Four County Catholic June/July 2021

FOUR COUNTY

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Volume 33 • Number 6 • JUNE/JULY 2021 • SERVING THE COUNTIES OF MIDDLESEX • NEW LONDON • TOLLAND • WINDHAM, CT & FISHERS ISLAND, NY

Preserving America’s First Freedom

RELIGIOUS FREEDOM WEEK JUNE 22-29

June 2021

My dear brothers and sisters in Christ,

As you are already aware, our diocese and many dioceses around the country are facing declining numbers of both priests and parishioners. Consequently, we must continue to plan for the future as best we can, based on the projected number of priests available to minister, as well as the number of people in our parishes.

The Diocese of Norwich began the process several years ago with the clustering of parishes, and then the yoking of parishes, as well as some mergers in which one parish closed.

Most recently, we have adopted the more moderate approach of merging parishes, but without closing church buildings. The result of such mergers is that one parish has two or more worship sites.

By merging two or more parishes into one parish with multiple worship sites, we simplify the many administrative tasks involved in parish life, allow the parish to maximize its resources, and minimize, we hope, the disruption of parishioners’ regular schedule of religious practice.

This year in the Diocese of Norwich, the following parishes will be merged in accord with this process.

1. St. John the Evangelist, Uncasville with Our Lady of the Lakes, Oakdale and Our Lady of Perpetual Help, Quaker Hill.

The newly merged parish will be Divine Mercy Parish, Uncasville.

2. St. Joseph, New London with St. Mary, New London and St. Paul, Waterford.

The newly merged parish will be St. Brendan the Navigator Parish, New London and will remain yoked with Our Lady of Grace, Fishers Island, NY. 3. St. Bridget, Moodus with St. Patrick, East Hampton.

The newly merged parish will be St. John Paul II Parish, East Hampton.

4. St. Columba, Columbia with Holy Family, Hebron

The newly merged parish will be The Good Shepherd Parish, Columbia.

5. St. Andrew, Colchester and St. Francis of Assisi, Lebanon

The newly merged parish will be Guardian Angels Parish, Colchester.

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These mergers will become effective on Thursday, July 1, 2021.

Through this measured approach to the restructuring in our diocese, we hope to be sensitive to the deep feelings of attachment our people have to their parishes. As our diocese continues to move forward in pastoral planning, let us join together in prayer and in action, working toward our goal of vital, vibrant parishes. May we always remember to pray for each other as we journey together into a future bright with promise and filled with an abundance of God’s grace.

Sincerely yours in Christ,

Bishop of Norwich

We Can Help

Podemos ayudar

To report inappropriate conduct of any kind by a Diocesan Bishop please contact ReportBishopAbuse.org or call 1-800-276-1562 To report inappropriate contact of any kind by a representative of the Diocese of Norwich or for assistance for victims, please call: The Diocesan Reporting Line @ 1-800-624-7407

Para reportar una conducta inapropiada de cualquier tipo por parte de un obispo diocesano, por favor contacte ReportBishopAbuse.org o llame al 1-800-276-1562 Para reportar contacto inapropiado de cualquier tipo por medio de un representante de la Diócesis de Norwich o para asistencia a víctimas, por favor llame a La Línea de Reportaje de la Diócesis de Norwich 1-800-624-7407

If the incident involves a minor (persons under the age of 18), you must also call: State of CT Department of Children and Families Care Line 1-800-842-2288 -OR –State of NY Child Protective Services 1-800-635-1522

Incidents involving abuse of vulnerable adults aged 18-59 should be reported to: Connecticut Department of Developmental Services - AID Division for Persons with Intellectual Disabilities 1-844-878-8923

Incidents involving abuse of vulnerable adults aged 60 and over should be reported to: Connecticut Department of Social Services for the Elderly 1-888-385-4225

Si el incidente involucra a un menor (personas menores de 18 años), también debe llamar a Departamento de Niños y Familias de CT 1-800-842-2288 -O-Servicios de Protección de Niños del Estado de NY 1-800-635-1522.

Incidentes relacionados con el abuso de adultos vulnerables de 18-59 años de edad deben ser reportados a Departamento de Servicios al Desarrollo del Estado de Connecticut-División de Ayuda para Personas con Incapacidad Intelectual 1-844-878-8923.

Incidentes relacionados con el abuso de adultos vulnerables de 60 años de edad o más deben ser reportados a Departamento de Servicios Sociales Para Ancianos de Connecticut 1-888-385-4225.

THE MOST REVEREND

MICHAEL R. COTE, D.D.

BISHOP OF NORWICH

LET FAITH LEAD THE WAY

United in Hope Recently I was thinking of my dear friend, Monsignor Brown, who only a few short years ago was suddenly called from us to eternal rest.

He believed that through the strength of faith “we live in hope.” His words were never more appropriate than now as we face this next chapter in our lives, as we, like the disciples filled with the Holy Spirit at Pentecost, boldly venture out into the world.

Now is the time to celebrate! We once again are called together in community for Sunday Mass.

We live in hope that the worst of the health crisis is behind us. Many pastors have informed me that the attendance on Pentecost was the largest they have seen in a year.

We have another reason to celebrate. On May 27th I had the pleasure of ordaining an exceptional young man, Jacob Ramos, to the transitional diaconate. Jacob was guided in his journey of discernment by many individuals, not the least of which was Fr. Gregory Galvin, outgoing Director of Priestly vocations.

Fr. Greg has served me and the diocese well in this role for 14 years. I am grateful for his service to the many young men whose vocations as priests began with a simple question - “What is God asking of you?”

The first young man that Fr. Galvin spoke with after becoming vocation director in 2007 was Jonathan Ficara. Better known now to his parishioners and the many college students that he ministers to as Fr. Jonathan Ficara, I have recently appointed him as the new Director of Priestley Vocations. I look forward to working with Fr. Jonathan as he goes about gathering workers for our corner of the vineyard.

June is such an exhilarating time of hope and promise as we embrace the continuing joy of the Easter Season and the gifts of the Holy Spirit at Pentecost. This is a season bursting with enthusiasm as seen in the faces of those young men and women who, in the final Sacrament of Initiation, will be sealed with the Holy Spirit in Confirmation.

We are blessed to live in a Country offering us the freedom and opportunity to practice our faith and thrive as a nation under God. By natural right from God and by protection of the U. S. Constitution, we are endowed with religious freedom for all. The First Amendment to the Constitution, providing the freedom to believe and practice one’s religion or no religion as per one’s conscience, is considered our country’s first freedom. We cannot afford to be complacent about preserving and defending this first right.

This last year has shown us that we must remain vigilant.

Keeping our churches and schools open was an important exercise of the freedom of thought and conscience.

With your support we were able to keep our ministries open to assist the poor, the hungry, those seeking education and the truth, the orphaned, the infirmed, the immigrant, the defenseless unborn and our most vulnerable brothers and sisters. The First Amendment assures us of the freedom to serve others in God’s love.

As the world remains troubled and unsettled, we bishops of the United States have once again organized Religious Freedom Week from June 22 - June 29. Catholics across the United States

are encouraged to pray and act in support of religious liberty. The very appropriate theme for this week of intense focus on religious liberty is “Solidarity in Freedom.”

Each day of Religious Freedom Week we are being asked to reflect, pray, and act on specific areas of religious freedom. A brief one-page guide will be posted daily on the diocesan website and Facebook page.

It is a special and timely opportunity to learn of the infringements we must recognize and defend against. Every instance of endangerment to our first freedom is critical.

Be sure to let your elected representatives know how important this cause is to each of you.

Almighty God, Father of all nations, we praise and bless you for the gift of religious liberty, the foundation of human rights, justice, and the common good. Grant to our leaders the wisdom to protect and promote our liberties. By your grace may we have the courage to defend them, for ourselves and for all those who live in this blessed land.

United in hope.

Sincerely yours in Christ,

Michael R. Cote Bishop of Norwich

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My dear brothers and sisters in Christ,

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THE MOST REVEREND

MICHAEL R. COTE, D.D.

BISHOP OF NORWICH

LET FAITH LEAD THE WAY

Unidos en la Esperanza

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Mis queridos hermanos y hermanas en Cristo,

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Recientemente, estuve pensando en mi querido amigo, Monseñor Brown, quien hace solo unos pocos años atrás fue repentinamente llamado al descanso eterno, Él creía que a través de la fuerza de la fe “vivimos con esperanza.” Sus palabras nunca fueron más apropiadas que ahora que enfrentamos este próximo capítulo en nuestras vidas, que al igual que los discípulos llenos del Espíritu Santo en Pentecostés, nos aventuramos en el mundo con valentía. ¡Ahora es el momento de celebrar! Una vez más somos convocados juntos en comunidad para la misa dominical. Vivimos con la esperanza de que lo peor de la crisis de salud quedύ atrás. Muchos párrocos me han informado que la asistencia a Pentecostés fue la más grande que han visto en un año.

Tenemos otro motivo para celebrar, el 27 de mayo tuve el placer de ordenar al diaconado de transición a un joven excepcional, Jacob Ramos. Jacob fue guiado en su camino de discernimiento por muchas personas, especialmente por el anterior Director de Vocaciones Sacerdotales, Padre Gregory Galvin.

Padre Greg me ha servido a mí y a la diócesis bien en este oficio durante 14 años. Estoy agradecido por su servicio a los muchos jóvenes cuyas vocaciones como sacerdotes comenzaron con una simple pregunta: “¿Qué te pide Dios?”

El primer joven con quien Padre Galvin habló después de convertirse en Director de Vocaciones en 2007 fue Jonathan Ficara. Mejor conocido como Padre Jonathan Ficara por sus feligreses y por los muchos estudiantes universitarios a los que sirve. Recientemente lo he nombrado nuevo

Director de Vocaciones Sacerdotales. Espero trabajar con Padre Jonathan mientras va reclutando trabajadores para la viña.

Junio es un momento tan estimulante de esperanza y promesa al adoptar el gozo continuo de la temporada de Pascua y los dones del Espíritu Santo en Pentecostés. Esta es una temporada llena de entusiasmo como se ve en los rostros de aquellos hombres y mujeres jóvenes que, en el Sacramento final de Iniciación, serán sellados con el Espíritu Santo en la Confirmación.

Tenemos la bendición de vivir en un país que nos ofrece libertad y la oportunidad de practicar nuestra fe y prosperar como nación bajo Dios.

Estamos dotados de libertad religiosa para todos, por derecho natural de Dios y por la protección de la Constitución de los Estados Unidos. La Primera Enmienda de la Constitución, nos otorga la libertad de creer y practicar la religión propia o ninguna religión según la conciencia de uno, es considerada la primera libertad de nuestro país. No podemos permitirnos el lujo de ser complacientes en la preservación y defensa de este primer derecho.

Este ύltimo año nos ha demostrado que debemos permanecer alerta.

Mantener abiertas nuestras iglesias y escuelas fue un ejercicio importante de la libertad de pensamiento y conciencia. Con su apoyo pudimos mantener abiertos nuestros ministerios para ayudar a los pobres, a los que pasan hambre, a los enfermos, a los inmigrantes, a los indefensos no nacidos y a nuestros hermanos y hermanas más vulnerables. La Primera Enmienda nos asegura la libertad de servir a los demás en el amor de Dios.

Mientras el mundo sigue atribulado e inestable, nosotros los obispos de los Estados Unidos hemos

organizado una vez más la Semana de la Libertad Religiosa del 22 al 29 de junio, Se anima a los católicos de los Estados Unidos a orar y actuar en apoyo a la libertad religiosa. El tema muy apropiado para esta semana de enfoque intenso de libertad religiosa es “Solaridad en Libertad.”

Cada dia de la Semana de la Libertad Religiosa se nos pide reflexionar, orar y actuar en áreas específicas. Diariamente se publicará una breve guía de una página en el sitio web diocesano y en la página de Facebook.

Es una oportunidad especial y oportuna para conocer las infracciones que debemos reconocer y contra las que debemos defendernos. Cada instancia de peligro a nuestra primera libertad es crítica.

Asegúrense, de informar a sus representantes electos lo importante que es esta causa para cada uno de ustedes.

Dios Todopoderoso, Padre de todas las naciones, te alabamos y bendecimos por el don de la libertad religiosa, fundamento de los derechos humanos, justicia y el bien común. Otorga a nuestros líderes la sabiduría para proteger y promover nuestras libertades. Que por tu gracia tengamos el valor de defenderlos, para nosotros mismos y para todos los que viven en esta tierra bendita.

Unidos en la Esperanza, Sinceramente en el amor de Cristo, Michael R. Cote Obispo de Norwich

Vocations Corner

I told the Bishop that I would be very willing to accept that this was the next way of serving the diocese and did not want to give it any more thought. When I took my vow of obedience, I knew at that time that I would always need to continue to say ‘yes’ throughout my life as a priest.

Deacon Jacob Ramos 3rd Theology Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Now, almost 14 years later, humbled by the opportunity, I say thank you Bishop Cote for your trust in me, your many years of support, encouragement and the confidence that you instilled in me.

Thank you also to my brother priests for your trust and your support in so many different ways - from encouragement to always being willing to assist with hosting a seminarian at your parish during a summer assignment; and encouraging men considering the priesthood to speak with me.

Dharen Brochero 2nd Theology Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Ruben Garcia Sanchez 2nd Theology Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Thanks to so many around the diocese who over the years have prayed personally for our seminarians and priests, as well as for religious vocations. Thanks to you who have attended our traveling monthly Holy Hour and our ordination Masses.

Thank you to those from many parishes around the diocese who have supported our annual Seminarian Education Fund Collection each May. It assists in paying for at least one or two seminarians’ years of formation in the seminary. And thanks to all the priests who allowed and supported our annual Advent Gift Card for seminarians at Christmas. The cards help cover some of the personal costs that seminarians worry about because they are not working a job and do not have a regular income while in formation.

Thank you to the staff at the Chancery who serve as

secretaries to multiple priests, for making our lives easier. They rarely get the full recognition for their selfless service that always comes with kindness and patience.

It has been a true honor to serve our diocese in this role and extremely humbling to have a small part in assisting a man called by God to be one of His priests.

There truly continues to be a great need for men willing to lay down their lives for the Church by responding to this call to priesthood. Is it easy? No. Is it fulfilling?

Absolutely.

To all those I have served in parish work during the time I have also been director of vocations, thank you for your understanding and patience. You have all had a part in helping bring wonderful priestly men to our diocese.

Now with a grateful heart I thank Bishop Cote again for appointing Fr. Jonathan Ficara to take on the vocation office. I ask all of you to pray for Father, encourage him and keep him in your prayers. Father Jonathan was the first young man I spoke with as a new vocation director. He was the first in my 14 years who I assisted through the complete journey of formation to the priesthood. He is a fine priest and will only continue to get better. He will be a great Vocations Director.

Please support him, as you did me, as he continues to bring to the Norwich Diocese the men God is calling to serve in this part of His vast vineyard.

Father Jonathan, thank you for your second ‘yes’ to God and your ‘yes’ to Bishop Cote. You have my prayers and support and those of everyone in this wonderful part of God’s immense family. God bless all your efforts.

Alexander Pandolfe 1st Theology Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Julian Cuervo 1st Theology Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Eric Hosmer 1st Theology Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Christ be with you all.

Sincerely in Christ,

Mark Johnson 2nd Pre-Theology Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Fr. Greg Galvin

MONTHLY

Holy Hour

for Vocations

JUNE 17th 6-7pm –Cathedral of St. Patrick, Norwich JULY 15TH – 6pm - St. Mary, Norwich AUGUST 19TH – 6pm St. Peter, Higganum

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Deacon Larry Barile 4th Theology Pope John XXIII Seminary Weston, MA

Back in July of 2007, Bishop Cote met with me in the Chancery and said he had given much thought to who he wanted to become the next Director of Vocations for the Diocese of Norwich. He looked me in the eye and said that throughout the process, he continued to come back to me. He offered me a chance to consider it, think about it, and get back to him with my decision, which was more than very kind of the Bishop.

The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, leads the Holy Hour

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June is Legacy Month

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ach year, the Diocese of Norwich proclaims June as “Leave a Legacy” month. Through this initiative parishioners are reminded of the importance and benefits of giving through estate planning and planned gifts. During this past year, so many of us have been concerned with helping our friends and neighbors with their current needs. By donating to the Annual Catholic Appeal, parishioners have supported our St. Vincent de Paul Place, Norwich, and St. Vincent de Paul, Middletown, as well as our many other diocesan ministries that provide immediate physical, spiritual and educational support to those in need. Legacy giving takes a longer-term perspective and includes gifts that you may set up today to take effect many years in the future.

of hard work. It can be as simple as changing a beneficiary of a life insurance policy or retirement account, or adding your church, the Annual Catholic Appeal, or your school to your Will. If you have already written your Will, adding a simple codicil amending your Will is another easy option.

her name and the second one is named after her parents, titled the Joseph J. and Frances A. Hvizdo Endowment. Barbara’s fondest memories are of her childhood in Bridgeport and spending time with her mother at the kitchen table working on her homework and catechism with her mom’s While there are many examples oversight and encouragement. of planned gifts being made A second legacy gift recently throughout our diocese, I will came to the Catholic Foundation share a few recent ones that come by way of the Will of Sheila to mind. Barbara Ann Hvizdo, Moran, a lifelong parishioner a parishioner of Our Lady of of The Cathedral of St. Patrick.

Lourdes, Gales Ferry, spent her Through her Will, Sheila life caring for others as a nurse in established the Edward G. Moran the Navy Nurse Corps. Growing Family Fund Endowment with a up, her family motto was “God, bequest that amounted to nearly Family, Country”. In thinking $133,000 to be used to benefit about her desire to help her both the Cathedral as well as St. church, Barbara remarked she Patrick School. Upon learning felt that “creating a permanent of Sheila’s bequest, Monsignor endowment within the Catholic Anthony Rosaforte, Rector of Foundation of the Diocese of The Cathedral of St. Patrick, Taking steps now, can have Norwich, would be the best way commented that “Sheila was the profound impact on your future for me to sustain my church, Our kindest lady you could ever meet, giving. There are so many ways Lady of Lourdes into the future.” whatever the church needed, she that you can act today to ensure In fact, Barbara established two would be happy to provide. She that at a later date, your chosen endowments within the Catholic was extremely generous and Diocesan entity will receive Foundation, both supporting loved the Cathedral as well as some of the benefit of your years her church. The first one bears St. Pat’s School very much.” It is not surprising then that Sheila’s love of her church and school carried through in her Will with the creation of an endowment in her family name. She cared about continuing to support the Independently Owned and Operated Since 1881 Cathedral and St. Patrick School forever.

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both their spouses, Audrey and Edward met, married, and spent 35 wonderful years together with their blended family of 12 children. Since Audrey and her family had been longtime members of Sacred Heart Church and had a strong love for education, the family felt that the Sacred Heart Church Education Endowment within the Catholic Foundation would be the perfect recipient of this gift. Michael Planeta, speaking on behalf of his dad and siblings shared, “My father and Audrey were married at Sacred Heart Church.

Education and the Catholic faith have always been important to our blended families. Our families have been blessed with the opportunities that a quality education provides. It was only fitting therefore to honor Audrey with a donation in her memory to the Sacred Heart endowment to support the school.”

While not all of us are in a position to make such large gifts now or in the future, we all have the ability to make planned gifts and perhaps adjust our Wills or beneficiary designations accordingly. If you would like more information on helping to support your favorite diocesan organization well into the future, please contact Mary Ellen Mahoney at the Office of Development at 860-886-1928 or by email at memahoney@ A final, very touching example of norwichdiocese.net. As always, legacy giving was a gift of over it is best to fully discuss your $107,000 to honor the memory wishes with your family and of Audrey Dougherty Planeta, financial/tax advisor before through a charitable gift annuity making any decisions. Thank you created by her husband, Edward so much and God Bless!

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Building Hope In Haiti “For I know the plans I have for you, says the LORD, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.”

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aiti is a small country that occupies one-third of the island of Hispaniola. Its neighbor, the Dominican Republic, occupies the rest of the island. Haiti is the poorest and most denselypopulated country in the Western Hemisphere.

Hope is shared with women who need to support their families. We help them to develop their selfconfidence, identify their inner strengths, learn business basics and establish their own microentrepreneurial businesses.

Our ministry, Outreach to Haiti, has steadfastly walked with our brothers and sisters in Haiti for four decades and has witnessed the tribulations endured and the hope that shines during trying times. We have discovered that we receive more than we give. While our programs and services allow us to share our faith and let God’s great love shine through us, Haitians have taught us the importance of and need for hope.

Hope is evident in our new threestory building that is near completion and replaces the one destroyed in the 2010 earthquake. This new building signals our intent, God willing, to serve another 40 years.

Hope is multiplied through our Twinning Program established by parishes in our diocese that foster relationships with parishes in Haiti.

These relationships are built on a foundation of faith and hope and expanded to include parishes in other dioceses in the United States and Haiti.

If you have been fortunate enough to visit Haiti, you know the Haitian people have great faith in God and a wondrous gift of Hope. Many people visit Haiti thinking this will be a one-time trip and, to their amazement, discover that their first visit becomes a lifetime journey.

Hope is given through the gift of education. Each year friends and donors help us to provide scholarships to approximately 200 young people to attend primary, secondary and post-secondary schools. Like the United States, Haitian schools face many challenges because of the pandemic that began in the last school year and carried into the current one.

Unlike the United States, Haitians face other tribulations but keep their hope, as noted in a recent reflection

by Mezalus Emil, our director of education.

“Students are continuing with their studies despite the political situation, kidnappings, and Covid-19; and they continue to earn good grades.”

He went on to say how thankful he is that “from November when our students started going to school until now, none of our students or their parents have ever been victims because of insecurity.

They have already been protected.

It is a blessing from God. All the employees have been protected as well. All glory is to God.”

Hope is given through muchneeded medical care and food: We give hope through our Medical Clinic, Food and Nutritional Supplements Program, and Community Outreach Healthcare Services. When a mother seeks nutritional supplements for her severely malnourished baby, she knows she can come to us. When parents are in dire need of food for their loved ones, they can count on us to help. When family members are in need of medical care, our doctors treat them.

There are lessons here for all of us.

Haitians know God loves them by sending people to help them. We are learning to “Love our neighbors as ourselves.” While all of us have been affected by the pandemic, we are learning through our Haitian friends to move forward and always keep hope.

All of us would do well to heed Jeremiah (29:11) as we continue our journey in life, “For I know the plans I have for you, says the LORD, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.”

If you would like to learn more about our work, please visit us at Outreachtohaiti.org or call us at 860800-3603.

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Diocese to Recognize Anniversary Couples

By Mary-Jo McLaughlin

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unday, October 3 is the date set for the annual Silver and Golden Wedding Anniversary Mass at the Cathedral of Saint Patrick in Norwich. Bishop Michael Cote will be the main celebrant for this year’s Mass, which will honor the enduring love of married couples.

The Mass will begin at 2 p.m.

Each couple registering for the Mass will receive a signed certificate from the bishop. The names of all registrants and their anniversary dates will also be listed on a special Anniversary Page on the Diocese of Norwich website and included in The Four County Catholic, our diocesan newspaper. Couples may also e-mail a digital photo in a jpeg format of themselves to be included in a gallery of pictures on the website.

If you are celebrating a significant anniversary this year and would like to attend the Mass and be recognized by Bishop Cote, please register by sending the following information: husband and wife’s name, address, telephone number, wedding date, anniversary being celebrated and parish to: MaryJo McLaughlin, Catholic Family Services Coordinator, 199 Broadway, Norwich, CT 06360 or at mmclaughlin@norwichdiocese. net or by telephone at 860-8482237, Ext 312.

The registration deadline September 10, 2021.

The Mass will be live streamed over the Diocesan website for those couples who are not able to attend in person.

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found my best friend again 12 years ago during a Worldwide Marriage Encounter experience.

I married him on June 2, 1990, but somewhere during those first 19 years of marriage, raising children, changing careers and caring for an elderly parent, I woke up one day to realize my best friend was gone.

For my 50th birthday, my husband asked our youngest daughter what I might like for a present. She told him, “She’s always wanted to go on a Marriage Encounter weekend.” As he tells the story, he never recalled hearing me say that, but decided to Google it. He found a weekend scheduled for the next month, and as there were no UCONN Husky basketball games that weekend, he registered us.

At first, I thought the weekend would just be a nice time away from home for the two of us and that we would be the same couple Monday morning as we were that Friday night. I was wrong.

A wonderful thing began to happen in our relationship. We were opening up and sharing deep feelings with one another, something we hadn’t done in a long time. I remember Sunday morning listening as my husband shared his feelings with me about the death of his first wife – a long, unspoken subject between

Parker Mary-Jo McLaughlin, coordinator for the Diocesan Catholic Family Services Office, found her best friend again after she and her husband Pat attended a Worldwide Marriage Encounter experience. us. As tears streamed down my face while listening to the crack in his voice as he spoke, I silently prayed, “Thank you, God.” The openness and intimacy I had longed for was slowly returning to our marriage.

In time, he was becoming my best friend again.

A WWME experience is not a retreat nor is it a marriage clinic or counseling program. It is real couples sharing real-life experiences helping others to rekindle their relationships and come to a deeper understanding of God’s plan for their marriage.

That Worldwide Marriage Encounter experience was a game changer for us. Listening to presentations by three married couples and a Catholic priest, we realized that most couples experience periods of loneliness and distance in their marriages.

The communication technique we learned gave us the tools to work through our disillusionment and find the joy and intimacy that God yearns for all of us to experience in our marriages. We discovered the importance of risking to trust the other in sharing vulnerable feelings, to listen to one another with our hearts and to make daily decisions to love, and ask for and grant forgiveness of one another.

To support married couples during social distancing, WWME is sponsoring a virtual 3 ½ week marriage experience called Restore – Rekindle – Renew that couples can experience in the comfort of their home using a computer. The next one in this area will meet virtually for seven sessions from 7 to 9:30 p.m. on Monday and Thursday nights, July 8-29. There is a $100 non-refundable application fee. For more information or to register, call or e-mail Frank and Margie Pearson at (860) 337-2447 or application@ wwmectw.org. If the above dates are not good for you, visit the national website at www.wwme.org for additional dates or contact me at the Catholic Family Services Office

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Prayer to the Blessed Virgin Oh, most beautiful flower of Mount Carmel, fruitful vine, splendor of Heaven, Blessed Mother of the Son of God. Immaculate Virgin assist me in my necessity.

Oh, Star of the Sea, help me and show me here you are my Mother. Oh, Holy Mother Mary, Mother of God, Queen of Heaven and Earth, I humble beseech you from the bottom of my heart to succor me in my necessity(please help my family). There are none that can withstand your power O Mary, conceived without sin prayer for us who have recourse to thee (say three times). Holy Mary, I place this prayer in your hands (say three times). Say this prayer for three consecutive days each time followed by 3 Our Fathers, 3 Hail Mary’s, 3 Glory be to the Father.

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He was still the extraordinarily nice guy I married, and we were still very compatible. We enjoyed the same things and had the same values, but the long, intimate talks in which we shared our hopes and our dreams with one another were gone, replaced with daily exchanges of mundane conversation. We were both disillusioned, skirting around important issues going on in our relationship, and neither one of us would talk about it nor how we really felt.

Finding my best friend again wasn’t something I expected to happen when we went on our Marriage Encounter experience. But God had other plans for our marriage.

Perhaps God has other plans for yours, too.

Then you must publish it and it will be granted.

Thank you, Blessed Virgin, for hearing my prayers.

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Memorial Day Services Honor The Fallen

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freedom and our peace.”

dedicated group of about 40 people gathered Monday, May 31 at St. Joseph Cemetery in Norwich under gray skies to honor the U.S. Armed Forces men and women who have died in military service to our country.

The Memorial Day Mass in Norwich, as well as a Mass celebrated by the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, at St. Mary Star of the Sea Church in New London marked a return to in-person observances of the holiday.

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Masses also took place at Sacred Heart Cemetery in Taftville and Saint Patrick Cemetery in Montville.

“We come together as God’s family on this Memorial Day to offer our prayers and in a special

In New London, the Mass was moved indoors because of damp conditions at St. Mary Cemetery.“Our country celebrates in a very special way those who defended our freedoms,” Bishop Cote said. “But we remember, as well, our loved ones who have gone before us, we want to remember those who have succumbed to the great virus and those who mourn their passing. We bring all of those people to our prayer.” way to remember all servicemen and women who gave their lives so that we could live in peace, and in freedom,” Monsignor Les Janik, Vicar General, said at the Norwich Mass. “Any time we put the TV on and look for the news of the whole world we begin to appreciate more and more the freedom that

Bishop Cote said the Mass was offered for the brave men and women of the military who died for the country and its freedoms.“We also pray for the protection of all military personnel wherever they may serve,” as well as those who were maimed and continue to suffer, he said.

It is the Soldier, not the minister, who has given us freedom of religion.

It is the Soldier, not the reporter, who has given us freedom of the press.

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we have, the peace that we have.

The freedom that we presently enjoy in this land cost many lives down through our history. That is why, each year we show our gratitude by our presence in our cemeteries, offering the Mass, the Holy Eucharist, and our prayers for those who died in defending our

It is the Soldier, not the campus organizer, who has given us freedom to protest.

It is the Soldier, not the lawyer, who has given us the right to a fair trial.

It is the Soldier, not the politician, who has given us the right to vote.

It is the Soldier who salutes the flag, Who serves beneath the flag, And whose coffin is draped by the flag, Who allows the protester to burn the flag.

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A Beginning Rooted in Faith The First Decade

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he story of Catholic Charities begins with the first words of the Gospel of St. John.

“The Word was made flesh and lived among us.”

Each day, month, generation and century is marked by the reality of those words.

All who serve the needs of our sisters and brothers, who are the most needy among us, are the hands and feet and heart of Catholic Charities, the face of Jesus. The following summary of events cannot tell the full story of Catholic Charities over the past 100 years.

It is a work in progress. We invite readers to share their stories and photos with the Four County Catholic.

Catholic Charities in the Diocese of Norwich traces its birth to 1921 in New London, the port city of Eastern Connecticut. It had experienced in the late 1800s into the 1900s the arrival of hundreds of immigrants from Europe, fleeing from famine and revolutions.

As the home of the Navy’s submarine base and Coast Guard Academy, New London was and is a cosmopolitan city.

The people of Connecticut were suffering the effects of World War I and the 1918 Spanish flu pandemic that left many poor and

orphaned. The “grip,” as it was called, was They gathered first reported in New London in September regularly for 1918. Within a week it spread up the Thames social activities River Valley and throughout the state and by and raised 1919 it suddenly disappeared, mutating into money for parish less severe illnesses. Eastern Connecticut and civic needs, suffered the loss of 600 people, mostly including soup working men, ages 25 to 40. In its wake, it kitchens, homes left children without one or both parents, for orphans, many without incomes, life’s necessities. assistance to The St. Vincent de Paul Society, along with widows, elderly other parish charities, provided everything Fr. Timothy M. Crowley people and the they could. unemployed, families, and medical help. They called themselves The Crowley Club in honor of Fr. Crowley, who supported their efforts.

At the same time, the Council of Catholic Women was being established throughout the country, motivated by the adoption in The parishioners of New London’s St. Mary 1920 of the 19th Amendment to the U.S. Star of the Sea Church on Huntington Avenue, Constitution, which guaranteed women the as well as many others in Eastern Connecticut right to vote. and throughout the state, opened their doors, hearts and wallets to help their sisters and In 1920, Hartford’s Bishop John J. Nilan, brothers in need. Special was a group of whose jurisdiction encompassed all of Catholic women, mothers, single career Connecticut, established the Hartford women, teachers, nurses and homemakers. Diocesan Bureau of Social Services.

Their pastor, Father Timothy M. Crowley, Its purpose was to coordinate and give encouraged them in their social activities direction to the social action efforts of and various ministries to the community. all charities in Connecticut. Ten years

Catholic Women See a Need

New London Bureau Established In May, Father Matthew J. Judge, director of the newly established Hartford Diocesan Bureau of Social Service, came to St. Mary’s at the invitation of Father Crowley to meet with Catholic women in the New London parish, and to explain the purpose of the Bureau.

St. Mary’s, with its very active branch of the Connecticut Council of Catholic Women and its sister organization, the Crowley Club, was the perfect place to start a Branch in southeastern Connecticut.

Mrs. Winifred Foran McGuire, President of the New London Branch of Connecticut’s Council of Catholic Women and a member of The Crowley Club, presided over the meeting and introduced Father Judge. His explanation and request for a New London District of Social Service was enthusiastically received.

At a June gathering of men and women in St. Mary’s Church, representatives of the Council of Catholic Women and the Council of Catholic Men agreed to support the mission of the Diocesan Bureau of Social Service. Mr. Thomas Foran,

President of St. Mary’s Council of Catholic Men (the father of Winifred McGuire), was elected President of the New London District, and Miss Jane Clark as District Secretary.

The New London District of the Hartford Diocesan Bureau of Social Service was established, which is known today as Catholic Charities.

(Sources: New London Catholic Charities Historical Highlights, Mrs. Grover V. Larsen, Jr., 1986. The Catholic Charities Review, January 1922, p. 363.)

Father Crowley immediately made available to the Bureau three rooms at 42 Jay St., known as the Catholic Center. (Today Covenant Shelter occupies that building.)

In its first year, the New London District provided care to thirty-five children and five families. The New London Branch of the Connecticut Council of Catholic Women had raised $1,470.68 to fund Catholic Charities. Members of the Crowley Club paid $1 annually to the Council of Catholic Women. (The Crowley Club was incorporated in the State of Connecticut from 19271991.) Over the years, a portion of the Council of Catholic Women’s yearly membership drive has been given to Catholic Charities, a total estimated at least $2 million.

The Norwich Diocesan Council of Catholic Women continues to support Catholic Charities with its many activities, including its annual Layette Drive for infant clothing and articles.

(At this 100th Anniversary, all founding members of the Crowley Club and Council of Catholic Women have risen to membership in the Communion of Saints.)

Jacqueline Keller is the Retired Diocesan Director of

Communications and Board Member of Norwich Diocesan Catholic Charities.

Mrs. Winifred F. McGuire (1882- 1947) Winifred Foran McGuire was a member of the Crowley Club and Past President of the Connecticut Council of Catholic Women. She helped organize and was a member of the Board of Directors of the Diocesan Bureau of Social Service (Catholic Charities). She lived in New London most of her life, attending St. Mary’s School. She and her husband, Atty. Frank L. McGuire, were parents of five children and ten grandchildren.

(Atty. Francis C. McGuire of New London, her grandson, contributed valuable historical information and a photograph of his grandmother for this writing. The photo was taken in New London, about 1940, of Mrs. McGuire with her grandchildren, Susan, Elizabeth, and Frank (Atty. McGuire’s father). Atty. McGuire is a Trustee of the Sullivan Fund, a prominent contributor to Catholic Charities.)

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previously, The National Council of Catholic Charities (NCCC) had been established in 1910 at The Catholic University of America in Washington, DC. The dignity of the human person was central to the Church’s mission, and preferential options for the poor became a watch word. A main goal was to educate social workers so that people in need could be given the best help possible. Father Matthew J. Judge, Hartford Diocesan Bureau’s Director, recognized the need to combine outreach services of Catholic charities with public nonsectarian agencies.

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Paintings of the Mysteries of the Rosary on Display

By Dr. Michael Sullo

I am reminded of the writings of Albert Pike “What we do for ourselves dies with us. What we do for others remains and is immortal.”

So it is with Fine Art. Six years ago, at age 65 I decided to pursue a series of figurative canvases depicting the mysteries of the Rosary.

An artist must bring to the canvas his own transferable forms of passion, not just illustration.

To fulfill this requirement for the

Annunciation panel I added to the narrative the offering of flowers.

Roses to Mary and lillies to Gabriel.

I made the setting the ruins of the ancient temple. With this birth comes the new covenant. Painted into the smokey surroundings are images that foretold the events in the life of Christ.

Upon completion of the paintings a suitable place to display them was found - the Annex building at St. Patrick Church in Mystic. It turned out to be the perfect place to create a shrine where people could come to view the paintings and pray in silence.

The annex is open for quiet meditation Sundays from 7:30 am to 12 noon.

A video of the paintings can be viewed on the NorwichDiocese.org website.

Dear Heart of Jesus, In the past I Dear Heart of Jesus, In the past I Dear Heart of Jesus, In the past I have asked for many favors. This have asked for many favors. This have asked for many favors. This time I ask for this special one. time I ask for this special one. time I ask for this special one.

Take it, Dear Heart Of Jesus, Take it, Dear Heart Of Jesus, Take it, Dear Heart Of Jesus, and place it within Your own and place it within Your own and place it within Your own broken heart where Your Father broken heart where Your Father broken heart where Your Father will see it. Then in his merciful will see it. Then in his merciful will see it. Then in his merciful eyes it will become Your favor, eyes it will become Your favor, eyes it will become Your favor, not mine. Say this prayer for 3 not mine. Say this prayer for 3 not mine. Say this prayer for 3 days and promise publication days and promise publication days and promise publication ~RD~ ~PM~ ~MS~

Dear Heart of Jesus, In the past I have asked for many favors. This time I ask for this special one.

Take it, Dear Heart Of Jesus, and place it within Your own broken heart where Your Father will see it. Then in his merciful eyes it will become Your favor, not mine. Say this prayer for 3 days and promise publication ~CB~

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have spent most of my adult life as a teacher of Oil Painting, fine artist, and lecturer.

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By Ryan Blessing Mr. Jacob Ramos was ordained to the Diaconate in a Mass of Ordination on Thursday, May 27, at the Cathedral of St. Patrick, Norwich.

Deacon Lawrence Barile, who was ordained last year, called the Elect, Jacob Ramos, forward during the Rite of Ordination before the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, Bishop of Norwich.

“We all rejoice with you and congratulate you for your generosity and readiness to offer your life to the Lord’s Church,” Bishop Cote told Mr. Ramos during his homily, while both men sat facing each other at the altar.

A deacon, an ordained minister of the Catholic Church, is a minister of the Word, proclaiming the Gospel, preaching and teaching in the name of the Church. They are also ministers of the Sacraments, baptizing, leading the faithful in prayer, witnessing marriages, and conducting wake and funeral services.

“Jacob will draw strength from the gift of the Holy Spirit in order to be an effective helper to his bishop and the body of priests of the Diocese as a minister of the Word, altar and charity,” Bishop Cote said. “Through his ordination he will become a member of the hierarchy of the

Church, in the grade of Deacon.”

During the Promise of the Elect, Mr. Ramos was questioned by Bishop Cote and declared before the people his intention to undertake the office of Deacon. Then, Mr. Ramos knelt before Bishop Cote and placed his joined hands between those of the Bishop in the promise of obedience and respect.

During the Litany of Supplication, Mr. Ramos prostrated himself face down before the altar, while the litany was sung. Then, he again knelt before Bishop Cote, who performed the Laying on of Hands, the gesture that signifies divine

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power being conferred on the Elect.

Following the Bishop’s prayer of ordination, the newly ordained Deacon received a diaconal stole and a dalmatic from Father Michael Bovino.

Finally, vested as Deacon, Reverend Mr. Ramos received the Book of Gospels from the Bishop.

Deacon Ramos is originally from Meriden, where he lived with his parents, Noel and Wilma and older brother, Victor. While attending the University of Connecticut for an undergraduate degree, he felt the Lord planted the seeds of priestly service in his heart and gave him spiritual roots in the Diocese of Norwich.

“Living in a vibrant student community of peers seeking after Christ and a life of happiness and holiness was the community that helped me hear the Lord’s call. I was excited to see where Christ was leading me,” he said.

After graduation he tested the call to religious life with the Dominican Order. “It was there that my prayer life grew and a great deepening of my relationship with Jesus happened during my Novitiate year. During that time the Lord made clear He was calling me toward a priestly vocation, not in a religious order, in the Diocese of Norwich.”

In the fall of 2016 he began attending Mount St Mary’s Seminary as a seminarian of Norwich.

“During the years of seminary formation, I have been constantly learning more about myself and the path Jesus has been leading me on,” Deacon Ramos said. “In this time of self-reflection and actualization I have done my best to reveal to the Lord and the Church who I am. That way, in full freedom and having stepped into the light of truth I could say to the Lord and the Church, ‘behold me; this is Jacob Ramos, his faults and failings, his triumphs and joys, his striving after holiness by the grace of God.’”

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11th Annual Seton Scholarship Dinner Honorees

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his unprecedented year has certainly affected students and their education around the globe. The classroom has changed in so many ways, whether it is by learning from home through Google classroom, or Zoom, or by attending in-person classes part-time or full-time. Our diocesan educators have worked exceptionally hard with students and their parents to maintain a traditional in-person education. They recognize that many families include essential workers who do not have the ability to stay home with their young children. Our teachers and faculty have worked tirelessly this year developing Covid-19 compliant classrooms, adhering to social-distancing mandates, and requiring students to wear masks throughout the school day. Many of our teachers have given students additional

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tutoring over the phone, via Zoom or in person.

The commitment of those involved in our Catholic school education in the diocese has been well known for years. Recognizing the exceptional work of our educators, in 2010, Bishop Cote established the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D. Award for Contributions to Catholic Education in the Diocese of Norwich. Each year following its inaugural year, this award has been presented to three individuals who have made significant contributions to Catholic education in the Diocese of Norwich. The award ceremony takes place at the Annual Seton Scholarship Dinner.

Now that many restrictions are being lifted in the State of Connecticut, we are so happy to

announce that this year’s 11th Annual Seton Scholarship Dinner will be held on Sunday, November 7, 2021 at 4 p.m. at The Riverhouse at Goodspeed Station, located at 55 Bridge Road, Haddam. This is the new rescheduled date from 2020. Sponsorship opportunities, program book ads and tickets are available for purchase by contacting Gina Foster at gfoster@norwichdiocese.net or by calling the Office of Development at (860) 886-1928.

All proceeds from the Seton Scholarship Dinner support Catholic elementary school students and are distributed by the Catholic Foundation in the form of tuition assistance grants. We really appreciate your generous support throughout the past 11 years and hope you can join us in celebrating Andrea D. Hoisl, The Very Reverend Dennis Perkins and Frederic S. Smith.

THIS YEAR’S HONOREES

Andrea D. Hoisl, Director of Faith Events, Diocese of Norwich Andrea D. Hoisl, a former teacher at Xavier and current Director of Faith Events for the Diocese of Norwich, has dedicated more than 30 years to Catholic education. “Educating young people about God’s unconditional love and mercy for the past 35 years has been an honor and a privilege,” she said. “I go to work every day feeling blessed to be living out my vocation. There is no one luckier than me.”

The Very Reverend Dennis Perkins, Vicar for the Clergy, Diocese of Norwich, and Pastor, Saint Michael Parish, Pawcatuck The Very Reverend Dennis Perkins, Vicar of Clergy, Pastor of Saint Michael Pawcatuck and teacher at St. Michael School for 11 years: “It has been a privilege for me to be a pastor and teacher in a parish where its Catholic school has been such a significant and vital part of the community for over 145 years.”

Frederic S. Smith, Teacher, Saint Bernard School, Uncasville Frederic S. Smith, in his 53rd year as a teacher and coach at Saint Bernard School, has dedicated much of his life to his school. He is also a proud Saint Bernard graduate of the class of 1964.

He will retire at the end of the school year after so many years of devotion to Saint Bernard School. “Though my profession is teaching, an essential part of my experience has been learning from my students and colleagues,” he said. “This is the true reward of my time at Saint Bernard.”

Governor Lamont Visits St. Bernard, Applauds School For Remaining Open

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onnecticut Governor Ned Lamont said he was especially excited to visit Saint Bernard School on Tuesday, May 11, because of how the Catholic high school in Montville has remained open throughout the Covid-19 pandemic.

“This is a year you will never forget, and I hope all of you here at Saint Bernard will always make the best of any situation you can,” the governor told Saint Bernard students during a special assembly. “It was a tough year and I’m very proud of this school. You’ve been open almost all the time. You did it cautiously, you did it safely, and this is going to be a year to remember.”

The governor also gave some details about Covid-19 relief funds that will be distributed to parochial and private schools, and he urged children 12 and older to get vaccinated, now that

they are eligible to do so.

“I’m an optimist, I hope you are too,” he said. “Another couple of months and we’ll get more and more of our young people vaccinated … it not only makes you safe, it makes your parents and grandparents safer.

It makes it easier for all of us to get back to a new normal.”

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Saint Bernard School Headmaster Don Macrino greeted the governor, along with several Saint Bernard students.

“Governor Lamont has led our state through one of the most challenging times in our state’s history,” Macrino said. “Through his courage, determination, commitment to science and I’m sure many prayers, he has guided Connecticut to a low and improving rate of Covid-19 transmission.”

Connecticut is among the most highly vaccinated states in the country, the headmaster noted.

The governor then met with Bishop Michael R. Cote in the main lobby before taking a tour of the building.

The bishop said the governor made his life, and the life of the Diocese, easier during the past year because of his guidance.

“You were prudent, but you made

it possible for all of my schools to remain open, with few incidents, and my churches to remain open,” the bishop said. “I’m extremely grateful for the leadership you demonstrated during this very unusual and stressful year.”

Governor Lamont took some special delight in meeting with the students and speaking with them. He wanted to know what the last 12 months were like for them – what did they miss, what was different?

One student told him she was happy to be able to attend school at Saint Bernard because schools in her native Italy were closed for an extended time.

“If you have any Italian friends who would like to come to Saint Bernard next year, you should tell them about it,” the governor quipped.

He also had fun in the school’s main office by getting on the public address system and greeting everyone in the building.

“This is a happy message,” Lamont said. “I just wanted to give my best to all the Saints. I’m here at your beautiful school today … I’m just so proud of this school. You’ve been open really since the beginning, and I know what a tough year it’s been. I’m here to say thanks to the students, faculty, teachers and parents for showing we can get through this Covid together, and it’s going to be an amazing summer.”

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St. Michael School, Pawcatuck Doris Messina, Principal West Broad St., Pawcatuck 860-599-1084 stmichaelschoolct.com

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Dear Friend, As we enter the month of June, the end of a very special school year for our Catholic schools is upon us. Bishop Cote’s decision to have all schools open with in-person learning has proven to be a wonderful success story.

While most public schools reverted to virtual learning, our students were able to have inschool instruction with only a few bumps in the road. We’ve learned a lot from our students and teachers about their experiences and I would like to include some observations from them about this school year: Grade 1 student: “I love my school and that we can come every day. At my cousins’ school she can’t. We learn and play with our friends.”

Grade 6 student: “Masks separate germs, not love.”

Grade 8 students: “God will always find a way to make everything okay. I’ve learned more in a year where everything stopped because our faith continued.”

“Being in school was much more motivational than trying to learn at home.”

“We were fortunate to be in a Catholic school, where we could learn in person every day.”

Grade 11 student: “We just had to understand this was the situation we were in and we had to adapt and move forward and keep going.”

Grade 12 student: “While this past year has come with its challenges, I think that my classmates and I have learned to cherish every

moment we spend together, even if it’s just the simple conversations in the hallway. We definitely have an even greater appreciation for our teachers and administrators who have worked so hard to bridge the gap between virtual and in-person students as well.”

Grade 2 teacher: “I am grateful to have been in our school with my 2nd graders every day of this school year.”

Grade 4 teacher: “Despite all of the challenges COVID has presented, it has been a joy being fully in person for teaching.”

Administrative assistant: “All of the changes occurring on a daily basis didn’t stop our school staff from always putting the needs of the students first.”

Principal: “Thank you to our staff, students and parents for working together so our students could remain in session five days a week. I have never been prouder to be part of such a dedicated team.”

I would like to thank all the dedicated pastors, principals, teachers, staff members, students, parents, and volunteers who have made this a very successful school year for the Diocese of Norwich Catholic Schools.

Sincerely, George A. Milot Superintendent of Schools

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Summer Mission Offered on the Parables of Jesus

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his June, the Office of Faith Events offers another online mission on the Parables of Jesus presented by Sr. Elissa Rinere, CP. Jesus spoke to ordinary people who lived in an oral culture. Parables allowed Jesus to teach central spiritual lessons in a way that His disciples could easily remember. During the mission, we will hear the importance of the parables and how we can apply their meanings to our lives today.

Sr. Elissa is the retired Chancellor of the Diocese of Norwich as well as the former Diocesan Director of the Office of Worship and Pastoral Planning. She shares her talents as a professor, a canon lawyer, and a senior congregational leader of the Sisters of the Cross and Passion.

The first session took place Thursday, June 3, and looked at what a parable is and general information about Scripture before Sr. Elissa dove into the parables of the mustard seed and the yeast. The second week, Thursday, June 10, Sr. Elissa will explain the parables of the lost sheep and the lost coin. The final session, Thursday, June 17, will focus on the parable of the prodigal son. There will also be videos that assist in our mission and group discussion.

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By Marie C. Kalita Saint John Paul II students Leilani Duong-Vazquez and Julia Lewis both received the Norwich Diocese Scholarship to Mercy High School.

This academic scholarship is awarded to two 8th grade students who are members of the Diocese of Norwich with the highest score on the entrance exam. This scholarship applies to all four years of high school.

“Leilani and Julia are not only both high honors students, but they are well-rounded girls who participate in student council, play interscholastic sports, drama club, play instruments, and I am so proud of them!” said Mr. Larry Fitzgerald, Principal of St. John Paul II. “I am thrilled to have Leilani and Julia join the Mercy Community this fall, and I look forward to watching them grow into Mercy Women,” said Ms. Alissa DeJonge, President of Mercy High School.

Leilani is the daughter of Newton Duong and Deyanira Vazquez of Middletown. Her sister Marianna is a current Mercy Student in the Class of 2023.

Julia is the daughter of French and Suzanne Lewis of Middletown, her older sister Holly Lewis graduated Mercy in 2020.

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his year’s March Can Madness Tournament at Xavier High School brought in 1,076 items, and the competition between classes ended with the sophomores winning by donating the most.

All of the canned goods and boxed items went to the Amazing Grace Food Pantry in Middletown.

“Xavier High School has been a great partner to our organization throughout the years,” said Peter Keast, the Director of Development & Community Relations at St. Vincent de Paul in Middletown.

“Food drives and other fund-raising activities in which the Amazing Grace Food Pantry is a named beneficiary are the only way that community food needs can be met. Historically, 40 percent of the food we deliver annually comes from a food bank.

The rest is from individuals and partnerships with organizations like Xavier High School. We are grateful for your support and the vital part in the community that Xavier plays.”

When senior Ian Domeika of the Ryken Service Society first announced the competition over the PA system after school, he encouraged everyone to “get out there, buy out the soup aisles … and win Xaverian glory. Good luck gentlemen!”

The sophomores earned a free dress down day for winning the tournament.

Sometimes it is difficult to understand the impact. You know a food drive helps, but when Keast talks about the past year, his words become tangible evidence of the need.

Just over a year ago, in February 2020, it became clear that Amazing Grace Food Pantry in Middletown would have to close as the coronavirus pandemic was starting. But how do you close a place where so many people relied on for groceries?

“Pre-pandemic, the number of families using the pantry was regularly over 1,000 per month,” Keast said.

providing and delivering 7,000 pounds of groceries a week into our community to 14,000 pounds, all without cost to the recipient.”

Spikes in unemployment helped drive the need, so the food pantry once again responded to the challenge. Their once-a-month rule would not work.

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“Volunteers were asked if they would continue to work, making up prepackaged grocery boxes in a socially distanced model,” Keast said.

“Sixty percent of volunteers stayed on, working at a safe distance from others, prepacking boxes,” Keast said.

“The number of people coming to the pantry didn’t rise right away.

Then came the phone call.”

The call was from a neighbor of a woman in public housing that had not been seen for over a week. The neighbor was concerned the woman did not have any food.

“The neighbor was correct, and that was a catalyst for us starting a home delivery service for groceries that ended up serving 379 families at the peak,” Keast said. “Peapod and other store services had a several month wait, and people were legitimately afraid to visit a grocery store. By May of 2020, we had moved from

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he Mercy chapter of the Italian National Honor Society, Società Onoraria Italica, Caterina di Siena, must complete a service project each year. In the past, students have volunteered at the Saint Sebastian Church Feast as ticket vendors, in the fried dough booth, and helping with food sales.

This year, the students wanted to do something different because many members of the Middletown community have a need and rely on the help of Saint Vincent de Paul Soup Kitchen for meals. The society wanted to offer them something that they do not ordinarily get served, lasagna!

The students wanted to extend the cultural experience beyond the classroom. Lasagna was a good option and also a popular meal choice amongst Italians.

With the help of the INHS officers, members of the Italian classes and even students that do not take Italian, volunteers signed up and a total of twenty-four volunteers prepared the thirty-five trays of lasagna. Under

the guidance of society moderator, Italian teacher and excellent cook Ms. Daniela Aparo, the group worked to receive donations and supplies for the event. Some students donated grated cheese, ricotta, mozzarella and sauce. With the funds collected, Ms. Aparo shopped and bought 30 lbs. of meatballs, 40 lbs. of lasagna sheets, 50 lbs. of ricotta, 24 jars of sauce, 20 lbs. of mozzarella, tablecloths, pans, lids, and other supplies needed all through the generous donations provided by the Mercy High School community. $520.00 was collected—even more than was needed—and the unused remainder ($113.99) was issued in a check to Saint Vincent de Paul.

“Although it took lots of planning and calculating of product needed per tray, I would organize this event again in a heartbeat and am looking forward to doing this again,” stated Ms. Aparo. Madilyn Carbone ’23 echoed Ms. Aparo’s thoughts, “I had so much fun doing this, I hope we do it again next year!” The sister team of Catherine and Fiona Fay who made 4

of the 35 trays agreed, too, “We are willing to make more of them!”

Mercy students are required to complete service hours each year with a minimum of 100 hours by graduation. Last year the students completed 10,743 hours of community service with local agencies making a remarkable economic impact of $333,570.

Sophomore Ava Giansiracusa appreciated that she was making a difference, saying, “I feel good knowing people are going to enjoy having lasagna for a meal.” Classmate Mia Pugliares added, “I am happy to have helped make the lasagna. I am also willing to serve meals at Saint Vincent de Paul if they need help!”

Ms. Aparo summed it up best, “I love what I do! My job is so rewarding, and not just the teaching part of it. Through much planning, calculating, seeking donations, and bringing ideas to fruition, my Italian National Honor Society organized an outstanding lasagna making event to feed the less fortunate. I know

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Church community and the Knights of Columbus from Council #14, specifically Grand Knight Charlie Nadile, Larry King, Sam Bruder, Colin atholic Charities, with the help and Rice, Dan Roberts and John DeVivo.” It was a support from the Knights of Columbus great evening. The pasta was cooked to perfection, Council #14 and the Willimantic the sauce was handmade and simmered for hours, Community held a Pasta for Hope the meatballs were huge and the desserts were out Dinner at Saint Joseph Church Hall on Saturday, of this world. We were excited to have the Bishop October 29th. Children of all ages were encouraged join us for this community event which will allow to dress in costumes and play games for candy. us to continue to “Provide Help and Create Hope” Father Larry LaPointe graciously offered the use of for those most in need. the Parish Hall and the event was a success.

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Taking advantage of a beautiful, see each at least once perhaven’t (recorded) presentations If you done so already, please voiceand yourclosing We are called totoadvocate for theother most fundamental warm day, combined AdvisorofGroups day. students meetopposition their prayer. to the federal health care mandate human goods and First-year rights, in particular, the right by calling U.S. of Health to life the and thejunior right not only profess our moved outside for Icebreakers, big to sister in faith, September Ms. Secretary Derbacher said and sheHuman was proud Services Sylvia Mathews Burwell at 202-205but to live are advocating for thethat free-continue light-hearted activities designed to it out. andWeform strong ties of the Peer Ministers and the entire 5445,inand your elected state representatives. Let dom to “be Catholic,” go about our lives serv- Day, get students talking to each other. beyondtograduation.

Retreat and knowstudent that the body mandate is faculty. in violation of ing the needs particular, of our brothers and sisters, regardis a time for girls tothem build The Advisor Groups include girls our First Amendment right to religious freedom. less of their race, creed, or religion, not because “We were truly blessed to see the upon these bonds and get to know from all four grade levels. they This are Catholic but because we are Catholic. whole Mercy community be together allows “big” and “little” sisters each other better through a day of for prayer and some fun. It was a open and wide-ranging discussion. beautiful day of coming together, to After the Icebreaker session, the laugh, pray and become bonded by groups moved indoors to begin their hope,” she said.

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“As we begin the end of the year celebrations, days like this are why we chose to be educators. A truly fabulous day at Xavier,” Headmaster Dave Eustis said as he reflected on all

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First up, before the school day began, was a signing ceremony for 12 Division II and III athletes in the gym at 7:30 a.m.

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The signees: Nicholas Beaulieu: Mitchell College, basketball; Jay Bruni: Endicott College, football; Josh Castano: Florida Southern College, lacrosse; Chris DiBella: Salve Regina University, football; Ian Domeika: Hendrix College, lacrosse; Drew Errera: Western New England University, baseball; Hunter Geisler: Clarkson University, baseball; Adam Goralski: Roger Williams University, track and field; William Heher: Hamilton College, lacrosse; Tiernan Powers: UConn Avery Point, baseball; Jason Salley: Roger Williams University, soccer; Malcolm Wilson-Toliver: Western New England University, football.

At 1:30 p.m. there was the Academic Awards Ceremony for freshmen, sophomores, and juniors, presided over by Dan Lyons ’21, the president of the National Honor Society. Among his many messages: “We are not being taught to become stellar students; we are being taught to become stellar, well-guided individuals, men, men like Christ.”

That was amplified by Principal Brendan Donohue. He spoke of the Xavier motto, “Be A Man,” and said when we talk about it we “typically

equate it to ordinary day-to-day actions, but these are extraordinary times, and the challenges you are facing are extraordinary. We want to thank students for everything you have done to maintain academic excellence.”

Headmaster Eustis thanked the students for the “effort put forth and the great resilience and determination” in taking on the pandemic. “You have delivered,” he said.

At 3 p.m., there was the Division I signing ceremony for Mike Rapuano, the two-time State Open champion who likely would have won a third if COVID had not claimed the wrestling season. It’s about the only thing that could have taken him down. Rapuano will wrestle for George Mason University.

Coach Mike Cunningham said Rapuano was the best to come through the doors of Xavier, and not only here but in the state of Connecticut and throughout New England. Eustis thanked Rapuano for all he has done for the wrestling program and the school.

Rapuano was the third Xavier senior to sign with a Division I school this school year. In the fall signing period, Luke Lappe (North Alabama, baseball) and Andrew Mitchill (Villanova, swimming) signed.

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Can you help clarify what constitutes a mortal sin and when confession is warranted without mortal sin? Should venial sins be confessed? If so, how?

In Saint John’s first letter in the New Testament, he distinguishes between sin that is deadly and sin that is not deadly (1 John 5:1617). As Catholics, therefore, we also recognize the distinction between deadly sin (mortal sin) and non-deadly sin (venial sin). Our Tradition sees mortal sin as sin which “kills” the life of grace in the soul, whereas venial sin “wounds” the life of grace in the soul. (It’s helpful to think in terms of relationship). The Church gives us three conditions that need to be present for a sin to be mortal: 1.) The sin must involve some matter that is grave or serious. 2.) The person must have full knowledge that what they’re doing is wrong; 3.) The person must freely choose to do it anyways.

When these three conditions are not met, the sin is considered to be venial. The Catechism of the Catholic Church beautifully weighs in on the question of confessing venial sins: Without being strictly necessary, confession of everyday faults (venial sins) is nevertheless strongly recommended by the Church. Indeed, the regular confession of our venial sins helps us (1) form our conscience, (2) fight against evil tendencies, (3) let ourselves be healed by Christ and (4) progress in the life of the Spirit (CCC 1458).

In other words, confessing venial sins can be a great opportunity to receive grace and healing through the unique and real grace of the Sacrament. The enemy of our souls likes for our sins to be kept hidden in the dark—bringing them to Confession is one way to let Jesus shed His light on us.

I have grown spiritually and the sins I have confessed in the past are no longer a problem. I am troubled by this. I don’t know what else to confess so I think there must be something I am not understanding.

The first thing to say is, “Praise God!” It is always good to be able to recognize tangible growth in the spiritual life through seeing real detachment from sins that we used to struggle with more—this is a grace of God and a testament to your own generous heart!

The second thought though is to recall that the Lord is always calling us deeper—He always has more that He wants to give us. If you find yourself at a point like this in your relationship with the Lord, perhaps one thing you could do is seek out (more of) the writings of the Saints, especially the Doctors of the Church. Saint Teresa of Avila writes beautifully about progress in prayer and the spiritual life; Saint Alphonsus Liguori has some wonderful treatises on the moral life; and Saint Therese of Lisieux…well, who can read her writings and not benefit spiritually from her? The Lord is always calling us, summoning us deeper into friendship with Him, and the Saints remind us of the riches that God wants to bestow on each of us.

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June/July Calendar of Tuesday, June 15 & July 20, Virtual Rachel Rosary, 3pm

Pray the Project Rachel Rosary online. Project Rachel focuses on an end to abortion and healing for those who have been involved with an abortion. Visit NorwichDiocese.org/faithevents or call (415) 655-0001 access code: 132 917 2663

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Join us for a virtual evening of reflection to deepen your relationship with Christ.

Call Liza Roach at 860-848-2237 ext. 305 or email her at lroach@norwichdiocese. net to find out more.

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Light at the End of the Tunnel

By Liza Roach f you have driven through tunnels in Boston or New York City, you may wonder sometimes if you will ever see the light of day. I have been there. I commuted to Boston for two years and I know traffic. You can either get wrapped up in the craziness that surrounds you or you can look ahead and see if the cars are moving.

The pandemic has been that way for many of us over the past year.

Some people monitored the news for the daily number of COVID-19 cases in their state and its positivity rate; they got caught up in the craziness of what was happening

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around them. Others looked at the latest vaccine developments and COVID-19 treatments, speculating on when they would bring an end to shutdowns and offer a vision of hope.

Recently, Pew research, a nonpartisan fact tank, completed a study that determined three out of 10 people reported having a stronger personal faith because of the pandemic. Thirty-five percent of Americans also say that there is a lesson to be learned from God in this pandemic. What does this mean?

Julianne Stanz, the keynote speaker at this year’s Diocesan

Women’s Conference, reminded participants of the Gospel story of the Woman at the Well. Julianne used the well as an analogy for who each of us is. She reminded us that we can look down into the well and see only darkness and be a person who is hopeless and caught up in negativity. We also can look up from the well and see the light and the potential that people are coming back to God. Will more people return to our churches post-pandemic? That depends, in part, on how those of us who are already there do in encouraging them to come back.

Our community members will

return to our churches if we invite them to come back, welcome them home, and be there for them in the midst of their turmoil with an ear to listen without judging.

Yes, there may be some crazy traffic in our lives as well as in the lives of our parishioners. We need to be the ones to see the light at the end of the tunnel, which is the love of Jesus Christ. Jesus is always looking to have a relationship with us through His love and we should do the same with those who return to the church; welcome them home with love.

Ignite Your Faith.

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Unfailing Prayer to St. Anthony

O Holy St Anthony, gentlest of Saints, your love for God and Charity for His creatures, made you worthy, when on earth to possess miraculous powers.

Encouraged by this thought, I implore to you to obtain for me (request).

O gentle and loving St. Anthony, whose heart was ever full of human sympathy, whisper my petition into the ears of sweet infant Jesus, who loved to be folded in your arms, and the gratitude of my heart will ever be yours. This 13 day Novena has never been known to fail. Say three Hail Mary's and three Glories and promise publication. ~ CB ~

Unfailing Prayer to St. Anthony

O Holy St Anthony, gentlest of Saints, your love for God and Charity for His creatures, made you worthy, when on earth to possess miraculous powers.

Encouraged by this thought, I implore to you to obtain for me (request).

O gentle and loving St. Anthony, whose heart was ever full of human sympathy, whisper my petition into the ears of sweet infant Jesus, who loved to be folded in your arms, and the gratitude of my heart will ever be yours. This 13 day Novena has never been known to fail. Say three Hail Mary's and three Glories and promise publication. ~ BM

Unfailing Prayer to St. Anthony

O Holy St Anthony, gentlest of Saints, your love for God and Charity for His creatures, made you worthy, when on earth to possess miraculous powers.

Encouraged by this thought, I implore to you to obtain for me (request).

O gentle and loving St. Anthony, whose heart was ever full of human sympathy, whisper my petition into the ears of sweet infant Jesus, who loved to be folded in your arms, and the gratitude of my heart will ever be yours. This 13 day Novena has never been known to fail. Say three Hail Mary's and three Glories and promise publication. ~ MC

Solidarity in Freedom Religious Freedom Week June 22 – 29

Religious freedom permits the Church, and all religious communities, to live out their faith in public and to serve the good of all.

The Church’s promotion of religious freedom expresses her solidarity with all people who seek the good and who hope for fulfillment in the truth, which the Church teaches is ultimately found in Jesus Christ.

This year, as a Diocese, we led the way in showing how to safely open classrooms for in-school instruction. We lived out our baptismal call through our many efforts at Catholic Charities and Saint Vincent de Paul locations throughout Southeastern Connecticut. The meals, the rent and utility assistance, the donations of PPE, and the many, many prayers where all evidence of our religious freedom in action.

Pray – Reflect – Act Visit www.usccb.org/ReligiousFreedomWeek for a list of resources, one for each day, on different religious liberty topics. They will help you learn about religious liberty from a Catholic perspective, pray about particular issues, and act on what you learn by advocating for policies that promote religious freedom.

You can also connect with the USCCB Committee for Religious Liberty by texting FREEDOM to 84576 and sign up for First Freedom News, the USCCB Committee for Religious Liberty’s monthly newsletter.

In 2021 this freedom continues to be challenged. A major area of concern is freedom for Catholic institutions, such as schools, hospitals, and child welfare service providers, to carry out their missions with integrity. However, religious organizations’ ability to partner with the government in its relief efforts and to receive needed government aid is continually threatened by legislative provisions that would exclude some faiths but not others.

Another issue of special concern is the wave of attacks on Catholic churches that began in May of 2020. Vandals demolished religious statues, entered churches and desecrated sanctuaries. There have been over 60 attacks so far, and that number continues to grow. The precise reasons for these attacks are often unknown. In some cases, they are tied to anger at perceived injustices from the past. Other cases may involve mental illness. In all cases, Catholics must remember that we worship the Lord who reveals the truth and beauty of the gospel in his suffering and resurrection, and that we are called to respond to aggression with compassion.

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l Connecticut a u n n A 14th Keynote Speaker

Catholic Men’s Conference SAVE THE DATE

Keynote Speaker

Saturday, September 25, 2021 Conference Theme:

The Most Holy Rosary www.ctcatholicmen.org

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Details/Purchase Tickets

Dr. Ralph Martin

An Outdoor Venue • Doors open at 7:30 event starts at 8:00

Fr. Donald Calloway, MIC

A Day of Faith & Fraternity Morning Coffee • Dynamic Catholic Speakers!

Eucharistic procession Adoration luxury box • Confession anytime Exhibitors • Fun on the field SUBWAY Lunch included Vigil Mass end of day A Collaboration of the Archdiocese of Hartford, Diocese of Bridgeport, Diocese of Norwich & Eparchy of Stamford $45 Per Person • Free for Clergy $20 for Teen (13-19)

Email: info@ctcatholicmen.org

Featured Guest Speakers

Mass Celebrant

Music By:

Gary Zimak

Archbishop Blair

Nick Fradiani, Sr.

Fr. Elias Mary Mills, FI

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Location: New Britain Stadium

Dr. Blythe Kaufman