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APRIL 2022 ISSUE 131

JANE & JESS The beautiful mess Distributed to the communities of Ballito, Durban North, Gateway, La Lucia, Mt Edgecombe, Prestondale, Somerset Park, uMdloti, uMhlali, uMhlanga Ridge, uMhlanga Rocks, Zimbali

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Circle of life “Motherhood is the exquisite inconvenience of being another person’s everything.” – Unknown

others play important roles in all our lives. They bring us into this world, nurture us, groom us for the future, in addition to a multitude of other important tasks. Sadly, however, while growing up many of us don’t realise this. I remember thinking that all my mother did was nag me to do things. Have you done your homework? Put your clothes in the wash basket. Make your bed. Years later I caught myself saying the same things to my son, and would question if those were my words or my mother’s coming out of my mouth. The circle of life – but I’m sure we’ve all been down that road. This issue sees the start of The Beautiful Mess with Jane & Jess, a column that unpacks relevant topics all moms can

relate to. Award-winning radio presenter Jane Linley-Thomas and local author Jess Basson are two modern mothers of young children facing the demanding pressures life throws at them. But, like all good friends they have learnt coping mechanisms from one another. Join Jane and Jess on page 8 for their first escapade, then follow their conversations in podcasts. Scan the QR code on page 8 for a direct link to the first one. Dave Cameron and Farrah Williamson – well-known property experts in the uMhlanga area – chatted to us about their legendary mother, Sally Cameron, and their new venture in Ballito. Also in the property field, a group of property gurus from Tongaat Hulett Property chat to us about coping in a male-dominated industry, and Pam Naidu from Devmco tells us about her success in selling properties. A P R I L

Mother’s Day wouldn’t be complete without spoiling your mother to some amazing gifts. Turn to page 14 to see what you could win for your mother – she deserves it! This is by far my most favourite time of the year. As I write this the weather dial has turned to autumn and the air is so much fresher and invigorating. It’s good to be alive. Until the next time, continue to stay safe and enjoy life.

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TAKE A TRIP Down Memory Lane Starting in 1987 with the planning of Gateway Theatre of Shopping and continuing through the next 30 years we took to the skies in helicopters to record the landscape before our development schemes were initiated – and continued during the construction process. Now, with the advent of drones, the final chapter can be written, and the development of everything we see around us can be shown over the passage of time. Retired civil engineer and Mount Edgecombe resident Brian Downie shares with us his drone

footage to bring back memories and remind us of how the landscape of the uMhlanga area has developed over the years. From the “Crown of Thorns” evolving on uMhlanga Rocks Drive, to looking north from Seaview Interchange, the transformation of the four quadrants around Mount Edgecombe Interchange, to looking back at the city and the stadium from the North Coast, these short videos will bring back many happy memories.

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Connor Benn graduated from Jackie Cameron School of Food and Wine in 2018, where he learnt to never do anything half-heartedly. “If you are going to do something, do it with passion and pride and do it correctly,” he says. In 2019 he worked in Florida as a Chef de Partie, and when celebrating his 21st birthday at the Hard Rock Casino in Miami, he discovered a bar that served exclusively alcohol-infused ice cream. This inspired him, a year later and back home in SA during lockdown, to create Tipsy Cup with his dad, Warren. The eight flavours – Pina Colada, Strawberry Daiquiri, Chocolate Vodka Martini, Marula Chocolate Brownie, Hazelnut Liqueur,

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ur hair was freshly styled. Our makeup professionally done. We were wearing gorgeous glam clothes. “Let’s jump into the pool for this one!” said Jane, with a wicked glint of mischief in her eyes as we wrapped up the photoshoot. Both our husbands had been out of town for the week, meaning we had each been “home alone” trying to cope with one of those relentless, demanding weeks – extra parenting and extra problemsolving had left us walking that edge of sanity where if you stop concentrating for a minute, you’ll go off the deep end. It was a disgustingly hot day, and the cool pool looked so tempting. Jess knew there would be something so liberating about leaping into a swimming pool fully dressed. It seemed wild, silly, awkward and exhilarating – in fact, just plain fun which was something she longed for after the rigid responsibility of solo parenting for a week. She hesitated. “But my hair and makeup are so nice. I was kind of thinking it would be great to make it last,” she sheepishly

SOMETIMES YOU JUST HAVE TO TAKE THE PLUNGE, AGREE JANE AND JESS admitted. Have you ever been tempted to let your hair down and throw caution to the wind? Had an opportunity to embrace a spontaneous moment of silliness at the expense of composure? Have you ever felt reluctant to give up on the cover up? Jess really needed her hair and make-up to stay in place

What does your inner life long for? Can you truly have a deeper sense of peace while you hold on to the shallow sense of perfectionism? Facing that depth about ourselves requires a deep breath, because one day you’ll have to decide if it’s worth it. You’ll have to choose if the joy of connection is worth the vulnerability of letting go

because on the inside she was feeling out of sorts. It’s something so many of us do. We keep the exterior layered and painted, while our interior lives feel safe, lifeless and grey. Some would perhaps say boring. So often we are gallantly holding it all together on the outside but it’s really on the inside that we need a source of energy to draw from. What do you cover up with?

Picture: Val Adamson of control. Is it worth diving into the deep end of life, fully clothed with everyone watching? Luckily, Jess had Jane. Someone to grab her hand and stand alongside her. Someone who would take the leap and put herself out there in that vulnerable space between the paving and the pool. And when they both came up for air, it was not only the sheer hilarity,

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but also the shared joy that they emerged with. It was a rush. A relief. It was ridiculous – but it was totally worth it. After ﬁshing Jane’s sunglasses off the bottom of the pool, Jess peeled her no-longer-straightened hair off her face. “That was brilliant! Just what I needed. Honestly, Jane, that was totally worth it. Let’s do it again!” Which is exactly what we did – only because the photographer told us we’d messed up the shot. It was a beautiful mess, which is very on-brand for us. The deep dive was just the beginning – but the conversation continues in The Beautiful Mess Podcast on www.famousdurban.co.za. Jane opens up about the risk of taking off her signature sunglasses for this photoshoot, and what follows is a gorgeous dive into vulnerability. We’ll see you in the deep end!

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want to have fun doing what I’m doing,” says Dawn MacNab aka Disco Dawn. You get the feeling if she wasn’t, she’d move on to something which did bring her joy: “I absolutely love what I’m doing,” she grins. “I feel like I’m in a dress-up box all day.” Step inside the Disco Dawn space, and it’s hard to keep your hands to yourself. For Dawn, this venture wasn’t planned, it just mushroomed … and continues to do so as she explores new avenues, discovers new creatives, and turns play into work. Or vice versa. It began during lockdown: “I needed to do something to distract myself. That distraction was a little Instagram post selling imported jackets to my girlfriends. Gorgeous branded jackets, inexpensively priced, all online and couriered to your door – they flew off the site. For the photoshoots, the MacNab’s uMhlanga home has the perfect backdrop – a dramatic copper-covered wall. Dawn sourced a vintage mannequin, and photographed her clothing on the mannequin or herself. She laughs, “I was having such fun – it was a wonderful artistic outlet.” Dawn’s not new to the world of art or clothing. She studied art at school, and was soon headhunted by an iconic Durban entrepreneur. After many years at the rockface of his thriving advertising agency, she went solo, and built her own successful little advertising agency: “It just grew to the extent where it was impacting on my life. I chose family.” But she never let go of her love of art – Disco Dawn was the perfect creative outlet.

pictures jacques weyers, tony christie and dawn macnab

ABOVE: A Gideon and Dawn collab: Dawn wears a dress made from table linens, table runners, napkins and doilies.

Disco DAWN THE DISCO PART OF DAWN MACNAB’S EXUBERANT, QUIRKY ONLINE CLOTHING RANGES, WAS BORN WHEN LOCKDOWN MADE US YEARN TO BE FREE, EXPRESS OURSELVES, DANCE AND HAVE FUN. SHE’S DOING JUST THAT, WRITES ANNE SCHAUFFER The jackets sold well, then summer arrived. Dawn had other ideas to explore: “I met up with friend and Durban designer Gideon, and described my vision. He was keen to collaborate.” Dawn opens a cupboard to reveal not only a massive collection of fabrics, but antique table linens, cloths, doilies … and she showed them to Gideon: “I wanted elegant, pretty, wrap dresses, shorts, jumpsuits – one-off pieces you won’t find in a store. I wanted to create art in my clothes.” Gideon did just that, and although Dawn provided a loose brief, she was adamant – as with her later collabs – their signature styles must come through.

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Gideon’s range was just as she’d imagined: “My own clothing is very different,” she says, as she whips a corset with denim and tapestry off the rack. “I’m always scouring antique shops for tapestries and other interesting finds. The denim is recycled from some of my reject denim jackets, or old pairs of denim jeans.” Recycling and repurposing is a big driver for Dawn. She loathes any kind of waste, and if she doesn’t repurpose it, the SPCA benefits: “Look at this. I bought all this underwear trim from a warehouse that recently shut their doors. Gideon used it in a range of dresses.” Then Dawn met young, talented Alex van Heerden – Vanklan – or rather, saw a window she’d dressed for Country Road. She hunted her down, found out she was a student of Gideon’s and had won the Sustainable Fashion Award for 2020, and promptly asked her to collaborate. Alex, too, is passionate about recycling and the SPCA, so the synergy was perfect: “Look at these jumpers she made out of Lucky Star shopping bags I bought,” grins Dawn. “And this dress made out of a hammock. Completely unique.” »

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she says, “I thought rentals. Because I love to dress up – I’m the most dressed-up person at any function – I thought rentals of headdresses, wigs, feathered things, you name it, perfect for festivals or fancy dresses?” Dawn’s dress-up box. Heard of Champagne Fridays? From a regular Friday event when Dawn opened the doors to her home – popped corks off the bottles – and women rifled through the clothes racks, to a thrice yearly sleek and

Creative Naomi is another find of Dawn’s: “Four original All Saints jackets, decorated with these gorgeous pieces she sourced from the SPCA. She’s made bags, too, from the reject denim.” The brief? “I felt like a bit of a Dolce & Gabbana feel.” The wonder of Disco Dawn for its owner is that she can do exactly as she pleases. When she was going on a summer holiday, she designed her own range – a looseflowing dress, soft flowing pants and wrap top: “I designed it for me, but in a range of colours and sizes … and they sell.” Art is the thread through her collaborations, her own range, even her

photoshoots. She loves to source creatives and collaborate with them. Whether it’s her mom knitting sleeves for an outfit, the talented guy from the municipality painting takkies, or the week-long shoots which are holidays in disguise. “I want to keep it real. I don’t use models – it’s either myself or friends. No filters.” She does, however, have a number of wonderful assets – she’s very comfortable in the social media space, and has photographers Jacques Weyers as a brother-in-law, and Tony Christie, a good friend. And naturally, there’s more. The Vintage clothes section is in high demand. “And,”

I wanted elegant, pretty, wrap dresses, shorts, jumpsuits – oneoff pieces you won’t find in a store. I wanted to create art in my clothes stylish event, with a DJ, music, champers, and giveaways. It’s a wonderful girl-only space, for safe dress-ups and lots of fun. It feels as if Disco Dawn has been as much of a surprise to Dawn as it has to her clients, collaborationists and others: “My energy comes through here, from

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this place, right here. I’ve met so many new people, bonded with women who feel the same way about things as I do, found and promoted young artists who want to showcase their work, and just had the most wonderful, creative time. Still am, and still open to other artistic avenues. I’m thinking of young artists’ paintings printed on fabric and T-shirts …” Disco Dawn will continue to dance, until Dawn MacNab stops loving it and having fun. Listening to her, it’s not anytime soon.

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This powerhouse sibling team is fully aligned in their vision of what creates a successful enterprise organising show days, to being bundled in the car at 6pm heading to the Wild Coast to sign up a client. The wonderful thing for both David and Farrah is that they not only entered that world equipped with the facts and foibles, but with those small, invaluable interpersonal nuances which makes a success of any industry so soundly based on relationships. That was Sally’s modus operandi. The extra effort she put into her clients’ lives was often questioned by many, but for her, that wasn’t even remotely about work. It was about who she was. Her children understood that, and the value of it. In both her business and personal life, Sally Cameron was all about relationships and authentic, often

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LEGACY BROTHER AND SISTER DAVID CAMERON AND FARRAH WILLIAMSON, WERE RAISED ON PROPERTY BY THEIR LEGENDARY PROPERTY POWERHOUSE MOTHER, SALLY CAMERON. TODAY, DAVID JOINS FARRAH IN A BALLITOBASED PROPERTY BROKERAGE, AND TOGETHER THEY BRING INNOVATION, ENERGY AND A DEPTH OF EXPERIENCE TO THE NORTH COAST

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powerhouse sibling team is fully aligned in their vision of what creates a successful enterprise, one with which everyone wants to engage – clients and staff alike. “We work hard to attract the perfect sales consultants, and take immense pride in working with individuals with integrity and experience to make up our professional team. Many of our agents have more than 15 to 20 years’ experience in the industry and the region, and that’s invaluable,” says Farrah. “We’ve always felt when you have the right person backed by the right brand, it’s an unbeatable combination.” David’s property partnership with Farrah represents perfect timing for the branch and themselves. “I’m excited to bring in fresh energy and innovation to this highly motivated and experienced team – all of us supported by a brand that stands for everything we believe in.” He adds, “Farrah and I carry through mom’s professional and personal legacy of ethical business and honourable relationships above all else. It’s never simply about today’s sale, it’s about creating strong relationships which last for decades. That’s the joy mom received from the world of property, and we do too.”

lifelong, connections, a fact to which her husband Rick would certainly attest after spending 47 years together. Sally wore many different hats while heading up Pam Golding Properties at Mount Edgecombe – her national Group conferences are still talked about – but whichever hat she wore, she was constantly seeking ways to do it better, bigger and bolder … while simultaneously lifting up the people around her. That was Sally. She had a contagiously electric energy about her that could light up an entire building, and an innate ability to make people feel understood, heard and cared for. A great leader was Sally Cameron, but equally, an exceptional sales

person. David grins: “She was once in the paper for selling three houses in a day, something that had never been heard of!” Leadership, integrity and a determination to succeed are certainly qualities which Farrah and David have inherited. Farrah has headed up the Mount Edgecombe franchise for 15 successful years, and when the Ballito franchise became available, Sally nudged Farrah to take it on – with the crystal-clear foresight of what the siblings are doing right now. Now, David is officially joining Farrah at Ballito, bringing his extensive experience in residential developments and sales to the boardroom table. Having learnt from the best, this A P R I L

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BELOW: Sally Cameron was a legendary giant in the property game.

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CONVEYANCING ATTORNEY FOR DAVID VAN ONSELEN, SOLE PROPRIETOR OF VO ATTORNEYS, HIS LENGTHY JOURNEY IN PRACTISE HAS BEEN UNUSUAL

ABOVE: David van Onselen – after 40 years in legal practise, his niche is now conveyancing.

ranted, 40 years is a long time to find your niche in legal practise. This statistic still surprises David van Onselen, the sole proprietor of Van Onselen or VO Attorneys, a specialised conveyancing firm he established in 2016. Fortunately, time is also a great tutor, which explains to some extent why David was able to enter his new venture with complete confidence. After all those years he knew a great deal about his strengths and capabilities and, indeed, about all those things which conduce to success in his chosen field. Add to that, two key staff members who believed absolutely in what David represented professionally, and you have the makings of a jumpstart into business. The roll-out has been way above expectation. Drilling back into David’s background, he comes from a family steeped in law enforcement and creative writing. It’s therefore not surprising to hear he stands for so much more than conveyancing. He has a sound sense of justice – of right versus wrong, and the law’s role in controlling public behaviour patterns. This was graphically demonstrated in the early 1990s when he championed the cause to change law. Under the acronym TUFF (The Unmarried Fathers Fight), his action group helped bring a substantial amendment to Statute Law relating to unmarried fathers’ rights – changes which are today very much part of the Child Care

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Act. It was a significant achievement much needed by society at the time. Complementing a strong sense of justice is David’s affinity for working effectively with people. He understands human behaviour and their issues and is thus able to offer sound advice and counselling on a wide range of subjects. He can also mediate with understanding that there are always two sides to every conflict situation. He has formal training in this field. Although initially trained as a litigation lawyer, David found no future in that field. His feel for people and their cause led him naturally to embrace conveyancing. Here, a lawyer is engaged by two parties to achieve a common goal – the transfer of ownership in immovable property from one person to another. The fact that this is achieved via a clear legal process, made good business sense to him. Job satisfaction could be achieved by applying yourself to how best to present the service, and thus delivering satisfaction for all parties involved. With TUFF behind him, David threw himself into the business of assembling and leading a strong team of conveyancing staff. He gained important exposure to the establishment of share block-based developments for the timeshare industry, and was also directly involved in the emergence of hotels owned on a sectional title basis – both requiring creative drafting of complex documents incorporating new applications of the law. He found it uplifting and personally rewarding, but there was a catch. Being part of a legal firm offering a

wide range of services with differing levels of profitability, made for a compromised overall business outcome. The 2000s saw David try a new practise venture based in uMhlanga focused on developments, but fate intervened. The financial crisis of 2008/9 made profitable operations impossible. In some ways, he felt he needed respite from directing a legal firm. This came in the form of a five-year contract he was offered to run an established conveyancing department in a large law firm. Those five years gave David an

He has a sound sense of justice – of right versus wrong, and the law’s role in controlling public behaviour patterns opportunity to reflect and consolidate his thinking on what had been good and bad in the previous 40 years. The result? The framework of VO Attorneys emerged. A specialist conveyancing practise solely owned and managed by him, with separate departments for Developments and General Residential conveyancing. The rationale for the separation was the totally different client dynamic and operational process which drives the two fields, gaining further relevance from a strong business

relationship with Collins Residential Developments as special clients. In effect, two specialised branches of conveyancing rolled into one law firm. Making VO Attorneys function effectively under one management structure required capable professionals dealing with the roll-out. Within a few short years, David acquired key people and, together, they worked tirelessly to render their service delivery as a refined product, matching the complex issues posed by client’s legal requirements and the widely diverse spectrum of people with differing personalities that constitute the client base. It’s a delicate social science/legal balancing act – one that David sees as akin to an art-form. Outside of the legal office, David has a diversified series of interests. In the 80s he was deeply involved in road running. Club Chairman and then chair of the Natal Marathon Runners Association, he embraced both the administration of the sport and was a good runner himself. In the 90s he took up flying, obtaining his private pilot’s licence which he maintained for 10 years. Interwoven into his life has been a consistent involvement with fly fishing. But his real creative passion lies in the workshop. Working mainly in wood, David is an amateur cabinet maker, with a side interest in metal work. Running close to his workshop involvement, is his passion for bonsai cultivation – both these passions inherited from his father. For David, gardening and bonsai make up an important genetic connection which his family has with things horticultural. He finds a kind of “zen” factor in tending his small but well-aged collection of trees, which lend a calming/contemplative influence to his morning routine at home. None of these outside interests run counter to – or distract him from – his conveyancing work. If anything, they enhance and elevate it. He considers them an important mental counter-balance to the largely indoor/administrative life he lives at VO Attorneys.

ABOVE: David with his team of experts who offer clients a professional, expert legal service. From left: Cheri Bairstow, Robyn Horne, Sarah Burczak, Ali van Onselen, David van Onselen, Ali Tate, Sarah Hill, Antoinette Nel, and Belinda Smith. FOR MORE INFO Unit 17B Canford Park, 53 Anthony Road, Durban North | 031 003 3484 | www.voattorneys.co.za

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TO SEE WOMEN IN PROPERTY PAVING THE WAY FOR SO MANY OTHER POWERFUL YOUNG WOMEN IS BOTH ENCOURAGING AND ENLIGHTENING. THE RIDGE SPOKE TO FOUR DYNAMIC WOMEN WHO ARE DOING JUST THAT

t goes without saying that being a woman in 2022 is far easier than it used to be 50 years ago, but we still see women having to fight for equality, we still see women working harder to earn respect, and we still see women balancing careers, motherhood and studies. With KZN’s property market booming, ladies in Tongaat Hulett Property’s management team are leading the way within the business as well as within the property industry. We asked Helen McCarthy (Land Management Executive), Teboho Selatile (Development Executive), Karen Peterson (Development Executive) and Kate Ralfe (Lead Planning Executive) some questions about their experiences and advice about being a woman in a male-dominated industry. As a female professional in a maledominated industry, what are some of the biggest challenges and lessons you have learnt so far? Kate: I do think that as a woman there is more scrutiny on you and one definitely feels the pressure to succeed. I have worked hard to get as much exposure in different areas of the property industry as possible, and not just be limited to town planning. Ensuring I have sound technical knowledge has certainly helped. There have been multiple times people have assumed I am the secretary and am just in a meeting to take minutes or pour tea. The one disadvantage of my gender in the position I am in, has been that I

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 have had to be very careful of travelling to remote places on my own. What are some of the sacrifices you have made over the years to get to where you are? Teboho: You have to accept you can’t have it all. Society has placed specific gender norms on women, but you have to decide what you want out of life. I’ve had to work incredibly long hours (including public holidays and weekends) to reach project deadlines. I have missed birthdays and celebrations. I’ve missed the dating scene during my younger days. I’ve had to continually code-switch and live outside my comfort zone as, over 10 years later, I still battle with being the only

black person or only female in many project teams. There are far more comfortable career paths I could have chosen, but none would have been as rewarding as construction and real estate. What advice would you give to other women in business who are trying to get into management positions, especially in male-dominated roles or industries? Karen: I have a whole lot of advice. • Be willing to learn. We grow and enhance our development when we are willing to learn from others, their experiences, lessons and insights. • Never say no to additional work beyond your immediate job description (at least initially). That’s the only way you increase

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your knowledge base and skills. I’d even go as far as saying volunteer for more responsibility. This way you expand your role and become more visible to those who matter. • Look for a mentor who will both inspire and guide you on your professional development – someone who shows a genuine interest in your well-being and therefore be better placed to understand your needs and goals. • Don’t be scared to ask questions. No question is stupid and it will show people that you are humble and don’t think you’re above them. • Arm yourself with additional knowledge and skills by attending extra courses that can assist you in your career, for example, a finance for non-financial managers course. Skills and courses will strengthen your CV and show your colleagues and industry peers that you have the necessary credentials and are willing to learn. • Do not underestimate the power of good qualifications and professional registration with the relevant body/council. This builds your credibility with your peers and in the industry. No one can take these away from you.

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• Accept that it will take time and that you need to pay your dues. Be patient and enjoy the learning along the way. Success doesn’t come overnight. • Lastly, remember you are a lady. You will often find yourself as the only woman in a boardroom full of men. Learn to be flexible and adaptable (it’s not a sin to make a cup of tea for the elderly consultant next to you), and while men can swear, we can’t. Manage your dual roles well, as a professional and a woman. How do you think women can play a role in empowering other women to reach their full potential within business and climb the corporate/business ladder? Teboho: Embrace every new female entrant to the field and do not sugarcoat the challenges you’ve faced. We should probably demand “girl’s clubs” – innovation hubs where we can share ideas and business solutions during working hours. Kate: Sharing knowledge and supporting each other can be a major help. Helping each other with networking opportunities and mentoring young women entering the field is also important. What do you think are the biggest challenges facing the next generation of female leaders? Helen: I believe the work/home balance could become even more difficult to maintain if females do not place firm personal boundaries in their lives, as working into the evenings and over weekends has become the norm. On the other side however, more flexible hours could allow women to be able to attend their children’s activities. If you could give just one piece of leadership advice, what would it be? Karen: Leadership is not about your title or designation. It’s more about impact, influence, and inspiration. It’s more about action than position. “I believe we should be consciously supporting fellow women across the full business ladder and should be providing as much mentorship as possible to women who show potential. We need to empower and build other women up to reach their full potential within business. We need to allow women to grow and thrive in their positions and help them rise,” ends Helen.

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eing a female leader in the property development industry is tough, but for the last 27 years Pam Naidu has taken on every challenge and risen above them all. Pam, who has been at Devmco Group for six years, leads her sales team successfully and inspires and motivates others with her determination and tenacious nature. Being in the industry she is in, Pam has had to be adaptable and flexible. “There is never a dull moment. I constantly have to rearrange my diary, and I’ll always make time to have a cuppa with a client,” says Pam. Devmco Group strives to be the market leader in real estate service – always conducting ethical business practice, showing integrity, being proud of the longlasting relationships they have built, providing personal and professional service, being accountable and showing exceptional teamwork. “In my career I can proudly say I have been a part of some historical sales launches. I was Executive of the Year at Zimbali Lodge (Sun International) in 2007, which was a pivotal turning point in my career. I was part of the Zimbali Suites launch which sold out in four hours, the launch of Pearl

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SALES AFTER 27 YEARS IN THE PROPERTY DEVELOPMENT GAME, PAM NAIDU’S COMMITMENT TO HER CAREER HAS MEANT SHE HAS TAKEN EVERY CHALLENGE IN HER STRIDE – AND SUCCEEDED Sky which sold R1,2-billion on the day, and I was part of the incredible success of the award-winning Salta Sibaya which achieved over R1-billion in sales on launch weekend, and has since become

South Africa’s fastest selling development to date having just hit the R2-billion threshold in sales in less than a year from launch. Another successful launch was OceanDune Sibaya which was the first project in

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Sibaya to go to market which I spearheaded and sold out 90% on the day,” she adds. As Pam says, Devmco exudes a fantastic company ethos, demonstrates great teamwork, and has amazing support from the shareholders. “Director of Devmco Group, Charles Thompson, leads by example, and is truly one of the best I have worked with in the industry. “I have committed to working hard. The property industry can be demanding with long hours, but that comes with the territory. It can be extremely rewarding if you put in the effort, get a great mentor and join a reputable real estate agency. If you see your future in property, work hard and be prepared for sacrifice. You have to love what you do, be a people’s person, keep abreast with the latest digital technology as it is an integral part of the job as is marketing, and be honest. Get educated and get a real estate license,” advises Pam. Pam is a dedicated wife and mother and works hard to achieve everything she sets out to achieve. “My late Dad, Moon Dhaver, had the kindest soul. He was humble yet bold. He was a very successful farmer and held so much knowledge. I have mirrored his leadership skills and I am who I am because of him,” ends Pam.

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lay is a wonderful form of therapy. There is something about the feel of the earth in your hands and the potential it holds. Clay demands your undivided attention and never more so than on the potters’ wheel. It is the most demanding discipline because, like any skill, it takes practice, practice and more practice, keeping you humble and patient at all times,” says Brenda Kühn, who works and teaches at her Westbrook studio. Together with Jo-Anne Kuter, chair of the local branch of the Ceramics Society of South Africa, she is working hard to not only grow awareness of this age-old craft and art form, but also to encourage local talents to put their work on the map. Brenda started her ceramics journey in 2008 and loves wheel work and experimenting with form and glazes. “A friend invited me to join her at her pottery class and I’ve never looked back. I now have my own studio at the bottom of my garden and amazing students I am privileged enough to share the love of clay with,” she says.

RIGHT & BELOW RIGHT: Brenda Kühn holding some pots; Brenda’s coffee mug design.

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CERAMICS FOR TWO NORTH COAST CERAMICISTS, THE AGEOLD CRAFT AND ART FORM OF POTTERY HAS INSPIRED THEIR CREATIVITY AND STYLE FOR MANY YEARS, MOULDING THEIR NAMES LOCALLY, WRITES SHIRLEY LE GUERN

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For Brenda, both function and form are important. She draws a lot of inspiration from her garden, so the natural progression was from mugs and bowls towards bud vases in blues and greens. She now sells her pieces at galleries and exhibitions. You can only have so many cups, saucers and jugs in your home and give so many away to friends and family, smiles Durban North ceramicist Jo-Anne Kuter. Although she, too, began taking pottery lessons with well-known ceramicist, Corrie Hook, as a hobbyist in 2010, she soon realised she had discovered a whole new passion which has taken her on an interesting journey that began with selling her distinctive blue and white creations at various local markets and has culminated in her work ﬁnding its way into art galleries. Working in ﬁnance in Durban Central during the 80s, Jo-Anne spent many lunchtimes in fabric shops as part of her love for patchwork. She also made porcelain dolls. Her discovery of ceramics was a natural next step. “I’ve always been artistic and loved anything that’s creative. I’ve always drawn and doodled,” she explains. These doodles made their way into her distinctive work. Initially, she worked only in blue and white. “I work in porcelain as I love the purity of the medium and my constant doodling has been translated into my many patterns. “Blue on white is influenced by the beautiful work of the Chinese Dynasties but interpreted in my style. I am obsessed with lines and »

RIGHT: Jo-Anne Kuter removes some pieces from her kiln. Shirley le Guern BELOW: Some of Jo-Anne Kuter’s work.

ceramics* the millions of designs they create. I love the fact that I have never repeated a pattern and each piece is a unique part of me that will be cherished and used by whoever owns it,” she says. Although Jo-Anne started out with slab work which is largely hand formed, she soon realised that this did not gel with her more geometric style and turned to creating wheel thrown items which were more symmetrical. These are thrown for her by the talented Ivin Molefe. When Jo-Anne couldn’t source white clay in South Africa in 2018, she began working with raku clay sourced from potter Lindsay Scott in Lidgetton. “I started to play with it and quickly realised that my black lines did this incredible thing, creating beautiful back shadows in the clay.” She added bright colours and her second signature collection was born. A lot of that work goes to the KZNSA Gallery. “I call it my African work with a modern twist. I bring in the geometrical

shapes and colours which are more African and then add flowers which are more European. So, it is a combination of two influences,” she explains. Jo-Anne continues with her blue and white creations and has since added a white-on-white collection. Some items are exactly that while others may have brightly coloured inners. Overall, she describes her style as fairly eclectic. “My work is quite busy. Initially, I was afraid that some people would not like this. Then it dawned on me there are busy people and there are calm people. Some people like everything white, grey and beige while others like colour. There has to be something for everyone and I’ve just learnt to embrace that,” she says.

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E X T R AO R D I N A RY L I V I N G F O R YO U R L AT E R Y E A R S Penny Rey tells us why she is moving to Coral Cove Residents will be able to personalise their units with a selection of premium luxury finishes and fittings

Penny Rey, the South African model and beauty queen who won Miss World in 1958, tells us why she is moving to Auria Senior Living’s latest development on KwaZulu-Natal’s North Coast.

Coral Cove is situated in Zululami Luxury Coastal Estate – one of the region’s finest, most soughtafter lifestyle estates

“I always wanted to retire somewhere with a sea view,” says Rey. “Living at Coral Cove will enable me to continue living that life, but with an added layer of support and care should I ever need it. I love the fact that the day-to-day things are taken care of and that I’ll be able to stay active and creative, spending time with friends and do the things I enjoy.” Coral Cove by Auria Senior Living, is a continuing care retirement community to be located within the safety, security and serenity of Zululami Luxury Coastal Estate, on the shores of Sheffield Beach. Auria Senior Living CEO, Barry Kaganson, explains that Continuing Care Retirement Communities, (CCRCs), such as Coral Cove, are purpose-built, retirement communities in which older adults can live an enjoyable, sociable, hasslefree life with access to a wide variety of hospitality services, amenities, care and support. ‘‘Given the growth on the North Coast over the past few years, the provision of lifestyle environments for the over-70s hasn’t been catered for fully, and Coral Cove is the first to comprehensively address this need,’’ says Kaganson. Currently, the KZN North Coast has limited retirement facilities, few of

Penny Rey, the first South African to win Miss World, Coral Cove’s first resident

which offer a continuum of care with amenities and services as extensive as those offered by Auria Senior Living. Coral Cove offers beautifully designed freestanding garden villas, maisonettes, semi-attached garden villas and apartments to suit whatever level of independent living or assisted living residents may require. Coral Cove, according to Kaganson, “will be, to the very best of our knowledge, the only senior living community of its kind in the world with direct beach access.” This leading retirement community will offer extensive facilities such as an outdoor and indoor heated swimming pool, air-conditioned cinema, entertainment facilities, an elegant restaurant, vibrant coffee shop, fully equipped wellness centre and state-of-the-art care centre catering for frail and dementia care. The Care Centre will be operational as the first residences are occupied.

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& SUPPORT LOOKING FOR A THRIFT SHOP THAT HAS LOADS TO CHOOSE FROM AND ALSO SUPPORTS ORPHANED AND VULNERABLE CHILDREN? THEN THE LIV STORE IS WORTH A VISIT, WRITES LEE CURRIE

t’s not every day one walks into a wellorganised shop with friendly staff, not to mention a wealth of genuine bargains. Add a vibrant cafe and you have a gem in the Glenore Centre in Glenashley – The LIV Store, the brainchild of Joan and Tich Smith, founders of LIV Village in Verulam. “We had always wanted to start a thrift store,” recalls Joan. “Every time we went to the UK and USA we saw how successful they are in supporting their charities. The idea became a reality during Covid when some of our regular donors were no longer able to support the village financially. We also felt the need to sow seeds that had the potential to grow long after we have gone. We even set up a laundry to clean the donated items before they go into the stores. We believe everything we do needs to be done with excellence.” They opened their doors in December 2020. “We have been humbled by the positive reaction and support even from beyond our area. Customers comment on how similar The LIV Store is to upmarket thrift stores and cafes in New York and London. Thrifting is one of the fastest growing industries overseas and we hope to see it really catch on here in South Africa.” The shop is filled with both new and recycled items – from designer sports shoes to dresses to quirky memorabilia,

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handbags … and even fresh flowers. We have a box at the entrance and it never ceases to amaze me that it is full every day. The LIV Store supporters have become a community in itself,” smiles Joan. The idea for the cafe was to attract more customers and create a safe, inviting place. Indeed, the irresistible fragrance of good coffee and an interesting menu offering breakfasts and lunches adds to a special ambiance. An engaging staff of five are all part of the LIV family, many of them continuing their studies while working. Some of the staff – including a barista – are graduates from the LIV Culinary School. Joan and Tich have also recently opened a second LIV Store at Spade Design Centre in Durban North sharing the verdant

The shop is filled with both new and recycled items – from designer sports shoes to dresses to quirky memorabilia, handbags … and even fresh flowers nursery grounds with the popular cafe, Birds Tea and Coffee. “Shoppers can now find bargains in both our stores knowing that they are supporting a child in LIV Village.” Joan remembers a customer who

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bought a handbag for R50. “When she took it to have a new strap put on, she was told the bag was worth about 2 000 dollars! “Part of our vision has been to create jobs for women in particular, to help them put food on the table. When we purchased a warehouse where we keep our excess stock, we saw the chance to give women an opportunity to buy clothes and other items from us at a greatly reduced price and resell them in their communities,” explains Joan. “We also receive clothing from Pick n Pay, Ackermans and goods from Spar, and hope to get other retailers involved. “We already have 25 women registered in this LIV Community Clothing Project, and the numbers are growing. Environmental, social and governance is a top priority worldwide in measuring the impact of investments for both individuals and companies. These stores and empowerment programmes meet all these criteria. “Affluent communities can help by donating their excess material goods. This will ultimately help to empower and create jobs and at the same time support orphaned and vulnerable children of our nation. The vision is to have many LIV Stores and community programmes around the country.” Together we can.

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IN A WORLD THAT CAN BE SO NOISY, MANY ARE SUFFERING A DEAFENING SILENCE. INTERFACE KZN EXISTS TO HELP PEOPLE FIND THEIR VOICES AND IN SO DOING, BRING A SENSE OF CLARITY TO LIVES PREVIOUSLY DEFINED BY AN UNSPOKEN CONFUSION, WRITES KELLY KIDGELL ABOVE: Trudi Louw of Interface KZN. Picture: Tanya Olsen

he passion and energy Trudi Louw has for the work Interface KZN does is both inspiring and heart-warming as we chat away over a cup of coffee. I reflect, with a hard-hitting realisation, that for many chatting is an absolute luxury. While we may take our speech for granted, thousands of people across KZN face the incredibly challenging reality of being unable to communicate. Through various projects and outreach programmes, Interface KZN’s mission is to aid children and adults in ﬁnding their voice by means of Augmentative and Alternative Communication (AAC). Simply put, these are strategies used to compensate for limited or no speech – ranging from picture boards and gestures to high-tech speechgenerating devices and computers. With the expertise of their therapists, the Interface team treat a wide spectrum of patients. From those with Down’s syndrome or autism, to people who’ve suffered strokes or head injuries and lost

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Interface relies entirely on public funding to continue with the hope, trust and connection to our world that they bring to patients who wouldn’t usually have access to such therapies. Should you wish to make a donation, you can: 1. Visit their website www.interface-kzn.co.za 2. Email Trudi on ifacekzn@saol.com 3. Use this nifty little USSD code and follow the prompts; *120*0440*1# 4. SMS “Donate” to 40114

their speech as a result. The Interface AAC resource centre offers assessments, support, rehabilitation, training and therapy, their primary goal being to establish practical and sustainable means for patients to communicate. “There’s no moment as special as when we reach that point of a noncommunicative person finally finding some kind of voice – even if it’s just a nod to answer yes, something they could never do before,” beams Trudi. Established in 1997, Interface KZN is a registered non-profit organisation changing lives for countless “voiceless” people in and around our poorer communities. Following a consultation with the Valley Trust in 2016, The Valley of 1 000 Hills Outreach Project was initiated. It has been instrumental in providing much needed AAC intervention and assistance to adults and children in this semi-rural area. Another successful project is the work Interface does with Action in Autism,

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an organisation based in Durban North. With a speciﬁc focus on autistic children, their high needs of support surrounding communication and social interactions are facilitated by AAC systems and strategies. With established programmes at various low socio-economic areas such as Kwangolosi, Embo, Molweni and at the Philakade Carehome, decentralising the assistance Interface KZN offers is a costeffective and practical means to providing therapy to those with non-functional speech. What’s more, leaders in the

Having the recourses to give the gift of communication and to change countless lives comes primarily from word of mouth – a somewhat beautiful irony

communities are given the relevant training to become facilitators and to assist in the process of identifying potential patients, screening them, and then providing the appropriate treatment. It is clear to me that aside from specialised therapies, Interface KZN provides so much more to previously isolated and voice-less people. They give hope. They bring friendship. They unlock painful silences. Having the recourses to give the gift of communication and to change countless lives comes primarily from word of mouth – a somewhat beautiful irony.

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4 FIRSTS for KZN

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SEBAGO Since 1946 Sebago has been inspired to create some of the world’s most iconic footwear styles enjoyed by people who appreciate the best quality, casual footwear. The first Sebago store in KZN will carry the three ranges of the brand: Docksides, Citysides, and Campsides. All Sebago ranges, as well as a capsule collection of men’s apparel and accessories, are available at Sebago. TAG TACTICAL ACTION GAMES Offering Lasertag and Airsoft games for kids from six years to adults. Great fun for birthday parties, team builds, friends and families. Experience a Vietnam “Khe Sanh village” themed arena, or our open game on the last Friday evening of every month. Booking is advisable. Games start from R100 a person. For more info call or Whatsapp Bryan on 082 836 7419.

HYDRAULICS The Hydraulics concept store distinguishes itself in offering prominent, luxury, international brands of the highest quality and distinct aesthetic, and aims to gain every sector of the casual clothing market, providing premium designs while educating the individual on international, street fashion. EVLV Evolve Denim Company (EVLV) was born out of necessity to offer a premium well-crafted brand experience for the urban South African customer, taking them on a journey of escapism and discovery, changing their perception of style, through innovation, exceptional attention to detail and high-level graphics – all the while paying homage to urban street culture. FOR MORE INFO

All can be experienced at Gateway Theatre of Shopping

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r Eric du Preez heads up the Emergency Centre at Busamed Gateway Private Hospital. With his background as a family GP, he puts communication high on the list of priorities, and insists that his team does, too. Busamed Gateway Private Hospital’s Emergency Centre trauma-trained medical and nursing staff understand that trauma goes beyond the patient and affects the family too. As far as is possible, the team listen and communicate with both the patient and family. Communication is part of the philosophy of Premium Care for which Busamed Gateway Private Hospital’s Emergency Centre is known. When you arrive at the Emergency Centre, you’ll find it follows the South African Triage System – they prioritise patients according to the urgency or severity of their illness or injury. The triage system aims to assess a patient’s treatment priorities so that their clinical team can focus on delivering time-critical treatment for those with life-threatening conditions. At Busamed Gateway Private Hospital,

You’ll be treated by professionals who understand that the word “Care” goes beyond swift, effective medical intervention it’s comforting to know that Premium Care goes beyond the Emergency Centre to the hospital’s specialists. If you require emergency care, the emergency team is not only equipped to provide the best clinical treatment possible for

ABOVE: Understanding trauma and putting the patient first: Dr Eric du Preez (back left)

with the team of medical and nursing staff at Busamed Gateway Private Hospital’s Emergency Centre.

EMERGENCY CENTRE of choice

THE TRAUMA-TRAINED MEDICAL AND NURSING TEAM AT BUSAMED GATEWAY PRIVATE HOSPITAL’S EMERGENCY CENTRE OPERATES 24/7, IS RIGHT ON YOUR DOORSTEP AND FULLY EQUIPPED TO MANAGE ANY MEDICAL EMERGENCY IN THE SWIFTEST TIME POSSIBLE the best possible patient outcome, but has renowned specialists on call should specialised treatment or admission be required. An emergency or trauma can be frightening for both the patient and family. At this Emergency Centre, you’ll be treated by professionals who understand that the word “Care” goes beyond swift, effective medical intervention. It’s also about relationships. Busamed Gateway Private Hospital’s

Emergency Centre operates 24 hours a day, seven days a week. Situated right in the heart of uMhlanga Ridge, with extremely easy access, the team of doctors and staff pride themselves on the level of care and professionalism you’ll receive – when you need it most.

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t all began with Mr Ben Narotam, who founded Benze in 1970. When you step in the door of Benze in Mayville, you’ll ﬁnd him still at the helm, still with the same values of impeccable service and quality workmanship. With son Nesh heading up operations, Ben is always there contributing his decades of experience and his clear understanding of the importance of relationships. He should know, because that’s what the business has been built on – trust that Benze Upholstery will get it right, trust that family heirlooms will be treated with the utmost care and respect. Decades of experience means you’ll get a straightforward opinion, a fair quote, and work which goes beyond your expectation. The family prides themselves on building lasting relationships and on their clientfocused approach. Clients return time and time again because they know the Benze team is fully committed to ﬁrst-rate quality. For the Benze team, their biggest reward is that look of astonishment, relief, pleasure and gratitude when a treasured heirloom or loved piece is given a new lease on life. As Nesh says, “I’m totally driven by passion. I’m determined each client will receive the best service possible – that is our motto.” Upholstery and restoration is highly skilled work, carried out by experienced craftsmen who’ve not only been doing this for decades – but who also take immense pride in their work. Benze Upholstery doesn’t simply recover your furniture. Re-upholstering involves everything from repairs to joints and structural damage, to stripping, replacing

trusting

TRADITION THERE’S SOMETHING SO REASSURING ABOUT DEALING WITH A DURBAN FAMILY BUSINESS THAT’S OVER 50 YEARS OLD. WHEN YOU HAND OVER A FAMILY HEIRLOOM FOR RE-UPHOLSTERING, TRUST IS EVERYTHING

webbing, springs and padding, basically making it better than new. Ben Narotam pointed out their wood restoration work: “We can revive a scratched surface, or paint and colourmatch any furniture. We’ve been giving wooden furniture a young, contemporary colour, which includes sanding, painting then upholstering the chairs.” “We know that our service and hands-on approach, married to age-old values and workmanship, will give each and every

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UPHOLSTERY UPHOLSTERY EST 1970 “Retain the quality of a bygone era”

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client precisely what they want. Check out our reviews on Google – that puts minds at rest!” Nesh stresses, “To continue this great legacy is very important to our family.” Dealing with a family business feels good. There’s a sense of continuity. Ben Narotam began Benze over 50 years ago with that personal touch, and it’s gratifying to see his son Nesh following in his footsteps. Nesh takes great pride in ensuring that the Benze reputation stays the way it’s always been.

S E R A B E L L A – M E A N I N G A B E AU T I F U L E V E N I N G I N I TA L I A N – I S A N E W D E V E LO P M E N T I N T H E H E A RT O F I Z I N GA I N U M H L A N GA C O N S I ST I N G O F M O D E R N C O N T E M P O R A RYI N S P I R E D V I L L AS T H AT E M B R AC E A S E N S E O F S PAC E A N D E L EGA N C E A N D F E AT U R E STAT E - O F -T H E -A RT F I N I S H ES W I T H I N I TS AU T H E N T I C BA L I N ES E A EST H E T I C S .

No transfer duty payable Stunning architecturally designed modern contemporary / balinese inspired homes embracing a sense of space and elegance situated in a prime position in the prestigious Izinga open suburb, Umhlanga making it one of the most sought after addresses in the area. Gated with an electrified perimeter fence and surveillance cameras with a 24 hour security guard manning the access control from the guardhouse providing residents with absolute peace of mind. The guardhouse area will also incorporate domestic help washrooms, change rooms and toilets. Only a few kilometres away from the famous Gateway Theatre of Shopping complex, as well as in close proximity to some of KwaZulu Natal’s most prestigious schools and hospitals. A short drive to the Umhlanga coastline beaches.

Location, security and privacy translates to peace, happiness and a coveted lifestyle that only Sera Bella can provide. Peace of mind: Situated within a double gated security precinct, in addition to patrolled security and tactical presence, Sera Bella also has an electrified perimeter fence with surveillance cameras and a 24-hour security guard manning the access control from the guardhouse.

Location is key: Sera Bella is ideally located to Gateway Theatre of Shopping, hospitals, prestigious private schools, King Shaka International Airport, restaurants and beaches.

Privacy is paramount: Ranging from two- and three-storey villas to three-bedroom apartments, each villa’s garden is totally private and fenced off, offering total seclusion. Within the complex there is also a communal pool and braai area.

TO FIND OUT MORE Website: www.serabella.co.za / Email: sales@serabella.co.za Mobile number: +27 83 786 8999 / Address: P.O. Box 22115, Glenashley, Durban 4022

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chool should be a place where a child is free to grow, where they know they have a role to play within the class. I believe this is achieved by providing a nurturing and loving environment where a child feels valued and appreciated. Through encouragement, support and guidance within an enriched environment which ensures a mutual respect, a child can reach for the stars. Outside the home, teachers in the early stages of schooling are central in this process: we must ensure children feel loved. When I first read Gary Chapman’s The Five Love Languages, it was to gain an understanding of my own love language. This inspired me to look at how it could assist teachers to create an environment within the classroom that “spoke to every child’s love language”. Gary Chapman states in his book The Five Love Languages Of Our Children, that every child has an emotional tank, a place of emotional strength that can fuel a child daily. As teachers, if we can be aware of what each child’s primary love language is, we can make certain every child in our class knows they are valued and loved within the classroom, thus allowing them to grow to their full potential.

Failing is an important part of learning

FOR EACH CHILD TO GROW TO THEIR FULL POTENTIAL, THEY MUST KNOW THEY HAVE VALUE WITHIN THE CLASSROOM. HEAD OF REDDAM HOUSE BALLITO’S EARLY LEARNING SCHOOL, PAULA ALGAR, SHARES KEY INSIGHTS ON THE TOPIC

ABOVE: Paula Algar.

A person’s primary love language is a way in which we “understand love best”. If teachers are mindful of this, each child can be encouraged to explore, push boundaries, and try new adventures. It opens the way for our children to feel free to learn. It is vital to encourage a strong sense of independence, confidence in any child’s abilities and the development of a strong set of values in order to equip each child

EARLY LEARNING

to embrace life’s challenges. By focusing on helping children develop a strong sense of self-confidence, you enable them to explore, push boundaries and think outside the box. As a result, they won’t be afraid of failing, and failing is an important part of learning. Children who are comfortable with failure are more readily able to pick themselves up and try again. A child who is confident in their own value, is equipped to focus on the challenges of the curriculum, and certain curriculums embrace a

child-centric learning environment that encourages curiosity and independent thought. To assist in a child’s development, we must allow children to have some control over the direction of their learning, with endless opportunities and ways to express themselves. The Reggio Approach provokes learning, encourages exploration, reflects on the learning experienced, and builds on that learning, all the while encouraging children HOW to think, not WHAT to think. Think of a child as a solid tower. Each social interaction, new learning experience, different activity, changes their tower’s shape and it grows taller. In the same way, as they get older in the right environment each child grows in confidence; and if a child knows their worth and that they have a role to play in their world, they can reach their full potential. With a strong foundation, children will stand firm and grounded because of the foundation built in the early stages of learning. To put my own spin on a popular maxim: Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, but rather about putting your gumboots on and learning to dance in the rain! By giving our children the “gumboots” they need, the tools to cope with life, we open the doors to an incredible future for each of them.

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parenting*

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INVOLVED FOUNDER OF THE CHAT, CHRISTY HERSELMAN, HAS GREAT ADVICE ON SAFEGUARDING OUR KIDS AGAINST ONLINE SEX

t’s been a long busy day: school runs, work pressure, the extra-mural juggle, the homework fight … Susan feels so grateful to have her three children tucked into bed so she can take an hour to catch her breath and enjoy some me-time. On her way down the passage she pops her head into her nine-year-old son’s bedroom and is surprised to see a light shining from under the bedcovers. She smiles, assuming he is reading by torchlight like she used to do after lights-out when she was a child. As she gently pulls back the covers her son jumps in fright, clutching the iPad he had been watching tightly to his chest. It takes some effort to pry the device from his hands and when she does her heart sinks, and bile rises in her throat. The sexually explicit images filling the screen are unlike anything she had ever imagined, much less seen …. Over the eight years since founding The Chat I have heard

countless versions of this scenario. It is a parent’s worst nightmare and is becoming more and more common with younger and younger children. The average age a South African child sees pornography for the first time is 10. By 14 most have been exposed to online sex in some form and many are viewing porn regularly. The majority of children get their sex education not from their parents or teachers, but from Google and YouTube. And the emerging data on the long-term effects of porn exposure are extremely concerning: It’s violent. About 90% of porn is violent in nature and portrays women enjoying this abuse, teaching young people that consent is optional and girls actually like to be forced. Porn is normalising violent, extreme and often criminal behaviour. It’s addictive. Most porn is viewed by 14 to 17-year-old boys who, during their most formative years, are training

their bodies and brains to be aroused and sexually satisfied by an image on a screen rather than another human being. This is causing many young men to find themselves unable to connect sexually in adult relationships such as marriages. It’s damaging. Before online porn, the number of men in their 20s with erectile dysfunction stood at around 5%. It is currently around 33%. This is a direct result of the vast amounts of porn being consumed by teens and 20-somethings, saturating their minds with extreme and explicit images which damage the wiring of their brains.

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It’s growing. Online porn is a $97-billion dollar industry and porn sites have more traffic than Netflix, Twitter, and Amazon combined. Child porn and incest are the two most-searched genres on the world’s largest porn site. The porn industry is fed by the sex trafficking industry and the exploitation of society’s most vulnerable. So with the facts making it very clear that porn and online sex are posing a serious risk to the physical, emotional and future sexual health of our children, what can we as parents do to keep them free from the grip of this dangerous (and increasingly socially accepted) threat?

The Chat

The Chat is a culture-shaping movement which exists to start conversations and impart accurate information around issues like sex, identity, social media and pornography. The

Chat believes that if these issues are left unaddressed, they threaten to derail a generation. The Chat was founded and is led by Christy Herselman, and is overseen by The Table Church in uMdloti. Christy has a background in journalism and teaching. She has written two books and currently divides her time between researching, writing, speaking and being a wife and mom. She lives in uMdloti with her husband Brad and her children Emily, Ryan and Blake. Please contact Christy on info@thechat.co.za or visit www.thechat.co.za for more info C

PROTECT Install ﬁltering and monitoring software. A ﬁrst vital step is to make sure every device in your home is protected with some kind of software which you monitor. I recommend Safe Surfer (costing around R75/m) which is very easy to install and use and can be adapted to the age or maturity of your child. Filtering software is not 100% safe but very necessary. TALK ABOUT SEX Become a trusted and open source of accurate information about sex. Be a safe, nonjudgemental space for your children to ask questions and process what they see and hear. Teach your children about healthy sexuality. If you don’t tell your children about sex by the age of seven or eight, chances are someone else will. TALK ABOUT PORN If your child has internet access prepare them for what they might see. Explain the highly addictive and damaging

nature of porn, contrasting it Y with healthy sex within a loving, committed relationship. LayerCM the conversation as they grow MY and mature, bringing in values CY and science to help them understand the seriousness CMY of the threat to their health K and future. PREPARE It is not a case of if your child sees porn, it’s a case of when. Explain what they should do if they come across something inappropriate: shut it down, walk away and tell a trusted adult. There is a lot of shame around porn exposure and our kids need to know they can come to us for unconditional love and support. Most importantly, stay connected and involved. Children who feel a deep sense of belonging and connection at home are less likely to be drawn into pornography. And lastly, lead by example. Porn is not good for anyone. The safest home is a porn-free home.

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conquer your

FOOD

intolerances CATHERINE CLARK FROM THE HARVEST TABLE TAKES A CLOSER LOOK AT HOW FOOD INTOLERANCES CAN AFFECT OUR DAILY LIVES, AND SUGGESTS SIMPLE STEPS WE CAN TAKE TO HELP AVOID THEM

irst of all, let us briefly discuss the differences between allergies and intolerances. Medically speaking, a food allergy causes a reaction in your immune system which can affect a number of different organs in your body. There are a range of symptoms. Some are mild and some can be quite severe. Intolerances, on the other hand, are generally less serious and mostly only affect the digestive processes. Another interesting difference is that allergies are often an immediate reaction whereas an intolerance can take a little longer, sometimes even only appearing the next day. You may notice yourself feeling a bit more tired than usual, fighting a post nasal drip, or possibly feeling puffy around the eyes. For some of us, we have become so used to feeling these things that we may have an intolerance and not even realise it. Dairy and wheat are some of the main culprits as a lot of people react poorly to them and do not realise it. So,

look at moving to a cleaner diet by adding more fresh fruit and veg into your daily meals – along with good quality meats and some healthy oils. When you change your diet and cut out all potential intolerances, you may find yourself feeling a bit under the weather and maybe even a bit flu-like. This is a good sign that your body is going through a detox and getting rid of toxins that have been flowing around in the digestive system. Try this for one month and see how you feel. It may seem expensive at first, but choosing to take care

what can be done to help you conquer your intolerances? Well, the best step to take is to start cutting certain things out of your diet, starting with sugars, wheat, dairy and gluten and to add healthier food options into your diet. Within one or two weeks, you observe how the dietary changes make your body feel.

Paying close attention to your body is the most valuable tool when it comes to staying in good health Adding bone broth, for example, can benefit our gut health. It helps seal up the holes which can cause a leaky gut. Bone broth can help people overcome food sensitivities and promotes probiotic growth – thus improving immunity. Another great option is to

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of your body and practice good health is worth so much more in the long run. Once you have started to feel better and healthier, start trying to introduce some of the foods back into your diet. It is not always an obvious food that we are intolerant to. As we have mentioned so often before, paying close attention to your body is the most valuable tool when it comes to staying in good health. Listen to your body and what it is trying to tell you, and you will be able to figure out what foods to eat and which ones are better to avoid.

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ost-pandemic trail running has grown in popularity, enabling us to get out into the open and enjoy freedom, fresh air and fun. But besides a spirit of adventure, what do I need when hitting the trails? “You need good shoes, water and a sense of direction,” advises Nelfrie, explaining that trail running is gentler on your joints compared to road running with the repetitive same strike on a hard surface. On the trails your feet need to be agile with good balance in your ankles and knees to accommodate the uneven surfaces. Your trail shoes are more structured to keep your foot and shoe functioning as a unit, offering more stability. Trail shoes are also constructed in such a way that each part plays an important role: OUTERSOLE FUNCTION: To provide off-road traction through sand, mud and water and prevent slipping on rocks and tree stumps. The design of the outersole plays an important role in reducing mud and debris collection while providing maximum traction and stability. The lug height and configuration and the type of material used are very important. MIDSOLE FUNCTION: To provide cushioning and contribute to the stability of the shoe. The amount of cushioning needed will depend on the terrain, distance and

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TRAIL SHOES? WITHOUT THE RIGHT SHOES, TRAIL RUNNING CAN TAKE ITS TOLL ON YOUR FEET. BALLITO PODIATRIST NELFRIE KEMP SHARES HER EXPERT ADVICE your running mechanics. Sandy terrain requires more stability than cushioning compared to very rocky terrain, which needs cushioning and stability. Often in the midsole – or between the midsole and the outersole – technology is inserted offering more stability to the shoe, which also acts as a barrier to protect the foot against external factors. UPPER FUNCTION: The shoe’s upper function is to

ensure a secure fit of the foot on the sole and that the foot and shoe can function as a unit. As much as possible, it also needs to be breathable and keep out water, mud, sticks and stones. LACES: Tie and untie your laces every time you take your shoes off and put them on. The function of the laces is to ensure a secure fit of the foot inside the shoe and for better running.

How to choose the right trail shoes? Try on various brands and walk around the shop. Choose the one that feels most comfortable but also most stable and where your foot and shoe can function as a unit. HOW DO I KNOW IT’S THE CORRECT SIZE? Always opt for one size bigger than your normal shoe size. Before buying, take the innersole out of the shoe and stand on it – there should be a thumbs width between your longest toe and the front of the shoe. Try the shoes on with the socks you intend using.

BEFORE SETTING OFF ON A TRAIL RUN: • Trim your toenails. • Wear size specific socks. • Use petroleum jelly or a balm on your feet to reduce blisters. • Tie your laces properly. • If you feel something in your shoe while running, stop and take it out. Left in it can often cause blisters.

FOR MORE INFO Nelfrie Kemp: www.nelfriekemp.co.za; @nelfriekemp; W @nelfriekemp

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ORGANISED A WELL-PLANNED WALK-IN GROCERY CUPBOARD IS A MUST IN EVERY KITCHEN

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s a mom with two young children, I spend a good part of my day making numerous trips to my walk-in grocery cupboard to get my children snacks, make lunchboxes, and prepare meals. And over the years I have realised that the only way to be more efficient in the kitchen, is to be well organised,” says interior designer Lisa Walters-Hunter. Besides getting more organised, Lisa wanted the pantry part of the kitchen to look well planned out, tastefully styled, and beautiful – but at the same time in keeping with the look and feel of the rest of her home. “To start with, I replaced the dreary wall lighting fixture with a glam decorative feature light that instantly smartened up the space adding sufficient light. “Because the grocery space is fitted

below a staircase and there’s an awkward angled wall, I decorated the wall with art I had collected, and an antique wall sconce/hooks for tote bags which I can grab when on the run with my children. Lastly, I had fun sourcing interesting ways to store grocery items to make the space aesthetically pleasing.” Lisa points out that because her home is decorated in shades of neutral tones, she kept the storage items in the same colour palette so that all would live together, blend well and complement each other. “Use your imagination and have fun,” says Lisa. Find my style: Rattan and wood storage boxes, H & M Home; Glass food storage containers with lids, Mr Price Home; Black bread bin, Woolworths; Clear and wood storage canisters, The Home Edit available from @home; Various dustpans, Mr Price Home.

ABOVE: “A neat, stylish walk-in grocery cupboard is well worth the effort,” says Lisa Walters-Hunter.

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EMBRACE THE COOLER MONTHS AT NICCI BOUTIQUES – WHERE STYLISH, EFFORTLESSLY CHIC AND EASY-TO-WEAR CLOTHES THAT RADIATE STREET STYLE AND COMFORT ARE THE NEW MUST-HAVES THIS COMING SEASON 44

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n exciting and fun fashion experience in the uMhlanga area is Nicci Boutiques – the 18th store for the Nicci family who are continuously sourcing the latest styles and trends from Europe. Nicci – which caters for a wide range of fashion-first women in both size and age – is a hot favourite with celebrities, socialites, businesswomen, home executives and the new emerging younger market. Nicci strives to offer shoppers a unique boutique experience that is exciting, inspiring and personal, with consultants who are trained to help when fashion advice is needed. With new clothes coming in every week, there’s bound to be something to suit every mood, every taste, and every fashion-conscious woman.

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THIS CHICK WHEN IS CHICKEN NOT JUST CHICKEN? WHEN YOU PUT A FLAVOUR-FILLED ROCKET UP ITS BACKSIDE, THAT’S WHEN, SAYS ANT ELLIS

his month, it’s all about flipping the chicken script on its head for my signature dish. Jammed with aromatic aromas, mouthwatering sweet and sour tang, a touch of heat with zingy citrus, and of course (if you nail it), tender, juicy meat in a sticky sauce with that crazy-satisfying, subtle crunch. All other chicken dishes, take a knee – you are simply not worthy. I ﬁrst came across Orange Chicken when I was living near Hollywood in Los Angeles. We drove past a pretty mediocre, buffetstyle take-away chain every day, offering a load of Westernised Chinese-style dishes with cool names – things like General Tso’s Chicken, Beijing Beef and Kung Pao Chicken. I was working driving trucks, living on very little, so when I ate here it

was a real treat – well, sometimes. Some dishes tasted good, some were bland and disappointing – but then there was the Orange Chicken. Bingo! It was budget stripmall chicken nirvana with greasy noods, in a polystyrene box kept closed with an elastic band. Sometimes I’d walk past the store just to get a whiff – yeah, it was that good. Over the years and in many attempts to recreate not only the taste, but the headspace of that amazing time in my life (food can do that), I’ve worked through a dozen copycat recipes with many of my own tweaks and flourishes – some which worked and some didn’t. I eventually settled on what I think is the closest version of this magniﬁcent dish I’ve been able to reproduce, sans the polystrene and elastic

band, of course. I gotta warn ya – it takes time. There are lots of ingredients and a few processes, and you can’t skip any of it. But I’ll put my cock-a-doodle-doo on the cutting block that you’re gonna absolutely love it. The most important rule here is to be organised – use the right ingredients, understand that your prep is essential, don’t rush – and if I were you, make double. For my veggie friends, sub out the chicken with blanched cauliflower florets and do everything else the same. Until next time, don’t let recipes intimidate you. It may take an hour to make and ﬁve minutes to devour, but that’s the thing about cooking – it’s always, always worth it.

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Orange Chicken �1kg skinless chicken breasts, cut into bitesized chunks • 2 eggs, beaten • 1 tsp salt • 1/2 tsp finely ground black pepper • 1 Tbsp vegetable oil • 1/2 cup cornflour • 1/4 cup cake wheat flour • oil for frying Orange Sauce: �1½ Tbsp fresh ginger, minced or very finely chopped • 3 cloves garlic, minced or very finely chopped • 1/4 cup regular soy sauce • 2 Tbsp water • 1/4 cup fresh orange juice, plus the finely grated zest • 1 Tbsp cornflour • 2 Tbsp rice wine (don’t confuse with rice vinegar below) • 1 tsp sesame oil • 4 Tbsp white sugar • 4 Tbsp palm or caramel sugar • 8 Tbsp white or rice vinegar (don’t confuse with rice wine above) • 1/4 tsp chilli flakes Garnish: Your choice of sliced spring onions, fresh coriander leaves and/or sesame seeds Combine all sauce ingredients in a mixing bowl, mix well until sugar is dissolved, and set aside. Prepare your dredging station with two medium bowls: In one, whisk eggs, salt, pepper and 1 tablespoon of oil into a shallow

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bowl and whisk together. In the second, mix the cornflour and flour. In a large frying pan or medium pot add enough oil to deep fry the chicken. Heat oil until shimmering (if you have a thermometer, about 190ºC). Once oil is hot, dip chicken pieces in the egg mixture ﬁrst, then dredge in the flour mix, then add to the hot oil in small batches. Don’t crowd the oil or you’ll cool it down and end up with soggy, oily chicken. Fry for 3-4 minutes until golden and crispy on the outside. Remove from oil with a slotted spoon and transfer to a cooling rack with a plate underneath. Discard all but about a tablespoon of the frying oil. Give the orange sauce a mix and add it to the oil. Bring to the boil to thicken. Turn off the heat, and add fried chicken nuggets to the sauce, mixing until well coated. Serve with jasmine rice or noodles (just follow the packet instructions for either, with a dash of soy sauce), and garnish.

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BRIGHT SAY GOODBYE TO DRAB AND DULL – AND GET READY TO SEE PURPLE EVERYWHERE

ollowing almost a year of research and trend forecasting – taking into consideration what people are doing and talking about, getting inspiration from gaming platforms, sports, looking at the natural world around us with lilac, lavender and periwinkle plants offering a calming sense during the pandemic – Pantone has introduced a new shade of blue. It’s a dynamic periwinkle blue hue with a vivifying violet red undertone. Very Peri, or Pantone 17-3938, is the Pantone Colour of the Year for 2022. By combining the “faithfulness and consistency of blue with the energy and excitement of red”, Pantone – the global colour authority and provider of professional colour language standards – landed on the “happiest and warmest of all the blue hues”. This is also the first time Pantone has created a colour for its Colour of the Year selection. This decision reflects the “global innovation and transformation taking place,” said Laurie Pressman, Pantone Colour Institute vice-president. “As society continues to recognise colour as a critical form of communication and as a way to express and affect ideas and emotions and

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engage and connect, the complexity of this new red-violetinfused blue hue highlights the expansive possibilities that lie before us. It displays a spritely, joyous attitude and dynamic presence that encourages courageous creativity and imaginative expression,” she said. Very Peri shows promise to a fashion industry that has grown bored of sameness and struggles, relying on dopamine dressing to get out of its pandemic slump. This colour adapts new qualities on different materials, looking

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AFRICA STEP ABOARD ROVOS RAIL AND EXPERIENCE A BYGONE ERA OF TRAVEL ALONG ROUTES STEEPED IN AFRICAN BEAUTY, WRITES CATHY CLARK

ccording to his wife Anthea, Rohan Vos has always been obsessed with things mechanical. In 1985, following a train trip to Magaliesberg, Rohan attended his first auction to buy a coach or two. Described as a man of vision, Rohan soon became self-sufficient from the South African Transport Services and was granted permission to run his own personal “family caravan” in December 1986, giving birth to the idea of running a vintage train as a business venture. On April 29, 1989, a locomotive and seven carriages with four paying passengers, friends and press, set off for the Eastern Transvaal – the start of what would become known as the Rovos Rail. Since then, Rovos Rail has earned an international reputation for its truly world-class travel experiences, offering bespoke train safaris through the heart of Africa, combining magnificent scenery with the glamour and excitement of the golden age of leisure travel. In a series of journeys lasting from 48 hours to 15 days, Rovos Rail links some of the sub-continent’s greatest destinations. The beautifully rebuilt vintage trains carry a maximum of 72 passengers in 36 superbly appointed suites. It is also available for charter for corporate or private functions and is suitable for daytime journeys. The classic wood-panelled coaches are the epitome of luxury with period »

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OFF-PLAN IS BUYING OFF-PLAN STILL A GOOD WAY TO INVEST IN PROPERTY? GARETH BAILEY WEIGHS UP THE OPTIONS

o say there seems to be a lot happening in the world would be a massive understatement and tracking the implications on investment economics can present an interesting challenge. The rand has bucked expectations and held up despite increased global volatility and South African assets are still an attractive option globally. Within the property asset class, the residential market has remained surprisingly healthy throughout the Covid period driven by shifting housing demands brought about by the work-from-home trend and the banks’ appetite for quality lending. National house price growth has slowed slightly over the past two years but remains stable around the 4% mark, according to FNB’s March Property Barometer Report, and areas like KZN’s North Coast and the Western Cape are outperforming this national average. Our North Durban suburbs have seen a flurry of development activity over the past five years with billions being invested in residential,

off-plan sales. Is buying offplan versus an existing home still a good idea? While there are pros and cons to buying off-plan, if you avoid a few simple pitfalls, you are likely to enjoy your new-build and have a positive investment experience for many years to come. One of the most important factors to consider when buying off-plan is the pedigree

Bad development experiences usually relate to delays and the quality of the delivered product and track-record of the developer and the professional team because this speaks to the likelihood that the development will be delivered on time and to specification. Bad development experiences usually relate to delays and the quality of the delivered product.

While the price of off-plan properties often exceeds the price of existing properties, one should note that off-plan properties are brand new and that purchasers have the option to report any snags to the developer upon handover for remediation. Together with building guarantees, this means it is unlikely that a purchaser would need to spend much money on renovations for a good few years. Conversely, while the new Property Practitioners Act

requires agents to get a signed declaration of defects upfront from sellers, the Voetstoets clause (meaning “bought in the current condition at the purchaser’s risk”) still applies to the extent that if any latent (hidden) defects arise after transfer, purchasers will need to attend to any wear-andtear types of expenses or renovation work that may arise due to the age of the property. Another factor to consider is that properties bought off-plan include VAT and therefore no transfer duty is payable over and above the purchase price. With existing properties, purchasers still need to budget for transfer duty. This applies on a sliding scale, for example, about R90 000 for properties priced at R2,5-million. Banks are willing to calculate their bond offers on the selling price including VAT, but they will not usually take transfer duty into

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ABOVE: Gareth Bailey, Pam Golding Properties. account when processing bonds on existing homes. Off-plan properties often accompany the launch of totally new areas with unique outlooks and sea views, or offer formats (like apartments or gated estates) that have yet to be seen in the existing surrounding property market. There has been a general long-term trend toward estate and sectional title living due to the quality of their surrounding managed environments and, of course, due to security. While Covid has bucked this trend by driving demand for freestanding homes which offer more space for a home

office and the opportunity to maximise lifestyle at home, I suspect the long-term trend will resume at some stage, and this will prop up price growth in these types of properties. Last but not least, buying off-plan offers investors the opportunity to put down a relatively small deposit, secure a property at today’s price, and enjoy the growth in value of the property from signature date until handover which is often 12 to 18 months later. In our marketplace, Pam Golding Properties has launched two apartment developments during Covid, and both have been a tremendous success. Kent, La Lucia completely sold out within just over 12 months, and The Onyx in uMhlanga Ridge Boulevard has all but sold out within 18 months. Pam Golding Properties launched York at Sanctuary Estate in March which is positioned on a greenbelt in front of FNB uMhlanga Ridge. This FWJK development will offer one-, two- and three-bedroom apartments tightly integrated with the beautiful surrounding natural environment and sea views. In summary, there are pros and cons to buying off-plan versus existing properties, however, if the unique opportunity of an off-plan product or position piques your interest, make sure you choose a quality development team which will most likely yield long-term rewards both in terms of lifestyle and capital appreciation.

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JANUARY THE SECRET TO STICKING TO NEW YEAR RESOLUTIONS IS TO START THEM IN MARCH AND MAKE THEM SIMPLER AND MORE ACHIEVABLE, SAYS DARREL BRISTOW-BOVEY BETWEEN PRESS-UPS

o, how are your New Year’s resolutions going? I never bother to ask in January – anyone can keep their resolutions in January. But as the year grinds on and the iron wheel of time rumbles and crushes your toes if you don’t move out of the way – that’s when the resolution game starts to get serious. I have a simple way to make sure I’m still keeping my resolutions: I only start them on March 1. March is a dull month – you’re bored with work already and Easter isn’t here yet. It needs spicing up and motivation, so why not make it the new January? Usually, I make vague and unmeasurable resolutions like, “Be more charming”, or “Don’t worry so much about my hair”, but this year I decided to make them simpler and more achievable. Every single morning, starting on March 1, I have been doing press-ups. Don’t shrug like that – this is a big deal. It’s been years since I did a press-up – the last time was in Standard 7 at Glenwood rugby training with Mr Sjolander. In certain one-on-one coaching sessions he liked to see if we could lift ourselves with him lying on top of us. Usually I couldn’t, so he would just lie there companionably for a while, shifting to make himself comfortable, murmuring tactics in my ear and chuckling throatily until our breathing synchronised. Ah, good times.

The thought of doing press-ups again was intimidating. On March 1 I started with one press-up. Anyone can do one pressup. The next day I did two, and the next day three. It’s the grain-of-sand theory: if we can lift a weight, we can always add one more grain of sand, right? So surely if you keep slowly adding an infinite number of grains, you’ll be able to bear an infinitely large weight? It’s a version of the old debate about whether there’s a limit on how fast a human being will ever run the hundred metres. If it’s always at least theoretically possible to run one-millionth of a second faster than the previous fastest, that implies infinite progression. Human

How will I do just over 300 press-ups by the end of the year? beings can always get better! But a French researcher named Geoffroy Berthelot disagrees. He concluded that the rate of breaking athletic records levelled off in 1988, and that human beings have reached our maximal capacity for athletic improvement. There’ll be no more great surges forward in performance, he predicts, and only advances in technology, gene therapy or doping will see any meaningful shaving

down of times. We’re about as good as we’re going to get. Well, we’ll see about that, I think each morning as I drop and do my press-ups and add one more. I believe in human improvement. I believe in hope. The hell with you, Geoffrey Berthelot. But it’s all very well being optimistic about the human condition when you’re adding one press-up to six to make seven; as you move deeper into the double digits, human perfectibility starts to seem mighty far away. This morning I wheezed my way to the end then lay on my back gasping and thinking: By my birthday I’ll be up to 50 press-ups. Is this likely? How will I do just over 300 press-ups by the end of the year? This thinking doesn’t help. You have to keep your horizons small, and not look too far ahead. Some day I won’t be able to add a press-up; some day I won’t even be able to do the number I did yesterday. Soon enough the grains won’t be added – they’ll start being subtracted. But that day wasn’t today, and I’m hoping it’s not tomorrow.

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BUYING OFF-PLAN

THE PRIDE OF AFRICA

CONQUER FOOD INTOLERANCES

WHY TRAIL SHOES?

THE FUTURE IS BRIGHT

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