Four County Catholic June/July 2022

FOUR COUNTY

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Volume 34 • Number 6 • JUNE/JULY 2022 • SERVING THE COUNTIES OF MIDDLESEX • NEW LONDON • TOLLAND • WINDHAM, CT & FISHERS ISLAND, NY

My Flesh Life World for the

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“Watching children, teachers and parents grow as persons of faith.”

Mother M. Elaine Moorcroft S.C.M.C., principal of Saint John School, Old Saybrook, one of the three 2022 Seton honorees, explaining what her greatest joy in education has been.

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June 19, the Feast of Corpus Christi, kicks off a three-year National Eucharistic Revival. Organized by the USCCB, the three-year Eucharistic Revival program will include three tiers: parish, diocesan, and nationwide. See story on page 16.

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The Catholic School Tradition My dear brothers and sisters in Christ: As another school year comes to a close, I find myself reflecting with deep concern and hope.

Concern, because there is an assault on education around the world.

Hope, because I have witnessed the joyful exhilaration of our Catholic school students whose resiliency over the last two years has been a source of inspiration. Their what-ever-it-takes attitude, encouraged by supportive parents and teachers, made inclassroom learning possible.

In addition to a great academic education, our students are taught to care, to put importance on community, and to set aside differences. Our Catholic schools have a long-standing tradition of diversity and inclusion – welcoming children of all faiths and economic circumstances, including the poor and the immigrant.

Providing students with the skill and understanding that they need to increase their social consciousness and act in ways that foster respect, empathy, and fairness is part of a well-rounded Christian education. Doing so inside of a nurturing community has always been the hallmark of the Catholic school model.

The Catholic Church’s interest in education stems from the Church’s role as mother and teacher, fulfilling the mandate received from God, the “divine founder of proclaiming the mystery of salvation to all men and of restoring all things in Christ . . .” (Gravissimum educationis- the Second

Vatican Council’s declaration on Christian education.)

The last two years have shown us that we must remain vigilant. Keeping our schools open for in-classroom learning was an important exercise of the freedom of thought and conscience. Yet it mustn’t stop there.

Today, there are emotionally heated discussions and protests in publicly funded schools surrounding whether the topics of gender and critical race theory should be taught to children in a classroom environment.

There are those who want to take away a parent’s rights and responsibilities as the primary educator of their children. School boards and lawmakers in Rhode Island, Massachusetts and, yes, Connecticut have proposed and even passed legislation regarding gender curriculum, much of which is often distorting and even contradicting sound Catholic teaching.

While they may have the best of motives, their attempt to protect and shield our children from the realities of social injustices that happen in our world, may do more to confuse children than to help them.

Parents have a responsibility to choose how and where their child is educated. The critical race theory and gender agendas running rampant in so many school systems are a cause for concern. It is so important for parents to pay attention –– to consider the safer, more truthful, and reasonable environment of a Diocesan school.

Catholic education extends an honest and morally sound framework regarding issues of race, human dignity, and social justice.

In the last few months, there have been articles in the Four County Catholic giving witness to students’ care, compassion, and love for people on the other side of the world who are suffering the unthinkable.

Please know that our teachers and principals are available to assist you in confidently choosing an education for your child that retains the core influence of the Gospel.

I would also like to congratulate the eighth grade, high school, and college graduates of the Class of 2022. Their perseverance has carried them through a challenging time. I pray, as I am sure all of you do, for their success in all future endeavors.

Our Catholic schools provide a safe environment that encourages students to embrace learning, embrace problem solving, and embrace the Gospel message.

My prayer for all of you is that you hold hope in your heart and share that hope with our young people. May you have a safe, restful, and enlightening summer.

Sincerely yours in Christ’s love, Most Reverend Michael R. Cote Bishop of Norwich

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LET FAITH LEAD THE WAY

MICHAEL R. COTE, D.D.

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THE MOST REVEREND

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LET FAITH LEAD THE WAY

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La tradición de las escuelas católicas

Mis queridos hermanos y hermanas en Cristo,

educación cristiana.)

A medida que otro año escolar llega a su fin, me encuentro reflexionando con profunda preocupación y esperanza.

Los últimos dos años nos han demostrado que debemos permanecer vigilantes.

Mantener nuestras escuelas abiertas para el aprendizaje en el aula fue un ejercicio importante de la libertad de pensamiento y conciencia. Sin embargo, no debe detenerse ahí.

Preocupación, porque hay un ataque a la educación en todo el mundo.

Esperanza, porque he sido testigo del júbilo gozoso de nuestros estudiantes de las escuelas católicas cuya capacidad de adaptación estos últimos dos años ha sido una fuente de inspiración. Su actitud de hacer lo que sea necesario, alentada por el apoyo de los padres y maestros, ha hecho possible el aprendizaje en el salón de clases.

Además de una gran educación académica, a nuestros estudiantes se les enseña a cuidar, a darle importancia a la comunidad y a dejar de lado las diferencias. Nuestras escuelas católicas tienen una larga tradición de diversidad e inclusión: dan la bienvenida a niños de todas las religiones y circunstancias económicas, incluídos los pobres y los inmigrantes.

Brindar a los estudiantes la habilidad y comprensión que necesitan para aumentar su conciencia social y para actuar en forma que fomente el respeto, la empatía, y la justicia es parte de una educación cristiana integral. Hacerlo dentro de una comunidad enriquecedora siempre ha sido el sello distintivo del modelo de una escuela católica.

El interés de la iglesia católica por la educación se deriva del papel de la iglesia como madre y maestra, cumpliendo el mandato recibido de Dios, “fundador divino al proclamar el misterio de la salvación a todos los hombres y de restaurar todas las cosas en Cristo…”

(Gravissimun educationis, Declaración del Concilio Vaticano Segundo sobre la

Hoy en día, hay debates emocionalmente acalorados y protestas en las escuelas, financiados con fondos públicos sobre si los temas de género y teoría crítica de raza deben enseñarse a los niños en el entorno del aula.

Hay quienes quieren quitarle los derechos y responsabilidades a los padres como los principales educadores de sus niños.

Las juntas escolares y los legisladores en Rhode Island, Massachusetts y, sí, también en Connecticut, han propuesto e incluso aprobaron leyes sobre el currículo de género, muchas de las cuales a menudo distorsionan e incluso contradicen la sana enseñanza católica. Si bien pueden tener las mejores intenciones, su intento de proteger a nuestros hijos de las realidades y de las injusticias sociales que ocurren en nuestro mundo, puede confundir más que ayudar a los niños.

Los padres tienen la responsabilidad de elegir cómo y dónde educar a sus hijos. La teoría crítica de la raza y las agendas de género que proliferan en tantos sistemas escolares son motivo de preocupación.

Es tan importante que los padres presten atención para considerar un ambiente más seguro, verdadero y razonable en una escuela diocesana.

La educación católica extiende un marco honesto y moralmente sólido con respecto a cuestiones de raza, humanidad, dignidad y justicia social. En los últimos meses, ha habido artículos en Four County

Catholic dando testimonio del cuidado, compasión y el amor de los estudiantes por las personas que están sufriendo lo impensable al otro lado del mundo.

Por favor, sepa que nuestros maestros y directores están disponibles para ayudarle a elegir con confianza una educación para sus hijos que conserve la enseñanza central del Evangelio.

También me gustaría felicitar a los graduados de octavo grado, escuela secundaria y universidad de la clase de 2022. Su perseverancia los ha llevado a través de momentos dificiles. Rezo, como estoy seguro de que todos ustedes lo hacen, para que ellos tengan éxito en todos sus esfuerzos futuros.

Nuestras escuelas católicas brindan un ambiente seguro que alienta a los estudiantes a enfocarse en el aprendizaje, buscar la resolución a los problemas y acoger el mensaje del Evangelio.

Mi oración por todos ustedes es que mantengan la esperanza en sus corazones y compartan esa esperanza con nuestros jóvenes.

Que tenga un verano seguro, reparador y esclarecedor.

Sinceramente en el amor de Cristo,

Reverendísimo Michael R. Cote Obispo de Norwich

Vocations Corner

ne thing I learned from my experience playing team sports in high school was that personal excellence translates to team excellence when individuals perform excellently together (as a team).

It’s not enough for players to play well individually.

They have to play well together to succeed.

Last month, on May 8 (Good Shepherd Sunday), Pope Francis released a message for the 59th World Day of Prayer for Vocations.

In his message, he encourages all of us “to give the very best of ourselves in this great divine plan!” He says: “When we speak of ‘vocation,’ it is about making God’s dream come true, the great vision of fraternity that Jesus cherished when he prayed to the Father “that they may all be one ( Jn17:21).”

the brothers and sisters whom the Lord has given to us.

Each of us, he says, is a creature willed and loved by God. Each of us has a unique and special place in the mind of God. Each of us is addressed by God personally by God’s “loving and creative gaze” in Jesus.

Indeed, vocations are born from this gaze, from this personal encounter with the Lord Jesus. Still, he says: “we do not only receive a vocation individually; we are also called together.”

Have you ever thought of “vocation” in this sense?

As doing our part to make God’s dream of fraternity come true? Have you ever thought of what it might mean for you to give the very best of yourself in the service of God and the Church in this way?

The Holy Father likens each of us to a tile of a mosaic or a star in the firmament of the universe. Each is lovely in itself, but only when we are put together do we “form a picture” or “form constellations that can guide and light up the path of humanity.” In this sense, “vocation” refers to our common and shared participation in the life and mission of Christ to “reunite a fragmented humanity and to reconcile it with God. Together,” he says, “with all men and women of goodwill, we want to help build the human family, heal its wounds and guide it to a better future.”

Pope Francis understands the Church as a family.

When he speaks of the individual, he speaks of the individual as always part of the wider community of the human family. This is an important point for us to consider. While our vocational journeys are personal and unique, they can only be undertaken together with

As members of the Church, we are all called to bear witness to the truth of that “one great human family united in love.” This means that we are called to be protagonists together of the Church’s mission. He says, “We know the Church exists to evangelize, to go forth and to sow the seed of the Gospel in history. This

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mission can only be carried out if all areas of pastoral activity work together and, even more importantly, involve all the Lord’s disciples.”

So what can we take away from Pope Francis’ message to us? I think back to his words from his 2013 TED talk when he reminded us “that we all need each other, none of us is an island, an autonomous and independent ‘I,’ separated from the other, and we can only build the future by standing together, including everyone.”

Each of us is called to do our part in making God’s dream of fraternity come true. We do this by accepting the vocation that God entrusts to us. Whether it is as a priest, a religious, a married person or a single person, each of us, in every ecclesial vocation and ministry, is called “to serve goodness and to spread love with our works and words.”

We do this in our own way, with our own gifts and talents, in our own respective roles and positions, together. Always together. This, I believe, is his message for us: It’s not enough for us to “play” well individually.

We have to “play” well together. Always together.

- Father Jonathan Ficara, Director of Vocations

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Pastor Letters Received

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he Annual Catholic Appeal is working hard to reach its 2022 goal and has enlisted the very gracious assistance of our pastors to help with this endeavor.

We began our 2022 ACA, One Faith, One Family in February and as we do every year we have asked our pastors to follow up with their parishioners who have not yet donated by sending them a May letter. We realize that many of us have had very busy schedules and despite our very best intentions some of us have not found the time to make our 2022 ACA gift or pledge. On behalf of those in our communities who receive spiritual, physical, and educational sustenance from the diocesan ministries and programs receiving support through our ACA, our

pastors have asked us to consider making our gift or pledge today.

I know that many of you are faithful supporters of your own parish and may wonder why we ask you to donate to the Annual Catholic Appeal as well. The answer is simple; your parish is not in a position by itself to conduct the diocesanwide initiatives that our diocesan ministries spearhead. For example, the education of our seminarians, the running of our soup kitchens, the education of our children in faith, and the administration of our Office of Safe Environments, are all efforts that require diocesan support and coordination.

We thank you in advance for your support of our ACA ministries who do the work of Christ each and every day. Relying on your kind generosity, these ministries conduct their critical missions, helping to provide education to our seminarians and young, food and financial provision to those in need, compassionate care to the sick, and renewal of faith to those seeking a closer relationship with their Lord.

If you would like to support the 2022 ACA, please contact our Campaign Manager, Heather Harris at (860) 886-1928, ext. 111 or at hharris@norwichdiocese.net. Any size donation is appreciated. Online gifts and viewing of Bishop Cote’s 2022 ACA video are available at www.norwichdiocesedevelopment. org . Thank you so much.

You are cordially invited to the Cathedral of Saint Patrick for the

Mass of Ordination of Deacon Jacob Ramos

Saturday, June 25, 2022 - 10:30 AM

The Mass will also be livestreamed for those who are not able to attend in person

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TELEVISION MASS Fr. Brian Maxwell, July 6 Fr. Greg Galvin, August 3

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As of May 5th, the ACA is currently at 71% of its $2.7 million goal, having received just over $1.9 million in gifts and pledges. While we are extremely appreciative of these gifts, we have received donations from 12% of the parishioners that we have contacted. This leaves 88% who have not yet participated in donating.

If we could encourage each parish to challenge itself to increase its 2021 participation rate by 10%, we would be in great shape. If we all pull together as One Faith, One Family, our $2.7 million goal is certainly attainable. But it will definitely take a commitment by each of us to do so.

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Rejoicing in the Good of Others

Ministry Fair Returns

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It was the first time an inperson fair was held since 2019 in Cromwell, due to COVID restrictions in 2020 and 2021.

Although it was a smaller gathering this year, attendees said they were happy to be able to meet face to face again and learn about the functions and services of many ministries of the diocese.

In addition to tables and displays set up by each ministry, the fair

featured a kids corner, where children could color or do other fun and engaging activities.

Guests also helped themselves to a continental breakfast buffet.

Students in the schools of the diocese took part in an essay contest titled, “The Work of Christ Around Me,” and two winners read their essays at the Ministry Fair.

Visitors also went home with some merchandise, thanks to a raffle in which each ministry table offered up its own, unique prizes.

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inistries of the Diocese of Norwich gathered to spread the word about their good works at the annual Ministry Fair on May 15 at the Holiday Inn in Norwich.

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SETON SCHOLARSHIP DINNER SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 6, 2022 AT 4:00 PM SAINT CLEMENTS CASTLE & MARINA 1931 PORTLAND-COBALT ROAD PORTLAND, CT 06480 Honoring the recipients of the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D. Award

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for Contributions to Catholic Education in the Diocese of Norwich:

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AMY FREEMAN Amy Freeman Mother Moorcroft S.C.M.C. MOTHERM. M. Elaine ELAINE MOORCROFT S.C.M.C. Reverend Joseph Tito

All proceeds to benefit tuition assistance for Catholic Schools. he following sponsorships are available: $5,000 SETON SPONSOR Premium reserved table for 10, full-page program ad $2,500 AQUINAS SPONSOR Reserved table for 8, half-page program ad $1,500 NEWMAN SPONSOR Seating for 4, quarter-page program ad Individual program ads are also available.

For more information or to purchase tickets, please contact Kathy Gaito Please contact Gina Foster atat860-886-1928 or 860-886-1928 or kgaito@norwichdiocese.net gfoster@NorwichDiocese.net

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Seton Scholarship Dinner Honors Catholic Educators

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he commitment of those involved in our diocesan Catholic school education has been well known for years.

Recognizing the exceptional work of our educators, in 2010 Bishop Cote established the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D. Award for Contributions to Catholic Education in the Diocese of Norwich.

This annual a goes to three individuals who have made significant contributions to Catholic education in the Diocese of Norwich. The award ceremony takes place at the Annual Seton Scholarship Dinner. This year’s honorees are: • Amy Freeman, teacher, Mercy High School, Middletown • Mother M. Elaine Moorcroft S.C.M.C., principal, Saint John School, Old Saybrook, • Reverend Joseph Tito, administrator of Saint Joseph School, Baltic, and Sacred Heart School, Taftville; pastor, Saint Mary Immaculate Conception Church Baltic, Sacred Heart Church Taftville, and Saint Joseph Church, Occum Amy Freeman has been an educator at Mercy High School for 35 years. During her career, she has taught a variety of different courses such as Spanish, French, English and creative writing. In addition to her teaching, she is the moderator of the French Honor Society, Breakfast Book Club,

Japanese club and Mercy Students for Change.

Mother Elaine Moorcroft was born and raised in Glastonbury and attended Glastonbury Public Schools and Assumption Junior High School in Manchester, staffed by the Sisters of Charity of Our Lady Mother of the Church. She entered the Sisters of Charity in January 1981 and professed her final vows in 1988.

With a bachelor’s degree in elementary education, a master’s in math education, Catholic school administration and in theology, she has had the privilege of teaching elementary school for 16 years and serving as a Catholic school principal for 25 years, all within the Diocese of Norwich.

When asked what her greatest joy has been, she responded by saying, “Watching children, teachers and parents grow as persons of faith.”

Mother Elaine is currently the principal of Saint John School, Old Saybrook.

Reverend Joseph Tito has been pastor at Saint Mary Immaculate Conception Church and administrator of Saint Joseph School, Baltic for 26 years. Saint Joseph School, Baltic is dedicated to helping families form children in heart, mind and soul. In addition, Reverend Tito also has served for the past five years as the pastor and administrator of Sacred Heart Church and School in Taftville.

Sacred Heart School fosters Gospel values built upon the teachings of

Jesus. Father Tito also has served as pastor at Saint Joseph Church, Occum for the past seven years.

The 12th Annual Seton Scholarship Dinner will be held on Sunday, Nov. 6, 2022, at 4 p.m. at

Saint Clements Castle & Marina, 1931 Portland-Cobalt Road, Portland, CT 06480. Sponsorship opportunities, program book ads and tickets are available for purchase by contacting Gina Foster, stewardship coordinator,

Diocese of Norwich at gfoster@ norwichdiocese.net or by calling the Office of Development at (860) 886-1928. All proceeds from the Seton Scholarship Dinner support our diocesan Catholic elementary school students. We

Reverend Joseph Tito really appreciate your generous support throughout the past 12 years and hope you can join us in celebrating Amy Freeman, Mother M. Elaine Moorecroft S.C.M.C and Reverend Joseph Tito.

Catholic Charities Assisting Milk Donors During Formula Shortage

By Laura Malone

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ith the current shortage of baby formula, more and more moms are considering donating their breast milk to Mothers’ Milk Bank Northeast. The New London office of Catholic Charities is a Milk Bank Depot for moms wishing to make a lifesaving donation.

Mothers’ Milk Bank Northeast, a nonprofit community milk bank accredited by the Human Milk Banking Association of North America (HMBANA), provides pasteurized donor human milk to babies in fragile health

throughout the United States.

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If you would like to learn about the process, visit Mothers’ Milk Bank NE website at milkbankne.org Once you have gone through the application and screening process, you will be given a donor number. After that, it’s simple! Just give us a call at 860-443-5328 to arrange a donation date and time at our New London Office. We will handle the rest by making sure your lifesaving donation is sent to Mothers’ Milk Bank NE.

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Mother M. Elaine Moorcroft S.C.M.C.

Amy Freeman

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By Laura Malone We are excited to announce our 2022 partnership with the Travelers Championship Birdies for Charity program.

Birdies for Charity is a giving platform where nonprofits simply solicit donations and receive a 15% bonus on every dollar raised thanks to Webster Bank! So, make your donation go even further by

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In our continued effort to Provide Help & Create Hope for people of all faiths who are most in need, we hope you will join us as we raise funds through the Birdies

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June is Legacy Month Every year, the Diocese of Norwich proclaims June as “Leave a Legacy” month. Through this initiative parishioners are reminded of the importance and benefits of giving through estate planning and planned gifts. The Annual Catholic Appeal provides an opportunity for our generous parishioners to help to support St. Vincent de Paul Place, Norwich, St. Vincent de Paul, Middletown, and the Office of Faith Events, as well as our other diocesan ministries that provide immediate physical, spiritual and educational support to those in need.

Legacy giving takes a little longer perspective. When you think of legacy giving you are considering gifts that you may set up today to take effect many years in the future.

Taking steps now can have a profound impact on your future giving. There are so many ways that you can act today to ensure that at

a later date, your chosen diocesan entity will receive some benefit from your years of hard work. It can be as simple as adding a Catholic school as a beneficiary of a life insurance policy or retirement account, or adding your church or the Annual Catholic Appeal to your will. If you have already written your will, adding a simple codicil amending it is another easy option.

While there are many examples of planned gifts being made throughout our diocese, just in the last couple of months, I became involved with two incredibly kind people committed to ensuring that some of their assets are shared within the diocese after their passing.

One person spoke to me by phone and email many times to discuss his wishes and followed up by sending me a copy of his executed will.

Another person talked with me at a donor event about her desire to amend her will as well as establish an endowment within the Catholic

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It is very endearing to me to hear about how so many people are thinking about including charitable bequests in their estate planning.

Whether it be changing their life insurance beneficiary, adding the ACA as an additional recipient of a 401(K), or amending their will, people’s care and concern for their brothers and sisters in Christ never ceases to amaze me.

While we all face different financial situations, most of us have the ability to make planned

gifts and perhaps adjust our wills or beneficiary designations accordingly. If you would like more information on helping to support your favorite diocesan organization well into the future, please contact Mary Ellen Mahoney at the Office of Development at (860) 8861928 or by email at memahoney@ norwichdiocese.net. As always, it is best to fully discuss your wishes with your family and financial/ tax advisor before making any decisions. Thank you so much and God Bless!

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Calendar of Events

Brothers in Christ: A Men’s Virtual Faith Group

Meets monthly on the second Thursday of the month Join this gathering of Men who will share faith, personal experiences, and discussion. If you are interested in developing fellowship and discipleship with other men devoted to Christ, register by emailing Liza Roach at lroach@norwichdiocese. net or call (860)848-2237 ex. 305.

Saturday, June 4th from 9 a.m. to 2 p.m Corpus Christi Women’s Club Tag Sale

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In St Joseph church parking lot at 99 Jackson Street, Willimantic.

HAVE SOMETHING TO SELL? Rent your parking space and sell your treasures out of your trunk or

bring a table. Cars, vans, pickup trucks only. NO TRAILERS. Rent your space for $25 BOOK YOUR SPACE NOW, Payment must be made in advance. CALL JoAnn at 860-450- 9179 to book a space.

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kitchen supplies, craft supplies, and more. Refreshments in the church hall will offer breakfast sandwiches, pastries, hotdogs, hamburgers, coffee, soda and water. There will not be any outside vendors. See you at our next Saturday TAG SALES.

Saturday, June 4, July 2 & Aug. 6 from 8AM to 1PM Notre Dame Church monthly tag sale

Sunday, June 5, at 2 PM Pentecost Mass of Healing and Hope, 185 Church St, Hebron

Our Lady of Mercy Parish, 272 Main St.Durham - RAIN OR SHINE! OUTSIDE you will find records, tapes, cd’s, books, pictures and frames, baskets, stuffed animals, electronics, sporting equipment, religious items and a full range of miscellaneous tag sale items.

INSIDE our Church Hall we have a huge assortment of clothing, toys, jewelry, china, a variety of linens,

This special mass will be celebrated by Fr. Ray Introvigne at the Church of the Holy Family in Hebron with additional prayers for spiritual, emotional, and psychological healing by Father Ray and Judith Hughes. For more information, please contact Andrea Hoisl at 860-848-2237, ext. 203

Join the Office of Faith Events for the Virtual Summer Mission as we explore the modes of Christ’s presence in the Mass to kick-off the Eucharistic Revival.

Please join us virtually beginning Wednesday, June 1 at 7 p.m. and each Wednesday night June 8, 15 and 22 as we delve into the Word, Community, the celebrant, and the Eucharist. To register, please contact Marianne Nicholas at manicholas@norwichdiocese.net or call (860)848-2237 ex.304.

June 9 Open Your Heart: A Tasty Celebration of Middletown Area’s Finest Cuisine Thursday, June 9, 6-9 p.m., Saint

Norwich Diocesan Cemeteries SAINT MARY & ST. JOSEPH CEMETERY 815 Boswell Ave., Norwich - 860-887-1019 SACRED HEART CEMETERY Harland Road, Taftville - 860-887-1019 SAINT PATRICK CEMETERY Depot Road, Uncasville - 860-887-1019 SAINT MARY CEMETERY Community Mausoleum Available 600 Jefferson Ave., New London - 860-887-1019 RESURRECTION CEMETERY Route 145, Westbrook - 860-887-1019 SACRED HEART CEMETERY Wauregan Road, Wauregan - 860-887-1019 ALL HALLOWS CEMETERY Green Hallow Road, Moosup - 860-887-1019

The Church, through its Funeral Rites:

• Celebrates the life and faith of the deceased • Expresses the Church’s belief in the Communion of Saints • Recognizes the spiritual bond that exists between the living and the dead • Brings hope and consolation to the bereaved • Reminds faithful to turn to God in time of need and crisis • Seeks God’s mercy and love • Nourishes the faith of the bereaved • Acknowledges that the deceased benefit from our prayers

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Join us virtually the third Tuesday of the month to say the rosary together for Project Rachel for an end to abortion. To get the link to join the rosary email Marianne at manicholas@norwichdiocese.net

a mass of healing and hope from the burdens of spiritual, emotional, and psychological healing. Mass will be celebrated by Father Ray Introvigne with additional healing prayer by Judith Hughes. This mass will reoccur the first Sunday of every month alternating at St. Columba and Church of the Holy Family. For more information contact Andrea Hoisl, 860-848-2237, ext. 203.

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Great prizes and fun for all ages!

Cards are $6 each and will be emailed, BINGO is played online.

Only 200 cards will be sold. To register go to http://bit.ly/2Laol7Y Questions? Call Marianne at 860-848-2237, ext. 304

Our Tri-Parish Community (Sacred Heart/St. Mary, Mother of the Redeemer and Our Lady of Lourdes) are hosting a Vacation Bible School –Wilderness Adventure Through the Sacraments July 11-15 from 9 a.m.

– 12 p.m. at Our Lady of Lourdes, 1650 Route 12, Gales Ferry.

Children from 4-11 years of age are eligible. Registration is now open.

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You can download the 2022 Vacation Bible School registration form by going on our website at www.ololgf. org.

Our Tri-Parish Community (Sacred Heart/St. Mary, Mother of the Redeemer and Our Lady of Lourdes) are hosting a Vacation Bible School –Wilderness Adventure Through the Sacraments starting on the 11-15 July 2022 from 9:00 AM – 12:00 PM at Our Lady of Lourdes 1650 Route 12, Gales Ferry.

Children from 4-11 years of age are eligible. Registration is now open.

For more information or questions please contact Josephine Cometa 860-464-7251 or at ffo@ololgf.org.

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St. Vincent de Paul Place is looking for summer volunteers.

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Opportunities in the kitchen, food pantry, front desk and cleaning for the months of June, July and August.

Our greatest need is for summer weekly volunteers.

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Christ’s Love is ‘Not for Ourselves Alone’

By Susan Wallace

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often think how wonderful it is that God loves me and how awesome it is that He loves all of us. This recently came to mind when I was visiting the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops (USCCB) website and learned in the celebration of Mass, “we receive grace that enables us to imitate the love that Christ shows us.” This love should extend to all, especially the most vulnerable.

The average Haitian lives on $2.42 or less per day and when confronted with the storms of life, like all of us, needs a safety net or helping hand. Through OTH, we provide medical and healthcare, educational scholarships, specialized learning opportunities, food and nutritional supplement programs and emergency food kits when needed. Expectant mothers and malnourished babies are brought to full health, young people dream of better futures thanks to earning an education, and all those needing help have a place to go knowing that we will do what we can.

Please know this relationship is not one-sided. In walking with our Haitian brothers and sisters, we have come to know well that poverty is not the essence of a person. A person’s essence is his or her inner joy, goodness and hope that tomorrow will be better.

We can learn much from our Haitian brothers and sisters, especially when it comes to faith, hope and love. Haitians put their trust in God

Outreach To Haiti: Mothers receiving some of the gifts from Messiah Baptist Church despite much suffering from natural causes (hurricanes, earthquakes) and man-made problems. In spite of this, Haitians are loving and hopeful people. We are reminded

that through Christ’s grace, each of us is called to do what we can to make this world a better place.

Please remember Haiti in your

prayers and ask God to alleviate its suffering and strengthen our hope and love so that we, like Haitians, will live each day to the fullest and have hope the following day will be better.

If you would like to learn more about our ministry and to support our work, please feel free to call Susan Wallace, OTH Executive Director, at (860) 800-3604 and or visit our website https://outreachtohaiti.org/

Let us pray for the catechists, summoned to announce the Word of God: may they be its witnesses, We pray for the elderly, with courage and who creativity represent the roots and memory of and in the power of the a people; may their experience and Holy Spirit. wisdom help young people to look

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towards the future with hope and responsibility

- Pope Francis

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Friends, supporters, board members and staff of the Diocese of Norwich Outreach to Haiti (OTH) experience this love firsthand. For four decades our ministry has worked in Christ Roi, a neighborhood of Haiti’s capital city, Port-au-Prince; and in 14 parish neighborhoods throughout the Archdiocese of Port-au-Prince that belong to our Parish Twinning Program and twin with U.S. parishes in our diocese and other dioceses throughout the United States.

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National Eucharistic Revival

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By Deacon Ben LoCasto

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he bishops of the United States are calling for a three-year grassroots revival of devotion and belief in the Real Presence of Jesus in the Eucha-

The bishops believe that God wants to see a movement of Catholics across the United States, healed, converted, formed and unified by an encounter with Jesus in the Eucharist – and sent out in mission “for the life of the world.”

These three years, beginning on June 19, will culminate in the first National Eucharistic Congress in the United States in almost 50 years. An estimated 100,000 Catholics will join together in Indianapolis for a once-ina-lifetime pilgrimage toward the “source and summit” of our Catholic faith. The bishops are calling us to a renewal of our belief in the Real Presence of our Lord in the Eucharist and in a revival to spread the word.

The Catechism of the Catholic Church teaches, “The Eucharist is the source and summit of the Christian life. The other sacraments, and indeed all ecclesiastical ministries and works of the apostolate, are bound up with the Eucharist and are oriented toward it. For in the blessed Eucharist is contained the whole spiritual good of the Church, namely Christ himself, our Pasch.” CCC 1324 The Eucharist is the source and summit of our faith because, “By the consecration, the transubstantiation of the bread and wine into the Body and Blood of Christ is brought about.

Under the consecrated species of bread and wine Christ himself, living and glorious, is present in a true, real, and substantial manner: his Body and his Blood, with his soul and his divinity.” CCC1413 As a deacon do I believe this – wholeheartedly! As a man do I have difficulty understand-

ing this? – Absolutely! How can my human brain wrap its mind around this? I question, I doubt, and yet I believe because I have come to know that the opposite of faith is not doubt, the opposite of faith is certainty. Faith is to believe despite doubt. Faith is an act of the will.

And I will to believe it because Jesus said it.

We know that He said it at the Last Supper.

But, even more significantly to me, is when He says it in John 6:53-60, “Amen, amen, I say to you, unless you eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink His blood, you do not have life within you” Then many of his disciples who were listening said, ‘This saying is hard; who can accept it?” and they turned away and left Him. Jesus knew what those disciples were thinking and that they would walk away from Him, yet He didn’t sugar coat it. That tells us that it is the truth and that is why we can believe it.

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Knights Korner

Awards and Scholarships

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Knights of Columbus Present Connecticut State Council Program Service Awards

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he Knights of Columbus honored local councils for some of their creative activities during the Connecticut

State Council Program Service Awards at the state council’s annual meeting.

The Faith in Action Family Award went to Our Lady of Fatima Council 4122 in Vernon for the Keep Christ in Christmas program.

Hal Dufault, faith director of Council 4122, proposed and organized every detail of this very successful program. The program included several elements: Nativity Magnets, Creche Pictures, Poster Contest, and the Creches Around the World exhibit at Blessed McGivney Pilgrimage Center. A total of 694 KCIC magnets were distributed to Blessed Sacrament and St. Joseph parishes. The KCIC poster contest was conducted by councils 4122 and 6626.

The Creches at Home initiative encouraged our parish family to display the crèche inside and/ or outside their homes, posting the photos on the parish website.

Parishioners sent in a picture of a creche, which was posted on the Blessed Sacrament parish website.

This is not a competition where the Knights seek the best display.

The primary purpose is simply to inspire others to display a crèche of their own.

Fr. Rick Ricard, pastor of Blessed Sacrament, endorsed this program and helped promote it. The program provided the ability for Councils

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4122 and 6626 to collaborate, as they partnered with the Blessed Sacrament parish Faith Formation program, with KofC members promoting the poster contest to each Faith Formation class.

A Connecticut State Council Program Service Community Award was presented to Edmund Perkins Council 6626 to recognize outstanding support of the people of the Ukraine. Council 6626 kicked off donations with a pancake breakfast that generated almost $1,300.

A new Knight, Brother Markus Muhlhauser, and his son Max set up a Council 6626 and 4122 team for the Ukraine Solidarity Fund.

Grand Knights Jeff Bachiachi of 4122 and Bob Haggerty of 6626, met with Fr. Rick Ricard, and Fr. Rick endorsed a second collection at Blessed Sacrament, which was very successful. Fr. Rick endorsed a second collection for the next weekend as well. Each council also contributed $5,000 to the Ukraine Solidarity fund, which is currently the second highest-ranked fund in the nation. Results to date: $63,295. Contributions are still being accepted. https://donate. kofccharities.org/team/411769

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Let His Love Shine Through In All You Do Donifer Farms

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od in His wisdom, calls us to serve where we can most effectively use our talents to meet the needs of His people. We don’t have to endeavor to be Mother Theresa. We simply need to be ourselves. This series will focus on people who shine the light of Christ in their daily work.

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Jennifer Molnar believes that “donkeys are like potato chips, you can’t have just one”. Jennifer is known as the “Donkey Lady of Amston, CT Jennifer Molnar & Chewbacca ‘’ where she operates Donifer Farms, the home of five varieties of donkeys: micro-mini, miniature, standard, large standard, Jennifer has loved donkeys ever since she was eight years old and and mammoth. recovering from surgery for the What makes this farm truly removal of a large brain tumor. unique is that it was created and “When I returned to school after my maintained solely to educate and surgery, I didn’t fit in”, Molnar says, uplift those who visit. Along with “the kids treated me differently – I the donkeys, Jennifer has created a felt like an outsider”. At that time, two-story donkey museum, which her family purchased a donkey for houses possibly the most extensive her, and although she felt isolated collection of donkey memorabilia from her peers, “I knew that I could in the world. Have you ever seen a always go and tell my problems statue of a pregnant Blessed Mother to the donkey”, she says. From riding on a donkey? You can see it that experience, Jennifer learned here! the healing power of animals and

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A glimpse into the Donifer Farms Donkey Museum. wanted to share it with others in need.

According to her, donkeys are wonderful animals. They are stoic, pragmatic, and they have astonishing memories.

They are keenly intelligent and often learn a task the first time it is taught to them. They also have surprising reasoning abilities and must be shown not just how to do something, but why they should do it. This trait is often misidentified as “stubbornness.” Donkeys are also very social and affectionate, this trait is what makes them so appropriate for Jennifer’s work.

For Jennifer, Donifer Farms is both a passion and a ministry. Initially, she would show her animals and they have won many ribbons, but Jennifer’s focus now is more ministerial. Her donkeys can be seen in procession on Palm Sunday throughout the area, especially in her home Parish of the Good Shepherd (Saint Columba and Church of the Holy Family).

Carmel, the mammoth donkey, actually processes into the Gilead Congregational Church in Hebron on Palm Sundays, to the joy and astonishment of parishioners.

Jennifer’s donkeys have visited

elderly care facilities, jails for juveniles, religious day camps, and have been visited by special needs children.

The other day while she was riding her donkey Chewbacca down the road, they came across a woman who was crying. When the woman saw the donkey, she immediately perched-up, hugged him, took a picture of him with her cell phone, and said, ‘you don’t know how you have made my day!” “That’s what it’s all about”, said Jennifer.

Visiting the farm is free of charge, but goodwill donations are gratefully accepted. For an appointment call or text: 860-380-7717 You and I may never be famous, however, if we are true to God and ourselves, then we will be blessed and be a blessing to the world around us. Don’t be afraid to let the world know who you are. Just be true to yourself and let your faith shine through.

Please let us know of someone who is living their faith through their work. They could possibly be featured in a future issue of the Four County Catholic.

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St. James School, Danielson Elyse McAteer, Principal 120 Water St, Danielson 860-774-3281 stjamesdanielson.org

St. John School, Old Saybrook

Mother Elaine Moorcroft, SCMC, Principal 42 Maynard Road, Old Saybrook 860-388-0849 saintjohnschoolos.org

St. John Paul II School, Middletown Larry Fitzgerald, Principal 87 South Main Street. Middletown 860-347-2978 JPII.org

St. Joseph School, Baltic

Sr. Mary Patrick Mulready, SCMC, Principal 10 School Hill Road, Baltic 860-822-6141 Stjosephschoolbaltic.com

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St. Joseph School, New London

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Marianne Cote, Principle 25 Squire Street, New London 860-442-1720 SJSNL.com

St. Michael School, Pawcatuck Doris Messina, Principal West Broad St., Pawcatuck 860-599-1084 stmichaelschoolct.com

St. Patrick Cathedral School, Norwich Sharon Stewart, Principal 211 Broadway, Norwich 860-889-4174 st-patrickschoolnorwich.org

Academy of the Holy Family, Baltic Mother Mary David, SCMC, Principal 54 West Main St, Baltic 860-822-9272 ahfbaltic.org

Mercy High School, Middletown Alissa DeJonge, President 1740 Randolph Road, Middletown 860-346-6659 mercyhigh.com

St. Bernard School, Uncasville

Donald Macrino, Headmaster 1593 Norwich-New London Tpke, Uncasville 860-848-1271 saint-bernard.com

Xavier High School, Middletown David C. Eustis, Headmaster Brendan Donohue, Principal 181 Randolph Road, Middletown 860-346-7735 xavierhighschool.org

Xavier — a Blessing for Years to Come ’

My dear friends, This month we focus the spotlight on another one of the outstanding educational institutions in the diocese - Xavier Hihg School in Middletown.

Months before Xavier High School opened in Middletown in 1963, Brother Robert Sullivan, C.F.X., the school’s first principal, said, “I am confident that the establishment of this new school will prove a blessing to the area for years to come.”

How prophetic.

In the 2021-22 school year, students came from 70 cities and towns. The 2022 graduation edged Xavier close to 10,000 alumni.

Virtually every conceivable career path has been taken.

The school has changed over time; there has been construction yielding everything from a music suite to an art room, from science labs to playing fields. Yet the mission remains: allow students to explore many opportunities in the academic, spiritual, athletic and extracurricular areas. Find your passion, your gifts, then take them out into the world and be of service to others.

At the heart of Xavier is service. To graduate, students must have 65 hours, 30 as a senior.

Community outreach is integral. This school year, students raised $4,600 for St. Jude’s; brought in more than 2,400 toiletries for those in need; collected 2,938 items in its March Madness Can Drive for the Amazing Grace Food Pantry in Middletown; and purchased 450 books for families and babies in the NICU at Connecticut Children’s Hospital. That is just a sampling.

The Class of 2022 will send students to colleges and universities across the country, and there have been acceptances to Ivy League schools Harvard, Yale, Princeton, Brown, Columbia, and Dartmouth, as well as the U.S. Military Academy, Air Force Academy and the U.S. Coast Guard Academy.

Xavier was recognized for the 2021-22 academic year as a Top 10 high school in the UConn Early College Experience program. Xavier was No. 7 with 220 students enrolled, and No. 4 with 1,710 UConn credit hours taken. This year the school has a National Merit finalist, and only 1 percent of 1.5 million students achieve that honor each year.

Xavier’s spiritual life includes Masses, peer ministry, retreats, prayer services, religion

Its athletic teams have won 98 state and New England titles. Its five robotics teams always fare well at the state championships, with the FullMetal Peregrines winning a title this year. Its engineering team competed in the Real World Design Challenge national competition.

Xavier has concert, jazz and pep bands as well as a string ensemble and choral group, and this year produced two All-State musicians.

Its joint theater program with Mercy produces a play and a musical each year. The school has numerous art courses, an art club, and a photography club.

As one senior said, “Xavier allowed me to explore my interests and myself as a person. I know

it sounds clichéd, but it has also allowed me to become a man, the school motto, and that’s the goal really.”

Xavier honors its past but knows it cannot live there. The school has nearly 1,200 solar panels that produce up to 586,000 kilowatts annually.

Last summer, new gas-fired boilers to provide heat and hot water were added, and this summer will see the completion of a building control system, which will help reduce the carbon footprint and lower operating costs annually.

Xavier is forever evolving, but still it remains rooted in the same values that have always pushed its students forward to face new challenges.

May God bless you and keep you safe.

Dr. Gail Kingston Superintendent of Schools

To celebrate the Eucharist, we need first to recognize our thirst for God, to sense our need for Him, to long for His presence and love, to realize that we cannot go it alone.

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Seniors grow into Sisterhood

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By Kailey Boccia, Ellie Cooper, Iris Gillette, Anna Plascencia, and Isabella Wright

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enior year can be challenging in many ways, but at the Academy of the Holy Family, the seniors have grown as a result of these challenges.

The majority of the class was new this year, and included girls from all around the world: Rwanda, Colombia, Ethiopia, India, Brazil, and South Africa, as well as states such as North Carolina, Connecticut, Texas, Massachusetts and Maryland.

Despite the class doubling, the students grew closer by helping each other get through challenges such as college preparation, being away from home, and handling heavy coursework loads. The seniors learned more about themselves and their plans. All of these experiences have helped the seniors grow into a sisterhood.

The girls bonded through the trials of senior year and also through many other good experiences. One of the big events this year was the drama production “Much Ado Out West.”

Seniors Grace Peckham and Iris Gillette have helped out backstage and with lights since their freshman year.

For most of the new seniors, theater was a new experience except for Isabella Wright, who has been acting since she was 13. Drama has helped many students realize that hard work really pays off, even when it is done with friends. As the seniors were preparing for graduation, some underclassmen had to step up to be mentored by them, taking over roles such as running stage lights.

Another big event for the seniors was a sleepover at Marist Hall, a house for upperclassmen. Pragya Sharma particularly enjoyed this great bonding experience. Before the actual sleepover, the seniors sang and ate food at the bonfire for a few hours. When they arrived back at the house, many of them watched movies and were able to sleep in the next day.

The Academy helped to prepare the seniors to go out into the real world in many ways, with classes such as Life Skills and Morality. The Life Skills class is particularly helpful because it teaches students how to manage taxes, basic car knowledge, financing and mending clothes. Bella Disalvo said this class has helped her immensely with being prepared

for real life events.

In Morality class, which is only for seniors, students learn about how to live a moral life in the modern world. Shekinah Christa Kanamugire and Feven Nigatu said the class has strengthened their relationship with God and how they feel about combating immorality in the world.

AHF also helps prepare students by letting them experience things such as living with others without going crazy, understanding opposing viewpoints, and building confidence as a child of God. Camila Michaud said she learned a lot from living with others and having roommates.

Indiphile Tshotsho said living and befriending others from completely different cultures has helped her grow as a person and appreciate everyone’s differences. As for befriending others with different views on life, Yasmim Souza said AHF has helped her find friendships in those who she doesn’t always agree with.

The class of 2022 has genuinely enjoyed their last year of high school to the fullest and has become more prepared for the world. The seniors, together, have all gained sisters in each other. The senior class has truly

become prepared to “set the world on fire” with their love for God and others.

As Angela Vu said, “The sisterhood at AHF is so rare not only because of our bond as growing young women, but also because of our diversity.”

The girls at AHF are able to express and appreciate other cultures freely, which is one of the most beautiful things about it. For these seniors, their bond will last a lifetime.

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TechTigers win Chairman’s Award and Engineering Inspiration Award

By Marie Kalita Mercy High School’s Robotics Team, the TechTigers 3654, had two consecutive amazing weekends competing in the New England FIRST District Event in Waterbury March 12-13, and the New England FIRST District Western New England (NE) Event in Springfield, March 19-20. The awards qualify the team to compete in the New England District Championships.

“What an honor to win the Chairman’s Award and to have been on the second-place alliance,” Sangita Ray, physics teacher and TechTigers mentor, said. “We are also so honored to have won the Engineering Inspiration Award at the New England FIRST District Western NE Event. We were also quarterfinalists and ranked ninth overall.”

The Chairman’s Award is the most prestigious award at FIRST. It honors the team that best represents a model for other teams to emulate and best embodies the mission of FIRST. It was created to keep the central focus of FIRST Robotics Competition on the goal of transforming the culture in ways that will inspire greater levels of respect and honor for science and technology, as well as encouraging

more of today’s youth to become science and technology leaders.

The Engineering Inspiration Award celebrates outstanding success in advancing respect and appreciation for engineering and inspiring others to respect science and technology.

TechTigers 3654 is one of the only all-girls robotic teams in New England. It was formed on October 25, 2010, at Mercy High School.

Students work with adult mentors and team captains who teach the skills needed to build and program a robot, and to run a business.

The mission of the Mercy TechTigers is to inspire young people to be science and technology leaders by engaging them in exciting mentor-based programs that build science, engineering, and technology skills. Such skills inspire innovation and foster wellrounded life capabilities including self-confidence, communication and leadership.

The TechTigers are proud of their accomplishments, having won many awards, events and championships over the past decade: 2021 New England District Championship Chairman’s Award; 2020 New England District Championship Chairman’s Award; 2020 New England District

Mercy TechTigers win FIRST Engineering award, Springfield Waterbury Event Chairman’s Award; 2019 CT State Robotics Championship Winner; 2019 New England District Championship Chairman’s Award; 2019 New England District – Western New England Event Chairman’s Award, and the list goes on.

TechTigers mentor and father of Mercy alumnae, Steve Ernst, pointed out, “It’s true that they’re an ‘all-girls’ team. But gender does not define their level of talent and abilities; they’re tough competitors. They are a superior all-around team.” Learn more at techtigers3654.org.

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Xavier Graduate Honored In State House Chamber

By Jeff Otterbein

Wollen was a sophomore when the pandemic hit and closed schools in March 2020. Back then, he and his family built signs with red hearts that said “thank you” to all the healthcare and frontline workers.

That effort raised thousands of dollars that turned into snacks and meals for all kinds of organizations in his hometown of Wallingford.

On April 20th Mitchell Wollen ‘22 found himself in the Connecticut House Chamber in Hartford being honored for his service work. He and his parents were invited by State Sen. Paul Cicarella (R-North Haven), and House Republican Leader Vincent Candelora (R-North Branford).

Wollen, who helped Xavier win two SCC swimming titles, graduated May 23rd. next month he will be in New York to start the next part of his life. He is attending the U.S. Military Academy at West Point.

They had heard of two service projects initiated by Wollen.

“We recently learned about your outstanding volunteer work by collecting donations in support of Connecticut veterans as well as your support of healthcare workers back in 2020. … We want to recognize your community involvement and your remarkable spirit to help those in need,” read the invitation.

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stand for wood with “Wood For Warriors,” carved into the top. He sold $5 bundles. In mid-March he visited the Veterans Hospital in Rocky Hill, using the money

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raised to donate eight packs of bottled water, 400 Keurig cups for coffee, 30 gifts cards to Walmart for $10 each, and $200 in cash to the home. Previously he had donated $500 to the Navy Seals.

“I came in here as a shy kid, reserved, and didn’t do much other than swim a lot, but Xavier opened my eyes to service and helping others, and here I am today,” Wollen said.

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One of the longest running Blessing of the Fleet ceremonies in New England, every year on the last weekend in July the annual Stonington Harbor Blessing of the Fleet ceremony remembers Stonington’s fishermen, the last fishing fleet in Connecticut.

This two-day celebration includes parades, bands, food, dancing on the docks and a Sunday Mass followed by the Blessing of the Fleet and the parade of boats.

The boats sail to outer Stonington Harbor to place an anchor-shaped wreath in the water, to honor all local fishermen who lost their lives at sea.

This year’s Blessing is scheduled for July 31 starting at 10:30 a.m. with Mass at St. Mary Church in the Borough.

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Diakonia: Instrument of God’s Charity

The word “deacon” is derived from “diakonia,” a Greek word which means “to serve.” Deacons are members of the clergy along with priests and bishops. The deacon’s ministry has three dimensions: liturgy, word and service. Deacons are ordained as a sacramental sign to the Church and to the world of Christ,who came “to serve and not to be served.”

This column will focus on the service of the Deacons in the Diocese of Norwich.

Hospital Ministry Serves the Sick and Dying

By Deacon Dana Garry

About the same time, I saw a church bulletin announcement that the Hospice Unit at Middlesex Hospital was looking for volunteers.

I had no experience ministering to terminally ill patients and had never witnessed the end of a person’s life. After completion of a 40hour hospice training program, I became a weekly Wednesday volunteer in the hospice unit at Middlesex Hospital. At the time, I saw volunteering in hospice as an experience that would greatly enrich my ability as a deacon to offer compassionate care and support for the dying and their families.

It was very emotionally challenging but also extremely rewarding. Before heading to the hospice, I would always go to the hospital chapel to spend some time in prayer, asking the Lord to calm any anxieties I was feeling that day and asking Him to use me as an instrument of His peace.

The power of prayer never failed. I always felt comforted and guided by the Holy Spirit.

Some of my initial volunteer responsibilities were to help feed patients who required assistance, aiding nurses in bathing patients and changing their bedding, sitting with patients, sometimes praying with them, sometimes just listening and holding a patient’s hand.

The first time I saw a patient die was when I was gathering clean towels and linen from a storage closet in preparation to help a nurse bathe another patient. Across from the storage closet was a patient’s room, with a rollaway bed. Earlier that morning I saw a young woman sitting on the bed.

Putting the fresh linen down I felt moved ( I call this my Holy Spirit wind

experience) to enter that patient’s room, where I found an elderly man lying in his hospital bed, appearing to be in a deep sleep. I touched the man’s hand and introduced myself, to see if he would respond. Within seconds, the man opened his mouth wide and exhaled what would be his last breath.

It turned out the young woman was the deceased man’s daughter, and had spent the past four days staying in the room with her father. She had left the room that morning to get a cup of coffee and she was deeply appreciative of my being with her dad as he died, telling me that her dad always said that he didn’t want to die alone.

Another patient, John, was a mail carrier in New York City for many years, and near the end of his life, he had moved to Middletown, to live with his sister. On this day in his hospital room, John was alone and I spent about 45 minutes holding his hand and feeding him ice chips to help soothe his throat, as he could barely speak. John had lung cancer that spread to several other organs, and his death was imminent.

I told John that unfortunately I had to leave and as I gave his hand a final squeeze, the words “Love you” popped out of me and John then whispered, “Love you too.” This to me was one of those divine moments, a prompting from the Holy Spirit. This was the first time I had told a patient that I loved them and after this experience I would often tell patients that I loved them and without a doubt, I would hear that same wonderful response, “Love you too.”

In 2007 I was ordained a deacon and I continued to volunteer at Middlesex Hospital in Pastoral Services, now bringing the Eucharist and prayer to Catholic patients throughout the hospital. I am a great believer in the power of the Eucharist to bring healing into a person’s life, and bringing the living presence of Jesus in the Eucharist to patients was a very special gift for me.

In March of 2020, because of the Covid-19 virus, I had to stop my volunteering at Middlesex Hospital. I hope that I can eventually return as a Eucharist Minister, as it is a wonderful way to serve the Lord.

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It was in 2005, when I was in my fourth year of studies to become a deacon, that I was required to volunteer for a community service experience. As deacon candidates, we were encouraged to find a volunteer experience that would take us out of our comfort zones.

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Fai t h Sparks

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By Marianne Nicholas

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dults and children feel some responsibilities lift as the school year comes to an end and we swing into summer with all its sunshine, barbecues and fun. Some are saying this summer, in particular, will be a “summer of revenge” because they are finally feeling the weight of the Covid-19 pandemic lift and are ready to start traveling again with a vengeance.

It is my hope then, that parishioners begin to return to God’s church with that same passion that has gotten people wanting to get back out into God’s beautiful world and explore. To me, there is no better way to start a summer Sunday than attending Mass, receiving the Holy Eucharist, and

then venturing outside to enjoy the splendor of God’s bounty.

As Catholics, each of us should want to return to church and fill the pews at weekend Masses. It’s time to return wholeheartedly to rebuild our church families.

The carefree days of summer can be a great time to volunteer a couple of hours of your time to your pastor, establishing plans that can set up your parish for some new programs in the fall and winter.

Since the kids are out of school, summer is also a wonderful time for families to find that all important time in their schedule to get back to Mass. Kids are free from sitting in classes all week, so being attentive for one hour at

Mass on the weekends is a super way to bring their focus back to learning once a week. Our family likes to make a whole morning out of it and after attending Mass we may go out to eat or pack a picnic lunch to enjoy outside or at the shore. One fun idea is to invite another family or two from church to come with you and your family. Take advantage of these slow summer months to get to know some new friends.

If you are planning to travel this summer, when you make your itinerary, don’t forget to look up the Mass schedule for the Catholic churches in the areas to which you are traveling. With many, if not all, parishes having their own websites, it’s never been easier

to find out ahead of time which Mass you may be able to attend.

One of the things I love about attending a parish on vacation is that it is usually in a tourist spot where the pastors are used to newcomers and really make a point of making everyone feel welcome. It’s awesome to think that you are sitting among many members of your Catholic family that are from far and wide, and yet you all found your way to God’s house in a new and strange place.

Wherever your summer plans and travels take you this year, remember to take your faith and the Lord with you.

Ignite Your Faith.

Visit NorwichDiocese.org/FaithSparks to find additional resources to grow in faith in 2022.

Congratulations

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For surely I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord, plans for your welfare and not for harm, to give you a future with hope.

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