Four County Catholic February 2022

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Volume 34 • Number 2 • FEBRUARY 2022 • SERVING THE COUNTIES OF MIDDLESEX • NEW LONDON • TOLLAND • WINDHAM, CT & FISHERS ISLAND, NY

The Lord has loved me so much:

WE MUST LOVE EVERYONE... we need to be compassionate!

St. Josephine Bakhita 1869-1947

Feast Day February 8

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“Every child matters. Every woman matters. Every person matters. And no matter what this (march) does, no matter what this changes, your being here -- standing, your being here -- walking, it changes you, and YOU matter. God bless you.”

Father Mike Schmitz, host of the “Bible in a Year” podcast, addressing the crowd at the March for Life on the National Mall in Washington, D.C., on Jan. 21, 2022.

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“I will be forever grateful to Outreach to Haiti for helping me realize one of my biggest dreams which was to be a doctor and serving the poorest communities of my country. I know I would not be able to achieve this goal without Outreach’s support.”

Sherley Sainterve, who realized her lifelong dream of becoming a doctor, thanks to the Outreach Education Sponsorship Program.

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“Families aren’t just hungry or need clothes and supplies during holidays, people need help all year long.”

Sienna Sferrazza, president of the Saint Bernard School Student Ambassadors Club, one of the student groups that donated to Saint Vincent de Paul Place and other area service agencies last year.

ON THE COVER St. Josephine Bakhita, a former slave and the patron saint of Sudan and human trafficking survivors. The Church celebrates her feast day on February 8. Read more about Black Saints and others considered for canonization on Pages 16-17

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Called to the Joy of Love My dear brothers and sisters in Christ, A faithful marriage is a re-creation in time and space of Jesus’ love for His people, the Church. Selfless love, which is the core of the Gospel message, is truly the very heart of marriage.

Francis, shared the following words of encouragement and advice.

“No amount of difficulty can take away the joy of those who know that they are walking with the Lord ever at their side.

Live out your vocation with enthusiasm,” he urged. “Never allow your faces to grow World Marriage Day, observed on sad or gloomy; your husband or wife needs Sunday, February 13th takes place during your smile. Your children need your looks National Marriage Week, February 7 –14. of encouragement. Your priests and other The theme this year - Called to the Joy families need your presence and your joy: of Love - provides us an opportunity to the joy that comes from the Lord!” focus on building a culture of life and love that begins with supporting and The home, also known as the Domestic Church, is where husband and wife live promoting marriage and the family. the bond of marriage and where parents The core strength of a cohesive and teach their children to know, love, and morally centered society, capable of serve God. These Christian families are being the best it can be, begins with an joy-filled witnesses radiating God’s love awareness of the vital importance of to the world. marriage and family. Husbands and wives who work together for the benefit of their The Catechism informs us that God’s families give us an example of strength, plan for marriage and family life courage, and virtue. We know that a true corresponds to the deepest desires of men partnership in marriage is reinforced by and women for lasting happiness and true inviting Christ into the relationship. As joy. As sons and daughters of God, we are we read in Ecclesiastes 4:12, “A cord of made for love, for God is love. The family, whose mission is “to guard, reveal and three strands is not quickly torn apart.” communicate love,” is the common place The unique union of the Sacrament of where God’s love is first experienced, and Matrimony is a sacred sign of the Lord’s the joy of love is made present. life-giving presence in the Church.

Many couples and families bear witness Outlining some of the trials that married to the joy of faithful love by steadfast couples face and acknowledging that commitment and fruitful sacrifice within the pandemic has aggravated some their daily lives. Love, willing the good of family problems, Our Holy Father, Pope the other, is sacrifice. All it takes is to gaze

upon a Crucifix to be reminded of this.

May we be ever supportive of these families, looking to them with inner joy and deep comfort – thanking them for the testimony they offer. And, as Hebrews commands, “Encourage each other daily while it is still today.” (Hebrews 3:13) To those of you who are newly married or engaged please know that our Catholic Family Services office offers resources to help you build a strong and healthy marriage. Information can be found on our website. You may also look to the example set by married couples whose enduring love gives witness to the beauty of a sacramental marriage. May God, the author of Marriage, join with you and your spouse on your journey to love.

And may almighty God bless each of you, because no matter your vocation, we are all brothers and sisters in God’s family and through baptism we are all called to the joy of love.

Sincerely yours in the Joy of Christ,

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MICHAEL R. COTE, D.D.

BISHOP OF NORWICH

Llamados a la Alegría del Amor Mis queridos hermanos y hermanas en Cristo, Un matrimonio fiel es una recreación en el tiempo y el espacio del amor de Jesús por su pueblo, la Iglesia. El amor desinteresado, es el núcleo del mensaje del Evangelio, es verdaderamente el corazón mismo del matrimonio.

El Día Mundial del Matrimonio, se celebrará el domingo 13 de febrero, se llevará a cabo durante la Semana Nacional del Matrimonio, del 7 al 14 de febrero. El tema de este año, Llamados a la alegría del amor, nos brinda la oportunidad de concentrarnos en construir una cultura de vida y amor que comienza con el apoyo y la promoción del matrimonio y la familia.

La fuerza central de una sociedad unida y moralmente centrada, capaz de ser lo mejor posible, comienza con una conciencia de la importancia vital del matrimonio y la familia. Los esposos y esposas que trabajan juntos en beneficio de sus familias nos dan un ejemplo de fortaleza, coraje y virtud.

Sabemos que una verdadera sociedad en el matrimonio refuerza la relación al invitar a Cristo. Como leemos en Eclesiastés 4:12, “Y si el hilo es triple, no se cortará fácilmente.”

La unión del Sacramento del Matrimonio es un signo sagrado de la presencia vivificante del Señor en la Iglesia.

el Papa Francisco, compartió las siguientes palabras de aliento y consejo.

“Ninguna cantidad de dificultad puede quitar el gozo de aquellos que saben que están caminando con el Señor. Vivan su vocación con entusiasmo”, instó. “Nunca permitan que sus rostros se pongan tristes o sombríos; su esposo o esposa necesita su sonrisa. Sus hijos necesitan sus miradas de aliento. Sus sacerdotes y otras familias necesitan su presencia y su alegría: ¡la alegría que viene del Señor!”

El hogar, también conocido como Iglesia Doméstica, es donde el esposo y la esposa viven el vínculo del matrimonio y donde los padres enseñan a sus hijos a conocer, amar y servir a Dios. Estas familias cristianas son testigos llenos de alegría que irradian el amor de Dios al mundo.

El Catecismo nos informa que el plan de Dios para el matrimonio y la vida familiar corresponde a los deseos más profundos de hombres y mujeres de felicidad duradera y alegría verdadera. Como hijos e hijas de Dios, estamos hechos para el amor, porque Dios es amor. La familia, cuya misión es “guardar, revelar y comunicar el amor”, es el lugar común donde primero se experimenta el amor de Dios y se hace presente la alegría del amor.

Crucifijo para recordar esto.

Que seamos siempre solidarios con estas familias, mirándolas con alegría y profundo consuelo, agradeciéndoles el testimonio que ofrecen. Y, como ordena Hebreos: “Más bien anímense mutuamente cada día, mientras dura ese ‘hoy’.” (Hebreos 3:13) Para aquellos de ustedes que están recién casados o comprometidos, sepan que nuestra oficina de Servicios para La Familia Católica ofrece recursos para ayudarlos a construir un matrimonio fuerte y saludable.

La información se puede encontrar en nuestro sitio web. También puede mirar el ejemplo de las parejas casadas cuyo amor perdurable da testimonio de la belleza de un matrimonio sacramental. Que Dios, el autor del Matrimonio, se una a usted y a su cónyuge en su camino hacia el amor.

Y que Dios todopoderoso les bendiga a cada uno de ustedes, porque sin importar la vocación, todos somos hermanos y hermanas en la familia de Dios y por el bautismo todos estamos llamados al gozo del amor.

Sinceramente en el amor de Cristo,

Muchas parejas y familias dan testimonio de la alegría del amor fiel mediante el Resumiendo algunas de las pruebas que compromiso constante y el sacrificio enfrentan las parejas casadas y reconociendo fructífero en su vida diaria. El amor, que la pandemia ha agravado algunos queriendo el bien del otro, es sacrificio. Obispo de Norwich problemas familiares, Nuestro Santo Padre, Todo lo que se necesita es contemplar un

Vocations Corner Deacon Jacob Ramos

4th Theology Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

“ Your Powerful and Authentic Voice” Ike Ndolo comes to UConn

Alexander Pandolfe

2nd Theology Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

On Dec. 2, National Catholic musician, speaker, campus minister, family man and podcaster Ike Ndolo came to the UConn Storrs campus to speak to university students and young adults in our diocese about “Your Powerful and Authentic Voice” in the Chapel of St. Thomas Aquinas. It was the last of three lectures in the Metanoia Fall lecture series. I asked Emily Gribbin, a junior and English major at Uconn and an active member of our Catholic community, to share her thoughts and impression of the evening. Here is what she had to say:

3rd Theology Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

In the everyday actions of our lives, there is often a propensity to follow cyclical patterns and regulatory events. However, in his talk “ Your Powerful and Authentic Voice,” Ike Ndolo challenged all of us to be passionate about the calling that God places within all our hearts. For Ndolo, this passion and this pursuit to follow God’s will is jointly manifested through music and the perpetual fight for racial justice.

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2nd Theology Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

As a Black youth in Missouri, attending a largely white church, Ndolo did not see a lot of people who looked like him within the church and through depictions of the Saints. In this way, he did not feel as though he had a part to play. Yet, through community and in the recognition that we, as Christians, are baptized, “Priest, Prophet, and King,” Ndolo learned to recognize that God was calling him to speak about injustice for the cause of Christ. In this recognition, Ndolo also found his voice because of the life that he lived and through the hardships of witnessing racial injustice firsthand.

Here, he realized that God had been calling him to use his voice and speak the words that needed to be heard. This was demonstrated through song, through action, through the 2018 album “Shine,” and through living as authentically as possible without facades or by doing the bare minimum.

Ruben Garcia Sanchez

3rd Theology Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Ndolo could not live in a state of just existing, but rather lived with the knowledge and understanding that God breathed His life and His essence into our bodies so that we could fulfill His calling in this world. Therefore, the passion to pursue a mission that was paved with challenges and difficulties stemmed from a desire to do more and to accept the kingship that God calls us to embrace. This path for Ndolo has not been easy, yet if given the opportunity, he would not choose an easier way. Why? For Ndolo, “Stamped in our bones is His life, His love, His passion, and we’re called to run after that even when it is hard and uncomfortable.”

For each of us, embracing our true calling and finding the most authentic version of ourselves looks different and is rooted through different causes and circumstances. However, whether it be through the small actions of our everyday lives or through the larger moments that shape our experiences, we are each uniquely called to pursue God’s will in world-changing ways. This is not to say that each ‘yes’ along the way will be easy, as Ndolo has lost friends, family, and opportunities since he has decided to accept God’s calling for his life and fight for racial justice. But, the process has been extremely personal and meaningful in his continued relationship with God. Lastly, Ndolo also talks about the burdens that we all carry in our individual ways and truly challenges each of us to not ignore it, but rather to use it, to feel it, and allow yourself to be carried towards finding the voice that may have been ignored for far too long.

- Father Jonathan Ficara, Director of Vocations

Eric Hosmer

2nd Theology Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

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1st Theology Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

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Jenna Hourani and Joseph Kane share their answers about a worksheet on conflict resolution during a diocesan marriage preparation class led by Mary-Jo McLaughlin, coordinator for Catholic Family Services. The couple are getting married July 30 at St. Mary Church, Portland.

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inter has always seemed to be a time for me to reflect on the past year. In our household it’s a little less busy than the other seasons. As I look forward to Spring and the warmer weather, I think about the many important people in my life. I am always so grateful for a happy marriage, a kind and caring daughter, and my wonderful parents.

This month my parents will celebrate their 50th anniversary, a beautiful milestone. Love, dedication, communication, support and understanding are all key to a happy and healthy marriage. One of our very important ACA ministries, Catholic Family Services, offers resources to support our parishioners. A resource can be defined as a source of supply, support or aid.

Catholic Family Services, an ACA-supported ministry, offers resources and support to parishes and families to promote and celebrate happy and holy marriages and families. The office has programs for marriage preparation, enrichment and support, and natural family planning. It serves as a resource for the bereaved, divorced and separated, and those seeking post-abortion healing.

Your generosity throughout this past year allowed the ACA to support our ministries.

The pandemic is still affecting people. Many couples have had to adapt to working from home together and possibly limiting plans with friends and family depending on the circumstances.

This can be very challenging for a marriage.

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During a recent diocesan marriage preparation class sponsored by the Catholic Family Services Office and held at Our Lady of Lourdes Church, Gales Ferry, Michela Lavin and Tyler Keith complete a worksheet on conflict resolution. The couple plan to marry July 16 at The Cathedral of Saint Patrick in Norwich.

Prayer for Married Couples Almighty and eternal God, You blessed the union of married couples so that they might reflect the union of Christ with his Church: look with kindness on them.

Renew their marriage covenant, increase your love in them, and strengthen their bond of peace so that, with their children, they may always rejoice in the gift of your blessing.

We ask this through Christ our Lord.

Amen.

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A Great Witness to the Sanctity of Human Life

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By Katie Yoder, Christine Rousselle, Shannon Mullen

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articipants returned in large numbers to the annual March for Life Friday, January 21, braving frigid weather one year after the event’s pandemic-related virtual shutdown to demonstrate solidarity for the unborn at the start what could be a decisive year for the pro-life movement.

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Billed as the “largest human rights demonstration in the world,” the daylong gathering began tentatively with scattered clusters of bundled participants trickling into the National Mall on a clear but chilly morning. That it was bracingly cold was apparent from the woolen socks Franciscan friars wore beneath their sandal straps.

A large Catholic presence

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Schmitz, the size of the crowd had swelled into the tens of thousands, resembling a typical year’s turnout.

But this year’s march was anything but typical. The possibility that

decision that legalized abortion nationwide — and sparked the first March for Life 49 years ago — lent a festive, anticipatory air to the day’s rituals, culminating in a walk

The ongoing coronavirus crisis, “The Catholic Church’s opposition to abortion is a coupled with tightened COVID-19 response of love for both mothers and their children restrictions in the District of in the womb. The Church’s teaching proclaims a Columbia, kept some regulars at message of life, reminding us that every life is a home. By long standing practice, neither organizers nor the police sacred gift from God from the moment of provided estimates of the number conception until natural death,” of marchers. But by the start of a mid-day, pre-march rally, headlined the country’s highest court later up Constitution Avenue to the steps by a passionate speech by “Bible in this year might strike down the of the Supreme Court. a Year” podcast star Father Mike landmark 1973 Roe v. Wade “We are hoping and praying that this year, 2022, will bring an historic change for life,” Jeanne Mancini, president of March for Life, the event’s organizer, said at the rally.

“Roe,” she said, “is not settled law.”

Such statements carry extra weight this year because of Dobbs v. Jackson Women’s Health Organization, a pivotal Mississippi abortion case that many in the pro-life movement see as the best — and possibly last — opportunity to unravel the tightly woven legal framework that has produced some 62 million abortions across the United States, a staggering toll the Catholic Church

views as an epic human tragedy. A decision in the case isn’t expected until the end of the court’s term in June.

No time for complacency

Archbishop William E. Lori of Baltimore, chairman of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops’ Committee on Pro-Life Activities, said the pro-life movement cannot afford to become “complacent,” regardless of the outcome of Dobbs.

“The Catholic Church’s opposition to abortion is a response of love for both mothers and their children in the womb. The Church’s teaching proclaims a message of life, reminding us that every life is a sacred gift from God from the moment of conception until natural death,” Lori said in a statement.

“We cannot build a truly just society and remain complacent when faced with the massive impact of Roe v.

Wade, which has taken over 60 million lives since 1973. May we pray, fast, and work for the day when the gift of every human life is protected in law and welcomed in love,” he added.

Father Mike Schmitz Tells Pro-life Marchers

‘Every Person Matters’

Washington D.C., (CNA) - The popular podcaster and YouTube star Father Mike Schmitz came wellprepared for his speech at the March for Life rally Friday.

“When my grandma Helen … left Sinai Hospital in 1973, it didn’t change the hospital, it didn’t change the culture, it didn’t change the law, it didn’t change the country,” he said.

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Born the year after the landmark Supreme Court abortion decision Father Mike Schmitz, the host of the “Bible in a Year” podcast, in Roe v. Wade, the gregarious addresses the crowd at the March for Life rally on the National Mall in 47-year-old priest of the Diocese of Washington, D.C., on Jan. 21, 2022.

Duluth, Minnesota, is best known for his “Bible in a Year” podcast and was now about to do so much evil. here. You matter, you belong here. his YouTube videos for Ascension, And they were forcing her nurses No matter what your past is, you the Catholic multimedia publisher. to participate in abortions. They are still loved. You need to know were forcing her nurses to carry this. You are still loved, and you still A headline speaker at the pre-march the remains of these children to be matter.” rally, Schmitz, a North Star State disposed. And so she went to the native accustomed to the frigid board of directors and she said, ‘This Struggling to maintain his composure January weather, received a rousing, needs to stop. Either you stop doing at times, Schmidt went on to share rock-star reception from the crowd, abortions or I’m leaving,’” Schmitz a recent conversation he had with a which included thousands of young woman he helped persuade not to recalled. marchers. abort her child 12 years ago.

The board refused, and his He used the occasion to stress grandmother left her job as head “She said, ‘I thought I hated my the same message he originally nurse. That decision “almost baby. And I realized these many shared with his classmates as a destroyed her life”; she didn’t regret years later, I didn’t hate my baby. I young adolescent: every human life hated the circumstances in which I it, “but it broke her heart,” he said. matters. This time, the message was found myself. I didn’t hate my baby. deeply personal.

“And I think that’s why we’re I was ashamed of myself,’” Schmitz here, too, right? I think we’re here said.

Schmitz told the story of his maternal because abortion, what it’s done, has grandmother, Helen, a nurse who broken our hearts. And I know so “That young woman, 12 years ago, spoke out in defense of the unborn many people here, you’re standing she gave her son to a couple who and the conscientious objections of here because you know the dignity adopted him and have loved him. her fellow nurses when the hospital of human life. And so many people And he’s blessed their life. And where they worked decided to are among us because this story they’ve blessed his life. I’ve met perform abortions in the wake of the is part of your story, because you him. He’s an incredible young man,” Roe decision. found yourself at one point in a Schmitz said.

“Helen, she knew that people place where it seemed like life was He said the woman urged him ahead mattered. She knew that children an impossible choice,” he said. of his speech to remind people “that mattered. She knew that her nurses “And so, I know that we’re regardless of your choices, you are mattered. And so she hated the surrounded by men and women who still loved, and you still matter.” fact that this hospital that had done have chosen abortion. Listen, you such good in that part of the world “And that’s why we’re standing need to know you’re supposed to be

“But when she walked, it changed her. When she stood, it changed her, and it changed her sons and it changed her daughter, my mom.

And that willingness to stand, that willingness to walk, it has echoed into my life. It echoed in the life of this young woman. It is incarnate in the life of this 12-year-old boy, who wouldn’t be here if my grandma Helen hadn’t stood, if my grandma Helen hadn’t walked,” he said.

“Every child matters. Every woman matters. Every person matters. And no matter what this (march) does, no matter what this changes, your being here, standing, your being here, walking, it changes you, and you matter. God bless you.”

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“The first speech I ever gave in my entire life was in eighth grade. We got a chance to choose any topic, any argument, any position,” he told a large crowd assembled at the National Mall. “I chose to talk about the dignity of human life from natural conception to natural death and the evil of abortion and euthanasia.”

here. That’s why we’re walking here,” Schmitz said.

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CATHOLIC CHARITIES CELEBRATES 100 YEARS Providing Help and Creating Hope to Families of All Faiths in Eastern Connecticut

Our History Continues ...

By Jacqueline Keller

2020

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Susan Connelly was named Interim Executive Director on February 19th while continuing as Finance Director following Edward Tessman’s resignation as Executive Director on January 30th.

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Catholic Charities Senior Management Team met to decide how best to continue to provide essential services while strictly adhering to the government mandates after the March 13th declaration of a national emergency due to COVID-19. State health safety guidelines required facial masks, social distancing, and temperature monitors.

“Providing Help and Creating Hope’’ became the outstanding watchword as Catholic Charities assisted anyone in need via telephone or email rather than in-person visits whenever possible.

Jack Babbitt has served as a Board Member. He Individuals, parish, and civic groups, donated food, infant necessities, and healthcare items to now contributes his expertise as Grant Writer. the four offices for daily distribution. The Layette Program of the Norwich Diocesan Susan Connelly was named Chief Council of Catholic Women Operations Officer while continuing Advisory Boards continued in their mission as well.

Current as Finance Director and Laura Malone Bishop Cote thanked Dr. Stephen M. Coan in May for his service as a member of the Board of Directors and for his extraordinary generosity to Catholic Charities through the years.

(January 2022)

Middletown Advisory Board: Tom Dente, Mary Garry, Deacon Peter Gill, Connie Gillies, Jackie Haywood, Heidi Lyons, Pam Perrone, Mary Todzia.

was named Chief Administrative Officer on October 13th.

The Annual Catholic Charities Appeal was held in November. People of all faiths in Eastern Connecticut came to Catholic Charities for help. More than 118,132 meals from our three Willimantic Advisory All who chose to continue services Board: Jed Larson, John provided by the Behavioral McGill, Beth Murphy, Lynda emergency food pantries were supplied to those in need. Over 1,060 services Health Program were successfully Nappy, Susan Palmer, were provided for new families, infants Gary Pillion, Benjamin transferred with clinical documents Shires. and toddlers. Over $268,342 was used completed by June 15th. for direct relief to help those struggling to pay their bills. Rental and utility While National COVID-19 cases surpassed 3 million on July 7th, no COVID-19 cases occurred assistance were provided to 837 individuals and families. 313 Thanksgiving baskets were at the Catholic Charities offices. distributed. 404 families and children helped

Susan Connelly, Chief Operations Officer and Laura Malone, Chief Administrative Officer at the 2021 Golf Tournament.

through “A Very Giving Christmas”. Clinical Charitable Care services totaled $47,542.

The Day newspaper featured Catholic Charities in its “Make a Difference” series. Thanks to the outpouring of donations, parents and three children were able to stay in their home by paying their rent and utilities.

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The Pregnancy and New Parent Support Group met monthly with caseworkers by Zoom to help participants deal with the difficulties they were going through as parents.

Norwich Diocesan Council of Catholic Women held their annual Layette collection on June 5th for expectant mothers and families in Eastern Connecticut. Undeterred by COVID-19 social distancing and mask mandates, NDCCW President Connie Gillies and members held a drive-through and drop- off event at St. Joseph Church, Willimantic.

Backpack donations provided by the Twisted Jesters Motorcycle Club

Father Hussion Columbiettes Auxiliary #2969 shown here with the personal care items for the “Treasure Boxes & Bags” collection

The Board of Directors approved the Middletown Children, widows, the elderly and handicapped all Office move from 151 Broad needed the help that organized social Street, a building provided services could provide.

by St. Sebastian Church, to Board of Directors Past Our work is far from over.

Members (2009-January office space in the Amazing 2022) Grace Food Pantry on Main Catholic Charities Diocese of Cynthia Majeski, who served Catholic Charities Street. Bishop Cote and the Angela Arnold, Jack Babbitt, Norwich Inc., a member of Catholic for twenty-one years, retired in March. She was Board thanked Reverend James Rev. Msgr. Thomas R. Bride VG Charities USA, will Provide Help administrative manager since 2015, having Thaikoottathil, JCD, Pastor (deceased); Kenneth Capano, Dee succeeded Nancy DePietro who retired after many of St. Sebastian Church, for Carnahan, Dr. Stephen Coan, James and Create Hope for the next 100 Coughlin, Mildred E. Devine, John years of service. providing the Broad Street Estelle, Atty. Kathryn D. Guinan, Lois Years as the people of God continue to support the ever-changing needs of Geary, Atty. Michael Jewell, Valerie space.

Bishop Cote thanked Alex Marku in April for his children, teens, adults, and families Jane Leger, Dr. Herbert Levinsky (deceased), Alex Marku, Atty. Ralph generous service on the Board of Directors. without regard to race, religion, or Donations of non-perishable Monaco (deceased), Richard Long, economic circumstances. Catholic food items for Thanksgiving John Piteo, Mark Ricciardelli.

Atty. Ralph J. Monaco, Catholic Charities Board Charities will continue to minister were collected at the four Member Development Committee Chair, and Current (January 2022) Members to the needs of people of all faiths Catholic Charities offices. of the Board of Directors: Catholic Charities Annual Golf Tournament during their time of crisis. This is Parish outreach committees and Most Rev. Michael R. Cote, D.D. Founder died suddenly on the foundation of our daily work. individuals donated President; Rev. Msgr. Leszek Janik, July 10th. The Catholic JCL, VG, Vice President; Anthony Standing in the gap for our sisters new and unwrapped Joyce, Treasurer; Dawn Marie Day, Charities 16th Annual Support from Foundations, toys or gift cards and Secretary; Kenneth Capano, Director and brothers in need is the mission of Trusts and Collections Golf Tournament was Catholic Charities and we are deeply through the Years encouraged “Adopt a Emeritus; Kathleen Capon, Michelle held September 13th at Delaney, Renee Fecteau, Jacqueline committed to providing charitable Family” for Christmas. M. Keller, Dr. Christopher Lipinski.

Mary E. Branigan Trust, Great Neck Country Club, and compassionate assistance to Isabel Grimes Trust, John Waterford in honor of Atty.

The 100th Anniversary families and persons who need a C. Geary and Delia A. Geary Monaco. The 92 golfers and Trust, Frank Loomis Palmer Family Fundraising helping hand through difficult times Fund, The Ray H. and Pauline sponsors raised much needed Social is scheduled for May 14, 2022. and circumstances.

Sullivan Foundation. $20,000 to fund the many More details will be published in future life-giving services provided Jesus has given us all this mandate: “Whatever Norwich Diocesan Council issues of the Four County Catholic. of Catholic Women Annual

by Catholic Charities. you did for the least of these brothers and sisters Collection, Annual Catholic This series of Catholic Charities of mine, you did for me” (Matthew 25:40).

Charities Collection, Annual The Council on Accreditation Milestones 1921-2021 was just a glimpse Catholic Appeal of the Diocese (COA) Reaccredited of Norwich. back in time of the help and hope given to We honor and are grateful for all who have Catholic Charities Diocese our sisters and brothers in need throughout ministered in the name of Jesus Christ.

The United Way of of Norwich, Inc., on Eastern Connecticut since its inception by Southeastern Connecticut.

August 31st after a detailed New London’s St. Mary Star of the Sea Readers are invited to add their remembrances Middlesex United Way. review and analysis parishioners, the Connecticut Council of people and events by emailing editorial@ of its organization’s of Catholic Women, and The Crowley norwichdiocese.net . Please include Catholic administrative operations, including financial Club, more than 100 years ago. At that time, Charities 100th in the Subject field. practices, and its service delivery practices. much like today, Connecticut was recovering from a war and the effects of a global pandemic.

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February 8th: International Day of Prayer and Awareness Against Human Trafficking “Human trafficking is a crime against humanity. We must unite our efforts

to free victims and stop this crime that has become ever more aggressive, that threatens not just individuals, but the foundational values of society.”

- Pope Francis

Prayer to Saint Josephine Bakhita Patron Saint of Victims of Human Trafficking and Slavery Saint Josephine Bakhita, you were sold into slavery as a child and endured unspeakable hardship and suffering.

Once liberated from your physical enslavement, you found true redemption in your encounter with Christ and his Church.

O Saint Josephine Bakhita, assist all those who are entrapped in slavery;

May God himself free all those who have been threatened, wounded, or mistreated by the trade and trafficking of human beings.

Bring comfort to survivors of this slavery and teach them to look to Jesus as an example of hope and faith so that they may find healing from their wounds.

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he Pontifical Council for Justice and Peace and the International Union of Superiors General has designated February 8 as an annual day of prayer and awareness against human trafficking. February 8 is the feast day of St. Josephine Bakhita, who was kidnapped as a child and sold into slavery in Sudan and Italy.

Once Josephine was freed, she became a Canossian nun and dedicated her life to sharing her testament of deliverance from slavery

and comforting the poor and suffering. She was declared a Saint in 2000.

We ask you to pray for us and to intercede on behalf of us all: that we may not fall into indifference, that we may open our eyes and be able to see the misery and wounds of our many brothers and sisters deprived of their dignity and their freedom, and may we hear their cry for help.

Amen

On February 8, Catholics all over the world are encouraged to host or attend prayer services to create greater awareness about this phenomenon. Through prayer, we not only reflect on the experiences of those that have suffered through this affront to human dignity, but also comfort, strengthen, and help empower survivors.

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Intercede on their behalf with the God of Mercy so that the chains of their captivity will be broken.

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By Deacon Ben LoCasto

Exploring the Liv

During this Black History Month, we are reminded of the Black Saints in our own there are probably more than you know. Below are three more recently canoniz

Saint Charles Liwanga

Saint Josep

St. Charles Lwanga is a martyr and saint. He is one of 22 Ugandan martyrs. He defended his young adult companions against the immoral demands of the Bugandan king, and instructed them in their Catholic faith.

He is the patron saint of African Catholic Youth Action, converts, and torture victims.

The Church celebrates his feast on June 3.

St. Josephine Bak in Sudan at age 7 became a babysi Catholic Church.

Sudan, but she re court ruled her fr Magdalene of Ca patron saint of Su The Church celeb

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(1860-1886)

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(1869-1947)

We are also reminded of men and women of African descent who are d Venerable Pierre Toussaint (1776-1853) Venerable Pierre Toussaint, a philanthropist and founder of many Catholic charitable works, was born a slave in Haiti and brought from Haiti to New York as an apprentice under a popular hairstylist in the city. He eventually became the most sought-after hairdresser of high society women. He succeeded in becoming one of the country’s first black entrepreneurs. He became quite wealthy, but instead of spending lavishly on himself, he supported the Church and the

poor. Toussaint would risk his life to help others by nursing the sick and praying with the dying. “I have never felt I am a slave to any man or woman but I am a servant of Almighty God who made us all. When one of his children is in need, I am glad to be His slave.”

Servant of God Mother Mary Elizabeth Lange (1784-1882) Servant of God Mother Mary Lange was a native of the Caribbean and believed to be Cuban born of Haitian descent.

She was the founder and first

Superior General of the Oblate Sisters of Providence (1829-1832), the first religious congregation of African American women in the history of the Catholic Church; their goal was to evangelize African Americans.

They nursed the terminally ill during the cholera epidemic of 1832, sheltered the elderly, and served as domestics at St. Mary’s Seminary. Mother Mary Lange practiced faith to an extraordinary degree.

It was her deep faith – in close union with Jesus – which enabled her to persevere against all odds.

Venerable Henriette Delille (1813-1863) Venerable Henriette Delille was born in New Orleans, where she would live her entire life. For the love of Jesus and responding to the Gospel’s mandate, she

ves of Black Saints

n Catholic history. How many saints of African descent are you aware of? Well, zed black saints, as well as some persons who are on their way to sainthood.

khita was kidnapped and sold as a slave 7. She was brought to Italy, where she itter. She eventually felt drawn to the Her captors wanted to take her back to efused. Slavery was illegal in Italy, so a ree. She later joined the Institute of St. anossa religious community. She is the udan and human trafficking survivors. brates her feast day on February 8.

Saint Kitzito

(1872 – 1876)

St. Kizito was the youngest of the 22 Ugandan martyrs. King Mwanga II of Buganda tortured him to death at age 13 after learning he was Christian. As he was dying, he recited the ‘Our Father.’ His last words were, “Goodbye my friends, we are on the right path.” St. Kizito’s feast day is June 3. He is the patron saint of children and primary schools.

declared Servants of God and Venerable in the process of canonization.

was determined to help those in need.

Henriette was also a person who suffered as she made her way through life, and she bore many crosses. She taught those around her that sanctity can be attained in following the path of Jesus. In 1842, she founded the Congregation of the Sisters of the Holy Family. Henriette died 20 years later, on Nov. 17, 1862. Her funeral was held at St. Augustine Church. Her obituary stated, “Miss Henriette Delille had for long years consecrated herself totally to God

without reservation to the instruction of Church as a Black “National Parish the ignorant and principally to the slave.” Church,” which was completed in 1893.

Tolton’s success at ministering to Black Venerable Rev. Augustus Tolton Catholics quickly earned him national (1854-1897) attention within the Catholic hierarchy.

Venerable Augustus Tolton was the first “Good Father Gus,” as many called him, U.S. Roman Catholic Black priest publicly was known for his eloquent sermons, his ordained in beautiful singing voice, and his talent for 1886. A former playing the accordion. He is the subject of slave who was the 1973 biography “From Slave to Priest” baptized and

by Sister Caroline Hemesath. reared Catholic, Tolton formally studied in Sources: Information for this article was gathered Rome. He was from Catholic News Agency and ChurchPOP. ordained in Rome on Easter Sunday at the Archbasilica of St. John Lateran.

Fr. Tolton led the development and construction of St. Monica’s Catholic

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phine Bakhita

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What is Lent? LENTEN Lent is a 40 day season of prayer, fasting, and almsgiving that begins on Ash Wednesday and ends at sundown on Holy Thursday.

It’s a period of preparation to celebrate the Lord’s Resurrection at Easter.

During Lent, we seek the Lord in prayer by reading Sacred Scripture; we serve by giving alms; and we practice self-control through fasting.

We are called not only to abstain from luxuries during Lent, but to a true inner conversion of heart as we seek to follow Christ’s will more faithfully. We recall the waters of baptism in which we were also baptized into Christ’s death, died to sin and evil, and began new life in Christ.

Many know of the tradition of abstaining from meat on Fridays during Lent, but we are also called to practice selfdiscipline and fast in other ways throughout the season.

In addition, the giving of alms is one way to share God’s gifts – not only through the

distribution of money, but through the sharing of our time and talents.

As St. John Chrysostom reminds us: “Not to enable the poor to share in our goods is to steal from them and deprive them of life. The goods we possess are not ours, but theirs.” (Catechism of the Catholic Church, no. 2446).

In Lent, the baptized are called to renew their baptismal commitment as others prepare to be baptized through the Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults, a period of learning and discernment for individuals who have declared their desire to become Catholics.

Here are three tips to deepen your relationship with God during the 40 days of Lent 1) Participate in the sacraments.

2) Help those in need around you.

3) Sacrifice something that’s hard for you.

As in the past we will once again offer a Lenten resource page on the diocesan website. This can be found at NorwichDiocese.org/Lent.

FASTING & ABSTINENCE Fasting

Abstinence

Ash Wednesday Good Friday

Every Friday during Lent

Ages 18-59

Ages 14+

How do we fast?

When fasting, a person is permitted to eat one full meal, as well as two smaller meals that together are not equal to a full meal.

Am I excused from fasting and abstinence?

Those that are excused from fast and abstinence outside the age limits include the physically or mentally ill including individuals suffering from chronic illnesses such as diabetes. Also excluded are pregnant or nursing women.

For more information on fasting and abstinence, visit usccb.org.

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It is only by paying attention to whom we listen, to what we listen,

and to how we listen that we can grow in the art of communicating, the heart of which is not a theory or a technique, but the openness of heart that makes closeness possible.

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“I Know Well The Plans I Have In Mind For You…”

By Susan Wallace, Executive Director & Jimmy Kervens Jean-Felix, former Outreach Education Team Member

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or I know well the plans I have in mind for you— oracle of the LORD—plans for your welfare and not for woe, so as to give you a future of hope.

(Jeremiah 29:11) These words of Jeremiah, remind us God knows each of us and has plans so that we may have a future of hope. The Diocese of Norwich Outreach to Haiti, knows well how important hope is for the men, women, and children who live in Haiti. Through our Medical Clinic, Health Care Services, Food and Nutritional Supplements Program, Education Sponsorship Program, and our Parish Twinning Program, hope is a shining beacon to those who live in economic poverty.

I grew up with a big expectation on my shoulders just as any first-born in my community. My mother had to work hard to make sure we had the housing and food we needed.

Although I have experienced the lack of basic needs, it has not stopped me from aiming for great things in life. Education was a real privilege in the neighborhood where I grew up. Most of the girls stayed at home and devoted their days to housework; the boys would do nothing.

My life changed the day I was selected for the Outreach to Haiti Student Sponsorship Program that provided me a scholarship. We celebrated after my mother came home with the greatest news ever; my tuition was going to be taken care of by people – I had no idea who they were. I can still remember my parents crying with joy; I was jumping up and down and saying thank you God!

Please meet Sherley Sainterve, who was given the opportunity to earn an education and realize her lifelong dream thanks to the Outreach Education Sponsorship Program.

In her own words, she shares her experience.

I had to make the best of this opportunity and studied harder and did even better at school than before to send a positive message to Outreach so they would accept my two younger sisters in the program when they applied.

I graduated from high school, passed the State Exam in 2011 and realized my biggest dream, to study medicine, when I was admitted

to one of the top three medical schools in Haiti. As a young female medical student, I sent a great positive message to the young people of my neighborhood: if I could go to college they could too.

I also joined Outreach’s Alumni Association. This was important as it allowed all current and past Outreach beneficiaries to stay connected, share opportunities and find mutual support for projects. I would even reach out them when I

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to Outreach to Haiti for helping me realize one of my biggest dreams which was to be a doctor and serving the poorest communities of my country.

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had important projects to submit at school.

During my time as a medical student, I had the opportunity to do a number of internships. Two of the most important ones were the clinical internship at Hôpital Sacre Coeur de Milot in Cap Haitien in 2016 and the second most relevant was at Hôpital La Providence des Gonaives. These internships provided me with a good foundation

Just as with any medical student in Haiti, I concluded my medical studies with my residence at the Meyer Health Center for one year. After graduation, I felt more empowered than a normal medical student in Haiti because I have the Outreach Alumni network and benefitted from many internships that made me very competitive. I keep building my English skills and preparing for a specialization in Cardiology.

I will be forever grateful to Outreach to Haiti for helping me realize one of my biggest dreams which was to be a doctor and serving the poorest communities of my country. I know I would not be able to achieve this goal without Outreach’s support.

Outreach’s generosity inspires me to continue to help other young people. Thank you for investing in my future.

Sherley shown here with her parents

Today, Ms. Sainterve is working at the Hôpital Le Cayes. If you have ever wondered if the gifts you give and the opportunities you provide to others make a difference, I hope Sherley Sainterve’s story inspires you to know that yes, you make a difference.

people’s lives and allows them to develop their God given gifts and become who God intends them to become in this life. Please keep our Haitian young people in your prayers and consider becoming the person who forever positively changes the life of a child.

We believe Education provides a strong foundation for all young

Become an Education Sponsor visit https://outreachtohaiti.org/programs/education. God bless you!

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Sacred Heart School, Groton Gail Kingston, Principal 50 Sacred Heart Drive, Groton 860-445-0611 sacredheartgroton.org/school

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Mother Christina Van Beck, SCMC, Principal 15 Hunters Ave, Taftville 860-887-1757 sacredhearttaftville.org

St. James School, Danielson Elyse McAteer, Principal 120 Water St, Danielson 860-774-3281 stjamesdanielson.org

St. John School, Old Saybrook

Mother Elaine Moorcroft, SCMC, Principal 42 Maynard Road, Old Saybrook 860-388-0849 saintjohnschoolos.org

St. John Paul II School, Middletown Larry Fitzgerald, Principal 87 South Main Street. Middletown 860-347-2978 JPII.org

St. Joseph School, Baltic

Sr. Mary Patrick Mulready, SCMC, Principal 10 School Hill Road, Baltic 860-822-6141 Stjosephschoolbaltic.com

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Marianne Cote, Principle 25 Squire Street, New London 860-442-1720 SJSNL.com

St. Michael School, Pawcatuck Doris Messina, Principal West Broad St., Pawcatuck 860-599-1084 stmichaelschoolct.com

St. Patrick Cathedral School, Norwich Sharon Stewart, Principal 211 Broadway, Norwich 860-889-4174 st-patrickschoolnorwich.org

Academy of the Holy Family, Baltic Mother Mary David, SCMC, Principal 54 West Main St, Baltic 860-822-9272 ahfbaltic.org

Mercy High School, Middletown Alissa DeJonge, President 1740 Randolph Road, Middletown 860-346-6659 mercyhigh.com

St. Bernard School, Uncasville

Donald Macrino, Headmaster 1593 Norwich-New London Tpke, Uncasville 860-848-1271 saint-bernard.com

Xavier High School, Middletown David C. Eustis, Headmaster Brendan Donohue, Principal 181 Randolph Road, Middletown 860-346-7735 xavierhighschool.org

St. John Paul II Regional School Draws from Rich Heritage My dear friends,

The plan was approved, and in the fall of 2013, St. John Paul II School opened its This month we focus the spotlight on another doors and currently educates 192 students one of the outstanding educational institutions from grades PK-8. in the diocese - Saint Paul II Regional School. Building a vibrant Catholic identity is Catholic education has a rich tradition central to our vision. Our patron, St. John in Middletown. For more than 100 years, Paul II, provides these words to guide parish Catholic Schools have provided us: “A Catholic school is a place where education to students in pre-kindergarten students live a shared experience of faith in God and where they learn the riches of through eighth grade.

Catholic culture...Catholic schools must To ensure the preservation of Catholic help students to deepen their relationship elementary education well into the future, with God and to discover that all things, St. Mary Parish and St. John Parish pastors, human, have their deepest meaning in the boards of education, and the Diocesan person and teaching of Jesus Christ.”

School Office recommended a plan to Bishop Michael R. Cote, D.D., to join the St. John Paul II Regional School draws two schools into one regional Catholic from the rich heritage of St. Mary School, elementary school for the Middletown St. John School, and St. Sebastian School region. The plan to extend Catholic and is committed to serving the needs education was predicated on the support of our learning community. The school of all the parishes of the Middletown upholds a vitality and vision for the future of our young people rooted in data-driven Deanery. best practices and 21st century learning.

band. Lessons are available at the school from Future Musicians of America. These are just a few of the many reasons families choose St. John Paul II School for their child’s education.

The faculty and staff create a warm, nurturing environment that promotes successful learning. As quoted by one of our parents, “My three sons all attend St. John Paul II School in Middletown. I’ll be very honest; the relief I have felt over the last two years has been immeasurable. The school has always been wonderful with a strong, tight community of families, parents, educators, and For more information, please administrators. Here, everyone contact the school at is always on the same page... (860) 347-2978.

May God bless you and keep you safe.

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Supported by the nine parishes in the Middletown Deanery, St. John Paul II offers affordable tuition, enrichment classes, competitive sports programs as well as the opportunity to play an instrument in the school

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Giving is a Way of Life at Saint Bernard School

“Families aren’t just hungry or need clothes and supplies during holidays, people need help all year long,”

By Kimberly Hodges

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iving back to the community is a longstanding tradition at Saint Bernard School. This philosophy of generosity and caring is deeply rooted in the school’s faith and values. This year, students decided to increase the type, duration and amount of their philanthropy.

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they imagined. Mrs. Varholy explained that the need for food assistance and hygiene products has gone up dramatically across the 32 towns Saint Vincent de Paul Place serves.

Student groups pooled their resources and made donations not only to Saint Vincent de Paul Place, but to other area service Listening to Pat Varholy, from agencies, too. The goal is to help Saint Vincent de Paul Place, those in need all year long in SBS students learned the need several ways., in our area is greater than

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This fall, clubs, athletics and individual student groups across the campus raised awareness of need in the community and how the SBS family could help. The United Nations has established 17 goals to transform the world.

SBS’ Lead4Change Club adopted two of the goals as its objectives for the year: “No Poverty. Zero Hunger.” They shared these aims with other school clubs. Students

throughout SBS rallied to do their food for Thanksgiving meals. To part and help lessen hunger and maintain an air of excitement and momentum, a friendly poverty in our area. competition was created between The Saints worked on different the various SBS classes, faculty initiatives: a cereal collection, a and staff. The ninth-grade class book drive for Safe Futures, gently surpassed everyone by donating used sports equipment for the 400 lbs. of food. In total, 1,423 lbs.

Groton Locker Room Program, of food was collected, enabling the National Honor Society toy Saint Vincent de Paul Place to give drive, and pies for the Subvets out more baskets of food than in Groton Clubhouse. In addition, recent memory. student groups raised funds for Louisiana Disaster relief and to The clubs then turned their help build a library in Mexico. efforts toward collecting items for “Christmas Miracle Bags.”

Spurred on by Mrs. Varholy’s They were hats, gloves, socks, presentation, the clubs set a undergarments, hygiene products, goal of collecting 500 pounds of scarfs, pajamas and gift cards.

From the sale of candygrams, the students presented Mrs. Varholy with a check for $400.

Student Government President, Maria Proulx, ’22, and Student Ambassador Club President Sferrazza, ’24, are working on additional programming to continue giving to Saint Vincent de Paul Place throughout the coming year. As Maria said, “If you have assets that can help those in need, you should do it.”

You should give with compassion and humility. This is a way of life for the Saints.

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“Families aren’t just hungry or need clothes and supplies during holidays, people need help all year long,” Sienna Sferrazza, president of the Student Ambassadors Club, said.

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Six Xavier Juniors, Senior Leader Selected For XBSS Retreat

By Jeff Otterbein

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hen the six members of the Class of 2023 return from the XBSS Junior Retreat in March, they no doubt will experience what Father Joseph MacNeill talked about in his message to the student body at Mass on Jan. 4.

“Each of us can find a practical way to experience a newness, a rebirth in Christ,” Father MacNeill said as he celebrated the Christmas season, the birth of

the Christ child, that concludes Sunday in the Catholic Church.

“So as we go through the Christmas season, let us not be unchanged, the same as we were last year … let us truly experience a rebirth.”

The six Xavier juniors -- Luke Anderson, Dominic Cusano, Sam Enes, Nick Miano, Patrick Mitchill, and Brendan Peary – were commissioned during a brief ceremony after the Mass.

Colin Loria, who had a role in the commissioning of the juniors, will be the senior leader. Mr. John Guinan, the assistant Director of Campus Ministry, will be the adult leader.

The juniors no doubt will experience that newness, that rebirth that Father MacNeill spoke about, when they gather in March.

The XBSS Junior Retreat brings together six juniors from each

XBSS School as well as one senior leader. Xavier’s senior leader is Colin Loria. The retreat is about falling in love with the service of God and includes learning more about the Xaverian heritage. At the end the juniors will be asked to develop a plan to bring back the spirit of the Xaverian charism to their schools.

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ercy students, in the spirit of their founder Catherine McAuley, are steadfastly determined to take Mercy into an interconnected world. Their shared sense of social consciousness is fortified by universal empathy and a conviction that all are worthy of God’s mercy. This deep awareness and compassion move the Mercy Community to take principled action and serve the needs of others.

The Peer Ministers sponsored a

PJs for the Prince of Peace drive that benefited a women’s shelter in Bridgeport.

The National Honor Society held a drive to collect funds and items for the Albert J. Solnit Children’s Center in Middletown. The Solnit Center is a family-centered treatment facility for children and youth with serious emotional disorders.

Rotary Interact Club held numerous food drives were held to benefit area families and agencies.

Top Row L-R: Over 300 apple and pumpkin pies were assembled and baked to be distributed by the Middletown Thanksgiving Project to the St. Vincent de Paul Place, the Community School in Waterbury, and Mercy Housing and Shelter in Hartford.

The National Honor Society held a personal care and toiletry drive for St. Vincent De Paul Middletown Soup Kitchen

Christmas cards were written and distributed at Apple Rehabilitation Center in Middletown. Working together are Vanessa Esposito ’24 and Reese Fowler ’24.

Bottom Row L-R: The Helping Hands Helping Paws club under the direction of Mrs. Rodrigues collected many items for our fourlegged friends in need.

Middle Row L-R: The Justice and Peace Club collected 385 pairs of socks to donate to St. Vincent DePaul.

This photo collage depicts some of the service projects that Mercy High students focused on for the 2021 holiday season.

More clubs along with three Honor Societies, Spanish, Italian and National, have more service events planned for early 2022.

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Those chosen go through an interview process.

“You’re asked about your relationship to God, your relationship to yourself, you’re asked about other leadership roles, how you feel about speaking in a big group, how you feel about being outspoken in general, your comfort zone,” Peary said. “They want to make sure the right people are going.”

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Tuesday, February 15, at 3 PM Virtual Rosary for Project Rachel

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The Office of Faith Events invites everyone to make Easter baskets that will be donated to the soup kitchens/shelters in the Norwich Diocese for children and families. Completed baskets may be dropped off to 199 Broadway during regular business hours until Friday April 8. Please make

Diocesan Virtual Lenten Mission

Join the Office of Faith Events and prepare for the Easter season by reflecting, praying, and deepening your faith while we explore how the saints renew our relationship with Christ. To register and receive the link to join the meetings please email Marianne at manicholas@norwichdiocese.net or call (860)848-2237 ext. 304

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By Father Michael Bovino

In closing this series, I would like to thank Mr. Wayne Gignac for allowing me to contribute these monthly articles to the Four County Catholic.

Through writing these columns on the Sacraments, it has helped to deepen my understanding of the riches that God gives to us through the unsurpassed gifts that are the Sacraments.

bishops are planning a national Eucharistic revival here in our country. I believe that such a revival will produce abundant fruit in the Church.

We need to be constantly awakened to the grace of God given in the Sacraments, especially the Eucharist. In the short time that I’ve been a priest, it has struck me how easy it is for even the holiest and most sacred things to become mere routine. For those of us accustomed to receiving Holy Communion regularly, we can easily lose sight of just what a Gift the Eucharist is. This should be before our minds every time we receive Holy Communion. It is the God of the universe whom we approach and receive in our hand or on our tongue. No matter how often we reflect on this reality, the Lord will always have more to show us.

Lastly, I think it is fitting to highlight one Sacrament I recently came across some words written by the in particular: the Holy Eucharist. Throughout the novelist Annie Dillard. She was reflecting on the past year, I received a few handwritten notes (thank you to the radical power that lies beneath our worship of Almighty God. I senders) requesting further discussion on the Holy Eucharist. I think think her words suit Holy Communion as well. To close a series on that this desire is an appropriate one. the Sacraments, I can’t think of more fitting words: “Does anyone The Second Vatican Council described the Eucharist as “the Source have the foggiest idea what sort of power we blithely invoke?... The and Summit of our Faith (Lumen Gentium 11).” The Eucharist churches are children playing on the floor with their chemistry sets, occupies a significant place in the history of the Church. The mixing up a batch of TNT to kill a Sunday morning…we should all be wearing crash helmets. Ushers should issue life preservers and Eucharist is not a “what” but a “who.” signal flares; they should lash us to our pews. For the sleeping [G] The Eucharist is the real flesh and blood of Jesus made present to us od may wake someday and take offense, or the waking [G]od may under the appearance of ordinary bread and wine. This reality should draw us to where we can never return (Teaching a Stone to Talk: Expeditions and Encounters, 40-41).” continually shock us to the point of amazement and adoration.

Again, as God’s Providence would have it (As I said it last month, His May the Sacraments always be instruments for us to receive and be timing is always impeccable), as I write this closing article, the U.S. transformed by the very life of God Himself.

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ver the last year or so, we’ve looked at the seven Sacraments of the Church as instituted and handed down to us by Jesus Himself and His Catholic Church. In these articles, we explored some of the theological foundations for each Sacrament.

We also saw how each Sacrament bestows certain graces to help us grow in the Christian life. And we covered the two main components that “make up” each Sacrament: the matter and the form.

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Fai t h Sparks

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By Marianne Nicholas, Office of Faith Events

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his month we celebrate a day dedicated to the importance of love: Valentine’s Day. Yes, Valentine’s Day is universally devoted to romantic love, but there are other types of love that we must remember to celebrate. Let’s not forget the whole season of love that just concluded – the Christmas season, when we celebrate that God so loved the whole world that He gave His only Son. In middle school I felt privileged that I was asked to join the high-schoolers and take part in the musical ensemble for the Norwich Free Academy’s on-stage Christmas tableaux.

The one song I have always remembered from that

performance was Sandi Patty’s, “The Gift Goes On.” For those of you unfamiliar with this song, the refrain is this: “The Father gave the Son; The Son gave the Spirit; The Spirit gives us life so we can give the Gift of Love; And the Gift goes on; And the Gift goes on.” I love the simple way these lyrics illustrate the perfect circle of love that connects us to God. The greatest gift we can ever give another human being is to show them love. I am not referring to just romantic love, but love in the sense of kindness, understanding, forgiveness, and so on. It is the kind of love that we should share with everyone – the young and old, the sick and forgotten. It is the kind of love God has given us since the

beginning of time and continues to bestow on us.

What I really like is the lyric of the song that says, “The Spirit gives us life so we can give the Gift of Love.” When we are baptized as Catholics we are bathed in the Holy Spirit. I have an old birthday card that I saved from my grandmother in which she wrote, “May the Holy Spirit always dwell in your heart.” My gram, as a rule, made sure to often remind everyone of the Holy Spirit’s presence. I keep this card from her close to me and read it often to remind myself that the Holy Spirit does live in me, and in all our hearts – we just need to remember it is there. There is so much going on around us in this world that we all need to be

reminded often that we are never alone, and always loved.

This Valentine’s Day, I encourage you to call on the Holy Spirit to help you show love, kindness, or forgiveness to someone who isn’t expecting it from you. Ask the Holy Spirit to inspire you.

There can be so many ways to show others you care. Visiting the lonely, bringing candy or homemade cards to convalescent homes and shelters are great ways to get children involved, too. And while you have the kids involved, make sure you let them know what my gram wanted them to know, that the Holy Spirit will always dwell in their hearts and guide them with love throughout their lives.

Ignite Your Faith.

Visit NorwichDiocese.org/FaithSparks to find additional resources to grow in faith in 2022.

Official Approved Notice from U.S. Bankruptcy Court for the District of Connecticut

Sexual Abuse and General Claims in The Roman Catholic Diocese of Norwich, Connecticut Bankruptcy The Norwich Roman Catholic Diocesan Corporation, a/k/a the Roman Catholic Diocese of Norwich (“Diocese” or “Debtor”) has filed bankruptcy in order to restructure its nonprofit organization. Please read this notice carefully as it may impact your rights against the Diocese and provides information about the case, In re The Norwich Roman Catholic Diocesan Corporation (Bankr. D. Conn.). This notice is a short summary.

Who Should File a Sexual Abuse Claim?

Anyone who was sexually abused, on or before July 15, 2021, and believes the Diocese may be responsible for the sexual abuse must file a claim. This includes sexual abuse in connection with any entity or activity associated with the Diocese. Sexual Abuse Claims include but are not limited to: sexual misconduct, touching, inappropriate contact, or sexual comments about a person or other behaviors that led to abuse, and regardless of whether you thought the behavior was sexual abuse or not.

When Should I File a Sexual Abuse Claim?

The Connecticut Catholic Public Affairs Conference will be tracking various issues of interest and will be actively lobbying to protect the sanctity of life, parental rights, religious freedom, and various social justice issues.

One of the issues that will more than likely be reconsidered by the Public Health Committee this coming legislative session is Physician-Assisted Suicide (also called Aid-in-Dying by its supporters)

Physician-Assisted Suicide in Connecticut have been going on for years.

Suicide is a growing issue of concern in our nation. Is it good public policy to enact legislation that approves of it in a particular situation, while trying to discourage it in other situations? It is not. PAS sends a clear message that society does see suicide as a solution to a problem. How do you tell a young person who is spiritually hurting, with severe emotional pain and depression, that they see as unbearable, not to take their life when someone else can legally do so? It is time to reach out to your State Senator and Representative and tell them that physician-assisted suicide should not be legalized in Connecticut.

Last year physician-assisted suicide (PAS) legislation passed out of the Public Health Visit Action.CTCatholicPAC. Committee but failed to be org to read more and to sign up considered by the Judiciary to receive Action Alerts.

Committee. Efforts to legalize

If you do not file a timely Sexual Abuse Claim, you may lose rights against the Diocese and against Diocese Related Entities, including any right to compensation.

Your information will be kept private. For a list of names of clergy that have been identified in connection with sexual abuse claims, go to https://www.norwichdiocese.org/Find/Accused-Clergy. For more information on the bankruptcy case, go to https://dm.epiq11.com/case/rcdn or call 1-855-654-0902.

The Sexual Abuse Bar Date of March 15, 2022 is not subject to further extension, even if there is a change in the applicable statute of limitations. You should consider submitting a proof of claim even if you believe your claim may be subject to an affirmative defense such as a statute of limitations.

When Should I File a General Bar Date Claim?

If you have a non-sexual abuse claim, you will need to file so that it is received by 5 p.m. (prevailing Eastern Time) on March 15, 2022. More information is available at https://dm.epiq11.com/case/rcdn.

ACT NOW Before Time Runs Out: You can download and file a claim at the website or call the toll-free number listed below for help on how to file a claim by mail.

File a Proof of Claim.

Have questions?

Call or visit the website for more information.

If your claim is approved, you may receive compensation from the bankruptcy.

https://dm.epiq11.com/case/rcdn 1-855-654-0902

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he 2022 session of the Connecticut General Assembly will convene on Wednesday, February 9th and adjourn on Wednesday, May 4th.

Regardless of how old you are today or when the sexual abuse occurred, you need to file your claim so that it is received by 5 p.m. (prevailing Eastern Time) on March 15, 2022.

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