Issue 04
June 2012
Prophet Ismail (as) Helping Neighbours The Chase for a Job
Nature Detectives Peter Sanders Regulars- Hadith, Book Reviews, Recipe’s
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Guest Editorial Michelle Blum
Asalamu Alaykum! Welcome to Issue 4 of Fifteen21, for which I have enjoyed writing ‘Deed of the Month,’ Alhamdulillah! As a white American, Muslim revert, I can personally identify with the issues surrounding having struggles between cultural and Muslim Identity. With Ramadan being just around the corner, it causes me to think about my first Ramadan, struggling to separate genuine Islamic advice from ‘cultural’ advice that was under the guise of Islam. There is a vast ocean of information everywhere about Islam, some reliable and some distorted. Fifteen21 provides a balanced collection of articles, such as ‘One Hundred Less One’, ‘Hadith’, and ‘Stories of the Prophets,’ that help our Clearly, making a positive impact on your community and readers to navigate Islam in a safe way, while exploring topics environment is at the top of your ‘to-do list,’ as a responsible that affect them and inspire them to be proud of being Muslim. Muslim. So, volunteer for ‘Groundwork’ and the local ‘Wildlife Trusts’ and, while you’re at it, join the ‘I Drink Tap’ campaign to In this issue, Fifteen21 is hunting for positive role models, who conserve and save our environment, Bismillah. have an impact on their community. Nominations, recognizing local role models, bring inspiration to those that read them. Another responsibility and struggle, for many readers, are the Inspiration also comes in the form of thought-provoking events. problems of finding employment. InshaAllah, our article can give Why not get involved with the upcoming Ramadan Festival and you some helpful tips. Then, be inspired by the story of ‘Ismail the Edinburgh Festival of Peace & Spirituality, advertised in (as)’ with Hajar (ra) and Ibrahim (as), who trusted Allah (swt) this issue? Involving yourself with positive and influential events, during struggle and sacrifice. May Allah (swt) make it easy for promotes the peace and positivity of Islam. you, Ameen.
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Prophets of Islam: Prophet Ismail (AS) Deed of the month One Hundred Less One Allah (swt) Profile: Peter Sanders Nominate a Role Model! Child Line poster Hadith What are YOU doing this Moment? Grooming & Prosecution Barnardo’s poster Profile: Shaista Chishty Duas The Path of Knowledge Food for the Soul Book Review Poetry
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Prophet Ismail (Ishmael) (as) was the first-born of Prophet Ibrahim (as) and his mother was Hajar. When he was an infant his father took him and his mother deep in the desert of Arabia, the site of where the Ka’aba stands today. He gave them some dates and water and left them there. As Prophet Ibrahim (as) was walking away, Hajar followed and repeatedly asked why they were being left behind in such an isolated place. He did not answer. Finally, she asked if Allah (swt) had ordered him to do this to which he replied that this was the case. Upon hearing this, she accepted Allah’s (swt) will and returned to the place where he had left her.
searched for water and assistance between the hillsides of Safa’a and Marwah. She did this seven times until the Zamzam spring emerged which still exists today in Makkah. During Hajj, pilgrims re-enact this search as it was significant in Hajar’s effort to save the life of her child. Prophet Ismail (as) and his mother lived there alone for some time. One day some people of the Jurhum tribe passed through the valley. They did not intend to stop as they knew the valley had no water. However, they noticed a bird which had a habit of flying around water. So, they followed it and came across Hajar, Prophet Ismail (as) and the spring of water.
Mother and son lived on the supply of dates and water until they The people requested to stop ran out. Hajar then frantically there for a while and Hajar
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Prophets of Islam:
Prophet Ismail (AS)
agreed provided they did not claim “And when (his son) was old enough to possession of the water. Some of walk with him, (Abraham) said: O my them decided to settle there (now dear son, I have seen in a dream that Makkah) permanently and sent for I must sacrifice thee. So look, what their families. Prophet Ismail (as) thinkest thou? He said: O my father! grew up with these people and learnt Do that which thou art commanded. Arabic from them. His virtues made Allah willing, thou shalt find the people admire and love him. me of the steadfast.”
his father was about “toAssacrifice him, the angel
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Jibraeel appeared and told them they had passed the test of ultimate submission to Allah (swt).
As Prophet Ismail (as) grew up he was also strong in faith like his father. His father saw in consecutive dreams that he sacrificed his son to please Allah (swt). Prophet Ismail (as) told his father that it was a test of their will and he was prepared to be sacrificed for the sake of Allah (swt). As his father was about to sacrifice him, the angel Jibraeel appeared and told them they had passed the test of ultimate submission to Allah (swt). They sacrificed a ram instead and as a reminder of their willingness to please Allah (swt), this act became part of the rites of Hajj.
(Qur’an, 37:102) The people of Arabia trace their lineage from Prophet Ismail (as). The Prophet Muhammad (saw) was born in the Quraysh tribe who descended from the Prophet Ismail (as). They were amongst the most powerful people of Arabia. Azizun Nessa
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Deed of the month: Be Consistently Constant The London Olympics 2012 are just around the corner. Every day, there is some sort of news broadcast or advertisement related to the Olympic theme. It has inspired many people to become more active and healthy, which is fantastic! What happens, though, when the Olympics are finished? Will we continue being active and dedicated to being healthy or will we lose motivation and interest, as the health fad is forgotten? Having consistent, sustainable goals and patience is the key to keeping any routine.
and has given humanity a book full of inspirations and advice on how to change for the better. In fact, the life of Muslims, who choose to do everything with the guidance from Quran, will find inspiration to reach their goals successfully, inshaAllah (with Allah’s will).
One important piece of advice that Allah (swt) gives us is to be constant. Allah tells us that he made ‘the sun and the moon, constant in their courses, to be of service unto [us], and hath made of service unto Though the Olympics are beautifully [us] the night and day’ (Qur’an 14:33). inspirational, they are not a constant In the same way, Allah stated that reminder to change. This kind of if humans are ‘patient and constant, inspiration could never be sustainable He will reward them with a Garden because, when it is over, it is no longer and (garments of) silk,’ if Allah wills relevant to us. On the other hand, it (Qur’an 76:12). Imagine if the Sun Allah (swt) is the most inspirational and Moon were as inconsistent as
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humans often are. Now, imagine if humans were as constant in obeying Allah (swt) as the Sun and Moon is constant for us. Which would you prefer? Which would Allah (swt) prefer? Unfortunately, we all have an inconsistent and impatient nature, but it is our responsibility to try to change for the better. Allah (swt) tells us that exercising patience, constancy and self restraint is in our best interest (Qur’an 41:35; 90:17). The consistent inspiration from Allah (swt) can guide us to reach whatever goals we have, whatever they may be. In order to do this, we need to remember to be consistently consistent, Bismillah (in the name of Allah). Michelle Blum
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One Hundred Less One Allah (swt) - The Greatest Name Ahead of our journey together, where we hope to delve into and start to unveil and understand the secrets and meaning of each and every one of the 99 Beautiful names of Allah (swt), we should start by exploring the name that we are most familiar with, a name which is actually not one of the 99 but a name that embodies and encompasses all of the 99 attributes that we hope to discover. Allah (swt) is a name for only true existence, the One who embodies all the attributes of divinity and of Lordship. That is to say: it is not possible for any existing thing to exist itself except Allah (swt) and every existing thing gains existence from Allah (swt).
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The essence of Allah’s (swt) nature is illustrated in a few verses in Surah Al Ikhlas. The ayahs are distinct from other ayahs in the Quran concerning Allah’s (swt) nature as He is averting us from falling into error like the people before. So here Allah (swt) tells us, “Say: He is Allah, the One and Only.” (Qur’an 112:1) The Only One who is worthy of worship and praise, and everything that exists are His creations. “Allah, the Eternal, the Absolute.” (Qur’an 112:2). His nature is so sublime and divine that it cannot be compared to anything we can conceive with our limited conceptions. “He begetteth not, nor is He begotten.” (Qur’an 112:3). He cannot be likened to the qualities of His creations, His qualities and natures are incomparable “And
By illustrating the enormity of His being, Allah (swt) makes Himself known to us. One of the greatest beauties of Islam is that unlike other major religions, the relationship between the servant and the Creator is direct. One does not require a clergy to have access to Allah (swt) because Allah (swt) tells us in the Quran He is close to us, His throne extends over the Heaven and the Earth, and He is there when His servant calls on Him. Every existing thing that surrounds us, that is
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there is none like unto Him.” (Qur’an 112:4). The name Allah is the greatest name because it depicts the essence which unites all the attributes of divinity so that none of them are left out. Whereas, all other names individually refer to single attributes of power, knowledge and ability. The nature and essence of Allah (swt) is beautifully illustrated in Ayahtul Kursi (the verse of the Throne), Quran 2:225.
1 conceivable to man, is by its 8 nature diminishing in some way except Allah (swt). 15 “ Say: He is Allah, 21 the One and Only. 27 (Qur’an 112:1) 33 We hope insh’Allah to delve deeply into one or two of the 99 Beautiful39 names and attributes of Allah (swt) in 45 the next issues so that we can begin to know our Lord more closely and 51 personally as He intended us to know Him. 57 64 70 76 82 88 94 Shanaz Ali
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Profile Peter Sanders What do you do? I try to look at life with a positive and optimistic eye. This is expressed through photography.
Where did you take your most memorable photograph and what was it off? I am still waiting to take it.
What do you like about your job? I get to travel around the world and meet extraordinary people and experience a part of their lives.
Who do you admire? Many people. I admire the saints and awliyyah, who spend their life in prayer and service. I admire the courageous who fight against injustice but peacefully of course. I admire people who are positive all the time and grateful for their lives. I especially admire my wife for her patience with me and my life.
Have you always been creative? I have always been inspired by creative people. To be continually creative is what I struggle with. What got you involved with photography as a career? A deep interest in it and also some incredible grace and good fortune from God. Self Portrait - Peter Sanders 12
If you were granted one wish, what would it be? When I meet my Lord, that He is pleased with me and forgives me.
What has been your biggest challenge or obstacle that you have overcome? To overcome one’s fears and anxieties. I once had to climb an extremely tall tower crane in Madinah by the ring ladder in the centre of it with all my cameras in order to take pictures from the top.
swimming and learning to breathe properly.
And your biggest achievement? Meeting all the wonderful Shuyukh, spiritual and famous people and still having the energy to keep travelling and take pictures.
Any final thoughts? I started this in the UK and have finished it on a plane flying back from Morocco after photographing the third largest mosque in the world. I realize I am extremely fortunate to do what I enjoy.
What are your hobbies? Being able to relax and enjoy English tea in the afternoon,
Where’s the best place that your job has taken you? There are so many and I like them for different reasons. Makkah and Madinah are obvious, the desert of Mauritanian, China and always coming back home!
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Hadith
Narrated by Aisha (radhi Allahu ‘anha) may Allah be pleased with her: The prophet Salla Allahu ‘alayhi wasallam said: “Jibrael (Gabriel) continued to recommend me about treating the neighbours kindly and politely, so much so that I thought’ he would order me to make them heirs”. Bukhari
Who are our heirs in Islam? That’s the very first question that pops into my head when I read this Hadith. Looking within the rules of the Islamic law, our heirs are our children, spouses, parents and other close family members. That is the importance that Jibrael (may Allah be pleased with him) gave to our neighbours when teaching the prophet salla Allahu ‘alayhi wasallam about dealing with them.
are all teachings that we are taught time and time again. Whether we are taught this when we attend lectures at the mosque, from our parents or at our days in school, very few of us grow up not learning these everyday manners. Yet, respecting our neighbours, something which is given so much importance in Islam, we are not as often reminded of.
The prophet Muhammad salla Allahu Treating our parents ‘alayhi wasallam use to have a Jewish neighbour who use to harm well, respecting him, constantly throwing rubbish our teachers, outside his home. But, we see from the being kind prophet salla Allahu ‘alayhi wasallam to our siblings perfection of character that he did
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not once take rubbish and throw back in his neighbour’s garden. Instead he salla Allahu ‘alayhi wasallam would take the rubbish and dispose of it elsewhere. This was due to the fact that he, like the rest of us, was ordered by Allah (Glorified and Exalted is He) to be good to his neighbours: “Worship Allah and join none with Him (in worship), and do good to parents, kinsfolk, orphans, Al-Masâkin (the poor), the neighbour who is near of kin, the neighbour who is a stranger... Verily, Allah does not like such as are proud and boastful” [ Qur’an 4:36]
What are the rights of our neighbours upon us? • • • • •
Help them if they ask for your help Give them relief if they seek your relief Show them concern if they are distressed Nurse them when they are ill Sympathize with them if any stop and contemplate and ask calamity befalls them ourselves are we doing what we have been told to do? And there are many many more! As human beings we make mistakes, When we remember that our prophet but as long as we try our best to do salla Allahu ‘alayhi wasallam was sent what we have been ordered to do, to us from Allah (swt) as a guidance insha’Allah Allah (swt) will guide us to for us to emulate in all that we do, what is better and accept our good we should strive to be outstanding deeds and forgive our sins. individuals and try our best to do our duties. When we hear the verses of Zainab Berrada Allah (swt) recited to us, we should
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What are YOU doing this Moment? Moments: Know that every moment you have is an opportunity.
and we don’t look towards our future. No! By being in the moment I’m talking about giving full concentration and focus
An opportunity to grow, to excel to make your dreams a reality. How do YOU spend your moments and what are you doing this moment?
“If the end of time is upon you and you have a seedling in your hand, plant it!” Therefore, don’t let a single moment pass by you without making the most out of it.
We need to give ourselves permission - to live in the moment and be in the moment. to what you are doing at that moment.
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Imagine driving whilst you’re tired almost asleep - I know many have done that - and I know many have regretted it also. As the Prophet SalAllahu Alayhi Wa Sallam said,
Know that after spending a long day working, studying, looking after whomever you are looking after, worshiping, you need a moment to rest. So when you rest give yourself permission to relax, to wind down so you can start fresh the next moment.
Many will see this as negative - as if being in the moment we forget our past
needs to be in the moment and be aware.
And yes that also means preparing for our life to come - and how/when can we prepare for it?
Stop living in a matrix and walking Is your next moment guaranteed? around like a robot - you’re a human who
with someone yet they were only half listening? How did that feel? Ever said something which you totally regretted and wished you just had one more moment to change it and make it right? Ever wished you had just one moment to hold on to something or someone but in the heat of the moment you lost them? ***Be In the Moment***
Let’s make it a habit to give our loved ones the attention and be in the moment with them - especially young children and the elderly.
‘We might think of our mind wandering as a pleasant experience, but Harvard University researchers have found that only when we are fully present in the ***High Energy for Life*** moment are we truly content. Throughout your day, stay focused on what you’re One of the ways of being highly doing and see how it makes you feel.’ energetic and lively are to be in the moment and focusing on what you’re Be in the moment and give each moment doing. your full attention and focus. If the mind wonders then you lose focus Ever been upset or so happy that and you’ve lost the moment which in turn you wanted to share your moment will make you agitated and will leave
you feeling hopeless. “...each moment is our only moment which knows the moment that was, that is and that will be – so make each moment count - in the remembrance of Allah (swt), for we never know which moment of ours will be the last moment – so let’s leave on ‘La ilaha ilallah, Muhammadur RasulAllah.” Nadia Leona Yunis
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Give someone a gift today - give them a gift of ‘moment’ and why not give yourself a gift - gift yourself with the permission of being in the moment - doing whatever it is that you’re doing - enjoying and making the most of this moment!
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Grooming & Prosecution
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Grooming, what is this? Grooming is a form of manipulation to achieve the end result for the perpetrator. It is using language to encourage another to believe certain things without the agenda of the grooming being revealed, but inevitably resulting in some form of abuse.
we wouldn’t be allowed to have the relationship we are having’. This often forms anger in relation to ‘the overall parent’ and is a displacement for the anger not being directed at the abuser themselves. Another example could be
Often people in domestic violence situations are groomed to believe the violence is their fault. Children are often groomed by sex offenders and they are groomed easily due to their vulnerability, their desire to please and be liked by individuals. I have worked with many an individual that has been groomed to believe they are ultimately responsible ‘You make me do this to you’, or ‘if you for the emotional, physical and sexual don’t behave yourself you will have to trauma that they have suffered. be punished’. There are ultimately two forms of grooming, negative which is Religion is, and can often be used in by intimidation and fear, or positive, grooming; ‘This is Allah’s will, if Allah did stroking the ego to make the individual not want you to be treated as special, feel special.
Having worked with young Muslim females it has come to my attention that often the Qur’an is used within the grooming and consistently reminding the victim that this is ‘Allah’s will’. The repercussions I have witnessed have often involved the knowledge of the whole family being aware that the abuse is taking place, but no one taking action leaving the victim believing that what is happening must be acceptable as the family are allowing it to happen. This can result in serious weight issues, often food being the only thing the individual can control and therefore result in anorexia or serious self harm or even suicide. The family can alienate the victim further reinforcing the belief that they are to blame for the abuse, creating further shame, isolation, depression and severe anxiety. This I have found to be particularly common where cultural/religious dynamics are very strong.
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The individual being groomed often is filled with shame, guilt and responsibility; these feelings make it difficult to confide in another and bringing these situations to a prosecution very difficult. Without time spent on teaching the individual to trust again, to accept and recognise the grooming was not their fault, it can be problematic for the individual to confide in someone in authority. It is also important to recognise that not talking about it can be the only thing left that the individual feels they have control over. Rationally by informing the authorities the individual feels at risk of being judged when actually they are often still judging themselves, the police will take control of the situation, rightly so, but this often is done in a way that the victim loses all control of what happens next. The shame, fear and self-blame often means the victim simply doesn’t
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feel strong enough to deal with the consequences of what will happen in a judicial sense. This is why they need a huge amount of support from family, friends and the community.
in relation to the grooming, and finally risking seeing the perpetrator.
Overall, in my opinion the Crown Prosecution Service should create an organisation that is purely there for the victims of abuse, domestic violence, sexual or physical abuse and allow the individual to have absolute control over the situation. Firstly that by reporting the incident to the police does not necessarily mean an instant arrest unless the individual requests this, that they have the ultimate choice as to where the situation goes, that they are allowed to get to know the officers within this organisation and that over a period of work with therapists, police Imagine after sustaining a long period officers and crown prosecution staff that of trauma at the hands of any individual relationships are built up around trust and then having to stand in front of and understanding. Clarity over the numerous people in court sharing your prosecution and no visual contact with own trauma, being cross examined, the perpetrator in court is crucial and emotionally, in a sense re-living the that the individual gives their evidence experience to total strangers and with support alongside them, always by explaining graphic details of the abuse video.
By having a separate organisation attached to the police (under a different name) which also includes trained therapists answering the phones, will not be as daunting. Knowing that the person taking the information is not instantly taking control and knowing the initial call is simply to talk about what has happened, what is happening and for the trained individual taking the call to simply be there in a supportive capacity rather than a legal capacity might enable victims to feel more confident in coming forward.
suffered abuse and allow them to have appropriate support, understanding and therapy otherwise society will still hide the individuals suffering from abuse and perpetrators will still escape prosecution. Siobhain Crosbie
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It is important to add that all of the above applied to adult situations. For a child reporting an incident it should be taken out of the child’s control as the child is not meant to have to deal with this situation in any way. The individual must have as much control as is possible working alongside professionals, willing to take the time and energy to work with people having
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So be aware, stay alert and keep safe – use our top tips to protect yourself from exploitation.
Three top tips to keep safe
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Trust yourself to know when something is wrong. If someone makes you feel unsafe, pressured or frightened, follow your instincts and seek help.
Don’t trust people you don’t know, even if they seem friendly – and make sure you know who you are talking to online. Never give away personal details or agree to meet someone who you have only talked to online.
Be aware, stay alert, keep safe!
If you are worried about a situation that you or a friend is in, talk to an adult that you trust as soon as you can. People who can help you include teachers, parents, carers and social workers. You may also want to contact one of Barnardo’s specialist sexual exploitation projects for advice, or to talk to someone about what you’ve been through:
How to keep you and your friends safe from exploitation
www.barnardos.org.uk/specialist_ sexual_exploitation_projects If you, or a friend, are in immediate danger or want urgent help, call 999 or contact your local police.
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Don’t be tricked into doing things that are unsafe, even if they seem like fun. What might look exciting at first could be more dangerous than you realise.
Keep safe
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Think about all your different relationships. They could be with close friends, a boyfriend or girlfriend – and maybe groups of friends from school or the area you live in. As we grow up, we develop relationships with lots of different people. It’s how we learn to enjoy healthy relationships, and that’s a great skill to have. But things can go wrong along the way, and people might try to take advantage of you, forcing you into dangerous situations before you know it. That’s why you need to be aware of warning signs that someone may want to exploit you – and to be very careful who you trust.
Sexual exploitation – how much do you know?
Who can you trust? It’s not always easy to tell.
Sexual exploitation can be hard to recognise because you often believe you’re in a good relationship with the person – or people – who want to abuse your trust in them.
Sexual exploitation can happen to you, no matter what your gender, age or background – so you need to be careful who you trust.
It could be a friend, or group of friends. It could be someone you think of as a boyfriend or girlfriend. It could be a person or a new group of people you’ve only just got to know. It could be someone you’ve talked to online.
And that means looking out for warning signs that someone might want to take advantage of you, whether you’ve recently met them or they belong to an existing group of friends.
But whoever it is, they could use clever ways to take advantage of your relationship – and that means you can be harmed almost before you know what’s going on. For example, someone might give you money, drugs, alcohol, gifts or somewhere to stay and then force you to do one or more of these things in return: Q Have sex with them Q Do something sexual to them Q Be touched inappropriately, in a way that makes you feel uncomfortable Q Look at sexual images – including films or pictures Q Watch them do something sexual, including having sex or touching themselves sexually.
One warning sign is when someone tries to get to know you better by giving you lots of attention and making you feel really special. They might buy you gifts or involve you in activities that seem exciting or fun.
That’s why it’s so important to look out for the warning signs that someone’s behaviour towards you may not be all it seems.
It becomes a problem if that person starts to try ways of controlling you, such as making promises they can’t keep, threatening you, or even becoming violent if you don’t do what they want. They might also try and isolate you from your friends, family and other people who care for you. When that happens, it’s easier for an abuser to put you in dangerous situations or force you to do things you don’t want to do – with them or other people they know. That’s not doing you a favour – that’s exploitation. Sadly, individuals who have fewer people looking out for them are even more vulnerable to sexual exploitation. Jessica was one of them.
Jessica’s Story ‘My mum wasn’t around any more, my dad was drinking and my sister was skipping school. I was 15 and got involved with a group of friends outside school – they were older. At first I thought it was really cool to have older friends, I didn’t think there was anything wrong with it – they were drinking and there was a lot of drugs around. ‘I thought, if they were doing it – then it must be okay. There was a lot of peer pressure to get involved. But nothing told me it was wrong. Anyway, at first it was okay – I could get the money from my dad. But after a couple of weeks, I was getting hooked and there wasn’t enough money. ‘My new friends said that it was fine and introduced me to a new male friend. They said he fancied me, they said that I should go out with him. I didn’t realise what was happening – I was being set up. After I had slept with him – I realised that I’d been used but it was too late, I was hooked on drugs. The need and the want became more and more.’ Barnardo’s now works with Jessica to help her recover her confidence and break free from the cycle of abuse. But her story shows how difficulties at home and the excitement of older ‘friends’ meant she was quickly drawn into an abusive situation.
What do you do?
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Have you always been creative?
particularly pictures of my sisters posing and of random I tell real stories using images. objects! But it wasn’t until I still don’t think I’m overly What do you like about your I hit my early 20’s that I creative but I do have a love job? started taking my then hobby for creativity in all its forms. I seriously. I wanted to learn There are so many things I also encourage people to tap the technical elements so took love about my job but the into their own creativity - it’s up various courses and it was thing right up there is just how an important part of human during my subsequent HND in much I get to learn about and societal expression. I think Photography that I felt I could the world we live in. I get it brings us together. really turn my love for the art to visit people and places I What got you involved with into a career. would otherwise never have photography as a career? the opportunity to see. The Where did you take your most people I work with inspire me I’d always enjoyed taking memorable photograph and and make me want to be a pictures as a child with what was it of? better person. my mother’s little camera;
Very tough question! I have several favorites, not because I think they are the best images, nor are they necessarily technically bang on but because I felt a true connection with the person I was photographing. There is one picture in particular that I took in Pakistan at a medical facility in a rural village. I was talking to a nurse when from the corner of my eye I noticed a small boy with piercing eyes, looking in from outside, through a net curtain near his mother who was being treated for drug
addiction. In an instant I took challenge or obstacle that you the shot, not knowing if I’d got it have overcome? or not. I’ll let you decide if you I would say that my initial think I nailed it. transition into photography was Who do you admire? quite the challenge. I had been trained in and worked as a HR I admire anyone who seeks consultant so for some years knowledge and truth; who juggled two careers whilst also aspires to be compassionate; retraining as a photographer. who wants to play their part in creating good in the world I would also like to add whilst standing up for injustice. that working as a freelance photographer does bring If you were granted one wish, with it its own continual what would it be? challenges, particularly in I wish I could change the world the current economic climate with a photograph... where budgets are cut and What has been your biggest
photography needs may fall to the bottom of the pecking order. It’s a profession that requires a lot of hard work, creativity and determination, but also self belief. And your biggest achievement? Whilst I have been blessed with so many opportunities, I would hope my biggest achievement is still to come!
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so much potential and the most remarkable people. Everyone had a truly unique story to tell and it made me realise how easy my life has been in comparison and just how much I had to be thankful for.
I love learning about the wonderfully diverse world we live in; about different cultures, customs and even cuisines! I enjoy the arts and reading too. I’m also often found burning off the results of my fiercely sweet Any final thoughts? tooth at the gym or at Bikram I see photography as being my yoga! license to explore the world Where’s the best place that and its fascinating inhabitants. I your job has taken you? hope to create visually exciting and challenging imagery but at The most interesting place the heart of it lies my thirst for my work has taken me is to really getting close to people Afghanistan back in 2009. I was and understanding human life. working with Islamic Relief on I hope to capture this through documenting the stories about my lens and to give the people women who were taking charge who may see my work the of their lives. Not only were all opportunity to access the stories the people I met truly inspiring of people far removed from but I found it absolutely their own lives. fascinating learning about people’s experiences pre and post the Taliban and the war. It’s a place with a wealth of history,
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Dua’s Supplications for when you wake up
Alhamdu lillaahil-lathee ‘ahyaanaa ba’da maa ‘amaatanaa wa’ilayhin-nushoor
Alhamdu lillaahil-lathee ‘aafaanee fee jasadee, wa radda ‘alayya roohee, wa ‘athina lee bithikrihi.
Praise is to Allah Who gives us life after He has caused us to die and to Him is the return. Reference: Al-Bukhari, cf. Al-Asqalani, Fathul-Bari 11/113; Muslim 4/2083
Praise is to Allah Who gave strength to my body and returned my soul to me and permitted me to remember Him. Reference: At-Tirmithi 5/473. See Al-Albani’s Sahih Tirmiihi 3/144 Farzanah Ahqir
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The Path of Knowledge One of the greatest physicists, herbalists, botanists and pharmacists of the Middle Ages was a Muslim; Ahmad Ibn Al-Baitar who was born in the Andalusian city of Malaqa (Malaga), Spain, 1197 CE1248 CE. He was a member of a famous family who took their name ‘Baitar’ as most of them were veterinary surgeons by vocation (‘Baitarah’ means veterinary surgeon in Arabic). Ibn Al-Baitar studied in Seville under Abul Abbas Ahmad, who was a botanist and Al-Baitar also developed an interest in botany. He collected plants in and around Andalusia, before traveling along the coast of North Africa and Asia Minor. He also travelled in other
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countries such as Algeria, Tunis and Libya although his exact travels are unknown. During this time he collected, classified and learnt about the plant life from locals. He eventually settled in Egypt, where he was appointed Chief Herbalist to the Egyptian ruler Malik al-Kamil and able to continue researching and learning especially as al-Kamil was a learned man. At this time Al Kamil’s kingdom was extended to include Damascus, Syria. With his extensive knowledge of botany Al-Baitar was able to write two highly influential books that were used and referenced for centuries.
His first book was a treatise titled Kitab al-Mughni fi alAdwiya al-Mufrada (the Comprehensive Book of Drug and Nutrition) which is an encyclopaedia of medicine. This included the properties of more than thousands of items, and the drugs are listed with their therapeutic significance. The book is ordered according to drugs dealing with different parts of the body. In issues relating to surgery, he frequently quotes the famous Muslim surgeon Al-Zahrawi. He also wrote the Kitab alJami fi al-Adwiya al- Mufrada (Book of Simple Drugs and Food), which is one of the greatest botanical collections of medicinal plants in Arabic.
Some parts of its Latin translation were printed as late as 1758 CE. Al-Baitar used refined scientific methods of observation, experimentation, analysis and classification and knowledge gained from local experts. The book was
set out systematically and referred to the works of approximately 150 authors, with due criticisms and also included original observations.
The encyclopaedia includes about 1,400 different items, mostly medicinal plants and vegetables, of which about 300 medicinal plants were earlier unknown. The more I write these articles, my level of interest and my desire to learn gradually increases. I hope you feel the same way, and that you will not just regard school as your only form of education especially concerning Islam, or Shakespeare for that matter. May Allah (swt) grant us all knowledge and enable us to benefit others with that knowledge, ameen. Sofairah Aziz
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“Why is he so arrogant? He couldn’t wait some minutes so that I ask about my son’s health?” the father asked the nurse.
Food for the Soul A doctor entered the hospital in a hurry after being called in for emergency surgery. He changed his clothes & went directly to the surgery block. He found the boy’s father pacing in the hall waiting for the doctor. On seeing him, the dad yelled, “Why did you take all this time to come? Don’t you know that my son’s life is in danger?” The doctor smiled & said, “I am sorry, I wasn’t in the hospital & I came as fast as I could after receiving the call, please calm down.”
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The nurse answered, tears coming down her face: “His son died yesterday in a road accident, he was in the burial when we called him for your son’s surgery. And now that he saved your son’s life, he left running to finish his son’s burial.” “What if your son was in this room right now, would you calm down? said the father angrily.
Moral: Never judge anyone because you never know how their life is & what they’re going through.
The doctor smiled again & replied, “Go & intercede for your son, we will do our best by Allah’s Grace.”
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The surgery took some hours after which the doctor went out happy, “Alhumdullilah! your son is saved!” And without waiting for the father’s reply he carried on his way running.
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Book Review
The Princess Trilogy By Jean Sasson
women in Saudi Arabia. Her passion to help women is visible through the main focus of the book which explores issues to do with polygamy, the restrictions on women to work, forced marriages and religion and cultural clashes. Although Sultana is very grateful to have been blessed with beautiful children, her life is not perfect as she feels unsatisfied knowing the cruelty that women face in the world and her own country. As you move on through This a true story unveiled by a the three books one realises that they member of the Al-Saud Royal Family attempt to differentiate religion from of Saudi Arabia giving you an insight culture and highlight alot of the rights into the lavish lifestyle of a princess. given to women in Islam. Definitely The reader learns many secrets of the a worthwhile read if you want to Royal Family which otherwise would appreciate what we as Muslim girls have remained behind closed doors. take for granted in some parts of the This particular Princess, Sultana has world. courageously unveiled her very own personal matters as well as that of her Isma Mushtaq extended family and the life of many
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t’s Not Long Now Til Ramadhan Starts Early Rise To Begin The Fast Abstaining All Day From Food & Drink Closing & Opening Your Fast With Delicacies Prepared By The Kitchen Sink
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The Moon Is Sighted People Are Happy & Give Praise For The Holy Month Has Started, Shaytan Locked Away Also Locked Away Are Our Toys & Games Anything That May Distract Us From Getting Closer To God In 30 Days People Ask Just How Do You Survive?! No Food or Water During Sunlight It’s A Battle From Within & Outside Even After Breaking The Fast We Prepare For Lengthy Prayers Well Into The Night Ramadhan Is The Month We Look Forward To All Year Long Crazy As It May Sound But The Companions For 6 Months They Prayed That Ramadhan They’d See And For 6 Months They Prayed Allah Accepted Their Deeds It’s Not Long Now Til Ramadhan Starts Early Rise To Break The Fast Abstaining All Day From Food & Drink Closing & Opening Your Fast With Delicacies Prepared By The Kitchen Sink
Ramadhan Poem Shabz
Spoken word poet and Lyricist
Islam is my Deen, Jannah is my dream Yet we all say this, But it’s not as easy it may seem
Islam is my Deen
Living in Britain, In the days of Fitnah It’s getting ever so hard, To even strive for Jannah
Mohammed Ehsan Khan
schools poem competition winner, Parkview School, Birmingham
Being opposed by groups, Such as the EDL, Since 2009… Trying to make our lives a hell But they fail to understand, That we shall fight and prevail By challenging Islamophobia, Do they think it’s going to end in a fairy tale?
Another opposition is the presence of culture Following made up traditions and thinking it’s the Deen Failing to align it with Qur’an and Sunnah Resulting a fight and emerging a scene But this world is temporary And we are its guests These are all challenges And internal tests By overcoming these obstacles And holding onto Qur’an and Hadith, It’ll be the safest way To get Paradise’s keys But in the meantime I can proudly say That I’m proud to be a British Muslim And that’s the way it’s gonna stay!
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What can I do as a parent or a carer? As a parent or carer, it is important to discuss with children the differences between healthy and unhealthy relationships to help highlight potential risks to them. There are also a number of practical steps you can take to protect children such as:
Barnardo’s has launched its Cut them free campaign to reduce the number of children experiencing the horror of sexual exploitation in the UK. You can find out further information about sexual exploitation and show your support at: www.barnardos.org.uk/cutthemfree.
staying alert to changes in behaviour or any physical signs of abuse such as bruising Q being aware of new, unexplained gifts or possessions and carefully monitoring any episodes of staying out late or not returning home Q exercising caution around older friends your child may have, or relationships with other young people where there appears to be a power imbalance Q making sure you understand the risks associated with your child being online and putting measures in place to minimise these risks. Q
If you are concerned that a child is at risk of sexual exploitation, you may want to contact one of our specialist sexual exploitation projects for advice: www.barnardos.org.uk/ specialist_sexual_exploitation_projects. If a child is in immediate danger, call 999 or contact your local police.
www.barnardos.org.uk Head Office Tanners Lane, Barkingside, Ilford, Essex IG6 1QG Tel: 020 8551 0011 Fax: 020 8551 8267 Barnardo’s Registered Charity Nos. 216250 and SC037605
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Are you a parent or a carer?
Help cut children and young people free from sexual exploitation
Sexual exploitation affects thousands of children and young people across the UK every year. As a parent or carer, you could have an important role to play in protecting children from exploitation, helping to cut them free from this horrific form of child abuse.
What are the signs? Children and young people that are the victims of sexual exploitation often do not recognise that they are being exploited. However, there are a number of telltale signs that a child may be being groomed for sexual exploitation. These include:
What is child sexual exploitation? Sexual exploitation is a form of sexual abuse, in which a young person is manipulated, or forced into taking part in a sexual act. This could be as part of a seemingly consensual relationship, or in return for attention, affection, money, drugs, alcohol or somewhere to stay. The young person may think that their abuser is their friend, or even a boyfriend or girlfriend. But they will put them into dangerous situations, forcing the young person to do things they don’t want to do. The abuser may physically or verbally threaten the young person or be violent towards them. They will control and manipulate them, and try to isolate them from friends and family. Who does it affect? This type of abuse could happen to any young person from any background. It happens to boys and young men as well as girls and young women. The victims of abuse are not at fault. Abusers are very clever in the way they manipulate and take advantage of the young people they abuse.
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Out on Friday 27th July 2012!
Volunteers play a key role in the success of our annual festival
Your Festival needs you!
The Festival of Spirituality and Peace is one of Edinburgh’s fastest growing festivals, and at the heart of our festival programme are our Festival volunteers. In order to make the Festival happen, we need a team of committed and motivated volunteers to help deliver events and create a dynamic Festival community throughout August and throughout the year. Volunteering is a fantastic way of being right at the centre of this exciting Festival as well as a great way to make new friends. We invite volunteers from all faiths, cultures, backgrounds and ages to join us in delivering the Festival of Spirituality and Peace 2012. In 2009 we were awarded Investing in Volunteers status by Volunteer Development Scotland. The award recognises excellence in the recruitment, support and management of volunteers and is a symbol of our commitment to and appreciation of everyone who donates their time and effort to the Festival. If you are interested in volunteering for the Festival of Spirituality and Peace, have a look at our website: www.festivalofspirituality.org.uk/volunteering where you can download an application form. If you have any questions at all about volunteering for the Festival, contact our Volunteer Coordinator Alistair Hayes: volunteers@festivalofspirituality.org.uk
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What do you do? As a Photographer, I have always followed the core notion of capturing what I see before me with my prime lens – the eye. I feel this is what has allowed me to do a variety of photography work and to keep sharing the very subjects and stories I see in my journey. Most of all though, I enjoy it. Have you always been creative?
Profile Rabiyah K Latif
No. I was what you would term an ‘academic’ until I reached the age of 28. I graduated in Law and worked within a corporate role as a litigation manager. I have always followed where my heart and instinct have wanted to explore further and am pleased that despite being firmly boxed within a particular sector, I was able to move and grow in others. What got you involved with photography as a career? After 4 years, something inside was sure I wanted to pursue this skill I enjoyed so much to the next level. In my management role I
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was now designing and developing a citywide service. So as not to rush myself, I decided to do development of my photography through a year of experience by taking on voluntary commissions when I could. Within 3 months I received my first commission on referral from a colleague. This was to deliver documentary photography for the run up and evening of the Brit Writers Awards Unpublished 2010 at the London 02. A number of corporate and portrait requests came up thereafter that I took on and my portfolio began to evolve which allowed me to determine what I enjoyed most. During my 2nd year the focus for me became teaching, portrait and performance photography. This year I am looking to build these strands and in particular that within education.
Same spot, every day underneath the new crisp high rise glass tower being built. Hypocrisy amidst the heart of it all was what hit home when I took it on my last day there. Any final thoughts? To have a direct and simple approach in life is good advice. I would say the same about anything you want to pursue. Be direct and open in what you want, keep it simple and the rest will follow.
Where did you take your most memorable photograph and what was it off? To date my most memorable photograph will have to be the child I walked past every day on the doorstep of the Great Mosque in Mecca. She was begging. She always looked so comfortable and content with her hand reaching out waiting for the next coin to drop as the sun beamed on her face. 41
Healthy Living
Final Destination…just before the Grave that is!
Is there anything you want to do in life • What you want to do, where you want before it’s all over? Within “Islamic reason” to be in life? (Is there a hobby you would of course! rather pursue as a career? Some do make a living out of their hobbies and are happy What would that be? doing so). Exactly how are you going to get there? • Which one fuels a greater desire within Exactly what will it take in terms of time, you when you think about it and read it? effort, resources, money? • Turn that Destination into your Goal. Try this exercise to help you clarify your thoughts and ideas into decisive goals and Remember, make your goals I.S.L.A.M.I.C actions: Islamic: Write down a few options;
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Based upon Qur’an and Sunnah. You don’t
need to quote Surahs or Hadith. If you want to become an engineer or a teacher, it’s no sin! Just ensure your goal is acceptable within Islam. Specific: For example; Goal: I want to earn money. How much? When by? How? A more specific Goal: When I am 21, I will be earning £25,000 per year via xxxxx. Oprah Winfrey’s goal was to earn her age as her yearly salary, so at 18, it was
$18,000, at 21 it was $21,000 and so on so forth. She was very specific with her goals early on. Making goals specific makes them tangible. I know of a 16 year old earning just over £1500 per month in his business. He is already earning more than his age in his income! Lucrative:
Intention: Your deeds will be judged on their intentions and you will be rewarded on your intentions. Your intentions should be to please Allah (swt) and His Messenger (saw). Consistent:
Deeds performed consistently even small ones Profitable in the Here-after and in this world are loved by Allah (swt) more than one off too but more importantly in the Akhirah: large deeds. Surah Al Baqarah, Oh Lord, give us the good in the Here-after and in this world. To progress to the full Goal Mapping process, email info@livingwellbeingltd.com so you can Apt: start working on your goals now. Appropriate to what you want to achieve. No point wanting to own a car by the time you’re 15 when legally you’re not allowed to learn how to drive until you’re older.
Saira Nisa
Saira Nisa is the Founding Director of Living Wellbeing Ltd, runs Living Wellbeing (www.livingwellbeing.co.uk) and is also a Trainer for a London based firm. Originally from the West Midlands, born and raised in Birmingham, she now spends her time skilfully enjoying juggling family, friends, work and business between Birmingham and London.
Measurable: When will you know that you have achieved your goal?
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Life has its ups and downs You can talk confidentially online or by phone whenever you need to. Whatever your worry, it’s better out than in.
www.childline.org.uk ChildLine is a service provided by the NSPCC. Registered charity numbers 216401 and SC037717. 7244/11
Cob House Building with Willowbrook Farm Willowbrook Farm was established 10 years ago to provide truly halal and organic produce. Unfortunately the vast majority of halal meat consumed in the UK is reared in inhumane conditions often restricted to indoor, industrial rearing sheds and fed low quality feed, produced with pesticides and supplemented by synthetic additives. We felt it was important to ensure that our animals were reared humanely, given a natural feed and allowed access to the outdoors. We currently produce the highest quality halal lamb, beef and chicken as well as organic eggs and vegetables. In addition to this we have also been committed to a low impact sustainable livelihood. On the farm we have planted around 6,000 trees and devoted areas to encouraging natural wildlife alongside the farm animals. We have also installed a wind turbine for electricity and we are currently installing a large biomass boiler for our heating
and hot water needs. The culmination of our endeavors has been the large cob house which we are currently constructing. Cob is a form of building using the local clay mixed with sand and straw. As a result all the materials have been sourced locally (including the thatch for the roof) and largely constructed with our own labour. We will be working on the cob throughout this
summer and we welcome volunteers. We are celebrating our first decade this summer and will be having open days at the end of every month through to October. If you were interested in volunteering please get in touch with Lutfi at enquiries@willowbrookorganic.org
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I Drink Tap! Campaign The I Drink Tap! Campaign is about encouraging Muslim communities to give up wasteful and environmentally harmful bottled water and drink tap water instead. High consumer demand for bottled water has had a heavy and unnecessary impact on our environment and the developing world in recent years, exacerbating climate change and adding to the long-term causes behind the global food shortage affecting 1 billion people. Understanding that we have been placed on this earth as vicegerents for Allah (swt), and the great responsibility that this position holds, we as Muslims are duty bound to conserve the resources provided to us and ensure that they are fairly distributed everywhere. We also have a responsibility to look after our planet, which we share with all of Allah’s (swt) creation.
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There are many things you can do to support this campaign. First of all you can stop buying and consuming bottled water. Once you have taken this small but meaningful step, why not speak to your local mosque and encourage them to support this campaign? This Ramadan, join the campaign and start drinking tap! Our motto is simple, water is a gift from Allah (swt), bottled water is an injustice to fellow human beings and our planet. To find out more, please visit www.madeineurope.org.uk/i-drink-tap Oussama Mezoui
PLASTIC BOTTLES DESTROY OUR PLANET
say n • to bott ed water
It is related from Abu Hurayra that the Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said,
Do not withhold excess water, preventing others from pasturing from it. (Bukhari)
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WASTING OF RESOURCES 1.5 million barrels of oil are used per year to produce plastic water bottles.
ASK FOR TAP WATER Tap water is 500 times cheaper than bottled water and is kinder to the environment. Studies show that in many cities tap water is healthier than bottled water.
ADDING TO THE WATER CRISIS For every gallon of water that goes into plastic bottles, two gallons of water are wasted during production.
USE A REUSABLE BOTTLE Buy a reusable water bottle that you can use year after year.
This adds to the world’s water shortage crisis.
ADDING TO THE FOOD CRISIS The growth in bottled water production has created water shortages for farmers worldwide, adding to the world’s food crisis which means that 1 billion people go hungry every day.
DESTRUCTION OF THE ENVIRONMENT 1.5 million tonnes of non-degradable waste per year is produced by bottled water. This kills thousands of birds and fish which mistake the waste for food.
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BUY A FILTER If the quality of your water at home is bad, buying a water filter will be cheaper and kinder to the environment than purchasing bottled water.
Water is a gift from Allah. Bottled water is an injustice to our planet and to fellow human beings. Let’s all stop buying bottled water, it’s the least we can do.
Have those who disbelieved not considered that the heavens and the earth were a joined entity, and We separated them and made from water every living thing? Then will they not believe? (Qur’an 21:30)
For more info please visit: www.madeineurope.org.uk/idrinktap
Getting back to nature with The Wildlife Trusts Where would you go on a wildlife safari? Africa, Australia, South America? What if we said there’s no need to even leave the UK? We have peregrine falcons, one of the world’s fastest and most deadly predators, nesting right in the middle of our city centres, picking off pigeons by streetlight. We have basking sharks, the world’s second largest fish, weighing up to
seven tonnes, the same as a red London bus, cruising alongside kayakers off the West coast. Butterflies in glowing colours visit the flowers we grow, whether in window boxes or flowerbeds, from deep in the city to the heart of the countryside. Wildlife Watch, The Wildlife Trusts’ branch for young people, is here to help you spot, understand and protect the wildlife in your local area.
Photo By Tom Marshall
Once you realise how much wildlife there is to discover, each trip to school can be a new adventure – how many birds can you spot on the way? Are they acting differently depending on the time of year? There are 47 local Wildlife Trusts around the UK. Many run Wildlife Watch groups, where you can get together with other wildlife lovers the same age as you. Watch group members take part
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in fun activities – taking out bat detectors to listen to the creatures of the night, or making bird cakes to feed our feathered friends. They help make a real difference to the wildlife living near them. Wildlife Watch also has its own website, where you can look up your favourite wild animal, create spotting sheets, and share your photos and stories about wildlife. You can also find Wildlife Watch on YouTube and Twitter,
sharing the latest wildlife films and news. To find out more about Wildlife Local Wildlife Trusts run projects Watch visit for teenagers too. Young www.wildlifewatch.org.uk. volunteers at Warwickshire Wildlife Trust’s Living Roots You can also contact your local project have recorded music in Wildlife Trust to find out what’s woodlands, organised live art happening for young people near attack animations in art galleries you – visit and created wildlife ponds, as www.wildlifetrusts.org/ well as making videos for the yourlocaltrust Living Roots YouTube channel. And Suffolk Wildlife Trust is looking for volunteers for its Youth Outdoor Experience Project with the chance to do shelter-building and outdoor cooking. Wherever you live, there’s the chance to get close to wildlife. Tanya Perdikou
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Nature Detectives!
Are you a couch potato or an ultimate adventurer? Dive into nature detectives from the Woodland Trust - over 1,000 free activities, games and downloads for families, schools and groups designed to get kids off the couch and into the outdoors. From fungi trump cards to scavenger hunts, you’ll find the website packed with fun, fresh activities. We also have a nature detectives CLUB where we email you a tailored nature challenge every single week, activity packs in the post, a giant wall chart and stickers. You can also find online games, quizzes and puzzles on our nature detective’s website. To inspire teenagers to get more active outdoors this summer we offer free woodland Olympics activities - races, athletics, balancing, sailing and lots more.
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THE GROUNDWORK FOR A GREENER FUTURE Groundwork West Midlands is the community charity with a green heart. We want places to look better, streets to be safer and outside areas to be green and beautiful. We want people of all ages to be able to work together to make the best of where they live. Groundwork is perhaps best known for the creation or improvement of local patches of land – working with others to turn them into gardens, allotments, parks or play areas which benefit everyone living nearby. We focus our activity on disadvantaged communities where we can make most difference.
We also run a really successful Graduate Apprentice Programme (GAP) for volunteers and in October will be looking for 16 young graduates to join us on an exchange programme in Malta. To find out more about us contact Amit Dattani on 0121 530 5500 or check out our website www.groundwork.org.uk
Waheed Saleem
We’re always looking for volunteers and have a number of current local opportunities linked to: • • • • • •
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The Chase For a Job
These quotes are only a fraction of the misconceptions that the Muslim youth have towards employment. We live in one world which for Muslims comprises of two dimensions, an Islamic dimension and a worldly dimension. We must take great care to satisfy both and not chase after one, without the other. Through my experience of working with companies such as Ernst & Young and PricewaterhouseCoopers, and being a practising Muslim, I will share some critical pre-requisite insights which must crystallise in our hearts and our minds first, before we reach out to the corporate world. 1) It All Starts With Intention Pre-dominantly everything in Islam starts with having the correct intention. If our intentions are immoral i.e. we wish to get a job to have that flashy car, to show off, to be popular amongst our peers then Allah (swt) will not guide nor help
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I have commonly seen in the present age, Muslims, who are disposing their imaan in order to fit in with a certain company or job. Avoid opening yourself up to being in such a situation and try to get a career with a company who caters for the person you are.
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“I don’t think I will ever get a job”. “I am not good enough”. “I am a Muslim how am I ever going to get a job”. “I am just not smart enough”. “I can’t work for a corporate firm I will have to remove my Hijab”. “All recruiters are racist that is why I never got the job”.
Please remember that although it is required of you to work hard and study, if you remember Allah (swt) in times of difficulty, Allah (swt) will remember you. The only reason why we have been given the capability to study is because Allah has given this capability to us. 3) Make Dua So you are not getting anywhere with regards to applying for jobs? Then ask Allah (swt) for help. Do extra ibadat (worship), with the hope that if you are aiming to please Allah (swt) then Allah (swt) will please you and reward you with the job you desire inshallah. you. We must ensure that our intentions of getting a job are along the lines of; providing a good lifestyle for our families, to gain halal income and so that we can give to charity and aid those who are less fortunate than us. 2) Do Not Compromise Your Deen For The Duniya If you find yourself in a position where you live in a fast paced, stressful education or working life, be careful not to delay your salah, or miss your salah with the excuse of having to study. This is something which happens often, because of the pressure of assignments and exams.
4) Never Forget Your Identity I have commonly seen in the present age, Muslims, who are disposing their imaan in order to fit in with a certain company or job. Avoid opening yourself up to being in such a situation and try to get a career with a company who caters for the person you are. Do not forget your identity even in an environment of non-Muslims. Do not shave your beard, or any facial hair you may have for your interview and do not remove your hijab. This is your originality. InshAllah if we begin with these four core intentions Allah (swt) will guide us and help us on our journey for a successful career.
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In next month’s article I will present to you The Top Five Secret Success Tips which I have picked up from working with some of the UK’s Top Recruitment Officers over the past 2 years. First, however we must keep the before mentioned ideas in mind inshAllah. “If someone is not interested in what you have to offer. Do not be disheartened. Because you are one step closer to someone, who does like what you have to offer” Shahbaz Shaheen Mirza
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I used to think it was difficult making pizza, getting the dough to rise and all that but now you can get bread mix with the yeast in it and all you have to do is add water, mix and leave it somewhere warm and then make your pizza...easy peasy! Take-away pizza is so expensive and once you get the hang of it you will wonder why you ever gave those shops your hard earned money for cheap white flour and cheap cheese. Ingredients • 500g 1/2 bag of bread mix (I used whole meal) • 250ml of warm water • 1/2 jar of pasta sauce • 1 tea spoon dry basil herb • 1 tea spoon dry oregano herb • 1 packet of mozzarella cheese • 1 onion cut into slices • 5 mushrooms cut into slices • sweet pepper cut into slices • 200g cheddar cheese grated • olives • salt and pepper • chillies (optional) • oil for baking tray
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10. Put pizza dough on tray and spread out to edges with Method your fingers 11. Spread out evenly to corners of tray Pre-heat oven 12. Take half a jar of pasta sauce and your herbs TURN OVEN ON 13. Add 1 teaspoon of basil and 1 teaspoon of oregano Gas 6 to sauce and stir Electric Fahrenheit 400 14. Spread this mixture all over pizza base with spoon 15. Take packet of mozzarella and open over sink as its in Electric Celsius 200 salty water 16. Cut into small pieces and spread over tomato sauce on 1. Add 250ml of warm water to 500g of bread mix. It pizza base already has yeast in it so you don’t have to add it, you can 17. Add slices of onion, you can use red and/or white see it bubble onions 2. Mix with your hands 18. Add sweet pepper or bell pepper slices, you could 3. Cover bowl with lid add some chillies here if you wish 4. Cover and tie inside plastic bag and leave somewhere 19. Add sliced mushrooms warm like near a window where the sun comes in or by a 20. Grate cheddar cheese and spread all over radiator. 21. Add olives, you can use green or black 5. LEAVE IT FOR AT LEAST 30 MINUTES. 22. Place in oven on middle shelf for 25 minutes 6. When you see it has fluffed up and got bigger put some flour from the packet on the work top and tip out of bowl, Any left over’s, wrap in foil and reheat the next day... if it’s abit sticky add a bit more flour with your hands and ENJOY! start to kneed. 7. Fold it over Karimah Bint Dawood 8. Then press down 9. Put some sunflower or vegetable oil on flat baking tray and rub all over with your hands support us by joining our page on www.facebook.com/fifteen21magazine
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