Four County Catholic October 2020

FOUR COUNTY

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Volume 32 • Number 9 • OCTOBER 2020 •

SERVING THE COUNTIES OF MIDDLESEX • NEW LONDON • TOLLAND • WINDHAM, CT & FISHERS ISLAND, NY

OCTOBER IS RESPECT LIFE MONTH

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“We pray tonight to seek God’s favor to turn hearts and minds and thus hopefully turn this from a culture of death to a culture of life. . .”

Father Brian Maxwell, speaking before a capacity gathering of faithful in the Cathedral of Saint Patrick at the Kickoff Mass for the 40 Days for Life Campaign.

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Mary-Jo McLaughlin writing about the origins of Halloween, perhaps one of the most misunderstood holidays, but one that has definite roots within the Catholic faith.

On the Cover: October is Respect Life Month. The Theme this year is “Live the Gospel of Life." Pope Saint John Paul II noted: “We need to bring the Gospel of Life to the heart of every man and woman and to make it penetrate every part of society.”

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LET FAITH LEAD THE WAY

Following in His Footsteps The devastating fires that have been raging in Oregon, California, and Washington and the storms that are impacting the Gulf coast states and the Atlantic shoreline, have taken dozens of lives. In addition, millions of acres of forest have been destroyed and people’s homes and livelihoods have been lost. We mourn the loss of precious life. We feel the pain of displaced families.

Tragedies are never welcome. In a year that has already been a challenge we, as a human family, hurt for our brothers and sisters.

The events of the past 6 months have on some occasions brought out the worst in people. People who are fearful do not always react in an appropriate manner. Our duty as Christians is to love them anyway.

But often, people surprise us and act in heroic ways during challenging times.

Could there be a more deeply hopeful sign than when lives are in danger, respect for life, and the love we have for each other overcomes racial bias and the politics of division?

Rescuers of all backgrounds risked their lives in these many disasters to save strangers. Race, ethnicity, or religious affiliation are not the concern of the first responders – saving human life is. Let us learn from these selfless heroes as we go about our daily business.

Each October, the Catholic Church in the United States celebrates Respect Life month to proclaim the immeasurable value of every person from conception to natural death. The theme this year is – Live the Gospel of Life.

The Gospel of Life (Evangelium vitae), the papal encyclical written

by Pope Saint John Paul II in 1995, reaffirms the value and sacredness of every human life. It calls to all of mankind to respect, protect, love, and serve every human life. We are to imitate Christ and follow in His footsteps. This is the call of every baptized person.

Pope Saint John Paul II noted, “To be actively pro-life is to contribute to the renewal of society through the promotion of the common good. It is impossible to further the common good

without acknowledging and defending the right to life, upon which all other inalienable rights of individuals are founded and from which they develop.“ So how do we Live the Gospel of Life?

Does it take selfless acts of courage and compassion in a time of crisis, like the first responders I spoke of earlier?

Yes.

penalty, addiction treatment, racism, immigration, and poverty.

We do this by supporting charitable causes that align with the value of respecting life.

Mostly we do this through prayer and fasting. I encourage you to enhance your prayer life.

We do this when we participate in one or more of the following programs – 40 Days for Life, Walking with Moms in Need, volunteering at a Saint Vincent dePaul Pantry or Kitchen.

I also encourage you to tune into the live online event on October 4th. A collaboration of four of our diocesan ministries, this program is entitled – Life in the Thought of Pope Francis.

More details can be found in this issue of the Four County Catholic and on the website– NorwichDiocese.org.

We do this when, during these COVID-19 days, we safely reach out to an isolated elderly relative or friend.

Thank you for all you do in building a culture of life in the Diocese of Norwich.

We do this when we babysit for a single mom or dad.

We thank God who helps us to follow in His footsteps.

We do this when we take care of our planet, our common home.

Sincerely yours in the life of Christ,

In our small way, we need to, through our words and actions, respect life.

We do this whenever we voice our concern to an elected official over a bill involving a life issue such as physician assisted suicide, the death

Michael R. Cote Bishop of Norwich

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My dear brothers and sisters in Christ,

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THE MOST REVEREND

MICHAEL R. COTE, D.D.

BISHOP OF NORWICH

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Siguiendo Sus Pasos

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Mis queridos hermanos y hermanas en Cristo,

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Los devastadores incendios que se han desatado en Oregon, California y Washington y las tormentas que están afectando los estados de la costa del Golfo y la costa Atlántica han cobrado decenas de vidas. Además, han sido destruidos millones de acres de bosques y se han perdido hogares y los medios de subsistencia de las personas. Lamentamos la pérdida de vidas. Sentimos el dolor de las familias desplazadas.

Las tragedias nunca son bienvenidas.

Nosotros como familia humana, sentimos dolor por nuestros hermanos en un año que ya ha sido un desafío.

Los acontecimientos de los últimos 6 meses han sacado a relucir lo peor de las personas en algunas ocasiones. Las personas que tienen miedo no siempre reaccionan de manera adecuada. Nuestro deber como cristianos es amarlos de todos modos.

A menudo, la gente nos sorprende y actúa de manera heroica durante los tiempos difíciles. ¿Podría haber una señal más esperanzadora que cuando hay vidas en peligro, el respeto por la vida y el amor que nos tenemos superan los prejuicios

raciales y la division de política?

Rescatistas de toda procedencia arriesgaron sus vidas en estos desastres para salvar a extraños. La raza, la etnia o la afiliación religiosa no son la preocupación de los primeros en responder, sino salvar vidas humanas. Aprendamos de estos héroes desinteresados mientras realizamos nuestras actividades diarias.

La Iglesia Católica en los Estados Unidos cada octubre, celebra el mes del Respeto a la Vida para proclamar el valor inconmensurable de cada persona desde la concepción hasta la muerte natural. El tema de este año es: Viva el Evangelio de la vida.

El Evangelio de la vida (Evangelium vitae), la encíclica papal escrita por el Papa San Juan Pablo II en 1995, reafirma el valor y la santidad de toda vida humana. Llama a toda la humanidad a respetar, proteger, amar y servir a cada vida humana. Debemos imitar a Cristo y seguir sus pasos. Este es el llamado de todo bautizado.

El Papa San Juan Pablo II señaló: “Ser activamente provida es contribuir a la renovación de la sociedad a través de la promoción del bien común. Es imposible promover el bien común sin reconocer y

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defender el derecho a la vida, sobre el cual se basan y se desarrollan todos los demás derechos inalienables de las personas.”

Entonces, ¿cómo vivimos el Evangelio de la vida? ¿Se necesitan actos desinteresados de coraje y compasión en un momento de crisis, como los primeros en responder de los que hablé antes? Si. A nuestra manera, necesitamos, a través de nuestras palabras y acciones, respetar la vida.

Hacemos esto apoyando causas caritativas que se alinean con el valor de respetar la vida.

Sobre todo lo hacemos a través de la oración y el ayuno. Le animo a mejorar su vida de oración.

Hacemos esto cuando participamos en uno o más de los siguientes programas: 40 días por la vida, Caminando con mamás necesitadas, voluntariado en una despensa o cocina de Saint Vincent dePaul.

También le animo a sintonizar en línea el 4 de octubre el evento en vivo. Una colaboración de cuatro de nuestros ministerios diocesanos, este programa se titula - La vida en el pensamiento del Papa Francisco. Se pueden encontrar más detalles en este número de Four County Catholic y en el sitio web diocesano: NorwichDiocese.org.

Hacemos esto cuando cuidamos niños de una mamá o un papá solteros.

Demos gracias a Dios que nos ayuda a seguir sus pasos.

Hacemos esto cuando, durante estos días de COVID-19, contactamos a un familiar o a un amigo anciano aislado.

Hacemos esto cuando cuidamos de nuestro planeta, nuestra casa común.

Hacemos esto cada vez que expresamos nuestra preocupación a un funcionario electo por un proyecto de ley que involucra un tema de la vida como el suicidio asistido por un médico, la pena

Holy Hour for Vocations

de muerte, el tratamiento de adicciones, el racismo, la inmigración y la pobreza.

Gracias por todo lo que hace para construir una cultura de vida en la Diócesis de Norwich.

Sinceramente en el amor de Cristo,

Michael R. Cote Obispo de Norwich

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Vocations Corner Deacon Larry Barile 4th Theology Pope John XXIII Seminary Weston, MA

A Seminarian Reflection

Mr. Alexander Pandolfe 1st Theology Mount St. Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

We've made it to October, and before we know it snow might begin to fall, but let’s stay in the moment for now.

Our seminarians have returned to seminary. All are healthy and have settled in well. They appreciate your prayers and cards that they receive. Please, continue to send them.

Please keep in your prayers the two seminarians who are up for possible ordination in 2021. Mr. Jake Ramos anticipates being called to transitional diaconate by Bishop Cote in May. Deacon Larry Barile anticipates being called by Bishop Cote to ordination of priesthood the last Saturday of June.

Mr. Jacob Ramos 3rd Theology Mount Saint Mary’s Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Mr. Dharen Brochero 2nd Theology Mount Saint Mary’s Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Mr. Ruben Sanchez 2nd Theology Mount Saint Mary’s Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Father Greg Galvin, Director of Priestly Vocations

Peace be with you all and While I was comfortable with my greetings from Maryland. life, there was something missing.

Turns out I was missing the Lord Each year seems to pass a little and His sacraments that He left the more quickly to my surprise, Church. It was a tough and difficult but the time has bore much fruit decision to leave my family and in cultivating my discernment friends behind and say yes to the to the priesthood. God willing, Lord and yes to going to seminary, I anticipate being ordained in but it has been enriching and 2024. Before entering seminary, gratifying in so many ways.

I taught at Killingly High School for several years and enjoyed I am so glad that I have said yes instructing and encouraging my to the Lord and answered His call. students to be successful adults.

Studying philosophy for two years difficult, but enlightening in Mr. Eric Hosmer was I was surprised that the Lord many ways. It was difficult because was calling me to be a priest, 1st Theology it raised questions to thoughts I and began discerning my Mount Saint Mary Seminary had never considered, but it was vocation privately. Vocations, Emmitsburg, MD calming too because it pointed me as the saying goes, do not grow toward serving others in a fuller on trees but in families. I am capacity.

I have found myself fortunate that most of my family lives in Connecticut. continually asking for wisdom to know, love and I have a fond memory of visiting my brother, his wife serve Him better. and my nephew before going to Mass. Watching them grow as a family is a blessing and being able I am looking forward to learning more about God, to see them in my free time is nice. I was blessed His Son Jesus, and the Holy Spirit in the upcoming to grow up in a household full of love and care. I years. Thank you for your prayers and support of my learned from my mother to help others, especially vocation, especially during these interesting times. those most in need.

Mr. Julian Cuervo 1st Theology Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Mr. Mark Johnson 2nd Pre-Theology Mount Saint Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

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Below is the reflection of another one of our seminarians, Mr. Eric Hosmer. Eric is in his third year with us and has begun major seminary studies with his first year of theology. As always, please keep all our men in your prayers as they continue their formation this year.

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Grateful for Efforts of Properties and Cemeteries Office

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By Gina Foster

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The summer of 2020 has certainly been one for the record books.

We continued to social distance, perhaps returned to work, and had to consider all options regarding childcare and school academics.

In addition to all these difficult tasks Connecticut experienced some severe weather. When I drove to work after the storms, I saw several trees uprooted, limbs and branches down, and debris in roads. Many people lost power for several days.

I saw town maintenance trucks, utility trucks and tree companies working both late night and early morning hours trying to clear all the debris left from the storms. With all our recently shared challenges,

we can be stronger together. Let us continue to move forward as “One Faith, One Family.”

Our Diocesan Properties and Cemeteries is just one of the many organizations that benefit from the Annual Catholic Appeal.

Our dedicated team has worked vigorously throughout the pandemic, keeping our buildings in good repair and landscaping the properties while also maintaining and operating our cemeteries.

In addition, they diligently sanitized and updated our diocesan offices and properties to ensure we all work in a safe environment. Our employees are all truly grateful to the Properties and Cemeteries staff for their hard work.

Our ACA donations continue to be extremely important to help all of our ministries carry out their spiritually affirming and life-changing missions. To make a contribution to our 2020 ACA “One Faith, One Family,” please go online to www. norwichdiocesedevelopment.org or call the Office of Development at (860) 886-1928. Thank you so much for your generosity. Stay safe and be well.

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Ride for Haiti

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Rolls Through Norwich

What a difference a year makes. The greeting of the Ride for Haiti bicyclists by the students of Saint Patrick School in Norwich was always an enthusiastic and welcome event. The contrast of last year's photo compared to this year's photo shows just one of the ways that COVID-19 has affected both children and adults.

By Ryan Blessing A team of four bike riders taking part in the annual "Ride for Haiti" across Connecticut made a stop Thursday, September 17, at the Cathedral of Saint Patrick in Norwich.

The stop was unusual this year because of COVID-19 restrictions on how many people can publicly gather.

Typically, a crowd of students from Saint Patrick School assembles on the cathedral steps to meet the riders.

This year it was a much quieter, though no less meaningful, affair.

The team of Ron Paine, of Old Lyme, Dan O’Sullivan, of Killingworth, Jim Hubert, of East Hampton and Tom Campbell, from Farmington stopped

for pictures and chatted with Bishop Michael R. Cote and Father Frank Rouleau, chaplain and twinning director for Outreach to Haiti.

The team of riders from Outreach to Haiti started the sixth annual bike ride on Monday, September 14. As with past years, the team rode 337 miles over five days from September 14-18.

The bike ride was planned as a "virtual trip" across Haiti this year because of COVID-19. The riders visited some of the parishes and schools in Connecticut that are twinned through Outreach to Haiti with parishes, orphanages and schools in Haiti.

In the past it started in Maine and

proceeded through five of the six New England states.

The purpose of the ride is to raise awareness and funds to support Outreach's mission in Haiti. Outreach to Haiti has been in Haiti for over 35 years, serving the poor in the Kris Wa (Christ the King) community of Portau-Prince and surrounding areas with a healthcare clinic, food and nutrition programs, education programs, developing and maintaining twinning relationships, cultural immersion trips and the FAK program, which empowers women to start their own businesses.

Haitians." More information about Outreach to Haiti, and a link to make a donation, can be found on OutreachtoHaiti.org. The specific goal of this year's ride is to raise funds to support these programs.

This year, conditions in Haiti have been worsened by COVID-19, and the demand for services has increased significantly. All of the programs, but especially food and nutrition, have become even more critical than ever.

At the same time, many ongoing efforts in the U.S. to raise the money that supports the programs have been significantly hurt by the pandemic.

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Fishing Boats for Saintard, Haiti “…just as you did it to one of the least of these who are members of my family, you did it to me.” Matthew

With the arrival of hurricane season, I was reminded of October four years ago when Hurricane Matthew struck Haiti. When it made landfall in Haiti on the evening of October 4th, it was a Category 4, one of the most destructive storms of recent years. Most of the damage incurred was done to people living in the rural mountainous areas of Haiti.

But it also affected the village of Saintard, Arcahaie, which is in the West Department of Haiti. It is about 24 miles northwest of the capitol, Port au Prince, located on the shoreline of the Gulf of La Gonâve. The main employment opportunities there are fishing and raising plantains and bananas. The fruit harvesting season is nine months of the year, while fishing is a daily activity. On October 4th, the fishermen went about their normal day, fishing in the bay. They received no warning that a hurricane was about to strike. At the end of the day, the fishermen pulled their boats onto the shoreline as they normally did. That night the hurricane struck with a 20foot tidal surge, which destroyed their fishing boats and all their equipment.

They lost not only their boats, but also their means of buying food and other goods for their families, and for paying tuition for their children to attend school. The village also lost a major source of food.

For one year, without the boats, the men were unable to fish. Life was extremely difficult for them and their families. The parish in that village, Saint Anne, is twinned with St. Josephine Bakhita Parish in Rocky Hill, Connecticut. This American parish helps with support for the parochial school, which this year has 533 students.

Donors to the Diocese of Norwich Outreach to Haiti contributed funds

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Fr. Johnson writes, “When the fishermen return with the fish, they sell them, and the merchants benefit by this also as they can sell the fish to people to eat. Fishing is an activity where many people participate and benefit. I say a great thank you to Outreach to Haiti for this great gift, which allows the fishermen to live, and hope to get more boats also.”

Much has been accomplished in the four decades of our diocesan ministry’s involvement in Haiti.

From the first project, bringing running water to the people of the neighborhood of Delmas 60, to the present, we continue to live out the Gospel, helping those who have no means to pay us back.

As the Lord has told us, “Truly I tell you, just as you did it to one of the Fr. Vil Johnson, Pastor of Saint Anne parish, Saintard, Haiti, Fr. Frank Rouleau, Chaplain and Director of Parish Twinning for the Diocese of Norwich least of these who are members of my Outreach to Haiti, and a local priest participated in the Blessing of the Fishing family, you did it to me.” (Matthew 25:40). The Diocese of Norwich Boats before they were put in service.

Outreach to Haiti Ministry is there in Haiti representing you, the people to aid the people of Haiti after the continue to pool their resources to of our diocese, who are so generous hurricane. Tin roofs were replaced on replace all the boats. Two additional in supporting our work there, helping many homes in the mountain parishes boats have been built to date. They our brothers and sisters who are with these funds. We also, with the have plans to continue adding boats among the poorest of the poor. help of St Josephine Bakhita Parish, to the fleet as economic conditions were able to provide some funds for permit. the construction of 16 fishing boats.

The pastor of Saint Anne parish, Father Johnson, met with the two associations of fishermen to plan how best to use the funds from Outreach to Haiti. The boats were built locally, which provided work for area carpenters. Almost three years ago the fishermen were able to return to the sea and provide for their families and send their children to the Saint Anne School. With the assistance of Outreach donors and St. Josephine Bakhita Parish, 16 sailboats were built and equipped for fishing. The fishermen’s associations agreed to

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By Father Frank Rouleau

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October 24, 2020 9am to 12:30pm Keynote Speaker:

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Guest speakers include: Sr. Elissa Rinere, C.P., J. C. D. Lisa Gulino, D. Min. , Holy Apostles Seminary

If you already registered for the 2020 Women’s Conference that was scheduled for March 28, 2020, you will automatically be e-mailed a link to the virtual conference.

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October Celebrates Our Guardian Angels

As October unfolds, we welcome cooler temperatures and colorful foliage, and celebrate many feast days.

One of my favorites, which I find to be particularly comforting in today’s world, is the Feast of the Guardian Angel on October 2. This feast day celebrates God’s loving care for each of us in the form of angels. How wonderful it is to be reminded during times of stress and concern that we indeed have a guardian angel watching over us. I often pray to my guardian angel and the guardian angels of my loved ones, asking them to provide protection, love and guidance.

The Gospel reading for the Feast of the Guardian Angel is Matthew 18:1-5, 10 in which Jesus explained to His disciples that they must become like children to enter the Kingdom of Heaven. He also reminds them that, “Whoever receives one child such as this in my name, receives me.”

How often do you see a child hug a dog, kiss a sibling or ask a parent to help the homeless person on the street? Children have no hidden agendas and speak from their hearts. By telling us to be like children, Jesus is teaching us that the honesty, innocence, goodness and kindness of children are most important to Him. While the Annual Catholic Appeal, “One Faith, One Family,” does not have the power of our guardian angels, I like to think that it is doing its part to help our ministries act as guardian angels to many in our community.

When I speak to priests who have counseled

people during this pandemic, or celebrated the sacraments with their flock, I think of guardian angels. When I hear clients of Catholic Charities or the soup kitchens talk about the life-affirming care and support they received during the past six months, guardian angels come to mind.

I have visited some schools and as I watched the masked students file past me, I could not help but think of Matthew 18. Each time we help a child, we are receiving Christ. Whether it be a guardian angel in Heaven or one on Earth, we all can feel like children, and in need of help from another during difficult times.

When we come together as “One Faith, One Family,” we have the strength to overcome life’s challenges.

I know that everyone reading this has acted as a guardian angel to others many times throughout their lives. This is the strength of our diocese: people caring for one another.

While we may encounter difficulties, we know that we are members of a larger community and we can turn to each other when we need help.

Please take a minute to review the list of ministries of the diocese displayed at norwichdiocese.org and feel free to reach out to them when you have the need. If you have not donated to the ACA and would like to, you may do so online at norwichdiocesedevelopment.org or call our office at (860) 886-1928 ext. 111 to speak to our Campaign Manager, Heather Harris.

Please continue to be safe and enjoy a glorious October. Thank you for your support.

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Diocese Honors

Enduring Love of Anniversary Couples

By Mary-Jo McLaughlin

On marriage, Pope Francis has written: “Love is not a feeling. Feelings come and go with the days and weeks. Love is more. It is a commitment to live through good times and difficult ones, through sickness and health, through thick and thin. Love comes from only one source: God. God is the basis of true marriage.�

To celebrate and honor the sacrament of marriage and the daily decisions couples make to commit to their spouses, the diocese recognizes the following couples celebrating anniversaries this year. Thank you for your years of enduring love and the witness you give to others of the fullness and beauty of living a Sacramental Marriage with God at the center of your lives. May God bless your union as you continue your journey of faith and love together.

TWO YEARS

THIRTY-ONE YEARS

THIRTEEN YEARS

THIRTY-TWO YEARS

Karl A. and Grace M. Kiesewetter, December 15, 2018

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Martin and Barbara Fuller, September 22, 2007

SILVER JUBILARIANS Mark and Lori Baron, November 11, 1995 Raymundo R. and Catherine M. Bigalbal, December 2, 1995 Matthew and Linda Cunningham, September 3, 1995 John and Monica Devivo, April 22, 1995

Hema and Paula DeSilva, June 25,1988 Erick K. Hilversum and Zayra Rivera, July 30, 1988

THIRTY-FIVE YEARS Douglas and Jan Collard, November 2, 1985 Mark and Susan Desrosiers, May 26, 1985

Christopher and Gina Foster, September 16, 1995

FORTY YEARS

Michael and Kathy Goggins, August 5, 1995

George and Gail Blicharz, March 22, 1980

Jorge and Pamela Gonzalez, April 10, 1995

Donald and Mary Gould, August 6, 1980

John and Karen Goyette, September 2, 1995

Shelton and Patricia Stewart, November 8, 1980

David and Kelly Hassler, October 14, 1995 Ryan and Patricia Hawthorne, August 19,1995 Frank and Susan Hollo, June 24, 1995 Chris and Kelly Kempesta, April 22, 1995 Richard and Anna Lawton, September 30, 1995 Kelly and Patrick Pothier, April 8, 1995

THIRTY YEARS Thomas and Mary Fitzgerald, September 29, 1990 Patrick and Mary-Jo McLaughlin, June 2, 1990 Antonio and Margaret Roberto, August 25, 1990 Wayne and Theresa Urbanski, September 7, 1990

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Robert and Kim Vurno, December 29, 1989

FORTY-THREE YEARS Russell and Michele Ripley, July 9, 1977

FORTY-FOUR YEARS Robert and Irene Renza, August 14, 1976

FORTY-FIVE YEARS Vito and Anna Disibio, November 7, 1975 Thomas and Linda Joyal, July 5, 1975 Larry and Peggy Puzzo, June 21, 1975 Paul and Sheree Rondeau, May 10, 1975

FORTY-NINE YEARS

Leland M. and Carolyn S. Horton, January 23, 1971

Roger and Anna Belliveau, August 28, 1970 Robert and Darleen Bilodeau, October 10,1970 Robert and Sandy Calabro, August 1, 1970 Joseph and Elizabeth Carta, June 6, 1970 Ronald and Johanne Cecchini, June 20, 1970 Thomas J. and Susan R. Crossen, August 1, 1970 Gary and Theresa Dziatko, December 5, 1970 Thomas and Diana Eastwood, May 16, 1970 Michael and Donna Favreau, November 14, 1970 Laurent and Mariel Gamache, September 12, 1970 Deacon Dana and Mary Garry, October 3, 1970 Lawrence and Diane Gevry, June 13, 1970 David and Susan Griffiths, August 2, 1970 Michael and Patricia Gromko, May 16, 1970 John and Petita Homiski, August 8, 1970 Stephen and MaryAnne Igoe, September 12, 1970 Joseph A. and Nancy W. Lacasse, June 27, 1970 Richard and Mary Ann Laria, October 11, 1970 John and Patricia Larson, June 29, 1970 Robert and Lorraine Maloney, June 21, 1970 Stephen and Natalie Marek, December 27, 1970 Armand and Sherry Menard, July 18, 1970 Harold and Beverly Millbauer, October 10, 1970 Michael and Marjorie Mlodzinski, February 14, 1970 Robert and Kathleen Musson, September 19, 1970 Bruce and Linda Parsons, July 18, 1970 William and Mary Pearson, May 9, 1970 Rich and Anna Retallack, August 8, 1970 Robert and Ann Ricca, October 17, 1970 Colin and Loretta Rice, August 1, 1970 Wilfred R. and Annamaria R. Rondeau, Jr., August 2, 1970 William J. and Diane M. Russell, September 2, 1970 H. Joseph and Patricia S. Santerre, May 16, 1970 Denver R. and Janice L. Schroeder, October 3, 1970 William P. and Beverly D. Spink, May 23, 1970 R. Jim and Cheryl Stankiewicz, May 7, 1970 Daniel P. and Karen A. Sullivan, May 23, 1970 Rene and Elizabeth Trudelle, June 6, 1970 Alex and Judi Trzcinski, October 17, 1970 Daniel and Claire Wholley, December 20, 1970 Michael J. and Alice Zanelli, October 24, 1970

FIFTY-FOUR YEARS

Dennis and Karen Barr, August 6, 1966

FIFTY-FIVE YEARS Tom and Flo-Ann Capiga, November 20, 1965 John and Mary Jakubowski, November 27, 1965 Albert and Sandra Lanke, August 20, 1965 Kenneth and Carol McKenna, September 4, 1965 Theodore and Judith Pappagallo, August 15, 1965 Harry and Marsh Rollinson, February 6, 1965 James and Carol Rooney, May 15, 1965 John and Corinne Tillotta, July 31, 1965

SIXTY YEARS R. Bruce and Denise Beaudoin, August 6, 1960 Walter and Patricia Cahill, June 18, 1960 John A. and Judith A. Converse, August 6, 1960 A. Roland and Margaret Dubois, November 12, 1960 Leo J. and Claudette Sirois, October 22, 1960

SIXTY-ONE YEARS Charles and Rosemary Hall, October 31, 1959

SIXTY-FOUR YEARS John and Jane Sterry, June 30, 1956

SIXTY-FIVE YEARS Donald and Judith Ducheneau, July 18, 1955 Richard and Louise Joly, July 2, 1955 Victor and Ida Manzanella, August 13, 1955 Philip and Louise Russo, October 15, 1955

SIXTY-EIGHT YEARS Lionel and Irene Boudreau, September 20, 1952 “Nothing is more important than that you love one another. So valuable and so precious is your special love for one another, that Jesus has made you one of the Sacraments of His Church. You, in your unique union with one another, are a sacred sign in your everyday life together of His caring, healing, and life-giving presence in the Church. Wherever you are, whatever you say in tenderness to one another, whatever you do in loving union with one another brings Jesus in His Body, the Church, alive in all whom you touch. He has called you to love one another in His name.� ~ Fr. Chuck Gallagher, SJ, Worldwide Marriage Encounter

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GOLDEN JUBILARIANS

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At Vigil Mass, Faithful Gather to Pray for End to Abortion

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The 13th year of participation in the 40 Days for Life Campaign began with a Mass from the Cathedral of Saint Patrick. In addition to the five clergy who concelebrated the Mass, the cathedral was near COVID-19 guideline capacity of 100 socially distanced participants.

Reverend Brian Maxwell, the main celebrant and homilist for the Mass, began the liturgy with these words: “We gather together on a mission to peacefully pray for an end to abortion in our community and our country. We pray tonight to seek God’s favor to turn hearts and minds and thus hopefully turn this from a culture of death to a culture of life..”

Father Maxwell, in his homily, drew together points made by some of our most recent saints regarding the impact that abortion has on the common good of society. The entire vigil Mass, including the homily, can be viewed at NorwichDiocese.org/40daysforlife

Trust in the mercy of God’s love.

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Bob Mullaney, representing St. Pio Parish in Old Saybrook & Westbrook, was present and praying on the first day of the 40 Days for Life Campaign.

Mary Fitzgerald and Cindy Mahn pray and march in front of the Planned Parenthood in Norwich on the second day of the 40 Days for Life Campaign. This day was adopted

by St. John’s Parish in Montville with representatives showing up throughout the day in prayerful protest. Everyone reading this is encouraged to spend at least one hour in prayer, whether in person or, if that is not possible, in your own home. Social distancing is being observed. For more information visit NorwichDiocese.org/40DaysforLife.

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Saint Michael School’s

By Ryan Blessing

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oung students of Saint Michael School in Pawcatuck gathered on the front lawn of their 'new' building at the former West Broad Street School on September 15 as Bishop Michael R. Cote, D.D., blessed the building with holy water and took part in a dedication for the new school year.

The bishop offered a prayer to God to watch over the students and faculty and impart knowledge and wisdom.

“Sanctify, we implore you, by our ministry, this building meant for the education of youth,” Bishop Cote said, standing on the steps of the large double front doors of the school. “Command your angels to guard it … fill the teachers with the spirit of knowledge, wisdom and fear of you. Strengthen the students with Heavenly grace.”

The bishop was joined by Father Dennis Perkins, pastor of St. Michael Church, and Deacon Jorge Escalona. The three circled the brick building, constructed in 1900, to complete the blessing by sprinkling holy water on it.

Over the summer, the school moved from its previous location on Liberty Street, across the street from Saint Michael Church, into its new home, which it is leasing from the Town of Stonington.

The newer building provides larger classrooms, as well as space for additional offerings in science, technology, engineering, math and art.

The faculty and students of St. Michael all wore face masks and practiced safe distancing during the outdoor event. Students led the Pledge of Allegiance and Our Father, and music selections were performed by Connecticut Brass.

The school has 150 students enrolled in prekindergarten through eighth grade, while the building has a capacity of 600 students. .

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knowledge, wisdom and fear of you. Strengthen the students with Heavenly grace.�

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Catholic Charities 15th Annual Golf Tournament: A Great Day for a Swing and a Prayer

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By Shannen Barnard Catholic Charities held its 15th annual golf tournament at the Norwich Golf Course, despite the COVID-19 pandemic, and a great and safe time was had by all. During this trying time of social distancing, we gratefully were able to hold a fun but safe event for all of our 73 participants. Bishop Cote began the tournament by welcoming the golfers and also thanked sponsors for their support of Catholic Charities.

Their participation will help the agency to continue its 99year history of compassionate service in our communities.

Socially distanced yet delightful meal stations sponsored by A Beautiful Company, were located throughout the course. The day started off with hot dogs and beverages while Bishop Cote briefly delivered a thoughtful message before tee-off.

Forty-four raffle prizes were available, including a Technique putter donated by Attorney Ralph Monaco, who has chaired the New London Advisory Board and has been instrumental in keeping the tournament going for 15 years.

Along with prizes for Holein-One sponsored by M.J. Sullivan, there were prizes for the Longest Drive for men and women sponsored by St. Patrick Mystic and ImpellitteriMalia Funeral Home and 18 Closest-to-the-Pin sponsored

by Charter Oak Federal Credit Union, Waller, Smith & Palmer, P.C. St. Joseph Church and MahoneySabol. The top two teams net and gross were awarded gift certificates as well to the Norwich Golf Course Pro Shop. Winners are posted on the course website at norwichgolf.com.

Catholic Charities would like to thank the Norwich Golf Course for helping put on this well-enjoyed event during these difficult times. Thanks, too, to the huge support from local businesses, golfers and the many parishes throughout the diocese. We are especially thankful to be able to host the tournament, as it is one of our major fundraisers.

Unfortunately, because of Covid-19, we were unable to hold our 99th Anniversary Gala, but look forward to our 100th Anniversary Gala in 2021.

In a special way, Catholic Charities would like to thank the corporate sponsors who made this year’s tournament a huge success: Platinum Sponsor, ShopRite of Norwich and New London and the Capano Family, Gold Sponsor: Conway, Londregan, Sheehan & Monaco, P.C., Bronze Sponsors, RAD Computing, Castaldi Financial Solutions, Inc., and Crest Mechanical Services.

Photos of the event can be viewed on our website at ccfsn.org.

Save the date; September 15, 2021 for next year’s tournament as we look fore-ward to seeing you on the links.

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Conway, Londregan, Sheehan & Monaco, P.C.

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A Fun and Fabulous Golf Tournament For the Love of a Child

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By Marie Farrell Sunday, September 13 was a grand and glorious day at the Wintonbury Golf Course in Bloomfield, Connecticut. Golfers playing in our annual For the Love of a Child tournament happily arrived looking forward to a day spent outdoors in the sun with good friends. Each player had their own golf cart with a gourmet boxed lunch provided by the Chair James Michel presents the award for Top Men’s Foursome to country club. Foursomes played Ryan, Kyle and Thomas Brahm and Brian Selforce. and stayed together throughout the day including cocktails and dinner. board, he continues organizing this professional golf lessons. We This is the fifth annual tournament annual “fun”draiser that benefits thank everyone who contributed to this enjoyable and entertaining sponsored by the Diocese of our brothers and sisters in Haiti.

Norwich Outreach to Haiti, Inc. James rallied the troops, including day, which helps those who need The immediate past Board Chair, board members and friends who a hand up.

James Michel, is the founder attended, nearly 60 golfers and James says he will always be a part of the tournament. James is guests who supported our diocesan of this special ministry “that allows originally from Haiti and returns ministry that day. The event had us to join together and help those there frequently to visit with his exciting and fabulous raffle prizes whose outward needs are greater extended family. As with all our donated by local businesses than ours.” He noted none of this volunteer board members, James including the Wintonbury Golf would be possible without the love brings many talents to our ministry. Course, which donated a golf and generosity of our friends and While he currently is not on the bag, two foursomes of golf, and donors who help Outreach to raise

Wintonbury Hills Golf Course in Bloomfield is ranked the sixth best municipal golf course in the United States by Sports Illustrated Golf.com.

The course did a fabulous job adhering to the latest guidelines issued by the state to ensure the wellness of all players and guests. We hope you will join us next September!

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Partners in Caring

By Laura Malone Catholic Charities is celebrating a long partnership with the Norwich Diocesan Council of Catholic Women.

Catholic Charities can trace its beginning to a meeting of the New London branch of the Connecticut Council of Catholic Women in May of 1921. Mrs. Frank L. McGuire, president of the council's New London branch, presided over the meeting in which Rev. Matthew Judge, diocesan director of Catholic Charities, discussed the need for a Diocesan Bureau of Social

Services in Eastern Connecticut.

blankets, diapers and more, Catholic Charities was formed, which is donated to the Catholic and has enjoyed working closely Charities pregnancy program that helps low income families. with the council since that time.

One of the NDCCW’s areas of The NDCCW also offers support charitable work is the Layette by giving much-needed funds to program. For more than 40 years, help Catholic Charities continue the council has planned the its mission of “Providing Help Layette program for the collection and Creating Hope.”

heavily on our supporters, and we are blessed to have such a committed partner in the Norwich Diocesan Council of Catholic women. We certainly could not do all the work that we do throughout Eastern Connecticut without the council’s help.

Catholic Charities is proud of baby items. These include As we at Catholic Charities to show our gratitude and clothes for babies from birth celebrate our 99th anniversary, appreciation to all the women of through age three, diapers and the need in Connecticut continues the Norwich Diocesan Council of wipes, and other much-needed to be apparent, especially during Catholic Women for their support items. Women from all the parish this critical time of quarantine, and involvement over the years. guilds in the diocese bring car- business closures and social loads of new clothes, handmade distancing. The agency relies

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Mother Christina Van Beck, SCMC, Principal 15 Hunters Ave, Taftville 860-887-1757 sacredhearttaftville.org

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St. James School, Danielson Linda Marie Joyal, Principal 120 Water St, Danielson 860-774-3281 stjamesdanielson.org

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St. John Paul II School, Middletown Larry Fitzgerald, Principal 87 South Main Street. Middletown 860-347-2978 JPII.org

A New Superintendent for the New School Year

Diocese Welcomes Dr. George Milot, Ed.D.

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St. Joseph School, New London Marianne Cote, Principle 25 Squire Street, New London 860-442-1720 SJSNL.com

St. Michael School, Pawcatuck Doris Messina, Principal West Broad St., Pawcatuck 860-599-1084 stmichaelschoolct.com

St. Patrick Cathedral School, Norwich Sharon Stewart, Principal 211 Broadway, Norwich 860-889-4174 st-patrickschoolnorwich.org

Academy of the Holy Family, Baltic Mother Mary David, SCMC, Principal 54 West Main St, Baltic 860-822-9272 ahfbaltic.org

Mercy High School, Middletown Alissa DeJonge, President 1740 Randolph Road, Middletown 860-346-6659 mercyhigh.com

St. Bernard School, Uncasville

Donald Macrino, Headmaster 1593 Norwich-New London Tpke, Uncasville 860-848-1271 saint-bernard.com

Xavier High School, Middletown David C. Eustis, Headmaster Brendan Donohue, Principal 181 Randolph Road, Middletown 860-346-7735 xavierhighschool.org

On Wednesday September 9th, Most Reverend Michael R. Cote D.D. appointed Dr. George Milot, Ed.D as Superintendent of Schools for the Diocese of Norwich.

Dr. Milot comes very highly recommended and brings a wealth of experience as a veteran Catholic School educator and administrator. Most recently, he served as Superintendent of Schools for the Diocese of Fall River, Massachusetts.

After retiring from that position in 2011, he has come out of retirement several times to serve as a consultant, including with the University of Notre Dame, and in various interim/temporary positions.

We are grateful to him for his generosity in agreeing to come out of retirement once again to assist our schools for the 2020-2021 academic year.

Superintendent's Desk My Dear Friends, Thanks to the great work of planning from our principals, headmasters, deans, teachers, and staff of all our schools in the Diocese of Norwich.

We have, once again, returned to another exciting year of providing academic excellence in faith-filled environments. This year, however, will be one with challenges that have not existed in our schools in previous years. We need your prayers as there are many obstacles to overcome for all involved. From the principals, teachers and staffs to the students and parents there will be challenges that we know will be overcome but can cause added stress to the school year Administrators are faced with administering all the new protocols that are in place in the schools, teachers are faced with very little time, if any, for preparation and collaboration during the school day and some students are facing sharing their home computers for homework with parents who need the computers to work from home.

SAINT BERNARD SCHOOL

Accepting Applications for the Fall of 2021 !

LEARN: During this time our campus is open to visitors by appointment only. If you can’t visit our campus in person, we invite you to get to know us through our website, videos and virtual meetings.

GROW: Our Admissions Office remains open and we are still actively taking applications and processing enrollments. Ask us about our Tailored Tuition Program to help meet your family’s unique financial situation.

DISCOVER: To schedule a virtual or phone meeting or a private tour for middle school or international admission, contact Cathy Brown at cbrown@saint-bernard.com.

For admission to the high school please contact Kim Hodges at khodges@saint-bernard.com.

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On a positive note, here are some quotes from our schools: Administrators/Teachers: “Teachers and students are excited to be back praying, learning, and living the Mission of our school.”

“We are so grateful to our community for a spectacular school opening.

We are enjoying talking, learning, and praying together …"

Students: “I am very happy to have returned to school. I love being back with my friends and teachers in class.”

“Coming back to school this year has been an adjustment. Wearing masks can be hard but it is for our own good. It is good to come back and see my teachers and friends.”

Parents: “Thank you for everything that you are doing to ensure that our kids are getting the best education they can!”

“Great first week. The kids look so happy and I know my son is.”

Please keep our school communities in your prayers.

God Bless,

Dr. George Milot

Superintendent of Schools

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Saints Celebrate Safe Return to School

By Kim Hodges

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Excitement and anticipation were in the air as more than 340 Saint Bernard School students returned to campus. After several months of planning and preparation by the administration and faculty, students resumed in-person learning for the first time since March.

To make students and parents feel comfortable, Head of School Don Macrino, and Communications Coordinator Shari Marderness created an informational video showing families what to expect when they arrived at school.

Enhanced safety procedures start before students enter the building with a new drop-off protocol and two entrances to alleviate congestion. Inside, everyone is required to stop at one of the automated temperature scanning stations for a temperature check before going to their first period class. Oneway foot and stairwell traffic, signs reminding of the need for social distancing, hand sanitizer stations (many donated by the Class of 2020), socially distanced classrooms, block scheduling and additional lunch waves were among the changes that greeted students on their first day.

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“Saint Bernard School feels like the safest school in the area,” junior Markum Puhlick said. “Every precaution is being taken but none of it sacrifices what makes SB’s great.”

We believe that the richest experience happens when students receive in-person instruction and interact with their peers. When that is not possible, families can choose the virtual, synchronous learning option and login to their classes remotely.

All classrooms are equipped with a camera and microphone. Distance learners have access to the teacher by e-mail and are encouraged to direct questions or concerns to the teacher at any time.

Students can discontinue virtual learning and return to the classroom with prior notification to the school counseling department.

“Great first week. The kids look so happy and I know my son is,” parent Michelle Kirk said.

Mr. Macrino offered words of encouragement to the Saint Bernard community.

“We are proud of how our teachers, students and staff are adapting to this very unprecedented time in education,” he said. “The start of this school year certainly looks and feels a bit different, but we will continue to get through this together.”

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All parishes and institutions that

use video conferencing with young people or vulnerable adults as part of their teaching, training or ministry must follow these guidelines established by the diocese. Schools are to use their established video conferencing policy for the classroom and submit a copy to the Office for Safe Environments.

All leaders of parishes, institutions and schools must print out copies of the Video Conferencing section of the policy and review it with all staff and volunteers who will be working with young people in this capacity.

adults, and to ensure their education and formation in the Catholic faith in a safe and responsible manner,” wrote Bishop Cote.

The updated policy can be found at NorwichDiocese.org/Safe-Environments.

“There is no higher priority within the Diocese of Norwich than the protection and spiritual welfare of our young people and vulnerable

Those who reason using human logic, that is, the logic of the merits acquired through one’s own greatness, from being first, find themselves last. Instead, those who humbly entrust themselves to the Father’s mercy, from being last, find themselves first (see Mt 20:1-16)

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FCC News Desk In an effort to address the changing circumstances of Catholic education, faith formation and youth activities that have resulted from the ongoing COVID-19 pandemic, many parishes, schools, and institutions have adopted the use of online video conferencing platforms to continue their ministry during this time of physical and social distancing. The Diocese of Norwich has updated the Electronic Communications, Internet, and Computer Use Policy by adding a section to address video conferencing with young people. Bishop Michael R. Cote promulgated the amended policy on August 31, 2020.

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I’ve always heard that real superheroes always wear masks.

Recently, I had the experience of meeting my first real superhero. This was when eight-year-old Abby shyly walked through the doors of Catholic Charities. Accompanied by her mother, practicing social distancing, and wearing her mask, you knew there was something special about her. Even with the mask on I could also detect a wry smile on her face.

Abby had come to Catholic Charities on a mission. Earlier in the month, she had set up a lemonade stand at her mother’s tag sale hoping to raise money for Catholic Charities.

Somewhat shy and unassuming, Abby didn’t quite know what all the fuss was about her donation. When I asked how she came up with the idea of a lemonade stand, she humbly smiled and shrugged her shoulders.

“I just thought of it,” she said. Just a statement of fact. “I remembered my school motto, ‘Love Serves,’ so I

thought I would do something to help people. That’s when I got some help from my dad and set up a lemonade stand.”

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Abby was quick to add that during the sale, she did in fact put into practice her social distancing skills with her customers.

When asked why they chose Catholic Charities to receive her donation, Abby’s mom supplied some pertinent details.

“We were blessed to have been able to adopt Abby, and Catholic Charities was there to help and assist us during the entire process,” said Abby’s mom, Shannon. “This was all Abby’s idea, she wanted to give back to Catholic

Charities and this is what she decided to do in order make it happen.”

Through Abby’s efforts she was able to raise $220 for Catholic Charities.

This will enable the agency to do so many things. Her donation will be able to feed a family of four for 10 days, keep an infant supplied with diapers, wipes and formula for a month, or pay the utility services for one of our mature clients on fixed income so they can benefit from some financial relief.

Thank you, Abby, for your big heart and generous donation!

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In the Diocese of Norwich, all volunteers who have regular contact with minors, all employees, all clergy, and all religious, are required to complete safe environments training.

This training is also available to any parishioner, or parent of a parochial school child, regardless of whether or not they wish to volunteer at their parish or school.

The Diocese of Norwich offers two Praesidium programs. Both cover the same material, just in different formats. You can take the on-line program, Armatus, or attend a one-time DVD presentation, Called to Protect. Due to the current pandemic, the in person Called to Protect training classes have been postponed. Armatus is available and the preferred training at this time. As soon as in person gatherings are permitted, Called to Protect in person training will resume. Please contact the Child Advocate at your parish or school office in order to be enrolled, or for more information.Our children’s safety is the responsibility of all Catholics.

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Special Announcement Boy Scouts of America Claims regarding Sexual Abuse The Diocese of Norwich is committed to providing support and outreach to all victims of sexual abuse committed by personnel of the Diocese. In our victim assistance program, we provide outreach and support to such victims of abuse who contact us.

The filing of bankruptcy by the Boy Scouts of America (BSA) has once again provided a painful reminder of the crime of sexual abuse of minors. Since the Boy Scouts have had connections to certain parishes over the years, the BSA has asked us to assist them in notifying potential claimants about the bankruptcy. In an effort to support sexual abuse survivors, we are providing the following information for the benefit of anyone who might have a claim against the BSA. Do you have a claim? Anyone who was sexually abused during their time in Scouting, on or before February 18, 2020, must file a claim to have rights in the bankruptcy action. This includes sexual abuse in connection with Boy Scouts, Cub Scouts, or any entity or activity associated with Scouting. For purposes of the bankruptcy, Sexual Abuse Claims include, but are not limited to: sexual misconduct, exploitation, or touching, sexual comments about a person or other behaviors that led to abuse, even if the behavior was not sexual or against the law, and regardless of whether you thought the behavior was sexual abuse or not. These acts could be between a: (1) child and an adult, or (2) child and another child.

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What do you need to do? You should file a claim using the Sexual Abuse Survivor Proof of Claim by November 16, 2020 at 5:00 p.m.

(Eastern Time). If you do not file a timely Sexual Abuse Claim, you may lose rights against BSA, BSA Local Councils or organizations that sponsored your troop or pack, including any right to compensation.

Your information will be kept private. You can download and file a claim at www.OfficialBSAClaims.com or call 1-866-907-2721 for help on how to file a claim by mail. Scouting participants who were at least 18 years of age at the time the sexual abuse began may also have claims related to sexual abuse and should consult the appropriate claim form at www.OfficialBSAClaims.com.

Should you require it, more detail on the case can be found in In re Boy Scouts of America and Delaware BSA, LLC, No. 20-10343 (Bankr. D. Del.) or visit www.OfficialBSAClaims.com or call 1-866-907-2721.

PRAYER INTENTION Walking with Moms in Need is a program that matches existing social programs with pregnant and new mothers in need. While the focus is on pregnant women who are contemplating ending their pregnancy in abortion, we help new moms also. We are encouraged to think and act in a way that says, “What would Jesus do?� Loving support is a great way for us to treat those who are carrying another life.

Christ the King Church is holding a welcome and training webinar on Tuesday, October 6, at 7 pm. for anyone already signed up or interested in getting involved. During this meeting Father Walter Nagle and Mark Desrosiers will review the program, update you on the progress to date and provide time for parish representatives and interested participants to share their progress and/or challenges, and ask questions.

We are here to support you and look forward to your participation. Please see below for the link to our Zoom meeting.

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We pray that by the virtue of baptism, the laity, especially women, may participate more in areas of responsibility in the Church.

- Pope Francis

Sacraments 101

By Father Michael Bovino As was mentioned in the first installment of “Sacraments 101,” the sacraments are the primary means by which Jesus gives us ongoing access to His treasury of grace. We now face the imposing task of unpacking what these gifts are and how we benefit from them.

If we think of the sacraments as a storehouse of grace from God, then the sacrament of Baptism is, in a way, the door which gives us access to that storehouse. Thus, Baptism has been called the “gateway sacrament” insofar as it is the one which grants us access to the other sacraments. In other words, without Baptism, we cannot receive the graces from the rest of the sacraments.

This is because, through Baptism, a person is visibly joined to Christ Jesus as a member of His Church. By being brought into God’s Holy Church, the newly baptized are granted access to all of the gifts and graces of Christ Jesus. Everything that belongs rightfully to Jesus as the True Son of God, He shares freely as a gift with all of the baptized: Blessed be God…who has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places, even as He chose us in Him…He destined us in love to be His sons through Jesus Christ, according to the purpose of His will… (Eph 1:3-5).

Throughout the Church’s history, two general effects that come through Baptism have been identified: (1) the cleansing from sin and (2) new birth in the Holy Spirit. Let’s take a closer look at both.

(1) Being cleansed from sin encompasses both Original Sin and any personal sins that we may have committed prior to Baptism. Original Sin can be thought of as the “wound” which we have all inherited through the fall of our first parents, whereas personal sin describes those sins which we commit ourselves through either ignorance, weakness, or malice. However, since many Catholics are often baptized as infants, in such cases there are no personal sins to be forgiven.

(2) While forgiveness of sins is an important effect of Baptism, the main purpose of being forgiven is to clear the way for the second effect of Baptism, new birth in the Holy Spirit. The significance of this new birth cannot be emphasized enough. The new birth confirms us as beloved children of our Heavenly Father. And because of this, we are given a full share in the rights, responsibilities and blessings of being a child of God. By being born into a natural family, the child is granted a share in all that their parents are and have -- this gift is irrevocable. So too, once a person is baptized, they are given a share in everything that God is and has. His very Divine life is poured into the heart of every newly-adopted child of God. This is a free, total and irrevocable gift from God, and from here our mission is to grow and mature in the Christian life -- tasks which the other sacraments help us with. But before diving into the other sacraments, next month we will take a brief look at the structure and the Rite of Baptism.

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Origins of Halloween Rooted in Catholic Faith

Fai th Sparks Eighth grade students from the Class of 2020 at Sacred Heart School, Taftville, pose as their saint during a Wax Museum of Saints that takes place each year at the school on Halloween.

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Halloween. It is perhaps one of the most misunderstood holidays, but one that has definite roots within the Catholic faith.

Halloween comes from the word ‘hallow’ which means holy and ‘e’en’ a shortened form of the word evening.

November 1 is All Saints’ Day, a holy day of obligation honoring all the saints, which was originally known as All Hallows Day. October 31 then became known as the Eve of All Hallows or Hallows Eve, later called Halloween. In early days, Catholic Europe celebrated the vigil of a major feast day with celebrations where many churches often displayed the bones and relics of their saints.

With the influx of immigrants to America, so too came many of their customs surrounding Hallows Eve: dressing up as a favorite saint, carved Jack-O-Lanterns, and begging for treats in exchange for prayers for deceased loved ones.

In 2018, Bishop David Konderla of the Diocese of Tulsa and Eastern Oklahoma issued a Memorandum on the Celebration of Halloween within his diocese. He wrote, “The custom of dressing up for Halloween is devotional in spirit. By dressing up as the saints whom we most admire, we imagine ourselves following their example of Christian discipleship.

This practice allows the lay faithful to become ‘living icons’ of the saints, who are themselves ‘icons’ or ‘windows’ offering real-life examples of the imitation of Christ.”

Eventually the deeper meaning behind All Hallows Eve – honoring the example of the saints – became distorted and the more commercialized and ‘ghoulish’ aspect of Halloween evolved.

For 35 years, Sr. Mary Cabrini, SCMC, vice-principal and science and religion teacher at Sacred Heart School, Taftville, has sought to restore that deeper meaning to her

8th grade religion students through an extensive research project on the life of a saint of their choosing.

Students present their findings to the entire student body, parents and invited guests during a Wax Museum of Saints on Halloween. At that time, students assume the life of their saint, complete with costumes, stories and biographical information about him or her. The event draws attention away from glamorizing the secular aspects of Halloween and focuses on the holiness of the many men and women who lived and died for their faith and are remembered on All Saints Day. “This project teaches the students that the saints are ordinary people, like they are, who just did extraordinary things with their lives,” Sr. Cabrini said. “As they learn about their saint, they can relate situations in their lives to something the saint went through in his or her childhood or adolescence…

It proves to them that, just like the

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saints did, they can get over any troubles they may be experiencing in life. They can choose one aspect of a saint’s life and use it as an example to help them in their own life.”

Sr. Cabrini noted that oftentimes the students choose the name of the saint they researched when making their confirmation. “It’s not because choosing that name is the easiest thing for them to do,” she said. “It’s because they ended up discovering something about their saint that made an impact and had an influence on their life.”

Bishop Konderla concluded his 2018 memorandum by urging members of his diocese to observe the beauty and depth of the Feast of All Saints. “Let us make…an act of true devotion to God, whose saints give us hope that we too may one day enter in the Kingdom prepared for God’s holy ones from the beginning of time.”

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"Things have a price and can be for sale, but people have a dignity that is priceless and worth far more than things"

-Pope Francis The forum will include 3 national speakers • Ashley Feasley: Director of Policy for USCCB Migration and Refugee Services • Steve Karlen: National Campaign Director 40 Days for Life • Joseph Meyer: Executive Director of Project Laudato Si

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