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The Most Reverend

Michael R. Cote, D.D.

Bishop of Norwich

Newtown, Forever With Us My Dear Brothers and Sisters in Christ: It has been two months, almost to the day, since the horrific tragedy at Sandy Hook School. The grief and heartache remain painfully with us. We have become one family united in prayer trying to find our first steps toward the light in the darkness that evil cast upon us that day. This is the darkness that Christ came into this world to dispel. We will find comfort in His presence. For it is in God we trust to bring light to the darkness and bring healing and hope. Searching for answers may never yield more than acceptance that we live in a world where some people choose to do evil. And some are possessed by it. In this same world, choosing good becomes the best answer we have to overcoming evil acts. Good people have been working very hard these past weeks to find ways to help protect and save lives in the future. The United States Bishops have been among the most outspoken supporters of tightening regulations of firearms, condemning violent products from the world of

entertainment and promoting more accessible mental health care. We strongly agree with the legislative initiatives of the President’s gun violence task force to advance these safeguards. We believe these new laws and executive actions will help. Unfortunately, it is the lawless who commit atrocities. Legislative answers, especially with the current divisive climate in Washington, can quickly become highly political. The politics of gun control has stirred massive conservative/liberal partisan debate, at least partially eclipsing the original intent of protecting lives. Legislation, while helpful, has its limitations and distractions. In practical terms, legislative action can do just so much. It is far from a complete answer. We cannot rely on laws on the books as the entire answer to protecting ourselves and our children against the violent, senseless acts of depraved evil doers. There is much more we can do as individuals. There is much we can do to contribute to a cultural turnaround in this Country. Once we recognize the power of con-

fronting violence with love, we can begin to make a difference. We must become much more vigilant and proactive regarding the violence to which our young people are exposed. This would mean not purchasing a violent video game requested by a nephew or grandson. Or by your own child. Today, too many of us have had a casual attitude about such everyday shopping decisions. It is clearly not a casual issue. We recognize now that these various forms of violent alternative realities can be very destructive. And it extends to on-demand movies and internet streamed violent content that is so prolific. We must stop being a party to unwittingly distributing these dangerous materials. Beyond the purchasing of video games and the like, we must also develop a much keener watch over what our young people are viewing on their computer devices. As I said in my previous column, this Year of Faith is a prime opportunity for each of us to become more active disciples of Jesus Christ. In today’s culture, that would include watchfully protecting against the

proliferation of violence. For good to prevail over the encroachment of violence and death in our culture, we must stand on the side of life and love. We must have the courage to build an ever more secure culture of life. It takes courage to avoid denial and to confront a parent or guardian of a young person who may be showing signs of mental instability. We can make a critical life-saving difference by encouraging his or her guardian to help them receive mental health attention. So often we know who the troubled people are in the family, and we remain silent. Break the silence and save a life. This is no time to be passive. Let faith empower you. Prevention is the best form of protection. In our own diocesan school system, we have been reviewing our established emergency preparedness plan as well as checking, on a per school basis, with the Connecticut State Police or local police departments to assess the effectiveness of our emergency procedures. Further, the Superintendent of Diocesan Schools has been in discussion with the respective school

principals to be ever alert to suspect behavior in the classroom. The same vigilance we must adopt in our daily lives will be expected of every teacher and staff member across the system. Early intervention at the first sign of possible mental illness is the best course of action. We are also closely watching Governor Molloy’s Sandy Hook Advisory Commission and local community task forces for findings that will help all school systems improve their preparedness. Everyone among us in our community of faith has a more watchful role to assume in a world now changed forever by the devastatingly sad events so nearby in Newtown. As we embark on the prayerful season of Lent, faith and diligence will lead the way to a more safe and secure world. Our love goes out to our Newtown brothers and sisters. You are forever close. Forever in our prayers. Sincerely yours in Christ’s love,

Bishop Michael R. Cote

Newtown, Para Siempre Con Nosotros Queridos hermanos y Hermanas: Han pasado dos meses, casi a la fecha, desde la horrenda tragedia en la Escuela Sandy Hook. El dolor y la aflicción dolorosamente permanecen con nosotros. Nos hemos convertido en una familia unidos en la oración tratando de encontrar nuestros primeros pasos hacia la luz en la oscuridad que el mal arrojó sobre nosotros ese día. Esta es la oscuridad que Cristo vino a disipar en este mundo. Encontraremos consuelo en Su pres-

encia. Confiamos que Dios trae luz a la oscuridad y trae sanación y esperanza. Vivimos en la esperanza, a medida que rezamos en solidaridad con cada miembro de familia y amigo quienes sufrieron la pérdida de un valioso ser querido. La búsqueda de respuestas nunca podrá compensar más que aceptar que vivimos en un mundo donde algunas personas optan por hacer el mal. Y algunos están poseídos por él. En este mismo mundo, elegir el bien se convierte en la

mejor respuesta que tenemos para superar las malas acciones. Gente buena ha estado trabajando arduamente en estas últimas semanas para encontrar maneras de ayudar a salvar vidas en el futuro. Los Obispos de los Estados Unidos han estado entre los partidarios más persistentes presionando las reglamentaciones de armas de fuego, condenando los productos violentos del mundo del entretenimiento y promoviendo atención de salud mental más ac-

cesible. Estamos totalmente de acuerdo con las iniciativas legislativas de violencia armada de las fuerzas especiales del Presidente para avanzar estas medidas de seguridad. Creemos que estas nuevas leyes y acciones ejecutivas ayudarán. Por desgracia son los sin ley quienes cometen atrocidades. Una frustración adicional es que escribir reglamentaciones, especialmente con el actual clima divisivo en Washington, se convierte rápidamente altamente político. El

Congreso comenzó enfocándose en la seguridad infantil. En poco tiempo, la política del control de armas ha despertado masivos debates partidistas conservador/liberal, ocultando al menos parcialmente la intención original de proteger a los niños. La legislación tiene sus limitaciones y distracciones. En términos prácticos, la acción legislativa puede hacer mucho. Está muy lejos de una reNewtown, Para Siempre Con Nosotros Continued on page 4

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Newtown, Para Siempre Con Nosotros Continued from page 3 spuesta completa. En realidad, hacer la mayor diferencia recae sobre nosotros, el pueblo. No podemos depender en las leyes de los libros como la respuesta completa para protegernos a nosotros mismos y a nuestros niños en contra de actos insensibles y violentos de malhechores. Hay mucho más que podemos hacer como individuos. Hay mucho que podemos hacer para contribuir a un cambio cultural en este País. Una vez que reconozcamos el poder de enfrentar la violencia con el amor, podemos empezar a hacer una diferencia.

Debemos llegar a ser mucho más vigilantes y proactivos en relación con la violencia a la que nuestros jóvenes están expuestos. Esto significaría no comprar un juego de video violento solicitado por un sobrino o nieto. O por su propio hijo. Hoy en día, muchos de nosotros tenemos una actitud indiferente acerca de tales decisiones de compra cotidiana. No es un tema indiferente. Ahora, reconocemos que estas diversas formas de alternativas electrónicas violentas pueden ser muy destructivas. Y se extiende a películas en demanda y conexión a internet de

Clergy Appointments The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, has made the following clergy and diocesan appointments in the Diocese of Norwich: Reverend Msgr. Henry N. Archambault, PA, 1 year renewal of appointment as Pastor, Sacred Heart Parish, Taftville. Effective: January 22, 2013. Very Reverend Leszek T. Janik, J.C.L., V.G., Pastor, Saint Joseph Parish, Norwich, while continuing as Pastor, Saints Peter & Paul Parish, Norwich. Effective: February 15, 2013. Reverend Arul Rajan Peter, from Administrator, Saint John Parish, Plainfield, and Saint Augustine Parish, Canterbury, to Pastor, Our Lady of Sorrows Parish, Essex. Effective: February 15, 2013. Reverend Tadeusz Zadorozny, from Administrator, Saint Joseph Parish, Norwich, to Administrator, Saint John Parish, Plainfield, and Saint Augustine Parish, Canterbury. Effective: February 15, 2013. Reverend Christopher Zmuda, Parochial Vicar, Saint Joseph Parish, Norwich, while continuing as Parochial Vicar, Saints Peter & Paul Parish, Norwich. Effective: February 15, 2013. ~ Monsignor Robert L. Brown, Chancellor ~

amplio contenido violento que es tan prolífico. Tenemos que dejar de ser un grupo que sin querer distribuye estos peligrosos materiales. Lo que permitimos, promovemos. Más allá de comprar juegos de videos, CDS y similares, también debemos desarrollar una vigilancia más aguda sobre lo que nuestros jóvenes están viendo en sus dispositivos informáticos. Como dije en mi columna anterior, el Año de la Fe es una oportunidad para que cada uno de nosotros sea discípulo más activo de Jesucristo. En la cultura actual, eso incluiría proteger vigilantemente en contra del crecimiento de la violencia. Para prevalecer el bien sobre el avance de violencia y de muerte en nuestra cultura, debemos estar en el lado de la vida y el amor. Debemos tener el coraje de construir para siempre una cultura de vida cada vez más segura. Se necesita valentía para enfrentar y evitar la negación de un padre o protector de un joven que parece ser inestable mentalmente.

Podemos hacer una diferencia decisiva salvando-vidas haciendo lo que se pueda para ayudar a ese joven, alentando a su protector a conseguirle la atención de salud mental. Muy a menudo sabemos quiénes son verdaderamente las personas con problemas en la familia, y permanecemos en silencio. Rompa el silencio y salve una vida. Este no es el momento de ser pasivo. Deje que la fe le dé fuerzas. La prevención es la mejor forma de protección. En nuestro propio sistema escolar diocesano, hemos estado revisando nuestro establecido plan de preparación de emergencias, como también verificando regularmente con la Policía Estatal de Connecticut para medir la efectividad de nuestra planificación. También, el Superintendente de Escuelas Diocesanas ha estado en conversaciones con los directores de las respectivas escuelas para estar siempre alerta a conducta inusual en el aula. Debemos adoptar en nuestra vida diaria la misma vigi-

lancia que se espera de cada maestro y miembro de personal en el sistema. La intervención temprana a la primera señal de una posible enfermedad mental es usualmente el mejor curso de acción para todos. Todos nosotros entre nuestra comunidad de fe tenemos que asumir un papel más vigilante en un mundo que ahora cambió para siempre por los acontecimientos devastadoramente tristes tan cerca en Newton. Al iniciar la temporada de oración de Cuaresma, la fe y la diligencia guiarán el camino hacia un mundo más seguro y protegido. Nuestro amor va a nuestros hermanos y hermanas de Newton. Ustedes están para siempre con nosotros. Para siempre en nuestras oraciones. Sinceramente, en el amor de Cristo. Obispo Michael R. Cote Translated by Paulina Angulo

The Light is ON for You Celebrate the Sacrament of Reconciliation All parishioners are invited to receive the Sacrament of Reconciliation during the season of Lent. Your church will be open one night a week, with the lights on and a priest available to hear confessions. Check with your church for night & hours. The peace of mind and soul which this sacrament imparts is one for which there is no substitute. Our sins are forgiven and we are reconciled to God, the Church and one another.

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Director of Priestly Vocations

Reverend Gregory Galvin

Seek and Step Closer to Christ February is here and Lent has arrived. As Vocation Director for the Diocese of Norwich, I was blessed early in the New Year to join over 6,300 college-age Catholic students, along with approximately 150 priests and several bishops who gathered in Orlando Florida for a five day conference called SEEK. Fifty students from UCONN traveled by bus on a 26 hour ride, to attend SEEK. It was an opportunity for those who desire to know Christ better to SEEK Him during these days of prayer and faith-building. Each day began with Holy Mass. For many, the most powerful night was when the students had the opportunity to participate prayerfully with each other adoring the Lord in three hours of Eucharistic worship and also had the opportunity to receive the sacrament of reconciliation. Simply an amazing experience for all. On January 24th, I headed to Washington D.C. for the 40th Anniversary of the “March for Life”. We all remember the many and most recent tragedies of violence that have taken innocent human victims. In response to the most recent occurrence, our 41st President said, “We can’t tolerate this anymore, these tragedies must end, and to end them we must change.” Well if we truly want violence toward innocent lives to stop in our society, then we must first protect those living in the womb who are not only innocent but also the most defenseless. Protect the unborn from the violence of abortion by overturning Roe vs Wade. Our seminarians all have returned after Christmas break to their respective seminaries for the second semester. We have three seminarians who are preparing for possible ordinations this year. Deacon Brian Maxwell is preparing for priestly ordination hopefully this spring or summer, and both Martin Noe and Jonathan Ficara are preparing for ordination as transitional deacons. Martin will hopefully be called to orders this spring and Jonathan would be ordained next Fall following his continuing his studies in Rome. Both men would then, God willing, be called to

priestly ordination in the spring or summer of 2014 here in Norwich. Please also keep in your prayers those who have begun the application process for sponsorship by the diocese for studies to the priesthood. We have four men who now have the application and are working on it. Each of these men came forward during the last year or so and certainly are a result of the many prayers being offered around the diocese for vocations, Please keep praying for those considering God’s Will for them in their lives. Finally, the Lenten season is upon us. As we enter into this spiritual season we should remember a few things; first Lent is not about losing weight or quitting smoking. It is not about cutting out sweets or drinking less coffee. Lent is about spiritual renewal and strengthening. It is about stepping closer to Christ, inviting Him more deeply into our lives. Therefore we must work at casting aside whatever may be hindering us from being the best son or daughter of God we can be. We must work harder at wanting to wake up each morning we are blessed to live life again and want to say, “here I am Lord, I’ve come to do Your Will”. The best spiritual exercise that would allow one to more deeply allow Christ into their daily life is daily reception of the Holy Eucharist. For Lent this year decide to seek out the daily Eucharist. Make it a priority and also go to confession. Commit to praying the Stations of the Cross with your parish community during each Friday of Lent and then choose one other spiritual activity to assist you in building the relationship you have with the Lord. Maybe read and reflect on Holy Scripture, study the Catechism of the Catholic Church, learn to pray the rosary or read and reflect on different stories about the early saints of the church. Remember that Lent is not about what we do physically for ourselves, it is about our spiritual relationship with Christ, growing and strengthening that relationship that we may remain strong during the journey and focused on living not for this world but for the next.

Permanent Diaconate in the Diocese of Norwich Application forms for men, married or single, interested in serving the Church as permanent deacons are now available. The deadline for applications is February 28, 2013. For application materials, contact the Office of the Vicar for Clergy at 860-887-9294.

Holy Hour for Vocations The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, leads the Holy Hour:

February 21, 2013 • 4:00-5:00 p.m. Sacred Heart, Taftville March 21, 2013 • 7:00-8:00 p.m. Saint Patrick, East Hampton April 18, 2013 • 6:30-7:30 p.m. Saint Augustine, Canterbury May 24, 2013 • 7:00-8:00 p.m. Cathedral of St. Patrick, Norwich June 20, 2013 • 5:00-6:00 p.m. Saint Joseph, Willimantic July 18, 2013 • 5:00-6:00 p.m. Saint Patrick, Mystic August 22, 2013 • 7:00-8:00 p.m. Sacred Heart, Vernon September 19, 2013 • 4:00-5:00 p.m. Saint Mary, Clinton Father Greg Galvin, Director of Priestly Vocations vocations@norwichdiocese.net

October 17, 2013 • 7:00-8:00 p.m. Saint Mary, Baltic November 21, 2013 • 7:00-8:00 p.m. Saint Joseph, New London

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December 19, 2013 • 6:00-7:00 p.m. Saint Edward, Stafford Springs

We pray for our Seminarians.... Kurt O’Brien 2nd Year College Holy Apostles Seminary Cromwell, CT

Jeffrey Ellis 1st Year Theology Mt St Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Juan Palacio 1st Year English Studies Clark University Worcester, MA

Martin Noe 3rd Year Theology Holy Apostles Seminary Cromwell, CT

Jonathan Ficara 3rd Year Theology Pontiﬁcal North American College, Vatican City State

Ruben Sanchez 1st Year English Studies Clark University Worcester, MA

Brian Maxwell 4th Year Theology Blessed John XXIII National Seminary, Weston, MA

Peter Langevin 1st Year Theology Mt St Mary Seminary Emmitsburg, MD

Thomas Grifﬁn 1st Year Theology Blessed John XXIII National Seminary Weston, MA

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Saturday, February 2 Prayer Group Leaders and Core Members 10:00am – 3:00pm Spiritual Renewal Services Center, 11 Bath St., Norwich (rain date February 9th). Saturdays, February 2, 9, 16 Marriage Preparation Class for Engaged Couples God’s Plan for a Joy-filled Marriage offered by the Office of Family Life. For information or to register for the 4 session class please call 860-889-8346 ext.283. Time: 9:30am – 11:45am. Location: St. Joseph Church Hall, 11 Baltic Rd. Occum. Cost: $50.00 per couple. Monday, February 11 Prayer Group Mass of Healing & Hope 7:00pm at St. Mary Adoration Chapel, 218 Providence Street, Putnam.

Wednesday, February 20 Mass of Healing & Hope 7:00pm at St. John Church, 1986 Post Rd., Darien. Rev. Msgr. Frank McGrath, Pastor; Celebrant, Fr. Ray Introvigne; Healing Prayer, Mrs. Judith Hughes. Every Tuesday night at 7:00pm Prayer, Praise, Worship& Adoration Spiritual Renewal Services Center, 11 Bath St. Norwich. Leaders: Deacon James Delaney and Nancy Delaney. Friday-Sunday February, 22-24 Marriage Encounter Weekend The perfect weekend for couples to experience a richer and loving life together. Rediscover each other with a heart-to-heart Marriage Encounter. For the next weekend in Hamden call 860376-0440.

Be My Witness Calling Women of All Ages! 3rd Annual Catholic Women’s Conference of the Diocese of N or wich TWO GREAT SPEAKERS 9am Mass

Sister Carol Cimino KM M ott her Olga

Saturday, April 13, 2013 8:30 am – 3:30 pm Saint Bernard School 1593 Norwich -New London Tpke. Uncasville CT 06382

Friday-Sunday February 22-24 Rachel’s Vineyard Retreat Weekends If you are silently grieving after an abortion; healing, forgiveness and peace can have a beginning with Rachel’s Vineyard. Inquiries are confidential. Retreat Feb.22-24 in Hamden, CT call 203-631-9030. www.rachelsvineyard.org. Marriage Preparation Class for Engaged Couples “God’s Plan for a Joy-filled Marriage”. To register for a 4 session class call the Family Life Office at 860-889-8346 ext.283. February 22, March 1, 8, 15 from, 6:30-8:45pm at St. Francis Church, Middletown. March 2, 9, 16, 23, 2013 9:30am-11:45am at St. Matthew Church, Tolland.

Saturday, March 9 A Day with Mary The Franciscan Friars of the Immaculate will be conducting a “Day with Mary” at St. Peter’s in Higganum. “A Day with Mary” is a beautiful day of prayer and devotion. For more information, please call David Ethier at (401)568-0349.

Prayer Worship Lunch

Registration forms can be found online Adoration @ www.norwichdiocese.org/Ministries Office of Faith Events Confession 199 Broadway Norwic h Exhibitors (860) 848-2237 ext 312 Registration fee includes lunch: * $25 before March 27 Religious are Free * $30 after March 27 * $15 Student fee Also collecting canned good donation. *Those outside diocese add $5

Saturday, March 23 Discover What Mercy High School Is All About “Discover Mercy” is a Saturday morning program for fifth, sixth and seventh grade girls and their parents to get their

Friday, March 15 The Cathedral concert will start at 7; 30 pm and feature performances by Celticity and the Norwich Diocesan Choir. The event is free and open to the public. Donations will be accepted at the door. Further information may be obtained by calling the Cathedral Music Office at 860-886-0403.

Saturday-Sunday, March 16-17 Unstoppable, High School Youth Saint Patrick’s Day Retreat Designed to support youth as leaders in their parish. Maximum 7 teens + 1 chaperone per parish. The overnight retreat is $60.00 per person or optional

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Friday night for juniors and seniors, add $15.00. Retreat is in Putnam at the Immaculate Conception Spiritual Renewal Center. Registration under Ministries at www.norwichdiocese.org Office of Faith Events (860) 848-2237 ext 312.

Celtic Concert

Tuesday, March 5 Mass for the Community of Newtown 12:10pm at St. Patrick Cathedral, Norwich. Wednesday- Thursday, March 6 - 7 Lenten Mission Rev. Fr. David Cinquegrani and Dr. Brandon Nappi of the Holy Family Passionist Retreat Center, in West Hartford, will be leading the 2013 Lenten Mission at St. John Church, Cromwell, from 7:00-8:30pm. The theme of the mission will be “Courage to Hope”. There will be refreshments

each night and one or both speakers will be available to meet and greet the audience. Admission is free.

The 9th Annual St. Andrew Church

Passion Play

will be presented Friday & Saturday, March 22 & 23 7:00 pm at St. Andrew Church 128 Norwich Ave, Colchester, CT The play is a musical performance of the life, death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. A cast of over 100. A 60-Voice Choir and a 40-Voice Children’s Choir. Tickets for the performance are free; however, offerings to help defray production cost will be gratefully excepted. Tickets are available in Colchester at Merciful Saviour, the Parish Office or by phoning Gary Dziatko at 860-295-8315. A limited number of tickets are available. No more than 10 tickets per person.

first look at Mercy by enjoying activities, student performances and informal conversations with Mercy students, parents, administrators and faculty. For more information and to register, visit www.mercyhigh.com or call Mercy High School at 860-3466659. Saturday, April 13 Diocese of Norwich 3rd Annual Conference for Catholic Women Calling women of all ages for a day of faith and worship: 9:00am Mass with Bishop Cote, two great speakers, live music, Adoration and Confession. Lunch included in fee. Early-bird $25.00 by March 27. Students $15.00 - add $5.00 late fee or out-of-diocese. Call (860) 848-2237 ext 312 Office of Faith Events or under Ministries @ www.norwichdiocese.org.

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Diocese Celebrates World Day For Consecrated Life Faithful God, consecrate me in Your truth, Through Your Word that I may serve You. Create in me a compassionate heart. To respond to the needs of Your people. Norwich â&#x20AC;&#x201C; A full Cathedral of St. Patrick celebrated the Annual Mass of Thanksgiving for Consecrated From the FCC News Desk

Life on Sunday, February 3, 2013. The Mass, dedicated to the theme, â&#x20AC;&#x153;The New Evangelization in the Year of Faith,â&#x20AC;? honored the diocesan Religious Sisters and Brothers, Secular Institutes, Societies of Apostolic Life, and new and renewed forms of Consecrated Life. The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich was the Principal Celebrant and homilist. Bishop Cote, speaking to the calling for all Catholics to more actively spread the Good news of the Gospel of Salvation, referenced the Affordable Care Actâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s HHS mandate - â&#x20AC;&#x153;We must stand up and speak out on behalf of our Catholic conscience as it applies to issues of social significance. Our secular society acts as if it can live without God. But men and woman of today are in desperate need of His message.â&#x20AC;? Bishop Cote also took a moment to call good-natured attention to the fact that â&#x20AC;&#x153;the Cathedral has turned into an obstacle course latelyâ&#x20AC;? with the massive scaffolding currently in place as restoration work progresses. Photographs of the event reflect these extraordinary conditions. Even with the work-in-progress distractions, the ceremony was an experience of uninterrupted joy, helped along by the accompanying music under the direction of Douglas Green, the familiar voice of Cantor Carroll Mailhot and the unique Cathedral High School Handbell Choir. As is tradition, the women and men of Consecrated Life present had an opportunity to renew their vows. As voiced by Bishop Cote, â&#x20AC;&#x153;These consecrated lives give witness to the love of God at work in the

world and enrich the Church of Christ.â&#x20AC;? In response, members of the Institutes of Consecrated Life and Societies of Apostolic Life reaffirmed their â&#x20AC;&#x153;commitment to God in loving service â&#x20AC;&#x201C; in chastity, in poverty and in obedience.â&#x20AC;? The occasion of this celebration is also an opportunity to recognize the Jubilarians in attendance. Sister Sally Tolles, Cons. Sec., D.H.S., as commentator, recognized those participating in the Offertory Procession â&#x20AC;&#x201C; Sister M. Elizabeth Cordiero, S.C.M.C. â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 25 years in Consecrated Life; Sister Irene M. Fortier, D.H.S. â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 60 years; Sister Claudette Hout, D.H.S. â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 60 years. Other Jubilarians honored were Sister Rita Johnson â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 50 years; Sister Loretta Jonuschaite, M.V.S. â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 61 years; Sister Margaret Bareika, M.V.S. â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 63 years; Sister Mary Paul Savickas, M.V.S. â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 63 years; and Sister Fernande Marie Laliberte, D.H.S. â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 70 years. This was very much a celebration of accumulated years of service as well as a look to the future, captured in the General Intercession, â&#x20AC;&#x153;God of love, hear our prayer that more young women and men will re-

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Office for Safe Environments Recent Policy Review and Update It has been eleven years since the Diocese of Norwich, along with all other dioceses in the United States, By Reverend Richard Ricard Bishop’s Delegate for Safe Environments

Diocese of Norwich Announces “Initiative on Housing” Peter Harding appointed Director of Housing The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich has announced the immediate formation of a formal initiative to identify opportunities to repurpose vacant or underused diocesan buildings to help the homeless. “Our Diocese”, said Bishop Cote “has many underutilized buildings. In these recessionary times, we need to be thinking of ways to create housing to help

those who have no place to live. We must find ways to put these assets to good use for those most in need.” Bishop Cote noted that Peter Harding, the new Director of the program and former Executive Director of St Vincent DePaul in Middletown, has been working for the past 15 months evaluating buildings in many different towns and parishes in an effort to assess their viability for different types of affordable housing. Much of the work done so far has been with vacant school buildings, and substantial progress has already been made. The housing initiative is consistent with Bishop Cote’s service on the Leadership Council for the “Ten Year Plan” to End Homelessness in Middlesex County.

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this new policy will not only be helpful to our parishes, schools and institutions, but it will prove to be essential in establishing a baseline of healthy utilization practices and protocols for everyone in our Diocesan family. All four policies were accepted by the board and forwarded to Bishop Cote for his approval. Bishop Cote approved all four policies and promulgated them on January 28, 2013. These policies, which take effect on March 1, 2013, have been distributed to all parishes, schools and institutions. They are available on the Diocese of Norwich website (www.norwichdiocese.org), on Praesidium’s Armatus program and upon request from the Office for Safe Environments. In closing, I would like to take this opportunity on behalf of myself and Karen Caise, our Director, to thank all the diocesan parishes, schools, and institutions for their cooperation over these past years. It is through your diligence that we will be able to provide environments in the Diocese of Norwich that are faith-filled, compassionate, God-centered and of course safe for His children.

Holy St Anthony gentlest of Saints. Your love for God and charit for His creators made you wor hy when on ear h posses miraculous power which you were ready to speak for those who are in t ouble or anxiet . Encouraged by this thought I implore to you to obtain for me (request) The answer to my prayer may require a miracle, even so you are the saint of miracles Oh gentle and loving St. Anthony whose hear is f ll of human sy pathy whisper my petition into the ears of sweet infant Jesus, who loved to be folded in your ar s, and the g atit de of my hear will ever be yours. This 13 day Novena has never been known to fail. Say three Hail Mar 's and three Glories and promise publication.

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and training of our seventy six parishes, seventeen schools, and many institutions is the responsibility of the Office for Safe Environments. It is a huge undertaking; but the goal of keeping our children, volunteers, and employees educated and protected is one that inspires the office, and motivates us to always strive to do our best; to be our best. The guidelines and protocols that the Diocese of Norwich has been implementing enlisted in 2002 when the bishops of the United States approved the Charter for the Protection of Children and Young People. Within the Charter there is a directive that guides all Safe Environment programs to periodically review their individual policies and, when necessary, revise them. The Diocese of Norwich recently went through an extensive review and revision of our Safe Environment Policies. In addition to the changes made to the existing ones, a new policy, Electronic Communications, Internet and, Computer Use was presented to the Diocesan Review Board for their approval. We believe the addition of

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Saint Rose Philippine Duchesne, RSCJ Although some people might not be familiar with St. Rose Philippine, she is preBy Sister Elissa Rinere, CP, JCD Office of Worship

sented to us by the bishops of the United States because of the extraordinary witness of her life. Putting faith into action, as she did so well, is a hallmark goal of the Year of Faith. Rose Philippine was born in France in 1769. She entered a cloistered community of nuns at age 19. After just five years, she was forced to leave the cloister because of the suppression of religious orders during the French Revolution. Several years later she joined a relatively new religious order, the Society of the Sacred Heart. In 1818, she and other sisters of her community left France and came to America to set up schools in Missouri and Louisiana. The difficult trans-Atlantic journey took more than two months. The sisters established the first free schools west of the Mississippi River. Some of the schools they established are still in operation today. After almost twenty years as a teacher, Mother Duchesne, as she was then known, was asked to travel with three sisters of her community and three Jesuit priests to Sugar Creek, Kansas to minister to the Potawatomi tribe of Native Americans. Mother Duchesne was asked to join the group because of her great reputation for prayer, holiness and good works. Understanding the importance of the mission, she accepted the invitation, even though she had been in poor health for a few years. Mother Duchesne was 71 years old. The Potawatomi Tribe had been forced to resettle in Sugar Creek, Kansas from their native lands in Michigan. When the sisters and the Jesuit missionaries arrived to be with them, all encountered severe hardship and deprivation. Both missionaries and natives lived in huts, with little protection from the elements. Food was scarce. The goal of setting up schools for the

children was delayed until at least basic needs were met. In the midst of these hardships, Mother Duchesne was an example of prayer and generosity. Her great contribution to those she served

was her kindness and her life of prayer. Although she was never very comfortable speaking English, and found the Potawatomi language almost impossible, she was able to teach the children, care for the sick and give encouragement to all. Her name in the Potawatomi language is “Woman who prays always.” After only two years in Sugar Creek, Mother Duchesne’s health became so compromised that she had to return to a convent in St. Charles, Missouri where the living conditions would not be so harsh. The last ten years of her life were spent there, usually in prayer for the continued spreading of the

Gospel message. Mother Duchesne died on November 18, 1852 at the age of 83. She was declared “blessed” in 1940, and was canonized by Pope John Paul II on July 3, 1988. Surely, Saint Rose Philippine Duchesne did heroic things in her life. She left her homeland, undertook arduous journeys, sacrificed in order to spread the Gospel in new places, and sought always to respond generously to those who needed her help. She is placed before us in the Year of Faith as a wonderful example of faith in action. In one sense, very few of us would ever be called on to adopt as our own the path of her life. In another sense, all of us, by reason of our Baptism into Christ, are called on to adopt her attitudes and values as we travel our own paths. Each of us is called, especially in this Year of Faith, to respond with generosity to the challenges of life, just as she did, and to put into action the faith we profess, just as she did. She wrote in her diary: “We cultivate a very small field for Christ, but we love it, knowing that God does not require great achievements, but a heart that holds nothing back ... He who has Jesus has everything.”

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Our Faith in Action as Diocesan Family As we enter the second month of our 60th Jubilee year here at the Diocese of Norwich, we have so By MaryLou Gannotti Director of Planned Giving

much to be grateful for. This year you will hear much about “Faith with Charity and Love.” It is the theme of our jubilee and the 2013 Annual Catholic Appeal. We would be remiss, however, if

we did not take this opportunity to share our most heartfelt thanks with you for your generous and kind support of the recently concluded 2012 Annual Catholic Appeal. The 2012 ACA, “To Love and Serve the Lord,” raised $3,065,841.33 to help support the vital programs and ministries funded by the ACA each year. Thanks to the generosity of the faithful here in the Diocese of Norwich, we can continue to help, educate, counsel and inspire our

brothers and sisters in Christ through our varied programs. The top supporting parishes for the Annual Catholic Appeal in our Diocese include Christ the King Parish of Old Lyme, raising a total at $122, 610.20, Saint Joseph Parish of New London raising $113,463.41, Saint Patrick Parish of Mystic raising $110,806.00, The Cathedral of Saint Patrick in Norwich with a total raised of $108,640.30, and rounding out the

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lenging year for charities throughout the United States. Locally, these fluctuations were certainly impacted by weather disasters such as Superstorm Sandy, job loss due to companies restructuring, and rising taxes. When we think of how people were dealing with their own personal losses, and some tragic events that rocked our nation, most notably, the heartbreaking losses suffered at Sandy Hook Elementary School in our neighboring Diocese, we are even more grateful for the kindness and generosity that continues to be shown to the ACA. Our thoughts and prayers continue to be with those who suffered this year. May peace be with them, and may God’s light and grace shine upon them. While it is not always easy to give, it is certainly always rewarding. We wish to extend deep gratitude to all those members of our Diocese who took the time to heed the call of stewardship and support the 2012 Annual Catholic Appeal, “To Love and Serve the Lord.” As we move forward in “Faith with Charity and Love,” for the 2013 Annual Catholic Appeal, we ask that you pray for our success in this endeavor. Thank you for your kindness and your continued support.

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Christian Love at the Heart of Adoptions This is not just a story about adoptions. It is a story about love. Specifically about Christian love. By Colleen Egan

Martha and Andrew Matt of Chester were high school sweethearts. After high school, they both went their separate ways. As chance would have it they re-met at their school’s 20year anniversary and fell in love with each other all over again. The Matts wanted children. In June 2005, their son Samuel was born. Martha was 41 at the time. After Samuel, Martha and Andrew wanted to add to their family, but being older they were not sure it was possible. Martha, who grew up with an adopted Korean brother, suggested to Andrew that they adopt. “The whole idea was not on my radar until Martha,” said Andrew. “She’s the one who grew up with adoption. I was not opposed to it. She warmed me to the idea. Her gentle enthusiasm got me into it.” “I started reading things in Scripture and read that all of us are adopted in Christ. We’ve all been adopted sons of God,” said Andrew. The couple had had some good experiences with Catholic Charities, so that is the agency they chose to try to set up an adoption. “We’ve had such a good experience with Catholic Charities,” said Martha. “I made a call one day to Catholic Charities and got Susan on the phone. Right away there was a connection,” Martha said. Susan Sedensky is the director of the adoption program. “She interviewed us,” said Martha. “My husband had no knowledge about adoption. He had more questions about it. Susan has a real calling, a lot of experience. We knew right away her work was high caliber.” According to Sedensky, Catholic Charities facilitates an average of four adoptions, both domestically and internationally, each year. She said the agency has

been helping with adoptions since the beginning of the diocese. Couples waiting for a child have to go through a process that is meant to insure that they will be a good family in which to place a child. This takes about six months. After that, it’s a matter of waiting. “We were pretty much open to

any child, race, color, even multiples,” said Martha. She had hoped for an open adoption, where the adoptive couple meets the birth mother. But that did not happen in the Matt’s case. Louis arrived in April 2011. “We were waiting, and Susan called and said a baby has been born and he’s yours,” said Martha. There was then a 30-day waiting period while the baby stayed with a foster family during which time the final paperwork was completed. The Matts were allowed to visit with Louis during this time. “At the one month mark he was in our home,” said Andrew. “He was four pounds and we just fell in love with him. I am so in love with this kid. It’s the best thing that ever happened. I would recommend this to anyone and everyone. He’s so much a part of our family.” “Adoption is a natural way of existing in the world as a Christian,” said Andrew. “I wish more

people would know about it. It’s true joy. Even Samuel was so welcoming, overjoyed to have a little brother.” “Who we received is a beautiful baby boy with blue eyes and dimples. He looks like our other son,” said Martha. “We got the baby that was meant for our family. When I picked Louis up for good I was balling my head off. The joy was equal to that of giving birth.” “I fully recommend to others to go ahead and do it. It’s not about being dogooders. I feel that I can give back, providing a child a home. If you have love to give, adoption is a viable way to expand or have a family,” said Martha.

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History of the Diocese: 1960’s The 1960s was a period of change for the relatively new Diocese of Norwich, as it was for the By William J. Russell, C.P.A. Diocesan Finance Officer

entire country.It was late in 1959 that Monsignor Vincent J. Hines, Chancellor of the Archdiocese of Hartford was named to be the second Bishop of Norwich, succeeding Bishop Bernard J. Flanagan who was named to fill the vacant see in Worcester. Bishop Hines was consecrated at the Cathedral of Saint Patrick on March 17, 1960, the feast day of Saint Patrick, who is one of our Diocesan patrons, and immediately began to focus on Catholic education, especially at the secondary school level. In 1961, land was acquired for two brand new high schools in Middletown; each was to offer single-sex education, and a commitment was received from the Xaverian Brothers and from the Sisters of Mercy to provide faculties. Xavier High School for Boys and Mercy High School for girls opened in the fall of 1963. At first and until the construction of Mercy High was completed in 1967, the schools shared the one building that continues to be Xavier High. Also, in 1967, the new Saint Bernard High School was opened in Uncasville to serve the entire County of New London and to eventually replace the Saint Bernard High School in New London, which had reverted to its original use as a girls only facility. The Catholic population in the Diocese had increased modestly but steadily from its establishment as a

diocese until the mid-1960s. During that time, a number of new parishes were formed; some in areas where there was no congregaBishop Hines blesses cornerstone of St. Matthew Church, Tolland

tion, and some through the advancement to parish status of missions already in existence. From 1960 through 1968, there were 11 new parishes formed, and 8 new churches were built. Change came to the Diocese in another permanent and meaningful way that forever altered the appearance of the churches and the liturgies held within them. That change, of course, was brought about through the implementation of the mandates of Vatican II. Altars were

repositioned so that the celebrants of the M a s s would face the congregation; Latin was no longer used; and, a greater participation in the Mass by the lay faithful was introduced. These changes did not come without their critics and without harsh criticism toward the fathers of the Church, including Bishop Hines. Some thought that the changes were too radical, while others felt that they did not go far enough. It was a difficult balance between those seen as ultra conservative and those who were ultra liberal, and it was through the pastoral patience, understanding, and leadership of Bishop Hines that the changes were instituted. Although there were some negative consequences evidenced through resignations of clergy and

religious, the liturgical reforms had been completely introduced and were practiced throughout the Diocese by the closing days of the 1960s. In many ways, the mood in the parishes mirrored the unrest and turbulence that gripped the whole Country. The boom times and sense of security that had enveloped the country through the 1950’s had changed with the reality of the assassination of a much-beloved Catholic president, a major civil rights leader, and the quagmire of an unpopular war. In many ways,

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1 9 6 0 ’s , these factors had begun to affect the attendance at Mass and the entry into ordained or consecrated life, which has a profound effect on the Church and the Diocese even today. The current movement of consolidation of parishes and schools throughout the Diocese, reflects these factors among other demographic shifts and economic

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groups felt empowered to speak and seek out equality of sex, color and national origin. This mood was reflected in the pews and in some religious communities where the practice of religion became more of a personal choice than recognition of the great gift of faith that we have received through our Baptism into Christ’s Church. The economy of Eastern Connecticut had begun to deteriorate and many youth had left the area to find work. By the end of the

conditions of the times. Bishop Hines continued to serve the Diocese until his retirement in 1975. Of him it is said, “It is little wonder that the difficult and crowded years of Norwich’s second bishop should have impaired his once rugged health….Praise for the man and his work, realization of the enormity of the tasks he had faced and handled with such ability, genuine good wishes for a happy retirement, improved health and the contentment that comes from work well done – these and similar expressions were heard not only from leaders in Church and State, but from thousands of men and women in the parishes, grateful recipients for 15 years of the love and service of a true pastor.” From Catholics in Eastern Connecticut, The Diocese of Norwich by Reverend J. Ralph Kelley.

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Twinned Parishes Share Faith and Hope Miles Apart On Monday, January 7, 2013, the Haiti Committee of Sacred Heart Parish in Groton, led by Submitted by George Gorton

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â&#x20AC;&#x153;What Charity Means to Meâ&#x20AC;? Essay Winners During this The Year of Faith we celebrate the 60th Jubilee of the Diocese of Norwich and The tenth anniversary of Bishop Michael R. Cote as Bishop of the Diocese of Norwich. Bishop Coteâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s motto â&#x20AC;&#x153;Above All Charityâ&#x20AC;? was the underpinning of an essay contest among the sixth grade students. Each student wrote an essay entitled â&#x20AC;&#x153;What charity means to meâ&#x20AC;?. The winning essay from each school is submitted for publication in the Four County Catholic. The following winners from St. Joseph School in Baltic and Sacred Heart School in Groton share their reflections. Prayer to the Blessed Virgin Mar O Most Beautif l Flower of Mt. Car el, Fr itf l Vine, Splendor of Heaven, Blessed Mother of the Son of God, Immaculate Virgin, assist me in my necessit . O Star of the Sea, help me and show me herein you are my Mother. O Holy Mar , Mother of God, Queen of Heaven and Ear h, I humbly beseech you om the bo om of my hear to succor me in my necessit . There are none that can withstand your power. O Mar conceived without sin, pray for us who have recourse to thee. Holy Mar , I place this cause in your hands.

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of charity as well. You will always be rewarded for your actions, even if you donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t want anything in return. The homeless man made the news and everyone that heard his story sent him money. Yes, the homeless man needed money, but the best reward is way above that. . . Heaven! Everything else is just a bonus. By doing the little things and doing acts of charity, we can achieve this reward, the eternal reward. In closing, the Book of Proverbs, Chapter 19:17 says it all: â&#x20AC;&#x153;Whoever is generous to the poor lends to the Lord, and he will repay him for his deed.â&#x20AC;? Winnie Elenteny Grade 6, St. Michael School, Pawcatuck, CT Charity is many things: giving food to others, helping others find

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An Alaskan Cruise, a Path to Priesthood Matthew Bearth was 17 when he set out on an Alaskan cruise that changed the course By Christina Capecchi Four County Catholic Contributor

of his life and led him to the seminary. Today the 2o-year-old college junior loves to recount that northern voyage. Matthew didn’t have a passport when his family decided to take an Alaska cruise the August before his senior year. It was a time when an onslaught of questions was beginning to come from every direction. What college are you going to attend? What kind of career are you planning? He didn’t know the answers. As a young boy, he’d considered being an astronaut or an NFL punter. Now the Burnsville, Minn., teen was thinking practical: a business degree from a college where he’d have good odds of meeting a nice Catholic girl. “I was definitely assuming marriage,” Matthew told me. The Alaskan landscape stunned him – soaring mountains, calving glaciers, gliding eagles. He saw brown bears snatching salmon and whales engaged in bubble netting, a feeding technique in which a dozen humpbacks surfaced with mouths full of flopping fish. To Matthew, it was all a vibrant reflection of the Creator. The cruise also provided a close encounter with Scripture, providing him time to study the Gospel of Matthew and glean new insights. Most significant, the cruise introduced him to Father Mike Schmitz, a young priest from another Minnesota diocese with a magnetic personality, enough athleticism to complete an Ironman and movie-star looks – dark hair and dark tan, searing blue eyes and dimples.

“He’s ripped,” Matthew said. Here was a man who could’ve scored any job or wooed any woman and he chose to sacrifice it all for priesthood. And he wasn’t just coping or content. He was happy. He had chosen this vocation above all others, recognizing

its nobility, adventure and joy. Matthew was intrigued. He could see there was no ego at work; Father Mike drew people in only to point them to Christ. He made deft references to “The Simpsons,” “Twilight” and Miley Cyrus in his homilies, yet when it came time for consecration, he demonstrated a reverence

Matthew had never before witnessed. “He celebrates the Mass as if he was in heaven,” Matthew said. “It’s as if he’s talking to God – and you know he is.” The teenager resolved right then and there that, no matter what vocation he pursued, he would lead the same kind of life: totally centered o n Christ, directing others to Him. After seeing such an amazing example, why aim any lower? “I knew I could live an excellent life,” he said. Back home, Matthew downloaded all of Father Mike’s homilies onto his iPod and quickly devoured them. Senior year

started, bringing other changes. He cut back on pizza and dessert and reduced his portions, shedding 30 pounds over the course of the school year. He began praying a decade of the rosary every day, logging it in a notebook he kept by his bed. He wanted to be a better man. Time passed, and faith remained the center of Matthew’s life. A year ago he decided to enter St. John Vianney College Seminary in St. Paul, Minn. He met Father Mike at his parents’

cabin up north, where the two men had a heart-to-heart talk in the garage about priesthood. Now half way through his first year as a seminarian, Matthew still keeps in touch with his mentor, texting back and forth and getting together when Father Mike is in town. “God placed him in my life for a reason.” Christina Capecchi is a freelance writer from Inver Grove Heights, Minn. She can be reached at www.ReadChristina.com.

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March for Life Continued from page 23 biggest issues of our time.” After the march was completed, there was a night rally. Matt Maher preformed once again; we were given more inspirational talks about respecting life; there was adoration; and we were given a chance to go to confession. The rallies and the march not only energized us, but brought us back to the roots of what we believe, helping us all to get in touch with our spirituality. All around the nation, there are

people that protest abortion on a daily basis. So, what makes the march different? Why do people keep coming back every year? The students who participated from Saint Bernard had the answers to these questions. Junior Maria Junco, who has been on the march three times, believes the march is special and said, “seeing the amount of people grow each year makes me feel like I am making a difference, which is what keeps me

coming back.” Laura Costello, a sophomore and a first-year marcher, said “My favorite part was the speakers. They were moving, but down to Earth and funny! The most moving part was seeing all the teenagers who showed up. I would totally go back again!” When asked why she returned, junior Gia Kingston said “I came back for the amazing energy and excitement that comes from a giant mass of people of all ages working towards

the same goal.” In the past few years, the approval ratings for abortion in America has dropped, and people are beginning to see that they should not compromise their beliefs when something as precious and irreplaceable as an innocent life is concerned. This change of belief is proof that the efforts of all those who marched were not in vain. Because of their work, and the work of many other pro-life activists, people are realizing that a change

needs to be made. Some people say that when voting, they voted based on the politician’s stance on abortion first. While some people say that this is taking things too far, there is no issue that is more important than protecting life. Being pro-life is more than being against abortion. Simply stated, being pro-life means that you have respect life in all of its stages and that, when something or someone threatens life in the world, you are willing to stand up, speak out, and fight against the injustice. Everyone in the march is grateful for not only their lives, but the lives of the people around them as well, wanting nothing but the best for them. By loving life in this way, we help to create a culture of life.

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Catholic Schools Joining Forces Middletown - The pastors and school boards of two local Catholic schools are recomReprint from the Middletown Press

mending a plan to create a joint regional school in the fall. The Most Rev. Michael R. Cote, D.D., bishop of Norwich, announced Friday afternoon that the proposal is to merge St. John School and St. Mary School in Middletown into a school called Blessed John Paul II School starting in September. The school would serve all families in the greater Middletown area who wish to have their children receive a PreK-8 Catholic education, according to a statement from the Norwich diocese, which oversees all Catholic schools in Mid-

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Lenten Tree or Mural Journey with Jesus through Lent by decorating a tree or mural with symbols that remind you of the readings on Sundays of Lent and what happened to Jesus who died for us.. Bring in a tree branch from outdoors and put it in a vase or other container, or cutout a paper tree and hang it on a wall. Read about events surrounding Jesus related to Lent and make decorations to add to the tree that represent the events. Lent begins with Jesus fasting and praying in the desert and the devil tempting him. Read about this in Luke 4:1-11. Make symbols for this with pretzels (arms folded in prayer), rocks and angels, stones and bread (or bread wrappers). Add symbols reflecting the gospel readings during lent as well as purple eggs or cloth. Purple is a sign for royalty in the Bible and also a church color for penance. Read Mark 15:16-20 where soldiers dressed Jesus in purple. One week’s reading is in Luke 15: 11-32, on the prodigal son. It’s a reminder that God forgives us and we are his children. Add symbols for this such as a ring, pigs, and sandals. Another week is a time God the Father spoke from a cloud. Read it in Luke 9:28-36, and draw a cloud. Add the words God spoke, “This is my beloved Son.” As the time of Holy Week nears, read the accounts of Palm Sunday and the first Eucharist (Luke 22:19-20). Make flags with Hosanna on them, and add plastic or paper grapes and wheat. After the meal Jesus sang a hymn so add musical notes (Mark 14:26). For the death of Jesus there are many symbols to add. Here are some: • Garden of Gethsemane, Mark 14:32-42 • Cross, Hebrews 12:2 and John 19:17-18 • Crown of thorns, John 19:2,5 • Nails, John 20:25 • Sponge, John 19:28-30 • Feather for rooster, Luke 22:54-65 • Lamb, John 1:36 • Dice, John 19:23-24 • Silver coins, Matthew 26: 14-16 • Soap for washing feet

Secret Code of Healings February 11 is the World Day of the =S and time to pray for God to heal people who are sick. Decode the list to discover many problems Jesus healed.

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Year of Faith Journey to Yourself The Year of Faith challenges us with personal questions about our origin, our purpose, our destiny, By Very Reverend Leszek T. Janik, J.C.L., Vicar General

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