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The Most Reverend

Michael R. Cote, D.D.

Bishop of Norwich

“This is how all will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.” My Dear Brothers and Sisters in Christ: As we enter the season of Lent, we take on the 40-day journey as an opportunity to strengthen our relationship with the Lord. It is a contemplative time of intense soul searching. It is also an opportunity to think beyond ourselves. As Christians alive in our faith, we turn with love and compassion during this season of hope toward our brothers and sisters who most need our help. More than any other time of the year, Lent reminds us that love for one another is how love is ultimately defined at the cross of Jesus. “Taking care of one another,” in the words of the Holy Father, “is the foundation of human existence.” It is through charitable acts that we demonstrate our caring for each other and our commitment to the teaching of Jesus

Christ. As a Christian community, we reach out and live our faith through many charitable ministries and acts of kindness. When facing the severe winter we have been experiencing this year, the need to help the poor and vulnerable with food and shelter calls us to action. Catholic Charities, as always, is right there to help, as is the Saint Vincent de Paul soup kitchens and assistance programs, along with diocesan food pantries and many parish programs providing clothing and comfort. These services lift and save lives in whose Name we all serve. Can we do more? We are increasingly aware of the crisis of housing in a persistent recessionary economy. The lack of affordable housing requires creative solutions to gradually overcome the shortfall. It has been with this objective in

mind that we launched the diocesan Housing Initiative this past year as a beginning effort to create more affordable housing by repurposing existing underused buildings. The Ministry Director, Peter Harding, continues to evaluate parish and diocesan buildings and continues to explore partnering opportunities with local businesses, not-for-profit community groups, other churches, private developers, government and financial institutions to make new housing opportunities become a reality. I am particularly grateful to those pastors who have closely cooperated with Peter. We are finding that bringing these housing opportunities to fruition requires patience and collaboration. Such projects do not happen quickly. Yet there is clearly an urgency to this work.

The Catholic Church has traditionally viewed housing as a basic human right. This conviction is grounded in the view of the human person and the responsibility of society to protect the life and dignity of every person by providing the conditions where human life and human dignity are not undermined, but thrive. I bring these efforts to your attention to help expand your awareness of this critical initiative. We should all be concerned about how the lack of decent housing threatens the dignity and rights of the poor. Adequate housing is important if a person is to find fulfillment, both as an individual and as a member of a family and society. As we become more aware, any one of us might know of an individual or organization that could work with us to help move along a housing opportu-

John 13:35

nity identified by the Housing Ministry. Let us stay alert and help if we can. The Housing Initiative has very promising potential. Let us help it take root and generate life-lifting opportunity for those who most need it. I thank everyone who so generously support and voluntarily help the many ministries in the diocese, all of whom work so hard to restore dignity to the lives of our brothers and sisters who may be hungry, suffering or without a roof over their head. During this sacred season of Lent, may we pray for those most in need and may we renew our true Christian spirit and be “true disciples who love one another”. Sincerely yours in Christ’s love, Bishop Michael R. Cote

“En esto todos conocerán que ustedes son mis discípulos, si se aman los unos a los otros.” Queridos Hermanos y Hermanas: Al entrar en tiempo de Cuaresma, tomamos el viaje de 40 días como una oportunidad para fortalecer nuestra relación con el Señor. Es un momento contemplativo de intensa búsqueda del alma. También, es una oportunidad para pensar más allá de nosotros mismos. Como cristianos vivos en nuestra fe, durante este tiempo de esperanza nos dirigimos con amor y compasión hacia nuestros hermanos y hermanas que más necesitan de nuestra ayuda. Más que cualquier otra época del año, la

Cuaresma, nos recuerda que el amor de los unos por los otros es como el amor se define en última instancia, en la cruz de Jesús. “Cuidar de los unos por los otros”, en las palabras del Santo Padre, “es la base de la existencia humana.” Es a través de actos de caridad demostramos nuestra preocupación por cada uno y nuestro compromiso a la enseñanza de Jesucristo. Como comunidad cristiana, nos acercamos y vivimos nuestra fe a través de muchos ministerios de caridad y actos de bon-

dad. Cuando enfrentamos el severo invierno que hemos estado experimentando este año, la necesidad de ayudar con alimento y refugio a los pobres y vulnerables nos llama a la acción. Caridades Católicas, como siempre, está allí mismo para ayudar, al igual que los comedores soup kitchens y programas de asistencias de San Vicente de Paul, junto con las despensas de alimentos diocesanos y muchos programas parroquiales que proporcionan vestimenta y comodidad. Estos servicios levantan y salvan vidas en

cuyo Nombre todos servimos. ¿Podemos hacer más? Cada vez somos más conscientes de la crisis de la vivienda en una economía en persistente recesión. La falta de vivienda asequible requiere soluciones creativas para superar gradualmente el déficit. Ha sido con este objetivo en mente que pusimos en marcha el año pasado la Iniciativa diocesana de Vivienda comenzando un esfuerzo por crear más viviendas asequibles mediante la reutilización de existentes edificios infrautilizados. El Director del Ministerio, Peter

Juan 13:35

Harding, continúa evaluando edificios parroquiales y diocesanos y continúa explorando oportunidades de asociación con empresas locales, grupos sin fines de lucro de la comunidad, otras iglesias, promotores privados, el gobierno en todos los niveles e instituciones financieras para convertir en realidad nuevas oportunidades de vivienda. Estoy particularmente agradecido a aquellos sacerdotes quienes cercanamente han cooperado con Peter. Estamos Aman los unos a los otros

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Aman los unos a los otros encontrando que traer estas oportunidades de vivienda a buen término requiere paciencia y colaboración. Tales proyectos no suceden rápidamente. Sin embargo, es obvio que

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existe una urgencia de este trabajo. La Iglesia Católica tradicionalmente ha considerado la vivienda como un derecho humano básico. Esta convicción se basa en la visión de la per-

sona humana y la responsabilidad de la sociedad para proteger la vida y la dignidad de todas las personas al proporcionar las condiciones donde la vida humana y la dignidad hu-

Holy Hour for Vocations The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, leads the Holy Hour: March 20, 2014 • 6:30 pm - 7:30 pm St. Mary, Jewett City April 10, 2014 • 6:00 pm - 7:00 pm Our Lady of Sorrows, Essex May 15, 2014 • 6:00 pm - 7:00 pm St. Mary of Czestochowa, Middletown June 26, 2014 • 7:00 pm - 8:00 pm St. John, Cromwell Reverend Brian Christopher Maxwell, Ordained to Priesthood on May 25, 2013, by the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich at the Cathedral of Saint Patrick, Norwich

July 25, 2014 • 7:00 pm - 8:00 pm Cathedral of St. Patrick, Norwich August 21, 2014 • 7:00 pm - 8:00 pm All Saints, Somersville September 18, 2014 • 6:00 pm - 7:00 pm St. Agnes, Niantic October 16, 2014 • 6:00 pm - 7:00 pm St. Francis of Assisi, Lebanon November 20, 2014 • 7:00 pm - 8:00 pm St. Thomas Aquinas, Storrs

mana no estén reducidas, sino que prosperen. Traigo estos esfuerzos a su atención para ayudar a expandir su conciencia de esta crítica iniciativa. Todos deberíamos estar preocupados de como la falta de vivienda decente pone en peligro la dignidad y los derechos de los pobres. Una vivienda adecuada es importante para que una persona encuentre realización, tanto como individuo y como miembro de una familia y de la sociedad. A medida que nos hacemos más conscientes, cualquiera de nosotros puede conocer a una persona u organización que pueda trabajar con nosotros para ayudar a avanzar la oportunidad de vivienda identificada por el Ministerio de Vivienda. Quedémonos alerta y si podemos ayudemos. La iniciativa de Vivienda tiene un potencial muy prometedor. Ayudemos a que eche SERVICES OFFERED: Companionship Light Housekeeping Meal Planning/Prep

raíces y genere oportunidades levantando la vida de aquellos quienes más lo necesitan. Doy gracias a todos los que tan generosamente apoyan y ayudan en forma voluntaria a los muchos ministerios de la diócesis, todos los cuales trabajan fuerte para devolver la dignidad a las vidas de nuestros hermanos y hermanas quienes pasan hambre, sufren o no tienen un techo donde vivir. Durante este tiempo sagrado de Cuaresma, que podamos orar por aquellos que más lo necesitan y que podamos renovar nuestro espíritu verdaderamente cristiano y ser “verdaderos discípulos que se aman los unos a los otros.” Sinceramente, en el amor de Cristo, Obispo Michael R. Cote Translated by Paulina Angulo

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Growing Spiritually During Lent In last month’s column, I wrote about the theme at the Student Leadership Conference in Dallas as being focused on surrendering to and going deeper in our relationship with Christ. As Lent has begun, this is truly a time for every one of us to re-surrender ourselves to the Will of God and to deepen our relationship with Christ. This can be a very special time for those who may be actively discerning a call from our Lord to serve Him by serving His Church as a diocesan priest or as a consecrated religious brother or sister. Additionally, the whole family of God have many different opportunities to re-surrender our lives during this very prayerful preparation for the events of Holy Week, the Holy Triduum, and the Easter celebration and season. A few reminders and suggestions of how to “make Lent worthwhile”. Lent for many generations in the Church was always a time to try going to daily mass to receive the Eucharist more regularly. Why? Because it truly is, “our daily bread” given to us by Christ Himself. Remembering to abstain from eating meat on Fridays has always been part of the Lenten discipline as a reminder of Friday being the day that our Lord’s flesh and blood were offered on the cross for our sins. Joining your parish community in praying the Stations of the Cross on Friday evenings is another way of uniting ourselves more deeply to Christ. Returning to or increasing your commitment to the sacrament of

reconciliation because Christ died and rose from the dead so our sins could be forgiven is also an important action to take during Lent. Commit to reading/reflecting on the Word of God, Holy Scripture, for five minutes a day; and by doing so learn to listen more carefully to what Christ is saying to you on a daily basis. Fasting on the required days and other days for special intentions is also important to our spiritual growth and union with the Lord. As you decide what you will try to do this Lenten season to deepen your surrender to Christ, do not forget to pray for our priests, deacons, and the many religious sisters and brothers who serve in the diocese. In a special way Lent can be a good time to recall the many good priests and consecrated religious who have served and passed on to eternity. For example, since November 2013 we have four extraordinary priests who have gone home to God. Reverend Robert McNulty, Reverend Adam Pupsys, Reverend Joseph Finnerty and most recently Reverend Monsignor Willis West. This underlines greatly the need to also be offering prayers and sacrifices for an increase of priestly vocations for the diocese. If you need extra motivation in making a Lenten commitment, please pray for our seminarians, those preparing for priestly ordination this coming year, and especially for those men around the diocese who are maybe on the cusp of deciding to embrace a call from God to serve

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Him by serving His Church here in the Diocese of Norwich. If you have not yet had the occasion or opportunity to join us for one of the Monthly Holy Hour for Vocations, come this March 20th to Saint Mary

Church in Jewett City. Make it a pilgrimage, make it one of the special steps you take this Lent in surrendering more to Christ and going deeper in your relationship with God who loves and calls each of us to a oneness with Him for all

eternity. Thank you for your prayers and support, and please know you are all in my prayers during this Lenten season that each of you may experience the special love of God through His Divine Mercy.

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Saturday, March 1 St. Patrick, East Hampton Confirmation At the Cathedral of St. Patrick, Norwich. 10:00am-Bishop Cote celebrating.

information please call 860-8870702. Wednesday, March 5 Ash Wednesday Wednesday, March 5 TV Mass - A Blessed Lent Ash Wednesday at 10:00am Channel 20, WTXX Charter, Channel 11 WCCT, Comcast. Father Ray Introvigne is the Celebrant.

Sunday, March 2 St. Peter, Higganum Confirmation At 11:00 am - Bishop Cote celebrating.

Mon. -Tues., March 10-11 St. John Lenten Event Prepare for Easter by attending the St. John Lenten Event! ValLimar Jansen, a nationally renowned singer and leader of worship and prayer, will be the presenter of the 2014 Lenten Mission at St. John Church, 5 St. John Ct., Cromwell, from 7:00-8:00pm each evening, followed by refreshments. The mis-

Sunday, March 2 St. Luke, Ellington Confirmation At 1:30 pm – Monsignor Brown celebrating. Tuesday, March 4 Prayer, Praise, Worship Adoration At the Spiritual Renewal Center, from 7:00pm-8:00pm. For more

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Calling Women of All Ages! 4th Annual Catholic Women’s Conference of the Diocese of Norwich Co sponsored by the Office of Faith Events and the Diocesan Council of Catholic Women

Mail in registration: 4th Annual Women’s Conference 4/5/14 Name Phone Address City State/Zip Email Parish/Town Any dietary restrictions? Deadlines for all registrations is March 27 We invite each of you to bring canned goods to donate to St Vincent de Paul Soup Kitchen from the women of the Norwich Diocese

Tuesday, March 11 Prayer, Praise, Worship Adoration At the Spiritual Renewal Center, from 7:00pm-8:00pm. For more information please call 860-8870702. Sunday-Tuesday, March 16-18 Parish Retreat Our Lady of Sorrows At Our Lady of Sorrows, Essex. For more information please call the Renewal Center at 860-8870702. Tuesday, March 18 Prayer, Praise, Worship Adoration At the Spiritual Renewal Center, from 7:00pm-8:00pm. For more information please call 860-8870702.

Tuesday, March 25 Prayer, Praise, Worship Adoration At the Spiritual Renewal Center, from 7:00pm-8:00pm. For more information please call 860-8870702. Friday-Sunday, March 28-30 Rachel’s Vineyard Retreat Weekend Healing, forgiveness and peace from post abortion grief can have a beginning with a Rachel’s Vineyard Retreat. Retreat March 28-30 in RI call 401-421-7833 ext.118. Retreat March 28-30 in Hamden, CT call 203-631-9030. Inquiries are confidential. www.rachelsvineyard.org Saturday, March 29 St. Bridget, Moodus Confirmation At 10:00am Bishop Cote celebrating. Sunday, March 30 Diocesan Confirmation At the Cathedral of Saint Patrick, Norwich. 10:30am, Bishop Cote

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sion theme will be ‘Created, Transformed and Sent by God’, focusing on a deep and uplifting faith experience with songs and reflection. Admission is free. For information call 860-635-5590.

 Live Music  Inspiring Talks  Lunch Eucharistic Adoration Confession  Exhibitors

Registration: (Price Includes Lunch) By March 15, 2013 ..............................$25 After March 15, 2013 ..........................$30 Students ................................................$15 Religious are free! There will be no refunds and no event transfers. Mail registration and payment to: Office of Faith Events 199 Broadway (860) 848-2237 ext. 312 Norwich, CT 06360

St. Andrew’s Church 128 Norwich Ave., Colchester, CT Guest will be: Most Reverend Micahel R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich Jim Maffuid, Executive Director, Catholic Charities and supervisors of Catholic Charities offices All ladies of the Parishes are invited to attend. Please collect baby items, diapers, clothes (0-3 years), blankets, etc. to donate to the Layette Program for distribution to the Catholic Charities offices in Norwich, New London, Middletown & Willimantic.

celebrating. Monday March 31 Parish Retreat SS Peter & Paul At 6:00pm. For more information please call the Renewal Center at 860-887-0702. Tuesday, April 1 Prayer, Praise, Worship Adoration At the Spiritual Renewal Center, from 7:00pm-8:00pm. For more information please call 860-8870702. Tuesday, April 1 Parish Retreat SS Peter & Paul At 6:00pm. For more information please call the Renewal Center at 860-887-0702. Wednesday, April 2 Parish Retreat – St. Joseph At 6:00pm. For more information please call the Renewal Center at 860-887-0702. Friday, April 4 St. Mary, Portland Confirmation At 7:00 pm- Bishop Cote celebrating. Saturday, April 5 St. Mark, Westbrook Confirmation At 11:00 am – Father Les Janik celebrating. Saturday, April 5 Be My Witness: 4th Annual Catholic Women’s Conference of the Diocese of Norwich Co-sponsored by the Office of Faith Events and the Diocesan Council of Catholic Women. Held at St. Bernard School, Uncasville. Doors open at 8:30am and program ends at 3:15pm. Featuring special guest speaker Dr. C. Vanessa White. There will be a 9:00am Mass with Bishop Cote. Live music, inspiring talks, lunch, Eucharistic adoration, confession, exhibitors. For more information please call the Office of Faith Events at 860-848-2237 ext 312. Sunday, April 6 Annual Layette Program Beginning at 1:00pm at St. Andrews Church, 128 Norwich Ave., Colchester. Guests will be The Most Revered Bishop Michael R.

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Cote, Bishop of Norwich, Jim Maffuid, Executive Director, Catholic Charities and supervisors of Catholic Charities offices All Ladies of the Parishes are invited to attend. Please collect baby items, diapers, clothes (0-3 years), blanket, etc. to donate to the Layette Program for distribution to the Catholic Charities offices in Norwich, New London, Middletown and Willimantic. Thursday, April 10 St. Edward, Stafford Springs Confirmation At 7:00 pm- Monsignor Brown celebrating. Friday, April 11 St. John, Cromwell Confirmation At 7:00pm- Monsignor Brown celebrating. Friday April 18 Way of the Cross A Public Procession of Scripture and Prayer. Good Friday, April 18, 2014 at 6:00pm for the celebration of the Way of the Cross. Chelsea

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Thursday, April 24 19th Annual Secretaries Mass From 12pm – 1pm at the Cathedral of Saint Patrick.

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will be presented Friday & Saturday, April 11th & 12th 7:30 pm at St. Andrew Church (Doors open at 7:00 pm) 128 Norwich Ave, Colchester, CT The play is a musical performance of the life, death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. A cast of over 100. A 60-Voice Choir and a 40-Voice Children’s Choir. Tickets for the performance are free; however, offerings to help defray production cost will be gratefully excepted. Tickets are available in Colchester at Merciful Saviour, the Parish Office or by phoning Gary Dziatko at 860-295-8315. A limited number of tickets are available. No more than 10 tickets per person.

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TV Mass-A Blessed Lent Ash Wednesday, March 5, 2014 @ 10:00 am Ch. 20, WTXX Charter, Ch. 11 WCCT, Comcast Celebrant, Fr. Ray Introvigne

Monday, Mar. 10th & Monday Mar. 24th , Masses of Healing Twice Monthly @ 1:00 pm Spiritual Renewal Center Fr. Ray, Celebrant, Judith Hughes-Healing Prayer

Parish Mission – Our Lady of Sorrows, Essex, St. Joseph, Chester Sun., Mon., Tues., March 16, 17, 18, 7:00 pm At Our Lady of Sorrows Church, 14 Prospect St., Essex, CT

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Saturday, May 17, 2014 • 9:00 AM St. Mary’s Church in Putnam, Connecticut The day will begin with registration at 9 a.m. and the keynote address will be given by Sister Mary Ellen Ryley, SCMM (Sister of Charity of Our Lady Mother of Mercy.) Her topic will be The Trans formative Power of Dreams. Dreams are a unique and powerful re source for the spiritual life journey. They can provide us with insight as we seek to understand struggles and decisions. Even dreams which seem confusing or frightening often contain within them a message which invites us to wholeness and healing. During this presentation we will experience some practical ways of working with our dreams in order to discover the messages contained within the dream symbols.

May the choicest blessings of Saint Patrick always be with you. May happiness good luck and good health be yours forever too!

“You (your name) are the SALT of the Earth. You (your name) are The Light of the World. A Light is placed on a Lamp Stand for ALL to see. Your Light (Jesus’ reflection through you) must SHINE before ALL people, so that They (all people) may see GOODENSS in your ACTS – and Give PRAISE to your HEAVENLY FATHER.”

Sr. Mary Ellen SCMM (Sisters of Charity of Our Lady Mother of Mercy), received her training in Spirituality and Dreams from the Institute for Spiritual Leadership in Chicago. She has been in volved in the training of Spiritual Directors for more than 20 years as a member of the Institute for Spiritual Leadership, the In stitute of Spiritual Companionship and the Center for Spiritual Direction at North Park Seminary. She continues to be involved as a Spiritual Director, supervisor, retreat and workshop facilitator in the Chicago area. Sister Mary Ellen holds a Master’s Degree in Religious Studies from the University of Detroit and a Master’s Degree in Pastoral Studies from Loyola University in Chicago.

Wednesday, March 26, @ 7:30 pm St. Mary Chapel, 51 Freestone Ave., Portland, CT

Unbound Prayer Ministry (Freedom) Saturday, March 29, 2014 10am to 3pm Spiritual Renewal Center, Norwich, CT Call for an appointment (860)887-0702 Fr. Ray, Judith Hughes and Team

Parish Retreat - Ss. Peter & Paul, St. Joseph, Norwich Monday, Mar. 31, & Tuesday, Apr. 1, 6:30 pm@ Ss. Peter & Paul 181 Elizabeth St., Norwich, CT Wednesday, Apr. 2, 6:30 pm @ St. Joseph, 120 Cliff St., Norwich, CT

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The Two Great Feasts in Lent The liturgical season of Lent, as we know, is a special time of prayer and penance. Its mood By Sister Elissa Rinere, CP, JCD Office of Worship

is somber. Vestments are purple, there is no “Alleluia” sung or spoken, there is no “Gloria” on Sundays. All the liturgical signs remind us over and over again of the message of Lent, and the saving work of God on our behalf - except for

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two days. Twice during Lent we turn from the somber to the joyful. The priest wears white vestments, we sing or recite the “Gloria,” and the Church commemorates two pillars of our faith: the Solemnity of Saint Joseph (March 19) and then the Solemnity of the Annunciation (March 25). The celebration of Saint Joseph was established in Rome by the 15th century, although it had been observed in other parts of the Christian world much earlier. In 1870, Pope Pius IX declared Saint Joseph to be the patron of the Universal Church, and in 1962 Blessed John XXIII had the name of Saint Joseph inserted in the Roman Canon (now Eucharistic Prayer I). In June 2013, Pope Francis, acting on a plan begun by his predecessor, decreed that the name of Saint Joseph should be added to every Eucharistic Prayer

at every Mass celebrated in the Church. Although very little is known about who Joseph was, the responsibilities he assumed as protector and guardian of Jesus and Mary, especially when they were most vulnerable, are well

known to us. Because, according to tradition, he died in the company of Jesus and Mary, Saint Joseph is honored as the patron saint of a happy death. Because he lived in a relationship of peace and love with Jesus, he is also praised by many saints, Saint Teresa of Avila among them, as a great teacher of prayer

to those who seek his help. Because he was sensitive to God’s voice even in sleep, he is also known as the saint of dreams. The celebration of Saint Joseph in the midst of our Lenten journey provides much food for thought about how we might listen for God’s voice in dreams or otherwise, how we cultivate a spirit of quiet and prayer in the presence of Jesus, and how we understand what is meant by a “happy death.” Saint Joseph has a part to play in the second celebration we meet in Lent, that of the Annunciation of the Lord. The feast celebrates the fact that Mary accepted her role in God’s plan for our salvation, even though she did not know what that would mean in her own life. Saint Joseph, as her protector in an otherwise hostile culture, played an important part in the fulfillment of that plan. Although the beginnings of this feast of the Annunciation are lost to us, there is documentation that

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its observance was well established in Jerusalem by the end of the 5th century. From there, the feast spread to other parts of the Christian world. Although the date of the celebration has been changed several times, its importance has not been diminished. For several centuries, and until the 19th century, the Annunciation was a holy day of obligation in the universal church. What can this feast contribute to our Lenten journey? The story (Luke 1: 26-38) presents us with, as Scripture scholars explain, the model believer. Mary is the model for all Christians as she responds wholeheartedly to God’s plan for her. As a young woman of her time, Mary was among the least influential people of her society. Even so, she was beloved of God and filled with grace. Since God loves and has a plan for each one of us, Mary’s response of complete acceptance can be our response, as well. The season of Lent, somber and quiet, is intended to provide us with the time and space to ponder such a possibility.

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The Light of Hope The Diocese of Norwich encompasses four Connecticut counties and Fishers Island, New By MaryLou Gannotti Director of Planned Giving

York. If you add up those living in New London, Middlesex, Tolland, and Windham County, plus Fishers Island, this accounts for approximately 710,000 people. There is no specific profile of the individuals in our region who benefit from the generosity of your stewardship through the Annual Catholic Appeal. Just as the world in which we live is large and diverse with people of different nationalities and creeds, with varying personalities, beliefs and socio-economic circumstances, those who participate in ACA supported programs and ministries are a diverse group. Some have lived with poverty for many years, others have fallen into hardship due to job loss, illness, or circumstance. So, if you were to ask who the Annual Catholic Appeal helps through the over 25 ministries and programs it supports, the answer might be thousands upon thousands! The ACA serves the very young and the very old, those who are homeless and those who are home bound. We reach out to the newly born and the unborn, those who celebrate their faith, and those who have turned from it and yearn for renewal. The ACA is decidedly Catholic in its mission to promote Christ in our region through service and compassion to others. One of the most basic ways to preserve our

faith is through the education of our young people. The Annual Catholic Appeal supports Catholic education through our Diocesan School Office. We currently have five high schools with an enrollment of 2,208 and elementary schools with an enroll-

ment of 2,310. The Office of Faith Events through its Youth Ministry reaches out to Diocesan young people, offering a variety of programs including Scouting, Youth Council, and the ever popular Youth Explosion, a day of gospel, music and evangelization that reaches over 500 young people. The Annual Catholic Appeal also strongly supports our soup kitchens in our mission to feed the hungry, as Christ asked of us. St. Vincent de Paul Place in Norwich helps thousands of families who are food insecure, serving nearly 80,000 hot meals this past year and an additional 237,000 food pantry meals. At St. Vincent de Paul in Middletown, soup kitchen meals totaled 83,135 for 2013. In the course of one year, Catholic Charities, a Diocesan ministry, will serve over 3,000 adults and children through emergency food, clothing, rent and utility assistance programs. As economic circumstances becomes more difficult during the harsh

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Catholic Charities Helping Hundreds with Housing Counseling and Foreclosure Prevention Services “My husband had been laid off and we began having trouble making mortgage By Anna DeBiasi Development Coordinator, Catholic Charities, Diocese of Norwich

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messages about love and sex that can lead to devastating repercussions and regrets. The music, movies, TV shows, commercials, public school, the internet and the innermost personal lives of so many celebrities are the dominant messengers defining love and sex. What is “True Love” and an actual loving relationship? What is the reality of sexually transmitted diseases, heartbreak, abortion? “True Love Waits” a Catholic and national program for high school students about true love, sexuality and promoting the values of chastity was held at St. Joseph’s Parish in North Grosvenordale this past January on four Sunday evenings. Over seventy ninth and tenth graders from the hosting parish St. Joseph’s, Most Holy Trinity in Pomfret and Sacred Heart, Webster, MA participated in the program presented by Jim Leonard, who, for over sixteen

years has presented the program to hundreds of teens in our diocese, and The Office of Family Life. The final Sunday concluded with a Mass and Commitment Service in which students participated. A beautiful and moving testimony on chastity and true love was given at Mass by a former “True Love Waits” participant, Valerie Voccio, now a student at St. Joseph University in West Hartford. Following the Mass, teens and their families enjoyed pizza and refreshments in the church hall. “True Love Waits” communicates to teenagers the power of commitment and the spiritual, emotional and physical values of remaining sexually pure as a single person, the most loving choice for themselves. “True Love Waits” is based on God’s definition of love, the teachings of the Church and Pope John Paul II’s “Theology of the Body”. Promoting “Abstinence Only” programs to teens has proven to work. However, “True Love Waits” elevates this to a much higher level, to the virtue of chastity…. the why of abstaining. There is a spiritual and emo-

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The Deacons Call to Service Bishop Michael R. Cote, supported by the Diaconate Advisory Board, successfully restarted the By Deacon Michael Puscas Director of Permanent Deacon Personnel

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Dear Four County Catholic Editor, I am writing to you regarding the article in the February issue titled “People's Pope Has Everyone's Attention.” I enjoyed your perspective on Pope Francis' unique approach toward his papacy. He truly has caught the attention of those outside and inside the church. There is one sentence, in particular, from the article that I found thought provoking. That which states: “Catholics recognize the unchanging teachings of the church in his message; …” Catholics may recognize those teachings, but do they put them into practice? The fact is, there are those faithful who disagree with a number of key church teachings (i.e. Her stand against contraception, abortion and same-sex marriage). And validate their disagreement through support, action or indifference. Pope Francis has opened his arms to all. He has caught their attention because of his refreshing outward practice of humility. Yet will those who are drawn to the church's alternative to the modern world, find that, or an incomplete practice of what is professed. To aspire to be Christ-like, we must follow His ways and teachings, even when most uncomfortable to do so. Many have lost the understanding of Christ's purpose. He didn't. He knew he was here for one reason -- the cross. To make the ultimate sacrifice of love, to complete God's reconciliation with man, through the forgiveness of sins by His death. The cross symbolizes all that is contrary to the world. On it one is detached from wealth, pleasure, honor and power. All those desirable things are lost. But what is found is the greatest good. The truth. Sure it is difficult to be a complete Catholic. But that is what Christ required when He founded His church. He, through Pope Francis and all clergy, past and to come, opens His welcoming arms to embrace all. To inherent all that He promised and fulfilled on the cross, we need only to embrace his ways. Will we falter in the process? Very likely. But that is why Christ gave us the sacrament of penance. Not simply forgiveness, but also a challenge to amend our waywardness. To pick us up, dust us off, and continue on the road He paved for us. The road back home to God. Collectively, we can then see our way to restoring Christ's church to that which He has intended for all eternity. And by such an accomplishment we will have wiped away a distorted image of Christ's church. The unobstructed image will clearly reveal Christ's purpose to those who seek the comforting and protective embrace of Holy Mother Church. For those who strive to do God's will, find peace in knowing that His judgment is equaled by His mercy. In Christ, Alan A. Malizia St. James Parish, Danielson, CT

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Monsignor Willis W. West Jr. July 14, 1937 ~ February 21, 2014 Norwich - Monsignor Willis W. West Jr., 76, retired priest of the Diocese of Norwich, died Friday, Feb. 21, 2014, in Willimantic. Monsignor West had served in several parishes in the diocese, including as assistant pastor at St. Mary Star of the Sea in New London, St. Patrick in Mystic, Cathedral of St. Patrick in Norwich, and as pastor of St. Phillip in Warrenville and St. Joseph Parish in Willimantic where he served as pastor for 23 years prior to his retirement in 2007. Monsignor West was born in Rockville, July 14, 1937, son of the late Connie M. (Phillips) of Rockville and of the late Willis W. West Sr. A graduate of Assumption College, Worcester, Mass., he received his theological training at St. Bernard Seminary, Rochester, N.Y. and Christ the King, St. Bonaventure, Olean, N.Y. Monsignor West was ordained to the priesthood on May 23, 1963 by The Most Reverend Vincent J. Hines, D.D., Bishop of Norwich at the Cathedral of Saint Patrick, Norwich. Among his many distinguished diocesan assignments were his appointment as dean of the Willimantic Deanery, the board of directors of Domus Vitae and diocesan director of cemeteries. He is fondly remembered for his inspirational love for the church. As described by a former St. Joseph Church secretary, Monsignor West was “a priest’s priest. Priesthood came first and church came first, everything else came second.” Monsignor West is also gratefully remembered as having been instrumental in the founding of the Saint Joseph Living Center in Willimantic, and for his service as president of the Board. Monsignor West is survived by his brothers, Richard of Rockville, and Robert of Fort Lauderdale, Fla.; along with his loving nieces and nephews. The Bacon Funeral Home, 71 Prospect St., Willimantic, 860-423-1234, was in charge of arrangements, and is maintaining the online guest log. ST. MARY & ST. JOSEPH CEMETERY

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wich. For some, that is a reason to exclude my opinion from the current discussion of Physician Assisted Suicide in Ct. This reflects the prevailing societal philosophy/attitude that one’s dignity and worth derive from what one does or can produce. I reject that philosophy. My primary identity is that of a son and it is as a son that I wish to speak on the topic of Physician Assisted Suicide. On February 3, 2014, I received a text message that no one wants to receive. My dad was trying to contact me. It stated simply. “Please call asap. Emergency.” Unable to contact my father or my brother I immediately called Lawrence and Memorial Hospital in New London where my mother had been admitted as a patient on Friday, January 31. I was told the words that no son ever wants to hear: “I am very sorry but your mother has passed.” Joking with the nurses just moments before, the nurses returned to her room and were unable to revive her. She died of cardiac arrest brought on by sepsus (MRSA). Jeanne, my mom, was suffering from dementia. Some say it is a blessing that she went so quickly and did not have to suffer. My heart does not agree. Bedridden since Labor Day, Jeanne Nagle became a beacon of light in her suffering and pain. Her diminished mental capacity and physical capacity became a daily struggle but it is one my dad accepted with grace. She was not able to feed herself, she would constantly call me by my brother’s name (Marty). As a family we were fortunate to have the loving care of the Visiting Nurses of Southeast CT, Utopia, and Angel Care. This was an incredible blessing. Their care enabled my parents to celebrate their 50th wedding anniversary on November 30, 2013. The aides even came on Christmas Eve and one

of the Angel Care aides sang a German Christmas Carol in German. One very important point: Not long before my mother’s death she looked at me in perfect clarity and said “I didn’t expect it to end this way.” I didn’t expect for her to die alone, unattended, in a hospital room. I always envisioned her entering eternity surrounded by a loving family at her bedside. Regardless, beneath the dementia was a person very much alive and very alert to what was happening. Why do I say all this? Some people, if physician assisted suicide were to be made legal, may choose to end their life prematurely. This is a line that cannot be crossed. The argument is often made that no one should have to suffer uselessly. These days with advances in Palliative Care, physical pain can be treated. In fact the father of Palliative Care in North America, Dr. Balfour Mount, himself a cancer survivor, is vigorously opposed to a Physician Assisted Suicide Bill in Quebec. So is Jean Vanier, founder of L’Arche, a community of people with mental disabilities. Both Dr. Mount and Jean Vanier can see the dignity of the human person beneath the outer appearance of physical or mental illness. It is argued that there will be strict provisions on who can qualify and who cannot. This is very subjective. Where does the medical community draw the line on what types of pain qualify for life ending medication, and which ones don’t? It is like trying to compare grief. You cannot. It is personal. So is pain. What I and others learned from Jeanne Nagle is that suffering can bring out the best in people. The aides loved to stop by the house and here her say “You are pretty” or “You look really nice today.” Just because she couldn’t feed/bathe/wash herself and produce something for society does not mean her life was without meaning. Her suffering brought ought heroic love in those who cared for her. What does that say about us as a people? All she had was love….and that love trans-

formed everyone around her. In the last week Belgium has passed an assisted suicide law that allows for children of any age with a terminal illness to receive life ending medication. An op-ed piece in the LA Times lauded the decision and recommended that such laws be passed in the US. Do you see the slippery slope that Physician Assisted Suicide brings? By their logic if you can take the life of an adult why not administer life ending medication to children? You see how acceptance of Physician Assisted Suicide opens a pandora’s box of other evils. Nobody likes to suffer. Nobody likes to be in pain. Instead of focusing efforts on how we can terminate a life under the guise of words like “Compassion” and “Choice” shouldn’t we build up a community of caring people who can be the hands and feet to build up the most vulnerable in our population? Was Jeanne Nagle’s story unique? No. There are many who suffer from Alzheimer’s/Dementia. Have others suffered greater and longer and not had the positive experience we did? I am sure. However, every person created in the image and likeness of God has something unique and special to share with us. What is that something? Life is Beautiful and it should be protected and cherished. Please Contact your State Representative and State Senator and say “No” to a bill promoting Physician Assisted Suicide. There has been Assisted Suicide in Oregon for 11 years. A Doctor from Oregon has testified that there is not ONE documented case of a person dying with uncontrollable pain. In that period the suicide rate has increased by 40%. State Representative: Melissa Ziobron 800-842-1423 melissa.ziobron @housegop.ct.gov State Senator: Art Linares 1-800-842-1421 (CT only) 860-240-8800 (out of state)

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Pope Francis Greets 19 Inmates from Pisa Vatican City - Pope Francis set aside his schedule Wednesday to meet briefly with 19 inmates CNA/EWTN News

from prisons in Pisa and the island of Pianosa, greeting each one individually and blessing them. According to ANSA, the secretary for the Synod of Bishops, Archbishop Lorenzo Baldisseri, had organized the inmatesâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; visit to the Vatican and was celebrating Mass for them at the Vatican Grottos when the Pope learned of their arrival and decided to invited them to his residence. He spent a few minutes greeting them at St. Marthaâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Resi-

dence, where he lives at the Vatican, before going to St. Peterâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Square for the Wednesday General Audience. â&#x20AC;&#x153;It was a truly beautiful and moving encounter. The Pope wanted to greet and bless each one of them. He encouraged them, and his gesture was one of great spiritual fatherhood,â&#x20AC;? Archbishop Baldisseri said. Inmates said the 15 minutelong visit was â&#x20AC;&#x153;very beautiful and emotional.â&#x20AC;? Chaplains from prisons across Italy are taking part in spiritual pilgrimages for inmates to Rome to attend the General Audiences with Pope Francis at St. Peterâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Square.

Diocese News Brief The Gift of Grace Prison ministry volunteer training program trains volunteers to minister to over 4700 men and women in the state of CT who are incarcerated. The Office of Prison Ministry will be sponsoring its first Restorative Justice Forum in the Fall of 2014.

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Unfailing Prayer to St. Anthony O Holy St. Anthony, gentlest of Saints, your love for God and Charity for His creatures, made you worthy, when on earth, to possess miraculous powers. Miracles waited on your word, which you were ever ready to speak for those in trouble or anxiety. Encouraged by this thought, I implore of you to obtain for me (state request here). The answer to my prayer may require a miracle, even so, you are the Saint of Miracles. O gentle and loving St. Anthony, whose heart was ever full of human sympathy, whisper my petition into the ears of the Sweet Infant Jesus, who loved to be folded in your arms; and the gratitude of my heart will ever be yours. Amen. Promise publication and for nine consecutive days, pray one Our Father, one Hail Mary and one Glory Be.

~ JR ~

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National Christian Leaders Oppose Mass Incarceration Newark, NJ - Christian leaders sat transfixed as Rev. Darren Ferguson, pastor of Mount Carmel Baptist Church in Far Rockaway, NY, told the story of his decline from adolescent years with promise to incarceration and God’s power to restore and redeem. The leaders of Christian Churches Together in the U.S.A represent the broadest coalition of church leaders in the United States, including: Historic Protestant, Evangelical/Pentecostal, Catholic, Orthodox, and Historic Black Churches. They came together for the group’s annual meeting in Newark, NJ, February 4-7. On this night, the leaders were struck by one thing: Jesus loves the prisoner and he was one. For the past six years, CCT has educated itself and taken action on issues of poverty, racial justice, and

immigration reform. This year, the group furthered its commitment to these issues by engaging the issue of mass incarceration in the U.S. The message was clear from speakers that included formerly incarcerated faith leaders, a federal judge, a former prosecutor, a director of state corrections and a social worker, as well as the deliberation among CCT participants: Mass Incarceration is not just an issue. It is first and foremost about people created in God’s image with lives, families, hopes, and dreams ensnared within a web of personal struggles and choices exacerbated by social conditions, laws, structures, and historic dehumanization of people of color. Mass incarceration is a destructive system of human control where certain ethnic minorities experience

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inequitable interaction with the nation’s penal system. Current realities include: • With only 5 percent of the world’s population, the U.S has 25 percent of the world’s imprisoned people. (The Sentencing Project) • Incarceration rates have increased from 500,000 inmates in jail and prison in 1980 to more than 2.2 million in 2010. (The Sentencing Project) • For-profit prison companies commonly demand 90 percent occupancy from the states that contract with them. (6 Shocking Revelations about how private prisons make money, by April M. Short on Salon.com) • CCA and Geo Group, the nation’s two major private prison companies, “have had a hand in shaping and pushing for criminal justice policies such as mandatory minimum sentences that favor increased incarceration.” (In the Public Interest Report, September 2013) • The “War on Drugs” dramatically increased the U.S. prison population from 41,000 drug offenders in 1980 to half a million in 2010. (The Sentencing Project)

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• African Americans make up 13 percent of the U.S. population and use drugs at the same rates as people of other races, but represent 45 percent of those imprisoned for drug violations. (Drug Policy Alliance Report) • Criminal prosecutions of immigration suspects in federal court districts along the U.S. southern border have increased by 1,475 percent over the last 20 years resulting in increased demand for prisons and detention centers to hold inmates (War on Undocumented Immigrants Threatens to Swell U.S. Prison Population, by Chris Kirkham on Huffington Post and TRAC Reports) • 1 in 3 Black men and 1 in 6 Latino men are likely to be imprisoned in their lifetime. Only 1 in 17 white men will experience the inside of a jail or prison in his lifetime. (The Sentencing Project) In light of these facts and others corroborated by the personal testimonies of several speakers, agreement among CCT’s leaders was palpable. The group declared: The church in the United States has a moral and ethical imperative to protect human dignity and must address the problem of mass incarceration in our nation. First, we recognize that the legacy

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of the dehumanization of people of color has borne lasting effects in current-day society. These effects are perhaps most acutely experienced by our African-American brothers and sisters who were deemed non-human, “chattel,” by law in the days of antebellum slavery and whose human equality was challenged by the Jim Crow system of subjugation until passage of the Civil Rights Act in 1964 attempted to right it. We see the vestiges of these systems of human control in America’s current system of mass incarceration. Second, we recognize that these systems are not only affecting African-Americans. They are now impacting all people of color, the poor, the marginalized, and the immigrant in the United States. Latinos and other immigrants, in particular, are experiencing the brunt of increased detention rates in the midst of their struggle for immigration reform. Third, while there is a role for prisons to address violent offenses, we recognize that our nation’s justice system has lost the hope embodied by its historic vision to “correct” and restore broken people back to society. As followers of Jesus Christ, we believe in the redemption and reconciliation of all things, rather than retribution. This includes the prisoner and broken systems. This is the essence of the gospel. As Christian leaders, CCT declared: “Mass incarceration must stop. We are challenging ourselves together with government and the nation to seize this moment when multiple forces are aligning toward positive action to correct the injustices within our ‘justice’ system.” CCT in the U.S.A. is encouraging its member denominations and organizations to increase awareness, educate, and take action to oppose mass incarceration in the public square. CCT also committed to developing guiding principles for the Church in its efforts.

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Reality-TV Vet Mark Burnett’s Film ‘Son of God’ Assembled Out of Re-edited Footage From Last Year’s ‘The Bible’ For his first foray into feature filmmaking, reality-TV veteran Mark Burnett turned to an unBy Erich Schwartzel

likely source: the cutting-room floor. “Son of God,” currently in theaters almost everywhere, is assembled from re-edited footage and deleted scenes from “The Bible,” his hit miniseries that aired last year on the History Channel—an unusual if not unprecedented approach to putting together a big-screen feature. The effort also means that the roughly $20 million spent producing the original 10-hour series has now spawned a two-hour-plus feature at little additional cost to Mr. Burnett’s LightWorkers Media or Hearst Corp., his partner in the production company One Three Media. Twentieth Century Fox is distributing the film at more than 3,000 theaters in North America and an overseas rollout will follow in the coming months, part of an unusually expansive push for faith-based entertainment. The greatest story ever told has long been a tough sell for Hollywood. Biblically inspired entertainment is typically the domain of niche production companies and straight-to-DVD distribution. The surprise box office success of Mel Gibson’s “The Passion of the Christ” in 2004 set off a feeding frenzy among the major studios, which rushed to produce copycat features targeting Christian audiences, most of which fizzled. Still, Mr. Burnett’s low-cost foray onto the big screen begins a year of high-profile projects that trace their origins to the post-”Passion” boomlet. “Noah,” a $125 million spectacle starring Russell Crowe aboard the ark in the title role, opens one month after “Son of God,” and Fox is set to release “Exodus,” starring Christian Bale as Moses, in December. Mr. Burnett and his producing partner and wife, Roma Downey,

predict a healthy number of people will come to the multiplex to see Jesus’ life, death and resurrection on the big screen, free of the distractions that come with serialized television. “The series was a great over view, but it was told over 3½ weeks, with commercial breaks. You couldn’t really settle in,” said Mr. Burnett. Ms. Downey, an actress from the former CBS show “Touched by an Angel” who stars as Mother Mary in the film, has indicated that more productions are expected to spin off from the success of “The Bible” miniseries in 2015, when two more minis-

eries produced by the couple will air on network prime time. CBS will carry the four-hour “The Dovekeepers,” and NBC will air the 12-hour “A.D.”, a sequel of sorts to “The Bible” tracing the world-wide growth of Christianity. “Son of God” was concur-

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Unfailing Prayer to St. Anthony

Prayer to St. Jude

O Holy St. Anthony, gentlest of Saints, your love for God and Charity for His creatures, made you worthy, when on earth, to possess miraculous powers. Miracles waited on your word, which you were ever ready to speak for those in trouble or anxiety. Encouraged by this thought, I implore of you to obtain for me (state request here). The answer to my prayer may require a miracle, even so, you are the Saint of Miracles. O gentle and loving St. Anthony, whose heart was ever full of human sympathy, whisper my petition into the ears of the Sweet Infant Jesus, who loved to be folded in your arms; and the gratitude of my heart will ever be yours. Amen. Promise publication and for nine consecutive days, pray one Our Father, one Hail Mary and one Glory Be.

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Mount Saint John Continues to Evolve and Grow! Since 1904, the mission of Mount Saint John has been to support boys and By Kathy C. White Chief Administrator/Education Director, Mount Saint John

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young men who are struggling with life circumstances and need assistance with

educational and vocational skills and emotional support. Although our programming continues to evolve, our mission still meets those needs. Our current mission is to â&#x20AC;&#x153;provide high quality clinical and educational experiences that empower individuals and families with

the skills, confidence and fortitude to achieve their full potentialâ&#x20AC;?. As you may know, Mount Saint John was originally established as an orphanage in 1904. We still have 80 year old men who return to visit and exclaim that Evolve & Grow Cont. on page 22

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Mount Saint John Continues to Evolve and Grow! Continued from page 21 they remember living in a particular room and which staff helped them to overcome their challenges. In the mid 1960s, MSJ became a residential treatment facility for boys involved in the juvenile justice system, Department of Children and Families (DCF) or with mental health or school challenges. Various men in their 30s and 40s are sharing their fond memories online and comment that Mount Saint John provided what they needed in terms of encouragement, discipline and safety. Over the past several years, DCF dramatically reduced the use of residential facilities, following the national trend that youth are best served in their communities. Our residential treatment facility closed to DCF referrals on 6/18/13. In an effort to help young men who are now in their communities but continue to need support, we renamed our clinical day school program, “The Academy at Mount Saint John”. Youth from local districts (within an hour drive) attend our program, which offers flexible scheduling

our culinary program. Our music production and graphic arts programs allow youth to enjoy and produce art through a therapeutic environment. Our students benefit from earning more credits that they can in most public schools. Students can earn up to 8 credits per school year (as opposed to 5 – 6 in most schools). They are motivated to work during the vocational/work study portion (2:15 – 4:15PM) because they learn hands-on skills, earn credits and also earn a stipend of $5 – 6 an hour. Their earnings provide opportunities to learn financial literacy and budgeting skills. Often these additional credits allow youth to graduate within a reasonable time, saving school districts money and preventing students from dropping out. The Academy at Mount Saint John offers youth another chance and a different way of learning. How many of you know a boy who learns much better with a hands-on approach? How many need the security of a program with staff who know them well

I continue to meet adults in all walks of life who hear about our school and say they would have benefitted from such an educa-

for young men ages 11 – 21, with high academic rigor and vocational offerings. Two of our vocational courses offer certifications: Home Builder’s Institute/PACT certification (Basic Skills, Plumbing, Electrical, Carpentry, Landscaping, Facilities Maintenance) and ServSafe certification through

and believe in them and will provide a safe learning environment? How many need clinical support to resolve the emotional and behavioral challenges that are impeding their academic success? How many would benefit from learning at a beautiful, spacious college-like campus?

tion. Traditional schooling was not for them. And yet, they have talents and skills that are amazing. Our State and Country need a

skilled workforce and productive citizens! Please consider...Is it not worth investing in the alternative education of youth in need, so that they may have a productive life and we won’t need to provide for them through social services for years or life? We hear in the news every day about underprivileged youth who end up committing crimes because they know of no other way. Research shows that there are increasing numbers of youth who don’t feel comfortable in a traditional, large school environment and therefore become school avoidant. The Academy at Mount Saint John continues to show youth another way to learn and grow. Please contact us to arrange a visit in person or visit us at www.mtstjohn.org . We welcome your support and involvement and hope we can be helpful to someone you know.

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Let’s Hear It For the Nuns! When Mary Margaret Gefre’s boyfriend drove her to the train station in their small North By Christina Capecchi Four County Catholic Contributor

Dakota town, the 19-year-old farm girl didn’t tell him where she was headed on that brisk December day, clutching a small bag containing a rosary, her childhood prayer book, a few dresses and a pair of shoes. She was bound for a cloistered convent in St. Paul, Minn. She was going to become a nun. Today, at age 84, she marks the passage of that heartwrenching winter by three feast days. It was on Dec. 28, the Feast of the Holy Innocents, that her boyfriend Baltzer took her to the train station, giving her a peck on the cheek before driving away. The dark-haired young man had won her over with his deep faith and gentle ways. “I was sure he was going to be my husband,” she told me. “I could envision a happy life with him, babies.” It was on Feb. 2, the Feast of the Presentation, that Mary Margaret officially entered the Sisters of St. Joseph’s community, a bundle of hopes and fears. In the open fields back home, she could see for miles: every sunrise engulfed her, every cloud floated overhead, every star pierced the midnight sky. But in the city, trees crowded in on her. “I felt imprisoned,” she said. “It was sort of like the end of world.” It was on Feb. 14, the Feast of St. Valentine, that Mary Margaret received a love letter from Baltzer. Her superior, Sister Sara Claire, had already read it and handed it to Mary Margaret soberly. The sight of his neat cursive and urgent plea to come home opened a floodgate of

emotion. “It all came back to me. I had to do lots of thinking. It was very hard to give him up, but I just knew my call by then. In my heart I felt that this was my home.” To modern ears, this may sound like a tragedy, but Mary

Margaret – who for 65 years now has been Sister Rosalind – describes it as a happily ever after that keeps getting sweeter. Her life has been wildly, richly full: working as a nurse and witnessing childbirth, establishing an esteemed massage school to bring the healing touch to people in pain, fielding teary confessions and appeals for prayer at every turn. She is a short, wrinkled woman with stardust in her eyes and a mile of joy coiled in her body, compelling her to hug repairmen in the elevator and hold your hand as you walk to lunch. “I am so glad I chose the sisterhood!” she said. “I would not exchange it for anything in the world.” I believe her. Many sisters have told me that religious life enabled them to do more than they ever could’ve hoped, opening up new avenues and awakening new desires. For 20-something women facing big decisions, sisters have surprising wisdom to offer. They’ve been there, they get it. And for those of us who feel frustrated by times when the urgent-but-notimportant manages to trump the important-but-not-urgent, as Stephen Covey puts it, sisters model an integration – daily actions that perfectly correspond with their dearest values. Walking the walk, seldom needing to talk the talk. Their profound impact is being recognized this March

through Women’s History Month. National Catholic Sisters Week is a worthy addition to a month that celebrates movers and shakers, sisters who lead by serving, who show up with great faith and open hearts, seeing God in each stranger on the street. I can’t imagine our country, our church or my life without them. Christina Capecchi is a freelance writer from Inver Grove Heights, Minn., and editor of SisterStory.org, the official website of National Catholic Sisters Week.

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Mercy High School Preparing to Celebrate 50 Years of Tradition Mercy High School turned 50 years old this year. When the school opened in 1963, it was housed on one floor of Xavier High School. The ground breaking for the actual school was in 1964 and the building opened in 1965. “We have a few dates to celebrate in our 50 Years of Tradition, stated Sr. Mary A. McCarthy, RSM and President of Mercy High School. We have various committees comprised of students, alumnae, faculty and staff, past and present parents and friends of Mercy working on three very special and unique events.” Mercy High school will be kicking off its 50th Anniversary with a special Mass on March 24th for the current student body, faculty, staff and honored guests. The original ground breaking for the school was held on March 22, 1964. Current students as well as representatives from each past graduating class will be at the Mass

which will be followed by a school luncheon and events for the students in the afternoon. Ms. Ann Derbacher, Campus Minister is the Chairperson for the Student Mass. March 29 will be the official 50th Anniversary Celebration to commemorate 50 Years of Tradition. Tickets are available via the Mercy online store ( w w w. m e rc y high.com). This celebration will include cocktails and dinner. Tickets are $80 per person. Mrs. Maria Bergan ‘73, Administrative Assistant to the President and Principal is the Chairperson for this evening of celebration. On May 4, they entire

school campus will be busy. The day starts with Mass at 10 a.m. including a special offertory for charity. Brunch will be served immediately following Mass. Guests will then be able to shop in the school store for special 50th anniversary jewelry and items, tour the school, meet and talk with current students, view memorabilia including videos, scrapbooks, posters, school treasures. If any past Peer Ministers are planning on attending Mercy’s 50th Anniversary Mass on May4 and would like to be involved with the Mass, they should contact the Campus Minister,

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St. Bernard Boys’ Hoops Tops Griswold to Win ECC Small Division Title Montville - Remy Bonser scored 20 points as St. Bernard School held off Griswold, 53-49, By Tali Greener Reprint from The Day

to win the Eastern Connecticut Conference Small Division boys’ basketball championship. Anthony Malchiodi added 11 points for St. Bernard, which is 12-5 overall and finishes 9-1 in the division, one game ahead of Windham. “I’m really happy for our kids to be able to win a title,” secondyear coach Mark Jones said. “I told them this is something they’ll never forget.” Jones said his veterans namely Bonser, Malchiodi and Paul Pepas - learned a tough lesson from a year ago when the

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Pi day isn’t about eating pies although you may want to have one to celebrate on March 14th. It’s a day to celebrate math and numbers. Pi is a ratio between a circle’s circumference (distance around the edge) and its diameter (distance across the middle). Circles and numbers are all around you. Numbers are also in the Bible. Jesus had twelve disciples, fasted for forty days (that’s why we have forty days of lent), named the two greatest commandments, and is part of the triune(3 persons in one) God. Look at a few number facts that make life great:

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Cardinals Give Pope Recommendations on Vatican Bank, Financial Affairs Vatican City - Pope Francis met for the third time in late February with his international Council of By Cindy Wooden & Francis X. Rocca Catholic News Service

Cardinals, an eight-member group advising him on the reform of the Vatican bureaucracy and other issues. The Feb. 17-19 meetings focused on financial and bureaucratic matters even as the council was rumored to be working on a draft of an apostolic constitution that would reorganize the church’s central administration, the Roman Curia. Jesuit Father Federico Lombardi, Vatican spokesman, told reporters Feb. 19 that the council members had followed up their discussions earlier in the week by giving the pope a set of recommendations regarding Vatican fi-

nancial management and the future of the so-called Vatican bank. He did not provide any detail on the content of those recommendations. Father Lombardi also announced that the pope would meet with the council again April 28-30 and July 1-4, maintaining a pattern of gathering roughly every two months. The eight cardinals joined Pope Francis on the first morning for Mass in his residence, when he preached on the subject of patience. “Christians must live their lives in time with the music of patience,” the pope said, “because it is the music of our fathers, of the people of God, of those who believed in his word, who followed the commandment that the Lord gave to our father Abraham: ‘Walk before me and be blame-

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The second day of the pope’s meeting with the council also was dedicated to financial matters, but looking more specifically at the activities and mission of the socalled Vatican bank. The morning meeting included a discussion with four of the five members of a commission the pope established in June to look at the Institute for the Works of Religion, the bank’s formal title. Mary Ann Glendon, a Harvard law professor, was not in Rome, so did not participate in the meeting, Father Lombardi said. The commission gave the cardinals a “full report,” Father Lombardi said. The final day of the pope’s meeting with his cardinal-councilors was to include a conversation with the 15-member Council of Cardinals for the Study of the Organizational and Economic Problems of the Holy See, which oversees budget making for the Holy See and Vatican City State. Looking at the administrative and economic institutions of the Holy See, Father Lombardi said, the pope and cardinals are trying to put every office into context and understand how they could work together better for the good of the church. Cardinal-designate Pietro Parolin, Vatican secretary of state, participated in all of the meetings of the Council of Cardinals, Father Lombardi said, and although he has not formally been named a member of the council, he was participating on an equal footing as the cardinals. In addition to Cardinal Rodriguez Maradiaga, the other members of the council are: Cardinals Francisco Javier Errazuriz Ossa, retired archbishop of Santiago, Chile; Oswald Gracias of Mumbai, India; Reinhard Marx of Munich and Freising, Germany; Laurent Monsengwo Pasinya of Kinshasa, Congo; Sean P. O’Malley of Boston; George Pell of Sydney; and Giuseppe Bertello, president of the commission governing Vatican City State.

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Court Denies HHS Mandate Protection for Notre Dame South Bend, Indiana - A Chicago appellate court has upheld a previous ruling denying bY CNN/EWTN News

Notre Dame University legal protections while it moves forward in challenging the federal contraception mandate. “We imagine that what the university wants is an order forbidding [insurer and plan administrator] Aetna and Meritain to provide any contraceptive coverage to Notre Dame staff or students pending final judgment in the district court,” wrote Judge Richard A. Posner of the Seventh Circuit Court of Appeals. However, he said in the Feb. 21 decision, “we can’t issue such an order” without the insurance companies also voicing objections to the mandate. Judge Posner was joined by Judge David Hamilton in supporting a lower court's Jan. 1 decision to deny Notre Dame University temporary relief from having to comply with the Obama administration's federal contraception mandate. The mandate requires employers to offer health insurance policies that cover contraceptives, sterilization, and some early abortion-causing products. A wave of protest and scores of lawsuits followed the mandate’s announcement, and religious nonprofit organizations were subsequently granted an accommodation, under which they can sign a form indicating their objection to providing the products and prompting a third-party administrator to facilitate the coverage instead. Notre Dame has argued that authorizing an outside administrator to provide the objectionable coverage still amounts to immoral cooperation on its part. The university filed a lawsuit and asked for a temporary injunction to shield it from penalties and fines for violating the mandate while its case worked its way through the courts. After a lower

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directly responsible for providing the objectionable coverage and has not shown that its free exercise of religion is substantially burdened by signing the authorization form. He said that he and Judge Hamilton “have trouble understanding how signing the form that declares Notre Dame’s authorized refusal to pay for contraceptives for its students or staff, and mailing the authorization document to those companies, which under federal law are obligated to pick up the tab, could be thought to 'trigger' the provision of female contraceptives.” He suggested that the insurance companies “must provide the services no matter what; signing the form simply shifts the financial burden.” For the coverage to be halted by a court order, he said, the school's insurance companies would also have to be “joined as defendants”

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in the case. Judge Joel M. Flaum dissented from the majority opinion, pointing to 19 other cases in which religious nonprofits were given court-ordered protection from mandate compliance. Flaum also addressed the court's ability to judge whether the university would be “complicit in a grave moral wrong” if it authorized the objectionable coverage. The court, he observed, is composed of “judges, not moral philosophers or theologians; this is not a question of legal causation but of religious faith.” “Notre Dame tells us that Catholic doctrine prohibits the action that the government requires it to take. So long as that belief is sincerely held, I believe we should defer to Notre Dame’s understanding.” Notre Dame spokesman Paul Browne told the South Bend Tribune in a Feb. 21 interview that the government's action is troubling. “Our concern remains that if government is allowed to entangle a religious institution of higher education like Notre Dame in one area contrary to conscience, it's given license to do so in others,” Browne said.

Vatican City – Following the Angelus prayer, Pope Francis launched an appeal for harmony in Ukraine, asking the faithful to pray for the delicate situation in the country is currently experiencing. “While I hope that all the parties within the country will make efforts to overcome misunderstandings and to build the future of the nation together, I also make a heartfelt appeal to the international community to support every initiative in support of dialogue and harmony”. The Pope mentioned that this week sees the beginning of Lent, “the path of the People of God towards Easter: a path of conversion, and of struggle against evil through prayer, fasting, and mercy”. He added that “humanity needs justice, reconciliation, peace, and we can obtain these only by returning with all our hearts to God, their source. We are all in need of God's forgiveness. Let us enter Lent with a spirit of adoration for God and of fraternal solidarity with those who, in these times, suffer as a result of poverty and violent conflicts”.

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