Four County Catholic January 2013 by Diocese of Norwich

Volume 25 Number 1

January 2013

2012 ~ 2013

Cathedral of Saint Patrick, Norwich 1953

Four County Catholic January 2013

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The Most Reverend

Michael R. Cote, D.D.

Bishop of Norwich

A Year of Faith. A Tradition of Truth and Love. My Dear Brothers and Sisters in Christ: We are entering a new year of exceptional challenge, significance and milestones as a community of faith. You are aware, of course, that we are now four months into the Year of Faith as designated by the Holy Father, Pope Benedict. As we progress, we are learning how important it is to understand and evangelize the faith at a time in history that so needs to embrace the principles of faith, hope, love and above all charity. We must continue to spread the Good News of the Bible at every opportunity. We must defend life. We must defend religious liberty. These are times that favor those who actively and courageously stand up for their faith. We live in a morally troubled world where peace, justice, respect for each precious life and freedom are fragile and too often compromised. The Year of Faith reminds us that we are the answer. Each of us as a conscious disciple of Jesus Christ is the answer. One faithful

Catholic at a time. One faithful citizen at a time. Faith is empowering. Faith will lead the way to a kinder more compassionate world. Recently, Pope Benedict has become an active Twitterest (I think I invented a word there.) As of his first tweet, he had over two million followers. I noticed that one of the first answers he gave to a tweeted question was as follows: question – “How can we celebrate the Year of Faith better in our daily lives?” The Holy Father’s answer – “By speaking with Jesus in prayer, listening to what he tells you in the Gospel and looking for Him in those in need.” In only 116 characters of the 140 allowed on Twitter, the Holy Father summarized the essence of the Year of Faith far better than I possibly could in an entire column. He touched on developing a closer relationship with Jesus, learning more about our faith especially through scripture, and applying our faith through charity in our daily lives. You can see why the

Church having a social media presence on Twitter can be such a promising New Evangelization opportunity. In addition to the thoughtful observance of the Year of Faith, we will be celebrating two anniversaries this year – the 60th anniversary of the founding of the Diocese of Norwich, and the 10th anniversary of my installation as the Bishop of Norwich. In commemoration of these milestones, particularly the anniversary of the Diocese, established August 6, 1953 by decree of Pope Pius XII, we will include historic photos and memories of the early days of the Diocese in each Four County Catholic this year beginning with this issue. In looking through some of the official documents and newspaper clippings from the beginning days of the Diocese, I was at first fascinated by how dated the black & white photos looked; and then after awhile, I actually became more fascinated with reading how similar our challenges are today.

The Diocese’s first Bishop, Bishop Bernard J. Flanagan, 45 years young at the time, noted in his installation ceremony address, December 9, 1953, “The Creator cannot be separated from His world, and religion and morality constitute an indivisible whole with good government. If we have a heritage of religious freedom in America today, it is because Godfearing men incorporated into our fundamental law basic religious truths which proclaim the dignity and rights of the individual as a creature of God.” These words sound as if they were written December 9, 2012. Here we are 60 years later, still intensely engaged in the defense of religious liberty, as with the HHS mandate, and engaged in the defense of the dignity of each individual life. It is a humbling reminder of the continuum of time, patience and effort it takes to protect and proclaim our faith. I was further impressed by the words of our first Bishop that seemed so remarkably in step with

the spirit of our current Year of Faith. In Bishop Flanagan’s words, “The purpose for which Our Divine Lord lived and died and established his Church: that his message of truth and love might be known and lived.” Is this not an eloquent description of the Year of Faith message and the need for us to be active disciples engaged in the New Evangelization? Those who came before are with us still. As we celebrate the history of our Diocese and absorb the principles of the Year of Faith, we are grateful for those whose labor of love and faith built the Diocese of Norwich. We are inspired by their vision and forever appreciative of their generous contributions to our generation trying as we are to carry on their tradition of sacrifice and faithful service to God and community. We have been forever blessed by their strength of faith. Sincerely yours in Christ’s love, Bishop Michael R. Cote

Un Año de la Fe. Una Tradición de Verdad y Amor. Queridos hermanos y Hermanas: Estamos entrando en un nuevo año de excepcional desafío, importancia, y de metas como comunidad de fe. Usted, por supuesto sabe, que ahora llevamos cuatro meses dentro del Año de la fe nombrado por el santo Padre, el Papa Benedicto XVI. A medida que avanzamos, en un tiempo en la historia que necesita adoptar los principios de fe, esperanza y sobre todo caridad, estamos aprendiendo cuán importante es comprender la fe y evangelizar. Debemos continuar difundiendo en cada oportunidad la Buena

Nueva de la Biblia. Debemos defender la vida. Debemos defender la libertad religiosa. Estos son momentos que favorecen a los que de forma activa y valerosamente defienden su fe. Vivimos en un mundo moralmente problemático donde la paz, la justicia y la libertad son frágiles y con demasiada frecuencia difíciles. El Año de la Fe nos recuerda que nosotros somos la respuesta. Como conscientes discípulos de Jesucristo cada uno de nosotros es la respuesta. Un católico fiel a la vez. Un ciudadano fiel a la vez. La fe es poderosa. La fe nos conducirá a un mundo más

bondadoso y compasivo. Recientemente, el Papa Benedicto XVI se ha convertido en un activo Twitterest (creo que inventé una palabra aquí) A partir de su primer Tweet, tenía más de un millón de seguidores. Me di cuenta de que una de las primeras respuestas que dio a una pregunta Twitter fue la siguiente- “¿Cómo podemos celebrar mejor el Año de la Fe en nuestra vida diaria? La repuesta del Santo Padre“Hablando con Jesús en la oración, escuchando lo que nos dice en el Evangelio y buscándolo en aquellos en necesidad.” En sólo

116 caracteres de los 140 permitidos en Twitter, el Santo Padre resumió la esencia del Año de la Fe mucho mejor de lo que me hubiera sido posible en todo un artículo. Aludió el establecer una relación más estrecha con Jesús, aprender más acerca de nuestra fe, especialmente a través de las escrituras, y aplicar nuestra fe a través de la caridad en nuestra vida cotidiana. Puedo ver el por qué la Iglesia teniendo presencia en los medios sociales de TwitIer puede tener una oportunidad prometedora en la Nueva Evangelización. Además de la observación re-

flexiva del Año de la Fe, estaremos celebrando dos aniversarios este año - el sexagésimo aniversario de la fundación de la Diócesis de Norwich, y el décimo aniversario de mi instalación como su Obispo de Norwich. En conmemoración de esta época, en particular el aniversario de la diócesis establecido por el decreto del Papa Pio XII, el 6 de agosto de 1953, incluiremos este año fotos históricas y recuerdos de los primeros días de la diócesis en cada Four Couty Catholic comenzando con este Una Tradición de Verdad y Amor. Continued on page 4

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Una Tradición de Verdad y Amor. Continued from page 3 ejemplar. Al mirar a través de algunos de los documentos oficiales y recortes de periódicos de los primeros días

de la Diócesis, al principio yo estaba fascinado por lo anticuadas que se veían las fotos en blanco y negro, y luego, después de un rato,

estaba aún más fascinado leyendo lo similar que son nuestros desafíos hoy en día. El primer obispo de la diócesis,

Holy Hour for Vocations The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, leads the Holy Hour:

January 17, 2013 • 7:00-8:00 p.m. Immaculata Retreat House, Windham February 21, 2013 • 4:00-5:00 p.m. Sacred Heart, Taftville March 21, 2013 • 7:00-8:00 p.m. Saint Patrick, East Hampton April 18, 2013 • 6:30-7:30 p.m. Saint Augustine, Canterbury

el obispo Bernard J. Flanagan, de 45 años de edad en ese momento, señaló en su discurso de ceremonia de instalación, el 9 de diciembre de 1953. “El Creador no puede ser separado de Su mundo, y la religión, y la moral constituyen un todo indivisible con un buen gobierno. Si tenemos hoy en día una herencia de la libertad religiosa en los Estados Unidos, es porque hombres temerosos de Dios incorporaron dentro de nuestras leyes fundamentales, verdades religiosas básicas que proclaman la dignidad y los derechos de las personas como criaturas de Dios. “Estas palabras suenan como si hubiesen sido escritas el 9 de diciembre del 2012. Aquí estamos 60 años después, todavía intensamente comprometidos con la defensa de la libertad religiosa, como por ejemplo en relación con el mandato HHS (por sus siglas en inglés), y comprometidos con la defensa de la dignidad de cada vida individual. Es un humilde recordatorio de la continuidad del tiempo, paciencia y esfuerzo que lleva el proteger y proclamar nuestra fe. Me impresionaron aún más las palabras de nuestro primer obispo que parecían notablemente en consonancia con el espíritu de

nuestro actual Año de la Fe. En palabras del obispo Flanagan “, el propósito por el que Nuestro Divino Señor vivió y murió y estableció su Iglesia: Para que su mensaje de verdad y de amor pueda ser conocido y vivido.” ¿No es ésta una elocuente descripción del mensaje del Año de la fe y de la necesidad de ser discípulos activos comprometidos en la Nueva Evangelización? Aquellos quienes vinieron antes están aún con nosotros. A medida que celebramos la historia de nuestra diócesis y absorbemos los fundamentos del Año de la fe, estamos agradecidos por aquellos cuyo trabajo de amor y de fe construyeron la Diócesis de Norwich. Nos sentimos inspirados por su visión y por siempre agradecidos por sus generosas contribuciones a nuestra generación tratando al igual que nosotros de llevar su tradición de sacrificio y servicio fiel a Dios y a la comunidad. Hemos sido bendecidos para siempre por la fuerza de su fe. Sinceramente, en el amor de Cristo. Obispo Michael R. Cote Translated by Paulina Angulo

May 24, 2013 • 7:00-8:00 p.m. Cathedral of St. Patrick, Norwich June 20, 2013 • 5:00-6:00 p.m. Saint Joseph, Willimantic July 18, 2013 • 5:00-6:00 p.m. Saint Patrick, Mystic August 22, 2013 • 7:00-8:00 p.m. Sacred Heart, Vernon September 19, 2013 • 4:00-5:00 p.m. Saint Mary, Clinton October 17, 2013 • 7:00-8:00 p.m. Saint Mary, Baltic

Father Greg Galvin, Director of Priestly Vocations vocations@norwichdiocese.net

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The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, has made the following clergy and diocesan appointments in the Diocese of Norwich:

November 21, 2013 • 7:00-8:00 p.m. Saint Joseph, New London December 19, 2013 • 6:00-7:00 p.m. Saint Edward, Stafford Springs

Reverend Anthony DiMarco, from Parochial Vicar, St. Mary of the Visitation Parish, Putnam, and Most Holy Trinity Parish, Pomfret, to Parochial Vicar, All Saints Parish, Somersville. Effective: January 7, 2013.

We pray for our Seminarians....

Reverend Raymond Introvigne, retired as Parochial Vicar, St. Mary, Coventry, while continuing as full-time Co-Director of Spiritual Renewal Services. Effective: January 31, 2013. Kurt O’Brien 2nd Year College Holy Apostles Seminary Cromwell, CT

Jeffrey Ellis 1st Year Theology Mt. St. Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Juan Palacio 1st Year English Studies Clark University Worcester, MA

Martin Noe 3rd Year Theology Holy Apostles Seminary Cromwell, CT

Jonathan Ficara 3rd Year Theology Pontifical North American College, Vatican City State

Ruben Sanchez 1st Year English Studies Clark University Worcester, MA

Brian Maxwell 4th Year Theology Blessed John XXIII National Seminary, Weston, MA

Peter Langevin 1st Year Theology Mt. St. Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Thomas Griffin 1st Year Theology Blessed John XXIII National Seminary Weston, MA

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Director of Priestly Vocations

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“Oh God, Father of all Mercies Open the hearts of your children That they may discern Your Holy Will” My Dear Brothers and Sisters in Christ, The Diocese of Norwich will join in a nationwide celebration of National Vocation Awareness Week, January 13th through the 19th, 2013. We are fortunate to celebrate this occasion during The Year of Faith, a time for us to embrace the New Evangelization. Vocations to the priesthood, diaconate and consecrated life provide the opportunity to spread the joy of our faith to those waiting to receive and be lifted by the Good News of the Gospel. It is a time of missionary vision and energy. A time to pray and encourage young men and women in our families, schools and parishes to discern God’s call. For those parents, who have been blessed with children, you are the primary educators of your children. Each of you has an important responsibility to teach, assist and pray for your sons and daughters to understand that they are created by our Heavenly Father with a distinct purpose or vocation in this life. It is through thoughtful discovery of this purpose that each of us is better able to experience the peace and

happiness that our loving Father wants for us. I pray also for our sons and daughters living in single parent homes that they may receive the fullest possible gift of encouragement both inside the family and from their community. We must all be conscious of recognizing future priests among us and proactively encouraging them. This past year, we lost two faithful priests to eternal rest. Father Joseph Nichols died peacefully in March after serving the diocese for so many years, most recently at the Cathedral of St. Patrick. We also lost Reverend Thomas Plathottam, Pastor at Saint Luke Parish in Ellington, who died shortly after starting a well earned sabbatical. Please pray for these fine priests. During the special week in January dedicated to Vocations, I ask each of you to join me in joyful thanksgiving for the responses of five additional men who joined our diocesan family as seminarians this past year. We now have nine men who are preparing for priesthood. With a grateful heart, I continue to ask our Heavenly Father to send more laborers to this part of His

vineyard. Please during this Year of Faith join me at one of our monthly Holy Hours for Vocations. It is a great opportunity to thank God for our present priests, and to entreat the harvest master to send us good and faithful men who are willing to dedicate themselves as parish priests to the well being of the many grateful souls in the Diocese of Norwich. Finally, I ask for your kind thoughts and prayers for the success of the new permanent diaconate program. This past June 9, 2012, on the feast of Saint Ephrem, I restored the program in my pastoral letter, Diakonia: Instrument of God’s Own Charity. Please pray for the men who have recently begun to respond to God’s call to this vocation and for all those to follow. In prayer, we beseech you, Heavenly Father to Teach all your faithful to follow their respective paths in life guided by Your Divine Word and Truth. All God’s blessings throughout the New Year. Sincerely yours in Christ,

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Mass of Thanksgiving for the Gift of Consecrated Life Sunday, February 3rd, 2013 at 10:30 am Cathedral of Saint Patrick • 213 Broadway, Norwich, CT

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Saturday, January 19 A Day with Mary The Franciscan Friars of the Immaculate will be conducting a “Day with Mary” at Our Lady of Guadalupe Friary, 199 Colonel Brown Road, Griswold. “A Day with Mary” is a beautiful day of prayer and devotion. From 9:00am-3:00pm. For more information please call David Ethier at (401)568-0349. Friday- Sunday, January 18-20 Retrouvaille Weekend Reaching for a lifeline for your troubled marriage? Need serious marriage building and repair: Couples are given tools to heal, re-establish communication and work on issues. Six post sessions follows the weekend. For more information or to sign up for the weekend in Meriden. Call (413)525-1634.

Thursday- Sunday, January 24-26 Diocese of Norwich Youth March for Life Trip Stand up for your faith and it will change your world! Join us for an exciting and faith-filled two night pilgrimage as we experience what it means to be prolife in the D.C. metropolitan area. We will travel by coach bus, attend Life is Very Good morning rally and evening of prayer and song, participate in the 40th annual March for Life and visit a DC attraction before returning home. Student accommodations are quad occupancy; chaperone are double at the Courtyard Marriott in Fairfax, VA. For details contact: Pam Plasse at (860)848-2237x311 or Jill Patten at (860)848-1271x148. Cost: $175 (Payable to Office of Faith Events).

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school education. A Bachelor’s Degree in political science or a related field is required. The selected individual will be required to register as a lobbyist with the state of Connecticut. A proven track record in administrative skills, including but not limited to, interpersonal relations, budget preparation and management, strategic planning, working in collaboration with a Board of Trustees, as well as excellent verbal communication and writing skills, is required. A thorough knowledge and respect for the Roman Catholic Church and its teachings, as well as respect and support of Catholic school education.

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Saturday, February 2 Prayer Group Leaders and Core Members 10 am – 3 pm, Spiritual Renewal Services Center, 11 Bath St., Norwich (rain date February 9th). Monday, February 11 Prayer Group Mass of Healing & Hope 7:00pm at St. Mary Adoration

Chapel, 218 Providence Street, Putnam. Wednesday, February 20 Mass of Healing & Hope 7:00pm at St. John Church, 1986 Post Rd., Darien. Rev. Msgr. Frank McGrath, Pastor; Celebrant, Fr. Ray Introvigne Healing Prayer, Mrs. Judith Hughes. Every Tuesday night at 7:00 pm Prayer, Praise, Worship and Adoration Spiritual Renewal Services Center, 11 Bath St. Norwich. Leaders: Deacon James Delaney and Nancy Delaney.

Christian Conference of Connecticut Week of Prayer for Christian Unity

January 18-25, 2013 To walk with God means to accompany one another as well. In Christ, we never walk alone; in conversation-sharing our insights, and also attentively listening to one another-together we learn more clearly to understand what God requires of us all.

Thursday, January 24

March For Life Buses At 9:00pm buses sponsored by the Southeast Chapter of Connecticut Right to Life will leave from the Norwich Municipal Parking Lot (Exit 80, I-395) and travel to D.C. for the March For Life on January 25, 2013. Bus fare is $58 per person. If you are unable to attend the March For Life, please consider sponsoring a seat on the bus. For further information and/or to reserve a seat or to sponsor a seat, please call Margaret Becotte at (860)822-1362.

Catholic Schools Week January 27 - February 2 The theme for the National Catholic Schools Week 2013 is “Catholic Schools

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Saturday, January 26 Unbound Prayer Ministry At 10:00 am. By appointment ONLY – Please call 860-8870702 Spiritual Renewal Center, 11 Bath Street, Norwich.

Raise the Standards.” The annual observance starts the last Sunday in January and runs all week, is January 27 to February 2. Schools typically celebrate Catholic Schools Week with Masses, open houses, and other activities for students, families, parishioners, and the community at large. The 2013 theme supports the recent launch of the National Standards and

Benchmarks for Effective Catholic Elementary and Secondary Schools, that ensure the effective operation and responsible governance of Catholic schools across the Country, thus promoting high academic standards and Catholic identity. The logo designed for the week illustrates a chart of steady growth culminating in the highest achievement of all, a cross representing the faith that underscores all Catholic education.

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¿Qué Provoca Tanta Devoción a Nuestra Señora de Guadalupe? Muchos fieles de distintas partes de nuestra diócesis se reunieron en la Catedral de Saint Patrick, el 12 By Paulina Angulo Written in Spanish then translated into English

de diciembre 2012, para celebrar la fiesta anual de Nuestra Señora de Guadalupe. Cada año, es una alegre celebración bilingüe que nos une a todos como a una gran familia en la fe y en el amor hacia Nuestra Santísima Madre. La celebración siempre es muy bella y especial. En el interior de la Catedral vemos muchos rostros alegres y todos los detalles-los adornos, la música mariachi, las personas vestidas con el vestuario típico mexicano - nos hablan de la devoción que tenemos hacia Nuestra Señora de Guadalupe. La santa Misa fue celebrada por el Más Reverendo Michael R. Cote, obispo de Norwich, acompañado este año por el homilista el Reverendo Robert Washabaugh, párroco de Saint Mary Star of the Sea Church de New London, por varios otros con celebrantes sacerdotes de la diócesis de Norwich y por el Diácono Mario Ramos. Un comienzo maravilloso de la noche fue la procesión de entrada, acompañada

por la canción “Paloma Blanca”, interpretada por Mariachi Internacional y por la Cantora Rosanna Bueno. A medida que escuchábamos y meditábamos con atención la primera lectura, tomada del libro del Apocalipsis, podíamos observar un cuadro de un retrato pintado de Nuestra Señora de Guadalupe a la derecha de un lado extremo del atril. La pintura es un retrato de una mujer joven de tez bronceada, cubierta por el sol, con la nube debajo de sus pies, su cabeza cubierta por una mantilla azul -verde con estrellas, con un lazo negro en la cintura, con las manos en posición de oración apuntando hacia el cielo. Sabemos que ella es la mujer mencionada en el libro del Apocalipsis. Ella es la Virgen María. Otro momento especial que llenó de alegría nuestros corazones fue el Salmo Responsorial cantado por las Cantoras Rosanna Bueno y Yanet Gonzalez. Al comienzo de la homilía, el Padre Washabaugh nos recordó que hay millones de personas que celebran la Fiesta de Nuestra Señora de Guadalupe, no sólo en los Estados Unidos, no sólo en México, sino en el mundo entero. Y la devoción a

Nuestra señora de Guadalupe no sólo proviene de los devotos, sino también de personas que no frecuentan la Iglesia. El Padre Washabaugh nos contó la historia cuando la Virgen María se le apareció a Juan Diego en 1531 y envió con él un mensaje al obispo de ese entonces, un mensaje para la conversión a Su Hijo, Nuestro Señor Jesucristo, un mensaje de unión entre los españoles y los indígenas mexicanos. María mostró una señal de su aparición al obispo: el milagro de las rosas de Castilla y su imagen impresa en la tilma de Juan Diego. El Padre Washabaugh nos recordó que la Virgen de Guadalupe es la patrona de ProVida, el lazo negro alrededor de su cintura representaba a los mexicanos de esa época, que ella estaba esperando un hijo. El Padre Washabaugh nos dijo: “Aún más, es la defensora de los indefensos y de los que son pasados por alto y quienes son más indefensos y pasados por alto en nuestra cultura de muerte que los niños concebidos en el vientre, que a menudo se perciben como un inconveniente, y a quienes no se les promete la oportunidad de nacer y vivir. María de Guadalupe quien contradijo todas las expectativas culturales en México proclama que toda vida, toda vida tiene un

valor incalculable. Cada ser humano en cada manifestación tiene tanto valor como cualquier otro, porque todos llevan la imagen de Su Hijo”. También añadió: “La defensa de la persona humana comienza con la vida al nacer y se extiende a lo largo de la vida. María, Nuestra Señora de Guadalupe, invitó a dos razas, a dos culturas a unirse, dejando de ser un grupo el privilegiado y el otro el oprimido.” Luego, el Padre Washabaugh leyó una carta que fue proclamada en la Fiesta de Nuestra Señora de Guadalupe el año pasado, carta que fue publi-

cada por 33 Obispos de los Estados Unidos. La carta hablaba de los inmigrantes que llegan a los Estados Unidos, dejando a sus seres queridos en sus países, arriesgando sus vidas, para poder tener un futuro mejor. Esta carta nos recordó de nuestra obligación como cristianos de proteger a los pobres, a los inmigrantes, a los sin voz y a los indefensos. A medida que voy escribiendo, me pregunto ¿que provoca tanta devoción a La Virgen de Guadalupe? El Padre Washabaugh habló: “¿Que provoca tanta devoción? Yo creo que María a medida que se ha acercado a nosotros dice, en una forma, que la gente siente profundamente, que no estamos solos o abandonados. ¡Nunca! El cuidado de Dios siempre está allí, tal vez bajo la superficie o esperando ser mostrado. María, es la mensajera de esa gracia. Ella nos dice, que los religiosos y los no religiosos también tenemos una madre que no nos abandona ni siquiera en los peores momentos. Somos amados. Así es que en esta noche tenemos que gritar: ¡Viva la Virgen de Guadalupe!” Estamos de acuerdo con el mensaje del Padre Washabaugh, y estamos conscientes de que tenemos una gran responsabilidad hacia el no-nacido y hacia nuestros hermanos y hermanas que sufren injusticias y sabemos que no estamos solos en esta tarea; Tenemos a una Madre de nuestro lado. Tenemos a Nuestra Santísima Madre; A Nuestra Señora de Guadalupe. Photos by Donna Antonacci

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What Provokes to Our Lady On December 12, 2012, many faithful from across our Diocese gathered at the Cathedral of Saint By Paulina Angulo Written in Spanish then translated to English

Patrick to celebrate The Annual Feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe. Every year, this is a joyful bilingual celebration that unites us all as one big family in our faith and in our love of Our Blessed Mother. The celebration is always beautiful and special. We see many joyful faces inside the Cathedral and every detail - the decorations, the mariachi music, people dressed in typical Mexican clothing - speaks to us about the devotion we have to Our Lady of Guadalupe. The Holy Mass was celebrated by the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, Bishop of Norwich, accompanied this year by homilist Reverend Robert Washabaugh, Pastor at Saint Mary Star of the Sea Church in New London, by several other concelebrant priests from the Diocese of Norwich and by Deacon Mario Ramos. A wonderful start to the night was the entrance procession, accompanied by the song “Paloma Blanca” performed by Mariachi International and by Cantor Rosanna Bueno. As we listened carefully and meditated about the first reading from the Book of Revelation, we could view a painting of Our Lady of Guadalupe to the far right side of the lectern. The painting is a portrait of a young woman of a bronzed complexion covered by the sun, with the moon under her feet, a blue green mantle with stars covering her head, wearing a black sash on her waist, with her hands in a praying position pointing towards heaven. We know that she is the woman in the Book of Revelation. She is the Virgin Mary. Another special moment that filled our hearts with joy was when the Responsorial Psalm was sung by Cantors Rosanna Bueno and Yanet Gonzalez. At the beginning of his homily,

Father Robert Washabaugh minded us that there are milli of people celebrating the Feas Our Lady of Guadalupe, not o across America, not only in M ico but around the world. And devotion to Our Lady Guadalupe doesn’t come only fr the devout but from people w do not frequent church as well He told us the story of when Virgin Mary appeared to J Diego in 1531 and sent a mess to the bishop of that time, a m sage of conversion to her son, O Lord Jesus Christ, a message union between the Spaniards the Mexicans. Mary showed a s to the bishop, the miracle of Castilian Roses and her image impressed on the Juan Die tilma. Father Washabaugh remin us that Our Lady of Guadalup the patroness of Pro-life. Her b sash around her waist, represen to the Mexicans of that time t she was expecting a child. Fat Washabaugh said: “Even more, is the defender of the defense and the overlooked. Who is m overlooked in our culture t children conceived in the wo but often perceived as inconv ient, not necessarily promised chance to be born and to l Mary who contradicted every c tural expectation at Guadalup Mexico proclaims that every

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Saints for the Year of Faith The Year of Faith, announced by Pope Benedict XVI in 2011, began in October 2012 and By Sister Elissa Rinere, CP, JCD Office of Worship

will continue until November 24, 2013. The entire year is an invitation to all Roman Catholics to deepen their understanding of the Catholic Faith, and to experience anew what it means to belong to Christ through Baptism. In the Diocese of Norwich, many parishes are arranging prayer experiences and programs in observance of the Year of Faith. There will also be diocesan-wide programs and celebrations through the entire year. Several parish churches throughout the diocese have been designated as places of pilgrimage, so that people may come together to pray and renew their commitment to God and to the Church. The ultimate goal of the Year of Faith is that all Catholics will renew their Baptismal call, renew their Faith, and put that Faith into action in the everyday moments of their lives with family, friends, neighbors and society. With focus on this ultimate goal of renewed and active Faith, the bishops of the United States have developed a list of “Saints for the Year of Faith.” The importance of canonized saints is that through the process of canonization, their lives and works are studied through the lens of theology. Then, when the process is successfully concluded, they are given to the whole Church as models of holiness and heroic virtue. By studying the lives and works of canonized saints, we see Faith in action. We are given examples of what Faith can do, and we are invited, in our own lives, to be people of Faith and virtue. The saints are sources of true inspiration only when we walk with them in the strength of our own Faith and virtue. The saint presented to us for January 2013 is Saint Elizabeth Seton, the first person born in the United States ever to be canonized. The de-

tails of her life are in part ordinary, and in part extraordinary. Born in New York City in 1774, she married in 1794, at the age of nineteen. Then, in 1803, at the age of twenty-nine,

she was a widow with five young children to care for. She survived the difficulties life presented to her because of the emotional and financial support received from family and friends, and because she believed that God had a plan for her life. Although her family was Episcopalian, Elizabeth joined the Roman Catholic Church just a few years after her husband’s death. Commitment to her faith, and the belief that God would guide her path, caused Elizabeth to move to Baltimore, Maryland to open a Catholic school. She hoped that the school would be a means of supporting herself and her children. As a result of this move she eventually founded a religious community for women, the Daughters of Charity of St. Joseph. Elizabeth died in January 1821, at the age of forty-six. During her life she wrote that her strength

came from devotion to the Eucharist and from a love of Scripture, especially Psalm 23. She was canonized by Pope Paul VI on September 14, 1975. Saint Elizabeth Seton is honored in the Church today, not primarily for her accomplishments, but for how she lived her life of Faith. She is a model of holiness and virtue, not because of the great hardship and trials she endured, or because she started a religious order, but because she integrated her faith with her everyday life. Her life of prayer changed her and led her forward to do heroic deeds for God. In the Year of Faith, Saint Elizabeth Seton is a model for all of us because her Faith and her life were integrated. She did not set out to do great things, but only the everyday things required by her circumstances. Her sainthood was secured because she did those everyday things faithfully.

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Putting Our Faith Into Action By MaryLou Gannotti Director of Planned Giving

Unfailing Prayer to St. Anthony Holy St Anthony gentlest of Saints. Your love for God and charit for His creators made you wor hy when on ear h posses miraculous power which you were ready to speak for those who are in t ouble or anxiet . Encouraged by this thought I implore to you to obtain for me (request) The answer to my prayer may require a miracle, even so you are the saint of miracles Oh gentle and loving St. Anthony whose hear is f ll of human sy pathy whisper my petition into the ears of sweet infant Jesus, who loved to be folded in your ar s, and the g atit de of my hear will ever be yours. This 13 day Novena has never been known to fail. Say three Hail Mar 's and three Glories and promise publication.

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tend one of the many Pontifical Masses that are held throughout the year, celebrating the contributions of educators, health care workers, legal services, the military, police and fire fighters. Those who feel strongly about a Catholic education can attend the fourth annual Seton Scholarship Dinner where all proceeds go directly towards tuition assistance for Catholic school students demonstrating financial need. During Holy Week, attend the Chrism Mass at the Cathedral and see clergy throughout the Diocese assemble as we celebrate our faith together. There are so many ways to celebrate together as a Christian community this coming year. During this year of “Faith with Charity and Love,” perhaps make it a point to visit one of our soup kitchens or food pantries with a box of food, sharing your good fortune with others. You may wish to volunteer and serve a meal there. It is truly in giving that we receive. Donating your time and your resources are ways in which we can put our faith into action and inspire others to do so as well. When we act in “Faith with Charity and Love,” we can truly accomplish a great deal.

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Catholic Charities Restores Hope to Families in Need Through Community Collaboration Prayers Answered in Willimantic - In Willimantic, Dimaris, a mother of a disabled By Anna DeBiasi Development Coordinator, Catholic Charities, Diocese of Norwich

three-year-old boy, wondered how she would provide for her son’s future. Her little boy suffers from Cerebral Palsy, which makes it very difficult for him to walk. His condition leaves him confined to a wheelchair for what will most likely be his entire life. She is a single mother doing what she can with a difficult situation, and finances are very tight. Transporting him at this early age is not very difficult as he is small enough to lift and hold, but Dimaris fears that, as her son grows, it will become impossible for her to care for him. A major concern for her is transportation. Because of collaborative efforts by staff in Catholic Charities’ Willimantic office, site supervisor Rosa Almonte received a call from the Windham Area Interfaith Ministry (WAIM) in early December. The person on the other end of the line explained that an anonymous donor had given a handicap accessible minivan to WAIM as a gift, and wanted it to go to a family in great need of one. Knowing the good work that Catholic Charities does, and the relationships they have in the community, the WAIM staff member asked if Rosa knew of a family who could benefit from this wonderful gift. Rosa immediately thought of Dimaris and her son, and recommended their family. A couple of weeks later, Rosa received a call from WAIM, notifying her that Dimaris and her son had been chosen as the recipients of the minivan! Because of the collaborative relationship between WAIM and Catholic Charities, this family’s Christmas wish has been granted. When she heard of the gift, Dimaris burst into tears of gratitude, thanking Rosa, WAIM and most of all, God, for answering her prayers. Because of the relationship that she and Catholic Charities have built

over time, she has greater hope for her son’s future. A Family’s Faith is Renewed Patricia is the mother of eight-yearold twin boys and an eleven-year-old daughter. She is a dedicated mother and active member of our diocese. In January 2013, her family’s life was turned upside down when one of the twins was diagnosed with Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia (ALL). This blood cancer prohibits her son from being the active little boy that he once was. His weakened immune system restricts him from regularly attending elementary school, and does not allow him to participate in activities that involve contact with other people. The ALL diagnosis was devastating to the family, who now had to watch their son and brother suffer through endless chemotherapy treatments and associated side effects. As if this was not enough to handle, Patricia’s husband was laid off from his job of 20+ years one month prior to his son’s diagnosis. Because their son’s treatments and care have become a 24/7 commitment, Patricia is unable to look for work to help with the family’s finances. Instead, she drives the long commute to Yale New Haven Children’s Hospital and stays by her son’s side to advocate and care for him. While Patricia’s husband has been fortunate to find new work, his current income is about one-third of what he was previously earning. He is grateful for the health benefits, though, and thanks God that they have insurance to rely on. But, Patricia reflects, “The continuous amount of care that my son’s condition requires is hindering my ability to utilize my bachelor’s degree toward a career. I need to be there with him at the hospital to describe his symptoms, list his current medications, and advocate for him. The increased costs of his daily care - in addition to our decreased income - make this situation financially overwhelming for us.”

On December 12, 2012, The Day newspaper ran a short story about Patricia’s family as part of its “Make a Difference” series. Because

of the long-standing relationship between Catholic Charities and the New London community, The Day wanted to help in some meaningful way. Two weeks from the day the article was published, the community had come together to donate almost

$3,000 worth of gift cards for gas and groceries, as well as toys for the children. “Words of gratitude and appreciation are all that I can offer for the generosity brought forward. Your philanthropic acts enable our children to continue to participate in the time-honored tradition of believing. Because of your compassion, our children will know they have made Santa’s list. Thank you for providing an unforgettable Christmas morning surprise.” You too, have the opportunity to help families like these in need in

2013 by giving to the Catholic Charities Annual Fund Appeal. Your gift to the Annual Fund may help a single mother put a warm meal on the table, or bring warmth to a family’s heatless home. It may help a family avoid losing their home to foreclosure, or provide quality, compassionate counseling for our neighbors most in need of care. If you are interested in helping your neighbors in need, please send your donation to 331 Main Street, Norwich, CT 06360, or call Anna DeBiasi at 860.8898346 x285, or visit our website at www.ccfsn.org to donate online. Together we can continue to give faith, hope and love to our neighbors in need.

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September 27, 1941 - December 27, 2012

Essex - Reverend Paul J. Gaumond, 65, of Essex passed away at Middlesex Hospital in Middletown on December 29, 2012. Born in Norwich, on April 17, 1947 he was the beloved and devoted son of the late Francois & Blanche (Gauvin) Gaumond. Father Paul was educated at Norwich Free Academy and went on to study at St. Thomas Seminary in Bloomfield. He continued his undergraduate and post graduate studies at Christ the King Seminary, Saint Bonaventure University in East Aurora, NY. Father Paul was ordained on May 11, 1974, by Bishop Vincent J. Hines, then Bishop of Norwich in Saint Patrick Cathedral in Norwich. As a priest in the Norwich Diocese he served in many parishes and was Pastor of Our Lady of Grace Parish, Fishers Island, New York, Sacred Heart Parish in Wauregan, and Our Lady of Sorrows Parish in Essex from May 17, 2000 until the time of his death. Father Paul had also served as a Catholic Chaplain at Middlesex Hospital. Father Paul was famous for his wonderful laugh which brought smiles and uplifted spirits. He was an extraordinary priest whose greatness shone in the simple things he did and the love with which he did them. He treated all people with profound kindness and dignity. This faithful servant of God devoted his life to all people, and his greatest joy was bringing souls closer to God. He was a true imitator of Christ. He was a member of the Third Order of Mary and of the Fourth Degree of the Knights of Columbus. He was the Essex Fire Engine Company Chaplain and an EMT at several towns in which he ministered. Father Paul loved trains, the holidays, and growing up on his grandfather’s farm. He is survived by his sister Blanche M. Gaumond of Lisbon, and many adoring cousins, aunts and uncles, among countless others in the community; he will be sorely missed by all of his parishioners. The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, Bishop of Norwich presided at the Funeral Mass on Saturday, January 5, 2013. Burial was in the Sacred Heart Cemetery in Taftville. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to Our Lady of Sorrows Church Reverend Paul J. Gaumond Memorial Fund, 14 Prospect Street, Essex, CT 06426, or to Sacred Heart School, 15 Hunters Avenue, Taftville, CT 06380. To share a memory of Father Paul or send a condolence to his family please visit www.rwwfh.com.

Sr. Pearl Rita Veilleux, DHS, 82, a member of the Daughters of the Holy Spirit, died on December 25 at Holy Spirit Health Care Center, where she has been in residence since June, 2000. Born Pearl Rita Veilleux on August 15, 1930, the daughter of the late Simeon and Henedine (Gagné) Veilleux, she entered religious life in 1947 and made her religious profession on August 23, 1950 at the Motherhouse in St. Brieuc, France. She was then known as Sr. Simone de la Croix. Sr. Rita received her B.A. degree from Diocesan Sisters’ College, South Woodstock in 1969. She taught most of her religious life in parish schools in CT and MA and from 1974 to 1995 she was involved in Pastoral Ministry at St. Mary’s Hospital, Waterbury and later at St. Mary’s Home in Hartford. Due to failing health she retired to the Provincial House in Putnam in 2000. Survivors include one brother, Hervey Veilleux of Vernon and several nieces and nephews, grandnieces and grandnephews. Funeral Mass was celebrated on Friday, December 28 at the Holy Spirit Provincial House Chapel in Putnam. The celebrant was Rev. Richard Archambault, Chaplain. The eulogy was given by Sr. Bonnie Morrow, DHS. Burial followed at St. Mary Cemetery in Putnam.

Mystic - Peter Harold Danesi III, 71, of Mystic, passed away in the early hours of Dec. 17, 2012, at Yale-New Haven Hospital. Peter spent his entire life in the Mystic area and had been the owner of Grossman’s Seafood of Mystic and Groton since 1968, where he spent many years working beside his wife, daughters, and sons-in-law. Peter was ordained a permanent deacon of the Roman Catholic Church in 1981. He faithfully served the communities of St. Patrick Church of Mystic and St. Mary Mother of the Redeemer Church in Groton. He was also an active deacon at St. Maximilian Kolbe Church in Port Charlotte, Fla. He leaves a legacy of loving ministry to the nursing homes and shut-ins of Mystic/Groton and Florida. Born Sept. 27, 1941, in New London, to Peter H. Danesi Jr. and Harriet Meuse. He is survived by Melissa Holby Danesi, his wife of 46 years; their daughters, Jennifer Mizzell of Mystic, Amy Coleman of Stonington, and Stephany Moeller of Owl’s Head, Maine; as well as six grandchildren. He is also survived by his sisters, Marie O’Leary of Westerly and Peggy Philpot of Mystic; and many cousins, nieces, and nephews. He was predeceased by their son, Peter H. Danesi IV.

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August 6, 1953, was the official beginning of the Diocese of Norwich established by decree of the Holy Father By Michael Strammiello

Pope Pius XII. The Province of Hartford on that date was separated into three Connecticut dioceses: The Archdiocese of Hartford retaining the central and northern counties of Connecticut; the new Bridgeport Diocese primarily the Southwestern counties; and the new Diocese of Norwich covering Tolland, Windham, Middlesex, and New London Counties to be joined by Fishers Is-

Cover of the original program commemorating the Installation of Most Reverend Bernard J. Flanagan, First Bishop of Norwich. The program recalled the Consecration of Bishop Flanagan, November 30, 1953 in Burlington, Vermont, the Bishop’s arrival in the new Diocese of Norwich, December 8, 1953, and the Bishop’s Installation as Bishop of Norwich, December 9, 1953.

land, in the Township of Southhold, Suffolk County, New York. Outside of Connecticut, the Diocese of Providence, completed the Ecclesiastical Province of Hartford. It was a time of vigorous growth for the Catholic population in New England. The new diocesan structure would allow for closer dayto-day attention to the spiritual care of the faithful by providing three bishops to shepherd three respective dioceses in the State. Of the three dioceses, Norwich was and remains the most rural in makeup, with Middletown, Norwich, New London and Groton its largest cities. Its geography is vast, stretching from the northeast quiet corner through the Middlesex Valley to Long Island Sound. At the outset in 1953, there were 53

His Excellency the Most Reverend Bernard J. Flanagan, D.D., First Bishop of Norwich, holding his crosier, the symbol of episcopal authority, originating from the custom of shepherds tending their flocks. Bishop Flanagan’s crosier was adorned with a cross and stacks of wheat and grapes representing the Blessed Eucharist. It also was decorated with roses, a reminder of Mary, the Mystical Rose symbolic of the Bishop’s episcopal motto, “Look up to Mary.” where the Bishop could have his permanent episcopal throne. Just prior to its recognition as a cathedral, it had been renovated for the first time since 1908. Included among the updates parishes within the diocese with approximately 120,000 Roman Catholics. Those numbers have grown, over 60 years, to 77 parishes serving a collective 220,000 parishioners. A bright young Chancellor from the Diocese of Burlington, Vermont, the Most Reverend Bernard J. Flanagan, D.D. was chosen to be the first Bishop of Norwich. Consecrated in Vermont as Bishop, November 30, 1953, Bishop Flanagan was installed 10 days later, December 9, as Bishop of Norwich. On a day recorded as unseasonably mild, the historic installation ceremony took place at the newly designated Cathedral of St. Patrick on Broadway in Norwich. St. Patrick was a perfect selection as the see cathedral, given its preeminence in size and architectural stature, and its location in the see city

se of Dioce 1953-2 were an upgraded heating system, interior painting, rebuilding of the choir loft and the placement of English Gothic-style screens on both sides of the tabernacle with rose and grapevine carvings. The rose represented Mary, the Mystical Rose as well as Norwich as the Rose of New England; while the grapevine is, of course, one of the traditional symbols of the Blessed Sacrament. It was a magnificent setting. A glorious beginning for the new Diocese of Norwich. Presiding at the installation ceremonies, Archbishop Henry J. O’Brien, Metropolitan of the Province of Hart-

rates 60th Anniversary Year ys of Building a New Diocese The familiar diocesan shield has a bright green field with trefoils or shamrocks representing St. Patrick, Patron Saint of the Diocese. Also prominent is the tower of a castle, the ancient welcoming symbol of a village. Above the tower is a distinct star in honor of our Lady, “The Star of the Sea.” ford, described the diocese as “A new household of faith.” He further spoke of “the beginning of a new era.” There was so much anticipation. Much of the promise and joy can be attributed to the instant connection Bishop Flanagan made with t h e

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crowds that gathered that day and with each person he met during those early days and months. The Bishop’s episcopal motto was “Respice ad Mariam” – Look up to Mary. From his first day in the diocese, he invoked her help and intercession for the needs of the faithful “to keep us all ever close to her Immaculate Heart by our loyalty and devotion to the will of God.” Bishop Flanagan would provide his

wisdom and devotion to the needs of the new diocese for six years, a substantial period of formation that has stood up well for his successors and all of us who serve and worship in the Diocese of Norwich. The 1950’s were a time of growth and outreach in every respect. New parishes were forming, among them St. Peter in Higganum, Sacred Heart in Vernon, St. Maurice in Bolton and St. Pius X in Middletown. Holy Apostles Seminary in Cromwell opened its doors for the first time in 1957. Catholic secondary education was fast developing as St. Bernard School for Girls opened in New London in 1956; followed by St.

Bernard for Boys – to later become St. Bernard School. St. Joseph Home for the Aged was founded in 1959 in Willimantic by the Sisters of Baltic, and still faithfully serves its surrounding communities. It was a time of new beginnings on so many fronts. So many vi-

Our Lady of Grace Church, circa 1955, the only Church in the new Diocese that was outside the State of Connecticut. Remains so today. Also, early photo of St. Bernard Church in Rockville, Tolland County. Diocese also covers Windham, Middlesex and New London Counties in Connecticut.

1956 class in session at original St. Bernard School for Girls in New London. St. Bernard School for Boys would follow shortly afterwards, and St. Bernard School would soon evolve into the co-educational “school on the hill” in Uncasville, one of the Diocese’s and the State’s most outstanding high schools. sionaries and builders worked tirelessly to build a vital community of faith – the Diocese of Norwich – 60 years ago this year.

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The Next Best Step Staying in sync with the present is not always easy. Moving beyond it into the ‘unknown zones” of life By Mary Tunison

can occur on a regular basis. We humans tend to worry about or divert to thoughts of what may or may not happen before-the-fact. You know what I mean. We are suddenly faced with “a situation” or something threatens our comfort zone, forces us to face something unpleasant or demands a change that alters life as we know it – a move or relocation, a diagnosis of cancer, a soured relationship, a divorce, the death of a loved one, a natural disaster, the consequences of a wrong choice, a failed effort, loss of a job. Our minds immediately spring into survival mode, devising plans and strategies to avert, avoid or amend the issue before any real consequences of its reality even materialize. Defense mechanisms jump to the forefront prompting us to take the reins before our neatly packaged lives get too much out of control. Have you ever noticed that it is during the upheavals of life when our minds tend to focus on the past or the future – not the present? Of course, some situations are very concrete realities that require immediate attention -- such as the child who breaks a leg. However, some circumstances are more ambiguous and require more trust than immediate action. There are about as many dynamics in dealing with life’s experiences as there are issues themselves. The skill is in knowing how to handle each one appropriately with faith and wisdom. Take, for example, the uncertainty of a tenuous job situation. There’s been an announcement that the program in which you work may end in six months due to lack of funding or there are rumors of layoffs. Suddenly, fears of unemployment lines and of not

finding work rocket to the surface of your mind. While it is normal to be concerned and prudent to prepare and expand your options “just in case,” I believe maintaining a sense of peace and doing “the next best thing” moment by moment will lead to wherever God desires you to be. They say that

most of the things we worry about never happen. And the things that do happen are either meant to happen or permitted by God for our good and His purposes. So, there’s no point in wasting precious time or needless energy on what might be when we should be enjoying what is. As a poignant sign in the movie, Gone with the Wind, admonishes, “Time is the stuff life is made of. Don’t squander it.” Recently, I was listening to a lecture. The speaker really brought home the fact that God is the great “I Am.” God, when describing himself to Moses did not say, I was or I will be. God, who is forever in the present said, I Am Who Am! As Jesus said, “Do not worry about tomorrow. It will take care of itself. The day has enough troubles of its own!” And that is so true! I have come to realize that one of the best things I can do, when faced with challenges, is simply to ask God, “What is the next best step that I should take?” Then trust and wait. Recently, I did just that. Earlier this year, I had made a decision that involved a lot of risk and change. While the decision at the time seemed right and promising, it turned out very wrong. Suffice

to say, there I was -- far from familiar friends and relationships as well as the kind of social and spiritual elements that nurture a happy and healthy well-being. What to do? As I sat in Church one day, in desperation and perplexity, I simply turned my heart to the Lord and said, “You and I both know this is not a good situation for me. You know my needs and longings for a vibrant faith community. What is the next best step?” The next day, I got in the car and headed for work. The radio reception is not good in most areas travelled, so I usually don’t turn on my favorite Christian station while driving. However, I snapped it on that day anyway. The announcer came in loud and clear, “Are you looking for something more? Are you in need of some good Christian fellowship?” He then proceeded to invite listeners to explore an events calendar on their web site. I checked it out and found all kinds of promising resources. I had to laugh to myself. God has a good sense of humor! He moves quickly and very directly at times! Once again, I found God in an ordinary yet sacred experience. He was looking out for me, assuring me that He does provide. Always pray for the next best step. The Lord will sometimes reveal it quickly or sometimes lead us to it gradually – from one moment into the next. If we let go and go with His flow, we will find our lives unfolding more and more perfectly in tune with God’s purpose for our lives. May this New Year find each of us taking each new step with God – at His pace and in His peace. Happy New Year! Mary Tunison works for Catholic Charities, Archdiocese of Hartford, and is a freelance writer, photographer, artist, and graphic designer. She can be contacted at tunison_ mary@yahoo.com.

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him to suffer “irreparable harm.” “It is in the best interest of the public that Monaghan not be compelled to act in conflict with his religious beliefs,” the judge ruled in granting the injunction shortly before the end of the year. Other employers scored lastminute victories as well, including a Mennonite-owned wood manufacturing company in Pennsylvania and a dairy farming corporation in Missouri. So far, 10 for-profit employers have received injunctions from the mandate, while three have been denied them. Those employers that were not granted injunctions can still argue their cases in court, but they may be subject to fines for violating the mandate during this process. Grote Industries, an Indianabased vehicle lighting manufacturer, is one of the companies that was denied its request for an injunction. However, attorney Matt Bowman said that the legal team representing the company “has asked the judge to reconsider her

recent decision.” He explained to CNA that the appeals court in the judge’s circuit “granted an injunction to another business the day after she denied Grote Industries’ request.” Hobby Lobby, the familyowned arts and crafts retailer, was also denied an injunction by both a district and appeals court. Supreme Court Justice Sonia Sotomayor turned down the company’s emergency injunction appeal on Dec. 26, removing hope of immediate relief from the high court. However, Kyle Duncan, an attorney representing Hobby Lobby in its case, said that the company plans to continue providing health insurance to its employees without paying for the drugs that it finds morally objectionable. To continue following their Christian beliefs, the company’s owners now risk fines of $1.3 million per day. Ferguson said that the commitment shown by Hobby Lobby

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“What Charity Means to Me” Essay Winners During this The Year of Faith we celebrate the 60th Jubilee of the Diocese of Norwich and The tenth anniversary of Bishop Michael R. Cote as Bishop of the Diocese of Norwich. Bishop Cote’s motto “Above All Charity” was the underpinning of an essay contest among the sixth grade students. Each student wrote an essay entitled “What charity means to me”. The winning essay from each school is submitted for publication in the Four County Catholic. The following winners from St. Joseph School in Baltic and Sacred Heart School in Groton share their reflections.

Focusing on the Little Things William Forrest, Grade 6 St. Joseph School, Baltic Charity means a lot of different things, but to me charity does not always have to be helping the whole world; it could just be helping one person. Like Mother Teresa says, “If you can’t feed a hundred, then just feed one.” An example of being charitable would be if someone is very poor, sick, and dying of starvation you could be helping that person get better. You could give them a home, food, and love. On the other hand, charity does not always have to be giving to the poor. If someone in your class, sports team, or co -worker is left out or having a bad day and someone comes and talks with them, helps them with their work, and cheers them up, this is being charitable. You may not be aware of it, but charitable acts are everywhere. Every single day your parents are being charitable and you may not know or appreciate it. They feed you, take time to say good night to you and make sure you get to school safely. They also help you with your homework when they have their own responsibilities to tend to. Also,

teachers take away from their own time in order to help you learn so you will grow up to be a respectable adult. Priests are also charitable. You may not know it, but these people will always help you when you need it. The priest offers Mass every day for you, helps you with any problems you have , and gives you all the sacraments. My priest is so charitable that he will drop anything that he is doing for you just so you can ask him a question. Charity is the greatest of all the virtues and the foundation of the whole world. Without charity and love, our parents and teachers would not want to take the time to share what they know with us. If they did not teach us then how would we teach our kids? Then the whole world would not know anything. Nobody would know any trades or how to survive and there would be no love. That is why we should give to the poor, help anyone that needs help, and spend time with someone who is lonely because we would not be here if it were not for charity. So after you read this essay, take some time to thank God for this virtue and

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The Meaning of Charity Grace Murphy, Grade 6 Sacred Heart School, Groton Charity can have many different meanings to many different people, but in my opinion, charity is a way of making you feel good about yourself. It helps you show people that you really do care about them. Through charity, you give others an opportunity to realize that if you can reach out to the world, they can as well. I hope that the following reasons will give you a better understanding of my definition of charity. First of all, I think that charity makes you feel good about yourself because you know that you helped someone else or even just made someone smile. I also think that when no one knows about your contribution you can always think about it yourself, and what matters most is that God always sees what others may not. When participating in charity makes you happy and confident about Essay Winners

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Say Yes to New Risks and New Graces in 2013 Barbara Benson Keith’s wakeup call came while chatting with a fellow kindergarten By Christina Capecchi Four County Catholic Contributor

teacher at the end of a school day. Her colleague said, “‘I hope in 10 years I’m right here in this classroom doing the same thing,’” Barbara recalled. “And inside I was like, ‘Ack! No!’ That didn’t appeal to me at all.” In the spring of 2000, after 12 years of teaching, Barbara took a leave. She was ready to end the persistent stream of sickness teaching had triggered and embark on her next adventure. “I thought, ‘You can be safe or you can take risks and live your life.’ “ Barbara traveled to Pompeii, Italy, taking in colossal mosaics that left her slack-jawed. Back home, she immediately set to creating a mosaic, digging out leftover chunks from a community ed stained-glass class she’d taken nearly a decade ago. She worked on a card table wedged beside the basement furnace, as she pieced together a 51” by 51” rendering of Queen Gertrude, Hamlet’s mother. The mosaic took four months and 4,800 pieces of hand-cut glass and won second place in the Minnesota State Fair, landing Barbara the first of dozens of public art commissions that have kept pouring in, providing fulltime work since 2007.

She and her husband, Pete, moved to the country and built a home, starting with a large work table for her mosaics. Now the self-taught artist has her own studio, with a mirror on the ceiling and a rescue dog at her feet. She tends to chickens, taps maples for syrup and studies roving shad-

ows. With her black hair, youthful face and bright smile, the petite 46-year-old looks stress free. “When I was teaching, there was always noise,” Barbara told me. “Now it’s quiet, and I’m healthy, and I don’t have to set my alarm in the morning. You finish a piece and you say, ‘Wow, I made that!’” Barbara’s journey from the classroom to the country inspires me, especially as we unroll a promising new year. It is a chance to more fully become the people God designed, to discover and perform the work He set out for us, drawing on the unique set of skills and talents no one else possesses. That may call for a career change, an address change or an attitude change. Maybe the key will be to start praying or to resume praying, to pray earlier or later, alone or in communion, with your own words, with ancient words or with no words at all. It could be time to take a long,

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Can You Believe It! Mercy High School Dedicates Catherine McAuley Statue an ad featuring local sculptress, Helene Johnson. Ms. Johnson’s work and style appealed to Sr. Mary, so she filed away the information with the hope that someday she would have reason to

Above: Bishop Cote leads the dedication and blessing of the statue. Right: Sister Mary with Mallory Perry and Jennifer Carta. Photos submitted by Marie Leary She held the dream for many years—a special way to honor the founderess of the Sisters of Mercy. Submitted by Marie Leary

Sr. Mary McCarthy, RSM, current President of Mercy High School and past Principal for 34 years, held tight to her dream of honoring the work and mission of Catherine McAuley, by having a commissioned statue of Catherine on display at Mercy. In 2005 when architectural plans were under development for a new gymnasium and entrance, Sr.

Mary asked that the plan incorporate a niche, with the hope that one day a lifesized statue of Catherine would be placed there. Two years later, the new Mercy Tiger Gymnasium opened and the niche was there, but empty. At about the same time, Marilyn Skoge, Associate Director of Development, showed Sr. Mary

contact the artist. Just a few miles from Mercy, Dr. Pat and Mr. Carl Carta were raising their five children: Kelly ‘05, Meghan ‘07, Laura ‘08, Jennifer ‘10 and Michael, Xavier ‘13. Carl, a member of the Mercy

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Mary’s dream to fruition. In a typical Sr. Mary “Can you believe it!” moment, everything started to fall into place…the niche was ready and waiting and Marjorie McDonough’s generous donation would fund the planning and sculpting of the statue. Sr. Mary retrieved that long ago filed information on the local sculptress as finally it was time to contact Ms. Johnson. The two women hit if off the first time they met. As Sr. Mary said on the day of dedication, “The rest is history”. After many years of waiting, the dream of the statue was moving toward reality. For her inspiration to express the essence of Catherine McAuley, Ms. Johnson read books on Catherine, attended a program at Mercy highlighting Catherine’s life, and listened intently to verbal descriptions of the beloved woman. As there are no known photographs of Catherine, Helene interpreted Catherine based on her research. She felt it important to express Catherine’s kindness, compassion and intelligence. Alongside the statue of Catherine, Ms. Johnson planned for two Mercy students to stand at her side. The models for these statues were Jennifer Carta ‘10, the donor’s great niece, and Mallory Perry ‘10. The statues of the students were not intended to be a direct likeness, but rather representative of a contemporary “Mercy girl”. The artist’s vision was to create a sculptural story— Catherine imparting a message of wisdom to the girls. The message of wisdom would bridge the past to present and will endure into the future. It is a message of both love and compassion for one’s fellow beings, and that through God, with a humble and open heart, all things are indeed possible. On a beautiful day this past August, the completed statue of Catherine McCauley arrived and was installed in her new home on Randolph Road. After allowing the summer staff an advance peek,

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the statue was covered. At the facultyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s opening day of the 2012â&#x20AC;&#x201C;13 school year, the statue was again uncovered, allowing faculty time to visit and appreciate the details of the statue, such as the pleats on the veil so carefully arranged on the studio mannequin by Sr. Peggy Oâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;Neill, RSM, the rosary beads around her waist and Catherineâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s angelic eyes. While some faculty members were speechless, others couldnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t stop remarking about the high quality of the likeness before them. At the end of the day, it was time for Catherine to be draped again until the grand unveiling on dedication day. Dedication dayâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;September 18, 2012â&#x20AC;&#x201D;the day of the Celebration and Blessing of Mercyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Catherine McAuley Statue. To a â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;standing room onlyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; audience in the auditorium, Sr. Mary welcomed everyone to this very special day at Mercy High School. The program included songs lead by students and current and retired faculty, a dramatization, â&#x20AC;&#x153;From Ireland to Americaâ&#x20AC;?, in which Michelle Manzione â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;14 played the part of Sr. Catherine McAuley and Savannah Gi-

Photo of Marjorie McDonough with the statue. ammarco â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;15 was Sr. Frances Warde, and Irish step dances performed by Ciara Hickey â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;15 and Jill Stifano â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;15. Sr. Corinne Raven, RSM, Director of the Network for Mercy Education recognized the women and men who have served for over 25 years in Mercy education. Each honoree was presented with a medal, blessed by Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D. Bishop of Norwich, which was inscribed with â&#x20AC;&#x153;Mercy Since 1827â&#x20AC;?,

the year of the opening of the House of Mercy on Baggot Street in Dublin, Ireland, and â&#x20AC;&#x153;Who will tell the storyâ&#x20AC;?. Sr. Corinne noted that, â&#x20AC;&#x153;By his or her life, each recipient has told the story of Mercy in Service.â&#x20AC;? After 17 faculty and administration received their medals, it was time to view and dedicate the statue of Catherine. With much anticipation and excitement, everyone walked to the gymnasium entrance. While the Classes of 2014, 2015, and 2016 gathered outside and in the gymnasium, the Class of 2013, faculty, and honored guests closely gathered around the once empty niche. The McAuley Chorus invited all to join in the Song of Dedication, We Are Standing on the Shoulders. After a few remarks, Bishop Cote blessed and dedicated the beautiful statue of the first Woman of Mercy. In closing, the Circle of Mercy was sungâ&#x20AC;Ś â&#x20AC;&#x153;For the circle of Mercy is timeless; it is spirit of life itself. Which roots us in Faith, and lifts us in Hope, and holds us in Godâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s loving care.â&#x20AC;? At the dedication of her longheld dream of a statue of Catherine McAuley gracing Mercy High

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Did You Know? January 6 Feast of the Epiphany or Three Kings Day when we recall the wise men who followed the star to Jesus. National Get Organized Month. Spend a weekend as a family getting your home and bedroom organized! And organize your homework area.

January 21 MLK Day. Pray for peace and be kind to everyone as an act of peace.

Jesus is Baptized On January 13th, the church celebrates the day Jesus was baptized. You can celebrate this at home anytime in January and also celebrate everyone’s baptism. For Jesus, the sky opened and the Holy Spirit flew down in the shape of a dove and rested on Jesus’ head. Go the Father spoke and said, “You are my beloved Son; with you I am well pleased.” What a wonderful day! Jesus walked into the river to be cleansed. The water in baptism is a reminder that God forgives our sins. Drink water as a reminder God cleans you on the inside. In the Ukraine people display a cross that is made of ice. See if you can use ice cubes to form a cross. Dip the end of the cube in water so you can stick it to another ice cube. Here are some other ideas to celebrate baptism: • Serve cake or cupcakes with white frosting as a sign of the purity of Jesus. • To remember the dove make paper dove decorations. You can trace your hand on white paper in the shape of a dove (spread fingers a little for feathers and spread thumb way out for the dove’s head). • Fill 5-6 glasses (made of glass) with various amounts of water, from a little to almost full. Use these as water chimes. Tap the glasses with a pencil to make the sounds. Try to play a tune like Jesus loves me. • John the Baptist called Jesus the Lamb of God. Play a game to remember sheep. Use cotton balls and play toss into a container to see who can get the sheep’s wool into the container. • Make a baptism tree. Decorate a tree branch with symbols of baptism: white cotton balls, paper doves, blue drops of water, cloud for the sky that opened up, and photos of everyone’s baptism. • Play games with ice cubes such as ice races (how far you can flick the ice across a floor—but remember to clean up the water after the game) or building creations ice cubes.

Peace Puzzle January 21st is Martin Luther King Day. He prayed for unity and peace. The dove is considered a symbol of peace and the Holy Spirit. Find words related to peace in the word search. You will discover another name for the Holy Spirit (between the two lines) that means comforter or advocate (someone who supports you and argues for you in legal cases).

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Digital Pearls of Wisdom VATICAN CITY--After weeks of anticipation bordering on media frenzy, Pope Benedict solemnly touched the screen lightly himself and off went the first papal tweet. “Dear friends, I am pleased to get in touch with you through Twitter. Thank you for your generous response. I bless all of you from my heart,” he said in his introduction to the brave new world of Twitter. The tweet was sent December 12, 2012 at the end of weekly general audience in the Vatican before thousands of people. The pope actually has eight linked Twitter accounts. @Pontifex, the main account, is in English. The other seven have a suffix at the end for the different language versions. For example, the German version is @Pontifex_de, and the Arabic version is @Pontifex_ar. The tweets will be going out in Spanish, English, Italian, Portuguese, German, Polish, Arabic

and French. Other languages will be added in the future. The pope already had just over a million followers in all of the languages combined minutes before he sent his first tweet and the number has grown to two million. The contents of future tweets will come primarily from the contents of his weekly general audience, Sunday blessings and homilies on major Church holidays. They are also expected to include reaction to major world events, such as natural disasters. The Vatican says papal tweets will be little “pearls of wisdom”, which is understandable since his thoughts will have to be condensed to 140 characters, while papal documents often top 140 pages. The Vatican said precautions had been taken to make sure the pope’s certified account is not hacked. Only one computer in the Vatican’s secretariat of state will be used for the tweets. After the first tweet, Benedict

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