Wedding Belles 2021

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WELCOME LETTER Did the pandemic stifle or postpone your plans for a dream wedding? Have you just found love and can’t help yourself from eyeing the next step, or do you need some wedding day inspiration? Welcome to Wedding Belles: 2021 edition, presented to you by Womack Publishing Company.

With captivating stories and “how-to” guides complemented by vibrant photos of weddings, Wedding Belles promises a wide array of content for those getting married or those hoping to.

From gowns to jewelry to salons—be in the know about all the wedding trends of 2021. Hear from wedding designers, planners and stylists from all over Virginia and North Carolina as you prepare the checklist tailored to your every hope and dream.

Browse regional venues throughout the MidAtlantic or explore destinations beyond your backyard. Enjoy readers’ thoughts and experiences while taking inspiration from their decisions as well as their diamonds. Prepare your bridal party and plan for both the party side and the practical side of your wedding.

Whether your big day is a week or a year away, Wedding Belles ensures you’ll take away something old,

something

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Contents THE VENUES

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26 BERNARDS LANDING EXPANSION 48 THE BARN AT LLOYD’S DAIRY 52 THE GRAND AT 290 60 THE STABLE 66 THE BARNS AT TIMBERNECK 70 OUTDOOR CHAPEL SETS THE STAGE FOR WEDDINGS

16 2021 - 2022 EVENT TRENDS 18 FINDING THE PERFECT WEDDING VENUE 21 DESTINATION WEDDINGS WHILE IN A PANDEMIC 36 HAIR AND MAKEUP: WHAT IS POPULAR, AVAILABLE? 44 WHAT TO DO AFTER GETTING YOUR RING! 58 WEDDING PARTY 101 74 BRIDAL BEAUTY COUNTDOWN

THE GUIDES

READER’S SUBMISSIONS 30

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8 MAKING A STATEMENT 14 A WEDDING THAT

WILL MAKE HISTORY

32 JESSICA & CAMERON:

‘QUARANTINED FOR LIFE’

40 THE JEWEL OF THE BIG DAY WEDDING BELLES

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STORY CONTRIBUTED BY OAKHAVEN

MAKING A STATEMENT Photo Credit | Hannah Porter and Dustin Clontz captured by Jessi Paige Photography.

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Located just off Hwy 29 N near Greensboro North

were set and Brides and Groomsmen were ushered

Carolina is the estate known as Oakhaven. It stands

onto the lush lawn under the spread of a multitude

proud in its heritage, which began in the 1930’s, and

of 100-year-old Oaks. So many happy memories have

currently is hailed as one of the premier wedding

taken place in that ceremony site.

venues in the area. Oakhaven is near the Triad of

Later Oakhaven grew and converted a Dutch

North Carolina, which allows it to draw from all over

Hay Barn, which was original to the property

the state as well as all over the US. Brides wanting to

into a reception hall. It truly had such a rustic

unite families from North and South find it a middle

appeal and it was a big drawing card to brides

ground as do those whose families are traveling from

looking for that country feeling. As time continued

the western and eastern part of the North Carolina.

the venue expanded its ceremony sites and

With all this traveling, Oakhaven’s attraction to families

property improvements.

is our ability to provide a place with accommodations,

Unfortunately in 2018, a tornado hit Oakhaven

a space to commit to spending the rest of their life

tearing down the original hay barn and leaving behind

with their beloved, and facility to celebrate that

a mired of other damages to the other buildings. At the

union with best friends.

time it seemed impossible to think how to pull up from

Oakhaven has been open as a wedding venue for over 15 years and it has seen many a change

such devastation. But that tornado was the beginning of the word Grand in the description of Oakhaven.

on site. When the wedding venue first began, the

The venue closed for a full year. A new barn was

enchantment swirled around the property’s gracious

built and only a Dutch barn would do, so the design

manor and beautiful lawn. Tents went up, tables

was created and construction began. We now call it

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our Grand Dutch Barn as the walls are planked with corral wood imported from Montana. The barn is completely cooled and heated and has a gorgeous 10ft stone fireplace. It is a space Brides love to say the words “I do.” When COVID hit the population in 2020 we had to wait to hold weddings on site. During this down time we tried to be proactive by installing in the barn a blue UV light filtration system attaching to the Heating and Air systems, which removes pathogens from the air. It serves to keep the air as clean as possible but it also helps by constantly cleansing

surfaces

that might become exposed. When we were able to hold weddings in 2020, we feel quite blessed that we never had an outbreak that began at our venue.

We hail this blessing to

the

cleansing

systems we placed in the two spaces that guests would gather; in the barn and in the Manor.

Reflecting back to the tornado of 2018 and all the damage to

structures

on

the property it is hard, especially the lose our gorgeous 100 year old oak trees

that

brides

loved to say nuptials under. This unforgettable act of nature has turned into the greatest opportunity.

With the support of damage insurance management took to improving all the buildings and renewing their presence. Oakhaven was made to be a “shiny new penny.”

Our Manor grounds have rebounded. Flower beds

Photo Credit | Opposite page, Hannah Porter and Dustin Clontz by Jessi Paige Photography. Above, Oakhaven Venue by Sarah Griffith Photography.

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were replanted, new trees were put in place and the

be unveiled late fall of 2021 and we are so proud to be

love of marring on a gorgeous lawn and in a garden

able to offer it to all those wanting a special little spot

setting is back. Oakhaven hosted one of the prettiest

to say, “Yes, I want to marry you.”

garden weddings in 2020 in front of our Amish Gazebo.

Oakhaven is lucky. It covers 1,500 acres and distance

Sarah Griffith Photography shot pictures of Delaney

is one of our drawing cards. There are never any sites

Hutchens and Allen Fagg getting married at the

on the venue that are sandwiched on top of another.

Manor. The photos are lovely and our story of where

The openness is always part of the charm. People love

Oakhaven began has gone full circle.

to feel the peace found only in the country where

But that is not all!

the maddening crowds do not exist. That peace and

Oakhaven has taken this winter break to work on

calm is all that you feel when you turn into Oakhaven.

a separate venue site to hold smaller and intimate

We would love the opportunity to invite all to come

events. We are referring to this space as our Micro

and see what we have to offer. Our wedding expert

Venue. This venue centers around a cottage where

Jeanette Wagoner will greet you on the phone and

the bride and family members can congregate, and

assist all that want to schedule a tour. Our sales and

the bride can dress and prepare for her ceremony.

facility director Gary Barrett will take you throughout

COVID brought forward the need to have an

the property sharing its history and loving getting to

affordable space for couples that only want 35 - 75

know your history and helping your story become an

people present at their wedding. They do not need

Oakhaven story too.

the vast space of a large event venue designed to host 100 to 200 guests. Our micro venue is planned to

For more information, please go to our website experienceoakhaven.com or call us at 336-589-4973. •

Photo Credit | Sarah Griffith Photography.

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Make Your Special Day

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400 North Main Street, Lawrenceville, VA 23868

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BY SYLVIA ALLEN AND KIMBERLY MARTIN

A WEDDING THAT WILL MAKE HISTORY The Town of Lawrenceville, nestled in the heart of Southside Virginia, is a unique historic downtown district with an abundance of charm.

historical treasure.

Lawrenceville is conveniently and centrally located

The rustic

near Governor Harrison Parkway (Route 58), Boydton

appeal of brick sidewalks and vintage streetlamps

Plank Road (Historic Route 1), Christanna Highway

are reminiscent of the turn of the century. You will

(Route 46), and Interstate 85. In addition, the rural

discover Main Street America that is infused with

town is approximately 20 miles from the North Carolina

southern hospitality.

border. This prime location makes it very accessible

Historic Downtown Lawrenceville is rich in cultivated

from multiple directions, especially for travelers afar.

history and character. It is a hidden gem that can be

Blending historical façade and architecture, along

your future wedding destination. If you are seeking a destination location that will provide cherished memories to last a lifetime, make plans to visit the Town of Lawrenceville. You will find a variety of natural, intimate, rural, and picturesque landscapes that will provide the perfect backdrop for your wedding photographs, and the beautiful setting will enhance your overall destination experience.

While preserving its small-town heritage and character,

Lawrenceville

offers

broadband

access and cultural and recreational amenities.

with country appeal, can assist you with selecting your wedding venue. A few places of interest can include the Tobacco Heritage Trail Park, located in the heart of the downtown, or the steps of the Brunswick County Government Building, which is a historic courthouse that has been entirely renovated.

Your intimate wedding ceremony can be followed by a reception at the Elm Acres Club on 100 Raney Street in Lawrenceville.

As there are many places to tour during your

Lawrenceville is currently updating and expanding

destination wedding, Lawrenceville, Virginia will sure

the historic designation area to renovate existing

make history for your special occasion. May you, your

buildings in the downtown area to preserve its robust

loved ones, and guests have continued joy and health

cultural heritage. The Lawrenceville Historic District

during this special time in your life. Congratulations on

has been recognized as a State Historic District and

your adventure of a lifetime!

was added to the National Register of Historic Places.

The Town of Lawrenceville is located at 400 North

There are presently 12 sites throughout Brunswick

Main Street, Lawrenceville, Virginia 23868. For additional

County and Lawrenceville, including the historic

information about the Town of Lawrenceville, visit

Saint Paul’s College, that will make your destination a

https://lawrencevilleweb.us/ or call (434) 848-2414. •

Photo Credit | Brunswick County Government Building | Bobby Conner.

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BY ELIAS WEISS

2021-2022

EVENT TRENDS It’s 2021, and it’s once again time to go out with the old and in with the new. Trends don’t just change generationally—they change yearly and even seasonally.

Virginia and North Carolina are bouncing back from a year of pandemic woes. For many couples destined to wed, being corralled at home for months on end with their significant other has offered more than enough of a push to finally tie the knot, leading to a year full to the brim with new engagements! So, now that venues are reopening and people are slowly but surely starting to congregate at long last, there is no shortage of new trends to keep an eye out for.

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REUSE, REDUCE, RECYCLE

From Greta Thunberg to discussions of a Green New Deal, (okay, we’ll try not to keep this political) conservation and environmental consciousness have been central themes throughout the past year.

Wedding planners in 2021 are more frequently favoring live plants or dried flowers over cut flowers.

Experts say that not only is decking your venue out with Earth-friendly decor healthy for Mother Nature, it tends to be far less likely to break the bank. They also warn against practices that are non-environmentally friendly, like setting off fireworks or using foam in floral arrangements. Who needs ‘em?

Additionally, consider catering some of your food from local farmers or companies that put emphasis on offering farm-to-table foods.

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NEVER TOO MANY COLORS

Many with upcoming nuptials are coming out of a dark time.

The year 2020 saw mass layoffs, distance from friends and loved

ones, boredom and health concerns. Every warm summer wedding event in 2021 is sure to be popping with colors!

Experts say a colorful palette is quickly replacing the all-white traditional wedding.

Custom printed napkins and tablecloths, brightly colored wedding gowns and lots of dimension are all par for the course this year.

Couples tend to be more excited when choosing between bright colors. After all, colors are the new neutrals! Consider pops of color in not just the flowers and the attire, but also the food.

3

FEEL RELAXED, NOT RELIEVED

For many, the anxiety and pressure for everything to “go right” overshadows an entire wedding. Brides and grooms alike

are too often feeling relieved instead of relaxed after their big day.

Experts recommend finding a friend or family member to officiate the wedding. A minister or similar figure can invoke feelings of disconnect or awkwardness.

What else can de-formalize your venue?

Wedding planners agree “matchy-matchy” outfits in the bridesmaids and groomsmen are becoming less standard this year.

Cheaper options lead to less financial anxiety, which leads to more relaxation in both the couple of honor and their guests.

Experts also recommend toning down the number of speeches—after all, less time talking equals more time drinking. Cut loose!

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You have finally found your true love, you’ve decided to tie the knot, and now you are trying to decide where to celebrate the beginning of your very own Happily Ever After. Well, we cannot tell you where to hold your ceremony and related festivities, but here is a check list of 25 basic questions – with 10 additional pandemicrelated considerations - to ask of any wedding venue you are considering for the site of your perfect wedding!

Some basic things you need to know before selecting your wedding venue. provide alcohol service?

1.

What dates are available for the month I want?

2.

How many people can you accommodate?

3.

What is the rental fee and what is included in

and can I move things around or do I have to

the price?

leave everything as-is?

4.

How much time does my rental fee cover and is there an overtime fee if I stay longer?

5.

6.

19. Do you have an inventory of décor (lighting, candle holders, vases, etc.) items we can use?

How much is the deposit, when is it due, is it

20. Are candles/confetti/sparklers/fireworks/animals

refundable, and do you have a cancellation

/lawn games/bounce houses/food trucks/etc.

policy?

allowed?

Can I also have my ceremony and/or rehearsal dinner here, and is there an additional cost?

7.

18. Are we allowed to bring in our own decorations,

Are there changing areas for the bride, groom, and/or wedding party?

21. Do you have signage or other aids to direct guests to my wedding?

22. Do you offer on-site coordination and if so, what services are included?

8.

Is the site handicap accessible?

9.

What is the backup plan for weather issues for

and do you have a sound system and/or

outdoor spaces?

microphones for speeches?

10. Do you have liability insurance?

11.

Do you have an in-house caterer or list of “preferred” caterers, and if so, can we do a

23. Can you accommodate a DJ or live band,

24. What time can set up begin on the day of the wedding?

25. Do you have at least 4 restrooms per 100 people?

food tasting before we finalize our menu?

12. Is there a kitchen available if I hire my own caterer?

Additional questions for wedding planning during coronavirus. With any luck, before your wedding

13. Do you have a food & beverage minimum,

date the pandemic will no longer be an issue. Just

are there additional charges for bar staff, and

in case, here are some additional questions to

what about tax and service charges?

help as you make plans to keep your special day

14. Are tables, linens, chairs, plates, silverware, and glassware provided, or will I have to rent/ get them through my caterer?

15. Can I bring in a cake from an outside baker or do I have to use a cake made on site?

16. Is there a separate space for the cocktail hour?

17. Can we bring our own wine, beer, champagne, and/or hard liquor, and are you licensed to

safe for you, your family, and your guests.

26. What is your postponement policy?

27. How many total guests can you accommodate, and how will you arrange seating to keep our guests safely distanced?

28. Will we be able to live stream the wedding, and, if so, how is your internet/Wi-Fi service and will you facilitate the technology?

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29. Do you have a mask requirement for guests?

For employees? Hand sanitizing stations?

Safety measures for staff?

30. What kind of cleaning and sanitation will be done prior to our event? Other safety measures?

31. What are your layouts/floor plans for the ceremony, reception, and for encouraging social distancing during cocktail hour?

32. Can our entire event be held outdoors including a dance floor, and what is the

Can we leave the doors and/or windows open?

35. How will food be served/presented? Buffet?

Food stations? Modifications? (plexiglass over food, disposable serving pieces, etc.)

Even without a pandemic, planning a wedding is a complex process, to say the least. But these suggested questions will give you a good start for your dialogue with venues as you make your decisions.

outdoor capacity?

33. If outdoors, what restroom access will we have,

Just remember this: with time and

creative thinking, most everything can be worked

how will they be kept clean, and will we need

out, and as you do your research you are on the

additional portable bathrooms?

right track for paving the path to that Happily

34. If indoors, what kind of ventilation is available?

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BY ADAM POWELL

DESTINATION WEDDINGS Attractive options for couples in the pandemic

In the age of COVID-19, couples have been forced to get creative in order to realize their dream weddings. Larger weddings with hundreds of guests have been temporarily halted, requiring brides and grooms to look into alternative options.

Destination weddings were already becoming a hot trend among millennials and Generation Z couples prior to the onset of the Coronavirus pandemic.

Eager to take advantage of their one moment in time for a special experience, younger couples have been turning their backs more and more on traditional weddings for destination experiences on beaches, in the mountains, and at other camera-friendly locations.

For those who can’t necessarily afford an international or out-of-state destination wedding - or would prefer to spend their wedding budget on a lavish honeymoon or purchasing a new home - there are plenty of other creative options for getting their families and friends involved. North Carolina and Virginia couples are fortunate in that they not only have coastal options for their destination dream weddings, but also numerous National Parks in the mountains.

Would-be brides and grooms in the age of COVID have to look on the bright side. By not having to spend thousands on traditional post-wedding dinner plates or high-priced accessories such as tents and indoor facilities, they can put more of their wedding budget on the experience itself. And that opens up a wide range of possibilities.

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IN THE MOUNTAINS

A DAY AT THE BEACH Beach weddings have long been

a

popular

destination

For those who don’t want to get sand in their toes or potentially battle high winds or unpredictable coastal tides on their wedding day, another solid destination option is in the mountains.

There are numerous parks and scenic locations throughout the Appalachian Mountains that provide picturesque settings, along with plenty of space to socially-distance.

In the mountains, couples are also provided plenty of room to spread out, with idyllic natural scenery and crisp air to breathe in.

RIGHT AT HOME There’s also the option of

option for couples. But for those

creating a destination wedding

couples looking to not only

right

find a scenic location for their

transforming

wedding while also practicing

into first-rate venues, complete

social distancing, beaches have

with lights, special effects such

become

a

highly-desirable

at

home.

Couples

their

are

backyards

as drapes, floral arrangements, .

option. Beach weddings allow

With the right touch of elegance

brides and grooms to get all the

and class, any backyard can be

magnificent photo opportunities

transformed into an entirely new

they could ever hope for, while also creating an environment less

locale - one that friends and

likely to spread the virus.

family won’t even recognize.

Aside of the outdoor setting, beach

weddings

are

DRIVE-IN WEDDING

often

For those who wish to stay

socially-distanced by their very nature,

as

participants

and

guests often wish to spread out and take advantage of their

closer to home but still create IN THE PARK

a unique experience for their

For those who may not wish to

friends,

families,

and

guests,

travel to the coast or the mountains

couples

for their destination wedding, they

movie weddings, in which their

should seek out more local options,

vows are broadcast on a big

such as their local park. Local parks

screen

make sure the wind doesn’t ruin

not only provide the advantage

guests and live-streamed online.

their look, beach weddings offer

of close proximity, but they can

Food options are plentiful with

many advantages to modern

also

natural

these types of weddings, from

couples. Who doesn’t want to

scenery such as rivers, streams,

traditional caterers to food trucks

spend a day at the beach?

and elevated banks.

or local take-out.

beautiful natural surroundings.

Although the bride and her bridesmaids may need to use extra hair spray or hair ties to

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are

for

hosting

drive-in

socially-distanced

INVOLVING PETS

Southeast Asia. For couples who seek a more intimate locale, there are options including secluded island bungalows over the water.

Many couples wish to involve their beloved pets in their special day. This means that locations such as dog and horse parks have become attractive options for COVID-19-era weddings.

These can become destination weddings in and of themselves, particularly in the case of weddings held at horse farms.

SKIING ON YOUR WEDDING DAY For those skiing enthsiasts who may be inclined for a winter wedding, one potential option is having a destination wedding at a ski resort. There are plenty of available options in the Applachian Mountains and surrounding areas. These types of destination weddings could even include such unique features as the bride, groom, and wedding party skiing together down the mountain following the wedding ceremony.

VEGAS STYLE

A FAIRY TALE DISNEY WEDDING

This one will cost a little more than having a local wedding, but Las Vegas provides a wide range of possibilities, from the classic to the cheesy. If you want to get married by an Elvis impersonator, it’s

there.

If

you

want

an

extravagant event, there are numerous first-rate hotels that offer everything from a venue to experienced wedding planners and caterers. Vegas also offers a wide range of budgets, from small quaint affairs, to banquet-style extravaganzas with hundreds of people.

ISLAND DELIGHT

If you’re willing to make the trip to Florida, California, or Hawaii, Walt Disney World and Disneyland offer a variety of packages for destination weddings. They can even set up a wedding experience on one of their cruise ships.

Disney’s signature Fairy Tale weddings offer a truly once-ina-lifetime wedding experience, complete with a horse-drawn carriage and . A bride will feel like Cinderella herself at one of these memorable locales.

Visit disneyweddings.com for more information.

If you’ve got the money to do an international wedding, but still want to have a coastal setting, there are scores of tropical options. There are all-inclusive resorts everywhere from the Bahamas

to

the

Dominican

Republic to Bermuda, as well as even farther-away destinations such as Fiji, the Maldives, or

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WEDDINGS BY AIR If you’re not afraid of heights, another possibility would be having your wedding via hot air balloon or even by helicopter. While you may have to go out of the Carolinas or Virginia for such a unique opportunity, there are plenty of places who will provide a fascinating view of local mountains, gorges, and waterways either before, during, or after the wedding nuptials. •

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BERNARDS LANDING EXPANSION Still offers stunning view of Smith Mountain Lake for weddings Smith Mountain Lake is known for its beautiful views and lake activities, so it lends itself well to wedding destinations. It’s for this reason that Bernards Landing, a premier waterfront resort, has been offering wedding venues since the late 1980s. And it’s still growing, recently expanding to include a new event center venue that can accommodate up to 200 people for weddings or other events.

“We just have an awesome facility and an awesome place to have the weddings,” said Freda Smith, a member of the wedding event committee and homeowner at Bernards Landing for 10 years. “It’s a beautiful setting. The Clubhouse is actually built around the original Bernards homeplace, and the homeplace is a historic house.”

The Clubhouse and deck were available there for years and used for weddings, but Bernards Landing decided to enhance it a few years ago by building it into an event center, which was completed last winter. Underneath the decking is a fitness center, a racquetball court, indoor pool and hot tub.

“We’ve always had very, very positive feedback on everything,” Smith said. “And the reason being is the setting, and the set, and of course, they can bring their own caterers in to cater the event.”

Bernards Landing also works with catering partners.

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CLUBHOUSE NUMBER OF GUESTS: Up to 200 COST: $6,500 plus tax The antebellum Clubhouse offers more than 5,200 square feet of covered and open deck space that offers a view of the lake, Smith Mountain Dam and mountains. The event decks are tented with weatherproof siding, and there’s also a sun deck and compass deck next to an Olympic-size swimming pool. A Brides Room is available on the first floor of the Clubhouse decks and is available from 8 a.m. until 11 p.m. on the day of the wedding. A cabana bar is located upstairs.

CONFERENCE CENTER NUMBER OF GUESTS: Up to 150 (depending on event area) COST: $1,900 plus tax per day for entire Conference Center Deck; $1,750 plus tax per day for all indoor meeting space; and $300 a day for just Roanoke Executive Board Room There are four event areas as part of the Conference Center: •

The Roanoke Executive Board Room holds 16 people around a conference room table and has a four-chaired seating area by a rock fireplace.

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The Smith Mountain Room holds up to 120 people and can be divided.

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The Glass Atrium is ideal for food and beverage setup. It has windows with a view of the pool deck and lake.

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The Conference Center Deck holds up to 150 people, but tables and chairs are not included.

The outdoor deck is next to a pool and covers the length of the Conference Center Building. pool. A Brides Room is available on the first floor of the Clubhouse decks and is available from 8 a.m. until 11 p.m. on the day of the wedding. A cabana bar is located upstairs.

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CEREMONIES The Wedding Garden and Beachside Lawn are near the Clubhouse and are ideal for lakefront photos.

THE WEDDING PERGOLA NUMBER OF GUESTS: Up to 250 COST: $500 plus tax The Wedding Pergola and nearby grounds can be decorated to match wedding themes. The view is of Sailors Cove, Bernards Beach and the mountains. It does not include amenities, and tables and chairs are not included.

THE BEACHSIDE LAWN NUMBER OF GUESTS: Up to 250 COST: $400 plus tax The Beachside is located on a large rolling grass lawn and also has views of Sailors Cove and Bernards Beach. It does not include amenities, and tables and chairs are not included.

“Bernards Landing should be their number one choice because of the view,” Smith said. “It’s peaceful. It’s beautiful. We have all the amenities that they would be looking for in a wedding. … It’s all encompassing. It’s almost like being in a little town because when you get there, you have everything that you need right there at your fingertips.”

To book a wedding at Bernards Landing, contact Jennifer Pace at 540-719-1041 or eventsatbernardslanding@ gmail.com. Those who want to view the property in advance may call to schedule an appointment. More information may be found at www.bernardslanding.com. •

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Cheryl Furman | Danville, VA Harper Scollo, soon to be Harper Reaves, is a county teacher to marry a Virginia State Trooper. The two were high school sweethearts. After four trips with his best friend, he saw this ring and knew that that was the ring. No exceptions. Braided silver metal loving holds the halfcarat diamond. This is a planned set with the wedding band. The choice in ring was simplicity and beauty. Simple yet elegant.

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BY: KELLEN HOLTZMAN

JESSICA & CAMERON ‘Quarantined for life’ Getting married during a pandemic is not exactly how Jessica and Cameron Lee drew up the beginning of their marriage, but they took their altered Aug. 2020 celebration in stride, even having a little fun with the circumstances along the way.

Having met via a blind date, the couple had been engaged since Sept. 2018, originally set a wedding date for June 2020, and ended up having to cut their guest list down by 200 people. But that didn’t stop the wedding at the rustic Southern Grace setting in White Plains, less than 10 miles away from the Gasburg portion of Lake Gaston that Jessica’s family loves to hide away in.

“The cool thing for us is I got masks (for guests) embroidered that said, ‘Jessica and Cameron Quarantined for Life,’” Jessica said.

Jessica, a CT tech, hails from Chesterfield County

while

Virginia

Tech

graduate

Cameron comes from a dairy farm in Dinwiddie County. That family farm is where they intend on setting down roots.

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How did COVID-19 affect the wedding

Describe hers.

planning?

Cameron: Jessica seems sweet and innocent at first

Jessica: It was tricky for us because we

and once you get to know her, you really get to see

already sent Save the Dates and everybody

the fun-loving, goofy, always-giggling-and-having-a-

was planning on that day. And then we had

good-time person. That’s really what made me fall in

to resend them again.

love with her. •

How was the food?

Jessica: We had skirt steak and champagne chicken. It was delicious and really good.

Who chose the music?

Cameron: We had a mix of everything. We picked a few songs and then let the DJ...

Jessica: . . . feel out the crowd. We had some country music, some pop music, but mostly let him feel out the crowd.

Cameron: There was a good bit of rap there too.Jessica and I walked into the barn for the reception and did the (“Enter Sandman” by Metallica) entrance like when Tech comes into the stadium.”

How did Cameron propose?

Jessica: We’re building a house and he took me to our land that we’re building our house on. I did not want to go walk through the woods that day. I’m not really a walkingthrough-the-woods kind of gal. I was not expecting it at all... He got down on one knee and asked me to spend the rest of my life with him.

Describe his personality.

Jessica: I would describe him as the life of the party. He is very outgoing and that was what attracted me to him the first night I met him. He was always laughing and smiling. He’s just a happy person and I think what really attracted me, too, is I could tell he had a big heart and he was a family person. My family is everything to me.

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BY: LUKE BRANTLEY

HAIR AND MAKEUP: IS POPULAR? WHAT IS

WHAT

AVAILABLE? WHAT IS POPULAR? Christen Sanders, the owner of Luv’ Adore Beauty Shop in Biscoe, talked about what styles are currently popular.

Then you have the elegant low bun, which is more of a cleaner, sleek look than the high bun.”

Sanders also said several makeup styles have become popular recently. She said that ombré eye

“Last year, the Bohemian look was very popular.

shadow and eyebrows are very popular. The look

It includes braids and things like that. There’s many

blends tones to create a gradient eye shadow, and

different kinds of styles that are popular now. A lot of

gives the eyebrows a soft-shaded pencil look. She also

people like the vintage look, like the chignon. Then

said that winged eyeliner is very popular this year. The

also, it just depends on how you want to do it. Some

contoured look is also popular, which enhances the

people like the waves and the bejeweled headbands

cheekbones and uses heavy eye shadow for a smoky

and hair pieces, and you can put that in there. Some

eye look. Sanders said that many women also like a

just want a classic updo, or to just wear their hair down. There’s the French twist hairstyle which looks fancy; it’s a tease on the top and a twist. Then you

more natural look, featuring neutral tones and less dramatic make-up, with more emphasis on the eyes and brows.

have the high bun, which is really popular. They’re typically like a few strands around the head and the face. Then you have the loose wave. Those are popular anytime, really. It gives you that soft curl kind

WHAT IS AVAILABLE? Montgomery County is home to many salons. Here are a few of them to check out.

of look. And then you have the half-up and the half-

The Luv’ Adore Beauty Shop is located at 104 W. Main

down. And then there’s the mermaid braids, and those

St. in Biscoe. They have five hair and make-up stylists,

are very popular. They’re more for summer weddings.

as well as a lash and brow technician who specializes

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in lash extensions and micro-blading/shading. Sanders said that they require consultations before doing hair or make up styling to help customers figure out what style they want to choose, and how it can be tailored for them specifically. Hairstyles start at $45; and lashes, eyebrows and make up start at $30. Sanders said the more intricate styles cost more due to the time and effort required.

The Veranda Boutique and Salon is located on 106 S. Main St. in Mt. Gilead.

“The Veranda Boutique and Salon is a down-home Southern shopping and pampering experience,” said owner Laura Anderson. “The ‘shop,’ as most refer to it, offers a wide variety of services and goods for just about any occasion.

And everything is provided

with that small town Southern hospitality that Historic Luv’ Adore Beauty Shop

Mount Gilead is famous for. The salon is staffed by fully licensed cosmetologists. The special occasion menu can be tailored to fit the needs of the bridal party. On site service as well as on location services are available. The bride and her attendants can be pampered with hairstyles and makeup the day of the event. Prior to the big day the extras like waxing, manis, pedis and spray tans can be provided. Coming to the Veranda is much like a visit to your favorite aunt’s home. They genuinely are happy to see you come through the door.”

The SBK (Sassy but Klassy) Salon and Boutique is located at 407 N. Main St. in Troy. They offer a full range of hair styling, jewelry, clothing, soaps, candles and more. “At SBK we offer special occasions, makeup, color, specialized in ombre and balayage, haircuts, men, women and children and waxing services. We will travel for special occasions with a fee. We would

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THE JEWEL OF THE BIG DAY Before you put a ring on it, make sure you’re happy with the ring!

On the day of the wedding, nothing should upstage the bride, or the groom, for that matter. But during the

a halo ring, or a bezel, you’re going to want to flaunt that rock.

time leading up to the big day, you better believe that

Once the “I dos” have been exchanged and

engagement ring is going to take centerstage. Whether

the honeymoon has passed, you’re going to want

it’s the traditional solitaire diamond, a cluster design,

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something that says “I really do” — to be a lasting reminder of your relationship with your partner.

In general, marriages are a big driver of jewelry sales. There are engagement rings, wedding rings, and anniversary gifts. (A growing trend are “push” gifts, which are given after the birth of a child, but that’s another story.) As with every material gift, trends drive sales. And while you may want your engagement and/ or wedding ring to be stylish, you should also want it to be a look that stands the test of time.

Melissa Booth, who owns Melissa Designer Jewelry in Hillsborough, N.C., said she is more focused on styles that last. “I try not to pay attention to trends, I try not to take a look at the Pantone Color of the Year.

I really think a lot of that is just marketing. I want my pieces to be not necessarily trendy, but something that’s more timeless, you know, that’s contemporary in today’s age, but in 30, 40, 50 years, it’s also going to be something that’s going to carry through.”

Booth is a goldsmith and has been designing custom jewelry for almost 25 years. Her store sells jewelry from a select collection of designers. Booth mostly works by appointment, which is when she advises clients on the strengths and pitfalls of various styles.

“Occasionally we get people in who are looking for very trendy things,” she said. “Right now, the trend that I see is very minimal metal. Cram a stone or a diamond into every crevice that you could possibly see. It’s not a good thing. A lot of times, even when those people come in with those and want those pieces cleaned, I’m very reluctant to clean them because I know some of the stones are going to fall out of my cleaner. They’re just not being built to be wearable. They’ve sacrificed the metal, which is the structure. Even though they’re putting a lot of money into these pieces, they lack longevity.”

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do frequent repairs or worse, losing stones set in the piece of jewelry.

Booth recommends classical stylings with a modern twist to them versus a filigree or an antique flavor, which are based on the same thing. A single diamond on a bezel remains a trend that has had staying power.

Another trend in the world of engagement and wedding rings is using vintage or pieces that have been passed down in a family. Booth advises having a professional restore the ring and, if there are stones, making sure the structure is still solid.

Costs, of course, vary greatly, often running from a few hundred dollars to thousands of dollars. “I would say, we’re doing pieces anywhere from, if they bring the diamond and/or the stones, you’re looking at starting at about $1,500 for a mounting, depending on the mounting, up to maybe $3,000 if you’re going with a heavy golden, or something more intricate,” Booth said. “If they’re buying stones, like a diamond, and we’ve been doing a lot of half-carats, three-quarter carats, one-carats, then $3,000 to $8,000 or so is a pretty good average.”

Most people can’t afford to be careless with something of that value, so it’s a good idea to insure your wedding day bling. Chaya Udinsky, who owns Carolina Jewelry Appraisers in Chapel Hill, said most people would be surprised at how affordable it can be to insure their wedding valuables.

“Jewelry is very expensive, but jewelry insurance is not very expensive,” said Udinsky, whose fascination with jewelry began when she was in college and worked in a jewelry store. “So, for example, if the appraised value is $5,000, then the insurance is usually about $50 a year. The insurance is very affordable, but you do need an appraisal. You need to either have a separate policy for the piece, or you need to add it to your homeowners or renters insurance.”

Udinsky said she specializes in engagement ring appraisals, as it is one of the most common pieces of jewelry that is brought to her.

If marriage is supposed to sustain sickness and health, so, too, should the jewelry that most symbolizes that bond. While it’s normal to being excited by the current style, it’s also a good idea to consider a design that will stand up well to the wear and tear of everyday experiences. •

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After saying “yes” to the ultimate question, some brides-to-be may be ready to start wedding planning immediately. With such a task at hand, it can be hard to know where to start.

Wedding planner Patrice White-Motley with PMB Personal Wedding Illusions in Chatham, Virginia knows a thing or two about how and where to start, but she encourages brides to just enjoy the moment, first and foremost.

“There’s no rush to get all your ideas together,” she said. “Enjoy showing off your engagement ring with family and friends.”

When brides have celebrated their engagement and are ready to begin the planning process, White-Motley has eight things she recommends brides do before picking the dress or cake.

No. 1 Have a discussion with your partner about what type of wedding you want.

Do you want something traditional or cultural? Do you want to invite every family member, coworker and friend, or just the ones closest to you? Do you want to elope? White-Motley said it is vital for both partners to be on the same page about the nuptials to take place.

No. 2 Set a wedding date or season.

After deciding on a type of wedding, both parties also need to agree upon a wedding date or season, as the season or time of year will dictate a lot of other decisions, including indoor or outdoor and wedding colors.

No. 3 Create a budget.

The budget is possibly the most vital part of the planning process, even if no one really ever wants to talk about the money. However, it is important to discuss how much the couple wants to spend for their day - and who will be footing the bill.

“The budget will determine so many factors you will have to consider for your wedding day, including venue, guest list, length of engagement, bridal party size, wedding dress and more,” White-Motley said.

No. 4 Discuss a wedding location or venue.

Now that the budget is set, where can the wedding be held that will fit it? Will there be a destination or local venue? Will you get married in a church setting or in a non-traditional setting? Indoor or outdoor? There are several factors to consider when choosing a venue, and White-Motley said doing site visits is a way to make sure that venues can accommodate the wedding size, certain decor, and the budget.

White-Motley suggests asking questions about the capacity, availability, layout, rates, restrictions, parking, facility extras, catering, bartending, and rentals.

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No. 7 Get wedding liability insurance.

No. 5 Pick a wedding theme.

Once a date is set and a venue is booked, it is important to make sure that couples are covered in the event of a wedding mishap. Most people might not even think of wedding insurance, but White-Motley said couples could consider this because it protects against financial loss that could result from a mishap or vendor incident. It is also required now by many wedding venues.

Most insurance policies will allow couples to arrange them up to two years in advance, and White-Motley suggests getting coverage as soon as possible to cover from the planning stages to the big day. However, if insurance falls by the wayside, policies can also be purchased closer to the ceremony.

According to White-Motley, wedding insurance policies should also cover things like venue cancellation, a supplier fail, cancellation due to family emergencies, lost, stolen or damaged cake, rings or gifts, not receiving wedding photos or videos, public liability cover and legal expenses, weather disruption and others.

“This could save you money in damages due to unforeseen circumstances, like fire damage to a wedding dress or lost rings,” she said.

While there are several more aspects to consider, these seven items will help a couple get started planning their big day by getting the bigger decisions out of the way first, so they can get down to the fun details, such as whether to choose red velvet or chocolate cake, with ease. •

The odds are that a bride might know what type of theme or aesthetic they want for their wedding, especially if they’ve been looking at Pinterest or wedding magazines. White-Motley recommends couples discuss what kind of colors, flowers, aesthetics, decorations and more they would like to have, then explore websites and magazines for additional information. From there, brides and grooms will have all the inspiration they need to plan for the details without getting overwhelmed by choices.

No. 6 Select the wedding party.

The odds are that a bride might know what type of theme or aesthetic they want for their wedding, especially if they’ve been looking at Pinterest or wedding magazines. White-Motley recommends couples discuss what kind of colors, flowers, aesthetics, decorations and more they would like to have, then explore websites and magazines for additional information. From there, brides and grooms will have all the inspiration they need to plan for the details without getting overwhelmed by choices.

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BY: DALE EDWARDS

The Barn at Lloyd’s Dairy At 90-years-old, there’s not much Ben Lloyd hasn’t

how it works.”

seen or done in Orange County. And a few years

There are large metal dairy signs from decades ago

back, he and his family successfully took his 700-

at Lloyd’s Dairy; metal milk cans used to transport

acre farm from ‘moo’ to ‘I do.’ The nearly 100-year-

the Lloyds’ milk in the 1930’s; and photographs of the

old former dairy farm is in Efland, N.C., and has lush,

past eras at the farm. Strings of lighting draped from

green fields that span clear across the horizon,

the ceiling, bask guests in a festive, warm glow.

backdropped with mature trees. Add the vivid red

“We were this close to turning this barn into a horse

barn with the patina’d silos and you have wedding

boarding facility,” Ben Lloyd said. “But I asked the

photo opportunities at every turn.

N.C. State agritourism experts about barn weddings

The 20,000-square-foot event space doesn’t ignore

after my grandson and his wife were married there.

its roots. “We keep it country,” Ben Lloyd said. “That’s

It was their idea from the beginning and they and

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Andy worked on cleaning out the barn and turning it into a wedding space for over a year.”

“We can fit hundreds of people in this space,” Craig Lloyd said. “A key element of the space is its versatility and its size -- we’ve had a wedding with over 350 people in here before.”

Andy Lloyd, along with his father Ben, his brother Craig, and sister Cheryl Humphrey – a local interior designer – transformed the space from a commercial dairy barn to a modern event venue. The family has added all of the practical updates that a barn needs to become a venue – there are new bathrooms, commercial fans that circulate a breeze throughout the barn during summer months, and lights that are adjustable by dimmer. They even had the power lines buried underground to further the picturesque appeal.

The former milk parlor, which once housed milk tanks and equipment, was turned into a bridal suite with bathrooms and a dressing area, decked out with mirrors, chandeliers and other remnants and reclaims from its former dairy farm days. The style joins rustic touches with the chic. The main room of the barn can operate as a wedding area, or, for clients wanting to have the wedding outdoors, it can host the reception.

The Barn At Lloyd’s Dairy is a family run business, and they’re not new to organizing and running events. Throughout the year, the farm serves as a backdrop for antique festivals, Halloween attractions, and even a polo match. In the fall, the Tar Heel Balloon Festival will launch hot-air balloons from the rolling fields of the 700-acre farm.

“We’re trying to keep it unique,” said Craig Lloyd, who helps organize and operate events. With the increase in events and its growing popularity as a wedding venue, the crew of the Barn At Lloyd’s Dairy is experienced, and has proven capable of being flexible to just about anything. For instance,

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during the recent pandemic, the facility had to

Lloyd hopes to complete a “barn within a barn”

be certified in COVID-19 protocols, which included

in an uncovered space adjacent to the finished

collecting information from guests for contact tracing, temperature checks, and adjusting events to allow for social distancing. With many of the events being

venue, where meeting and events with up to 300 people can take place. This venue will be rain-proof

outdoors, the size of the venue provides visitors

and available for rental like the barn currently up

with confidence for a safe experience.

for wedding rentals, and will also have heat and AC.

Since they opened the barn for weddings, the family has met couples from all over the area. Their location is close to interstates and highways, less

With Humphrey as the design mind and the person in charge of weddings, Andy and Ben Lloyd

than 30 minutes from Chapel Hill and Durham and

over the facilities and grounds, and Craig Lloyd

under an hour from larger cities.

responsible for promoting the space, the family has

“People from Greensboro all the way to Raleigh can travel from their homes to our barn in less than an hour,” Ben Lloyd said.

Looking forward, the family doesn’t plan to stop at the renovations they’ve already completed. Ben

assembled a team that plans to continue growing their presence in the region’s wedding scene.

For more information, go to www.lloydsfarm.com, or call 919-880-5680. • PHOTOS COURTESY OF THE BARN AT LLOYD’S DAIRY.

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The Grand at 290 offers upscale setting at affordable pricing

Little did Mark and Nicole Redden know when they purchased a historic building on Main Street in Rocky Mount in January 2019, their new business opening would be delayed for six months during a period of government-mandated shutdowns. In spite of the obstacles they faced, their wedding and event venue, The Grand at 290, has opened successfully and is showing early signs of flourishing.

The couple grew up in Roanoke but spent

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of Rocky Mount.

nearly 20 years living out of state. When they

The building in question — as the name of the

decided to move back to the area, they started

new venue suggests — is located at 290 South

searching for a property with a barn-type

Main Street. It was built in 1912 and for most of

building that could be converted into a wedding

the 20th century was home to the N. Morris

hall. A multi-county search kept bringing them

Department Store. When the Reddens purchased

back to a historic building smack in the middle

the property, Family Preservation Services was

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still leasing the second and third floors for office space. After the lease expired, the Reddens spent a year doing renovations and upgrades, preparing the historic site for its newest chapter.

They planned to launch their venue in April 2020, but then the world shut down. The shutdown proved to be only a temporary setback, and The Grand at 290 held its first wedding in October 2020.

What the Reddens created out of an old building is a masterful blend of historic and contemporary.

The entire facility exudes an atmosphere that suggests vintage, elegant, 1920s Art Deco. And yet at the same time, it suggests modernity.

“Walking into The Grand at 290 is like taking a step back into the past, but with a modern, glamorous feel,” the Reddens described their facility. “We have focused on every detail of this beautiful space, and we have designed it to create an enchanting atmosphere for a truly magnificent wedding event.”

Original hardwood floors and a grand staircase gleam with new polish. Lofty ceilings with the original tin designs and exposed new ductwork add grandeur to the halls. The department store’s original hardwood, built-in high shelves (complete with the original rolling ladder) and columns add to the unique character of the venue. On the ground floor is the grand ballroom, while upstairs is a wedding ceremony space set up to look like a chapel.

“The venue offers over 7,000 square feet of celebration space featuring separate ceremony and reception space, so that means your guests don’t need to be shuffled off somewhere uncomfortable while a room is flipped. They will just head down to the Grand Ballroom and mingle with friends and family while they await your entrance down the Grand Staircase,” the Reddens stated.

Other features include a vast bridal suite (also on the second floor) and a groom’s lounge in a large

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annex across the street. Ample indoor space means that guests need not worry about the weather.

The property also includes a back veranda and on-site parking. It is also completely handicapped accessible with an elevator.

The black and gold Art Deco color scheme suits the building perfectly. And rather than a blank and sterile space, the facility includes tasteful artwork and decorations that give it a warm and inviting feel. However, bridal parties are welcome — and encouraged — to decorate the space themselves to their own preferred color scheme.

“Nicole has an eye for details; she decorated the building and found the artwork,” Mark commented.

“When people rent the facility, it’s their space. We have no requirements about the decorations.”

The pricing packages include a discount for a Friday or Sunday event (compared with a Saturday event), and weekday weddings are available at an additional 50 percent discount compared with the Friday/Sunday rates. Renting the property means the guests have use of it all day, from 10 a.m. until 11 p.m.

“We wanted to provide an upscale experience at an affordable price. We are upfront with pricing because we want people to know what they are getting before they sign our contract,” Mark stated.

“We offer a full package — everything is included, and we don’t charge extra (for various amenities and services).”

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the use of a kegerator are available for use at no extra charge.

“We thought if we could provide these things to the couple, it would make it easier for them,” he added.

The management is on hand for the entire day to provide as much or little help as needed. The flexible staffing and hosting can provide wedding coordinator services if needed or remain in the background. They will monitor the restrooms, take care of trash (wedding guests shouldn’t have to worry about the trash, they noted), and guide and direct vendors.

“At The Grand at 290, you make the decisions on just how you want your special day to go.

We encourage our guests to choose their own vendors. We have a list of preferred vendors that we know and trust to do a great job, but if you have someone else in mind, just let us know,” the Reddens commented.

The relationships they build with their clientele make the job rewarding for the Reddens.

“By the time we get to the wedding, we’ve bonded with them. They become our friends. One bride has become Nicole’s best friend,” Mark pointed out.

“We love seeing people happy; the wedding venue business is great.”

For more information about The Grand at 290, visit its website at www.thegrandat290.com or call 540-484-3631 to speak with Mark and Nicole about hosting your wedding or special event there. •

Historic Charm, Modern Glamour

Located in the heart of historic uptown Rocky Mount, The Grand at 290 offers original hardwood floors, a stunning grand staircase, beautiful columns, and a distinctive ambience that creates the perfect wedding venue.

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PHOTO CREDIT | LAUREN AND JORDAN DAVIS TAKE THEIR FIRST DANCE AS A MARRIED COUPLE AT THE GRAND AT 290.

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WEDDING PARTY 101 The Silhouette Guide GOWN SILHO UE T T E STY LE S

WHETHER IT’S FINDING YOUR PERFECT DRESS OR COORDINATING YOUR WEDDING PARTY’S LOOK , WE GOT YOU!

EMPIRE-WAIST

TRUMPET GOWN

MERMAID GOWN

A great selection for pear-shaped brides, the empire waist helps hide hips with a skirt that runs from the bustline down.

This style of skirt begins below the hips and is named for its resemblance to the bell of a trumpet. This will suit curvier brides looking for a formfitting dress.

A great silhouette for showing off curves, this style flares out closer to the knee but will fit snugly in the upper area.

A-LINE GOWN

BALL GOWN

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This is one of those styles that is flattering for nearly every body style. The gown stays tight to the torso area and extends down in an A-shape.

The ball gown is fitted up top and billows out dramatically in the skirt area. This style especially suits buxom brides as it presents balance.

This silhouette will stay tight to the entire body and would be ideal for smaller weddings with a more casual vibe.

OLD, NEW, BORROWED AND BLUE: A FRE S H TA K E ON T H E LON G -H ELD CUSTOM You’ve probably heard the 19th century bridal rhyme: “something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue, and a silver sixpence in her shoe.” Are you thinking about incorporating the associated traditions into your wedding but want to do so in a modern way? Here are some fresh ideas.

SOMETHING O L D • Create a display of vintage photos of loved ones • Incorporate an heirloom into your hairdo • Create a broach bouquet from vintage broaches and jewelry to carry instead of flowers

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SOMETHING NEW • Find some cheeky lingerie to wear under your dress • If you’re not the type to wear jewelry, have rings tattooed on your fingers • Have a custom perfume blended just for your special day

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SOMETHING BORROWED • Rent a designer gown instead of buying a dress you’ll only wear once • Borrow your parents’ wedding song for your first dance • If a married friend has a similar style to you, ask to borrow her veil

SOMETHING BLUE • Forget a French manicure and paint your nails bold blue • Wrap your bouquet with a blue handkerchief or ribbon • If you’re wearing a ball gown, add a layer of blue tulle

WHERE TO BUY: INDEPENDENTLY-OWNED BRIDAL STORES The place to see and engage with a lot of dresses at any budget range. Typically, these stores have stylists that can help guide you through the decision making process.

BRID E SM AIDS

COUTURE BRIDAL SALONS For a more personalized experience that will allow you to see a highly-specialized collection of high-end designer dresses up close.

DEPARTMENT + CLOTHING STORES National department stores like Nordstrom and Bloomingdales will all have a nice selection of suits and dresses for sale, and you can definitely find deals at stores like these.

DISCOUNT OUTLETS If you’re really looking to save some money – or perhaps you’re in a bit of a hurry – discount outlets are a great place to find, well, discounts on suits and dresses.

PRE-OWNED + RENTED For many bridal parties, pre-owned dresses are a really great way to wear a high-end dress without breaking the bank. Or, try renting a dress from various online outlets like Rent The Runway.

SWEETHEART NECKLINE The “sweetheart” neckline derives its name from the heart-shaped look of the torso area of the dress and flatters curvier women.

NOTCHED LAPEL This is the most common of lapel styles.

This is a very basic style making it a great option for the groomsmen. It’s approachable, easy to like, but it’s not going to catch anyone’s eye.

PEAKED LAPEL A peaked lapel – also sometimes called a pointed lapel – is often considered the most distinct of lapel styles. This style is sure to stand out and would make the perfect option for the groom.

ONE-SHOULDER NECKLINE This is the most unique of all neckline styles and can make a loud statement. The look is best suited for women with narrow shoulders and thin arms.

FLOWER GIRLS & RING BEARERS When it comes to the cutest, youngest

GROOM & GROOM S MEN

SHAWL LAPEL The shawl lapel is said to have its origins on the Victorian smoking jacket, and is characterized by a continuous curve.

This is a very elegant and smooth look that works well on full tuxedos.

SCOOP NECKLINE A scoop neckline indicates a dress that’s cut down into the chest area. How far it goes is up to you, but this is a dress than can be universally flattering for different body types.

members of the wedding party, it’s still important that the flower girls and ring bearer be coordinated with the overall color scheme and theme of the wedding.

Many opt for the flower girl’s dress having aspects in common with the bride’s gown. For example, if the bridal dress has lace or a full skirt, the flower girl’s dress might include those features. You might also consider having the flower girl’s dress match the bridesmaids’ dresses.

With the ring bearer, keep the same things in mind. A tiny little tux is cute, but should still match what the groom and/or groomsmen are wearing. •

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The Stable brings a touch of the West to Westlake

THE EVENT HALL CAN ACCOMMODATE 150 GUESTS. The Stable at the Virginian aims to bring a touch of the West to Westlake at Smith Mountain Lake.

Located at 9945 Brooks Mill Road, Wirtz, Va., The Stable is a barnlike structure that is among the area’s newest upscale event and wedding venues.

“We just love people to come together, to have fun and enjoy themselves,” said Jackie Baker, who owns The Stable at the Virginian with her fiancé Dr. Mike Boyd.

Baker is a certified event and wedding planner from The Bridal Society, one of the largest wedding planner organizations in the world. She has taken design courses as well, making The Stable a “one-stop shop” for such activities.

Events at The Stable are not restricted to human guests. Horses may take part in wedding ceremonies, and true to its name, there are five horse stalls inside the building that are authentic and made to code. The

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stalls also can be opened for additional gathering space for events or for rent by vendors.

Cowboy ethics was evident in places such as the Dakotas and Wyoming, Baker said.

The main attraction is a spacious event hall,

“You saw that everywhere,” she added. “Hard-

which is ideal for dining. Large crystal chandeliers

working people, you could take their word, they

suspended from the 40-foot ceiling light the interior of

were honest, and so we really appreciated that, and

the event hall, and western-themed decor rounds out

we wanted to bring something like that back here.”

the space.

Baker said that the “community is important.” Aside

On the second floor, The Stable offers a bridal suite

from the chandeliers, which were the product of a

with a private bathroom, large mirror, and dressing

family-owned business in North Carolina, interior and

area. It is decorated with candles, crystal chandeliers, and a French love seat. On the opposite end of the building is the “gentleman’s quarters.” It also features a bathroom and seating, but shows off masculine western decor and an audio system.

There’s also a gathering room for the families of the bride and groom, the Western Saloon, and a prep kitchen. An outdoor patio offers seating for 25, and overall, the building can accommodate 150 guests.

One could say that the custom-built, 9,000-squarefoot western stable could take your breath away.

exterior work on The Stable was performed by local contractors and laborers.

The Stable is located on more than 40 acres of rolling fields and oaks and maple trees. It is the first phase of The Virginian project, and future phases will involve efforts that include the construction of an outdoor destination named The Pavilion, as well as seasonal events to include a pumpkin patch, festivals, live music and luxury picnics.

The Stable’s pricing is comparable to other upscale

The Stable is a culmination of Baker and Boyd’s love

venues, Baker said. The Stable has partnered with

of the American West, western movies and country

Spring Hill Marriott in Roanoke, Va., for wedding

music. Boyd is a physician practicing in Martinsville,

packages, and the preferred caterer is Center Stage

Va., and Baker is a former nurse, who also worked in

Catering in Rocky Mount, Va. The Stable is currently

marketing and sales in the medical field. According

accepting wedding reservations.

to Baker, Boyd is a John Wayne fan, and the couple

For more information about The Stable at

strongly adheres to the concept of “cowboy ethics,”

the

Virginian,

a compilation of values that include honesty, hard

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work and personal character.

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visit

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The Barns at Timberneck BEGINNING WITH ITS OWN LOVE STORY, THIS VENUE IS SPECIALLY DESIGNED TO ENHANCE THE JOYOUS NEXT STEPS INTO YOURS The Barns at Timberneck is the ideal venue for a wedding celebration focused on relaxed, rustic elegance. This is, in part, because Owner/Hosts Anne and John Seward’s own true love story was the very first couples’ connection that began there.

As the story goes, the two were driving through the historic Surry County countryside early in their courtship when Anne - a gifted designer - spoke of her admiration of a beautiful local farm with great possibilities but a need for a little love and attention. John, in turn began sharing his plan to buy and renovate one of his father’s farms. And as Anne pointed through the window to the lovely old

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farmhouse in the distance that she had been eyeing, the pair realized that their dreams – and the exact farm - were one and the same. That was the day that the seed that grew into The Barns at Timberneck was planted. Thirty love, sweat, joy, and wedding-filled years later, the two have perfected hosting weddings to an art.

Anne and John offer a “one-stop-shop” approach for Timberneck couples, personally handling details such as

RYANN WINN PHOTOGRAPHY.

providing a wide array of décor possibilities and amenities for every wedding, including all the typical rental items like tables, chairs, linens, formal dish/silverware, table/chairs, linens, and serving ware. Their comprehensive package even includes norush site access from Friday at 12:00 to Sunday at 12:00, enabling you to relax and enjoy your own uniquely special wedding weekend, as some available event services include mistress of ceremony services, planning, decorating, venue staging, parking, set-up and clean up and “day of event” staffing support and coordination.

The setting is lovely, as historic, multigenerational Barns at Timberneck farm is nestled in the rural farming community of

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Surry, Virginia, founded in 1652, and only a ten-minute drive from scenic Jamestown/Scotland Ferry. Anne and John live on the 250-acre farm in their restored mid-1800’s main house, and for the wedding party there are three large historic barns decorated with vintage displays and signs of historic times.

“The Barns” provide an array of options. The 2100 square

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foot historic open event barn, built in the 1940’s, can serve up to 200 guests and offers handicap accessible bathrooms, a catering kitchen, and sliding barn doors that open to spacious green grasses for an indoor/outdoor venue. The rustic elegant décor is strung with Edison lights and vintage tools and artifacts from rural farming eras of the past juxtaposed against elegant vintage amber sconces. There also is an attached 1500 square foot covered pavilion with

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clear tent sides and cabana curtains.

The two 2 smaller barns, built in the early to mid-1800’s, are of a similar and unique style with especially beautiful structures. Among other things, they provide additional bridal party changing space with Edison-light lit trees plus up-lighting on the barns and farmhouse to enhance the lovely setting for day or nighttime events.

Theme options range from rustic country to high end glam/ vintage with various fresh floral table centerpiece décor,

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custom linens including various overlay and runner options, outdoor event chairs for up to 200 guests, wooden farmstyle chairs for up to 160 for indoor seating, vintage wooden tables/ benches and/or high-top tables with decorative linens, aisle runner, chair ties, barn door backdrops, wine barrels, pergola, and multiple signage options.

Also available are two separate dressing areas, a commercial

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restrooms, fire pit & Black Adirondack seating, and parking attendants.

For your wedding at The Barns at Timberneck, all you have to do is contract with your selected caterer, DJ, and photographer. Then you can just relax as Anne and John and their extended family decorate, coordinate, and run your event while you and your family and friends enjoy your special weekend celebration. •

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OUTDOOR CHAPEL SETS THE STAGE FOR WEDDINGS PHOTO CREDIT | OUTDOOR CHAPEL AT EVERGREEN LAVENDER FARMS FEATURES A STAINED GLASS WINDOW BEHIND THE PULPIT AND A BELL.

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PHOTO CREDIT | (LEFT) LORING MURCH AND DANIELA SCHAAD EMBRACE AT MICHELLE AND JESSE MURCH’S WEDDING AT EVERGREEN LAVENDER FARM. PHOTOS BY MCCULLOUGH PHOTOGRAPHY.

Tucked away off Old Evergreen Road, one will find themselves traipsing through a cozy and inviting 10-acre farm that begs for one to sit and relax for a spell at what is called the Evergreen Lavender Farm — a place that is now offering a rustic venue for small, romantic weddings.

The home of numerous festivals and events, Ken and Bonnie Swanson are delighted to share a new addition to their farm — an outdoor chapel. It’s a welcome addition to the romantic atmosphere amid the aroma of lavender and other sweet-smelling garden life.

“People would always comment, ‘This is so lovely, this is so relaxing. It would be nice to be married here,’” Bonnie Swanson shared.

The outdoor chapel’s construction began as a pole barn. The roof features two tiers, adding an elevated and church-like flair to the structure.

“We started with a simple structure and then embellished it,” said Ken Swanson.

As far as the walkway goes, it was patterned after Yogaville, where every building is lined up perfectly.

Most of the stained glass windows were repurposed pieces. The pews were bought used. The stained glass guitar window was made by a local artist, Paige Craft.

The chapel also features a bell.

The chapel welcomed its first wedding in May 2020.

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Despite the COVID-19 restrictions, the couple seemed to find delight in the farm setting.

Other perks to the venue include a LOVE sign, bridal party gifts options, a place for the bridal party to prepare for the ceremony, shelter areas should the couple wish to host a reception. And something’s always blooming throughout the spring through fall months.

“To me, the chapel is kinda reverent,” said Ken Swanson, who enjoys sitting in the chapel around dusk.

“The lightning bugs, the sound of the pond, the birds — it’s really special. I hope that people who get married there feel the same way.”

What are some details that a bride-to-be should know about the venue? First of all, wireless internet and handicap accessibility are available. Liability insurance must be provided by the bride and groom. The cottage is available as an on-site stay accommodation and sleeps up to 6 people. It can also serve as a bridal dressing room for the day of the wedding. Elopements begin at $500 and weddings at $600. A wedding and reception package runs up to $1,700 for 8 hours.

Alcohol is allowed, but an event license application through ABC is required. The insurance needs to reflect that, and a bartender is required.

Bonnie Swanson said the farm will provide tables and chairs for up to 75 people and an additional Porta John if needed.

“We are very much a DIY venue,” said Bonnie Swanson.

“That’s what keeps the cost down.”

For booking a wedding event, contact Bonnie Swanson at bonnie@evergreenlavender.com. The family-owned farm may also be reached through their website https:// evergreenlavender.com or phone 434-664-9561. •

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PHOTO CREDIT | MICHELLE AND JESSE MURCH AT EVERGREEN LAVENDER FARM.

MCCULLOUGH PHOTOGRAPHY.

BY: JAMI SNEAD

BRIDAL BEAUTY COUNTDOWN Every bride dreams of the perfect wedding loaded with beautiful photos and memories. It is probably the most heavily photographed day of a bride’s life and there is a lot of preparation that goes in to making sure you look your absolute best. The key to your perfect day is planning your beauty routine several weeks prior to your wedding day.

3-6 MONTHS PREP

2-DAY PREP

• Schedule a facial for every 4-6 weeks until your wedding day.

• Do your seamstress a favor and try not to focus so much on your fitness routine at this point. The constant fluctuation in size will drive you both crazy.

• If your going to go with the spray tan option, two days prior to your wedding would be the ideal time to touch it up. This way you will have time to wash it off a bit before the wedding.

• Schedule your eyelash fill-in and a gentle facial for that perfect glow.

1-3 MONTHS PREP

1-DAY PREP

• Work on those pearly whites. Start using at-home whitening strips or see a professional. (You may want to schedule the professional visit a little closer to your wedding day.)

• Schedule your first eyelash extension session four weeks prior to your wedding day.

• Start experimenting with your makeup, hairstyle, and spray tan. (It is better to do a practice run when trying a spray tan. That way you can determine which is your perfect shade.)

• Wash your hair one-day prior.

Avoid washing your hair the day of your wedding. This will make it easier for your hair stylist to work with on the day of.

• Take the stress away by treating yourself to a gel manicure and pedicure.

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• Tame those wild hairs with an eyebrow and bikini wax.

• If the spray tan option does not work for you, begin applying a self tanner gradually.

• Schedule a hair color touch up.

• Eat a good breakfast. Start your day with some eggs, berries, and an English muffin.

• Take a relaxing bath to calm your nerves.

• Use a light moisturizing facial mask.

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