Paul Hoefer's Family

About Paul Hoefer's Family

At Spotlight, we are proud to say Paul Hoefer is our Vice President of Business Development. However, Paul is proud to be a father of a blended family that he describes as "a modern-day Brady Bunch."

Currently, Paul, his fiance Wendy, her son Braydon, and his oldest daughter Emma, are busy fulfilling the role of unpaid Uber driver for his very busy family of athletes, a set of triplets (Addison, Brielle, and Gracie), who who participate in volleyball, basketball, and lacrosse in Moorhead.

"Without Wendy, I would be lost," Paul said.

Restaurant Recommendations

Paradiso Mexican Restaurant

"Kids eat free on Sundays. As a parent of four kids in the house, with three being triplets, I took advantage of that deal a lot. Beware though, with their access to technology these days, kids know the deals that are available around town and they think these mean the meals are basically free—this will come back to bite you."

Kobe's

"Our kids love watching their food get made and this hibachi grill is extra fun for them."

Athletic Recommendations

"We have done BioGirls, JO Volleyball, Moorhead Youth Lacrosse, Tri-City Soccer, and Just for Kix."

BioGirls

BIO Girls, established in Fargo in 2013 by Missy Heilman, is a non-profit aimed at enhancing the self-esteem of girls in grades two through six across four states. Through a 12-session program, it provides mentorship, inclusive environments, and non-competitive physical activities, supported by a network of over 1,000 volunteers as of 2022.

Learn more at biogirls.org

JO Volleyball

The USA Junior Olympic Volleyball, often referred to as JO or club volleyball, is a nationwide system. It consists of individual clubs, categorized by region, and operates under the overarching organization, USA Volleyball. The main aim of this system is to promote and bolster the sport across the country.

Moorhead Youth Lacrosse

The Moorhead Youth Lacrosse Association (MYLA) is a communitycentric entity aimed at promoting lacrosse among Moorhead's youth with teams available for ages 6U through 14U.

Learn more at moorheadlacrosse.com

Tri-City United Soccer Club

Being the largest soccer community in North Dakota, Tri-City United Soccer Club is the premier option for soccer in the Red River Valley with recreational and competitive soccer programs available for kids ages 18 months through U19.

Learn more at tricityunited.org

Just for Kix

Just For Kix in West Fargo is a wellregarded dance studio offering a wide range of dance classes to the local community. The studio provides a wholesome learning environment emphasizing teamwork, technical training, and a respectful experience for its students, covering dance styles like Kick, Jazz, Lyrical, Hip Hop, Ballet, Tap, and Pom.

Learn more at justforkix.com

Wild Bills Bingo

Anyone who knows Paul knows he loves playing Bingo at Wild Bills. And, a big reason he loves it so much is that his kids like to tag along.

"It's not something you would think would be fun for kids, but they really like it."

Did you know?

Another family-friendly night at Wild Bill's is Tuesdays, where kids can play for free in the game room! With each purchase of a kid's meal (dine-in only), they get a $5 game card. Go retro with games with Vs Excite Bike and Donkey Kong, get your pinball game on, or get interactive with Skee Ball, Giant Jenga, Air Hockey, and more—these games aren't just for the kids, get the whole family in on it! Learn more at wildbillssportssaloon-fargo.com.