Four County Catholic August 2019

FOUR COUNTY

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Volume 31 • Number 7 • August 2019 Serving The Counties Of Middlesex • New London • Tolland • Windham, CT & Fishers Island, NY

Life is Worth Living We must remember always the wisdom of Archbishop Sheen, that no matter how difficult a passage we are going through as individuals, families, or as a Country Life is a sacred gift from God and in every way worth living. Faith will lead the way.

Bishop Michael R. Cote

Venerable Servant of God

Fulton J. Sheen

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“Monsignor Bride served four of the five Bishops of the diocese – an amazing accomplishment. Monsignor Bride was a true servant of the Church and for that I am very grateful to Almighty God.” Bishop Cote reflecting on Monsignor Thomas R. Bride’s 52-year service to the people of the Diocese.

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“One of the things I hope to do in retirement is to be able to practice a little more.”

Douglas Green, retired organist and music director of the Cathedral of Saint Patrick, sharing his plans for the future after his 43 year career at the Cathedral.

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On the Cover Life is Worth Living was not only the title of Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen’s Emmy award-winning TV show, it was also the message of hope that he imparted on millions of faithful viewers.

The July 12th approval by Pope Francis of the miraculous recovery of a stillborn baby in 2010 attributed to the Archbishop’s intercession moves him one step closer to Sainthood. Read the Full story on page 27.

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THE MOST REVEREND

MICHAEL R. COTE, D.D.

BISHOP OF NORWICH

LET FAITH LEAD THE WAY Who is Walking Who? My Dear brothers and sisters in Christ,

Pope Francis said. “It requires being quiet as well as being patient and attentive.”

Not too long ago I observed a neighbor walking his puppy Sam, a newly adopted rescue. The leash was taut as the puppy charged forward which caused me to ask, “Who is walking who?”

My neighbor and I both laughed as Sam plowed forward on his journey with his master in tow.

Quieting the mind and escaping distractions can be difficult. Saint Thérèse of Lisieux, in her autobiography, Story of a Soul, shared a simple technique, “I have many distractions, but as soon as I am aware of them, I pray for those people, the thought of whom is diverting my attention. In this way, they reap the benefit of my distractions.”

Astute advice from this “Little Flower” and Doctor of the Church.

Do you ever find yourself in a similar situation with God? Trying to lead Him, rather than allowing Him to lead you?

We are all on individual spiritual journeys walking with God. Our need for prayer is deeprooted. Sometimes, like Sam, we are eager to get moving, leading rather than following. These are times when life can be a challenge.

Prayer, talking with God, is a spiritual give-andtake, a conversation of love, a communication that involves listening as well as speaking. We know that we are in communication with God when we feel a pull toward Him, when we become attuned to His presence.

In his first general audience of 2019, Pope Francis said, “Praying is done from the heart, from inside. He does not need anything . . .

He asks only that we keep open a channel of communication with Him.” This open channel requires listening, equivalent to that of Elijah while standing in the opening of the cave on Mount Horeb. There he heard God’s voice not in the loud rushing of the wind but rather in a still, small voice. (1Kings 19:11) “Listening is not a very common occurrence,”

This ability to listen is as important in our interactions with others as it is with God. In this world of supercharged opinions and opposing viewpoints which are magnified by the speed at which information can travel, we would be wise to heed the guidance of Pope Francis.

“Listening is much more than simply hearing.

Hearing is about receiving information, while listening is about communication, and calls for closeness. Listening allows us to get things right. . .” Pope Francis went on to say, “Listening also means being able to share questions and doubts, to journey side by side.”

Listening is a true act of humility. It is a dying to self, putting another person’s interest ahead of our own. It requires silence and self-control.

It isn’t easy. It takes practice. Daily practice – that in a short time will become a habit.

Jesus said, “My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry” (James 1:19).

I encourage you to practice listening to God and then practice listening to others. Find a friend, a spouse, a child, who has a different viewpoint than you and just listen. It will be a struggle at first to not formulate a response, to not be distracted by our own need to be heard. In this way the habit will develop. Eventually what was once difficult will become easier –– with those around us and with God. The root of peace is in our ability to experience silence. Silence is a choice. Choosing silence, allows us to hear God speak. I pray that as you journey forward with God, allowing Him to lead, that you find an abiding peace.

As I finish up this column, outside my office window is Sam on another one of his walks. His leash is not quite so tight. This reminds me of the words of St. Francis of Assisi –– “It is no use walking anywhere to preach unless our walking is our preaching.” We all can take a lesson from the progress of our four-legged friend.

Good job Sam. Good job.

Sincerely Yours in Christ’s enduring love,

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THE MOST REVEREND

MICHAEL R. COTE, D.D.

BISHOP OF NORWICH

LET FAITH LEAD THE WAY

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¿Quién está caminando a quién?

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Mis queridos hermanos y hermanas en Cristo,

"Escuchar no es algo muy común", dijo El Papa Francisco "Requiere estar tranquilo, así como ser paciente y atento."

No hace mucho vi a un vecino paseando a su cachorro Sam, un perro de rescate recién adoptado. Mientras el cachorro empujaba hacia adelante su correa estaba tiesa, lo que me hizo preguntar: "¿Quién está caminando a quién?"

Mi vecino y yo nos reímos mientras Sam continuaba su camino arrastrando a su amo.

Calmar la mente y escapar de las distracciones puede ser difícil. Santa Teresa de Lisieux, en su autobiografía, Historia de un Alma, compartió una técnica sencilla: "Tengo muchas distracciones, pero tan pronto como me doy cuenta de ellas, rezo por esas personas, esos pensamientos que están desviando mi atención. De esta manera, se recompensan mis distracciones". Consejo astuto de esta "Pequeña Flor" y Doctora de la Iglesia.

¿Alguna vez se ha encontrado en una situación similar con Dios? ¿Trata usted de guiarle, en lugar de dejar que sea Él quien le guíe?

Todos estamos caminando con Dios en un viaje espiritual individual. Nuestra necesidad de oración está profundamente arraigada. A veces, como Sam, estamos ansiosos por movernos, liderando en lugar de seguir. Estos son los momentos en que la vida puede ser un desafío.

La oración, es hablar con Dios, es un dar y recibir espiritualmente, es una conversación de amor, una comunicación que implica escuchar y hablar. Sabemos que estamos en comunicación con Dios cuando sentimos un impulso hacia Él, cuando nos ponemos en sintonía con Su presencia.

El Papa Francisco, en su primera audiencia general del 2019 dijo: "La oración se hace desde el corazón, desde el interior. Dios no necesita nada . . . Sólo nos pide que mantengamos abierto un canal de comunicación con Él".

Este canal abierto requiere escuchar, es parecido a cuando Elías estaba de pie en la apertura de la cueva en el Monte Horeb. Allí oyó la voz de Dios no en las fuertes brisas del viento, sino en el susurro de una suave brisa. (1Reyes 19:11)

Esta capacidad de escuchar es tan importante en nuestras interacciones con los demás como lo es con Dios. En este mundo de opiniones exageradas y puntos de vista opuestos que se agrandan por la velocidad en que viaja la información, sería prudente escuchar la guía del Papa Francisco.

"Escuchar es mucho más que simplemente oir.

Oir es sobre recibir información, mientras que escuchar es sobre la comunicación, y requiere cercanía. Escuchar nos permite hacer las cosas bien. . ." El Papa Francisco continuó diciendo: "Escuchar también significa poder compartir preguntas y dudas, es caminar juntos".

Le animo a practicar escuchando a Dios y luego a practicar escuchando a los demás. Busque a un amigo, un cónyuge, un hijo, que tenga un punto de vista diferente al suyo y simplemente escuche. Al principio será una lucha no formular una respuesta, no distraernos por nuestra propia necesidad de ser escuchados. De esta manera se desarrollará el hábito. Con el tiempo, lo que una vez fue difícil con los que nos rodean y con Dios, será más fácil.

La raíz de la paz está en nuestra capacidad de experimentar el silencio. El silencio es una elección. Elegir el silencio, nos permite escuchar la voz de Dios. Ruego que al caminar con Dios, usted se deje guiar, para que encuentre una paz perdurable.

Fuera de la ventana de mi oficina, al terminar esta columna, veo a Sam en otro de sus paseos.

Su correa no está tan apretada. Esto me recuerda las palabras de San Francisco de Asís – "No sirve de nada caminar para predicar a menos que nuestro caminar sea nuestra predicación." Todos podemos aprender una lección del progreso de nuestro amigo de cuatro patas.

Buen trabajo Sam. Buen trabajo.

Escuchar es un verdadero acto de humildad. Es morir a sí a mismo, poniendo el interés de otra persona por delante de los nuestros. Requiere silencio y autocontrol. No es fácil. Se necesita práctica. Práctica diaria – que en poco tiempo se convierte en un hábito.

Sinceramente en el amor perdurable de Cristo,

Jesús dijo: ""Hermanos muy queridos, sean prontos para escuchar, pero lentos para hablar y enojarse," (Santiago 1:19).

Obispo de Norwich

Michael R. Cote

Deacon Michael Bovino 4th Year Theology Mount St. Mary’s Emmitsburg, MD

Mr. Normand Laflamme 3rd Year Theology Mount St. Mary’s Emmitsburg, MD

Mr. Larry Barile 3rd Year Theology Pope St. John XXIII Weston, Massachusetts

Vocations Corner

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Father Gregory Galvin, Director of Priestly Vocations

n memory and honor of Monsignor Thomas R. Bride, who went home to his heavenly reward on June 26, please offer one Hail Mary, one Our Father and one Glory Be, in thanksgiving for his dedication to the priesthood and especially for serving as former Director of Vocations for 34 years. Thank you.

Monsignor Bride was instrumental in assisting many of the men who are serving as priests in our diocese. He was my vocation director as well as a very good friend. He loved the Church and he loved Christ in the Eucharist to his very final days in this world. May his soul and the souls of all priests who have served our diocese over the years and been called home by our heavenly Father, rest in the peace of Christ.

When Christ comes in all His glory, may they all, along with all God’s children share fully in the resurrection, Amen.

We continue to see joyful developments in the vocations office. Reverend Mr. Michael Bovino was ordained a transitional deacon in May and will finish his formation this coming year at Mount St. Mary Seminary.

Mr. Jacob Ramos 2nd YearTheology Mount St. Mary’s, Emmitsburg, MD

Mr. Dharen Brochero Under Graduate, Philosophical Major Studies Mount St. Mary’s Emmitsburg, MD

Ruben Dario Garcia Sanchez will also attend Mount St. Mary Seminary in Emmitsburg, being accepted after finishing two years of English language preparation at UCONN. We expanded our program in the vocations office this year to be more pro-active by including the parents of seminarians in their sons’ journey with the diocese. This is an opportunity to help seminarians’ families have a better chance to see the brotherhood of future priests in action, and to see that as families they are not alone as their sons hear this unique call from God. This has been very successful.

We hosted a special dinner for parents with Bishop Cote earlier this spring.

This was followed by a June gathering, organized by the seminarians, which included their parents and the pastors of their summer assignments. The seminarians gathered again, for a supper to welcome Father Castiblanco’s parents, who arrived June 21 for their son’s priestly ordination on June 29.

On July 3, the Feast of St. Thomas the Apostle, I had the pleasure of being the celebrant for the daily TV Mass

produced by the Office of Radio and Television and broadcast on several stations throughout the state. The homilist for the Mass was Reverend Mr. Michael Bovino. He did a wonderful job.

In case you missed it in the June issue, we welcome Mark Johnson, who will be heading to Mount St. Mary to begin his journey as a seminarian for the diocese. Mark graduated from UCONN in May and will begin philosophy studies this fall. Please keep him in your prayers.

Thank you to all those who attend the Monthly Holy Hour with Bishop Cote. Vocations are increasing. This year, with the addition of both Ruben Sanchez and Mark Johnson, we now have 10 seminarians.

This coming year we are looking forward to the possible transitional diaconate ordinations of two men, Normand Laflamme and Larry Barile, in May 2020 and the priestly ordination of Reverend Mr. Michael Bovino in June 2020. Thanks again for all your prayers.

The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, leads the Holy Hour

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Mr. Alexander Pandolfe 2nd Year Pre-Theology Mount St. Mary’s Emmitsburg, MD

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66th ANNUAL

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Blessing of the Fleet Continuing an annual tradition, the 66th annual Blessing of the Fleet took place July 28 at the fishing docks in Stonington Borough.

The blessing remembers local fishermen who have died at sea and honors the vessels -- along with their captains, owners, crews and families -that will go out to sea in the year ahead.

Following a morning Mass at St. Mary Church, a statue of Saint Peter, the patron saint of fishermen, was paraded through Stonington Borough to the town fishing docks.

Wreaths were placed at the fishermen’s memorial monument and each boat received a blessing as well.

The procession of boats then made its way past the breakwater in Long Island Sound and a wreath in the shape of a broken anchor, commemorating the 39 members of the Stonington Fishermen Association who perished at sea while doing their jobs, was cast into the water.

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Reverend Monsignor Thomas R. Bride

February 23, 1940 – June 26, 2019 On June 26, 2019 Monsignor Bride was called from us to eternal rest with the Lord. Ordained May 4, 1967 by the Most Reverend Vincent J. Hines at the Cathedral of St. Patrick in Norwich, he faithfully served the parishioners of the Diocese in various capacities during his 52 years as a priest.

Per his explicit request, the funeral Mass was celebrated at Christ the King in Old Lyme where Monsignor had last served as pastor before his retirement in 2014.

“It is with sadness that we gather this morning for the loss of Monsignor, but it is also in hope that we gather because of the promise of resurrection by our blessed Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.”, expressed Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D. Bishop of Norwich.

In concluding his remarks, Bishop Cote, reflecting on Monsignor Bride’s service to the Church, said, “Monsignor Bride served four of the five Bishops of the diocese – an amazing accomplishment.

Whenever I would ask him to do something, whether positive or difficult, he wouldn’t hesitate. He would always say that he would do it to the best of his ability. Monsignor Bride was a true servant of the Church and for that I am very grateful to Almighty God.” Monsignor Bride was born in Middletown, Connecticut on February 23, 1940, the son of the late Mrs. Frances (Seraphin) Bride and the late Thomas R. Bride. A graduate of Middletown High School, he studied for the priesthood at St. Thomas Seminary in Bloomfield and St. Bernard Seminary in Rochester, NY. He was appointed a Prelate of Honor by Pope Saint John Paul II with the title of Monsignor on June 29, 1985, Protonotary Apostolic by Pope Saint John Paul II, December 11, 1991, installed as a Knight of the Holy Sepulchre by the late John Cardinal O’Connor in 1999 and installed as Knight Commander of the Holy Sepulchre, by the late Edward Cardinal Egan in 2004.

Positions of note include: Director of Vocations for 34 years; Vicar General for 21 Years; Pastor of Our Lady of Perpetual Help, Quaker Hill and Pastor of Christ the King Church, Old Lyme.

Monsignor Bride is survived by his sister, Faine Gauthier (William), his brother Peter Bride (Lynn), as well as his nephews and nieces, Christopher (Kathleen), Timothy, Ellen (Peter), Kate (Eric) and Thomas (Jed), grand nieces and nephews Daniel, Madeleine, Matthew, Brigid, Coleen, Therese, Kieran, numerous cousins, especially Jane Seraphin, extended family, friends, his brother priests and fellow religious.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Vocations, c/o The Chancery, 201 Broadway, Norwich, CT 06360.

Our Diocese

Forever Grateful for Your Service

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The Catholic Foundation Continues 19th Year of Giving Mary Ellen Mahoney

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he Catholic Foundation celebrated its 19th year of giving on June 20th during its Annual Awards Dinner held at the Holiday Inn, Norwich. The dinner was attended by the largest number of families, students and ministry representatives to date and tuition assistance, amounting to $117,890 was distributed to the largest number ever, a whopping 281 elementary students! In addition, another $15,805 was distributed among the four diocesan secondary schools.

A total of $117,647 in grant money was distributed to beneficiaries of the foundation’s restricted endowments and an additional $51,465 in funds was distributed among a variety of diocesan ministries that serve those in need regardless of religious affiliation, such as Catholic Charities, St. Vincent de Paul, Middletown and St. Vincent de Paul Place, Norwich.

All in all, a total of $302,807 was distributed to local Catholic school students, schools, parishes and ministries, from all four counties comprising the diocese – Middlesex, New London, Tolland and Windham.

Bishop Cote, chairman of the Catholic Foundation, distributed the monies

form of tuition assistance, or support to Catholic Charities or St. Vincent de Paul Place is such a testament to the love that our parishioners have for those in need. We are very, very thankful for our donors and hope that more people will consider establishing an endowment with the Catholic Foundation to benefit one of our Diocesan organizations.” The four new endowments added this year are The Reverend Richard Archambault Endowment, The Maria and Edward Hargus Family Endowment, The Roach Family Endowment, and The Sacred Heart Church Education Endowment.

Bishop Cote with Father Galvin and seminarians and thanked all the parents “who have made a Catholic education a priority in their family and live as Christian role models for their children every day.” Mary Ellen Mahoney, Executive Director of The Catholic Foundation, thanked the Board members who work hard to ensure that as many people as

possible are helped by the Foundation.

She also recognized the generous donors to the Foundation who were in attendance, as well as noting the Foundation’s growth in the last year, “Adding four new endowments geared towards assisting those in our communities whether it be in the

Many families expressed great gratitude for receiving help with their children’s tuition. One mom of three who shall remain anonymous said, “Every year we don’t know if we can make it through another year sending the kids to Catholic school, as much as we know it is the best thing for them.

Thanks to the Catholic Foundation, we have been able to keep our children enrolled in a school they love to attend.”

Mr. John Boland, a retiring member of the Board was honored by Bishop Cote and received a clock in appreciation

Our Diocese Bishop Cote with Mother Elaine and Sister Gabrielle and students from St. John Catholic School, Old Saybrook for his 9 years of service. When speaking about Mr. Boland, Bishop Cote remarked that he “greatly appreciated John’s devotion to the students of our Diocese. Through your commitment and hard work, you have helped many families send their children to our schools.”

The Catholic Foundation of the Diocese of Norwich is a nonprofit corporation, established to provide endowments for the Diocese of Norwich and its parishes, schools, agencies and organizations. The foundation encourages Catholics to be good stewards through gifts of assets, provides for the investment of those assets and distributes the income according to the Gospel and the wishes of the donors.

Endowments through the Foundation are a means to greater financial stability and growth for our Diocese and its entities. Since its inception, the Catholic Foundation has awarded nearly $4.5 million dollars in grant and scholarship assistance within the Diocese.

The Catholic Foundation is governed by a volunteer Board of Directors which includes Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Reverend Monsignor Leszek T.

Janik, J.C.L.,V.G., Reverend Peter Langevin, S.T.B., Ph. L., John Boland, Daniel Adams, Jean Barrasso, Anne Ogden, Mother Mary David Riquier, Tom Kasprzak, Tara Whitehead, Todd Postler and Angela V. Arnold.

Bishop Cote with retiring Catholic Foundation Board member, John Boland

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A Musical Blessing Cathedral’s Music Director Shares a Few Precious Memories

By Ryan Blessing The choir loft at the Cathedral of St. Patrick in Norwich could be called Doug Green’s second home.

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It’s where Green spent more than four decades directing the cathedral’s choir and performing music for countless Sunday Masses, holidays, weddings, funerals and other occasions.

“A lot of special Masses,” he said.

“The Educators’ Mass, the White Mass, the Red, White and Blue Mass.”

usually played the organ during the Mass as well.

His wife, Sharon, music director at Our Lady of Lourdes in Gales Ferry, retired on the same day.

After the August 15th Feast of the Assumption Mass, Green left his second home for the last time when he retired after 43 years as the cathedral’s director of music.

In cleaning out his files, Green came across some great, and funny, memories of his time as director.

In 2008, he was asked to organize a kazoo quartet and try to become part of a new world record for the number of people simultaneously playing the kazoo. Green led the group of choir members in playing “Yankee Doodle” at Dodd Stadium before a baseball game. “It was kazoo day at the stadium, and they gave out free kazoos to everyone,” he said. But the record wasn’t broken, because attendance wasn’t high enough.

An organist since his youth in Maryland, Green said he practices daily. He’s a member of the American Guild of Organists.

“One of the things I hope to do in retirement is to be able to practice a little more,” he said. He also plays piano but got started on his musical journey at eight or nine years old with accordion lessons after his mother bought the instrument from a door-to-door salesman.

“One of the things I’ve threatened to do in retirement is start the Norwich All-Accordion Band,” he said with a smile.

Green’s role as director involved juggling several duties at once. The director oversaw six choirs: The Diocesan Choir, Cathedral Choir, the Bells of St. Patrick and high 10 school, junior high and children’s

choirs.

“They’re all volunteers. They do it because they love to sing, they love the church,” he said. “They enjoy the community that’s created in a choir.”

His job also involved selecting the music for each Mass, organizing and planning performances for the choirs, leading the rehearsals and directing the performances. He

Green’s office also served as the choir’s rehearsal space, a room deep in the cathedral’s lower level. Rows of seats for the choir members are lined up in the room’s center, and there’s a baby grand piano in the front corner. It’s a spacious area with shelves of printed music, and walls filled with photos of choirs from past years, as well as historical

Our Diocese photos of the cathedral.

But Green’s place of sanctuary was two stories above, in the cathedral’s choir loft, seated at the organ.

“I’ve been very fortunate to be the organist here for all these years,” he said. “A lot of people want to play this instrument.”

Green has had two of his own works published for Lessons and Carols, the annual cathedral performance he started 40 years ago.

“I have a few things, although I’m not a composer,” he said.

The first was a choral piece, “Adam Lay Ybounden,” published about five years ago.

“We’ve used it several times here for Lessons and Carols,” he said. The other was “Veni Jesu,” a choral piece for Advent.

Green said he’ll miss planning and performing in Lessons and Carols.

“That was always a big event that involved a great deal of planning and producing,” he said. “Some of the concerts with the diocesan choir I’ll miss … I’ll miss all the kids in the various choirs and bell choirs.”

And he’ll miss the community spirit of the cathedral choir, he said.

“That’s…that’s family.”

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Grateful for the Gift of Music

Father Michael Castiblanco Celebrates First Mass

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Father Castiblanco celebrating his first Spanish Mass at Saints Peter and Paul in Norwich on June 30th.

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At the time of death, the Church confidently proclaims God has created us for eternal life.

“Through the saving death of Your Son, Jesus Christ, we rise at your word to the glory of the Resurrection.” (preface - christian death IV)

“We are very grateful to you and your orchestra for sharing your music with us.” said Bishop Michael R. Cote as he accepted a check from Maestro Toshiyuki Shimada, conductor and music director of the Eastern Connecticut Symphony Orchestra. “While I am pleased to receive this check for St. Vincent dePaul Place in Norwich, please know that the bigger blessing is your music. What it does for our people spiritually is such a great, great gift.”

The $1,362 check was the result of donations made by attendees of the ECSO Palm Sunday concert at the Cathedral of Saint Patrick.

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Educating Women Leads to Success in Business and Family Life

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nutrition program demonstrating their commitment to improving their health and the health of their families.

Mothers in Haiti, and in most developing countries, are often looked upon as pillars of the family and the community. Yet their potential and development needs are sometimes overlooked.

So, Outreach began a pilot program called Famn Avanse Kounyea (FAK), in English Advancing Women Now. The

We provided each participant some financial aid in the form of start-up capital and a short-term loan, but we recognized the key to success was education and personal development. Participants were under the direction and mentoring of Eunide Lefevre, the executive director of the International School Of Leadership Cap-Haitian, Haiti.

Each woman received training in basic business skills, opened a savings account and wrote a business plan. Through journaling and group and individual training sessions the women acquired skills and increased their confidence and self- esteem. Some proudly began to share their experiences with daughters and siblings.

t Outreach to Haiti we believe in the principle that education is the path to opportunity and the way out of poverty. For 30 years we have invested in educating school-age children and young adults. In the summer of 2016, aided by a grant from the Congregation of the Sisters of St. Joseph, we began to apply that same principle to adult women.

goal of the pilot was to enable 10 women to each initiate and sustain a small business that would allow them to support their families.

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Our Diocese access to cooking gas, telephone usage and nutritional food products made from locally grown ingredients.

A condition of the grant from the Congregation of the Sisters of St. Joseph was that the program would result in systemic change. Upon receiving our final report from the pilot, the Sisters agreed that we had clearly met that condition. They extended the grant and funded an additional 20 participants. We have begun training this new group with several of the participants from the pilot serving as peer mentors.

Rosemary Hanrahan MD, MPH, is a former in-country director for Outreach and the creative force and vision behind FAK. Here is what she had to say about its systemic impact:

loans, financial literacy seminars and business skills training, FAK offers essential resources. However, the real beauty of participating in FAK is that each woman is encouraged and supported to identify and call forth the resources within her to create the life she envisions.” Well said and well done.

To be a part of the Diocese of Norwich Outreach to Haiti, please visit our website at outreachtohaiti. org, call 860.800.3601 or write us at 815 Boswell Ave., Norwich, CT 06360. Thank you for supporting our diocesan mission in Haiti.

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Reverend Michael Castiblanco Ordained to The Priesthood

By Ryan Blessing

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n June 29 at the Cathedral of Saint Patrick, the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., ordained Father Michael Castiblanco to the priesthood Father Castiblanco is a native of Columbia, and his parents traveled from there to Norwich for the ordination.

A large gathering of congregants, fellow diocesan priests and deacons filled the cathedral to witness the ordination.

The Rite of Ordination began with the Presentation of the Elect by Reverend Gregory Galvin, the vocations director for the diocese.

Father Galvin proclaimed that the elect was found worthy of priesthood.

“Relying on the help of the Lord God and our Savior Jesus Christ, we choose Michael Castiblanco, our brother, for the Order of the Priesthood,” Bishop Cote said. All present stood and applauded to show their consent.

As the litany of supplication was sung, the elect 16 prostrated himself before the altar as all present,

through the intercession of the saints, asked for God’s grace to be upon the new priest.

Bishop Cote then laid his hands upon the head of the elect. It was through this laying on of hands that the sacrament of Holy Orders was conferred.

This was followed by the recitation of the prayer of ordination.

Father Dariusz Dudzik and Father Richard Ricard vested him in the stole and chasuble.

The new priest also shared long hugs with his parents, who presented to him the bread and wine for consecration of the Eucharist.

To conclude the rite, Bishop Cote gave Father Castiblanco a fraternal kiss, sealing the admittance into the ministry. All the priests present followed suit.

Father Castiblanco imparted his blessing on Bishop Cote and extended his blessing to members of his family.

After the ordination all were invited to a reception downstairs during which those wanting a blessing formed a line in front of the new priest.

Father Castiblanco’s first assignment as a priest is Parochial Vicar of the Cathedral of St. Patrick

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““I AM the vine, you (your name) are the branches. Whoever remains in ME (JESUS) and I in him / her, will bear much fruit, because… “without ME, you can do NOTHING!” John 15:5 4 Types of Healing: Spiritual, Emotional, Psychological and Physical

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Stafford Prayer Group Mass Wednesday, August 7, at 7pm St. Edward Parish Hall, Stafford Springs Healing Mass and Healing Service Sunday, August 11 Mass 2-3pm, Healing Service starts at 3pm.

Immaculata Retreat House, Willimantic “We are praying for a miracle!”

With prayer teams, individual prayer, anointing Masses of Healing and Hope August 12 and 26 (No Masses September because of 2 Retreats) Spiritual Renewal Center, Norwich Individual prayer and anointing Monthly Healing Mass and Healing Service Sunday, August 29 Mass 1-2pm, Healing Service starts at 2pm St. Thomas the Apostle Chapel 872 Farmington Ave., Hartford Prayer teams, individual prayer and anointing Weekly Prayer Meeting Every Tuesday at 2pm Spiritual Renewal Center, Norwich Individual prayer and anointing

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Saint John Church in Bozrah Celebrates 125th Anniversary of its Dedication

By Ryan Blessing

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aint John Mission Church celebrated the 125th anniversary of its dedication with a special Mass on Sunday, June 16.

Saint John was built in 1893 and dedicated on June 17, 1894. It is the oldest Roman Catholic Mission east of the Mississippi River. Pastoral care of Saint John Mission was entrusted to Saint Andrew Church, Colchester, in 1893 and was transferred to Sacred Heart, Norwichtown, in 1960.The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, Bishop of Norwich, celebrated Mass in the small church in the Fitchville section of Bozrah.

The Bishop related some of the history of the church's founding and early years during his homily.

After Mass, members of the church and its anniversary committee attended a brunch at the Bozrah Moose Club.

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Appointments The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, has made the following clergy and diocesan appointments in the Diocese of Norwich:

Reverend Michael S. Castiblanco, newly ordained, to Cathedral of Saint Patrick, Norwich, Parochial Vicar.

Reverend Thomas Griffin from Parochial Vicar at Saint Therese of Lisieux Parish in Putnam, Pomfret, Quinebaug and North Grosvenordale, to Parochial Vicar at St. Mary Church, Jewett City; St. Catherine of Siena Church, Preston; St. Thomas the Apostle Church, Voluntown.

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In Memoriam

Our Lady of Lourdes Parish in Gales Ferry Presents

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Dates for the 1st 3 segments are shown.

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Helen Louise Connell 1930-2019

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Helen Louise Connell entered the fullness of eternal life June 15, 2019, in New London.

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She served for over 50 years with the Council of Catholic Women on parish, diocesan, provincial and international levels.

Her Mass of Christian Burial was celebrated June 29, 2019, at St. John Church in Uncasville.

She was an active member of St. John Church for over 50 years. Mrs. Connell was district president and president of the Norwich Diocesan Council of Catholic Women (NDCCW), Hartford Province Director, Legislative Concerns Commissioner, International Affairs Co-Chair.

As a member of the NDCCW, she began the annual infant Layette Program for the donation of clothing and items for infant care, distributed by Catholic Charities of the Diocese of Norwich. Mrs. Connell worked with the national office of Catholic Relief Services for their water tank project for countries approaching drought.

Mrs. Connell was predeceased by her beloved husband of over 65 years, Thomas Connell. She is survived by her daughter and son-in-law, Suzanne and Anthony DiCioccio, Richard Connell; granddaughter, nieces and nephews; and two great-grandchildren.

Donations may be made in her name to Catholic Charities, 331Main St., Norwich, CT 06360.

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Diocesan Youth Celebrate Their Faith at Steubenville NYC

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ore than 100 young people from throughout the diocese traveled to New York July 19-21 to pray, worship and celebrate the gift of faith during the annual Steubenville NYC Youth Conference.

The theme for the weekend was “Belong,” and youth from the diocese donned special T-shirts celebrating the theme.

During the first day of the retreat, MC Chris Padgett told hilarious stories about each of us belonging to Christ, and rapper Righteous BBob Lesnefsky, shared a moving story about himself and his son that highlighted the trust of a father.

The youngsters also celebrated reconciliation, adoration and Holy Eucharist.

At the arrival Mass, His Eminence Cardinal Timothy Dolan, Archbishop of New York, thanked everyone for dedicating the weekend to coming to know Christ better. The Cardinal’s homily focused on the influence Mary, the Mother of Jesus, has on St. Mary-St. Joseph School, Willimantic

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young people today including depression, loneliness and mental illness. He stressed that as followers of Christ, we have a built-in support system as well as unconditional love to get us through the hard times that will arise in our lives. Our relationship with Jesus should be a constant source of peace in our lives, he said.

Ian M. Holland, Principal 35 Valley St, Willimantic, CT Phone: 860-423-8479 www.smsjschool.org

This year’s trip to Steubenville NYC was the best one yet. For the attendees, the weekend was filled with enthusiasm and joy toward each other and God.

us, and he encouraged our youth to embrace her as their mother and to go to her in their time of need.

Saturday’s stifling heat didn’t dampen anyone’s spirits, and youth attended sessions on dating and marriage in today’s world. The guest speakers shared practical knowledge that would help the youth understand how

important it is to make well-informed decisions. The sessions were followed by a beautiful evening of Eucharistic adoration, “where many of our young people were moved by Jesus for the first time,” said Liza Roach, our youth and young adult minister.

Sunday’s closing speaker, Joel Stepanek, addressed issues facing

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“Steubenville NYC was such a great experience because it allowed our young people to come to know Jesus in new and different ways,” said Peggy Abbott, of St. Mary Parish in Clinton.

“I can see this retreat having lasting effects on the youth I brought from our parish as well as the other youth who attended from our diocese.”

Sharon Stewart , Principal

St. John School, Old Saybrook

Mother Elaine Moorcroft, SCMC, Principal 42 Maynard Road, Old Saybrook, CT Phone: 860-388-0849 www.saintjohnschoolos.org

St. John Paul II School, Middletown Mr. Lawrence Fitzgerald, Principal 87 South Main St, Middletown, CT Phone: 860-347-2978 www.jpii.org

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Sr. Mary Patrick Mulready, SCMC, Principal

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Superintendent Letter August 2019 My Dear Friends, Our Catholic schools are preparing for a promising 2019-2020 school year. If you are still in the process of discerning school placement, I urge you to contact any of our schools for information and please visit our website NorwichDSO.org for information on all of our schools and to see what Catholic education has to offer.

We are living in a time of prevalent immorality. Jesus is the center of all we do in our Catholic schools.

Catholic and Christian parents actively want to pass along the faith to their children. We are almost considered counter-cultural, because we actively propagate the faith and keep prayer as a priority in our schools, not something that is banned. Our students understand that our faith is more than just attending Mass on weekends.

They are in an environment where the faith, morality, and virtues are the threads which weave through all areas of curricula. Catholic schools teach and live the Gospel words of Our Savior daily. It is

Academy of the Holy Family, Baltic Mother Mary David, SCMC, Principal 54 West Main St, Baltic, CT Phone: 860-822-9272 www.ahfbaltic.org

a very rewarding ministry and if you are interested in exploring the possibility of enrollment in our schools, it is never too late, and you will always be welcomed in a truly inviting and safe atmosphere.

I would like to invite you to one of our special Pontifical Masses, the 24th Annual Educators Mass.

Bishop Michael R. Cote, D.D., will celebrate this wonderful Mass at the Cathedral of St. Patrick, at 8:45am on Sunday, September 8. People of all faith are welcome and are invited to a reception immediately after the Mass in the cathedral auditorium.

Prayers will be offered for an end to school violence throughout our nation, for the protection and guidance of educators and support staff, for students, and their families.

As always, I sincerely thank you for your continued support for Catholic education in our diocese.

God Bless!

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Academy of the Holy Family, Baltic Mother Mary David, SCMC, Principal 54 West Main St, Baltic, CT Phone: 860-822-9272 www.ahfbaltic.org

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his year’s ACA theme, Hand in Hand with all God’s Children, is lived every day in our Catholic schools. Our students model helping one another on a daily basis.

We can thank Catholic school teachers and administrators who work very hard every day, teaching students to be kind, loving and compassionate individuals.

They teach the importance of loving thy neighbor, offering a friendly smile, and being a loyal friend. Teachers encourage students to pray and talk with God, when they are having both a good day and a bad day. Teachers explain to students that they are all God’s Children and how much He loves each one of them, and that He is always present in their lives.

Religion classes are a fundamental part of the daily curriculum at a Catholic school. Many religion classes center on age appropriate stories from the Bible.

They discuss how much Jesus loved us and why He gave up His life for us and rose from the dead.

Religion classes also teach the true value and importance of volunteerism and service. Catholic schools often participate in many community outreach programs. Donating their time at soup kitchens, collecting various items for food, toy and clothing drives.

It is impressed upon the students that just a small contribution of time can make a big difference in another person’s life.

They understand that if each student contributes one canned good to a Thanksgiving food drive, all those donations together will help several families in their community. They know that by donating one toy during the Christmas season will truly brighten Christmas for another child who may not otherwise receive anything. Our students are aware that no contribution or donation is too small. Because of the important work our Catholic schools do every day, our students truly believe much can be accomplished if we work Hand in Hand with All God’s Children.

Thank you to all who have currently donated to the Annual Catholic Appeal. As of July, we received $2,290,906 which is 81.82 percent of our overall goal, with 20 percent of our parishioners donating. We are hoping to have nearly 100 percent of our parishioners donate this year, to help our ministries continue do the work of Christ. If you haven’t given to this year’s ACA, there is still time. Just as our students discovered, if everyone were to make even a small contribution, together we would reach our goal. All donations are very much appreciated.

To watch the ACA video and make a donation, please visit norwichdiocesedevelopment.org or call the Development Office at 860886-1928. The office can also assist you with matching gifts.

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September 7

Blue Mass Steak Dinner Fundraiser

East Great Plain Fire Department, Norwich. 5:30-7:30pm. Steak, Baked Potato, Salad, Soda & Water. $20 Adults $10 Children 12 and under free

September 21-23

Retrouvaille Weekend

Has your marriage become troubled, are you separated or divorced but want to try again? The Retrouvaille program can help by providing tools to communicate, resolve conflicts & re-discover why you fell in love. A series of 6 post sessions follow the weekend. For more information call confidentially 800-470-2230, or go to helpourmarriage.com.

September 19

Support Group for Divorced or Separated Catholics

Catholic Family Services is sponsoring a support group from 7-8:30pm at St. John the Evangelist Parish Hall, Uncasville. To register, or for more information, call 860-848-2237, ext. 306.

Feast of the Assumption

The Maria Assunta Society from Saint Michael’s Church, Pawcatuck invites all to join in its 99th celebration of the Feast of the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary on Sunday, August 18, 2019. Celebration will begin with the rosary and candlelight procession at Saint Michael’s Church on Friday, August 16 at 7pm. Refreshments will be served immediately following. On Sunday, August 18, Mass will be celebrated at 10:30am at Saint Mary’s Church, Stonington. Following mass there will be a traditional procession starting at 12:15 at Saint Michaels Church, Pawcatuck, with the statue of the Blessed Virgin Mary carried through the streets. Upon return to Saint Michaels, refreshments will be served.

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September 8, 2019 Sponsorships Available

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Check in 11am Lunch 12pm Shotgun Start 1pm Dinner and Reception 6pm Golf Tournament Price - $150 (Includes Lunch & Dinner)

Additional Activities Putting Contest Winner gets a foursome at Wintonbury Hills Hole-in-One 50/50 Hit the Green Closest to the Pin Longest Drive Men & Women

Dinner Only $50

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LEARN. GROW. DISCOVER. Saint Bernard School

St. Joseph School New London, CT “A Place Where We Discover Each Other in God’s Love” Celebrating 81 Years of Excellence In Catholic Education Grades K-8

You have many choices of where to educate your child. That’s why we would like to invite you to visit our school where you can learn about our academic programs, athletics, campus life, and see why Saint Bernard School is a place for your child to learn, grow, and discover!

We are accepting applications for the 2020–21 school year.

Ask us about our Tailored Tuition Program to help meet your family’s unique financial situation.

Attend our OPEN HOUSE on October 19th.

Register at www.saintbernardschool.org or call us today at 860-848-1271.

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St. Joseph School 25 Squire St New London, CT 06320 Phone: 860-442-1720

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s family prayer a part of your family’s life?

I have vivid memories as a child kneeling beside my family as we prayed the Rosary. I would look out the window and see neighborhood children playing in their yards and I longed to be with them. Instead, I was cooped up inside participating in something that I saw as little more than a burdensome chore.

When I was 11 years old, my mother died and family life as we knew it changed drastically. So many activities that we once did as a family were gone, the family rosary among them. It’s funny the things you miss when they are no longer there to take for granted.

I have reflected often on those days of family prayer, of Bible stories shared and blessings offered at bedtime. They

taught me a valuable life lesson – the discipline of trusting in God’s love for me. After my mother died, it was prayer that got me through the difficult and uncertain days of adolescence and beyond – prayer that was cultivated and nurtured in our family home.

Pope Francis wrote, “It is in the family that we first learn how to pray…. This is important. There we come to know God, to grow into men and women of faith, and to see ourselves as members of God’s greater family—the Church.

In the family we learn how to love, to forgive, to be generous and open, not closed and selfish. We learn to move beyond our own needs, to encounter others and share our lives with them.

That is why it is so important to pray as a family! So important!”

Pope Francis’ vision for family life is

God’s vision. Unfortunately, in today’s culture, most people are living their lives according to the world’s way rather than God’s way. An article I read recently stated, “Families are far more likely to watch television together than they are to pray together.” The only way to change that trend is to begin with changes in our own family.

If you are not a family that regularly prays together, consider beginning to do so tonight. Start with baby steps like saying a simple prayer together at mealtime. When our children were younger our family prayed before each meal, “God is great, God is good, and we thank God for our food.” Then each of us went around the table and said one thing we were thankful for that day, a practice we have continued to this day. Each time we got in the car

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Sparks

to embark on a family trip we would say three Hail Mary’s to Our Lady Queen of the Highway. It was simple and quick, but it set a deeper example to our children of placing our trust in God. Family prayer doesn’t have to be burdensome or difficult. There are as many and different ways to pray as there are people and there is no right or wrong way to do it. The key is to intentionally take time as a family each day to connect and invite the Lord to join you. Your home is a sacred space where the Lord is always present. He is there waiting for you to invite Him into your lives. Give Him a chance.

You will be surprised by the difference He can make in the life of your family.

I know I was.

Our Youth

By Mary-Jo McLaughlin

Family Prayer Teaches Valuable Life Lessons

For more info to help your family with their faith journey visit NorwichDiocese.org/FaithSparks

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12th Annual Catholic Charities GOLF atTOURNAMENT Fox Hopyard Golf Club, East Haddam, CT

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Our Faith

Venerable Archbishop Fulton Sheen Soon to be Blessed From the FCC News Desk

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rchbishop Fulton Sheen, a beloved American television catechist during the 1950s and 60s, has moved closer to becoming a saint.

On July 12, Pope Francis approved a miracle attributed to the Archbishop, making his beatification possible. The Vatican Congregation for the Causes of Saints promulgated the decree approving Sheen’s miracle on July 6.

According to the Catholic News Agency, the miracle involves the unexplained recovery of James Fulton Engstrom, born apparently stillborn in September 2010 to Bonnie and Travis Engstrom of the Peoriaarea town of Goodfield. He showed no signs of life as medical professionals tried to revive him.

The child’s mother and father prayed to Archbishop Sheen to heal their son.

A seven-member panel of medical experts advising the Vatican Congregation for the Causes of Saints gave unanimous approval of the miracle attributed to the famous television personality and evangelist in March 2014.

Sheen’s Emmy-award winning television show “Life is Worth Living” reached an audience of millions.

James Fulton Engstrom with his mother Bonnie

He was ordained a priest of the Diocese of Peoria, Illinois at age 24, and was appointed auxiliary bishop of New York in 1951, where he remained until his appointment as Bishop of Rochester, New York in 1966. He retired in 1969 and moved back to New York City until his death in 1979.

The Peoria diocese opened the cause for Sheen’s canonization in 2002. In 2012, Benedict XVI recognized the heroic virtues of the archbishop. No date has been given for Sheen’s beatification.

Another recognized miracle attributed to Sheen would lead to his canonization as a saint.

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Lay Carmelites Reflect on Silence, Prayer and the Psalms at Annual Retreat

By Suzanne Henderson

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he 2019 Annual Lay Carmelite Retreat was held at Enders Island in June. Forty-five retreatants from communities throughout Connecticut and New York enjoyed four conferences on the Psalms presented by Father Francis Amodio, Provincial Delegate for the Province of St. Elias in Middletown, New York.

“Jesus prayed the Psalms, and as a Church we pray the Psalms as we pray the Liturgy of the Hours. This is the prayer of the Church. The Psalms are written by and for the people of God,” stated Father Francis. As Carmelites,

we are called to meditate on the law of the Lord, which is the Word of God, as outlined in the Rule of St. Albert, chapter 10: "...meditating day and night on the law of The Lord and being vigilant in prayer, unless otherwise lawfully occupied."

This year, we were able to experience God at Ender’s Island, with its beautiful view of the water, coupled with the quiet, and its serene beauty.

Attendees were called to reflect and recollect on the experience of silence.

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ARE YOU BEING CALLED TO A MORE CONTEMPLATIVE LIFE OF PRAYER?

Consider Becoming a Lay Carmelite Who are Lay Carmelites?

A Lay Carmelite must be a Catholic 18 or older fully participating in the sacramental life of the Church. They are called to live more deeply their baptismal promises. The Lay Carmelite follows the mission of Carmel - which is also the mission of the Church to transform the secular world according to the teachings of Jesus Christ. This is accomplished through the Carmelite charism and dedication to prayer, community and service. Most importantly, being a Lay Carmelite is not just a devotion added to life; it is a way of life—a vocation!

Where Can I Find a Lay Carmelite Community Near me?

Mary, Mother of the Redeemer, Groton 69 Groton Long Point Road Meets: 3rd Sat, 10 am-12 pm

Holy Face of Jesus, Middletown St. Francis of Assisi, 10 Elm Street Meets: 4th Sun., 1-3:30 pm

Immaculate Heart, Wethersfield

St. Therese, Waterbury Immaculate Conception Basilica, West Main St. Meets: 3rd Tues.

Mystical Rose, Shelton St. Lawrence Church Parish Center, 505 Shelton Ave. Meets: 2nd Thurs., 6:30-9 pm

St. Joseph, Danbury 8 Robinson Avenue Meets: 1st Sat., 10:30 am

Sacred Heart Church, 56 Hartford Ave. Meets: 4th Wed., 6-9 pm

For further information, please contact: Suzanne Henderson, Regional Coordinator | tocregion2@carmelites.com.

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Lay Carmelite Profess to the Order“Our of theRetreat on Enders Island was truly inspired by the Holy servance of Carmelites

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Spirit and was amazing,” stated Karen Szalkiewicz, “Being with our Carmelite brothers and sisters is only an experience that can be felt from your head to the heart.”

Carmel Brown, expressed that “there is no better place on earth than Enders Island to appreciate the marvel of God’s beauty, to restore our faith in God, and to realize why we became Carmelites.” Maria Paterno described the retreat “as gorgeous and peaceful.

Seeing the beauty and vastness of the

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ocean makes you appreciate all that God has created for us. Being together in community with our Carmelite family was truly a blessing.”

Along with Father Francis, the group was blessed to have another Carmelite Friar at the retreat, Father Nicholas Blackwell, who delivered homilies for the Saturday and Sunday masses.

The Lay Carmelites are part of the Third Order branch of the Carmelite Order. Lay Carmelites promise to live the Gospel in the contemplative spirit of Carmel including the practice of prayer in all its forms, the Divine Office and Lectio Divina, as well as the other elements of the order’s charism—fraternal community and service. There are communities in Connecticut: Groton, Middletown, Wethersfield, Waterbury, Shelton, and Danbury. New members are always welcome.

We are looking forward to our 2020 Retreat, which will be held on Enders Island on June 12-14. For further information, please contact Suzanne Henderson, Regional Coordinator, at tocregion2@carmelites.com.

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Andrea Hoisl

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saw this prayer while visiting the Basilica of the National Shrine of the Immaculate Conception in Washington, DC. The prayer directly spoke to me because it addressed healing for everyone in the Church – the victims, those who love them and everyone who is “broken” from these unfortunate events. It became crystal clear to me that all of us who are faithful believers are also “broken.” We need wisdom and grace from God to heal and become whole again. For it is only in our healing that we can see the future and help move our Church forward. I can think of no better way for all of us to help others heal than to put the beautiful legacy of love, given to us by Jesus, into action.

Acting with humility, wisdom, grace and justice we can overcome any evil we face in our world.

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A Prayer for Healing

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