Four County Catholic November 2010 by Diocese of Norwich

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Four County Catholic November 2010

Inside Our Diocese Bishop’s Column ....................................................................................3 Vocations Corner ................................................................................5 Diocesan Appointments ....................................................................5 Calendar of Events ..............................................................................6 St. Vincent DePaul - Middletown & Norwich ....................7 Pastoral Planning Update ..............................................................9 Letter to the Editor ........................................................................10 Firefighters’ & EMS Mass ................................................................10 St. Edmund’s Medal of Honor Ceremony ............................11 Liturgy Notes ........................................................................................12 Seton Scholarship Dinner Invitation ..................................13 Why Catholic? ......................................................................................14 Ct Catholic men’s Conference ..................................................15 Silver & Gold Jubilee Mass ............................................................16 Norwich Diocesan Council of Catholic Women..........16 Catholic Campaign for Human Development ..................17 In Tribute ................................................................................................17

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Four County Catholic November 2010

The Most Reverend

Michael R. Cote, D.D.

Bishop of Norwich

It Was Known as Camp Hope My Dear Brothers and Sisters in Christ: It has been nearly three weeks since the 33 miners trapped in a small cave almost a mile below the Atacama desert in Copiapo, Chile rose miraculously from the darkness below. For the first 17 days of their ordeal, they were not able to make contact with the world above them. Trapped. Alone. They lived on teaspoon rations and held on. We now know that is was their faith, more than anything, that helped them survive until first contact. And it was their faith that gave them the strength to hear the grim truth of their circumstances from shift foreman, Luis Urzua. Even after first contact, the prospects of a rescue were slim, if possible at all. They and the entire world above them braced themselves, kept vigil and refused to give up hope. The camp above ground, with its makeshift tents for families of the miners, engineers and workers from other countries near and far, became known as Esperanza – Camp Hope. As the days passed – slowly – an

estimated one billion people in gift. today’s connected world witnessed We live in a world that too the depth and power of faith. Here often rationalizes the destruction in this remote desert, a message of life as a viable choice, or as part would be delivered to the largest of political or ideological dispute virtual congregation ever assem- that finds solution in military conbled. The message, of which I flict more readily than diplomatic, spoke in my previous column, is - or denies end of life care as some- “Together we are determined to how humanitarian. That world build a world where human life is stood still for 70 days and watched always valued, loved and de- as its deeper values of preserving fended.” The experience we lived life overcame its darker tendencies with these men, their families and to undervalue life. the volunteers who lifted them “Rise up in splendor! Your light back to us is the essence of the has come, the glory of the Lord Christian inviolable regard for life. shines upon you.” Isaiah 60:1 This These men were strangers. Yet is as much a message to each of us they were our as it is an anbrothers. This them for the Rise up in splendor! was not an inminers. Life is a tellectual dis- Your light has come, gift too precourse about the glory of the Lord cious – too shines upon you. the greater splendid – to Isaiah 60:1 not do everygood. This was about 33 indithing we can to vidual lives, each of whom was of preserve and protect it, even when absolute value in God’s eyes and in the circumstances look so dark ours. It seemed spiritually fitting and foreboding. To again borrow that each man was carefully raised a thought from my previous colto the surface one at a time. As umn, in the thoughtful words of each man stepped from the rescue the Holy Father, “Each of us is capsule, the world celebrated a sa- willed, each of us is loved, each of cred life saved. Each life a precious us is necessary.” Each miner gave

proof to those words. It seems as if God has chosen Chile as the ground from which such a profound message would be delivered to the world. Earlier this year, we will remember that a devastating earthquake struck in a more southern area of Chile leaving lives lost and families homeless in and around Concepcion. Here again, the Chilean character was tested as was the compassion of the world community. That compassion reached as far as the Diocese of Norwich. I am informed by volunteers still working night and day on the ground in the affected cities and villages that the nearly one hundred and ten thousand dollars collected for Chile earthquake relief this past summer across the Diocese has been provided to a network of agencies with whom the Daughters of the Holy Spirit have interacted for close to fifty years. Every penny is being used for immediate needs such as clothing, blankets and kitchen utensils, as well as intermediate needs such as housing repairs. There are also some long term needs being carefully planned with grateful Chilean vil-

lagers. This is a credit first to the generous parishioners of our Diocese who care so deeply about their brothers and sisters in need. It is also a credit to the Daughters of the Holy Spirit as advocates of the families in harm’s way who so need our prayers and our help. And it is most certainly a tribute to the strength of faith and character of the good people of Chile. Chilean President Sebastian Pinera, who stood by without sleep to greet each of the miners as they stepped out of the rescue capsule, said this about the ordeals his Country has endured -- ‘God put us to the test this year, but God never puts on us a burden that we are not able to cope with.’” A message of resilience, of faith, of hope, of perseverance and of respect for life. A message from the desert where Camp Hope once stood. We will not forget the message of Christian values and the lesson in the joy and fulfillment of a culture of life. Sincerely yours in Christ’s love,

Bishop Michael R. Cote

Fue Conocido Como Campamento Esperanza Queridos Hermanos y Hermanas en Cristo: Han pasado casi tres semanas desde que los 33 mineros atrapados en una pequeña cueva casi una milla debajo del desierto de Atacama en Copiapó, Chile fueron milagrosamente elevados de la oscuridad. Durante los primeros 17 días de esta dura prueba, no tuvieron contacto con el mundo que existía encima de ellos. Estaban atrapados. Estaban solos. Se sostenían de raciones de cucharada. Ellos esper-

aron. Ahora sabemos que sobre todo, fue su fe, que les ayudó a sobrevivir hasta que tuvieron el primer contacto. Y fue su fe que les dio la fuerza para escuchar la cruel realidad de sus circunstancias de parte del capataz del grupo, Luis Urzúa, quien nunca les mintió sobre sus extremas circunstancias. Aun después del primer contacto, si acaso un rescate era posible en lo absoluto, las perspectivas eran pocas. Ellos y el mundo entero encima de ellos se llenaron de vigor,

guardaron vigilia y se rehusaron a abandonar la esperanza. En el campamento, había tiendas de campaña para los familiares de los mineros, ingenieros y trabajadores de otros países cercanos y lejanos, el campamento vino a ser conocido como Esperanza – Campamento Esperanza. Mientras los días pasaban – despacio – aproximadamente un billón de personas a través del mundo fueron testigos de la profundidad y el poder de la fe. Aquí en este remoto desierto, sería en-

tregado un mensaje a la congregación virtual más grande que alguna vez se reuniera. El mensaje, del cual hablé en mi columna anterior, es -- “Juntos estamos determinados a construir un mundo donde la vida humana siempre sea valorada, amada y defendida.” La experiencia que vivimos junto a estos hombres y sus familias y los voluntarios que los levantaron de regreso a nosotros es la esencia del respeto inviolable cristiano por la vida. Estos hombres, aunque eran extraños, eran nuestros hermanos.

Este no fue un discurso intelectual sobre el bien mayor. Sino que fue sobre 33 vidas individuales, cada una de valor absoluto en los ojos de Dios y en los nuestros. Pareció espiritualmente apropiado que cada hombre fue levantado a la superficie uno a la vez. Mientras cada hombre salía de la capsula de rescate, el mundo celebraba la salvación de una vida sagrada. Cada vida un regalo preciado. Vivimos en un mundo que con frecuencia racionaliza la destrucEsperanza Continued on page 4

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Esperanza Continued from page 3 ción de una vida como una opción viable, o como parte de la disputa política o ideológica que encuentra la solución en el conflicto militar más fácilmente que en la diplomacia, o niega el cuidado de fin de vida como si de algún modo esto es humanitario. Ese mismo mundo se detuvo durante 70 días y vio como los valo r e s más

profundos de conservar la vida vencieron las más oscuras tendencias de desvalorar la vida. ¡Levántate y brilla, que ha llegado tu luz y la Gloria de el Señor brilla sobre ti! Isaías 60:1 Este es un mensaje para cada uno de nosotros como para los mineros. La vida es un regalo demasiado precioso – demasiado espléndido – el no hacer todo lo posible para conservarla y protegerla, aun cuando las circunstancias parecen tan oscuras e imposibles. Otra vez tomare prestado un pensamiento de mi columna anterior, en las palabras reflectivas del Santo Padre, “Cada uno de nosotros es intencional, cada Miner Mario Gomez, gestures on his knees after being rescued from the collapsed San Jose gold and copper mine where he had been trapped with 32 other miners for over two months near Copiapo, Chile. AP Photo/Hugo Infante, Chilean government

uno de nosotros es amado, cada ayudar a las victimas de el terreuno de nosotros es necesario.” moto de Chile han sido proporCada minero comprobó esas pal- cionado a una red de agencias con abras. quienes las Hijas del Espíritu Tal parece que Dios ha elegido Santo se han relacionado durante a Chile como el centro del cual tan aproximadamente cincuenta años. profundo mensaje será enviado al Cada centavo está siendo usado mundo. Recordemos que anterior- para necesidades inmediatas como mente este año, ropa, mantas y un terremoto utensilios de ¡Levántate y brilla, devastador ducocina, así rante el cual se que ha llegado tu luz como necesiy la Gloria de el perdieron vidas dades intermey familias Señor brilla sobre ti! dias como la Isaías 60:1 reparación de quedaron sin hogar en Conalojamiento. cepción y en pueblos vecinos Hay también algunas necesidades golpeó en Chile. Aquí otra vez, el a largo plazo que están siendo carácter chileno fue probado al cuidadosamente planificadas junto igual que la compasión de la co- a agradecidos aldeanos chilenos. munidad mundial. Primero, este es un crédito a los Esa compasión alcanzó hasta la generosos feligreses de nuestra Diócesis de Norwich. Me infor- Diócesis quienes se preocupan tan man los voluntarios que todavía profundamente por sus hermanos trabajan noche y día en las ciu- y hermanas en necesidad. Tamdades y pueblos afectados que los bién, es un crédito a las Hijas del casi ciento cuarenta mil dólares Espíritu Santo como defensoras de coleccionados durante el verano las familias que han sufrido daños pasado a través de la Diócesis para y quienes tanto necesitan nuestras

oraciones y nuestra ayuda. Y sobre todo es un tributo a la gran fe y el carácter de la gente buena de Chile. El Presidente chileno Sebastian Pinera, quien sin dormir, estuvo preparado a saludar a cada uno de los mineros cuando salían de la cápsula de rescate, dijo esto sobre las duras pruebas que su País ha soportado – “Dios nos puso a prueba este año, pero Dios nunca nos pone una carga que no somos capaces de enfrentar.” Un mensaje de resistencia, de fe, de esperanza, o perseverancia y de respeto por la vida. Un mensaje del desierto donde una vez estuvo en pie el Campamento Esperanza. No olvidaremos el mensaje de los valores cristianos y la lección de la alegría y la realización de una cultura de vida. No olvidaremos. Atentamente en el amor de Cristo,

Obispo Michael R. Cote Traducido por Rebecca McDougal

ST. EDMUND’S RETREAT ~St. Edmund’s Retreat~ Retreats:

St. Edmund’s at Enders Island

Ninth Annual Enders Island Christmas Craft Fair by the Sea

Saturday November 27, 2010

at Mystic For further information call: 860.536.0565 Or visit: www.endersisland.com

9:30 a.m. to 4:00 p.m.

Days of Recollection November 16 “The Feast of St. Edmund of Canterbury” with Sr. Eugenia Brady, SJC December 8 “The Feast of the Immaculate Conception” with Fr. Tom Hoar, SSE Recovery Retreats November 19-21 Men’s 11th Step on the Rock with Fr. Tom H.

35 Crafter & Artisans Christmas Café Door Prizes

December 3-5 Women’s 11th Step on the Rock with Sr. Maurice D.

Start your Christmas Holiday

Advent Family Retreats December 10-12 December 17-19

with family and friends at the most beautiful place around! Admission donation: $1

St. Michael’s Institute of Sacred Art Join us while we explore the history, the sacred nature and the techniques of the Sacred Arts November 18-21 Calligraphy as a Stepping Stone to a Loving Heart December 2-5 Advent Praying through Calligraphy

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Vocations Director

Reverend Gregory Galvin

Joy Signals the Presence of God Below is part three of the review of chapter five from the book To Save a Thousand Souls, by Father Brett Brannen. This month we review points nine through twelve on signs and characteristics of a good candidate for diocesan priesthood. Point nine is: a good candidate for diocesan priesthood should have good people skills. In this chapter, the discussion focuses on the need for men considering the priesthood to have good people skills. This is necessary because the diocesan priest is going to deal with many different people every day. In many instances, the people a priest may deal with also may be from different cultures as well. If a man is uncomfortable around people in general, or is extremely shy, then this would have to be a main focus of his personal human formation during seminary training. Obviously, not every individual is going to have the same comfort level dealing with people or even different age groups. This is something that should be discussed with one’s vocation director and formation director at a seminary. Point ten is: a candidate should have above-average intelligence. Especially in our country where so many of the people in our parishes are very well educated and have many different types of advanced degrees, a man who thinks he may have a calling to be a priest must consider his academic ability. It is important to note here that to be ordained to the priesthood, a man will have received minimally 8 years of higher education and upwards of ten years. An under-graduate degree is necessary as well as 30 credits of philosophy and then four years of seminary in which different Masters Degrees are attainable. Some men even go further to receive doctorates and/or licentiates in fields such as theology, canon law, and philosophy. Fr.

Brannen reminds the reader, and I think it is an important point to remember, that “God never calls us to a vocation without giving us the wherewithal to live out that vocation”. The eleventh point regarding a good candidate for diocesan priesthood is: he must be physically, emotionally, and psychologically stable. It is most important to remember that priests are people too! There are many priests throughout the world who deal with different types of ailments and yet serve their dioceses very well. Most if not all dioceses today require of each applicant a full physical and psychological evaluation. It is most important that these be dealt with before a man begins formation. Ultimately, a determination must be made before a man is allowed to be ordained as to whether or not he would be able to handle the every day ordinary priestly duties that are necessary in living a priestly life. This must be determined for the

good of the people he will be asked to serve, for the good of himself and for the good of the Church as a whole. The final point for review this month is: a good candidate for diocesan priesthood should be joyful and have a good sense of humor. Joy is something that comes from the very depth of our being. If one is called to be an instrument of the “Good News of Jesus Christ”, that good news should radiate through the way they live their life and in the way they interact with others. Fr Brannen refers to a quote that hangs on a wall in one of the convents of the Missionaries of Charity which reads; “Joy is the infallible sign of the presence of God”. If someone who thinks they are called to be a priest of Jesus Christ always carries a chip on his shoulder, never laughs and finds it difficult to be happy in life, then he needs to reconsider why he thinks Jesus would be calling him to be His instrument of Joy in the world.

Diocesan Appointments The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich, has announced the following diocesan appointments effective October 18, 2010. Very Reverend Leszek Janik, J.C.L. to Vicar General, Diocese of Norwich. The main function of the Vicar General is to be of assistance to the Bishop in his executive governance role. Father Janik will assume his new curial office while continuing as Pastor of Saint Joseph Parish in Willimantic. Father Janik earned a Licentiate in Canon Law from the Catholic University of America and has served the Diocese as Judicial Vicar since May, 2009. Very Reverend Ted F. Tumicki, S.T.L., J.C.L., Judicial Vicar, while continuing as Pastor of Saint Joseph Parish, in Occum, and Theological Adviser to the Four County Catholic. Very Reverend Dennis M. Perkins, Vicar for Clergy, while continuing as Pastor of Saint Michael Parish, in Pawcatuck. Reverend Richard J. Ricard, Bishop’s Delegate for Safe Environments, while continuing as Pastor of Saint Bernard Parish in Rockville. Bishop Cote announced that a Celebration of Appreciation for their many years of service to the Diocese will be held to honor Monsignor Thomas R. Bride, P.A. for his 21 years of service as Vicar General, Monsignor Richard R. LaRocque for his 22 years as Vicar for Clergy and Monsignor Henry N. Archambault, J.C.D., P.A., who retired from the position of Judicial Vicar on May 1, 2009, after 29 years of service in that office.

Veterans’ Day Prayer November 11, 2010 We thank you, God, for all of our Country’s Veterans those of past generations, and those who continue to earn this title today. May we never forget what our Country has asked of them and what they have given in return. Help us to care enough to give them the respect and honor they are due. And strengthen our resolve to build a world modeled on your realm, where war will be pursued no more. This we ask in the name of Jesus, the Prince of Peace. Amen.

Holy Hour for Vocations The Holy Hour for Vocations will now be held in a different deanery and parishes each month. Bishop Cote will lead the prayers of the Holy Hour each month. The schedule is as follows: Nov. 11, 2010 Dec. 16, 2010 Jan. 20, 2011 Feb. 17, 2011 March 24, 2011

Saint Matthias, East Lyme 6:30-7:30pm Saint Bernard, Rockville 7-8pm Saints Peter & Paul, Norwich 4-5pm Holy Family Church, Hebron 4-5pm Saint Mary Church, Putnam 7-8pm

Tuesday, November 2, 2010 Prayer, Praise, Worship & Adoration 7:30 pm at Spiritual Renewal Center, 11 Bath St. Norwich, CT. For information please call Judith Hughes at 860-887-0702. Fri. & Sat., November 5 – 6, 2010 Olde Tyme Christmas Fair St. Andrew Church will hold its annual Olde Tyme Christmas Fair on Friday, November 5th from 4:00 to 8:00pm and Saturday, November 6th from 9:00am to 2:00pm in the Parish Hall, 128 Norwich Avenue, Colchester, CT. Booths will include a bake shop, baskets galore, country store, crafters, special gifts of Christmas, Kids’ corner, mini tea cup auction and Santa. On Friday, a full turkey dinner with dessert and beverage will be served starting at 4:00pm for seniors and 5:00pm for the general public. The cost of the dinner is $7.00 for seniors, $9.00 for adults, $3.00 for children under 10 and children under 3 years of age is FREE. If you have any questions, please call Barbara Palmer at 860-537-2355. Fri. & Sat., November 5 – 6, 2010 Holiday Fair St. Mary’s Church invites you to join them at their Holiday Fair, to be held on Friday, November 5, 2010 from 6pm to 9pm and Saturday, November 6, 2010 from 10am to 2pm at 1600 Main St. (Rt. 31) Coventry, CT. Booths include: Christmas Shoppe, Ye Olde Country Store, The Jewelry Booth, The Doll & Toy Shoppe, Sewing & Stitchery Shoppe, The Religious Store, Small Raffle Booth, Haitian Crafts, Parish Bakery, Fried Dough, and Food Concession. For further information call the Church Rectory at 860-742-0681. Tuesday, November 9, 2010 Prayer, Praise, Worship & Adoration 7:30pm at Spiritual Renewal Center, 11 Bath St. Norwich, CT. For information please call Judith Hughes at 860-887-0702. Saturday, November 13, 2010 Train Display Knights of Columbus Our Lady of the Lakes Council 88903 with the Mohegan Pequot Model Railroad Club and the Central Connecticut G Gaugers Club presents a large Scale Train Display from 10:00am to 3:00pm and

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Sunday, November 14th from 12:00pm to 3:00pm The display will be located in the Church Hall of Our Lady of the Lakes Church, 742 Norwich-Salem Turnpike, Oakdale, Connecticut. A donation of$2.00 for an adult and $l.00 for a child over 6 years of age or $5.00 per family is requested. The Knights of Columbus proceeds will be donated to Toys for Tots. For more information please contact Paul Robillard at phrobillard@hotmail.com. Fri. & Sat., Nov. 13-14, 2010 Yuletide Festival St. Mary’s Yuletide festival will be held at the church hall, Marshall St. in Putnam on Friday, November 13, 2010 from 9:00am-2:00pm and on Saturday, November 14, 2010 from 9:00am-1:00pm. Many crafters and artisans to choose from. Fri. & Sat., Nov. 13-14, 2010 Golden Jubilee Christmas Bazaar St. Luke Church will be held on Friday, November 12 from 5pm to 8pm and Saturday, November 13 from 9am to 3pm in the parish center and church hall. The church is located at 141 Maple Street in Ellington and is handicap accessible. Help us celebrate our Golden Jubilee year! Gift Baskets are back and are great for all the people on your holiday list! Also featured will be a variety of handmade craft items including wreaths, Christmas stockings, beautiful knits, blankets, American Girl clothes, jams, pickles, Pamper your Pet and more! Don’t miss the delicious assortment of baked goods for sale and enjoy a homemade meal fresh from the kitchen. You will also find cemetery boxes, a children’s gift room where children can buy gifts for parents and siblings at a modest cost, attic treasures, vendors, and much more. Don’t miss it! Bring a non-perishable food item for a chance to win a $50 warehouse club gift card. If you have any questions or need further information, call Jane at the rectory at 860-875-8552 Sunday, November 14, 2010 Prayer, Praise, Worship, Adoration & Benediction 7:00pm at St. Mary Church, Coventry, CT. For information call Judith Hughes, of Spiritual Renewal Services, 860-887-0702.

Tuesday, November 16, 2010 Prayer, Praise, Worship & Adoration 7:30pm at Spiritual Renewal Center, 11 Bath St. Norwich, CT. For information call Judith Hughes at 860887-0702.

Tuesday, November 30, 2010 Prayer, Praise, Worship & Adoration 7:30pm at Spiritual Renewal Center, 11 Bath St. Norwich, CT. For information please call Judith Hughes at 860-887-0702. .

Tuesday, December 21, 2010 Prayer, Praise, Worship & Adoration 7:30pm at Spiritual Renewal Center, 11 Bath St. Norwich, CT. For information please call Judith Hughes at 860-887-0702.

Thursday, November 18, 2010 Interfaith Thanksgiving Service Central Baptist Church on Union Square. Norwich churches will gather at 6:30pm with civic and religious leaders participating . A collection of good will, will be donated to Catholic Charities. For more information please call 860-889-2322.

Saturday, December 4, 2010 Christmas in New York City For $96 per person, you can provide the perfect holiday gift for the whole family. Ticket price includes deluxe motor coach transportation and third mezzanine, center aisle seats to Radio City’s Christmas Spectacular. This trip is offered exclusively to families of Saint Patrick through August 31, 2010 before being made available to the public. For information and reservations call Janet Przybysz at 860-5366638 or email przybysz@sbcglobal.net.

Sunday, December 26, 2010 Prayer, Praise, Worship, Adoration & Benediction 7:00pm at St. Mary Church, Coventry, CT. For information please call Judith Hughes at 860-887-0702.

Saturday, November 20, 2010 40th Annual Christmas Fair St. Maurice Church, 32 Hebron Road, Bolton. Form 9:00am-3:00pm. Enjoy handmade treasures including: dolls, stuffed animals, greens and custom ornaments. Over 35 professional crafters onsite. Hot food menu features homemade chowder and baked goods. Free admission. For more additional information please call 860646-0564.

Going Baroque

Sunday, November 21, 2010 A concert of 18th Century Sacred Music “Gloria” – Vivaldi, “Beatus Vir” – Vivaldi, “Trumpet Concerto in D” – Torelli, “Let the Bright Seraphim”- Handle. Norwich Diocesan Choir and Orchestra, Patricia Johnson, mezzo-soprano, Mary Beth Lee, soprano, Carroll Mailhot, mezzosoprano, Ken Tedeschi, trumpet. Concert begins at 7:00pm at the Cathedral of St. Patrick, 213 Broadway, Norwich. Donations accepted at door, call 860-8860403 for information. Tuesday, November 23, 2010 Prayer, Praise, Worship & Adoration 7:30pm at Spiritual Renewal Center, 11 Bath St. Norwich, CT. For information please call Judith Hughes at 860-887-0702. Sunday, November 28, 2010 Prayer, Praise, Worship, Adoration & Benediction 7:00pm at St. Mary Church, Coventry, CT. For information call Judith Hughes of Spiritual Renewal Services, 860-887-0702.

Sunday, Monday & Tuesday, December 5, 6 & 7, 2010 Advent Parish Mission St. John Church, Middletown, CT. For information please call Judith Hughes at 860-887-0702. .

Tuesday, December 28, 2010 Prayer, Praise, Worship & Adoration 7:30pm at Spiritual Renewal Center, 11 Bath St. Norwich, CT. For information please call Judith Hughes at 860-887-0702. Friday, December 31, 2010 New Year’s Eve Prayer Party 7:00pm with Eucharist at 10:00pm at St. Mary Church, Coventry, CT. For information please call Judith Hughes at 860-887-0702.

Tuesday, December 7, 2010 Prayer, Praise, Worship & Adoration 7:30pm at Spiritual Renewal Center, II Bath St. Norwich, CT. For information please call Judith Hughes at 860887-0702. . Saturday, December 11, 2010 St. Mark’s 5th Annual Christmas Cookie Sale 9:00am- 1:00pm (or till sold out.) Plates of assorted, delicious homebaked cookies and our cookbook “Cookie Jar Favorites” will be sold. Themed baskets and a gorgeous quilt will be raffled. Proceeds to benefit the St. Mark Labyrinth and Memorial Gardens, with a portion going toward the church’s general fund. The labyrinth is available to the public for walking/meditation everyday during daylight hours. 222 McVeigh Rd, Westbrook. For further information please call 860-388-9675 Sunday, December 12, 2010 Prayer, Praise, Worship, Adoration & Benediction 7:00pm at St. Mary Church, Coventry, CT. For information call Judith Hughes, of Spiritual Renewal Services, 860-887-0702. Tuesday, December 14, 2010 Prayer, Praise, Worship & Adoration 7:30pm at Spiritual Renewal Center, 11 Bath St. Norwich, CT. For information please call Judith Hughes at 860-887-0702.

Tom Kendzia inConcert

Sunday, Dec. 5, 2010, 7:00pm Join award-winning composer and performer, Tom Kendzia, and the choirs of Kingston, RI’s Christ the King Church and East Lyme’s St. Matthias Church, for an evening of uplifting and spirited music. Tom, composer of “We Will Want No More” and “I the Lord,” has extensively toured the US, Canada and Europe. No advance purchase necessary. St. Matthias Church, 317 Chesterfield Road, East Lyme. For more info, contact Connie Butler in the church office at 860-7395208. Tickets: $10 for an adult, $5 for children under 12. Profits will benefit St. Vincent DePaul Place soup kitchen in Norwich.

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St. Vincent DePaul Celebrates 30 Years of Service with New Face, New Place As preparations get underway throughout Connecticut for the upcoming Thanksgiving holiday, By Mary Tunison

St. Vincent DePaul Place in Middletown has special reason to give thanks, as it marks its 30th year in mission. A significant donation bequest from a local resident spurred on the organization’s purchase of property for a new and expanded food pantry. “The project has actually been in the works for years,” said Ronald R. Krom, Executive Director at St. Vincent DePaul. “We have needed a larger pantry for a long time,” he added. “In 2002, St. Vincent DePaul led the effort to combine the City’s three food pantries: ours, the Red Cross, and the Salvation Army into Amazing Grace Food Pantry, facilitated by our agency,” explained Tanja B. Moriarty, Development Coordinator. “We’ve been operating Amazing Grace Food Pantry in a 2,000 square foot space on Main Street Extension since then.” “Our agency has grown so much since its inception 30 years ago that we have outgrown the name St.Vincent DePaul Place,” said Executive Director, Ron Krom. “In fact, our budget has tripled over the past ten years which is reflected in the huge growth in our programs, including the purchase and operation of our new 6,000 square foot food pantry,” he added. “In 2009, we hit an all-time high serving 9,456 households, or 803 households per month. In these difficult economic times, the number of households served continues to steadily climb.” “When people hear the word St. Vincent DePaul Place, they automatically tend to think we are strictly a Soup Kitchen,” cited Krom. In an effort to communicate

their breadth of services, he said they worked with a local agency to come up with a new logo and image which will be launched in conjunction with the anniversary event. “St. Vincent DePaul - Middletown is our new name, and Meeting Needs & Offering Hope is our companion mission statement,” he said, pointing out that it

will better emphasize their fourpronged mission: food pantry, assisted living services, soup kitchen and community assistance. Founded in 1980, St. Vincent DePaul - Middletown provides meals at their community Soup Kitchen, and offers emergency assistance and outreach services to connect people to basic services that address health needs, mental illness, addictions, housing and unemployment through the Community Assistance Program. They also operate the Amazing Grace Food Pantry and a Supportive Housing Program that provides intensive support services to 56 individuals with disabilities.

In 2007, St. Vincent DePaul began the Next Steps/HUD program in which 15 chronically homeless individuals were placed into their own apartments and supplemented with daily living support. Krom recalls that one of his most memorable moments was being able to tell all of them that they finally had homes of their own. In 2009, St. Vincent DePaul received the Community Impact Award from Middlesex United Way. Both the Middletown and Norwich based sites are community ministries of the Diocese of Norwich and operate independently. “St. Vincent DePaul Middletown receives some financial assistance from the Diocese (about 3% of their annual budget), but is otherwise fiscally responsible for the programs and services it provides,” said Tanja Moriarty. The new pantry, located at the former Suburban Stationers building at 16 Stack Street, underwent extensive renovations including plumbing, heating and air conditioning, windows, ceiling tiles, carpeting, and general carpentry to prepare for its official opening on November 1, 2010. “One of the best features about the new building is space,” cited Krom. “It will enable us to accept and store much larger quantities and varieties of food including fresh fruit and vegetables,” he said. The new facility features a large warehouse section, large freezer/refrigeration units, a dining room, waiting room, three offices, a break room, reception area and delivery entrance. Krom also pointed out that the new parking lot has 24 more parking spaces than the old building, includes separate parking for volunteers and is conveniently located on the bus line providing easy access to local residents.

St. Vincent DePaul depends on community donations to help stock the Pantry. “Typically in late summer, the shelves are low,” reported Krom, adding that people are quick to respond with food and monetary donations whenever they send out an alert. “Amazing Grace Food Pantry is successful because of the cooperative efforts of so many organizations, faith communities and dedicated individuals in our community,” he said. St. Vincent DePaul Soup Kitchen, located at 617 Main Street, Middletown, will host its Annual Thanksgiving Day Dinner, November 25th, beginning at 11:30 AM. All are welcome. They are anticipating a larger crowd this year. “Increasingly, we are seeing more ‘working poor’ seeking our services,” cited Moriarty. “Many of our potential guests are employed at low-income jobs, working Monday through Friday, and struggle to make ends meet. We are finding that more and more of our guests are people between jobs or have been laid off.” Approximately 24 volunteers help with serving each year.

In recognition of its 30th Anniversary milestone, St. Vincent DePaul will be hosting a special anniversary celebration showcasing a new place and a new face. The event will feature the grand opening of their new Amazing Grace Food Pantry on Saturday, November 27th at 16 Stack Street, Middletown. Open House begins at 9:30 AM. Bishop Cote, along with other community faith leaders, will offer prayers, song and blessing at an ecumenical prayer service at 10:30 AM, followed by lunch at the soup kitchen, 617 Main Street. All are welcome.

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On the Cover Artist Marela Zacarias created a 3-story mural at the soup kitchen site depicting the St. Vincent DePaul connection to the community. It became a true community project as children added their artistry along the lower sections of the wall.

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St. Vincent DePaul Continued from page 7 In the last fiscal year, St. Vincent DePaul Place provided 308,605 meals from the Soup Kitchen (Meals and Community Assistance Program) and Amazing Grace Food Pantry -- an 8% increase over the previous year. “People have been even more generous with food and monetary donations because the economy is bad,” said Krom. “They are truly concerned about their neighbors having what they need,” he added. Krom’s greatest concern is the onset of winter and what it will mean in terms of housing and homelessness. “More people will probably find themselves living on the edge close to homelessness because of insufficient funds due to job loss or shortened hours and they may not have ways to bridge the gap.” “Our Community Assistance Program (located above the Soup

Kitchen) is overwhelmed with people seeking assistance to avoid losing their rents, mortgage, or utilities,” Krom said. Last year, our Community Assistance Program provided emergency financial assistance and served as a point of entry to other social support services to 402 different households or 1,900 client visits through our office. About 56 percent received aid for rent and security deposits to prevent eviction and homelessness or to secure housing. Twenty-nine percent of these funds were used for utility assistance.” This season, make it count by giving generously. To learn more about these ministries and how you can help, visit: www stvincentdepaulplace.org or call (860) 3440097 www.svdpp.org or call (860) 889-7374.

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St. Vincent DePaul, Norwich St. Vincent DePaul, Norwich, will be celebrating their annual Thanksgiving dinner for the community on November 25th. Two separate dinners are provided; the first begins at 11:30 AM, the second at 1:00 pm. Seating capacity is 100 per sit-down dinner for both Thanksgiving and Christmas dinners. Mohegan Sun sponsored both their Thanksgiving and Christmas dinners in 2009. “We also have a number of donors giving everything from butter pats to napkins,” said Executive Director Jillian Corbin. Thanksgiving is also the time of year when people begin preparing for Christmas. This holiday season, they will be serving a special dinner on Christmas Day for all of the people who have no place to go. To make this day even more special, they are seeking donations of “miracle box gifts” to give each person who attends the meal. Miracle boxes are small plastic boxes (shoebox size) filled with items that let the person know they are important and that someone cares. Established by the Catholic Diocese of Norwich in 1979, St. Vincent DePaul Place, Norwich, strives to meet the needs of the homeless with limited income in the greater Norwich area. Located in the old train station in downtown Norwich, CT, their goal is to provide food, fellowship, and advocacy for anyone in need. They not only strive to meet the immediate needs of those who visit the center, but promote and encourage independent, self-sustainable living. St. Vincent DePaul Place soup kitchen (community meal site) serves an average of 115 breakfasts and 175 lunches six days per week. Their kitchen is open to all; many are homeless, elderly or are struggling with mental illness and come to St. Vincent DePaul Place for a hot meal, companionship and compassion. “We are here for a lot of people who haven’t come in before due to job losses and people whose money doesn’t go as far anymore with the increase in utility bills,” said Corbin. Their food pantry distributes food three days per week and provides food bags for over 1800 people per month. On average, 350 of

these are children. Other services include shower and laundry facilities and advocacy services which provide referrals to social, medical, and counseling services. The agency holds memberships in numerous community groups including the Community Care Team of Norwich. Together they work to end homelessness and poverty in Norwich. They were joint recipients of the Change Award presented in May by the Connecticut Coalition to End Homelessness. The award recognizes the team’s efforts to shelter and help the homeless population in the Norwich area. St. Vincent DePaul serves about 200-300 people each day. “We help hundreds of folks during the year with emergency financial aid including rent, utilities, transportation, medical costs, car repair, etc.,” Corbin explained. “We also help with hygiene, clothing, furniture, and help folks move with our truck,” she added. Unique to the area is Norwich’s large Haitian population. “We have seen a significant increase in our Haitian population coming to St. Vincent DePaul for services,” said Corbin, adding that they have joined forces with the city of Norwich in developing a team to address these needs. “We are working with the committee on providing more services and interpreters. We currently have 1 staff member who speaks Creole.” Tough economic times, layoffs, job losses and reduced hours for many of those still employed, have led to greater demand. “With the increase of people coming to get food, we are challenged with continuing to provide the same amount of food to each person,” said Corbin. “We have had a number of new food drives and continue to get monthly contributions from congregations, churches and other groups.” The issues people are bringing to the door now also are different and more complex than times past. Many are displaced people who have worked all of their lives. “We are getting folks that used to be our donors coming to us for services,” Corbin said. They have either lost their job or perhaps had a medical incident that has put them in financial straits.”

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Pastoral Planning Update Norwich and Willimantic Deaneries In June the parishes of the Norwich and Willimantic deaneries submitted their final pastoral planning recommenBy Sister Elissa Rinere, CP, JCD Office of Worship

dations to Bishop Cote. During the weekend of October 9-10, the Bishopâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s decisions, based on those recommendations, were announced in the parishes. In all, twenty-five parishes had participated in the year long process of study and discussion. In the Norwich deanery, two groups of two parishes are beginning a transition process leading to eventual yoking of the parishes under one pastor. These parishes are St. Patrick Cathedral and St. Joseph Parish, both in the city of Norwich; and St. Thomas Parish in Voluntown and St. Catherine of Siena Parish in Preston. These parishes will soon embark on a process of collaboration which will bring the pairs of communities closer together. Two other clusters of three parishes each will be operating as groups of parishes, rather than as single communities. Each of these clusters proposed plans for working together in Mass schedules, education, evangelization and sacramental preparation. They will now go forward with these plans, with the goal of eliminating as much duplication of effort as possible within the cluster. Should the day come when one of these parishes is without a pastor, the continued operation of the parishes will be assured. One group of clustered parishes is St. John Parish in Montville,

Our Lady of Perpetual Help in Quaker Hill and Our Lady of the Lakes in Oakdale. The other group is St. Mary Parish in Baltic, Sacred Heart in Taftville and St. Joseph Parish in Occum. These parishes are actually a pilot program for the diocese, to see to what degree groups of parishes can function together in order to improve the quality of parish life and make better use of diocesan resources in achieving that goal. The process of pastoral planning began in the diocese with the Putnam Deanery. Recommendations from the people were implemented by Bishop Cote in 2008 when two parishes merged with an existing parish, and two groups of two parishes were yoked under the leadership of one pastor. The process then moved to the Norwich and Willimantic deaneries, and resulted in the decisions announced in October. In early October, initial meetings were begun in the Vernon and Middletown deaneries. The parish representatives from these parishes will work through a process of study, discussion and communication for the coming year. By June 2011 these deaneries will present their recommendations to Bishop Cote In September 2011, th will be beginning in of the two rema Old Saybrook and Currently, the Dio wich is made up of parishes. Of those, parishes are staffed by priests and twelve by pries are members of religious or There are already five dioce priests who are pastors of tw parishes, and that number wil

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9th. Firefighters and EMS specialists hailed from nearly 20 Connecticut cities, towns, villages and hamlets to “honor fallen brothers and sisters” and give thanks to God at their 18th annual Mass. When several firefighters were asked how important the event is to them, they said one word — “very!” Firefighters and EMS workers see God in their work every day. While some people may just go to a job, their profession is more of a calling. Their special Mass reflects their reverence for God’s guidance and protection. They began the day’s events by parading their trucks down Broadway from Chelsea Parade near NFA. Bagpipes and drum lead the way for the old and new trucks in their solemn march with lights flashing. A brand new yellow tanker from Colchester, the Taftville ladder truck, and a ‘57 DeSoto Ambulance were prominent. The $600,000 tanker was purchased last month by Colchester to serve the Westchester area. The ladder truck from Taftville, “pride of the village” was all polished up and proudly exhibited. The DeSoto owner, Dawson Blackmore claimed, “it’s the only one left of its kind in the country!” As parade members approached the Cathedral, they could

see a gorgeous, giant American flag suspended between two ladder trucks. The Mass began with Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich as the principal celebrant paying tribute to firefighters and EMS workers. Bishop Cote later honored the families of firefighter/pump operator William Warren and firefighter Kevin Swan who were killed in the line of duty this year. Very Reverend Monsignor Robert L. Brown was master of ceremonies. Deacon Douglas A. Hoffman from St. Mary’s Parish in Groton gave the homily stressing the importance of their brave work. He started with an anecdote about a little fire engine rushing into a factory blaze to recover secret documents for which the owner was offering a reward. Upon returning, the firefighters were asked how they would use the reward money. They replied “for brakes on that truck!” The bishop along with everyone in the Cathedral laughed. This began the illustration of his homily that sometimes we choose situations and sometimes we are thrown into them like those firefighters in the story. Often times the brave souls who were honored at this Mass were thrown into situations that are not of their choosing; but they choose this valiant profession knowing what may happen. Each day they know their life is in jeopardy, and

they selflessly agree to take on that risk. Deacon Hoffman was filled with pride for them as he told us it is “not a profession for everyone.” He emphasized that firefighters and EMS workers have a calling to serve others daily. He told them that they are “all so brave and courageous for answering the call” to their professions. “God calls us each for his own purpose. It is out of God’s gift of pure love that we are allowed to search and discover, succeed and fail, rise and fall and rise and fall again,” said Deacon Hoffman. Only then can we truly know that we are called to this type of duty. The Deacon offered that in situations cast upon us, the world is trying to “extinguish God’s divine spark as it challenges and tests our faith.” We must “allow the Lord to protect us from the flames that wish to engulf us,” said Deacon Hoffman. After the offertory gifts, the firefighters honor roll was read by their company if they were present, starting from 1993. Then they rang a fire bell from the altar and the back of the Cathedral between each year. There was silence during the readings. “How Great Thou Art” was sung beautifully, then later the National Anthem. As everyone walked out to “Battle Hymn of the Republic”, the ladder trucks were now turned toward the Cathedral with the flag draped in front to form a spectacular and glorious archway.

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St. Edmund’s Seventh Annual Medal of Honor Ceremonies MYSTIC - Simple acts of service to the poor and downtrodden often go unrecognized. Members By Michael Gannon

and friends of St. Edmund’s Retreat choose instead to celebrate them for all the world to see. St. Edmund’s seventh annual Medal of Honor ceremonies, held on Oct. 15, honored The Most Reverend Gregory Aymond, D.D., Archbishop of New Orleans; Lisa Tepper Bates of Stonington, executive director of Mystic Area Shelter & Hospitality; Navyn Salem of Providence whose company fights poverty and malnutrition in 12 countries; and Sister Roseanne Cook, a doctor, and Sister Jane Kelly, a nurse practitioner, Josephite nuns who have combined for nearly 55 years of medical assistance to the rural poor in Alabama. “They inspire us by their lives of service and devotion,” said The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich. Each received a personalized medal. Bishop Cote began the eveninglong event with Mass at Our Lady of The Assumption Chapel on Enders Island. A reception and dinner for about 150 people followed at

From left to right: e Very Reverend omas Hoar, S.S.E, e Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich and e Most Reverend Gregory M. Aymond, D.D., Archbishop of New Orleans. Photos by Edward McCabe

the Mystic Marriott. “We’re looking to honor people who live lives of virtue, and we’ve had local, national and international recipients” said the Reverend Thomas Hoar, S.S.E., president of St. Edmund’s Retreat. He said the board always is looking for suitable candidates. Bishop Aymond, left the Diocese of Austin, Tex. in 2009 to become the first New Orleans native to head the archdiocese. “He has been very active in the rebuilding effort since Hurricane Katrina,” said The Reverend Michael Jacque, S.S.E., an Edmundite priest in Archbishop Aymond’s archdiocese. “He’s been working with the fishermen who are out of work.” Archbishop Aymond expressed his admiration for and appreciation of the Edmundites’ work in his diocese and throughout the South, particularly their work on social justice issues. He also hailed St. Edmund’s relatively new alcohol abuse program, which speakers Bryan Hickey and John Kelly credited with saving their lives The Archbishop was proud and humbled with the award. “I compare myself with the servant in the Bible,” he said. “I am doing nothing more that what God has asked of me.” Lisa Tepper Bates spent years in the United States Diplomatic Service, including several overseas posts, before she found her calling with MASH, which combats family homelessness. But she said love of country and service to the commu-

nity cannot be separated in the United States. “How do we meet the needs of the most vulnerable?” she asked. “We have to address the needs of the least among us if we want to be what we say we are as a nation.” Kelly and Cook said the poverty and hardship in some sections of Alabama would shock even the most hardened Connecticut residents. “Wilcox County has 13,000 people and four doctors,” Cook said. “Ninety-three percent are below the poverty level.” ‘This is just what we do.’” said Chad McEachern, a St. Edmund’s Retreat trustee. “But there are three generations of

people for whom they are the only health care providers - and the face of Christ.” Nanya Salem founded Edesia: Global Nutrition Solutions in 2007 to address malnutrition in her father’s native Tanzania. They produce peanut-based products that do not need refrigeration or water in areas where hunger is rampant. They have helped about 200,000 thus far, including disaster victims in Haiti, Niger and Pakistan. “Proper nutrition is a right,” she said. “Given the obstacles we’ve gone through, when I say we want to reach 500,000, that doesn’t seem

daunting anymore.” The annual St. Edmund’s Honor Scholarship was awarded to Anna Savitsky, daughter of Steve and Pam Savitsky of Oakdale, and a senior at St. Bernard’s in Montville. In another education-related announcement, Reverend Hoar announced that St. Michael’s College, a school run by the order in Vermont, will offer a $20,000 scholarship spread over four years for graduates of Catholic high schools who are accepted to the school. The school will also offer similar parish scholarships in which parishes may nominate a student.

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Saint Cecilia The celebration of the feast of a saint such as Cecilia (November 22) brings us back to the By Sister Elissa Rinere, CP, JCD Office of Worship

very earliest roots of the Church. Very little factual information is available about Saint Cecilia, but she has been venerated as a martyr for at least the past 1600 years. Cecilia is thought to have lived in the second century ( c.175-250) and to have been buried in the catacombs of Rome following her martyrdom. Cecilia is mentioned in the Roman Canon, the first of our current Eucharistic Prayers, which dates from the third century. There is archeological evidence that a woman of Rome named Cecilia held Christian services in her home in the second century. In the ninth century a church named for Cecilia

was built on the site, and remains there today. From a fifth century manuscript about her life and death we are told that Cecilia was a devout Christian who, from her

youth, wanted to dedicate her life to God. However, her father arranged a marriage for her, as was commonly done in those days. Cecilia’s faith eventually led to the conversion of her husband and other members of his family. Part of the account of Cecilia’s martyrdom indicates that she “sang to God in her heart” while being tortured. From this came the desig-

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The First Annual Seton Scholarship Dinner is Announced With a goal in mind ing both an attainable able Catholic educ By MaryLou Gannotti Director of Planned Giving

families of school chil Diocese of Norwich, S dent of Schools John PhD is pleased to an inaugural Seton Schola ner. The event will be h urday, December 4, Mystic Aquarium an for Exploration. In marking the mom casion of the first an Scholarship Dinner, t will also serve to hono Reverend Michael R. C Bishop of Norwich. Bi who has made educati ity in his ministry, is his 35th year in the his 15th year as Bishop, and his seventh year as our Bishop of Norwich. Proceeds generated from the Seton Scholarship Dinner will help to offset the financial difficulties faced by families in need, providing valuable tuition grants. The demand for tuition assistance has grown in these trying economic times. Without the benefit of financial aid, some families are struggling to make their tuition payments to Catholic Schools. The management and disbursement of the funds will be implemented by The Catholic Foundation of the Diocese

tional and entertaining exhibits that will be presented that evening. Beautifully decorated Christmas trees will be on display as the venue will be adorned for the Holiday Season. Students from St. Bernard High School, under the direction of faculty member Celeste Milukas, will provide musical entertainment. The cost to attend the Seton Scholar-

register can www.norwichd click on the Scholarship and follow prompts. Spon are still availa are detailed Registration i tion is also pro this issue of t County Cathol istration deadline is No 19, 2010. For additional i tion, please call the D School Office at 860-887 A special thanks goes o those who have come f thus far, to show their stro port of the Seton Scholarship Dinner. We are looking forward to a wonderful and memorable evening.

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Encountering God in Prayer Part of Why Catholic? Experience â&#x20AC;&#x153;God has really touched our small corner of Connecticut.â&#x20AC;? Carol Paul, a Why Catholic? Parish By Deirdre Malacrea

Coordinator for St. Maryâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s in Putnam, captures the enthusiastic feelings coming from many of the small Christian communities around the Diocese of Norwich as they experience the first season of Why Catholic? ÂżPor quĂŠ ser catĂłlico? this fall. This positive is echoed by Marisol Moody of St. Mary of Stonington, â&#x20AC;&#x153;I have spoken to all the leaders, and everyone is happy with how their meetings have gone. It

is Good News!â&#x20AC;? Sharing the Good News is at heart of the small group experience of Why Catholic? This first season is focused on the exciting journey of sharing the most intimate part of oneâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s faith life â&#x20AC;&#x201C; prayer. Prayer is that experience in our lives that can be both exhilarating and frustrating. A recent Sunday Gospel spoke about the importance of being persistent in prayer by relating the story of the widow who consistently pursues the hard-hearted judge. Jesus reminds us of how eager God is to listen to our pleas. If we humans finally listen to those who pester us, how

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much quicker to listen is our God? In his letters, St. Paul reminds us to pray always. If we remember that prayer is the relationship we have with God, then simply trying to remember that God is always present, is praying always. The first week of the season explored the important topic, â&#x20AC;&#x153;What is Prayer?â&#x20AC;? moving in later sessions to prayer as presented in the Old and New Testaments. As the weeks progress, participants will look at how Jesus and Mary teach us to pray, forms of prayer, sources and ways of prayer, and guides for prayer. Already the small faithsharing communities in the different parishes are enjoying these first few weeks and reporting on how much

growth they are experiencing. The creativity of many of the parish teams is impressive. In one parish, the planning team has established a dedicated Why Catholic? corner in the parish bulletin to share insights. In another parish, they have truly â&#x20AC;&#x153;customizedâ&#x20AC;? the groups so that everyone has found a group in which to feel most comfortable. â&#x20AC;&#x153;So far the response has been very good. One group has committed to creating a Womanâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Prayer Group for the parish. We have been directing people to other ministries to become more involved as needed. We are going to encourage our participants to bring friends or family members to future sessions,â&#x20AC;? remarked Brenda Falusi

of St. Matthew in Tolland. It is truly heartwarming to think that almost every day of the week, at some time of that day, there is a small group in our diocese meeting to share how they meet God in prayer. Anyone who is interested in joining a small group for upcoming weeks may contact Father Joseph Whittel at (860) 443-1875, Marge Vanner at (860) 848-2237 x 312, or Sister Mary Jude at (860) 456-3349. RENEW International is a canonically-recognized Catholic organization operating under the auspices of the Archdiocese of Newark in New Jersey. RENEW International fosters spiritual renewal in the Catholic tradition by empowering individuals and communities to encounter God in everyday life, deepen and share faith, and connect faith with action. RENEW International can be found on the web at http://www.renewintl.org.

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CT Catholic Men’s Conference WALLINGFORD- The Connecticut Catholic Men’s Conference welcomed more than 800 By Michael Gannon

guests to the Oakdale Theater for a day of camaraderie and spiritual renewal. It featured speakers who challenged men to approach their duties as husbands, fathers and Catholics with the utmost seriousness. Speakers included The Rev. Donald Calloway, a Marian priest who converted to Catholicism at the age of 21, Doug Barry, a Nebraska resident who has been spreading and defending the faith across the country since 1992; and Michael Cumbie, a former Southern Evangelical Minister who converted to Catholicism in 2001 and who now is studying for the priesthood in the Archdiocese of Hartford. “Our theme this year is ‘Come, Holy Spirit, Fill the hearts of the Faithful’,” said David Craig of St. Mathias in East Lyme, director of the third annual conference. “We wanted speakers who could talk about the Holy Spirit,” Craig said. He and the attendees would not be disappointed. Barry, a father of seven, cofounded the group Radix with his wife. He said men must be an example in their families. “I see young people today who do not know about the commandments, the sacraments, the gifts of the Holy Spirit,” Barry said. “Have you taught your children that?” He also has little sympathy for men who are afraid of the task, or put off by saying their wives are better at spirituality. “It’s in us” he said. “Men are fighters, competitors, providers. Men make cell phones and space ships...We dig tunnels through mountains. With that and the Holy Spirit, there’s nothing we can’t accomplish.” Father Calloway, was a Navy brat. who converted to Catholicism after a troubled personal and family life that included drugs, alcohol and promiscuity. While his stepfather was on assignment in

Japan, the teenager ran away and was arrested for his involvement with Japanese organized crime. “I’ve been in two institutions,” he said. “I’ve spent time in jail (in Japan), and got kicked out of the Country. I’ve spent time in jail in this Country.” He began his conversion by recalling when, visiting his mother during another hard stretch, he went to a bookshelf looking for some National Geographic magazines with their distinctive yellow color. Instead, he found a single yellow-bound book - a book about Mary. Calloway’s normal mission now is to reach out to youth and young adults. He credits Mary with saving him, inspiring his journey to the faith, and for coming to his aid during his first crisis. Michael Cumbie believes the Holy Spirit played a role as well. “Who do you think replaced those National Geographics with a book about Mary?” he asked. “When you say Come Holy Spirit, be ready! Because it will change you.” Cumbie grew up in a virulently anti-Catholic background, only to have his views evolve along with his study of scripture. Following his conversion, he became a lay evangelist. But the lure of the seminary was too hard to resist. Calloway and Barry said men’s obligations to their wives, children and their faith are neither optional nor negotiable. “You can’t be a luke-warm dad,” Barry said. “It’s time to be an example of self-sacrifice in your family,” said Calloway. “It’s time to man up. It’s time to live it, brothers.” Attendees said the conference serves a range of needs.Bruce Pettit and Dan Guinan of Colchester said there are numerous benefits from both the formal talks and the interaction with other visitors. “You get to recharge,” Pettit said. Peter Reenstra of Colchester said that while the state has similar family-style conferences, the men’s gathering allows for more

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Over Fifty Couples Celebrate Silver and Gold Jubilee Mass All four corners of the Norwich Diocese were represented as married couples came to particiBy Susan Williams Office of Family Life

pate in the Diocesan celebration of Godâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s gift of love in the sacrament of Marriage in the Annual Silver and Gold Jubilee Mass at the Cathedral of St. Patrick on Sunday, October 10th. Over fifty couples celebrating their silver, gold or other anniversary significant to the couple renewed their marriage vows in the Pontifical Mass celebrated by the Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, D.D., Bishop of Norwich and witnessed by family and friends. Mr. and Mrs. Anthony and Alvina Janovicz, members of Sacred Heart Parish in Norwich-

town, celebrated sixty-five years of marriage. Their presence was noted as the most years of marriage at the Jubilee Mass and a beautiful testimony to marriage and family life. Anthony and Alvina have three children, eight grandchildren and twelve greatgrandchildren. The Offertory Gifts were presented by Mr. and Mrs. Janovicz as well as Deacon and Mrs. Warren and Dorothy Cyr who celebrated their Golden Anniversary at the Mass. Along with all couples present, eleven couples celebrated twentyfive years of marriage; ten couples celebrated fifty years; and thirteen couples celebrated over fifty years. Certificates blessing the couples were awarded by Bishop Cote. Celebrating couples along with their family and

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Norwich Diocesan Council of Catholic Women Eleven women from the Norwich Diocesan Council of Catholic Women atBy Judy Pappagallo

tended an all-day Leadership, Training and Development Program at St. Thomas Seminary in Bloomfield On October 2, 2010, sponsored by the Hartford Province Council of Catholic Women. Linda Clark, and Mary Matheus, two members of the new National Council of Catholic Womenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Leadership Team, were the presenters. The National Council of Catholic Women will cele-

brate its 90th Birthday at the 2010 Annual Convention, November 10-13 in Washington, DC. Among the educational workshops that will be presented are: The Theology of the Body; Prayerfulness: Awakening to Life; Gen X and Gen Y: Reaching the Next Leaders; and Called to Holiness: A New Perspective. Six women from the Norwich Diocesan Council of Catholic Women are registered to attend. Connie Gillies from the Middletown District CCW will be installed as the new Province Director for the Province of Hartford.

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Reverend Robert A. Murphy February 10, 1930 - October 12, 2010

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Thanksgiving Prayer November 25, 2010 We thank you, Father, for the gift of Jesus your Son who came to our earth and lived in a simple home. We have a greater appreciation of the value and dignity of the human family because he loved and was loved within its shelter. Bless us this day; may we grow in love for each other in our family and so give thanks to you who are the maker of all human families and our abiding peace.

Reverend Robert A. Murphy, 80, pastor of Saint Joseph Church in Chester, died peacefully on Oct. 12 at Middlesex Hospital in Middletown. Father Murphy was born Feb. 10, 1930 in Freeport, New York, son of the late William and Margaret Murphy. He was the beloved husband of Janet Murphy, who predeceased him on Oct. 19, 1986. After Janet died, Father Murphy decided to become a Catholic priest and attended Holy Apostles College and Seminary in Cromwell, receiving a master of divinity degree on May 12, 1993. Even before his Ordination, he worked on the Seminary Campus for the Mass Association. He was ordained on Nov. 20, 1993 at the Cathedral of Saint Patrick by the Most Reverend Daniel P. Reilly, Bishop of Norwich. A member of the Missionaries of the Holy Apostles Order, Father Murphy’s parish ministry included weekend assistance at Saint Bridget’s Church in Moodus from January 1994 through July of 1997, and during July and August of 1997, he assisted at Saint Mary Parish in Stonington. He was assigned to Saint John’s Church in Old Saybrook on Sept. 3, 1997 as parochial vicar and assisted at Saint Joseph’s Church in New London. He was transferred to Saint Joseph Church in Chester on Nov. 1, 1998 to serve as its pastor. For the past 11 years, Father Murphy dedicated his life to his parish in Chester. He was appointed local animator Aug. 21, 1996 by the Missionaries of the Holy Apostles, and he also served his order as a member of the Provincial Council for two terms. Father Murphy not only enjoyed spending time with his own family, but was instrumental in gathering the families of St. Joseph’s parish through socials, dinners, and other events. He was also a veteran, having served his country during the Korean War. He is survived by six beloved daughters, Christine Mennone and her husband Michael of Guilford, Kathleen Honeywell and her husband C. Laing of Burlington Township, New Jersey, Gail Stevens and her husband Michael of Burlington Township, New Jersey, Patricia Garft and her husband James of Yardley, Pennsylvania, Karen Hart and her husband Charles of Hamilton, New Jersey, and Cheryl Blake of Front Royal, Virginia. He is also survived by his 12 grandchildren, two great-grandchildren, two sisters, and three brothers. He was predeceased by four brothers. A vigil for Father Murphy, with reception, was held on Oct. 15 at Saint Joseph’s Church, Chester, followed by visitation and a parish mass. The funeral mass, presided over by The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, Bishop of Norwich, was held on Oct. 16. Burial with full military honors took place in Saint Joseph’s Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorial gifts maybe made to Saint Joseph’s Church, 48 Middlesex Ave., Chester, CT. 06412. The Robinson, Wright & Weymer Funeral Home, Centerbrook, was in charge of arrangements.

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Being Faithful in Small Things Has Eternal Significance Every week, scores of requests for financial assistance reach my desk as Parish Emergency AssisBy Mary Tunison

tance Fund Coordinator. Most are very legitimate cases – especially considering the scores of people out of work these days. Yet others are not. Some just need lifestyle adjustments. One of the greatest deficiencies and tragedies of our time is the inability to live within one’s means. For certain, it would be nice to have a big house, new clothes, premium cable channels or other good things - but many people’s paychecks fall short. Yet many still indulge beyond the boundaries of their wallets. Some make little or no good faith effort to pay their monthly utility, water or fuel bills. I’m not talking about those who are truly suffering in poverty. I’m referring to the ones who have enough to pay for these basic essentials in life – but don’t – because they want to spend it on other stuff. A sense of entitlement and inability to distinguish between wants and needs leads to poor money management, debt and often despair. I see this on a daily basis. It deeply saddens me because the consequences hurt us all. When volumes of debt accrue, the church or other community organizations are called upon to bail them out. The tragic reality is that those who diligently work hard and sacrifice so that they can pay their bills end up paying higher prices to compensate for those who don’t. These may be harsh words but it’s destroying the fabric of this nation.

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Our forefathers built this nation on good old fashioned blood, sweat and tears. They had backbone -- integrity, determination and perseverance. They faced and triumphed over the kinds of trials, hardships and challenges that many today would not be able to endure. Being a faithful Christian must permeate every aspect of our lives – the big and the small details of life! Good stewardship means managing the resources God has given us wisely. Often it involves sacrifice, ingenuity, budgeting, sound judgment and wisdom. You may only be able to pay the minimum required amount on a credit card or medical bill for a time, but it’s better than not

making any effort at all. Medical authorities tell me time and again how they could’ve have protected someone from collection proceedings had they just paid at least ten dollars a month. It may not be pleasurable to deny ourselves some of the things

we’d like to have in lieu of fulfilling our debts, but it is very important in the scheme of things. Did you know that financial matters are mentioned 140 times in the Bible – more often than prayer, healing, and mercy. It’s important to God so it should be important to us. All that we do here on earth has eternal conse-

quences – our efforts with regard to our finances, our jobs, our families and those with whom we do business, all determine if God will take us to the next level. In Luke 16:10-13, Jesus clearly states, “The person who is trustworthy in small matters is also trustworthy in great ones; and the person who is dishonest in very small matters is also dishonest in great ones.” Jesus cites a very powerful principle here. In essence, in order for God to trust you with larger matters, you must be able to properly handle the small matters of your everyday life. Faithfulness in little things is a pretty fair predictor to faithfulness in big things. If you are not responsible with the thirty dollars God has given you then you will not be responsible with hundreds or thousands of dollars. Jesus said, “Render to Caesar the things that are Caesar’s and to God the things that are God’s.” He tests us at times to see

whom He can trust with greater responsibility. His tests include faithfulness in financial matters, in supporting the church, in relationships, morality, work ethics, integrity, etc. If you pass then you will move into the wealth the bible promises. “God will provide for all your needs according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:19. One of the biggest tests you will ever have is with money for it affects your deepest thoughts, feelings, emotions, integrity, honor, worth, value. Be faithful with what you possess right now and God will promote you over time. God is the one who ultimately opens doors in your life and He has a track record of promoting those who are faithful with His blessings. Mary Tunison works for Catholic Charities, Archdiocese of Hartford, and is a freelance writer, photographer, artist, and graphic designer. She can be contacted at mjtunison@comcast.net.

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Haitian Ministries Restricts Trips to Haiti Following Cholera Outbreak The outbreak has left a confirmed 259 people dead and more than 3,000 ill. Haitian president By Kyn Tolson Haitian Ministries

Rene Preval confirmed the outbreak on Oct. 22, after first reports of the illness and deaths were made in St. Marc in the southern Artibonite department of the country, about 60 miles northwest of Portau-Prince. At Haitian Ministries’ mission house in Port-au-Prince a health workshop will be given to all staff and mandatory sanitary health procedures put in place. Haitian Ministries stands ready to respond to special sanitation/health needs of its partners both in the capital and in the twinned parish communities outside Port-au-Prince. The non-critical trips to Haiti through Haitian Ministries are cancelled for an undetermined length of time. The cholera epidemic in Haiti is likely to grow and persist, and will probably reach the Dominican Republic, health officials report, as they rush to distribute medical supplies in hopes of keeping ahead of the disease’s spread. “Now that cholera has established itself with a strong foothold in Haiti, it is clear to us that it will not go away for several years,” said Dr. John Andrus of the Pan American Health Organization at a news briefing Monday in Washington, D.C. Health officials in Haiti now fear the spread of the disease to the camps of Port-au-Prince, where more than one million displaced people still live. Poor sanitation and hygiene in the settlements make people there particularly vulnerable to the disease, which causes diarrhea and vomiting so severe that it can kill a person within hours. Cholera is an acute intestinal infection caused by ingestion of contaminated water or food that rapidly and dangerously dehydrates the body. Treatment, however, is straightforward. Some people respond well to a simple solution of clean water mixed with sugar and

salt. Others need intravenous hy- environment, like the brackish dration and/or antibiotics. water of an estuary, cholera-causing In the Artibonite valley, treat- microbes — Vibrio cholerae — can ment centers have been erected to live on for a long time. supplement local hospitals. The Dr. Andrus, with the Pan AmerHaitian water authority issued a ican Health Organization, said that “diarrhea declaration” expressing the actual number of people in particular concern about the spread Haiti infected by cholera is likely of cholera to the earthquake areas. higher, because about 75 percent of In the capital, health authorities infected people have no symptoms. and internaThey can carry tional groups the bacteria for Haitian Ministries are working to two weeks and ands ready to respond provide chlorished them back to special sanitation/ nated water and health needs of its part- into the envisoap, to clean ronment, where ners both in the capital latrines, and to they can infect and in the twinned parish communities warn people others, which is outside Port-au-Prince about handmost likely to washing and occur when other hygienic practices. sanitation is poor and clean drinkEfforts at prevention will bring ing water not available. the number of cases down but will By far the most common way not eradicate the bacteria, accord- the disease is spread is through coning to Dr. Andrus. Once the bacte- taminated water. Person-to-person ria find their way into the right spread is far less of a risk because

people need to swallow a large dose of bacteria to get sick. Dr. Robert Quick, a medical epidemiologist at the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention in Atlanta, said that water could be easily disinfected just by boiling it or using chlorine products made for that purpose. Why the disease has suddenly appeared in Haiti is a mystery, experts say. It has not been there in decades, One question that has been debated is whether people in Haiti’s refugee camps and slums should have been given cholera vaccine, or should be given it now. In the early aftermath of the earthquake, the more likely threats were epidemics

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A Vocation Is No Minor Call The question on the cover of the November issue of O, The Oprah Magazine, By Christina Capecchi Four County Catholic Contributor

caught my eye: “What’s your true calling?” It appears beside a pareddown Oprah Winfrey – which is to say her fake eyelashes are less

dramatic. The cosmetics are softer: brown eye shadow, peach lipstick. Wrapped in an ivory sweater, Oprah’s hands are drawn to her heart. She’s practically down-to-earth – except for the walnut-sized emerald on her right hand. “True calling,” of course, is a safe, secular way of saying vocation, and the words have the same origin. Vocation comes

from Latin – the noun “summons,” based on the verb “to call.” It is, by definition, a call or summons, something with an irresistible pull – not a could-do or a should-do but a must-do. The life you were born to lead was designed by a detail-oriented Cre-

ator who counted the hairs on your head and stamped you with

unmatchable fingerprints. As Catholics, we identify the big-picture vocations to marriage or religious life. When it comes to the smaller-scale vocations, a person’s work, the options are multiplied exponentially and things get fuzzy. Suddenly it’s time to declare a major, submit a resume and navigate a labyrinth of salaries, superiors and suits. Few jobs provide a perfect fit, satisfying that quiet hunger to use all your gifts and talents at once, heart and head in concert. Whether it is designing a house, building it, decorating it, selling it or raising a family in it, a vocation feels both important and fun, exhausting and life giving. We can delay or deny, but the summons of a vocation cannot be escaped. I was reminded of this last week when I indulged in

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St. Bernard School Celebrates Xaverian Brothers Sponsorship “Inspiring Lives of Learning, Faith and Service” On October 4, 2010 , it was “standing room only” in the St. Bernard School auditorium in By Michael Strammiello

Montville as the entire St. Bernard School student body joined with student representatives from the other twelve Xaverian Brothers Sponsored Schools to celebrate SBS as an official member of the premier Xaverian School network (XBSS). The Most Reverend Michael R. Cote, Bishop of Norwich, celebrated Mass and delivered the homily, speaking to the historic importance of the occasion for the students, their families and the Diocese. On behalf of SBS, Headmaster William P. McKenna, serving as Master of Ceremonies, welcomed Brother Lawrence Harvey, CFX, General Superior of the Order and Board Chair of Saint Bernard School, and several members of the Xaverian leadership council. Also present were a number of diocesan clergy, including eight priests who are SBS alumni. From the moment students began filing into the auditorium, many with red sweater vests and all with white shirts and blouses, and smiles everywhere, it was clear that this was a day of joy and optimism. As Jen Ericson, SBS sophomore, commented to me, “This is a very exciting day. The Xaverian sponsorship is going to help SBS grow into an even greater school. This is big.” Bishop Cote shared that sentiment as he extended a warm welcome to Brother Larry and recalled how this day has been years in the making. He asked God to bless this association for many years to come. The Bishop spoke of the importance of community. Of trust. Of kindness. “We are not islands; we are members of the human family with God as our Father.” “Compassion, honesty and justice,” he shared with the students, “is what you will leave here with.” The Bishop’s words were echoed in the voices of the student choir

members who sang to the musical accompaniment of piano and guitar, “Make me a channel of your peace,” and in the lyrical St. Francis prayer, “For it is in giving that we receive.” Brother Larry took the opportunity to return words of appreciation for the collaboration and to thank by name many contributors who were instrumental in making this day happen. He spoke of the 150 years of proud educating experience brought to this collaboration by the Congregation of the Brothers of St. Francis Xavier. He touched on the core principle of inspiring lives of learning, faith and service. “Students,” he assured, “will be moved to compassion beyond imagined boundaries.” In addition to St. Bernard School, the XBSS network includes 12 other schools that serve over 13,000 students. The

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Eagle Scout Builds Outdoor Stations of the Cross at St. Bridget of Kildare Church in Moodus

Father Gregoire Fluet and Eagle Scout Colin D’Amelio at the dedication ceremony On a beautiful autumn afternoon, community members, family, friends and parishioners of St. Bridget of Kildare Church in Moodus, came together for the dedication of a newly constructed outdoor Stations of the Cross. The stations were constructed as an Eagle Scout project by Colin D’Amelio, with the blessing of the pastor of St.

Our Lady of Lourdes Shrine, at the center of the new outdoor Stations of the Cross at St. Bridget of Kildare Church.

Bridget, Rev. Gregoire Fluet. When asked why he wanted to take on such a project, Colin, who is an altar server at St. Bridget’s, said that he “wanted to give something back to his Church and have a place that people could visit and pray at for a long time to come.” He also wanted to dedicate the stations to Father Fluet’s mother,

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A Community Gift of Tradition Eastern Connecticut Ballet’s The Nutcracker is a beautiful family-friendly venue steeped in tradition and elegance that has been delighting audiences for 9 nautical seasons. Treat your family and friends by sharing this traditional gift at The Garde Arts Center in New London on December 11 and 12. Shake off the cold, stroll through the doors of the Garde and ease yourself out of the frenetic world of holiday preparations. Luscious sounds of carolers in the lobby and musicians tuning their instruments will surely help soothe and lift your spirits.

Children will thrill to the excitement of the opening party scene, the battle on the high seas, the journey to an enchanted seaport and spectacular dancing. Lavish sets and costumes will transport you to 1850 New London while you enjoy the classical favorites of Tchaikovsky’s The Nutcracker as performed by the Eastern Connecticut Symphony Orchestra, performances by internationally acclaimed guest artists from Pennsylvania Ballet and Festival Ballet and more than 120 regional dancers. In a continued commitment to

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Nichol Stevens, daughter of Cindy and Gary Stevens of Chester, who attends Salve Regina University, was recently awared the Meghan Strathman ‘03 Memorial Scholarship, which was presented to her at the Salve Regina University Fall Festival Awards Ceremony. Nichol is a graduate of Mercy High School, and is in her junior year at Salve Regina University. Submitted by Cindy Stevens

Representing the Diocese of Norwich, students from St. Mary Star of the Sea School (New London), St. John’s School (Old Saybrook) and St. Michael’s School (Pawcatuck) joined hundreds of other middle schoolers from throughout eastern Connecticut at Pine Point School’s observance of International Day of Peace. Submitted by Anne Tortora

On Friday, October 1, 2010, the third graders at Sacred Heart School in Taftville read the readings, prepared the Prayers of the Faithful, and brought up the gifts. Also, the third graders presented their cardboard flowers with the sacrifices they are doing written on the flowers. It was the feast day of St. erese and the students studied about the life of St. erese. ey learned that St. erese did many kind deeds for everyone and made many little sacrifices daily using Sacrifice Beads to show her love and trust in God. e children created their own sacrifice beads as well. From left to right, Jillianne Trott and Emelie Gallow. Submitted by Paula Hebb

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Brother Andre Canonized in Rome Pope Benedict XVI canonizes holy man with ties to region A Canadian man who spent four By Matt Collette Day Staff Writer

years toiling in eastern Connecticut was named a saint by Pope Benedict XVI, who canonized him and five others during an open-air ceremony on the steps of St. Peter’s Basilica in the Vatican. In 1863, Alfred Bessette was an impoverished and illiterate 18-year-old when he moved from his home outside Montreal, Quebec, to the Plainfield village of Moosup, where he worked in the area’s factories, mills and farms.When he returned to the region decades later, Bessette was Brother André, famous for curing the sick and afflicted. His visit drew thousands who wanted a touch and a prayer. “We’re so lucky that he’s a person from our age, from our time frame,” said Sister Blanche Cadotte of the Daughters of the Holy Spirit order in Putnam, which serves All Hallows parish. “He’s a person who walked in this area, in these same places. You feel, in a way, that you’re close to something bigger than you.” In Moosup, parishioners at All Hallows church celebrated the news during Saturday and Sunday’s Masses. Many made sure to catch the canonization on television and the day’s religious education classes focused on the new saint’s life. Each morning’s rosary at All Hallows ends with a prayer to Brother André, Cadotte said Sunday. Many in the area have connections to him, either because they

are distant relatives or because of miracles attributed to him. “People say things like ‘My grandmother’s crutches are up there (in Montreal), because he cured her up at the oratory,’” Cadotte said. “It goes on and on like that. It’s wonderful to have something like that be part of this community.”

Bishop Cote will say a special Mass at All Hallows in Brother André’s honor, November 7, 2010. In his homily, Pope Benedict said that Catholics worldwide could learn from Brother André and the other new saints. “Let us be drawn by these shining examples, let us be guided by their teachings,” Benedict said in his homily, which he delivered in English, French, Italian, Polish and Spanish to reflect the languages spoken by the six newest saints. Harriet Bessette, a Stonington resident who married into a family related to the new saint, said Sunday that Brother André’s canoniza-

tion is a time for celebration and unity for Catholics worldwide, not just those in the area. “It’s just a joyous time. I think that everyone is overjoyed and thrilled,” said Bessette. “I watched the service when it was rebroadcast at noon today, after I went to Mass at St. Mary’s. It was very exciting.” Born in 1845, Brother André was orphaned at the age of 12. After taking his religious vows, he devoted his life to helping others and gained a reputation as a healer. When he died in 1937 at the age of 91, an estimated 1 million people came to pay homage. “I think all the people from Quebec are happy now,” said Alain Pilote, a 49-year-old pilgrim from Rougemont, near Montreal, who came to Rome for the Mass. Benedict noted that Brother André was poorly educated but nevertheless understood what was essential to his faith. “Doorman at the Notre Dame College in Montreal, he showed boundless charity and did everything possible to soothe the despair of those who confided in him,” Benedict said in French. Francoise Bessette, whose grandfather was Brother André’s first cousin, was among the Canadians in attendance Sunday at St. Peter’s. “I didn’t think this would happen while I was alive,” said Bessette, whose brother André was named after the saint. “So to be here today is very special for me.” Australia’s foreign minister, Kevin Rudd, was in Rome for the canonization, as was Canada’s foreign minister, Lawrence Cannon. The Polish president, Bronislaw Komorowski, joined thousands of Polish pilgrims to honor that country’s latest saint, Stanislaw Kazimiercyzk Soltys.

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