The Reflector April 2020 by Frederick News-Post

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Volume 68 | Issue 4

What a Century for these 5!

Nisan/Iyar 5780

LOJ GATHERING PAGE 8

AGENCIES

Lloyd Falk

Dorothy Jenkins

Helen Westover

CHESED HONOR PAGE 8

COMMUNITY

BG Gary

Five Beth Sholom Senior Living residents recently celebrated their 100th birthday.

LOTS OF HUGS

See page 9 for details.

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TABLE of CONTENTS

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Federation Happenings

The unforseen … uncovers our best … T

Daniel Staffenberg Chief Executive Officer Jewish Community Federation of Richmond

he last month has seen our community face unprecedented, unforeseen and unbelievable challenges. The COVID-19 virus tore at the very basics of our Jewish life, the ability to come together, share and enjoy personal interaction. As Jews we are commanded to be together. The daily Minyan, holiday celebrations, mourning, and Simchas (celebrations) are all done as a community. I remember the joy, love and support I felt at each of my son’s Bris. My wife and I surrounded by colleagues, friends and family. A house full of joy, each individual in attendance adding their own personal message or smile. It simply would not have bene the same without them. When we join together as a community we are awake, we are energized, we can face the challenges the day presents to us. When we end our day with a community we have the

opportunity, to unload the pressures of the day and greet our loved ones with a clearer mind. Not being able to be physically together has been both a struggle and a strength for our Richmond community. The postponement of our Federation Honeymoon Israel and Community Missions to Israel, the closure of the Weinstein JCC and other facilities, as well as the canceling of community gatherings and programs has created unprecedented decisions and challenges for many in our community. Throughout our history we have risen to the challenge, as a people and as a community. Now is no different. Federation has a focus on sustaining and strengthening our network of services, for ordinary times and the extraordinary times like we have experienced lately. These programs are in place 365 days a year. That means we can act quickly and efficiently to the needs of

JCFR 2020 Neil November DCSA nominations requested T he Jewish Community Federation of Richmond is accepting nominations for the Neil November Distinguished Community Service Award. This award is to be presented at the Federation’s Annual Meeting, which is scheduled to take place on Wednesday, June 3. Named in honor of Neil November (OBM), the award recognizes those volunteer(s) in our community who have, and continue to, exhibit outstanding Editor’s Note: As the Reflector was going to press in mid-March, there were unexpected challenges dealing with the COVID-19 virus and its impact on everyone’s day-to-day lives. The safety and well-being of community members remains our utmost concern, and the Federation will continue to communicate important upto-date information to the community. Some programs listed in this Reflector for April and beyond could be postponed or cancelled. Community members may want to reach out to Agencies, Synagogues and Organizations to confirm the status of a program or an event before planning to attend. www.JewishRichmond.org

The Officers, Board and Staff of the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond Wish You and Your Family A Very Joyous Passover our community, whether planned or unforeseen. We thank all those who contribute, volunteer and support out Jewish Community Federation of Richmond Annual Campaign throughout the years. We value the trust you place in us and our ability to address the needs of Jews locally and around the world. We all rely on these efforts. They have proven themselves during previous crises

service, leadership and achievement in our community and beyond. Nominees should be those who have made a tangible and lasting impact on Jewish life and affairs. This includes work with our Federation partner agencies, the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond, congregations, Federation-affiliated activities, national and overseas agencies, and activity in the general community and involvement in business or professional associations. The NNDCSA Committee will meet soon to review the nominees to be considered for this year’s awards. Community members who would like to make a nomination, can contact Federation Office Manager Sandy Davis for a copy of the Award Criteria and DCSA Nomine Form. She can be reached at (804) 545-8627 or sdavis@jewishrichmond.org. The completed Nomination Form should be submitted by April 17 to sdavis@jewishrichmond.org or via mail to her at JCFR, P.O.Box 17128, Richmond, Virginia 23226. In order to maintain the integrity of the process, please keep the name(s) of your nominee(s) confidential. Those being considered should not be informed that you are placing their names in nomination.

and remind us all of the strength or our collective. I am inspired daily by the leadership in our community. The past few weeks and months has brought out the best in us, and I can’t wait to see what amazing things happen when the waters retreat. May we each find comfort in each other, in person or through distance. To reach out to me, call (804) 5458622 or email daniel@jewishrichmond.

JCFR: CARING FOR OUR COMMUNITY The Jewish Community Federation of Richmond will continue to monitor the situation, update our community, give guidance, and distribute resources about COVID-19 as more information becomes available. At this challenging time, it is more important than ever to maintain our community spirit and sense of connectedness without compromising our health. Whether this means scheduling regular check-ins with elderly family or friends – using the phone or facetime – or whether this means participating in something virtual coordinated by your Synagogue or community group – we all can all help people find ways to stay connected and feel supported. For more information including details on how to contribute to the Federation’s Emergency Campaign, visit www.jewishrichmond.org.

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The Creation of the People of Israel W hen we think of the Passover Seder, we too often think of the slavery and the oppression. While no Exodus story is fully complete without noting the shackling that resulted in the emancipation, we need to actively acknowledge what freedom means and celebrate what was gained. For the Jewish people, it was this audacious transformation from serving an oppressive king looking to deify himself to serving the king of kings, the Almighty. The paradigm shift that ought to occur with this characterization is that which took place so many centuries ago was essentially a conversion. The Talmud states in Tractate Keritut that prior to the revelation at Mount Sinai the Jewish people immersed in water, had male circumcision, and agreed to accept the system of Mitzvot (commandments) yet to come as represented by the 10 Dibrot being received. These protocol are the same

steps taken by converts today. Additionally, Rabbi Joseph B. Soloveitchik zt”l explained the reason why this ceremony is done with a Rabbinical court is to mimic how the mass conversion of three million Jews took place in front of G-d 3,505 years ago! To a great extent all of us are converts accordingly. We retell and partially reenact our miraculous departure from Egypt, but also have a custom of staying up late into the night seven weeks later in order to commemorate the anticipation we are meant to have with the receiving of the Torah. We are called the people of the book to mark this very experience of Geirut (conversion). In Keneseth Beth Israel and in many congregations around the world, we all stand for the verses in the Torah service when the initial ten instructions are given. The reason why we read the Book of Ruth on the 50th day following the anniver-

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sary of our achievement of freedom is to acknowledge that we are a people of converts. We celebrate our unique identity and look to reignite this great inspiration within our collective national identity. These humble beginnings are a source of great pride. Our Passover history underscores not just our radical transformation as a congregation, but also our exceptional admiration for the new converts in our midst. We note the amazing sincerity and the intentional choice to join a small and revolutionary people. For those of us who were simply born into these previous conversions, we marvel at the determination of the convert to stand strong in our powerful, timeless faith. When celebrating the Seder, remember to bask in the joy of freedom, not for freedom’s sake alone, but rather for the spiritual actualization through Torah that accompanies such a grand reality.

Rabbi Dovid Asher Keneseth Beth Israel

Federation Happenings

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Enterprise Circle events,

For information, contact Jesse Feld at (804) 545-8623 or jfeld@jewishrichmond.org.

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Jewish Community Relations Committee

JCRC behind the scenes: Action and Activism J

David Cohen Director Jewish Community Relations Jewish Community Federation of Richmond

ewish Community Relations is often very public and at the same time, it is not always something that happens in the public eye. The strategy behind this dual approach is intentional. For example, when the united Jewish Communities of Virginia conduct their Advocacy Day at the General Assembly, it is a very public and visible display, so our elected officials know we care and that we will hold them accountable as a community. But, of course, leading up to that day there are many meetings, conversations and strategy sessions. In that spirit, we thought this would be an opportune time to talk about some of the less visible work we do in the areas of Education, Security, Advocacy, Inter-Group relations and Public Relations. Henrico and Chesterfield School Boards Include Yom Kippur in their 2020-2021 Calendar We have mentioned much in these pages about the meetings we held with the Governor’s office last summer as a pre-cursor to our work on Holocaust Education and Non-Profit Security Grant Funding. What may not get as much exposure are the meetings upon meetings that were held to try to explain to various school boards how important it is to include Jewish Holidays in their calendars. Under the leadership of Miriam Davidow, our JCRC Education Sub Committee chair, movement on this was seen this past year. First, the Henrico County School Board voted in the fall to include multiple holidays in its 2020-2021 calendar for students. Second, Chesterfield County School Board voted this past month to include similar holidays in its calendar for both students and teachers.

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In both cases the JCRC worked with local school board members and school administration to strategize and send just the right message in support of respecting the practices of multiple faith communities to better reflect the growing diversity around the Commonwealth and in both counties. Support for Federal Legislation A number of bills at the Federal level have been working their way through Congress this session, and the JCRC has been working diligently to make sure that Senators Tim Kaine and Mark Warner, along with Representatives Donald McEachin and Abigail Spanberger were on board with all of them. These include two federal Non-Profit Security Grants, a Holocaust Survivors Assistance program, and the Never Again Act. Confronting Anti-Semitism and Expanding Holocaust Education While our legislative efforts were going full steam ahead at the General Assembly, we were pleased to contribute to a piece on local Public Broadcasting’s VPM about the growth of antiSemitism in the U.S. and the need for enhanced Holocaust education to combat the dangerous trend. JCRC Director David Cohen, Virginia Holocaust Museum Executive Director Samuel Asher, and Claudia Sachs – a Henrico County High School student, were all interviewed for the story. Inter-Group Relations & Supporting Partner Communities against Xenophobia during COVID-19 As the COVID-19 pandemic began spreading outside of China, the JCRC signed on to a national letter urging restraint when it came to xenophobia aimed at people of Chinese descent.

This virus knows no nationality and does not discriminate – and neither should we. This became a very prescient action as even now, as the virus spreads rapidly in Europe and the U.S., and we begin to see ancient anti-Semitic canards arise in regard to nefarious origins of the virus. When one group in our community is targeted with prejudice, we as Jews know very well that others won’t be far behind. Israel Education and Advocacy: Just as uncertainties around COVID-19 began to grow, the JCRC was busy organizing an Interfaith Journey for the Fall of 2020, an evening in April with Haviv Gur, senior analyst for the Times of Israel, and a weekend of performances by Micha Biton, an

Israeli musician from Sderot who is featured in the documentary, “Rock in the Red Zone.” While plans are still on for our fall Interfaith Journey to Israel, we will be shifting our plans for Haviv Gur and re-evaluating our plans for Micha Biton. Web-based Learning during COVID-19 Please be on the lookout for an opportunity to hear from Haviv Gur in a web-based format in April. Also, be ready to receive more information from the JCRC and Jewish Community Federation of Richmond about interviews and panel discussions we will host on-line while much of our in-person programming is being canceled or re-scheduled. For more information, email dcohen@jewishrichmond.org or call (804) 545-8626.

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Federation Happenings

Young Professional Purim Social Brings Together 50 people

ver 50 young adults attended the Purim Social held on Thursday March 5 at Starr Hill RVA. The Jewish Community Federation of Richmond’s young professional group (Network JCFR) partnered with the young professional groups at Temple Beth-El (The Bridge) and Congregation Beth Ahabah (Community Kibbitz) to host a happy hour style event to bring together Young Professional Jews from across the city. Attendees were asked to bring both food items and basic household goods to donate to Beth Sholom Senior Living’s The Woods residents’ on-site food pantry, and attendees gave generously. Young professionals network at the Purim Social held March 5. JCFR Photos The following morning we had a large shopping cart piled high ming during Jewish holidays, when young Jew- Several people attended in costume. “Richmond is an up and coming city for with soup cans, detergent pods, ish adults are looking for community” said Allie and paper goods to hand off to Vornholt, Program & Youth Engagement Man- young professionals, and the Purim Social was no exception in showing this to be true!” said the staff at Beth Sholom for dis- ager at Congregation Beth Ahabah. “The Purim Social gave participants a Cantor Dara Rosenblatt of Temple Beth-El, tribution. “It brought together young Jews from all over “With so many young adults chance to come together, celebrate Jewish culmoving to Richmond, it’s im- ture, and give back to the greater community – the city and it was awesome to connect with old portant to provide program- all at a low barrier of entry. The Community friends and meet so many new ones! Looking Kibbitz is so proud to be a part of the team that forward to more partnered Jewish events in the is creating Jewish programs that meet the needs future!” Some of the items collected at For the status of Network JCFR upcoming of our young adults.” the Purim Social to be given to events and other details, contact Amanda Braun The holiday was marked with delicious residents at the Woods Assisted chocolate, raspberry, and apricot hamantashen at (804) 545-8621 or abraun@jewishrichmond.org. Living facility. cookies, festive décor, and crowns for attendees.

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Lions are energized at event By Jesse Feld Director, Development & Engagement f you’ve been around the Jewish community long enough, there are many symbols that you see often but not think about so much. You’ve seen the Hamsa, the Star of David, and perhaps you’ve also noticed the Lion of Judah. You may know it as the symbol of Jerusalem, the capital of Israel, or perhaps you know it as the symbol our Jewish Patriarch Jacob gives to his son Judah. While you may have your own image and recollection of this symbol, for Jewish Federations all over North America, the Lions of Judah represents the most dynamic philanthropic Jewish women in the world. In fact, we are so lucky to have 79 Lions of Judah here in Richmond. Around the world, Lions are strong women of all ages, an international sisterhood of thousands of global activists who care deeply about the Jewish future. Lions of Judah play a vital role in creating social justice, aiding the vulnerable, preserving human dignity and building Jewish identity. Lions demonstrate their dedication to the Jewish community by contributing of our time and resources. The Lions of Judah set an exemplary standard of leadership and giving. Each woman makes an annual donation to the Jewish Federation that reflects her capacity to give. In Richmond, the Lion gift starts with an annual commitment of $5,000. This powerful group of women came together in late February for a meeting with another Lion of Judah, Vicki Agron. Vicki was

introduced to the group by Jill Goldfine, our local Lion of Judah Chair. “Vicki has four decades of experience as both a national leader and a senior development professional. She opened her own consulting firm specializing in strategic fundraising, professional staff development, and legacy families,” said Goldfine. “Her client list includes local, national and international Jewish organizations as well as inter-generational philanthropic families. She is a revered, respected and someone who leads with tremendous class.” Vicki spoke to the women about living an intentional life, and how their annual support is so crucial to the lives of so many. She thanked the group in attendance for everything they’ve done for the Jewish community here in Richmond, and for people all over the world. Vicki also focused on how easy it is to endow your gift at the Federation through working with Richmond Jewish Foundation, and specifically the Life and Legacy program. The event was capped by welcoming two new members to the Lion of Judah family. Both Sara Waskin and Melanie Feldstein were officially inducted into this tremendous club. If you are interested in learning more about the Lions of Judah, please contact Jesse Feld at the Federation at jfeld@jewishrichmond. org or by calling (804) 545-8623.

Federation Happenings

Gathering for a photo are JCFR President Ellen Renee Adams, Lion of Judah Chair Jill Goldfine, new Lion of Judahs Melanie Feldstein and Sara Waskin and Barbara Shockett, mother of Sara Waskin. JCFR Photos

Vicki Agron, a nationally renowned development professional, shares her insights on the importance of annual support for Jews everywhere.

Women learn about the impact of Campaign gifts By Amanda Braun Development & Engagement Associate wenty Pearl Society members gathered at the home of JCFR President Ellen Renee Adams as young philanthropists and leaders for the community. The Pearl Society was founded as a way to better recognize and connect young women in the community, ages 22-45, who give to the JCFR’s Annual Campaign at a level of $180 and above. This February 17 evening was one of their quarterly events, welcoming a speaker to address the growing group.

Partnership2Gether Program Manager Shimrit Orgal speaks to 20 women at Pearl Society quarterly meeting in February.

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Vicki Agron, a nationally renowned development professional with four decades of experience, joined the group to speak about her journey in the Jewish community and the impact of Federation giving. Her speech resonated deeply, as she spoke about the community we build together. Members also had the opportunity to learn more about our partnership region from one of our Partnership2Gether Program Managers, Shimrit Orgal. The society has taken on a unique project his year to request a small grant from Israel & Overseas Allocations to go to

a holistic care facility for abused and/or neglected children, and Shimrit Orgal was able to expand on the programing that connects Richmond with our partnership region in Israel. During the evening, several of the young women who had increased their gifts were presented with necklaces and charms that corresponded to their personal giving levels. For more information on the Pearl Society and how to make your impactful gift to the community, please contact Amanda Braun at (804) 545-8621 or abraun@JewishRichmond.org. www.JewishRichmond.org

Beth Sholom Happenings

MAH JONGG MADNESS postponed until May 3 D

ue to the coronavirus situation and in an effort to protect our residents and staff, Beth Sholom Senior Living Community is restricting all events on Campus A Luncheon Benefit for Beth Sholom Refreshments, Lunch, Raffles, Door Prizes, our popular 50/50 and more! through at least March 31. Parkside Assisted Living in the Sara Belle November Auditorium Therefore we must postpone the fun of Mah Jongg Madness until Sunday, 1550 John Rolfe Parkway, Richmond, VA Sunday, March 2 , 2020 May 3! We apologize for any inconvenience and look forward to seeing you 11:30 a.m. – 3:30 p.m. $36 per ticket. on Sunday, May 3, same time and place –11:30 Proceeds a.m. 3:30 p.m. in Parkside to benefit programming at Beth Sholom. For more information call at Beth Sholom. (804) 421-5355 or email Communications@bslcc.org We hope you will join us for a day full of games, raffles and Reamazing food! serve early ! Limited seating. For more details or to register, call 804-421-5355. Proceeds from Mah Jongg Madness, Drive Shack Benefit and other fundraisers help support our residents’ programming fund. Through these fundraising efforts, Beth Sholom has been able to provide additional transportation services, as well as enhanced activities such as concerts, plays, various art classes and special programing for our Memory Enrichment centers. We hope to be able to provide even more services with the funds raised from this year’s events. Updates regarding this event will be emailed and posted on our website www.bethsholomliving.org. Please feel free to call 804-421-5355 with any questions.

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Parkside Residents Celebrate 100 Years!

(From left) Gathering for a special photo are Lloyd Falk, Dorothy Jenkins, Helen Westover, BG Gary, and Phillip Pines who all celebrated their 100th birthday recently!

arkside Assisted Living at Beth Sholom is pleased to report that five (yes, 5!) residents recently celebrated their 100 birthday! Each was born during a period in history of great social and political change. The Model T was the most popular car, zippers and toasters were a modern convenience, movies were silent and there was no NFL. www.JewishRichmond.org

Times have certainly changed! Age is just a number to this elite group! They make a practice to never miss their favorite activity or the opportunity to socialize.

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.Rebecca Kalman-Winston will be honored with RTA Happenings

2020 Chesed Award from Rudlin Torah Academy RUDLIN TORAH ACADEMY RICHMOND HEBREW DAY SCHOOL

Stellar Education for Every Jewish Child

udlin Torah Academy is pleased to name Rebecca Kalman-Winston as recipient of its 2020 Chesed Award. The award will be presented at RTA’s annual Chesed Awards Dinner on Tuesday, June 2 at 6 p.m. at the Weinstein JCC. Rebecca Kalman-Winston spends her workweek as the case manager at Henrico County CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocates), Inc., which she joined in 2015. Many evenings and weekends are spent volunteering in the Richmond Jewish community. “As a child, I thought my parents had two jobs: daytime (her father, Malcolm Kalman, obm, was president of Siegel’s Super Markets), and evening - devoted to phone calls, meetings, campaigns--volunteering on behalf of the Jewish community.” Both of Rebecca’s parents served on the RTA board and her father was president for more than one term. This early lesson in responsibility to community was strengthened when Rebecca entered the 5th grade of Richmond Hebrew Day School. She is grateful to have had the opportunity to deepen her knowledge of Judaism, which has informed most of what she has done in her life. She was in the second class to graduate 8th grade, in 1975. Rebecca attended Douglas Freeman High School, then Brandeis University, where she majored in sociology and English, and met her husband, David

Rebecca Kalman Winston File Photo

Winston. The couple lived in Northern Virginia and South Florida before returning to Richmond in 2003. Her professional career has been in child welfare. She worked as a Child Abuse and Neglect investigator, and volunteer coordinator for Boca Raton Police Services, the City of Boca Raton, Covenant House Florida and Fairfax County Department of Social Services. In Richmond, she held positions at the Weinstein JCC as assistant games director, JCC Maccabi Games; and special events and Adult Education coordinator. Later, she worked for the Community Tax Law Project, a lowincome taxpayer clinic. Asked about her earliest participation in Jewish activism, Rebecca recalls the 1970s effort to Free Soviet Jewry, including letter-writing campaigns and a fundraising walkathon. She still writes to her Congressmen.

Because of the COVID-19 virus pandemic, Rudlin Torah Academy was closed for most of March and possibly beyond, depending on circumstances. For more information about RTA, visit www.rudlin.com or call (804) 353-1110 or info@rudlin.com.

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As a newly married 22-year old and Life Member, she became active in Hadassah, which she credits with teaching her many professional skills including public speaking, organizing and running meetings and events, fundraising and advocacy. She served as president of Northern Virginia Chapter. At RTA, Rebecca served two terms as president (2010-11; 2017-18), codirected the Run-a-Latke 5K for many years, coordinated bingo volunteers, and helped with recruitment, fundraising, and the Chesed Awards dinner itself. For her many contributions to the school, she previously received RTA’s Alumna of the Year Award (2008) and ABCD Award (2015). She has served on the boards of the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond, Richmond Jewish Foundation, and Jewish Family Services, and currently is secretary on the board of her Synagogue, Keneseth Beth Israel. Recently, she and David have become involved with Friends of Israel Defense Forces (FIDF) as they expand into the Richmond area, educating the community about how to directly support IDF soldiers with their education, trauma and grief counseling and other needs. They also helped start Team X-TREME, providing recreational and social experiences for men and women wounded in war. Reflecting on her decades-long connection with RTA, she noted, “I feel strongly that children’s education about Judaism cannot occur entirely

in the home. If a child’s knowledge is supplemented with the richness and fullness of a day school education, he/she can go into the world with a foundation in the beauty and wisdom of Torah – using it as little or as much as they choose.” She continued, “I learned from the parents I worked with who did not have the tools, knowledge and support that they needed in order to be effective parents that ‘You can’t do what you don’t know.’ Children should be given the knowledge that our ancestors preserved for us.” This year’s Chesed Dinner also features a performance from internationally renowned comedian Ashley Blaker. Tickets are $100 per person. For more information about the dinner, please call (804) 353-1110. Located at 3809 Patterson Ave., Richmond, Rudlin Torah Academy is in its 54th year of providing quality fulltime K-8 education to Jewish children in the Richmond area. The Academy is accredited by the Virginia Association of Independent Schools and is a member of the National Society of Hebrew Day Schools. For more information about RTA, visit www.rudlin.com or contact us at (804) 353-1110 or info@rudlin.com. Rudlin Torah Academy is supported, in part, by a generous contribution and programming grant from the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond.

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JFS Happenings

The happy graduates along with their instructors of JFS’ East End Personal Care Aide training program gather for a photo following the ceremony. Photos by Tom Topinka

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n February 13, ten women graduated from JFS’ second East End Personal Care Aide (PCA) training program. All of them began the next week working at JFS as state-certified PCAs caring for seniors and adults with disabilities with Medicaid insurance. As Richmond’s population ages, PCA is the fastest-growing position in health care. A PCA certification can be a first step in the health care field towards becoming a certified nursing assistant, licensed practical nurse, and beyond. JFS launched the free training program for East End residents in 2019 alongside community partners Richmond Redevelopment and Housing Authority, Richmond Public Schools, and Peter Paul Development Center. Focus groups of East End residents were essential in shaping the program to include flexible schedules, workforce development training, and more time to practice in-home care skills. Fourteen women graduated from the first East End PCA course last spring. Ten women signed up for JFS’ second East End PCA class, and all ten graduated and earned their Personal Care Aide certifications! Building on feedback from the first class, JFS added even more class time for participants to practice their handson skills and learn other workforce development skills. Virginia requires 40 hours of training for PCAs; JFS’ course is 70 hours over six weeks, scheduled during school hours to minimize www.JewishRichmond.org

interference with the participants’ other responsibilities. The ten new aides and their families packed the Sarah Garland Jones Center for the graduation ceremony. Stephanie Toney, RN, BSN, the lead instructor of the East End PCA training program, said, “This moment is all about you, and the perseverance and resilience it took you to get to this place. Every client that you have will be privileged for you to be taking care of them.” Ishalcie Rutledge, one of the graduates, spoke on behalf of the class. “When I first heard about the program, I was nervous to apply. But, Ms. Suzette (the resident services coordinator at Whitcomb Court) kept emailing me, saying she thought I should do the class. At first, I had missed the deadline, and I was really sad. But, then a spot opened up.” She added, “I was scared, and I didn’t think I would be able to do it. But, the instructors Stephanie and Iesha were very understanding and my classmates were very helpful as well. I’m very grateful for this program, and I’m proud of all of us. I can’t wait to see what this year brings.” As the new PCAs took photos and ate cake with their families, Ms. Rutledge said, “I’m just glad I took this opportunity. I believed in myself, and my family and my classmates believed in me too. I’ve wanted to be in the nursing field for so long. The instructors held us accountable and supported us. They worked with me on my schedule. I’m so grateful to JFS, and I will recommend

Ishalcie Rutledge (center) receives her certificate from Iesha Williams, RN. (left) and Stephanie Toney, RN, BSN, (right).

this class to my friends!” JFS is profoundly grateful to everyone who made this day possible, especially the instructors and participants, our community partners in the East End, and the visionary donor who sparked this program. (And, many thanks to Tom Topinka for the wonderful photos!) Congratulations, new PCAs! For more information about JFS

services, visit www. jfsrichmond.org, contact Morgan Goad at mgoad@jfsrichmond.org or call (804) 2825644 ext. 231. Jewish Family Services is supported, in part, by a generous contribution and a programming grant to support the Jewish Care Line from the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond.

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Weinstein JCC Happenings

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n Wednesday, April 29 from 5-7:30 p.m., come to the Weinstein JCC decked out in blue and white and celebrate Yom Ha’atzmaut, Israel’s Independence Day, just like the Israelis do! All over Israel, people gather in parks and beaches with their portable grills for a festive picnic filled with meat, veggies, Israeli salads and more. The Weinstein JCC will be recreating this unique Israeli tradition with delicious food from Yossi Goel, along with Israeli pop music, a pita making station and flags galore. Attendees will also have the opportunity to meet Nate Mulberg, assistant coach of the 2020 Israel Olympic baseball team that will be competing in the Summer Olympics in Tokyo, Japan. So grab your friends and family and join the party! Picnic blankets and chairs are encouraged. Cost is $5 per child ages 12 and under, and $10 per adult. For more information and to confirm the event status, call (804) 285-6500.

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he Weinstein JCC Board of Directors is pleased to announce that the Weinstein JCC Annual Meeting will be held on May 14, at 5:30 p.m., in the Israel November Auditorium. The Board encourages all to attend and celebrate the Center’s many accomplishments from the past year. The evening’s program will include thanking Sara Villalona for her two-year service as Board president as well as the induction of the new Board president, Ashley Brooks, along with a new slate of Board members and officers. Three recepients will be recognized for the following annual awards: the Arenstein

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Family, the Leroy B. Goldberg Leadership and the Esther, Edith & H.J. Bernstein. The evening will also mark the end of the Center’s Silent Auction and Raffle. This event is free and open to the community, and the Center welcomes everyone to attend! To confirm the event status and to RSVP, contact Pat Hendrick at (804) 5458604 or phendrick@weinsteinjcc.org to reserve your seat. The Weinstein JCC is supported, in part, by a generous contribution and programming grant from the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond.

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april 21 at 7pm at the Weinstein JCC 70 min I Documentary I USA I 2008 As Maya Angelou narrates this powerful documentary, she reveals the story of a brave group of people who fought Hitler and took their fate into their own hands to make a compelling statement about the human spirit, enduring against unimaginable odds.

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Discussion to follow led by Elizabeth Hlavek, art therapist and exhibit curator.

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rally and help to prevent the regression that can sometimes occur during summer break. Campers are able to improve their confidence, increase self-esteem and establish important communication skills and friendships that they can carry with them into their adult life. It is with all of this in mind that Voices Together at the Weinstein JCC was created over 15 years ago. Voices Together is a safe and structured day camp for children on the autism spectrum in grades K-8. Campers participate in both indoor and outdoor activities that keep them engaged and entertained, including art, science, music, swimming, and classroom and gym games. The professional staff and teen volun-

teers make this an experience campers won’t soon forget and one that cannot be duplicated anywhere else in RVA. To learn more about Voices To-

gether, contact Melissa Bunce at (804)545.8658 or mbunce@weinsteinjcc. org. Registration is open for both campers and tween and teen volunteers.

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Weinstein JCC Happenings

Violins of Hope Concert planned for May 20

he Weinstein JCC is proud to host a very special Violins of Hope chamber music concert sponsored by Linda and Earl Ferguson on Wednesday, May 20 at 7:30 p.m. in the Israel November Auditorium. Part of Violins of Hope RVA, presented by the Virginia Holocaust Museum and Virginia Museum of History and Culture, this intimate evening will feature violins recovered and restored by Israeli violinmaker, Amnon Weinstein, who has devoted the last 20 years to locat-

ing and restoring the violins of the Holocaust as a tribute to those who were lost. Although most of the musicians who originally played the instruments were silenced by the Holocaust, their voices and spirits live on through the violins that Amnon has lovingly restored. To confirm event status, call (804) 285-6500. Tickets are $25 in advance and available at weinsteinjcc.org/events.

Jewish Artists’ Collective Exhibit The Jewish Artists’ Collective is a new initiative by the Weinstein JCC featuring original works by local Richmond artists. The Collective meets monthly to learn about and discuss Jewish Peoplehood, the powerful yet intangible idea that connects Jews together, no matter where they live or how they practice. The inaugural group consists of eight artists: Cindy Krumbein, Lisa Lezell-Levine, Lydia Marek, Holly Markhoff, Joel Moses, Naomi Swartz, Ed Tepper and Heidi Thacker. Using the book, “A Passion for a People” by Avraham Infeld, along with his “Five Legs of the Table” metaphor, these artists have been exploring this topic with input and guidance from guest facilitators, Rabbi Dovid Asher, Keneseth Beth Israel: educator and artist, Dawn Kowal : and Weinstein JCC Interim CEO, Orly

Lewis. In addition to monthly meetings, artists have been attending and engaging in community and cultural programs that have further enhanced their Jewish peoplehood experience. As a culmination of the learnings, inspirations and personal reflections of the artists, the Weinstein JCC’s Jewish Artists’ Collective will present an exhibit of original works entitled, “Hope, Peoplehood and the Five Legs in the Sara D. November Gallery. The exhibit, curated by Lisa Lezell-Levine and sponsored by Hirschler, will be on display from May 5 through June 25. The community is invited to a gallery reception and artists’ talk on Tuesday, May 5 at 7:00 p.m. To confirm the event status and to RSVP, email eneal@weinsteinjcc.org or call (804)285-6500.

5400 Club for April The following programs and speakers were scheduled for April at the Weinstein JCC. The status of the programs and potential postponements will be communicated by the Center. April 6 - Michael Stone, Virginians for Alternatives to the Death Penalty, “The Death Penalty in Virginia.” April 13 --Thomas Kapsidelis, journalist and former Richmond TimesDispatch reporter; “After Virginia Tech: Guns, Safety, and Healing in the Era of Mass Shootings.” April 20 -- EnRich for Life/Food for Thought Program: Jim Dau, state director, AARP, “Addressing the High

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Prices – and Costs – of Prescription Drugs.” Free Kosher lunch served at 11:15 a.m. Dau heads a team of 12 and 300 volunteers. Together, they help people across the Commonwealth through community-level outreach and education, as well as state and federal advocacy, on issues including family caregiving, financial security, and health care. At 1:30 p.m., attendees can take a free special trip to the Joel & Lila Harnett Museum, University of Richmond, to view an exhibit, “Fritz Ascher: Expressionist.” The artist was

part of Germany’s “Lost Generation,” whose careers were interrupted or destroyed by the Nazi regime. The trip includes transportation and a tour. RSVP is a must to Shari MenloweBarck at (804) 545-8611 or sbarck@ weinsteinjcc.org. Make your reservations today! Only 48 spots available April 27 -- David Weinfeld, professor, VCU, “Jews in American Politics.” For club details, contact Norman Sporn at n.sporn@gmail.com.

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Synagogue Happenings

Or Atid Happenings

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All Synagogue activities were canceled through March 29. To confirm, April programs will be held, visit www.oratid.org.

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World Wide Wrap t’s a Wrap! On Feb. 2, 6th-8th graders of the Helen and Sam Kornblau Religious School joined the Men’s Club of Or Atid to participate in the World Wide Wrap. This event, coordinated by the Federation of Jewish Men’s Clubs, encourages congregations around the world to teach the mitzvah of wrapping Tefillin. After learning about the history, construction and ritual relating to the mitzvah of wrapping Tefillin, each attendee at Or Atid had the opportunity to put on Tefillin. It was an inspirational morning as our students participated in this ancient practice for the first time. Second Night Passover Seder at Or Atid Please join us on the second night of Passover, April 9, as Rabbi Hal Schevite leads an inspiring Seder journey while we share a Kosher-forPesach meal together. The Menu: matzo, charoset. hardboiled eggs, salad, gefilte fish, vegetable soup, matzo balls (regular & gluten free), vegetable kugel, baked chicken, carrot souffle, broccoli, and desserts. Gluten-free and vegetarian options are available upon registration. The greater Richmond Jewish Community is invited. Pre-Registration is required. The cost is $25 for

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adults and $6 for children 12 and under. Registration closes on the morning of April 2. To register, please visit oratid.org or call the Or Atid office at (804) 7404747. Thanks to a generous donor and to our wonderful team of volunteers, we are able keep our costs to a minimum this year. We hope to see you will celebrate with us. Volunteering at Feedmore on April 28 The Social Action and Justice Committee of Or Atid is organizing a team of volunteers to help fill backpacks at Feedmore on April 28. This meaningful program helps children at risk of weekend hunger by providing them with a bag of childfriendly, nutritious, nonperishable food so they have meals for the weekend. Or Atid congregants are happy to assist FeedMore in helping ensure that children in need will have food over the weekend and return to school ready to learn

By Alison Litvin The purpose of the Passover Seder is to retell the story of the Exodus from Egypt, sharing the values, history, and meaning of the holiday with each other. This year, the Helen and Sam Kornblau Religious School of Congregation Or Atid partnered with MakIt Products to create a personal, meaningful memento for families to enhance their Seder experience. In the classroom, students learned about the seder plate and how each of the food items are symbolic for Passover. Students then worked hard to carefully design their own, one-of-a-kind seder plate, adding their creative twist to the age-old tradition. Students’ designs are being made into functional plates. Or Atid families will be able to add their own uniquely designed

plates to the table during this year’s Passover Seder. The Kornblau Religious School is always open to interested families who are looking to start, continue, or explore their own Jewish Journey. In class, students discover new ways to interact with Jewish holidays and traditions, Israeli culture, Hebrew and Tefillah, and the weekly parsha. For more information about the school, please contact Education Coordinator, Alison Litvin, at relschool@oratid. org, or call Congregation Or Atid at (804) 740 - 4747. For more information about the school, contact Education Coordinator Alison Litvin, at relschool@oratid.org, or call Congregation Or Atid at (804) 740 4747.

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A Note from Laurie Weinberg Due to the growing uncertainty over the local impact of COVID-19, we are continuing to monitor whether or not it would be in everyone’s best interest to hold our congregational Seder on Thursday, April 9 as originally planned. A decision will be made no later than April 4, at which time sign-up information will be provided and registration will begin if we choose to proceed. We recognize that this will require people to respond quickly if we do go ahead, but we feel that in the current situation this is the most prudent approach. To keep up to date on Or Ami communications, visit or-ami.com or facebook. com/OrAmiRichmond

On Thursday, April 2, Or Ami concludes our three-part interfaith dialogue series with Bon Air Presbyterian Church and the Islamic Center of Virginia. After hosting the second of these events on March 26, we are scheduled to go to the Islamic Center of Virginia (1241 Buford Road) for the third event, which begins at 6:45 p.m with light refreshments, followed by a presentation and break out session into dialogue groups where topics like civility and kindness with

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ur community Passover Seder highlights April’s offerings from Or Ami. This yearly event is open to all, and along with the Passover meal comes fun and singing Passover songs parodying each decade between 1950 until today. As the Haggadah says, every generation shall see themselves as if they had personally gone out of Egypt. Scheduled for the second night of Pesach, on Thursday, April 9, from 5:30 p.m. until 7 p.m., we hope you will join us for this beautiful celebration. To confirm if the Seder will be held, and to register, either call, email office@or-ami.com or register online. All reservations must be received by April 4. For members, ticket prices are $18 per member and $6 per child under 13. The maximum ticket price per member family is $48. Guest tickets are $22 per adult and $6 for children under 13. For more information or registration, please see https://or-ami.com/seder/. In case of inclement weather, the 10th is reserved for our back-up Seder.

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(Right) Rabbi Ahuva Zaches guides the congregation through the Haggadah at last year’s community Passover Seder. Or Ami photo

people from other faith backgrounds will be discussed. The event will conclude around 8:30 pm. More information can be found about this event on the web at Bon Air & Southside Interfaith Trialogue. Every Saturday in April, our Torah Study/brunch with Rabbi Ahuva is scheduled from 10:30 a.m. until noon. On Friday, the 17th, a unique Jewish meditation will be facilitated before services from 7-7:30 p.m. On Sunday, April 19, Or Ami will host our 5th Annual Interfaith Mitzvah Day. This is a collaborative project between Or Ami, the Islamic Center and New Light Baptist Church. Volunteers of all ages will participate in projects around Richmond. Last year’s projects included packing

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kits for children in foster care, visiting and playing Bingo at Elcroft, gardening and creating stepping stones for the Islamic Center. The day ends at the Islamic Center with ice cream for all! On Friday, April 24, a special guest speaker, Dr. Kelley Z. Allison from Or Ami More on page 21

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By Ramona L. Brand Director of Youth Learning And the Women Dancing with their Timbrels he story of Passover is a both a familiar tale and also rich with new discovery from year to year. At the end of the Hebrew slaves’ long saga is a miraculous escape through the Red Sea. Upon reaching the other side, the waters close over their pursuers and “Miriam, the prophetess, Aaron’s sister, took a timbrel in her hand, and all the women came out after her with timbrels and with dances.” (Exodus 15:20). The timbrel, in ancient days, was primarily a woman’s instrument, used for both spiritual and religious ritual as well as for celebrating military victories. One can only imagine that moment of spontaneous joyful song and prayer. Relief, exultation, renewal and promise for the future all wrapped up in one climactic moment. Let’s consider also, the celebration of a military victory. Can the story of Passover be considered a military victory? Moses is directed by God to confront Pharaoh and through God, obtains the release of the Hebrew slaves. There is no Jewish army, no Jewish generals, no physical battles involved in this struggle for freedom and autonomy. But, perhaps if we look a little closer at the role women play in this story, we may understand the spontaneous display by the women at the moment of freedom. Resistance. While the story of the Exodus revolves primarily around Moses, and also Aaron in their challenge to Pharaoh, without the courageous resistance of many of the women in the story, the Hebrews would never have made it to the opposite shore. Shifra and Puah, two

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midwives, defied Pharaoh’s decree to kill male newborns, and assisted in the survival of the male infants. We can be sure that while Shifra and Puah are named, there were also many brave women who worked in coordination with them. Jocheved, Moses’ mother, had the courage and conviction to hide Moses until he could no longer be hidden and the faith to set him in a basket on the Nile with only a prayer that he would survive. There had to be other mothers who made that choice as well. Miriam had the tenacity to follow the basket, and the wiles to step forward and offer her own mother as a wet-nurse for Moses when he was discovered, crying in the reeds. Then finally, there is Pharaoh’s daughter, who perhaps showed the greatest display of compassionate resistance in the story. She saw the basket in the midst of the marsh, and she sent her maidservant, and she took it. “She opened [it], and she saw him, the child, and behold, he was a weeping lad, and she had compassion on him, and she said, “This is [one] of the children of the Hebrews.” (Exodus 2:5-6). There were many actions Pharaoh’s daughter could have taken in that moment. Thrown Moses back into the water, turned away and done nothing, informed her father. Instead she accepts Miriam’s offer for a wet-nurse, perhaps knowing full well that this was the child’s mother. She is a compatriot in the resistance. At a time when women’s lives were proscribed and limited, these women made courageous choices that set the stage for freedom. It is little wonder that “all the women” followed Miriam with timbrels and in celebration of their part in creating our history. Special Note: Check with Ramona Brand or the office on the status of Religious School and special services and programs. April Religious School Calendar: Sundays: April 19 and 26 Wednesdays: April 1, 22 and 29 Tot Shabbat Services, Saturday, April 4. For families with children from infants to five years old. Open to the entire community. Families can enjoy a Shabbat service geared for young children and filled with music, stories, movement and more. A musical, meaningful service designed for wiggles. Meet at 11:15 a.m. in the Kiddush Room at 3330 Grove Ave. Richmond. Stay for Kiddush lunch after services.

Youth Programs Our Youth Groups offer social programs outside Religious School hours. Participates have fun while deepening their engagement with each other and to their Judaism. Some events are only for the kids and teens, some are for the entire family! Some will be free, while others will have a small fee or donation to support the activity/project. For more information contact Ramona at r.brand@ bethelrichmond.org Ruach and Kadima Spring into Action: When: April 26 What: Help restore community gardens and prepare for spring. Time: 12:15 - 3 p.m. Location: TBA To confirm event status and for more information, email r.brand@bethelrichmond.org One Tree Many Branches, Interfaith Friendship Club Potluck: Changing the World One Friendship at a Time When: Sunday, April 19 What: The Interfaith Friendship Club bring families from different backgrounds together in order to honor our diversity while celebrating our unity. Good food, games, activities and conversation helps to bring us closer together. Come make new friends and deepen our connections. This month: Celebrating our commonality through the spring holidays Passover, Easter and Ramadan: Spring renewal and unity crafts, conversation, and potluck. We’re changing the world, one friendship at a time. Time: 5 - 7 pm New Location: First Baptist Church, 2709 Monument Ave. Richmond 23220 Cost: Free, bring a Nut-free, vegetarian dish to share. This month: bring a favorite spring holiday dish. This is a collaboration with First Baptist Church, Seventh Street Christian Church, The Islamic Center of Virginia. Thanks to the Richmond Jewish Richmond Foundation and the Rachel B. Banks grant. To confirm status, for more information or to RSVP, contact coordinator.otmb@gmail.com.

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Note: To confirm April events/services will be held, email brithachim@aol.com. Spring has sprung and Congregation Brith Achim is moving into its spring and summer programming. Brith Achimâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s April events include, chronologically: â&#x20AC;˘ Passover Second Night Seder - April 9 at 6:30 p.m. that features our second night Community Seder. This event features a group retelling of the exodus story around a banquet-style Kosher meal with a variety of drink options provided. Brith Achim Sisterhood is offsetting some of the cost, but contact the Synagogue office to reserve your space (brithachim@aol.com) and cover the remainder. â&#x20AC;˘ Renewal Saturday â&#x20AC;&#x201C; April 18 is our monthly third Saturday renewal service. This service includes meditation, chanting, and gospel-themed music for people seeking more spirituality than in a traditional prayer service. Contact Rabbi Beck-Berman (beckberman@aol.com) for more information. â&#x20AC;˘ Squirrels Baseball â&#x20AC;&#x201C; April 19 is our first scheduled baseball outing at the Richmond Flying Squirrels. (Note: It is best to confirm this event with the office or David Goldstein) Our Menâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Club sells discounted vouchers good for any game, so contact David Goldstein (drdaveg@gmail.com) to purchase vouchers, find out more about our baseball outings, or to learn more about Kids Club. We love to welcome guests to South of the James, so feel free to inquire about any of our activities. Come join us!

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Synagogue Happenings

Beth Ahabah and St. James’s remember the 1994 fire By Cantor Sarah Beck-Berman t was 25 years ago this past summer, lightning struck the roof of St. James’s Episcopal Church on West Franklin Street, causing a fire which consumed much of their sanctuary and church building. Less than a day later, the president of Congregation Beth Ahabah at the time, Barry Hofheimer, sent a letter offering the use of Beth Ahabah’s sanctuary to St. James’s for their Sunday services until they rebuilt their church. Beth Ahabah hosted St. James’s during the three years that it took to rebuild, and those years both deepened existing friendships and formed many new connections between the two communities. On Sunday, Feb. 16, 2020, both congregations came together in a joint interfaith service of prayer and thanksgiving, co-created by the clergy from Beth Ahabah and St. James’s. This program marked the 25th anniversary of the fire, as well as the close relationship between St. James’s and Beth Ahabah which has continued over the years in the form of joint programs, interfaith worship, interfaith dialogue, and learning opportunities together. When St. James’s rebuilt, they created banners which reside permanently in their sanctuary. One of them celebrates the friendship between our congregations, saying “Raised up in love by Congregation Beth Ahabah.” Another banner celebrates their community’s resilience with an image of fire and a reference to Exodus 3:14, when Moses encounters God at the burning bush, which burned but was not consumed. The joint interfaith celebration on Sunday began as The program which followed included Psalm 150 sung to melodies from both faith tra-

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VCU Health will speak about breast cancer screening and the race for the cure at 7:30 p.m. before our regular Shabbos service. OATY (Or-Ami Teen Youth) continues their work at Evergreen Cemetery. For almost 3 years, they have helped clear brush to find plots and show respect for the gravesites. We were there Sunday, March 22, 12:15-3 p.m. Another visit will be scheduled before the end of the school year, date TBA, so check our calendar. We’d love to have you join us for this worthwhile experience, and also to learn hidden facts about Richmond’s history in www.JewishRichmond.org

ditions led by the St. James’s choir and Cantor Sarah Beck-Berman, stories and memories of the fire and friendship between our congregations, the passage from Exodus about the burning bush read by The Reverend Hilary Streever, and remarks from both Rabbi Scott Nagel and Father John McCard. Among the speakers was a firefighter who Rabbi Scott Nagel and Cantor Sarah Beck-Berman joyfully carry special banners had been present at the fire 25 years before, while parading with the Beth Ahabah contingent. Beth Ahabah Photos Billy Crew, as well as Beth Ahabah member Jim Weinberg who fondly and wittily remembered when his infant daughter, Julia, stood in for the baby Jesus in the 1995 St. James’s Christmas Pageant, hosted at Beth Ahabah. After the service closed with the shehecheyanu and priestly benediction, the celebration continued with food and drinks as members from both congregations noshed and schmoozed, making new friendships and connections and celebrating existing ones alike. The spirit of the entire morning was one of love and mutual support overcoming hardship and loss. The Torah commands: “v’ahavtah l’rei-achah kamocha” (love your neighbor as yourself) and we believe to fulfill this we must build relationships across the wider Richmond community, cultivating greater understanding between us and our neighbors and friends. We are proud to have co-created Rabbi Scott Nagel and Cantor Sarah Beck-Berman join with Father John McCard and this meaningful event which benefits us and The Rev. Hilary Streever during the joint celebration on Feb. 16. the entire Jewish community, and we look forward to the next opportunity!

the process. For more information, please email nancy.nelson5@comcast.net . OATY Trivia Night fundraiser OATY youth hosted their annual fundraiser in February, which included a pasta dinner to go with their trivia game. Our teens organized the entire event, cooking the food, coming up with the trivia, creating the powerpoint, and reading the questions to our audience. They also choose the benefactors from their fundraiser. The evening was a great success, and the teens loved doing it. Due to their efforts, they were able to make considerable donations to Hawthorne Cancer Founda-

tion, Loving Acres farm sanctuary, and our own OATY scholarship fund, all projects dear to them. Continuing our relationship and commitment to Loving Acres, OATY’s Mitzvah Day project will be spent helping there, and we’re looking forward to teens from Bon Air Presbyterian and the Islamic Center and possibly Temple Beth-El in Harrisonburg, Virginia, joining us. Reel Theology Movie Night is scheduled for April 19, 6-8 p.m. Please don’t forget your movie snacks while enjoying the movie and the discussion afterward. Book Club will be deliberating on the book, “Between Friends,” by Amos Oz, on April 11, 7-8 p.m.

Or Ami’s address is 9400 Huguenot Road, Richmond, 23235. Please join us as we explore Jewish wisdom, customs, and celebrations. Friday Shabbat Services begin at 7:30 p.m. with a potluck Oneg to share afterward. Membership is not a prerequisite. For more information on any program, or to verify any activities, contact our office at office@or-ami.com or (804) 2720017. Also reach out to us at: Belong@Or-Ami.com or check us out at www.Or-Ami.com. You can follow us on Facebook at facebook.com/OrAmi-Richmond, or catch us on Twitter@oramirichmond. Inquiries are always welcome.

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Halina Zimm receives 300+ hugs from Clover Hill HS students H olocaust Survivor Halina Zimm enthralled and engaged about 350 attentive Clover Hill High School students March 5 during a 2-hour visit to the school. The special talk was arranged and coordinated by History teacher Milissa Diegel Barrick with assistance from Betsy Barker Cheney from Beth Sholom Senior Living whose daughter, Claire, attends the school. Deirdre Arnowitz, a long time friend of Mrs. Zimm, drove the 92-year-old woman to the school, and also helped facilitate the visit along with Mrs. Cheney, the director of Rehabilitation at Beth Sholom. Deirdre told the Reflector, “Not one student had ear bugs or used their cellphone during the talk. She spoke more about an hour and the students

were so engaged and attentive.” She added, “They were so emerged in everything she told them about her story and life. They gave her a standing ovation too. And what really is remarkable is that all 350 met and hugged her after her talk.” The students formed a long line throughout the auditorium to meet Mrs. Zimm, take photos and spend time talking to her, said Deirdre. This took an additional hour during the event. “And what happened next; the students formed another line and talked with her some more. They just loved her. They wanted to be with her individually.” Deirdre said, “She wanted to hear their stories too.”

ABOVE: Halina Zimm is joined by (from left) History teacher Milissa Diegel Barrick, Deirdre Arnowitz and the daughters of Betsy Barker Cheney – Kate and Claire. Contributed Photos

The following are excerpts from Facebook postings from the Milissa Diegel Barrick and Betsy Barker Cheney. Milissa Diegel Barrick “If I never do anything else as a teacher, today was definitely a high point day! Through personal connections and former students, I was able to arrange to have a Holocaust Survivor speak to a group of CHHS students. “I get so very frustrated ... when people say how kids are so different today and that they are disrespectful, but yet I watched 300 students stand in line to meet and hug a tiny 90 year old woman. “... they were attentive, engaged, and at times emotional. I know they will remember those 2 hours for the rest of their lives. I will. “Thank you to my colleagues that attended, made sure our shared students were able to attend (even changing their own lesson plans for students to come) and supporting me!” Betsy Barker Cheney “I am kvelling ... so proud of EVERY SINGLE Clover Hill High School student who attended ... They put away their phones, took out their ear buds, and quietly and attentively listened to Halina Zimm, 92-year old Richmond Holocaust Survivor, as she told her story of survival as a young girl in Poland and the atrocities against the Jews during WWII. “At the conclusion she told them to remember that despite everything she went through and witnessed, she does not hate. She told them to remember that ‘hate is wrong and love is right’. “The talk ended with the students giving her a standing ovation. Rather than leaving the auditorium, 300+ students lined up to personally speak to Halina, get a hug, take selfies together, and pose for group photos. “She was warmly welcomed by teachers, students and administration. One boy said, ‘I just can’t stop smiling. She is so nice! This is the best day!” Halina has spoken to thousands ...yet today was extra special. She said, ‘I loved these students! They were real. They have good hearts and I can tell.’”

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ABOVE, LEFT AND BELOW: Clover Hill students greet and talk with Halina Zimm following her remarks.

Halina Zimm receives a big hug from a student. Most of the students gave similar hugs and shared their stories.

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Jewish Community Happenings

Susan Adolf: 2020 Sofie Stahl Memorial Award recipient G

ila Chapter of Jewish Women International (JWI) is proud to announce the recipient of the Sofie Stahl Memorial Award for 2020 is Susan Adolf. Originally created by The Day chapter of JWI (then B’nai B’rith Women) and the Stahl Family, the award honors a Jewish woman whose volunteerism demonstrates a life-long commitment to helping those in the Richmond metropolitan area. Winners of this highly coveted honor (with few exceptions, given annually since 1960) are chosen by previous years’ recipients, and this year Susan will be honored at a brunch on Sunday, June 28, at the Weinstein JCC. According to her nomination letter, “Susan has always believed in contributing to others and making a difference in the lives of others ... Tikkun Olam, the practice for giving back to make the world a better place, is not an option but a requirement.” This, she started early – in high school – not just within the Jewish community (as an active member of the Jewish national high school sorority Iota Gamma Phi) but the entire greater Richmond area (working with integrity at Saxon Shoes as a salesperson, buyer, bookkeeper and doing all jobs related to running the business, of which she eventually became an owner). It seems like there are few individuals whose lives have not been touched by herf. A life member of JWI (BBW), Susie (as she is affectionately known), is a past president of Gila Chapter and has worked diligently as a member of the Advisory Board for the B’nai B’rith Youth Organization, now BBYO. She also has been a long-time member of Hadassah, having served as president of 2 different units (Sabra and the Richmond Chapter). Other board positions Susie has held include serving at the Beth Sholom Home, Weinstein JCC, Jewish Community Federation of Richmond, Rudlin Torah Academy, Jewish Women’s www.JewishRichmond.org

Club, Children’s Hospital Auxiliary of Richmond, and Dancing Classrooms of Richmond. Also, she has served on various committees of different community organizations including swim team director of Avalon Recreation Association, member of the Maccabi Games Executive Committee (2000, 2005, and 2010 games), The Jewish Community Classic Golf Tournament (21 years!), the Banks Endowment Fund (past 11 years), Impact 100 of Richmond, Beth Sholom 50th Anniversary Picnic, and Jewish Community Federation of Richmond Women’s Campaign. Among the numerous committees and programs at the Center of which she has been chair include its Youth Commission, Adult Committee, Israeli Showcase, 50th Anniversary on Monument Ave., Annual Social Dance, Women’s Jewish Network, and the 70th Anniversary of the JCC. Not only has Susie been involved with her Synagogue, Congregation Beth Ahabah, but she has presented the Program for Youth to other Synagogues in order to raise Tzedukah monies for the less fortunate. Susie and her family are rightfully proud of her. Then again, so is much of Richmond! Besides this Sofie Stahl Memorial Award, other awards and honors bestowed on her include the YWCA Outstanding Woman of the Year Award specifically for Volunteerism (2019), Virginia Center for Inclusive Communities Award (2017), Lion of Judah KipnesWilson/Friedland Award (2016), multiple JCC Presidents Awards (1996, 2009, 2012 and 2017), Rudlin Torah Academy Chesed Award (2010), and the the Center’s Esther, Edith and J.J. Bernstein Volunteer Leadership Award (2009). Mrs Adolf will be honored at a brunch on Sunday, June 28 (10:30 am) at the Weinstein JCC. The public is invited to join JWI, previous Sofie Stahl recipients as well as Susie’s family and friends for the presentation of this well-deserved award. Per person couvert for the brunch is

$36. Pledge levels are Gold $54 and Platinum $118. To RSVP, checks (payable to JWI) should be mailed by June 19 to JWI, c/o Arlene Slutzah, 4907 Daffodil Circle, Glen Allen, VA 23060. For more information contact Arlene at (804) 747-0765 or arlene4907@ gmail.com. Jewish Women International Founded in 1897, JWI is the leading Jewish organization working to empower women and girls by ensuring and protecting their physical safety and economic security, promoting and celebrating inter-generational leadership, and inspiring civic participation and community engagement. Inspired by its legacy of progressive women’s leadership and guided by its Jewish values, JWI works to ensure that all women and girls thrive in healthy relationships, control their financial futures and realize the full potential of their personal strength. As in past years, proceeds from the Sofie Stahl event support JWI’s National Library Initiative. This program provides for a woman fleeing an abusive relationship, when the immediacy of danger often means leaving home with only her children and the clothes on their backs. JWI helps ease this traumatic upheaval by creating children’s libraries in domestic violence shelters – transforming basic spaces into comforting havens with colorful furniture and rugs, hundreds of new books, DVDs, computers and toys. For kids whose lives have been upended by violence, JWI libraries

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provide a safe place to relax, escape into a book, and keep up with homework when they’re most at risk of falling behind in school. JWI’s goal is to complete 100 fullyfurnished new libraries in shelters across the country, and continually restock the shelves of existing ones so that each child leaves the shelter with a favorite book or DVD in hand, ready to start a new life. Gila Chapter of JWI is proud that the Sofie Stahl Memorial Award Gala makes available DVDs for purchase which can then be donated to the JWI Library at Richmond’s Safe Harbor, the primary shelter in Henrico and community partner serving the Greater Richmond region.

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Jewish Community Happenings

In Memoriam Robert Reinhard 1925 - 2020

he community mourns the passing of Robert Reinhard, a devoted community servant who spent most of his life trying to make the world, especially the Richmond community, a better place for all. His involvement with the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond, served as a model for many. For more than 60 years, he readily stepped forward yearly to benefit Jews locally, nationally, in Israel and around the world as a dedicated volunteer in the Annual Campaign. His volunteerism began door-to-door with his month on the Campaign and later in phone calls and one-on-one visits with community members. In recognition of his service to the community, the Federation several years ago established the Bob Reinhard Award, which is given annually to a recipient recognizing outstanding Annual Campaign work. As Chairman of the Jewish Community Relations Committee of the Federation for 12 years, his keen intellect, his broad vision, his generosity of time and resources were a blessing to the Jewish community. For his valued and timeless efforts, he was honored with the Jewish Community Federation of Richmondâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Distinguished Community Service Award in 1995.

ay his family find comfort in the knowledge that so many share their loss and that he will live in the memory of a grateful community.

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3 pieces. Time to set out the seder plates. Pass down the wine, and bring the matzah. Three, please, all nicely stacked. Pass down old stories, and gather new recipes. Time to set out the seder plates. Happy Passover from all your friends at Publix.

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. Two 2020 Sisisky Fellows selected

Foundation Happenings

ix years ago, Susan and Mark Sisisky created the Susan and Mark Sisisky JDC Global Enrichment Fund. In a highly competitive process, carefully screened young adult Jewish leaders are chosen to travel internationally to learn the important work of the American Jewish Joint Distribution Committee around the world. Each fellow has returned home to Richmond with a unique perspective inspired to do more. The Sisisky Fellows selection committee recently met to choose its new class. These fellows will choose service experiences, including education By Robert Nomberg events and programs and leadership development president & ceo richmond jewish foundation opportunities, and will return to Richmond to share their new knowledge and experiences with our community. This year’s fellows include Cantor Dara Rosenblatt and Jennifer Adams. Cantor Dara Rosenblatt Cantor Dara Rosenblatt is the Cantor at Temple Beth-El. She relocated in 2018 from the Boston area, after receiving Cantorial ordination and a Masters in Jewish Education from Hebrew College. Cantor Rosenblatt has an undergraduate degree from Muhlenberg College in Allentown, Pennsylvania. Prior to starting her graduate studies, she worked for the Hillel at the College of Charleston in South Carolina engaging students in Jewish life on campus. During the summer months she traveled to Israel and studied at the Pardes Institute for Jewish Studies in Jerusalem.

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Cantor Dara Rosenblatt Contributed Photos

Cantor Rosenblatt’s Jewish journey is rooted in her love for Jewish music, learning, and prayer, and the joy that it brings not just to her, but everyone around her. Her interest in Jewish music, in particular Yiddish music and niggunim (tune or melody), stems from her love for Yiddishkeit and heimish Jewish community experiences she has been blessed to participate in. When she was a high school student, she had the honor of receiving the Szarvas Fellowship, a program through the JDC that took teens to Hungary for an international Jewish summer camp. This was a memorable and formative summer for her and is

Jennifer Adams

grateful for how it helped shape her Jewish path from a young age. Cantor Rosenblatt now looks forward to traveling once again with the JDC, as a young professional and Jewish community leader, and cannot wait to share her experiences with the Richmond community upon her return. Jennifer Adams Jennifer Adams is a native of Richmond, attended Rudlin Torah Academy and graduated from the University of Georgia with a BA in Sociology. Upon graduation, she moved to Tel Aviv, Israel, to participate in Masa Israel Journey’s Career Israel program during which she interned at an educational non-profit called College for All. Jennifer then worked in Washington, D.C., as the Development Coordinator at the Juvenile Diabetes Research Foundation’s Capitol Chapter and the Assistant Director of Scheduling at The George Washington University’s Department of Events & Venues. She next returned to Richmond to assume the position of Special Events Manager at the Weinstein JCC. She has served as a BBYO advisor for the DC Council, participated in the Nexus Leadership Program with the Jewish Federation of Greater Washington, led a Taglit Birthright Trip and is currently a member of the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond’s Network JCFR committee and the vice-chair of the Pearl Society. The Sisisky Fellows Committee is chaired by Clare Sisisky and includes committee members Michal Coffey, Adam Beifield and Zach Sisisky. To learn more about the Sisisky Fellows, please contact Robert Nomberg at Richmond Jewish Foundation at robert@ rjfoundation.org. www.JewishRichmond.org

Jewish Community Happenings

Read Across America Day

(From left) Gathering for a photo at Swansboro Elementary School are mentors Claudette Lewis and Sandi Fogelson, Sara Rosenbaum and Jesse Feld from the Federation; and mentors Robin Jackson and Anna Little. All read to the students during the special morning at the school. Mentors from the Richmond Jewish Coalition for Literacy, teachers, administrators and others pose for a photo during Read Across America Day at Swansboro Elementary School, Richmond, on March 2. The volunteers joined teachers and others to read on the special day to recognize Dr. Seuss’ Birthday. Contributed Photos

n Monday, March 2, along with schools all across the country, Swansboro Elementary School in Richmond celebrated Read Across America Day. Read Across America Day, also known as Dr Seuss Day, is a yearly obser-

vance in the United States inaugurated by the National Education Association in 1998. It is held on the school day that is nearest to March 2, Dr Seuss’ birthday. Theodor Seuss Geisel was an American artist, book publisher, animator, poet, a political cartoonist as well as an

author. He is best known for authoring over 60 children’s books. Richmond Jewish Coalition for Literacy (RJCL) mentors and other volunteers gathered to read Dr. Seuss books and other fun stories to each classroom at Swansboro Elementary.

For more information on RJCL and how to volunteer contact Sara Rosenbaum at srosenbaum@jewishrichmond.org or 545-8629. As with any programs and activities, after March 13, RJCL activities may be postponed. Look for updates in April.

By making a donation to the JCFR Annual Campaign, you empower those in need in Richmond, Israel and all over the world. Judaism teaches us to care for one another during times of need. Whether you are Orthodox, Reform, Conservative or “just Jewish,” the JCFR is the place where all can join hands and hearts for the betterment of the Jewish community in Richmond and abroad. To make a gift to the Campaign, contact Jesse Feld at (804) 545-8623 or jfeld@jewishrichmond.org.

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Jewish Community Happenings

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Richmond Jewish Cemetery’s First Unveiling – A Beautiful Tribute to Paula Carl By Ruth Greene n Sunday morning, March 1, a crowd gathered at Richmond Community Cemetery at the grave of our community’s beloved Paula Carl. With many mixed emotions they approached the freshly erected headstone. There was sadness, respect, the comfort of seeing so many other people there and the eagerness to establish her monument, the next step in the mitzvah for the soul of the deceased. Rabbi Yosel Kranz approached the headstone and quickly helped to banish any negative thoughts and feelings. He explained that while we use the term “unveiling” for this ceremony, really Jewish tradition never covers the headstone at all. Rather, a headstone is always meant to be seen as a visible marker of where a person is buried. It should be seen easily from a distance, encouraging visitors to the site. He used the biblical example of when Jacob buried Rachel near the side of the road. Although this was not the cave of Machpela where the rest

of our forefathers and foremothers where buried, he made sure to mark the grave with a stone so that years later when the Jewish people passed by they would see it and be comforted. So too we could be comforted when coming to visit Paula and seeing this marker. He also explained that placing the headstone one year after a person’s passing from this world marks the time that the soul is finally finished its transition from this world to the next, is settled and can now return to be spiritually present with loved ones still here on earth. Jewish tradition teaches that when we go to visit a grave, the soul of the person returns to be there with us. Perhaps this is the source of comfort the Rabbi talked about. Paula’s visitors said several prayers together and shared some memories of Paula. Each person then took a stone and, one by one, placed it on her headstone. Rabbi Kranz explained that we use stones to mark when someone has visited, as they are per-

Chabad Happenings

manent and lasting, unlike flowers which will wither and blow away. It was amazing to see how beautiful the headstone looked covered with stones placed by those who love and miss Paula. For questions or more information about the Richmond Jewish Cemetery, please contact Ruth Greene at (804) 740-2000, ext. 8 or ruth@chabadofva.org Special Note: In view of the COVID-19 virus, on-site programs were canceled in late March and Zoom with Chabad was launched. For details and to take part, visit chabadofva.org/zoom. This effort was co-sponsored by the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond.

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. ‘Violins of Hope’ author to

Virginia Holocaust Museum Happenings

speak on Yom Hashoah

ames A. Grymes, author of “Violins of Hope,”was scheduled to be the guest speaking at the annual Yom Hashoah Observance at the Virginia Holocaust Museum on Sunday, April 26. The program will begin at 2 p.m. Grymes is Professor of Musicology at the University of North Carolina at Charlotte. He is an internationally respected musicologist, a critically acclaimed author, and a dynamic speaker. He has addressed audiences at significant public venues such as Weill Recital Hall at Carnegie Hall, the American Israel Public Affairs Committee, and the historic 16th Street Baptist Church in Birmingham, Ala. Grymes has been featured in interviews by the New York Times, ABC News, and CNN, and has written essays for the Huffington Post and the Israeli music magazine Opus. His book “Violins of Hope: Instruments of Hope and Liberation in Mankind’s Darkest Hour” is a stirring testament to the strength of the human spirit and the power of music. “Violins of Hope” tells

TEI is open for educators T he Alexander Lebenstein Teacher Education Institute assists educators with their understanding of the Holocaust and genocide. Sessions focus on historical background and pedagogy which link to the Virginia Standards of Learning requirements. TEI is offered in partnership with Longwood University and is funded through generous teacher sponsorships. Course #1: From Context to Classroom For successful completion of this 5-day course and its requirements, educators can earn up to 45 recertification points. Sessions focus on the Holocaust’s historical background and pedagogy which link to the Virginia Standards of Learning requirements. The course dates are: June 22 – June 26. Educators attend historian-lead lectures at the Virginia Holocaust Museum to learn about practices and resources that you can use in the classroom when teaching the Holocaust. This course is open to teachers who have never completed the TEI. Attendees must attend all five days of the class and successfully complete a final project in order to complete course requirements and receive a certificate of completion. Tuition is $30 but the application fee will be reimbursed with successful completion of all class requirements. Course #2: Exploring Thematic Concepts of the Holocaust

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the remarkable stories of violins played by Jewish musicians during the Holocaust, and of the Israeli violin maker dedicated to bringing these inspirational instruments back to life. “Violins of Hope” won a National Jewish Book Award. The violin has formed an important aspect of Jewish culture for centuries, both as a popular instrument with classical Jewish musicians and as a central factor of social life, as in the Klezmer tradition. But during the Holocaust, the violin assumed extraordinary roles within the Jewish community. For some musicians, the instrument was a liberator; for others, it was a savior that spared their lives. For more on the full program and other details, visit www.vaholocaust.org.

With the successful completion of this 5-day course and its requirements, attendees can earn up to 45 recertification points. Sessions build upon participants existing knowledge of the Holocaust and take in depth examination of Holocaust history and pedagogy. The course dates are July 20-24. The week will focus on specific themes such as gender, ideology, ethics and justice. Educators attend historian-lead lectures at the Virginia Holocaust Museum to learn about practices and resources they can use in the classroom when teaching the Holocaust. “Exploring Thematic Concepts of the Holocaust” is open to teachers who have and have not completed the TEI. The tuition for the course is $30 but the application fee will be reimbursed with successful completion of all class requirements. TEI is recommended for middle and high school educators that would like to or currently teach the Holocaust in their classrooms. For an application to be complete, educators will need a recommendation from their principal, department head or curriculum specialist. For an application visit www.vaholocaust.org For more information, contact Megan Ferenczy, Director of Education, VHM, at (804) 257-5400 ext. 234.

Violins of Hope Spring 2020

irginia Holocaust Museum and Virginia Museum of History and Culture will partner to bring violins played by Jews during the Holocaust to Richmond in May. (See Page 14, regarding the scheduled program at the Center.) Amnon Weinstein began curating his collection just over two decades ago, which debuted in North America in 2012. The museums will tell the stories of the violins while on display in interactive exhibits and in live concerts played by Richmond Symphony and other local musicians across various venues in Richmond. The museum is located at 2000 East Cary St., Richmond. There also is free off-street parking For more on Violins of Hope, visit violinsofhoperva.com For details on a special concert at the Weinstein JCC, visit: https://weinsteinjcc.org/events/ violins-of-hope-chamber-music-concert

To confirm VHM programs and other activities will be held in April, visit www.vaholocaust.org.

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