Four County Catholic May 2019

FOUR COUNTY

CATHOLIC

Volume 31 • Number 5 • MAY 2019 Serving The Counties Of Middlesex • New London • Tolland • Windham, CT & Fishers Island, NY

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“There is a ministry here for the young, the old and all in between. We cannot think of a problem that a person can have that is not addressed here.”

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“O Mary Model of a perfect communion help us to receive Jesus worthily” Bishop de Ségur, 1881 organizer of the first formal Eucharistic Congress in Lille France.

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We Can Help To report inappropriate contact of any kind by a representative of the Diocese of Norwich or for assistance for victims, please call: The Diocesan Reporting Line @ 1-800-624-7407

Para reportar contacto inapropiado de cualquier tipo por medio de un representante de la Diócesis de Norwich o para asistencia a víctimas, por favor llame a La Línea de Reportaje de la Diócesis de Norwich 1-800-624-7407

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Incidents involving abuse of vulnerable adults aged 18-59 should be reported to: Connecticut Department of Developmental Services - AID Division for Persons with Intellectual Disabilities 1-844-878-8923

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THE MOST REVEREND

MICHAEL R. COTE, D.D.

BISHOP OF NORWICH

LET FAITH LEAD THE WAY Love Casts Out Fear

My dear sisters and brothers in Christ,

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his is the time of joy in the Church –– this time on the Church calendar between Easter and Pentecost known as Eastertide. We are joyful because we, like the apostles and early followers of Christ, know that He is risen! He is truly risen, alleluia!

Our joy, as a church family, was shaken with the news of the Easter Sunday suicide bombings in Sri Lanka which took the lives of more than 250 people while injuring hundreds of others. The attacks, which targeted two Catholic churches, one Protestant church and three luxury hotels, were timed to deliver maximum destruction, causing emotional and spiritual wounds beyond the shores of Sri Lanka. Tragically, two weeks later, violence again struck a house of worship at the Chabad of Poway Synagogue in California.

Following horrific events, it is easy for some to lose hope. Hope flows from the personal connection we each have to principles of faith larger than ourselves.

Hope is a gift granted to each of us by the life, death and resurrection of Christ. Here lies our strength to change the world for the better. Not in retaliation or divisive political agendas, but rather in love.

God‘s love within each one of us is transformational.

We need to trust and share the love.

We stand with all those suffering. We extend our hearts, our hands and our means to help as faithful Catholics and grateful citizens of a great nation.

Now is the time to pray fervently for peace. Now is the time to act as Jesus would act, responding with peace and kindness rather than reacting with hate and vengeance.

We have a choice. We can either transmit the hate that we see in the world or we can transform it. The choice is always ours. During turbulent times like these it helps to remind ourselves that the Church, as a community of faith, is a living missionary body. We are here to serve others, as Christ inspires us to do.

Inspiration is all around us. At Easter vigil Masses throughout the United States more than 37,000 adults were received into the Catholic Church. In our Diocese, 52 Catechumen and 70 Candidates came into full communion with the Church. What a beautiful beginning to the Easter celebration. We congratulate these newest members of our faith community as they rise to a new life of grace. Our communities are strengthened by their presence.

We are inspired by their choice and we rejoice with them.

Inspiring as well, is the number of young people making their First Holy Communion this month.

Remember the first time you received Jesus? As you approach the altar this Sunday, ask God to

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reignite that childlike joy in you once again. Strive to receive Christ in the Eucharist as if it were your first time.

As we continue our Easter journey, toward the Feast of Pentecost, let us do it with joy. The same joy that the apostles felt in the Upper Room after experiencing the power of the Holy Spirit. As Pope Francis reminds us, “The Spirit frees hearts chained by fear . . . He opens hearts that are closed . . . He impels the comfortable to go out and serve.” My prayer for you during this Easter season is for the power of the Holy Spirit to touch you in a deeper way, to cast out the fear and to change your heart so that you can face whatever challenges this world puts in your path.

Sincerely yours in the joy of Christ,

Bishop of Norwich

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“ There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear”

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THE MOST REVEREND

MICHAEL R. COTE, D.D.

BISHOP OF NORWICH

LET FAITH LEAD THE WAY El Amor Echa Fuera El Miedo

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"En el amor no hay temor. El amor perfecto echa fuera el temor, pues hay temor donde hay castigo. Quien teme, no conoce el amor perfecto." (1John. 4:18)

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Mis queridos hermanos y hermanas en Cristo,

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ste es el tiempo de gozo en la iglesia – Los días entre la Pascua y Pentecostés son conocidos en el calendario de la iglesia como Tiempo Pascual. ¡Estamos alegres porque nosotros, como los apóstoles y los primeros discípulos de Cristo, sabemos que él ha resucitado! ¡Verdaderamente ha resucitado, ¡Aleluya!

Nuestra alegría, como familia de la iglesia, fue sacudida con la noticia de los bombardeos suicidas del domingo de Pascua en Sri Lanka, que cobraron la vida de más de 250 personas mientras fueron lesionados cientos de otros. Los ataques, dirigidos a dos iglesias católicas, una iglesia protestante y tres hoteles de lujo, se programaron para lograr la máxima destrucción, causando heridas emocionales y espirituales más allá de las costas de Sri Lanka.

Trágicamente, dos semanas después, la violencia golpeó de nuevo una casa de culto de la sinagoga Chabad de Poway en California.

Para algunos es fácil perder la esperanza después de terribles sucesos La esperanza fluye de la conexión personal que cada uno tiene a los principios de fe que son más grandes que nosotros. La esperanza es un don concedido a cada uno de nosotros por la vida, muerte y resurrección de Cristo. Aquí yace nuestra fuerza para cambiar el mundo y hacer un mundo mejor. No en represalia ni en agendas políticas divisivas, sino más bien en el amor.

El amor de Dios es transformador dentro de cada uno de nosotros.Tenemos que confiar y compartir ese amor. Estamos junto a todos aquellos quienes sufren. Como los ciudadanos de una gran nación, extendemos nuestros corazones, nuestras manos y nuestros medios para ayudar a los fieles católicos.

Ahora es el momento de orar fervientemente por la paz. Ahora es el momento de actuar como Jesús actuaría, respondiendo con paz y bondad en lugar de reaccionar con el odio y la venganza.

Tenemos una opción. Podemos transmitir el odio que vemos en el mundo o podemos transformarlo.

La elección es siempre nuestra. Durante tiempos turbulentos como estos, nos ayuda el recordar que la iglesia, como comunidad de fe, es un cuerpo misionero viviente. Estamos aquí para servir a los demás, como Cristo nos inspira a hacerlo.

La inspiración está a nuestro alrededor. Las misas de la Vigilia Pascual en los Estados Unidos recibieron más de 37.000 adultos en la iglesia católica. En nuestra diócesis entraron en plena comunión con la iglesia 52 catecúmenos y 70 candidatos. Qué hermoso comienzo de celebración de Pascua.

Felicitamos a estos nuevos miembros de nuestra comunidad de fe a medida que se elevan a una nueva vida de gracia. Nuestras comunidades se fortalecen con su presencia. Nos inspiramos por su elección y nos regocijamos con ellos.

También es inspirador ver el número de jóvenes que este mes hacen su Primera Comunión. ¿Recuerda la primera vez que recibió a Jesús? Pídale a Dios este

domingo al acercarse al altar, que vuelva a encender esa alegría infantil en usted. Esfuércese por recibir a Cristo en la Eucaristía como si fuera la primera vez.

Al continuar nuestro viaje Pascual, hacia la fiesta de Pentecostés, tengamos alegría. La misma alegría que los apóstoles sintieron en el Cenáculo después de experimentar el poder del Espíritu Santo. Como nos recuerda el Papa Francisco, "el espíritu libera corazones encadenados por el temor...

Abre corazones que están cerrados... Él impulsa a los cómodos a salir y servir. " Mi oración por usted durante este tiempo Pascual es que el poder del Espíritu Santo le toque de una manera más profunda, para echar fuera el miedo y para cambiar su corazón para poder afrontar cualquier desafío que este mundo ponga en su camino.

Sinceramente suyo en la alegría de Cristo, Michael R. Cote

Obispo de Norwich

We pray for men to answer the call to be instruments of God’s grace as priests of Jesus Christ.

Thank You

Father Gregory Galvin, Director of Priestly Vocations

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special thank you to all who participated in the Annual Diocesan Seminary Fund Collection. On behalf of our past, present and future seminarians, we thank you!

MR. Michael Bovino 3rd Year Theology Mount St. Mary’s Emmitsburg, MD

Mr. Normand Laflamme 2nd Year Theology Mount St. Mary’s Emmitsburg, MD

Mr. Larry Barile 2nd Year Theology Pope St. John XXIII Weston, Massachusetts

Why is this particular collection so important? In case you did not have the opportunity to donate in years past or hesitated to donate because of all that has gone on with regards to the scandals of clergy in the news these past ten months, please take a few moments more and read on.

First, consider the future of your Church, your diocese, your children’s faith, and the importance you place in having availability to the sacraments for your children and grandchildren in the future.

We all must remember that without future priests to confect the Eucharist, it will not be regularly available to us. The same is true of confession, to experience the mercy of God’s love for us. God is still calling men to be priests to serve His family and make available the sacraments of the Church for His children. You are His children. You are His family.

Men are coming forward each year here in Eastern Connecticut, saying yes to the “Call of God” to serve His family, the Church. We all share a responsibility to say yes to support those called by Christ so that they may be given the best possible formation humanly, spiritually, pastorally and academically.

Last year’s collection of $80,130.32 was very generous and we are grateful to all who were able to financially support the collection. It is important for everyone in the Diocese to know that last year’s collection assisted in us covering the equivalent expenses of one and a half of the ten men currently studying for the Diocese.

In other words, per seminarian; the Diocese pays out $37,000 for tuition, room and board, $5,700 for stipends and $907 per month for health insurance.

This comes out approximately to $54,000 per year per seminarian. That means for this past year the sponsorship of our Diocesan family has invested $540,000! This is why I ask you to consider this annual collection. Please reconsider, pray about it and make a spiritual investment through a sacrificial

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gift to this collection. Maybe, as Bishop Cote wrote in his recent pastoral letter regarding this same collection, “one of those young people from your parish receiving their First Holy Communion, being confirmed this year”…, or graduating from college in the next year or so is a future religious or priestly vocation for the future of your diocese.

They deserve to be able to discern with freedom, God’s will for them, not pressured by mounting bills where they think “oh, I have to continue because I have paid out so much already…” If we can make it possible for them to be true to themselves, true to God and true to their true vocation, then we will be able, for many more years to continue to build well together the Kingdom of God. The Kingdom our Heavenly Father has asked each one of us to take responsibility for in different ways.

for Vocations

Mr. Alexander Pandolfe 1st Year Pre-Theology Mount St. Mary’s Emmitsburg, MD

Mr. Julian Cuervo 1st Year Pre-Theology Mount St. Mary’s Emmitsburg, MD

Thank you again for whatever you can do to help us support our present seminarians and our future diocesan priests. God bless you and thank you again for whatever you can do.

Wishing you a Blessed Easter Season.

The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, leads the Holy Hour

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Mr. Eric Hosmer 1st Year Pre-Theology Mount St. Mary’s Emmitsburg, MD

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Ruben Sanchez UCAELI Program UCONN, Storrs, CT

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DEACON Michael Castiblanco 4th Year Theology Mount St. Mary’s Emmitsburg, MD

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Hundreds Attend Annual Chrism Mass

By Ryan Blessing

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he annual Chrism Mass took place April 16 at the Cathedral of St. Patrick in Norwich, where hundreds of faithful communicants continued the celebration of Holy Week leading up to Easter.

The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, blessed the sacramental oils used by parishes throughout the diocese in the coming year for baptism, confirmation, anointing of the sick and the ordination of priests.

Bishop Cote acknowledged the terrible fire that almost completely destroyed the Roman Catholic Cathedral of Notre Dame in Paris the day before the Mass.

more united with and more closely conformed to the Lord, to “be faithful stewards of the mysteries of God” in liturgical rites and to “discharge faithfully the office of teaching.”

“Churches are great places, they are holy places,” he said. “They honor God, but they honor us as well.”

Bishop Cote asked the faithful to pray for the priests and for himself, that they “may be made day by day a living and more perfect image of Christ, the Priest, the Good Shepherd, the Teacher and the Servant of all.”

After his homily, the Bishop led the Renewal of Priestly Promises before the assembled priests and Jubilarians. Thirteen Jubilarians celebrating anniversaries of between 25 and 60 years took part.

The priests resolved to renew their promises, to be

The Rite of Blessings for the Oil of the Sick, Oil of the Catechumens and the Sacred Chrism took place.

Oil of the Sick blessings were requested by Sister

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Rita Johnson, of the William W. Backus Hospital and Isabella Gauthier, St. Joseph, in Occum.

Oil of the Catechumens blessings for Baptism were requested by James and Megan Hatt and their children Madeline, Henry, Victoria, Olivia and James, Cathedral of St. Patrick. Consecration Request for Confirmation was made by Logan Richards, St. Mary, Jewett City, and Ashley Tulotta, St. Matthew, Tolland.

Sacred Chrism blessing for Consecration for Ordination to the Priesthood was requested by Reverend Mr. Michael Castiblanco.

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Reverend Monsignor Henry N. Archambault, PA, JCD July 11, 1959

Reverend William J. McCarthy, M.S.A. December 20, 1959

55 Years

Reverend William J. Flynn May 7, 1964

Reverend Raymond D. Introvigne May 7, 1964

Reverend William J. McNulty February 22, 1964

Reverend Don Bosco Duquette, O.F.M. Cap. November 28, 1964

50 Years

Reverend David Zercie, M.S.A.

45 Years

Reverend Douglas L. Mosey, C.S.B. May 11, 1974

Reverend Timothy J. Roth, M.I.C. September 14, 1974

Front- Reverend Martin Jones, Reverend Raymond Introvigne, Bishop Michael R. Cote, Reverend Monsignor Henry Archambault, PA. Back- Reverend David Zercie, MSA, Very Reverend Greg Galvin,Very Reverend Jan Swiderski, Reverend James Thaikoottathil, JCD, Reverend Arul Rajan Peter, Reverend Gerald Kirby, Reverend Leon Susaimanickam and Reverend Timothy Roth, MIC.

40 Years

Reverend Leon J. Susaimanickam April 25, 1979

35 Years

Reverend Gerald S. Kirby May 26, 1984

Reverend Arul Rajan Peter May 21, 1984

Reverend James Thaikoottathil, JCD

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Eastern Connecticut Symphony Orchestra Brings Mozart's 'Requiem' to Cathedral

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By Ryan Blessing

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he timeless music of Mozart’s “Requiem,” his final composition, filled the Cathedral of St. Patrick during a special Palm Sunday concert by the Eastern Connecticut Symphony Orchestra on April 14.

The orchestra and chorus performed before an audience that completely filled the Cathedral, and which included The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich.

“God has many titles. He is called omnipresent, He is everywhere. He is called omniscient, He knows everything,” the Bishop said. “But one of my favorite titles of God is that He is called beautiful. So, I’m very grateful for your voices and your music, and for bringing that music to God’s house,” he said.

ECSO Music Director Toshiyuki Shimada conducted the orchestra, and the ECSO chorus was under the direction of Wendy Moy. The “Requiem in D Minor,

K. 626” was Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart’s (17561791) final commissioned work, and one that he could not complete before his untimely death at the age of 35. The work marked a new direction for Mozart away from opera and the symphony toward a reform of church music.

It was completed by his friend and assistant, Franz Sussmayr.

The Edward and Mary Lord Foundation sponsored the concert, with additional funding from the Knights of Columbus and the American Group. Guests also made donations to

St. Vincent de Paul Place. The concert was dedicated to the late Jerry Olson, a longtime ECSO board member.

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Bishop Cote Welcomes 11 Catechumens and Candidates at Easter Vigil Mass

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By Ryan Blessing

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dramatic transformation from darkness to which is used to light the Paschal candle. light filled the Cathedral of St. Patrick as The candle was carried by Deacon Michael Puscas General seating isthefree and part of the admission celebration of the Easter Vigil along main aisle into the darkened Cathedral, onthe April 20. doors will open at 6:45pm. and the Deacon stopped three times, singing “The The Liturgy of Light (Lucernarium) began as Bishop Light of Christ” with congregants responding, Michael R. Cote and ministers proceeded in silence “Thanks Be to God.” Goodwill donations collected event will and darkness to the rear of the Cathedral.

There,at thethe Flame from the candle was spread to the smaller Bishop read to the faithful about the meaning of the benefit the ECSO and the St. Vincent Paulheld Place whitede candles by parishioners, and the whole vigil before performing a blessing of the new fire, church soon was bathed in warm light. in Norwich.

When the Easter candle arrived in the sanctuary, the Deacon chanted the Easter Proclamation, also called the Exsultet, from the Latin, “Rejoice.” The Proclamation tells of the mystery of Easter and of Jesus’ death and resurrection to redeem man.

Following readings during the Liturgy of the Word, Bishop Cote intoned, “Glory to God in the highest,” and the Cathedral bells and organ, mute since Holy Thursday, sounded again in fanfare.

In the Liturgy of Baptism, Bishop Cote blessed the Holy Water with the Easter candle and baptized catechumens Devin Gleason, Camila Michaud and Alice Wang.

Next, Andrew Pavlak and Tyler were initiated into the Catholic Church. Lastly, those who received the Sacrament of Confirmation, in

addition to the five listed above, were Kathleen Aydt, Breanna Comeau, Emilia DePina, Faolan Hurley, Brendan Hurley and Ashley Palma.

In the Liturgy of the Eucharist, the catechumens brought the gifts to the altar and then took communion for the first time.

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ACA Ministry Fair Welcomes Donors

By Mary Ellen Mahoney

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he Red Lion Hotel in Cromwell was the site of this year’s Annual Catholic Appeal Ministry Fair on Sunday, April 7. Twentytwo of the ministries of the Diocese of Norwich were represented by their directors and staff who manned booths showcasing the good works being done by each ministry within our communities. This year, the ministry fair was “open house” style with an expanded continental breakfast being served. It was hoped that by encouraging people to stop in any time between 11am and 1pm, more people would attend the fair. Parishioners who attended received keepsakes ranging from homemade key rings, prayer cards, bottle openers and pens. Door prizes were awarded every half hour as well.

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Bishop Cote welcomed attendees and ministry personnel, thanking donors for their generous support of the ACA and the ministries for their hard work and dedication to their missions. This year’s ACA theme, Hand in Hand with All God’s Children, reverberated throughout the room, as ministry directors thanked donors for their generosity which allows each ministry to be the hands of Christ. Ed Tessman, Executive Director of Catholic Charities, remarked, “The ministry fair is always a great opportunity to meet and engage with donors of the ACA. Supporters of the ACA are critical to our mission and the work that we do each and every day.

This breakfast is not only a way to say thank you but also a way for ministries like ours to let donors know how important they are to us and to share with

Parishioners from St. John Church, Cromwell them the true impact of their support.” Without the kind gifts of our ACA donors, our ministries would

not have the funds to carry out their missions.

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lives of our friends and neighbors was recognized by many donors. Janet and Bill Maune of St. Pius X, Middletown, commented, “There is a ministry here for the young, the old and all in between. We cannot think of a problem that a person can have that is not addressed here.” Tim Sweeney of St. Bridget, Moodus, noted that our ministries are “truly working together, hand in hand with the donors” to bring support and relief to those in need.

The “open house” style as opposed to the sit-down breakfast of past ministry fairs was seen as being more relaxed by many. Jeff and Donna Naples, of St. Andrew, Colchester, observed, “The relaxed atmosphere was conducive to enjoying fellowship among loving people who are thankful for all the many blessings that the good Lord provides…” Reflecting on this year’s ACA theme, the Naples also remarked that, “Our burdens can be lightened when we find the courage to reach out and allow others to hold our hands and lead us closer to Christ.” Because of the kindness of our ACA donors, our Diocesan ministries are always extending their hands to those in need and in so doing, bringing both the helped and the helpers closer to Christ.

The 2019 ACA, which kicked off in March, will run through the end of December. If you have already donated, thank you so much for your sacrifice. If you have not, please feel free to contact the Development Office at dodadm@norwichdiocese.net, (860) 886-1928 or to make an online donation, go to www.norwichdiocesedevelopment.org.

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Speaker Challenges Women to Live by the Grace of ‘Yes’

By Mary-Jo McLaughlin

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Companion; The Handbook for Catholic Moms; and A Book of Saints for Catholic Moms. She also has written The Chime Travelers fiction series based on the life of the saints for elementary school readers.

Hendey is the founder and editor of CatholicMom. com and the author of several books, including The Grace of Yes; The Catholic Mom’s Prayer

Through stories of her own faith journey interwoven with tales of various friends, saints and biblical figures who have inspired her. Hendey wove a thread of the various ways that each person is called to say yes to God. This includes saying yes to putting our faith first, evangelizing, transforming the world, humility, forgiveness and doing each even when it is difficult to do so.

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God is the one who makes our to-do list when we live by the grace of ‘yes,’” author, blogger and international speaker Lisa Hendey said during her keynote speech at the ninth annual Norwich Diocesan Women’s Conference at Mercy High School in Middletown. “God has a unique purpose for each of us and for the world. Our ‘yes’ to God is needed in today’s world and it has dignity and worth.”

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Hendey shared a moving story of a challenging ‘yes’ that she made recently. After the conference, she would head to Missouri to support her father in the ongoing care of her mother, who has Parkinson’s disease.

“This is one of my ‘yesses’ for the foreseeable future,” she said. Before arriving for this year’s conference, Hendey looked up the names of the patron saints of the Diocese only to discover they were Ann and Patrick, which are names of her parents. She saw that as God’s affirmation and blessing of her ‘yes’ to be with her parents at this time in their lives despite the impact it will have on her being separated from her husband and family for an unknown period.

She challenged participants to look at their own lives and the intimate ways God also invites them to say yes to the call to be a “Light in a Darkened World,” which was the theme of this year’s conference.

Hendey told the women, “You say yes today to being a light in the world … If we take that light and love and go out to the circles of our life, we can make a difference.”

Saying yes to God’s invitations to each of us can only be done when we are sustained by prayer, Hendey emphasized. “We must prioritize prayer in our lives,” she said, by quieting ourselves daily to listen to how the Lord speaks to us in our unique and individual lives.

To say yes to God’s will in our lives requires that we also find the grace to say no to some requests,

Author, blogger and international speaker Lisa Hendey particularly when we need to slow down and find balance in our lives. Discerning when to say yes or no, Hendey said, necessitates bringing three questions to prayer: How does this affect my other commitments? How does it impact my primary vocation? How will this impact my soul?

Saying no also means letting go of self-doubts, the need to want to do everything on our own and the negative chatter we hear in our heads.

“Self-hatred and a refusal to even begin to ask for help are from that evil one, the one who wants our ‘yes’ to be fragile or nonexistent,” she said. “In order to fully live out the grace of ‘yes’ in our lives, we must eliminate sources of defeat and weakness, and things that render us powerless.”

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he St. Augustine’s Ladies Guild met for tea and a baby shower for the pregnant mothers and clients with young children of Catholic Charities. The guild met at St. Augustine in the Church Hall where, Ed Tessman, Executive Director of Catholic Charities, thanked them for their help and support. Not only did the guild present Ed with a table full of basic needs and essentials for any new mother, they also presented Catholic Charities with a check for $500. These gifts will bring joy to those that seek Catholic Charities out for help and hope during their time of crisis. Stories were shared of clients who have benefited greatly from gifts like these in the past and could not have been happier with the new partnership established with St. Augustine’s Ladies Guild.

Papal Prayer Intention That the Church in Africa, through the commitment of its members, may be the seed of unity among her peoples and a sign of hope for this continent.

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t was a beautiful evening at the Mystic Yachting Center as friends, supporters, staff, volunteers and board members of Catholic Charities gathered to celebrate its 98th anniversary at the Hope Anchors the Soul Spring Gala.

Overlooking the Mystic River, guests were entertained by the Hot Cat Jazz Band while enjoying cocktails and impressive views from the wrap-around covered porch. Guests had the opportunity to bid on many exciting silent auction items, including; tickets to Barrett Jackson Northeast collector car auction at Mohegan Sun; a Cape Cod weekend getaway; a private wine class and tasting for 20; golf lessons from a PGA professional; golf for four at Clinton Country Club; golf for four at Fox Hopyard; and two hand-made Adirondack Chairs, to mention a few.

After enjoying dinner and music on the upper floor, Executive Director Ed Tessman began the evening’s program by welcoming guests and taking them on a journey showing how everyone present affects those who walk through the doors of Catholic Charities in their time of crisis, seeking help and hope.

The theme of this year’s event was Hope Anchors the Soul, taken from Hebrews 6:19.

When asked what makes Catholic Charities so special, Ed answered, “It is each and every one of you. You make Catholic Charities special.”

Catholic Charities is an institutional response of the Church to answer Christ’s call to help and advocate for the poor, the needy and the oppressed regardless of faith, he said. Catholic values, teachings and traditions of the Church provide the foundation for

its mission and work.

“Being there for our brothers and sisters in need is the essence of Catholic faith and tradition,” Ed said. “The ministry of Catholic Charities is deeply committed to providing charitable and compassionate assistance to those individuals and families who need a hand to help them through a crisis or difficult situation. It is your unselfish generosity, care for others and your commitment to Catholic Charities that makes us so special.”

Through the personal stories and letters from clients, guests were drawn closer to understanding and participating in the Christian vocation of exercising charity to provide help and create hope for those most in need.

During his remarks, Ed shared greater insight into the work that Catholic Charities does and the impact that those in attendance have on their work.

“Catholic Charities stands with those who are

Each letter shared throughout the evening was heartbreaking. Each story had a common and consistent characteristic, which was hope.

Pope Francis has said, “Hope is not an idea, it is an encounter.” Ed reiterated that.

“It is through hope and the encounters that we have with those who walk through our doors that Catholic Charities has the ability to change people’s lives,” he said. “It is hope that carries those who walk through our doors during their times of despair.”

Hope is more valuable than we give it credit for, Ed said. “It is the foundation of the work that we do each and every day. Hope is that soft-burning flame, unable to be extinguished and capable of enduring any conditions. Hope is why each of you are here tonight. We collectively hope for a better world and one for our brothers and sisters here in eastern Connecticut. Hope anchors the soul.”

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considered disposable,” he said. “Catholic Charities stands with those whose dignity has been denied. Catholic Charities stands with those whose burdens are more than they can bear. Catholic Charities stands with the poor, the powerless and the voiceless.”

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Tenth Annual Seton Scholarship Dinner Honorees Announced

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Bishop Cote with Dr. Barbara Hamanaka, Sister Mary Patrick Mulready, S.C.M.C. and Ann C. Derbacher this years Seton Honorees

By Kathy Gaito

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ur Catholic schools certainly know the meaning of this year’s Annual Catholic Appeal (ACA) theme, “Hand in Hand with All God’s Children.” The education of each student involves various school personnel working together, putting the child’s best interests first and making the school experience the best it can be.

Similarly, the ACA works with donors, pastors and ACA leadership throughout the Diocese so that our ministries and programs are able to have the biggest impact possible.

Recognizing the exemplary work of our educators, in 2010 Bishop Cote established the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D. Award for Contributions to Catholic Education in the Diocese. This annual award is presented to well-deserving recipients who have made significant contributions to Catholic education in the Diocese of Norwich. The award ceremony takes place at the annual Seton Scholarship Dinner and this year’s honorees are: • Sister Mary Patrick Mulready, S.C.M.C., Principal, St. Joseph School, Baltic • Ann C. Derbacher, Campus Minister and Theology Department Chair, Mercy High School, Middletown • Barbara Hamanaka, Ph.D., Advanced Mathematics and Computer Teacher, Sacred Heart School, Groton.

Sister Mary Patrick firmly believes, “that being with 18 young people helps to keep one young and I am most

grateful that I am part of their lives. Helping to form our youth into responsible Catholic Christians is both a challenge and a privilege as they are the future of the Church and of society.”

Ann C. Derbacher has been an educator at Mercy High School for 38 years. Ann said, “It is truly a blessing to work with the awesome girls at Mercy.

I like to think that I am ministering not only to the girls but to the entire Mercy community. I am never too busy to be present to anyone who walks through my door.”

Dr. Barbara Hamanaka has been with Sacred Heart School, Groton for 27 years. She began her tenure at Sacred Heart as a volunteer and then became part of their faculty. Dr. Hamanaka said, “I like being a teacher because you can never stop learning yourself.

This might mean learning a new approach to teaching your subject, learning a whole new area related to your subject, or perhaps a totally new but interesting area. Another enjoyable aspect of teaching is dealing with young people…it keeps you young in spirit.”

This year marks the 10th annual Seton Scholarship Dinner, to be held on Nov. 3 at 4 p.m. at St. Clements Castle & Marina, 1931 Portland-Cobalt Road, Portland. Sponsorship opportunities, program book ads and tickets ($150 each) are available for purchase by contacting the Office of Development at (860) 886-1928 or dodadm@norwichdiocese.net.

All proceeds from the Seton Scholarship Dinner

support Catholic elementary school students and are distributed by the Catholic Foundation in the form of tuition assistance grants.

We hope many of you will join us in celebrating Sister Mary Patrick, Ann C. Derbacher and Dr. Barbara Hamanaka. Come enjoy an evening out and join hand in hand with others from our Diocese celebrating our honorees and supporting our Catholic schools. It’s a cause that helps provide our youth with a brighter future both spiritually and academically.

Trust in the mercy of God’s love.

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All calls are confidential.

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Foundation Gives $1,000 to St. Vincent de Paul Place and Catholic Charities

“I am the vine and you are the branches. Whoever remains in Me (Jesus) and I in him, will bear much fruit, because without Me, you can do NOTHING…just as the Father loves Me, so I also love (your name}, Remain in My Love…John 15:5,9

Closer Walk with Jesus Saturday, May 4 8:30am coffee, 9-3pm Spiritual Renewal Center Must register/$25 by calling 860-887-0702 Bring your lunch, beverages provided

Weekend Life in the Spirit Seminar Friday- Sunday, May 24-26 7pm to Sunday lunch & sharing My Father’s House, Moodus To register/$150, 860-873-1906 or www.myfathershouse.org A packaged gift of the Pentecost Experience Presented by Fr. Ray Introvigne & Judith Hughes

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atholic Charities and St. Vincent de Paul Place each are recipients of $1,000 in charitable grant funds distributed by the Bodenwein Public Benevolent Foundation.

St. Vincent de Paul Place will use the funds for its food pantry, while Catholic Charities will use its award for emergency basic needs and intensive case management.

The Bodenwein Public Benevolent Foundation distributed $25,000 in grants to 19 nonprofit organizations in the region this year. Last year, the foundation awarded $100,000 in grants.

The foundation has awarded more than $12 million since its inception in 1938. Its mission is to support and promote quality educational, cultural, human services and health care programming for underserved populations.

Healing Mass and Healing Service Sunday, May 26 Mass 1-2pm, Healing Service 2-4pm St. Thomas the Apostle Chapel 872 Farmington Ave, West Hartford Prayer Teams, Individual Prayer, Anointing Healing Mass and Healing Service Sunday, June 9 Mass 2-3pm, Healing Service 3-5pm Immaculata Retreat House, Willimantic Prayer teams, individual prayer and anointing

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Spiritual Renewal Services Our Lady of Fatima, turn your gaze towards us, towards our families, our country, and the world.

Spiritual Renewal Center 11 Bath Street, Norwich, CT 06360 Phone: 860-887-0702

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Healing and Freedom Conference Saturday, May 18 8:30am coffee, 9-4:30pm Spiritual Renewal Center Must register/$25, 860-887-0702 Bring your lunch, beverages provided

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Education is the Road Out of Poverty for Haitian Youth

By Mezalus Emil

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enley Richard’s story is proof that education is the road out of poverty for Haitian youth.

father was a cabinet maker who found occasional work until his death in August of 2017.

The Outreach to Haiti Education Sponsorship recipient, Kenley now works to support his family and send his sister to college.

Kenley started school at age three and attended several different schools because of the high cost of tuition. Kenley was a very intelligent student, often first in his class. But by the time he was in sixth grade at Ernst Desir School, the family’s financial situation was so difficult that Kenley was preparing to drop out.

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For most of his life, Kenley’s family has faced economic challenges. He was born in Port-AuPrince in 1989, the third of seven children of Jean Bossuet Richard and Keteline Noel.

His mother, Keteline, has provided for Kenley’s family through her small trading business. His

The principal of the school, Aldo Moro, didn’t want Kenley to give up and approached the Outreach to Haiti Education Sponsorship director at that time.

Kenley’s high grades and some help from the director got him into the program in 2004.

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With the help of donors and sponsors, Kenley was able to complete his high school classes. When he finished in 2013, he took and passed an aptitude test that allowed him to go to college. Aware of his family’s financial situation, he chose a threeyear study in a vocational school in order to get a job as soon as possible.

Kenley started studying mechanical engineering at the Diesel Institute of Haiti, and the outreach director started looking for internships for him. His first internship at Central Garage PNH gave him good experience. After the internship, he entered into two three-month contracts at Robert Auto Parts from

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November 2017 to April 2018. Following that were two months of downtime, before he landed a job at Apollo Motors.

Kenley said he’s thankful to those donors and sponsors who paid his tuition for so many years and to God, who gave him intelligence to learn in school. With his latest job, he’s been able to help his mother provide for his family and to pay tuition for his sister Yasly, a first-year accounting student.

Kenley said he wants to help a child through Outreach to Haiti in the 2019-20 year. He also said he’s grateful to all those who contributed to his own academic and professional success. He said he’s able to help himself, his family and Haitian society.

He hopes God will keep blessing and protecting donors and sponsors so that the program can continue to exist, operate and transform the lives of other children in Haiti. He also prays for God to bless and protect the administration of outreach in the United States and Haiti, who have worked hard to improve the situation of hundreds, even thousands of children in Haiti.

Sign up to help a child in Haiti. For more information, visit www.outreachtohaiti.org, email info@outreachtohaiti.org or call the Diocese of Norwich Outreach to Haiti office at 860-800-3601.

at Saint Bernard School is a time to…

Learn Learn about all the benefits of our academic and athletic programs.

Join us for our Walkabout Wednesday program which gives parents the chance to visit the campus during a typical school day. See time, dates and registration form at www.saintbernardschool.org.

Grow Grow with us! We are still accepting applications for the 2019–20 school year. And be sure to ask us about our Tailored Tuition Program to help meet your family’s unique financial situation. Applications and more information available at www.saintbernardschool.org.

Discover Discover how Saint Bernard school instills the values, traditions, and skills that will guide your child through tomorrow.

Contact Admissions at 860-848-1271 to arrange a General Tour. This is a campus visit that can be tailored to your specific interests.

Contact us for more information: Saint Bernard School • Grades 6–12 1593 Norwich-New London Tpke • Uncasville, CT 06382 860-848-1271 • www.saintbernardschool.org

Sunday, May 19 Divine Mercy presentation

Saint Agnes Church, Niantic, is hosting a Divine Mercy presentation by Father Dan Cambra of the Marian Fathers of the Immaculate Conception at 1pm in the parish hall. The program will be on the Message and Devotion of Divine Mercy. Following the presentation there will be an opportunity to venerate a relic of Saint Faustina. Father Dan will also be preaching at the weekend Mass at Saint Agnes that weekend. For more information, please call Jane Woodmansee at 860-690-7104 or Mary Cathrine Solomkin at 860-451-8750.

Saturday June 1 Durham Tag Sale

Notre Dame Church, 8-1pm. Rain or shine. Over 40 vendors selling antiques, tools, plants, pictures, produce, furniture, crafts, records, jewelry, yarn, greeting cards, handmade items etc. Vendor space only $15.Vendors do not need to register, just show up that morning. Hidden treasures in the Church Hall offering an assortment of clothing, toys, Christmas and Holiday items, jewelry, china, a variety of linens, brass, kitchen supplies, craft supplies and more. Refreshments in the Church Hall will offer breakfast sandwiches, pastry, hotdogs, hamburgs, and beverages. Please call Bill Shumway for more information 860 349-3397. Future Saturday Tag Sales: June 1, July 6, August 3, September 7 and October 5.

Sunday, June 9 Tea Party

St. Mary Church, Middletown 2-4 pm. Join us for homemade scones, tea sandwiches and desserts served with a special blend regular and decaffeinated tea. Doors open at 1pm in the Parish center. Tickets are $20 and are available after all weekend Masses. You may also call the rectory at 860-347 2365 to reserve your seat.

Saturday, June 15 Saint Lawrence Strawberry Festival & Auction

Saint Lawrence Church, Killingworth, 10-3pm. Come join us for our famous Strawberry Shortcake, a food tent which includes our pulled pork sandwiches, fried dough, burgers, hot dogs and more. This year we will be offering Vendor Spaces at the Festival. If you would like vendor information, please contact Gina Offner. There will also be a Tag Sale, Bake Sale and activities for children which include face painting, games and popcorn. For more information, contact stlawrencec@yahoo.com or visit www.stlawrencechurch. com .

Saturday, June 15 Hope and Healing for the Divorced, Separated

The Catholic Family Services Office is offering a program for Catholics experiencing the pain and hurt of losing a marriage relationship. From 9-2pm. at St. Mary Church Hall, Portland. This workshop will give you time for personal reflection, group sharing, prayer, ritual, journaling, and support with other Catholics seeking hope and healing as you gently move forward in your life. The cost is $15, which includes materials and lunch. Registration is required. To register, contact Mary-Jo McLaughlin at 860-848-2237, Ext. 312 or email at mmclaughlin@norwichdiocese.net.

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Sacred Heart School, Groton

Sacred Heart School, Taftville

50 Sacred Heart Drive, Groton, CT 860-445-0611 www.sacredheartgroton.org/school

Phone: 860-887-1757 www.sacredhearttaftville.org

Gail Kingston, Principal

Mother Christina Van Beck, SCMC, Principal 15 Hunters Ave, Taftville, CT

St. Edward School,Danielson Stafford Springs James School, Mrs. Pelletier, Principal LindaMaryAnne Marie Joyal, Principal 120 WaterSt, St,Stafford Danielson, CT CT 25 Church Springs, Phone: Phone: 860-774-3281 860-684-2600 www.stjamesdanielson.org www.stedward-stafford.org

St. Joseph School, North Grosvenordale

David Sizemore, Principal 26 Main St., N. Grosvenordale, CT Phone: 860-923-2090 www.schoolofstjoseph.org

Academic Excellence. Character. Self-Confidence.

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Diocese Schools Shine at Connecticut

Invention Convention

By Ryan Blessing

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tudents from St. Patrick Cathedral School in Norwich and St. John Paul II School in Middletown were among the participants at the 36th annual Connecticut Invention Convention state finals. The day-long showcase of STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering and Math) took place May 4 at the Harry A. Gampel Pavilion on the University of Connecticut campus in Storrs.

Four Diocesan students learned Monday that they’ve been selected to compete at the National Invention Convention at The Henry Ford Museum of American Innovation in Dearborn, Michigan taking place at the end of May. Only 160 Connecticut students out of the 1,200 at the state event are selected to go.

James Ruckert, Daniel FitzGerald and Brianna Smith students from Saint Joseph School, Baltic.

St. Mary-St. Joseph School, Willimantic

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Ms. Abby Demars, Principal 35 Valley St, Willimantic, CT Phone: 860-423-8479 www.smsjschool.org

“You wowed the judges, impressed the crowds and proudly represented your schools,” Executive Director Susan Mostowy said, addressing the more than 1,200 students from across the state who displayed their inventions.

Students from St. Patrick Cathedral who took home Recognized Inventor Awards were eighth grader Jillian Corl and sixth graders Sophia Hamel and Wess Drowne.

“The Spice Saver basically saves spices from getting all over the place,” Jillian, 12, explained. “I made it out of 3-D printed materials.” She used the engineering program Solid Works to design and print the device, a type of funnel that easily attaches to a spice bottle to make pouring easier.

Sophia made the Trash Travel, a trash can with swiveling wheels and adjustable handles, similar to a luggage case. “It’s for people who have a hard time bringing the trash cans down in their driveway,” Sophia, 14, said.

In addition, Wess was invited to attend the national competition and show his invention, the Water Life, a device that serves as a water filtration and power system for gutter water.

St. Michael School, Pawcatuck

St. Patrick Cathedral School, Norwich

63 Liberty St, Pawcatuck, CT Phone: 860-599-1084 www.stmichaelschoolct.com

211 Broadway, Norwich, CT Phone: 860-889-4174 www.st-patrickschoolnorwich.org

Mrs. Doris Messina, Principal

Sharon Stewart , Principal

St. John School, Old Saybrook

Mother Elaine Moorcroft, SCMC, Principal 42 Maynard Road, Old Saybrook, CT Phone: 860-388-0849 www.saintjohnschoolos.org

Mr. Lawrence Fitzgerald, Principal 87 South Main St, Middletown, CT Phone: 860-347-2978 www.jpii.org

Sr. Mary Patrick Mulready, SCMC, Principal

10 School Hill Road, Baltic, CT Phone: 860-822-6141 www.stjosephbaltic.org

Cozy Gown Display and prototype by St. John Paul II eighth grade inventor Mariana DuongVazquez

Recognized Inventor Award winners from St. John Paul II Regional School were sixth-graders Lauren Carta for Hands-Free Sanitizer 4000 and Emma Caruso for the Sensory Sunflower, seventh-grade student Will Despres for X-O Germ and Mariana Duong-Vazquez, the eighth-grade inventor of the Cozy Gown, designed to keep hospital patients warm.

“I made this invention because last summer my grandmother got extremely sick,” and needed hospitalization, she said. She stumbled upon some everyday hospital problems, such as difficulty

Academy of the Holy Family, Baltic Mother Mary David, SCMC, Principal 54 West Main St, Baltic, CT Phone: 860-822-9272 www.ahfbaltic.org

St. Joseph School, New London

Ms. Marianne Cote, Principal 25 Squire St, New London, CT Phone: 860-442-1720 www.sjsnl.com

Saint Patrick Cathedral students Wess Drowne, Sophia Hamel and Jillian Corl display their awards.

removing the hospital gown, and being cold without a blanket. The soft fabric gown has snap-on sleeves that make it easy to insert intravenous needles into a patient’s arms or check blood pressure. A loop on the gown acts as an IV bag holder. It also has front and back openings for monitors and to make examinations easier. “Anyone could wear a Cozy Gown. It solves many hospital-related problems with just one solution,” she said.

Lauren, Mariana and Will now get the chance to attend the national convention as well.

Academy of the Holy Family, Baltic Mother Mary David, SCMC, Principal 54 West Main St, Baltic, CT Phone: 860-822-9272 www.ahfbaltic.org

Mercy High School, Middletown

Sr. Mary McCarthy, RSM, President 1740 Randolph Road, Middletown, CT Phone: 860-346-6659

www.mercyhigh.com

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Mr. Donald Macrino, Headmaster 1593 Norwich-New London Tpke, Uncasville, CT Phone: 860-848-1271 www.saint-bernard.com

Lauren Carta stands by her invention the Hands-Free Sanitizer 4000.

Leilani Duong-Vazquez, in the sixth grade at St. John Paul II, displayed the Sniffle n’ Snuggle, a new way of making sure facial tissues are always nearby while a person is sleeping.

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St. Joseph School, Baltic

St. John Paul II School, Middletown

Xavier High School, Middletown David C. Eustis, Headmaster Mr. Brendan Donohue, Principal 181 Randolph Road, Middletown, CT Phone: 860-346-7735

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Superintendent Office

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My Dear Friends, During the month of May we pay special tribute in our Catholic schools to Mary, as she is of major importance to us as Catholics. The Hail Mary is one of the most popular prayers in our schools. Many times, we, even as adults, pray it so often that we don’t take the time to really think about what we are praying. In May, we make a concerted effort to prioritize Mary in our schools as the perfect example of humility and acceptance of God’s will.

Praying the Hail Mary at home with your children can be a “teachable moment”. Let’s take a look at the words of this prayer to see the many lessons we can learn from it in our Catholic schools and in our homes.

Hail Mary, full of grace Pope Francis indicates, “that Mary is full of God’s presence. And if she is entirely inhabited by God, there is no place in her for sin. It’s something extraordinary, because everyone, unfortunately, is contaminated by evil. Looking inside, each one of us sees dark sides. The greatest saints were also sinners and all realities, even the most beautiful, are affected by evil – all, except Mary. She is the only ‘evergreen oasis’ of humanity, the only uncontaminated one, created immaculate to receive fully with her ‘yes,’ God who was coming to the world to thus begin a new history.” Mary was filled with God’s grace from the moment of her Immaculate Conception. God chose her to be the mother of our Savior, and she freely accepted.

The Lord is with Thee When I attended Immaculate Conception School in Westerly, R.I. as a boy, I can vividly remember being taught by the good Sisters that this must be Mary’s favorite line of the prayer. The Lord, whom she conceived, is with her always. She was the first Christian, and the Lord has been with her since the Annunciation.

Blessed art thou among women and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus These words come directly from the Gospel of Luke, who describes the meeting of Mary and her cousin Elizabeth. These words resound as much today as they did more than 2000 years ago. The “fruit of her womb” was, is, and always will be Jesus.

Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death. Amen It is almost impossible for our human brains to fully comprehend the power of God to choose a mortal to be the Mother of our Savior. Since the Holy Trinity is one, this does make her the mother of God, the Son. Even though she is in heaven, she still nurtures the body of Christ (us) on earth and prays for us with the true love of a mother.

If we reflect on what the words of this prayer mean, and also on the mysteries of the Rosary while praying, and share these reflections with our children in our schools and at home, we truly can instill upon our children that Our Lady’s grace and love will descend upon us as she is our Spiritual Mother.

May the joy of the Risen Jesus be with your families always,

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Praying for a Miracle Healing Mass

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Sunday, June, 9, 2019 Healing Mass 2-3pm Healing service 3-5pm Prayer teams, individual prayer and anointing.

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Bishop Cote and Dr. Frank Maletz

By Ryan Blessing

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octors, nurses, specialists and other health care workers and caregivers were honored during the celebration of the 29th annual Diocesan White Mass.

“In this Mass for all health care workers, may the divine physician always be a model for their ministry of healing, mercy and compassion,” The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D. Bishop of Norwich, said in his greeting.

The Reverend Ted Tumicki, homilist and pastor of St. Mary Parish in Jewett City, St. Catherine in Preston and Sts. Thomas and Anne in Voluntown, described how 700 religious sisters ministered in Civil War hospitals and battlefields.

“One of the things that is most striking is that the Sisters left very little in testimony about themselves or their work and ministry,” he said. “What we do know comes mostly from the men they helped.”

Jesus is alive and at work in the mission of the Church and the work of its members, Father Tumicki said.

“We see Christ alive and at work when Christians provide compassionate healthcare to anyone in need, whether the person is refugee, immigrant, or citizen, poor or well-off, or needs much care or less,” he said.

Dr. Frank Maletz was the featured speaker at this year’s White Mass brunch after the Mass. Dr. Maletz is a noted orthopedic surgeon and a member of the orthopedics section at Lawrence and Memorial Hospital in New London from 1987 until he retired in 2016.

He has studied opioid addiction over the course of his career and spoke to the assembled clergy and health care providers about how opioid abuse affects the brain, and ways to provide healing and treatment.

“This audience, when it moves out that doorway, by changing a couple of simple things and re-approaching these folks as human beings with a problem that we can fix and re-regulate and help them through, along with our faith and our love, we’re there,” he said. “We make the change in Norwich and New London County, and we become the epicenter of the end of addiction and addictable brains in crisis.”

The White Mass Committee of eight members, which planned the Mass and brunch, includes several noted medical professionals. Its chairman is Dr. Robert J. Keltner, a pulmonologist at Lawrence and Memorial Hospital in New London. St. Vincent de Paul Place catered the brunch.

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Meet The Board of Catholic Charities Dr. Christopher Lipinski Q: How long have you been a member of the Board of Directors at

Catholic Charities?

A: I was asked to join in 2002, by Monsignor Thomas Bride and I’ve been on the board for the past seventeen years.

Q: Why did you become involved with Catholic Charities and what has your involvement looked like during your tenure?

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A: Before joining the Board of Directors, I was a driver for Father

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Martin’s First Saturday Club for the handicapped in Norwich.

Fast forward, some years later, I returned to Main Street to be part of Catholic Charities. I’m struck by the remarkable coincidences in my life and how they seem to fit so well with the mission of Catholic Charities. I feel privileged to be in a position where I can live out the mission of responding to Christ’s call, to care for those most in need and be a part guiding Catholic Charities over the last seventeen years. Currently I serve on the Strategic Planning and Human Resource Committee.

Q: How would you characterize

the Board’s role for a non-profit like Catholic Charities?

A: The board’s role consists of

oversight, strategic planning, governance and growth not to manage the direct operation of the organization but to support the executive director in executing the strategic plan. Tolland and Windham Counties are underrepresented on our Board of Directors and we are always looking for candidates who have backgrounds in marketing, public relations, fundraising, finance and human resources. If you are interested and would like more information about the board and the work that Catholic Charities does, please contact the executive director edwardtessman@ccfsn.org.

Q: Tell us something about your career that most would not know?

A: I received my BSC in chemistry in 1964 from San Francisco State

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for those most in need with Catholic Charities!

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Come for the game! Stay for the FIREWORKS! Dodd Stadium /14 Stott Avenue / Norwich, CT Tickets: $10.00 each Send a “Parish Team” and help support the work of Catholic Charities.

Use this an opportunity to recognize and thank those in your parish who serve the parish community; Altar Servers, Lectors, Eucharistic Ministers, and Children’s Choir.

Individual and group tickets can be purchased by calling Christine Jackel at 860-889-8346, extension 287.

Ed Tessman / Executive Director / 860-889-8346, extension 267

College and my PhD in physical organic chemistry from UC Berkeley in 1968. I was in medicinal chemistry research as a scientist at Pfizer.

After 32 years I retired having served at the highest scientific position.

Q: Tell us about your personal life or family?

A: I was born in Dundee, Scotland, in 1944 to parents who were

refugees from Poland in WWII. I was baptized, not in a church, but by a military chaplain in the Polish 2nd Regiment Motorized Artillery.

We moved from Canada to San Francisco Bay and on December 16, 1966, I was naturalized as an American citizen. I’ve lived a full and blessed life. I’ve been married to the love of my life, Nancy, for 50 years, and we have two grown children, Robert and Janet. We are members of Our Lady of Perpetual Help in Quaker Hill where I serve as parish council chair and church trustee. I was honored as Catholic Charities’ Humanitarian of the Year in 2018, and am very excited for my investiture in the Knights of Malta this November.

Catholic Charities would like to thank everyone who attended our Hope Anchors the Soul Gala and supported the good work that we do throughout Eastern Connecticut.

SINCERE APPRECIATION AND THANKS TO OUR SPECIAL FRIENDS

Fox Hopyard Golf Club, East I am very proud of the work thatHaddam, we do and the impactCT that we have on those living in our community. I know that we could not do this work, if it wasn’t for you, your support and your generosity. On behalf of the Bishop of Norwich, our Board of Directors and my staff, I humbly say, thank you.

Edward J. Tessman Executive Director

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Memorial Day Mass Schedule

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Heavenly Father, Monday May 27, 2019 THE NEW LONDON DEANERY

Saint Mary Cemetery, Jefferson Avenue, New London

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Bishop Michael R. Cote, D.D. will celebrate Mass at 10am.

In case of inclement weather this Mass will be celebrated in St. Mary Church, New London.

THE NORWICH DEANERY

Saint Joseph Cemetery, Boswell Avenue, Norwich

Monsignor Leszek T. Janik, Vicar General, will celebrate this Mass at 9am.

In case of inclement weather this Mass will be celebrated in the Cathedral of Saint Patrick, Norwich.

Sacred Heart Cemetery, Harland Road, Taftville

Reverend Christopher Zmuda will celebrate this Mass at 9am. In case of inclement weather, the Mass will be celebrated in Sacred Heart Church, Taftville.

Saint Patrick Cemetery, Depot Road, Montville Reverend James Sucholet will celebrate this Mass at 9am.

In case of inclement weather the Mass will be celebrated in Saint John Church, Uncasville.

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On this Memorial Day, we pray for those who courageously laid down their lives for the cause of freedom. May the example of their sacrifice inspire in us the selfless love of your Son, our Lord Jesus Christ.

Bless the families of our fallen troops, and fill their homes and their lives with your strength and peace. In union with people of goodwill of every nation, embolden us to answer the call to work for peace and justice, and thus, seek an end to violence and conflict around the globe. We pray through Christ our Lord.

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