Attention Men! Written by bLou Note Guys, if you’re not ready, leave that woman alone!
ATTENTION MEN: Let me get this off of my chest real quick. ALL women are not the type of women who are out here looking for you to take care of them! ALL women are not gold diggers, or clout chasers, or even whorish, for that matter! There are A LOT of women (including me) who aren’t interested in you taking care of them even if you’re in a position to. Whether that feeling comes from being too independent or as a result of some type of prior trauma/incident/
mindset that’s been instilled in their lives, we may never know! The fact of the matter is that there are a wide variety of women who are truly simply interested in receiving love, companionship and joy in a trustworthy relationship. I say all this to say that if you know you’re not in a position to NOT deduct from a woman’s life, please leave that woman alone until you get your shit together! It’s not about having something to give her, but by God, PLEASE don’t take from her! And I’m not just talking about material
possessions! Hell, I ain’t even just talking about her Hello Kitty, cause believe it or not, there’s plenty of us that are perfectly fine with just getting some of what you’ve got & moving on with our lives, too! But PLEASE do not deduct from that woman! Not her sanity! Not her peace! Not her ability to look herself in the mirror without being disgusted with what she’s put up with! Not her well being! Not her ability to properly parent her children because she’s too busy dealing with your bullshit! Not her faith! Not
her dignity! Not her self respect! I can guarantee you that there are far more women out here than you might suspect who are fully able to deal with the truth of a matter from the start. Unfortunately, there are far too many men out here who make the decision to play games from the onset, or enter in to a situation with falsehoods in their bags, or come in to the so-called ‘relationship’ not being completely honest about their intent in a woman’s life.
