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The Most Reverend

Michael R. Cote, D.D.

Bishop of Norwich

Helping to Build a Civilization of Truth and Love My Dear Brothers and Sisters in Christ: The discipline and self-reflection that come with the Holy Season of Lent would seem in absolute conflict with the chaos of the political primary season also upon us. How can both receive our close and most thoughtful attention? Is this possible? It is. It is because we are faithful Christians and responsible citizens at the same time. During Lent, we pray to more fully realize our loving relationship with God and our responsibilities as Christians to be kind and charitable. In doing so, we naturally become more committed to helping others and to pursuing the common good. This is exactly the frame of mind and heart that helps us to summon the patience to endure the media political circus and to apply our Christian principles to sort through all the rhetoric. The distractions are many – insults and name calling, mistruths, rage, outrage, even a candidate barking like a dog. But through all the theatrics and the real serious content of course, we need to stay

focused on the values that offer the most hope for a strong, free and just America. We have a responsibility and a duty to participate in the democratic process to help, onevote-at-a-time, build a civilization of truth and love. Building from the foundation up, means starting with profound regard for the sanctity of each and every human life. It starts there -protecting the innocent before birth, and all lives to their natural earthly conclusion. As we build upon the sacredness of life, we honor the dignity of each person, regardless of faith, background or circumstance. Dignity, we know, is heavily dependent on work, which is the ultimate opportunity in a free and fair society. Pope Francis addressed this principle in Laudato Si, “Work is a necessity, part of the meaning of life on this earth, a path to growth, human development and personal fulfillment. Helping the poor financially must always be a provisional solution in the face of pressing needs. The broader objective should always be to allow them a dignified

life through work.” While we strive to provide charitable assistance to so many, we must be mindful that job creation is key in the current economy in which work force participation is so historically low. Having and holding a job is a Christian principle in itself. For with the job, comes a stronger more stable family, self-respect and dignity. Job creation may not sound as Christian as let’s say religious freedom. But it is right up there with social issues that we must support in such a consequential election cycle. When you build on the sacred value of life and the dignified status of having a job for one’s own sake and that of family and community, you have a powerful foundation in place to cut through the political chatter and to vote with your conscience. A pastor’s intent is not to sway even a single vote. Your voting choice is always an exercise of your personal freedom. Our hope is that whatever your choice, it comes about with your having considered the principles of our faith which prominently include a desire to pro-

tect the good of others. The Holy Father likes to remind us that the Holy Spirit is at work in everyone. It is the Holy Spirit who does the heavy lifting in preparing your conscience to participant in the democratic process. A pastors’ more modest role is to help remind you to consider your Christian principles as you freely exercise your right to vote. The Church recognizes how high the stakes are at this moment in history. We, together, recognize that religious freedom as protected by the First Amendment is in the balance. Right of conscience is at stake. So much is in the balance. If we are mindful of the core values of our faith and a desire to support the common good, each of you will make a difference. On more than one occasion, the Holy Father has spoken, in a proverbial sense, of our striving as Christians to be bridge builders rather than builders of walls and obstacles. This is a profound message in perfect alignment with the ministry of Jesus Christ. It is not a political message. But rather a spiritual challenge

to guide us in our thinking on almost any subject discussed in the public forum. It may be interesting to note that the title Pontiff is derived from the Latin pontifex, literally and appropriately meaning bridge-builder. Unity of purpose and compassion for each other stand out as guiding lights. Archbishop Joseph E. Kurtz of Louisville and President of the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops, recently quoted the Holy Father, whose words I pass along to you with all the hope they embody, “Our faith, prayer and love for Jesus are greater than what may divide us.” Let us pray that we stay grounded in our faith during all the political turmoil and vote like responsible citizens and faithful Catholics – looking out for the common good and in doing so protecting the poor, the vulnerable and those seeking a more hopeful life. Let us be united in our principles. Sincerely yours in Christ’s love, Bishop Michael R. Cote

Ayudando a Construir una Civilización de la Verdad y del Amor Queridos Hermanos y Hermanas: La disciplina y la auto-reflexión que vienen con el Tiempo Santo de Cuaresma parecen en absoluto conflicto con el caos de la temporada primaria de política que también está sobre nosotros. ¿Cómo ambos pueden recibir tanto nuestra estrecha y más reflexiva atención? ¿Es posible? Lo es. Lo es porque al mismo tiempo somos cristianos fieles y ciudadanos responsables. Para comprender más plenamente nuestra relación de amor con Dios y nuestras responsabilidades como cristianos a ser bondadosos y caritativos, oramos durante la

Cuaresma. Al hacerlo, naturalmente nos volvemos más comprometidos para continuar ayudando a los demás y para conseguir el bien común. Este es exactamente el marco de la mente y el corazón que nos ayuda a pedir la paciencia para soportar el circo político y los medios para aplicar nuestros principios cristianos para clasificar a través de toda la retórica. Las distracciones son muchas-insultos, falsedades, rabia, indignación, escándalos incluso candidatos ladrando como un perro. Pero a través de todo el teatro y el verdadero contenido serio, por supuesto, tenemos

que estar concentrados en los valores que ofrecen la mayor esperanza para un Estados Unidos fuerte, libre y justo. Tenemos la responsabilidad y el deber de participar en el proceso democrático para ayudar a construir una civilización de la verdad y el amor con un voto a-la-vez. Construir de la base hacia arriba, significa empezar con un profundo respeto por la santidad de cada y toda vida humana. La protección de los inocentes y de toda vidacomienza allí antes de nacer, hasta su conclusión terrenal natural. A medida que construimos sobre la santidad de la vida, honramos la

dignidad de cada persona independientemente de la fe, ambiente o circunstancia. Sabemos que la dignidad depende fuertemente del trabajo, que es la oportunidad esencial en una sociedad libre y justa. El Papa Francisco se dirigió a este principio en Laudato Si, “El trabajo es una necesidad, una parte del significado de la vida en esta tierra, un camino hacia el crecimiento, el desarrollo humano y la realización personal. Ayudar a los pobres económicamente siempre debe ser una solución provisional para enfrentar las necesidades urgentes. El objetivo

más amplio siempre debe ser que puedan llevar una vida digna a través del trabajo.” Mientras seriamente trabajamos para proporcionar asistencia caritativa a muchos, debemos tener en cuenta que es importante en la economía actual crear más trabajos ya que la participación de mano de obra es históricamente baja. Tener y mantener un trabajo es un principio cristiano. Porque con el trabajo, viene autoestima, dignidad y la familia es más fuerte, más estable. Puede que no suene tan cristiano la creación de empleos como Ayudando a construir una civilización

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Ayudando a construir una civilización decir la libertad religiosa. Pero, es a la altura de los problemas sociales que debemos apoyar en un ciclo de la elección de este alcance. Cuando se construye sobre el valor sagrado de la vida y el estado digno de tener un trabajo para beneficio propio de la familia y de la comunidad, se tiene una base sólida para cortar a través de la charla política y para votar con conciencia. La intención de un Pastor no es influir ni en un solo voto. Su elección de voto es siempre un ejercicio de su libertad personal. Sea cual sea su elección, nuestra esperanza es que haga un previo examen de los principios de nuestra fe principalmente en el deseo de proteger el bien de los demás. Al Santo Padre le gusta recordarnos que el Espíritu Santo está trabajando en todo el mundo. En la preparación de la conciencia de los participantes en el proceso democrático es el espíritu Santo el que hace el trabajo pesado. El papel más modesto de los sacerdotes es

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ayudar a recordarle que debe considerar sus principios cristianos al ejercitar libremente su derecho al voto. La Iglesia reconoce en este momento de la historia que tan alto está en juego. Nosotros, juntos, reconocemos que el equilibrio de la libertad religiosa está protegido por la Primera Enmienda es el derecho de la conciencia que está en juego. Por lo tanto está en el equilibrio. Si somos conscientes de los valores centrales de nuestra fe y del deseo de apoyar el bien común, cada uno de ustedes hará una diferencia. El Santo Padre, en más de una ocasión, ha hablado, en un sentido proverbial, de nuestro esfuerzo como cristianos a ser constructores de puentes en lugar de constructores de paredes y obstáculos. Este es un mensaje profundo en perfecta alineación con el ministerio de Jesucristo. No es un mensaje político. Si no más bien un desafío espiritual que nos guía en nuestro pensamiento sobre casi cualquier tema

discutido en el foro público. La unidad de propósito y la compasión por los demás se destacan como luces de guía. El Arzobispo Joseph E. Kurtz de Louisville y presidente de la Conferencia Estadounidense de Obispos Católicos, recientemente citó al Santo Padre, cuyas palabras con toda la esperanza que significa paso a usted “Nuestra fe, la oración y el amor por Jesús son mayores que lo que nos pueda dividir.” Oremos para que durante toda la agitación política estemos firmes en nuestra fe y votemos como ciudadanos responsables y fieles católicos-mirando por el bien común y al hacerlo, proteger a los pobres, los vulnerables y a los que buscan una vida más esperanzadora. Estemos unidos en nuestros principios. Atentamente en el amor de Cristo, Obispo Michael R. Cote Translated by Paulina Angulo

Holy Hour for Vocations The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, leads the Holy Hour: For the Answer go to Page 9.

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March 31, 2016 • 6:00 pm - 7:00 pm St. Philip the Apostle, Ashford

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Father Gregory Galvin

Thy Will Be Done On Sunday March 13, 2016 we celebrate Laudate Sunday, the Sunday of Joy during Lent on which we look forward to the Glory of Easter, similar to what we do during Advent when we celebrate Gaudate Sunday in anticipation of Christmas. Remember that as we go more deeply into the Lenten season, we may experience more difficulty in staying strong regarding our sacrifices or acts of charity that help us refocus our spiritual vision on the Glory of Christ’s resurrection. At this point of Lent, it can often be helpful to simply repeat the phrase, “Thy Will be done” in our daily prayers, and during our times of sacrifice, whatever it may be. This is especially important to those in the midst of personal discernment. Why? Because it is important to remember that the example Christ gave to all of us was underlined by His desire to do fully the Will of His Father. If one is dating and trying to truly discern if the one they are dating is “the one” God wills them to be with through the sacrament of Holy Matrimony, it helps them remain on a good road. If one is discerning either religious life or possibly a

priestly vocation, they must focus on answering the same question; “is this God’s Will for me?” If so, “am I willing to embrace His Will”? In each particular journey, what often can hold one up, or misdirect someone in their thinking, is that they ultimately are not seeking the Father’s Will for themselves. Without recognizing it, they may be held back by earthly shackles that have taken hold of one’s heart or mind regarding what should move us through this life. Ultimately, as we prepare to celebrate the Paschal Mystery of our Lord during Holy Week, during the Holy Triduum which includes Holy Thursday, Good Friday and Holy Saturday, we should be concluding our Lenten works hopefully having discovered a new found desire and strength to embrace the Will of the Father in our lives. Celebrating the Glory of the Easter season should remain in our daily lives. It should become part of who we are in every facet of our being. Is this not why when the apostles asked Jesus to teach them to pray, He taught them to pray; “Our Father who art is Heaven, Hallowed be thy name, thy Kingdom come, thy

The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, Bishop of Norwich joined by Father Ted F. Tumicki and junior high school students at Holy Hour for Vocations at St. Catherine of Sienna in Preston. Photo submitted by Nancy Mignault. will be done on earth as it is in Heaven… As you continue begging the Harvest Master to send us more vocations to the priesthood and religious life, please remember to pray also that they be men and women willing to devote their lives to doing the Father’s Will.

Chrism Mass A Joyous Celebration of Priestly Service and Holy Sacraments Tuesday, March 22, 2016 at 10:30 am Cathedral of Saint Patrick • 213 Broadway, Norwich The Chrism Mass is the celebration during which the sacred Chrism is consecrated and the oil of the sick and oil of the catechumens are blessed. Bishop Cote invites all Diocesan parishioners to attend.

Pope Francis @Pontifex • Recent Tweet Do not forget that the mercy of God is our shield and strength against injustice, destruction and oppression.

Fridays, March 11th, & 18th Annual Lenten Fish Fry Dinners St. Joseph’s Parish Hall, 48 Middlesex Avenue, Chester. Dinners range from $12-15 and include a beverage and dessert. From 4-7pm. Rachel’s Vineyard Retreat Weekends If you are silently grieving or suffering from an abortion, experience the healing love of Jesus Christ on a Rachel’s Vineyard Retreat weekend. Upcoming weekends are: March 11-13 in Stockbridge, MA, call 413-452-0661; or April 8-10 in Spanish call 401-742-1510. Please visit the national website at www.rachelsvineyard.org “Project Rachel” is our Diocesan ministry for anyone seeking healing and forgiveness. Priests in the Project Rachel ministry are there for you with God’s Grace and Mercy. Call 860848-2237, ext 306. All inquiries are confidential. Bereavement Support Group For anyone who has lost a loved one, and is struggling with the day to day challenges in life. Our professional bereavement support team at St. Mary and St. Lawrence is offering a support group. Our program will meet for eight sessions and will include prayer, meditation, reflection and sharing. Small group sessions will provide comfort and hope as one journeys through the task of grieving to a place of healing and understanding. We will meet in the library at St. Mary’s Church, 54 Grove St, Clinton. Beginning Monday’s starting March 14th thru May 2nd from 6:30-7:30pm. All are welcome, recent or past loss, all denom-

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inations. Call Jeanne Perlman 860/669-5123 or Ali Mielcarz 860/304-5504 for more information. Saturday, March 12 St. Luke Church Irish Night St. Luke Church in Ellington presents Irish Night, in the church hall. Doors open at 5pm. Corned beef and cabbage with all the fixings and complimentary wine, beer and soda will be available, no BYOB please. Entertainment by the singing group “Irish to the Last Drop” along with Irish Step Dancing and a raffle will round out this fun filled evening. The church is located at 141 Maple Street, Ellington. Tickets are $16.00 per person advanced purchase only. No tickets will be sold at the door. For more information or to purchase tickets, please call Jane at the church rectory, 860-875-8552 weekdays between 9am-1pm. Sunday, March 13 The Authentic Catholic Woman The Norwich Diocese Council of Catholic Women (Willimantic District), invites all ladies to a program featuring a light lunch and presentation by Genevieve Kineke. No admission fee. Please call Lynda Nappi (860-423-5064) or Annette Murphy (860-423-2397) for more information or to make a reservation. Held at St. Joseph Church, 99 Jackson Street, Willimantic. Wednesday, March 16 Venerable Fulton J. Sheen DVD Series The Groton /Ledyard Parish Cluster invites you to join (by DVD) Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen on Wednesday March 16th in Love is Eternal

at Our Lady of Lourdes - Gales Ferry Please register by phone: 860464-7251 or by email: secretary@ololgf.org. Presentations begin at 7pm and there is no fee. Wednesday, March 16 Lenten Reflections with Father Michael Giannitelli Based on the book Rediscover Jesus. From 6:30-7:30 pm at St. Mary Church, 54 Grove St, Clinton. For more information please call 860669-8512. Saturday, March 19 March for Mercy Youth Event The Diocese of Norwich invites grades 7 – 12 to the March for Mercy from 10am-3pm. Youth are asked to raise a minimum of $10. All donations above $10 will be donated to St. Vincent de Paul Place. The March will begin at St. Joseph’s in Norwich where we tour the soup kitchen, hear a witness on homelessness, and then march to the Cathedral. At the Cathedral, we will talk about the Door of Mercy, enjoy a pizza dinner and continue our mission with national speaker and song writer Vince Nims. If you are interested, please contact your Catechetical leader or Liza Roach at lroach@norwichdiocese.net or 860848-2237, ext. 305. Sunday, March 20 Palm Sunday Concert The Eastern Connecticut Symphony Orchestra, the Eastern Connecticut Symphony Chorus and the Norwich Diocesan Choir will present a Palm Sunday Concert at 7:30pm at the Cathedral of St. Patrick, 213 Broadway, Norwich. Admission is $10 for adults. Chil-

dren 18 & under free. Call the ESCO office at 860-443-2876 for tickets. Tuesday, March 22 Chrism Mass Bishop Michael R. Cote, D.D., invites you to the Chrism Mass at the Cathedral of Saint Patrick in Norwich at 10:30am. Procession of Priests and Deacons will begin into the Cathedral at 10:20am. The Chrism Mass is the celebration during which the sacred Chrism is consecrated and the Oil of the Sick and the Oil of the Catechumens are blessed. These oils are sanctified for use at the Cathedral and in all parishes for baptism, confirmation, the anointing of the sick and for the ordination of priests. Together the three oils symbolize the sacramental life of the Church. Since the Chrism Mass is truly a Diocesan event, all parishioners are invited. Wednesday, March 23 Venerable Fulton J. Sheen DVD Series The Groton/Ledyard Parish Cluster invites you to join (by DVD) Archbishop Fulton J. Sheen on Wednesday, March 23 at Sacred Heart Church, Groton. Please register by phone: 860-464-7251 or by email: secretary@ololgf.org. Presentations begin at 7pm and there is no fee. Friday, March 25 Way of the Cross People of all Christian traditions are invite to a public procession of scripture and prayer on Good Friday, March 25th at 6pm at Chelsea Parade, Norwich.

Friday, March 25 Good Friday Saturday, March 26 Holy Saturday Sunday, March 27 Easter Sunday Wednesday, March 30 The Serenity Prayer: Its Unique Appeal St. Thomas Aquinas Chapel, Storrs, presents Professor William Fitzgerald, Ph.D., of Rutgers University, at 7:30pm in the Aquinas Student Center, 46 North Eagleville Road on the UConn Storrs campus. Admission is free. Professor Fitzgerald will explore the origin and spread of the familiar prayer that begins “God grant me the serenity to accept what cannot be changed…” Come and learn about what has made this prayer so helpful to so many, including participants in 12-step recovery programs. Thursday, March 31 Holy Hour for Vocations The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, leads the Holy Hour at St. Philip the Apostle, Ashford, from 6-7pm. For more information contact Father Greg Galvin, Director of Priestly Vocations at vocations@norwichdiocese.net or (860) 887-9294. www.God-Calls.com. Saturday, April 2 7th Annual CT Walks for Haiti Walk-a-thon and Haitian Festival Attracting hundreds of supporters, the annual walk through West Hartford Center and Blue Back Square raises funds for established Haitian

26th Annual White Mass For Healthcare Workers & Caregivers of All Faiths

Sunday, April 10th, 2016 • 9:00 am Cathedral of Saint Patrick • 213 Broadway, Norwich For reservations or more information call 860-887-9294, ext. 232

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charities. Walkers gather at St. Peter Claver parish center for the 2.5 mi. walk and the Haitian-themed festival, offering authentic Haitian cuisine, crafts, music, Haitian children games and a silent auction featuring Red Sox tickets, gift cards from local businesses and more. The event takes place rain or shine. The festivities begin at 10:30am; the walk starts at 12:00 noon; festivities close at 2:30pm. Walkers and non-walkers will have plenty to enjoy. For more information please Contact Nancy Pelletier at 860.803.6270; or via email Nancy.Pelletier@comcast.net. Sunday, April 3 Mass of Divine Mercy Our Lady of Lourdes, 1650 Rte 12, Gales Ferry at 5pm. Followed by an Expository on Divine Mercy by Fr. Fred Irving.

Wednesday, April 6

Television Mass At 10:00am Channel 20 WTXX, Charter Channel 11 WCCT, Comcast. Celebrant Father Brian Maxwell.

Saturday, April 9 Life is Changes, Not Endings, How to Prepare Funeral Liturgies For all parishioners, liturgy committees, music ministers, bereavement committee members at St. Catherine of Siena Parish, 243 Route 164 Preston. Registration at 8:45am. Program from 9:15am-1pm. Fee:

$10. For more information go to www.norwichdiocese.org or call 860-848-2237x203. Saturday, April 9 Be My Witness: 6th Annual Catholic Women’s Conference Calling woman of all ages. Join Kathy Irr, an experienced retreat leader who specializes in the area of spiritual restoration. From 8:30am3:30pm at St. Bernard School, Uncasville. For cost and more information please call the Office of Faith Events at 860-848-2237. Saturday, April 9 Catholic Charities 95th Anniversary Gala Silent auction, dinner, and awards ceremony at 6pm. Mystic Marriott, 625 North Road, Route 117, Groton. For more information please contact Christine Jackel at 860-8861928. Ext 12 Sunday, April 10 Remote Confirmation Retreat Join Chris Padgett from 12-4pm in the Cathedral of St. Patrick church hall. Cost is $20 per person. Registration is due by March 11th. For more information, please contact Liza Roach at 860-848-2237, ext. 305. Sunday, April 10 26th Annual White Mass For healthcare workers and caregivers of all faiths. Mass will be held at the Cathedral of Saint Patrick, 213 Broadway, Norwich at 9am. For reservations or more information please call 860-887-9294 ext. 232 Wednesday, April 13 The Dangers of Pornography Held at St. Mary, Mother of the Redeemer in Groton. Dangers of Pornography - Mr. Ryan Hinton, Director of Family Life, Archdiocese of Hartford. Sponsored by the Gro-

ton/Ledyard cluster of parishes. Saturday, April 23 Outreach to Haiti 9th Annual Gala Outreach to Haiti welcomes Masters of Ceremonies: Fox 61 Personalities John Carlton & Lorenzo Hall. Featuring Live and Silent Auctions. Cocktails at 6pm followed by dinner. $100 per person ($50 taxdeductible) Cocktail attire. Please RSVP by April 9th by calling 860887-1019 x817. www.outreachtohaiti.org. The gala will be held at the Great Neck Country Club, 28 Lamphere Rd, Waterford, from 69pm.

“Everyone (your name) who LISTENS to these words of Mine (Jesus), and ACTS on them will be like a ‘wise person’ who built his house on rock (daily prayer). The rain fell, the floods came, (trials and tribulations), the winds blew and buffeted the house (relationship with Jesus). But it did not collapse; it had been set solidly on rock (prayer). For He (Jesus) taught them as ONE having authority, not as their scribe! ” ~ Matthew 7: 24-25, 29

Tuesday, April 26 21st Annual Secretaries Mass The Most Reverend Michael R Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, cordially invites you to the 21st Annual Diocesan secretaries Mass at the Cathedral of St. Patrick, 213 Broadway, Norwich at 12 noon. Secretaries of all faiths are invited to attend as well as their families, friends and employers.

Life in the Spirit Seminar (“Opportunity”) “New Life with the Holy Spirit” Wednesday, March 2nd from 2-4pm. Spiritual Renewal Center, 11 Bath Street, Norwich.

Thursday, April 25 Holy Hour for Vocations Join the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, as he leads the Holy Hour at St Mary Star of the Sea Church, 10 Huntington St, New London, from 78pm. For more information contact Father Greg Galvin, Director of Priestly Vocations at vocations@norwichdiocese.net or (860) 887-9294. www.God-Calls.com Sunday, May 1 St. Bernard Golf Outing Join us for a shot gun start at 1:30pm at the Lakes of Isles, North Course. $160 per person, please contact Tina Policarpo at 860-3122184 to register.

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Tuesday, April 26th, 2016 • 12:00pm Cathedral of St. Patrick, Norwich Following the Mass a complimentary luncheon will be served. For reservations or more information call 860-887-9294, ext. 234

Seminar at Holy Apostles College & Seminary Growth with the Holy Spirit. Thursday, March 3rd at 7pm. Prayer & Discernment Board Meeting Monday March 21st, 10:30am. Spiritual Renewal Center, 11 Bath Street, Norwich. Life in the Spirit Seminar The 9 Charisms (gifts) of the Holy Spirit. Wednesday, March 9th at 2pm. Spiritual Renewal Center, 11 Bath Street, Norwich. Prayer Group Mass – All Hallows Church, Moosup Wednesday, March 9th at 7:00pm. Mass of Healing & Hope Mondays, March 14th & 28th at 2pm. Spiritual Renewal Center, 11 Bath Street, Norwich. Life in the Spirit Seminar Baptism (activation) of the Gifts of Pentecost. Wednesday, March 16th at 2pm. Spiritual Renewal Center, 11 Bath Street, Norwich. Unbound Prayer Ministry (Freedom) Saturday, March 19th at 10am. By appointment only. Spiritual Renewal Center, 11 Bath Street, Norwich. 860-887-0702.

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The Heart of the Gospel Beats at 2016 Ministry Fair

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pable as the many donors entered into the large ballroom at the Radisson Hotel in Cromwell on February 28th for the 2016 Ministry Fair. Every year, the Ministry Fair brings together ministry representatives and donors from all corners of our Diocese to an alternating location. Last year, the fair was in Mystic. Diocesan ministry directors and coordinators arrived earlier in the morning to set up their booths and were excited to be sharing information about their ministries with so many special people. The Ministry Fair provides an opportunity for parishioners to become better acquainted with the many ministries supported by the Diocese, in large part through the ACA. More than 30 ministry representatives were in attendance along with over 250 donors. Donors were in good spirits as they moved from booth to booth asking questions of the ministry personnel and filling their ACA logo embossed bags with a variety of giveaways ranging from pens and candy to flashlights and calendars. The ACA donated red rubber stress

balls in the shape of hearts to each participant, about which Angela Arnold, Executive Director, Diocesan Office of Development, noted, “…every time you squeeze this heart to help you relieve your stress, let it remind you of how your donation to the ACA has been used to reduce the stress in someone else’s life.” Ministry directors have always enjoyed the Ministry Fair as it gives them an opportunity to meet donors as well as update them on what their ministries are currently doing. The new Executive Director of Catholic Charities, Mr. Edward Tessman, was very excited to be attending the Ministry Fair for the first time. “ I am very happy to be here, along with the other directors of the many ministries benefited by the Annual Catholic Appeal, meeting so many of ACA donors, whose generosity allows Catholic Charities to reach out to many in our Diocese in need of help meeting the challenges of daily life. With the support of the ACA, Catholic Charities is able to continue its 95-year tradition of caring for our neighbors, whether it be by assisting with basic needs of electricity, food, shelter and medicine or the more complex issues, requiring behavioral counseling or other family services.” Dan Sullivan, Director of Outreach to Haiti, appreciated speaking with so many supporters, “The Ministry Fair is always a great chance for us to meet some of our donors, and see again some we have met before. We get to tell them what new things are going on in Haiti. It is always impressive how many of them are or have been connected in some way to the Haitian ministry efforts. The Year of Mercy seems an especially appropriate time to talk with them about all the doctor consults, vaccinations, food given to malnourished children and moms through our clinic - just thousands of corporal works of mercy!” Bishop Cote welcomed all in attendance, stating, “one of the most important aspects of this morning is the chance to say

“thank you” to our donors to the Annual Catholic Appeal.” Bishop Cote also extended his appreciation to all of the ministry directors and coordinators for the hard work they do for the Diocese and its people. After a delicious breakfast, Mrs. Arnold conducted a raffle to give away the gifts many of the ministries had donated. The raffle included some handmade items such as a wooden pen made by a student of The Academy at Mount Saint John and specialty items, such as a Vera Bradley bag and wine basket, both donated by Catholic Charities. Every year, attendees express their appreciation for the event and the chance to learn more about the ministries. Charlie and Pat Jackowski, parishioners at St. Pius X, Middletown, felt the Ministry Fair was “ a great idea because it was very informative and gave a face to the ministries.” The Jackowskis see the theme of this year’s ACA “Mercy - The Beating Heart of the Gospel” reflected in all of our ministries. “The ministries are the beating heart by bringing life to the Words of the Gospel, making the words real.” JM Pepin, a communicant at St. Patrick, Norwich noted that Pope Francis’ call to do works of mercy during this Jubilee Year has been heard by our ministries, “ Many of our ministries guide the Catholic population to actively participate in good works to help the poor and the underserved.” The Ministry Fair is one of the most important events for the Annual Catholic Appeal, a major source of crucial monetary support to our many Diocesan ministries. Through the kindness and generosity of donors from all of our 76 parishes, last year’s ACA raised more than 3 million dollars. These monies allow our ministries to assist our neighbors to meet the challenges of daily life by helping them with their physical, emotional, educational and spiritual needs. For more information on the ACA, please contact the Development Office at 860-886-1928 or www.norwichdiocese development.org.

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The Feast of Saint Joseph Following a one thousand year tradition, on March 19th the world-wide church celBy Sister Elissa Rinere, CP, JCD Office of Worship

ebrates the Solemnity of Saint Joseph. Scriptural references to Saint Joseph are very few. He appears only in the Gospels of Matthew and Luke, in what are called the “Infancy Narratives,” the scenes of the childhood of Jesus. It is Joseph who heeds the angel words and takes Mary as his wife. It is Joseph who protects Mary on the journey to Bethlehem, and then again on the journey into Egypt. The last appearance of Joseph in the Gospel is in the story of Jesus being lost in the temple in Jerusalem (Luke 2:41-51). In all these passages, Joseph never speaks and is actually named only once. From these brief glimpses of Joseph, the tradition of Church has assembled a picture of a strong protector and guardian for the Holy Family and for all families. Whether he was young or old, since he has been variously described as either, he protected Mary and Jesus when they were vulnerable and completely defenseless. Little else is known of Saint Joseph. Scholars tell us that Joseph probably died sometime before Jesus began his public ministry, since there are no further references to him in any of the Gospels after the infancy stories. Scholars also tell us that Joseph had certainly died before Jesus’ crucifixion, and this is proved by two events. First, one of Jesus’ last actions was to give his mother into the care of Saint John, the Apostle (see John 19:26-27). This was necessary only if, without her son, Mary would have been a woman left alone in a society in which women could not be alone. Second, after Jesus’ death, it was Joseph of Arimathea who claimed Jesus’ body for burial (see John 19:38). Had Saint Joseph still been

alive, this responsibility to bury Jesus would have been his to fulfill. Over the course of the first millennium, devotion to Saint Joseph grew slowly in the Western Church. Saint Thomas Aquinas (1225-1274) wrote of how necessary Saint Joseph was to the plan of God, since Mary and Jesus could never have managed alone in the culture of their day. In this light, it is interesting to note that as devotion to Saint Joseph grew, so did devotion to the Holy

Family. In 1870, Pope Pius IX declared Saint Joseph to be the patron of the universal Church and instituted the feast of Saint Joseph the Worker, celebrated on May 1st. In 1889, Pope Leo XIII urged all Catholics to pray to Saint Joseph in view of the challenges facing the Church at that time. These challenges arose mostly from social changes within Europe and the rise of the working class. Just two years later, in 1891, Pope Leo XIII issued the great encyclical on Catholic Social teaching, Rerum novarum, which calls for all workers to be treated with dignity and justice. In 1962, Saint John XXIII added Saint Joseph to the Roman Canon, which is the First Eucharistic Prayer. Then in 2013, shortly after his election, Pope Francis added the name of Saint Joseph to all the remaining Eucharistic Prayers. Today, virtually every diocese in the Catholic world has a church dedicated to Saint Joseph. He is the patron of several cities and countries throughout the world, as well as the patron of families, fathers, expectant mothers, travelers, immigrants, craftsmen, engineers and, in general, all those who work. There is a stubborn rumor, still

very much alive, that Saint Joseph is the patron saint of house sellers. The story goes that if a statue of the saint is correctly placed on the property, the house will sell with no trouble. Although people swear this to be true, Saint Joseph has never been officially designated as the patron saint of real estate transactions! More in keeping with the values of faith and family, Saint Joseph is honored for patience, his persistence in the face of difficulties, his courage and his hard work. In today’s world, when the ideals of family unity can so easily get lost in the pace of life, Saint Joseph is a good reminder of what family means, and of the benefits that come from strong relationships between parents and children. During Lent, and especially in this Jubilee Year of Mercy, what can be done in our own homes to honor Saint Joseph, and to strengthen the bonds of family life? In the Mass for the Solemnity of Saint Joseph, the Communion Antiphon gives us words that perhaps Saint Joseph heard from God, and that we might do well to hear when our days here are finished: Well done, good and faithful servant, Come share your Master’s joy.

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Catholic Charities 95th Anniversary Gala On Saturday, April 9th, just a few short weeks away, Catholic Charities will hold their 95th AnBy Christine Jackel Development Coordinator, Catholic Charities

niversary Gala at the Mystic Marriott in Groton, Connecticut. The evening begins at 6:00 PM with a cocktail hour, followed by a surf/turf dinner. The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, will recognize those who have made a difference in the lives of so many in our community with their commitment and dedication to Catholic Charities. We will honor â&#x20AC;&#x153;Humanitarian of the Year,â&#x20AC;? Meg Gustafson; Jacqueline Keller recipient of the â&#x20AC;&#x153;Honoring our Heritageâ&#x20AC;? Award;

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The 2016 Annual Catholic Appeal Kicks Off with Leadership Meeting Each year, at the start of the Annual Catholic Appeal, the Diocesan Development Office holds

goal are announced and the ACA video is presented. • The priests, secretaries and chairpeople are informed of their roles for the ACA. • The parishes are recognized with plaques for their support of last year’s campaign. This year’s Leadership Meeting was held on March 1, 2016 at The Holiday Inn, Norwich, Connecticut. All parishes across the Diocese were well represented. Angela Arnold, Executive Director of Development congratulated all of the parishes for raising over three million dollars for the 2015 Annual

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their annual Leadership Meeting. The Leadership Meeting is one of the most important events for the ACA. All priests, along with parish secretaries and appointed chairpeople are invited to the meeting. There are four key items that transpire at this meeting: • The results of last year’s (2015) ACA Campaign are shared. • This year’s campaign theme and

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campaign reached, $3,094,556.67. The average donation for the 2015 campaign was $248.74. Donations from members of the Christopher Society (those donating $1,000 or more) totaled $1,119,620.16, making up 36% of the total raised. “Tonight at this meeting, we need to thank our donors,” stated Angela. “It is our donors who have once again come to the aid of their neighbors, increasing their donations above last year!” Applause filled the room in honor of all who donated to the 2015 ACA. “Additionally, this celebration is for all priests in the Diocese of Norwich,” Angela added. “It is because of your commitment to bring the ACA into your parish that this campaign was a success. I applaud all of you.”

parish priests, secretaries, appointed chair-people and volunteers, helped to raise $28,983.20 over last year’s campaign!” The energy in the room was high as the theme for the 2016 Annual Catholic Appeal Campaign was announced…MERCY – The Beating Heart of the Gospel. All felt this was a fitting theme for the campaign taking place in this, the “Year of Mercy”. The ACA video was shown, featuring segments from several of the Diocesan Ministries including: Catholic Charities – Adoption, The Catholic Foundation, Office of Faith Events, Hispanic Ministry, and the Office of Worship. Applause filled the room after the airing of the video. Each person at the Leadership Meeting received a ‘stress

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heart’ (similar to a stress ball) with the 2016 Annual Catholic Appeal theme, MERCY – The Beating Heart of the Gospel etched on it. The evening continued with Angela providing an overview of the upcoming events associated with the Annual Catholic Appeal, along with a brief discussion of the various roles that play a significant part in making the ACA a success. One of the most momentous parts of the night took place at the end of the program. The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich joined with Angela Arnold in celebrating the hard work of each parish in the Diocese that helped to make the 2015 ACA a success. Plaques were presented to all parishes to show appreciation for their commitment to the ACA. Reverend Joseph B. Whittel, Pastor of Saint Paul Parish, Waterford, CT stated, “These plaques are a wonderful idea. I plan to have my ACA chairpeople present the plaque to me at Mass, so that I can then present it to my parishioners and thank them for supporting the Annual Catholic Appeal.” Bishop Cote and Angela both stated how truly grateful they are for the leadership teams, donors and parishioners throughout the Diocese of Norwich. Bishop Cote ended the evening with a prayer, asking all to reflect on this year’s upcoming ACA, Mercy – The Beating Heart of the Gospel… praying that all in the Diocese will open their hearts and minds to the word of the Lord, embracing His teachings. If you haven’t already contributed to the 2016 Annual Catholic Appeal and would like to do so, please contact: Development Office, Diocese of Norwich, 197 Broadway, Norwich, CT 06360, call 860.886.1928 or email: www.norwichdiocesedevelopment.org.

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ACTS Retreats for Men, Women and Teens Has anybody ever asked you, “Would you like to make an ACTS retreat?”. If they did, and By Linda Norton Four County Catholic Contributor

you said yes, then you know what a special experience it can be. If you have never been asked then let this article serve as an invitation to you and please consider saying “Yes”! The ACTS retreat program is a tremendous blessing for the people of our diocese. Whether you

cut, shared that the purpose of ACTS retreats is to “assist bishops and their priests to revitalize parishes by offering a unique and holy experience to their people.” Hundreds of people within our diocese have attended a retreat. This year, ACTS is hosting sixteen retreats in Connecticut for an estimated 150 men, 200 women, and 50 teens. There are separate ACTS weekends for men, women, and adolescents. Retreat teams are made up of mostly lay people and retreats are held at various retreat

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centers in our diocese, which currently include Ender’s Island (Mystic), Immaculata Retreat House (Willimantic), Immaculate Conception (Putnam), and My Father’s House (Moodus). During the weekend, retreatants experience being part of the larger body of Christ and realize that they do not have to face the challenges of today’s world alone. Mr. Barile says “Parishes are brought to new life as men, women, and teens become better disciples of Christ”. An ACTS experience doesn’t have to end after the retreat. There are opportunities for continued involvement in various capacities for those who are interested. For information on this year’s

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once again present the twelfth annual production of the Life and Passion of Our Lord. Billed as “The Passion Play”, the production features a cast of over 150 adults and children from St. Andrew Parish as well several surrounding parishes. The play is presented in St. Andrew Church with live music provided by the St. Andrew Principal Choir. Costumes, sets, lighting, and sound are created by parishioners. This year, the play will be directed by Natalie Wood and will feature Ed Benjamin as Jesus. Many of the performers have participated in all twelve of the productions. The Passion Play is the inspiration of St. Andrew Choir Director Colleen Puscas, whose long-

standing dream was to write and produce a play about the story of Christ. In 2005, that wish was fulfilled when the first production of her Passion Play with original dialogue and music was performed. The Play has been repeated each year since, with hundreds crowding into the church each year to witness the performances. Additionally, each year the play is dramatically different from the previous years: at least one third of the play is entirely new material. Following excerpts from the Bible, the play is a series of vignettes beginning with the prophecies of the coming of a Messiah. This is quickly followed by the Nativity, the Presentation in the Temple, Baptism in the Jordan River, and the First Miracle at Cana. Several more scenes depicting episodes in the life of Jesus are presented. A popular one is Jesus

teaching the little children to pray the Lords Prayer. The story continues with the Triumphant Entry into Jerusalem, the Appearance before Herod, the Trial by Pilate, and the Crucifixion. The play concludes with the Resurrection when the church is filled with glorious celebration and songs of praise. The play is performed Friday and Saturday night at 7:30 with doors opening at 7.There is no charge for admission; however, tickets are required since seating is limited to the capacity of St. Andrew Church located at 128 Norwich Ave. In order to help defray the costs of presenting the play, a free-will offering is appreciated. Tickets may be reserved by calling Teresa Dziatko at 860-295-8315. They are also available at Merciful Savoir gift shop in Colchester and the St. Andrews church office. Photo by Natalie Wood.

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Appeals Court Upholds Health Care Law Contraceptive Mandate Atlanta - A federal appeals court in Atlanta on February 18, 2016, upheld a contraceptive mandate inBy Kate Brumback Associated Press

cluded in the president’s health care law but is delaying the implementation of its ruling until the U.S. Supreme Court can weigh in on the issue. A three-judge panel of the 11th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals ruled 2-1 to reject challenges to the mandate in a single opinion addressing two separate cases, one filed by nonprofit organizations affiliated with the Catholic Church in Georgia and the other by Catholic broadcaster Eternal Word Television Network in Alabama. The organizations had argued the mandate and a related rule against those entities would violate the Religious Freedom Restoration Act of 1993, which prohibits the government from imposing a substantial burden on a person’s religious practice. The U.S. Supreme Court is scheduled to hear oral arguments

March 23 on the question, and the 11th Circuit said the mandate and associated opt-out rule should not be enforced against the Georgia and Alabama organizations until the high court rules. Under the health care law, most health insurance plans have to cover all Food and Drug Administration-approved contraceptives as preventive care for women, free of cost to the patient. Catholic dioceses and archdioceses are exempt from the mandate, but the other affiliated organizations, including schools, charitable institutions and hospitals are not. Those groups are required to submit a form to their third-party insurers saying they object to the coverage. The insurer will then make the coverage available at no cost to the institution or the employee. The religiously affiliated groups had claimed that this requirement was overly burdensome to their practice of their religion because it makes them a party to something that is against their religion. “Congress included the contra-

ceptive mandate in the ACA to improve women’s health and public health generally. There is no evidence whatsoever that the mandate was enacted in an attempt to restrict religious exercise,” Circuit Judge Jill Pryor wrote in the majority opinion. In a dissenting opinion, Circuit Judge Gerald Tjoflat decried government efforts to “force them to participate in a complicated regulatory scheme.” “Doing so, these parties sincerely believe, would make them complicit in violating the sanctity of human life,” he wrote. EWTN chairman and CEO Michael P. Warsaw said in an emailed statement that the broadcaster is extremely disappointed. “This decision by the Court of Appeals ignores the arguments that EWTN and numerous plaintiffs around the country have made with regard to this mandate,” he said. “In effect, this decision orders EWTN to violate its religious beliefs and comply with the government’s HHS mandate or pay massive fines to the IRS.”

Defending Religious Liberty After promising that the Little Sisters’ religious beliefs would be protected, the government created a new regulation requiring the Little Sisters to change their healthcare plan to offer services that violate Catholic teaching. But 1 in 3 Americans do not have a plan that is subject to the mandate HHS is fighting so hard to force the Little Sisters of the Poor to follow. Exxon, Chevron, and Pepsi -- as well as other large corporations -- are exempt from the mandate, because they never changed their plans and are grandfathered. And the government is not even requiring our own US military to provide these services through their family insurance. The government is arguing that since it has offered to reimburse the costs of the services it wants the Little Sisters to provide, they should have no moral objection to offering them. The Little Sisters are saying this is not about money, but conscience, and whether they should be forced to change their healthcare plan to offer services they have a moral objection to when those services could be provided more effectively through the government’s healthcare exchange. If you haven’t done so already, please voice your opposition to the federal health care mandate by calling U.S. Secretary of Health and Human Services Sylvia Mathews Burwell at 202-205-5445, and your elected representatives. Let them know that the mandate is in violation of our First Amendment right to religious freedom.

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Life-Changing Opportunities Christelle Jerome was all smiles when she recently updated members of Outreach to Haiti’s Board of By Dennis Petruzzi

Directors on the progress she was making in school and in life. The 21 year old joined several other post-secondary students at Outreach’s mission house in Haiti to add faces, names and voices to the discussion of the ongoing impact of Outreach’s education sponsorship program. Christelle is in the second and final year of vocational school where her course work focuses on administration in Haiti’s resurgent and growing tourism sector. While still attending classes, she is one of the 15 students who have been selected by area businesses for internships in their chosen field of study. Having been prepared for this opportunity by Outreach’s in-house program of

seminars and workshops on subjects such as life skills, leadership and public speaking, Christelle approaches the assignment with confidence and poise. Based on her performance, her employer has already promised her full time employment upon graduation. The goal of Outreach’s education spons o r s h i p program is to create life changing opportunities. Christelle has seized upon those presented to her and is most grateful for them. In her annual sponsor letter she writes: “You cannot imag-

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March 1st with a faculty and staff viewing. The exhibit will be open to the public throughout the entire month of March, which is Youth Art Month.

The show highlights the work of four seniors who have pursued the four-year sequential arts program at SBS: Will Dittman, Allison Andrade, Patricia Steinhagen and Matthew Murphy. “In my work, one can track my moods and outlooks, even my entire world view by considering how I apply the elements and principles in my

work,” says Matthew Murphy. For Will Dittman, art became a passion he never realized he had, and he has seen himself grow as an artist during the past four years at Saint Bernard. His art has changed from simple works to ones that truly express who he is. “For me, art has opened doors that I didn’t even know existed,” he says.

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Art has been a huge part of Patricia Steinhagen’s life ever since her mother started taking her to art museums as a toddler. Patricia says she has seen her art improve over the past four years and she enjoys portraying the human body and face in her work. “I fell in love with the human body and how infuriatingly difficult and enjoyable it is to draw,” she says. Allison says she enjoys when her artwork brings a smile to peo-

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There Was Something More Dolores Hart was 19 when she filmed her first movie scene: kissing Elvis Presley. By Christina Capecchi Four County Catholic Contributor

The aspiring actress was dressed in a polka dot dress with her honey-brown hair swept in a ponytail. He wore a denim jacket with the collar turned up, his glossy bangs grazing his brow. They were directed to kiss again and again and again, lip locked until finally they heard “Cut!” First a make-up artist had to touch up Dolores’ bright red ears, then Elvis’ ears needed concealer. After one seemingly endless kiss, Elvis pulled away and called “cut,” saying he needed to come up for air. It was his first onscreen kiss too. On set, Dolores never missed a chance to hear Elvis croon. “He totally took you when he was

singing on stage,” she told me. But when Elvis asked her out on a date, Dolores was all business, explaining they’d have to return by 7:30 pm to get enough sleep before her 4 am alarm for hair and makeup. He was a gentleman, always calling her “Miss Dolores,” and the Catholic from Chicago recog-

nized in the Mississippi Pentecostal a fellow spiritual seeker. They would go on to discuss Scripture, with Elvis pulling out a Bible and asking for her thoughts on various verses. When Paramount released “Loving You” in 1957, Dolores became an overnight star. She earned a Tony nomination two years later, and critics called her “the new Grace Kelly.” Dolores’ faith kept her grounded, especially daily Mass.

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After a long Broadway run, a friend encouraged her to recuperate at Regina Laudis, a Connecticut abbey of cloistered Benedictine nuns. Dolores felt a peace there and knew it wasn’t simply the reprieve from Hollywood pressures. “There was something more,” she wrote. She began dating Don Robinson, a handsome Catholic architect. The two were engaged in a year. Dol o r e s ’ dream of marriage and motherhood was within reach: The big day would be Feb. 23, 1963. Wedding invitations were printed. But the tug of religious life persisted, and Don felt Dolores grow distant. “You’re still thinking about that monastery, aren’t you?” he asked. She returned and again felt its powerful draw. Wandering through a pine forest as the snow fell, Dolores sobbed over the “jumble” in her mind. Besides giving up Don, she’d also be forfeiting a fairytale career, including four scripts from MGM and an offer from Universal to star opposite Marlon Brando. She penned a letter to God that day, writing, “I can’t understand your ways.” Dolores broke the news to Don her first day back. They met with the priest set to marry them, who was baffled by Dolores’ decision. “There is an aura of flightiness about Hollywood,” he warned her. “I think you should see the archbishop as soon as possible. It’s more than I can handle.” She entered the convent on June 13 and cried herself to sleep that night. Religious life didn’t come easily to the 24-year-old. Looking back now, at 77, Mother Dolores sees how her early suffering in the abbey carved out a “purity of heart.” She didn’t instantly shed her

vanity. “You still have that drive, but you redirect it,” she told me. “I came to the realization that who you are in your soul, who you come to love and who loves you is what makes you beautiful.” The same force behind her acting – her desire “to be a bridge, a connector” – was fully satisfied through a life of prayer, enabling Mother Dolores to become “a bridge for people to an eternal life.” She founded a theater at the abbey “to help young people find their vocation in Christ through the medium of theater.” Mother Dolores rose to new challenges that came to feel like a homecoming. She became a carpenter – a trade, she later learned, that had been passed down in her family since the 17th century. She tucked a toolkit into her belt, marveling over her ability to build.

Mother Dolores wants to share her joyful outcome, so she’ll be recording a SisterStory.org oral history – unvarnished, uninterrupted, in her own words – to be released this spring. It’s “important” to highlight the stories of women religious, she said, which is the goal of National Catholic Sisters Week (March 8-14), an official component of Women’s History Month. In their stories, we lay Catholics can better understand our own paths to holiness and appreciate that which unites us, Mother Dolores said. “My life in the monastery has allowed me to be open to the grace of creation and what it means to be a human being in the world.” Christina Capecchi is a freelance writer from Inver Grove Heights, Minn., and the editor of SisterStory.org.

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St. Bernard Celebrates Catholic Schools Week with Themed Days tration recognized one student each day for their commitment to community service. Those highlighted were: Briana Beverly, 10th grade; Alex Zuczek, 11th grade; Paige Martin, 8th grade; Sam Davis, 9th grade; and Cavin Farley, Tinh Nguyen and David Abraham (12th grade, honored as

Saint Bernard School celebrated Catholic Schools Week with a new theme each day. By Shari Marderness Communications & Advancement Assistant, SBS

Feb. 1 at SBS was “Service Day”, with Crazy Sock Day and the start of the school’s warm sock collection to benefit Covenant Shelters of New London, Inc., and Thames River Community Service in Norwich (both United Way partner programs). A United Way employee, Sarah McDermott, also spoke to students about United Way of Southeastern Connecticut. On Feb. 2, “Student Appreciation Day”, students got to take

part in an ice cream social during lunch periods. Feb. 3 was Saint Bernard School Day, celebrated with Mass and a group photo of all students. The following day was XBSS Day, during which theology classes showed a collection of videos from each of the schools in our Xaverian Brothers Sponsored Schools Network. SBS junior Noah Sisk produced a video in which students talked about what makes Saint Bernard a great Catholic/Xaverian School. Other events throughout the week included a faculty and staff appreciation luncheon and a talent show. Additionally, school adminis-

a group). The 29th Annual Catholic Schools Week Art Exhibit ran through Feb. 10th in the school’s Bishop Daniel P. Reilly Fine Arts Center. In addition to Saint Bernard School, the ex-

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families are often limited to highly processed foods with little opportunity to purchase fresh fruits and vegetables. The ongoing program will continue to make a difference in the lives of families trying to put healthy meals on their tables long after Jim reaches the rank of E a g l e Scout. T h e o t h e r part of J i m ’ s project is directed toward off-setting the cost of paper goods for the soup kitchen. Due to several factors, St. Vincent de Paul Place

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How Pope Francis Changed the Life of a California Teen Inmate Los Angeles, CA (CNA) - When a juvenile inmate in a California prison wrote to Pope Francis, he did not expect a response. But he received one, in the form a Jan. 21 letter from the Holy Father, inviting him to take advantage of the Holy Year of Mercy. â&#x20AC;&#x153;Know that the Holy Father is thinking of you and praying for you. And please remember to pray for me, because I greatly need your prayers,â&#x20AC;? the Pope said in his letter. Carlos Adrian Vazquez Jr., now 18, spoke about the letter. â&#x20AC;&#x153;I couldnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t believe it. I didnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t think the Pope would write to someone who's behind bars,â&#x20AC;? he said. Vazquez was sentenced to 11 years in prison for manslaughter. He began serving his sentence at age 16. The Popeâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s letter began: â&#x20AC;&#x153;Dear Carlos, May the peace of Jesus Christ be with you!â&#x20AC;? Pope Francis encouraged Vazquez and the other inmates to make use of the Holy Door of Mercy that the Archbishop of Los Angeles would open at the prison -- a special door set aside for the Catholic Churchâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Jubilee of Mercy. â&#x20AC;&#x153;I pray that as you and your fellow residents celebrate the opening of the Holy Door, you may receive these gifts and be filled with peace and hope,â&#x20AC;? the Pope said. Vazquez needed to hear that message. He had dropped out of school at age 15 and joined a gang. His crime was connected to a gang fight in which someone was killed. â&#x20AC;&#x153;I wasn't the one who did it, but because I was there I was charged with the same crime,â&#x20AC;? he said. Although Vazquez had wanted to end his life, the Pope's letter changed that. He now sees hope and a future. He has written to the fam-

ily of his victim. â&#x20AC;&#x153;I ask them to forgive me and told them no words would ever give them back the life I destroyed, but I hope one day they can forgive me for my actions and now I just ask for forgiveness and I want to live the life that my victim didn't have a chance to live and be good.â&#x20AC;? â&#x20AC;&#x153;If society does not forgive me, I know God forgives me for my sins,â&#x20AC;? Vazquez added. He characterized the Popeâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s letter as â&#x20AC;&#x153;a message from God, that we are all humans.â&#x20AC;? The Pope â&#x20AC;&#x153;gives us hope that God wants all of us to be equal and we all commit mistakes, and we can get up and continue.â&#x20AC;? Vazquez had written the Pope: â&#x20AC;&#x153;Being an outcast of society, I want the world to see us for who we truly are: human beings, who make mistakes like everybody else. But we are able to rise again like a Phoenix.â&#x20AC;? He told the Pope he wants to become a leader like civil rights advocate Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. Father Michael Kennedy, S.J., gave guidance to Vazquez and other youth who wrote letters to the Pope. He said that Vazquez got into many fights and was very focused on his gang when he first arrived in the juvenile facility. But after receiving his final sentence and after many weekly visits from his anguished parents, he began to change. â&#x20AC;&#x153;It's easy to say you've changed, but the change is in the actions of someone,â&#x20AC;? Fr. Kennedy said. â&#x20AC;&#x153;He started to read a lot of articles about the Pope, and he felt he was a person who had transformed his own self, and he knew that the Pope had a special place in his heart for the inmates, prisoners.â&#x20AC;? Vazquez is preparing for a transfer to Ironwood State Prison in Blythe, California.

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Pope Recounts His Apostolic Trip to Mexico Vatican City (VIS) – Pope Francis described his trip to Mexico as “an experience of transfiguration.” Starting from the Gospel reading of the second Sunday of Lent, dedicated to the Transfiguration of Jesus on Mount Tabor, the Holy Father spoke about his visit to the land of the Virgin of Guadalupe. In Mexico, he said “the Lord has shown us the light of His glory through the Body of the Church, of His holy people that live in this land — a body so often wounded, a people so often oppressed and whose dignity is violated. In fact, the various encounters experienced in Mexico were truly full of light: the light of a faith that transfigures faces and illumines our path”. “The spiritual ‘centre of gravity’ of my pilgrimage was the Shrine of Our Lady of Guadalupe”, he added. “To remain in silence before the image of the Mother was what suggested the trip to me. I thank God for giving me this opportunity. I contemplated and let myself to be gazed upon by She whose

eyes hold the gaze of all of her children, the sorrows of violence, kidnapping and murders, the violence against so many poor people, against so many women. Guadalupe is the most visited Marian sanctuary in the world. From all of America, people go to pray there where the ‘Virgin Morenita’ appeared to the Indian St. Juan Diego, giving rise to the evangelization of the continent and its new civilization, a fruit of encounter between diverse cultures”. “It is precisely this inheritance that the Lord has entrusted to Mexico: to protect the wealth of diversity, and at the same time, to manifest the harmony of a common faith: a simple and robust faith, accompanied by a great force of vitality and humanity”, explained the Pope. “Like my predecessors, I also went to confirm the Mexican people in their faith, but at the same time to be confirmed. I have gathered fully this gift so that it may be of benefit to the universal Church”.

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Reuters/Associated Press. “A shining example of what I am saying was given by families: Mexican families welcomed me with joy as a messenger of Christ and pastor of the Church. But at the same time, they gave me clear and strong witness of lived faith, of faith that transfigures life, for the edification of all Christian families in the world. The same may be said about the young, consecrated persons, priests, workers and the imprisoned”. After giving thanks to the Virgin of Guadalupe for this pilgrimage and acknowledging the contribution of the civil and ecclesiastical authorities of Mexico and all those who made the trip possible, Francis gave special praise to the Holy Trinity for the encounter in Cuba with Patriarch Kirill of Moscow and All Russia, a meeting that was greatly desired by previous popes. “This event too is a prophetic light of the Resurrection, which the world today needs more than ever. May the Holy Mother of God continue to guide us in the path of friendship and unity. Let us pray to the Virgin of Kazan, an icon of whom was given to me by Patriarch Kirill”.

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What Does Mercy Mean to Pope Francis? In a New Book, the Pope Sits Down with a Vatican Reporter to Discuss Mercy, Sin, and Love in the Twenty-First Century After Pope Francis’ return from his 2015 trip to Latin America, he sat down with veteran Vatican reBy Elizabeth Bruenig New Republic

porter Andrea Tornielli for an indepth theological interview that now makes up the majority of the new book The Name of God is Mercy. The slim, white volume also contains the papal bull announcing the Holy Year of Mercy, a special jubilee year decreed by Pope Francis during Lent of 2015. But the majority of the book is a conversation between Francis and Tornielli, who has established himself as an enthusiastic chronicler of Francis’ papacy Tornielli finds Francis deep in thought about the logic of God’s love, a more abstract matter than the casual Francis observer might usually happen upon in mainstream reporting. Mercy, Francis says, is God’s central attribute, and it is Pope Francis’ most treasured theological concept: the motto on the Pope’s coat of arms reads miserando atque eligendo, meaning, “by having mercy, by choosing Him,” a reference to Christ’s forgiveness of the tax collector Matthew. Francis says our era is an era of mercy, a time for the Church to show “her motherly face to a humanity that is wounded.” His commitment to mercy is rooted in a belief that the world is profoundly damaged, and that humanity is much immiserated by the “fragility of our era.” The pope is explicit about human nature, which is “wounded by original sin,” and prone thereby to weak-

ness, foolishness, and failure. Here Francis reiterates his long-standing position that morality is about keeping up the good fight. “The most important thing in the life of every man and every woman is not that they should never fall along the way,” Francis explains, “the important thing is always to get back up.” Mercy restores peaceful accord where the possibility of destruction (legitimate or not) had b e e n prompted. “You will continue to be the chosen p e o p l e ,” Francis imagines God saying to Israel in the Book of Ezekiel, “and all your sins will be forgiven.” Your sins, in other words, will not loose you from the love of God. God’s mercy has the effect of continuing a relationship rather than ending it; God’s mercy subverts the relationship-devastating destruction of sin by replacing a potentially fatal settling of accounts with a profusion of love. Mercy is God’s way of not being done with you: think of people you have wronged, and the ones who have chosen not to get even are likely the ones you feel most indebted to. And so we are. God’s mercy is “a gift that is so overabundant it may even seem unfair in our eyes,” Francis notes. It’s a feeling, Francis believes, one that moves God and His beloved humankind. It is the sinew that binds God to humanity, humanity to God; it is something that Francis again and again says must be experienced. It is the elemental mystery Augustine realizes in book one of his Confessions when he

wonders: “Why do you mean so much to me? Help me find words to explain...Have pity on me and help me, O Lord my God. Tell me why you mean so much to me. Whisper in my heart, I am here to save you.” For observers of Francis’ papacy

who have been looking for a unifying logic beneath his many interests - encounter, equality, a reintegration of the marginalized, an opening of doors - The Name of God is Mercy will be tremendously informative. But even for the layperson not much interested in

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What Pope Francis Told a Stunningly Large Crowd of Mexican Youth

Morelia, Mexico (CNA/EWTN News) - In his visit to Morelia – one of Mexico’s most violent cities – Pope Francis had a strong message for the country’s youth: rather than allowing themselves to be used and trampled on, he told them to recognize their value and to place their hope in Jesus.

One of Mexico’s greatest treasures “is that it has a youthful face: its young people...you are the wealth of this land,” the Pope told them Feb. 16. However, “I did not say the hope of this land, but its wealth,” he added. This, he said, is because “you

cannot live in hope, or look to the future if you do not first know how to value yourselves, if you do not feel that your life, your hands, your history, is worth the effort.” Hope is born when a person is able to experience “that all is not lost,” he said, explaining that in order for this to happen, it’s nec-

essary “to begin with yourself.” Pope Francis traveled to the city of Morelia on his fourth full day of his Feb. 12-17 visit to Mexico. Located in the north central part of Mexico’s Michoacán state, Morelia is a hotbed of drug-related violence and organized crime that is greatly in need of the Pope’s message of peace. Francis met with an estimated 50,000 young people after celebrating Mass for priests, religious and seminarians in Morelia’s Venustiano Carranza Stadium and visiting the city’s cathedral earlier that morning. Before speaking, the Pope listened to testimonies from the youth, who recounted the difficulties of trying to build strong families amid a society overcome with corruption and violence, and which lacks the opportunity for adequate education and work. In his address, Francis told the youth that the biggest threat to their hope are “those words which devalue you, which make you feel second-rate.” “The biggest threat to hope is when you feel that you do not matter to anybody or that you have been left aside. The biggest threat to hope is when you feel that, either being present or ab-

sent, you make no difference,” he said. Francis told the youth that hope is also threatened when they start to believe their value is measured by money, prestige and material possessions, while in the depths of their heart they believe they are really not worthy of either kindness or love. However, the Pope also acknowledged that it’s hard to understand or feel valued “when you are continually exposed to the loss of friends or relatives at the hands of the drug trade, of drugs themselves, of criminal organizations that sow terror.” It’s hard to feel like the wealth of the nation when there are no opportunities for decent work or study, he noted, adding that the difficulty is exacerbated when, as youth, “you feel that your rights are being trampled on” or that “you are used for selfish purposes, seduced by promises that end up being untrue,” which leads to extreme situations. But despite all this, “I will never tire of saying, you are the wealth of Mexico,” Francis said, and clarified that he’s not saying this because he’s nice, but because he’s convinced that it’s the truth. He said that Jesus Christ is the

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one who renews this hope in him, and that if we take the Lord’s hand and walk with Him, we can move forward and begin again. With Jesus, “we find the strength to say: it is a lie to believe that the only way to live, or to be young, is to entrust oneself to drug dealers or others who do nothing but sow destruction and death,” Pope Francis explained. It’s Jesus Christ who shows us that poverty and exclusion are not the only paths available for young people, he said, adding that the Lord is the one who “refutes all attempts to render you useless or to be mere mercenaries of other people’s ambitions.” Francis told the youth that when life seems too heavy and they feel like the world “is crashing down around you,” to run to Jesus and to embrace his Cross. “Draw close to Him and please, never let go of his hand; please, never leave Him,” Francis pleaded, and asked the youth to not allow themselves to be excluded, devalued or treated like a commodity. “You may not be able to have the latest car model at the door, you will not have pockets filled with money, but you will have something that no one can take away from you, which is the experience of being loved, embraced and accompanied,” he said. The Pope closed telling the youth that they are being called by the Lord just as St. Juan Diego was, to build a shrine. This shrine, he said, is not a physical place, but rather a community and a nation. “Being a community, a family, and knowing that we are citizens is one of the best antidotes to all that threatens us, because it makes us feel that we are a part of the great family of God,” he said.

Francis: No Capital Punishment During the Year of Mercy Vatican City (VIS) – The Pope has observed that the increasingly strong public opposition to the death penalty, even as an instrument of legitimate social defence, is a sign of hope. “Indeed, modern societies are able to effectively control crime without definitively removing from the criminal the possibility of redeeming himself. The issue lies in the context of a perspective on penal justice that increasingly conforms to the dignity of man and God’s design for man and for society. And also penal justice open to the hope of being reintegrated in society. The command “thou shalt not kill” has absolute value and refers to the guilty as well as the innocent. “The Extraordinary Jubilee of Mercy is a good opportunity to

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