Four County Catholic November 2014 by Diocese of Norwich

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November 2014

A Catholic Education has been the best experience of my life. ...I know God has a plan for me and a Catholic education is just the beginning... Ashley Grayson, Eighth Grade, St. Patrick Cathedral School Essay winner at Annual Seton Scholarship Dinner

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On the Cover Ashley Grayson, eighth grade student at St. Patrick Cathedral School, Norwich, receiving Essay Contest Award at Seton Scholarship Dinner, October 26, 2014. Presenting award in background is Dr. Edward Shine, Superintendent of Diocesan Catholic Schools. Photo by Khoi Ton.

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The Most Reverend

Michael R. Cote, D.D.

Bishop of Norwich

“God is Not Afraid of the New”

Pope Francis - reflecting on the recently concluded Synod of Bishops devoted to Pastoral Challenges to the Family in the Context of Evangelization My Dear Brothers and Sisters in Christ: With so many societal, political, and economic concerns confronting us at the moment, the timing of the recent Synod of Bishops on the Family, as convened by His Holiness Pope Francis, was inspired. It would seem on the surface that the unsettling conditions in the world at the moment have little connection to family. Our faith teaches us otherwise. The strength of family in a turbulent world is the foundation for stabilizing the societies in which we live. Strong families and a courageous and inclusive Church have the power to restore order. To restore hope. To overcome even the most heinous adversity. With this conviction and with the Holy Spirit at work, the Holy Father convened the historic twoweek Synod of bishops and lay faithful from around the world, including your input from the

Diocese of Norwich. From the outset, Pope Francis encouraged spirited and frank discussion. No holding back. The challenges of the family in a new age is a complex subject, and as expected, stirred intense debate. Keeping in mind, the Synod’s task was to identify the challenges facing the family. The considerably more ambitious work of determining the response of the Church to those challenges awaits the follow-up Synod in October 2015. Even defining the challenges captured the interest of the worldwide media. Many reporters chose to view the proceedings in an almost political context of conservative members of the Church versus progressives. This is a perspective that is shaped, of course, by news agencies conditioned to looking at the world as a political struggle. What took place, however, within the Synod was not political. It was in truth the Church looking

at herself in light of the Gospel of Christ. This spiritual self-reflection recognizes that the Lord left for us teachings on the sanctity of marriage. It also recognizes that the Church is called to be merciful. Here lies the profound challenge of working through how to be true to both callings. We should be mindful that even with the Synod Fathers choosing and voting on word choices, and the media picking up on each and every word, these are still preliminary findings leading to the October 2015 Synod which will address concrete solutions. Over the next year, the outcome of the Synod, as detailed in the Relatio Synodi, the final summary report, will be the focus of careful thought and prayer. Besides encouraging open debate throughout the Synod, the Holy Father also recognizes that God works in ways that often surprise us.

The Holy Father, in his homily at the Mass for the beatification of Blessed Pope Paul VI on the day of the Synod’s closing, emphasized how the Synod Fathers “felt the power of the Holy Spirit who constantly guides and renews the Church.” Pope Francis, reflecting further on the two weeks of discourse on family, talked of “mastering the fear which we often feel at God’s surprises. God is not afraid of the new! That is why he is continually surprising us, opening our hearts and guiding us in unexpected ways.” The Holy Father is clearly focused on the mission, which is not to simply have a spirited dialogue, but in his words, “to seek the lost sheep with fatherly care and mercy…and without false fears.” A journalist looking for a word or phrase that signals a conclusion not to be reached for a year is getting too far ahead of the journey. It may be fair, however,

to listen encouragingly to the Holy Father’s tone and his sense of the true mission. May the God of surprises over the months ahead, lead us farther along the journey beyond condemnation to an openness and understanding sought by Pope Francis. Too many of our brothers and sisters find themselves on the periphery of the Church which is, in the truest sense, a family itself. We have the doctrine. Now how do we be merciful? This is not an either/or question. We are called to do both. We look to the continuing leadership of the Holy Father to navigate through the complexities and challenges of 21st century relationships and to bring us to a state of mercy, grace and love to ensure the building-up of God’s Kingdom. Sincerely yours in Christ’s love, Bishop Michael R. Cote

“Dios No Tiene Miedo a lo Nuevo”

Papa Francisco - reflexión sobre el recién concluido Sínodo de los Obispos, dedicado a los desafíos pastorales de la familia en el contexto de la evangelización. Queridos Hermanos y Hermanas: Con tantas preocupaciones sociales, políticas y económicas que enfrentamos en este momento, la temporización del reciente Sínodo de los Obispos sobre la Familia, por convocatoria de su Santidad el Papa Francisco, fue inspiradora. Parecería en el entorno que la persistente crisis de terror en el mundo, la salud pública y la poca confianza en el gobierno tienen poca conexión con la familia. Nuestra fe nos en-

seña lo contrario. En un mundo turbulento la fuerza de la familia es la base para la estabilización de las sociedades en las que vivimos. Familias fuertes y una Iglesia valiente e incluyente tienen el poder para restaurar el orden. Para restaurar la esperanza. Para superar la adversidad, incluso la más atroz. Con esta convicción y con el Espíritu Santo en acción, el Santo Padre convocó a dos semanas históricas del Sínodo de los

Obispos y de fieles laicos de todo el mundo, incluyendo las aportaciones de la Diócesis de Norwich. Desde el principio, el Papa Francisco animó a una discusión enérgica y franca. Sin restricción. Los desafíos de la familia en una nueva era es un tema complejo, y como se esperaba, se agitó un intenso debate. Teniendo en cuenta, que la tarea del Sínodo fue identificar los desafíos que enfrenta la familia. La obra mucho más ambiciosa de deter-

minar la respuesta de la Iglesia a aquellos desafíos se espera en el seguimiento al Sínodo en octubre del 2015. Hasta la definición de los retos conquistó el interés de los medios de comunicación en todo el mundo. Muchos de los informes de los medios optaron por ver los debates en un contexto casi político de miembros de la Iglesia los conservadores versus los progresistas. Por supuesto, es una perspectiva que

ha tomado esta forma por las agencias de noticias condicionando a ver el mundo como una lucha política. Sin embargo, lo que se llevó a cabo dentro del Sínodo no era político. Era en verdad la Iglesia mirándose a sí misma a la luz del Evangelio de Cristo. Este auto reflexión espiritual reconoce que el Señor nos dejó enseñanzas sobre la santidad del matrimonio. Además reDios no tiene miedo a lo Nuevo

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Pope Francis’ Prayer Intentions for June That all who suffer loneliness may experience the closeness of God and the support of others.

conoce que la iglesia es exhortada a ser misericordiosa. Aquí se encuentra el profundo reto de trabajar para conseguir hacer ambas cosas y ser fiel a los dos llamados. Debemos tener en cuenta que incluso con los Padres Sinodales eligiendo y votando opciones de palabras, y los medios de comunicación indagando cada una y todas las palabras, estos siguen siendo hallazgos preliminares que conducen al Sínodo que abordará soluciones concretas en Octubre del 2015. El resumen final así como está detallado en la Relatio Synodi, será enfocarse en una reflexión cuidadosa y oración durante el próximo año que conducirá al re-

sultado del Sínodo de octubre de 2015. Además de fomentar el debate abierto durante todo el Sínodo, el Santo Padre también reconoce que Dios trabaja en formas que a menudo nos sorprenden. El Santo Padre, en la homilía de la misa de beatificación del Beato Papa Pablo VI en el día de cierre del Sínodo, hizo hincapié en como los padres sinodales “sintieron el poder del Espíritu Santo que constantemente guía y renueva la Iglesia.” El Papa Francisco, reflexionando aún más de las dos semanas de discurso sobre la familia, habló de “dominar el miedo que a menudo sentimos a las sorpresas de Dios.” ¡Dios no tiene miedo a lo nuevo! Es por eso que nos sorprende continuamente, abriendo nuestros cora-

zones y guiándonos de manera inesperada.” El Santo Padre se centra claramente en la misión, que no es simplemente tener un dialogo enérgico, pero en sus palabras, “buscar la oveja perdida con cuidado paternal y misericordia…y sin temores falsos. “Buscar pronto una palabra o frase que señale una conclusión que no será alcanzada por un año es llegar por muy delante de la jornada. Sin embargo, puede ser razonable escuchar con esperanza el tono del Santo Padre y su sentido de la verdadera misión. Que el Dios de las sorpresas en los próximos meses, nos lleve más lejos a lo largo del viaje más allá de la condena a una apertura y a una comprensión pedida por el Papa Francisco.

Muchos de nuestros hermanos y hermanas se encuentran en la periferia de la Iglesia, que es, en el sentido más verdadero, su propia familia. Tenemos la doctrina. Ahora ¿Cómo podemos ser misericordiosos? Esto no es cualquiera de los dos/o pregunta. Estamos llamados a hacer ambos. Miramos hacia el continuo liderazgo del Santo Padre para navegar a través de las complejidades y los desafíos de las relaciones del siglo 21 y para llevarnos a un estado de misericordia, gracia y amor para garantizar la construcción del Reino de Dios. Atentamente en el amor de Cristo, Obispo Michael R. Cote

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Holy Hour for Vocations The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, leads the Holy Hour: Father Greg Galvin, Director of Priestly Vocations vocations@norwichdiocese.net

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November 20, 2014 • 7:00 pm - 8:00 pm St. Thomas Aquinas, Storrs December 18, 2014 • 6:30 pm - 7:30 pm Sacred Heart, Norwichtown

Reverend Brian Christopher Maxwell, Ordained to Priesthood on May 25, 2013, by the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich at the Cathedral of Saint Patrick, Norwich

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Frank Gilbert 1st Year Theology Pope Saint John XXIII National Seminary Weston, MA

Michael Bovino 1st Year Philosophy Mt. St. Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Deacon Ron Blank 1st Year Theology Pope Saint John XXIII National S minary Weston, MA

Jeffrey Ellis 3rd Year Theology Mt. St. Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Peter Langevin 3rd Year Theology Mt. St. Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Thomas Griffin 3rd Year Theology Blessed John XXIII National Seminary Weston, MA

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Director of Priestly Vocations

Reverend Gregory Galvin soon see in your parishes entitled CHANGE THE WORLD, Consider Priesthood, one of the topics covered is, Who is Called? The message reminds the reader that “God calls men of all kinds, with all sorts of different abilities”. There is a list of qualities given that are mentioned as

possible clues to a future priestly vocation. If you know someone you think might have a vocation to priesthood or you yourself are considering the possibility that you are called, search

out this brochure and review it prayerfully. If you do not see it in your parish, please contact the vocation office of the diocese and we will gladly send you one. In addition to those studying for priesthood, presently we also have eight men who are in the Diocesan formation program for the permanent diaconate. They are Ben LoCasto, Octavio Flores, Wayne Gignac, Jeff Naples, Kim Thompson, Dan D’Amelio, Phil Lussier and Bryan Jones. Please keep these men also in your prayers. Vocations Notes: The following identifies some of the recent and upcoming travels: During this National Vocation Awareness Week, I will be visiting Diocesan middle schools and then will be at Xavier High School on Thursday and Friday, November 18-19th I will be in Rockville Center, New York for a Region One Vocation Directors meeting as we begin plans for hosting the 2016 National Convention in Boston. Then on Friday, November 21st, I will be making a quick trip to Mount Saint Mary Seminary in Emmitsburg to attend the Mass at which both Jeff Ellis and Peter Langevin will be receiving Candidacy for ordination to diaconate and hopefully later priesthood along with many other seminarians from around the country. Then it will be time to pause during the following week and focus on giving thanks not only as an American but also as a child of God for the many blessings of this past year when I gather for Thanksgiving Dinner with my Mom and some family members. God Bless You and have a wonderful Thanksgiving!

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It is hard to believe Thanksgiving is only about three weeks away and we are fast coming upon the beginning of Advent! We are presently in the midst of the National Week of Vocation Awareness for the Church, November 2 -9. Why is this week important? It is good for us as a church to come together and reflect on many different levels about the particular call our Heavenly Father gives to each one of us as one of His created, loved and redeemed children. It is especially important for those who are in the midst of discovering their own particular vocation in life that we as the Mystical Body of Christ pray for them. It is also important that as a church we spend more time learning about the different vocations to which we are called by our Father. Regarding the Holy Priesthood, Diaconate, and Consecrated Religious Life, it is important to give our families and communities opportunity to learn more about these vocations. It is important for us as families and parish communities to pray for these Church vocations to increase according to the Father’s Will. It is important that those already living out their vocation in single, married, consecrated, and ordained vocations, take the time to reflect upon God’s call to them and ask; “how can I do better for the Lord?” This year we have seven men studying for the priesthood for the Diocese of Norwich. We have four men in Third Theology - Jeff Ellis, Peter Langevin, Tom Griffin and Juan Aguirre. We have two in First Theology - Deacon Ron Blank and Frank Gilbert. We have one in First Philosophy - Michael Bovino and one gentlemen presently working on the application to hopefully begin studies in the coming year. In a new pamphlet you will

Sunday Afternoons Norwich Diocesan Choir Sign-up The Norwich Diocesan Choir invites all interested singers to join the choir as they begin their 36th season of liturgies and concerts. Rehearsals take place in the choir room of St. Patrick Cathedral every Sunday afternoon at 2:30pm. Membership is open to adult singers with choral experience and ability to learn music quickly. Under the direction of Douglas Green, Cathedral Music Director, the choir will begin preparing music for the Norwich Diocesan Choral Festival in November and the annual Festival of Lessons and Carols in December. For more information please contact the Cathedral Music Office at 860886-0403 or DGreen860@aol.com. Friday-Sunday, November 7-9 Healing the Future Dennis, Sheila and Matt Linn, at Mercy Center by the Sea, 167 Neck Road, Madison. In writing 22 books and giving countless programs in over 60 countries, the Linn’s have seen again and again the same universal hurts: lack of affirming love as a child; unresolved grief, and difficulties in forgiveness coupled with a media that is barraging people with messages that they are weak, sick or not good enough. The messages are fear based and disempower people. The Linn’s program focuses on empowering. Participants will leave with simple easy tools to help themselves face the future with a renewed sense of hope. Dinner is at 5:30pm

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opening session 7:30-9:00pm, concludes Sunday at 4:00pm. $125.00 commuter; $275.00 per person double occupancy $350.00 single occupancy. To register, visit: www.mercybythesea.org or call (203) 245-0401. Saturday, November 8 Day of Recollection The Cathedral of St. Patrick will be having a “Day of Recollection” featuring Father Andrew Apostoli, CFR. Father will be speaking on Fatima: A message of Hope in the midst of the world crisis and Padre Pio - The Living Crucifix. Father Andrew Apostoli, CFR, is a member and co-founder of the Community of the Franciscan Friars of the Renewal and is a well-known author and speaker, as seen on EWTN. For more information or tickets $20.00 person or $10.00 students, religious free with preregistration - Lunch included, please contact Karen at (860) 3030513. Friday-Saturday, November 7-8 Olde Tyme Christmas Fair St. Andrew Church will sponsor their annual Olde Tyme Christmas Fair Friday from 4:00-8:00pm, and Saturday, from 9:00am.-2:00pm at 128 Norwich Avenue, Colchester. Booths will include a bake shop, baskets galore, country store, crafters, and special Christmas gifts, a kids’ corner, and mini tea cup auction. Santa and Mrs. Claus will also be there. Free door prize. Raffles with great prizes! On Friday, a turkey dinner with all the

trimmings will be served starting at 4:00pm for seniors, and 5:00pm for the general public. The cost of the dinner is $9.00 for adults, $7.00 for seniors, $3.00 for children 3-10 years old, and under 3 free. For questions, you may call 537-2355. Monday, November 10 The History and Role of Music in our Liturgy St. Thomas Aquinas Chapel presents Dr. Marguerite Mullee, speaking on “Seeking Joyful Noise: 50 Years of Controversy in Liturgical Music” at 7:30pm in the Aquinas Student Center, 46 North Eagleville Road on the UConn Storrs Campus. Admission is free. Come and learn how this expert on historical and contemporary American church music sees the post-Vatican II quest to find the proper role of music in the American church. Friday- Saturday, November 14 -15 St. Bernard’s Women’s Guild Christmas Bazaar The St. Bernard’s Women’s Guild cordially invites the public to its 2014 Christmas Bazaar to be held 10:00am- 2:00pm in the church hall at 25 St. Bernard Terrace in Rockville. You’ll find something for everyone on your gift list and even a few things for yourself. Saturday, November 15 Workshop for New Lectors and Extraordinary Ministers of Holy Communion 9:30am-12:30pm at Saint Matthias Parish, 317 Chesterfield Road, East

Lyme. For more information log onto worship@norwwich diocese.net or call: 860-8482237x203 $10 fee. Saturday November 15 Annual Auction and Basket Raffle St. Joseph School, 10 School Hill Rd. Baltic. Doors open 4:30pm for viewing. Basket raffle at 6:00pm, with live auction to follow. Admission is free. Evening highlights include: Disney Land passes, fully loaded theme baskets, museum memberships, zip line adventures, local goods, gift certificates, area plays and much more! Ham dinner served by Knights of Columbus. Includes salad, vegetables, beans, ham, bread, a beverage and dessert. $6.00 adults $4.00 students with $20.00 family maximum. Saturday, November 15 Festival of Angels Fair From 9:00am -3:00pm at the Monsignor M. Davitt Fox Parish Center at St. Francis of Assisi Church, 10 Elm Street, Middletown. In addition to the unique crafts, there will be homemade baked goods, a farmer’s market and a wonderful variety of vendors featuring many artisan items including jewelry, knitted and crocheted items, beautiful florals, Grandma’s attic and lots of angles This year’s raffle grand prize is a 50” HD-LED TV. Breakfast and lunch will be available at the Angel Café. For additional information or to inquire about renting a vendor space, call Sherrie at 860 346-4383 or email sherrie0119@yahoo.com.

Saturday, November 15 Mercy High School Entrance Exam Entrance Exam for the Class of 2019 8:00am– 11:15am Register Online at www.mercyhigh.com For more information contact Mrs. Diane Santostefano, Director of Admissions at dsantostefano@mercyhigh.com or call 860-346-6659. Saturday-Sunday, November 15-16 Christmas Craft Fair & Bake Sale All Saints Church in Somerville, on Saturday from 9:00am-5:00pm and Sunday from 9:00am-noon. The fair will feature a variety of handmade holiday and home items, handcrafted jewelry, 18” doll clothes and beds as well as delicious baked and canned goods. Breakfast will be available on Saturday until 11:00am followed by lunched served until 1:00pm. Sunday breakfast is available from 9:0011:00am. Please call 860-871-6213 for more information. Sunday, November 16 23rd Annual Red, White and Blue Mass At 10:15am, Bishop Michael R. Cote will celebrate Mass at the Cathedral of Saint Patrick for all military personnel, those who are active, in the reserves and Veterans. The purpose of this celebration is to honor our service men and women and their families and loved ones. The theme for the 2014, Red, White and Blue Mass is U.S. Air Force. The Homilist will be Reverend Raymond Introvigne. The Mass Committee Chairs are

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Red, White & Blue Mass All Active Duty, Retired & Reserve Personnel, Veterans, Veterans’ Organizations & Auxiliaries of all Faiths are invited to attend.

Sunday, November 16, 2014 at 10:15 am Cathedral of Saint Patrick • 213 Broadway, Norwich, CT

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BG CT Edward J. Waitte, (Ret.) and Mr. David K. Harding, U.S. Merchant Marine. For more information please call, Monsignor Brown or Mrs. Rebecca McDougal at 860-887-9294. Saturday, November 22 St. Peter Church Country Christmas Fair A Country Christmas Fair. Doors open at 9:00am. Antiques, knitter’s nook, handmade 18 inch doll clothes, wreaths, trees and Santa’s gift shop. The fair will also feature “The Attic” selling furniture and a huge bake sale. Santa will arrive at noon. Lunch items and a variety of soups will be available for purchase. An auction will begin at 6:30pm with our big raffle tickets being pulled at 6:45pm. Grinders will be available for purchase during the auction. Contact Bill Fitzpatrick at 860-345-4910 with questions. St. Peter Church Hall, 30 St. Peter Lane, Higganum. Saturday, November 22 St. Maurice Annual Sleigh Bells Ring Christmas Fair From 9:00am - 3:00pm at 32 Hebron Road, Bolton. This much anticipated holiday event abounds with homemade gifts such as Raggedy Ann and Andy dolls, unique hostess gifts, handcrafted ornaments, fresh evergreen baskets, American Girl doll clothes, a quilt raffle, Christmas tree skirts, favorite homemade apple pies and delicious holiday baked goods. Santa and Mrs. Claus will be available for photos from 10:00am-noon. Start your Christmas shopping early and stay for lunch! Homemade clam chowder, baked potatoes and chili are just a few items on the menu along with hot chocolate and spicy mulled cider! Over 40 talented crafters will be on the premises. Monday, November 24 Healing Mass At 2:00pm at Spiritual Renewal Center, Norwich. Father Ray, Celebrant, Judith Hughes, healing prayers. No masses in December at Renewal Center. Monday-Wednesday, Dec. 1-3 Annual Convocation for Priests The Annual Convocation for Priests in the Diocese of Norwich, will be held December 1-3 in Newport, Rhode Island. Saturday, December 6 Healing and Freedom Conference (Unbound) 9:00am – 5:00pm at the Spiritual

Renewal Center. Farther Ray, Judith Hughes and team. Must preregister. Please call 860- 887-0702 – Donation $25.00. Sunday, December 7 Christmas Festival and Basket Raffle St. Patrick’s Cathedral School will be hosting a Christmas festival and basket raffle from 8:00am-1:00pm in the Cathedral auditorium. There will be theme baskets, crafters and vendors. For additional information please contact Carolyn Fusaro at mcfusaro@sbcglobal.net. Sunday, December 7, 2014 Sunday Mass for Anointing of the Sick Hosted by the Sisters of Charity of Our Lady Mother of the Church, Holy Family Motherhouse Chapel, Baltic, Celebrated by Reverend Monsignor Thomas R. Bride, P.A., K.C.S. G.A. Retired Priest of the Diocese of Norwich. This Mass is open to all Catholics who may be anointed, all those 61 years or older, anyone whose health is impaired or baptized children who are sick or infirm. This 2:00pm Sunday Mass does fulfill your Sunday Mass obligation.

Saturday, December 13 St. Mark’s Christmas Cookie Sale St. Mark the Evangelist Church, 222 McVeagh Rd., Westbrook will hold its annual Christmas cookie sale from 9:00am- 12:00pm (or till sold out.) Plates of 2½ dozen assorted, delicious home-baked cookies ($12.00) will be sold, along with our parish cookbook “Cookie Jar Favorites.” Themed baskets will be raffled. A portion of the proceeds will go to St. Mark’s Haitian Ministry and the St. Mark Soup Pantry. For further information, please call Julia at 860-388-5186 or Joan at 860-388-9675. Sunday, December 14 St. Lawrence Christmas Concert The Royal Court Singers, a madrigal group, will perform at the St. Lawrence Christmas Concert in Killingworth at 2:00pm. Other performers include Reverend Joseph F. DeCosta, the church choir, as well as other musicians and vocalists. The concert includes congregational singing of Christmas carols. Refreshments will follow the concert. For more information, contact stlawrencec@yahoo.com or www.stlawrencechurch.com.

“I have told you this (your name) so that My joy might be in you and your joy might be complete. This is My commandment: Love (respect, forgive) one another AS I LOVE YOU. No one has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. You are My friends if you do...

“...What I command you!”” John 15:11-14

Italy Pilgrimage – October 29 – November 8, 2014 Prayerfully, Audience with Pope Francis November 5, 2014 Prayer, Praise, Worship and Adoration Every Tuesday Evening at 6:30 pm Spiritual Renewal Center, Norwich, CT National Charismatic Leaders & Ministries Conference November 7-9, 2014 Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania Healing Mass, Monday, November 24, 2014 2:00 pm (new time) at Spiritual Renewal Center, Norwich, CT Fr Ray, Celebrant, Judith Hughes, Healing Prayers No masses in December at Renewal Center Healing and Freedom Conference (Unbound) Saturday, December 6, 2014 – 9:00 am – 5:00 pm Spiritual Renewal Center, 11 Bath St., Norwich, CT Fr Ray, Judith Hughes and Team Must Pre-register at (860) 887-0702 – Donation $25

The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, has made the following clergy and diocesan appointments in the Diocese of Norwich:

Clergy Appointments Reverend Monsignor Anthony S. Rosaforte, 1 year renewal of appointment as Rector, Cathedral of Saint Patrick, Norwich. Effective: October 28, 2014. Reverend Christopher Feeney, from Parochial Vicar, Saint Mary, Mother of the Redeemer Parish, Groton, and Sacred Heart Parish, Groton Saint Mary Parish, to Parochial Vicar, Saint Michael Parish, Pawcatuck, Saint Mary Parish, Stonington, and Saint Thomas More Parish, North Stonington. Effective: November 4, 2014. ~ Monsignor Robert L. Brown, Chancellor ~

Diocesan Prayer Meeting – St. Mary Church, Portland, CT Tuesday, December 9, 2014 @ 7:30 pm (45 Freestone Ave-Church Hall) All parishes and Prayer Groups are invited Speaker Fr. Paul Boudreau, Pastor

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22nd Annual Mass for Firefighters & EMS Personnel

‘Your Hand Stands for Integrity and Holiness’ NORWICH — It was a Saturday vigil Mass like no other. A LifeStar helicopter circled the gray spires of the CatheBy Shelley Wolf FCC Contributor

dral of Saint Patrick. Below, two red ladder trucks from the Taftville and Pawcatuck fire departments raised their ladders to create a memorial arch across Broadway, where together they suspended a huge American flag across the street. Marching to the sound of the Connecticut Firefighters Pipe and Drum, uniformed firefighters paraded up Broadway, crossed into Monsignor King Park, and then entered the cathedral to begin the celebration of the 22nd Annual Mass for Firefighters and EMS Personnel on Saturday, October 18. This year the firefighters were welcomed by the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, homilist Reverend Walter Riley, and special guest Gover-

nor Dannel P. Molloy. In a statement before the Mass, Governor Molloy said, “Firefighters contribute so much to the foundation of our com-

roes among us in the emergency medical and firefighting services

in the Diocese of Norwich and throughout the State. This year’s Mass began with the cathedral pipe organ and choir leading all attendees i n

EMS personnel. “Thank God for your blessing to serve others because it is indeed a blessing.” Bishop Cote also took a moment to remember all those lost in the line of service, especially the recent deaths this year of Deputy Chief David Fiori of the New Britain Fire Department and Firefighter Kevin Bell of the Hartford Fire Department. This year’s invited homilist was Reverend Walter Riley, who serves as Catholic Chaplain of the Worcester Fire Department, Pastor of Immaculate Conception

singing “Lift High the Cross.” Bishop Cote welcomed the firefighters, their families, and all invited guests. “You care for others’ needs and give a marvelous example of service to others,” he told the firefighters and

Parish in Worcester, and Director of Priest Personnel for the Diocese of Worcester. In his homily, Father Riley commented on the liturgical reading of Matthew 22:15-21 in which the Pharisees tried to entrap Jesus by asking him “Is it lawful to pay the census tax to Caesar or not?” In response, Jesus asked to see the coin that paid the census tax. The Pharisees handed the Roman coin over to Jesus, who then asked whose image and inscription were on the coin. When the Pharisees

munities. Their res i l i e n c e , courage, and bravery keep all of us safe, and we are forever grateful for the sacrifices they make to protect us.” Each year the special Mass is held to honor and pray for the he-

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year’s fallen firefighters, David Fiori and Kevin Bell. The Mass concluded with the Presentation of the Colors by the Color Guards and the singing of the hymn “Mine Eyes Have Seen the Glory.” Mass was followed by a reception in the church hall for all attendees. Save the date: Next year’s Mass for Firefighters and EMS Personnel will be celebrated on October 15, 2015 at 5:00 p.m.

said it was Caesar’s, Jesus said “Then repay to Caesar what belongs to Caesar and to God what belongs to God.” In his homily, Father Riley explained that “the coin” that is owed to Caesar represents the secular world we live in. “It represents every person you will ever serve now and in the future,” he told the firefighters and emergency responders. “In its image are thousands of people you will serve that you do not even know,” he said. “They’re counting on you to extend the care, the mercy, and the love they need in extreme moments of difficulty.” Father Riley also explained the symbolism of the different hands that held the coin, as the coin passed from the hands of the Pharisees to Jesus. “You are the hand of Christ,” he emphasized. “You hold the coin of our community, our secular world. Your hand stands for integrity and holiness,” he explained. “Know that your assistance and willingness to assist is more profound when you see yourself as the hand of Christ,” Father Riley

said. “You have many opportunities to be Christ to others in word and in deed.” Following Communion, the Connecticut Firefighters Pipe and Drum played the meditation hymn “Amazing Grace,” which resounded throughout the cathedral. Then the entire congregation recited a prayer for the intercession of St. Florian, patron saint of firefighters, and St. Michael the Archangel, patron saint of emergency medical personnel. In a sobering reminder of the dangers of the job, various personnel read aloud the “Roll of Honor,” which listed the names of 40 firefighters and emergency responders who were killed in Connecticut in the line of duty since 1993. It was especially poignant when individual firefighters and EMS workers stepped up one-byone to announce the names of their fallen colleagues. The mention of each name was followed by the clanging of a memorial bell. Bishop Cote stepped down from the altar to offer a special blessing for the families of this

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Silver and Gold Jubilee Anniversary Mass Over Sixty Couples Celebrate Silver and Gold Jubilee Anniversary Mass at the Cathedral of Saint Patrick on Sunday, October 19, 2014.

Married couples from parishes throughout the Norwich Diocese came to participate in

sixty or more years of marriage, with two couples celebrating

By Susan Williams Office of Family Life, Catholic Charities

the Diocesan celebration of God’s gift of love in the sacrament of Marriage in the Annual Silver and Gold Jubilee Anniversary Mass at the Cathedral of St. Patrick on Sunday, October 19th. Over sixty couples celebrating their Silver and Gold or other anniversaries significant to the couple renewed their marriage vows in the Pontifical Mass celebrated by Bishop Michael R. Cote which was witnessed by family and friends. It is truly a beautiful experience to have the family of couples present to witness in the renewal of parents or grandparents wedding vows. Along with all couples present, sixteen couples celebrated

sixty-seven years of marriage. The presence of these two couples with the most years of marriage was noted by Bishop Michael Cote in his Homily as a beautiful testimony to marriage and family life. Robert and

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Marguerite Cloutier, members of St. Stephen Parish in Quinebaug, celebrated sixtyseven years of marriage, married in 1947 at St. Joseph Church in North Grosvenordale. The Cloutiers have five children and five grandchildren. Robert is a WWII veteran. Emile and Lucille LaPlante, members of St. Augustine Church in Canterbury, celebrated sixty-seven years of marriage, married in 1947 at Notre Dame de Lourdes Parish in Skowhegan, Maine. The LaPlantes have five children, twelve grandchildren, three step grandchildren, and twelve great grandchildren. Emile is a 4th Degree Knight of Columbus. Certificates blessing couples with their years of marriage through the Pontifical Commemorative Mass were awarded by Bishop Michael Cote. Celebrating couples along with their families numbering over 200 were present to share in the Jubilee Anniversary Mass and the reception with Bishop Michael Cote in the Cathedral Hall that followed the Mass.

Attending Couples 25th Wedding Anniversary George and Thecla Abbiati Jr. Kevin and Deborah Byrne Barry and Theresa Fasciano James and Sharon Fogarty Charles and Jane Gauvin Walter and Deborah Guth Roy and Robin Kerlin Michael and Barbara Litwin John and Mary Ellen Mahoney Carlos and Maria Yraita 50th Wedding Anniversary David and Margaret Bannon Ronald and Sandra Becotte Francis and Suzanne Cleary Joseph and Ceil Cubanski James and Celena Drury, Jr. Ronald and Innoccenza Gatto Frank and Joanne Golden Pedro and Shirley Gonzales William and Pauline Kelly Thomas and MaryLu Klosowski Armand and Florence Linder Richard and Judith MacDonald Mark and Jean Mangano Mario and Sharon Migliaccio Richard and Juliann Nejfelt Ronald and Mary Ann Peter Deacon Gerald and Patricia Shaw 60 Years of Marriage Donald and Nancy Brodeur

John and Beatrice Delamater, Sr. Michele and Arlene Giglio Frederick and Mary Frances Jones Thomas and Norma Keegan Gerard and Loretta LeBlanc Edward and Marie Leheny Robert and Sylvia Miller More than 60 Years of Marriage 67 Robert & Marguerite Cloutier Emile & Lucille LaPlante 65 Raymond & Marian Andrews Alexander & Jennie Raczka 63 Henry & Mary Chamberlain James & Loretta Crandall 62 Glen & Dorthyann Lyon 61 Robert & Gerardine McKeon Various Years of Marriage 61 Robert & Gerardine McKeon 58 John & Phyllis Lester John & Jane Sterry 57 Raymond & Janice Stewart 56 Anthony & Ann Stefanski 54 David & Dorothy Shea 53 Joseph & Ann Marie Fasciano 51 Anthony & Maria Henry 44 Denver & Janice Schroeder 40 Dennis & Jeanne Beaulieu Richard & Debra Wheeler 39 Gilles & Rosemary Beauregard Marc & Karen Aubin 30 James and Tina Gromko 11 Michael and Linda Judge 6 Robert and Mona Niedbala

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Another Advent

One of the finest characteristics of the Liturgical Calendar is that it starts over from the By Sister Elissa Rinere, CP, JCD Office of Worship

beginning with every Advent. We go back to the beginning of the life of Jesus, to the beginning of all the liturgical books, even to the beginning of many hymnals. The cycle of the year begins anew. In contrast, our “regular” calendar goes only in one direction, forward. There is no returning to the beginning of the same year, no refreshment, no chance to catch up or to slow down. The calendar just keeps moving ahead, and we often race to keep up with it. Liturgical documents tell us that Advent has a “two-fold character.” On one hand it is the season to prepare for Christmas, the birth of Jesus, but on the other hand it is the time when “remembrance directs the heart and mind to await Christ’s second coming at the end of time.” Whichever theme you might want to consider, Advent is the liturgical time for slowing down, for being quiet and reflective. It is the time to take stock of how life is going, and to see if there is some need for change, either in speed or direction. Advent is the time of watching, and waiting for the appearance of mystery. Advent is the time for pondering the incomprehensible mystery of God. For many of us, it is challenge enough to prepare for Christmas. This usually involves thinking about gifts that will be special to those we love, how to obtain those gifts while staying within a budget, and perhaps how to gather family together for the holidays. The second face of Advent is certainly more challenging than Christmas preparations! Pondering the Second Coming of Christ at the end of time, in which we profess belief every time we say

the Creed, requires much more careful attention. Of course, an associated topic might the moment when time will end for each of us as individuals, difficult as that might be

to put together with Christmas. The parable in the Gospel for the First Sunday of Advent admonishes the servants (us) to be watchful and alert lest the “lord of the house” comes home to find them asleep and unprepared. Here is the message that Jesus arrives at Christmas, but will also be arriving at some time in the future. The Second and Third Sundays of Advent present to us the preaching of John the Baptist who describes himself as “the voice of one crying out in the wilderness. Prepare the way of the Lord.” To whom is John crying out his mes-

sage, if not to us? On both these Sundays, John confesses his own unworthiness to untie the strap of Jesus’ sandals. What faith he must have had to see this truth about his own cousin, with whom he had probably grown up. On the final Sunday of Advent we will hear the beautiful story of the Annunciation as related to us in the Gospel of St. Luke. In this scene, Mary is presented to us as one who hears God’s word, puzzling as it is, and accepts it completely. She could never have known at that moment everything that would be required of her, but her trust in God was strong. Although totally free to decline the invitation, we are told she never hesitated to say yes. Here, Mary provides us with an example that is the essence of Advent; immediate preparation for the birth of Jesus in concert with long-term commitment for whatever will come in the future. During Advent may we be alert and watchful, silent enough to hear the voice crying in the wilderness, and trusting enough to accept the invitation to trust in God for the future.

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A Book of Rememberance On Sunday, September 28th, Bishop Michael R. Cote celebrated the nine oâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;clock Mass at the CatheBy Mary Ellen Mahoney

Society, Bishop Hines Society or the Bishop Flanagan Society. During Mass, Bishop Cote unveiled the Book of Remembrance, a beautiful

who have encouraged, sustained and nurtured our faithâ&#x20AC;? and continued on to ask the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit to bestow on the Cathedralâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s benefactors â&#x20AC;&#x153;the abundance of your love now and forever.â&#x20AC;? After Mass, all who

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attended were invited to the Cathedral hall for a light breakfast buffet. The Bishop welcomed everyone

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dral of St. Patrick and recognized the 135th anniversary of the dedication of the Cathedral. In his homily, Bishop Cote thanked the many hard working parishioners who sacrificed in order to see the Cathedral built so many years ago. Many of these families were recent immigrants who truly gave their time, talents and limited resources to support the construction of their church. In addition to celebrating the 135th anniversary of the Cathedralâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s dedication, the Mass was also an opportunity for the Bishop to thank the many generous SPIRIT (St. Patrick is Restored in Tradition) donors who contributed to the recent restoration of the Cathedral. Through the Spirit Campaign, 447 people and families provided monetary support to allow for the paint-

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In Bishop Coteâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s introduction to the blessing of the Book of Remembrance, he noted â&#x20AC;&#x153;This edifice tells the account of the strong faith, enduring love for God and tireless perseverance of our forbearers who 135 years ago sacrificed so much to construct this magnificent Cathedral.â&#x20AC;? Bishop Cote recalled in his blessing of the Book of Remembrance â&#x20AC;&#x153;those

with a prayer and then presented the top Society donors with plaques recognizing their gift â&#x20AC;&#x153;with great appreciationâ&#x20AC;?. The Book of Remembrance will soon be placed on a wall in the Cathedral. It can be updated for recognition of future gifts. If you would like to make a donation or become a society sponsor, please contact the development office at (860) 886-1928.

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Adoption: A Love Story

“Each November our country celebrates National Adoption month. Adoption practice has changed draBy Susan Sedensky Director of Adoption Programs

matically since 1851, when the State of Massachusetts enacted the first statute concerning adoption. Individuals central to the adoption process are the birth parents, the child or the adoptee and the adoptive parents. Together they are called “the triad”. Catholic Charities, Diocese of Norwich, has been serving all members of the adoption triad since 1929. Today, many women who consider placing their unborn ba-

bies for adoption look at picture profiles of couples who have completed the home study process and are waiting to bring a baby home. Many of these women meet the couple and often have some sort of postadoption communication. In celebrating adoption, all mem-

bers of the adoption triad should be honored: The birth mother who selflessly decided that she would place her baby with an adoptive family that she believed would give her child the loving home that he de-

served, the adoptive couple who chose to love and raise this child as their own, and the child who has been blessed with life from God. In this month’s Four County Catholic, we are printing one young woman’s reflections on her own adoption journey, as well as the artistic vision of Micaela Utz, our Three Rivers Community College intern, who has drawn her vision of “adoption a love story.”

AN ADOPTION STORY By Autumn B. Trahan I found out I was pregnant in the spring of my senior year in high school. Before I took the pregnancy test I kept telling myself that I

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would choose abortion. But when reality sank in and I realized this was no joke, and that there was a little person growing inside me, developing, and living I couldn’t even bring myself to consider having an abortion. It wasn’t something I was willing to go through and allow myself to be tormented by my guilt and anguish. I knew there was only one realistic and selfless option that would still provide my daughter with all the love and support she would need throughout her life. I chose adoption. Perhaps being familiar with adoption within my own family made the decision more comforting, but the circumstances were still different. I was losing somebody whereas my family had gained children through adoption. Regardless of losing and gaining, this was my choice. Being only 17 at the time, I wasn’t ready to take on something so great as raising a little person without having my own life together. I wasn’t working; I hadn’t even graduated high school yet. I was indecisive about my plans for college and on top of all that, I had no idea how to raise a child! I was still a child myself. That was without the most worrisome part for me. I didn’t want to attempt something I wasn’t equipped to take on. My family would have supported me no matter what decision I made, but it wasn’t fair for me to depend on my family to raise a child I was bringing into this world. I knew what was best for my daughter.

When I first came to Catholic Charities, I had no idea what to expect. I thought it was going to be degrading and uncomfortable to be honest. But to my surprise I felt more than welcome and secure in the office of Susan Sedensky. Susan listened to my entire life story leading up to that very moment. She helped me to find exactly what I was hoping for out of the adoption services, like what kind of adoption I was most interested in choosing. I chose an open adoption so that I can remain in contact in many ways with my daughter and her family. My favorite part was being able to pick the family myself. While working with Catholic Charities, I realized that we are able to deal with the challenges that life has dealt us. It’s how we deal with those situations in our lives that makes our choices worth it or wasteful. Adoption wasn’t the end of my relationship with my daughter; it was the beginning of her life with a family that gives her all that she needs and more. I needed to grow up and get my life in order before I could take on somebody else’s. She is provided by a mother and father. I did the most loving thing a mother could do for her child, I gave her a chance at life.

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“Our Goal is to Motivate Those We Serve Toward Self-Sufficiency and a Better Life.” An Interview with Jillian Corbin, Executive Director, St. Vincent de Paul Place, Norwich to us, but the holiday itself is indeed very special. It provides an opportunity for our regular patrons and those who may be here for just that one special meal, to come together in a spirit of joy and gratitude. All are welcome. It provides a special opportunity for folks in the community to respond to their call to help others by volunteering, making donations or just visiting with our guests. A special day to be sure; one when staff, volunteers and guests give thanks for the gifts of food, fellowship and for St. Vincent de Paul Place. In addition, we will be providing turkey food baskets to those families who plan to have Thanksgiving dinner at their homes. Jillian Corbin on behalf of St. Vincent de Paul Place recently receiving a Catholic Campaign for Human Development grant from Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, Bishop of Norwich. Photo by Donna Antonacci. How many years has the St. Vincent de Paul Ministry been serving the Norwich community, and what are the primary services it provides? The St. Vincent de Paul Place Ministry has been serving the needs of the homeless and families with limited income in the greater Norwich area for thirty-five years. Our goal is to provide food, companionship, and advocacy for anyone in need, regardless of race or religion. Our primary services address hunger: we serve breakfast and lunch six days a week, and our food pantry distributes food three days a week. Our care and advocacy program assists those whose needs go beyond nutrition. Through all our services and counseling, we strive to motivate those we serve toward self-sufficiency and a better life.

How did you first develop an interest in helping others as a life’s calling? I would have to say that helping others in need has always been part of my family experience. My parents and grandparents, as well as my extended parish family at St. Colman Church taught me simply to love God and to serve others. We were always working together to make problems smaller and communities better. I try my best through the obedience of my faith to be used by God’s love to help people live to their fullest potential. It is through the relationships with others where we find the courage to respond to the needs in a community. Even when we are hit with challenges, we keep fears at bay by communicating with each other and working towards solutions together. No one can do it alone. As I like to say, It takes a village. Is Thanksgiving a particularly important time of the year for the Ministry? Every day is a little “thanksgiving”

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serving as Pastor of St Philip the Apostle Church in Ashford at the time, imagined an outdoor re-creation of the Via Dolorosa or the Sorrowful Way of the Cross where people could come and meditate on the Passion. He took his idea to the members of the Knights of Columbus Council in the Parish, Father Walter J Dunn Council #6934. It took a decade and an unknown number of spaghetti dinners to raise the $10,000 needed to bring the dream to fruition, but on October 5th, a mosaic of the resurrected Christ was officially dedicated. Following the 11am Mass (Oct. 5), the current Pastor, Father Russell Kennedy, led a procession of about 50 parishioners accompanied by an Honor Guard from Knights of Columbus Assembly #114 in Putnam. The group walked up

a wooded trail past the Stations of the Cross to the newly installed Resurrection mosaic where Father Kennedy incensed the image and blessed it. Noting the beauty and peacefulness of the location, Father Kennedy said he “is hoping a lot of people will take time to stop by to pray”. Stone benches have been installed along the way so folks can stop and mediate. Council member George Nagy also constructed a small prayer chapel dedicated to our Lady of Sorrows. The Stations were provided by Father Joe from Vietnam, his home country, and installed by members of the Council. At the end of the trail, there is a grotto containing a magnificent six by four foot mosaic of the Resurrection. Parishioner James Ference also made a major contribution to the effort. He excavated the grotto which contains the mural and installed the stone housing that holds it. The mosaic was created by Janet Zeh, a local artist who is also a parishioner at St. Philip. “I tried to create an

image showing our Lord surrounded by light after he rose from the tomb”, she said. The mosaic, which took about eight months to complete, was made up mostly of scrap tiles parishioners had in their homes left over from various building projects. It wasn’t the first time members of the Parish had supplied building materials. St Philip is a Whitestone Church built in the Byzantine style. When it was constructed by founding Pastor William Dunn in 1937, the parishioners, most of whom were immigrants from Eastern Europe brought in stones from their fields to be used in the construction. In both the creation of the Resurrection mosaic and the construction of the church itself, parish members contributed materials. Zis sees a pattern here. “God has a history of using what our parishioners provide and using it for our good and His Glory”, she said. St Philip the Apostle Church is located at 64 Pompey Hollow Road (Route 44) in the Warrenville section of Ashford.

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SENIOR RENEWAL DAY: Father Roger Couture, OMI, invites all seniors to join him for this month’s program entitled “The Parable of the Great Supper” on Wednesday, November 19 from 9:00 AM to 1:00 PM. The series is held on the third Wednesday of each month. Fee is $10.00 and includes lunch.

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Our Lady of La Salette Parish Celebrates The Feast of Our Lady of La Salette Parishioners of Our Lady of La Salette, Brooklyn, and Our Lady of Lourdes, Hampton, converged in By Albert Edward Messore

Brooklyn at Our Lady of La Salette Parish to celebrate the Apparition of the Blessed Virgin at La Salette, France on the 19th of September, 1846. The celebration was the culmination of a 9-day Novena conducted September 11th through September 19th by parish priest, Father Elson Kattookkaran. Father John O’Neill, administrator, and Reverend Phil M. Negley, Provincial Superior of the La Salette Missionaries were the guests of honor. Father Negley, guest homilist at the concluding Mass, was greatly appreciated by all parishioners. This was the second year of a much awaited annual event begun by Father Elson. The Novena gives us the opportunity to discuss and meditate on nine themes: Welcome, Freedom from Fear, Joy, Rest, True Fasting, Promised Blessings, Prayer, Bread of Life, and Mission. A procession of the rosary by clergy and parishioners, escorted by members of the Knights of Columbus Council 49, concluded the Novena Mass, followed by a social gathering and delicious treats. On Saturday, September 19, 1846, on a mountain some 6000 feet high in the French alps near the town of La Salette, France, two shepherds--an 11 year old boy, Maximin and a girl, Melanie, near-

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“Come near, my children, do not be afraid. I am here to tell you great news.” Word spread throughout the whole world, and to this day missionaries and pilgrims echo this Good News.

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Reverend Paul J. Murdock May 29, 1942 ~ November 1, 2014 Norwich â&#x20AC;&#x201C; Reverend Paul J. Murdock, Pastor of Saint Francis of Assisi Church in Middletown, Connecticut died Saturday, November 1, 2014. A much beloved Diocesan priest, Father Murdock died on the Solemnity of All Saints, a day of honor for those who faithfully dedicated their lives to Christ and have been called home to heaven. Father Murdock was 72. Father Paul J. Murdock was born in Mt. Kisco, N.Y., May 29, 1942, son of the late Paul and June Murdock. In 1964, he earned a B.A. degree in philosophy from Boston College, and in 1969, an M.A. in philosophy also from Boston College. In 1971, he began his theology studies at the Weston School of Theology, Cambridge Massachusetts where he would receive his M.A. in Divinity in 1974. Father Murdock was ordained a priest on April 26, 1975, in Blessed Sacrament Church, Cambridge, by Bishop Joseph J. Ruocco. It was in March, 1982, that Father Paul joined the Diocese of Norwich as Chaplain at St. Vincent de Paul Place in Norwich. That same year, Father Murdock became the Associate

Pastor at Saints Peter and Paul Church in Norwich, while continuing his role as Chaplain at St. Vincent de Paul Place. During the period 1990 â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 1996, Father Paul would serve as Parochial Vicar at All Hallows Church in Moosup and subsequently as Pastor of Saint Matthew in Tolland. He also worked as a substance abuse counselor at the Stonington Institute at that time. On August 1, 1996, Father Murdock, who was fluent in several languages including Spanish, was appointed Pastor of Sagrado Corazon de Jesus Parish in Windham, where he served the Hispanic community for sixteen years. Father Murdock is fondly remembered by all who knew him as a compassionate servant of the Lord who lifted lives everywhere he served. He was a priest of the people. He is survived by two brothers and five sisters. Funeral arrangements to be announced on the diocesan website norwichdiocese.org and by Saint Francis of Assisi Church, 10 Elm Street, Middletown, Connecticut, Phone: 860-3474684, E-mail: stfrancis10elm@snet.net, Website: www.saintfrancisofassisi.com.

Sister Gilberte Desilets, DHS February 22, 1912 ~ September 28, 2014 Putnam â&#x20AC;&#x201C; Sr. Gilberte DĂŠsilets, DHS, (102), a member of the Daughters of the Holy Spirit died on Sunday, September 28 at the Holy Spirit Provincial House where she had been in retirement since 2001. Sr. Gilberte was born on February 22, 1912 at St. GrĂŠ-

goire, P.Q. Canada, the daughter of the late Eric and Blanche (HĂŠbert) DĂŠsilets. She entered religious life in 1928 and made her religious profession on August 25, 1931 at the Motherhouse in St. Brieuc, France. She was then known as Sr. Cecilia. She was a teacher at several Catholic Schools in New England, including St. Mary School in Jewett City. In 1980 she retired from teaching and did private tutoring. Donations may be made to the Daughters of the Holy Spirit Retirement Fund, 72 Church St., Putnam, CT 06260. For memorial guestbook visit www.GilmanAndValade.com.

Rev. Albert C. Giaquinto, S.S. December 13, 1923 ~ October 27, 2014 Reverend Albert Charles Giaquinto, S.S., beloved son of the late Adeline (nee Guarasci) and Michael Giaquinto; dear brother of Julia Bimonte. Father Giaquinto was ordained in 1948 and served until 1956 in the Norwich Diocese, including as an assistant at St. Thomas Aquinas Church in Storrs, Ct and as a counselor to UCONN students. Father Giaquinto was a faithful reader of the Four County Catholic. He wrote to the newspaper several times from the Baltimore area, as recently as last year, to let the editorial team know how much he enjoyed the paper. We always appreciated hearing from him. Memorials may be made to Sulpician Retirement Fund 5408 Roland Ave., Baltimore, MD 21210. Arrangements by Leonard J. Ruck, Inc. www.ruckfuneralhomes.com.

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Movie Review: Saving Christmas on their lips, they need to see this movie. But it is just as much for those who love

Defending Religious Liberty The Connecticut Catholic Conference notes that, since 1919, the Catholic Church has been a longstanding advocate of universal, accessible and life-affirming health care. However, the HHS mandate of the Affordable Care Act harshly penalizes those employers who do not provide abortions and other contraception coverage for their employees. In its decision, the Supreme Court clearly reaffirms that freedom of religion is a basic fundamental right under our Constitution. If you haven’t done so already, please voice your opposition to the mandate by calling President Obama at the White House at 202-456-1111 or U.S. Secretary of Health and Human Services Sylvia Mathews Burwell at 202-205-5445. Let them know that the mandate is in violation of our First Amendment right to religious freedom.

Theatrical Release: November 14, 2014 Synopsis This Christmas, have your family join with Kirk Cameron’s family and dive headfirst into all the dancing, celebration, feasting, imagination, and traditions that glorify the true “reason for the season.” “Kirk Cameron’s Saving Christmas” provides a biblical basis for our celebrations, and the inspiration to stand strongly against a culture that wants to trivialize and eliminate the faith elements of this holy season. So take in the splendor; take in the majesty; take in the story. Take it all in … and let’s put Christ back in Christmas. Dove Review “Saving Christmas” is the perfect movie for the Christmas season! If you know any old Scrooges or someone who has “Bah, humbug!”

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Steel Cross Survives 9/11 and the Courts There will be no separation between this steel “cross” and the World Trade Center memorial. By Rich Calder New York Post

The Second Circuit Court of Appeals on Monday rejected a bid by American Atheists Inc. to remove the famed cross-shaped steel beams that survived the 9/11 attacks from the National September 11 Memorial & Museum. The federal appeals panel sided with Manhattan federal Judge Deborah Batts’ ruling last year that the relic’s historical importance outweighs potential concerns over issues of separation of church and state. “[Given] the absence of any evidence of ulterior religious motives, and the undisputed historical significance of The Cross at Ground Zero, we conclude that, as a matter of law, the record compels the conclusion that the actual purpose of display-

ing the cross in the September 11 Museum is a genuine secular interest in recounting the history of extraordinary events,” the panel wrote. The atheist group had sued the Port Authority and museum operators in 2011 — roughly three years before the museum opened in March underneath a national memorial dedicated to documenting the history of the 9/11 terrorist attacks and the heroic rescue and recovery efforts that followed. The historic artifact is a 17foot, 4,000-pound steel crossbeam shaped like a Latin cross that was found by excavator Frank Silecchia. The Rev. Brian Jordan, a Franciscan priest who performed rites at Ground Zero, blessed the cross as a point of refuge. The World Trade Center Cross, made of intersecting steel beams found in the rubble of the buildings destroyed in the Sept. 11, 2001, attacks. Photo courtesy of Reuters.

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Brain Cancer Will Likely Kill Me, But There’s No Way I’ll Kill Myself

Like Brittany Maynard, I have extremely aggressive brain cancer. But I’m not downing any kill pills. Executive Editor’s Note: Assisted Suicide Legislation to be introduced in Connecticut Expectations are that revised bill #5326 will be introduced before the Connecticut State Legislature during one of the early 2015 legislative sessions. This bill will propose that Connecticut join the five States in the Union to allow assisted suicide. As Catholics, we must be prepared to

support the sanctity of life and defend our State against this legislation. Recently, we have all seen the heart-wrenching video and articles describing cancer patient Brittany Maynard’s decision to move from the San Francisco Bay Area to Portland, Oregon and to take her own life with the legal assistance of a physician. We pray for Brittany’s grieving

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family. Following is an article by Maggie Karner, a resident of the State of Missouri, who has an almost identical prognosis as did Mrs. Maynard. As you will read, Maggie has chosen a path of trusting in God’s purpose and trusting in God being in control - a path of realizing that every day, every minute, every second of life is sacred and has profound value and meaning to each of us and our loved ones. We will continue to share firsthand accounts on this subject and legislative updates. Informed and guided by our faith, we can, together, help ensure our voices are heard on behalf of the sanctity of life. By Maggie Karner The Federalist

I’m not surprised that an Oct. 6, 2014 article by Nicole Weisensee Egan—titled “Terminally Ill 29-Year Old Woman: Why I’m Choosing to Die on My Own Terms” featuring a well-produced video found on People.com—has gone viral. The video, which features interviews of Brittany Maynard and her family members, is very emotional. Maynard, who was diagnosed this past spring, suffers from a stage-four gliobastoma multiforme brain tumor. She has

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a very aggressive form of brain cancer, and it is difficult to control its growth. In her video story, she describes how she was diagnosed and relates her understanding that the glioblastoma will eventually kill her. She then relates her fear that this scenario will be “out of her control.” As I watched the video, I wanted to hug Brittany and shed tears right along with her because I, too, know those fears. I was also diagnosed this past spring with a stage-four glioblastoma multiforme brain tumor. I can identify with Maynard and her spunky, adventurous spirit. She describes her love of travel. In my profession with The Lutheran Church–Missouri Synod’s mercy outreach, I’ve led medical mission teams and worked on relief projects in 11 countries, loving every minute of it. I have seen the poorest of the poor and the sickest of the sick. I have seen suffering that would make anyone’s stomach turn. The Hardest Part Is Not Knowing When Now I face my own prognosis of future suffering. Some days are joyful. Some days the diagnosis feels like a huge weight in my backpack. The hardest part of a terminal

diagnosis is not knowing the timeline. I speak candidly with my physicians and pray that they can keep my tumor under control with the latest therapies to extend my life, one more year, month, day. Someday, I hope my tumor qualifies to be studied in one of the many clinical trials for brain cancer. I’d like to think my situation was part of a cure for someone else. My doctors have applauded my decision to step down from my physically and emotionally demanding job to spend precious time with my family. I have a husband and three daughters who I hope will always remember me as a strong, thoughtful (but bullheaded) woman, carrying Christ’s mercy and compassion for others in my soul with rich joy and meaning. Suicide Is Not the Answer to Brain Cancer And here is where my comparison with Brittany Maynard ends. Maynard chose to move her family to Oregon earlier this year to have legal access to physician-assisted suicide and to receive a prescription for drugs that she has stated she would use to take her life two days following her husband’s birthday, on Nov. 1, 2014. It’s interesting that Maynard steadfastly refuses to refer to her decision as an act of suicide, even though she will, quite literally, take her own life. Many people who choose assisted-suicide have expressed that they are uncomfortable with the term. Assisted suicide, which means helping someone take his or her own life, has been redefined into the more euphemistic “aid in dying” or sometimes “death with dignity” campaign which has been spearheaded by

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the well-funded special-interest group Compassion and Choices (previously known as The Hemlock Society). However well-intentioned, this is one area where the old adage that “Hard cases make bad law” comes into play. To make good policy decisions about assisted suicide for our society, we need to follow the rabbit trail all the way down the hole to see where it leads. Marilyn Golden, a senior policy analyst for the Disability Rights Education and Defense Fund, warned that “assisted suicide is not progressive, in fact, it puts many vulnerable people at risk, and we have already seen examples of that where it is legal.” Folks concerned about the rights of people with disabilities are worried about this. Dignity Lies in Love But there isn’t any dignity in cancer or other debilitating illness. In my own treatment, I’ve been poked, prodded, radiated, chemotherapied, and cut open so many times that I stopped worry-

ing about being dignified quite some time ago. Instead, I prefer to get my dignity by appreciating the dear people who care for me with their individual expressions of love and prayers on my behalf. Maynard can choose to call her act anything she wants to enable her to feel better about her decision, but that doesn’t change the facts about how she has chosen to die. Dr. Eric Chevlen, a diplomat of the American Boards of Internal Medicine, Medical Oncology, Hematology, and Pain Medicine and director of Palliative Care at St. Elizabeth Health Center in Youngstown, Ohio, once quipped, “Just as rape is not about sex, euthanasia is not about comforting the dying. It is about power. What is intolerable to the (assisted suicide advocate) is not suffering or dying, but not having control over life and death.” A recent opinion piece in The Atlantic by Ezekiel Emanuel (President Obama’s adviser on The Affordable Care Act) entitled “Why I Hope to Die at 75,” forged ahead in the assisted sui-

cide debate by equating the value of human life with that human’s ability to be productive. Death Is Always Out of Our Hands When I was a young mother, my father had a traumatic accident that severed his spinal cord and left him paralyzed from the neck down. The last five months of my father’s life, which he lived as a paraplegic, were filled with utter helplessness. He wasn’t productive in any meaningful way. He couldn’t even shave his own face. Would Emanuel or Maynard find my dad’s life useless? I didn’t. My siblings and I soaked up our father’s presence, realizing that caring for the needy person we loved so dearly showed each of us some unexpected things about ourselves. As writer Cheryl Magness says, caregivers get a chance to grow in compassion, responsibility, and selflessness as they care for those in need. This will serve me now as I face my own debilitating mortality. Death sucks. And while this leads

many to attempt to calm their fears by grasping for personal control over the situation, as a Christian with a Savior who loves me dearly and who has redeemed me from a dying world, I have a higher calling. God wants me to be comfortable in my dependence on Him and others, to live with Him in peace and comfort no matter what comes my way. As for my cancer journey, circumstances out of my control are not the worst thing that can happen to me. The worst thing would be losing faith, refusing to trust in God’s purpose in my life and trying to grab that control myself. I watched Maynard’s sixminute video. I cried, and my heart broke for her and her family. I pray she changes her mind and decides to allow others to care for her in her illness. I felt blessed that my tumor came later in my life (I’m 51), and I have had the gift of raising three lovely daughters. I want my girls to learn servanthood and selflessness as they care for me. And I also want them to know that, for Christians, our

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Supporting Catholic Education Celebrated at the Fifth Annual Seton Scholarship Dinner It was a beautiful fall afternoon, Sunday, October 26, 2014, for the Annual By Kathy Gaito Stewardship Coordinator, Office of Development

Seton Scholarship Dinner at the Mystic Marriott Hotel in Groton, CT to celebrate the recipients of the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D. Award for Contributions to Catholic Education in the Diocese of Norwich. Two hundred and seventy champions of Catholic Education were on hand to

honor the award recipients, Ms. Marianne Cote, Principal at St. Joseph School in New London, Father Gregory Galvin, Director of Priestly Vocations in the Diocese of Norwich, and Dr. Jeremiah Lowney and Mrs. Virginia Lowney, active community leaders and volunteers. Monsignor Robert L. Brown, Chancellor of the Diocese of Norwich opened the program thanking all those in attendance, and all sponsors for their support of Catholic education in the Diocese of Norwich. He highlighted how each recipient

of the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D. Award would receive the Waterford Lismore Bowl, etched with the crest of Bishop Cote. As Monsignor explained, the crystal bowl signifies the richness and fullness that each honoree has brought to their responsibilities in support of Catholic schools and how it mirrors the vibrancy of their zeal for Catholic education. Following dinner, Dr. Edward J. Shine, Superintendent of Schools, provided an operational report on the Catholic schools

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in the Diocese. Additionally, he recognized past recipients of the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D. award who were in attendance that evening. One of the highlights of the evening was the beautiful essay written by Ashley Grayson of Saint Patrick Cathedral School. Ashley’s essay on “What Catholic Education Means to Me” was the winning essay chosen from among many wonderfully written essays by eighth grade students in our diocesan Catholic schools. As Ashley read her essay, the crowd could feel it was written from her heart and you could see how her words touched each individual in the room by the standing ovation that followed. The honorees of the evening each chose a friend, colleague or family member to introduce them. Providing insight into each honoree from someone who knows them best, reflecting on their character and contributions. The Fifth Annual Seton Scholarship Dinner continued with Bishop Michael R. Cote, presenting the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D. D. Award for contributions to Catholic education to Ms. Marianne Cote, Father Gregory Galvin and Dr. Jeremiah Lowney and Mrs. Virginia Lowney. Each recipient thanked Bishop Cote, family, friends and those in atten-

dance and provided a brief view of their life’s journey. The gathering could hear in their words of thanks how happy they are in what they do, how they share their time and talents with others, how they teach by

example and how they are laying the ground work for our youth to become future leaders. This led to standing ovations for Ms. Marianne Cote, Father Gregory Galvin, Dr. Jeremiah Lowney and Mrs. Virginia Lowney. The evening concluded with the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote blessing all in attendance. All proceeds from the Fifth Annual Seton Scholarship Dinner benefit Catholic Schools within the Diocese of Norwich. Above Photo: Madison & Sydney Martin sing “God Bless America”. Photo by Khoi Ton.

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Academy at Mt. St. John’s First Annual Harvest Fest Despite torrential rains on October 4th, 85 guests and volunteers enjoyed a wonderful evening of live By Kathy C. White

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music, great food and silent auction winnings. Attendees enjoyed a positive and comfortable atmos-

phere while supporting the programs at the Academy at Mount Saint John in Deep River. Guests were given tours of the expansive facility and realized the potential for increased student population, retreats and summer camps. Among the award winners were Andrea Isaacs of Cloud Nine cater-

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Saint Bernard Gets Big Gift, Plans Major Renovations Montville - With generous support from a 1972 alumna, Saint Bernard School announced an By Ann Baldelli Reprint from The Day

ambitious plan to raise as much as $3 million over five years to fund building renovations and technology upgrades at the Norwich Diocesan school for grades six to 12. The Saint Bernard community has set a fundraising goal of $200,000 annually over the life of the five-year campaign and received a commitment from the diocese to match up to $200,000 each year during that time. Additionally, graduate Maureen Donohue Hendricks, Class of 1972, through the John and Maureen Hendricks Charitable Foundation, has pledged to match 50 percent each of whatever the school raises and the diocese donates over the campaign. At Thursday evening’s announcement at the Uncasville school, Bishop Michael J. Cote presented the Diocese of Norwich’s first installment of $200,000, and Dana Williams, Saint Bernard’s director of advancement, said the school has already raised $65,000 in its inaugural year of the challenge, which runs through June 30, 2015. The goal of the campaign, said Saint Bernard interim Headmaster Donald Macrino, is to invest $600,000 annually through 2020. Macrino said “the incredibly generous gift from Maureen Donohue Hendricks” comes “at the perfect time.” Her husband, John Hendricks, is founder and recently retired chairman of Discovery Communications, which owns the Discovery Channel, TLC and Animal Planet networks. When he stepped down in May, Hendricks said he planned to focus on a new enterprise called the Curiosity Project. Saint Bernard recently com-

pleted a successful accreditation by the New England Association of Schools and Colleges, and the Hendricks challenge and diocesan support will enable the school to upgrade its facility and technology and “continue the tradition of excellence,” Macrino said. The renovations will proceed as the funds come in with a focus on refurbishing public spaces, classrooms, science laboratories, restrooms and modernizing technology. “The bones are very good but the building is dated,” Macrino said of the Uncasville school that was built to house 700 students in 1967. Initially, the Uncasville St. Bernard campus was opened as an all-boys high school, but in the fall of 1972, St. Bernard Girls High School in New London and Notre Dame High School in Norwich (also for girls) both closed and merged with the boys’ school as one new St. Bernard High School. In 1997, middle school grades were added and in 2006 the name was changed to Saint Bernard School. According to the school, 36 percent of students receive financial aid and this school year more than $450,000 was awarded in financial support. The school is open to nonCatholics and has 47 international students who live with host families in the community. There is no plan to increase the number of international students, school officials said.

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Mercy High School Receives Single Largest Gift from a Private Party in School History Kathy, agreed. “This project will lead Mercy into the next fifty years so that many other young women can benefit the way our daughter did. It allows for expan-

Sr. Mary A. McCarthy, RSM, President of Mercy High School is pleased to announce a gift of By Marie Kalita-Leary Directors of Communications, Mercy High School

$250,000 from the Hoffman Family to provide funding for the Cherishing the Past, Embracing the Future, a 50th Anniversary Capital Campaign for Mercy High School. This is the single largest gift from a private party in

the history of Mercy. “The true measure of a school is in the difference it makes in its students. Mercy had a huge impact on our daughter. We wanted to make a transformational gift in proportion to the change and growth we witnessed in our daughter when she was a student at Mercy,” said Bradley Hoffman. His wife,

gather together to learn or socialize before, during and after school.” This project continues to enhance opportunities for future

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Art Among Us, Art Within Us: Honoring the ‘Divine Spark’ Looking back, the son that was born to Leopald and Anna Maria Mozart on a Tuesday By Christina Capecchi

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evening in late January seemed to arrive with fully formed symphonies bound up in his tiny body, waiting for ink and instrument. At age 3, the toddler nicknamed Wo l f g a n g e r l was identifying thirds on the clavier and by 5, he was composing music. How tempting it must have been for Leopald, himself a musician, to look at his fair-skinned son with those wide, searching eyes and claim the credit. But the devout Catholic cast it upward, not inward. He believed his son’s musical genius had a divine origin, describing it to a friend as “a miracle, which God has allowed to see the light in Salzburg” and insisting on his paternal duty to share it and “let God have the honor.” When Mozart was 14 he visited the Sistine Chapel and heard “Miserere Mei, Deus,” a haunting Tenebrae melody commissioned by the Vatican more than a century ago. It was performed once a year and forbidden to be transcribed or played elsewhere in order to preserve its mystery. Young Mozart, so the story goes, was so riveted by the music that he went home and wrote out the 12minute song entirely by ear. That score eventually made its way into the hands of a British historian and into publication. When Pope Clement XIV heard what had happened, he met with Mozart. Rather than excommunicate the teen, the pontiff praised his talent – and lifted the longtime ban, allowing the song to be enjoyed widely. Over the years Leopald often urged his boy to hold onto his Catholic faith. He once wrote to Anna Maria, on a trip with their 21-year-old son: “Is it necessary for me to ask whether Wolfgang is

not perhaps getting a little lax about confession? God must come first! …Young people do not like to hear about these things, I know, for I was once young myself.” A year later, Mozart offered reassuring words in a letter to his father. “I have always had God before my eyes,” he wrote. “I

know myself, and I have such a sense of religion that I shall never do anything which I would not do before the whole world.”

During this month of giving thanks, I’ve been thinking about Mozart’s desire to compose – which feels so distant and grand – and our own desire to create, to seek and celebrate beauty in the world. If we are truly grateful for an artistic gift – or any talent, for that matter – we honor it. To give thanks for creative ability is to guard and nurture it. In St. John Paul II’s 1999 letter to artists – 6,361 words I have not fully mined, uncovering new insight each time I turn to them – the late pope made a connection between art and gratitude.

“That is why artists,” he wrote, “the more conscious they are of their ‘gift,’ are led all the more to see themselves and the whole of creation with eyes able to contemplate and give thanks, and to raise to God a hymn of praise. This is the only way for them to come to a full understanding of themselves, their vocation and their mission.” I recently interviewed a series of Catholic artists, all but one of whom quoted John Paul II, multiple pointing to his statement that

“those who perceive in themselves this kind of divine spark which is the artistic vocation…feel at the same time the obligation not to waste it but to develop it, in order to put it at the service of their neighbor and of humanity as a whole.” Gift and obligation, duty and desire. The work of our hands, the stamp of our hearts. Christina Capecchi is a freelance writer from Inver Grove Heights, Minn., and editor of SisterStory.org, the official website of National Catholic Sisters Week.

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Did You Know? November 4 Election Day. Pray for people to choose Godly leaders. November 11 Veteran’s Day. Pray for our soldiers. Look up how you can be a good soldier for Jesus in 2 Timothy 2:3.

November 13 World Kindness Day. See what extra acts of kindness you can do today. November 23 Feast of Christ the King and end of the church year! Read 1 Timothy 6:14-15. November 30 First Sunday of Advent and the church New Year’s Day!

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The Return Honoring Veterans’ Day 2014 Recently, a parishioner from Niantic, Stephen A. Zrenda, U.S.C.G. ret., sent us a photo that had been in his family since the 1940’s. The subject of the photo was a painting by Charles Bosseron Chambers, called “The Return,” an emotional depiction of a World War I soldier kneeling before a crucifix inside a church. The church happened to be the Church of the Holy Innocents on West 37th and Broadway in lower Manhattan built in 1866. Both crucifix and the church are still in place today. Mr. Zrenda felt all the Veterans reading the Four County Catholic would appreciate seeing this image of a soldier reconciling his life with his Creator when returning from battle. We are honored to share this photo and thankful to Mr. Zrenda for thinking of the veterans in the Diocese who know about the deep connection a combat soldier has to almighty God.

Cornucopia comes from Latin words that mean horn of plenty. Plenty of food and plenty of reasons to be thankful is what we think of when we think about Thanksgiving. Some people use a curved horn filled with fruits to decorate their table in November. The cornucopia is a symbol of a good harvest and good year. There are Greek myths about a goat’s horn that would fill with whatever the person holding it desired. That wishful thinking sounds like fun. Think about all you have and start listing the blessings of this year. There’s food, a home, family, friends, pets, sunshine, and so many other blessings to remember. Make it part of the fun by cutting paper leaves and writing a blessing on each one. Fill a cornucopia with the leaves. Make edible cornucopias. 1. Ice Cream cone horn. Dip the end of an ice cream cone in hot water to soften it and then curve it. Be careful around hot water! 2. Cover sugar cones with foil. Then wrap bread dough (refrigerated dough works fine) around the foil. You can roll the dough into coils first and then wrap it around the cone). Bake as directed for the dough. Or, use pie dough and fill the horns with warm apple pie filling. Fill the cone with treats. Add goldfish as a Christian symbol and thanks for God’s blessings. Add some sweet candies for the sweetness of love in your life. Add some dried fruit like cranberries and raisins as reminders that God preserves you and saved you for eternal life. You can also add in papers with words of things to be thankful for (family, friends, home, school).

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