Four County Catholic January 2019

FOUR COUNTY

diocese of Norwich

CATHOLIC

Rejoicing in the good of others

VOLUME 31 • NUMBER 1 • January 2019 Serving The Counties Of Middlesex, New London, Tolland, Windham, CT & Fishers Island, NY norwichdiocesE.org

Trust in the LORD

with all Your Heart

Hundreds Venerate the Incorrupt Heart of Saint Jean Vianney at Monthly Holy Hour for Vocations December 13 at Our Lady of Lourdes Church in Gales Ferry

Proverbs 3:5

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“You are a woman of faith whose religious commitment is evidenced in your love for the church and your tireless perseverance in carrying out your responsibilities . . . You have given yourself wholeheartedly to your labors in the Lord’s vineyard and you inspire all who know and serve with you.”

Bishop Michael R. Cote’s remarks prior to presenting the Patrici-Anne Award to Sr. Elissa Rinere, first female Chancellor of the Diocese, for her distinguished service

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“There is nothing so great as the Eucharist. If God had something more precious, he would have given it to us.”

One of several Saint John Vianney quotes read by the Knights of Columbus to the many pilgrims at the Monthly Holy Hour for Vocations

“All they have are blackboards, but they are eager to learn,” Noel Ramos, teacher and member of a delegation of parishioners whose parish and school in Renton Washington is twinned with a Ste. Anne de Hyacynthe Parish in Haiti.

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Hundreds Pray and Venerate the Incorrupt Heart of Saint Jean Vianney at Monthly Holy Hour for Vocations December 13 at Our Lady of Lourdes Church in Gales Ferry

Proverbs 3:5

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THE MOST REVEREND

MICHAEL R. COTE, D.D.

BISHOP OF NORWICH

LET FAITH LEAD THE WAY

Confident in Our Faith “Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me.” Psalm 51:12

Last month at Our Lady of Lourdes Parish in Gales Ferry, we, as a diocese, had the distinct honor of hosting the Incorrupt Heart of Saint John Vianney, the patron saint of priests working in parishes. There were hundreds in attendance for viewing and veneration, as part of our Monthly Holy Hour for Vocations. As I watched many of you kneeling at the reliquary that holds the relic of this Saint, I felt humbled by your presence. We are entering a new year of exceptional challenge, significance and milestones as a community of faith. Your presence at the Holy Hour demonstrates how strong our faith is in the Diocese of Norwich.

We are living in a troubled world. Saint John Vianney lived during a troubled time in history, the French Revolution. We can learn from the example set by this humble priest. The solution is not to concede to injustice, immorality, excess and disrespect for life. The solution is to be in communion with God through prayer and living our faith not simply professing it.

Traditionally, this is the time of year for making resolutions. For many, the dawn of a new year brings about thoughts of new beginnings, a fresh start, an opportunity to reach personal goals.

We know that there is merit in improving both

physically and mentally, after all Saint Paul tells us “our body is a temple of the Holy Spirit” (1 Corinthians 6:19). One aspect of our wellbeing that should not be overlooked is our spiritual nature.

A few years ago, when speaking with Vatican employees and their families, Pope Francis shared this thought, “Take care of your spiritual life, your relationship with God, because this is the backbone of everything we do and everything we are . . . Take care of your family life, giving your children and loved ones not just money, but most of all your time, attention and love.” Meditating on these two directives will lead to tangible acts.

Saint John Vianney’s words can help us to create resolutions that will deeply impact our lives both here on earth and eternally with God. He said, “Do not try to please everybody. Try to please God, the angels, and the saints—they are your public.” How many times do we find ourselves acting in a way to seek the approval of others?

I recently read that 23% of everyone who makes a resolution sees it through to completion. Why do the other 77% fail at their attempt at a better life? According to experts in these matters, people have trouble persevering with their resolutions because they aren’t specific enough and are too far reaching. For instance, rather than resolving to read the Bible from cover to

cover, instead, vow to read the daily readings and perhaps a short commentary.

As Catholics we are not unfamiliar with the concept of resolutions. When we participate in the Sacrament of Reconciliation, with our whole heart and in complete faith and openness, we are making a fresh start, reconciling ourselves to God and to the Church. There is perhaps no better New Year resolution than the one the psalmist wrote, “Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me.”

(Psalm 51:10)

Be confident in your faith. Be confident this New Year, that as the days grow longer and your faith grows stronger, the words of Saint John Vianney will become true for each and everyone of us- “It is always springtime in the heart that loves God”.

Sincerely yours in Christ,

Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D.

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My Dear Brothers and Sisters in Christ,

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THE MOST REVEREND

MICHAEL R. COTE, D.D.

BISHOP OF NORWICH

LET FAITH LEAD THE WAY

Confiados en Nuestra Fe

“Oh Dios, crea en mí un corazón puro, implanta en mis entrañas un espíritu nuevo” Salmo 51:12

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Queridos hermanos y hermanas en Cristo,

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Nuestra Diócesis, el mes pasado, tuvo el gran honor de presentar en la parroquia Our Lady of Loudes en Gales Ferry, el Corazón Incorrupto de San Juan Bautista María Vianney, el Cura de Ars, patrono de los párrocos. Hubo cientos de asistentes que vieron y veneraron la reliquia, como parte de nuestra Hora Santa Mensual por las Vocaciones. Me sentí humilde ante la presencia de todos, mientras observaba a muchos de ustedes que estaban de rodillas venerando el relicario que contiene la reliquia de este Santo. Estamos entrando como comunidad de fe en un año nuevo de cambios excepcionales de importancia y propósitos.

Su presencia en la Hora Santa demuestra cuán fuerte es nuestra fe en la Diócesis de Norwich.

Estamos viviendo en un mundo atribulado.

San Juan Vianney vivió durante la Revolución Francesa, un tiempo difícil en la historia.

Podemos aprender del ejemplo dado por este humilde sacerdote. La solución no es ceder a la injusticia, a la inmoralidad, al exceso y a la falta de respeto a la vida humana. La solución es estar en comunión con Dios a través de la oración y, no sólo profesándola sino también viviendo nuestra fe.

Tradicionalmente, esta es la época del año para hacer resoluciones. Para muchos, el inicio de un nuevo año trae pensamientos de un nuevo comienzo, una oportunidad para alcanzar metas personales. Sabemos que hay mérito en mejorar tanto física como mentalmente, después de

todo, San Pablo nos dice que “nuestro cuerpo es el templo del Espíritu Santo” (1 Corintios 6:19).

Un aspecto de nuestro bienestar que no debe pasar por alto es nuestra vida espiritual.

Hace unos pocos años, el Papa Francisco, al hablar con los empleados del Vaticano y sus familias, compartió este pensamiento: “Cuide su vida espiritual, su relación con Dios, porque esta es la base de todo lo que hacemos y todo lo que somos. . . Cuide su vida familiar, dele a sus hijos y seres queridos no sólo dinero, sino la mayor parte de su tiempo, atención y amor “.

Meditar en estas dos directivas llevarán a actos tangibles.

Las palabras de San Juan Vianney pueden ayudarnos a crear resoluciones que impactarán profundamente nuestras vidas aquí en la tierra y con Dios en la eternidad. Él dijo: “No trate de complacer a todos. Trate de agradar a Dios, los ángeles y los santos, son su público”. ¿Cuántas veces nos encontramos actuando de una manera para buscar la aprobación de los demás?

Recientemente leí que de todos los que hacen una resolución, el 23% lo completan. ¿Por qué el otro 77% fracasa en su intento de una vida mejor? Según los expertos en estos asuntos, las personas tienen problemas para perseverar con sus resoluciones porque no son lo suficientemente específicas y son demasiado amplias. Por ejemplo, en lugar de decidirse a leer la Biblia de principio a fin, prometa leer las lecturas diarias y quizás un breve comentario.

Como católicos no estamos familiarizados con el concepto de resoluciones. Cuando participamos en el Sacramento de la Reconciliación, con todo nuestro corazón y con total fe y apertura, estamos comenzando de nuevo, reconciliándonos con Dios y con la Iglesia. Quizás no haya una mejor resolución de Año Nuevo que la que el salmista escribió: “Oh Dios, crea en mí un corazón puro, implanta en mis entrañas un espíritu nuevo;” (Salmo 51:12) Tenga confianza en su fe. Tenga confanza este Año Nuevo, que a medida que los días se hacen más largos y su fe se hace más fuerte, las palabras de San Juan Vianney se harán realidad para todos y cada uno de nosotros- “Siempre es primavera en el corazón que ama a Dios”.

Sinceramente en Cristo,

Reverendísimo Michael R. Cote, D.D. Obispo de Norwich

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A Poem

Our Priests

We read in the scriptures that “Many are called but few are chosen”.

We do not always understand the words of scripture, but you did.

We sometimes judge those that make decisions we do not understand.

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To be a servant leader.

To expect nothing in return.

To be the last so the first can take note.

You listen to our hearts.

You listen to God’s Word.

You bridge the possible and impossible regularly.

Not understood by secular standards.

Not always loved by fellow believers.

Not always accepted for the message you represent.

Thank you for your perseverance.

Thank you for battling the negativity you encounter every day with goodness.

Thank you for your pastoral care.

You give so much more than you receive.

You pray so much more than we know.

You are the world’s gift, given to us by God. For in giving we receive.

For in loving we are loved.

For in you we are blessed.

This poem was written by Andrea Hoisl, Director of the Office of Faith Events as a Thank you to those in our diocese who have dedicated their lives to the priesthood. It was distributed at the convocation to let them know that despite the darkness in the world they continue to shine the light; the light that draws us all to the sacraments; the light that reminds us of Christ’s presence in the world; the light that cannot be extinguished.

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Do you have

You offered your heart to our Lord when He called you.

You offer sacrifice daily at His altar.

You give us the opportunity to unite ourselves with Christ every day.

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We pray for men to answer the call to be instruments of God’s grace as priests of Jesus Christ.

DEACON Michael Castiblanco 4th Year Theology Mount St. Mary’s Emmitsburg, MD

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MR. Michael Bovino 3rd Year Theology Mount St. Mary’s Emmitsburg, MD

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Mr. Normand Laflamme 2nd Year Theology Mount St. Mary’s Emmitsburg, MD

Mr. Larry Barile 2nd Year Theology Pope St. John XXIII Weston, Massachusetts

Mr. Jacob Ramos 2nd YearTheology Mount St. Mary’s, Emmitsburg, MD

Grateful for an Abundance of Gifts Father Gregory Galvin, Director of Priestly Vocations Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! Thank you to everyone around the diocese for the many prayers for vocations to the priesthood throughout 2018 and for your support of our Advent Seminarian gift card drive!

Deacon Michael Castiblanco recently traveled to the Holy Land with his classmates from the seminary. That trip included a canonical retreat in anticipation of priestly ordination this coming June.

Two of our seminarians spent the holidays with their families in Colombia. The remaining seminarians attended a Christmas gathering with Bishop Cote filled with prayer, conversation, some good food and gifts. The men are always very appreciative of the support you provide, through the Advent Seminarian gift card drive that assists them with their personal expenses throughout the school year. Thank you!

This past December we had a unique opportunity at our Monthly Holy Hour for Vocations in Gales Ferry at Our Lady of Lourdes parish. At

Bishop Cote’s request we were able to host the first-class relic of St. Jean M. Vianney, patron saint of parish priests.

The relic, which is the incorrupt heart of the saint, is on National Tour with the Knights of Columbus. As Bishop Cote commented to me early in the planning stages, “this is a true gift to the diocese” regarding having the opportunity to host the relic on the exact night we gather in one of our diocesan parishes to pray for an increase of priestly vocations.

A gift it was. A spiritually powerful evening which saw easily over 700 people visit and be present to pray before the relic of St. Jean M. Vianney. Everyone had the opportunity to touch the relic with rosaries, scapulars, prayer cards and other devotional objects. Some people just wanted to touch the reliquary which held the heart of a man and priest who simply loved Christ and the priesthood he was called to live for the family of God. We were also blessed with a special gift from Peter Sonski, the gentlemen who is accompanying the relic around the country. Mr. Sonski gifted Bishop

Monthly

The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, leads the Holy Hour

Holy Hour for Vocations

Cote with a beautiful picture of St. Jean M. Vianney which we will now display at every Monthly Holy Hour. The vocation office will make it available for other opportunities as well.

During the first week of January, I will be attending the FOCUS SEEK National convention being held in Indianapolis. The work of the Holy Spirit, through the many different speakers, presenters and activities of learning and sharing their faith, seems to truly touch and open the heart of these young adults who are just so hungry to receive and to share what God desires to give them. On the national level this convention is no longer just for college students.

It is also open to parish priests and parishioners looking to learn the fine intricacies of truly becoming disciples of our Lord Jesus Christ. Please pray for the contingent of students attending from UCONN again this year.

May God continue to bless our diocese, through these special graces, with many more strong vocations to the priesthood and religious life.

Mr. Dharen Brochero Under Graduate, Philosophical Major Studies Mount St. Mary’s Emmitsburg, MD

Mr. Alexander Pandolfe 1st Year Pre-Theology Mount St. Mary’s Emmitsburg, MD

Mr. Julian Cuervo 1st Year Pre-Theology Mount St. Mary’s Emmitsburg, MD

Mr. Eric Hosmer 1st Year Pre-Theology Mount St. Mary’s Emmitsburg, MD

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FCC Newsdesk Bishop Michael R. Cote, D.D. with this year’s Catholic Campaign for Human Development grant recipients.

Pictured from Left to Right- Laura Michaud-Malta Inc. Transitional Housing, Pamela Krom-Malta, Inc.-Street Ministry, Jillian Corbin-St. Vincent de Paul Place Norwich, Maria Hakmiller-Holy Family Home and Shelter, Annette Eldridge-Community of Hope, Tom Moriarty-New Life Ministry, Ethel Higgins-St. Vincent de Paul Middletown, Katie Ruffo-Veterans Memorial School, Kathy Allen- Thames River Community Service Inc, Edward Stolz- Birthright of Greater Norwich, Inc

These recipients help provide vital services and initiatives to help lift the lives of low income individuals and families in our communities. The Catholic Campaign for Human Development is the domestic anti-poverty program of the U.S. Catholic Bishops, working to carry out the mission of Jesus Christ, supported generously by parishioners across the Diocese of Norwich.

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You Will Be Missed Two Retiring Employees Recognized for Distinguished Service

Sister Elissa Rinere receiving Patrici-Anne Award from Bishop Michael R. Cote for her many years of distinguished service to the Diocese.

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t a retirement party honoring two diocesan employees, Sr. Elissa Rinere, C.P., and Mrs. Judy Pappagallo, Bishop Michael Cote commended them both for their unwavering dedication and loyalty to the Diocese of Norwich and presented them with the Patrici-Anne Award for distinguished service.

Sr. Elissa, who has worked for the diocese for the past 13 years, most recently served as Chancellor in addition to her other duties as Diocesan Director of both the Office of Pastoral Planning and the Office of Worship and judge and auditor for the Diocesan Tribunal Office. She assumed the duties of Chancellor in December 2017 following the untimely death of the previous Chancellor, Monsignor Robert Brown.

“The Diocese was in a difficult position when Msgr. Brown died so unexpectedly,” said Sr. Elissa.

“I think I managed to keep the everyday, ordinary business of the diocese moving forward. I was honored that the Bishop asked me to serve in this role.” Sr. Elissa was 8 the first female chancellor for the

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diocese. She has been a member of the Sisters of the Cross and Passion for 56 years, and she will continue to serve on the order’s provincial leadership team through 2021.

In presenting her with the PatriciAnne Award, Bishop Cote said it was appropriate that Sr. Elissa be singled out for this special commendation.

“You are a woman of faith whose religious commitment is evidenced in your love for the church and your tireless perseverance in carrying out your responsibilities….You have given yourself wholeheartedly to your labors in the Lord’s vineyard and you inspire all who know and serve with you.”

Bishop Cote noted that Sr. Elissa and he were friends from when they studied together at Catholic University in Washington, D.C., where Sr. Elissa received her doctoral degree in Canon Law and later served as faculty. When the diocese began plans for restructuring, Bishop Cote invited her to oversee this process through the Office of Pastoral Planning. “At that time, I knew Sister was the person who could help us get through this,” he said, praising her for her stamina and

Bishop Cote presenting Judy Pappagallo the Patrici-Anne Award for her 41 years of dedication to the people of the Diocese.

professionalism. “I am very grateful to you personally and professionally for your great gift to the Church and your love for the Church.”

In accepting the Patrici-Anne award, Sr. Elissa said that when she left the faculty at Catholic University, she happily found herself in Norwich.

“It has become home to me and I appreciate the opportunity I had to do what I did.” While she embraces retirement and the time to run a different pace of life that will include more personal reading, writing and leadership work for her religious community, she said, “I am happy to leave, but I’m sorry to leave as well.”

Bishop Cote also praised Judy Pappagallo for her 41 years of dedicated and loyal service to the Diocese in a variety of secretarial positions for the Chancellor, Cathedral of Saint Patrick, Diocesan Development office, Office of Safe Environments and most recently the Bishop Flanagan Ministry Center. In addition, Judy served on the Norwich Board for Catholic Charities and continues to serve as President of the Norwich Diocesan Council of Catholic Women.

The Bishop told Judy that presenting

her with the Patrici-Anne award is an “Expression of our affection for you and the esteem in which you are held by colleagues, friends, and this Diocesan Family. Your love for God and your family are evidenced in the way you reach out to others and are always ready to help them.

As a devoted wife, mother, and grandmother you modeled for others how to manage innumerable responsibilities well. You serve others with cheerful enthusiasm and genuine caring and concern.”

Judy and her husband, Ted, have been married for 53 years. They have three children and four grandchildren. They have been members of the Cathedral of Saint Patrick for 47 years, where Judy continues to serve as an Extraordinary Minister of Holy Communion.

“I have always enjoyed the people I have worked with and the camaraderie among the staff in all of the offices where I have worked,” said Judy. “In whatever position I worked in, I always felt like I belonged there and am proud to have contributed a small part to helping the Church in this diocese.”

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Diocesan

Norwich DiocesaN cemeteries At the time of death, the Church confidently proclaims God has created us for eternal life.

“Through the saving death of Your Son, Jesus Christ, we rise at your word to the glory of the Resurrection.”

(Preface - Christian Death IV)

Announcements

Diocesan Appointments The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, has made the following diocesan appointment.

Reverend Peter J. Langevin,

Chancellor, with Residence in the Cathedral of Saint Patrick, Norwich.

Reverend Peter J. Langevin, Chancellor

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saiNt mary cemetery

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This marriage enrichment, aptly entitled “Celebrate Marriage,” will take place on Saturday, February 16, 2019, from 9 A.M to 3 P.M. at St. Joseph Parish Hall, 99 Jackson St., Willimantic.

The cost is $35 per couple, which includes workbooks and lunch.

Registration is required. To register, call the Diocesan Catholic Family Services Office at 860-848-2237, Ext. 306.

Diocesan “Do not store up for yourselves (your name) treasures on earth, where moth and decay destroy, and thieves break in and steal. But store up treasures in Heaven where neither moth nor decay destroys, nor thieves break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there also will your heart be!”

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Trust in the mercy of God’s love.

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All calls are confidential.

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Masses of Healing and Hope

Life in the Spirit Prayer Weekend Friday, January 18th, 7pm to Sunday, January 20th (lunch & sharing) My Father’s House, Moodus, A Package Gift of the Pentecost Experience To register/$150: 860-873-1906 or www.myfather’shouse.org Presented by Fr. Ray Introvigne & Judith Hughes Healing Personal Prayer and Ministries Saturday, January 26th by appointment only To register call 860-887-0702 Healing Mass and Healing Service Sunday, January 27th St. Thomas the Apostle Chapel 872 Farmington Ave., West Hartford Mass 1-2pm, Healing Service 2-4pm Prayer teams, individual prayer and anointing Weekly Prayer Meeting Every Tuesday, 2pm, Spiritual Renewal Center Individual prayer and anointing

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In Memoriam

Sr. Marie Rose Courtemanche, DHS March 7, 1932 – December 7, 2018

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Sr. Marie Rose Courtemanche, 86, a member of the Daughters of the Holy Spirit, died on Friday December 7, 2018 at St. Joseph Living Center, Windham.

Born in Southbridge, MA on March 7, 1932, she was the daughter of Flavien and Amelia (Duclos) Courtemanche. She entered religious life in 1954 at the Holy Spirit Provincial House in Putnam and made her religious profession there on September 6, 1955. She was then known as Sr. Amelia Thomas.

Following her profession, she was assigned as dietician in several of our communities from 1955-1970 as follows: Fitchburg, Waterbury, the Provincial House in Putnam, Hartford and St. Elizabeth Guest House also in Hartford. In 1975 she began serving as a nurse’s aide at the Villa St. Joseph in Putnam.

In 1982 she went to our mission in Kaele, Cameroon until 1992. Upon her return to the United States she served again at the Provincial House as a nurse’s aide and at Patient Care of Connecticut until her retirement in 2002.

In 2014 she entered the Holy Spirit Health Care Center and in 2016 she moved to St. Joseph Living Center in Windham.

She is survived by the Daughters of the Holy Spirit spiritual family – her sisters in community, the Consecrated Seculars and the Associates as well as three sisters—Mrs. Juliette Bertrand of Southbridge, MA, Ms. Pauline Courtemanche of Southbridge, MA, and Mrs. Jeanne Adamuzka of, Wilsonville, CT. She is predeceased by four brothers Robert Courtemanche Louis Courtemanche, Roger Courtemanche and Leo Courtemanche and three sisters Emma Rousseau, Rita Vincent and Helen Nascin.

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n Tuesday, December 18th Maura Howard, Assistant Dean of Students at St. Thomas More School visited Catholic Charities bearing gifts.

Maura and the St. Thomas More School community generously donated $1,000 in gift cards to the clients of Catholic Charities. Maura also presented Catholic Charities with a check for the agency’s Emergency Basic Needs Program Fuel Fund. The money raised for these generous gifts were from donations made by the students and faculty members of St. Thomas More School.

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Profile of a Priest Father Mark Masnicki, Pastor,

St. Andrew, Colchester and St. Francis of Assisi, Lebanon Ordination Date: May 30, 1992, Cathedral of St. Patrick Norwich, Bishop Daniel P. Reilly

By Marianne Nicholas

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Where are you from?

I was born in Poland on January 13, 1960 in the small northern town of Prabuty.

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Who was your biggest influence for entering the priesthood?

My biggest influence for entering the priesthood would have to be Saint John Paul II, who was the pope of my generation.

What one word would describe your family?

Faith-filled

What do you enjoy most about being a priest?

Being a priest is enjoyable to me because I am carrying out Jesus’ mission here on earth.

I am honored to be a part of the mystery of being an unworthy vessel in the venerable and holy hands of Jesus Christ.

What do you enjoy doing in your leisure time?

Living in Lebanon I enjoy walking or biking on the historic green. I also enjoy fishing and skiing.

What else would you like people to know about you?

What are the current positions you hold/ I enjoy learning anything about the beauty committees you are involved with? of nature. Very frequently I enjoy watching I am currently the pastor of St. Andrew church television programs about the animal in Colchester and St. Francis of Assisi church kingdom, the mysteries of the universe, and in Lebanon and I am involved in numerous the natural world in general. committees at both of these parishes.

I also enjoy religious segments on EWTN.

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ver 700 people flocked to Our Lady of Lourdes Church in Gales Ferry on December 13th to venerate the incorrupt heart of St. John Vianney.

The major relic is in the early stages of a national tour organized by the Knights of Columbus, and at the request of Bishop Michael R. Cote, it was hosted as part of the diocese’s Monthly Holy Hour for Vocations.

Housed in an ornate gold reliquary, the incorrupt heart was carried into the church in a procession led by the Knights of Columbus Honor Guard, Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, the Very Reverend Gregory Galvin, diocesan director of vocations, the Very Reverend Brian Converse, pastor of Our Lady of Lourdes, and Deacon William

McGann of Our Lady of Lourdes.

Beginning at 5 p.m. quiet prayer and veneration was led by Bishop Cote. Monthly Holy Hour for Vocations, which included a rosary prayed in front of the Blessed Sacrament.

The reliquary was placed on the altar beside the Sacred Host in the monstrance, recalling the saint’s great love for the Eucharistic Jesus. As Vianney explains, “There is nothing so great as the Eucharist. If God had something more precious, he would have given it to us.” The pews of the church were overflowing with not only clergy and religious but also hundreds of lay people ready to honor the saint and ask for his powerful intercession.

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the reliquary and approach it individually, me even touching personal belongings to e reliquary to make them third class relics. he Knights of Columbus, entrusted with s relic by the Shrine of Ars in France, are cusing the tour on praying for the Church d her priests, as Vianney is the patron nt of parish priests.

John Vianney was a priest in postvolution France. Making it his mission deal with the religious indifference in s parish in Ars, he became famous for his werful homilies and the 10 or more hours spent in the confessional on a daily basis.

The priesthood is the love of the heart of sus,” he once said.

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There is nothing so great as the Eucharist.

If God had something more precious, he would have given it to us.

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any eagerly gathered into the Cathedral of Saint Patrick for the annual bilingual Mass and fiesta in honor of Our Lady of Guadalupe on December 12, 2018, her feast day.

This popular festivity celebrates both the Blessed Virgin, loving mother and powerful intercessor, and the culture that she communicated through. Attendees included many families, some dressed in traditional outfits. The music for the liturgy was provided by a mariachi band, and the Gospel, the account of the Annunciation, was proclaimed in both Spanish and English.

Bishop Michael R. Cote served as the principal celebrant of the Mass, which was concelebrated by many priests of the diocese, including the homilist, the Rev. Juan Angel Aguirre of Iglesia del Sagrado Corazón de Jesús in Windham.

Our Lady of Guadalupe appeared to the poor farmer Saint Juan Diego in 1531, asking him to have a church built where she could hear the petitions of the Mexican people.

She is credited with converting countless Aztecs to Catholicism, and today she is honored as both patroness of the Americas and patroness of life.

Her famous words to Juan Diego were revisited as guests left the church: “Do not let anything worry you … Am I not here, she who is your Mother? Are you not under my protection?”

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Do you struggle with being a parent or grandparent or know someone who does? Join others like you for practical and valuable information that will help you feel better about your role as a parent or grandparent in a comfortable, non-confrontational and relaxed setting. Contact Tracy Martone at 860-889-8346, extension 285 for more information and to sign up. Classes scheduled for the month of February at Catholic Charities in New London.

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Join tens of thousands from across the nation to walk for those who cannot walk, to speak for those who cannot speak, to defend the life of unborn children.

Leave Thursday, January 17th 9pm travel all night - March for Life on Friday, January 18th return midnight. Cost: $67 per person. If you are unable to go, please consider sponsoring someone who would like to go but is not able to pay. Buses leave from the municipal parking lot in Norwich (exit 11, I 395) For further information, to reserve your seat, or to sponsor someone, please call Margaret Becotte at 860-822-1362.

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My Dear Friends, As you know, we recently had our Discover Catholic Schools in New England Week. In observance of The National Catholic Schools Week, Jan 27th-Feb 2nd, I encourage you to visit our schools during their Open Houses. You will be amazed to see what daily life is like in our wonderful Catholic schools.

The dates and times are listed below.

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K (PK) to Grade 8 Schools Open House Dates Sacred Heart School, Groton Sacred Heart School, Taftville St. James School, Danielson St. John School, Old Saybrook St. John Paul II School, Middletown St. Joseph School, Baltic St. Joseph School, New London St. Joseph School, North Grosvenordale St. Mary-St. Joseph School, Willimantic St. Michael School, Pawcatuck St. Patrick Cathedral School, Norwich

Jan 28th, 29th, 30th, 9am-12pm; Jan 31st 1-3pm Jan 29th, 31st 9-11am; March 7th 6-8pm Jan 29th 3-5pm (Academic Fair Open House) Jan 27th 10am-12pm, Jan. 31 9am-11am Jan 27th 12-2pm Jan 30th 9am-2pm Jan 29th 9-11am, 1-2pm; Jan 30th 1-2pm Jan 27th 8:30-11:30am; Jan 30th 6-7:30pm Jan 27th Time TBA please call the school Jan 27th-Feb 1st 9-11am Jan 27th, 10am-12pm

High Schools Open House Dates Academy of the Holy Family Mercy High School St. Bernard School Xavier High School

Tours available upon request Jan 24th 8:30-10:30am (Mornings at Mercy) Jan 30th 8:15-10:15am (Walkabout Wednesday) Jan 16th, 30 8:30-10am (Walkabout Wednesday)

May God bless you during this New Year and beyond!

With Gratitude Always, Henry Fiore, Jr. Superintendent of Schools

St. Mary-St. Joseph School, Willimantic Ms. Abby Demars, Principal 35 Valley St, Willimantic, CT Phone: 860-423-8479 www.smsjschool.org

St. Michael School, Pawcatuck

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St. John School, Old Saybrook

Mother Elaine Moorcroft, SCMC, Principal 42 Maynard Road, Old Saybrook, CT Phone: 860-388-0849 www.saintjohnschoolos.org

St. John Paul II School, Middletown Mr. Lawrence Fitzgerald, Principal 87 South Main St, Middletown, CT Phone: 860-347-2978 www.jpii.org

St. Joseph School, New London

St. Joseph School, Baltic

Sr. Mary Patrick Mulready, SCMC, Principal

St. Bernard School, Uncasville

Ms. Marianne Cote, Principal 25 Squire St, New London, CT Phone: 860-442-1720 www.sjsnl.com

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The Mercy High School National Honor Society (NHS) Christmas Drive for the second year benefitted the Albert J. Solnit Children’s Center. As a facility of the Connecticut Department of Youth and Families, the Albert J. Solnit Children’s Center provides brief treatment, residential care and educational instruction for abused and neglected teens between the ages of 13 and 17. Youth come to the facility from all over the state. The Albert J. Solnit Children’s Center- South Campus, formerly known as the Riverview Hospital for Children and Youth, is in Middletown.

Mercy NHS Officers and Solnit staff packing the van L-R: Abby Smith, Treasurer; Annmarie Rotatori, VP of Committees; Elaine Jackson, Solnit; Kaitlin Leahy, President; Melanie Clark, Solnit; Catryn Rhoden, VP Tutoring and Bianca LaBella, Secretary

Academy of the Holy Family, Baltic Mother Mary David, SCMC, Principal 54 West Main St, Baltic, CT Phone: 860-822-9272 www.ahfbaltic.org

Academy of the Holy Family, Baltic Mother Mary David, SCMC, Principal 54 West Main St, Baltic, CT Phone: 860-822-9272 www.ahfbaltic.org

Mercy High School, Middletown

Sr. Mary McCarthy, RSM, President 1740 Randolph Road, Middletown, CT Phone: 860-346-6659

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Annmarie Rotatori, NHS Vice President of Committees reviewed the requested list of needed items from Solnit, divided it and assigned each Homeroom at Mercy specific items to purchased. NHS also collected $1,528. The NHS officers shopped with the funds and purchased additional items on the list. The donated items ranged from health and beauty products to athletic and activity items.

Popular items were a bike, hair straighteners, yoga items, books, movies, arts and crafts items, toiletries and boxes of clothing resulting in a van full of gifts that will make the Christmas season brighter for the teens.

Xavier High School, Middletown David C. Eustis, Headmaster Mr. Brendan Donohue, Principal 181 Randolph Road, Middletown, CT Phone: 860-346-7735

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St. Anthony’s Celebrates Five Years of Supporting Haiti Sister Parish, School

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By Morningstar Stevenson Photos courtesy D.J. Doan Photography

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bridges of faith, coming together in solidarity and communion.”

“Our Haitian brothers and sisters at Ste. Anne’s receive help to educate their youth while they give us the witness of their great faith,” Father Rouleau said, “trusting in God, despite all the misery, turmoil and poverty in their lives.”

During their annual U.S. visit, Fathers Seide and Rouleau celebrate Masses and visit St. Anthony’s classrooms. Ramos said the kids love asking the priests questions about Haiti, Ste. Anne’s school, and the students there.

Father Seide always tells the St. Anthony students, “They’re kids just like

RENTON, WA – After Noel Ramos returned from visiting a Catholic school in Haiti, he felt even more blessed by the resources he has teaching at St. Anthony School in Renton, Washington.

“All they have are blackboards, but they are eager to learn,” said Ramos. “Education is so powerful, and the kids in Haiti understand that.”

St. Anthony Parish in Renton sends delegates each fall to visit its twin parish/school, Ramos was part of a delegation Ste. Anne de Hyacynthe in Haiti. Pictured in front with some St. Anne students is Tim of parishioners from St. Searing, chair of the parish’s Standing with Haiti committee. At back are St. Anthony Anthony Parish to visit their parishioner Micie Delos Reyes, left, Father Frank Rouleau of Outreach to Haiti, St. sister parish, Ste. Anne de Anthony parishioners Noel Ramos and Haley McKinley, and Father Jack Shrum, Hyacynthe. The annual trip is a St. Anthony’s pastor. part of a twinning relationship, coordinated by the Diocese of Norwich Outreach to Haiti, that began in 2012.

St. Anthony donates about $3,800 Collecting coins to you.”

“Ste. Anne de Hyacynthe is a month to support Ste. Anne’s live out the Gospel St. Anthony School collects school located about 40 miles west of parish and school expenses, such St. Anthony recently renewed supplies, socks, toothbrushes Port-au-Prince, in a mountainous as salaries for teachers and meals their Twinning Covenant during a region where residents don’t have for students, Searing said. visit to the U.S. from Haiti by Ste. and soccer balls for its sister school. This year, the school’s access to plumbing or electricity,” “If we make a difference in the Anne’s pastor, Father Seide, and coin donation contest raised said Tim Searing, chair of St. students’ lives, they can help their Father Frank Rouleau, Chaplain Anthony’s Standing with Haiti family and themselves to a better & Director of Parish Twinning for about $3,000. “Having a sister parish allows kids to know committee. The Ste. Anne parish life,” Searing said. “What a gift.”

Outreach to Haiti. The parishes, school serves 230 children from Father Rouleau said, “are building firsthand how they can make a difference individually and as a kindergarten to ninth grade.

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Second-graders at St. Anthony School in Renton receive a blessing from Father Josue Seide, right, pastor of St. Anthony’s sister parish, Ste. Anne de Hyacynthe in Haiti; and Father Frank Rouleau of Outreach to Haiti.

The priests visit the Renton parish and school each spring.

group,” Principal Cantu said.

“This shows them how we can live out the Gospel call to help others, and that the church is worldwide.”

‘A faith that’s really palpable’ The school kids aren’t the only ones who experience that connection to a bigger church.

“You are reminded that the Catholic Church is universal,” Searing said of his visits to Haiti as a delegate in 2016 and 2017.

“They say the same Mass in the hills of Haiti.”

Jane Wraith, who coordinates the parish committee’s fundraising efforts, said the trip was a great faith-building experience for

her. “The faith of the people at Ste. Anne’s gives you a sense of what’s really important,” Wraith said. “They have a faith that’s really palpable.”

After returning from their trip, delegates are encouraged to share their stories in the parish bulletin and at the annual dinner that raises funds for the sister parish effort.

For Wraith, the relationship with Ste. Anne’s is about much more than financial support. “You fall in love with the people. They are so welcoming and generous with their love,” she said.

“You go there thinking you’re going to fix something,” Wraith added, “but they give us so much more than we give them.”

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New Year

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Come, Holy Spirit, Spirit of the Risen Christ be with us today and always. Be our light, our guide, and our comforter.

Be our strength, our courage, and our sanctifier. May this new year be a time of deep spiritual growth for us, a time of welcoming your grace and gifts, a time for giving freely and unconditionally, a time for growing in virtue and goodness.

Come, Holy Spirit, be with us today and always.

Amen

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O Most Beautiful Flower of Mt. Carmel, Fruitful Vine, Splendor of Heaven, Blessed Mother of the Son of God, Immaculate Virgin, assist me in my necessity. O Star of the Sea, help me and show me herein you are my Mother. O Holy Mary, Mother of God, Queen of Heaven and Earth, I humbly beseech you from the bottom of my heart to succor me in my necessity.

There are none that can withstand your power. O Mary conceived without sin, pray for us who have recourse to thee.

Holy Mary, I place this cause in your hands.

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Father Brian Maxwell and diocesan youth supporting “2018 March for Life” in Washington D.C.

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HE DIED SO THAT WE MAY LIVE The Lenten Journey to the Cross and the Resurrection

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Xavier Class of 2018 Prepared to Continue Their Life’s Mission

Families BelongTogether “Separation of families is unacceptable in a caring and compassionate America.”

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