MODE Fall/Winter 2017
Jeffrey Pelayo kathryn roberts hannah gonzalez Photo Editor
rachel Konshok fundraising
anna schmitt fundraising
arts & entertainment editor
Briana ottoboni
managing Editor
alex berndt
Fashion Editor
love & relationships Editor
MEET MODE marisa fata lifestyle editor
emily mcfadden secretary
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katie konfino editor in chief
Leonard Chiang treasurer
alex richard
creative director
noelle khan beauty editor
julia emerson social media editor
AshLey qamar blog editor
Table of Contents Fashion 6 Men’s Fall Fashion 7 Channel Your Inner G.I. Joe A Guide To Piercings 8 How TV and Movies Shape Fashion Trends 9 Fashion “Rules”: Who Needs ‘Em? 10 Concious Consumerism: The Basics 24 11 The Bronx: A Home For Streetwear Cover Star: 12 Retro Fashion Back in Action Stage Style 13 Tips and Tricks For the Best Thrift Shopping Experience 14 In the Spotlight: GYPSETGIRL 15 Five Fall Favorites for Men Back on Track 16 The Best Fashion Bloggers to To Know Now
Isiah Magsino
Beauty 17 Transitioning from Summer to Fall 19 Steal Her Style: Art History Edition 20 A Professional Opinion: By the Numbers 21 “Brighter” Days are 3 Inexpensive Beauty Tricks Away 22 The Rise of Cool Girl Makeup 23 How To Use One Product For Your Full Face
Love & Relationships
28 Uncuff this Season: Make it a Date with your Roommate! 29 774 Miles From Comfort 30 Half a Century in Love 31 Four Stages of Falling Out (with your Best Friend)
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Arts & Entertainment 17 Sheeran Style: How Ed is Changing the Music Industry 32 Artists to Watch 33 Top 5 Books To Read While You’re Young 34 Live! From New York 35 Harry Styles: Live On Tour
Lifestyle 18 Pump Up the Positivity 36 Smooth Out Your Day with a Smoothie Beyond Blue Hair: Self-Expression Fostered Through Beauty 37 Social Media, Style, and Society: Going Beyond the Surface 38 Maintaining a Healthy Lifestyle 39 An Inside Bite: Lilia Ristorante Photographers: Jeffrey Pelayo, Caroline Westdyk, Allie Giordano, Emma Fenton, Alex Richard, Spencer Krell, Sabrina Sahler, Alexandra Lupo, Emma Kaden, Francesca Minniti, Margarite Kubicek, Danyi Peng, Alicia Chiang, Orla Diver, Maddie Prachar, Ben Wojick, Emma Higgins, Mariyesi Acosta Models: Colette Lanzon, Allie Giordano, Sam Terry, Brooke Olownia, Sarah Barela, Shae Kennedy, Grace Kubelka, Audrey Johnston, John Kabani, Sabrina Sahler, Grace Keating, Emily Abate, Aly Martin, Emma Kaden, Brianna Wagner, Paige Kowal, Sarah Gallagher, Marlene Albers, Anna Baffa, Ben Wojick, Matthew Benko, Josh O'Dell, Evan Allen, Gabby Perez, John Kabani, Mary Kate Flock, Brenda Hidalgo, Jeffrey Pelayo Layout: Ashlinn Casey, Peyton Turner, Frannie Vena-Pedersen, Meredith Nash, Emma Higgins, Emma Fenton, Hannah Cassin, Stephanie Galbraith, Sarah Crawford, Brad Jeffery, Emily Malacane, Mackenzie Merriman, Hannah Adams, Danyi Peng, Hayley Forsblom, Rebecca Estrella, Grace Cirignano, Kaylin Cavan, Blaake Davis, Olivia Brewer, Isabella Cimato, Emily Lugo, Alicia Chiang
As a first-time Creative Director, I had no idea what I was getting myself into. I had never seriously laid out an article--let alone an entire magazine! Now, months later, I can confidently say the (literal) blood, sweat, tears, and countless 4 AM nights were well worth it. I am so proud of the MODE team, what we’ve accomplished, and what’s to come. We! Did! It!!
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Letter from the Editor As one of the youngest Editors in Chief of MODE Magazine, I was excited to take on the task of pushing the magazine to be the best. I have been involved with MODE Magazine since my first semester freshman year, and I have watched it evolve over the years. I am so incredibly proud of this issue. The goal of this semester is to be diverse and inclusive -- I believe we are on our way to achieving both with this issue. This year, we decided to create a photography team, along with a team of models that are from Fordham, to show off the talent that this campus inspires. Our cover star features Isiah Magsino (FCRH ‘19) who is breaking boundaries in the fashion world. He co-created SOUL, which has monthly online writing and photography pieces released, to show off fresh faces in the fashion industry. In this issue, we also have a lifestyle article that discusses the implications of social media in today’s world. Our beauty section features an article on how to re-create makeup looks based on art history. Lastly, we have a fashion piece on conscious consumerism. This issue of MODE embodies the Fordham community and spotlights up-andcoming talents that are bound to re-define this generation. I am looking forward to pushing the magazine to be bigger and better for the coming year. So keep up with us and stay emerged in all things fashion and lifestyle related.
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Men’s Fall Fashion By Thomas Koenig
Men’s fashion can be difficult to pin down. There are many different ways that one can style himself, and no season offers more options for styling than the fall. The options for outerwear and pants appear in greater variety than in the spring and summer seasons, as there is more opportunity to layer and wear more clothes. The trend that has really taken over men’s fashion is streetwear--the general term for a look inspired by skate, hip-hop, thrift, and 90s looks. There are many different types of looks within this style of clothing, with name brands like Supreme, Off White, and Bape competing for the most hype. However, this year, wearing outfits that before were viewed as simple, baggy sweatshirts, work pants, or torn clothes is now in. This is because the image of trying to look like you don’t care how you look is trending. Thrifting has really taken over fashion, with many brands trying to replicate this image through their newest designs. Simple sweaters, cardigans, and shirts are in. Rolled dickies with normal scuffed and distressed shoes go with almost anything one would want to wear. This fall season has shown a greater emphasis on minimalism and has offered the chance for people to take this style and make it their own. A simple military jacket or faded cardigan over a plain baggy shirt with dickies and converse can be a more finished look than one would normally think. The options that come with minimalism allow for more people to dress comfortably--and at much lower costs. There are those that will end up paying a lot to find the most unique and retro looking clothes that specialty stores are offering. Expensive “sift stores” swoop in and buy some of the better pieces at a thrift store, reselling them for a lot more. Though this may seem to entirely defeat the purpose of thrifting in the first place, one can still find something that fits their style for cheap if they are willing to search. The idea of just wearing what you have lying around your house can seem unreal sometimes, as people will spend a lot of money to acquire the coolest and most “thrift”-looking outfits. However, the style is so widespread and personal that it allows the wearer to make it entirely his or her own, easily showing off one’s own original style. Shirts, hoodies, and jackets can show what your interests are--whether that be music, movies, or a particular artist. You are not confined to just wearing a design, name, or logo that a company has picked for you. It is now stylish to design an outfit completely around what you like.
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Channel Your Inner G.I. Joe By Mackenzie Merriman
Camo doesn’t always mean combat! This iconic pattern originally known for helping soldiers blend in is about to make you stand out. Camouflage, once strictly set aside for the fall months of September through November, has recently made a breakthrough and redefined itself as being wearable all year around. With camo now coming in every color imaginable, there are pastels for spring, bright colors for summer, that OG camo for those crisp fall days, and shades of blue and gray for the winter blues. There’s camo for every mood, season, and occasion. Channel your inner G.I. Joe by dressing from head to toe in all things military inspired. From the fields to fashion, this edgy yet simple look is what you make of it. Dress it up or dress it down--it’s up to you! Wear your favorite camo hat with boyfriend jeans, a pair of tennis shoes, and a white t-shirt for a lazy day vibe. Then hit the town in a camo dress and black suede block heels later that night. Still feeling your camo needs are unfulfilled? A bag or shoes is just the thing to complete the look. You can also spice up your minimalist style by adding interest to a plain outfit with camo accessories. The breakthrough of camo in fashion has been on the uptrend in recent Forever 21 years and is now booming. Debuting on runways with designers such as Christopher Kane and Michael Kors back in 2013 and Zadig and Voltaire’s collection on the current runway, this now-mainstream pattern is the epitome of street style. Try going even a few steps without catching a glimpse of camo--everything from the classic camo jacket to the original camo cargo pants. Camo is the new black, and you have your men and women in uniform to thank for it.
A GUIDE TO
Piercings
Below that, on the next ridge of the ear, is where the daith goes. Some choose this piercing because it’s a gorgeous statement piercing when it has a hoop in it, since it’s framed by the inner conch. Others choose it because of its alleged ability to help migraines. According to Chinese acupuncture, this location is a channel point for headaches, so it’s worth looking into if By Meredith Nash Long gone are the middle school days when having a piercing just meant you experience this issue. getting your lobes done. Now, with terminology like “tragus,” “helix,” and You can even get that little flap over your ear canal—your tragus—pierced. “rook,” it’s easy to get confused--I mean, who knew there were that many Essentially, it’s a subtle alternative to a traditional lobe stud because you can parts of the ear in the first place? Never fear; this guide will help you to use studs or hoops, and its relatively low maintenance compared to the maneuver the extensive world of piercings, and maybe even inspire you others. to get one yourself! Septum piercings are different than traditional nose piercings because they Helixes are extremely common ear piercings that go in the upper cartilage go in that space between your nostrils. This piercing is very noncommittal of the ear. Worn with either hoops or studs, helixes look great solo or in since you can’t see the hole unless there’s jewelry in it, so if you want a groups of two or three. Aside from lobes, it’s the most versatile piercing. piercing but are concerned about making your parents mad, this is the Because it fits any studs or small hoops, you can really personalize it. perfect option. If you like the look but don’t want to take the plunge, it’s easy The industrial piercing is two upper cartilage piercings connected by a bar. to recreate the look with the plethora of fake However, since it consists of two helix piercings, it’s easy to switch up your jewelry available on the market today. look by putting in separate pieces of jewelry in each piercing. It’s important Whether this article made you more informed to note that there is no part of your ear called the “industrial,” but instead or inspired, now when you hear about its name comes from the industrial-like barbell jewelry worn with the Rihanna’s tragus or Kylie Jenner’s daith, piercing. you won’t be utterly confused. If you do Moving downward, the rook goes through that top ridge of your ear that decide to get any of these piercings, keep in sticks out over your inner conch, also known as the antihelix. Because the mind that any reputable piercer uses a piercing does not go from front to back like the others, it is typically worn needle instead of a nail gun because it’s far with either a curved barbell or a hoop so that you don’t see the back of a more sanitary, and don’t forget to follow Piercing Mania their care instructions. stud.
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Television and movies are a major part of today’s popular culture. With major companies like Netflix and Hulu altering the way we watch, shows play an even more central role in influencing popular trends— fashion being no exception. Not only do television and movies follow current fashion trends, they also create them. When I go to pick out an outfit in the morning, the last thing on my mind is the latest TV show I binge watched or the most recent movie I watched. However, much like seeing an outfit that we are inspired by on Instagram or on a fashion blog, television and movies influence style in more ways than one might think. Watching TV and movies is a significant source of fashion influence; it is similar to walking past a store window and seeing an outfit that inspires you, except the digital screen is the new window. The role of TV and movies in fashion is not a new concept, as it has been prevalent since the beginning of digital media in the late 1920s. Iconic films such as “The Great Gatsby” and “Breakfast at Tiffany’s” have successfully implanted themselves in the history of fashion by portraying specific styles that reflect historical periods and that have shaped clothing trends. Audrey Hepburn’s outfits, most notably the black sheath dress, and simple yet elegant style throughout the film is timeless; vintage style such as this is still relevant and sought after. Fashion helped shape the legacy of “Breakfast at Tiffany’s” and similar movies, such as “The Great
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HOW TV AND MOVIES SHAPE FASHION TRENDS
Gatsby” which is also known for its fabulous clothing. Styles such as these influence current trends. In terms of television, “Sex and the City” and “Gossip Girl” created a wave of influence in the world of fashion, as garment manufacturers look to popular cultural trends in order to gauge what customers are interested in and would potentially purchase. These shows were major sources of inspiration for their viewers. Audiences, comprised mostly of teens and people in their early twenties, were very receptive to the fashion trends they were presented. Carrie, the main character from “Sex and the City”, had many imitators who copied her iconic tutu and Manolo Blahnik pumps. Similarly, “Gossip Girl’s” school uniform-inspired outfits had many followers who sported Blair’s signature headbands and plaid skirts during the peak popularity of the show. Currently, shows such as “Project Runway” illuminate the major role that fashion plays in our daily lives. When people get dressed in the morning, they are making a personal statement of style. In the midst of online fashion influencers who have created very accessible and easy style platforms, fashion is becoming more and more relevant across the board. “Project Runway” allows viewers to peer into the world of forwardthinking fashion, in which trends that are seen on the show represent the fresh minds of up-and-coming designers. These pieces point to what is next in the trillion-dollar industry that is fashion. Viewers are offered a glimpse into these trends, and receive inspiration from shows and movies that put forward a unique perspective on fashion. So, next time you browse for a new show, keep in mind how television and movies influence our fashion choices. You might find yourself matching the style of your favorite character from a new television show, or reaching for an outfit inspired by your favorite movie.
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Fashion “Rules”: Who Needs ‘Em? By Lindsay Abel
Anyone with the slightest idea of what is “stylish” has most likely been warned of fashion rules such as “no white pants after Labor Day”, or “never mix black and navy.” Admittedly, I once followed these rules religiously: after the first Monday in September, my white jeans were promptly put into hibernation, along with my pastels, florals, or any item that didn’t seem to match the cooling weather. During middle school, I vividly remember a friend of mine critiquing my fashion faux-pas when I had forgotten to adhere to the white-pantspost-labor-day rule. From then on, I followed the guidelines blindly, without knowledge of their origin or why they had been enforced in the first place. It was all I knew; putting those rules into question by sporting a gleaming pair of white pants in autumn meant receiving looks of distaste from all the 7th grade it-girls, and who wants that? Years later, as my fashion horizons have expanded, I decided to look into the reasoning behind these rules with which I had become quite jaded. Of course, there is some logical sense to the “no white pants after Labor Day rule.” Naturally, it gets warm during the summertime, so wearing lighter colors like white helps to alleviate discomfort, because white doesn’t absorb as much of the sun’s heat as darker colors do. When fall arrives, the sun’s heat is not as strong, so there is less of a need to wear white. Makes sense, I thought. But there is another outdated (and snobby) reason behind the origin of this rule. In the early 1900s, there were two populations among the wealthy: new money and old money. In attempt to communicate their so-called superiority, the families with old money tried to distinguish themselves from those with new money by creating rules such as these.
That way, a person from that time period could identify someone’s type of wealth simply by seeing whether or not they were wearing white during fall. It’s hard to believe that such an antiquated, uppity rule could have enough staying power to pervade fashion culture over a century later. The historical origin of this rule is just a confirmation of how silly I believe these rules to be. Fashion is a means of self-expression, and self-expression is freedom to present yourself to the world in whatever way you wish. Enforcing fashion rules actually compromises this freedom, and puts arbitrary restrictions on self-expression. Without these two vital components, freedom and self-expression, would fashion exist at all? I join the movement that many are already pushing for, which is a fashion era in which these rules are eradicated completely. Let’s all wear what we feel like wearing without guidance from others, and let’s wear it confidently. Breaking the preconceived rules of fashion is edgy and refreshing. In my opinion, people look better when they veer from the rules.
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Conscious Consumerism:
The Basics By Briana Ottoboni
Fashion is the second most polluting industry in the world—only behind oil. A single cotton t-shirt requires upwards of 700 gallons of water to produce. Most of this water is unable to be recycled as the manufacturing process renders it toxic. Furthermore, the industry contributes to over 10% of the world’s annual carbon emissions. On an individual level, American consumers, specifically, each throw away close 65 lbs. of every year. Water usage, carbon emissions, and waste are tangible measures of fashion as an unsustainable industry. Additionally, the industry has a social impact in its unethical manufacturing practices and lack of transparency in the supply chain. As consumers and young people, it is our prerogative to change our buying behavior to reflect the positive change we hope for in our world, both environmentally and socially. That said, sustainable brands often err on the side of more expensive as their practices are more thoughtful and intentional, which inevitably causes costs to rise. We are college students learning how to budget our money as rising adults and sometimes much to our dismay, we have $5 left in our bank account. On that note, it seems
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unreasonable to spend upwards of $100 on a sustainably made shirt when you could find something similar for $8. TRANSITION The world of conscious consumerism is a movement that defies the norms of marketing that have told us what to buy our whole lives. Rather conscious consumerism is a strategy that dictates how to buy: that is to say, buy less.
Pillars of Conscious Consumerism: Spend money where it matters. The pair of basic jeans that will last in your wardrobe for years makes sense to indulge in. Whether or not you are purchasing from a sustainable brand, buying items that will last reduce the number of items you are purchasing. You are then spending a little more on one piece rather purchasing many from a fast fashion brand (unsustainable business model) to replace each other when seams split and zippers break as a result of poor quality. You’ll end up saving money long-term. Do your research. It is reasonable to believe not everyone wants to be doing research on sustainability in the fashion industry during their
free time. However, we are at a point where we need to expect more from our brands, even the ones we love. So scour their websites. Brands who value sustainability will make it visible. Support brands that are making a serious effort Beware of greenwashing. Greenwashing is a marketing tactic that turns sustainability into a trend. H&M’s eco line sounds like its making a positive impact on the world, but where were all of those clothes made? Transparency is key to distinguish brands who are fully committed to sustainability. Buy less. It sounds like the most daunting of the pillars, but it is important to be mindful while shopping. Think about what you’ll actually wear, what you actually need, and what you actually want. You may find it’s less than you think. It will also do wonders for your college budget. Moral of the story: Think when you buy. Ask where your clothes came from. Expect more from your brands. You deserve it!
The Bronx: A Home for Streetwear By Ashley Qamar
In different areas of the country, we all went through phases that were influenced by our friends and by social media. That experience is elevated in urban areas like New York City. Instead of having grown up obsessing over the newest UGGs or Silly Bands, here you were introduced to the basics of streetwear. We all tried to have the coolest sneakers or the nicest hats, but at the end of the day, we were part of a larger movement--one that originated with the shift in culture that occurred in the Bronx. At this point, we know that hip-hop isn’t exclusive to the Bronx. It’s worldwide, and so is the influence that comes with it. You see it in the styles of Korean musicians, you see it on Norwegian teen dramas, and you see it in the nightlife of western Europe. Timberlands, puffer jackets, and Yankees caps were popular here first. They started off as pieces that were adaptable to the weather and lifestyle of Bronx natives. Today they have become staples for people across the world that admire the rap/hip-hop/streetwear movement. By no means can you categorize all of the people in the
When you think of fashion in the Bronx, you may remember that the Bronx was the childhood home of American icons like Calvin Klein and Ralph Lauren. However, in the 1970s and 1980s, we saw a demographic shift in the Bronx from a predominantly white borough to a borough predominantly composed of minorities. That change meant that there was also a huge shift in culture to one that more closely resembles the Bronx that we know today. In 1973 a man named DJ Kool Herc started a cultural revolution with the creation of modern hip-hop. This musical genre was born here in the Bronx, less than 2.5 miles away from the Rose Hill campus, at 1520 Sedgwick Avenue. But the birth of hip-hop was not just the birth of a new style of music; it was the birth of a new style of thinking. With that, of course, came a new style of clothing. I would consider the Bronx to be one of the national epicenters of streetwear as we know it today. If you walk up Fordham Road you get a pretty good idea of why I make this claim. Between the five streets on Fordham Road from Webster Avenue to the Grand Concourse, there are over 10 sneaker and streetwear stores. Some stores are exclusive to the Bronx, like Jimmy Jazz or Dr. Jay’s, and are some of the most in- Bronx as having one style, but you can say that streetwear teresting stores you’ll walk into.They curate an inven- is a huge part of the culture that you adapt to seeing as tory that is specific to the colorful trends of the area. a norm here. I don’t think that I have been to any other city where sneaker culture is as influential to youth culture as it is here, and that is one of the reasons why I love this borough. To look at a high school student on the street here is to look at someone who has crafted a form of self-expression. A large percentage of students have to wear uniforms to school, so you get an amazing showcase of shoes, backpacks, and jackets as students try and outdo each other. You may not even realize that they are wearing a uniform in the first place. It’s these little things about the way in which youth culture embraces the culture of the borough at large that makes the Bronx a true home for streetwear.
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Retro Fashion Back in Action By Paige Kowal
Fashion is a cycle. The expansion and adaptation of styles from past eras always find its way back to the runways, and eventually to the closets of every fashion addict. This year was no different. As models strutted down the runways at fashion week, it was obvious that the 70s were back and better than ever. The flowy, flared silhouettes and burnt earthy colors of the era are back and groovier than ever, proving it’s time to break out the rich textures of corduroy and suede and throw on your wide bell-bottomed pants. When it comes to the 70s, the most iconic symbol is arguably the woman in bell-bottom pants paired with sleek, straight, and middle-parted hair. A carefree and simple silhouette, her classic 70s style reflects someone with very few cares in the world. Now, however, it has taken a more modern approach. Band Tees replace striped knit sweaters and sneakers replace the iconic brown suede boot. The incorporation of autumnal burnt oranges and mustard yellows Photo by Andrew MacLear, 1968 paired with newsboy caps and big buckled belts become an ode to this casual era of fashion. In incorporating these trends into your closet, it is important to keep your personal style in mind. Whether it be swapping out your skinny jeans for flares or your typical black and white color palette for neutral earthy tones, it can be easy to incorporate this new revival of an old trend. The most important aspect is to be true to yourself and to feel confident in what you are wearing. In order to avoid looking costume-y, it is important to incorporate your own stylistic and modern aspects as well as making it practical. It is important to be comfortable with what you are wearing-especially if it is something new. Easing yourself into these trends makes it easier to ultimately be confident to rock your new look. Retro fashion was definitely in full swing at New York Fashion Week. Australian designer Nicky Zimmermann, took advantage of the floral patterns and striped sweaters of the 70s in her 2017 NYFW Show. The adaptation of these retro ideas, including high-waisted silhouettes and pastel colors, gave off beach vibes, creating a modification of typical 70s styles. Renowned designer Marc Jacobs also created his line with a noticeable connection to 70s fashion. With spunky prints and neutral colors of burgundy and brown, Jacobs portrayed the grungier side of the 70s. The addition of oversized silhouettes and hats made the look more editorial, but ultimately still wearable. Though both designers took inspiration from the 70s, they ultimately created two drastically different outcomes. This shows the importance of interpretation when it comes to trends, solidifying the importance of self-expression through them and through fashion itself. This year, don’t be afraid to pull out your bell-bottoms and bell sleeves, incorporating them into your daily style. Retro fashion is back, and it’s here to stay.
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STAGE STYLE By Elizabeth Radziul
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Performers use their wardrobe as an addition to their act. Despite many of the factors that play a role in their outfit decisions, ultimately artists are heavily influenced by the trends of the season. Performers take personal style into account, desired level of shock value, and the hottest styles on the runway to create the perfect look. Take the 2017 Grammy Awards as an example. Falling right around the same time as New York Fashion Week, the Grammys are a perfect chance for artists to showcase their take on the newest trends. Katy Perry took the stage, singing her (at the time) newest song, “Chained to the Rhythm,” sporting a white Tom Ford pantsuit. Anyone who tuned into the Fall/Winter 2017 fashion shows knows pantsuits were all the rage. Everyone, from Yves Saint Laurent to Victoria Beckham, personalized the classic pants and tailored blazer ensemble. Of course, in true Katy Perry style, the singer wore hers with a fishnet bustier and casual white sneakers. With the timing of the Fall/Winter 2017 shows didn’t fall short of political statement pieces. Katy Perry wore an armband that read “persist” as well as
a Planned Parenthood pin. It may seem like Katy Perry makes her costume decisions based on shock value or pure aesthetic, but her well-thought-out Grammy ensemble proves otherwise. Fast forward six months to the MTV Video Music Awards and singers are still rocking the trends put forth by the prestigious fashion designers of NYFW. Lorde, a known fashion risk taker, opted for a bold stage outfit for her performance of “Homemade Dynamite.”. The pop singer wore a silver deconstructed dress over a pair of grey sweatpants. The dress over sweatpants duo is bold on its own, but the deconstructed classic was a style seen on almost every runway show during fashion week. Every couple years, metallic pops up within fashion week; it was one of those years! Lorde wore these trends so naturally, it is almost impossible to tell that the outfit was laid out for her by the trends of the season. Insider
TIPS AND TRICKS
FOR THE BEST THRIFT SHOPPING EXPERIENCE By Sabrina Saler
As new trends are constantly being recycled from past decades, thrift shopping has become an increasingly popular-–and sustainable—way of obtaining cheaper and more unique clothing pieces. Unlike shopping online or at a regular store, thrift shopping is an experience that takes any shopper through one-of-a-kind pieces, and allows for a deeper appreciation for previous fashion styles and trends. Going to a mall can be boring and sometimes there is simply nothing new to buy, but thrift shopping is a fresh way to pick up unique pieces. Going into a thrift store with some motivation and tips in your back pocket is the best way to ensure a great experience.
Know Your Stores and Set a Budget
The average Goodwill is going to be a lot less expensive than a designerexclusive thrift boutique in Manhattan, so it is always important to do some research before heading out. Some thrift stores even specialize in certain vintage items, which can help when you’re on the hunt for a specific item. With that being said, even though thrift shopping is usually known for bargains and cheap prices, it may be worthwhile to spend a little more to ensure a higher quality and condition of the clothes.
Check Clothes Before Buying
Cheaper chain thrift stores can have great finds, but it is important to inspect your clothes before buying. Look for stains, ripped seams, holes, and any obvious signs of wear. Although these clothes are a lower price, you still want to make sure there are at least a few wears left in the clothing. Nothing is worse than buying a sweater and finding a hole in it when trying it on at home!
Think of Specific Items
Usually thrift shops are not the most organized places, and it can get tiring and overwhelming to aimlessly look through racks with no direction. If you really can’t think of specific clothing pieces, try coming up with a certain color scheme. It can be a lot easier to spot certain colors than it is to spot types of items. When you have some inspiration fresh in mind, there is at least some sort of direction that makes the process a little more organized.
Look at Every Rack
Each section in a thrift store has something different to offer and can lead to new finds. I constantly thrift in the men’s section and have found lots of pieces besides just huge sleep t-shirts. As mentioned earlier, sometimes thrift stores can be disorganized, so you can find some items that aren’t in the right section.
Stay Open to Inspiration
Be open to any inspiration that comes while thrift shopping. When it comes to vintage clothing, it is important to be creative and open to trying out anything that catches your eye. Sometimes you can find something completely unexpected that you feel really drawn to, so always trust your gut feeling. Maybe inspiration will lead you to your next go-to jacket or pair of shoes. If you keep all of these tricks in mind, you’ll be bound to have a great thrift shopping experience. But there are so many options storewise, especially in NYC, that it’s good to have a few places in mind to try out. For a quirky blend of secondhand clothes and home items, try Cure Thrift Shop on 111E 12th street, right around Union Square. This store is a cute, unique place, and the proceeds go towards diabetes research. Another shop that helps a great cause is Housing Works Thrift shop at 130 Crosby Street in Nolita. The proceeds of this store are put towards helping the double issues of AIDS and homelessness. As a plus, you can make a day out of this shopping experience and visit the Housing Works Bookstore Café right next door. Finally–-for a funkier experience–-head over to Fabulous Fanny’s located at 335 E 9th street. This store focuses in particular on vintage sunglasses and glasses frames that would be a perfect accessory to any outfit. With the first step of research done for you, it’s time to think of some outfit inspirations and start shopping. Thrift shopping is not only a unique experience, but supportive of clothing sustainability, giving a new life to old clothes. Thrift shopping is quickly becoming its own culture, so hop on the bandwagon, because it really is special to wear hard-to-find pieces with their own individual backstories.
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IN THE SPOTLIGHT: GYPSETGIRL By Hayley Forsblom I met Melissa Hillas on the rooftop of the Providence G. There is a garment rack lined with fabrics and colors: leather, velvet, fringe all in brilliant blues and blacks. Here Melissa Hillas is in her element, bringing her Autumn Winter 2017 Collection to life for the lookbook photoshoot of her brand GYPSETGIRL. Sparked from a long-time passion for the fashion industry and vivid world traveling experiences, she knew this was the path for her. The love she puts into every stitch has brought her designs to Fashion Week in NYC and LA and even to the pages of Vogue. Melissa studied literature in college. Once she became a writer, her talent expanded from written word to the tactile field of design. She feels that “understanding exactly who you are is like a degree in itself.” Like many great fashion labels, there is a story behind the name. She informed me that, “Visiting different cultures globally has defined the brand. GYPSETGIRL is a combination of “gypsy” and “jet set”. This brand reflects tastes, colors, and textures from different enclaves from around the world.” She reiterates that traveling, good work ethics, and trademarks are particularly important in today’s world. Nature also plays an important part in her work. Her designs reflect the beauty that surrounds her, the kaleidoscope of colors found in exotic places like Turkey and the Sahara Desert.
Photos provided by Hillas showcasing her designs in print and on the runway.
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Hillas wearing the Nico Jacket and Velvet Straight Leg Pants from her AW 2017 Collection
Hillas is one of the fortunate individuals who has been able to successfully make her passion into a career, along with traveling, running a blog, and managing social media as part of a cohesive lifestyle. She admits that the journey was one of perseverance amidst personal strife, however, these challenges make the accomplishments even more rewarding. She battled the internal question of quitting or carrying on and pushed away the overwhelming worry and negativity. As a result, GYPSETGIRL emerged as a stronger brand, serving women “who want to have fun with their looks, have a boho luxe edge and love to embrace different cultures in their clothing choices.” From a philanthropic perspective, GYPSETGIRL has been able to promote sustainability in fashion. A recent project of hers aims to “raise awareness to end the poaching of the African elephants with Fashion for Conservation and through proceeds from the sales of [her] clothing with beadwork made by the women of the Maasai tribe in Kenya, Africa.” Her impressive work thus far emphasizes that one’s ambitions are best left limitless. What began as an inkling that a career in fashion would be the ideal, escalated into a brand that has seen global success. Sticking to one’s goals even in the worst of times may just lead to all the pieces falling into place. Whether you are looking to pursue a career business, fashion, or whatever the industry may be, Hillas’ wise words hold true. “Be authentic to yourself. Always follow your own path in what inspires you. Don’t follow trends, be the trend.”
BACK ON TRACK By Shawny Dinis
Recently some of my favorite ‘It’ girls--such as Bella Hadid, Hailey Baldwin, and Kourtney Kardashian--have caught my eye by wearing the latest fashion trend: Tracksuits. Whowhatwear.com is calling it the biggest fashion movement of 2017, and ELLE magazine named it one of the top fashion trends of the fall. It is very 90s, very Sporty Spice. Comfortable, yet stylish and chic. Depending on whether you dress it up or down, you can wear it to class, to the movies, or even on a Friday night out. There are so many styles and fabrics (velour, terry cloth, silk) to choose from. The fun part is that you get to put your own spin on it and make it unique. Dress it down: Most days, whether you are going to class or hanging out with your friends, you probably want to look cute but still be comfortable. The good thing about the tracksuit is that you can look cool without putting in much effort because it stands out on its own. It’s an outfit that is already pre-put together for you, so you can just throw it on and you are set to start the day. For a more casual look, opt for wearing the tracksuit with a t-shirt or a crop top (if you’re comfortable with showing some skin) and add fashionable sneakers. Simple. Trendy. Throw on a denim or leather jacket over the tracksuit if you need an extra layer. Dress it up: If you want to wear your tracksuit for a night out (because let’s face it, you just bought it and you can’t wait for everyone to see it), elevate your usual tracksuit pants with strap heels and a fancy blouse that you can tuck in for a more “put-together” look. Another option is to wear a simple bodysuit with a color that complements your pants. Effortlessly chic. Where to find it: Adidas, Nike, Reebok, Champion
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The Best
Fashion Bloggers
to KnowNow
By Grace Kolbe
Blogger Bigwigs:
The business and fashion worlds have both changed tremendously with the development of new technology, especially social media. An entirely new form of entrepreneurs have emerged, and the product they are selling is themselves. Fashion and lifestyle bloggers create a brand out of their own glamorous lives and send their message to the masses via social media. Bloggers with millions of followers are now name brand ambassadors. They represent brands ranging from fashion icons such as Louis Vuitton, to makeup companies like Laura Mercier, and even to hotels and travel destinations.
AIMEE SONG - laid back interior designer-turned-fashion guru based in LA
Instagram (@songofstyle): essentially a massive lookbook for her jet setting fashion moments and stunning sceneries around the globe (think fashion month, Revolve around the world, etc.) YouTube: actively updated vlogs that give you an inside look into how Aimee runs her fashion empire Official Blog (www.songofstyle.com): fashion tips, trip diaries, shopping recommendations, etc. Notable Features: Forbes 30 under 30; author of New York Times bestseller “Capture Your Style”; Two Songs clothing brand with her sister (@songdani) (worn by the likes of DVF)
NEGIN MIRSALEHI - uber-trendy hair care mogul from Amsterdam
Instagram (@negin_mirsalehi): overflowing with beautiful photos of Negin’s goddess-like hair, shots with longtime boyfriend @m_stibbe, and her adorable dog @moseymirsalehi YouTube: active vlogger who tours followers through her daily life (dog walks, fashion weeks, luxurious vacations, closet cleanups, etc.) and business ventures Notable Features: hair care line @gisou_official made with honey from her father’s bee hives; collaborating designer with Cluse; Cosmopolitan Netherlands, Glamour Netherlands, Marie Claire Greece & United Arab Emirates, etc. cover stories
CHIARA FERRAGNI - Italian-born, LA-based accessories designer
Instagram (@chiaraferragni): full of photos of Chiara’s funky and fun style and her Italian singer fiancé @fedez Official Blog (www.theblondesalad.com): beauty routines, lifestyle articles (ex. “5 Fashion Exhibits You Must See in Fall 2017”), city guides (New York, London, Paris, Milan), articles on people to know in the fashion, art, and the entertainment industry Notable Features: owner, founder, and head designer of Chiara Ferragni, a bold luxury accessory brand which just opened its flagship store in Milan; magazine covers for the likes of Marie Claire Spain, Glamour Mexico, Vanity Fair Italy, Grazia France, etc
NATASHA OAKLEY & DEVIN BRUGMAN - Australian-born best
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friends and bikini businesswomen Instagram (@tashoakley & @devinbrugman): beachy vibes everywhere as both girls typically sport their bikini or activewear lines in photos; lots of adorable BFF shots; laid back style moments in Florida, California, Italy, Greece, Australia, etc. YouTube: shared account with videos that chronicle the girls’ globe-trotting adventures together and promotional videos for their multiple lines Businesses: A Bikini A Day, Monday Swimwear, Monday Active Notable Features: they are sponsored by Audi, Bentley, and Guess; joint cover stories for The Arcadia, Collective Hub, etc.
Transitioning from to r l e l m a m F u S Skin:
By Emily Abate
As the warm summer days fade away, so do our golden, healthy tans. As the seasons change, you might feel pressured to swap your go-to summer products for a few cool weather essentials. But don’t fear the cold air! Instead of making room for a new collection of pricy fall products, follow the beauty tips listed below to keep your skin glowing during the cooler months. With these tips, you’re on your way to maintaining the perfect dewy complexion all season long.
Cooler temperatures are known for causing the skin to appear lusterless and dry. To keep your skin looking hydrated and radiant this season, use a moisturizer. For combination skin opt for an oil-free formula like Neutrogena’s oil free moisturizer ($12). Clinique’s Dramatically Different moisturizer ($15-25) is also a great option to add your beauty collection. A good tip is to gravitate towards moisturizers that are also oil-free since they tend to not block your pores. Also, remember to moisturize twice a day in order to lock in moisture during the day and rehydrate your skin overnight. Highlighters are also a key to achieving a long-term glowy look from summer to fall. A few of my personal favorite highlighters are Hourglass Ambient Strobe Lighting powder ($25) or Benefit Watt’s Up cream highlighter ($10-30). For an added glow and radiant effect, apply a cream highlighter to the high points of your face and then top those areas off with a powder highlight. This combination will add extra glam to any look and keep your skin illuminated all through the colder months.
Lips:
Because the cool air can leave lips feeling dry and flaky, don’t forget to moisturize your lips. Look for lip balms that have vitamins and moisturizers such as cocoa butter, aloe gel, or Vitamin E in them. These ingredients will aid in sealing in moisture for a longer period of time. To enhance your lips, use lipsticks, lip glosses, and liquid lipsticks for some color and brightness in your makeup look. Try to lean towards lip balms with tinted colors or lipsticks with hydrating qualities. Because liquid lipsticks tend to be very drying, add some Vaseline or nourishing gloss over the top to keep your lips from drying out. A few great fall lip products include the Kylie Jenner lip glosses ($15), Benefit’s Hydrating Tinted lip balm ($18), and Tom Ford’s Moisturecore lip color ($55). With the cooler weather, don’t be afraid to also experiment with darker shades. Deep purples, reds, and maroons are always classic go-to shades for the fall, and they’re guaranteed to add a fierce touch to any look. Don’t forget to rock your bold lip color with confidence.
Eyes:
As summer fades away, don’t let fun, bright eyeshadow colors slip away. With fall approaching fast, you have the opportunity to experiment and explore with deeper, cooler eyeshadows. You can transition deep gold shades for lighter, shimmery toned hues like champagne. Using a purple eyeshadow on the lid and a champagne color in the inner corner can help you create the perfect subtle autumn-inspired look. Or opt to incorporate more frosty, cool shadows for a bolder fall look. If you are not as daring with eyeshadow colors, you can always use jewel-toned eyeliners for a playful look. Colors like emerald, deep purple, or even navy will accentuate your eyes while sticking to the true colors and trends of fall. These tips will help keep your dewy summer complexion lasting all throughout the fall season. The summer-to-fall transitional essentials will have you looking and feeling like your summer self even in the cold. Don’t let the horrors of the seasonal weather keep you from your radiant best.
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Sheeran Style: How Ed is Changing the Music Industry
By Emma Fenton
When Ed Sheeran takes the stage, it’s just him, the audience, and a guitar. He has no band, no backup singers, and no dancers-it is quite literally a one-man show. He is able to piece together his songs by using a loop pedal. Bit by bit he sings different harmonies into the microphone, creating a song. His shows are very simple; it’s all about the music. There is nothing to distract the concertgoer from listening to the music. Just like with his stage, Sheeran keeps his wardrobe to a minimum. He played three sold-out nights at Madison Square Garden in a t-shirt and jeans. Occasionally, he’ll throw on a new t-shirt for the encore to represent the city he’s in--a Laker’s jersey in LA or Net’s jersey in Brooklyn. Other than that, his stage costume is something anyone could have pulled out of their own closet. In his hit song “Take it Back,” Sheeran sings, “Cause I’m a singer that you never wanna see shirtless and I accept the fact that someone’s gotta win worstdressed.” Concerts are supposed to be about connecting with music, and, through his simplicity, that is what Sheeran does. Musicians such as Taylor Swift or Katy Perry want you to have a special kind of experience when you see them live. They are not just musicians, they are performers. Swift and Perry have stage outfit changes, aerial performances, moving stages, dance numbers and even fireworks. While all of these effects add to the concert experience, the music can get lost in the shuffle. The focus has shifted off the song and instead onto the dance and flashy costumes. At an Ed Sheeran concert, what you see is what you get. He is completely vulnerable with just a guitar as his safety net. He stands on stage alone for two hours, and pours his heart out to the audience. There is nothing standing in the way between his music and the audience. Sheeran is not the only artist incorporating minimalist ideas into his tours. Adele made headlines by wearing only one dress for the entire length of the tour. Instead of going through multiple costume changes like her team had originally planned, the mega-star decided on a single gown and flats as her only outfit. Her “single outfit policy” ensures that the focus will be on her talent and not on an over-the-top show. It is important to the artist that their fans have a good time at their shows. The music industry is changing, and is realizing that an intimate show is just as entertaining as a flashy one. The important thing is not what the musician is doing on stage, but rather what message they are spreading with their music.
Pump Up the Positivity
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Everyone has those days when you are in a bad mood that is impossible to shake. No matter what you do, you feel like the world By Marissa Fata is completely against you. Once you are in one of these funks, it is difficult to shake the negative energy. But have no fear--here are a few simple ways to turn that frown upside down! Journaling is a fantastic way to clear your head and get negative thoughts out. Sometimes it is difficult to discuss some of our problems and stressors with people, no matter how comfortable we feel with them. Writing in a journal allows you to have an outlet to ponder thoughts that may be extremely personal to you. A basic journal that you write in every night or once a week will do the trick. However, if you are feeling more dedicated to journaling, an awesome journal sold in Barnes and Noble is called “The 5 Minute Journal.” This journal requires you to write in it immediately when you wake up and in the last few minutes before you go to sleep. It allows you to set goals for your day and reflect on accomplished of that day. Nothing is better than wrapping your hands around a nice warm mug while you relax in bed or study for a test. Green, peppermint, and chamomile teas have little to no caffeine, making them great nighttime teas for when you want to drink something warm without caffeine’s long-lasting effects. Exercising is a key aspect of keeping a positive attitude. Some say that “sweating it out” is the best way to relieve any stress or anger that creeps into your life. It is suggested that 30 minutes of exercise is standard in order to promote a healthy lifestyle. Exercise is one of the best ways to clear your head of negativity and focus on how your body and mind feel. Releasing endorphins eliminates pain and creates feelings of euphoria, which in turn creates positive feelings. When we are feeling pessimistic, we tend to listen to sad music that relates to our mood. However, this only adds to your negativity and makes it more difficult to break out of the cycle. One way to amp up your mood is to make a playlist of songs that remind you of happy times. These can be songs that help you remember positive memories or songs with inspiring and motivational lyrics that speak to you. If you are not feeling creative, Spotify has several different playlists designated specifically to revamp your mood. Keep this playlist on your phone at all times and refer back to it whenever you need a little boost. Although it sounds cliché, taking time to seriously breathe and and meditate is one of the most important steps in keeping a positive mindset. There are many simple meditation videos on YouTube that are easy to follow along with... even for beginners! The apps “Headspace” and “Calm,” available in the App Store, teach different length meditations for different occasions and emotions that you identify with at any given time.
Steal Her Style: Art History Edition By Alison Rini
Make use of the Fine Arts core requirement and take some inspiration from art’s greatest muses.
smudgy eyeliner (Marc Jacobs Beauty Highliner Matte Gel Eye Crayon Eyeliner in iron-y, $25) on only the outer corner. Carefully apply brick lipstick (Kat Von D Studded Kiss Lipstick in Archangel, $12), making sure to exaggerate the cupid’s bow. Lastly, don’t forget to finish off the look with her large crystal choker.
Nefertiti, Thutmose
Self Portrait with Necklace and Crown of Thorns, Frida Kahlo
Frida embraces the no-makeup makeup look that you can recreate by skipping foundation and concealing a few blemishes. Because the eyebrows are the centerpiece of the face, liberally fill them in with a brow pencil and comb through with a tinted gel. To tame your brows, Anastasia Beverly Hills Brow Definer ($23) is the perfect option. For those of us who can’t suntan in Mexico like Frida, brush some bronzer (Lancome Belle de Teint, $45) around the perimeter and down the front of your face. Leave the eyes bare except for a swipe of mascara (Maybelline Great Lash, $5) on your top lashes only. All that’s left is the lips; blot some tinted lip balm (Burt’s Bees Lip Balm in Wild Cherry, $5) and use the same color on the high points of your cheekbones for a natural, cohesive final touch.
The OG beauty icon, Nefertiti (wife of the Egyptian Pharaoh Ahkentaten), practically invented the smoky eye. Apply kohl eyeliner (Rimmel Scandaleyes Waterproof Kohl Eyeliner, $4) around your eyes, connecting the top and bottom lines at the corners. Showcase your killer bone structure by lightly contouring under your cheekbones and around the perimeter of your face with a matte bronzer (NYX Professional Matte Bronzer, $9).
Woman in Gold, Gustav Klimt
Klimt’s model, Adele Bloch-Bauer I, had no idea that she was about to transform into a beauty icon. Achieve her sultry, flushed look by skipping under-eye concealer and starting with a light dusting of foundation powder (BareMinerals Original Foundation, $29) instead. Doing so will let your natural flush glow underneath. Comb through brows with a spoolie brush to keep them in check, but don’t fill them in. For eyes, use grey
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A Professional Opinion: By The Numbers By Grace Cirignano
I sat down with Andrea Lavinthal, PEOPLE Magazine’s Style and Beauty Director, and got the scoop on her must-have products and need-to-know tips.
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Andrea’s #1 Beauty Cardinal Rule: “Curl your eyelashes! I’m obsessed with curling mine. I feel like it makes a huge difference in the way your entire face looks, and it’s such a small thing. If you're not used to doing it, it almost looks painful, but I could probably do it without even a mirror now. I have eyelash curlers everywhere. Two in my desk, three at home, in all my travel stuff, everywhere! It’s my game changer.”
Two beauty products that Andrea is willing to splurge on: “Foundation! It’s very hard to get it to match your
skin and the key to any natural looking foundation is that it has to be a near perfect match. That can be sort of hard to do with a drugstore foundation unless you're willing to buy a few and experiment. And my hair color! I feel like it’s really hard to find a colorist who you don’t get annoyed at or you don’t have to go back to and they have to put on a toner, or they didn’t make it too light or too dark or do your ombre wrong. If you find someone you love, and they’re a little more expensive than what you want, but they’re great, you should probably just stick with them. You might end up paying more in the long run for a color correction. And if you do it yourself at home and mess it up, you’re going to pay even more to go to somebody really good to fix it.”
Three makeup products Andrea prioritizes when she’s in a rush: “Well, the eyelash curler… but that’s a given! Tinted moisturizer (always!), mascara, and blush. That’s all you need.”
Four beauty tips Andrea wishes she would have known when she was in college: “First, find a good
colorist! I was what they (jokingly) referred to as ‘blonderexic’--I could never be blonde enough. Any colorist who was willing to make me blonde I thought was a good colorist, but no. A good colorist is someone who will get you as close to what you want to be but not so much that it doesn’t work for you. Wear sunscreen! When you’re 20-ish, you’re thinking, ‘whatever, I’ll figure it out later,’ NO! I should have been wearing sunscreen all the time, especially on my face. Spring break, I know I laid out and got super tan and, I know it’s cliche, but I look back and I’m like ‘what an idiot.’ Oh, eyebrows! Don’t over pluck them. At the time, thin eyebrows were still in style, and they’re just unflattering on anyone. You just do it because you’re thinking, ‘oh, it’s the trend’, but you should do what looks best on your face and on you in general, not just because something is on trend. Ugh, I should never have done that. I always laugh, there wasn’t any dry shampoo when I was in college, can you imagine? So I washed my hair way too much because I didn’t really know how to make it look good on day two. I thought I had to blow it out every day to look good, and that’s ridiculous! Overall I think I should have just stepped back, and looked a little more natural and I feel like I would have been much cuter, (but I thought I looked really cute at the time).”
Five ‘holy-grail’ beauty products Andrea can’t live without: “How many times can I say the eyelash curler? But that’s definitely my number one. Right now, IT Cosmetics Your Skin But Better CC+ Illumination ($38). A little bit goes a long way. I apply it with a little bit of moisturizer and I feel like it makes your skin look really glowy and pretty. Maybelline Full ‘N Soft Mascara ($6.49). I have tested hundreds and hundreds of mascaras, hundreds, and it’s still the best one I’ve ever used. It’s so underrated because it’s not sexy or flashy or about tons of length or volume. It’s the best mascara ever! Dove Body Wash ($5.49). Again, not sexy or flashy but there’s just something about Dove that I will always love. And plus it’s so affordable that you don’t have to feel bad about using tons of it. Kopari Coconut Melt ($38). I use it all over, I love that stuff. It’s just pure organic coconut oil and I use it after I get out of the shower, after I shave my legs. I use it on my face sometimes. I put it on my baby! I was very late to jump on the coconut oil train and now I’m the conductor! And my Amika Curling Iron ($120), it’s a clipless wand. Everyone always asks me ‘how do you get natural looking waves’ and I don’t know any other way to do it. It makes it so easy, you don’t have the clamp to get all hung up on, and you just wrap your hair around it. I do it at my desk while I’m drinking coffee and checking my email. Everyone in the office knows that I curl my hair at my desk. Takes 5 minutes and you’re done!”
“Brighter” Days are 3 Inexpensive Beauty Tricks Away
By Noelle Khan From dabbing copious amounts of pricey eye cream to caking on high-end concealer, attempting to create a wide-awake appearance isn’t always so wallet friendly. Luckily, we at MODE consider ourselves budget-friendly beauty gurus. We’re ready to reveal our favorite inexpensive products guaranteed to erase your dark circles and liven up your complexion in just one application. With all products under $40, you’ll have extra dollars to waste on other pricey campus necessities (a.k.a. textbooks), plus a flawless face that fakes eight hours of sleep.
Step 1:Invest
in a good eye cream If you spend most weekdays cooped up in the library (binge-watching Netflix), it’s about time that you treat your tired eyes to a seriously good eye treatment. Our essential eye cream? Kiehl’s Creamy Avocado Treatment ($29). Swap your weekly servings of pricy avocado toast for this gentle avocadopacked formula perfect for sensitive skin. Simply dab a pea size amount of this gellike treatment across your lids and orbital bone for instant hydration.
Step 2:
essential amino acids, you’re reveal a healthier appearance.
bound
to
Step 3:Swap
your average concealer for a highlighter and concealer duo While you can eliminate under-eye darkness with a basic concealer, its thick, cakey consistency makes it difficult to blend. Instead of relying on your beauty blender to create a flawless, wrinkle-free under-eye, opt for a bendable, lightweight concealer. Our recommendation? The Laura Mercier Candle Glow concealer and highlighter ($32). With “candle glow” in its name, this concealer/ highlighter duo instantly creates a luminous effect and erases darkness. With its sponge tip applicator, you can skip your beauty blender and brushes, and gently blend the remaining sheer formula with fingers. Go ahead and swap your everyday concealer for a “glowing” concoction that’ll easily blend away the darkness in just a few swipes.
Liven up your complexion with a brightening mask When life gives you lemons, fake a brighter complexion. Our beloved brand for skin treating sheet masks, Tony Moly, a Korean beauty brand, has packed its Lemon Brightening edition ($3.75) with miracle ingredients guaranteed to seep into your skin in just twenty minutes. As your skin absorbs a concoction of lemon extract and xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox
A Southern Girl in City Lights By Allie Giordano
My heart is racing, and I am shaking from head to toe. I have ust met one of my idols, Jessie James Decker. She looked flawless in her navy blue and gold pinstripe pants, blue sweater, and gold suede heels as I nerviously hugged her. Jesse waspromoting the release of her new album “Southern Girl City Lights.” Jesse is a country artist, beauty guru, and reality TV personality. Jesse’s career launched with the reasease album, “Wanted.” Her inspirations going into the music industry were Christina Aguilera (her first concert), Shania Twain, and Jessica Simpson. Decker’s next big break was her hit reality TV show, “Eric and Jessie: Game On, which followed the relationship between Jessie and her now-hubby, football player Eric Decker. Jessie has alsoreleased two EPs, a couple CHristmas singles, ad created a name for herself in the beauty and fashion industry. Her clothing line, “Kittenish” matches Decker’s style through every season. Decker’s hair and skin lines, “Bless Your Skin” and “Fave 4,” are the products Jessie herself loves using. Most recently Jessie James Decker’s reality show returned for season 3 and she has released her second album “Southern Girl City Lights.” Plus, as if all this new exciting news was not enough, Jessie is pregnant with her third child! The baby is due March 2018. The bundle of joy will join big sister, Vivianne “vivi”i, big brother, Eric Decker II “Bubby,” and cousin, Brooklyn “Brookie.” Decker balances being a mama, supportive wife, and working woman efortlessly. She is as humble as they come.She take her fans through the journey of her own life. For instances, songs lke “I do” (Jessies wedding gift to her husband), “Mama Wrote You a Lullaby” (for sweet Vivi), and “Gold” include the whole Decker family. Decker’s music is country with a twist and it could not be more honest and from the heart.
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get your makeup clout up!
THE RISE OF COOL GIRL MAKEUP
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How do you define “cool”? Funky, classy, edgy, saucy, or even flossy? How does one even achieve maximum “coolness”? The solution may seem tobe to wear the latest Fashion, have the most friends, or post Instagram pictures wit the highest number of likes, but I promis you, it’s simpler than that...much, much simpler. Effortless. Simple. Chic. These are the words that embody the idea of “cool girl makeup.” What exactly is this new beauty trend? It’s a recent movement in the beauty community that emphasizes a minimalist and eforless natural makeup look. Cool girl makeup goes far beyond your typical “no-makeup” look; it lets you work what you’ve got. Emphasis on healthy, glowing skin is also a must. This trend wasn’t reated to bash on girls and guys who adore contouring or couldn’t live without blinding highlight. Instead, it’s a trend created for a beauty lovers on the opposite end of the spectrum. Froma few dabs of BB cream to a quick brush of brow gel, mascara, and lip gloss, it doesn’t take much effort to create a natural face. The major issue with this trend? Fans of minimalist makeup have few beauty optionsavailable to achieve this low maintenance look, leaving them with no choice but to handpick individual products from varius makeup brands that cater to a minimalist face. Today bands like Glossier and Milk Makeup make creating a natural face simple. Launched in 2014, Glossier introduced itself as a “cool girl” brand with the motto, “Skin first. Makeup second. Smile always.” Their clean, straightforward slogan lets their target auidence know what their primary goal is: to help woman achieve beautiful skin, slaying their own natural beauty. Glossier stayed true to this motto by initially launching skincare products like face masks, mists, and facial cleansers such as the popular Milk Jelly cleanser ($18). Keeping with the cool girl trend, Glossier’s skin care line is the perfect set of priducts for people who don’t want to follow a complicated 12-step routine, yet still strive to achieve amazing skin. As for the actual makeup that Glossier sells,
Haley Barbosa their effective, innovative product will enhance your natural features and help you attain a flowy, youthful complexion. The Perfect Skin Tint ($26), a lightweight product that gives the skin a blurring yet naturally dewy look, isagreat option. It is available in five shades ranging from light to rich, and it’s the perfect choice for those who don’t love the heavy feeling of a traditional foundation. Glossier’s Boy Brow ($16) is another fan favorite and my personal go-to eyebrow gel. The creamy formula fills in and defines the brows ust the right amount while keeping those unruly hairs in place. Unlike some other brow gels, Boy Brow leaves the hairs soft to the touch. A final Glossier product perfect for an effortless face is the famous Glossier lip gloss ($14). This product was my introduction to the brand about a year ago and has remained my favorite clear gloss ever since. No stickiness, no scent, just clear, shiny, smooth awesomeness. The concept of cool girl makeup is fully evident in Glossier’s products and philosophy of raw beauty. Waking through any Sephora, you may have already caught a glimpse of this next cool girl makeup brand: Milk Makeup. Created for the cool girl who doesn’t use makeup brushes, this brand caters towards the simple yet fast paced lifestyle of their target demographic. This is super clear in their slogan, “Milk Girls do their Makeup Quick.” Milk Makeup markets their products with simple packaging that reflects simple looks. They offer chubby sticks, products with roller balls, pigment tube, and even facial oil in the form of a stick. The packaging makes it possible to use their unbreakable products on-the-go. Their products include blush oil, eye vinyl, shadow liners, their popular under-eye caffeine stick Cooling Water ($24), and the best-selling highlighter, the Holographic Stick ($28). Like Glossier, Milk Makeup is one of the pioneers of the cool girl makeup trend. With Glossier and Milk Makeup spearheading the rise of the cool girl makeup trend, achieving a minimalist look has never been easier. Healthy, glowing skin is in, and embracing your natural beauty is the new definition of “cool.”
How to Use One Product For Your Full Face By Emily Abate Instead of spending a lot of cash on multiple beauty products, you can use just one product for an entire face of makeup. Curious about the “magic” single tube guaranteed to help you achieve a flawless face? A cosmetic product made to finish off any glamorous or sultry look, lipstick is bound to become your new go-to item. You first want to choose a lipstick complementary to your skin tone. For example, if you have a cooler skin tone with blue undertones, choose a lipstick with blue hues. For warmer skin tones with more yellow undertones, choose a lipstick with orange hues. You can determine your skin’s undertones by pressing lightly on the inside of your wrist. Don’t be afraid to experiment with different lipstick colors, because it’s all about trial and error. For beauty beginners, stick to classic colors like pink or nude shades; it’s also important to pick a lipstick on the creamier side, which will be easier to blend out. For an eye look, first, apply a small amount of the creamy lipstick onto a flat eyelid brush. With this, apply the lipstick in the middle of your eyelid and gently smudge color outwards. After the initial application of lipstick, a blender blush will help diffuse color for a more flawless finish. Try to use sweeping motions upward to the crease of the eyelid with the blending brush. The blending brush will prevent the lipstick from creating a streaking ef-
fect on the eyes. Next, apply lipstick to the apples of your cheeks and blend upward and outward to the cheekbones. This will add a nice hue and freshness to your face. The final step is to apply the lipstick to your lips. Because the color was applied to your eyes and cheeks, you’ll want to avoid a heavy application of the lipstick on your lips. To prevent too much lipstick from being applied, you can dab the lipstick onto your finger and then use your finger as an applicator, or you can use a gloss to lighten the lipstick and add a glossy sheen. To finish off your look and make it more polished, you can add a thin line of brown or black pencil eyeliner. The eyeliner will add to the smudgy effect of the lipstick “eyeshadow.” Finally, a few swipes of mascara will add fullness and drama to the lashes for a fresh, glamorous beauty look. With just one tube of the perfect lip shade, you’ll be ready to take on the day in a cinch!
Winter is Here:
Time to Switch Up Your Skincare Routine
By Christina Avianto
It’s time to update your skincare routine! As the season changes, the weather gets cooler, making your skin more vulnerable to dryness, redness, and itchiness. To protect your skin and maintain a dewy, hydrated complexion all year long, it’s essential to switch up your routine during the cooler months. Indulging in a hot shower on a cold winter day is always a treat, but it is important not to use hot water on your face. To avoid stripping your skin of its natural and healthy oils, wash your face with lukewarm water. Because skin is susceptible to turning flaky during the cooler months, exfoliate once a week to remove dead skin from your face and body. The ExfoliKate Intensive Exfoliating Treatment ($85) by Kate Somerville isn’t called “The Hollywood Two Minute Facial” for nothing. After one use it will leave your skin looking radiant. When used in the shower, the steam helps to activate this scrub, making it more effective. After getting out of the shower, it is important to immediately moisturize. Applying lotion to skin fresh out of the shower allows it to absorb the moisturizer better, which helps to give your skin a layer of protection from the harsh weather. Sol de Janeiro’s Brazilian Bum Bum Cream ($45) is a quick absorbing body cream that tightens and smooths the skin. Tip: don’t forget to reapply throughout the day as needed. As colder weather approaches, it is a must to switch up your face moisturizer to a heavier, thicker cream that will lock in hydration. First Aid Beauty’s Ultra Repair Cream Intense Hydration ($36) can be used as a full body moisturizer that heals distressed skin and even eczema. It quickly absorbs into the skin and doesn’t feel greasy. No skincare routine is complete without a face mask. There are face masks for every skin problem, but in the winter it is essential to find a mask with hydrating and calming effects. Masks will help to retain moisture within your skin, and they are guaranteed to leave your face glowing. With the Hydration Lover Rubber Mask ($12) by Dr. Jart, you will see immediate results, as this rubber mask wraps around the skin to prevent its active ingredients from evaporating. Even during the cooler months, you should always keep your skin protected. Because the sun is still emitting UV rays during the winter months, we are extremely susceptible to skin damage. Glossier’s Invisible Shield SPF ($34) is an awesome product for those who live in the city because it not only protects skin from the sun, but also from pollutants and free radicals. Lastly, don’t forget about your lips. It is almost impossible to escape chapped lips in the winter. The Agave Lip Mask ($26) by Bite Beauty is a dual-purpose lip mask and lip balm. It heals the driest of lips and keeps them moisturized and soft to last the whole day.
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t is 12:45pm and I walk into Prince Coffee House where I am greeted by the welldressed Isiah Magsino, junior at Rose Hill. I sit down with him and quickly learn that he is professional, innovative, and ahead of the times. He co-created SOUL, a website that features up-and-coming creatives, while still balancing school work and keeping up with latest trends. I discuss his multiple moves (his father is a Master Chief in the Navy), style, inspiration, and--of course--work in the fashion industry, all at twenty-years old.
but on the outside was this beautiful, sequined blue-yellow (see page 27) piece. I try to stick with something elegant and something that I feel ultimately powerful in. I think that is the point of fashion, and the purpose of fashion. I felt glamorous in it, especially to a Moschino event.”
You said that you interned? “I interned at a PR firm called Seventh House [...] I luckily was able to serve as an assistant to one of the executives, and at that internship I was introduced to so many people. PR is also Where are you from? involved with all of the events, so that is how I “I was born in Honolulu, Hawaii, then I moved got invited to these shows and how I got to work to Guam, Chicago, San Diego, Las Vegas, and with them.” Tennessee, and now I am in New York.” Seeing as your statement piece is outerwear, Why did you choose Fordham? what is your favorite piece of outerwear you “The cliché reason why I chose Fordham, [is] own? New York City. I was always in love with New “I love outerwear in general. I have this fur York, I watched “Devil Wears Prada” and that jacket, it is faux, it is gray colored (see page is what really geared me to move here. I was 24). I love [wearing] gray and I love the concept so in love with the East Coast, gothic-sort of of this piece. It is a Royal Respect, an online architecture --that was the university I wanted retailer, jacket. I love the idea of fur; I think it to grow up in, and Fordham offers just that. It is is glamorous. I read the section at the MoMA cliché to say, but [Fordham] is the perfect mix of on fur, it was so intriguing because Hollywood New York City, as well as a university.” minority stars started wearing it and it was a symbol of wealth and being able to control your So, you are a junior, what is your major natural resources. This kind of interpretation is and minor? interesting to me.” “My major is Communications and Culture with a focus on Media Studies…I think I am going to Who is your biggest inspiration in both life try to aim for a dual minor in Fashion Studies and fashion? and Journalism.” “I have three. I love Anna Wintour, I think she is absolutely impeccable, not only because she is How would you describe your style? such a powerful figure in the fashion industry, “I am on the swim team so a part of my style is but the way she runs things as a woman and as after-practice sweats. So, a lot of my fashion is a boss at Vogue, I think it is admirable. I have geared towards the weekends, whenever I am always been a huge fan of the matriarch, and working and interning. I am going to put it in the the fact that she is deemed as one of the most words of how this guy, who is also into fashion, influential people in the industry is so inspiring ‘It is very elegant’. I will have an outerwear to me, especially being gay and a minority, I am statement piece, but then the rest of my outfit at a disadvantage. I am a huge fan of Edward will be plain because obviously it will clash and Enninful, the new Editor in Chief of British I do not want to be too much--but I want to be Vogue. He came out with that amazing British noticed. For example, I was fortunate enough to Vogue cover of Adwoa Aboah. I think he is in go to the New York Fashion Week events. This step with the times especially with what people past September, I went to a Moschino event are interested in: diversity and being included. and my outfit there was all black on the inside, Lastly, I look for inspiration
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from Naomi Campbell. I see how she carries herself and how her impact on the fashion industry takes place and that is something that inspires me.”
are still learning, and we want to nurture people on SOUL. The models that we use are signed with Wilhelmina, the big kind of names—but they are new faces. We want to give them a shot, shoot an extremely high fashion editorial. In our What inspired you to start SOUL? society and culture page, we try and highlight I co-founded it with Kylie Lauren. Freshmen upcoming artists and stylists. We did “Hippie year [at Fordham] we wanted to start a blog. We Tribe” here at Fordham, we had the opportunity never really got to it until this summer and that to do a stylist at Nylon. is when I interned. I wanted to know what was going to push me, what is going to help me get SOUL is very “People to Watch” in my ahead of the game for when I do want to apply opinion. What is the goal of SOUL? to let’s say an editorial magazine. So, we pushed We want to stick to the new faces, but our end SOUL but we were kind of lost in how goal is to hopefully, when we have new faces we wanted to create SOUL. in our editorials for the month, Actually, before our launch [professionals] to look at in September was when that and be like “we want we were like, let’s them.” Let’s say the make it a magazine, editors at Vogue were to issue-based kind of keep track of our site. It thing. Interning, and would be like we would actually being in that come out with the environment, just December issue with all trying to get ahead the new faces, but then I said that we need to Vogue would pick some, grind this out. That is how and be like ‘I want this person’ [SOUL] initially started. and they would become a star. There is a third partner to SOUL right? There is a third partner to SOUL, her name is Loli Laboureau. She actually hired me for my internship. She is an amazing photographer— she was published in Vogue Italia, and Milk Studios recently. She is very good at what she does, and Kylie and I were talking about wanting to do this [SOUL] and we both said to each other that we are not photographers. So, we were losing that aspect, and I knew [Loli] would be perfect for it. So, I introduced [SOUL] to her over lunch at the internship, and she said she loved it and that she was down. Loli just turned twenty-three years old, so we are fairly young and kind of play off of this.
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Where did the name SOUL come from? We want to focus a lot on where people get their inspirations, so kind of like the “soul” of the industry, the creative mind set. I guess that kind of bleeds into the idea of how I serve as the Editor of SOUL and especially with the writing pieces and the coverage of society and culture. I guess with SOUL, I wanted to capture things that matter--I want people to look at SOUL and be like “these people are smart, they are talking about things that matter.” Our issue this month, it was called “American Beauty” because it was a reflection of our politics here. We wanted an extremely inclusive and diverse set of editorials. So for society and culture we wanted to capture things that are relevant. I want people to take a stance and form a debate.
SOUL is very different than anything I have ever seen before. Tell me a little bit about it. Our mission is ultimately to nurture a younger generation of creatives. We want to give an Isiah is definitely someone to watch out for-inside look, behind-the-scenes, of the industry. check out SOUL: setmysoulonline.com We play off the idea that we are young and we
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Uncuff this Season: Make it a Date with your Roommate! By Katie Crist
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Are you utterly sick and tired of seeing adorable photos of couples, as they effortlessly resemble the entirety of your Pinterest board? There is hope! Yes, it is cuffing season, which means that your feed will likely be overrun by couples. Luckily, though, college has provided you with a built-in friend to experience all the best of NYC with: your roommate! As freshmen, you and your roommate(s) were, for the most part, complete strangers until move-in day in August; but living in such close proximity makes it easy to get close to a person FAST. That’s why they are the perfect
the leaves are changing. You and your roommate can bond over shared Chinese takeout or whatever you’re both in the mood for. And just think of all the photo opportunities! Another thing to do together is to visit the Brooklyn Flea and browse through all of the different vendors of vintage, antiques, and collectibles. Plus, you can eat all of the amazing food they have to offer. Along the way, you can even make a stop along at the Brooklyn Bridge. It will give you and your roommate the opportunity to learn more about the subway, so grab your Metrocards and go!
person to go on city adventures with. Even better, they will never complain about taking pictures of you, because they know that you will do the same for them! The greatest thing about living in New York City is that there will always be something to do, and that means endless date possibilities. However, there are some date ideas that are better to do with your roommate. Here are some ideas that will get you and your roommate out of the dorm and onto checking off your NYC bucket lists. One of the best things to do in the fall is to have a picnic in Central Park when
If there’s room in your budget, a great thing to do is use your student discount to go to a Broadway show. This would be so much better to do with your roommate--no first date would be able to sit through your personal rendition of the Dear Evan Hansen soundtrack, but your roommate can! With shows ranging from Kinky Boots to Wicked, it is easy to find musicals that both of you will enjoy. Another great place to go is the famous Black Tap restaurant. At any of their many locations throughout the city, you can indulge in some amazing burgers and milkshakes. This is a perfect out-
ing for you and your roommate to do together because there is no anxiety to be had about stuffing your face in front of a date. It’s just you, your roommate, and a day’s worth of calories ready to be consumed. When it gets a bit colder, a great thing to do to help work off some of those calories is to go ice skating. Obviously, Rockefeller Center is the most iconic place in New York for this; Bryant Park, however, also has a great rink, surrounded by their seasonal Winter Village. This is such a great activity to do with your roommate because there is no need to be embarrassed if you fall! Let’s face it, it’s hard to look cute on a date with your butt permanently planted on the ice. So forget cuffing season! Grab your roommate and start exploring your new temporary home. At the end of the day, you and your roommate will be closer and your Instagram page will be much better off.
774 Miles From Comfort By Sabrina Sahler
There are a lucky few in this world who can say that they have known their best friend since birth; 18 years and three months into my friendship with Grace, I can claim just that. No, she’s not technically my sister and, no, we aren’t technically related but there are things in this world thicker than blood. I am one of the lucky ones who can say that, since the day I was born, I have had a best friend. The way we read each other’s minds and light up in each other’s presence is a testimony to that. Both our moms were friends before were born and as soon as Grace and I met it was an instant friendship. Of course, kids don’t have serious qualifications for friends; at that point friendships mostly rely on if you’re willing to share a juice box. However, this friendship never faded. From adorable elementary school days to awkward middle school years and high school drama, we did it all together. During tough times, we were each other’s shoulders to cry on and, for every happy occasion, there was always a celebration. That, of course, doesn’t mean we didn’t want to kill each other sometimes. I do vaguely remember a broken Barbie crown incident in kindergarten that got pretty dicey. But truthfully, while we don’t have a perfect relationship, it’s definite and comforting to know that even when fighting, we still love each other. At college decision time, I chose Fordham and waited anxiously to see where Grace would end up, hoping it was somewhere at least on the east coast. After living five minutes away from my best friend my whole life, I wasn’t looking forward to being separated. But you can’t always get what you want. In the end, Grace committed to Indiana University… approximately 774 miles away. Obviously, I was
extremely proud and excited for her, but 12 hours is certainly a longer drive than the one-song commute I had become accustomed to. Although I knew we were going to be separated for some time, I also knew that 774 miles could not ruin an 18-yearlong friendship. After all, it never mattered if we were in the same classes, had the same friends, or even went to the same school. Grace and I didn’t need to live the exact same life because we always knew that anywhere we went we would have each other. And I was right: our friendship is as codependent and goofy as ever. What I failed to anticipate, however, is how without Grace alongside me, I needed to find new people I could talk to candidly and without any reservations. It was time to find other genuine people with whom I could connect. However, this time around, friendship wasn’t automatic. After the age of five, it requires a lot more effort to really connect with people. It isn’t realistic to know for certain who your closest lifelong friends are a month into college...and it certainly isn’t realistic to think I would immediately find someone to relate to as much as I relate to Grace. The truth is, I still haven’t figured out the “algorithm” to make the right friends in college. I still don’t know exactly who to turn to when I need to have a face to face conversation, but I’m learning. So far, my roommate has been a perfect person to go to and not only because she’s always around. I would fully recommend making priority number one bonding with your roommate. Since you see this person every day, it’s natural to know each other on a personal level. In my case, I have been so lucky to have genuine, wonderful roommate with whom I share so much
in common. For those who aren’t so close with their roommates: look for friends on your floor and in your building. These people will also always be around if you need it. In a way, it’s been almost a blessing to be so far from my best friend. Not because I don’t miss her and want to see her, but because I have the opportunity to make more friendships like ours. College is another chance to foster friendships that last and feel like family. I’m looking forward to meeting more people during this first year of college and adding new friends into my crazy “family.”
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Half a Century in Love
He had served in the military for four years and it was only because of the GI Bill that he went to college anyway. They met in class and became good friends-By Alexandra Berndt nothing more. “I was engaged to someone else when I met my Given my upbringing, it feels like I was destined to be ridicbride,” my grandfather told me. “Another girl at Montclair ulously disappointed when it comes to my expectations of State, Joan. But she was always so jealous--of everyone… I love. knew I wasn’t meant to be with her. She would ask me why First, because I was brought up just before and I was talking to other girls, like Jeanette, but we were just alongside the early developments of what would become friends. I would ask your grandmother about class.” absolute dominance of technology. You’ve heard a million Jeanette, but we were just friends. I would ask your grandmillennials and Gen Z kids complain about it before, but mother about class.” hey, there’s a reason for that. We were taught by our parents, My grandmother was dating someone else, too, Disney Channel, and--in my case--an absurd number of she said, “but no one important, I can’t even remember his romantic comedies that love is out there, and you can’t do name.” anything but live your life and hope that you recognize it When my grandfather called off his engagement, he when it comes. Then, just as we were all surpassing the age of started to hang around “his bride” more. “I would go places passing notes with “Do you like me? Yes, No, Maybe,” social I knew she would be. I don’t know if she knew it at the time, media began really gaining traction. Fast forward almost a that I was working up to that.” (She did.) “But eventually I decade and the true test of whethasked her out.” er someone wants to hook up “I would call her up for a date at different times… is a matter of how quickly We started dating, never steady.” someone watches your “He was being cool,” my grandma laughed, her snap story after postattention focused on her husband the whole time. ing it. You’ve Got Mail “I really didn’t know how she felt… Maybe she did could certainly use a [have me wrapped around her finger], but I reboot. didn’t want her to know that!” My mother’s Then, though, they graduated. love for Hallmark “Originally, I wanted to go to law Christmas movies and school. I was supposed to. But I romance novels certainly knew it wouldn’t work out--me set the scene for me as and her. I didn’t want to go to law well. We joke about how school because I wanted to be cheesy they are and I cringe at with Jeanette… I really liked her.” the dialogue, but these sweet, hap “So, I started working at py-ending-every-time movies contributState Farm. But then, with that, ed to my old-fashioned, idealistic mindset, for sure. you have to travel all over--Cali But, more than anything else, my expectafornia, Texas. Jeanette was teaching tions were set by the very real fairytale romances in at Nutley High School in New Jersey my own family. and she told me there was an opening. My parents have been married for 23 years. They I applied, I got the job.” couldn’t be more different: a fashion designer and a mechan- “But then we were apart that summer. Ed ic. Friends of theirs set them up, but they hated each other was bartending in the Poconos and I was in Europe with my when they met; they jabbed at one another, all the while flirt- sisters,” my grandma added. ing with innuendos. They hung around each other for years Ed answered, “We sent letters back and forth all before finally dating and getting married. Essentially, my summer. Being apart made her realize what I catch I was, I sister and I are the sequels to their “When Harry Met Sally” guess, because she invited me to meet her sister when she got romance. back, and after that we just…” On the other hand, my aunt and uncle have been My grandma, smiling sweetly, finished, “We clicked.” married for 10 years. My aunt’s dad deserted her family when They got married a year later, November 6, 1965. she was young and she wasn’t sure she believed in love. My When I asked why they had been together so long, Jeanette uncle was floundering in protracted, dead-end relationships. explained, “We get along together. We’ve never had any big They met through E-Harmony later in life and had a whirlfights. Maybe we disagree over what to eat for dinner, but wind romance. They struggled to have kids, but in time and we’ve always been friends, if nothing else.” with acupuncture were able to get pregnant not once, but When I asked how their families felt about their gettwice. Another story indiscernible from a Hollywood romting married considering their past relationships, my grandcom plot. father said, “They knew [Joan], but I guess they thought that My grandparents, though, have been married for 52 if I liked [Jeanette] and she made me happy, that’s all that years. I repeat: they have been married for over half a centumattered.” ry. And it wasn’t until their 50th anniversary dinner, with my And when I asked about their getting married later aunt bursting with genuine exaltation, that it even occurred than average for the time (30 and 26 respectively), my grandto me that this was out of the norm. mother answered simply, “Well I was waiting for the right Now, I realize it has been my grandparents’ relation- man… Obviously, I’ve found him.” ship that has quietly saturated my expectations of love. Upon further reflection… I’ve decided theirs is a story worth Ed and Jeanette met while attending Montclair State. getting my hopes up over.
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Four Stages of Falling Out (with your Best Friend) By Marina Sturla
Best friends are some of the most important people in our lives; they’ve supported us through our highs, shared our pain with us through the lows, and are by our side every moment in between. But what happens when there’s a falling out between the two of you? It could’ve been an ugly break-up or you may have naturally drifted apart. No matter what the circumstances, losing your bestie hurts. In order to successfully make amends or move on, it’s important to let yourself feel all of the emotions described in the following stages that come in the aftermath.
Stage 1 CONFUSION
If your falling-out was without a big fight, you might be wondering where and
Once you’ve accepted the fact that the two of you are no longer friends, you may begin when things began to go awry. It’s difficult to experience anger. It’s okay to feel angry to pinpoint exactly when you stopped being because the situation in and of itself is upbest friends; it may have been a blowout or setting. However, it’s important not to let a progressive split over time. It’s okay to your anger take over and cause you to say or feel confused about what happened! Just do something that you won’t be able to take remember—chances are the friendship was back. It’s also important to remember that ending before the fight took place and was everything happens for a reason. You may likely already damaged for some time prior find yourself avoiding your ex-bestie at all to the fight. No matter the circumstances costs—both in person and on social media. surrounding your falling out, it’s normal to It feels awkward and you’re still mad--you’re feel confused before coming to terms with not really sure what to say. Allow yourself to feel angry at your friend and at the situation. your new reality. This way, you can properly move on and creThis may be the hardate space for good energy once you’ve made est of the steps to go Stage 3 through; nostalgia is peace with everything that’s happened.
Stage 2 ANGER
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very real and powerful. It might strike ful. It might strike when you unexpectedly find your favorite picture together, drive past a spot that reminds you of your bestie or when your mom questions you, since she hasn’t seen your friend in a while. It’ll feel painful and you may begin to question if ending the friendship was the right decision. This is when you may waver between reaching out or not. You can’t deny that you miss them but you don’t know if they feel the same. However, before extending that olive branch, take a look at the last step.
Stage 4 REFLECTION
This is a very important step—especially if you’re thinking about reaching out and making amends. It’s noble that you’re will-
ing to let bygones be bygones but before you start dialing the number that still feels second-nature to you, pause and think about why you stopped being friends in the first place. Only if the damage is reparable, communicate with your friend. Next, make sure you have hashed out all of the problems so that there’s no bad energy between you two moving forward. If the friendship was toxic or the bad outweigh the good, you may be better off keeping that person at a distance. However, this doesn’t mean you’ll always have bad vibes with them! You can wish that person the best, even if it’s just in your mind; let go, and move on with your life to make room for a better friend.
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Artists To Watch
By Hannah Melly
It’s easy to keep tabs on new releases from artists like Beyoncé and Rihanna. However, while these artists have been releasing world-renowned albums, other, lesser-known artists have been coming out of the woodwork. These artists created hits that have the potential to change the direction of music. With streaming services like Spotify and Soundcloud, in 2017 releasing music is no longer the difficult part of garnering an audience’s attention. Rather, having a unique and cutting edge sound is essential to making it big in the music industry. These artists have managed to break boundaries through their music; it won’t be long until you’re hearing them on the radio and breaking the bank to buy tickets to their shows.
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Formed in 2014, With her endorsethis band has ments from Beyoncé been develop- and Kendrick Lamar, ing their unique SZA is on the road sound that to a career alongsimply cannot side today’s greatest be classified as musical icons. Her a single catego- debut album CTRL ry. With songs isn’t just another like “ILYSB,” a sappy collection of https://www.ticketfly.com/event/1478939-lany-tour-part-2-nashville/ melodic and catchy ballad, and “Bad, Bad, Bad,” a song songs about love; that details star-crossed lovers, their music is bound https://twitter.com/sza rather, it intertwines to make you catch all the feels. Their lyrics, which are a multitude of narratives about self-doubt, revenge, often about heartbreak, will have you longing for a love love, and female-empowerment. SZA’s music is so you’ve never even had. They manage to have a very honest and raw that by the end of the album you’ll eclectic sound, breaking the confines of their genre with slower, more melancholy songs like “Hericane,” feel as though you’ve known her for years. to more upbeat, lighthearted songs like “Good Girls.” For Fans Of: Kendrick Lamar, Kehlani Their self-titled debut album was released this past June They are set to embark on a world tour this year. For Fans Of: The 1975, BØRNS
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Billie Eilish
Petit Biscuit, a DJ from France, is unlike most musi- Born and raised in Los Angeles, 15-year-old Billie Eilish has practically been an overnight sensation since cians in that his music is capable of making you feel something even without lyrics. The most popular track she began her career in early 2016 with the release of her song “Ocean Eyes” on SoundCloud. Her debut of his, “Sunset Lover,” has over 222 million hits on album, Don’t Smile at Me, has a haunting yet enticing Spotify, and his latest released tracks like his song “Waterfall” seem to be on the same path to success. The tone that makes you wish it relaxing, tropical vibe of his music is different than that had more than eight songs. of any artist’s style today. Her songs notably entail very His sheer talent is apparent clever and dark songwriting in his ability to tell a story for someone so young, and through a song without any are bound to leave you mesmerized. words. For Fans Of: Lorde, Lana del For Fans Of: ODESZA, Rey Flume
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TOP 5 BOOKS TO READ WHILE YOU’RE YOUNG The Perks of Being a Wallflower I’ll Give You the Sun
By Stephen Chbosky
By Jandy Nelson
Twins Noah and Jude are used to living in perfect, quirky harmony. Noah is on his way to the art school of his dreams, while his sister Jude enjoys popularity and the attention of all the neighborhood boys. Three years later, Jude is enrolled in art school and avoiding boys at all costs, while Noah hangs with the popular crowd, ignoring Jude and his art. Now, brother and sister must learn how to fit together again, and discover the reason their family was torn apart all those years ago. By the end, it is clear that I’ll Give You the Sun is more than just a story of a feud between siblings. It is an example of the power of love, and its ability to tear the world apart and put it back together again.
Eat, Pray, Love
Aristotle and Dante Discover the Secrets of the Universe
By Elizabeth Gilbert
Elizabeth Gilbert has it all: a husband, a successful writing career, and a home to return to each night. And yet, she finds that she is not happy. After making the difficult decision to get a divorce, Elizabeth decides to actively change her life. She travels to Italy and spends four months learning how to eat without worry. For the next three months, she lives in India and works on connecting with her spirituality. Finally, she finishes out the year in Bali, figuring out how to balance all the different parts of her and how to open her heart again to the possibility of love. This memoir is honest and cathartic, and it provides the perfect solace to anyone who has ever felt like their life isn’t their own.
Jellicoe Road
Charlie enters his freshman year of high school plagued by scattered memories of a disturbing past, with nothing but the diary-like letters he writes to his “friend” to keep him going. Eventually, he meets nonconforming seniors Sam and Patrick, who introduce him to music, friendship, love, and the quiet bravery of being a wallflower on the sidelines of life. However, Charlie is a ticking time bomb, coming closer and closer each day to remembering his secret--a secret with the power to destroy the new happiness he has built. The Perks of Being a Wallflower holds nothing back in describing the struggles of high school and mental illness, and provides a sincere account of all the joys and heartbreaks a person can encounter.
By Benjamin Alire Saenz
The title may be a mouthful, but this book is short and sweet enough to leave you wanting more. It follows Aristotle Mendoza and Dante Quintana, both fifteen years old, during the heady summer of 1987, as they navigate their way through broken bones, family secrets, love, race, and sexuality. The teenagers are in the search for the key to understanding the universe and themselves. Aristotle and Dante tells the story of two boys unsure of their worth and identities, and strikes a chord with anyone who has ever worried that they just do not fit inside their own life.
By Melina Marchetta
There have always been three constants in Taylor Markham’s life: her boarding school’s annual war with two other local schools, her mentor Hannah, and the manuscript telling the story of five eerily-familiar kids that are hidden within Hannah’s house. But in her last year of high school, Taylor’s world turns upside-down. Hannah disappears along with her manuscript, and Taylor is forced to become a leader in the three schools’ battle for the territory of Jellicoe Road. Taylor must now piece together the clues of Hannah’s disappearance while also unraveling the story of those five teenagers, who may just hold the answer to why her mother abandoned her on the Jellicoe Road. This book is filled with many twists and turns, and by the end of it, the reader feels incredibly close to Taylor and her struggle to find a place where she truly belongs.
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Live! From New York By Kathryn Roberts
Have you ever wondered how to become an audience member for some of your favorite talk shows? It’s not as hard as it looks, and when you go to school in New York City, it’s even easier.
Throughout my time at Fordham, I’ve made it a priority to attend as many talk shows as I possibly could. Growing up watching Letterman, Regis and Kelly, and Fallon, I’ve always dreamed of having the chance to sit in the audience of these shows and see the whole production come together. Now, after having attended several talk shows, I can say that the experience is beyond worth it, and that everyone should attend at least one show to see how the whole process is done. Plus, you get to be on national TV and have a chance to win some great prizes. So, how can you become an audience member? For most of the talk shows in New York, tickets can be found through a site called “1iota.” The site offers a wide variety of shows going on in the New York City area, and once you select a show, you then select whatever day and time works best for you. The tickets are free, which is fabulous, but that means they tend to sell out fast. No worries, though! The shows also tell you when tickets go on sale so you’ll know when to grab them. Once you have your tickets, put on a cute outfit and practice smiling, because you might be on TV! But with so many options, it’s hard to know which show to go to first. Here’s a list of some of my favorite talk show experiences. The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon It’s Jimmy Fallon, guys. What’s not to love? When I went to the show for the first time, I somehow magically ended up in the second row, right next to the floor that Fallon would be walking and dancing on. I was beyond lucky. Not only was Jimmy himself amazing, but the energy in itself was incomparable. Guests Salma Hayek, Anthony Bourdain, and Sienna Miller had everyone laughing with the hilarious sketches and games they played with Jimmy. Plus, The Roots had everyone on their feet jamming out. I honestly thought the night couldn’t get any better, and then Jimmy high-fived me on national television.
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Late Night with Seth Meyers I grew up watching Seth on SNL, but I honestly never watched Late Night, except for the occasional viral clips I would see on YouTube. After being an audience
member on the show, I now make it an effort to watch Late Night whenever I can. Seth Meyers is an absolute genius, and so are his writers. Having been to the show twice, I was lucky enough to see great guests. First, my 2009 self was thrilled when I got to see Panic! at the Disco perform. As for the celebrities, it was crazy to see Larry David, Amy Schumer, RuPaul, and Kiefer Sutherland. Despite having such different personalities, they all conducted great, entertaining interviews with Seth Meyers. That’s when I realized just how great Seth is. He’s a guy with hysterical jokes, who still goes into the audience to answer questions which makes him a great host. All around, Late Night knows how to put on a show. Live! With Kelly and Ryan As I said earlier, I grew up watching Kelly Ripa when she starred alongside Regis Philbin, and I still watch her to this day. Not only is she fitness goals, but she is the epitome of a great TV host. Now, with Ryan Seacrest as her co-host, you really owe it to the old “American Idol” fan in you to go to the show. When I went to the show this year though, something quite unexpected happened, which supports my point that Live! is a must-see. For each show, Kelly and Ryan do a big giveaway, where a random audience member gets to take home some fantastic prize and gets their face on national television. That show the winner was me. Yes, they called number 55, and I won a $500 gift card to Bed Bath & Beyond. With that being said, if free prizes interest you, then go to Live! There is fun music, a ton of great energy from the hosts and guests, and enthusiastic audience members who will do anything to get on camera.
HARRY STYLES: LIVE ON TOUR BY AUDREY JOHNSTON
Behind a pink floral curtain, a silhouette holding a guitar appears in the spotlight. The curtain rises and the crowd goes wild. Harry Styles is standing in a red floral Gucci suit, playing his song “Ever Since New York” to a sold-out room in Radio City Music Hall. Harry
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Direction, announced his fall tour this past May. As a big fan, I got tickets the day they were released. According to Billboard, his tour sold out in seconds. Since leaving One
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Direction, Harry has accomplished a lot in little time. He wrote and recorded his
self-titled album, starred in the Christopher Nolan film Dunkirk, and sold out a world tour. At only 23, Harry is taking the world by storm. When the day finally came, my friends and I spent all day getting ready. As we walked out of Grand Central and headed downtown, we could see the crowds swarming around the red neon lights: “Radio City Music Hall.” Underneath, it read “Harry Styles Live on Tour – SOLD OUT.” Scanning my ticket as I walked inside, I was ready for the big night. The first thing I noticed when I got into the venue was the high fashion everywhere around me. People were dressed to impress. Seeing as Harry is a style icon for his custom Gucci suits and Saint Laurent Chelsea boots, the crowd was held to a high standard. My friends and I played it safe and sophisticated, wearing all black. I wore a silky long-sleeved black shirt from H&M that was cinched at the waist paired with black jeans and a long silver necklace. Besides being a total rock star and outstanding fashion icon, Harry is also an activist. One of his tour merchandise items is a t-shirt that says “Treat people with kindness” across the front. During the show, Harry gave a short speech about kindness, asking everyone in the crowd to “embrace a stranger”, and then asking everyone to “carry that kindness outside” with them. Along with promoting kindness, fans have brought pride flags to every show on tour, and Radio City was no exception. During one of his songs, Harry took the flag and ran around with it on stage as he waved it in the air. It was little gestures like those that made the show amazing. This show was one that I will remember forever. If you feel like you missed out, don’t worry: Harry will be coming back this June to Madison Square Garden to give us yet another incredible show.
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Smooth Smoothie with a
Berry Balance
out your day By Cameron Price
We all can agree that college can be rough. With midterms barely behind us and finals right around the corner, our stress levels are skyrocketing! On top of all of our schoolwork, we have to worry about eating well, getting enough sleep, and staying in shape. Some have mastered this, and I admire their strength and dedication to finding such a happy medium. For the rest of us, however, it can get pretty tricky to find ways to work a healthy lifestyle into this chaotic world we call “college.” Luckily, Fordham offers an easy and delicious way to incorporate fruits and vegetables into our diet. Urban Kitchen’s smoothie bar provides a variety of fruits, vegetables, yogurts, juices, and proteins to choose from to make your own savory blend of vitamins, minerals, and fiber. Although I have tried my best to take advantage of this perk, I have found it difficult to combine the right ingredients to satisfy both the health and taste aspects of a smoothie. So, my friends and I set out to find the perfect smoothie recipes to satisfy all of our sweet, sour, and tropical cravings!
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Banana-Blueberry Blast
This smoothie is for those of us who are seeking the perfect balance of sweet and sour. With a satisfying blend of purple goodness, this smoothie is the perfect snack for any time of day.
This smoothie is made especially for those of us with a sweet tooth (you know who you are). You can’t go wrong with this balanced blend of fruits and vegetables!
Strawberries, Blueberries, Blackberries, Greek Yogurt, and Sweetened Coconut Milk
Bananas, Blueberries, Spinach, Greek Yogurt, and Almond Milk
Pink Passion
Sometimes you just need a boost of energy, and this fruity and tangy blend of pink smoothie is exactly what you’re looking for! Peaches, Strawberries, Raspberries, Blackberries, Greek Yogurt, and Pineapple Juice
Taste of Tropics
This smoothie is exactly what you need to start your day with a little bit of sunshine! These tasty, tropical flavors blend well to brighten your day. Mango, Pineapple, Banana, Greek Yogurt, and Pineapple Juice (Substitute bananas for peaches for more swee tness!)
Green Goddess
For those of us who want a little extra green in our diet, this is your best bet! This smoothie is packed with extra vitamins, minerals, and sweetness. Avocado, Spinach, Bananas, and Almond Milk
Try these smoothies to smooth out your rough college days and homework-filled nights. With nutrition, energy, and deliciousness packed into one healthy snack, you’ll be able to conquer anything college throws at you. Enjoy!
Social Media, Style, and Society : Going Beyond the Surface By Maura Sheedy A picture is worth a thousand words. But is that enough to tell the full story? Fashion guru, marketing strategist, producer, #HalfTheStory founder, and all-around Girl Boss Larissa “Larz” May doesn’t think so. #TBT to a few years ago at Fashion Week when Larz was student at Vanderbilt University determined to work in the fashion industry. She had started her own blog, website, and Instagram account, @livinlikelarz, to document her life, show her style, and commence her career in creative consulting. Of course, as a fashion influencer, her social media posts needed to diary her incredible time covering fashion week while still an undergrad. Yet, Larz’s experience in NYC was far from amazing. She was drained from working almost all hours of the day, using Skype to call into classes, getting lost on the subway between shows in an attempt to do it all. The crafted Instagram post of her on-point outfit was the glossy cover of a novel hiding her emotions, stress, and exhaustion. This was not the first time she felt that social media did not portray her whole story. Larz was accustomed to posting as though she lived the life of perfection, even though she was internally struggling with anxiety and depression fueled by not only her frustration with her current environment while at school, but the unrealistic expectations social media sets. The truth about her struggle to keep up with posting frequently, stay on top of trends, and appear happy did not make an appearance on her feed. Larz admitted that nine out of ten people whom she met in the fashion industry continually warned her that the industry was not as glamorous as it appeared. Many of her contacts had to overcome significant struggles to get to where they were today. Considering these anecdotes and her own experience, Larz knew she had to establish a place on social media to be raw, real, and able to talk about these battles that were apparent across life, not only in just the fashion industry. #HalfTheStory was then born from this experience. On the Instagram account @halfthestory, you can find hundreds of signature black and white photo submissions with captions detailing a side of themselves that normally is not talked about on social media. Submissions include
struggles with mental illness, feelings of self hatred, times of emptiness, accounts of suicide attempts, and more. Larz calls it “social storytelling.” Larz has completely turned her focus to working on @ halfthestory rather than @livinlikelarz, shifting from a college lifestyle blogger to a young adult entrepreneur and mental health warrior. The account has also featured well-known names, like Grace VanderWaal, Jesse Eisenberg, and Alicia Stanz, accomplishments Larz deemed, “mind-blowing” and “solidifying in importance.” Her most memorable submission, however, was from a friend from Vanderbilt. That particular #HTS post was a coming out post unveiling the friend’s sexuality. It is cherished in Larz’s heart because she says, “It felt awesome that someone would announce something so big using her platform.” Larz is not only a big dreamer, but a doer of action, wise beyond her years at only 23 years old. Her passion, no bulls**t attitude, and strategic branding are elements of her success with #HalfTheStory. Fordham’s Residence Halls Association had the opportunity to host Larz for one of her first campus workshops to promote a positive social media perspective during the organization’s retreat this September. Ideally, she has hopes of continuing on-campus workshops, featuring multimedia and video content on the account, and someday creating a kind of software or tool to combat the negative side of social media. She remains grounded, continually living in the moment by setting weekly goals and enjoying each day. With more and more people sharing their stories and engaging in content each day, there is a need for a movement of this kind in society. Social media needs to be shaken up-kudos to Larz for being an igniter of change.
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Maintaining a Healthy Lifestyle
Maintaining a healthy lifestyle throughout college may seem like a difficult task when you are surrounded by free donuts one day and a barbeque another. Getting to the gym while juggling 18 credits feels impossible. If you’re fed up with your workload and can’t see how obtaining a healthy lifestyle is feasible, here are eight of the best health and fitness tips that make a healthy lifestyle in college more
1. Stay hydrated The first step to a healthy lifestyle is to drink more water! Keep a water bottle with you at all times. If you feel discouraged, buy a reusable water bottle that you love. The brand “Bando” and “Swell” have some chic ones. Additionally, spice up your water to make it feel like less of a chore to drink. Add some lemon, mint, lime, or strawberries. There are tons of free recipes on Pinterest to make drinking water more exciting. It is recommended that each person drink half of their body weight in fluid ounces throughout the day. 2. Find a workout you love Finding something you love to do, whether it be running, lifting, or something like yoga or pilates, will be beneficial to your healthy lifestyle. Once you find what you love, you will crave getting to the gym and working out. 3. Start small It’s okay to workout when you can—in between commercials, 10 minutes, 20 minutes, a half hour. Most importantly, do not compare yourself to others, whether you're at the gym or watching a workout video. Start where you are and set goals for yourself. Do not stop just because you aren't at the level to do something difficult.
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By Desiree Loyola
6. Eat every few hours To keep your metabolism going, it is important to snack. Contrary to popular belief, eating three large meals a day is not the best method for your body. You need to eat when you’re hungry. 7. Be patient Physical results take time. Once you find out what you love to do, you will be amazed by the results and transformations your body is able to attain. Working out will be the best part of your day, because you know you are becoming stronger and healthier as the days go on.
8. Be in touch with yourself Oftentimes, we overlook the emotional aspect of our healthy lifestyle. It is important to take a few minutes each day to take care of yourself! Maybe keep a journal to reflect on your day. Include a bubble bath or a 4. Find someone who motivates you It always helps to find an accountability partner to help face mask in your weekly regime. Make sure you’re push you off the couch, motivate you to workout, and watching out for your health from the inside out. even workout right next to you or on FaceTime. If you plan on working out with someone, there is a greater Nonetheless, maintaining a healthy lifestyle chance you’ll actually end up at the gym. requires effort. You cannot expect to see physical and 5. Remember that each person’s body is different mental changes in your life if you don’t put in the The same workout regime is not going to shape someone work. But in the long run, the results will be worth it! else's body the same way it does yours. It is important to experiment and find out what works for you! Check out @sarahs_day, who is an Australian YouTuber with tons of great content on how to find what works for you.
An Inside Bite:Lilia Ristorante By Alex Richard
The retired Auto-body shop standing tall at the Union Ave and N 10th Street intersect is now known as Lilia. Lilia Ristorante no longer houses broken down pick-up trucks but, rather, mouthwatering customers eagerly awaiting their personal piece of Italian paradise. These customers range from Williamsburg families to—wait for it— Action Bronson, Rose Byrne, and Bobby Cannavale!! Obviously, Lilia is doing something right. Perhaps it’s their incredible chef, Missy Robbins. Missy is one of ten female chefs in the United States to hold a Michelin Star, which, in itself, speaks volumes. However, there’s more to the story of Lilia, Missy, and everything in between. To further investigate, I turned to Sean Feeney, the second half of Lilia. Sean, who just so happens to be my cousin, is part of the financial end of Lilia. Aside from his adorable 6-year-old, “Princess Biella,” and precious six-month-old twin boys, Conor and Declan, Lilia truly is Sean’s baby. Just like any proud parent, he was more than happy to sit down and chat about Lilia, how she came to be, and how much she has accomplished. How did you come to meet and work with Missy? After Maria and I got married in 2008, we moved into a building in the west village. Missy lived in one of the three other apartments. From 2008-2011, I’d go on business dinners to Avoce, the restaurant where she was an executive chef. We didn’t really become friends until 2012, the night of Super Storm Sandy. Due to the impending storm, she closed the restaurants. I invited her to our apartment for dinner…that I cooked! We spent the entire night getting to know each other. In 2013, Missy took a year off from the restaurant business, her first time taking time off in the 20 years after graduating Georgetown University. That was the year we all became extremely close and I offered her any support she needed when she was ready to go back to work. That turned into being her business partner. Can you tell me a bit about Missy’s personality? Missy is a creative genius. She thinks of recipes the same way Jay Z thinks of raps—it just happens effortlessly! Missy is known for keeping it very simple; most of her recipes include no more than 4 ingredients. Her ability to combine and balance ingredients to get the most out of each is what sets her apart from most of her peers. Personally, Missy lives her life in the same manner she cooks, leading with her heart always. She’s one of the most thoughtful, honest and direct individuals I’ve ever met. Why Brooklyn? Why Williamsburg? We spent 9 months trying to find the perfect space in Manhattan before broadening our horizons outside of the big apple. Serendipitously we stumbled upon Williamsburg. We could not be more in love with the community we are evolving with. We both love it so much that I moved my family to Williamsburg and so did Missy. In fact, we even live in the same apartment building again! What’s next for Lilia?! Lilia has now been opened for 2 years—it seems like 20! We are so proud of all that we have accomplished and hopefully it will continue to get better everyday. Missy and I will be opening our 2nd restaurant together in the summer of 2018 as part of the Domino Sugar Factory redevelopment in South Williamsburg. Keep an eye out for it—and make sure to stop by Lilia, est some pasta, and (most importantly) tell Sean the MODE team sent you!
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