Four County Catholic February 2012

Volume 24 Number 2

February 2012

Pope to travel to Cuba & Mexico to encourage “a society based on the development of good, the triumph of love and the expansion of justice.�

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Santo Padre, todos estamos con usted.

Estamos muy agradecidos por este momento.

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- Bishop Cote expressing, in Spanish, our collective support of Pope Benedict’s announced visit to Mexico and Cuba.

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The Most Reverend

Michael R. Cote, D.D.

Bishop of Norwich

The Missionary Within Us My Dear Brothers and Sisters in Christ: As the Holy Father, Pope Benedict XVI, prepares for his historic visit next month to Mexico and Cuba, we are with him in our prayers and our enthusiasm for his mission of faith.

It has been nearly 14 years since Blessed John Paul II visited Cuba and 10 years since there has been a papal visit to Mexico. There is so much anticipation. There is that sense that this is a moment for the light of faith to shine through and touch a great many lives.

The deeply-rooted Christian faith continues to be profoundly important to our dear brothers and sisters in Cuba and Mexico and their faithful family members and friends who are here with us in America and right here in the Diocese of Norwich. “Santo Padre, todos estamos con usted.

Estamos muy agradecidos por este momento.” We are grateful for this moment.

It is no surprise that we are al- which we will be learning much ready hearing editorializing from more in the months ahead, is a remany news sources regarding newed commitment to sharing Church and State issues and vari- the Good News of the Gospel ous political implications of the with those individuals and poputrip. This politicizing is to be ex- lations facing a crisis or drought pected. What we should keep first of faith in increasingly secularized in our cultures. It rethoughts, howminds each of Santo Padre, ever, is that this us that we are todos estamos visit is about disciples of the bringing the con usted. Estamos living faith, Christian mesand this is a muy agradecido sage of faith crucial time to por este momento re i n v i g o r a t e and love to the good people of the missionary these magnificent countries. It is within each of us. It is our respona message of the truth of the sibility to help others find their Gospel and of hope delivered in way home to receive the waiting person by the Holy Father. gifts of faith, hope, love and new By setting out from the Vatican life in Christ. Being more conto be there with the people of scious of reaching out to others Cuba and Mexico on their home with the encouragement of faith soil, the Holy Father is vigorously is becoming one of the central leading the way for all of us in the challenges of our time.

Church to begin to live the New One of the surest ways to help Evangelization initiative of the others rediscover their way to Church.

Christ is to be a joyful and inNew Evangelization, about volved Christian. Joy is conta-

gious. In last month’s edition of this newspaper, we quoted Cardinal-designate Timothy Dolan as having recently said, “Happiness attracts….if there is anything that should be upbeat, affirming, positive, joyful – it should be people of faith.” This is so perfectly the spirit of the New Evangelization.

When we accept and embrace true hope in Christ, the joy of that growing relationship shows.

As we develop our closeness to Christ, we become alive with faith and with an inner happiness that attracts.

Each of us has varying degrees of opportunity to proclaim the Good News. The millions who will witness the Holy Father’s journey to Cuba and Mexico are part of a vast opportunity to share the faith. At the same time, in our daily lives, if each of us shares the message of hope with one other person, we are all doing our individual best to bring more good Catholics home to Christ and new Catholics to the promise of

new life with Christ. By degrees and circumstances, we are all capable of participating in the New Evangelization outreach.

Pope Benedict has proclaimed that effective October, 2012, the subsequent twelve months will be designated the Year of Faith.

Much of the emphasis of this important designate period will be on joining together in the spirit of the New Evangelization. More details will be released this spring regarding programs and actions to help all of us live a renewed and reenergized Christian life.

A prayer shared by all Bishops as we support the promise of the New Evangelization effort is “We pray, through the Holy Spirit, it will be a means of bringing renewal to our Church and new life to all who search for God.” This we pray.

Sincerely yours in Christ’s love, Bishop Michael R. Cote

Lo Misionero Dentro De Nosotros Queridos hermanos y hermanas en Cristo: A medida que el Santo Padre, Papa Benedicto XVI, se prepara para su histórica visita a México y a Cuba el próximo mes, estamos con él en nuestras oraciones y nuestro entusiasmo por su misión de fe.

Han pasado casi 14 años desde que el beato Juan Pablo II visitó Cuba y 10 años desde que ha habido una visita papal a México.

Hay tanta esperanza. Hay una percepción de que este es el momento para que la luz de fe resplandezca y conmueva a un buen número de personas.

La fe Cristiana profundamente arraigada continúa siendo fuertemente importante para nuestros queridos hermanos y hermanas en Cuba y México y para sus devotos parientes y amigos quienes están aquí con nosotros en los Estados Unidos y aquí mismo en la Diócesis de Norwich “Santo Padre, todos estamos con usted. Estamos muy agradecidos por este momento”.

No es de extrañar que ya estamos redactando entrevistas de muchas fuentes de noticias con respecto a problemas de Iglesia y Estado y diversas implicaciones políticas del viaje. Esta politización

es de esperar. Lo que deberíamos mantener primero en nuestros pensamientos, no obstante, es que esta visita es acerca de llevar el mensaje Cristiano de fe y amor a la gente bondadosa de esos majestuosos países. Es un mensaje de la verdad del Evangelio y de esperanza entregado en persona por el Santo Padre.

Saliendo desde el Vaticano para estar con el pueblo de Cuba y México en sus tierras natales, el Santo Padre está fuertemente abriendo el camino para que todos nosotros en la Iglesia comencemos a vivir la iniciativa de la Nueva Evangelización .

Nueva Evangelización, sobre la cual estaremos aprendiendo mucho más en los próximos meses, es un compromiso renovado para compartir la Buena Nueva del Evangelio con aquellos individuos y habitantes que enfrentan una crisis o una aridez de fe en una cultura cada vez más secularizada. Nos recuerda a cada uno de nosotros que somos discípulos de la fe viva, y este es un momento crucial para vigorizar lo misionero dentro de cada uno de nosotros.

Es nuestra responsabilidad ayudar a otros a encontrar su camino a la morada para recibir los dones que les esperan de fe, esperanza,

amor y vida nueva en Cristo. El ser más concientes de alcanzar a otros con la motivación de fe se está convirtiendo en uno de los principales retos de nuestro tiempo.

Una de las maneras más seguras para ayudar a otros a redescubrir su camino a Cristo es ser un Cristiano alegre y comprometido. La alegría es contagiosa. En la edición del mes pasado de este periódico, que citó el cardenal designado, Timothy Dolan, como recientemente ha dicho: “La felicidad atrae… si hay algo que debe ser optimista, asertivo, positivo, alegre,…Debe ser el pueblo de fe” Misionero Cont. on page 4

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A Celebration of Consecrated Life Sunday, February 5, 2012 Cathedral of St. Patrick, 213 Broadway, Norwich CT This day will begin with registration in the vestibule of the Cathedral of Saint Patrick, followed by a celebration of Mass at 10:30 a.m. The homilist is Father James P. Carini, Pastor of Saint Matthew Parish in Tolland and Dean of the Vernon Deanery.

A catered dinner will be served at 12:00 Noon in the Cathedral Auditorium. At the dinner, Sister Yannick Saieh, S.J.C., Bishop Cote’s personal representative to Haiti, will speak on her apostolate to Haiti.

All women and men who are members of institues of consecrated life and societies of apostolic life are invited to attend.

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Esto es perfectamente el espíritu de la Nueva Evangelización.

Cuando aceptamos y acogemos la verdadera esperanza en Cristo, la alegría de la creciente relación se exterioriza. A medida que desarrollamos nuestra cercanía a Cristo, nos volvemos alerta en la fe y con una felicidad interior que atrae.

Cada uno de nosotros tiene diversos niveles de oportunidad para proclamar la Buena Nueva. Los millones quienes testificarán el viaje del Santo Padre a Cuba y México son parte de una vasta oportunidad para compartir la fe.

Al mismo tiempo en nuestra vida diaria si cada uno de nosotros comparte el mensaje de esperanza con otra persona, todos estamos haciendo nuestro mejor esfuerzo individual para llevar a más buenos Católicos a Cristo y a nuevos Católicos a la promesa de una nueva vida con Cristo. Por niveles y circunstancias, todos somos capaces de participar en la Nueva Evangelización de expan-

sión.

El Papa Benedicto XVI ha proclamado efectivo que octubre de 2012, y los posteriores 12 meses serán nombrados como el Año de Fe. Mucho del énfasis de este importante período designado estará unido en el espíritu de la Nueva Evangelización. Más detalles serán revelados en esta primavera con respecto a programas y acciones para ayudar a todos a vivir una vida Cristiana renovada y vigorizada.

Una oración compartida por todos los Obispos al mismo tiempo que apoyamos la promesa de los esfuerzos de la Nueva Evangelización es “ Oramos, por medio del Espíritu Santo, que será un medio de traer renovación a nuestra Iglesia y vida nueva a todos quienes buscan a Dios.”

Sinceramente en el amor de Cristo, Obispo Michael R. Cote Translated by Paulina Angulo

Rejoice in Hope February 17­19 Couples Retreat Take time out to rekindle your rela­ tionship with your spouse and our Lord. With Deacon Michael and Mary Berstene.

February 19­25 Guided Retreat "The Art of Listening As a Gift" Join us as we progress on our prayer journey. With Sr. Eugenia Brady, SJC

God invites us in the midst of the noise and distractions we face every day to a deeper and more intimate relationship with Him. Set some time aside for Him, book your retreat today!

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February 21 Mardi Gras Dinner & Evening Prayer The freedom of Jesus Christ is a stupe­ fying freedom. May we join on the eve of Lent to celebrate a joyful meal and prayer, entrusting our lives in con i­ dence to a God who loves us exactly as we are. With Fr. Frank Sutman O.P. February 22 Ash Wednesday Day of Prayer "Feasting On While We Fast From" With Sr. Eugenia Brady, SJC March 2­4 Men’s 11th Step on the Rock Recovery Weekend with Sr. Maurice

St. Edmund's Stations of the Cross and Famous Lenten Fish Fry Every Friday during lent. Stations are at 6 pm.

Dinner is at 5 pm or 6:30 pm.

To register please visit website or call.

February 12­19 Icon Writing in the Russian Style Learn to write an Icon and be steeped in this original Christian art form through lecture, theory and theologi­ cal discussion. With the Prosopon School.

March 18­23 Oil Painting in the Style of the Masters Learn techniques not usually taught in American Schools of Art. All of the processes used by the masters are explained and demonstrated. You will complete your own piece of art in the style of the masters.

With Dr. Michael Sullo.

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Director of Priestly Vocations

Reverend Gregory Galvin

Here I Am Lord, I’ve Come to Do Your Will On January 15, 2012 the first reading from Sunday Mass was from the first book of the prophet Samuel, chapter three, verses three through ten and verse nineteen. The Gospel that morning was from the Gospel of John chapter one, verses thirty-five through forty-two. These two readings were referred to by the Holy Father, Pope Benedict, that day publically before praying the Angelus with the faithful. In his brief talk, the Holy Father focused on the role of spiritual guides in the vocational discernment of a person trying to answer God’s call. Let us look at the two points the Holy Father made in his talk and try to connect them also to the work we are all called to in the New Evangelization.

Remember that in the passage from the prophet Samuel, it is not until the third time that Samuel comes to Eli saying “you called me”, that Eli then recognizes that it is “the Lord” calling Samuel. Therefore instead of just sending Samuel back to bed, he tells him how to respond if he hears the call again. His advice is to say; “speak Lord, your servant is listening”.

The Holy Father in his talk that Sunday pointed out the… “call to follow Jesus closely, to dedicate oneself to the great family of the Church, normally passes through the witness and the suggestion of an ‘older brother,’ usually a priest.”

“But this is not to forget the fundamental role of parents,” he added, “who with their genuine and joyful faith and their marital love show their children that it is beautiful and possible to build a whole life on the love of God.” What the Holy Father points out in this statement is of great importance and important for both priests and laity to understand regarding their role in assisting others to discern well their vocation. It is found to be that of most men who are

called to ordained ministry, most often it is at the invitation of their pastor or a priest friend of the family. Yet, the role of each member of God’s family is important, especially as the Holy Father points out the role and example of parents who have faithfully built their marriage on the foundation of God’s love in their life. Their example of living a life of love rooted in and shared with God is a powerful example to sons or daughters who may sense God calling them to make a similar commitment, be it marriage, consecrated life, or priesthood.

Many of you know I have been living in residence at St. Thomas Aquinas at UCONN. While doing so I have had the opportunity to watch closely the work of young Catholic men and women who have been working on campus as FOCUS Missionaries. A FOCUS Missionary is a member of the Fellowship of Catholic University Students and commits to two years of serving somewhere on a college campus in the United States as a Catholic Missionary to students.

Presently there are nearly 300 missionaries working on 60 campuses across the country. To watch them become friends with students, introduce them to Jesus through Holy Scripture and the Sacraments, and to watch them grow in friendship and trust has been amazing! This is actually the New Evangelization in action! Four young Catholic adults who themselves are in love with Christ and His Church have become spiritual guides for the students on campus. That friendship and the sincere spirit-filled effort to introduce them to Jesus, has changed lives for the past three years!

What are those changes? The students are choosing for themselves to spend more time getting to know Jesus and His love for them. They are choosing for themselves to make behavior changes because they want to live the Truth of the way Jesus asks all of us to live. They are choosing to make Christ the center of their lives.

The results of those changes are extraordinary! They include lives

that are happier on a daily basis, and a deep desire that is rooted in each of the students to share with their own friends what they have discovered that has changed their life! That God loves them and created them for a greater purpose than anything

this world can offer them! Most amazing is how willing these new friends of Jesus are to be still and quiet in order to hear Jesus and what He is calling them to do with their lives! Their responses are rooted in true friendship and love of our Lord!

“I have never been as busy or as fulfilled in my life.”

Jeffrey Ellis, Mount Saint Mary Seminary

Holy Hour for Vocations The Holy Hour for Vocations is held in a different deanery and parish each month. Bishop Cote will lead the prayers of the Holy Hour each month. The schedule is as follows: Feb 23

St. John the Evangelist Church, Montville

5-6 pm

Mar 15 Our Lady of Perpetual Help Church, Quaker Hill 5-6 pm April 19 St. Mark Church, Westbrook

6-7 pm

May 24 Cathedral of St. Patrick, Norwich

7-8 pm

June 21 St. Joseph Church, Rockville

7-8 pm

July 19 St. Mary Church, Coventry

7-8 pm

Aug 16 St. Colman Church, Middlefield

4-5 pm

Sept 20 St. Luke Church, Ellington

6-7 pm

Oct 18 Our Lady of Lourdes Church, Gales Ferry

7-8 pm

Nov 15 St. Joseph Church, North Grosvenordale

4-5 pm

Dec 20 St. Andrew Church, Colchester

7-8 pm

You have been thinking about it. Let’s talk...

Father Greg Galvin 860-887-9294 www.God-Calls.org Office of Vocations • Diocese of Norwich, CT • vocations@norwichdiocese.net

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Saturday, February 4 Leaders and Prayer Group Members – Part II Will be held at the Spiritual Renewal Services, 11 Bath Street from 9:00am3:00pm. For more information please call 860-887-0702.

Saturday, February 4 & 11 Marriage Preparation Class for Engaged Couples God’s Plan for a Joy-filled Marriage offered by the Office of Family Life. For more information or to register for the 4session class please call 860-889-8346 ext.283. Classes are from 9:30 -11:45am at St. Joseph Church Hall, 1 Baltic Rd., Occum. The cost is $50.00 per couple.

Father in Heaven, Protect us in our struggle As we begin the discipline of Lent Make this season holy by our self-denial.

Saturday, February 4 Pro-Life Mass Join our Diocesan family for the monthly Pro-Life Mass at 8:30 am at the Cathedral of St. Patrick in Norwich. Following the Mass, the Rosary will be prayed both in the Cathedral and at the Norwich Planned Parenthood. Brunch will be served in the church hall following the rosary. Join us as we pray to protect the children of the womb.

Friday, February 10 14th Annual Gourmet Dinner at St. Edmund’s Retreat All are invited to attend St. Edmund’s Retreat’s 14th Annual Gourmet Dinner, the “Hail to the Chief” Gala in honor of President’s Day. Join the St. Edmund’s Community and other guests for a spectacular night of grand spirit and elegant dining prepared by host and gourmet chef Father Thomas F.X. Hoar, SSE, Ph.D., President. The evening will begin

Wedding Music Showcase A Free Concert Presentation for Music Ministers, Parish Ministers, Brides, Grooms, and Lovers of Music

Cathedral of St. Patrick 213 Broadway • Norwich, CT 06360 Sunday, February 12 at 2:00 pm

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at 6:00 p.m. with a “Fireside Chat” accompanied by fine wines and hors d’oeuvres served in the elegant Enders House living room. A sumptuous five course meal will follow with a feast of dishes especially created by Father Tom in honor of our U.S. Presidents. The cost is $150 per person; $275 a couple. Reserved tables are available for parties of 8 and 10.

Please call for special prices. Black tie is optional. Your support of this incredible culinary tradition helps to support the St. Edmund’s Retreat ministry of healing and spiritual renewal. For more information or to make reservations, kindly respond to Karen Waugh Maloney 860.536.0565 ext 115 or events@endersisland.com. You may also register online at www.endersisland.com.

Sunday, February 12 Wedding Music Showcase A free concert presentation for music ministers, parish ministers, brides, grooms, and lovers of music. The concert begins at 2:00pm at the Cathedral of St. Patrick, 213 Broadway, Norwich.

Friday-Sunday, February 17-19 Engaged Encounter Weekend ~ Marriage Preparation Engaged Encounter is a weekend-long program and meets all the aspects of marriage preparation required by the Diocese. The encounter will be held at the Immaculata Retreat House, Willimantic. For more information please call 860-536-8665. Early registration is advised. Visit www.engagedencounter.org.

Saturday, February 25 Unbound Prayer Session At 10:00am Spiritual Renewal Center, 11 Bath St., Norwich. 860-887-0702 By Appointment ONLY – Please call!

Sunday - Tuesday, February 26, 27 & 28 Parish Mission “Nothings Impossible with God” Beginning at 7:00pm at Sacred Heart Church, 550 Hartford Tpke, Vernon. Father Stanley J. Szczapa. A Parish Life in the Spirit Seminar will follow.

Monday February 27 Lenten Mission at St. John Catholic Church Ralph Martin of Renewal Ministries will be leading the 2012 Lenten Mission at Saint John Catholic Church, 5 St. Johns Court, Cromwell on Monday, February 27, 2012 and Tuesday, February 28, 2012 from 7:00-8:00 pm followed by refreshments Admission is free. www.renewalministries.net Tuesday, February 28 Evenings of Discernment with Prayer for Peace An opportunity for Catholic men and woman ages 18-45 considering vowed life or priesthood. Please join us at 15 Lincoln Street, New Haven from 7:309:00pm. For more information or to register please call Sr. Ann at 203-245-0401; Sr. Pat at 860-436-8430; or Sr. Maria at 203-762-4152. This event is sponsored by the Connecticut Vocation Council.

Saturday, March 10 Confirmation Students & Sponsors Retreat Day There will be a retreat for first- year confirmation students and their sponsors at St. Mary, 51 Freestone Ave., Portland from 9:30am -4:00pm in the Parish Hall.

This retreat will include confessions and Mass at 3:00pm with Father Ray Introvigne. For more information, please call Roselani Ferguson, CRE at 860-3422308.

Sunday -Tuesday, March 25, 26 & 27 Parish Mission “Nothing is Impossible with God” Starting at 7:00 pm at St. Sebastian Church, 155 Washington Street Middletown. Father James Thaikoottathil, Pastor. A Parish Life in the Spirit Seminar will follow.

Sunday, March 25 Youth Explosion This annual event is open to all teens in Junior/Senior High Schools. Held at St Bernard School in Uncasville. Doors open at 12:30pm - closing at 8:30pm.

For more information please contact the Office of Faith Events: 860-848-2237 ext 312 or faithevents@norwichdiocese.net Tuesday, March 27 Evenings of Discernment with Prayer for Peace An opportunity for Catholic men and woman ages 18-45 considering vowed life or priesthood. Please join us at 15 Lincoln Street, New Haven from 7:309:00pm. For more information or to register please call Sr. Ann at 203-245-0401; Sr. Pat at 860-436-8430; or Sr. Maria at 203-762-4152. This event is sponsored by the Connecticut Vocation Council.

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Clergy Appointments The Most Reverend Michael R Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, has made the following clergy appointments in the Diocese of Norwich: Reverend Antony Alaharasan, renewal for two year term as Pastor of Saint Thomas More Parish, North Stonington.

Effective: January 10, 2012.

Reverend Peter S. Kucer, MSA, new to the Diocese, to Temporary Administrator, Saint Joseph Parish, Chester. Effective: January 11, 2012.

Reverend Roger J. Lamoureux, OMI, 1 year renewal of appointment as Pastor, Saint Mary Parish, Willimantic. Effective: January 3, 2012. ~ Monsignor Robert L. Brown, Chancellor ~

St. Joseph Welcomes New Pastor Father Mark O’Donnell, left, formerly of St. Agnes in Niantic has been appointed pastor of St. Joseph Church in New London. Father Mark succeeds Father Joseph Castaldi, right, who has retired after serving as pastor of the Diocese’s largest parish for 36 years.

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World Day for Consecrated Life February 2, 2012 Celebrated in Parishes February 5, 2012 In 1997, Blessed Pope John Paul II instituted a day of prayer for women and men in consecrated life.

From the Editor’s Desk

This celebration is attached to the Feast of the Presentation of the Lord on February 2nd. This Feast is also known as Candlemas Day; the day on which candles are blessed symbolizing Christ who is the light of the world. So too, those in consecrated life are called to reflect the light of Jesus Christ to all peoples.

Women and men in consecrated life become followers of Jesus through profession of vows and a life dedicated to prayer and service.

They live out the consecrated life in different ways. Religious sisters, nuns, brothers, religious priests and monks consecrate their lives through their profession of the evan-

gelical vows and live as part of a community. Single lay people may choose to be consecrated virgins and make private vows to the bishop as they live out their vocation in various walks of life.

Secular institutes are another form of living the consecrated life.

Secular institutes are another form of living the consecrated life as single people. Those who become followers of Jesus through the consecrated life bless the Church.

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In his message for the 1st World Day of Consecrated Life, Blessed Pope John Paul II explained that the day has three purposes: In the first place, it answers the intimate need to praise the Lord more solemnly and to thank him for the great gift of consecrated life, which enriches and gladdens the Christian community by the multiplicity of its charisms and by the edifying fruits of so many lives totally given to the cause of the Kingdom ‌In the second place, this day is intended to promote a knowledge of and esteem for the consecrated life by the entire People of God ‌ The third reason regards consecrated persons directly. They are invited to celebrate together solemnly the marvels which the Lord has accomplished in them, to discover by a more illumined faith the rays of divine beauty spread by the Spirit in their way of life, and to acquire a more vivid consciousness of their irreplaceable mission in the Church and in the world.

Immersed in a world which is often agitated and distracted, taken up sometimes by the press of responsibilities, consecrated persons also will be helped by the celebration of this annual World Day to return to the sources of their vocation, to take stock of their own lives, to confirm the commitment of their own consecration.

Pope Benedict has spoken of consecrated life as “a life-giving commit-

ment‌that with wisdom, with faithâ€? and the “inexhaustible possibilities of true educationâ€?, can guide the hearts and minds of men and women of our time “towards the good life of the Gospel.â€? “To your prayers,â€? expressed the Holy Father, “I entrust those who, having made vows of poverty, chastity and obedience, strive after sanctity in the service of children, young people, the sick, the elderly and the

lonely. We are grateful to them for their prayers and for the work they do in parishes, hospitals, care homes and schools. Their service represents a particularly precious gift for the Church. My heartfelt blessings go to all those who live in accordance with the evangelical counsels�.

Consecrated Life can be compared to a tree with many branches which sinks its roots into the gospel and brings forth abundant fruit in every season of the Church’s life Blessed John Paul II

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Catholic Charities Update: Adopt a Family Program Brings Christmas Spirit to Those Who Give & Receive The holidays were going to be tough this year for Norraine and Alexander McQueen. The family

what we got. It was a blessing from God.” Meanwhile, in New London, Julian and Dianna Rodriquez were stressing during the holidays about how they were going to manage to go to Maryland in January to take their son Santiago, 8, to a scheduled bone marrow transplant sur-

Rosalinda wrote an article for The Day. It ran Saturday, Dec. 10.

“That Monday morning there was a man waiting who offered to

By Colleen Egan drive them to Maryland. The was moving and Norraine’s busimother and son were to go first,” ness was struggling. The Mcsaid Rozalinda.

Queens wondered how they were “All of a sudden everyone was going to provide Christmas pressending me an email,” she said. ents to their seven “They wanted to children, ranging in donate clothes, toys, age from 6 to 18. meals, gas, money “I went to orders and checks.

Catholic Charities Next thing we knew because I was having we had amassed a rough time around $1,900. It made me Christmas,” said feel so good. People Norraine, 39. “I was do care.” not doing well fiDianna and Sannancially.” tiago left for MaryNorraine talked to land on Jan. 2. Julian Sister Maryanne planned to follow in Guertin, SSJ, who mid-January. works in Catholic According to Charities’ Office of Rozalinda, the New Basic Needs. The London office of Basic Needs proCatholic Charities gram was trying was able to help 62 something new this children with year and Sister Christmas gifts this thought it was just past holiday season. the thing to help the Electric Boat in GroMcQueens. ton donated $600 Called “Adopt a and each child reFamily,” the new ceived three gifts program paired famapiece. ilies in need with Sylvia Laudette, left, of Catholic Charities’ Norwich office, accepts a They also bought those who are more food donation from Ginger Gaudreau, representing the employees of 17 coats for 17 chilfortunate financially. Faria Corporation in Uncasville.

Photo by Colleen Egan dren, and gave hats, In Norraine’s case, gloves, scarfs, and her family was adopted by St. Au- gery. Santiago suffers from baby carriers stuffed with newborn gustine’s Parish community in leukemia. supplies to those who were in need.

Canterbury, CT. According to Rosalinda Bazinet, “I’m really glad we’re able to The parish community collected site supervisor of Catholic Chari- help,” she said. food, clothing, toys, books and ties’ New London Office, “Julian In the Norwich office, the first other items for the McQueens, came around volunteering and said year of Adopt a Family saw 18 famwho are parishioners of the Church ‘I can do your floors.’ If he was paid ilies helped by 18 parish commuof Jesus Christ in Norwich. for materials, he would do the nities. According to Sylvia “The presents were already work, he said. We started talking Laudette, supervisor of Basic wrapped; nobody knew what they and he told me about his son, who Needs, gifts were collected for head were,” said Norraine. “I put them is sick with leukemia and needs a of households and other family under the tree and the children bone marrow transplant. He didn’t members, including gas cards, telewere so overwhelmed. I give God know how they would manage it phone cards, blankets, toys and thanks. I was so in shock to see how financially because the family clothes. happy they were. Everything we re- would need to stay in Maryland for “We’re really grateful to people ceived had been on our Christmas two to three months. They needed who responded to our call,” she list. These kids were so grateful for a place to stay.” said.

“...It was not YOU who chose ME, but it was I who chose YOU and appointed YOU (your name here) to go forth and bear fruit that will remain, so that WHATEVER you ask the Father in MY name…

...HE may give YOU!” John 15:16

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Unbound Prayer Session Saturday, February 25, 2012 at 10:00 AM Spiritual Renewal Services Center

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A Parish Life In The Spirit Seminar will follow!

Confirmation Students & Sponsors Retreat Day Saturday, March 10, 2012 St. Mary Church, 51 Freestone Avenue, Portland, CT 06480

Father John Ashe, Pastor Parish Mission “Nothing is Impossible With God” Sunday through Tuesday, March 25, 26 & 27, 2012 at 7:00 PM • St. Sebastian Church, 155 Washington Street, Middletown, CT 06457 Father James Thaikoottathil, Pastor Offered by: Fr. Ray Introvigne and Mrs. Judith Hughes

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our lives. These holy moments can be understood, in the broad sense, as sacraments. They are times, places, events or ceremonies that put us in touch with the sacred.

As Roman Catholics, we might be more aware of our sacramental system which presents to us seven special rituals to mark different life events. These seven Sacraments, sacraments in a strict sense, are universally celebrated rituals that mark highlights in our life of faith as a Church and as individuals. With the new year, we begin a new series of columns on the Sacraments of our Church.

The seven Sacraments of the Roman Catholic Church are seven ritual ceremonies designed to carry us through the various stages of life, from birth to death. Each of the Sacraments has its own history of development within the history

first, and fundamental to all the others, is Baptism. However, Baptism is tightly bound together in theology with Eucharist and Confirmation.

Together, these three are referred to as the Sacraments of Initiation.

Then, there are what some call the sacraments of vocation; Marriage and Ordination. Each is intended to be a lifelong commitment of service and holiness. Each is essential to the present and future well - being of the Church, even though each commitment is lived out in very different circumstances.

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Each sacrament is celebrated in a liturgy, with its own ritual and prayers. A sacrament is an action of the whole Church, so each celebration is intended to be participatory. That is, each celebration calls for active attention and participation from all present.

Following the Second Vatican Council, which ended in 1965, all the ceremonies for the sacraments were revised, and of course translated from Latin into the languages of the people, precisely to bring about this attention and participation. Most Catholics are familiar with the importance of active participation at the celebration of the Eucharist, but the principle of active participation applies to the celebration of the other sacraments, as well. Now, almost fifty years after Vatican II, the Church continues to pursue this goal.

For most Catholics, the Eucharist is probably the most frequently encountered sacrament.

Other sacraments, such as Baptism or Marriage can be encountered fairly often. However, many Catholics might go through life never having attended a Confirmation celebration other than their own, or an Ordination, or might never be present at the Anointing of the Sick. (Priests and many deacons, of course, have a completely different experience of the sacramental life of the Church.)

What is your sense of the sacramental life of the Church? Are there sacramental celebrations you find particularly meaningful? Are there some sacramental celebrations you have never participated in? Sacraments are rites of passage.

They mark the high points in the journey of life. They present to us the values of our faith, and call us to live out what we profess to believe. In the coming months we will look at how these milestones are celebrated in our Church.

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To Love and Serve the Lord As Catholics, we are asked at the conclusion of each Mass to go in peace to love and serve the Lord. By

By MaryLou Gannotti Director of Planned Giving

living a faith filled and prayerful existence we do our best to honor and emulate the teachings of Christ.

Each year, the Diocese of Norwich administers the Annual Catholic Appeal, which generates the necessary funds to promote and support the many ministries created to assist, inspire and empower our brothers and sisters in need. These needs are as diverse as the people we serve. Our ministries feed those who are hungry and nurture those spirits hurt by abuse and neglect.

Our ministries provide hope to those who once had none and empower minds through education

and outreach. We provide compassion, care and comfort to the sick and the lonely. We join together with our brothers and sisters to worship and pray. We love and serve the Lord. Each day within our 23 ministries, we see examples of how the light of Christ touches so many: • The young mother who once had no hope is able to find support, carrying her baby to term.

• T h e couple, unable to conceive, realize their dream of starting a f a m i l y thanks to adoption services.

• The volunteer who works at the soup kitchen, providing food to the family in need of a hot meal during troubled economic times.

• The lonely soul desiring comfort who finds spiritual renewal.

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• The scholarship recipient whose Catholic School education has been made more affordable and attainable.

Your support of the Annual Catholic Appeal enables the Diocese of Norwich to administer a wide range of programs through our many ministries. As you love and serve the Lord through your faithfulness and stewardship, your brothers and sisters in need can find solace and hope in a caring and compassionate setting.

As we embark upon the 2012 Annual Catholic Appeal, we ask you to prayerfully consider how you can assist our ministries as we continue to Love and Serve the Lord.

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Exploring Creed through Catholic Traditions with Sister Veronica In a room of nearly 40 parishioners, Sister Veronica Mendez of Renew International confidently exBy Donna Antonacci

plained “Why Catholics Read the Bible” as part of their ministry outreach program on faith enrichment.

This four-year program approved for our diocese by Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, Bishop of Norwich, began last year as a faith enrichment program for adults. Sister Veronica said that last year’s subject

was “prayer”; this year is “creed”; parish. next year will be “sacraments”; and The session I attended took place then “moral on January 22 at life”. Each year Sacred Heart’s An enlightening through a series parish center. resentation to help of sessions, Sister Veronica clarify the sources Renew Internabegan with a of Truth, Tradition tional Minprayer, then and its influence o istries’ staff asked the group our Catholic beliefs informs and inwhat God structs local means to them parishioners, helps them form team individually. We meditated for a leaders and encourages them to moment on the question and then continue instruction within their shared our thoughts at each table.

Some responded that a specific person taught them about God. Some responded that specific events in their life revealed God to them. It was a pleasant, open exchange.

Then Sister Ve r o n i c a helped us better understand the Church creed. We went beyond the discussion of “I believe in one God…” to explore the details of Tradition and tradition within the Church, and the Creed.

“Tradition” with the capital “T” represents key articles of faith, the Trinity, Immaculate Conception, and the resurrection, ascension, sacraments, and commandments.

The other “tradition” with a small “t”, as she called it, refers to lesser stipulations such as not eating meat on Friday, fluctuation of Holy Days, wearing a hat to church, etc. Removal of capital “T” items will impact your faith in Christianity; whereas, the small “t” items are often adjustable with the times or culture and grow in and out of favor. For example, it is less important that we as Catholics don’t eat meat on Friday, than we recognize we are trying to be Christ-like in making a sacrifice.

She asked what non-Catholic objections to Catholicism we have heard in the community. This sparked vibrant conversation and resulted in answers like, “Catholics keep changing the rules and they have too many”, “ T h e y change their Holy Days”, “ W h y would you belong to a church that doesn’t elevate women to the same level as men”, just to name a few. Sister Veronica took our points one by one and answered them with Catholic creed and scripture. Then she armed us with the information we would need to respond to non-Catholic objections to the Catholic Church.

It was a very informative session and Sister Veronica was a good teacher. The group was enthusiastic and participatory. She supported everything with scripture, and taught us how to impart the knowledge to others. It ended with a closing song. In the next session, she will meet with team leaders to form their retreat team. The theme of the retreat will be, “Finding God in the ordinary”. I encourage those who are able to attend these sessions to do so.

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The Board of Directors of Saint Vincent dePaul Middletown and the Amazing Grace Advisory Group, would like to thank everyone in our community who were so generous to our programs this past holiday season.

We are so grateful for the outpouring of support for our neighbors in need.

Each month, Amazing Grace serves over 900 families, children and seniors. What most of us take for granted is a meal away for these families.

The soup kitchen was full each day and each day more food arrived to sustain our clients, and to give them a happy holiday and a place to enjoy a meal with friends.

From our schools, local supermarkets, South District and Middletown Firefighters, churches, service organizations and many, many of our neighbors, we thank you for your kindness and compassion.

We simply could not function without the volunteers who staff Amazing Grace. They work tirelessly, emptying boxes of food, stocking shelves, cleaning, being a friend to those who come into the food pantry.

We do wish we could name each person and group, but instead, please accept our sincere gratitude with our best wishes for a happy, healthy, prosperous New Year.

Letter to the Editor Dear Editor, I have a special favor to ask of you, with the times we are in, yet bad as they are, I read something which changed my life. Basically it reads:

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“Dear Lord, through the power of prayer, today’s challenge can be tomorrow’s victory. Forgive me when I make prayer my last resort instead of my first choice. Help me remember the truths You have taught me today. Help me Stop and Pray when adversity comes my way. Thank You for prayer and the power I receive when I turn to You. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.�

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Make prayer your first choice not your last resort.

God is by our side. He will help us through.

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Reverend Thomas Plathottam, C.S.T. November 8, 1947 ~ January 10, 2012

Reverend Thomas Plathottam, C.S.T., a priest of the Congregation of St. Therese, unexpectedly went to meet his Lord and Savior on January 10, 2012 while on Sabbatical in the Philippines. Father Plathottam was the former longtime pastor of Saint Luke Parish in Ellington, Connecticut. Affectionately known as Father Tom, he lovingly ministered to the parish family for 11+ years. He will be sadly missed and fondly remembered. Father Tom was born in Kizhaparayar-Kerala, India, on November 8, 1947, a son of Mathew and the late Aleykutty Plathottam. He joined the congregation in 1965 and received his education at the Little Flower and Saint Joseph Pontifical Seminaries. He professed his first vows in 1967 and his final vows in 1971. He was ordained to the priesthood in Kothamangalam, India, on December 16, 1974, by Bishop Mar Mathew Pothanamuzhy. After ordination, Father Tom worked as a staff member at the Jyoti Niketan School in Azamgarh (India) for one year.

From 1976-1980, he did missionary work in Nichlaul (India). The following 11 years he was a social worker in Attapadi (India) prior to coming to the United States. With great humor, he often enjoyed telling stories about his experiences as a missionary in India, especially his exploits while traveling from village to village on a horse through very muddy terrain. His heart always remained faithful to his missionary roots. Within the Norwich Diocese, Father Tom was assigned to St. Joseph Church in Windham County on March 19, 1990, as Parochial Vicar. He briefly returned home to India nine months later. In 1991, he came back to the Norwich Diocese and was assigned as temporary Parochial Vicar for several churches, including St. Joseph (North Grosvenordale), St. Mary (Putnam), St. Luke (Ellington) until February 22, 1993, when he went to St. John’s Church (Old Saybrook) as Temporary Administrator and then became Parochial Vicar of St. Mary Church in Putnam. Later on, he was asked by Rev. Daniel Hart, the Bishop of Norwich at the time, to be Pastor of St. Luke. He took on the role in October 20, 1999, until his Sabbatical. Through his financial acumen, a church heavily in debt became a flourishing and financially healthy parish. He successfully ran a capital campaign to build a parish center in 2004. The campaign raised $1.4 million, and in 2006, the parish center became a reality. Also important to him during his tenure at St. Luke was his prison ministry as Chaplain at CRCI and Enfield CI and the inmates who sought his spiritual direction. In addition to his mother, he is predeceased by his brother Jose Plathottam (Canada). He is survived by his father Mathew Plathottam and loving family, Sister Rose Plathottam, S.C.N. (India); James and Sarala Plathottam (India); Sister Anice Plathottam, S.A.B.S. (Kenya); Mathew and Sherly Plathottam (India); Devisiachan and Alice ST. MARY & ST. JOSEPH CEMETERY Plathottam (India); Bobby and Shiney Plathottam (Canada); Lissy and Seby Manavalan (Canada); Tessy and Community Mausoleum Available Martin Chamakalayil (Canada); Soly and Mathew Vettukallel (California); Sojan and Lisa Plathottam 815 Boswell Ave, Norwich • 860-887-1019 (Canada); sister-in-law Rani Plathottam (Canada); and many nieces and nephews. A Parish Mass in his honor SACRED HEART CEMETERY was held on January 17. Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, Bishop of Norwich offered a Memorial Mass, JanHarland Road, Taftville • 860-887-1019 uary 28 at St. Luke Church. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to St. Luke Church, P.O. Box 246, ST. PATRICK CEMETERY Ellington, CT 06029. To share a memory or for online condolences please visit: www.pietrasfuneralhome.com.

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Sr. Gertrude Bonin, DHS June 23, 1913 – January 15, 2012

Putnam – Sr. Gertrude Bonin, 98, a member of the Daughters of the Holy Spirit, died on Sunday, January 15, 2012 in the Holy Spirit Health Care Center in Putnam, CT where she had been a resident since 2009. Sr. Gertrude was born on June 23, 1913 in Putnam, CT, the daughter of the late Pierre-Emile and Edouilda (Guertin) Bonin. She held a Bachelor of Music degree from Manhattanville College of the Sacred Heart, Purchase, NY, and a Masters in Music from Duquesne University, Pittsburg, PA. In 1932, Sr. Gertrude entered religious life in Putnam, CT and made her religious profession on August 8, 1935 at the Motherhouse in St. Brieuc, France. She was then known as Sr. Emile de Jesus. She was primarily a music teacher most of her religious life. She served as a musician in CT at Wauregan and Jewett City and then in Burlington and Swanton, VT and then in New Haven, CT. Following this, she taught in Leominster, MA. In 1956 she was one of 7 sisters assigned to the opening of St. Bernard High School in New London, CT where she taught music and French. She then served in Waterbury, CT and from 1967-1980 she served as assistant professor of music at Annhurst College, Woodstock, CT. In 1985, she returned to Putnam and served as church organist at St. Mary Church of the Visitation until 2007 when she retired to the Provincial House. A funeral Mass of Christian burial was held at the Provincial House Chapel on Thursday, January 19, 2012, followed by burial at St. Mary Cemetery, Putnam, CT. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Daughters of the Holy Spirit Retirement Fund, 72 Church St., Putnam, CT, 06260. For memorial guestbook visit www.GilmanAndValade.com

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Suffering: Enriching the Spiritual Garden of Life Of all the things in life we find most difficult to understand, I think suffering tops the list. Why do we

By Mary Tunison

have to suffer? Why would a good God allow it? What’s its purpose? These are questions that have baffled humankind for centuries; and although I will not presume to know the answer, I would like to share some possibilities as to why God allows and injects it into our lives.

I must confess, I’ve often pondered its mystery, especially in recent years; perhaps because I’ve had my own share of it and want to search for its deeper relevance.

There are many expository musings on its value and we know that when accepted the right way, suffering does have a way of honing depth of character, wisdom, compassion.

But recently, I heard someone make a reference that crystallized a perspective on suffering for me by paralleling it to elements of nature

which often reflect the principles of the spiritual life. He said, ‘the suffering and martyrdom of saintly founders of religious com-

munities over the centuries fertilized and enriched the ground for the future growth and membership of their communities.’

“Ah ha!” I thought to myself, “Suffering is the fertilizer in the spiritual garden of life!”

Though it can be offensive and intrusive, fertilizer has rich and lifegiving nutrients that significantly nurture and develop a rich and abundant harvest. So, too, with us, if we accept and receive suffering through the spiritual roots of our

souls, it will produce good fruit in our lives. But it doesn’t stop there.

Just like the saintly founders, our suffering can prepare and enrich the ground for the future growth and benefit of our families, our religious communities, churches, schools. . .perhaps even for generations to come.

Like love and grace, the effects of suffering well done, reverberate beyond the boundaries of our awareness, encompassing and influencing far more than we can imagine.

Because suffering is defined through our pain, struggle, hurt or grief, we label it bad. We don’t like how it makes us feel or what it does to our circumstances. Consequently, our perspective on it can become negatively skewed because we focus only on the external adverse effects.

Yet suffering is to the soul what manure is to the soil. It exists to nurture our souls. Not all that is good for us is pleasing to our senses. Once we accept that truth, we can make progress. We may not like to exercise

but the results produce a healthy, fit body. Every good athlete knows resistence training builds strength.

Some have experienced incredible pain and tragedy in their lives. Yet, one might take consolation in knowing that the deeper the suffering, the deeper the spiritual cavern it hallows, widening the capacity within the soul to receive God, who is Love – to be experienced for all eternity.

Often the simplest things in nature reveal the deepest, most profound truths of the spiritual life.

Perhaps the story of the butterfly, best explains why we all must endure sufferings and struggles at times...

A man found a cocoon of a butterfly. One day a small opening appeared.

He sat and watched the butterfly for several hours as it struggled to squeeze its body through the tiny hole. Then it stopped, as if it couldn’t go further. So the man decided to help the butterfly.

He took a pair of scissors and snipped

off the remaining bits of cocoon. The butterfly emerged easily but it had a swollen body and shriveled wings.

The man continued to watch it, expecting that any minute the wings would enlarge and expand enough to support the body, Neither happened! In fact the butterfly spent the rest of its life crawling around. It was never able to fly. What the man in his kindness and haste did not understand: The restricting cocoon and the struggle required by the butterfly to get through the opening was a way of forcing the fluid from the body into the wings so that it would be ready for flight once that was achieved. Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in our lives. Going through life with no obstacles would cripple us. We will not be as strong as we could have been and we would never fly.

Mary Tunison works for Catholic Charities, Archdiocese of Hartford, and is a freelance writer, photographer, artist, and graphic designer.

She can be contacted at mjtunison@comcast.net.

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Book Review: Rediscover Catholicism

Where is This?

A Spiritual Guide to Living With Passion & Purpose

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ties. Even the Administration’s resounding defeat on January 11—when the U.S. Supreme Court unanimously rejected the Administration’s reading of the First Amendment as “extreme,” “untenable,” and having “no merit”—couldn’t unplug its ears.

The Court held in Hosanna Tabor v. EEOC that the government could not meddle in the internal affairs of religious organizations, in this case, a Lutheran church and school. Yet nine days later, the Department of Health and Human Services (HHS) said it would force all but a few religious organizations to violate their own teachings in providing health care benefits to their own people.

Specifically, the government has ordered virtually all employers—nationwide— to sponsor and subsidize health care coverage of sterilization and contraceptives, including abortion-inducing drugs, for their employees. And it gave church employers a year to get in line.

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biguously says that government “shall make no law” prohibiting the free exercise of religion. It doesn’t say that some laws trampling free exercise are fine. It says no law.

Yet, nine days after the Hosanna-Tabor decision, on January 20, HHS announced its decision to keep in place the frightening mandate in the health care law, with barely the slightest nod to religious concerns. HHS holds to the absurd rule it announced last August, that church ministries get a religious exemption only if they employ and serve primarily co-religionists.

Must Catholic hospitals, to be true to their identity, now turn away people of other faiths from their emergency rooms and fire nonCatholic employees? Currently, Catholic hospitals serve one out of six people who seek hospital care in our country. Must Catholic Charities hire and serve only Catholics in its food pantries and other social service agencies? Until today, you didn’t need a baptismal certificate

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This egregious violation of religious freedom marks the first time in our history that the federal government is forcing religious people and groups to ante up for services that violate their consciences. Some claim this is all about access to contraceptives— but everyone knows how and where to get them, and get them cheaply. And the mandate also forces coverage of sterilization and abortion-causing drugs. This is about forcing the church to pay for all these things through insurance coverage, to sponsor these “benefits” that it considers immoral. This is, in other words, about freedom of religion, which is a foundation stone of U.S. democracy.

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Cathedral of St. Patrick now stands. The property, on Broadway, was purchased from the Appleton Meech estate in 1869, by St. Patrick Church

Corporation which planned to establish a church there, in compliance with the wishes of the new pastor, Father Mullen.

Father Mullen had the house on the Meech land moved to the rear of the property where he envisioned it would serve as a convent and academy.

He invited the Sisters of Mercy from Hartford to

teach at the academy, which he saw as the progenitor of the present school. The Immaculate Conception Academy opened its doors to students in 1872 as a private tuition school staffed by the Sisters of Mercy. Ten years later, it became a free school.

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drive to create a new school building began in the parish. By June of 1882, the cornerstone of the new school had been laid in its present location. The original building that had housed the school and convent was rented out as apartments until 1956 when it was demolished Roots of St. pats

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to provide additional parking space at the rear of the church .

September 1883 saw the opening of the new St. Patrick Cathedral School, with an enrollment of 650 students and 12 Sisters of Mercy as members of the faculty.

The Sisters of Mercy continued teaching at St. Patrick until 1985.

In September of 1985, the Sisters of Charity of Our Mother the Church continued the work of educating the children at St. Patrick.

Today, the school is staffed entirely by lay teachers and administrators. St. Patrick Cathedral School can proudly boast that it has been educating children of Norwich and surrounding communities, for almost 130 years.

The school was totally renovated in 1982 thanks to the generosity of St. Patrick parishioners.

The third floor of the school, which had been closed since the early 1960’s, was reopened, and now serves as classroom space for the sixth, seventh and eighth grade classes. The science lab and computer lab are also housed here, utilizing all available space.

According to the mission state-

ment of the school, “St. Patrick Cathedral School is a Catholic community united in our dedication to the sacred ministry of providing quality education in the context of our faith…Through the communication of Christian values, we guide our students on the path of spiritual and social development. Through the implementation of a sound academic curriculum, we enhance their intellectual growth, preparing them to accept social responsibilities… to become standard bearers of the future, benefiting the Church, the nation, and the world.”

The faculty and staff at St. Patrick’s realize that in order for this educational process to occur, there must be cooperation among all constituents –administration, parents, students and teachers.

They willingly take responsibility to ensure that all the students who matriculate at the school are able to do so in a safe and non-threatening environment. The school follows the curriculum set forth by the Diocese of Norwich and strives to provide students with the tools that they will need to be-

come responsible citizens of an ever-changing world. All students follow a course of study starting in Pre-Kindergarten and continuing through grade 8, in Religion, Language Arts, Mathematics, Science, Social Studies, Spanish, Art, Music, and Physical Education.

Extra-curricular programs include basketball for boys and girls in grades 4-8 and Cheerleading, as well Choir and Bell Choir. St. Patrick’s has an active and increasingly popular after school program run by one supervisor with two helpers. Children are registered and may stay until 5:30, Monday through Friday. Currently, daily enrollment averages around forty children.

Volunteers play a big part in lives of the children who study at St. Patrick’s. The school is lucky to have quite a few people who are willing to come in and help with lunch and yard duty, as well as several retired teachers who offer their services as tutors to those students who need a little extra help in specific subject areas.

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Poinsettia plants to patients who were spending their holidays at Backus Hospital. Other students visited local nursing homes to brighten the days for residents.

St. Patrick Cathedral School, along with Catholic schools across the nation, celebrated Catholic Schools Week from January 29 through February 5, 2012. Teachers decorated their classrooms with the national theme”Catholic Schools: Faith Academics and Service”. The week began with a Mass at the Cathedral. Students participated as lectors, gift bearers, and in leading the congregation in the recitation of the intercessions. On Monday, students were treated to bowling at the Norwich Ten Pin where they showed their school spirit by dressing in the school color, green.

Tuesday saw children in grades PreK-5 participating in “P.J. Day,” while students in grades 6, 7, and 8 “Dressed For Success”. On Wednesday, February 1, 2012, the school held an Open House from 8:30-11:00 and 12:00-1:30.

Everyone interested in learning about the school was invited to stop by and experience the wonderful, faith-filled, exciting place that is St. Patrick Cathedral School. On Thursday, PartyTroupe.com entertained the students in two sessions, with a hip hop dance program. The program

was not only fun and lively with great music, but also had an important message for the children.

The performer’s goal was not only to entertain but to encourage the children to think about using their own creativity as a positive way to express themselves and build self-esteem. After a week full of fun and learning, as always, the school family will attend First Friday Mass at 8:15, and then be treated to an age appropriate movie.

According to Reverend Monsignor Anthony Rosaforte, affectionately known as “Father Tony”, pastor of St. Patrick, “St. Patrick School is the heart of the Cathedral Parish. The youth are the future of the Church. We pray that those who attend St. Patrick School will build on the foundation they received. This message has been passed on for the last 130 years. We are proud of our students and alumni.”

With a student population of 237 this year, St. Patrick’s is bursting at the seams, a wonderful tribute to the quality of education being disseminated between these historic walls. The children are so full of spirit, and so obviously happy to be a part of the school family, the enthusiasm and happiness is palpable as soon as one walks through the doors. May it continue for another 130 years.

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The Case for Silence Brian Williams took time from his nightly newscast earlier this month to announce that

By Christina Capecchi Four County Catholic Contributor

comedian Russell Brand had filed for divorce from singer Katy Perry, ending a marriage that had barely cleared the one-year mark.

The news was part of a ping-pong pop-culture recap that ended with Williams describing the latest YouTube sensation: a golden retriever bobbing its head to the strumming of guitar.

Broadcasters tout iPads to remind us that they’re hip, sliding graphics with their index fingers.

Reality TV’s before-and-after formats serve up immediate gratification, creating a which-house-will-they-choose, which-dress-will-she-say-yes-to suspense that is quickly satisfied.

And then there’s the Spike TV formula: a skateboarder crash every five seconds.

The other week CNN featured three panelists, each face in its own box. Whoever was speaking jumped to the top center, yielding a rotating triangle that made me dizzy.

That’s how I felt when I stumbled upon CNBC’s “Mad Money,” where host Jim Cramer appeared sandwiched in rows of stats and stocks, all regularly changing while he walked around his studio packed with flashing screens.

Do TV producers really think we need that much stimulation?

No one expects us to be naturally interested; no one believes content can carry its own weight. There must be juggling and tap dancing, a constant flicking of the magician’s wand and fluttering of fake eyelashes. News as a three-ring circus.

It is an assault on our attention spans, and I consider it a spiritual offense. How are we to know it is well with my soul when we cannot achieve the silence needed to assess

its state? How can we heed the Psalm’s command to “Be still and know that I am God”?

One of the great surprises of my 20s has been the discovery of my inner introvert – this, following a college professor’s pronouncement that I am a “raging extrovert.”

I take pride in this new dimension and actively cultivate it: out-

door photography, ambling New Yorker essays. I delight in simple pleasures like a card I can write, stamp and seal and the magic of that next-day delay, the secret knowledge it’ll be in another mailbox tomorrow, waiting quietly – so unlike a text that announces itself loudly at the hip or in the hand demanding attention.

“How good it is to write!” a Catholic dad emailed me tonight, having chronicled his conversion for the first time, prodded by an assignment in his MBA class.

I know how he feels.

Though I’m still working on strengthening my prayer life, I’m practicing stillness and noticing more of God’s goodness. The impact is profound: My heart has never been more grateful.

I was pleased to see Pico Iyer’s essay “The Joy of Quiet” published in the Jan. 1 New York Times become one of the website’s most emailed articles. He wrote about a growing demand for hotel rooms without TVs or Internet and then recounted his regular vis-

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Visual Arts Department Silver Anniversary Tea A Celebration of 25 Years of Catholic Schools Week Art January 26, 2012, twenty-two schools of the Diocese of Norwich were represented to commemorate the 25 years that Saint Bernard School has hosted the Catholic Schools Week Art Exhibit, which highlights works of art from students of all the Catholic elementary and high schools in our diocese. Tea and desserts were served to students, parents, teachers, administrators, dignitaries and patrons. The Saint Bernard School Art Department recognized individuals and schools for their continued support and patronage of the Arts in Catholic education.

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Luther King, Jr. Memorial, followed by a walk to the National Mall to join the nations 39th March for Life. Senior, Dan Jezierski, who had participated in the March for Life trip as a Submitted by Susan Griffin freshman, found this three day pilgrimage an Admissions Associate, Saint Bernard School especially unique experience. “We learned that March for Life Pilgrimage that took place on Pro-Life means more than protecting the unJanuary 21 –January 23, 2012. Forty-five stu- born. Visiting the Holocaust Museum and dents, as well as 10 adults, both parents and then watching the movie ‘180’ really brought faculty, traveled to Washington, DC, to join home to me how America is having its own in the “39th Annual March For Life”. Mrs. holocaust through abortion.”

Patten’s goal for this pilgrimage was for the When asked about the Youth Mass attended students to learn how “Proby over 3,500 students, Life” means respect for the Dan found the homily Father Searby told dignity and sanctity of all given by Reverend James a story about past life.

Searby was delivered in a generations seeing Departing during the way that used both humor the world as only early morning to avoid the and personal stories to presproblems, but our Saturday snow storm, the ent very serious issues. “Fagroup arrived in DC dur- generation must see ther Searby told a story ing the early afternoon to there are many ways about past generations seevisit the Holocaust Memo- to fix these problems ing the world as only probrial Museum. Later that lems, but our generation because we are a evening, the group viewed must see there are many generation of hope the short film, ‘180’, that ways to fix these problems likens the Holocaust to the because we are a generation loss of life through abortion over the past 30 of hope.” When asked about his lasting imyears. On Sunday, the students traveled to the pression of the weekend, Dan stated that “even Hylton Memorial Chapel to participate in the with the pouring rain and cold, there were Life is VERY Good Youth Mass and Concert thousands of people marching on The Mall, with Audrey Assad and Matt Maher. the biggest crowd that the March for Life has Monday began with a tour of the Martin ever attracted.”

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Bowls of Fun February 5th is the super bowl when more than 151 million football fans will gather together to cheer on a favorite team and others will watch the newest commercials. It lets us see the best players compete to win a sevenpound sterling silver bowl shaped trophy. It’s called a bowl because a football stadium is shaped like a huge bowl.

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There are bowls mentioned in the Bible that are also not the usual bowls with which to eat cereal or ice cream. In the Old Testament priests used bowls to hold and pour out sacrifices to God. These were done as prayers and praises to God.

In the epistle to Timothy (2 Timothy 2:21021) we are told that houses had many containers for many different uses. Some are made of silver or gold and others of wood or pottery. Some may be used for great honor, such as serving food to guests, and some for dishonor, such as holding dirty water for cleaning. The verses compare us to being bowls and desiring to be clean and useful as bowls of honor, for good works.

Fill some bowls for the super bowl party with treats and enjoy them. During the month use bowls for sharing your faith: • Prayer bowls: Fill bowls with prayer words to pull out and say.

• Dish up a prayer: Fill four bowls with words (one for names of God, one for names for yourself, or for verbs (such as thanks, praises, or needs), and one for objects of prayer (help, a good day, health).

Draw one word from each bowl and use them to create a prayer.

• Bowls of sharing faith: fill a bowl with Bible verses, short prayers, or little stories of how God has answered prayers. Offer one to each guest who visits to share your faith.

• Bowls of fun: Write ideas for family fun that don’t take too long (sharing jokes, telling a story, reading a book, play a game, a special snack to share) and draw one when the family is together and do it.

Love in any language is the same. Match the hearts with the correct language. Cut out the hearts to use in making valentines. See if you know someone who can teach you to say Jesus loves you in another language.

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JESUS TE AMO

JESUS LIEBT DICH

JESUS ELSKER DEG

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JESUS T’ AIME

JISO LOMANI IKO

INIIBIG AKO NI HESUS

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JESUS RAKASTAA SINUA

JESUS LOVES YOU

A.) Finnish B.) German C.) English

D.) Filipino E.) Spanish F.) French

G.) Swedish H.) Fijan

Answer key: 1E, 2B, 3G, 4F, 5H, 6D, 7A, 8C

Jesus also spoke about bowls. He talked about how no one would light a candle and hide the candle under a bowl or basket. He used that as an example that we should not hide our faith.

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February 14 Valentines Day, so read about St. Valentines at http://www.newadvent.org/cathen/15254a.htm February 20 President’s Day is a time to pray for our leaders and the coming election.

Read Romans 13:1-2 to find out where authority actually comes from.

February 21 Shrove Tuesday, and it’s also Pancake Day. Shrove comes from the word shrive that means to confess. It is the beginning of time to reflect on our need for Jesus to forgive our sins.

Before lent and fasting begins people enjoy a day with lots of food like pancakes.

February 22 Ash Wednesday begins lent and is a day for ashes to recall that Jesus died.

Forty days of lent remind us of forty days Jesus spent in the desert (Matthew 4:1-2).

February 29 Leap Day only comes once every four years and gives us an extra day.

Play leap frog and other jumping games. What will you do with extra time? Read Ephesians 5:16 about making the most of each day.

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Pope Benedict XVI’s Apostolic Trip to Mexico and Cuba Official Itinary Editor’s note with contributions

by Jack Kimbal, Reuters: The Vatican has officially announced Pope Benedict’s itinerary for his historic upcoming trip to Mexico and Cuba. Both Countries are enormously important to the future of the Latin American region, to the United States for so many cultural, economic and national security reasons and both are communities of faith very important and dear to the Catholic Church.

Mexico, as our nearest neighbor to the South, is predominantly a Catholic nation. Pope Benedict’s visit comes at an exceptionally welcomed time for a nation open to the insight and wisdom of the Holy Father, as he leads the Church’s New Evangelization efforts.

The timing of the pope’s visit to Cuba is equally historic. Sidelined for decades by the communist government

until Pope John Paul II’s visit there in 1998, the Catholic Church has worked hard to open up its role as an interlocutor with the government on domestic issues.

It has won praise for securing the release of dozens of political prisoners over the last two years and raised hopes it can do more to broker reforms and perhaps even help improve U.S. - Cuba ties. Changes begun under Fidel Castro, such as the visit of Pope John Paul II and allowing the Church to operate more freely, have increased under Raul Castro with officials attending some Church events and the Catholic press even criticizing the pace of reform. The previous pope’s trip to Cuba was widely seen as a major step, and Pope Benedict’s visit will likely be another significant step forward.

The following release from the Vatican outlines the itinerary of this ambitious and historic trip.

VATICAN CITY- The episcopal conferences of Mexico and Cuba have published separate press communiques announcing details of Benedict XVI’s forthcoming visit to those countries, due to take place from 23 to 28 March. The Holy Father had expressed his intention to make an apostolic trip to Mexico and Cuba during a Mass celebrated in the Vatican Basilica on 12 December 2011, Solemnity of Our Lady of Guadalupe, patron of Latin America.

The note issued by the Conference of the Mexican Episcopate explains that the Pope will arrive at the airport of Leon in the State of Guanajuato on the afternoon of Friday 23 March. He will be greeted there by Felipe Calderon Hinojosa, president of Mexico, by members of the episcopal conference and by Archbishop Jose

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Guadalupe Martin of Leon. During his stay, the Holy Father will lodge in the residence of the Miraflores College in Leon.

On Saturday 24 March, he will travel to the Casa del Conde Rul in the city of Guanajuato, the headquarters of the State Government, where he will hold an official meeting with President Calderon Hinojosa. After the meeting the Pope will greet and bless children and faithful gathered in the city’s Plaza de la Paz. On the morning of Sunday 25 March, Benedict XVI will preside at Mass in the Parque Bicentenario in the municipality of Silao, at the foot of hill known as the Cerro del Cubilete at the top of which is a statue of Christ the King. Following the ceremony he is due to meet with representatives from the ninety-one dioceses of Mexico.

That evening the Holy Father will

preside at Vespers in the cathedral of Leon with Mexican bishops and representatives of other Latin American episcopates, to whom he will address a message.

On the morning of Monday 26 March, the Pope will take his official leave of the civil and religious authorities of Mexico at the airport of Leon, before flying to Cuba.

The note published by the Conference of Catholic Bishops of Cuba explains that the Pope is due to arrive in Santiago de Cuba in the early afternoon of 26 March. He will be welcomed by Raul Castro, president of Cuba, by members of the episcopal conference and by Archbishop Dionisio Garcia Ibanez of Santiago. The Holy Father will then travel by open-top car to the Plaza de la Revolucion where he will celebrate Mass for the Solemnity of the Annunciation. After the ceremony, the Pope will move on to the nearby mining town of El Cobre where he will lodge in a residence for priests.

On the morning of Tuesday 27 March the Holy Father will make a private visit to the Shrine of Our Lady of Charity where he will pray before the image of the patron of Cuba. He will then go to the airport of Santiago to fly to the capital city Havana, where he is due to arrive at midday. He will be welcomed there

by Cardinal Jaime Ortega y Alamino, archbishop of Havana and by other religious and civil authorities. That afternoon the Pope will hold an official meeting with President Castro, and then meet with Cuban bishops in the apostolic nunciature.

On the morning of Wednesday 28 March, the Pope will preside at Mass in the Plaza de la Revolucion “Jose Marti”. In the early afternoon he will be taken by open-top car to the airport of Havana were, following the departure ceremony, he will board his return flight for Rome.

Developments leading up to the trip will be covered in this newspaper and online at norwichdiocese.org immediately as they occur.

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Viaje Apostolico el Papa Benedicto XVI a Mexico y Cuba Itinerario México y Cuba han publicado por separado comunicados de prensa anunciando detalles de la próxima visita de Benedicto XVI a esos países, que tendra lugar desde el 23 al 28 de marzo. El Santo Padre ha expresado su intención de hacer un viaje apostólico a México y a Cuba durante una misa celebrada en la Basilica de el Vaticano el 12 de diciembre de 2011, en la Solemnidad de Nuestra Señora de Guadalupe patrona de América Latina.

La nota emitida por la Conferencia del Episcopado Mexicano, explica que el Papa llegará al aeropuerto de León en el Estado de Guanajuato en la tarde del viernes 23 de marzo. Será recibido allí por Felipe Calderón Hinojosa, Presidente de México, por miembros de la conferencia Episcopal y por el Arzobispo José Guadalupe Martín de León. Durante su estadía, el Santo Padre se alojará en la residencia del Colegio Miraflores en León.

El sábado 24 de marzo, viajará a la Casa del Conde Rul en la ciudad de Guanajuato, sede del Estado de Gobierno, donde sostendrá una reunión oficial con el Presidente Calderón Hinojosa. Después de la reunión, el Papa saludará y bendicirá a niños y a fieles reunidos en la Plaza de la Paz de la ciudad.

En la mañana del domingo 25 de marzo, Benedicto XVI presidirá

la Santa Misa en el Parque Bicentenario en la municipalidad de Silao, a los pies del cerro conocido como Cerro del Cubilete en la parte superior donde está una estatua de Cristo Rey. Siguiendo la ceremonia él se reunirá con representantes de las noventa y una diócesis de México.

Esa noche, el Santo Padre presidirá las Vísperas en la Catedral de León con Obispos Mexicanos y representantes de otros episcopados de América Latina a quienes él dirigirá un mensaje.

En la mañana del lunes 26 de marzo, el Papa hará su despedida oficial de las autoridades civiles y religiosas de México en el aeropuerto de León, antes de viajar a Cuba.

La nota publicada por la Conferencia de Obispos Católicos de Cuba, explica que el Papa está previsto a llegar a Santiago de Cuba temprano en la tarde del 26 de marzo. Será bienvenido por Raúl Castro, presidente de Cuba, por los miembros de la Conferencia Episcopal y por el Arzobispo Dionisio García Ibáñez de Santiago. El Santo Padre viajará en un automóvil descapotable a la Plaza de la Revolución, donde celebrará la Santa Misa por la Solemnidad de la Anunciación. Después de la ceremonia, el Papa se transladará al cercano pueblo minero El Cobre, donde se hospedará en una residencia para

sacerdotes.

En la mañana del martes 27 de marzo, el Santo Padre hará una visita privada al Santuario de Nuestra Señora de la Caridad donde rezará frente a la imagen de la patrona de Cuba. Luego irá al aeropuerto de Santiago para volar a la ciudad capital la Havana, donde se espera que llegue al mediodía. Será recibido allí por el Cardenal Jaime Ortega y Alamino, Arzobispo de la Havana y por otras autoridades religiosas y civiles. Esa tarde, el Papa sostendrá una reunión oficial con el presidente Castro, y luego se reunirá

con Obispos Cubanos en la nunciatura apostólica.

En la mañana del miércoles 28 de marzo, el Papa presidirá la Santa Misa en la Plaza de la Revolución “José Marti”. Temprano por la tarde será llevado en un automóvil descapotable a el aeropuerto de la Havana , donde seguida a la ceremonia de despedida, abordará su vuelo de regreso a Roma.

Desarrollos previos al viaje serán cubiertos en este periódico e inmediatamente a medida que vayan ocurriendo en la internet norwichdiocese.org.

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Nota del editor con la contribución de Jack Kimbal, Reuters: El Vaticano oficialmente ha anunciado el itinerario del Papa Benedicto XVI por su histórico y prometedor viaje a México y a Cuba. Ambos países son enormemente importante para el futuro de la región Latino Americana, y para los Estados Unidos por muchas razones, culturales, económicas y de seguridad nacional, y ambas son comunidades de fe muy importantes y queridas para la Iglesia Católica.

México, como nuestro vecino más cercano al Sur, predominantemente es una nación católica, que hace frente a un número de conflictos sociales y problemas nacionales violentos. La visita del Papa Benedicto XVI, llega en un tiempo excepcionalmente grato a una nación abierta a la intuición y a la sabiduría del Santo Padre, mientras él guía los esfuerzos de la Nueva Evangelización de la Iglesia.

El momento oportuno de la visita del Papa a Cuba es igualmente histórico. Separado por décadas por el gobierno comunista hasta la visita del Papa Juan Pablo II en 1998, la Iglesia Católica ha trabajado duro para abrir su papel como interlocutor con el gobierno en los asuntos domésticos.

Ha ganado elogios asegurando la liberación de decenas de presos politicos en los últimos dos años y por suscitar esperanzas puede hacer más como intermediario de reformas y tal vez incluso ayudar a mejorar los vínculos entre EE.UU.- Cuba. Los cambios fueron iniciados bajo Fidel Castro, tal como la visita del Papa Juan Pablo II y permitiendo que la Iglesia opere más libremente, ha incrementado bajo Raúl Castro, con funcionarios asistiendo a algunos eventos de la Iglesia, y la prensa Católica incluso criticando el ritmo de la reforma. El viaje a Cuba por el anterior Papa fue ampliamente visto como un paso importante, y la visita del Papa Benedicto XVI pretenderá consolidar mejores vínculos.

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Hundreds of thousands of Americans, including many young people, gathered in the nation”s capital for the annual March for Life on Jan. 23, one day after the 39th anniversary of Roe v. Wade, the Supreme Court decision that legalized abortion in the United States.

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He pointed to a federal contraception mandate that was finalized by the Health and Human Services Department on Jan. 20, as one of those actions by the Obama administration that is targeting people with pro-life convictions.

HHS Secretary Kathleen Sebelius said on Jan. 20 that the administration would not expand a religious exemption for employers who object to a requirement that insurance plans cover contraception as part of “preventative services.”

The policy requires free coverage for sterilization and contraception, including some drugs that can cause abortions.

“Everyone must comply regardless of moral objections or religious tenets simply because Obama says so,” Rep. Smith said.

He also noted that the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops was recently “thrown out” of a federal grant program to aid human trafficking victims because it would not offer referrals for abortion and contraception.

The congressman emphasized the importance of the 2012 presidential election and said that if President Obama is elected to a second term, he will work “aggressively” to force “conformity and complicity” on the matter of abortion.

“No one who values life can sit this one out,” he said.

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