer to eat.

5. Smaller plates, taller glasses. When using a big plate, the temptation is to overeat. Similarly, if drinking something other than water, choose a tall, thin glass. Most people’s minds perceive that they are getting more out of tall, thin glass compared to a short, wider one.

6. Make healthy food your treat. Once you are in the habit of cutting out sugar etc,

11 SECRETS tolosingweight

BEFORE THE FESTIVE SEASON STARTS, AND AS WE GET CLOSER TO THE HOLIDAYS, HERE ARE CHRISTYANN.FIT’S GUIDELINES TO LOSE WEIGHT, BECOME LEANER, AND FEEL MORE COMFORTABLE IN SUMMER SWIMWEAR

you’ll find healthier alternatives so much tastier. Choose a healthy snack you really like, and reward yourself with it.

7. Minimise alcohol to once or twice a week. I personally find that just one glass of wine makes me relax, but on the downside it obscures my ability to make healthier choices.

8. Presentation is key. Present your foods on pretty plates, put flowers on the table, use your favourite cutlery and crockery to make the eating experience most enjoyable.

9. Always keep healthy snacks handy. Keep nuts or biltong or a low-carb sugarfree bar in your handbag for when on the go – more convenient than stopping to buy something.

10. Know your trigger foods. Dodge trigger foods by being present in the moment and not on auto-pilot. Being

conscious when making your choices helps to make healthier choices. For me, trigger foods can be sweet food, and once tasted, it’s harder to resist the temptation.

11. Drink more water. We often feel hungry, but in fact are thirsty, so drink a glass of water. Flavour your water with berries, mint, cucumber and lemon. And when eating out, try sparkling water for a change.

Remember to keep on moving –exercise and healthy eating cannot be separated if you want the best results. Follow my blog for more on “Believe, Move, Nourish”. *

FOR MORE INFO

Go to www.christyann.fit to read more about my affordable online body coaching and workouts. Also find my activewear range to feel comfortable in your skin while training.

Step

inside EmporiDerm and breathe a little easier, as you hand over your personal skin, weight or wellness challenges to Dr Maxine. Her practice has established a fine balance between an inviting, elegant and calm space, and a professional, medically driven aesthetic treatment clinic. You’ll feel comfortably at home, pampered too, yet safe and secure in highly competent medical hands.

This is no spa or salon. Here, medical knowledge underpins everything. From the latest technology and skills in aesthetics like anti-wrinkle injections, fillers and IV vitamin drips, to chronic acne, pigmentation, hormonal imbalances and weight gain.

At EmporiDerm, you and your wellness journey are paramount, and it begins in this superbly calming setting. Contrary to the clinical, often intimidating aura of a medical practice, EmporiDerm is a cool, spacious and stylish penthouse, has coffee on tap, and an outdoor covered veranda with comfy seating and glorious sea views.

At Emporiderm, you might consult Dr Maxine for a single aspect of your wellness, but she’ll provide an holistic patient diagnosis and experience. If you want an aesthetic or medical treatment, but have doubts – book a consult, and you’ll be fully assessed and given a comprehensive treatment plan.

At Emporiderm, you’re pampered in medical hands by a qualified team of women who understand and empathise with women’s concerns: “When you leave here, it’s not where your journey ends,” assures Dr Maxine. “I’m always there for my

where wellness, beauty&medicine CONNECT

AT EMPORIDERM AESTHETICS & MEDICAL IN RIDGESIDE UMHLANGA, FOUNDER, OWNER AND MEDICAL DOCTOR, DR MAXINE BOOYSEN IS TAKING WOMEN OF ALL AGES ON A WONDERFUL WELLNESS JOURNEY

patients, happy to answer any questions and walk with them on their journey. Premium quality underpins everything we do, whether it’s advice on the perfectly targeted skincare products for you, antiageing treatments, a GP consult or basic women’s health. At Emporiderm, you’re unique, so after a thorough assessment,

Emporiderm is the brainchild of Dr Maxine Booysen, a GP with a special interest in wellness, anti-ageing and aesthetic medicine.

Her vision? To create an inspired space for women and men who want to maintain longevity and health, and to become the best version of themselves.

MEDICAL

FACE,

you’ll always receive individualised treatment.”

Dr Maxine offers more than a medical practice, more even than an aesthetics one. From head to toe, teenager to retiree, her passion is female wellness, and she’s there to ensure you become the best version of yourself.

Face Body Medical

sip into SUMMER

Let’s

keep this short, simple and very happy, because this is about summer boozing. Cocktails shouldn’t be reserved for glamorous nights out, nor require a bow-tied professional to shake like a lunatic. Pouring a perfectly balanced, classic cocktail is one of life’s lovely little pleasures, one we can all get

Hawaiian Sea Breeze

Sweet, tart and tropical.

• good quality vodka

• pineapple juice

• cranberry juice

• lime wedges

• ice-cubes

Mix 2 measures of vodka with 2 measures of pineapple juice in a tall, cold glass. Fill with ice-cubes, top up gently with cranberry juice to keep the layers and garnish with a wedge of lime.

Lynchburg Lemonade

You donÕt know Jack until youÕve tried this.

• Jack Daniel’s Tennessee whiskey

• orange liqueur

• fresh lemon juice

• ice-cubes

• Sprite

• lemon slice and cherry for garnishing

Mix 2 measures of Jack Daniel’s, 1 measure each of orange liqueur and lemon juice in a glass or jar, fill with ice-cubes and top off with Sprite. Garnish with a lemon slice and a fresh cherry.

behind … after all, we’re here for a good time, not a long time.

A quick triple-shot of basic rules for ya: Buy good quality hooch, always have ice, and make your drinks look beautiful with a frosted glass, a salted rim, a twist of citrus zest or a fresh cherry here or there. Try these swingin’ recipes that’ll make your breezy summer days last forever.

Classic Margarita

Yes, tequila isnÕt only for nasty shots

• coarse salt

• fresh lime juice, keep a squeezed wedge

• proper tequila

• orange liqueur

• ice-cubes

Sprinkle salt into a shallow dish and rub the reserved lime wedge around the rim of a glass, then dip in the salt to cover the rim. Add 1 measure of lime juice, 2 measures of tequila and 1 measure of orange liqueur into a cocktail shaker with ice-cubes, and shake well.

ABOVE: Durban lover of good food, wine and company, Ant Ellis.

Serve in a short glass with or without ice.

Until next time: Here’s to nights we’ll never remember, with friends we’ll never forget. Bottoms up! *

FOR MORE INFO

Talk to me at ant@rockthekitchen.co.za

THE TRAIN onthe Bridge

THE KRUGER SHALATI

TRAIN ON THE BRIDGE IS A GLORIOUS TRIUMPH OF DETERMINATION OVER IMAGINATION, A WORLDCLASS, AUTHENTICALLY SOUTH AFRICAN BOUTIQUE HOTEL EXPERIENCE, IN THE HEART OF KRUGER NATIONAL PARK. FOR SOUTH AFRICANS, BY SOUTH AFRICANS, WRITES ANNE SCHAUFFER

“Like

a poem,” Sal exhaled reverently, gazing at the spot where only moments before, had lain a perfectly curated platter of deliciousness. It was dinner at the Bridge House – the Shalati Train Restaurant – not only faultless in every culinary way, but in every other possible way too – sitting outdoors on the deck, candlelight flickering, moon over the waters of the Sabie River, soft rugs for the chill, service unobtrusive yet totally attentive, we sighed more than we spoke. It was such a gentle evening in a wholly wild environment, and the first of many contradictions which captivate.

We’re Kruger devotees. We visit annually and joyfully, content to live slightly rougher for the time we’re there, just for the wonder of being in this magically wild landscape. Nothing compares. Well nothing until we crossed over

to the flipside of rough, and spent 48 hours inhaling the Kruger Shalati Train experience. It’s so much more than a glorious treat, it’s extraordinary in a way that’s brave and innovative.

As South Africans, it’s hard to describe the unbelievable pride we felt as we experienced this bat-crazy idea of a stationary train on a bridge, brought to life so perfectly as a boutique hotel, then capped by the five-star level of warm, professional service provided by a deeply committed staff. To say the staff “owned” the train and the hospitality experience, is an understatement. It’s seen and felt by everyone who visits.

The train itself is remarkable. Extraordinary. No other words for it, although Shalati’s interior designer Andrea Kleinloog had a few. She

described her journey with her client, Jerry Mabena, CEO of Motsamayi Tourism Group, owners and operators of Kruger Shalati – and the adventures from the warehouse to this station, as “a

discernible beneath the rust,” she grins. Actually, they were 1950 relics from a train scrap yard. The Mech Mobility crew had a massive task ahead of them. They stripped the carriages entirely, lined the interiors with blackout waterproofed steel frames, and layered a birch-ply frame on top of that.

captivating, multi-layered story”.

She recalls her first glimpse of the carriages in 2018: “I travelled forever to a massive warehouse in the middle of nowhere, full of burnt-out train carriages with their traditional colours just

“A carriage sample was created, which was constantly tested for its flow and functionality. Andrea says: “We probably changed that about five times, changing and swopping elements until it worked perfectly.” The entire team was fired up by the idea of recycling and reengineering scrap to create world-class accommodation – it fed into the “good intention” psyche which underpinned the entire project, right from authentic community-based involvement on a »

It’s daring and delightful to sip an outlandish cocktail while perched in the sky

number of levels including of course, staffing and world-standard training, through to the integration of exceptional art and craftwork commissioned out to talented South Africans.

The Kruger Shalati Train is stationary on a bridge suspended 15m above the Sabie River, the bridge built in 1893 and an integral part of SA history and indeed that of Kruger Park. With 24 carriage rooms on the train tracks – and another seven Bridge House rooms (one honeymoon) on land – Kruger Shalati also has decks, three swimming pools, a vast shed-like reception/shop/restaurant area (Bridge House), plus fire pits and indoor-outdoor dining.

Nothing is ordinary. Nothing. Every little thing, or large, has a quirk, a charm, a something to capture your attention. Your carriage room has fully glassed walls – and that includes from your bath – with wide open views of the Sabie River, where you’ll game watch

Your carriage room has fully glassed walls with wide open views of the Sabie River, where you’ll game watch from your bed or your little outdoor deck

from your bed or your little outdoor deck. It’s an extraordinary feeling, being elevated above the river, watching a herd of elephant or endless birdlife, lying in bed listening to the grunt of hippos from this vantage point. Every detail has been exquisitely curated – nothing left to chance.

As Andrea said, “Our brief was twofold – an international standard for sure, but very focused on an experience for South Africans. It was designed around traditional train language, but never oldfashioned or staid. There’s a constant

pull between new and old.” So, traditional cabinetry, but contemporary rugs, mirrors and more. Sometimes traditional methods were employed … but upped into a more modern aesthetic.

It went beyond simply exquisite interiors, for there were numerous practical considerations. The carriages would be transported by crane, then by truck, so great care had to be taken that the interior elements could flex, hence vinyl flooring and the adjustability of the cabinetry. The mosaics, too, were chosen because a train’s structure is designed to compress in the event of a crash, so if, in transit, grouting cracked, it would be easier to fix than other rigid materials. When the carriages were ready for

Skukuza, each one was used as storage/ transport for elements like mattresses.

Designed for South Africans, by South Africans was a key part of the brief, and Andrea is proud to say that around 90% of the furnishings and decor were made locally: “We designed the pattern for the mosaics – Penny Round – and although it looks like rainfall in the showers, it’s actually the Shalati logo – all produced locally by Douglas Jones.”

One of the great joys for the design team was the integration of South African art- and craftwork, right from the linen you sleep in (a black women-owned company), to the Seana Marena blanket on the bed, created in collaboration with designer Bonolo and Lulasclan, a new-African creative consultancy studio. Sakhile Cebekhulu’s wall art embroidery – he embroidered on old photographs of the Shalati train tracks – hangs on the Bridge House walls. The list of South African artistry is long and deep – Kruger Shalati is a true celebration of South African creativity.

One of the Shalati gems is found in a central train carriage. A deck and pool overhanging the river, complemented by a contemporary cocktail bar with killer

cocktails conjured up by a charming pro. It’s daring and delightful to sip an outlandish cocktail while perched in the sky. It’s the look-out from where you can see forever down the river, and it’s certainly one of the many places you can lose yourself.

The Shalati Train on the Bridge was subject to stringent environmental strictures, whether it was lighting or colour “pollution”: “The light specs were stringent,” said Andrea, “you won’t find a single exposed bulb.” The gardens – laid out by the design team – are a stylish, muted mosaic of stones, rocks, wood and sculptural plants indigenous to the region.

Everything works. Visually, functionally, environmentally. Everything fits into the landscape – astonishing really, when it’s a large immovable train on a massive track which spans a vast river … but it doesn’t dominate the landscape, and it feels as if it has always been there. That’s a tribute to the visionaries, artists, designers, engineers and, yes, the big dreamers who pursued the (almost) unthinkable.

affordable LUXURY

PROTON HAVE TAKEN SOUTH AFRICA BY STORM WITH THE LAUNCH OF THEIR X50 AND X70 MODELS – QUALITY SUV’S OFFERING DISCERNING DRIVERS COMFORT, LUXURY AND AFFORDABILITY

“This

is not just the launch of the Proton X50 and Proton X70 – this is the launch of a brand you have heard of, but not met in its partnership with Geely,” says Jebb McIntosh, CEO of CMH (Combined Motor Holdings). With 40 years of success in motor retail, CMH are well equipped to provide a stable platform from which to launch this brand, which will be supported in the market by dedicated Proton dealerships.

The new Proton models are right-hand drive versions of Geely vehicles sold in lefthand markets around the world. However, the new Proton X50 and X70 will benefit from shared group engineering expertise, including technology solutions also found in Volvo models. With Geely providing resources and support for Proton, the runway for vehicles being released in the near future is bound to be exciting.

CMH are thrilled to announce that when buying a Proton X50 or X70, customers will receive a five-year unlimited warranty which is transferable – a move that backs up the quality promise of the product, and reinforces the used-car value on trade-ins. On purchase, buyers will receive a five-year roadside assistance as well as a service and maintenance plan.

The 2022 Proton X50 and X70 offer a host of intelligent and connected features that make driving a pleasure.

For enjoyment and convenience, the multiple speakers with power amplifier and subwoofer enhances the music experience while the six USB ports provide ample charging solutions. Additionally, saying “Hi Proton” allows the driver to operate the windows, sunroof and air-conditioning.

Beyond this, the Proton models offer enhanced features for the driver and passengers’ comfort, as well as a

Intelligent Air Purification System (P-IAPS)

– a combination of a N95 cabin filter (incorporated into the air-conditioning) and air purifier system. Combined they work twice as efficiently to improve the air quality inside the cabin.

“We are excited to introduce these fuelefficient vehicles to consumers across the country. With this significant milestone achieved by Proton this year, it is now possible for consumers to step up and step into, what we are calling, ‘Affordable Luxury’,” says Marius Smal, MD for Proton SA.

Considering the need for fuel efficiency, Proton have created this product that fulfils the desire for a SUV that is not only outstanding in performance, features and aesthetic appeal, but is also affordable to own and run. “The fuel consumption of the Proton X50 is 6,5-litres/100km, while the fuel consumption of the Proton X70 is 7,8-litres/100km,” continues Marius.

sophisticated look. Some of these features (depending on the variant and class) include key activated engine starting to foot sensor boot systems, chrome finishing on the front and rear bumpers, alloy wheels, power tailgate with foot sensor, and Nappa leather seats with black headlining.

The Proton X70 comes with a Proton

Based on current market demand, the new Proton models are quality SUV vehicles set within an affordable pricing bracket. The Proton X50 starts from R449 900, and the Proton X70 from R529 900. *

FOR MORE INFO

Visit one of the CMH Proton dealerships at Ballito, uMhlanga, Durban or Pietermaritzburg and discover Affordable Luxury.

The Proton X70 comes with a Proton Intelligent Air Purification System (P-IAPS) –a combination of a N95 cabin filter and air purifier system

 COCKTAILS FOR A CAUSE

The Pencil Club and Art Foundation partnered with the House of Love and Hope for “Cocktails for a Cause”, a fundraising event for their baby home in Crestholme which cares for abandoned special needs children and babies in crises.

Guests enjoyed the best view of Durban while bidding on an array of exquisite art pieces, and the heart of HOLAH was shared by founders Kim and Leanne Brown.

For more information visit www.likhonithemba.co.za

1. Aaron McIlroy and Lisa Bobbert.

The Scott family.

Renzo Scribante, Roy Kater and Kevin Deana.

4. Jean Cherry, Simone Faber, and Liza Moroney.

5. Candice Davies, Kim Brown, Liza Moroney, Jodie Torlage, Vasthi Toms, Monique Davies, Leanne Brown, Dominque Deana, and Colleen Wilson.

the White Buffalo – has been involved with

boxing, kickboxing and MMA, and has fought the

of Mike Tyson, Lennox Lewis, Wladimir Klitschko and Evander

a trainer and promoter, Francois is back and ready to revive the boxing industry.

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WORLD OF FLAVOUR!

housing market STILL ROBUST

economy are not the current level of interest rates and the cost of borrowing, but rather the ongoing infrastructure bottlenecks such as electricity and transport, as well as education.

The Reserve Bank’s deputy governor, Dr Rashad Cassim, recently suggested that the bank is attempting to move towards a more “neutral” interest rate setting and would be attempting to avoid dampening economic activity as much as possible.

domestic spending at a time when the economy is already struggling to grow, particularly given the recent return of Stage 6 load shedding.

While inflation eased to 7,6% in August from a 13-year high of 7,8% in July, raising hopes that inflation has in fact peaked, the Reserve Bank’s role is to contain inflation, by bringing inflation and inflation expectations back to the 4,5% inflation target mid-point

The further increase of 75bps in the repo rate announced by the Monetary Policy Committee (MPC) on September 22, 2022 is disappointing for aspirant homeowners requiring credit and existing homeowners with mortgages, all of whom are already having to contend with the economic impact of severe load shedding, high fuel and rising food costs, and increasing electricity and other municipal tariffs, according to Dr Andrew Golding, chief executive of the Pam Golding Property group. Although this is the sixth consecutive hike in the repo rate (taking it to 6,25%), as the Reserve Bank attempts to bolster the weakening rand and dampen inflation expectations, this still remains below pre-Covid repo rate levels of 6,5%, while the prime interest rate now stands at 9,75%.

Consumers in general are feeling the strain on household income, with the food and energy price shocks earlier this year creating an inflationary ripple effect

While unit sales during the first half of 2022 were marginally below those recorded during the same period last year, the value of those sales was higher

across the economy. That said, the Bank has highlighted the fact that the key challenges facing the local

The MPC’s recent decision was ultimately guided by the inflation outlook and its assessment of the risks of wage inflation emerging, coupled with global trends of significant interest rate hikes. While higher local interest rates will help to protect the rand, when combined with rising price pressures they will temper

ABOVE: Gareth Bailey, Pam Golding Properties.

(within the target range of 3-6%) as a precondition for sustainable economic growth.

The MPC is particularly concerned about anchoring inflation expectations to avoid external price shocks – such as recent food and energy prices – from becoming entrenched and filtering through to price setting in the broader economy.

Once it is clear that price pressures are subsiding again, it will be possible for the Bank to shift gear to a slower pace of interest rate hikes. The SA Reserve Bank has hiked rates by 275bps since November 2021 and it is hoped that we may only see two further smaller rate increases, bringing the prime rate to 10,5% and an end to the current tightening cycle.

Despite the rising trend in interest rates since late-2021, activity in the housing market

has remained remarkably resilient thus far – with recent data from Lightstone showing that while unit sales during the first half of 2022 were marginally below those recorded during the same period last year, the value of those sales was higher.

While the current rising interest rate environment and the pressure on household disposable income from renewed price pressures are headwinds for the housing market, the fact that banks retain their appetite to extend mortgages provides the market with a solid underpinning. It is also worth bearing in mind that we are hopefully nearing the end of the repo rate upward cycle, and that over decades, residential property has retained its appeal as a sound medium- to long-term investment. *

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MONEY, MONEY, MONEY

“Ooh,”

I said to my partner the other day. “You can buy things by swiping with your cellphone now.”

“You can’t,” she said pointedly. “The more new ways you have to pay for things,” she said, “the richer the criminals get.”

It’s true that I can be a little careless with my wallet, although I have improved. When I was younger I had my own dedicated teller at the bank because I was back so often for a replacement card. Once I picked up a new card and the teller said jokingly, “I don’t want to see you back here for at least a week!”

“Ha ha,” I laughed obligingly, although I didn’t really see what was so damn funny. I walked out of the bank, drew cash at the ATM, then strolled off, leaving the card behind. One hour later the teller looked up to see me standing there, gnashing my teeth.

“Ha ha,” I said bitterly.

Just recently I lost my debit card again, but it was a Friday and I didn’t notice until Monday, and then it took me till Wednesday to check all my pants pockets, then till Thursday to look down the sides of the couch, and then I found my credit card in my sock drawer so I forgot about my debit card until the next Monday. By that time some gentleman had been using it to

purchase items and services all around my neighbourhood. This gentleman was not me, but he was doing a better job of being me than I was.

First, he indulged himself to the 90-minute deluxe special at the House of Silk massage parlour on Main Road, then he had a nice lunch at the gourmet burger joint with a pint of craft beer, then popped into the spa on Regent Road for two sets of moisturisers and had them giftwrapped. One was for fair skin, the other for darker skin.

than you,” which somewhat gave the lie to her claims of non-judgement. I had the strong impression of all the Darrel BristowBoveys she had encountered that week – I was by no means her favourite version.

After buying moisturiser, my other self went to the movies and bought three tickets for Where The Crawdads Sing. I became obsessed with the thought that I was living two lives – one as a snappily attired, smooth-talking Lothario who knows his way around skincare products and has terrible taste in movies but two ladies to watch them with; and another, far more disappointing life, as me.

I started wondering what I would be doing this weekend. Did I have a surprise planned for my two special ladies? A helicopter flip? An elephant ride? An orgy?

“Have you cancelled your card yet?” demanded my partner suspiciously. If I was the other me, I thought resentfully, she wouldn’t talk to me in that tone of voice.

“I just want to see what he does next.”

I asked the cashier at the beauty salon about him. She said he was tall, bald, handsome and black.

“Does Darrel Bristow-Bovey sound like the name of a tall, bald, handsome black man?” I asked.

“I don’t judge,” she said.

Then she looked me up and down, and said pointedly: “He was dressed better

“WHAT?!”

“I’m learning things. Hey, if I was to get you moisturiser, would you want darker skin or lighter skin?”

“Cancel that card RIGHT NOW!”

Maybe she’s right and it’s just as well I don’t have SnapScan or whatever it’s called. I have enough trouble trying to keep control of one life at a time. *

I have a surprise

for my

special ladies?

flip?

ride?

orgy?