Four County Catholic November 2015 by Diocese of Norwich

Volume 27 Number 10

November 2015

The Diocese of Norwich Outreach to Haiti Ministry Celebrates 30 Years of Caring for Our Brothers and Sisters in Haiti Photo by Dan Oâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;Sullivan, Director of Administration and Programs, Diocese of Norwich Outreach to Haiti

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The Most Reverend

Michael R. Cote, D.D.

Bishop of Norwich

Faith and Thanksgiving My Dear Brothers and Sisters in Christ: As we continue to enjoy this delightful fall season, we know that the trying days of winter lie ahead. New England winters have been a harsh test of endurance as far back as the earliest settlers. It was 394 years ago that the pilgrims in nearby Massachusetts gathered in thanksgiving to Almighty God for making it through their first year in a new land. Later this month, America will continue this tradition of gratitude that we know as Thanksgiving. May I wish you and your families an early blessed and happy Thanksgiving. To fully remember and embrace the origins of this special day is to realize that Thanksgiving is not just another secular celebration, but is very much a Christian occasion. Let us remember that the pilgrims fled the autocratic old world, risking their lives and leav-

ing all behind, in search of religious freedom. To give some perspective to the degree of risk, 46 of the original 106 settlers aboard the Mayflower either died on the treacherous two-month voyage or perished in their first year here. If a revisionist historian might suggest it was all for economic gain, it was not. It was entirely about religious liberty. Here we are, so many generations later, grateful as ever for our blessings and still fighting for true and full religious liberty. The freedom to worship freely and have rights of conscience respected in our laws and in their practice is at the heart of the origins of America. This is a Nation founded by brave souls who risked all for freedom and hoped that someday it would all mature into a nation and a force to help lift the world from oppressors. That was and is the dream. The dream, with

all the shortcomings one could cite, is still within reach. I know this and you know this because we, within our diocesan community of faith, labor each and every day to preserve religious liberty, lift up those most in need and share our resources and our energy to make a difference. When we hear Pope Francis call out to the world to help one another, we are ourselves lifted as we work to help others. As a priest and Bishop grateful to join with you in the many ways we live our faith, I will have the honor later this week to be among a distinguished group of supporters of the diocesan Outreach to Haiti Ministry celebrating 30 years of outreach to families in the Port au Prince Archdiocese. This is a dedicated ministry providing medical assistance, shelter, food, education, disaster relief and spiritual encouragement. Thank God

for your compassion, generosity and dignified respect for those whose lives we touch in the poorest country in the Western Hemisphere. Late October into early November has been an especially active time across the diocese. Just last week, I attended an inspiring dinner honoring the Seton Scholarship initiative that has helped create promising momentum supporting Catholic elementary education in the diocese in the form of tuition assistance. To be there and feel first-hand the spirit of parishioners, education professionals, clergy, friends and believers in Catholic education was truly heartening. I am profoundly grateful for the active role so many take in “helping one another’. As the celebrant at the Firefighters/EMS Mass, I was deeply moved by the courage and sacrifices of those brave men and

women who are there protecting us from harm day and night. Praying together and renewing our faith in God’s will and our respect for the heroes among us is who we are as Catholics, as citizens and as caring neighbors. A big part of a true Thanksgiving celebration is being thankful not just for the blessings we receive, but for the good works we are privileged to deliver to our fellow travelers. “Our real journey,” in the words of Pope Francis, “is to walk with the Lord always.” My sense is that we can be proud in a humble way that the depth of our footprints bears witness to how we are carrying more than our own weight in step with Christ’s loving example. We are thankful. Sincerely yours in Christ’s love, Bishop Michael R. Cote

La Fe y la Acción de Gracias Queridos Hermanos y Hermanas: A medida que continuamos disfrutando esta encantadora temporada de otoño, sabemos que tenemos por delante los fastidiosos días de invierno. Los inviernos de Nueva Inglaterra han sido una dura prueba de resistencia que se remonta a los primeros colonos. Fue hace 394 años que se reunieron los peregrinos en las cercanías de Massachusetts en acción de gracias a Dios Todopoderoso por haber sobrevivido su primer año en una nueva tierra. A finales de este mes, Estados Unidos continuará esta tradición de gratitud y perseverancia que conocemos como Acción de Gracias. Les deseo

a usted y a sus familias un bendecido y feliz Día de Acción de Gracias. Para recordar y comprender plenamente los orígenes de este día especial hay que darse cuenta de que el Día de Acción de Gracias no es otra celebración secular, es una ocasión cristiana. Recordemos que los peregrinos huyeron del viejo mundo autocrático arriesgando sus vidas y dejando todo atrás, en busca de libertad religiosa. Para darle un poco de perspectiva al grado de riesgo, 46 de los 106 colonos originales a bordo del Mayflower, ya sea murieron en el traicionero viaje de dos meses o perecieron aquí en su primer año.

Si algunos historiadores revisionistas sugirieran que todo era para obtener beneficios económicos, no lo era. Era del todo sobre la libertad religiosa. Aquí estamos, muchas generaciones más tarde, como siempre agradecidos por nuestras bendiciones y todavía luchando por la verdadera y completa libertad religiosa. La libertad de adorar libremente y tener derechos de conciencia respetado en nuestras leyes y en su práctica está en el corazón de los orígenes de América. Esta es una nación fundada por almas valientes que arriesgaron todo por la libertad y con la esperanza de que algún día todo maduraría y se con-

vertiría en una nación y una fuerza para ayudar a levantar al mundo de los opresores. Eso era y es el sueño. El sueño, con todos los defectos que uno podría citar, aún está a su alcance. Sé esto y usted sabe esto porque nosotros dentro de nuestra comunidad diocesana de fe, trabajamos cada día para preservar la libertad religiosa, levantar a aquellos en más necesitad y compartir nuestros recursos y nuestra energía para hacer una diferencia. Cuando escuchamos al Papa Francisco llamar al mundo a ayudarnos los unos a otros, nosotros mismos nos levantamos mientras trabajamos para ayudar a otros.

Como sacerdote y obispo agradecido me uno con usted en las muchas maneras en que vivimos nuestra fe, esta semana tendré el honor de estar entre un distinguido grupo de partidarios del Ministerio Diocesano de Extensión a Haití celebrando 30 años de alcance a las familias en la Arquidiócesis de Puerto Príncipe. Este es un maravilloso ministerio que provee asistencia médica, refugio, comida, educación, atención de desastres y aliento espiritual. Gracias a Dios por su compasión, generosidad y digno respeto para aquellos cuyas vidas tocamos en el La Fe y la Acción de Gracias

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La Fe y la Acción de Gracias Continued from page 3 país más pobre del hemisferio occidental. Apenas la semana pasada, asistí a una cena en honor a la inspiradora iniciativa Becas Seton que ha ayudado a crear un impulso prometedor que apoya en la diócesis la educación primaria católica en forma de ayuda para la matrícula. El estar allí y sentir de primera mano el espíritu de los feligreses, profesionales de la educación, el clero, los amigos y los

creyentes en la educación católica era verdaderamente alentador. Estoy profundamente agradecido por el papel activo que muchos toman en “ayuda mutua”. A finales de octubre hasta principios de noviembre ha sido un tiempo maravillosamente activo en toda la diócesis. Como celebrante en la misa de bomberos/EMS me conmovió profundamente el valor y los sacrificios de estos valientes hombres y mujeres quienes están

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Father Gregory Galvin It seems like it was just a few weeks ago that I was camping in New York, Indiana, Ohio and Pennsylvania and it was mid-July! Now it’s November and Thanksgiving is just around the corner! These past months have been a whirlwind of activity, from attending the National Diocesan Vocation Directors Conference in St. Louis, MO, Pope Francis’ first visit to the United States and taking part in a diocesan pilgrimage to see and pray with him in Philadelphia, to visiting the intact remains of one of the great Martyrs of the Church, St. Marie Goretti, a young girl who was murdered because she would not give up her sacred promise to live her life chastely as a sign of her commitment to God. A few words of reflection on each. The first of these trips, the convention for diocesan vocation directors is very retreat-like although it does involve meetings, keynote speakers and quality time for us as vocation directors to share experiences and encouragement. The opportunity to pray together has always been a great spiritual refreshment for me each year. In 2016, I share with all the regional diocesan vocation directors in hosting our national convention in Boston next October. Please keep this in your prayers as we work together from all over New England to prepare for this wonderful event. Next was the diocesan pilgrimage to Philadelphia to be present with our head spiritual father, Pope Francis. When I first heard he was coming, my original thoughts focused on what a great opportunity it would be to watch his trip on television. Very quickly, though, I had a tugging in my heart that moved me to the decision that I not only wanted to be present but I needed to be present. The only way I could explain it was that I have been blessed over the years to have had an opportunity to be physically present in Rome with now St. John Paul II

and more recently to concelebrate Holy Mass at the old Yankee Stadium with Pope Benedict XVI. I have come to believe firmly in the extraordinary personal blessing of being in the presence of The Vicar of Christ. I may not even be aware of the graces received, but I know it is important to try to be as open as possible to receive whatever God wants to give us, especially in such unique opportunities. I felt the same thing again that Sunday with Pope Francis. Finally, the shortest of the three ventures was an evening ride to St. Theresa Church in Trumbull Connecticut for Holy Mass offered in the presence of the remains of St. Maria Goretti. Again, this was truly an opportunity that pulled at my heart not to miss. I attended Mass with one of our possible future priests and two of our local Sisters of Charity of Mother of the Church. What stood out to me was the feeling of peace I felt that evening, during the ride down, during Mass, and since that visit.

I have discovered a new friendship and believe that St. Maria is offering to really assist in bringing the young people of our Country, our Church and our diocese, to understanding the power of God’s Love through His forgiveness and His Love. A forgiveness that she is a stalwart example of for all. Finally, some Vocation Notes: We are looking forward to some upcoming important events in the life of our seminarians. First, Frank Gilbert will be installed officially in the ministry of Lector on November 2, 2015 at Pope St. John XXIII National Seminary in Weston Massachusetts by Most Rev. Frank Caggiano, Bishop of Bridgeport, CT. Next, seminarian Juan Aguirre receives Candidacy

on November 12th at St. Mary Seminary in Baltimore. We also look forward to his possible receiving of ordination to the transitional diaconate early in December. Please watch for upcoming announcements! Finally, I call to everyone’s attention that this coming December 8, 2015 begins the Year of Mercy as desig-

nated by Pope Francis. Please join me in praying that each of us may open our heart wider than ever to the truth, power and grace of this wonderful divine gift. May our Lord continue to also call many of his sons to be instruments of His Mercy through the priesthood in our diocese and throughout the Church!

Pope Francis @Pontifex • Recent Tweet With my heartfelt thanks. May the love of Christ always guide the American people! #GodBlessAmerica

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Prayer, Praise & Worship Every Tuesday afternoon at 2pm. For more information please contact Spiritual Renewal at 860887-0702. Fri. & Sat., November 6-7 Annual Christmas Bazzar at St. Luke’s Church Friday,5-8pm & Saturday, 9am-2pm. Children’s activities include professional face painting, kid’s crafts and magician. New this year is the tool box, teen table and mug gifts. St. Anne’s Shrine from Sturbridge, MA will be present with a variety of religious items. American Girl clothing and furniture, one of a kind Christmas ornaments and décor. The country store will be stocked with pickles, jams, flavored vinegars, mixes and other items. Be sure to

visit our attic treasures. Delicious homemade baked goods and meals, along with gently used linens, jewelry, a tea cup raffle, and decorated gift baskets for every occasion. Admission is free. St. Luke Church, 141 Maple Street, Ellington. For more information call the rectory at 860875-8552. Fri. & Sat., Nov. 6-7, 2015 Olde Tyme Christmas Fair St. Andrew Church will sponsor their annual Olde Tyme Christmas Fair on Friday, from 4-8pm., and Saturday from 9-2pm at St. Andrew Parish Hall, 128 Norwich Avenue, Colchester. Booths include a bake shop, baskets galore, country store, crafters, and special gifts of Christmas, kids’ corner, and mini tea cup auction. Santa

and Mrs. Claus will also be there. Free door prize. On Friday, a turkey dinner with all the trimmings, dessert and drink will be served starting at 4pm for seniors, and 5pm for the general public. The cost of the dinner is $10 for adults, $8 for seniors, $4 for children 3-10 years old, and under 3 is free. For questions, please call 860-537-2355. Saturday, November 7 St. Pius X “Sleigh Bells Ring” Christmas Fair

10-7pm at St. Pius X Bill Fortin Memorial Hall, 310 Westfield St. Middletown. Hot and cold refreshments will be available for purchase. Featured booths include white elephant (large in door tag sale), arts and crafts, tea cup raffle, plants, country store, gourmet coffee by the cup or pound, fresh baked goods, kids booth, and a 50-50 raffle. Tea cup raffle items are valued from $25-$100. Winners will be drawn at the end of the evening before the General Raffle. Tickets for the general raf-

fle can be purchased for $3 each at the Friary office on a first come first serve basis. Drawing for the Church raffle will be held at 7pm. The five prizes to be awarded include a $1,000 gift certificate to Stop & Stop, $1,000 gift certificate to Exxon/Mobil Gasoline, $750 gift certificate to Home Depot, $750 gift certificate to Gene’s TV and Appliance, $500 gift certificate to Eversource Utilities. Admission is free. For more information contact the Friary office at 860-347-4441.

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Saturday, November 7

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Outreach to Haiti 30th Anniversary Celebration Outreach to Haiti is celebrating its 30th anniversary this fall. Festivities will include Mass at 4pm celebrated by Bishop Cote, a reception, dinner, silent auction, and an award program. Honorees are: Most Reverend Daniel P. Reilly, Bishop Emeritus, Worcester, MA, Monsignor James Carini, Mr. and Mrs. Dennis Petruzzi. Held at Mercy High School, Middletown. For more information or to purchase tickets please call Outreach to Haiti office 860-887-1019.

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Red, White & Blue Mass All Active Duty, Retired & Reserve Personnel, Veterans, Veterans’ Organizations & Auxiliaries of all Faiths are invited to attend.

Sunday, November 15, 2015 at 10:15 am Cathedral of Saint Patrick • 213 Broadway, Norwich, CT

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Sunday, November 8 Confirmation: Christ the King, Old Lyme Join Monsignor Robert L. Brown at 10:30am at Christ the King, Old Lyme. Friday, November 13 Young Adult Ministry presents Chris Padgett St. Patrick’s Cathedral Lower Hall, 7:30 – 9pm. Chris Padgett has been ministering to Catholics around the country for over a decade. Chris has appeared on television and radio and has been a regular speaker and entertainer at Steubenville youth conferences. Using the medium of music and message, Chris communicates the truth of God’s love and forgiveness in a way that makes a difference. Adults ages 18- 39 welcome! For more information please call the office of Faith Events at 860848-2237.

Saturday, November 14 Saint Agnes Women’s Club Holiday Bazaar From 9-3pm at 22 Haigh Ave., Niantic. Crafts, restaurant row, theme baskets, gently-used jewelry and accessories, used books and more! Saturday, November 14 St. Francis Festival of Angels Fair 9-3pm at St. Francis Church, Fox Parish Center, 10 Elm St., Middletown. Wide variety of artisan venders: farmer’s market, baked goods, country kitchen, vintage boutique, handmade items, craft table, Grandma’s attic, large tea cup raffle. Grand prize raffle is an iPad Air 2 64 GB valued at $599. Continental breakfast begins at 9am.

The Catholic Daughters Court #1435 are holding their annual craft and bake sale on Saturday from 9-4pm, and on Sunday from 11-1pm in the basement of All Saints Church, 25 School Street, Somersville. Holiday and home items, jewelry, 18” dolls, clothing and furniture. ‘Holy Family” honey, baked goods, timeless treasures, used books and more. Breakfast will be served from 911am followed by lunch from 114pm. On Sunday coffee and donuts will be served from 111pm. For more information, please call 860-871-6213.

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ADVENT THEME RETREAT: Dec 4 - Dec 6.“Beatitude Mercy” The Oblates of Mary Immaculate, Fr. Ron Meyer, Fr Roger Couture and Fr. Don Lozier will offer reflections based on Pope Francis’ statements on Mercy. In the tradition quiet/silent mode of retreats of old. Reconciliation and daily Eucharist; Adoration; Private accommodations and great food. Offering $210.00 per person $380.00 per couple.

SPIRITUAL DIRECTION: For all who want to examine in detail and strengthen their relationship with God, we offer one-on-one personal counselling. Free will offering accepted according to ability to give. Suggested: $20-$50 per hour. Contact Immaculata front desk.

INDIVIDUAL and/or GROUP RETREATS: Conference halls, chef-prepared meals, private rooms with bath, WiFi. Call to arrange.

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Saturday, November 21 45th Annual Sleigh Bells Ring Christmas Fair St. Maurice Church will hold its annual Christmas Fair on Saturday, from 9-3pm at 32 Hebron Road, Bolton. Homemade gifts such as Raggedy Ann and Andy dolls, unique hostess gifts, hand-

• Learn how the Beatitudes fit into the larger context of the Story of Salvation, the Gospel of Matthew, and the Sermon on the Mount • Discover why the Beatitudes are called the Pathways to the Kingdom and reveal our deepest identity and mission • Identify the inner logic of the Beatitudes which guide us to spiritual growth and maturity • Explore the wisdom of the Beatitudes for the life of prayer • See why Thomas believes Pope Francis will be remembered as the “Pope of the Beatitudes”

Saturday, November 21, 2015 Registration: 8:30am Seminar: 9:00am - 3:00pm

CHRISTMAS ON THE HILL: Open house Sundays Dec 6 -Jan 10 from 2- 5pm. The season is coming quickly: come and view the beautiful display of wonderful Christmas windows at Immaculata. Find the little dogs and “help build a manger”. Refreshments and cookies served.

Fri.-Sat., November 20-21 Frosty Village Bazaar Get in the holiday mood at St. Matthew Church Tolland, Friday from 6-9 pm and Saturday 92:30pm with our great selection

of hand-crafted items; homemade pies, baked goods and candies; knit and crochet apparel; hand-made clothing for popular 18” girl dolls; Attic Treasures; raffles and much more. For the kids, a Kids’ Booth and Photos with Santa! Soups, sandwiches, dessert and more are served throughout.

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Sat.-Sun., November 14-15 Craft & Bake Sale

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Thursday, November 19 Holy Hour for Vocations The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, leads the Holy Hour at Notre Dame Church, 272 Main Street, Durham, from 6-7pm. For more information contact Father Greg Galvin, Director of Priestly Vocations at vocations@norwichdiocese.net or 860-887-9294. www.God-Calls.com

Location: Our Lady of Perpetual Help Parish Hall (downstairs) 63 Old Norwich Road Quaker Hill, CT 06375 For more information, Contact: Duane Hartley, Phone: 860-848-2237 X304 Email: dhartley@norwichdiocese.net

About the Speaker Thomas Smith served as the director of the Denver Catholic Biblical School and the Denver Catechetical School. He is a repeat guest on EWTN and Catholic radio, as well as a sought–after parish mission and conference speaker. Thomas is the co-author with Jeff Cavins of Revelation: The Kingdom Yet to Come Bible Study. He speaks, offers parish missions, and teaches online at gen215.org and with The Great Adventure team.

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crafted ornaments, fresh evergreen baskets, American Girl doll clothes, hand-knit sweaters and scarves, a quilt raffle, Christmas tree skirts and homemade apple pies and holiday baked goods! Santa and Mrs. Claus will be there too. Start your Christmas shopping early and stay for lunch! Homemade clam chowder, baked potatoes and chili are just a few items on the menu along with hot chocolate and spicy mulled cider! Over 40 talented crafters will be on the premises. Handicapped accessible. Saturday, November 21 Beatitudes, Pathways to the Kingdom 9-3pm Our Lady of Perpetual Help, Parish Hall, 63 Old Nor-

wich Road, Quaker Hill. Featuring guest speaker Thomas Smith. For more information, contact Marge Vanner, at 848-2237. Saturday, November 21 St. Peter Church Country Christmas Fair Doors open at 9am. Unique crafts and gifts, Christmas decorations, wreaths, trees, snow villages and ornaments. “The Attic” selling collectibles, antiques, and furniture for your home. Don’t miss our bake sale! Santa will arrive at noon. Enjoy lunch in our holiday cafe that includes our traditional kielbasa and sauerkraut, hot dogs, quiche and a variety of soups. Auction begins at 6:30pm with our big raffle tickets drawn at 6:45pm. The auction will offer

34th Annual Convocation For the Priests in the Diocese of Norwich The Annual Convocation for Priests will be held November 30-December 2, 2015, at the Hyatt Regency Hotel on Goat Island in Newport, Rhode Island. It is an important event for the priests of the Diocese of Norwich who come together with Bishop Cote for spiritual revitalization, education/formation and camaraderie. The theme of this year’s Convocation is “The Melchezedek Project and Priestly Renewal.” The key presenter will be Father Brett Brannen, Pastor of Most Blessed Sacrament Church in Savannah, Georgia. He has given over 70 parish missions and retreats to seminarians, priests, and religious orders. Bishop Cote emphasized the importance of this annual gathering in his letter inviting each priest to the Convocation, “Your presence and commitment to this time together is important to me. This year we celebrate the 34th year of gathering as a presbyterate for the Convocation.” Bishop Cote will be the Principal Celebrant of the two Eucharistic Liturgies. During our Wednesday Eucharistic Liturgy we will honor Reverend V. Antony J. Alaharasan, Rev. Msgr. James P. Carini, Reverend James Hammer, OFM Cap., and Reverend James L. Maltese on the occasion of their golden jubilee of ordination to the priesthood and Reverend Joseph F. DeCosta, Reverend Gregory C. Mullaney, Very Reverend Michael L. Phillippino, and Reverend Benjamin V. Soosaimanickam on the occasion of their silver jubilee of ordination to the priesthood The Convocation is coordinated by the Norwich Diocesan Continuing Education and Formation Commission, Rev. Michael S. Smith, Chairman; Very Rev. David Choquette, Very Rev. Dennis M. Perkins, Reverends John Antonelle, Greg Brozonowicz, Peter B. Liszewski, and Walter M. Nagle.

items from antiques to apple pie. Grinders and beverages will be available for purchase during the auction. For more information, contact Vicki Bogdan at 860345-3132 or Michael Farina at 860-345-4080. St. Peter Church Hall, 30 St. Peter Lane, Higganum, Saturday, November 21 Grave Site Cemetery The Ancient Order of Hibernians will host their annual grave site ceremony at 10am at the Celtic gravesite in St Mary’s Cemetery in New London. Chaplain, Fr. Mark O’Donnell, will preside at the memorial prayer service. Sunday, November 22 Confirmation: St. Mary, Middletown Join Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich at 10:30am at St. Mary, Middletown. Sunday, November 22 Communion Breakfast

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Saturday, December 5 at 7:30 PM. Cathedral of St. Patrick, Norwich The Diocesan Choir and Eastern CT Symphony Choirs. Mark Singleton will be the conductor. Admission is $10. For more information please call the Eastern CT Symphony at 860-443-2876. Members of the New London division of the Ancient Order of Hibernians, their families and friends are invited to attend the 9:00 Mass at St. Joseph’s Church, 17 Squire St., New London in celebration of the Hibernian family and traditions. After Mass all are invited to attend the annual Communion Breakfast to be held in Chase Hall at the US Coast Guard Academy starting at 10:30am. Tickets for the breakfast are $15. Please contact Sean Moore at 860-443-2058. Thursday, November 26 Thanksgiving Day

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Motherhouse Chapel, 54 West Main Street, Baltic. Vespers will be followed by Benediction of the Blessed Sacrament, after which a light supper will be served. All are welcome. For more information, and to make reservation for supper, please call Sister Mary Grace or Sister Joan Clare at 860 8228241. Mon.-Weds., Nov. 30-Dec. 2 The Annual Convocation for Priests The Annual Convocation for Priests will be held in Newport, Rhode Island. Wednesday, December 2 Seven Week Life in the Spirit Seminar To help develop or deepen a personal relationship with Jesus. From 2-4pm and again at 7-9pm each day. For more information please call Spiritual Renewal at 860-887-0702. Fri.-Sat., December 4-5 Saint Lawrence Christmas Fair Saint Lawrence Church in Killingworth. Fair hours are Friday, December 4, 5:30-8:30pm and Saturday, December 5, 9:00am-3:00pm. Attractions include a silent auction featuring items from local artisans and gift certificates from local businesses, baked goods, and evergreen decorations. The kitchen will offer homemade pies, soup, hot dogs, pizza, meatball grinders, and new this year chili. For more information, contact Stlawrence@yahoo.com or visit www.stlawrencechurch.com . Saturday, December 5 St. Joseph’s Christmas Fair

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St. Joseph Church, 48 Middlesex Avenue, Chester, will hold its annual Christmas Fair, from 92pm.at the Parish Center. The event features over 40 crafters, freshly made wreaths, greens, Dixie baskets, food, baked goods and sweets table. Luncheon is available at the Christmas Café, and children may visit with Santa between 10-noon.For more information please call 860-526-5495. Saturday, December 5th St Philip’s Annual Craft Annual Fair 9-2pm at St Philip the Apostle Church, 64 Pompey Hollow Road Ashford. There will be 40 quality crafters, a bake sale, a basket raffle and lunch! Please call Rose Bergeron at 860-429-9212 if you have questions. All vendor spaces are filled. Sunday, December 6 Prison Ministry: Gift of Grace Program Gift of Grace training program for adults interested in serving the spiritual needs of prisoners in correctional institutions of Eastern Connecticut. Prison Ministry trains volunteers for scripture study and sharing, sacramental preparation, prayer groups, religious education, retreat days, small Christian communities, and

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St. Patrick’s School Christmas Festival & Basket Raffle St. Patrick’s Cathedral School will be hosting a Christmas festival and basket raffle from 8:00am-1:00pm in the Cathedral auditorium. There will be theme baskets, crafters and vendors. For additional information please contact Carolyn Fusaro at mcfusaro@sbcglobal.net.

“Jesus Rebuked him and the demon came out of him, and from that hour the boy was cured. Then the disciples approached Jesus in private and said, “Why could we not drive it out?” Jesus said to them, “Because of your little faith. Amen, I say to you, if you have faith the size of a mustard seed (the smallest of seeds), you (your name) will say to this mountain – Move from here to there, and it will move ---NOTHING will be impossible for you!” Matthew 17:18-20

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music for liturgies. Volunteers’ bilingual in Spanish and English are especially needed. Pre-registrationn is required. For more information, please contact Sheree Antoch at 860-848-2237 ext. 211 or prison@norwichdiocese.net. Tuesday, December 8 Feast of the Immaculate Conception Saturday, December 12 St. Mark’s Annual Christmas Cookie Sale 9:00am- Noon (or till sold out). Beautiful plates of 2 ½ dozen assorted, delicious home-baked cookies will be sold, along with our parish cookbook “Cookie Jar Favorites.” Themed baskets will be raffled. The proceeds will be used for the beautification and maintenance of the church grounds. For further information, please call Julia at (860) 388-5186 or Joan at (860) 399-4049. St. Mark the Evangelist Church, 222 McVeagh Rd., Westbrook.

Sunday, December 13 Feast of St. Lucy Sunday, December 13 Year of Mercy Mass The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich will celebrate the Year of Mercy Mass at the Cathedral of Saint Patrick, 213 Broadway, Norwich at 10:30am. Sunday, December 13 St. Lawrence Christmas Concert A newly formed Children’s Choir will debut at the annual Christmas Concert of Saint Lawrence Church in Killingworth, at 2:00pm. A teen duet, an organ and piano duet, other musicians and vocalists from the parish as well as the church choir will perform. The concert includes congregational singing of Christmas carols. Refreshments will be served after the concert. For more information, contact Stlawrencec@yahoo.com or www.stlawrencechurch.com.

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The Lord Blesses All Those Who Are In Service to Others Diocese Celebrates 23rd Annual Firefighters/EMS Mass Norwich - October 17, 2015. On a cold but spectacular fall day, firefighters and EMS professionals From the FCC News Desk Contributions by Meredith Morrison

from all over eastern Connecticut gathered at the Chelsea Parade and then marched down Broadway to the Cathedral of St. Patrick for the 23rd Annual Firefighters/EMS Mass. Fire trucks and EMS vehicles accompanied the men and women in uniform as they arrived at the Cathedral. Awaiting them in front of the Cathedral was the traditional giant U.S. Flag flying high, held up by two ladder-trucks forming a memorial arch. It was an amazing sight. All with the stirring background sound of the New London Firefighters Pipes and Drum corps. Inside the Cathedral, firefighters, emergency medical services professionals along with family members friends and supporters were greeted by host and celebrant, the

Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, Bishop of Norwich. Bishop Cote spoke of how “as people of faith, we know the Lord blesses all those who are in service to others.” Speaking directly to the men and women whose service was honored

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and Edward Bastien of Baltic were so remembered at Sunday’s Mass for their bravery and sacrifice. Homilist Wayne Sandford, Director of the University of New Haven’s Masters Program in Emergency Management, spoke of the close-knit family of public service professionals. As a deacon at St. Therese Church in North Haven and a lifelong firefighter since helping his dad fight fires at the age of five, and later a fire chief himself, Chief Sandford shared words of respect and encouragement for those who brave the dangers of the job and those among them who both serve and lead – “The most consistent teachings of Jesus Christ is his insistence that to be his disciple you must live for others, not self! What our fire departments, families and world need today more than ever are more servant leaders -- men and women who have the interests of

others at heart; men and women who have the courage and initiative to act” Chief Sandford concluded his homily by asking “May God help us to develop these qualities of Jesus – the greatest ServantLeader of all.” Among those who listened to Deacon Sandford’s words of faith and service were firefighters with badges from Mohegan Tribal Fire Dept, Norwich, Gales Ferry, Masantucket FD, Yantic, New London, Mystic, Portland, and so many more districts. As always, the Firefighters & EMS Mass was an awe inspiring event as brave men and women of all faiths joined together to honor the fallen and to look to the Highest Source, in Bishop Cote’s words, “to ask for protection from harm.” Be sure to save the date of next year’s Firefighters/EMS Mass at the Cathedral. It will be October 15, 2016 at 5:00 p.m.

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Reaffirming the Importance of Lifelong Marriage at the Silver and Gold Wedding Anniversary Mass Norwich - In a world where fewer people are choosing to marry and many mar-

that husbands and wives who work together for the benefit of their families “give us an example of strength, courage, and virtue.” During the special Mass, all the couples in attendance held hands and renewed their marriage vows, promising “I will love you and honor you all the days of my life.” After Mass, the couples received certificates commemorating the wedding anniversary celebration and were treated to a luncheon reception in the Cathedral Hall. To attend next year’s celebration, married couples may register through their parish, on the Diocesan website, or via e-mail at em a i l : worship@norwichdiocese.net. For more information, call the Chancery at 860-8879294, ext. 232.

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riages end in divorce, the value of lasting marriages is more important than ever. Tom and Mary Fitzgerald of Uncasville, who celebrated their 25th wedding anniversary in September, credit their Catholic faith for bolstering their marriage. “Our faith is a big part of our family life and a big part of our marriage,” said Mary Fitzgerald, mother of four children. “We still attend the church we got married in—St. John’s in Uncasville.” Darleen and Robert Bilodeau of Danielson, who are celebrating their 45th wedding anniversary this year, say their Catholic faith has been instrumental in sustaining their union. “If it wasn’t for God, we wouldn’t have gotten through it,” Darleen Bilodeau said. “We’ve been through a lot of ups and downs,” her husband, Robert Bilodeau, admitted. Despite those struggles, the couple firmly believes in the rewards of marriage, so much so that they agreed to a surprise request from their pastor to help coach young couples in PreCana marriage preparation classes at their parish of St. Joseph’s in Dayville. The Bilodeaus have been teaching the classes for 25 years now. “When we cover the various topics engaged couples should be discussing, they say, ‘I never would have thought of that.’ It’s rewarding to see their eyes opened,” Darleen said. In a word, what’s their sage advice to those who are contemplating marriage? “Communicate,” Darleen advised. “Persevere!” Robert said with a laugh. On Sunday, October 18, at 2:00 p.m., the Fitzgeralds and the Bilodeaus joined dozens of other

married couples from throughout the diocese in celebrating the Diocese of Norwich Silver and Gold Wedding Anniversary Mass at the Cathedral of Saint Patrick in Norwich. Each year the diocese reaffirms the importance of marriage by inviting those who are celebrating their 25th, 50th, or other significant wedding anniversary to participate in the Pontifical Mass and to renew their wedding vows. Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, served as the main Celebrant of the Mass. After welcoming the couples and their families, he said, “You live in the sacred covenant of marriage. In your love and fidelity, we see Christ and his self-giving love. You belong to one another and to Christ.” “We invoke the Holy Spirit to fill your hearts and your homes with love,” the Bishop said. Deacon Christopher Deskus, from the parishes of Saint Jude in

Willington and Saint Philip in Ashford, delivered the homily. Married for 24 years himself, to his wife Janet, he compared lifelong marriages to precious gems. “A lasting marriage is a like a diamond formed under tremendous pressure,” Deacon Deskus said. “A marriage lived in its truest sense is most rewarding but is not easy. Every couple experiences evil within and around themselves, stemming from original sin.” “But marriage calls each spouse to be selfless rather than selfish, to love the other more than oneself,” the Deacon said. “This self-gift is beautiful and is holy.” “Each marriage also needs the grace of God,” he added. We should look to Saint Paul for guidance when it comes to marriage, the Deacon said. Deacon Deskus concluded by telling the couples that their marriages are valuable witnesses to the world: “Your marriages are diamonds shining and sparkling for the world to see.” Likewise, Bishop Cote stated

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Simplification of Nullity Process As was widely reported by so many news outlets recently, Pope Francis has revised By Sister Elissa Rinere, CP, JCD Office of Worship

some of the laws which govern the annulment process in the Catholic Church. The official document in which these changes are explained is an apostolic letter issued motu proprio; that is, by the pope’s proper authority. Although there are many technical points to the changes made in canon law, the overall purpose of the changes is not technical, but extraordinarily pastoral. In the opening paragraphs of the official document, Pope Francis stated: “Charity and mercy therefore require that the Church, as a mother, make herself closer to her children who consider

themselves separated.” Pathways of reconciliation for the millions of Catholics separated from the Church through divorce and remarriage was a significant concern for the bishops who participated in the 2014 Extraordinary Synod on the Family. A simplification of the nullity procedures was one of the pathways they recommended to Pope Francis, and clearly he has found the

recommendation worthy of acceptance. A committee of canonists and theologians worked on this plan for several months, and the outline of

the simplified process was issued by Pope Francis on August 15, 2015. The implementation date for all dioceses of the Church is December 8, 2015. This new approach to the nullity process represents the most substantial changes made to this section of Church law since the 18th century. The simplified process applies only to cases in which both parties consent to the annulment process. Also, all evidence presented from witnesses must be clear and consistent. Petitions in which there is controversy or disagreement about the validity of the marriage would follow the longer process currently in use, although with some adjustments. In the simplified process, the evidence is collected in a relatively short period of time. Then the diocesan bishop reviews the evidence. Upon reaching what is termed in the law “moral certi-

tude,” he declares that the marriage never existed as a valid sacrament. Then, both husband and wife are free to enter a new marriage in the Church. Processing time, according to the new rules, should not exceed 45 days after the petition has been formally accepted. Also, for these noncontested petitions there is no need for a second decision or “automatic appeal.” Of course, if either party to the marriage is unhappy with the decision, the freedom to appeal remains in place. Last, the new rules indicate that all diocesan tribunals, “as far as possible,” should provide these services to the faithful free of charge, so that the Church “showing herself to be a generous mother to the faithful in a matter so closely linked to the salvation of souls, might manifest the freely-given love of Christ by whom we are all saved.” This pathway to reconciliation opened by Pope Francis is clearly in keeping with his plan for the Holy

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Year of Mercy. He said in announcing the Holy Year, “Mercy is the very foundation of the Church’s life. All her pastoral activity should be caught up in the tenderness she makes present to believers; nothing in her preaching and in her witness to the world can be lacking in mercy.” In addition to the Year of Mercy, these simplifications of the law are also related to the Ordinary Synod of Bishops which met in Rome last month, from October 4th to October 25th, and to the Extraordinary Synod which met in 2014. Both Synods focused on the family; its vocation and mission in the Church and in the world. Church teaching has always upheld the family as the fundamental building block of Church and of society. It is in the family, through the example and teaching of mother and father, that children are first evangelized and receive the faith. It is also in the family that children learn the skills and values needed to become contributing members of society. The simplification of nullity procedures is the first step taken by Pope Francis to mitigate obstacles encountered by those who are divorced and remarried. Within the coming months we will hear more about the discussions held in both Synods of Bishops, and how these meetings might result in further avenues of reconciliation with the Church opened for those who now feel separated. Translation of the apostolic letter Mitis Iudex Dominus Iesus, taken from the unofficial translation published by the Canon Law Society of America. Available at: www.clsa.org Quotation concerning the announcement of the Holy Year of Mercy is taken from Misericordia vultus, (#10), available at http://vatican.va

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Catholic Foundation Adds St. Edward Endowment On behalf of Bishop Michael R. Cote and the Board of Directors of the Catholic Foundation of the By Mary Ellen Mahoney Major Gifts, Diocese of Norwich Office of Development

Diocese of Norwich, Angela Arnold, Executive Director of The Catholic Foundation, is happy to announce that Saint Edward the Confessor Church, Stafford Springs, has established an endowment to support its parish into the future. On July 1, 2015, the Catholic Foundation entered into an agreement with Saint Edward to establish the Foundation’s 19th endowment. Father Roland Cloutier, Pastor of Saint Edward Church, deposited $117,000 into The Saint Edward Church Endowment Fund. “It has been my firm belief since I first became a pastor that every parish needs to have a substantial and well maintained endowment fund. With our declining attendance in a majority of our parishes such a fund is the only way that a parish will be able, in the near future, to fund the maintenance of its physical plant so that the pastor can concentrate on the spiritual life of the people.” Fr. Roland, Pastor, St. Edward the Confessor, Stafford Springs, CT. Since its inception in 1998, the Catholic Foundation has provided a place where both individuals and parishes may invest their money in the form of an endowment and thereby provide ongoing support for organizations and people within our Diocese. First envisioned by Bishop Daniel Hart, the Catholic Foundation’s mission is to provide a mechanism for the establishment of endowments to benefit the Diocese of Norwich and its parishes, schools, agencies and organizations. The Foundation, through its Board of Directors, invests the assets and distributes earnings according to the wishes of the donors, in accordance with its Spending Policy. The establishment of endowments provides greater financial stability and growth for our Diocese and its organizations. Many private individuals have established endowments within the Catholic Foundation to support

their special interests. Mr. Joseph Morrone who passed away this past September, established the Joseph J. & Elizabeth A. Morrone Endowment Fund to support the needs of St. Thomas Aquinas Church, Storrs. During his lifetime, Mr. Morrone graciously continued to contribute to his endowment to further support St. Thomas Church. Now that he has passed, Mr. Morrone’s legacy of

William F. Jr. and Flora l. O’Neil Scholarship Fund provides tuition assistance to two St. Bernard School students each year. A vari-

ety of options are available for people interested in establishing an endowment. If desired, an endow-

Mercy High School. The Catholic Foundation’s first endowment was the Bishop Daniel A. Hart Fund for the Homeless. This endowment provides support to a variety of organizations in the Diocese that assist people in need by providing f o o d , emergency needs, and other social, educational, and spiritual assistance. Last year, the Bishop Daniel A. Hart Fund for the Homeless made mon-

etary grants totaling $7,908 to St. Vincent de Paul Place, Norwich; Catholic Charities, Middletown, New London, Willimantic and Norwich; St. Vincent de Paul, Middletown and Holy Family Home and Shelter, Willimantic. Each year the Catholic Foundation hosts an Awards Dinner to which it invites all the recipients of its yearly grants as well as the donors who have established endowments within the Foundation. This year, the Foundation celebrated its 15th Awards Celebration with close to 200 people in attendance, many of whom were children receiving tuition assistance from the Foundation. Over the past 15 years, the Foundation has disbursed over three million dollars of assistance. In order to continue its good work, the Foundation plans to establish more endowments in the near future. If interested in doing so, please contact Mary Ellen Mahoney, Development Manager at (860) 886-1928 or by email at memahoney@norwichdiocese.net. In the alternative, if one would like to support the Foundation but not establish an endowment, individual donations are also accepted by the Foundation. The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, Bishop of Norwich, and Reverend Roland Cloutier, Pastor, St. Edward the Confessor Church, Stafford Springs, announce endowment fund.

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12th Annual Enders Island Medals of Honor Awarded October 16, 2015 (Mystic, CT) The 12th Annual Enders Island Medal of Honor awards celebration Submitted by Kelly McVeigh

took place on October 16, 2015. The evening begian with Mass at Enders Island followed by a reception at the Mystic Marriott Hotel & Spa. This year, Enders Island was pleased to honor: General Joseph F. Dunford, Jr., Chairman-elect of the Joint Chiefs of Staff; Joe and Jennifer Andruzzi of The Andruzzi Foundation; William Gilbane, Jr., Vice Chairman of the Gilbane Building Company; Revered Robert Marciano, Command Chaplain of the Rhode Island National Guard; and Arthur and Helen Macauley of Immaculate Conception Church, Westerly, RI. In addition, Gabriel Britos-Swain of St. Bernard School, Uncasville, CT, were presented with the St. Edmund’s Scholarship for his

academic achievement and faith. The Medal of Honor celebration directly benefits the Enders Island’s mission, including its 12-Step recovery programs and on-island recovery residence for young men aged 18 to 25 years old. Coming to Enders Island for those in early recovery and for those individuals who live the 12 Steps on a daily basis is a life-changing event. They are transformed by the experience, receiving the support they need to gain the strength to overcome addiction and live healthy sober lives. It is through special events like Medal of Honor that funds are raised to support this community. For more information on the recovery program, please visit www.endersisland.com. Enders Island would like to thank General Dynamics, the Medal of Honor Event Sponsor, for its continuous support of the organization and its mission.

From left to right: Honorees William Gilbane, Jr., Helen and Arthur Macauley, Reverend Thomas F. X. Hoar, S.S.E., Reverend Robert Marciano, Jennifer and Joe Andruzzi.

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30 Years of Serving Our Brot his year marks a significant milestone for the Diocese of Norwich Outreach to Haiti Ministry. Founded in 1985, Outreach to Haiti has reached out for three decades to our brothers and sisters in need in Haiti. On this 30th anniversary, we stand together as “One Family.” Haiti is the poorest country in the Western Hemisphere. They are poor in every measurable social category, including nutrition, healthcare, education, employment and basic needs such as shelter and clothing. They are not poor in faith in God and trust in their fellow man. The people of Haiti have a wonderful joy and gracious way of looking hopefully toward the future. We in the Diocese of Norwich have made it clear for thirty years that we care, and that we are there for them. The efforts of the Outreach to Haiti Ministry focus on nutrition and healthcare, education assistance, shelter and spiritual encouragement. These services have become increasingly organized over the years through interface with clinics on the ground, a home-base mission house and active twinning arrangements with nine parishes and schools in the Diocese of Norwich. On behalf of the thousands of children and families lifted by the efforts of the ministry and the generosity of its supporters, thank you for caring. Thank you for helping. Following are a number of facts and program descriptions that will help define the magnitude of the challenge in Haiti. Hopefully, this information will build awareness of the unceasing labor of love in which the Diocese of Norwich has been so faithfully engaged.

We Christians are called to confront the poverty of our brothers and sisters, to touch it, to make it our own and to take practical steps to alleviate it ~ His Holiness, Pope Francis

Healthcare With two doctors for every 10,000 people, healthcare in Haiti is scarce. Outreach to Haiti’s Sr. Ann Weller Clinic provides competent and affordable care in Christ Roi, one of the poorest neighborhoods of Port-au-Prince. Clinic staff members help upwards of 100 malnourished children per year return to health. Malnutrition is a major cause of death in children under five in Haiti, where only 55% have access to safe drinking water. As a regular follow-up practice, health agents visit the surrounding neighborhoods to check on those who have visited the clinic, teach nutrition, hygiene and identify others who should visit the clinic. A contribution of $175 will provide food and supplements for the recovery of one malnourished child for seven months – the average recovery time for a malnourished child in the program. Among so many similar stories, a health agent shared the story of Nelson, a severely malnourished two-year-old weighing 17.2 pounds when his mother Eline brought him to Outreach’s Nutrition program. In just two months he weighed 25.5 pounds and was a smiling vibrant two-year-old. Outreach to Haiti – taking positive steps with your caring support to alleviate suffering, promote wellness and provide hope for a child’s future.

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Education Education has been at the core of Outreach to Haiti since its inception. The ministry’s philosophy is that education is the only way to break the vicious cycle of poverty, in a country where fewer than 30% of children complete elementary school and only 2% complete high school. Thanks to the perseverance of the Outreach efforts over so many years now, the ministry sponsors over 200 scholarships, even providing food for the family to help students stay well and stay in school. The result is an astounding 95% retention rate for students enrolled in these sponsored programs. $425 sponsors a primary school student for one year. This is just one example of how the donations to the ministry help young people overcome the tough circumstances they face every day. A living example of a young person whose life has been transformed by the outreach program is Moravia who lived with her siblings in a tent on the street after the 2010 earthquake destroyed their home. Her dream of becoming a nurse seemed buried in the rubble. She needed to help her family survive from one day to the next. It was impossible to go to classes and prepare for her exams. Outreach to Haiti’s Education Director Erold Ezerbe helped Moravia’s family get into a new home, and with ongoing support from Outreach to Haiti’s Education Sponsorship Program, Moravia returned to class. She has now completed her degree and has a job at a nearby hospital. Lives lifted. Hope and faith leading the way. Thanks to you.

It is with great joy that I give thanks to Almighty God and commend Diocese of Norwich Outreach to Haiti on its 30th Anniversary of ministry to the Port au Prince Archdiocese with which we are twinned. I think back to the vision of Bishop Daniel Reilly and his collaborators who went to Haiti initially to explore how we as a Diocese could be in solidarity with our Haitian brothers and sisters. I think of all those through the years-staff, members of the Board of Directors, volunteers, and the generous donors that make it possible – all have worked “building up the body of Christ” (Eph. 4:12) in Haiti.

~ Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich

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30 Years of Serving Our Brothers & Sisters in Haiti Twinning Outreach has 15 “Twinning” parishes and schools across the United States which pair with a church, school or orphanage in the areas around Port-au-Prince. Each “Twin” U.S. parish or school helps with necessities and develops a long-term relationship with one church, school or orphanage in Haiti. Members of American parishes and schools regularly visit their twin organization in Haiti, and have helped to support a school lunch program, upkeep on one parish’s first vehicle, teachers’ salaries, developing micro-enterprise’s or job skills, building schools or churches, and supporting Haitian clinics and orphanages. Collectively contributing $250,000 a year toward spiritual needs and basic necessities of life, twinning parishes and schools have made profound changes in the lives of people both in the United States and Haiti.

There are 15 twinning organizations from nine in the Norwich Diocese to parishes in Washington State, Wisconsin and the Hartford Archdiocese. Twinned parishes in the Norwich Diocese are:

Norwich Diocese Twins Parish/Organization Sacred Heart, Groton St. John the Evangelist, Uncasville St. Mark the Evangelist, Westbrook St. Mary, Coventry St. Matthew, Tolland Church of the Holy Family, Hebron Mercy High School, Middletown Diocese of Norwich, Norwich St Thomas Aquinas, Storrs

Haitian Twin St Pierre, Grand Bois La Maison L’Arc-en-Ciel Orphanage Notre Dame de lourdes,Citi-Militaire Notre Dame de la Presentation, Les Palmes St. Pierre, Ganthier Immaculate Concepcion. Fonds-Baptiste Foyer des Filles de Dieu Archdiocese of Port-au-Prince Ecole Agape, Lilavois

If you are interested in exploring getting involved in a Twinning Program, contact Outreach to Haiti at 860-887-1019. We welcome new partnership ideas.

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Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, Bishop of Norwich and Monsignor Robert L. Brown, Diocesan Chancellor, in Vienna with fellow pilgrims visiting the Czech Republic, Austria and Hungary in October. Photo by Roland and Nity Oris.

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Stock Up on Children’s Books for Christmas Gifts In the mounds of new books, some stand out for giving this Christmas that will also promote a By Karen Whiting

child’s faith. For little ones, check out a new board book titled Praying with My Fingers: an easy way to talk to God,

inspired by Pope Francis (Paraclete Press). The bright colors and simple rhyme help children learn to pray for family, teachers, leaders, the sick, and then for themselves. Another one for younger children is a new type of hidden picture book. Bible Stories Hide and Seek by Rev. Thomas J. Donaghy

(Catholic Book Publishing) shows beautiful pictures that slide out to reveal a hidden Bible story. Each sliding page is quite sturdy with two sliding sections that slide outwards. The book contains ten interactive stories including Daniel in the Lion’s Den and Adam and Eve in the garden.

For preschoolers, I Want To Be Just Like Jesus Bible Storybook by Stephen Elkins (Tyndale Kids) shares forty attributes of Jesus. Each one, like friendly, compassion, or selfless, is covered in four pages. The character trait is named (Jesus had Compassion); accompanied with a scripture; text shares how Jesus showed the attribute; and ends with a way to develop that trait and a prayer. The endearing artwork and lively but simple words will make this a favorite. Pauline Kids released two series of books to introduce children to the theology of the body. The board books, like Everybody Has a Body: God Made Boys and Girls by Monica Ashour and Karol Kaminski celebrates boys and girls without going into details. For older children, the series includes Every Body Has Something to Say by Monica Ashour. The book talks about body language of tears, smiles, giggles, shivers, and more that express emotions to affirm the wonders of our bodies. Older kids will enjoy some time travel faith tales in a series called Chime Travelers by Lisa Hendley. In The Secret of the Shamrock a boy named Patrick travels through time and space to Ireland where he meets St. Patrick. In The Sign of the Carved Cross with a girl named Katie travels to 1675

and meets a Na t i v e American girl, saint Kateri Tekakw i t h a . Through their adventures readers will explore their faith and discover stories of saintly men and women. A new Christmas book Little Lamb Finds Christmas by Cathy Gilmore (Liguori Press) uses beautiful illustrations in telling a tale of a lamb who gets lost on the way to Bethlehem who follows a light to find baby Jesus. A lion followed the lamb and also visits Jesus, to bring a message of peace. For families, a new advent book, Advent W i t h Pope Francis, offers a daily scripture for a journey of joy during the days leading to Christmas. Each day also includes a simple message from the Pope’s heart, reflective question, and a prayer. An appendix includes prayers and messages for New Year’s Day and the Epiphany.

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Movie Review: The Martian New York - Though the compelling sci-fi epic “The Martian” (Fox) is an unusually long movie, By John Mulderig Catholic News Service

what viewers of faith may cherish most about this masterful adventure is a single line of dialogue in the form of a three-word prayer. Brief as it is, this one utterance - made all the more eloquent by the apparently casual tone in which it’s pronounced - represents a ringing affirmation of belief in divine assistance. Few have ever needed the aid of providence more than the character who delivers this line, astronaut Mark Watney (Matt Damon). Because, by the time he offers his short plea to God, Mark is alone on the surface of Mars, more than 30 million miles away from home. In a fierce Mars windstorm, Mark was struck by flying debris and swept out of sight in the tempest, leaving his crewmates, led by conscientious Commander Melissa Lewis (Jessica Chastain), with no time to mount a rescue

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The Sixth Annual Seton Scholarship Dinner was held on November 1, 2015 at the Riverhouse at Goodspeed Station, By Kathy Gaito Stewardship Coordinator

Haddam, Connecticut. This annual event honors individuals who have made a significant contribution to the education of children within our Catholic schools. An education that emphasizes academics, but also develops the whole person, instilling life-long values and skills that are exemplified in the Catholic Faith. Brother Lawrence Harvey, CFX, Direc-

tor of Mission Advancement for the Congregation of the Brothers of Saint Francis Xavier; Sister Mary A. McCarthy, RSM, President, Mercy High School, Middletown, CT; and Mrs. Kathleen R. Clancy, recently retired kindergarten teacher after serving thirty-four years at Saint Michael School, Pawcatuck, CT, were honored as this year’s recipients of the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D. Award for Contributions to Catholic Education in the Diocese of Norwich. Monsignor Robert L. Brown, Chancellor of the Diocese of Norwich, in his opening remarks thanked all in atten-

dance, sponsors, and Seton Committee members for helping to make the event a success. He highlighted what the evening represents. “Tonight His Excellency, the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, Bishop of Norwich, honors three Catholic educators who have distinguished themselves through their service to the Church and their ardent support for Catholic Education. Each in his or her own way is known for excellence, zeal, and fidelity to the Lord and His Church. All three honorees have a deeply caring spirit and are persons of proven leadership in Catholic Education.”

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The Sixth Annual Seton Scholarship Dinner continued with Bishop Michael R. Cote, presenting the awards to Brother Lawrence Harvey, CFX, Sister Mary A. McCarthy, RSM and Mrs. Kathleen R. Clancy. The recipients thanked Bishop Cote, family, friends and guests and spoke briefly on their commitment to Catholic Education. The energy displayed as they talked about their journey in education could be felt throughout the room. Each was passionate about why they chose to do what they do. The talents of these honorees have benefited many students throughout the years in the Diocese of Norwich. There is no doubt that their work has made a significant contribution to the lives of many. Brother Lawrence Harvey, CFX when asked what it meant to receive this award stated: “It was a particular honor for me

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retreat six days after Eliseâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s birth, leaving Katrina home with no help, she felt the bookâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s impact, crediting it for providing â&#x20AC;&#x153;an almost miraculous amount of peace.â&#x20AC;? Now itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s guiding her as she resumes her at-home business, Hatch Prints â&#x20AC;&#x201C; a hand-lettering and art shop that illuminates the

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wisdom of the saints through watercolor â&#x20AC;&#x201C; providing for her family amid her husbandâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s full-time studies. Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve been savoring the book, which is as practical as it is profound. Father Philippe, a 68-yearold French priest with a white goatee and a ruddy complexion, feels like a modern-day doctor of the church. Peace, he explains, is the spiritual condition that lets Godâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s grace work in us. It is a â&#x20AC;&#x153;necessary corollary of love,â&#x20AC;? of being available to those around us. I hadnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t felt that I was lacking peace, but the book has helped me recognize how often I hurry and control, trying to strong-arm my own agenda into daily life. It has reminded me to be patient about my progress, to resist the kind of checklist living â&#x20AC;&#x201C; go, go, go â&#x20AC;&#x201C; that can define young adulthood. â&#x20AC;&#x153;Your guide is the Holy Spirit,â&#x20AC;? Father Philippe writes. â&#x20AC;&#x153;By your struggles and worries, by your anxiety and haste, you overtake Him with the pretense of moving more quickly.â&#x20AC;? The opposite occurs: You wind up on a rougher trail, and â&#x20AC;&#x153;far from advancing, you go backwards.â&#x20AC;? It has refined my thinking and strengthened my desire to harbor the peace that invites God in, so He can work through me, enabling me to produce the good works he designed me to do. In a season accelerated by the holiday scramble and end-of-year drumbeat, this book feels like a slow exhale, reminding of another way. Christina Capecchi is a freelance writer from Inver Grove Heights, Minn., and the editor of SisterStory.org.

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Third Extraordinary General Assembly of the Synod of Bishops Editor’s Note: On the evening of 24 October, 2015, His Holiness, Pope Francis delivered the following address at the closing of the Synod of Bishops on the Family. “To conclude the Synod,” The Holy Father said “is to return to our true ‘journeying together’ in bringing to every part of the world, every diocese, to every community and every situation, the light of the Gospel, the embrace of the Church and the support of God’s mercy!” The words of the Holy Father, transcribed in their entirety, will help provide insight into the spirit of this historic meeting and its outcome. The Synod of Bishops is not a decision-making body; its deliberations and final report are meant to provide Pope Francis with reflections and advice. It was not immediately known whether Pope Francis would issue a postsynodal apostolic exhortation, as his predecessors have often done. The Holy Father’s Message: Dear Beatitudes, Eminences and Excellencies, Dear Brothers and Sisters, I would like first of all to thank the Lord, who has guided our synodal process in these years by his Holy Spirit, whose support is never lacking to the Church. My heartfelt thanks go to Cardinal Lorenzo Baldisseri, Secretary General of the Synod, Bishop

Fabio Fabene, its Under-Secretary, and, together with them, the Relator, Cardinal Peter Erdő, and the Special Secretary, Archbishop Bruno Forte, the Delegate Presidents, the writers, the consultors, the translators and the singers, and all those who have worked tirelessly and with total dedication to the Church: My deepest thanks! I would also like to thank the Commission which made the report;

some of them were up all night! I thank all of you, dear Synod Fathers, Fraternal Delegates, Auditors and Assessors, parish priests and families, for your active and fruitful participation. And I thank all those unnamed men and women who contributed generously to the labours of this Synod by quietly working behind the scenes. Be assured of my prayers, that the Lord will reward all of you with his abundant gifts of grace! As I followed the labours of the Synod, I asked myself: What will it mean for the Church to conclude this Synod devoted to the family? Certainly, the Synod was not about settling all the issues having to do with the family, but rather attempting to see them in the light of the Gospel and the Church’s tradition and two-thousand-year history, bringing the joy of hope without falling into a facile repetition of what is obvious or has already been said.

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Surely it was not about finding exhaustive solutions for all the difficulties and uncertainties which challenge and threaten the family, but rather about seeing these difficulties and uncertainties in the light of the Faith, carefully studying them and confronting them fearlessly, without burying our heads in the sand. It was about urging everyone to appreciate the importance of the institution of the family and of marriage between a man and a woman, based on unity and indissolubility, and valuing it as the fundamental basis of society and human life. It was about listening to and making heard the voices of the families and the Church’s pastors, who came to Rome bearing on their shoulders the burdens and the hopes, the riches and the challenges of families throughout the world. It was about showing the vitality of the Catholic Church, which is not afraid to stir dulled con-

sciences or to soil her hands with lively and frank discussions about the family. It was about trying to view and interpret realities, today’s realities, through God’s eyes, so as to kindle the flame of faith and enlighten people’s hearts in times marked by discouragement, social, economic and moral crisis, and growing pessimism. It was about bearing witness to everyone that, for the Church, the Gospel continues to be a vital source of eternal newness, against all those who would “indoctrinate” it in dead stones to be hurled at others. It was also about laying closed hearts, which bare the closed hearts which frequently hide even behind the Church’s teachings or good intentions, in order to sit in the chair of Moses and judge, sometimes with superiority and superficiality, difficult cases and wounded families. It was about making clear that the Church is a Church of the poor in spirit and of sinners seeking forgiveness, not simply of the righteous and the holy, but rather of those who are righteous and holy precisely when they feel themselves poor sinners. It was about trying to open up broader horizons, rising above conspiracy theories and blinkered viewpoints, so as to defend and spread the freedom of the children of God, and to transmit the beauty of Christian Newness, at times encrusted in a language which is archaic or simply incomprehensible. In the course of this Synod, the different opinions which were freely expressed – and at times, unfortunately, not in entirely wellmeaning ways – certainly led to a rich and lively dialogue; they offered a vivid image of a Church which does not simply “rubberstamp”, but draws from the sources of her faith living waters to refresh parched hearts. And – apart from dogmatic questions clearly defined by the Church’s Magisterium – we have also seen that what seems normal for a bishop on one continent, is considered strange and almost scandalous – almost! – for a bishop from another; what is considered

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a violation of a right in one society is an evident and inviolable rule in another; what for some is freedom of conscience is for others simply confusion. Cultures are in fact quite diverse, and every general principle – as I said, dogmatic questions clearly defined by the Church’s magisterium – every general principle needs to be inculturated, if it is to be respected and applied. The 1985 Synod, which celebrated the twentieth anniversary of the conclusion of the Second Vatican Council, spoke of inculturation as “the intimate transformation of authentic cultural values through their integration in Christianity, and the taking root of Christianity in the various human cultures”. Inculturation does not weaken true values, but demonstrates their true strength and authenticity, since they adapt without changing; indeed they quietly and gradually transform the different cultures. We have seen, also by the richness of our diversity, that the same challenge is ever before us: that of proclaiming the Gospel to the men and women of today, and defending the family from all ideological and individualistic assaults. And without ever falling into the danger of relativism or of demonizing others, we sought to embrace, fully and courageously, the goodness and mercy of God who transcends our every human reckoning and desires only that “all be saved” (cf. 1 Tm 2:4). In this way we wished to experience this Synod in the context of the Extraordinary Year of Mercy which the Church is called to celebrated. Dear Brothers and Sisters, The Synod experience also made us better realize that the true defenders of doctrine are not those who uphold its letter, but its spirit; not ideas but people; not formulae but the gratuitousness of God’s love and forgiveness. This is in no way to detract from the importance of formulae – they are necessary – or from the importance of laws and divine commandments, but rather to exalt the greatness of the true God, who does not treat us according to our merits or even according to our works but solely according to the boundless generosity of his Mercy (cf. Rom 3:21-30; Ps 129; Lk 11:47-54). It does have to do with overcoming the recurring temptations of the

elder brother (cf. Lk15:25-32) and the jealous labourers (cf. Mt 20:116). Indeed, it means upholding all the more the laws and commandments which were made for man and not vice versa (cf. Mk 2:27). In this sense, the necessary human repentance, works and efforts take on a deeper meaning, not as the price of that salvation freely won for us by Christ on the cross, but as a response to the One who loved us first and saved us at the cost of his innocent blood, while we were still sinners (cf. Rom 5:6). The Church’s first duty is not to hand down condemnations or anathemas, but to proclaim God’s mercy, to call to conversion, and to lead all men and women to salvation in the Lord (cf. Jn 12:4450). Blessed Paul VI expressed this eloquently: “”We can imagine, then, that each of our sins, our attempts to turn our back on God, kindles in him a more intense flame of love, a desire to bring us back to himself and to his saving plan… God, in Christ, shows himself to be infinitely good… God is good. Not only in himself; God is – let us say it with tears – good for us. He loves us, he seeks us out, he thinks of us, he knows us, he touches our hearts us and he waits for us. He will be – so to say – delighted on the day when we return and say: ‘Lord, in your goodness, forgive me. Thus our repentance becomes God’s joy”. Saint John Paul II also stated that: “the Church lives an authentic life when she professes and proclaims mercy… and when she brings people close to the sources of the Saviour’s mercy, of which she is the trustee and dispenser”. Benedict XVI, too, said: “Mercy is indeed the central nucleus of the Gospel message; it is the very name of God… May all that the Church says and does manifest the mercy God feels for mankind. When the Church has to recall an unrecognized truth, or a betrayed good, she always does so impelled by merciful love, so that men may have life and have it abundantly (cf. Jn 10:10)”. In light of all this, and thanks to this time of grace which the Church has experienced in discussing the family, we feel mutually enriched. Many of us have felt

the working of the Holy Spirit who is the real protagonist and guide of the Synod. For all of us, the word “family” does have the same sound as it did before the Synod, so much so that the word itself already contains the richness

of the family’s vocation and the significance of the labours of the Synod. In effect, for the Church to conclude the Synod means to return to our true “journeying together” in bringing to every part of the

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