Four County Catholic April 2022

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“Judith, your devotion to the Church and Her many good works has come back to bless you. Your dedication is well known.”

Most ReverendMichael R. Cote in remarks to Judith Hughes, recipient of the Our Lady Queen of Hope Award at the Diocesan Women’s Conference.

ON THE COVER Bishop Cote and hundreds of people at the Cathedral of St. Patrick joined with Pope Francis and the bishops of the world on March 25, the Feast of the Annunciation, in publicly offering a Prayer of Consecration of Russia and Ukraine to the Immaculate Heart of Mary. Story and photos on Page 8.

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THE MOST REVEREND

MICHAEL R. COTE, D.D.

BISHOP OF NORWICH

told him he would flash his bicycle light back toward the hospital on his way home As our Lenten preparation continues, as a gesture to say goodnight. He did. we contemplate Jesus’s overwhelming Here in the Diocese of Norwich, we are And the boy in the hospital flashed his compassion in the ultimate act of compelled by our faith to exercise the room light in return. From this humble divine love – laying down His life for corporal and spiritual works of mercy beginning, more than ten years ago, the our salvation. His actions throughout through our ministries and through whole idea quickly spread as more and scripture provide us with a model of how individual acts of compassion. more people and businesses began to to think and act compassionately toward Our collective compassion is evident with coordinate the gesture of flashing their each other. your response to the conflict in Eastern lights at the same time, 8:30 p.m., to blink We witness Jesus’s compassion in the Europe. Prayer services and candlelight goodnight to the children at Hasbro.

Gospel when He feeds the crowd with vigils for peace in Ukraine have been Good Night Lights, as it is now called loaves and fishes, when He restores the and continue to be held throughout has over 30 groups involved in what has life of the widow’s only son, when He the diocese. Your generous response to become known as the Magic Minute. speaks with the woman at the well, and the special collection for the Church in Boats from the Providence Steamboat yes, even when He changes water into Central and Eastern Europe, enables the Company, the Graduate Providence wine at the wedding feast. In all these Church in the United States to provide Hotel, several office buildings and even instances, Jesus sees the reality of the critical and timely humanitarian aid the East Providence Police Department to the victims of the atrocities being have joined in this thoughtful little way moment and is moved to act. of letting the children know that their perpetrated in Ukraine. community is thinking about them.

The Holy Father, Pope Francis, described compassion as the “lens of the heart” Closer to home, St. Vincent de Paul Return flashing of hospital lights each Place, Norwich, St. Vincent de Paul, night can be seen acknowledging the revealing the reality as it is.

Middletown, and Catholic Charities are thoughtful gesture. An extraordinary act It was indeed God’s compassion that led often first to come to mind as powerful of mercy and compassion.

Him to send His Son to us. examples of compassion in action. Your Let us pray this Lenten season for It is not sympathy or even empathy. It is gift to the Annual Catholic Appeal the Holy Spirit to light the path of much, much more than that. Compassion makes the work of these and the more compassion for us. May it expand to involves us in the problems and concerns than 20 other ministries of the Diocese radiate between us, among us and around of others. Jesus, the unmatched example possible. us, spreading throughout the world so of compassion, emptied Himself and We should be mindful, too, that, that all people will come to know the became like us so He could enter all our sometimes, the smallest individual acts glow of Christ’s compassionate light. experiences, feelings, difficulties, joys and of mercy can also make a big difference hopes. To have compassion like Jesus may in the lives of those who need help and Sincerely yours in Christ’s love, very well be the most important virtue encouragement. we can hope to learn.

I was recently reminded of a truly Whenever we are faced with the problems unique individual act of compassion that or needs of another, we can become more I conveyed to you some time back. It compassionate by first praying, asking involves the Hasbro Children’s Hospital the Holy Spirit to place us on the path in nearby Providence, Rhode Island. It Most Reverend Michael R. Cote of compassion. This contemplation and all began with a volunteer at the hospital Bishop of Norwich discernment is essential in discovering who, when saying good night to a patient, My dear brothers and sisters in Christ,

the will of God. Only then should we be moved to take action.

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LET FAITH LEAD THE WAY

Model of Compassion

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THE MOST REVEREND

MICHAEL R. COTE, D.D.

BISHOP OF NORWICH

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LET FAITH LEAD THE WAY

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Modelo de Compasión

la voluntad de Dios. Sólo entonces camino de regreso a casa como un gesto deberíamos sentirnos impulsados a actuar. de dar las buenas noches. Él lo hizo. Y el A medida que continúa nuestra chico en el hospital encendió la luz de su preparación Cuaresmal, contemplamos Aquí en la Diócesis de Norwich, por nuestra habitación a cambio. Desde este humilde la abrumadora compasión de Jesús en el fe estamos obligados a ejercer las obras de comienzo, hace más de diez años, la idea se último acto de amor divino: dar Su vida misericordia corporales y espirituales a extendió rápidamente a medida que más por nuestra salvación. Sus acciones a lo través de nuestros ministerios y a través de y más personas y empresas comenzaron a largo de las Escrituras nos proporcionan los actos individuales de compasión. coordinar el gesto de encender sus luces un modelo de cómo pensar y actuar con Nuestra compasión colectiva es evidente al mismo tiempo, 8:30 p.m., para dar las compasión hacia los otros. con su respuesta al conflicto en el Este buenas noches a los niños en Hasbro.

Somos testigos de la compasión de Jesús de Europa. Los servicios de oración y las Las Luces de Buenas Noches, como se le en el Evangelio cuando alimenta a la vigilias con velas por la paz en Ucrania llama ahora, tiene más de 30 grupos multitud con panes y peces, cuando da han sido y continúan celebrándose en involucrados en lo que es conocido como vida al único hijo de la viuda, cuando habla toda la diócesis. Su respuesta generosa a la el Minuto Mágico. Barcos de la Companía con la mujer del pozo, y sí, incluso cuando colecta especial para la Iglesia en Europa Providence Steamboat, el Hotel Graduate Él cambia el agua en vino en el banquete Central y del Este, permite a la Iglesia de Providence, varios edificios de oficinas de bodas. En todos estos casos, Jesús ve la en los Estados Unidos proporcionar la e incluso el Departamento de la policía realidad del momento y procede a actuar. ayuda humanitaria crítica y oportuna a las de East Providence se han sumado a esta víctimas de la atrocidades que se cometen pequeña manera reflexiva de hacerles saber a los niños que su comunidad está El Santo Padre, el Papa Francisco, en Ucrania. pensando en ellos. El parpadeo de retorno describió la compasión como el “lente del corazón” que revela la realidad tal como es. Más cerca de casa, San Vicente De Paúl de las luces del hospital puede ser visto en Norwich, San Vicente De Paúl en cada noche reconociendo el gesto reflexivo.

De hecho, fue la compasión de Dios lo Middletown, y Caridades Católicas son Un acto extraordinario de misericordia y que lo llevó a enviarnos a su Hijo. a menudo los primeros que vienen a compasión.

No es consolación ni siquiera empatía. Es la mente como poderosos ejemplos de Oremos en este tiempo de Cuaresma mucho, mucho más que eso. Compasión compasión en acción. Su donación a la para que el Espíritu Santo nos ilumine el nos involucra en los problemas y Campaña Católica Anual hace posible camino de la compasión. Que se expanda preocupaciones de los demás. Jesús, el el trabajo de estos y los más de 20 otros para irradiar entre nosotros, y alrededor ejemplo inigualable de compasión, se ministerios de la Diócesis. de nosotros, extendiéndose por todo el vació así mismo y se hizo como nosotros Debemos tener en cuenta, también, que, a mundo para que todas las personas lleguen para poder entrar en todas nuestras veces, los más pequeños actos individuales a conocer el resplandor de la luz compasiva experiencias, sentimientos, dificultades, de misericordia también pueden hacer una de Cristo. alegrías y esperanzas. Tener compasión gran diferencia en la vida de aquellos que como la de Jesús puede muy bien ser la necesitan ayuda y aliento. virtud más importante que esperamos Hace poco recordé un acto de compasión Sinceramente en el amor de Cristo, aprender.

Mis queridos hermanos y hermanas en Cristo:

Cada vez que nos enfrentamos a los problemas o necesidades de los otros, podemos llegar a ser más compasivos primero orando, pidiendo al Espíritu Santo que nos ponga en el camino de la compasión. Esta contemplación y discernimiento es esencial para descubrir

individual verdaderamente único que transmití a usted hace algún tiempo. Se trata del Hospital Infantil Hasbro en la cercana Providence, Rhode Island.

Todo empezó con un voluntario del hospital que al dar las buenas noches a Reverendísimo Michael R. Cote un paciente, le dijo que encendería la Obispo de Norwich luz de su bicicleta hacia el hospital en su

Vocations Corner 4th Theology Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

With God, All Things are Possible Can you believe that it has been over three months since Father Larry Barile’s priestly ordination? I asked Father Barile to reflect on his experience of priesthood thus far. Here is what he had to say…

Dharen Brochero

3rd Theology Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Ruben Garcia Sanchez

3rd Theology Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

On December 8, 2021, the Most Rev. Michael R. Cote, DD conferred the Rite of Holy Priesthood upon me. It would be an understatement to say that it was one of the most profound moments in my life – the birth of my son being high among them.

Bishop Cote imparted these words that were both simple and yet profound, “Enjoy today, tomorrow you go to work.” It has been exactly 3 months since my ordination, and true to the bishop’s words, it’s has been “tomorrow” every day since.

But the joy of “today” remains, and by the grace of God, continues to grow richer and more meaningful each day.

The day after ordination, I had the distinct privilege of celebrating my first Mass as a priest at St. Mary Church in Coventry – the parish of my youth.

Prior to beginning my new assignment at Blessed Sacrament Parish in Rockville/Tolland, I had the honor to present a talk at the Knights of Columbus in New Haven for the Fr. Michael J. McGivney Day of Reflection. I also had the privilege to hear confessions

for the first time - an honor that is rewarding, humbling, and truly undeserved.

The privilege of being newly ordained didn’t stop there. The next day as I was invited by Fr. Larry LaPointe, Pastor of Corpus Christi Parish in Willimantic, (my former assignment as a transitional deacon prior to priestly ordination), to celebrate two Sunday Masses. I celebrated one Mass at St. Mary and the other Mass in Spanish at Sagrado Corazon! I’m thankful for the Spanish speaking parishioners for exercising great mercy towards me which leads me to what I am most grateful about being a priest – the people.

When I arrived at Blessed Sacrament Parish, I was enthusiastically welcomed by the pastor, Fr. Rick Ricard, as well as by his dedicated staff, and most noticeably, by the parishioners. The love they have in their hearts for God, for their priests, and for one another is truly exceptional.

The parishioners have been extremely generous with their words, their time, and amazing cooking!

The time I have been able to spend ministering to God’s people and celebrating the sacraments has been truly rewarding. But this isn’t to say that there haven’t been challenges. The ongoing pandemic

Alexander Pandolfe

2nd Theology Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

has presented several occasions in which hospitals and nursing homes were reluctant to grant access to their patients for the purpose of administering the Anointing of the Sick. Thankfully, with much patience and persistence, most of those times were successful in meeting the individual’s or family’s request.

Julian Cuervo

2nd Theology Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Lastly, I was fortunate to celebrate a Mass at ORTV for the diocese as well as do a presentation on the Real Presence of Jesus in the Most Blessed Sacrament for Blessed Sacrament Parish.

It’s hard to imagine so much can be accomplished in so little time. But we all know that with God, all things are possible. And we know it is God who is doing the accomplishing.

I give praise and thanks to God every day for the privilege of being a Catholic priest and being called to be a conduit of his amazing grace.

Eric Hosmer

2nd Theology Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Please pray for Fr. Larry as he lives out his call to serve God and our diocesan family.

If you think God is calling you or someone you know to a priestly or religious contact me at vocations@ norwichdiocese.net - Father Jonathan Ficara, Director of Vocations

Mark Johnson

1st Theology Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

MONTHLY

Holy Hour

for Vocations

April 21, 6 PM – St. Mary, Coventry

The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, leads the Holy Hour

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In Memoriam Reverend Edward M. Konopka February 20, 1933 ~ February 16, 2022

The Reverend Edward M. Konopka, son of the late Myron T. and Anna M. Konopka died February 16, 2022, following a long illness.

Fr. Konopka, a Middletown native, attended local schools and graduated from Wesleyan University with distinction in French. His seminary studies followed at Grande Seminaire de Saint Brieuc, in Brittany, France. His ordination, June 25, 1960, was held in Middletown at St Francis of Assisi Church, his family parish.

His first assignment was assistant pastor to Fr. Norman St. Martin, in St. Peter’s in Higganum, CT.

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Several appointments followed: St. Joseph in Occum; St. Mary’s Church in Putnam; St Mary Star of The Sea in New London; St. Bernard’s School in Uncasville; Sacred Heart Church in Vernon and then back to St. Peter Church in Higganum where he remained pastor for nearly 33 years.

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While in Higganum, Fr. Konopka served in several additional posts – Vicar for Clergy, Dean of Middletown Deanery and Chaplain of the Diocesan

Council of Catholic Women.

Father leaves a brother, William Konopka of Cromwell, CT, and nieces Maura Dilk of Cromwell and Meg O’Connor of Schaumberg, IL. Father also leaves a sister, Myra-Anne Keller of Colorado Springs, CO, and her son Christopher Fiore of Columbia, CT. Niece, Karen Fiore-Green, of Glenview, IL predeceased her uncle.

Fr. Konopka’s death has left a huge void in many of the lives he touched.

His intelligence, his sense of humor, his love of friends and especially the love he had for his family will be greatly missed.

Visitation will be held beginning at 6:00pm on Friday, April 22, 2022, in St. Peter Church, 30 Saint Peter Lane, Higganum, CT. At 7:00pm a Parish Mass will be celebrated.

The Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Saturday, April 23, 2022, at 10:00 a.m. in Saint Peter Church, Higganum, CT, by the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, Bishop of Norwich.

Burial will be private. A reception in the church hall will follow.

The Biega Funeral Home of Middletown is overseeing the arrangements.

ACA Leadership is a Legacy of Love

By Mary Ellen Mahoney

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ach year the Annual Catholic Appeal Leadership Dinner Meeting brings together priests, secretaries and ACA Chairpeople from throughout the diocese who help to roll out the ACA in each parish. Our ACA leaders are critical to the success of our ACA weekends. They ensure that posters are put up, pledge envelopes and brochures on display, the ACA video shown and that the collection is returned to ACA Office in a timely manner. They will also provide testimony about the good works of the ACA supported ministries as well as assist with follow up contact with donors. All in all, our ACA leaders are our partners in the parish and we are very appreciative of their help.

This year’s meeting, held on March 3, at the Holiday Inn, Norwich, began with Bishop Cote expressing his gratitude, “I cannot tell you how much I have appreciated all of the work each of you has done this year to support our ACA. The fact that we have surpassed our 2021 goal for the first time in many years, is a true testament to your efforts and leadership.”

The meeting continued with Mary Ellen Mahoney, Annual Catholic Appeal, Executive Director, also thanking the entire leadership group for their hard work, noting that the 2021 ACA finished at 114% of goal, with 39 parishes finishing at the 90% or better of goal and 25 parishes meeting or exceeding goal.

She emphasized that pledging is

L to R, St. Pius X Church ACA Leaders: Charlie Jackowski, Edward Dypa, Pat Jackowski

the best way for people to donate as they are able to give more by

spreading their gifts over time. She also spoke about the incredible

supporting the parish infrastructure.

When we give to the ACA, it goes to support the soup kitchens, education of our seminarians, priest retirement, prison ministry for example, things that our parish can’t do on its own. “ In speaking with leaders after dinner, Mary Ellen was able to answer a variety questions including one about the diocesan bankruptcy.

When asked if the ACA donations could be used to pay the costs of the bankruptcy she answered that the diocesan bankruptcy does not affect the ACA; the ACA is a separate legal entity and not involved in the bankruptcy. Donors can be assured that their donations stay within the ACA and are used to support the ministries and programs that receive funding from the ACA. This year’s Annual Catholic Appeal is fully underway, having launched in parishes on the weekend of March 19/20. It’s not too late to make your pledge.

If you would like to donate online or would like to view the 2022 ACA video, please go to www.

NorwichDioceseDevelopment. org. For more information, please call our office at (860) 8861928 or email Heather Harris, Campaign Manager at hharris@ norwichdiocese.net Thank you for your support.

Your Donations to the Annual Catholic Appeal Help to Support the Following Ministries

ACA Supported Ministries and Programs Education/Formation Campus Ministry Diaconate Program Diocesan School Office Faith Formation F.O.C.U.S. Spiritual Renewal Services Vocations Youth/Young Adult Ministry

Social Services / Compassionate Care Catholic Charities Catholic Family Services Ministry to the Sick/Hospital Chaplaincy

Office For Safe Environments Partnership on Disability Ministry Priest’s Retirement St. Joseph Living Center St. Vincent de Paul

Outreach Communications Office Development Office Evangelization Hispanic Ministry Office of Faith Events Outreach to Haiti Street Ministry Prison Ministry Pro Life

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The Church, through its Funeral Rites:

• Celebrates the life and faith of the deceased • Expresses the Church’s belief in the Communion of Saints • Recognizes the spiritual bond that exists between the living and the dead • Brings hope and consolation to the bereaved • Reminds faithful to turn to God in time of need and crisis • Seeks God’s mercy and love • Nourishes the faith of the bereaved • Acknowledges that the deceased benefit from our prayers

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impact that our ACA supported ministries had last year, providing more than 7,400 people with help with basic needs, housing support, financial assistance, and parenting aid, over 8,000 health care visits, 8,330 vaccinations and over 7,100 laboratory tests in Haiti, more than 1,100,000 meals or meal equivalents within the diocese and 9,000 plus students with education in faith. In addition, she noted that we also have seven seminarians on their way to priesthood.

After the presentation, Mary Ellen was able to speak individually with ACA leaders, one of whom was Pat Jackowski of St. Pius X Church, Middletown. Pat’s family has been involved since the beginning of the ACA, when it was named the Annual Bishop Appeal.

Her family’s commitment as the leaders at St. Pius runs deep. Pat shared, “In our home, the Leadership of the ACA is a generational legacy. My parents, Ed and Genie Dypa, have been part of the ACA, originally called the ABA-Annual Bishop’s Appeal, since its inception. As children, we were always taught that we should care for our neighbors and those in need. Service to our St. Pius X Parish was always a part of our lives continuing to our greater community as we grew. As my parents aged, my husband Charlie and I began to co-chair the ACA for St. Pius X. We consider it a Legacy of Love to continue the commitment to the ACA and help care for our diocesan family.”

Pat’s husband, Charlie and her dad, Ed Dypa, also accompanied her to the Leadership Meeting. When asked why he is such a big supporter of the ACA and continues to be involved in the ACA leadership, Ed responded, “I have been committed to the ACA since it began as the ABA. I think it is the one way we can actively participate in the important diocesan ministries that are working to help people in ways beyond what our parish is able to do. When we contribute to our parish, we are primarily

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Faithful Around the World United in Prayer of Peace

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Photos provided by Catherine Hoffman and Ryan Blessing

By Ryan Blessing

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he Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D. joined with the Holy Father, Pope Francis, and the bishops of the world on March 25, the Feast of the Annunciation, in publicly offering a Prayer of Consecration of Russia and Ukraine to the Immaculate Heart of Mary.

“As we gather today, our Holy Father is in the Mother Church of Rome to dedicate the world to Our Lady, invoking her peace,” Bishop Cote said before asking all present to kneel to begin the consecration.

The bishop then led the Prayer of Consecration while standing before the statue of Mary and the

hundreds of people gathered for the consecration and Mass at a packed Cathedral of Saint Patrick in Norwich.

The Mass was one of dozens that took place that day across the United States, as bishops answered the pope’s call to pray the consecration prayer together. From the tip of Florida to southern California, from Seattle to Michigan’s Upper Peninsula, every U.S. diocese participated in one form or another.

The act of consecration took place at the end of the Vatican’s annual Lenten penance service, during which Pope Francis and other priests heard the confessions of

Catholics present in St. Peter’s Basilica.

In his homily, the pope said that the consecration “is no magic formula but a spiritual act.”

“It is an act of complete trust on the part of children who, amid the tribulation of this cruel and senseless war that threatens our world, turn to their Mother, reposing all their fears and pain in her heart and abandoning themselves to her,” he said.

During the liturgy, Francis said: “In these days, news reports and scenes of death continue to enter our homes, even as bombs are

destroying the homes of many of our defenseless Ukrainian brothers and sisters. The vicious war that has overtaken so many people, and caused suffering to all, has made each of us fearful and anxious.

We sense our helplessness and our inadequacy. We need to be told, ‘Do not be afraid’, yet human reassurance is not enough. We need the closeness of God and the certainty of His forgiveness, which alone eliminates evil, disarms resentment, and restores peace to our hearts. Let us return to God and to His forgiveness.”

Material from the Catholic News Agency was used in this story.

Mercy Community Sends Love to the Children of Ukraine

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he Mercy community responded immediately and enthusiastically to long-time friend and supporter, Katie McCarthy Lombardo, and her request to join a grassroots effort to help the children of Ukraine.

“I was looking through social media posts about Ukraine and happened to come across the profile of Kuba Jewgieniew, CEO of Realty ONE Group. His request to donate shoe boxes full of toys, inspired by his own children’s desire to help, really resonated with me. I called Mercy High School — I know the power of the Mercy community,” said Lombardo.

identified, they jump into action!

Supporting Ukrainian children with encouragement, prayers, and smiles encapsulates Mercy’s mission of making the world a better place,” explained Alissa DeJonge, President of Mercy High School.

The energy from this project was palpable as Mercy students put together over 500 boxes in just a few days.

“It feels like we can actually do something to help the children of Ukraine who can’t take anything with them—like we’re giving them a little bit of comfort in a time of need,” said one student. Another added, “These boxes are something

Mercy families, students, faculty, alumnae, and administrators sprang into action, bringing in shoe boxes and new or gently used toys to fit inside the shoe boxes.

Mercy students assembled boxes for children of all ages, labeling boxes for girls, boys, and babies— wrapped in paper, tied with a bow, and adorned with messages of hope for the children of Ukraine.

“Students, faculty, and staff quickly and wholeheartedly embraced this project, because when a need is

that they can carry with them— something that’s all their own.”

Mercy Theology teacher, Jean Pepitone said, “It’s invaluable to have this effort be part of our Theology class where students can apply what they’re learning to a real-life scenario—solidarity is an important lesson for us all.”

This project exemplifies working together—in solidarity—made possible by the quick thinking and actions taken by Lombardo to connect Mercy High School with

Kuba Jewgieniew’s grassroots effort. Jewgieniew is generously sponsoring the shipping to Poland, where his family members are helping distribute the boxes directly to Ukrainian refugee children.

Jewgieniew has opened donation centers at Realty ONE Group locations throughout the country.

Chris Bacoulis owner of the local Realty ONE Group and Katie Lombardo coordinated the delivery and drop-off of Mercy’s donations.

What began as a simple idea and heartfelt desire to help was acted

upon swiftly by Mercy High School, in the spirit of helping others, especially children in need: an important reminder of solidarity, hope, and humanity.

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n St. Patrick’s Day, Our Lady of Perpetual Help Church in Quaker Hill (Divine Mercy Parish) hosted a Lenten concert featuring David Kauffman, presented

by Journey of Life Ministries (journeyforlife.org).

David Kauffman is a contemporary Catholic-Christian songwriter and recording artist, screenwriter and movie producer, whose works touch and inspire people worldwide.

Kauffman has spent three decades on a faith journey that has grown from a personal pursuit to a fullblown mission to create music that touches hearts, feeds souls and influences lives. His music resonates especially with those in the ACTS

day parish life. Kaufman’s music has become an integral component of many of ACTS retreats throughout the world.

David Kauffman entertaining and inspiring attendees at Our Lady of Perpetual Help Church in Quaker Hill.

Retreat Community. ACTS retreats are led by laymen and laywomen, and are named for the four pillars of the retreats – Adoration, Community, Theology, and Service. These retreats

place an emphasis on strengthening the participant’s relationship with Jesus, and to have them return to their parish and share that experience by a deeper involvement in day-to-

Concert attendees included Pastor Robert Buongirno, Parochial Vicar Francis Gilbert and Deacon William Herrmann. All present were pleased to hear and sing along with a number of Kaufman’s most inspiring songs. Especially moving were his renditions of “Be Still,”“Dwell Within My Soul,” and “Out Of Darkness.” He closed the concert with his ode to the Blessed Mother’s Magnificat, “Behold,” which left many in the audience moved to tears and wanting more.

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Visit NorwichDiocese.org for additional pictures and details of the concert. May God continue to bless David in his important ministerial work.

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God Calls Us To Share His Love Through Service

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By Gina Foster s we continue to prepare for our Lord Jesus Christ and His resurrection, we often think of all those who have sacrificed as Jesus did, whether it be the forgoing of personal time through volunteerism, making monetary donations to organizations even through these difficult times or for those who made a life-long commitment to Christ.

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The Meaning of Vocation A vocation or calling can be defined as a strong urge toward a particular way of life or career.

“Ask yourselves, young people, about the love of Christ.

Acknowledge His voice resounding in the temple of your heart. Return His bright and penetrating glance which opens the paths of your life to the horizons of the Church’s mission.

It is a taxing mission, today more than ever, to teach men the truth

about themselves, about their end, their destiny, and to show faithful souls the unspeakable riches of the love of Christ. Do not be afraid of the radicalness of His demands, because Jesus, who loved us first, is prepared to give Himself to you, as well as asking of you. If He asks much of you, it is because He knows you can give much.” - Saint Pope John Paul II,

talking about vocation — we are not simply talking about our profession or career path. Rather, we are talking about the very specific way God is calling us to live to the full and to share His love through service to others. And it all starts with our willingness to let go of whatever it is that prevents us from putting our complete and total trust in Him.”

If He asks “much of you, it is because He knows you can give much.

Your generosity to the ACA helps support the Vocations ministry which in turn supports our diocesan priests, brothers, sisters, deacons, and seminarians on their journeys called upon by Christ.

Father Jonathan Ficara, Director of Vocations stated, “When we are

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Currently the Diocese of Norwich has seven seminarians in various stages of formation and discernment.. Many qualities are important while considering a Vocation. Applicants must have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. They should have the ability to relate to a wide variety of people, adult women and men, the elderly,

youth, and children. They should have a personal devotion to the Blessed Sacrament through regular attendance at the participation of the Eucharist, and they should express a sense of humor and the ability to be self-critical and self-reflective in an honest manner.

Vocations is just one of the ministries that benefits from our Annual Catholic Appeal. With your support you can help many new candidates in their journey with Christ. With our 2022 campaign now underway, please consider a monetary gift to the ACA, to help our ministries carry out their spiritually affirming and life changing missions. To make a contribution to our 2022 ACA “One Faith, One Family” please go online to www.norwichdiocesedevelopment. org or contact Heather Harris, Campaign Manager, at 860-8861928 ext. 111. Thank you so much for your generosity. Wishing you a blessed Easter.

Calendar of Events SUNDAY, APRIL 10, 7:30 PM Palm Sunday Concert-Eastern Connecticut Symphony Orchestra Cathedral of Saint Patrick, Norwich Music director Toshiyuki Shimada will conduct the Eastern Connecticut Symphony Orchestra in a Palm Sunday concert featuring soprano Jūrate Švedaitė and violinist Stephan Tieszen.

The event is sponsored by the Edward and Mary Lord Foundation. Free will donations collected will benefit the ECSO and the St. Vincent de Paul Place.

Brothers in Christ: A Men’s Virtual Faith Group Paused for the Lent and Easter season Normally meets monthly on the second Thursday of the month Join this gathering of Men who will share faith, personal experiences, and discussion. If you are interested in developing fellowship and discipleship with other men devoted to Christ, register by emailing Liza Roach at lroach@norwichdiocese.net or call (860)848-2237 ext. 305.

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TUESDAY, APRIL 19, AT 3 PM Virtual Rosary for Project Rachel Join us virtually the third Tuesday of the month to say the rosary together for Project Rachel for an end to abortion. To get the link to join the rosary email Marianne at manicholas@norwichdiocese.net TUESDAY, APRIL 26, AT 3 PM Virtual Rosary for Child Abuse Prevention Join us virtually to say this special rosary together for those who have suffered from child abuse and the prevention of future child maltreatment. To register email Liza at lroach@norwichdiocese.net or call 860-848-2237 ext. 305.

Make a Memory Easter Basket Collection Project The Office of Faith Events invites everyone to make Easter baskets that will be donated to the soup kitchens/shelters in the Norwich Diocese for children and families. Completed baskets may be dropped off to 199 Broadway during regular business hours until Friday April 8.

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SATURDAY, APRIL 9, 7PM Sing-along and Passion Play presentation on large screen Guardian Angels Parish, St. Andrew Church, 128 Norwich Ave., Colchester CT Come share in a parish experience of the St. Andrew Passion Play. At 7 PM there will be a Passion songs sing-a-long followed by a video projection of the 2019 Passion Play originally put on by St. Andrew parish. Please bring a cushion to sit upon, pews get hard after a while.

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MOMENTS OF HOPE

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hen asked many years ago what the scriptures say about hope the late Maurice Blumberg shared the following in one of a series of articles he wrote for Catholic Exchange. “Hope is faith directed to the future. It’s faith acting on and trusting in the promises God has made. It’s hope that moves us to say “Yes”to God, and it’s hope that gives meaning to our trials...”

Hopefully, we take these words to heart as we journey through life and walk with our brothers and sisters throughout the world. We know this is true for all who help support the work we do through the Diocese of Norwich Outreach to Haiti Ministry.

It is hope that moves us to say yes to God and it is this same hope that gives hope to our Haitian friends that God is with them, especially during times of trouble.

As Christ’s servants we provide moments of hope to ourselves and others as we direct our faith to the future and say yes to God. Through our diocesan ministry, Outreach to Haiti, we experience many moments of hope:

after 4 months and 2 weeks with a weight of 12 kilos. He is just one of the many malnourished children we have brought to full health.”

Jude Cangé, Outreach’s Director of Operations, “Our staff views their work as a special vocation as they answer God’s call and serve as His instrument of love.”

Father Berthony, Parish of Saints Martin & Yves, Delmas, “Thank you for the work you do at the Parish of Les Palmes, Our Lady of Présentation…Thanks to you, I am a priest today!”

sponsorship program] which has inspired me to dream about a better life...This education I have been gifted makes me obligated to become all that I can, that God, family and country desire of me.”

Dr. Sherley Sainterve, Hôpital Le Cayes, “My life changed the day I was selected for the Outreach to Haiti Student Sponsorship Program that provided me a scholarship…I will be forever grateful to Outreach…for helping me realize one of my biggest dreams, which was to be a doctor and serve the poorest community of my country.”

Lamercie Vancol, a participant in Outreach’s FAK program who expanded her peanut butter and jam business thanks to a small loan from Outreach, “I believe my being chosen to participate in FAK is a miracle sent from above!”

David, a post-secondary student, “I am this young boy you have been helping since I was a kid…“It is this program [Outreach’s education

Dr. Jacquet, Outreach’s Medical Director and Pediatrician, “Nelson entered our Food and Nutritional Supplement Program at 13 months with a weight of 8 kilos, after 6 weeks, he moved up to phase 2 of the treatment was completely healed

Outreach to Haiti, works in the Archdiocese of Port-au-Prince to provide life-enhancing and life-saving services to the men, women, and children living in the neighborhood of Christ Roi (Christ the King) and the communities served by the fourteen Haitian Parishes who twin with Parishes in our Diocese and other US Dioceses through our Parish Twinning Program.

God gifted us with great hope through the death of His only Begotten Son, Our Lord Jesus Christ.

As we approach Easter Sunday, let us reflect on the gift of hope—our faith directed to the future— and how it manifests itself in our daily lives.

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Connecticut Pro-Life Advocates

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s March on the Capitol

Knights of Columbus.

In his homily, Archbishop Blair noted Connecticut’s reputation as a state where anti-life legislation has contributed to a prevalent culture of death. “We find ourselves in a cloud of darkness and death,” he said, “but the bright light of God’s joy and mercy is always with us.”

The archbishop described the prevalence of abortion in American society as a sign of “mercilessness.”

He emphasized that Catholics believe “life from conception until natural death is sacred to God, the author of life,” and that, “in the end, all will be

accountable to him.”

In the face of the evil of abortion, he said, the faithful feel “the righteous indignation of the Old and New Testament prophets,” and Jesus himself “promised harsh judgment to the unrepentant.”

In 2022, the March for Life’s state march program will hold five state marches: Connecticut, Virginia, California, Pennsylvania and Ohio. In 2023, that number will double to 10, then doubling again each year until all 50 states have an annual March for Life in their capital cities.

Editor’sNote-ThankyoutoalltheMarcherswhoprovidedphotosofthedayandaspecialthankyoutoAaronJosephoftheArchdioceseofHartfordforsharinghis wonderful photos of the Mass and the March with our readers. Additional photos can be viewed at NorwichDiocese.org

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n Wednesday, March 23, Connecticut saw its first March for Life held on the steps of the State Capitol in Hartford. Organizers estimated there were about 3,000 marchers.

Among the speakers were Jeanne Mancini, president of the March for Life; Archbishop Leonard Blair of Hartford, evangelical archbishop Leroy Bailey; senior pastor at The First Cathedral in Bloomfield; Sister of Life Mariae Agnus Dei; Christopher Healy, executive director of the Connecticut Catholic Conference; Peter Wolfgang, executive director of the Family Institute of Connecticut; Lisa Maloney, president of the Connecticut Pregnancy Care Center Coalition, Christina Bennett of Live Action and State Rep. Lezlye Zupkus, R-Prospect.

“With the prospect that the battle against abortion will go to the state level, we need to focus our efforts all the more at the local level,” Archbishop Blair told the National Catholic Register. “I am gratified to see so many people here today … and thankful for the chance to publicly stand up for life.”

Connecticut has historically been one of the nation’s most aggressively pro-abortion states, and pro-life advocates have struggled to make any meaningful changes to the law.

The night before the march, St. Mary’s Church in New Haven hosted a “Mass for Life.”

Archbishop Blair celebrated the Mass in the recently renovated church that houses the tomb of Blessed Michael McGivney, founder of the

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Knights Korner

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Awards and Scholarships

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Past award winners: L-R Front -- Marissa Airoldi, Paige Albert, Kadie Dutton, Phoenix Grover; Back -- Nathan Marcotte, Fiona Crowley, Mallory Goldsmith, Cole Hickey Photo by Jen Grover

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he Knights of Columbus, Edmund P. Perkins Council #6626 located in Tolland host an annual youth awards event to recognize young people who are making a significant and positive difference in the Tolland community. There are four awards given: The Civil Citizenship Award was created as a direct result of Columbine High School shootings in April of 1999. After witnessing the exaggerated amount of attention given to the shooters, a group of knights met and came to the conclusion that we must find a way to recognize those individuals in our middle school who exemplify the role of peacemakers and bridge building between the many peer groups.

The first awards were given in the Spring of 2000, and have

continued to this day. Winners are chosen by the Knights from the list of candidates nominated by their teachers. The candidates represent those who display kind, selfless acts towards others, and a willingness to encourage others to be the best.

The Catholic Leadership Award is presented to 2 students from St Matthew’s current year Confirmation class.

Nominees are selected based on their display of leadership skills exemplifying their Catholic upbringing. Nominees submit an essay detailing examples of how they show Catholic leadership in their everyday life. All of the essays submitted provide examples including acts of charity, volunteerism, kindness towards their peers and community and most of all how they show leadership.

The submissions are reviewed blindly and two are chosen for recognition.

The KOC Scholarship Award is given to 2 or 3 high school senior students who reside in Tolland. The awards are based on their academic achievements as well as their contribution to the support and welfare of the surrounding community.

The Youth of the Year Award is presented to a graduating senior who exemplifies the Catholic ideals of charity, compassion, fortitude and leadership, as well as scholastic achievement. In addition, the winner is nominated by the Tolland Council for the Youth of the Year Award presented by the Connecticut State Council of the Knights of Columbus.

Knights Scholarship Announced The Knights of Columbus, Freestone Council 7, will be awarding three $1,000 scholarships this spring to any Portland high school senior who is furthering their education at a college, university, or technical school.

The application is available at the area high schools or by requesting an application at scholarship@ rsitg.com. All Portland residents graduating this year are eligible.

Due to the support of our Portland community, our monthly Dinners 2 Go was successful enough for us to be able to continue the funding of our annual scholarships for our 5th year.

The deadline for submitting applications is April 18 and the awards will be announced in May.

New Parish and Administration Center at St. Bernard Church

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n February 27th Bishop Michael Cote blessed the new Blessed Sacrament Parish Administration Center and the renovated St Bernard Parish Center.

Father Rick, pastor of the Blessed Sacrament Parish addressed the parish on this great occasion. From his homily at the Mass of Blessing Father Rick shared these words . . .

Jesus speaks of our need to bear good fruit. We are called to use our time, talent, and resources in a way that we make a positive difference in the lives of others.

The call to make a positive difference goes beyond our individual need to grow and bear fruit – Christ also directs us to make His Church strong, vibrant, growing, and welcoming.

Certainly, through the new Blessed

Sacrament Administration Offices and the New St Bernard Parish Center we recognize that an example of good fruit is found in the work we do for our parish.

The necessity of this two-year project became most evident when we reflected on our Parish Mission:

As a Catholic family, we are called

by Christ to prayerfully create and nourish a vibrant community centered on the Eucharist and dedicated to service, spirituality, and evangelization.

Plain and simple, we outgrew our aging buildings. Many of our people couldn’t participate in our programs because we had aging buildings that were not handicapped accessible.

We had buildings that were held together with duct tape and a prayer – not to mention the constant cost of repair work.

Our dream of having what we now have was only made possible by the generosity of some kind benefactors who loved their God and His Church, the diligent work of our Endowment and Finance Committee and the generous sharing of your time, talent and treasure. As the Gospel shares, “A good person out

of the store of goodness in his or her heart produces good, for from the fullness of the heart the mouth speaks.” I love that!

Our Churches are more than places to meet on Sunday mornings – they are a beautiful oasis of God’s Grace filling our hearts, strengthening our resolve, and inspiring our dreams and hope for a better future. Now more than ever we need to bear good fruit for a world that is starving.

Thank you everyone for all your prayers and support and encouragement during this exciting expansion of our Parish. Let’s fill this new Parish Center with life, creativity, good works, education, laughter, faith, vision, and compassion.

Editor’s note- the above text is an excerpt from Fr. Ricard’s Homily.

The complete homily can be found at NorwichDiocese.org.

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Award Recognizes Hughes for 45 Years of Service, Ministry

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By Mary-Jo McLaughlin

hen Judith Hughes was asked how she felt receiving the Our Lady Queen of Hope Award at the Diocesan Women’s Conference last month, she replied in a soft voice, with gleaming eyes, and a gentle smile that exuded peace and warmth, with one simple word, “WOW!”

Then she humbly added, “I feel I don’t deserve it. There are so many other women who are doing wonderful and important things who are more deserving than me.”

But in reviewing the list of nominees for this year’s award, as well as the criteria for it, the members of the Diocesan Women’s Conference Committee voted unanimously that Hughes was more than deserving of this recognition. She has been involved in spiritual renewal ministry in the Diocese for nearly

45 years and currently serves in a voluntary capacity as co-director of the Spiritual Renewal Center in Norwich.

“Clearly Judith’s commitment, dedication and work in spiritual renewal over the past 45 years reflect the foundational criteria for this award: commitment to Catholic values, a deep love for our Lord, spiritual leadership and service to the Church,” said Andrea Hoisl, director of the Diocesan Office of Faith Events, which oversees the women’s conference.

Bishop Michael Cote affirmed those same sentiments in formally announcing Hughes as award recipient in a video presented at the virtual conference. “Judith, your devotion to the church and Her many good works has come back to bless you,” he said. “Your dedication is well-known.”

Also in the video, Fr. Darius Dudzik, her pastor at St. Patrick

Church, East Hampton, applauded Hughes and called her both a dynamic Catholic and a ‘pillar’ of the church. “Today we gather to celebrate…a more modern pillar of the church, Judy Hughes, who has been giving of herself, her time, her skills, ability, and her love for the church for so many years.

She’s definitely one who’s unafraid to love Jesus present in our church today and unafraid to be involved.”

He thanked her for living her faith enthusiastically, joyfully, and with commitment, and for “being a ‘Beacon of Hope’ for the future of the church.”

Hughes began her ministry in spiritual renewal working with Fr. Ray Introvigne, director of the Spiritual Renewal Center, in the late 1970s as a volunteer secretary. After the death of her husband Bill in 1984, then Bishop Daniel P. Reilly hired her parttime as associate director of the office and in 1994, Bishop Daniel A. Hart appointed her co-director with Fr. Ray. Together the two grew the ministry giving parish missions, retreats, healing services, spiritual enrichment programs and leading prayer groups throughout the diocese. They have also led spiritual pilgrimages to numerous holy sights in Rome and Israel as well several sights of Marian apparitions in Europe.

In the late 1980s, Hughes became certified as a spiritual director from the Benediction Monastery in Pecos, New Mexico. She continues journeying with people in that role today helping them to enrich their prayer lives and listen to how the Lord is moving and working in their lives. Hughes also served as a member and chair of one national and one international spiritual renewal association. Currently, she is working with another parishioner in revitalizing her parish’s Care and

Comfort Ministry to the Bereaved.

“I’ve never sought validation or affirmation for anything I have been involved with. I’ve done it out of love for Him,” she said referring to God. When asked what personal benefit she has derived from the ministry, she replied, “That I know that I am loved by God, and He does take care of me.”

She expressed deep gratitude for the support and encouragement of Fr. Ray who, in addition to being her ministry colleague these past 45 years, she called her ‘best friend.’ Fr. Ray echoed those same thoughts. In the video honoring Hughes at the Women’s Conference, he said to her, “I feel blessed that God brought us together to do His work. When I think back on all the lives you have

Judith Hughes with Fr. Ray Introvigne, director of the Spiritual Renewal Center.

touched and continue to touch, I know that God is alive and well in our crazy world. Spiritual renewal came to life because the Holy Spirit touched your heart, and you brought that spirit to others.”

Her eyes watering, Hughes said she considers receiving this award as God’s way of saying to her, “Well done, good and faithful servant.”

And, choking back tears, added, “And I have tried to be faithful every step of the way.”

Young Adults Gather for 4th Annual Diocesan Young Adult Mass

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ollege students from the University of Connecticut were happy to return to St. Thomas Aquinas in Storrs on Feb. 27 for the 4th Annual Diocesan Young Adult Mass.

The Mass, organized by the Diocese’s Office of Faith Events and celebrated by the Most Rev. Michael R. Cote, Bishop of Norwich, is a special gathering for young adults ages 18-39, open to all.

people of Ukraine are no reflection of God’s mercy, nor of His intention for all that He has created out of His love and His beauty,” the Bishop said.

He asked the young people to use the few weeks of Lent to deepen their conversion to Christ, “And increase our faith in Him, who is the way, the truth and the life.”

“I will soon be 73, so I don’t qualify,” Bishop Cote quipped. “I’ll do my best to relate.”

This year’s Mass came at a time of great world upheaval, just days after Russia invaded Ukraine, and Bishop Cote addressed the events in his homily.

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A silent auction will feature Bushnell and Goodspeed Shows’ Tickets, Red Sox & Yankee Games’ Tickets, Tour of the Kentucky Bourbon Trail, Haitian Artwork and Baskets of Cheer!

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St. James School, Danielson Elyse McAteer, Principal 120 Water St, Danielson 860-774-3281 stjamesdanielson.org

St. John School, Old Saybrook

Mother Elaine Moorcroft, SCMC, Principal 42 Maynard Road, Old Saybrook 860-388-0849 saintjohnschoolos.org

St. John Paul II School, Middletown Larry Fitzgerald, Principal 87 South Main Street. Middletown 860-347-2978 JPII.org

St. Joseph School, Baltic

Sr. Mary Patrick Mulready, SCMC, Principal 10 School Hill Road, Baltic 860-822-6141 Stjosephschoolbaltic.com

St. Joseph School, New London

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Marianne Cote, Principle 25 Squire Street, New London 860-442-1720 SJSNL.com

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SAINT JOSEPH SCHOOL BALTIC A Strong Foundation for Students and a Valuable Asset to Families

St. Michael School, Pawcatuck

My dear friends, This month we focus the spotlight on another one of the outstanding educational institutions in the diocese - Saint Joseph School in Baltic.

St. Patrick Cathedral School, Norwich

Nestled in the town of Sprague, village of Baltic, is Saint Joseph School, one of several Catholic elementary schools in the Diocese of Norwich whose origin dates back to 1874.

Known for “Faith, Family, and Tradition,” Saint Joseph School is privileged to have four Sisters of Charity of Our Lady Mother of the Church serving on its staff along with several dedicated lay staff whose mission is to bring Jesus Christ to all of their students and their families on a daily basis in a safe and nurturing environment.

Doris Messina, Principal West Broad St., Pawcatuck 860-599-1084 stmichaelschoolct.com

Sharon Stewart, Principal 211 Broadway, Norwich 860-889-4174 st-patrickschoolnorwich.org

Academy of the Holy Family, Baltic Mother Mary David, SCMC, Principal 54 West Main St, Baltic 860-822-9272 ahfbaltic.org

Mercy High School, Middletown Alissa DeJonge, President 1740 Randolph Road, Middletown 860-346-6659 mercyhigh.com

St. Bernard School, Uncasville

Donald Macrino, Headmaster 1593 Norwich-New London Tpke, Uncasville 860-848-1271 saint-bernard.com

Xavier High School, Middletown David C. Eustis, Headmaster Brendan Donohue, Principal 181 Randolph Road, Middletown 860-346-7735 xavierhighschool.org

Walking into Saint Joseph School, one cannot help but notice happy students and staff. This school draws students from about ten surrounding towns offering a strong academic program for students in grades pre-k – eight. In addition, music, art, Italian to grades kindergarten –four and Spanish to grades five – eight, physical education and computer classes are also offered.

All students in grades three- eight have chrome books while students in grades kindergarten – two

have iPads to assist them in class work and on-line programs. Students also have the opportunity to participate in instrumental music provided by the Future Musicians Inc and participate in two instrumental concerts a year. Saint Joseph School students showcase their talent in the Annual Christmas Concert with a Christmas art display as well as the Annual Spring Concert and Art Show. While the school is small in size, it is big in spirit as families and friends fill St. Michael Center for these events.

Our Saint Joseph School Parent Group is a very spirited and active group who not only sponsors fundraisers such as our Annual walk-a-thon, Christmas Extravaganza, and Sea Unicorns baseball game but also provide fun events such as the Pumpkin Derby, Bonfire, Father-Daughter Dance, Mother-Son Brunch and Field Day. Our committed staff and parents work together to create a wonderful family spirit that provides for the best well-rounded education in a traditional Catholic setting.

All of this is, of course, supported and surrounded by a very strong Catholic identity where students are taught to live a loving Christian life, putting our faith into action by sharing our

As stated by parents: “Saint Joseph School is a valuable asset to our family. From the teachers and staff to the intimate classroom setting, we love the family-centric community. The principals and ideals taught by Saint Joseph School create a strong foundation for our family. Matthew and Caron Smith.

“We could not be happier than we are with Saint Joseph School. Our daughter has flourished in a school

Prayer to the Blessed Virgin Mary O most beautiful flower of Mount Carmel, fruitful vine splendour of Heaven. Blessed Mother of the Son of God, immaculate Virgin, assist me in this my necessity. O star of the sea help me and show me herein you are my mother.

O holy Mary. Mother of God ,Queen of Heaven and Earth. I humbly beseech you from the bottom of my Heart to succour me in my necessity. There are none that can withstand your power. O show me here you are my mother. O Mary, conceived without sin pray for us who have recourse to thee. Holy Mary I place my cause in your hands. (Repeat three times) Thank you Virgin Mary for your mercy towards me and mine.

Amen

environment that challenges and encourages each student to be his/ her very best in the classroom while embracing them with the Good News of Jesus Christ. We are happy that we joined this family and have become a part of an ever-expanding tradition of Catholic values.”

- Michael and Cathy Sypher Saint Joseph School is hosting an Open House on Wednesday, April 27th, and again on May 18th, 9:00 a.m. – 2:00 p.m. For further information, please contact Sister Mary Patrick, SCMC at (860) 8226141 or sistermarypatrick@gmail. com.

May God bless you and keep you safe.

Dr. Gail Kingston Superintendent of Schools

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God-given talents, participating in “Random Acts of Kindness” throughout the year as well as supporting those in need especially with food drives for the Haitian Health Foundation. Opportunities for spiritual enrichment with Morning Prayer together, schoolwide Masses, Benediction of the Blessed Sacrament, and a Rosary Rally as a school where parents are welcome to attend, all support our daily quest for sanctity. While COVID has restricted several of these gatherings these last couple of years, we are gradually moving forward once again.

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The Academy of the Holy Family’s Spirit Week

By Kailey Boccia, Eleanor Cooper, Iris Gillette, Anna Plascencia, and Isabella Wright

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he Academy of the Holy Family held our yearly Spirit Week in February.

We did a lot of incredible things as a school and as a community including celebrating International Day.

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Guess that Song. Each class had two players who

listened to a song until one of the classes guessed the song title correctly. Things got very competitive, and you could see the desperation as students wrote out the song title before another class did.

One of the best parts of these activities was watching those who have never heard of a game actually playing it for the first time.

For example, Sophomore Ruth Deneke was presented with the idea of Limbo, and she was bravely willing to try something new.

Ruth stated that she wanted to try it because she thought that she was flexible. She soon found out that she wasn’t so flexible. She said that she knows she could have done better, and she’s extremely determined to win next time!

Another game we played was Musical Chairs which was hilarious. Students would run over to the last chair, and some of the girls would even tackle each other just to claim a seat. As

Even though the students are together for the whole school year, Spirit Week is a time where everyone comes together, learns about each other, and truly bonds with each other!

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This day brought awareness to the different cultures of everyone in our school—students from all over the world including the United States, Ethiopia, South Africa, Vietnam, and Columbia.

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On International Day, many students dressed up in the traditional clothing of their home country. One of our students, Camila, is from Columbia. She wore a Cumbia, a dress used for traditional dances, especially the one it is named after. It consists of a floor-length skirt and an open shoulder top, with the whole garment covered i n flowers.

The shoes it is paired with are alpargatas, which are m a d e from

around the world, with the tops made out of cotton.

Another favorite part of International Day is the food.

Students and teachers made food from their home countries and cultures. There were dishes from regions such as South Africa, South America, and Asia. A popular food item was the Chinese fried rice, which included: Chinese sausage, egg, rice, and a variety of vegetables. Overall this experience helped the AHF community to become closer and learn more about each other.

S p i r i t Week was full of activities.

We played

you can see, here at AHF, we can be quite competitive, no matter the game.

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Saints and the MathWorks Math Modeling Challenge (M3 Challenge)

By Kimberly Hodges

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teams that participated presented their findings in solution papers to a panel of professional mathematicians from the business, higher education, and military communities.

The M3 Challenge pushes students to the limits of what they know about math and how to work together as a team under a time limit. Students do not know what

the topic is until the competition starts. This year’s topic was about the trend of jobs becoming remote or remote-ready in five different cities.

Students worked together to research, categorize data, make predictions, and provide solutions using mathematical models. The two Saint Bernard

At stake is $100,000 in scholarship prizes for the top six teams, who will be invited to present their paper in an expense-paid trip to New York. In addition to the top prizes, there are 28 semifinalists and honorable mention awards, internship opportunities, and prizes for the schools of the top six teams. Results of the top teams selected will be available in April.

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ow would you like to do math for 14 hours straight? Members of the Saint Bernard School Math Honor Society did — as part of the MathWorks Math Modeling Challenge (M3 Challenge).

The M3 Challenge is a 14-hour mathematical research contest that hundreds of schools across the U.S. and U.K. participate in each year. This is the third year that Saint Bernard’s students have participated in the program.

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By Jeff Otterbein

Xavier Senior Earns West Point Appointment

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Mitchell Wollen

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he certificate of appointment to West Point says it all: “On behalf of the President of the United States of America and the United States Military Academy Admissions Committee, I take great pleasure in presenting this certificate of appointment to Mitchell Reed Wollen, Class of 2026.”

“I have always kind of enjoyed the strict structure in school and everyday life,” Wollen said. “My busy schedule of going to school, swimming every night and doing homework after that put me in my place … and serving my country is a great opportunity.

“Another big factor was my uncle Joe. He was a brigadier general in the Army who recently passed away. He always had a big impact on me from a young age, and I always wanted to follow in his footsteps.”

On this day, Ash Wednesday, Wollen posed for a few photos and did a short interview, then handed out programs at Mass, returned to classes after Mass, and would be swimming in the SCC Championships that started at 4:30 p.m. A busy

day. A structured day. A Wollen kind of day.

He was part of a school record in the 400 freestyle relay in which Xavier finished first. He also was part of the 200 medley relay team that won and had a second and third in individual events.

On Tuesday night he had gone to the Veterans Home in Rocky Hill. Last summer Wollen built a stand for wood. “Wood For Warriors,” is carved into the top. As is “Freedom Is Never Free. $5 Per Bundle.” He donated eights packs of bottled water, 400 Keurig cups for coffee, 30 gifts cards to Walmart for $10 each, and $200 in cash to the Veterans Home. Previously he had donated $500 to the Navy Seals. All of it was raised by selling those $5 bundles.

Wollen was just a sophomore when the pandemic hit and closed schools in March 2020. Back then he and his family built signs with red hearts that said “Thank You” to all the healthcare and frontline workers. That effort raised thousands of dollars that turned into snacks and meals for all kinds of organizations in Wallingford.

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Seven Schools Compete in Annual Diocesan Tournament

St. James, Danielson Girls Varsity Champions

By Liza Roach

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even Catholic schools from the Diocese of Norwich participated last month in the Diocesan Catholic Schools Tournament held at St. Bernard’s School, Uncasville.

Participating basketball teams competing in all four categories – boys and girls junior and varsity teams – were St. James, Danielson and St. Patrick, Norwich. St. John, Old Saybrook, competed in both girls junior and varsity and boy varsity games. St. John Paul II, Middletown sported teams for both the boys junior and varsity and girls varsity games. St. Bernard, Uncasville competed in both girls and boys varsity and the remaining teams,

St. Joseph, New London, and St. Michael, Pawcatuck rounded out the boys varsity games.

In the girls junior varsity bracket, St. John, Old Saybrook won the championship game first defeating St. James before moving on to a win against St. Patrick. St James won the boys junior varsity championship beating St. Patrick who went to the second round by beating St. John Paul II. In the girls varsity category St. Bernard ousted St. John in the first round. In the second round, St. James defeated St. John Paul II and St. Bernard won against St. Patrick. St. James took the

title in the championship game defeating St. Bernard.

The first round of boys varsity games had St. Joseph, New London, winning over St. Bernard; St. Patrick over St. Michael, and St. John Paul II over St. James. In the second round, St. John Paul II beat St. Patrick.

St. Joseph squeaked by St. John Paul II in the championship game for the win and the title in that category.

The Diocesan Office of Faith Events, which oversees the tournament, congratulates all of the champion teams as well as all of the players for their exceptional sportsmanship.

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By Kathy D’Amelio, Director of Safe Environments

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This month recognizes the importance of families and communities working together to prevent child abuse and neglect. We in the Diocese of Norwich, our parishes, schools and ministries take child protection as a top priority.

We are working each day to provide safe places for our young people to learn and grow in their faith. Through the work on the NO GO TELL curriculum, conversations and support, we will continue to strive for safe environments for all our young people and vulnerable adults to have safe places and opportunities to flourish and share their faith.

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Diakonia: Instrument of God’s Charity

The word “deacon” is derived from “diakonia,” a Greek word which means “to serve.” Deacons are members of the clergy along with priests and bishops. The deacon’s ministry has three dimensions: liturgy, word and service. Deacons are ordained as a sacramental sign to the Church and to the world of Christ,who came “to serve and not to be served.”

This column will focus on the service of the Deacons in the Diocese of Norwich.

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didn’t start out dreaming about serving in a soup kitchen. I didn’t start out dreaming about giving comfort to folks who are grieving. I dreamt about being a writer. I did work on newspapers as reporter and editor for quite a few years, including a stint at the Four County Catholic (FCC), but something else was brewing.

God had planted a seed in my heart and the Holy Spirit watered it until it blossomed some 40 years ago when I learned the Sisters of Mercy were planning to open a soup kitchen in Middletown, one year after one opened in Norwich.

The minute I walked through the door of that building on Main Street, which is still home to St. Vincent de Paul Middletown, I knew this was where I was meant to be. What began there continues as my ministry to those who need food, prayer, someone who listens. It was here, too, that I began to realize that some who came suffered the loss of a loved one and they needed not just chat, but understanding, help in dealing with the loss.

That started me seeking education in bereavement support. Working with professionals at Middlesex Hospice, I monitored bereavement groups and eventually facilitated groups on my own including one for the hospital which met monthly in Essex until Covid arrived.

In the interim I took a CPE (Clinical Pastoral Education) unit at Conn. Hospice to strengthen my skills. Now, I help with grief support on a one-to-one basis and I assist Faith Events in its annual outreach to members of the diocesan family who have suffered losses.

Currently I spend my ministry time at St. Vincent de Paul in Norwich. Been there about 20 years, splitting time early on between there and my duties at the FCC. I’m now serving as one of the

chefs there. I’ve learned a lot from more experienced chefs and from some of the best volunteers in any kitchen. I am truly blessed in that regard.

Now, I went into more detail about my ministries than I usually do, not because I’m trying to impress you, but because I hope you can see how the Holy Spirit can work in our lives. All it takes is a little nudge and you can do wonderful things for the Lord.

I would dare say I could not do my ministry, and I don’t think anyone in ministry that helps others could, without my faith, prayer and trust in God who sends good people into our lives to help us do His will.

Let me close this with one of my favorite stories about a can of soup donated by one of the patrons. It was all that he could give.

Here’s what happened to that can.

It ended up in our pantry where families come to pick up groceries. One of the pantry patrons, Doris, not her real name, picked up that can of soup in her grocery order. A couple of days later her kids got sick and she was unable to get back to the pantry to restock, so she had to stretch her allotment. She did so.

Right down to that can of soup.

When she returned to the pantry she told staff there that she knew as long as she had that can of soup, her kids would not go hungry.

I encourage you to take a look in your own pantry, check out the clothes closet. Are there items there that you could share? Clothes that no longer fit perhaps, multiple cans of the same veggies? Think about donating them, after all, your donation, even one can of soup, could mean the difference to a family facing hunger every day.

Thanks.

Explore the Diocese’s Unique Places of Prayer

By Deacon Benedict LoCasto

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uring Lent I like to visit places of calm and reflection where I can feel alone in prayer, and in the presence of God. Over the years I have visited several such places which are conveniently located in our Diocese.

One spot that I often visit is Enders Island. This is an 11-acre island off the coast of Mystic, which welcomes visitors to take the journey across a single-lane causeway to visit the magnificent chapel of Our Lady of the Assumption, featuring dozens of unique works in Sacred Art. During daylight hours, visitors are welcome to walk the grounds and experience the spectacularly preserved gardens of Alys Enders. A small gift shop with religious goods and home-made jellies is available in the foyer of St. Michael’s Hall. Mass is celebrated at 9 a.m. daily.

This Lent I visited a place I had not been to in many years, The Immaculate Conception Center. It is tucked away in Connecticut’s “Quiet Corner” fewer than 10 miles from the Massachusetts and Rhode Island borders. Situated on 85 acres, this retreat center and convent invites visitors to step away from the business of everyday life and enter a space of silence, prayer and contemplation to encounter the Lord.

If you are seeking a place where you can step away from everyday concerns and encounter Christ, come and walk the grounds of Enders Island or Immaculate Conception Center.

If you would like to find out more about either of these locations visit our website.

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Love for Easter Comes from New Life in Christ

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By Liza Roach

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ften, when I was a young child, my mother would say how much she loved Easter. At the time, I never understood why. To my young mind, how could Easter be better than the birth of Christ at Christmas and the sharing of gifts? Yet, as I grew older, I began to understand why.

I have been a Catechetical Leader for many years. When Easter approaches, this often means an Easter egg hunt for all the children of the parish. In teaching about Easter, there was always a lesson with Easter Eggs, which we called Resurrection Eggs. Each egg had an item inside that told the Easter Story. In the first egg, there is a palm branch to remind us of Jesus’ triumphal entry into Jerusalem when the town people laid down palm branches for

Jesus to travel upon. In other eggs, there are thorns to remind us of Jesus being crowned with thorns and dice to remind us of the soldiers casting lots for Jesus’ tunic. Another Egg had a nail in it reminding us of Good Friday when Jesus was nailed to the Cross. These eggs are a wonderful way to invite children into the story of Easter.

Here’s a story that comes to mind that shows how a child-like faith can teach us. One bright spring day, students in a First Communion class were given an Easter egg. The catechist instructed the children that each of them were going to go outside and find something that reminded them of “new life.” The students ran outside and scavenged for items to put in their Easter egg.

After a few minutes, they lined up

and went back to their classroom.

The catechist asked each of the students to share what they had found and why it reminded them of “new life.” Mary went first.

She had found a bud on a branch reminding her of “new life” as the tree was coming alive again after the winter. Next, Henry opened his egg with grass in it. He told the class, “The grass reminded me of ‘new life’ because it had been brown all winter and now it is green to show it has life.”

Sandy went next and showed her class a flower. It was ‘new life,’ she said, because after the dead of winter it was alive with life. Sam went next, and when he opened his egg, it was empty. Puzzled, the catechist asked why he did not have something to share.

Sam said, “My egg is empty just like the tomb on Easter. We have

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‘new life’ with Jesus because he rose from the dead to forgive our sins and bring us to heaven.”

The catechist said his answer perfectly achieved the lesson’s objective.

Why is Easter my mother’s favorite? My mother knew that Jesus brought us ‘new life,’ by giving up his so we could be free from sin. In the celebration of Easter, each of us is united with Christ through His resurrection.

Jesus frees us from sin and paves the way for our own resurrection at the end of time. Happy Easter!

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Pasta for Hope – Serving A good Cause

By Edward J. Tessman Executive Director, Catholic Charities

Church community and the Knights of Columbus from Council #14, specifically Grand Knight Charlie Nadile, Larry King, Sam Bruder, Colin atholic Charities, with the help and Rice, Dan Roberts and John DeVivo.” It was a support from the Knights of Columbus great evening. The pasta was cooked to perfection, Council #14 and the Willimantic the sauce was handmade and simmered for hours, Community held a Pasta for Hope the meatballs were huge and the desserts were outPALM SUNDAY MASS Dinner at Saint Joseph Church Hall on Saturday, of this world. We were excited to have the Bishop SUNDAY APRIL 10 FUNERAL HOMES October 12 29th.Ocean Children of all ages were encouraged join us for Street this community event which will allow 12 Ocean Avenue Avenue Grand 4848 Grand Street New London, CT New London, CT Niantic, CT Niantic, CT to dress in costumes and play games for candy. us739-6112 to continue to “Provide Help and Create Hope”VIGIL SATURDAY APRIL 9TH 443-1871 443-1871 739-6112 Father Larry LaPointe graciously offered the use of for those most in need. www.neilanfuneralhome.com SUNDAY 7:30AM, 9:00AM 10:30 AM AND 5 PM the Parish Hall and the event was a success.

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