Four County Catholic December 2011 by Diocese of Norwich

Volume 23 Number 11

December 2011

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The Most Reverend

Michael R. Cote, D.D.

Bishop of Norwich

The Difference Maker in the Storm My Dear Brothers and Sisters in Christ: As we now approach the third Sunday of Advent, we find ourselves at the beginning of the Church year. It is a time of personal reflection and anticipation of the coming celebration of our Lord’s Nativity. In many homes, an Advent calendar or Advent wreath will help keep watch of the days remaining until Christmas. It is a time that symbolizes our spiritual journey as individuals and as a congregation. In thinking about our journey of faith, inspiration sometimes come to us from unexpected sources and may catch us by surprise. I can tell you that I had such a moment recently. As a diocese, we are blessed with several significant military communities within the area we serve, among them the United States Coast Guard Academy and Research and Development Center in New London and the Naval

Submarine Base in Groton. Although these installations are within the jurisdiction of the Archdiocese for the Military Services, USA, we have many occasions to interact with the assigned servicemen and servicewomen. It was my privilege to celebrate the Red, White and Blue Mass at the Cathedral of St. Patrick a few weeks ago. On that occasion, I happened to engage in a conversation with a retired Coast Guard Commander. Our conversation gave me the opportunity to share how much I admire the courage and dedication of all who serve in the Coast Guard. At one point, we touched on the heralded Coast Guard rescue swimmers. The first question that came to mind was what is the single most important attribute of a successful Coast Guard Rescue Swimmer? His answer surprised me. First, he was kind enough to inform me that the special pro-

gram for rescue swimmer training is in Elizabeth City, North Carolina. Then he explained that it wasn’t physical strength, or the ability to swim faster than the rest, or overall athletic ability, and not even endurance. These were important qualifications. However, the single most valued attribute is what they call “confidence in the water.” This translates into the ability to be comfortable under high stress airsea rescue conditions. When a rescue swimmer encounters chaos at the scene of a crisis under the worst possible weather and heavy seas, he must demonstrate grace under pressure. When he gets to a victim out there, and grabs hold of him, and tells him he is a rescue swimmer and is going to help him – the survivor will feel that confidence and gain strength and hope. That’s the difference maker in the storm. It’s confidence. True throughout the military.

Hearing this came as an inspiration to me as I immediately made a connection to the importance of confidence in one’s faith. In the face of cultural chaos, trials and troubling secularization, it takes assuredness of faith to see yourself and others through the rough water and darkness. Living your faith with unwavering confidence brings grace and strength to you and those around you. As described in Isaiah 30:15, “… quietness and confidence shall be your strength.” Even aside from the treacherous economy at the moment, the approaching Christmas season, although such a joyous occasion, can increase stress for those struggling financially and emotionally. This is where exuding confidence that our Lord and Savior is there for each of us will help our brothers and sisters experience the true meaning and comfort of Christmas. The Holy Father, Pope Bene-

dict, recently addressed this subject by citing commitment as the source of confidence… stating that “It is confidence that shows that goodness exists and that it is growing in our midst……our role as Christians is to take an active part in the life of society, seeking to make it even more humane.” Let us build on that call to faith as we approach the Christmas season this year. Let us spread confidence and cheer among all we encounter. There can be no greater gift of the season than lifting our neighbor’s spirits. May you have a blessed Advent and Christmas. And may your joyful confidence of faith save lives and souls in the storms that confront us. May the Lord continue to bless you and your loved ones. Sincerely yours in Christ’s love, Bishop Michael R. Cote

Lo Que Hace la Diferencia en la Tormenta Queridos hermanos y hermanas en Cristo: A medida que nos acercamos al Tercer Domingo de Adviento, nos encontramos en el comienzo del año Litúrgico. Es un tiempo de reflexión personal y de anticipación a la llegada de la celebración de Navidad. En muchos hogares, un calendario de Adviento o una corona de Adviento ayuda a mantener la vigilancia de los días que quedan hasta Navidad. Este es un tiempo que simbolíza nuestro viaje espiritual como individuos y como Iglesia. Al pensar a cerca de nuestro viaje de fé, la inspiración a veces nos viene desde fuentes inesperadas y puede sorprendernos. Le puedo

decir que he tenido un momento similar recientemente. Como diócesis, estamos bendecidos dentro del área que servimos con bastantes comunidades militares significativas entre ellas la Academia de la Guarda Costa de los E.E.U.U. y el Centro de Investigación y Desarrollo en New London y la Base Naval Submarina en Groton. A pesar de que estas instalaciones están dentro de la Juridisción de la Arquidiócesis para los Servicios Militares de E.E.U.U., tenemos muchas ocasiones para interactuar con los designados hombres de servicio, mujeres y, sus Capellanes, el padre Thomas Hoar y el padre Daniel Mode. Fue mi privilegio el celebrar la

Misa Rojo, Blanco y Azul en la Catedral de St. Patrick unas pocas semanas atrás. En ésa ocasión, se me ocurrió entablar conversación con un comandante retirado de la Guardia Costera. Nuestra conversación me dió oportunidad de compartir lo mucho que admiro la valentía y la dedicación de todos quienes sirven en la Guardia Costera. Tocamos en un punto, en los nadadores de rescate enviados por la Guardia Costera. La primera pregunta que se me vino a la mente fué ¿Cuál es el único y más importante atributo de un exitoso Nadador de Rescate de la Guardia Costera?. Su respuesta me sorprendió. Primero, fue amable lo suficiente

para informarme que el programa especial de entrenamiento para Nadadores de Rescate está en la ciudad de Elizabeth, en Carolina del Norte. Tuve que orientarme al respecto. Luego él explicó que no era la fuerza física, o habilidad de nadar mas rápido que el resto, o la total habilidad atlética, nisiquiera la resistencia. Estas cualidades eran importantes. Sin embargo el único atributo más valorado es lo que ellos llaman “confianza en el agua”. Esto se interpreta a la habilidad de estar cómodo bajo alto estrés en las condiciones de rescate de aire y mar . Un Nadador de Rescate cuando enfrenta caos en la escena de una crisis bajo el peor tiempo posible y mar aterrador, él debe

demostrar desenvoltura bajo presión. Cuando él asiste a una victima allá afuera y la sostiene, y le dice que es un nadador de rescate y que lo va a ayudar-el sobreviviente sentirá esa confianza y ganará fuerzas y esperanza. Eso es lo que hace la diferencia en la tormenta. Es la confianza. Una verdad a través del Ejército. Escuchando esto, se me vino una inspiración , e inmediatamente hice una conexión con la importancia que tiene la confianza para la fé de uno. En presencia de caos culturales, pruebas y dificultades seculares , para verse a sí mismo y a los demás a través de aguas violentas y oscuridad se necesita tener La Tormenta Cont. on page 4

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On the Cover The U.S. Coast Guard Academy Glee Club under the direction of Dr. Robert G. Newton, performing at 2011 Red, White & Blue Mass at Cathedral of St. Patrick. Photo by Phil Twomey, Command Sergeant Major USCG (Ret.) We salute you, Phil, for your many contributions throughout the year to the Four County Catholic.

Editor’s Correction In welcoming the new Diocesan Director of Development, Angela Arnold, we misstated the number of children in Angela’s family. She graciously and proudly informed us she is blessed with one daughter. Our apologies.

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certeza de fé. La fé es la energía divina que proviene del Espírtu Santo que nos permite asistir a nuestros hermanos y hermanas en necesidad y decirles que como cristianos estamos aquí para ellos-no importa lo espantosa que sea la tormenta. Vivir su fé con confianza inquebrantable le trae gracia y fuerza a usted y a quienes le rodean. Como descrito en Isaías 30:15, “….tranquilidad y confianza deben ser su fortaleza.” Aparte de lo incierto de la economía en este momento, la cercanía a la temporada de Navidad, aunque sea un motivo de alegría puede traer mucho estrés para aquellos que luchan económicamente y emocionalmente. Donde irradie la confianza de que nuestro Señor y Salvador está aquí para cada uno de nosotros está lo que ayudará a nuestros hermanos y hermanas a experimentar el verdadero bienestar y significado de Navidad. El Santo Padre, Papa Benedicto, recientemente se dirigió a este tema mencionando compromiso como

fuente de confianza…más lejos declarando que “ La confianza es la que muestra la bondad existente y que está creciendo entre nosotros ...nuestro modelo como Cristianos es tener una parte activa en la vida de la sociedad, buscando hacerla aún mas humana.” A medida que nos acercamos a la temporada de Navidad este año construyamos en ese llamado nuestra fé. Difundamos confianza y alegría entre todos los que encontremos. No puede haber regalo más grande en esta temporada que el levantar el espíritu de nuestros semejantes. Que tenga muchas bendiciones en Adviento y Navidad. Y que en las tormentas que nos enfrentan pueda salvar vidas y almas con su alegre confianza de fé. Que el Señor continúe bendiciéndole a usted y a sus seres queridos. Sinceramente en el amor de Cristo, Obispo Michael R. Cote Translated by Paulina Angulo

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Reverend Gregory Galvin

Catholic Seminary Enrollment Up 2011 has been a very positive and promising year for priestly vocations. This is true here in our home diocese and true from a national perspective. The following article published recently by the Catholic News Service (CNS) looks at seminary enrollment as one of the most encouraging signs. Thank you for your continuing prayers and words of encouragement for our seminarians and young men discerning a calling to serve. WASHINGTON -- In his first months as rector of Theological College in Washington, Father Phillip J. Brown has been confronting a problem that the national diocesan seminary for the U.S. Catholic Church “has not had for a long time” -- it is bursting at the seams. Enrollment is maxed out for the 2011-12 academic year at 90 seminarians. Five of those seminarians are back in their dioceses this year gaining pastoral experience, but a Sulpician seminarian and five priests from other countries also live there, bringing the total number of residents to 91 plus faculty members. “If I had to start with a problem, that’s the problem I’d like to have,” Father Brown told Catholic News Service. “It’s a very healthy sign, a positive sign for Theological College and for the U.S. priesthood.” The trend of rising seminary enrollment is being duplicated around the country: -- At the Pontifical College Josephinum in Columbus, Ohio, 40 new seminarians arrived this year, bringing total enrollment to 186, the highest level since the 1970s. -- St. Paul Seminary School of Divinity at the University of St. Thomas in St. Paul, Minn., welcomed 30 new graduate-level seminarians, making its class of 100 seminarians the largest since 1980. The influx forced 24 seminarians and two priests off campus into leased space at a former convent. -- In the Diocese of Scranton, Pa., where the St. Pius X diocesan seminary closed in 2004 because of de-

clining enrollment, the number of seminarians has more than doubled from eight to 17 in the past two years. Most of the Scranton seminarians are studying at St. Charles Borromeo Seminary in Wynnewood, Pa., where communications specialist Dan Skalski said enrollment has remained steady over the past five years, or at the Pontifical North American College in Rome, where a class of 76 “new men” brought enrollment this fall to a full house of 250 seminarians. In an April report, the Center for Applied Research in the Apostolate at Georgetown University said enrollment was up for those studying for the priesthood, diaconate and lay ecclesial ministry during the 201011 academic year -- the latest for which statistics were available. In all, there were 3,608 post-baccalaureate U.S. seminarians last year, a net increase of 125 seminarians, or 4 percent, over the previous year and the highest number since the early 1990s. More than three-quarters of them were studying for the diocesan priesthood, while 24 percent intend to be ordained for religious orders. The trend goes beyond Catholic schools to all seminaries, according to figures from the Association of Theological Schools in the U.S. and Canada from 2010-11. The organization that accredits theological schools said 75,431 people were studying for the ministry at 261 institutions during the last academic year, an increase of .6 percent from the year before. But Theological College’s Father Brown said a rise in enrollment is

only part of the story. “It’s not just the numbers but the quality and spirit of the men who are coming,” he told CNS. “I’m tremendously impressed with the quality of the candidates, their zeal,” he added. “We’re seeing a real renewal of the priesthood.” Father Brown said the full house has led to “a nice and interesting atmosphere” at Theological College because of the racial and ethnic diversity of the seminarians, who come from “a wide diversity of backgrounds and from a wide diversity of parts of the U.S.” Having more applicants than Theological College can accept also benefits some of the seminarians, who might be referred to a school “better suited to the candidate’s academic achievements and aptitudes,” he said. Because its seminarians participate in “an exacting and demanding program” at The Catholic University of America, Father Brown said, Theological College accepts those candidates considered most likely to succeed in a rigorous academic environment. “As the numbers seem to be increasing for all major seminaries, it’s easier to have a more cooperative relationship” among the schools, so that seminarians end up at the seminary that will benefit them the most, he added. But he said those at Theological College never lose sight of the fact that “our goal is not to produce academicians or intellectuals but to provide good pastors for parishes.” Julie Asher contributed to this story.

Holy Hour for Vocations The Holy Hour for Vocations is held in a different deanery and parish each month. Bishop Cote will lead the prayers of the Holy Hour each month. The schedule is as follows: Dec. 15

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Sunday, December 18 32nd Annual Festival of Lessons and Carols Please join us at 7:30pm at the Cathedral of St. Patrick for the Festival of Lessons and Carols. The traditional festival originated in England at the end of the 19th century and consists of music and readings that trace the mystery of salvation from the creation of the world through the birth of Jesus Christ. The festival first occurred at St. Patrick Cathedral in 1979 and featured the Norwich Diocesan Choir. Over the past thirty years the event has grown to include six choirs, brass and handbells. It has become a popular Christmas holiday event for the Cathedral parish as well as the Norwich community. Participating in the festival along with the Norwich Diocesan Choir will be the Cathedral Children’s Choir, the three Cathedral handbell choirs, the Cathedral Youth Singers and readers from the Cathedral parish. The choirs, totaling more than one hundred twenty-five voices and ringers are all under the direction of Douglas Green, Cathedral Music Director. Accompanying the choirs on the Cathedral organ will be Michael McCarthy along with the Sterling Brass Quartet. Persons attending the festival will have the opportunity to sing many traditional Christmas Carols. The public is invited and admission is free.

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Saturday, December 10 Mount Saint John Christmas Boutique Crafters and artisans will display their wares at the First Annual Mount Saint John Christmas Boutique from 10:00am-3:00pm, 135 Kirtland Street, Deep River, CT. Enjoy live entertainment by the Mount Saint John Christmas Choir and Visit with Santa. Homemade soup, sandwiches and beverages available for purchase. The school’s culinary program is featuring a bake sale. Shop for your entire gift giving this season. Choose from a variety of items including quality crafts, artisan items, wreaths, baskets and freshly cut Christmas trees. Great fun for the whole family. Admission

Saturday, December 10 Festival of Angels Fair Come join us for a day of fun; at the Fox Parish Center of St. Francis Church, 10 Elm Street, Middletown for the Festival of Angels. The fair runs from 9:00am-2:00pm. There will be a wide variety of artisan vendors, Grandma’s attic, raffle items and baked goods. Food to include homemade soups, chili and grinders.

present The New Haven Symphony Orchestra. They will perform the Christmas portion of Handel’s epic masterpiece, Messiah. Chronicling the life and death of Jesus Christ, Messiah is noted for its magnificent power and brings audiences to their feet with its climactic Hallelujah chorus. Please join us at 7:00pm at Sacred Heart University’s Chapel of the Holy Spirit, 5151 Park Avenue, Fairfield. To purchase tickets through the Edgerton Center please call 203-371-7908 or online at www.edgertoncenter.org. Tickets are $35.00 each and all proceeds will benefit the Chapel of the Holy Spirit.

Saturday, December 10 Unbound Session -- Freedom To be held at the Spiritual Renewal Services Center, 11 Bath Street, Norwich at 10:00am. By appointment only – please call 860-887-0702 for more information.

Saturday, January 7 Leaders and Prayer Group Members – Part I Will be held at the Spiritual Renewal Services Center, 11 Bath Street from 9:00am-3:00pm. For more information please call 860-887-0702.

Saturday, December 10 Gifts from Haiti’s Back Porch Bring a bit of Haiti to your Christmas! Gifts from Haiti’s Back Porch will delight friends and loved ones and your purchases will support artisans in Haiti and other Haitians in need. Join us from 10:00am-5:00pm. Everything in the store will be 20% off (excluding items already marked down or on consignment) Our non-profit shop is located at 100 Riverview Center, Suite 130, Middletown, CT. For more information please log onto www.outreachtohaiti.org or call 860.344.9547; info@outreachtohaiti.org

Friday-Sunday, January 20-22 Retrouvaille Weekend Reaching for a lifeline for your troubled marriage? Retrouvaille is that lifeline for serious marriage building and repair. Retrouvaille begins with a weekend in which couples are given tools to heal, re-establish communication, work on their issues and gain new insight into themselves as individuals and as a couple. A series of 6 post sessions follows the weekend phase. For more information or to sign up for the next weekend in the Hartford area on January 20-22, 2012, please call Bill and Terri Mason at 203-879-3842. All contacts are in strict confidence. Website www.retrouvaille.org.

You are invited to join in the celebration of... The Feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe Monday, December 12, 2011 Cathedral of St. Patrick 203 Broadway, Norwich, CT

Friday, December 16 Handel’s Epic Masterpiece, Messiah The Knights of Columbus is proud to

6:30 pm Rosary & opportunity for confession 7:00 pm Holy Mass (bi-lingual) Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, Celebrant Following the Mass, please join us for a fiesta of delightful music, delicious food & warm fellowship, as together we honor Our Lady and ask her intercession for peace in our hearts, in our homes, and in our land. A goodwill offering will be appreciated to cover the cost of the buffet. For more information, please contact the Office for Hispanic Ministry:

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Clergy Appointments The Most Reverend Michael R Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, has made the following clergy appointments in the Diocese of Norwich: Reverend John J. O’Neill, MS, Temporary Administrator, Our Lady of Lourdes Parish, Brooklyn, while continuing as Pastor of Saint James Parish in Danielson. Effective: September 6, 2011 (correction of October announcement). ~ Monsignor Robert L. Brown, Chancellor ~

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Twentieth Annual Red, White and Blue Mass Honors Vietnam Veterans It Is Never Too Late to Say Thank You NORWICH – Among the many freedoms our brave servicemen and women risk their lives to By MIchael Strammiello

protect is our freedom to worship. The Twentieth Annual Red, White and Blue Mass at the Cathedral of St. Patrick on Sunday, November 13, 2011 was a perfect opportunity to remember and celebrate their valor and sacrifice. All Services were magnificently represented, including the color guards of the US Naval Submarine School Silver Dolphins, the 103rd Fighter Wing, Connecticut Air National Guard, Vietnam Veterans of America, John R. Morse – Chapter #10 D.A.V., US Submarine Veterans, Inc. and the 4th District Veterans of Foreign wars. As the procession entered the

cathedral, the piercing sound of a trumpet playing taps and then reveille echoed from the loft, before handing off to the Cathedral Choir singing Glory, glory, Alleluia; Glory, glory, Alleluia, Glory, glory, Alleluia; God’s Truth has set me free. The music, flags, servicemen and women in uniform, Knights of Columbus in full regalia, and traditionally attired bagpipers created a remarkably colorful and inspiring gathering in the newly brightened and polished cathedral. It was stunning to see and hear. Joining in the joyful music accompaniment were the Mystic Highland Pipe Band and the US C o a s t Guard Academy Glee Club under the direction of Dr. Robert Newton. Most Reverend, Michael R. Cote D.D., Bishop of Norwich, the principal celebrant, welcomed

all present and extended a personal welcome to each concelebrant, Master of Ceremonies Monsignor Robert L. Brown and a grateful welcome to Deacon Paul Baillargeon, t h e homilist. Bishop C o t e thanked God “for all military personnel, especially Vietnam Veterans honored on this day.” He asked that we remember those who gave their lives in Vietnam, on 9/11, in Afghanistan and Iraq. Bishop Cote spoke of how “their noble service inspires us toward peace and justice in the world.” In his homily, Deacon Baillargeon spoke of the risks and uncertainty in life. He cautioned that we cannot wait until risk is completely absent to act. He recalled, as a Vietnam Veteran, the risks of war. And he recalled how the gratitutde of a nation for the verterans of Vietnam has been hard to come

by. He asked all present to please express their gratitude to the Vietnam Veterans among us. It is never too late to say “Welcome home.” Loud sustained applause broke out as the entire congregation stood in support of his message. It was a moment not to be forgotten. Nor will it be easy to forget the US Coast Guard Academy Glee Club’s rendition of America the Beautiful. Standing to the left of the sanctuary facing the congregation in a semicircular configuration, the Glee Club sang the emotional chorus “America, America – God shed his grace on thee. And crown thy good with brotherhood, from sea to shining sea.” Once again, the congregation was taken with the moment and gave the Glee Club a rousing standing ovation. The emotional atmosphere would continue. Bishop Cote, as Mass ended,

prayed “May we grow in love.” It was at this time that the featured speaker PFC Harold (Hal) Farrington, USA (Ret.), recipient of two Purple Heart medals among other commendations, stepped to the lectern and delivered a heartfelt recollection of the Vietnam battle conditions and the post-war battles the veterans have fought to secure healthcare benefits and respect. In a resolute voice, Hal asked all Vietnam veterans present to stand, as he called out “To my brothers and sisters from Vietnam, ‘Welcome Home’.” Immediate applause and another extended standing ovation. The Twentieth Annual Red, White and Blue Mass. A tribute to the Living Christ in the Eucharist. A tribute to the brave servicemen and women – active and retired. A special tribute to the Vietnam veterans. A tribute to a dedicated Mass Committee co-chaired by BG CT Edward J. Waitte, (Ret.) and David K. Harding, U.S. Merchant Marine. And a stunning tribute to our unity of faith. Above: MSGT William Lee, USMC (Ret.). Left: PFC Harold Farrington, USA (Ret.), Deacon Paul Baillargeon, SGT, USMC Photos by Phil Twomey

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Bishop Cote at Vatican for Ad Limina Meetings Meets with Pope Benedict Bishop Cote, together with eighteen bishops from New England, met with The Holy Father, By Michael Strammiello

Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, Bishop of Norwich and Monsignor Robert L. Brown, Chancellor, Diocese of Norwich received by His Holiness, Pope Benedict XVI at the Vatican. Photo by Servizio Fotografico, O.R.

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Pope Benedict XVI and the heads of 12 major dicasteries (agencies) of the Roman Curia, November 3 – 10, 2011. These meetings are traditionally held every five years, providing an opportunity for each bishop to report on the state of his diocese. By tradition dating back to the late Sixteenth Century, this is a visit to the “thresholds” of the Apostles, Saints Peter and Paul. Religious liberty, new evangelization, and restructuring of parishes were among the key issues that emerged at the meetings. Bishop Cote visited with the newly established Pontifical Council on New Evangelization and commented that “The high degree of enthusiasm of the

council is wonderfully assuring that the energy and inspiration is present at the outset of this historic initiative to spread the good news of the Gospel to all points of the 21st century world.” The bishops reported on the recent USCCB decision at their Fall General Assembly to establish a new Ad Hoc Committee for Religious Liberty. The new Committee Chair, Bishop William E. Lori, Bridgeport Diocese, was present to provide a first-hand update on the progress of the Committee. Among the unique experiences of the ad limina visit, cited Bishop Cote, was to pray at the tombs of Saints Peter and Paul and to celebrate Mass in several of the magnificent major basilicas such as Santa Maria Maggiore, a patriarchal basilica dedicated to the Blessed Virgin Mary, built in 431 A.D. Monsignor Robert L. Brown was honored to concelebrate the liturgies with Bishop Cote. The next scheduled ad limina visits will be in 2016.

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Unfailing Prayer to St. Anthony Holy St Anthony gentlest of Saints. Your love for God and charit for His creators made you wor hy when on ear h posses miraculous power which you were ready to speak for those who are in t ouble or anxiet . Encouraged by this thought I implore to you to obtain for me (request) The answer to my prayer may require a miracle, even so you are the saint of miracles Oh gentle and loving St. Anthony whose hear is f ll of human sy pathy whisper my petition into the ears of sweet infant Jesus, who loved to be folded in your ar s, and the g atit de of my hear will ever be yours. This 13 day Novena has never been known to fail. Say three Hail Mar 's and three Glories and promise publication.

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Prison Ministry Volunteers Visiting â&#x20AC;&#x153;the Most Forgottenâ&#x20AC;? For each prison ministry volunteer, the â&#x20AC;&#x153;call to serviceâ&#x20AC;? comes in a different way, and By Shelley Wolf Four County Catholic Contributor

each has a different reason for participating. For Bernard Feeney of St. Margaretâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s in Madison, it was a reading at Sunday Mass that prompted him to question whether he had really done all of the charitable works outlined by Jesus in Matthew 25:31-46. He fed the hungry in a soup kitchen and cared for the sick in a nursing home, but he had never visited anyone in prison. â&#x20AC;&#x153;Those words came at me,â&#x20AC;? Feeney said. For Gina Raymond of St. Matthewâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s in Tolland, it was reading a request for bilingual prison volunteers in her churchâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Sunday bulletin that got her thinking. She had no experience dealing with former substance abusers or victims of violence and abuse and, initially, thought the prison ministry was not for her. Then she learned that many incarcerated women find their faith in prison. â&#x20AC;&#x153;That really hooked me,â&#x20AC;? Raymond said. For Robert Newton of St. Johnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Church in Montville, the call came when he reached the fifth anniversary of his own release from prison, after serving one year for drug possession. This father of three young children converted to Catholicism within the prisonâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s walls and experienced some bumps in the road shortly after his release. But he says he has been attending Mass every week and has been doing well for years. â&#x20AC;&#x153;God has blessed me with so much, itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s time to give back and help others,â&#x20AC;? Newton said. Each of these lay people did something they never imagined they would do. They heard and answered the call to visit their â&#x20AC;&#x153;least brethrenâ&#x20AC;? in the Stateâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s correctional system. Today, they speak of satisfying moments when they introduced the incarcerated to Confession, or when they urged

prisoners to write and mail letters that resulted in family reconciliations. On November 20, Bishop of Norwich Michael R. Cote honored all prison ministry volunteers and their many good works by celebrating a special Mass for The Gift of Grace Prison Ministry Program at the Chapel of Our Lady of the Assumption at St. Edmundâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Retreat on Enders Island. The Mass was the culmination of a day-long retreat for both new and veteran volunteers, who spent the day listening to lectures and prayers lead by Deacon Dennis F. Dolan, Chaplain at York Correctional Institution (for women) in Niantic and Sister Patricia Cook, RSM, Ph.D., who also served as a prison chaplain. At the conclusion of the Mass, the Most Rev. Michael R. Cote awarded certificates of completion to 15 new graduates of the 2011 Gift of Grace Prison Ministry Training Program. The program, run by the Diocese of Norwich Office of Prison Ministry, began in response to a call from the U.S. Catholic Conference of Bishops. The program has been in existence since 2001 and has trained more than 300 volunteers throughout Connecticut to work in the stateâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s 17 correctional institutions. Graduates of this yearâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s training program hailed from all corners of the State, including Fairfield, Clinton, Old Lyme, Higganum, Colchester, East Hampton, Norwich, New London, and Mystic. This yearâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s graduates are Peter Bergan, Barbara Brasky, John Burnett, Mary Lee Burnett, Roger Desnoyers, Jo-Ann DiMauro Staves, Donald Hickey, Janet Lamb, Debra Lonsdale, William Lonsdale, Maurice Magnotta, Louise Murray, Robert Newton, Mary Ann Poole, and Arlene Smith.

Each new volunteer will select which prison he or she would like to serve at, and can choose to participate

in any one of 12 different Catholic programs for prisoners that are ongoing within the facilities, according to Sheree L. Antoch, M.A., LCMHC, Director of the Gift of Grace Program. During the homily and after the Mass, Bishop Cote addressed the graduates directly in a convocation speech to prepare them for their prison ministry service. â&#x20AC;&#x153;You are going to the forgotten, the unseen, the most forgotten of all,â&#x20AC;? Bishop Cote told the graduates. As a result, prison ministry volunteers serve as â&#x20AC;&#x153;sources of hope,â&#x20AC;? he stressed. â&#x20AC;&#x153;Those who are in prison for life, in particular, have no other hope.â&#x20AC;? â&#x20AC;&#x153;The message we bring them is not an earthly one,â&#x20AC;? Bishop Cote stated. â&#x20AC;&#x153;We have no power over their earthly lives. Christ has the power.â&#x20AC;? No one will be turned away from the heavenly kingdom, he said, if they seek out Christ. â&#x20AC;&#x153;Our mission is to bring light, truth, and merciful love to those who stumble in darkness and disbelief.â&#x20AC;? Itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s important for all of us to love God above all else, and to love our

neighbors with true compassion and mercy, Bishop Cote stated. â&#x20AC;&#x153;We allow others to see Godâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s truth, love, and compassion through us,â&#x20AC;? he explained. The Bishop thanked the volunteers for being â&#x20AC;&#x153;the tangible hands of the Bishop.â&#x20AC;?

Sheree Antoch, agreed. â&#x20AC;&#x153;You are Godâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s love and presence,â&#x20AC;? she said. â&#x20AC;&#x153;He has no hands and arms but yours.â&#x20AC;? For more information on volunteering for The Gift of Grace Prison Ministry Program, contact Sheree Antoch at (860) 848-2237.

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The “O” Antiphons The liturgical year always presents to us a new beginning. Our calendar years conBy Sister Elissa Rinere, CP, JCD Office of Worship

tinue to go forward in time, but the liturgical year begins anew with Advent and carries us through a repetition of the mysteries of our faith. A new liturgical year always presents the opportunity and the challenge to deepen our faith, and to follow more closely the life of Christ. The liturgical year begins, as we know, with Advent. This gentle time of waiting and watching is so difficult to hold onto in the midst of all the shopping and planning associated with Christmas. The liturgy of the Church begins to celebrate Christmas on December 25, at the same time that our culture brings the celebration to a close. Go back more than 1000 years in the tradition of the western Church, and you will find a very small but extraordinarily beautiful treasure to help with efforts to focus on Advent as the time of

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Hours, or the Divine Office, recited daily by priests and religious in the western Church. Today, they remain as part of Evening Prayer, or Vespers, for the seven days that precede Christmas. The Antiphons are also used as the verse of the Gospel Acclamation for those same days. To get some idea of the prayer expressed by these antiphons, you could look at the verses from the hymn “O Come, O Come Emmanuel.” As Christmas comes closer and closer to us each year, our awareness of the overwhelming mystery of the Incarnation needs to be intensified. This is the purpose of these antiphons. Each one, by using an image for the Messiah found in the Book of Isaiah, is intended to add a mood of eager expectation to our prayer and reflection. Some might say that the antiphons distill and concen-

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Year End Giving Sharing Your Gifts The end of the year is here. This is also a time of year that gift giving takes on many different By MaryLou Gannotti Director of Planned Giving

forms. Perhaps you are tuned into your favorite radio station and they are encouraging you to help them meet their goals stocking up for a local food pantry. Coworkers get together to h e l p “adopt” families in need. It is a time of year many are called to help. As Catholics, we have been called throughout our lives to be good stewards and to share our gifts. For those who have been considering making a year-end gift to your parish, your local Catholic School, or one of the many ministries funded by the Annual Catholic Appeal, now is the ideal time to do so. Prior to making your gift, there are some important steps to take. Careful reflection at this busy time of year can help you fulfill your charitable goals. Ponder Consider what you would like to accomplish. What is your purpose? Why do you want to make your gift? Explore your motivations and expectations. Review your assets, especially those that have appreciated in value. Do you need lifetime income from your gift? If so, perhaps you may wish to look into a charitable gift annuity. Perhaps you are looking for tax relief. Charitable gifts made from investment securities and retirement plans can provide you with tax savings. Do you want to create a legacy through an endowment or scholarship fund? Perhaps you would simply like to

leave something to your parish. Mull all of this over and jot down key thoughts. Good planning begins with unhurried reflection, creative thinking and goal-setting. Learn More Gather information and advice. If you are in need of resources, or have specific questions, the Planned Giving Office at the Diocese can provide you with help. Talk to your financial planner or estate attorney to see what form of gift would work best for you. Find out about the tax advantages of your charitable donation. Once you have obtained the information you need, you will be more comfortable proceeding. Act Taking action proves to be easier if you have taken the time to ponder carefully your objectives and have acquired sufficient knowledge to know that the arrangement is good. The act of giving a well-planned gift can be exhilarating! Notify The reason gift notification is important - and brings closure to the gift plan – is that it permits us to respond to you with appropriate recognition. Also, knowing that a planned gift has been made helps us to look ahead in our planning and projections. A further reason is the positive effect this news has on others who may be considering something similar. For further information and resources on year-end gifts, contact MaryLou Gannotti, Director of Planned Giving for the Diocese of Norwich at 860-886-1928 ext. 15, or e-mail Marylou.gannotti@norwichdiocese.net. You can also visit www.norwichdiocesedevelopment.o rg and click on Planned Giving.

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(SCCs) 17 years ago with the help of our pastor at the time, Fr. Theodore Klein, and our pastoral associate, Sr. Jacqueline Donohue, who organized us and got us rolling with about 120 members. Over the years, we gained and lost members, finding ourselves recently at about 40 to 50 members in small Christian communities divided into 5 groups. A year ago, our current pastor, Father Joe Ashe, invited Henry Carey, our Faith Formation chairman, and me, our Small Christian Community chairman, to a meeting at another parish that was starting up Why Catholic? Sr. Veronica Mendez from RENEW International led the meeting. Father, Henry, and I talked it over, and we decided to approach the existing SCCs on the subject. We met with about 20 current members, and we agreed that the Why Catholic? program could work in our parish. Because our parish got a late start on the â&#x20AC;&#x153;Prayerâ&#x20AC;? segment of the Why Catholic? program, we made a decision to accelerate the program in order to get into sync with the diocese during the second segment, â&#x20AC;&#x153;Profession of Faith.â&#x20AC;? During our membership drive, we more than doubled our membership, welcoming interested parishioners into the Why Catholic? program. It was late

in the year, and we had to rush a bit to catch up to other parishes in the diocese. We now have about 90 members divided into 11 groups. This time our major influence is our pastor, Father Joe, who not only leads us but also comes with us. He speaks of the program at Mass, attends our meetings, and he has joined one of our groups. Father Joe is like a loving parent that you see enjoying a laugh with us, helping us to apply our faith to our daily lives, or standing back while we try our wings being ready to catch us if we falter. Regarding â&#x20AC;&#x153;Prayer,â&#x20AC;? we came in with a respectable knowledge of our faith and prayer practices. While many of us did not acquire a lot of new knowledge; we practiced our faith, we shared our faith. We heard the prayers of others. In the Psalms we heard people talking to God in their happiness, joy, gratitude, adoration, glory, pain, fear, anger, loneliness, bitterness, vengefulness. We saw that the Holy Spirit is with each of us all the time every day. Not like Santa Claus on Christmas Eve darting around ... did you call? ... are you OK? ... do you need something? Being in eternity, the Spirit is able to give each of us undivided attention all the time. We learned that, in the end, it was the Holy Spirit that moved us all through the years to find ourselves at this point.

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This October, our parish and the diocese started the second segment in the Why Catholic? series: â&#x20AC;&#x153;BELIEVE: Profession of Faith.â&#x20AC;? So far, we are finding it very informative: how God is revealing Himself to us, how we learn through Scripture and Tradition, and the various writing forms used in Scripture. We have discussed the difference between Tradition, with a capital â&#x20AC;&#x153;Tâ&#x20AC;? which relates to teachings like the Trinity or the nature of God; and tradition, with a lower case â&#x20AC;&#x153;tâ&#x20AC;? which gave us our sacraments and religious practices. Vatican II tells us that God has told us everything that He will tell us; it is up to us to study and restudy what we have. In the session on Scripture, we learned of the giants in the Old and New Testaments on whom we build our faith; and afterward, we learned of the writers of the Nicene Creed, or the Apostleâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Creed, which gives us a thumbnail version of our faith, stating â&#x20AC;&#x153;this is what we believe.â&#x20AC;? It is surprising what new insight we gather from these writings that are thousands of years old. We are learning much through this effort. All parishes are invited to participate in the Why Catholic? process of faith formation. For more information, please call Marge Vanner at (860) 848-2237 x 312, or Sr. Mary Jude at (860) 456-3349. RENEW International is a canonically-recognized Catholic organization operating under the auspices of the Archdiocese of Newark in New Jersey. RENEW International fosters spiritual renewal in the Catholic tradition by empowering individuals and communities to encounter God in everyday life, deepen and share faith, and connect faith with action. For the past three decades, RENEW staff have worked with dioceses, parishes, and campuses in 23 countries. RENEW International can be found on the web at http://www.renewintl.org.

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1st Row (L to R): Maribeth Stewart, NCCW Rep to WUCWO & WUCWO V. President to North America; Connie Gillies, Province Director for Hartford Province; Judy Pappagallo, President, Norwich Diocesan CCW & Associates of NCCW Director; 2nd Row (L to R): Mary Flynn, President, Archdiocese of Hartford CCW; Charlene Durand, Treasurer, NDCCW; Nancy Russo, President, Middletown District CCW; 3rd Row (L to R) Laura Pringleton, Past Province Director (Hartford ACCW); Janice Pikal, Past Province Director (NDCCW) Mary Jones, 2nd V President, New Haven CCW.

attend the Annual National Council of Catholic Women (NCCW) Convention in Chicago, IL, November 912, 2011. The theme of this year’s convention was Campaign for Human Dignity: Love in Action. The opening liturgy was celebrated by Francis Cardinal George, Archbishop of Chicago along with three other bishops including, Bishop James V. Johnston, Jr., NCCW Episcopal Liaison and Bishop of Springfield-Cape Girardeau and over 30 Spiritual Advisors. The speaker for the Opening General Session was Sr. Helen Prejean, CSJ. Sr. Helen shared insights from her 25 years of work to end the use of the death penalty. She also spoke about her experiences ministering to prisoners on death row and her work with Catholic leaders, including Blessed Pope John Paul II. Attendees were able to choose from twelve different concurrent educational sessions on Friday and Saturday. Some of the sessions included Why Should I Go to Church? presented by Reverend John Cusick, Director of Young Adult Ministry for the Archdiocese of Chicago. According to Father Cusick, the answer is simple. We go to Church “so we don’t forget who we are.” How to Become a Marriage-Building Parish was presented by Sheila Garcia, Associate Director, USCCB Secretariat of Laity, Marriage, Family Life and Youth. Faith and Media presented by Sr. Helena Burns. FSP, Media Literacy Specialist, and Immigration Reform: Our Catholic Resources, presented by Elena Segura, Director, Office of Immigrant Affairs, Archdiocese of

Chicago. Our faith calls us to respond to the realities of separation of families that result from deportation. At the Associates of NCCW, Inc. luncheon, Judith Pappagallo, President of the Norwich Diocesan Council of Catholic Women was in-

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Father Michael Smith of Church of the Holy Family in Hebron with (left to right) Eliot Russman, CEO and Executive Director of the Fidelco Guide Dog Foundation; on behalf of the Wounded Warrior Project, Amy Doherty and student Ethan McCabe of West Hartford’s Wolcott Elementary School; and Norm LeBlanc of Trantolo and Trantolo, who assisted in the organization of this year’s Padre Run.

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Church of the Holy Family Helps to Support U.S. Troops Returning Home The Church of the Holy Family in Hebron recently presented checks to the Wounded Warrior Project and the Fidelco Guide Dog Foundation with money raised through CHF’s annual Padre’s Run. The event, a motorcycle ride through Eastern Connecticut led by Father Michael Smith, raises money to support programs for U.S. troops overseas and for those returning home. The Wounded Warrior Project,

which received a check for $3,536 from the 2011 Padre’s Run, provides programs and services to severely injured service members during the time between active duty and transition to civilian life. The Fidelco Guide Dog Foundation received a check for $2,250, raised from previous years Padre’s Runs. The organization is helping soldiers who have been blinded during the line of duty by giving them a service dog to help them re-

gain their freedom and independence off the battlefield. For further information on Church of the Holy Family, please contact the parish office at (860) 228-0096 or online www.holyfamilyhebron.org. For more information on The Wounded Warrior Project, please visit their website at www.woundedwarriorproject.org or for information on the Fidelco Guide Dog Foundation, please visit their website at www.fidelco.org.

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urally and freely manifest itself in mutual aid, spiritual as well as material, pastoral as well as personal, in meetings and in a community of life, of labor, and of charity.” This year’s theme will continue to assist us on this path: The Four Imperatives of Great Leadership, a leadership program offered by the National Federation of Priests Councils and developed by the Franklin Covey Company, the creator of the

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Waiting for the Light of Christ At the risk of being mundane and repetitive, I honestly didn’t want to weave yet another natural disaster By Mary Tunison

into my monthly column but, it would seem, Alfred does at least evoke an infamous mention. Indeed, 2011 has been a year in which nature has displayed her wrath on numerous occasions, but this October winter storm really took the cake. It was no fun having to throw tons of food away, watch hardearned cash go into the trash bin, dodge tree limbs and power lines or brave the cold, frigid temperatures at night. Going to bed dressed as if out for a night on the Tundra was an experience I’ll not soon forget. Fortunately, I did escape to Putnam for a couple of days to a friend’s retreat

center who never lost power. What a blessing that was! When Irene knocked the power out during the summer, I could tolerate those quiet nights of staring off into the darkness with just a candle or two flickering close by. However, this time, it was more a matter of survival. When power was finally restored, I think we all breathed a collective sigh of relief, hoping and praying such an experience would never happen again. But, you can be sure just in case it does, I have every in-

tention of arming myself with as many battery powered lamps and heaters that I can get my hands on! Through it all, the underlying disposition was one of waiting and expectation -- waiting for the lights and power to suddenly be restored to our homes! This experience, difficult as it was to endure, is actually a good segue to Advent so I invite you to remember just how that sense of longing and expectation felt. Meditate on it and, though the two experiences are worlds apart, you might just catch a little sense of what the author of Isaiah 9:2 was convey-

ing when he proclaimed, “The people who walked in darkness have seen a great light!” Through their long, journey of faith, the people of Israel waited and watched for a Savior who would bring the light of salvation into the world. Each year, as the Church celebrates the liturgy of this season, she recreates this ancient biblical time of waiting and expectancy for the Messiah -- for the light of Christ to enflame our hearts. We reflect once again upon the great mystery of the Incarnation when the Creator of the Universe entered time and space and became one of us in human likeness in order to free us from the bondage of sin. In popular Christian phraseology, “He paid a debt He didn’t owe because we owed a debt we could not

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Religious Liberty Issues Raised at Bishops’ Fall General Assembly BALTIMORE (CNS) -- After a report from the chairman of a new Ad Hoc Committee for ReBy Patricia Zapor Catholic News Service

ligious Liberty, the president of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops said he came away from a recent meeting with President Barack Obama encouraged about some aspects of religious rights concerns. Speaking Nov. 14 at the bishops’ fall general assembly, Bishop William E. Lori of Bridgeport, Conn., committee chairman, outlined a range of actions by government agencies seen as threats to religious rights. He explained the constitutional and natural law concerns the ad hoc committee aims to address. At a news conference following the session, New York Archbishop Timothy M. Dolan, president of the USCCB, said he came away from a Nov. 8 meeting with Obama “a bit more at peace than when I entered” the Oval Office when it comes to religious liberty. He said he found the president to be “very open to the sensitivities” of the U.S. Catholic Church on issues related to religious freedom that the two discussed. He said the meeting touched on a wide range of topics and that by mutual agreement with the White House, details of the meeting

would not be made public, Arch- and Human Services. They in- eral government terms an “inbishop Dolan said. clude an HHS mandate requiring terim final rule” that has “the full He said the current issues re- no-cost coverage of contraception force and effect of law.” Religious lated to religious liberty might be and sterilization in most health groups have objected to it, saying an area where there is room for plans. that providing the coverage viocompromise “as long as we’re not The mandate is what the fed- lates their conscience rights and compromising our claim that a proposed principles.” religious exemption is Archbishop Dolan too narrowly drawn. said it’s part of the curHHS also recently rent culture to try to denied a one-year grant limit the role of religion to the U.S. Catholic in the public square as a bishops’ Migration and philosophical shift, “to Refugee Services to aid push religion back into foreign-born human the sacristy” in a way, or trafficking victims. in other words, to keep The attention has fochurches from particicused on requirements pating in “the public in the guidelines for the square.” new grants that called But the church has for agencies to offer the faced such efforts since “full range of reproducthe early days of Christive service,” including tianity, he added. abortion and contracepAmong the situations tion, to trafficking vicBishop Lori described tims. in his presentation to Archbishop Timothy Dolan, of New York, president of the “Contrary to conthe bishops are several United States Conference of Catholic Bishops, speaks at science protections that related to policies of the the conference’s annual fall assembly in Baltimore, Mon- are already a matter of Department of Health day, Nov. 14, 2011. Photo by Patrick Semansky/AP law,” Bishop Lori said.

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New Covenant Between Coventry and Les Palmes Renews Their Parish and Spiritual Connections On October 5th, St. Mary of Coventry welcomed Rev. Vil Johnson, who had come all the way from By Anna DeBiasi Development Director, Outreach to Haiti

Les Palmes, Haiti. He had travelled a long distance from his village in the mountains of Haiti to visit the parish of this rural town in Connecticut. Father Johnson made the trip as part of the process to renew a Twinning Covenant between the Haitian and American parishes through the Diocese of Norwich Outreach to Haiti’s twinning program. In front of the St. Mary community, he and Rev. Victor Chaker of St. Mary signed the agreement symbolizing the promise for a continued supportive and compassionate relationship between the communities for the next five years. Since the earliest days of Outreach to Haiti decades ago, twinning partnerships have been at the heart of the mission. With faith and understanding, the twinning program brings together two worlds in partnerships of caring, sharing and support. While each twinning carries the same promise of mutual support in faith and desire for cultural exchange, every union is unique. Each partnership determines how its connection will be fostered. A Special Connection For the past decade, the twinning

covenant between Les Palmes and Coventry has been a special one. For Les Palmes, it has been a lifeline of spiritual and financial support that has helped to sustain the villagers’ health and spirits. Through the partnership, there has been food, clothing and financial support for the education of parish schoolchildren even after the tragic 2010 earthquake, which hit this parish hard. For St. Mary, the partnership has been a lesson in walking humbly with God, and it has revealed the power of Christ’s love in the faces of our brothers and sisters in Haiti. Following Rev. Johnson’s visit in Coventry, members of St. Mary’s Haiti Committee were able to do the same in Haiti. In early November, a group of four parishioners, Susan Gagliardi, Matthew and Denise Pillion, and Outreach to Haiti Board Member Barbara Charland, embarked on their latest trip to Les Palmes. The visit served both to renew the official covenant on paper and to strengthen the relationship between the two communities. On Sunday, November 13th , Rev. Johnson and Father Frank Rouleau, Twinning Director for Outreach, celebrated Mass together in front of hundreds of people in the Les Palmes congregation and the visitors from Connecticut. The two priests addressed the community, explaining what the covenant re-

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St. Mary’s of Coventry Haiti Committee members visited the village of Les Palmes, Haiti to renew the twinning covenant between the two parishes on November 13, 2012. (From Left to right: Matthew Pillion, Rev. Frank Roleau, Barbara Charland, Rev. Vil Johnson, Denise Pillion, and Susan Gagliardi.) newal means to their daily lives and their faith. Because of the twinning partnership and dedicated efforts of Haiti Committee members and the entire St. Mary parish, the people of Les Palmes have access to many things they otherwise would not have. St. Mary’s fund-raising efforts have brought the Internet to the high school, salary assistance for teachers, school tuitions and daily meals for children. Emergency relief after the earthquake provided much more to the parish, where more than 50 people were killed and hundreds of home were destroyed or damaged. The parish school currently has 160 kindergarteners, 422 primary students, and over 600 secondary

students in attendance. These numbers don’t include the seven other smaller chapel schools dispersed across the mountain. With all numbers combined, the twinning partnership with St. Mary’s touches the lives of nearly 4,000 students in Les Palmes. During their five-day stay in Haiti’s mountains, the St. Mary visitors set up a sewing center. In a new program, young women will learn how to sew under the instruction of Madame Amelian Jean Claude, using donated sewing machines and materials shipped from St. Mary. By the end of their visit, a beautiful sewing center had been set up in a room in Les Palmes’ high school. Classes have already started for 15

girls and young women, ages 15 to 24, many of whom cannot attend school. Their goal is to learn a skill that will help them clothe their families, get jobs, or, perhaps, start them on their way to becoming entrepreneurs. The visit to Les Palmes and the new sewing center are examples of the connection that the people of St. Mary have with the people of Les Palmes. After months of preparation and coordination, members of the Haiti Committee were able to see the faces of the young women delighted by their chance to learn and work. The committee came in the spirit of serving the poor and left with the gift of love for their brothers and sisters in Christ. Rev. Johnson and the people of his community have some peace of mind knowing that a parish thousands of miles away has them in their thoughts and prayers. They know they can call on their friends in a time of need. In turn, the parishioners of St. Mary know that they have a place to call home in Haiti. After the reading of The Gospel, Matthew:25, Sue Gagliardi said, “I think that the Gospel was speaking directly to us today when it said, ‘Whatever you do for the least of my brother, you do for me.’ I think that is why we love the Haitian people so much, because we see the face of Jesus in every face we see.” For more information on the twinning program, or to support Outreach to Haiti in any of its programs, visit www.outreachtohaiti.org, or e-mail info@outreachtohaiti.org.

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Celebrating Catholic Education: The Second Annual Seton Scholarship Dinner The Second Annual Seton Scholarship Dinner was held on Friday evening, November 18, 2011, at the RiverBy Sheila Cerjanec Technology Coordinator, Diocesan School Office

house at Goodspeed Station, in Haddam, CT. Highlight of the evening was the awarding of the First Annual Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D. Award for contributions to Catholic Education in the Diocese of Norwich to Reverend Joseph

Castaldi, Ph.L, S.T.L., J.C.L, and Robert E. Miller, PhD. The Riverhouse at Goodspeed Station provided an elegant backdrop for the event. Sitting high on a ridge overlooking the Connecticut River, with a view of the historic Goodspeed Opera House and the Swing Bridge. Guests were served a delicious meal while conversing with friends both new and old as everyone gathered to support this important cause. Following dinner, Dr. John F. Shine gave

a report on the Diocesan Schools. Following this, Monsignor Robert L. Brown, Chancellor of the Diocese of Norwich, introduced the two awardees. Bishop Cote presented each with an exquisite Waterford bowl simply adorned with the Bishopâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s crest. Father Joseph Castaldi was born in Providence, Rhode Island. In 1958, he was sent to Rome to study at the famed Pontifical Gregorian University. In 1963, he was ordained a priest in Rome, celebrating his first Seton Scholarship Dinner Continued on page 24

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Imagining Mary: Christmas Paintings That Open Our Eyes I’ve been shopping for the perfect Christmas card, sifting through Nativity scenes framed in By Christina Capecchi Four County Catholic Contributor

holly berries and bows. None of the Marys feel right. The lips are taut. The face, unblemished. We see none of the bliss and bewilderment that must have surged after birthing the son of God. We see no emotion at all – serenity as vacancy, sainthood as sedation. This year’s traditional Christmas stamp issued by U.S. Postal Service, Raphael’s “Madonna of the Candelabra,” shows a stoic Mary casting her eyes away from her infant. Painted in the early 16th century, it was a product of the Italian High Renaissance, but it’s hard to imagine the new mom letting a single moment pass without studying the Savior in her hands. Eventually I found a card that compelled me, the store’s last boxed set of its kind. First I noticed the baby, who looks as he should: like a baby. Brown fuzzy hair, apples for cheeks and a light in his eyes. Mary holds him close, kissing his right cheek. The painting was inspired 11 years ago when Morgan Weistling, now a 47-year-old father in California, heard Steve Amerson’s song “Mary, Did You Know?” on the radio. It was the Dolly Parton version. One phrase stood out to him:

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“when you kiss your little baby you’ve kissed the face of God.” “Immediately I felt I was supposed to paint this,” Morgan told me. “I had been praying and asking God, ‘Give me an idea here.’” Amerson’s phrasing appealed to him. “This little child she bore

was God in the flesh, and yet, she cuddled and kissed him just as all mothers do.” The painting poured out of Morgan in three days. He didn’t feel the need to sketch in charcoal on his canvas to begin, as he usually does; it was oil paint right away. He didn’t go back to make any alterations. The first draft was the final. Morgan’s paintings are so realistic they look like pictures, and he uses people as models. His

Mary was 16, a brunette named Katie who had a “sweet humbleness to her,” Morgan said. “It wouldn’t have worked with a blonde.” The baby was of Jewish descent, born to a woman with a crack addiction and recently placed in a foster home. Morgan knew he needed to master Mary’s kiss, rendering it tender, not “hokey.” Her left hand, pressing the swaddled baby to her heart, also was crucial. Morgan had long admired the way Mary’s marble hand grips Jesus’ side in Michelangelo’s Pietà. Morgan’s published image, titled “Kissing The Face Of God,” sold out in two weeks. It remains his most popular painting – “my big gift from God,” he said – and the only original he’s kept, despite a standing offer of $100,000. Every year Morgan receives requests to reproduce the image.

One year National Geographic used it for a corporate Christmas card. The painting speaks to the brokenhearted, Morgan told me. “A

lot of women who have lost a child really attach to ‘Kissing The Face of God.’” I’m grateful to the artists who help us see ourselves in the Blessed Mother, because she is for everyone. I read about a woman whose conversion to Catholicism began in labor, when she called on Mary in urgent prayer: “Don’t abandon me now.” This season we celebrate the mother who brings us to God with such capacity for love and grief and everything in between. Christina Capecchi is a freelance writer from Inver Grove Heights, Minn. She can be reached at www.ReadChristina.com.

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Bishop Cote joined at the Seton Scholarship Dinner by award recipients Dr. Robert E. Miller, Father Joseph Castaldi and Dr. John Shine, Superintendent of Diocesan Schools.

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SETON SCHOLARSHIP DINNER Congratulations to Reverend Joseph Castaldi and Robert Miller, Ph.D. Recipients of the First Annual Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D. Award for contributions to Catholic Education in the Diocese of Norwich.

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Mass in St. Peter’s Basilica. The following Sunday, he celebrated his first Solemn Mass in Isoletta, Frosinone, Italy, the same small town from which his grandparents had emigrated to the United States in 1905. In 1965, he entered the Pontifical University of Saint Thomas in Rome where he earned his Master’s Degree in Church Canon Law. From there, he entered the Vatican’s office for refugees and emigrants. In 1975, after living in Rome for 17 years, Father Castaldi returned to the United States. It was then that newly named Bishop of Norwich, the Most Reverend Daniel Reilly, D.D., who knew him as a young man, asked him to join the Diocese. He was assigned to St. Joseph parish in New London, where he has resided for the past 36 years. When asked about Father Castaldi, Marianne Cote, Principal of St. Joseph School said, “Our Pastor, Father Castaldi, believes that the Catholic Parochial School is the ‘heart of the parish’ in which it exists. He supports the mission of St. Joseph School and Catholic Education in our Diocese not only through financial support, but more importantly through his words and actions. Father is outspoken in his support of the importance of Catholic Education in its call to develop the faith of our children and to educate these children to take their role in our changing world. His support is not only evident within his beloved St. Joseph Parish, but also in the local area and among the clergy of our Diocese. We at St. Joseph are truly grateful for all that Father Castaldi has done to ensure that the mission of Catholic Education at St. Joseph School will be sustained long into the

future.” Patricia Leroy, Parishioner, Assistant Principal and Teacher at St. Joseph, added, “As a parishioner I have witnessed the many hats worn by Father Castaldi as pastor. He has overseen the growth and direction of the largest parish in our Diocese. Father has been a determined and supportive leader of the parish school. He is fondly known for his homilies to the children on the opening day of school each year suggesting that the children are young trees supported by the roots of the Church, the parents, and the teachers of our school who will help them to grow tall and strong in their faith in God.” It is clear that Father Castaldi has been an active participant in the lives of all of the faculty and children who have matriculated at St. Joseph School during his tenure. He will be sorely missed by all. In December, Father Castaldi will retire and will live with his brother Michael in Newport Rhode Island. Robert E. Miller, PhD., is no stranger to Catholic education in the Diocese of Norwich. Born in Guilford, Connecticut, he and his wife currently reside in Pomfret Center. Dr. Miller has had an illustrious career in education, in all sectors and on all levels. Dr. Miller was the founding President of Quinebaug Valley Community College in Danielson, has served as interim President of Middlesex Community College in Middletown, Three Rivers Community College, and Manchester Community in Manchester, CT. He has served as a member of the Board of Northeast (CT) Alliance for Economic Development, and has been a member of the Commission on In-

stitutions of Higher Education of the New England Association of Schools and Colleges. Here in the Diocese of Norwich, Dr. Miller currently serves as Chairperson of the Board of Directors for the Catholic Foundation of the Diocese of Norwich, Inc.; he is Second Vice President of Mount Saint John Board of Directors, Deep River; and is Chairman of the Diocesan Board of Education. He also served as a member of the Diocesan Golden Jubilee Committee, is on the Advisory Ministry Evaluation Committee, served on the Adult Faith Formation Committee and the Diocesan Pastoral Council and on the Diocesan Organization and Resources Committee to implement Synod recommendations. A strong proponent of Catholic education, Dr. Miller has given much to promote it here in the Norwich Diocese. In commenting on Dr. Miller’s award, Dr. John F. Shine, Superintendent of Diocesan Schools said, “We salute Dr. Miller for his distinguished service to the Church. His achievements in academia compel our esteem. He has increased opportunities for higher education for the citizens of our State and at the same time, he has generously shared his experience and guidance with the Church in so many different facets of diocesan life and ministry. With genuine concern and affable manner, he gives himself wholeheartedly to the work of the Church and the enrichment of Catholic education. His stellar service to the Lord merits this award.” All proceeds gained from the Seton Scholarship Dinner will used to provide tuition assistance for the schools. In today’s fluctuating economy, many families often find it difficult to afford the cost of sending

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their children to Catholic Schools. It is hoped that these funds will ensure that more children in the Norwich Diocese will be able to have the opportunity of receiving the lasting gift of a Catholic education by providing qualifying families with the support of tuition assistance. The Catholic Foundation of the Diocese of Norwich will continue to manage and disburse these funds. There is no separate application for the Seton Scholarship Fund. Families interested in applying for tuition assistance may obtain the necessary forms from the principal of the school they wish to attend for the 2012-2013 academic year. Once completed, the application must be returned to the principal by April 27, 2012, who will then submit it to the Foundation. All grant requests must come from the principals, individual families cannot apply directly to the Foundation. Applications for the

next school year must be received from the Principal by the Foundation and postmarked no later than May 18, 2012. In 2011, the Catholic Foundation, helped by the Seton Scholarship fund, awarded $332,721 in grants to students, churches, schools and organizations serving our Diocesan community. Donations are still being accepted and may be sent to Ann Crooks, Development Coordinator, Diocesan School Office, 43 Perkins Avenue, Norwich, CT 06360. Please make checks out to: DSO Seton Scholarship. Thank you to all who have already given so graciously and generously to the Fund. The hope is that with more events like The Annual Seton Scholarship Dinner, and the philanthropy of our sponsors, our Catholic schools will continue to be accessible and affordable for all families.

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Youths at Conference Honor Christ with Electronic ‘Holy Shoutout’ INDIANAPOLIS (CNS) — More than 2,000 years after his birth, Christ the King was honored By Mary Ann Garber Catholic News Service

Norwich Diocesan Council of Catholic Women collects layette items. The 31st Annual Diocesan Layette Program brought women from all seven districts with three car loads of essential baby items - clothes, blankets, many hand-made and diapers. Two large baskets of items were the result of the efforts of Erin Paris, an 8th grade student who was working towards a Marian Medal. She hosted a baby shower in her parish with the help of St. Francis Ladies Guild in Lebanon, CT. Erin was contacted by the Southeast Chapter of Project Linus in Baltic which donated over 20 hand-made blankets to her project.

in a historic way with a massive electronic “holy shoutout” via texts, emails and tweets sent simultaneously from cellphones Nov. 19 by 23,000 participants at the National Catholic Youth Conference and National Catholic Collegiate Conference. It was a fun and faith-filled way for the Catholic youths and young adults to honor God and conclude the 31st biennial national conference, held Nov. 17-19 at Lucas Oil Stadium in Indianapolis. Bishop Christopher J. Coyne, apostolic administrator of the Archdiocese of Indianapolis and host of the conference, asked the teenagers, collegians and all attending the clos-

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