October 2023 - Fort Bend Focus Magazine - People • Places • Happenings

Early Detection Starts With Your ANNUAL MAMMOGRAM

The recommended age to start your annual mammogram is 40. Schedule yours today.

At Houston Methodist Breast Care Centers, our board-certified experts use the latest imaging technology to provide you with cutting-edge breast screenings — such as 3D mammograms — to detect even the smallest lumps and abnormalities with accuracy. We offer:

• 10+ convenient locations across Houston

• Online scheduling with readily available appointments

• Expanded hours available at most locations

• Access to medical records and test results through MyChart

We do not require a doctor’s order for your annual screening mammogram.

determined that she would not battle cancer as her relatives had. Instead, Ashley decided at 21 years young, she would be proactive and live her life to the fullest as a previvor.

Ava, Ashley, Cameron and Callie Dedmon.

EXCLAMATION POINTS!

Publisher, PATTI PARISH-KAMINSKI

Finding Fall

It took a minute and over 1,000 miles, but I finally found it – the allusive Fall season. It really does exist – just not in the Bend at the moment. Our climate seems to be a battle this year, but I’m hopeful cooler temps will prevail.

Battles and hope seem to be the theme of this month’s issue. Our cover story about Ashley Dedmon’s journey as a previvor is an amazing tribute to her faith, strength and resilience after finding out she had the BRAC2 gene. The loss and diagnosis of multiple family members led Ashley to preventive measures, and today, she is living her life to the fullest as a wife, mother, educator and advocate.

Another amazing hope-filled battle is covered in Pete’s Fort Bend Strong column on page 22. He chronicles the Needville Little League as they earned a spot in the 2023 Little League World Series. These amazing young men also earned a spot in all of Fort Bend’s hearts as they played with grace, sportsmanship and compassion. Congratulations to these young men and their coaches on a battle well fought!

If Fall does make an appearance this month in our community, we’re ready with several October events along with some great ideas to help celebrate Halloween. Make the ultimate Char-BOO-terie Board and learn what wine goes with your favorite Halloween treat. It’s all in this issue filled with Fall fun!

Poet and playwright Oscar Wilde said, “And all at once, summer collapsed into fall.” I will take that “fall,” literally.

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Ashley Dedmon : Ashley Dedmon : Previvor Previvor

After nearly a decade of increased surveillance after learning she was Breast Cancer Gene (BRCA2) positive, a leading genetic marker for breast and ovarian cancer, Ashley Dedmon determined that she would not battle cancer as her relatives had. Instead, Ashley decided at 21 years young, she would be proactive and live her life to the fullest as a previvor.

A Family History

In 2003, Ashley’s mother, Dr. Lynn Armstrong, was diagnosed with Stage IV metastatic breast cancer. The life-long educator lost her four-year battle at the young age of 52. “My mom was so dedicated to her students,” said Ashley, who proudly shared that Fort Bend ISD honored her mother’s commitment to children and their education by naming Dr. Lynn Armstrong Elementary in Missouri City in her honor. “She was the principal at Blue Ridge Elementary, and she passed away on the last day of school. She would to go to the hospital, get a blood transfusion, check out and go back to work.”

Shortly after Dr. Armstong’s battle with cancer, Ashley’s father, an athletic coordinator at Baines Middle School, was diagnosed with prostate cancer at age 53. He elected to have his prostate removed and shared with Ashley that her great grandmother also had breast cancer. “I knew my mother and grandmother had breast cancer,” said Ashley. “Now I knew that a third person on my mother’s side of the family had the disease along with my Dad’s diagnosis. I was fearful about what that meant for me. My family history showed me that people were dying.”

Genetic Testing

At only 22, Ashley reached out to her OB/GYN who recommended genetic counseling and screening for the BRCA genetic mutation. “I was graduating from college, my mother had passed, my dad was just diagnosed – I was feeling a combination of grief, excitement and uncertainty. It was overwhelming.”

Ashley’s Myriad BRCA Analysis, a simple blood test, revealed that she was BRCA2 positive. That put her on an informed path of increased surveillance.

“Patients who carry a genetic mutation that increases their risk of breast cancer begin screening at a much younger age, and they are put on a course of high risk screening every six months with both mammograms and MRI’s,” explained Sandra Templeton, MD, FACS, Medical Director of Breast Surgery at Houston Methodist Sugar Land Hospital.

Within 10 years of increased surveillance, Ashley was teaching, got

COVER STORY By Patti Parish-Kaminski

Ava, Ashley, Cameron and Callie Dedmon.

married and had her first daughter. “I was putting everyone and everything ahead of my own health just like my mom,” said Ashley. By 2016, she was empowered and ready for a new course of action with her health.

Mitigating the Risk

In the summer of 2016, Ashley began searching for doctors to perform a preventative mastectomy, and she found “the one” in Dr. Sandra Templeton. “I knew Dr. Templeton was the right doctor for me as soon as she walked in the room,” shared Ashley. “She spent 45 minutes talking with me and listening to my concerns. I’m a visual person, and she took the time to literally draw out what the mutation meant and what reconstruction would look like.”

Ashley and her husband, Cameron, did not take the decision for a mastectomy lightly. They had one daughter and had plans for more children. “I wasn’t really prepared for the mental and emotional part of my journey,” shared Ashley. “You don’t realize until you see the scars, and what was once there is no longer there. That’s when it hit. It was incredibly difficult.”

Ashley had a bilateral prophylactic mastectomy in December 2016 and reconstructive surgery the following March. She had her faith, determination

and support from her family, friends and Dr. Templeton to help her get through this difficult time, and now, she is continuing her family legacy of teaching. “I want to educate others and equip them with the tools and resources needed to make informed decision regarding their health.”

“Ashely was very astute and understood the risks and benefits for herself and her family,” said Dr. Templeton. “Ashley is not just my patient. She is a beautiful friend and not a cancer survivor. Ashley is a previvor.”

Living Life to Its Fullest: A Previvor

Dr. Templeton explained that a cancer previvor is a person who takes action to reduce or eliminate a genetic cancer detected by testing before the cancer develops or is detected in his or her body. Essentially, previvors beat cancer before it starts.

Ashley’s mission as a previvor is now her life’s work. While coaching at Baines Middle School, she married her pas-

sion for students, education and breast cancer awareness by educating female athletes about their breast health and having her team participate in Susan G Komen® walks. She also coordinated on site mammograms at the Baines campus for teachers to get screened during their conference period. And now, she works at a non-profit and is pursuing her doctorate in public health addressing disparities in genetic counseling and testing.

Ashley is also relaunching The Big Discovery, a book she authored in 2018 that has been used as a resource for nonprofits, hospitals and cancer organizations. The book serves as an educational tool to assist families navigating through a breast cancer journey with characters of color. The book is available on Amazon and through Ashley’s website: www. PL5050.com

“This is not a path I chose, but it’s a path that chose our family,” shared Ashley about her advocacy work. “I take the lessons I’ve learned from my parents to help others. We all deserve an opportunity to seek the care we need and for it to be equitable.”

Ashley Dedmon with her mom, now deceased, Dr. Lynn Armstrong.

Ashley Dedmon with breast surgeon Dr. Sandra Templeton.

Jonathan Chapman Earns the Preeminent CExP™ Designation for Exit Planning

Jonathan Chapman, CFP®, CExP™, member of The BEI Network of Exit Planning Professionals™, recently earned the designation of a BEI Certified Exit Planner (CExP™). The BEI CExP™ designation is the standard for Exit Planning certification. Through training, rigorous testing and in-depth Exit Plan Creation coursework, Chapman demonstrated that he is qualified to provide comprehensive, professionally executed Exit Planning services to the business owning community.

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“Exit Planning Professionals who successfully complete the BEI Certified Exit Planner program have come to be known as premiere Exit Planning Professionals because their in-depth knowledge and demonstrated application of The BEI Seven Step Exit Planning Process™ perfectly positions them to counsel business owners and their advisors on a wide array of business issues ranging from building value within a business to identifying exit objectives, addressing key employee incentive planning and retention issues, incorporating business continuity planning, and establishing wealth preservation,” said John Brown, Founder of Business Enterprise Institute.

The business owner community benefits from engaging an Exit Planning Professional who holds the BEI CExP™ designation by having greater confidence that the service they receive is professional in quality, adheres to ethical and industry standards of practice, and meets a level of expertise BEI deems credible and worthy of one of its certified members.

Chapman is Partner and Senior Wealth Advisor with WJ Interests. He provides wealth management and financial planning services to clients in order to help them plan for their financial future. He advises clients on many aspects of financial planning including retirement, education, estate, insurance, tax and investment planning. Chapman is active in the Fort Bend community and currently serves as President for Parks Youth Ranch and as a board member for the Fort Bend Chamber of Commerce. He lives in Sugar Land with his wife, two sons and daughter.

WJ Interests is a fee-only financial planning and investment management firm in Sugar Land. WJ assists clients in realizing their financial goals with a focus on personalized service and open communication. To learn more about WJ Interests, visit https://wjwealth.com/

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Tips to Reduce Your Risk of Breast Cancer

Studies have shown that breast cancer is due to a combination of factors and some you have no control over – age, genetics, family history. But the good news is there are risk factors that you do have control over and changing these factors can help you mitigate your risk of breast cancer.

Breast Cancer risk factors you can change include:

Weight: Women who are older and overweight are at higher risk for breast cancer, so being active and losing weight can reduce your risk.

Alcohol: Studies show that a woman’s risk for breast cancer increases with the more alcohol she drinks, so limiting alcohol intake can reduce your risk.

Smoking: Research shows that smoking is linked with a higher risk for breast cancer in younger, premenopausal women. There may also be a link between heavy second-hand smoke exposure and breast cancer risk in postmenopausal women.

Diet: Studies have shown that certain foods can help reduce your risk for breast cancer. Those foods include…

• Allium vegetables, such as garlic, onions and leeks

• Cruciferous vegetables, such as broccoli, cauliflower, cabbage and bok choy

• Green leafy vegetables, such as kale, arugula, spinach, mustard greens and chard

• Citrus fruits, such as oranges, grapefruit, lemons and limes

• Berry fruits, particularly blueberries

• Other fruits, such as peaches, apples and pears

• Fatty fish, such as salmon sardines and mackerel

• Fermented foods, such as yogurt, kimchi, miso and sauerkraut

• Beans

• Herbs and spices, such as parsley, rosemary, oregano, thyme, turmeric, curry and ginger

Studies have also shown that certain foods can increase your risk for breast cancer. Limiting these foods in your diet can help decrease your risk.

• Sugar can increase inflammation and activation of enzymes related to cancer growth and spread

• Fried foods

• Processed meats

• Refined carbohydrates, such as white bread and sugary bake goods

Developing good lifestyle habits is key to reducing your risk of breast cancer. For more information about breast cancer and reducing your risk, visit with your physician.

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Mammogram FAQS: Your Breast Cancer Screening Questions Answered

Creating A Comfortable Experience

What happens during a screening mammogram? The technologist will ask you some questions related to your health, including birth control, family history of breast cancer and any symptoms you may be experiencing. These questions are important to help make sure we’re doing the right type of mammogram. Next, you’ll be asked to stand in front of a 3D mammography machine, and the technologist will take two different X-ray views of each breast.

Sandra Templeton, M.D. Houston Methodist Breast Surgery Partners at Sugar Land

When life is busy, it’s easy to put everyone else’s needs before your own. But it’s important to make time for yourself — and your annual screening mammogram. If you’re not sure when to start getting mammograms or what to expect, we’re here to help.

Sandra Templeton, M.D., board-certified surgeon with Houston Methodist Breast Surgery Partners at Sugar Land, answered some common questions women have about getting mammograms.

Preparing For Your Mammogram

When should I start getting screening mammograms and how often? Your doctor may recommend annual mammograms starting at age 40 if you have an average risk for breast cancer. Ask your doctor about your risk for breast cancer and the screening schedule that’s right for you.

Why should I get an annual mammogram? Getting regular mammograms makes it possible to detect breast cancers when they are small and easier to treat. It’s also helpful to be able to review your mammogram history and track any changes in the breast over time.

What do I need to know about scheduling my mammogram? It may be helpful to avoid scheduling a mammogram the week before your period, when breasts may be more tender. However, it’s important to get in for a mammogram whenever it works with your schedule.

What should I wear for my exam? Life is busy, and it’s okay if you show up as you are for your mammogram. Wearing a two-piece outfit makes it easier to remove your top for your mammogram, and it’s best to avoid wearing deodorant, powders or lotions. You’ll be offered wipes to remove deodorant, if needed.

Does my insurance cover a mammogram? Most major insurance plans cover an annual screening mammogram, but it’s important to call and verify your coverage.

Are mammograms painful? Some women may find the breast compression to be uncomfortable or painful, but the experience is different for everyone. The compression takes about 10 seconds for each image, and our technologists are trained to listen to you and make the experience as comfortable as possible.

Understanding Mammogram Technology

What is a 3D mammogram? A 3D mammogram, also called tomosynthesis, is the latest, most advanced technology to detect breast cancer with the greatest accuracy. 3D technology uses a low dose of radiation, yet allows for more targeted views that help find small cancers.

What is the purpose of a screening mammogram vs. diagnostic mammogram? A screening mammogram is done when you have no symptoms of breast cancer. The purpose is to find cancers in an early stage before you can feel a lump. If an irregularity on a screening mammogram is found, you may be asked to come back for further testing. A diagnostic mammogram may be ordered after a screening mammogram shows a questionable area, if you feel a lump in your breast or have other symptoms.

Getting Your Results

Who will review my images? Board-certified breast radiologists are specially trained to interpret breast mammogram results.

How will I get my results? Once reviewed by a doctor, you can view your results in the patient portal. The lead technologist will call you to share findings and schedule further testing, if needed.

What does it mean to have dense breast tissue on a mammogram? Density refers to how much fibrous tissue is in the breast. Having high density on a mammogram makes it more difficult to see a mass. In some cases, a breast ultrasound may be ordered in addition to a mammogram for women with high breast density.

What if I get called back for a second mammogram? Getting called for a second mammogram doesn’t mean you have cancer. It means more information is needed to see what’s going on. When you come in for a diagnostic mammogram, a breast radiologist will meet with you to share the results and answer your questions.

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Called Back For Another Mammogram? Don’t Panic!

You are doing everything right. You always go for your scheduled mammograms. Then, out of nowhere, you get the call. “We found an abnormality on your mammogram. You’ll need to come back for further screening.” You start to sweat, your heart starts racing and you might even feel the need to cry. Slow down. Don’t panic. Did you know that, according to the American Cancer Society, one in 10 women (and men) get asked to come back for more tests, such as a repeat mammogram or ultrasound? This does not mean you have cancer. It just means a closer look is needed. This is a good thing. Healthcare professionals want to catch every little detail as early as possible.

So, take a breath, calm down and schedule your follow up tests. Call your doctor and see how quickly you can get more tests scheduled.

Know that there are lots of reasons that you may be called back in:

• The pictures taken at your appointment might not have been clear or didn’t show some of your breast tissue, so they need to be retaken.

• The radiologist, the doctor who reads the mammogram, may have seen something suspicious, such as calcifications or a mass (which could be a cyst or solid mass). This may be more likely for first-time mammogram patients since the radiologist does not have any past imaging for comparison.

• Dense breast tissue can make it more challenging to read mammograms. If a radiologist has difficulty reading your mammogram due to dense breasts, they may call you back to undergo further testing, such as an ultrasound or an MRI.

So, now what? What is going to happen at the next appointment? Well, most likely you will get a diagnostic mammogram – meaning more pictures will be taken so that any areas of concern can be looked at more closely. Most likely, a radiologist will be on hand to advise the technologist on the detailed images that are needed. You may also get another imaging test, such as an ultrasound of the breast, which uses sound waves to make pictures of the inside of your breast in the area of concern. In some cases, you might need a breast biopsy. Even if you need a biopsy, it doesn’t mean you have cancer. Most biopsy results are not cancer, but a biopsy is the only way to find out. There are different types of breast biopsies, some of which are done using a small, hollow needle, and some that are done through a cut in the skin. The type needed depends on things like how suspicious the area looks, how big it is, where it is in the breast, other medical problems you might have and your personal preferences.

Waiting for appointments and the results of tests can be frightening, especially if you were told the results of your first mammogram weren’t normal. You might have strong emotions, such as disbelief, anxiety, fear, anger or sadness during this time. That’s okay. Most often, breast changes are not cancer and are not life-threatening. Talking with a loved one or a counselor about your feelings may help. Talking with other women who have been called back after a mammogram may help.

If you do have breast cancer, and you’re referred to a breast specialist, use these tips to make your appointment as useful as possible. Make a list of questions to ask. Take a family member or friend with you. They can serve as an extra pair of ears, take notes, help you remember things later and give you support. You might also want to take notes. If someone uses a word you don’t know, ask them to spell it and explain it. Ask the doctors or nurses to explain anything you don’t understand.

Regular mammograms can be lifesaving. All screening tests can catch breast cancer earlier in its course of development, helping you to get the treatment you need as quickly as possible.

Dr. Steve Thomas OakBend Medical Center

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Did You Know?

Female Breast Cancer Rates are Decreasing in the United States

Highlighting key topics in cancer surveillance, this video from the National Cancer Institute (NCI) looks at trends in the United States.

Click the video below:

Rate of New Cases and Deaths per 100,000

The rate of new cases of female breast cancer was 126.9 per 100,000 women per year. The death rate was 19.6 per 100,000 women per year. These rates are age-adjusted and based on 2016–2020 cases and deaths.

Lifetime Risk of Developing Cancer

Approximately 13.0 percent of women will be diagnosed with female breast cancer at some point during their lifetime, based on 2017–2019 data.

Prevalence of This Cancer

In 2020, there were an estimated 3,886,830 women living with female breast cancer in the United States.

Source: https://seer.cancer.gov/statfacts/ html/breast.html

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Mammograms: A Crucial Pillar in Women’s Health

an indispensable tool in routine health checkups for women over the age of 40. Regular screenings, typically recommended annually or biennially, enable medical professionals to monitor changes in breast tissue over time, providing a baseline for comparison and aiding in the early detection of any abnormal developments.

Breast cancer continues to be one of the most prevalent and potentially life-threatening diseases affecting women worldwide. In this battle against breast cancer, early detection plays an indispensable role, and mammograms emerge as a vital tool in this endeavor. A mammogram is a low-dose X-ray of the breast tissue, used for both screening and diagnostic purposes. Its significance in detecting breast cancer in its initial stages cannot be overstated, making it an essential component of women’s health care.

Early detection is a cornerstone in the fight against breast cancer, and mammography is at the forefront of this effort. As breast cancer develops, it often begins as a tiny, localized mass or abnormality that might not be palpable or visible through physical examination alone. Mammograms are exceptionally adept at detecting these early anomalies, often well before they can be felt as a lump. This early detection allows for more treatment options, improved chances of successful treatment and enhanced overall survival rates.

Regular mammograms can uncover breast cancer at its most treatable stage — when it is still confined to the breast tissue and has not spread to other parts of the body. The earlier breast cancer is detected, the more conservative and less aggressive the treatment approaches can be. This not only minimizes the physical and emotional impact on the patient but also reduces the financial burden of more extensive treatments that might be necessary in later stages of the disease.

Mammography is not only beneficial for those with a higher risk of breast cancer due to family history or genetic factors; it is crucial for all women as they age. The risk of breast cancer increases with age, and mammograms become

One of the remarkable aspects of mammography is its ability to identify even small calcifications in breast tissue that might indicate the presence of cancer. These calcifications can be incredibly subtle and might not present any symptoms. However, they can be a sign of early-stage cancer, and identifying them promptly through a mammogram can lead to timely intervention and better outcomes.

Despite the unquestionable importance of mammograms, some women might be hesitant to undergo the procedure due to concerns about discomfort, radiation exposure or false positives. It’s important to acknowledge these concerns while also recognizing the significant benefits that mammography offers. In recent years, technological advancements have led to more comfortable mammogram experiences with improved techniques and equipment, reducing discomfort and anxiety.

Additionally, the risk of radiation exposure from modern mammography machines is minimal and outweighed by the potential benefits of early detection. Moreover, while false positives can cause anxiety and additional testing, they are a natural consequence of any effective screening method. Medical professionals are well-equipped to guide patients through the process, address concerns and provide necessary follow-up care to confirm or rule out any potential issues.

The importance of getting a mammogram cannot be overstated. Mammography stands as a cornerstone in the early detection of breast cancer, allowing for timely intervention and potentially life-saving treatments. Its ability to uncover abnormalities before they manifest as noticeable lumps or symptoms provides women with a valuable tool to safeguard their health. While concerns about discomfort and false positives are valid, they should not overshadow the immense benefits that regular mammograms offer. By embracing mammography as a crucial component of women’s health care, individuals take a proactive stance in their well-being, contributing to higher survival rates and improved quality of life

Dr. Steve Thomas OakBend Medical Center

The George Foundation Welcomes Chief Grants Officer Shannan Stavinoha

The George Foundation is pleased to announce Shannan Stavinoha as Chief Grants Officer. In her role, Stavinoha will lead the Foundation’s grantmaking strategy and programs in pursuit of its mission to positively impact Fort Bend County and its residents. Stavinoha will work closely with Foundation staff, Board of Trustees and local nonprofit organizations to address critical community needs through grantmaking, collaboration and capacity building.

Before joining The George Foundation, Stavinoha served five years as the Executive Director of Parks Youth Ranch and led the organization to provide emergency shelter, counseling and lifechanging services to abused and neglected youth. Her nonprofit career also includes a variety of roles with Child Advocates of Fort Bend, the Richmond State Supported Living Center and the Central Fort Bend Central Chamber.

Prior to entering the nonprofit sector, Stavinoha worked in the financial services and oil and gas industries. She is a long-time Fort Bend resident and a Lamar Consolidated High School graduate. Stavinoha earned a BBA in Management from the University of Houston-Downtown, is a Licensed Child Care Administrator (LCCA) and a Trust Based Relational Intervention (TBRI) Practitioner.

“I am excited for Shannan to join the Foundation and bring her leadership, talent and nonprofit experience to our team. Shannan has demonstrated impact throughout her career and will help lead the next chapter of the Foundation’s work in our community,” stated Roger Adamson, Chief Executive Officer.

Stavinoha and her husband, Stephen, are proud parents of Teddy, Jimmy and Evelyn, who all call Richmond home.

The George Foundation is a private charitable trust with a place-based focus on Fort Bend County, Texas. To learn more about the Foundation, visit www.thegeorgefoundation.org

George Foundation Chief Grants Officer Shannan Stavinoha.

Community Community Events Events

OCTOBER 2023

Fort Bend County Fair

Benefitting Fort Bend County Youth

September 29th thru October 8th

Fort Bend Fairgrounds

4310 Highway 36 South, Rosenberg, TX 77471

The 87th Annual Fort Bend County Fair and Rodeo kicks off September 29rd benefitting youth, promoting agriculture and supporting education, running for 10 days with activities for all ages including concerts, a carnival food and more.

www.FortBendCountyFair.com

Golf Fore Autism

Benefitting Hope For Three

Monday, October 2nd

Sweetwater Country Club

4400 Palm Royale Blvd, Sugar Land, TX 77479

Presented by Lanemark Charities, the 8th annual Golf Fore Autism helps prvodie resources and support to families with autistic loved ones. The tournament features creative contests at various holes, lunch, food, live and silent auctions, raffles, wine pull, dinner and awards ceremony.

www.hopeforthree.org/events/golf-fore-autism-23/

6th Annual OutRun Hunger

5K Family Walk and Run

Benefitting East Fort Bend Human Needs

Saturday, October 7th • 8:30 am

Harvest Green

3400 Harvest Corner Drive, Richmond, TX 77406

Sign up for a timed 5k, a family walk/run, a kids run and a huge post race party. All proceeds benefit East Fort Bend Human Needs Ministry. It will be fun-filled day for the whole family! www.humanneeds.org

Patchwork of Life

Benefitting OakBend Medical Center

Thursday, October 12th • 6 pm

Safari Texas Ranch

11627 FM 1464, Richmond, TX 77407

This event symbolizes the unity and support of community members as they come together to create a beautiful quilt. All funds raised will be allocated across multiple departments based on specific needs. For more information, contact the Development Office at 281.341.2014.

www.oakbendmedcenter.org/patchwork-of-life

I Have A Voice

Benefitting GiGi’s Playhouse

Saturday, October 14th • 6 to 11 pm

George Ranch Historical Park Arena

10215 FM 762, Richmond, TX 77469

Honoring Mark and Lee Ann Dickerson, the Boots & Bling gala will feature live music, a live and silent auction, dancing, magic and more. All proceeds will benefit purposeful programs for Down Syndrome achievements. For tickets or sponsorships, email sugarland@gigisplayhouse.org

www.Gigisplayhouse.org/sugarland/gala

The Great Pumpkin Round Up

Benefitting The George Ranch

Saturday, October 14th thru Saturday, November 25th

The George Ranch

10215 FM 762 Rd, Richmond, TX 77469

The perfect place for families and visitors of all ages to spend a fall-themed Saturday of fun taking photos, picnicking and touring the historic sites at The George Ranch. Presented by Houston Methodist Sugar Land Hospital, the Great Pumpkin Round Up is included with a purchase of a regular admission ticket to The George Ranch.

www.georgeranch.org/general-admission/

OCTOBER 2023 (Continued)

Red and Blue United Benefitting Sugar Land First Responders

Sunday, October 15th • 7 pm

The Smart Financial Centre

18111 Lexington Blvd., Sugar Land, TX 77479

An inaugural event, which includes a one-of-a-kind, interactive experience Sponsor Dinner complete with Police, SWAT, Fire and EMS equipment, followed by a concert by Texas’ own Aaron Watson. All funds raised will go toward purchasing life-saving equipment, funding educational opportunities and meeting the emergency needs of First Responder Families. For questions, email info@finestandbravestsugarland.org www.RedAndBlueUnited.com

George Ranch Frontier Days

Benefitting The George Ranch and the Fort Bend History Association

Friday, October 20th (Field Trip Friday) • 9 am to 2 pm Saturday, October 21st • 9 am to 5 pm

The George Ranch

10215 FM 762 Rd, Richmond, TX 77469

For a great day of Fall family fun on Saturday, October 21st, visit Fort Bend’s famous spread for George Ranch Frontier Days. It’s a day filled with cowboys, cannons, history and fun with cattle working demonstrations, historic house tours, battle re-enactments, games, vendors, food trucks, live music and entertainment, hands-on activities and more!

For more information about Field Trip Friday, call 281.343.0218 ext. 220.

www.georgeranch.org/programs-events/george-ranchfrontier-days/

Santa’s Exchange and Houston Methodist Sugar Land Hospital Flu Shot Toy Drive

Benefitting Families in Need in Fort Bend County

Saturday, October 21st • 3:30 pm

Houston Methodist Sugar Land Hospital

16655 Southwest Fwy., Sugar Land, TX 77479

Hosted in collaboration with Houston Methodist Sugarland, Exchange Club of Sugar Land, Fort Bend Exchange Club, Rotary Club of Sugar Land and Toys for Tots offering free flu shots to participants. Please bring a new, unwrapped toy; no stuffed animals or clothing items. To register, please call 281.274.7976. join.houstonmethodist.org/flushot-sl

By Jeffrey M. Kralik, Ph.D. www.thedrunkencyclist.com

the drunken cyclist Trick or Sweet?

By the time this goes to print, we will hopefully be out from under the heat dome that dominated our weather system for what seems like forever. The focus now shifts to Fall activities and chief among them, Halloween. I was not surprised when the fine editors here at Fort Bend Focus suggested that I write an article with a Halloween theme, specifically, pairing wines with Halloween candy.

There were three major hurdles to get over when it came to the request. The first is that I swore I would never write an article pairing wine with candy. Oh well.

Second, I really don’t like Halloween all that much. In fact, I don’t like it at all since it brings back some childhood memories that I would rather forget. No, my parents weren’t dentists, and nobody died, nor was I poisoned, abducted or hit by a car. I wish.

No, for every single Halloween when I was a child, I was required, no forced to be… a clown. Not only did I and my three siblings all have to be clowns, but my mother handmade all of our costumes. To make matters worse, I am the third child so I received the hand-medown clown-fits from my older brother (who had managed to stain or rip them in some fashion) or, when I complained too much, I would have to wear the previous year’s costume from my older sister.

Yeah. I know. You want a sure-fire way to get me a little hot under the collar? Call me a “clown.”

The third reason the pairing of wine and Halloween candy is a bit of an issue for me? The vision of some poor clown rifling through his or her unsuspecting kid’s candy bucket to pull out all of the Baby Ruth bars and then running to the wine rack to find the “perfect pairing” is, well, one of the saddest images I can conjure – other than an eight-year-old “clown” heading out to Trick-or-Treat, of course.

An assignment is an assignment, however, and without any further ado, here are my suggestions on pairing wine with Halloween candy.

First, a few general comments:

Let’s get this out of the way immediately: Both Almond Joy and Mounds bars are abhorrent and should be immediately thrown in the trash or better yet, refused at the door. They are by no means “a treat.” I would rather get a toothbrush.

There is absolutely no reason to break the bank with one exception. Reminder: you are pairing wine with candy.

The one exception is champagne. I am a firm believer that champagne or sparkling wine pairs well with just about anything.

Sweet wines and fortified wines are the obvious choices here, but being obvious is annoying. Almost as bad as being a…

Now on to some specifics:

• M&M’s, Hershey’s kisses, Kit Kats and plain chocolate bars use milk chocolate, which is quite sweet, so stay away from wines with a lot of tannin. Instead, go with a light Pinot Noir or a fruity Zinfandel. Look for Raeburn Pinot and Pedroncelli Mother Clone Zinfandel.

• Candy corn, Sugar Babies, Pixie Sticks. These are all, essentially, just pure sugar and probably should suffer the same fate as Almond Joy, but instead, grab an unoaked Chardonnay and make sure it is really cold. Look for Chalk Hill Chardonnay.

• “Fruit” candy, such as Skittles, Starburst, Sweetarts and the like, have absolutely nothing to do with fruit, but they would work best with fruity but also tart whites. Either a Sauvignon Blanc or an off-dry Riesling. The Rodney Strong Charlotte’s Home SB is fantastic and the Château Ste. Michelle Riesling is a wallet pleaser.

• “Fringe candy,” the treats that are loaded with sugar but focus on a different sensation, such as Sour Patch Kids and Hot Tamales, I would match up with an ice-cold, fruity rosé. If you can find it, treat yourself to a Les Sarrins Rosé from Provence.

• Last, for the best of all Halloween candy, Snickers, Baby Ruth or even Payday, I would break out a California Cabernet Sauvignon. My suggestion? Freakshow from Michael David. It seems to fit, doesn’t it?

So, there you have it, an article I swore I would never write, but we have to all embrace challenge and change. No, this does not mean I am considering dressing up as a clown this Halloween. I mean, come on.

It’s Cowboys, Cattle and Cannons

at the New George Ranch Frontier Days

Saturday, October 21, 2023

For a great day of Fall family fun on Saturday, October 21st, visit Fort Bend’s famous spread for the new George Ranch Frontier Days. Presenting sponsor Polly Shouse, The George Ranch and the Fort Bend History Association (FBHA) have partnered to host their largest living history event of the year.

“George Ranch Frontier Days will showcase 150 years of Texas history in a festive atmosphere that has something for everyone,” shared FBHA Executive Director Madeleine Calcote-Garcia. “It’s a day filled with cowboys, cannons, history and fun with cattle working demonstrations, historic home tours, battle re-enactments, games, vendors, food trucks, live music and entertainment, hands-on activities and more! We invite the community to come and experience all that the FBHA, The George Ranch and our many participating partners have to offer for a historic, fun-filled Saturday.”

Costumed guides will be on hand to tell tales of 150 years of Texas history, and Sky Kings Falconry will present “Native Birds of Texas” featuring the stars of their popular show, featuring Cyrene, a wise and wonderful Eurasian Eagle Owl, Pierre a precocious Cara Cara and Obie, a rambunctious Raven. The feathered friends show will be presented by wildlife conservationist and bird whisperer for over 10 years Victor Lawrence.

Other attractions include a Cowboy Fast Draw Contest, music from Grandmas’ Boyfriends Barbershop Quartet and Museum of the Pacific War weapons’ demonstrations. The Frontier Market will feature a variety of vendors perfect for holiday shopping, including: Crafts by Astrid, Daughters of the Republic of Texas, Gloria Desyns, Fort Bend County Historical Commission, Fort Bend Museum Docents, George Ranch Historical Park Gift Shop, Greenleaf Promotions, Hummers Homestead Alpacas, JDs Woodworks, Judy’s Handcrafted Creations, Author Curt Locklear, M&D Woodturning & Sawmill Services, Rocking F Woodworks, Sons of the Republic of Texas and SweetNes Honey & Beetique.

Food and beverage options in The Chow Corral include:

BLPJ BBQ, Katy Sliders, Kona Ice of Richmond, Roadside Popcorn, Rock n Cajun and Ujima Unique Cuisine.

On Friday, October 20th, schools are invited for Field Trip Friday from 9 am to 2 pm. Schools sign up by contacting Maggie Trinker at 281.343.0218 ext. 220 or mtrinker@georgeranch.org. Advance registration is required, and space is limited.

George Ranch Frontier Days will be open to the public on Saturday, October 21st at the Ranch, located at 10215 FM 762 in Richmond, from 9 am to 5 pm. Tickets are $20 for adults, $15 for children and children four and under are free. To purchase tickets or for more information, visit www.georgeranch.org/programs-events/george-ranch-frontier-days/ Presented by Polly Shouse, George Ranch Frontier Days is generously sponsored by Educational Day Sponsor Brazos Valley Schools Credit Union, Kay Danzinger, Fort Bend History Association Board of Trustees and OCuSOFT.

George Ranch Frontier Days Saturday, October 21st features 150 years of Texas history including weapons’ demonstrations by costumed guides.

There’s something for everyone at the George Ranch Frontier Days Frontier Market on Saturday, October 21st featuring period vendors along with modern day treasures.

The Great

Pumpkin Round Up: Open Saturdays October 14th through November 25th at The George Ranch

Just in time for the Fall season and fabulous photo ops, The George Ranch’s popular fall-themed event, The Great Pumpkin Round Up, presented by Houston Methodist Sugar Land Hospital, returns this October, bigger and better than ever!

For the third year, The George Ranch will showcase a fantastic Fall feature created by local designer Lucas Chavez. Chavez has spent months working with pumpkin producers in West Texas to design an autumn display exclusively for the Ranch that includes a hay wagon, training carriage, giant sugar cane vat and, of course, pumpkins galore! The design will feature more than twenty types of gourds, pumpkins and squash along with mums and fall plants.

The display will move locations this year to the circle drive in front of the 120-year-old George Ranch House. Situated along the white picket fence and up the front walk to the main door, it will offer multiple backgrounds for the perfect selfie or family photo.

A great place for families and visitors of all ages to spend a Fall-themed Saturday of fun taking photos, picnicking and touring the historic sites at The George Ranch, a day at The Great Pumpkin Round Up is something everyone can enjoy.

“The Great Pumpkin Round Up is such a treat for our visitors,” said George Ranch Site Director Adrienne Barker. “We can’t wait to see the new design Lucas Chavez creates for us this year. He has in mind a very creative Methodist vignette everyone will need to see!”

The Great Pumpkin Round Up is included with the purchase of a regular admission ticket to The George Ranch where visitors explore what life was like in Texas decades ago. Ticket proceeds also support the primary mission of student education through weekday field trip visits. The Great Pumpkin Round Up debuts Saturday, October 14th and runs through November 25th, 2023.

To learn more or to purchase tickets, visit www.georgeranch.org/programsevents/pumpkin-round-up/

Back Row: Adrienne Barker, Site Director, George Ranch Historical Park; Eliud Faz, Chief Operating Officer, Houston Methodist Sugar Land Hospital; Chris Siebenaler, Executive Vice President & CEO, Houston Methodist Sugar Land Hospital; Susan Vanderford, Director of Education, George Ranch Historical Park and Esther Schinzler, Manager, Marketing & Communications, Houston Methodist Sugar Land Hospital.

Front Row: Sally Shen, Associate Chief Nursing Officer; Kaelyn Bujnoch, Director, Strategic Partnerships; Janet Leatherwood, Chief Nursing Officer and S. Nicholas Desai, MD, Chief Quality & Medical Officer, Houston Methodist Sugar Land Hospital.

The George Ranch Historical Park is pleased to welcome Houston Methodist Sugar Land Hospital as the presenting sponsor of this year’s The Great Pumpkin Round Up.

Moral Lessons for All: David vs Goliath in Needville

Your apology is accepted if you are one of our few neighbors who was unaware 12 young boys from tiny Needville were one of only TWENTY teams worldwide to earn a spot to the 2023 Little League World Series. We finished as the FOURTH best team on earth!

Every game for Needville was David vs Goliath in the 21st Century. Our first game was against Pennsylvania’s home team with a loud, hostile crowd. We gutted out a 2-1 victory. David slew Goliath. Next up was the largest city in North Dakota: Fargo. Needville won 6-2. Again, David slew Goliath. Two days later, we beat a team from Seattle 3-1 in extra innings. David slew Goliath. Our fourth game was against a team from greater Los Angeles. Needville draws from a population of 3,089. Our opponent plays in pool of 12,227,000 people in the LA metro area. That’s one Needville versus the equivalent of THREE-THOUSAND, NINE-

HUNDRED, FIFTY-EIGHT Needvilles. One versus 3,058. We won 1-0. For the fourth time, David slew Goliath. Little Needville was the ONLY UNDEFEATED TEAM left in the American bracket. As fate would have it, we played the Los Angeles team for the Unites States championship. Their two 6’ tall, 14-year-old Goliaths were too much for us. El Segundo won 3-1.

When our Needville boys lost their dream to become the 2023 U.S. Little League Champions, their faces could not hide their disappointment. I could tell these young men felt they let down their teammates, coaches, parents and their hometown of Needville. Their emotions and faces were deja vu for me. In 1981, I was the point guard on the #1 basketball team in Texas, Clear Lake High. We romped into the regional playoffs with the best record in Texas 5A (now 6A) - 38 wins, 1 loss. We were on a 29-game win streak.

Winning team members: Needville Little Leage.

On Friday, March 13, 1981, we lost to the eventual Texas champion. We felt like total failures who let our whole world down. I remember crying that weekend on the hammock in my back yard for hours, knowing I was going to have to face fellow students and apologize to my Coach, Bill Krueger, for my failures that kept him from his first state title at Clear Lake. Coach Krueger knew exactly what me and my seven graduating senior teammates were feeling. He called us all into his office on Monday. He looked us right in our eyes and told us our pain was minor to the gifts we gave him, our parents, our fans and our community. Life is tough, full of frustration, disappointment and pain. Every one of our games allowed our fans to leave their world behind, and enjoy life in a united community. We gave our fans a day to look forward to, an extra heartbeat of excitement, an additional rapid breath of anticipation, a reason to jump up and shout for joy because of a slam dunk or blocked shot. My coach said we gave joy.

Pure joy in Williamsport – thank you, boys!

Our Needville Little League boys gave that gift to me and all of us who followed them in Pennsylvania. “Extremely proud” is too weak to express my feelings. “Extremely grateful with stronger faith” is more like it. I watched every game in the same clothes, because I didn’t want to mess with our win streak. I became a Facebook maniac because everyone in the world needed to know how special these boys are. I jumped out of my chair, screaming, when we scored the go-ahead run against Seattle in extra innings. Those joys pale in comparison to the inspiration I was given from the moral values, sportsmanship and faith our boys constantly displayed. Our boys routinely congratulated their opponents on a good play or consoled an opponent after a loss. Anyone who thinks future Americans are lazy, faithless, selfish and uncaring needs to spend time with Jakolby, Cade, Easton O., Easton B., Jayson, Jagger, Heath, Corbin, D.J., Colten, Mike or Dalyn. You won’t believe how a 14-year-old boy can make your life better.

Another David slewing Goliath next year in Needville? Only God knows.

Our Needville Little League Champions are Fort Bend Strong!

Needville’s Easton Benge helping a defeated Seattle opponent.

Needville’s Jagger McCrae congratulates his El Segundo opponent after a home run. This is the first time we were behind in PA. We lost this game.

By Alisa Murray www.alisamurray.com

Artichoke

Hey Sweet Lifers! I must say for anyone who tried to keep a garden growing during this heat wave we have had – CONGRATS! I admit I cleared the beds and prepped them for fall and perhaps even this spring. With the critters nibbling whatever they can to stay sustained in this heat, I left the celery and anything else that chose to try to survive without much help from me.

What I am hoping for is a little miracle since my artichoke and asparagus beds have been established, and once established, they are supposed to maintain themselves for many years. So far, the asparagus is doing well on her own. I am still praying for the artichoke bed!

veggie. There’s so much to do with them, and just about everything you can make tastes so good! Plus, there are many nutritional benefits in artichokes. They are antioxidant rich, along with providing fiber, minerals and vitamins. They are also high in vitamin C and a great source of folate, magnesium, phosphorus and potassium.

Medicinally, the artichoke provides a natural source for lowering cholesterol, particularly the triglycerides which are the bad guys in heart health. They help with reducing high blood pressure, and the leaves are believed to be very useful in boosting liver function. They also have a positive effect on digestion and gastronomical associated issues, such as increasing the gut microbiome.

The history of the artichoke is very interesting, and I always love when I stumble upon anything be it a flower or a food with a rich background. Artichokes have been a staple food since ancient times, and it makes sense since those folks were pagans and worshipped different gods that they would have attached some lore to naming this perfect thistle. Zeus, while visiting his brother Poseidon, saw a beautiful woman named Cynara bathing at the sea shore, and he fell slap dab in love with her. It is said he took her Mount Olympus where she missed her mother and sought frequently to escape. Zeus, being angered by her discontent, tossed her from his home and turned her into an artichoke!

Pliny the elder stated that the artichoke cured baldness, freshened the breath and of all things, promoted the conception of boys! The thistle throughout the ages apparently has been associated with encouraging love making. The Medici family brought them over to France in the 16th century before marrying Henry II. They were being grown in American colonies in the 18th century, and George and Martha Washington grew the kind I grow, the globe artichoke, at Mount Vernon.

Perhaps the best way to cook them is to marinate them in a bit of olive oil and spice, braise the hearts in butter and parsley, or my absolute favorite, to stuff them. I place pancetta and fresh shaved parmesan inside all of those bracts. In the center where the heart is located, I place a mixture of minced garlic, chopped parsley and then drizzle it with olive oil and pats of butter. Wrap them up on foil and bake for two hours at 375 degrees, and you’ll have an appetizer on your hands worthy of much praise. Our family just loves them!

I planted artichoke, because well, it’s one of my favorite things to eat, and it’s not the cheapest thing to find at the market. Technically it’s a thistle, but it gets categorized as a

Keep on growing and stay “sweet!”

Char- BOO -terie Board

Halloween is not just for kids! Build the spookiest Halloween Char-BOO-terie Board perfect for your next party or get together with an assortment of your favorite cheeses, meats, crackers, fresh fruits and nuts. And don’t forget to add some ghastly ghouls to liven up your display!

INGREDIENTS

Cheese:

• 16 oz sharp cheddar cheese

• 8 oz creamy brie cheese round

• 8 oz jalapeño pepper jack cheese

• 8 oz fresh mozzarella balls with decorative eyeballs

Meat:

• 4 oz prosciutto

• 4 oz genoa salami

Fruit:

• Blackberries

• Green grapes

• Green apple slices

• Dried apricots

Crackers:

• Everything bagel seasoned crackers

• Fig and olive crisps

Other Additions:

• Walnuts

• Pimento stuffed green olives

• Chocolate covered peanuts

• Decorations like plastic spiders, candy eyeballs, skeleton hands and a skeleton centerpiece.

Mozzarella makes the perfect “eyeballs” for a spooky Halloween spread. Place candy eyeballs on top the rounded mozzarella balls.

INSTRUCTIONS

1. Start with a large board – easy to transport if you are taking your creation to a party. Then add the largest items first, such as any bowls along with the skeleton centerpiece. Then add all the cheeses.

2. Next add the meats and fruits.

3. Finally fill in the gaps with assorted crackers, nuts and chocolate covered peanuts – even your favorite Halloween candy. Top with spooky little spiders and other fun additions. Enjoy!

Source: Eatyourselfskinny.com

Photos by Debra Maltman.

OF THE BEND

The Fort Bend Business Coalition (FBBC) was pleased to host four Fort Bend Representatives at their Legislative Panel event in August. Nearly 90 business owners and community leaders attended the panel discussion featuring Tori Macfarlan, Chief of Staff for State Representative Jacey Jetton, and State Representatives Gary Gates, Suleman Lalani, M.D. and Stan Kitzman. FBBC Steering Committee member Marvin Marcell moderated the discussion, which covered highlights of the 88th Texas Legislative session, issues affecting Fort Bend Business, keeping the border safe and lower property taxes.

For more information about the Fort Bend Business Coalition, visit www.FortBendBusinessCoalition.com.

Participating panelists in the event were Tori Macfarlan, Chief of Staff for State Representative Jacey Jetton, and State Representatives Gary Gates, Suleman Lalani, M.D. and Stan Kitzman

Howard Cohen, Jimmy Thompson and Fort Bend County Commissioner Precinct 4 Dexter McCoy

Jim Russ and Fulshear Mayor Aaron Groff

The Honorable Bob Hebert, Fort Bend County Commissioner Precinct 1 Vincent Morales and Marvin Marcell

Fulshear Council Member Phillip Wiggington and Dr. Jeff Alford

Texas House of Representatives District 28 Gary Gates and Mary Favre

Moderator Marvin Marcell and Dave Johnston

absolutely AUTO REVIEW

By Steve Kursar

2023 TOYOTA GR 86

The 2023 Toyota GR86 is the second generation of a sports car that is highly affordable, especially considering the fun it provides. This new GR86 is more powerful with a larger engine than its predecessor along with a platform that’s stiffer to allow for better handling. This is not a car for a growing family. No, this is a small car with room for no more than two people who want nothing more than to strap in and enjoy the drive.

The GR86 began as a joint development with Subaru, whose BRZ model is practically a twin of the GR86. Initially marketed as the Scion FR-S, part of a Toyota sub-brand that was discontinued, the GR86 was designed to be a pure, nofrills sports car. Built at a Subaru assembly plant in Japan, the little sports car gained a loyal following with drivers who wanted to drive fast and feel the road while shifting with a sixspeed manual transmission.

A base 2023 Toyota GR86 comes with a $28,400 MSRP price tag and a naturally aspirated 228 hp, 2.4-liter, horizontally opposed four-cylinder engine. The Toyota engineers tuned the engine so the peak torque arrives far earlier in the powerband at 3700 RPM, versus 6600 RPM on the previous generation, making for a responsive and powerful driving experience, es-

pecially when coming out of curves and onto straightaways. EPA estimated fuel economy ratings for the GR86 equipped with a manual transmission are 20 mpg in the city and 27 mpg on the highway. A GR86 with an automatic transmission gets slightly better fuel economy, but the fun factor is less.

Get behind the wheel, and you immediately realize this is a driver-focused cockpit with a horizontally configured instrument panel for a clean field of view. Display content varies based on whether drivers are in Normal, Sport, Snow or Track Mode. Sport Mode throws a red ring around the speedometer for an aggressive look. Track Mode was developed with race driver input and prominently displays an RPM-band in the center, oil and water coolant temperatures and lap timer. Drivers who want even more from their GR 86 can tap into the line of Toyota Gazoo Racing accessories to give their own vehicle an even more aggressive look and feel.

And, as an added bonus, every 2023 Toyota GR86 comes with a complimentary one-year membership to the National Auto Sport Association (NASA). GR 86 owners will enjoy a host of benefits, including one free High Performance Driving Event (HPDE) and discounted admission to NASA-sanctioned events.

By Alisa Murray www.AlisaMurray.com Nationally recognized portrait artist and award-winning columnist.

Living the Sweet Life: Eden Gardens

Hey Sweet Lifers! Well, I spent most of the tail end of my summer and into fall stomping up and down the roads all along 30A in Florida. There are so many parks and unspoiled sea lines – it’s breathtaking. A peaceful and preserved place for every creature great and small to “live a sweet life.”

Florida surprised us as we were delighted with the tall pines reminding us of our North Carolina heritage and a sea that is as beautiful as we have ever dipped into.

One special place is a garden called Eden where publisher Lois Maxson purchased the garden in 1963 for around$12,500. It is beyond breathtaking and a place where you can almost see the grounds filled with ladies sipping lemonade and children playing all around. There’s the beautiful Wesley house, and there’s the 600-year- old wedding tree, which cannot be missed as she stretches herself sprawling leaving a path for squirrels to scamper and butterflies to meander in her dappled shade.

By the time Lois Maxson found and purchased the property, it had suffered several years of disrepair. She spent a million dollars in restoration of both the gardens and the house with 163 acres of majestic oaks and installed a looking glass pond. On Christmas Eve in 1968, Miss Maxson donated all of her estate to the state of Florida.

Originally, the land was purchased by William Henry Wesley in the 1890s, and their home was the base for their lumber company from 1890 until after World War I. The property sits against the unspoiled Tucker Bayou on the southwest corner of Choctawhatchee Bay.

Brian and I spent an afternoon wandering through the gardens, and you could feel the spirits of those who had once escaped into her loving arms so long ago. We saw a raccoon walking about near Tucker Bayou. He nodded to us as if to say, “Have a wonderful day ma’am!” and went on about his business. We smelled sweet, delightful roses in the garden, and we stood under the moss-covered stately trees watching as the breeze swayed their hang.

Eden Gardens is a place where I envision myself setting up an easel and painting, dropping a pole and waiting for some supper to catch my hook, and of course, with yellow butterflies sprinting about, a place that I will write most likely many books God willing. It feels like home.

Take care of you, and stay “sweet!”

The stately Wesley House at the Eden Gardens.

The gardens are surrounded by serene water.

Eden’s 600-year-old wedding tree.