Four County Catholic November 2019 by Diocese of Norwich

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Volume 31 • Number 10 • NOVEMBER 2019 SERVING THE COUNTIES OF MIDDLESEX • NEW LONDON • TOLLAND • WINDHAM, CT & FISHERS ISLAND, NY

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MICHAEL R. COTE, D.D.

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LET FAITH LEAD THE WAY Let Us Give Thanks to the Lord Most people equate Thanksgiving with a once a year tradition involving a family gathering, a shared meal, and prayers of thanks, begun by the Pilgrims in Massachusetts in 1621. Would you be surprised to know that other states claim the first Thanksgiving, and there are at least two Catholic Thanksgivings that took place decades prior to the pilgrims’ arrival to the New World? On the Feast of the birth of our Blessed Mother, September 8, 1565 Spanish settlers and indigenous people in St. Augustine, Florida celebrated Mass and feasted together. The second such thanksgiving took place in Texas, April 30, 1598. Don Juan de Oñate, a Spanish explorer, requested a Mass of Thanksgiving, which was followed by a celebration with the native people who had their own tradition of thanksgiving for a bountiful harvest. Fortunately, as Catholic Christians, our tradition of a family gathering, a shared meal, and prayers of thanks happens not just once a year but rather daily in churches around the world. Begun nearly 2000 years ago, Jesus, in the presence of the apostles, instituted the Eucharist at the Last Supper. The Greek word for Eucharist, Eukharistia, means Thanksgiving. This sacrificial banquet begins with the priest introducing the Eucharistic

prayer with the words “let us give thanks to the Lord our God.” And we respond, “it is right and just.” To which the priest says, “it is truly right and just, our duty and our salvation, always and everywhere to give you thanks.” We are called to give thanks to God “always and everywhere.” Not just sometimes and not just in church. The Catechism of the Catholic Church (CCC 1328) informs us that the Holy Eucharist is “an action of Thanksgiving”. The Catechism also states that (CCC 1373) Christ Jesus is present in many ways to His Church, but “He is present . . . most especially in the Eucharistic species”. He is Present. I take the time to mention this because a recent Pew survey published in the late summer, reported that seven in ten U.S. Catholics believe that the bread and wine used in communion are symbolic. Closer examination of the survey result indicates that 63% of weekly Mass-goers believe in transubstantiation, that is that the bread and wine become the body and blood of Christ and are NOT merely symbols. Believing that Jesus is truly present in the Eucharist is a gift of faith. Saint Cyril says, “Do not doubt whether this is true, but rather receive

the words of the Savior in faith, for since He is the truth, He cannot lie.” Many young people are discovering the sense of the Holy in the Blessed Sacrament. Our vocations director, Fr. Greg Galvin, reports that for the past 10 years, every Thursday evening on the UCONN campus, 50 to 60 students gather for a Holy Hour in Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament. While it is not a scientific survey, it is important to note, seven out of ten of our current seminarians have come out of UCONN. It is a sign of the Spirit at work. The Spirit is alive and touches the hearts of many, many people. We should all be encouraged by this outpouring of faith. I pray that you take some time to further study what the church has taught for centuries since Christ instituted this great gift. Enjoy the season and feast of Thanksgiving. Sincerely Yours in Christ,

Michael R. Cote Bishop of Norwich

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My dear brothers and sisters in Christ,

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MICHAEL R. COTE, D.D.

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LET FAITH LEAD THE WAY Demos gracias al Señor NOVEMBER 2019 | FOUR COUNTY CATHOLIC | www.norwichdiocese.org

Mis queridos hermanos y hermanas en Cristo,

La mayoría de la gente cosidera que el Día de Acción de Gracias es una tradición iniciada por los peregrinos en Massachusetts en 1621, que se celebra una vez al año, y que involucra una reunión familiar, una comida compartida y oraciones de agradecimiento, ¿Le sorprendería saber que hay otros estados que se adjudican el Día de Acción de Gracias, y que al menos hay dos Días de Acción de Gracias católicos que tuvieron lugar décadas antes de la llegada de los peregrinos al Nuevo Mundo? Los colonos españoles y los indígenas en San Agustín, Florida festejaron juntos la misa y la Festividad del nacimiento de nuestra Santísima Madre el 8 de septiembre de 1565. La segunda Acción de Gracias similar tuvo lugar en Texas, el 30 de abril de 1598. Don Juan de Oñate, un explorador español, solicitó una Misa de Acción de Gracias, a la que siguió una celebración con los nativos quienes tenían su propia tradición de Acción de Gracias por una cosecha abundante. Afortunadamente, como cristianos católicos, nuestra tradición de una reunión familiar, una comida compartida y oraciones de agradecimiento ocurre no sólo una vez al año, sino más bien todos los días en las iglesias de todo el mundo. Comenzó hace casi 2000 años, Jesús, instituyó la Eucaristía en presencia de lo apóstoles, en la última cena. La palabra griega para Eucaristía, Eukharistia, significa Acción de Gracias. Este banquete de sacrificio comienza con el sacerdote presentando

la oración Eucarística con las palabras "demos gracias al Señor nuestro Dios." Y respondemos, "es justo y necesario". A lo que el sacerdote dice, En verdad es justo y necesario, es nuestro deber y salvación darte gracias, Padre santo, siempre y en todo lugar, Estamos llamados a dar gracias a Dios "siempre y en todas partes". No sólo a veces y no sólo en la iglesia. El Catecismo de la Iglesia Católica (CCC 1328) nos informa que la Santa Eucaristía es "una Acción de Gracias". El Catecismo también afirma que (CCC 1373) Cristo Jesús está presente de muchas maneras en Su Iglesia, pero "Está presente... especialmente en las especies Eucarísticas".

Muchos jóvenes están descubriendo el sentido Sagrado en el Santísimo Sacramento. Nuestro director de vocaciones, Padre Greg Galvin, informa que durante los últimos 10 años, todos los jueves por la noche se reúnen en el recinto JUAN 10:10 universitario de UCONN, entre 50 y 60 alumnos para una Hora Santa en Adoración del Santísimo Sacramento. Si bien no es un estudio científico, es importante señalar que siete de cada diez de nuestros seminaristas actuales han salido de UCONN. Es un signo del trabajo del Espíritu. El Espíritu está vivo y toca el corazón de muchas personas. Todos debemos ser alentados por esta efusión de fe.

Él está presente. Me tomo el tiempo de mencionar esto porque una reciente encuesta de Pew publicada a finales del verano, informó que siete de cada diez católicos estadounidenses creen que el pan y el vino utilizados en la comunión son simbólicos. Un examen más detallado del resultado de la encuesta indica que el 63% de las personas que asisten a Misa semanal, creen en la transubstanciación, es decir, creen que el pan y el vino se convierten en el cuerpo y la sangre de Cristo y NO son meros símbolos. Creer que Jesús está verdaderamente presente en la Eucaristía es un don de fe. San Cirilo dice: "No dude si esto es cierto, sino que reciba las palabras del Salvador con fe, porque Él es la verdad, no puede mentir".

Ruego que se tome un tiempo para seguir estudiando lo que la iglesia ha enseñado durante siglos desde que Cristo instituyó este gran don. Disfrute la temporada y la festividad de Acción de Gracias. Sinceramente en el amor de Cristo,

Michael R. Cote Obispo de Norwich

We pray for men to answer the call to be instruments of God’s grace as priests of Jesus Christ.

Mr. Normand Laflamme 3rd Year Theology Mount St. Mary’s Emmitsburg, MD

Mr. Larry Barile 3rd Year Theology Pope St. John XXIII Weston, Massachusetts

Vocations Corner

Father Gregory Galvin, Director of Priestly Vocations Each year we celebrate the start of November with the feast of All Saints, followed by the feast of All Souls Day. This month also marks the celebration of Thanksgiving, while the end of the month closes the calendar year of the Church with the Feast of Christ the King. These occasions are opportunities for us to deepen our spiritual lives. November also gives us an opportunity to renew the gift of silence in our own lives, particularly in prayer and reflection. Silence assists in opening the soul to God. As we become comfortable with silence, it can become easier to be more ready and open, more trusting of our Heavenly God and Father.

For example, in January 2018 Pope Francis spoke about the liturgy of the Holy Mass as a “school of prayer,” able to teach us how to speak with God in our prayers. In an article written that month by Ary Waldir Ramos Diaz, he quotes Pope Francis, “Silence is not limited to the absence of words; rather, we open ourselves to hearing other voices: that of our heart, and above all, that of the Holy Spirit.” Diaz points out that the Holy Father is speaking about the Gloria and the

Collect, also known as the “Opening Prayer.” He is telling the faithful the importance of silence. He writes,

“In this context, he reiterated that when the priest invites the faithful to pray during the Eucharist, we are to renew our awareness of being in God’s presence and offer to Him our personal intentions from the depths of our hearts, participating actively in the Mass.” Silence is the tool used to accomplish this throughout the liturgy.

This is also important in the work of personal discernment of each child of God. It is through quiet prayer, opening ourselves to silence and learning to hear the Father, Son and Holy Spirit speak to us, that each of us can better discern and come to understand the call given to each one of us regarding our particular vocation. As one learns to be comfortable with silence, one can find it much more relaxing to simply “sit with God.” Silence and openness of the soul during reflection allows us to experience a peacefulness and an awareness of being in God’s presence. This is where and when we can best “speak with God.”

Mr. Jacob Ramos 2nd YearTheology Mount St. Mary’s, Emmitsburg, MD

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May you, through the intercession of All the Saints, have a blessed Thanksgiving and may the faithfully departed from all our families rest in peace until our Lord, Savior and King comes again.

Please continue to join us in prayer for an increase of vocations and for our present seminarians. The next Monthly Holy Hour is on Thursday, November 21, in Essex, at St. Teresa of Calcutta, (Our Lady of Sorrows).

The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, leads the Holy Hour

Holy Hour Mr. Dharen Brochero 1st Year Theology Mount St. Mary’s Emmitsburg, MD

This month, those who find themselves praying for deceased loved ones, reflecting on what they are personally thankful for in their lives during Thanksgiving or reflecting on our Lord’s kingship should work at becoming more comfortable with being silent. This is daily work; we must find time and space for silence, which ultimately can assist us in deepening our conversation with God and the ability to recognize His quiet voice in our hearts. This also allows us to discover with greater understanding God’s will for us, and hopefully assists us in embracing more willingly His plan for us.

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MR. ALEXANDER PANDOLFE 2nd Year Pre-Theology Mount St. Mary’s Emmitsburg, MD

Mr. Julian Cuervo 2nd Year Pre-Theology Mount St. Mary’s Emmitsburg, MD

Mr. Eric Hosmer 2nd Year Pre-Theology Mount St. Mary’s Emmitsburg, MD

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Deacon Michael Bovino 4th Year Theology Mount St. Mary’s Emmitsburg, MD

Ruben Sanchez 1st Year Theology Mount St. Mary’s Emmitsburg, MD

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Community Pride Prospered at Tenth Annual Seton Scholarship Dinner

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success of the Seton Scholarship Dinner. We truly appreciate all of our sponsors, donors, attendees, student participants and honorees.

Henry Fiore, Jr. – Superintendent, Diocese of Norwich Marie Smith – Essay Winner - 8th Grade Student at Saint Joseph School, Baltic

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n addition to providing an excellent education, our Catholic schools instill strong community pride which was apparent at this year’s Tenth Annual Seton Scholarship Dinner held on November 3rd at St. Clements Castle & Marina in Portland. In its largest dinner to date, 230 people representing 30 Catholic schools and churches gathered together as one community to support three very special individuals being honored for their contributions to Catholic education within the Diocese of Norwich. Guests enjoyed St. Clements’ beautiful facilities, eagerly congratulating this year’s honorees, Sister Mary Patrick, S.C.M.C, of Saint Joseph School, Baltic, Barbara Hamanaka Ph.D., of Sacred Heart School, Groton, and Ann C. Derbacher, Mercy High School, Middletown, who together have contributed more than 100 years of

service to our diocesan schools. The evening began with Superintendent of Schools, Henry Fiore, Jr. welcoming honorees and guests. The Mercy Chamber Choir led the crowd in the Pledge of Allegiance, “God Bless America” and then an absolutely angelic “You Are My All in All”. Father Peter Langevin, Chancellor of the Diocese offered an invocation and blessing prior to dinner being served. Bishop Cote sent his regrets for not being able to attend the dinner due to his being at the Vatican for his ad limina visit to the Holy See, congratulating the honorees as well as thanking the sponsors, donors and attendees for their support of Catholic education. Marie Smith of Saint Joseph School, Baltic received a roaring round of applause after reading her essay on “What Does a Catholic Education

Mean to Me?” Each year, Catholic school 8th graders compete in an essay contest about their faith. Marie shared, “Faith and hope are what we need to live by, and I am glad that my Catholic education has taught me how to put this into my daily life.” In his annual report on Diocesan schools, Henry Fiore expressed, “I am happy to report to you that the Holy Spirit is alive and well in all of our schools. We may be slightly diminishing in our enrollment numbers, like in other dioceses in New England, but certainly not in significance, especially when we look at what is happening to theology and religion in today’s culture.” The evening continued with Mother Marie Julie introducing our first honoree of the night, Sister Mary Patrick, Principal and music teacher at Saint Joseph School, Baltic, and former principal of the Academy of the Holy Family and St. Bernard. In her acceptance remarks, Sister Mary Patrick shared, “As a product of Catholic education both on the elementary school and secondary level, I must say that it has helped to shape me into the person that God wants me to be. I am well aware of the many sacrifices that parents make today and I am grateful that

this diocese gives such support for our students. The education that our Catholic schools provide prepares our students to be the future of the Church and of society.” Sister Mary McCarthy introduced Ms. Ann C. Derbacher, who has been a dedicated teacher, Campus Minister and Theology Chairperson at Mercy High School for over 38 years. “Through our prayers, sacrifices and contributions our young students encounter a loving Jesus through those who serve. They feel safe, loved, free to speak about Jesus and hear their teachers share their own faith stories,” Ann conveyed to the full house. Father Dariusz Dudzik introduced our final honoree of the evening, Barbara Hamanaka, Ph.D. Mrs. Hamanaka, who is an advanced mathematics and computer teacher at Sacred Heart School, Groton, began her 27 year association with Sacred Heart School when her children were students there. Mrs. Hamanaka encouraged the audience saying, “We have to consider how we must expend even more effort so that religious and moral values can be instilled in children, that children are provided with a guide to lead a good, productive life, and that they are

Marie Smith reads her essay to Bishop Cote.

instructed in their faith so they can resist the temptations of the world at large.” This year’s Seton Scholarship Dinner offered an opportunity for people from across the Diocese of Norwich to come together as one community to pay tribute to those honored for their service to Catholic education. In addition, the dinner raises funds for students who need help paying for school tuition. In furtherance of this goal, a silent auction of 30 donated gifts was conducted and for the first time, a beautiful cross

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covered with scripture quotes was awarded as a door prize. Since its inception, the Seton Scholarship Dinner has raised over $304,000. These funds are distributed by the Catholic Foundation of the Diocese of Norwich in the form of tuition assistance grants keeping community pride strong in our Catholic schools.

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CONVOCATION FOR ALL PRIESTS IN THE DIOCESE The Annual Convocation for Priests will be held December 2-4, 2019, in Newport, Rhode Island. This important event is for the priests of the Diocese to come together with Bishop Cote for spiritual revitalization, camaraderie, education and formation. The key presenter will be Reverend Luke Ballman, a priest of the Archdiocese of Atlanta, currently serving as Associate Director for the Secretariat for Clergy Consecrated Life and Vocations for the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops.

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Left to Right: Henry Fiore, Jr. – Superintendent, Diocese of Norwich, Ann C. Derbacher, Mercy High School, Middletown, Sister Mary Patrick Mulready, S.C.M.C., Saint Joseph School, Baltic, Barbara Hamanaka, Ph.D., Sacred Heart School, Groton and Reverend Peter Langevin, Chancellor of the Diocese of Norwich

Firefighters and EMS Personnel Form a Unique ‘Family’

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By Ryan Blessing - Photos by Jackson Morrison

hey respond to fires, accidents and medical emergencies and put their own lives on the line at times while doing so. That selfless dedication shown by firefighters and EMS personnel, at all hours of the day and in all kinds of conditions, received praise and thanks at the 27th annual Diocesan Mass in their honor, held Saturday, October 19 at the Cathedral of St. Patrick in Norwich. Firefighters and ambulance crews love a parade, and the procession before the Mass from Chelsea Parade to the Cathedral included trucks from Occum, East Great Plain, Mapleville, Quiambaug, Stonington, Chesterfield and Harrisville, Rhode Island. Marchers wore their navy-blue dress uniforms, and most wore polished black shoes and white gloves. As they arrived at the front of the cathedral, the vehicles slowly rolled beneath a large American flag, hung over Broadway from atop two fully extended ladders on trucks belonging to the Cromwell and Danielson departments.

The firefighters marched in line into the cathedral, accompanied by the Connecticut Firefighters Pipes and Drums bagpipe band. Some carried flags of their departments, or a ceremonial ax, one of the tools of a firefighter. Most Reverend Michael R. Cote D.D., welcomed the firefighters, emergency responders and their families. “First responders fearlessly face danger and risk their lives out of love and compassion for those they have been called to serve,” Bishop Cote said. “It is both this goodness and sense of self-sacrifice that we celebrate each time we gather for this special Mass.” The homilist was Deacon Richard Lapierre, from Our Lady of Good Help and St. Theresa parishes in Burrillville, Rhode Island. He’s also a chaplain to the Northern Rhode Island Firemen’s League. A 32-year veteran of the Oakland-Mapleville Fire Department in Rhode Island, the deacon talked about the family bond that forms among firefighters and EMS members and recalled his own time as a firefighter.

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service in our greater community.” Officers of the Mass this year were firefighters from Montville, Yantic, Baltic, Bozrah, Groton, Mystic, Gales Ferry, Flanders, Poquonnock Bridge, Chesterfield, Gardner Lake and Rhode Island. Chesterfield Fire Department Chief Kevin Truex led the Prayer for Firefighters and EMS Personnel. “When called upon to face the danger of

flames or serve an ill or injured person, give us the courage and alertness to protect our neighbors and all others whom we pledge to aid,” Truex said, reciting the prayer. Fallen firefighters and ambulance workers who have died in the line of duty since 1993 were honored by their brethren as well. After the name of each was read, firefighters rang two bells in succession – one on the altar, the other in the choir loft.

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“Working 56 hours a week, sleeping in the station, and continuing to be a part of the wonderful fraternity of firefighters was exciting and rewarding,” he said. He recalled the generosity of families that took him in as one of their own. Becoming a firefighter or EMS member is more than taking on a role or a job, Deacon Lapierre added. “We are becoming a member of a family, with a common commitment to

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Music Director is Getting in Tune with New Role Article and photos by Ryan Blessing

The new Director of Music and Organist at the cathedral, Lianos started on August 1 and has been settling into his new role for the past three months. “There’s always a learning curve with a community this large,” he said. “I’ve worked with communities as large, and these are wonderful people.” Lianos is readying for the November 17 Candlelight Concert and Compline. He’s enlivened the program a bit, he said. “It was more of a concert and somewhat of a compline in the past,” he said. He added things such as a penitential rite and certain Catholic antiphons, or short chants, he said. It’s the first large performance event here in the Diocese of Norwich for Lianos, 34, who took over from former music director Doug Green, who retired in August. In his music room in the basement of the cathedral are tables holding handbells of various sizes, along with sheet music.

“That’s me getting our children’s choir ready,” he said. He had four children when he arrived and has grown that to 14, all from St. Patrick School. “They ring and sing every other weekend,” he said. “And also at the school Masses. It’s a pretty vigorous schedule and they’re very smart children.” He also merged handbell rehearsals held Tuesday through Thursday into one Wednesday rehearsal for St. Patrick School children. He plans to open up a Tuesday evening rehearsal slot for children from other schools. Lianos said that one of his biggest challenges is navigating the multi-level function of the cathedral. “You have the local parish, but you also have the diocese,” he said. “That’s the biggest challenge, I think, playing both roles.” Working in the cathedral for a few months, Lianos said he’s struck by the organ. “The organ is particularly lovely, and the room,” he said. “Many organ builders will say the most important stop in the organ is the room … the room sort of adds to the beauty of the instrument.” Lianos previously served at St. Bede Catholic Church in Williamsburg,

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Virginia. He grew up in Manchester, New Hampshire and studied organ performance, and took vocal training as well at Oberlin Conservatory. Lianos said he’s passionate about liturgy, and that it’s very important. He compared it to the Road to Emmaus, the Bible story where the resurrected Jesus is walking with two disciples who don’t recognize Him until He reveals Himself to them during the breaking of bread together. “That’s very much how I see Mass play out,” he said. “We have the procession in and the Liturgy of the Word, both

journeys, and then consecration, where Jesus reveals Himself to us in the breaking of bread. But it doesn’t stop there, we go out into the world to share with others. So, I try to build music around liturgical practice.” Lianos also praised the leadership in the diocese as excellent to work with and tipped his hat to his longtime predecessor. “This music program is in great shape,” he said. “Doug did a fantastic job training the musicians, and the people here are just wonderful.”

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Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. Philippians 4:6

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hen he’s not playing organ and directing the choir at Mass, Michael Lianos is busy preparing for several upcoming performances at the Cathedral of St. Patrick.

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Olde Time Christmas Fair St. Andrew Church, Colchester 4-8pm Friday 9-2pm Saturday Bake shop, homemade goods, kid's corner, crafters, baskets, Christmas gifts, teacup raffle, turkey dinner on Friday night.

Saturday, November 23

St. Mary's Ladies Guild Fair Church of St. Mary, Portland 9-2pm Saturday Crafts, jewelry, baked goods, tag sale items & cemetery crosses. Vendors featuring local honey, artwork & more.

Sleigh Bells Ring Christmas Fair St. Maurice Church, Bolton 9-3pm Saturday Saturday, November 16 Raggedy Ann/Andy dolls, jams, salsa, Festival of Angels Fair pickles. Hand-knit items, take-a-chance St. Francis of Assisi Church, Middletown booth, clothes for American Girl dolls, 9-3pm Saturday Crafts featuring hand-blown glass ornaments evergreen baskets, apple pies & photos with Santa. Over 40 crafters. Hot lunch. from Poland, baked goods, farmer's market, jewelry boutique, raffles, & a variety of local St. Mary's Heart of Christmas Fair artisan vendors. St. Mary's of the Visitation Church, Clinton 9-2pm Saturday Christmas Bazaar Handmade wreaths, numerous handcrafted St. Mary Church, Stonington items, jewelry, bakes goods, food, photos 9-2pm Saturday Christmas crafts & items, jewelry, fresh floral with Santa & more. arrangements, handmade crochet & knitted items, baked goods, Portuguese sweet bread, soup & chili

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Frosty Village Bazaar St. Matthew Church, Tolland 6-9pm Friday 9-2:30pm Saturday Hand-crafted items; apple pies, baked goods, jewelry, attic treasures, raffles, activities for the kids. Our kitchen has sandwiches, homemade soup, apple pie & brownies.

Christmas Fair St. Peter Church, Higganum 9-3pm Saturday Baked goods, antiques/collectibles, crafts, quilts, knitted items. Fabulous Christmas & holiday wreaths & decorations. Complete luncheon menu served throughout the day.

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Christmas Fair St. Lawrence Church, Killingworth 5-8pm Friday 9-2pm Saturday Silent auction, various gifts & baskets available. Basket raffle, evergreen decorations, baked goods, homemade food specialties from our kitchen.

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Christmas Craft Fair Saint Philips Church, Ashford 9-2pm Saturday 40 crafters, our kitchen will be serving soups, sandwiches and perogies Snowflake Fair Sacred Heart Church, Norwichtown 9-2pm Saturday Theme basket raffle, 50/50, handmade gifts, baked goods, silent auction, cemetery boxes, white elephant table, food & more. Annual Holiday Craft / Vendor Fair Sacred Heart School Church, Taftville 9-2pm Saturday Various crafters & direct sales vendors: Usborne, Mary Kay, Swarovski Jewelry, 31 Bags, Perfectly Posh, various homemade items. Food & baked goods for sale & also a raffle.

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St. Patrick School Christmas Festival Cathedral of St. Patrick Auditorium, Norwich 8-1pm Vendors with handmade items, woodcrafts, jewelry, baked goods, hot dogs & popcorn, basket raffle, 50/50 raffle, photos with Santa St Edward Craft Fair St Edward Church, Stafford Springs 9-2pm Saturday 8-11:30am Sunday Local vendors selling Avon, honey, crafts, jewelry, food, thirty-one, pampered chef, wreaths & so much more.

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St. Mary - St. Joseph School Holiday Craft & Vendor Fair St. Mary - St. Joseph School Church, Willimantic 9 -3pm Saturday Local vendors, beautifully crafted gift ideas, decor, jewelry, grinder sale, raffles & more.

Christmas Cookie Sale St. Mark the Evangelist Church, Westbrook 9-Noon Saturday Decorated, wrapped plates of 2 ½ dozen assorted, delicious homemade cookies. Sold for $14. Bake/ Craft Fair Saint John the Evangelist Church, Uncasville 9-3pm Saturday Handmade crafts including paintings, cards, holiday gifts items & more. Huge bake sale. Lunch will be served. Holiday Cookie Sale & Basket Raffle Our Lady of La Salette Church, Brooklyn 9-1pm Saturday A large selection of homemade holiday cookies, sold by the pound & more than 40 beautiful baskets to be raffled off.

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Youth Explosion Saturday, November 2 12:30pm. St. Bernard High School, Uncasville. Prayer Group Mass Wednesday, November 6 6:30pm. All Hallows Church Hall, Moosup. Healing and Freedom Conference (Unbound) Saturday, November 9 9– 4:30pm. Spiritual Renewal Center, Norwich Call to register (Limited) 860-887-0702. Mass of Healing and Hope 2nd & 4th Mondays November 11 & 25 -- December 9 & 23 Spiritual Renewal Center, Norwich. Monthly Mass and Healing Service Sunday, November 24 Mass 1-2pm. Healing Service continuing after Mass St. Thomas The Apostle Chapel 872 Farmington Ave, West Hartford Prayer Teams, Individual Prayer and Anointing.

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Married Couples Renew Vows at Anniversary Mass

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Article and photos by Ryan Blessing

oving husbands and wives married for 25, 50 and even 63 years joined hands with their spouse and renewed their commitment to each other before the Lord at the special Anniversary Mass on Sunday, October 27. John and Jane Sterry, married on June 30, 1956, stood with other couples in the Cathedral of St. Patrick and praised God for accompanying them during good times and bad. The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D said that “faithful marriage is a re-creation in time and space of Jesus’ love for His people, the Church. We believe that selfless love, which is the core of the Gospel message, is truly the very heart of marriage. We believe that husbands and wives who work together for the benefit of their families give us an example of strength, courage and virtue.” The homilist, Deacon Dan D’Amelio of St. Bridget parish in Moodus and St. Patrick in East Hampton, said the reading from Saint Luke (Luke 18:9-4) is a wonderful reminder of what it is to live our lives for another, not focusing on ourselves and exalting

Bishop talks with Hal and Connie Farrington (50 yrs)

ourselves, but being humble and asking for mercy. He also noted how many husbands quickly learned the two most important words of their married lives, “words that admit our guilt and seek mercy. The two words—"Yes, dear!’” “Marriage,” Deacon D’Amelio said, is not about seeking our own happiness. Marriage is about love. A sacrificing love, a serving love, a giving love, and a forgiving love.” John and Jane Sterry are a true example of enduring union. The Portland couple have four children and nine grandchildren “scattered all over,” Jane said. John said the couple has no secret to a long and lasting marriage, except to say what Deacon D’Amelio advised. “ Yes, dear! ”

Ted and Meghan Brunnock of Pawcatuck and their children. (25 yrs)

Celebrating 60 years of marriage on Halloween were Charles and Rosemary Hall. Charles was asked what it was like getting married on Halloween. “Scary,” is how he described it. “Who got the trick

and who got the treat?” Rosemary filled in some of the detail. “Actually, he was in the Navy at the time, and that was the only weekend open, I don’t tell anybody, but he got the trick and I got the treat.”

The LORD is my strength and my shield; my heart trusts in Him, and He helps me. My heart leaps for joy, and with my song I praise Him.

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John and Jane Sterry of Portland. (63 yrs)

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Red, White and Blue Mass Honors Armed Forces

By Ryan Blessing, photos by Annette Hanrahan

en and women in uniform, from battle-tested veterans with decades of service to new cadets in the U.S. Coast Guard Academy and ROTC programs, lined the pews at the Cathedral of St. Patrick during the 28th annual Red, White and Blue Mass on Sunday, November 3. The Mass honored members of the Armed Services under the Department of Defense, as well as active, reserve and retired members of all the uniformed services. This year’s celebration also paid tribute to “Old

Glory,” the popular moniker for the American flag. The Reverend Thomas Hoar, the president and CEO of St. Edmund’s Retreat on Ender’s Island, was the celebrant and homilist. Father Tom is also the chaplain of the U.S. Naval Submarine Base in Groton. He told the story the late U.S. Sen. John McCain liked to tell of Michael Christian, a U.S. serviceman who was sent to a prison camp in Vietnam. Using a bamboo needle and some thread from a Red Cross care package,

Christian secretly sewed the United States flag on the inside of his shirt. “Every morning after he was done, the prisoners would hang Michael’s shirt on the wall and pledge allegiance to the flag,” he said. The prison guards found out and beat Michael Christian severely in front of the other prisoners. They ripped apart the flag and took Christian back to his cell. “As soon as he could lift his arms and open his swollen eyes, he began to make another flag on another shirt,”

Father Tom said. He also addressed the young men and women in the Armed Forces. “We need to pray that they not only do the jobs they are called to do, but that they do it as men and women of virtue.” Everyone has been given many good gifts, including freedom, he added. “We’ve been given the gift of freedom from sin and death by Jesus Christ,” he said. “These gifts are precious, and they are fragile. They are easily lost if we lose sight of them.”

gathered again in the church hall for a luncheon and to reminisce about their time in the service of our country.

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Gift-bearers represented each of the military branches: Army, Navy, Air Force, Marines, Merchant Marine and the Coast Guard. Several special moments in the Mass centered on music, performed by Armed Services members. The Coast Guard Academy Glee Club performed “Eternal Father, Strong to Save,” and “Stand for Fallen Heroes.” Trumpeters played “Taps” and “Reveille” to pay tribute to those service members who died in the line of duty. Many, including those with Connecticut ties who were killed in Iraq and Afghanistan, were listed in the program booklet for the Mass. Near the end of the Mass the Mystic Highland Pipe Band took up formation in front of the altar and performed a stirring version of “Amazing Grace.” Following the Mass, many of the service members and their families

Treasures of the Church

Often times hidden, they can be found in the most unexpected places By Wayne Gignac

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aint Lawrence, a deacon under Pope Sixtus II during the reign of the Emperor Valerian, was given three days by the Roman Prefect to bring to the imperial palace the treasures of the Church. Quickly Lawrence sold off all the vessels and distributed the money to the widows, the sick and the poor. After three days had elapsed, he returned but he did not return alone. The imperial forces, greedily expecting to see gold, silver, and precious jewels, were enraged when the humble deacon brought forth the poor, the blind, and the disabled, proclaiming, “You asked for the treasures of the Church. I bring before you the true treasures of the Church!” So began the homily by Deacon Costa Adamopoulos of the Diocese of Providence, for the Third Annual Pontifical Mass for the Diocesan Partnership on Disability, held on October 6 at St. Andrew Church, Colchester. Deacon Adamopoulos works in the human services field currently as a job coach for a group of individuals in a supermarket in Mystic. “The words of Saint Lawrence come alive every shift I work,” he said to the nearly full church. “Like all of us, they have their own challenges . . . if we pray for the grace to see with the eyes of faith, those challenges that the disabled face can be vehicles of grace to mold and shape us into the

type of disciples that Jesus is calling us to be.” The deacon went on to explain that disabilities may limit the way we move, think or speak but they will never limit our ability to love. Following the Mass was a reception in the church hall. Ian Coyne, Xavier graduate and keynote speaker on the topic of Living with a Disability, said a few words before presenting Bishop Cote with a gift- a polo shirt adorned with the One Heart Ministry logo. The One Heart Ministry is a partnership for individuals with disabilities and the people who assist them in their daily lives. The group comes together to pray, socialize and work on a service project-making heart pins that will be distributed to different groups of people, at different stages of life, to let them know someone cares. Every heart pin has a prayer attached so the recipient knows the group is praying for them. Some of the groups that the pins will be distributed to include the disabled, veterans, the elderly, patients in hospice, and the bereaved. The heart not only lets people know that someone cares, it also symbolizes the hope that we hold as Catholics that God‘s love accompanies us through every challenge. All are welcome to become involved in the One Heart Ministry. Please contact the Office of Faith Events at 860-848-2237 extension 304 or FaithEvents@NorwichDiocese.net

Deacon Costa Adamopoulos of the Diocese of Providence, Homilist for the Diocesan Partnership on Disability Mass. Videos of Deacon Adamopoulos’s inspiring homily and Ian Coyne’s gift presentation to Bishop Cote can be viewed at NorwichDiocese.org For everything God created is good, and nothing is to be rejected if it is received with thanksgiving, 1 Timothy 4:4 because it is consecrated by the word of God and prayer.

Creative Children Enhance the Pontifical Mass Reception By Andrea Hoisl

he Pontifical Mass for the Partnership on Disability had a few hundred extra members on the planning committee this year! The students at St. Joseph School in North Grosvenordale played an active role in the Mass as well as the reception. A member of the seventh-grade class, Maya Chojnicki, was a reader at the Mass and a member of the kindergarten class, Kelsey Terranova accompanied by her parents, were the gift bearers. But participation did not stop there every student made a drawing with a special message about how people with disabilities need and want love and acceptance.

Bishop Cote, with Kelsey Terranova and her parents Kacey and Brian.

Kelsey Terranova (Kindergartener) and Ian Coyne

These drawings were laminated diocese. The theme of the program and used as placemats for the was “Just Like Me.” Pontifical Mass reception. The Ian Coyne, a whole student body member of the One participated, and Among all Heart Ministry the results were group, was the beautiful. Every of us are the keynote speaker table at the reception shared his was adorned with treasures of and personal experiences four or five colorful of growing up with placemats that made the church and a disability with the everyone stop, read we are all the school community. and smile. The day was filled with questions and “The effort the richer for it. concerns by students, children put into their artwork to spread their caring teachers, support staff and parents. message was remarkable,” said “I felt a great connection to the Karen Caise, planning committee community at St. Joseph School, they were ever engaged and member. interested in what it feels like to The student body at St. Joseph have a disability,” Ian said. School took part in a Disability The partnership with the schools Awareness Program sponsored by the diocese last year, along with in the disability awareness program six other Catholic schools in the was a new addition to this year’s

Maya Chojnicki, a 7th Grader from SJS, reads from the second letter of Timothy.

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Volunteer greeter, Jordan Cote, and committee member Karen Caise distribute handmade keychains to remind attendees that we are all equally loved by God.

Pontifical Mass for the Partnership on Disability. “I am so happy that our students were able to participate and enhance the outreach of the disability awareness ministry,” David Sizemore, principal at St. Joseph School, said. “Our mission states that we are a caring, respectful and nurturing environment, and we want to share that with the larger diocesan community. It was a beautiful liturgy and reception and we are thankful we could be part of it.”

Let them give thanks to the LORD for His unfailing love and His wonderful deeds for mankind. Psalm 107:15

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Turning 40 in Style By Wayne Gignac

t. Vincent de Paul Place (SVdPP) hosted a celebration and open house Thursday, October 10th to showcase its facility and many services. Volunteers, clients and friends were treated to tours, fellowship and food. The ministry, now housed on Cliff Street in the former St. Joseph School building, began 40 years ago in the Shannon Building in downtown Norwich. “We were delusional young people trying to change the world,” said Deacon Tom Casey. “There were a few of us back then –– Larry Lewis, Fr. Pat Martin, and the Coleman Family from 23rd Publications –– who saw a need, as the Norwich State Hospital began to transition patients back into the community.” 40 years later, the ministry continues to meet the needs of the community. Impressive Numbers In 2018, the “Served Meals” program, which operates Monday through Saturday, averaged 222 meals per day, totaling 69,315 breakfasts and lunches. In addition, 15,156 sandwiches and miscellaneous meals brought the total of individual meals served to 85,271. A food pantry operates out of the second floor of the facility. The numbers served are equally as impressive. In 2018, 491,956 meals were distributed to 1,565 unique households, comprised of

2,574 adults, 1,385 children, and 424 senior citizens from 25 local towns and cities. Children are a special focus at SVdPP. They meet basic needs with formula, diapers, and hygiene. More than 500 backpacks filled with school supplies were distributed this year, while in 2018, more than 500 winter coats were distributed to area children. More than Food In addition to the meal program and the pantry, the facility houses a hair salon, a well-stocked storeroom providing apartment furnishings, showers and even pet care services. The ministry also partners with several healthcare and social service organizations, providing case management for clients. Donations Always Welcome Donations of all kinds are always welcome. For instance, the food pantry, which serves an average of 300 families every week, can always use pasta, sauce, canned soup, tuna and peanut butter. And now with online shopping, groceries can be delivered to St. Vincent de Paul Place. Their delivery address is 120 Cliff St, Norwich, CT 06360 There are many more items that are needed as the cold weather approaches. Visit the website, SVdPP.org, to see the latest list.

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t. Bernard School senior Lauren O’Donnell was recognized as the 2020 St. Edmund’s Honor Scholarship Recipient on October 25th during the 16th Annual St. Edmund’s Medal of Honor Dinner at the Mystic Marriott Hotel. The scholarship was established in memory of the members of the Society of St. Edmund who served as faculty and staff members of St. Bernard School. Instituted in 2007, the endowed Saint Edmund’s Honor Scholarship is given annually to a first semester senior of St. Bernard School who has shown, through academics and service, the virtues that St. Edmund heroically manifested in his life. In her application essay on “The challenges of living a life of virtue in the world today,” Lauren described how experiencing issues with her vision caused her to lose sight of her virtues of patience, obedience and faith. “There is a reason God has put this obstacle in my path. I believe it is a test for my patience as well as my faith… I still long for my sight to be restored, but until then, I turn to my family, friends, and faith to help me remember who I am, and how much I love the life I live,” she wrote.

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Superintendent's Office My Dear Friends, November is a busy month in our Catholic Schools. We keep the Catholic tradition of teaching about the feast days, and during this month we celebrate many. I encourage all parents to speak to your children about these special days of rich heritage in our Catholic faith. It is important for the next generation to be aware of and familiar with why these special feasts, memorials, and solemnities are so important in our attempts to propagate our faith from generation to generation. On November 28, we celebrate a national holiday which also ties into our faith, Thanksgiving Day. It is a day to truly appreciate all of the blessings that Our Lord has bestowed upon us. At the risk of sounding like a broken record (or, for the millennials, a “looped sound byte”), I encourage you once again to instill in your children to avoid calling this day “Turkey Day”. Let’s keep the ‘thanks’ in Thanksgiving. On that note, I would like to thank all of you for supporting our schools with your time, talent, and treasures. Your support and prayers are all going to an extremely worthy cause: educating children in academics and in the faith, supporting the parents of the children we serve in providing them with a moral compass that always points to Heaven. With great appreciation,

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November 30 Feast of Saint Andrew, Apostle

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Bishop Cote, along with other New England Bishops, met with Pope Francis in the papal library. The two hour meeting took place on November 7th as part of the “ad limina” visits to the Vatican to pray at the tombs of the apostles and report on the status of their dioceses.

Saturday, December 7 • 8am –12pm We practice a personalized approach to education. Recognizing students have various academic strengths, skills and abilities our PLACEMENT TEST allows us to put students in the correct classes to challenge and strengthen them. We invite your child to take the next step in the admissions process by registering for our upcoming PLACEMENT TEST on Saturday, December 7th. Saint Bernard School instills the values, traditions and skills that will guide your child through tomorrow!

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Catholic School Continues To Break School Records By Tiffany Ruvolo

St. John Paul II Regional Cross Country team participated in the 8th Annual Catholic School Championship at St. Bernard School. Devyn Jones came out on top and took first place for the girls. Leilani Duong-Vazquez, Mariah Jimenez-Ruiz, and Emily LeBlanc placed fourth, fifteenth, and nineteenth respectfully putting the girls in the top 20. On the boys team, Will Despres led the boys with a strong 7th place finish. To round out the day, Kendall Beaulieu, Emma Caruso, Tristan Donnelly and Matthew Myer pushed through the race to successfully meet and surpass their goals. We are incredibly proud of how our team represented JPII at the race and for their hard work.

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L-R: Emma Caruso, Leilani Duong-Vazquez, Devyn Jones, Matthew Myer, Will Despres (standing), Tristan Donnelly, Mariah Jimenez-Ruiz, Emily LeBlanc and Kendall Beaulieu

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An inspiring response to the growing popularity of above ground entombment.

Bishop Cote celebrating Memorial Day Mass at St. Mary’s Mausoleum, Norwich

A reminder of the eternal love, fellowship and faith that we share.

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The Return God of peace, we pray for those who have served our nation and have laid down their lives to protect and defend our freedom. We pray for those who have fought, whose spirits and bodies are scarred by war, whose nights are haunted by memories too painful for the light of day. We pray for those who serve us now, especially for those in harm's way. Shield them from danger and bring them home. Turn the hearts and minds of our leaders and our enemies to the work of justice and a harvest of peace. May the peace you left us, the peace you gave us, be the peace that sustains, the peace that saves us. Amen.

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“The Return,” an emotional depiction of a World War I soldier kneelinag before a crucifix inside the Church of the Holy Innocents on West 37th and Broadway in lower Manhattan. Both crucifix and the church are still in place today.

Advent:

A time for patient waiting, not holiday rushing

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By Liza Roach

Our faith tells us – take a minute, slow down…it is not a time for rushing:

Advent is a time for PATIENT WAITING! We need to remember that this is a season of preparation for the coming of our Lord, and He does not want us to be stressed out. Really, God doesn’t want that for any of His children! He wants us to carefully and thoughtfully concentrate on the waiting and not the preparing – for in the waiting we will find the peace and joy that is the true gift of Christmas.

sense that the preparation is leading up to something special – spiritually and visually.

How can we as families work on waiting for the coming of Jesus?

3. Advent is a penitential season, so go to Confession as a family. This tradition helps strengthen faith and family experiences and reminds us to ask for forgiveness for our sins. What a great way to welcome the Newborn King to the world!

1. Take time to enjoy Advent and put off Christmas decorating. The tradition of decorating for Christmas used to take place on Christmas Eve. The house would stay decorated through the season of Christmas until Epiphany. Move your decorating until later in Advent so the family has a

2. Put an advent wreath in your home before the first weekend of Advent. You can make this with your family or purchase one. Every time the family gathers, light the candles and say the weekly Advent prayers so together you are moving closer to Christmas day.

4. Put out the nativity scene without the baby Jesus in it. If you wish, you could use the nativity as an Advent

Calendar, each day adding hay you make. The hay should be created by the family to name things you will do each day to help make Christ welcome in your home and life as you prepare for His coming. On Christmas morning, have one family member put the baby Jesus in the crèche as you all sing Happy Birthday to Christ. 5. Attend Mass and participate in the Eucharistic celebration. The coming of our Lord will be more meaningful if we have prepared our hearts in Mass each week. Make this year’s Advent a memorable one for you and your family. Begin some new faith traditions that will bring joy to your family for years to come. Have a blessed Advent!

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hristmas is right around the corner. Do you feel like I do – behind already? You have to make sure the house is decorated, the crèche is out for all to see, the Christmas tree is up in all its glory, the wreath on the door looks festive and inviting, and let’s not forget buying presents for everyone you know in the world! Overwhelmed enough yet? We can’t forget to take the perfect family picture for the allimportant Christmas Card! If yours looks like mine, the dog is licking my face as I am reaching down to pick up my husband’s Christmas tie! SNAP, PRINT, it is a torturous moment everyone will unfortunately remember!

Our Lady of Lourdes Parish in Gales Ferry presents:

CATHOLICISM: The Pivotal Players

Bishop Robert Barronâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s DVD explores saints, artists, mystics, and scholars who helped shape the life of the Church and the course of western civilization.

November 21 CARE NET invites you to join us for our annual

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Michelangelo, the Artist demonstrated that beauty and creativity are a primary route of access to God.

December 5

There is no fee for this series. All presentations are at Our Lady of Lourdes Parish Meeting Room 1650 Route12, Gales Ferry (across from CVS)

St. Augustine, the Teacher whose narrative of personal transformation provides a template for life in Christ.

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St. Benedict, the Monk contributed to saving western Christian culture; while his religious community preserved the best of the old and fostered an authentic Christian way of life. Register on-line at secretary@ololgf.org or by phone at 860.464.7251 The Pivotal Players book is available from Word on Fire Ministries but is not obligatory.

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"We have had great turnouts this year," said Father Brian Maxwell regarding the Peaceful Vigil held at the Planned Parenthood abortion business at 12 Case Street in Norwich. Father Brian is grateful to the committee, the parish representatives and all the prayer warriors who have been praying for these past 40 days. "Thank you for all you have done and continue to do - promoting the Pro-Life cause." Pictured here are families from St. Mary the Redeemer Church in Groton. “The Pro-Life Movement needs to be carried on by families and thus create a New Pro-Life Generation,” said parishioner Barbara Wolk.

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The Advent Wreath Preparing for the Light and death through His own passion, death, and resurrection. The four candles represent the four weeks of Advent. Three candles are purple and one is rose. The purple candles in particular symbolize the prayer, penance, and preparatory sacrifices and goods works undertaken at this time. The rose candle is lit on the third Sunday, Gaudete Sunday, when the priest also wears rose vestments at Mass; Gaudete Sunday is the Sunday of rejoicing, because the faithful have arrived at the midpoint of Advent, when their preparation is now half over and they are close to Christmas. The progressive lighting of the candles symbolizes the expectation and hope surrounding our Lord’s first coming into the world and the anticipation of His second coming to judge the living and the dead. The light again signifies Christ, the Light of the world. Since Advent is a time to stir-up our faith in the Lord, the wreath and prayer provide us a way to augment this special preparation for Christmas. Moreover, this good tradition helps us to remain vigilant in our homes and churches and not lose sight of the true meaning of Christmas.

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The Advent wreath is part of our long-standing Catholic tradition of spiritual preparation for Christmas. After all, Christ is “the Light that came into the world” to dispel the darkness of sin and to radiate the truth and love of God (John 3:19-21). The symbolism of the Advent wreath is beautiful. The wreath is made of various evergreens, signifying continuous life. Even these evergreens have a traditional meaning which can be adapted to our faith: The laurel signifies victory over persecution and suffering; pine, holly, and yew, immortality; and cedar, strength and healing. Holly also has a special Christian symbolism: The prickly leaves remind us of the crown of thorns. The circle of the wreath, which has no beginning or end, symbolizes the eternity of God, the immortality of the soul, and the everlasting life found in Christ. Any pine cones, nuts, or seedpods used to decorate the wreath also symbolize life and resurrection. Altogether, the wreath of evergreens depicts the immortality of our soul and the new, everlasting life promised to us through Christ, the eternal Word of the Father, who entered our world becoming true man and who was victorious over sin

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