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JFS 170th BIRTHDAY PAGE 6 KRISTALLNACHT REMEMBRANCE SERVICE Sunday, November 10th, 2019 COMMUNITY 2:00 P.M

“History doesn’t repeat itself but it often rhymes”

KRISTALLNACHT REMEMBRANCE COMBATING ANTI-SEMITISM ONE LESSON AT A TIME Emek Sholom Holocaust Memorial Cemetery * (Inside of Forest Lawn Cemetery) 4000 Pilots Ln, Richmond, VA 23222

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Steven F. Windmueller, Ph.D.

Renowned Specialist on Political Issues and American Jewish Affairs

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“In the end we’ll not remember the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.”

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Holocaust Sur�ivor Halina Zimm with her daughters, (from leſt) Ruth McMahon and Rebecca Zimm Parisier, at a special Hadassah prog�am at the Virginia Holocaust Museum on Sunday, Oct. 13. Mrs. Zimm shared her poig�ant and personal stor� to Hadassah members, family members and friends.

Her message has always been “ I can forgive, but I will never forget.”

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Inge Horowitz to receive JCFR Woman of Valor Award I nge Windmueller Horowitz, a Holocaust Survivor and longtime volunteer leader in the Richmond Jewish community for decades, will be honored with the Federation’s annual L’Dor V’Dor/Woman of Valor Award on Sunday, Nov. 24.

The L’Dor V’Dor event is hosted by the Women’s Division of the 2020 Annual Campaign and will be held at 11 a.m. at the Weinstein JCC. Amy Nisenson is Women’s Philanthropy Chair.

The guest speaker at the event will be Alina Gerlovin Spaulding, a longtime national motivational speaker on Jewish issues and women’s philanthropy who has a passion for community service, humanitarian aid and much more.

She may be familiar to community members as the guest speaker at the 2006 Grand Event where she shared her “miracle story” of being aided by JDC and Federations.

Inge Windmueller Horowitz Our event honoree, Inge Windmueller Horowitz, was born in Beckum, Germany, and emigrated with her family from Germany as a child.

She graduated from VCU and enjoyed careers as an Occupational Therapist at the Richmond Cerebral Palsy Center and as an Educational Consultant in the MCV Department of Child Neurology.

Since retirement, she has tutored children, mentored at an inner-city school as part of the Richmond Jewish Coalition for Literacy, co-edited the book, “Understanding Learning Disabilities, for five years volunteered as Executive Director of the Learning Disabilities Council, and currently organizes monthly Book Talks at

University of Richmond - Jepson Center

• Nov. 11 | 11:15 a.m.

EnRich for Life/Food for Thought Weinstein JCC

• Nov. 6-19 Fife-Davis Jewish Book Fair Weinstein JCC

• Nov. 17 | 2 p.m.

Global Day of Jewish Learning Weinstein JCC

• Nov. 10 | 2 p.m.

Kristallnacht Remembrance Service Emek Sholom Holocaust Memorial Cemetery

• Through Dec. 30 ‘Holocaust by Bullets’ Exhibit Virginia Holocaust Museum

• Nov. 7 | 4 p.m.

“Three Perspectives on Anti-Semitism”

Visit www.jewishrichmond.org for a complete calendar of Jewish community events.

Sisisky, Carole Weinstein, Dorothy Wizer, Hortense Wolf (obm) and Helen Zimm.

The L’Dor V’Dor event welcomes women who make a minimum gift of $365 to the 2020 Annual Campaign. For women, age 45 and younger, a minimum gift of $180 is required. The couvert is $25.

Dietary laws will be observed.

To RSVP, contact Ellen Moncure at (804) 545-8625 or email emonsure@jewishrichmond. org.

Inge Horowitz Contributed Photo

5100 Monument Ave. and serves on the Program Committee of the 5400 Club.

In 2018 she published the children’s book, “Mommy”s Running for Office.”

Inge was president of Emek Sholom Holocaust Memorial Cemetery from 1995 until 2015. She developed the Survivor Room at the Virginia Holocaust Museum, conducted videotaped interviews, and served as a docent at the Virginia Holocaust Museum for 10 years.

As her family’s historian, Inge coproduced with her mother, Ida Windmueller and daughter, Rita Peyton, the second edition of the “Windmueller Family Chronicle. Inge organized two worldwide family reunions, together with two cousins and her husband, Harold (obm).

She has received a number of community honors including RTA’s Chesed Award along with her husband. Inge has been a longtime Annual Campaign volunteer, and received a JCFR President’s Award in 2004.

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The guest speaker was born in Kharkov, Ukraine, and is president of the The Spaulding Group, Greensboro, N.C. Having been involved in fundraising for 22 years in a variety of agencies in the United States and overseas, Alina Spaulding firmly believes that there is no larger privilege than channeling philanthropic gifts.

She has done transformational philanthropic work in areas of housing sustainability, Jewish Day Schools, Jewish Federations of North America, American Jewish Joint Distribution Committee, youth engagement, the arts, and trauma and mental health care.

Her resume notes she can “blow your socks off” with her rugalach and she can “put a new roof on your house.”

This annual event celebrates the power of Women’s Philanthropy and the impact it has in our community while honoring the connection from generation to generation.

Past award recipients include: Selma Brown, Miriam Davidow, Deane Dubansky, Bea Fine, Anne Fisher (obm), Edith Glock, Carolyn Grandis, Helen Horwitz, Willa Kalman, Amy Krumbein, Hedy Lapkin, Jeanette Lipman (obm), Pearl Karp Markham, Bertha Meyer (obm), Susan Meyers, Sara Belle November (obm), Catherine Plotkin, Shirley Plotkin (obm), Fran Raphael, Elise Scherr, Lynn Schwartz, Barbara Shocket, Susan

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Federation Happenings

We Need You: To Power Our Community

Editor’s Note: The following are special remarks delivered at the Oct. 3 Federation Grand Event during a joint presentation by Campaign Chair Adam Plotkin and CEO Daniel Staffenberg.

See Pages 16-17 for an article featuring highlights of remarks from all speakers and photographs from the event.

Adam Plotkin Good evening, thank Daniel Staffenberg you Richard and Jessica Chief Executive Officer for all you do to lead our Jewish Community community.

Federation of Richmond It is no accident that the Jewish people call themselves “Am Yisrael“ – “the people of Israel” – rather than “Dat Yisrael,” or “the religion of Israel.” A sense of peoplehood has long been the defining characteristic of Jews. That sense of peoplehood has carried us through the darkest of times, led us to see many great miracles and binds us together; forever interconnected.

I grew up in Richmond, and after some time away, moved back home after my dad was diagnosed with a brain tumor, that ultimately took him from us far too soon. It was from family where I learned about the power of our community.

Federation and community service had always been a part of my life, watching mom and dad (and mostly mom) give their time and treasure to help the community. I recall often wondering what went on in those mysterious “Federation” meetings. At the time they seemed so special and magical.

I knew they focused on helping those in need here, in Israel and around the world, but could only imagine what went on inside those rooms. Mom and Dad would spend countless hours talking with friends, and planning and attending events. Sometimes I might even get to listen in when we hosted.

So, when I received that first call giving me a chance to contribute to the Campaign, I wasn’t surprised.

And I’ve never forgotten it either. That’s when I

Campaign Chair Adam Plotkin delivers remarks at Grand Event. Photo by Adrienne Winkelmann Epstein

first met Jim Weinberg. I was standing in the kitchen with mom and dad when the phone rang. It was Jim calling on behalf of the Federation. I don’t specifically remember what he asked for, but what I remember was the conversation. I also remember that I gave.

How could I, or anyone for that matter, say no to Jim? It helped that he had great timing during that first call.

You see, not long before his call, mom and dad had shared that they found a couple of Israel bonds of mine, probably from my Bar Mitzvah, and that they’d matured. So, when Jim asked, I looked at my parents, knowing what they had taught me, and asked if I could just give the Bonds and the proceeds to the Federation.

December 8, 2019

Please Answer the call on Super Sunday

Please anwer when a volunteer from the Federation calls. By answering the phone, you can improve the lives of thousands of people in Richmond, in Israel and around the world. Your gift to the Federation fights poverty, meets the needs of the elderly, rescues and resettles Jewish immigrants and strengthens Jewish life. Thank you in advance for picking up the phone on Super Sunday. And please know your increased gift will make a difference.

Volunteers Needed!

Please call Jesse Feld at (804) 545-8623 or jfeld @jewishrichmond.org. www.JewishRichmond.org

I certainly didn’t need it, and I knew others did.

When I told Jim, I think I surprised him because he was quiet for a little bit. This was probably the first time he got more than he originally asked for, and might be the last time too.

Flash forward almost 20 years. Six years of National Young Leadership Cabinet, chairing Richmond Jewish Foundation it was my turn to step up for the local community… it was my turn to carry on my families’ tradition. And here I am and it has been one of the best decisions I have made. I know strength of our community and history, and I am excited about what is ahead for us.

Daniel Staffenberg We have been meeting together in rooms like this for decades. The focus of our efforts may have changed throughout the years, however, the power of our community has always been evident.

Our Federation started in the 30s, raising funds to sustain our local community, coordinate efforts and work to support displaced persons after the horrors of the Holocaust. You were there – raising over $63,000 for the effort. $13,000 more than our goal.

In 1948, we joined world Jewry in celebrating the dream of Israel. Our focus shifted to ingathering the exiles, protecting our homeland from attack, and nation building. You were there. And you are there today!

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(From left) Peggy Siegel, Jessica Samet, Lion of Judah Chair Jill Goldfine and Lisa Kaplan. JCFR Photos

Guest speaker Ivy Schamis shares her personal story on the Parkland, Fla., school tragedy.

Women learn how Holocaust Studies can help prevent hate W ith the start of school, end of summer, and the Federation Annual Campaign underway, it has been event season here in Richmond. The annual Lion of Judah/ Pomegranate event is no exception.

In late September, over 35 dedicated women gathered together to simultaneously celebrate the strength of our community while hearing about tragedy in another.

The group welcomed Ivy Schamis, a Holocaust studies high school teacher from Parkland. Fla. The teacher spoke about her class in room 1214 and how during a lesson about the 1936 Berlin Olympics they heard the first shots fired in the school. The shooter at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School ultimately murdered 17, two of whom were in Ivy’s Holocaust elective class.

The very classroom where she felt was in her happy place is still an active crime scene.

Ivy spoke of the terrible tragedy but also noted how important her class educating students about the Holocaust can help prevent hateful events in the future. Hate is a learned trait, we are not born to hate, she said. Acceptance and tolerance is also a lesson to be taught to our young people.

Throughout her talk, Ivy mentioned how the Jewish Federation of Broward County immediately stepped up and supported the families affected by this tragedy.

Following her talk, Miriam Davidow, Board member of the Virginia Holocaust Museum and chair of the Education Sub-

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(From left) Guest speaker Ivy Schamis with Federation Treasurer Lynn Schwartz, who hosted the event at her home.

Committee of the JCFR’s Jewish Community Relations Committee, spoke about the Federation’s efforts to ensure that Holocaust education is mandated in the Commonwealth of Virginia.

Miriam spoke about how the Federation and Virginia Holocaust Museum are working with our elected officials to make significant changes. The women in attendance appreciated and commiserated with Ivy’s story, and were inspired to act to help our community.

This event was made successful by its hostess, Lynn Schwartz, our Lion of Judah and Pomegranate Chair Jill Goldfine, our Women’s Philanthropy Chair Amy Nisenson, many volunteers, and all those who attended.

For more information on the Lions of Judah, Pomegranates, or anything 2020 Annual Campaign related, contact Jesse Feld, director of development and engagement, at (804) 545-8623 or jfeld@ jewishrichmond.org

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REGISTER TODAY

Three Perspectives on Anti-Semitism Thursday, November 7, 4-5:30 p.m.

The Jepson Alumni Center, Robins Pavilion University of Richmond

Featured Speakers:

• Humberto I. Cardounel Jr., Henrico County Chief of Police • Ethan Felson, Executive Director of Israel Action Network • Johnny ‘Chip’ Lavender, Special Agent, FBI, Richmond Office

SEATING IS RESERVED ONLY AND IS LIMITED The event is free and open to the public, but registration is required.

To register, visit Osher.richmond.edu This event is co-sponsored by the University of Richmond’s Osher Institute for Lifelong Learning, the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond, and the Carole and Marcus Weinstein Jewish Community Center.

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Super Sunday set for Dec. 8 - answer the call

oin the community on Sunday, Dec. 8 from 9 a.m. - 12:30 p.m. to make and answer the call on Super Sunday to support the work of the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond.

Community leader and JCFR board member Helen Griffin will chair the event this year set to be held at the Weinstein JCC Your gift to the 2020 Annual Campaign supports Jews in our community, in Israel and around the world.

The Federation will once again present the Spirit Award grant of $1,000 to the local agency that has the highest percentage of its board and staff working on Super Sunday.

Additionally, another $5,000 of grants from Let’s Give RVA will be up for grabs

for agencies and Synagogues that pitch in to ensure Super Sunday is a success!

Volunteers also will be eligible to win prizes donated by local businesses and organizations.

On Super Sunday your phone conversation can make a difference in the lives of Jews in our community, in Israel, and around the world. Work with other Federation volunteers and help us make a positive impact in someone’s life.

To volunteer, contact Jesse Feld at jfeld@ jewishrichmond.org or call (804) 545-8623.

To make a gift to the 2020 Campaign, contact Jesse Feld, Federation director of development and engagement, at (804) 5458623 or jfeld@jewishrichmond.org.

SAVE THE DATE Virginia Jewish Advocacy Day Wednesday, February 5

Hosted by Jewish Community Relations Committee of the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond

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JFS volunteers and people resettled by JFS from the Former Soviet Union pose for a reunion photo.

170th Event photos from Sid Koerin, Tom Topinka and CFO Steve Parkins.

JFS celebrates its 170th birthday J

ewish Family Services celebrated its 170th Birthday Party on Sunday, October 6 at the Virginia War Memorial.

The warm, overcast afternoon was perfect for enjoying the sweeping views of the James and the Richmond skyline. Many friends of JFS gathered to celebrate: current and former board and staff members, people resettled by JFS from the Soviet Union in the 80s and 90s, representatives from Beth Sholom Senior Living, the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond, Richmond Jewish Foundation, Weinstein JCC, Rudlin Torah Academy and others touched by JFS over the years.

JFS’ 170-year history was on prominent display throughout the event. Posters honored the Straus, Cohen and Thalhimer families and their many generations of JFS leaders. A timeline of important moments in JFS history, from 1849 to 2019, flanked the wall overlooking the river.

People resettled from the former Soviet Union by JFS in the 80s and 90s told stories about their first days in Richmond to laughter and applause.

JFS CEO Wendy Kreuter, Board President Sandy Sisisky and Rabbi Scott Nagel addressed the crowd, touching on JFS’ past and future.

Wendy Kreuter welcomed the assembled friends of JFS. Rabbi Nagel, representing JFS’ founding from Congregation Beth Ahabah, delivered a stirring D’var Torah and honored the former JFS presidents who recently passed away, Dr. Sherman Master and Mrs. Sara Belle November, (OBM).

Sandy Sisisky spoke about JFS’ future and its commitment to collaborating with partners to

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transform lives and strengthen our community for many years to come.

After the program, friends of JFS lit seven birthday candles to honor aspects of JFS’ history, present and future. Rabbi Nagel lit the candle representing JFS’ 170 year history. Kate Belleman, the great, great granddaughter of the Ladies Hebrew Association’s first president, Fannie Heller Straus, lit a candle for the families of JFS’ leaders, clients, friends and partners. JFS Adoption Social Worker Jessica Carty lit the candle for JFS’ work in adoption.

Ellen Glass, who recently celebrated her 30-year anniversary at JFS, lit a candle representing JFS Counseling. Teresa Baldwin, supervisor of JFS’ Senior Engagement program, lit the candle for JFS Care. A candle for JFS’ 170th birthday was lit by longtime JFS volunteers and leaders Jerry and Ann Samford.

Finally, young Isaiah and Eva Sisisky lit a candle for the lives JFS will transform in the future. As the breeze over the James blew out the last of the candles, slices of cake circulated through the crowd.

JFS is grateful for everyone who attended and for our generous sponsors: the Miller, Bowles & Horn Group of BB&T, Scott & Stringfellow, BB&T, DominionTek, Richmond Jewish Foundation and Woody Funeral Home.

For more informaton about JFS, visit www. jfsrichmond.org, contact Morgan Goad at mgoad@ jfsrichmond.org or call (804) 282-5644 ext. 231.

Jewish Family Services is supported, in part, by a generous contribution and a programming grant to support the Jewish Care Line from the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond.

Elizabeth Thalhimer Smartt, a former JFS president, poses with the Thalhimer Generations poster. www.JewishRichmond.org

JFS Happenings

JFS CEO Wendy Kreuter welcomes guests to the 170th birthday party.

JFS party guests read the history timeline of important moments in JFS history from 1849 to 2019 on the wall overlooking the James River at the Virginia War Memorial.

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RTA Happenings

RTA students gather with seniors and friends following an event. Contribted Photo

RTA building innovative relationships - Midor LaDor Youngsters take off at the start of the One-Mile race in 2018. Photo by Adrienne Winkelmann Epstein

Run-a-Latke set for Dec. 15

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he 10th Annual Run-a-Latke 5K and One-Miler, benefiting Rudlin Torah Academy, will take place Sunday, Dec. 15, at the Weinstein JCC. Race organizers said they are looking forward to an extra-special event this year for the 10th anniversary.

Wendy Weisberger, Race Director of Run-A-Latke, said, “The Run-A-Latke has been growing by leaps and bounds each year. Last year we broke records and this year is going to be incredible! It’s our 10th anniversary – we’re so excited!

Participants should expect a fantastic celebration.”

Starting at 9:30 am, the one-miler and 5K are out-and-back races on a flat

course. The event is all about family fun, with a warm indoor post-race party and great food, including, of course, Latkes, as well as hot chocolate and donuts.

The 5K race is chip-timed but open to all ages and runners of all levels. All runners will receive a t-shirt and a highquality race medal.

Both races start and finish at the JCC. Registration for the one-miler is $20 from now through Dec. 14. The 5K is $30 until Nov. 30.

Registration is available at runsignup. com/Race/VA/Richmond/RunALatke.

For more information on RTA or to schedule a school visit, call (804) 3531110 or visit www.rudlin.com

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he Rudlin Torah Academy and the Weinstein JCC are excited to announce that Better Together is back for its third year!

Rudlin Torah Academy seventh and eighth grade students will join Richmond community seniors once a month to build innovative relationships - Midor LaDorFrom Generation to Generation.

Better Together opened with an afternoon of sweet celebrations for the Jewish New Year. RTA Students enjoyed meeting and greeting new and old senior friends, at the Weinstein JCC. Students and seniors learned about the different Simanim, traditionally eaten on the first night of Rosh Hashana, their meaning and significance. Students and seniors shared a Rosh Hashana Shmorgesboard - apples and honey, round Challlahs, pomegranate, jelly fish, butternut squash kugel, beets, dates, caramelized honey carrots, Gefilte fish and Pomegranate ice cream.

Everyone enjoyed a walking “get to

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know you” bingo game. What was the big prize? Spending time together, listening to each other, sharing amazing stories and learning something new about each other and about themselves.

Please join us for the Better Together Thanksgiving Event at RTA Tuesday, November 26 11 a.m. - 12:30 p.m. atWeinstein JCC For more information or to make a reservation, please email BetterTogetherRVA@ gmail.com or contact Sorah Plotnick at (516) 642-9067 All community seniors are welcome and encouraged to attend!

Thank you to the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond for its support of the Better Together Project.

Save the Dates Events in 2020 An Afternoon of fun at the new golf Drive Shack: Friday, February 7 Mah Jongg Madness: Sunday, March 29 For information or to register for any of the these events, call (804) 421-5355.

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ABOVE - Skyler Legano with Edith Glock.

LEFT - Avraham Tzvi Chandler and Peter Richardson. www.JewishRichmond.org

Beth Sholom Happenings

We care about your care.

Beth Sholom is proud to introduce our home health company, Generations Home Health--a full-service home health company. This addition to our services strengthens our mission to provide compassionate and comprehensive healthcare.

In-home care provides the assistance and support system a family needs!

Skilled & Daily Living Care We offer our services 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.

Generations Home Health (804) 421-5270 www.genhhs.com

Dan Heller presents the Arthur Heller Employee Recognition Award on Oct. 10 to Nakwor Anyomi, a certified nurses aide at Parkside Assisted Living. Beth Sholom Photos

Beth Sholom 2019 Employee Awards O n Oct. 10 Beth Sholom held its Annual Employee Awards Program. Honors were given to the Beth Sholom Longest Tenured Employee, Employee of the Year, Rookie of the Year and the Arthur Heller Employee Recognition Award.

At Beth Sholom, our employees are our greatest asset! These honors are a result of peer nominations and votes.

The recipients are dependable and rise to the occasion when called upon without hesitation. Congratulations to all of you, you are truly spectacular!

Most Tenured Employee goes to Denise Jones, who has over 40 years of dedicated service to Beth Sholom and our residents! She started out as one of our certified nurse aides and has risen the ranks and is now a Restorative Aide.

Rookie of The Year was awarded to Bolanle Adewuyi, Certified Nurse Aide, Bolanle has consistently shown integrity, kindness and care. Bolanle is truly committed to making our residents feel cared for and loved.

Employee of the Month: Each month an employee who has demonstrated our core values, honor thy mother and father, integrity and caring is selected by their peers.

The following are the recipients from 2019: (October—Rashonda Rowe, November—Jasmine Archer, December—Maurice Jenkins, January—

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Beth Sholom Community (804) 750-2183 www.bethsholomliving.org

Beth Sholom Lifecare Community

Dan Heller presents Deirdre Arnowitz with a Special Recognition Award.

Nancy and Dan Heller.

Deka Pass, February—Alecia Carthy, March—LaShawn Tipton—Wilson, April—Steven Bellows, May—Marlo Lashley, June—Gail Mickey, July—Allision Butler, August—Tita Etilo-Tulay, September – Jerry Sturdavant).

Employee of the Year: Marlow Lashley who works in the transportation department won this year!

The selection committee reviews all of the recipients of Employee of the Month, and looks at their accomplishments throughout the year. The team member who truly represents our motto: Individually we are special, together we are spectacular is Marlo Lashley. Marlo goes above and beyond everyday for our residents and team members—he is truly is a shining star!

This year marks the 15th Annual

ceremony for the Arthur Heller Employee Recognition Award!

The recipient this year is Nakwor Anyomi, a certified nurses aide at Parkside Assisted Living.

Established in 2004 by the family of Arthur Heller in his memory, the award was created to recognize the difference the employees of Beth Sholom Home made during Mr. Heller’s 12 years of residency there in servicing the needs of all residents with dignity, kindness, concern and friendship.

Each recipient of the award (which requires at least five years of employment in good standing at Beth Sholom Senior Living) was selected from nominations made by residents, resident families, and fellow employees.

Arthur Heller’s’ residency at the Home was rich with activities, and special friendships developed with residents, staff, and residents’ family members. Mr. Heller was extremely appreciative of the care he received at the Home. And so it was in that spirit that his family created this annual award to recognize an employee for outstanding care and service to the residents of Beth Sholom Senior Living.

We are very proud of Nakwor; she has earned this honor!

Beth Sholom Senior Living is supported, in part, by a generous contribution and a programming grant from the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond.

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Weinstein JCC Happenings

The Fife-Davis Family Annual Jewish Book Fair & Gift Shop will offer something for everyone: Nov. 6-19 T hose interested in WWII and Holocaust stories won’t want to miss these author events!

November 6 First, on Wednesday, Nov. 6 at 7 p.m., the Weinstein JCC and co-host Congregation Beth Ahabah will welcome John Simon, author of “Strangers in a Stranger Land,” who will tell the incredible story of the Jews of Finland who fought alongside the Nazi troops and yet somehow remained unharmed by their Nazi brothers-in-arms.

As a descendent of one of Congregation Beth Ahabah’s earliest members, Simon is looking forward to speaking to the community.

November 18 Then, on Monday, Nov. 18 at noon, as part of the

5400 Club, Rebecca Erbelding, archivist, curator and historian at the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum in Washington, D.C., will discuss her book, “Rescue Board: The Untold Story of America’s Efforts to save the Jews of Europe.”

Winner of the National Jewish Book Award, “Rescue Board” offers an intriguing history of the only U.S. government agency ever founded with the express purpose “to save the lives of civilians being murdered by a wartime enemy.”

Attendees are welcome to bring their own lunch and the Café at the Weinstein JCC also will be open for business.

November 8 Especially for the foodies in the crowd, on Friday, Nov. 8 at 8 a.m., in partnership with

JCFR’s Enterprise Circle, Mark Federman, author of “Russ & Daughters: Reflections and Recipes From The House that Herring Built will share the delightful story of his immigrant family’s journey from pushcart to iconic New York restaurant.

Breakfast will be included in the price of admission and will feature bagels, bialys and babka straight from Russ & Daughters’ restaurant in New York City.

For details, visit: https://weinsteinjcc.org/events/ book-fair-event-with-mark-federman November 12 On Tuesday, Nov. 12 at 11 a.m., the Weinstein JCC and Jewish Woman’s Club will welcome Peter Gethers, author of “My Mother’s Kitchen.

Gether’s book pays homage to his mother, an accomplished

cook, mentor to famous chefs such as Wolfgang Puck, Nancy Silverton, and Jonathan Waxman and restauranteur daughter of Ratner’s, New York City’s legendary restaurant.

When his aging mother was robbed of her ability to cook by a debilitating stroke, Peter sets out to give her a special gift, a spectacular feast featuring all her favorite dishes.

November 7 Israel is the topic of two more book fair events beginning Thursday, Nov. 7 at noon with former IDF Elite Intelligence Officer, Inbal Arieli.

“Chutzpah: Why Israel is a Hub for Innovation and Entrepreneurship” reveals the secrets behind how Israel, a tiny country with the highest concentration of start-ups per

capital worldwide, is raising generations of entrepreneurs, disrupting markets around the globe, and bringing change to the world.

Attendees are welcome to bring their own lunch and the Café at the Weinstein JCC will also be open for business.

November 14 Co-hosted with Temple Beth-El, this Book Fair Featured Event, An Evening with David Makovsky, will take place on Thursday, Nov. 14 at 7:30 p.m.

Makovsky, distinguished fellow at The Washington Institute for Near East Policy, will discuss his new book cowritten by Dennis Ross.

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One weekend, two wonderful events!

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he community is in for a weekend of fun Nov. 9-10!

The Weinstein JCC is pleased to host renowned Jewish musician, Sheldon Low, for two community events open to the community.

On Saturday, Nov. 9, Havdalah at Hilbert will feature Sheldon Low as the star, under the stars. Havdalah is the Jewish ceremony that marks the symbolic end of Shabbat and ushers in the new week.

Camp Hilbert will host this one-of-a-kind event allowing participants to be immersed in the beauty of the natural, outdoor setting.

This musical experience will be complete with a campfire and sweet treats.

Havdalah at Hilbert is 7:30-9:30 p.m. and will be fun for the whole family.

Attendees should bring flashlights and blankets to sit on. In the event of inclement weather, Havdalah at Hilbert will be held in the auditorium at the Weinstein JCC. Havdalah at Hilbert is sponsored by the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond and The Rachel Banks Foundation.

On Sunday, Nov. 10, The Dora L. Lewis Family & Child Development Center and Kids’ Place will host: An Afternoon with Sheldon Low. This special live music experience will be fun for children of all ages with dancing, singing,

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and clapping along with Sheldon.

The afternoon concert will be from 3:30-4:30 p.m. at the Weinstein JCC. An Afternoon with Sheldon Low is sponsored by the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond.

The cost per event is $10 per household for JCC Members and $15 per household for Non-Members.

The cost to purchase tickets for both events is $15 per household for Members and $25 per household for all others.

To purchase event tickets, visit weinsteinjcc.org/events.

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Important Leaders Shaped Its Destiny” explores the decision-making process of Israel’s most influential leaders and how their extraordinary acts of leadership and strategic judgment led to secure Israel’s future.

Community Read: November 19 Finally, those who prefer works of fiction will enjoy this year’s Community Read, “The Cast,” by Amy Blumenfeld.

Winner of the 2018 IPPY Gold Medal in Popular Fiction, Blumenfeld’s debut novel explores the power of forgiveness, the importance of authenticity, and the immeasurable value of deep, enduring friendships to buoy us when life plays out differently than expected.

This community read event will take place on Tuesday, Nov. 19 at 7 p.m. and is co-hosted with Hadassah Richmond. Admission includes light dinner and wine.

All visiting author books are available for purchase at the Weinstein JCC’s Central Services Desk between the hours of 8 a.m. - 5 p.m.

While many book fair events are free, RSVP’s are requested to help with proper planning. RSVP to eneal@weinsteinjcc.org in advance.

For more information and to purchase tickets, visit weinsteinjcc.org.

For an article on the inaugural Weinstein JCC Art & Gift Boutique, see Page 12.

The Weinstein JCC is supported, in part, by a generous contribution and programming grant from the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond. www.JewishRichmond.org

Connect. Learn. Belong.

The Global Day of Jewish Learning November 17 • 2:00 - 4:30 PM at the Weinstein JCC (5403 Monument Ave.)

Join Jewish communities around the world to share a day of Jewish learning, dialogue and exploration, and coming together in celebration of all that unites us.

Choose from a menu of learning experiences facilitated by Community Rabbis and educators around the theme: “Speaking Volumes” —from ancient arguments to modern meanings, from raising our voices to remaining silent, explore how and why words matter.

All Events are FREE. Registration Required.

For a full schedule and to register, visit weinsteinjcc.org/events.

In Partnership With:

For more information, contact Victoria Ball Sheridan at 804.545.8662 or vsheridan@weinsteinjcc.org

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JFT presents Stephen Sondheim’s ‘Gypsy’- opens Dec. 12 A

Shop for the holidays at Art & Gift Boutique M ark your calendars for the inaugural Weinstein JCC Art & Gift Boutique and get ready to shop your heart out!

This new event will bring together a variety of premier, well-known local artisans and vendors for three days in the Richard A. Arenstein Lobby of the Weinstein JCC. From jewelry by Dawn Kowal and Miriam Davidow to fine art prints by Judith Kowler, children’s clothing by Giggle in Pink, and accessories by Style Delivered, there’s something for everyone!

The boutique will take place at the Weinstein JCC on the following dates: Sunday, Nov. 10 Noon - 5 p.m.

Monday, Nov. 11 11 a.m. - 3 p.m.

Tuesday, Nov. 12 10 a.m. - 6 p.m.

This event will be free to attend and open to the public.

For a list of participating artisans and vendors or additional information, visit weinsteinjcc.org.

For questions and more details, contact Jennifer Adams, Weinstein JCC Special Events manager, at jadams@weinsteinjcc.org or (804) 804-545-8659.

Mark “Buz” Buzby, RADM USN (ret)

As Maritime Administrator, Mark Buzby leads an agency tasked with promoting the use of waterborne transportation and its seamless integration with other segments of the transportation system. This includes the development and maintenance of an adequate, well-balanced U.S. Merchant Marine, sufficient to carry a substantial portion of the nation’s waterborne commerce, and capable of service in time of war or national emergency.

The MA also oversees the U.S. Merchant Marine Academy.

A career Naval officer with over 34 years of service, Buzby has an extensive background in maritime transportation and leadership, having served on the staffs of the Sixth Fleet, the U.S. Fleet Forces Command, the Navy staff, and the Joint Staff.

Prior to retirement from the Navy in 2013, Buzby served as the commander of the Military Sealift Command from 2009-2013.

During his career, Buzby commanded destroyer USS CARNEY (DDG 64), Destroyer Squadron THIRTY-ONE, Surface Warfare Officers School Command, and Joint Task Force GUANTANAMO BAY. He also was a junior officer on several ships.

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lthough probably best known for his work as the lyricist for “West Side Story,” Stephen Sondheim’s second Broadway production, “Gypsy,” is considered to be one of the greatest Broadway musicals of all time.

Set across America in the 1920s, when vaudeville was dying and burlesque was born, Arthur Laurents’ landmark show explores the world of two-bit show business with brass, humor, heart, and sophistication.

“Gypsy” is based on the fanciful memoirs of striptease artist, Gypsy Rose Lee, and features a domineering stage mother first performed

by Ethel Merman and in later revivals, by performers as diverse as Angela Lansbury, Tyne Daly, Bernadette Peters, and Patti LuPone.

Sponsored by Linda and Earl Ferguson, Jewish Family Theatre will present “Gypsy” from Dec. 12-22. Under the artistic direction of Debra Clinton and musical direction of Stephen

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Rudlin, the show will include Stephen Sondheim and Jule Styne’s celebrated score including: “Let Me Entertain You,” “Some People,” “Together Wherever We Go” and “Everything’s Coming Up Roses.”

The show opens Thursday, Dec. 12 at 7:30 p.m., with additional performances on Dec. 14, 18, 19, 21 at 7:30 p.m., and Dec. 15 and 22 at 2 p.m.

Due to mature content, “Gypsy is recommended for audiences of 16 years and older.

For more information and to purchase tickets, visit weinsteinjcc.org.

5400 Club November Programs Nov. 4 - Dr. David E. Kitchen, University of Richmond, Associate Dean in the School of Professional and Continuing Studies, “A Green New Deal for Climate Change – Fact or Fantasy.”

Nov. 11 - EnRich for Life/ Food for Thought Veterans Day Program: Retired Rear Admiral Mark Buzby, Maritime Administrator, “What is the Merchant Marine and What Do We Do?” (Kosher Lunch at 11:15 a.m.; speaker at noon.

See bio info on the left for more details on the speaker.

Following the speaker at 1:30 p.m., people have the option of two classes: “It’s Still Your Brain Health;” presenters will be Tina Thomas, director of program and services from the Alzheimer’s Association, and Karen Roodman, JFS community outreach specialist; or “Review Updates of Medicare, Drug Plans & Advantage Plans for 2020” with John Simmonds.

RSVP is a must to Shari Menlowe-Barck at (804) 545-8611 or sbarck@ weinsteinjcc.org. Make your reservations today!

Nov. 18 - Jewish Book Fair: Author Rebecca Erbelding, historian, U.S. Holocaust Memorial Museum: “The Rescue Board.”

See Page 10 for more details on the speaker.

Nov. 25 - Dr. Louis Cei, historian, “The Cold War (1945-1991) Realities and Strategies.”

For club details, contact Norman Sporn at n.sporn@gmail.com.

www.JewishRichmond.org

Award-Winning Chef Alon Shaya to Appear in Richmond T he Weinstein JCC is excited to feature James Beard award-winning chef Alon Shaya at the 2nd Annual Center Plate on Thursday, Feb. 27!

Chef Shaya’s story is one of tragedy and triumph from his troubled youth in Philadelphia to discovering his knack for cooking in a high school home economics class, honing his skills alongside chefs in Italy, winning James Beard awards, opening his namesake restaurant, losing a legal battle for the rights to his own name on that same restaurant, and opening two new successful restaurants.

For one night only at the Weinstein JCC, Shaya will share anecdotes from his colorful journey as he oversees the execution of his menu for diners to enjoy.

Guests will also have the opportunity

to actively participate in the telling of Shaya’s story as they recite selections from his cookbook/memoir “Shaya: An Odyssey of Food, My Journey Back to Israel.”

Tickets are on sale now with limited availability. Don’t miss this unforgettable evening that will showcase why this multifaceted Israeli chef has been named one of the “50 People Who Are Changing the South” by “Southern Living” magazine and one of the “50 Most Influential Jews in America” by “The Forward.

Proceeds from this signature fundraising event help support the Weinstein JCC’s mission and to keep the Center’s programs, resources and services accessible to all in the

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community for every age, stage and ability.

The Weinstein JCC’s goal is to ensure every person that walks through the Center’s open doors can find a home away from home.

Tickets are limited – $180 for individual tickets and $250 VIP tickets that include a pre-event meet and greet reception and signed book. Visit weinsteinjcc.org for additional information and to purchase tickets today.

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Save The Dates!

Leonard Bernstein, American composer, conductor, author, music lecturer, and pianist. 1918-1990

Arts + Ideas Programs in the New Year

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n Saturday, Jan. 11 at 7:30 p.m., The Adolf-Adams JCC Forum will host Jamie Bernstein, oldest daughter of revered composer and conductor Leonard Bernstein, in A Tribute to Leonard Bernstein through Story and Song presented by McGuireWoods, LLP and McGuireWoods Consulting PC. Jamie will share her deeply intimate story about her legendary father while Broadway actress, Alexandra Silber, will perform selections of Bernstein’s music, creating an extraordinary evening consisting of both story and song as a tribute to 100 years of this remarkable man.

Tickets are $45 each ($40 JCC Member) if purchased

by Dec. 31 and $50 each if www.JewishRichmond.org

purchased after Dec. 31.

Tickets to this event are included in the Arts + Ideas subscription.

Film Festival Weinstein JCC’s 10th Annual Israeli Film Festival, presented

by Weinstein Properties, will take place Jan. 23-30.

All films will be shown at the Weinstein JCC unless otherwise noted. Film line-up and complete schedule of dates, times and locations will be released midNovember. Ticket prices are $12 each ($10 JCC Member).

Film passes are available for $50 each ($40 JCC Member).

Check weinsteinjcc.org for more information and to purchase tickets and/or passes.

•Hearthstone Institute’s—I’m Still Here™ Dementia Program Launch: November 3; 2-5 p.m. Beth Sholom Senior Living: Parkside Assisted Living Dr. John Zeisel, “I’m Still Here®” author, will speak during Alzheimer’s Awareness Month.This Free Program is part of Beth Sholom’s Launch of the I’m Still Here® approach to Dementia and Alzheimer’s Care in Richmond.

Special guest speaker, Dr. John Zeisel, internationally known expert on dementia care, treatment innovations and author of “I’m Still Here: A New Philosophy of Alzheimer Care,” will share details about Hearthstone’s unique I’m Still Here® philosophy and its fundamental premise: Everyone deserves a life worth living.

Tickets are free, seating is limited.

Register at: https://BethSholomImStillHere2019.eventbrite.com.

Coming in 2020 • An Afternoon of fun at the new golf Drive Shack: Friday, February 7 • Mah Jongg Madness: Sunday, March 29 For information or to register for any of the above events, call (804) 421-5355.

Beth Sholom Senior Living has been caring for Richmond seniors for over 73 years.

We pride ourselves in providing comprehensive, compassionate health care for individuals of all faiths and strive to accommodate their personal and lifestyle needs as well.

Beth Sholom residents enjoy a home-like setting in a campus atmosphere.

Located at 1600 John Rolfe Parkway Henrico County.

For information, call (804) 750-2183 or visit

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Synagogue Happenings

Or Ami happenings in November

By Lenette Howard r Ami’s Religious School continues to offer open enrollment. We had a wonderful High Holy Day children’s service in October, which everyone enjoyed.

Our OATY group continues their third year of monthly volunteering, helping to clear Evergreen Cemetery in Richmond’s East End. We are planning a trivia game night and dinner for our wonderful group of kids on Feb. 22.

Our first Sarah’s Tent program for younger children will be on Nov. 2 from 11 a.m. until 12:30 p.m.. This family-friendly event is free and open to non-members and members alike.

Along with Shabbat and lunch, we will have a Lego activity. Also, mark your calendars for our Dec. 14 Chanakuah program.

Two Torah Tots programs are scheduled for Nov. 10 and 24. Torah Tots is an informal educational program for children ages, three to five. Find out more by visiting https://or-ami.com/torah-tots/.

Our recently begun Family Playdates (also for members and non-members) were enthusiastically enjoyed. The date for November’s get-together will be announced soon. Please check our calendar for updates on this and other programs – www.Or-Ami.com.

Social Action Or Ami’s social action committee has selected a theme for the coming 12 months: Fighting Racism.

Many Or Amians have signed the Richmond Pledge to End Racism (https://richmondpledge.org), which we encourage all to do. We have two upcoming Shabbat guest speakers on this topic: Nov. 8 welcomes Marcia Grimsley who shares her story of a Jewish woman who be-friends a white supremacist man. On Dec. 6, there will be a panel on Jews of All Hues – what it’s like to be Jewish and a person of color.

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Don’t forget to attend our very special monthly Jewish meditation, offered before services on Nov. 15.

Book Club Or Ami’s Book Club will meet on Monday, Nov. 4 to discuss “Dinner at the Center of the Earth” by Nathan Englander. The book has been described as, “a powerful, wryly funny, intensely suspenseful portrait of a nation riven by insoluble conflict, and the man who improbably lands at the center of it all.”

The Dec. 2 selection is “Devotion” by Dani Shapiro, and the book on Jan. 6 is “Matzah Ball Gumbo: Culinary Tales of the Jewish South” by Marcia Cohen Farris, and, continuing our theme of Fighting Racism, the Feb. 4 meeting will be “The Color of Water” by James McBride.

This award-winning memoir about the son of an AfricanAmerican man and Jewish mother from Portsmouth, is sure to be enlightening. All book lovers are welcome.

Reel Theology Our Reel Theology movie is scheduled for Nov. 17, from 6-8 p.m. The lively discussions expected afterward are part of the fun!

For movie details, call the Or Ami Office.

New Year’s Eve Party It’s not too early to plan to attend Or Ami’s New Year’s Eve party!

On Tuesday, Dec. 31, from 7 to 10 p.m., prepare to bid on silent auction items such as: gift cards, legal services, horse-back riding lessons, guitar lessons, theater and symphony tickets, jewelry, a week in the Hamptons, oil changes, aromatherapy, pottery, Challah and homecooked meals, just to name a few offerings.

Enjoy live music by OneJob and dinner at the unbelievable cost of $18 in advance or $25 at the door.

Beer, wine, and non-alcoholic beverages will be available.

Tickets for the event will be available online in late November. For information, contact Congregation Or Ami’s office at (804) 272-0017, and stay tuned for more updates.

We are located at 9400 Huguenot Road, Richmond, 23235. Please join us as we explore Jewish wisdom,

customs, and celebrations.

Friday Shabbat Services begin at 7:30 p.m. with a potluck Oneg to share afterward. Pot-luck brunches and Torah Study are scheduled on Saturdays (Nov. 16, 23, and 30 ) from 10:30 a.m. until noon. All are welcome, and membership is not a prerequisite.

For more information on any of our programs or any other activities, please call our office at (804) 272-0017 Want to know more about Or Ami? Contact us at Belong@Or-Ami.com or check us out at www.Or-Ami.com, follow us on Facebook at face-book.com/OrAmiRichmond, or catch us on Twitter@oramirichmond. We look forward to meeting you!

The Global Day of Jewish Learning Sunday, November 17, 2-4:30 p.m.

Weinstein JCC The free day of programs and speakers will include Rabbi Ahuva Zaches “The Silence of Aaron” For registration and details, visit https://weinsteinjcc.org/events/global-dayof-jewish-learning

www.JewishRichmond.org

All colors of the rainbow can be found in the plants in Or Atid’s Kindness Garden and on the fence decorated by students with brightly colored peace plates. Contributed Photos

Or Atid Helen and Sam Kornblau Religious School News

By Sue Geller ovember is a quiet time of year.

Students and teachers have settled into school routines and the High Holidays are behind us.

There is still time until the winter festivities, and in the Kornblau Religious School, students have observed the autumn transition within the school’s own Kindness Garden, decorated with student’s artwork and showcasing how the leaves change colors from a bright green, to warm shades of red, orange, and yellow.

Before winter approaches, teachers and students alike are enjoying the garden as a unique and interactive learning tool, connecting with nature and taking the time to praise God for creating such beauty in this world.

Some of God’s most amazing miracles happen in our own backyards!

Back in the classroom, students in the 6th-7th grade B’Nei Mitzvah class have embarked on a unit studying

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Learning about Sephardic, Mizrahi, and Ashkenazi traditions and history through interactive and hands-on lessons, students have explored Jewish culture around the world through video interviews, music and storytelling, a flavorful cooking class on spices, and a field trip presentation with Congregation Or Ami at the Virginia Holocaust Museum, to hear author Karen Batshaw speak about the Greek Jewish experience during the Holocaust.

Families then met for lunch to continue the conversation and discuss the impact of Batshaw’s presentation.

The Helen and Sam Kornblau Religious School is always open to interested families who are looking to start, continue, or explore their own Jewish Journey.

In class, students discover new ways to interact with Jewish holidays and traditions, Israeli culture, Hebrew and Tefillah, and the weekly Parsha.

For more information about the school, and to schedule a tour, please contact Education Coordinator Alison Litvin, at relschool@oratid.org, or call Congregation Or Atid at (804) 740 4747.

Morah Holly teaches Or Atid students in the school garden a lesson about learning and living Torah on just one foot.

Life and Legacy Appreciation event Nov. 16 – movie & pizza L

ife and Legacy participants are invited to pizza and a movie on Saturday, Nov. 16 at 6:30 Pp.m. at Congregation Or Atid.

Following Havdalah, Life and Legacy participants will enjoy pizza and beer or soft drinks before watching “The Little Traitor:” This is a coming of age tale of the unlikely bond between a kindly British soldier and a spirited Jewish boy set against the backdrop of the birth of the State of Israel.

Life and Legacy is a 4-year partnership program of the Harold Grinspoon Foundation and Richmond Jewish Foundation to promote after-lifetime giving to benefit our Jewish community.

This event is the latest of Or Atid’s Life and Legacy commitment appreciation programs and is open to Life and Legacy supporters throughout the greater Richmond community.

There is no charge to attend, but reservations are required by Nov. 11. To RSVP, visit Or Atid’s website: www.oratid.org, or call the Synagogue office at (804) 740-4747.

The Global Day of Jewish Learning Sunday, November 17, 2-4:30 p.m.

Weinstein JCC The free day of programs and speakers will include Rabbi Hal Shevitz “Not One Empty Word”

Or Atid members and friends may want to read

For registration and details, visit

the full speech that Rachel Schwartz

https://weinsteinjcc.org/events/global-day-of-jewish-learning

delivered during Kol Nidre Services.

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Community members urged to speak out against anti-Semistism

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ore than 200 community members attended the Federation’s 23rd annual Grand Event featuring guest speaker Dr. Deborah Lipstadt, the Dorot Professor of Holocaust Studies at Emory University who has published and taught about the Holocaust and anti-Semitism for close to 40 years.

The Grand Event was chaired by Jessica and Richard Samet and held Thursday, Oct. 3, at the Virginia Museum of History and Culture.

Richard Samet noted, “This is the time of year when Jews reflect and look back and evaluate the past. This also is the time when we work together to plan our future; how do we create the community we want to live in.”

He continued, “We live in a special time in our history. Our primary task is no longer simply fighting for our existence as a people; we now enjoy the luxury and ability to ask what do we want the future to look like? We are in charge of our collective destiny. The Federation is strength in numbers and a means of joining our voices together.”

JCFR President Ellen Renee Adams, Campaign Chair Adam Plotkin and Federation CEO Daniel Staffenberg delivered remarks about the strength and the needs met by the Federation for the past 85 years and reflected on the vitals needs during the 2020 Annual Campaign. (See Page 3 for the remarks from Adam Plotkin and Daniel Staffenberg.)

Stronger Together Adams noted, “For the past 85 years, Federation has been the glue that holds our community together; providing financial, human and volunteer capital to build and sustain the Jewish community locally and globally. As Jews, we place the highest priority on the simple things – our health, our relationships with family and friends and the gift of community. We are stronger together.”

She continued, “We are blessed to have strong and dedicated volunteer leadership, both past and present. I am grateful to work alongside each you today and learn from those who came before me. Your tireless efforts allow us to accomplish our mission and we can’t thank you enough. ” Campaign Team Adams thanked the Grand Event chairs and recognized the 2020 Campaign Leadership Team – Campaign Chair Adam Plotkin; Women’s Philanthropy Chair Amy Nisenson; Lion of Judah Chair Jill Goldfine; Men’s Division Co-Chairs David Galpern and Brian Greene; Young Adult Division Co-Chairs Zach Brenner and Elliot Warsof; and Co-Chairs of the Federation Life and Legacy program, Dan Siegel and Nannette and Nathan Shor.

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Tommy Baer, a national and international leader, Holocaust Survivor and “staunch advocate for Jewish communities around the world,” introduced guest speaker Dr. Lapstadt.

“For 40 years her name has been synonymous with combatting anti-Semitism on so many fronts,” said Baer. “I really feel we should have a Shofar to introduce our speaker.

Ladies and gentlemen, if you are an anti-Semite or Holocaust denier, you do not mess with Dr Lipstadt.”

He shared a statement made by Ambassador Stuart Eisenstadt, a friend and admirer of Dr. Lipstadt, on how he might introduce the speaker: ‘She puts her values into action.’

Dr. Deborah Lipstadt In her remarks, much like she would deliver during an opening lecture to her graduate students, Dr. Lipstadt reviewed the history of anti-Semitism in the U.S. and around the world over centuries offering many examples of both blatant and subtle anti-Semitism. She also shared ways to combat anti-Semitism, noting it’s so important to address it directly and speak out when observing it. She also shared a series of definitions, some with humor and others more serious.

“There is an inherit lack of logic with antiSemitism and non-sensible,” she said.

Dr. Lipstadt said people have called Jews communists, socialists, capitalists, clannish, pushy, power hungry and wanting to control the banks and many other terms. “One Hungarian author wrote once that an anti-Semite is ‘one who hates Jews more than is absolutely necessary.’”

She said, “Some adhere to the definition of anti-Semitism using the same language .

Dr. Lipstadt referred to the remarks made

by Supreme Court Associate Justice Potter Stewart many years ago when he was defining pornography in a landmark ruling. ‘I can’t define it, but I know it when I see it.’ For many, this is how they define anti-Semitism.

“There are three major characteristics of anti-Semitism. Something to due with money.

Something to do with intellect or smarts - not good smarts but cunning -- malicious smarts.

And power – punching above your weight. Able to manipulate and control in the way that others can’t.”

She also discussed the depiction in the New Testament on the death and crucifixion of Jesus. “I believe it has its roots there while not all historians agree. The way that story was used (against Jews), particularly in the Middle Ages,

by Christian clergy, had a deep effect.”

It didn’t matter that everyone in the story is Jewish except the Romans who crucified Jesus

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Federation President Ellen Renee Adams with guest speaker Dr. Deborah Lipstadt. Photos by Andrienne Winkelmann Epstein

Grand Event Co-Chairs Richard and Jessica Samet with Dr. Deborah Lipstadt.

(From left) Beth Sholom Senior Living CEO Morris “Mo” Funk and Mindy Funk; Peggy and Dan Siegel and Beth Siegel Stein.

(From left) Mark Sisisky and Jill and Daniel Staffenberg, Federation CEO. www.JewishRichmond.org

Tommy and Betty Baer and Dr. Deborah Lipstadt.

(From left) Gail Werner, Hannah Cohen and Frona Colker.

(From left) Holly Moskowitz, Adam Shuskak, Ashley Rosenberg, Young Adult Division Co-Chair Elliot Warsof, Amanda Saia and Dan Yochelson.

(From left) Louis Adams and Steven Evens.

Helen and Dana Griffin.

(From left) Allie Vornholt; Young Adult Division Co-Chair Zach Brenner; Ryan Woloshin, BBYO Regional Director, Eastern Region; Rachel Peters and Lauren Revenson, BBYO Associate Regional Director, Eastern Region.

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Rabbi Dennis Beck-Berman with daughter Cantor Sarah Beck-Berman.

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– a Jew,” she said.

The story that was passed on through the centuries was Jews wanted Jesus killed for financial reasons, she said. “It served their own interest is the template.”

She noted this was not just a Christian story that was advanced.

The writer/philosopher Voltaire, an anti-Christian, wrote antiSemitic passages in his writings. Also, Karl Marx, who despised all religions, was an anti-Semite.

Moving into the present time, she provided examples from the far right and far left. “The charges and statements remain the same.

Anti-Semitism is a form of prejudice. Also, a racist and an antiSemite often are the same person.”

She described how Adolf Hitler wrote in his last will and testament about his fear of the power of Jews just days before his suicide. “This was just after he had overseen the murder of 1-outevery-3 Jews on the face of the earth. “He talked about the power, conspiracies and the danger of the Jews to Germany.”

Some people are extreme and overt anti-Semites while others are more subtle and clueless. “The dinner party anti-Semite or the salon anti-Semite are people who would never think of doing any harm to Jews. ‘Our firm just hired a new associate who is a Jew, but he’s very honest.’ Or those standing on line who make anti-Semitic remarks.’”

The speaker noted that Jews should be concerned about those who might take overt and dangerous actions against Jews, but never ignore those who make anti-Semitic statements or who enable antiwww.JewishRichmond.org

(From left) Helen Horwitz and Barbara and Walter Rabhan.

Semites.

She reviewed the tragedies and murder of Jews in Pittsburgh and Poway, Calif. “Those killers hated Jews and believed in conspiracy theories about Jews.”

Dr. Lipstadt noted, “We can fight anti-Semitism, but I don’t think we can ever eradicate it since it is so deep into the culture. I also believe that BDS is an anti-Semitic movement because their documents call for the destruction of Israel.”

She told community members to never ignore anti-Semitic comments made by people. “You can’t change the haters’ minds, but we must speak out. It’s important to telegraph a message to others who might be listening or at the table. This kind of language is not to be tolerated. No genocide every began with actions. They all began with words. Words matter.

Words count.”

People should be called out, she said. “As Jews, we must confront those who make these statements.”

Dr. Lipstadt closed by emphasizing, “We should not let anti-Semitism define us as who we are as Jews.

Robyn Galpern with parents Stuart and Melanie Feldstein.

We don’t love Israel because others hate Israel. Think about our accomplishments as Jews. We should not want to act more Jewish because of anti-Semites. The challenge that faces us is to not let it be the driving force on who we are as Jews. We should not say because of the anti-Semite, I am going to give or to observe. It should be despite the best efforts of the anti-Semite ... we know and can identify the traditions we have. How precious it is, and what a gift our Judiasm is to us.”

For more photographs from the Grand Event, visit the Federation’s Facebook page www.facebook.com/ JCFRichmond.

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Beth-El school happenings

Free Concert in Honor of Yom HaShoah RESCHEDULED FROM MAY 5, 2019

Beth-El 5th graders proudly hold the mini chairs they made to welcome the Ushpitzm into the Sukkah.

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By Ramona L. Brand Director of Youth Learning Beth-El Religious School emple-Beth El students spent several weeks preparing for and celebrating the High Holidays. Through stories, songs and activities students prepared both in practice and in spirit.

We took advantage of the fall weather to spend time in our Nature Center where we could be grateful for God’s expansive creative. Students also engaged in Mitzvot by donating food and making cards for residents at Beth Sholom Woods.

On Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur children and their parents had two ageappropriate, lively services to choose from. The services were elevated by the beautiful voices of our first youth choir!

We hope to have many more opportunities for them to sing.

On Rosh Hashana everyone enjoyed Birthday Cake for the World after services. What a yummy way to start the New Year. We didn’t let the rainy weather dampen our excitement for Sukkot. Our Sukkah was beautified by creative crafts from our students.

We ended our month with a lively Simchat Torah and Consecration Service formally welcoming our newest students to our Religious School. It’s been a busy month!

November Religious School Sundays: Nov. 3, 10, 17 Wednesdays: Nov. 6, 13, 20 Pre-K: Nov. 6, 20 KOACH (grades 8 & 9) Nov. 6, 20 (10 a.m. - noon) Confirmation class: Nov. 6 (10:30 am - noon) Tot Shabbat Services, Saturday, Nov. 2 Open to the entire community. For families with children from infants to age 5. Families can enjoy a Shabbat service geared for young children and filled with music, stories movement and more. Meet at 11:15 a.m. in the Kiddush Room, at 18

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3330 Grove Ave. Stay for Kiddush lunch after services.

Youth Programs Our Youth Groups offer social programs after Religious School hours. Participates have fun while deepening their engagement with each other and to their Judaism.

Some events only for the kids and teens; some are for the entire family! Some will be free; others will have a small fee or donation to support the activity/project. The teen group is led by our teen board under the guidance of our Youth Programs coordinator. The programs are open to any child in the Jewish community. Contact Simona Spiegel for more information.

Kadima Fun Fall Festival: Apple Pie Bake-off: Nov. 17 Grades 6-8: All will bake some delicious apple pies and do a Mitzvah. Most pies will be donated to a shelter; we’ll also eat some! This is set for Religious School, 601 N. Parham Road; 12:15-2 p.m. Cost: $5. Bring a bag lunch Interfaith Friendship Club Community Thanksgiving Celebration, Sunday Nov. 24, 5-7 p.m. Location TBD Come celebrate what makes us American with a community pot-luck dinner and social gathering.

Food, games, fall activities and conversation to bring us closer together. Make new friends and sample some delicious Thanksgiving treats.

Our communities have gathered together for mutual support in recent times of pain and grief.

Let us resist pain and hate by joining hearts in joy and understanding.

In collaboration with Congregation Or Atid, First Baptist Church, Seventh Street Christian Church, The Islamic Center of Virginia. Thanks to the Jewish Richmond Foundation and its Rachel B. Banks Fund grant.

For more information about all programs and activities and our vibrant Religious School education program, email r.brand@bethelrichmond. org. or call (804) 355-3564 ext. 111.

Let the Good Times Roll at Beth-El Saturday, November 2 7:02 - 11:02 p.m.

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A special concert by Jocelyn Vorenberg and Friends in honor of Yom HaShoah TWO Opportunities to See this Concert Free and Open to the Entire Jewish Community Tuesday, November 19, 2019 • 7:00pm Wednesday, November 20, 2019 • 12:30pm Both in the Sanctuary

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Chabad Happenings

WORRIER TO WARRIOR JLI is Back!

Register today for the new Jewish Learning Institute course WORRIER TO WARRIOR with Rabbi Shlomo Pereira.

Beginning Nov. 12, it is set for six consecutive Tuesdays, 9:30-11 a.m. or 7-8:30 p.m. The cost, including textbook and all course materials will be $120 for general admission; $90 for Chabad of VA members.

The Course We yearn to feel happy, self-assured, and enthusiastic, yet we’re consumed by feelings of doubt, regret, insecurity, and suffering. Do our delicate positive emotions have a fighting chance at being in control?

This course explores negative emotions in a completely new light,

offering spiritual mechanisms that allow us to remain upbeat no matter what life brings.

For more information or to register please contact Rabbi Pereira at shlomo@chabadofva.org or (804) 740 2000, ext. 2, or visit myjli.com. www.JewishRichmond.org

KBI invites community to Shabbat Dinner to honor veterans

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eneseth Beth Israel warmly invites you along with your family and friends to join us on Friday, Nov. 15 at 5:45 p.m. after Shabbat services, for a special Shabbat dinner, during which we will honor our esteemed veterans.

This dinner will be part of a new series, entitled KBI Shabbat Shalom Dinner Series, during which KBI plans to host, on a semi-monthly basis, Shabbat dinners open to the entire community,

each with a unique feature.

Please join us for a delicious dinner, great company, and a special program to honor our veterans.

Please contact the KBI Synagogue Office for pricing and to reserve seats at (804) 288-7953 or email kbi@kbirichmond.com.

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HO NO R I NG TH E SOL D I E RS OF T H E I D F

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Go to high school in Israel!

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ome learn about the Alexander Muss High School in Israel program. Hear from local Richmond teens who were on the program last year.

Information Session Monday, November 4 6:30-8 p.m.

At the Home of Melissa and Andy Brownstein.

Kindly RSVP to Melissa Brownstein at mabrownstein@comcast.net Light snacks and refreshments will be provided.

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Richmond high school student Michael Zedd (right) on a camel ride this summer while attending Alexander Muss High School in Israel.

Come learn how our transformative study abroad program can enrich your teenager’s high school experience and resume.

At AMHSI the land of Israel becomes a living classroom for students. Our accredited semester, mini-mester, and summer programs can help your teen develop skills and tools that will prepare them for college and beyond, all while having an amazing time traveling through Israel.

Studying abroad isn’t just for college students anymore- join us and hear why!

If you can’t make the meeting and want more information, please contact Rafi Glazer at rglazer@jnf.org

REGISTRATION IS NOW OPEN!

ON BEHALF OF CHAIRS

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Community Happenings

RJCL holds kick off sessions (LEFT) Claudette Lewis, Richmond Jewish Coalition for Literacy, mentor coordinator for Swansboro Elementary School in Richmond, welcomes mentors and volunteers back to school. If you can volunteer once a week or once a month, you can make a difference in the life of a child!

For more information contact Sara Rosenbaum, srosenbaum@ jewishrichmond.org or (804) 545-8629.

Picking the best afternoon: Carter Mt. Orchard Adventure T

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he Jewish Community Federation of Richmond celebrated the New Year and upcoming fall season with an Apple Picking adventure at Carter Mountain Orchard in Charlottesville on Sept. 22.

Over 60 community members drove to the pick-your-own Orchard beside Monticello, with both reading for our young families as well as social time for our Network JCFR members.

While the weather wanted to give a final burst of Virginian summer warmth that Sunday afternoon, everyone enjoyed a cool cup of fresh cider and the orchard’s famously delicious apple cider doughnuts, made fresh on the mountain.

Congregation Beth Ahabah Rabbi Scott Nagel gave an excellent rendition of a few seasonally-themed PJ Library books before all regrouped to walk to the Orchard.

With a bag of selfpicked apples in hand, whether the Jonigold or

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Golden Delicious variety available in the Orchard that day, everyone left wellprepared for a Rosh Hoshanah recipe!

It was great seeing so many families from the community join us at the event.

To learn more about PJ Library or Network JCFR, contact Amanda Braun (abraun@jewishrichmond.org or 804-5458621). To learn more about programs with Congregation, Beth Ahabah, please call (804) 358-6757.

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(ABOVE) Beth Ahabah Rabbi Scott Nagel reads from a PJ Library book to children of all ages at Carter Mountain Orchard in Charlottesville on Sept. 22. JCFR Photos (From left) Wendy Wasserstrom, Cantor Sarah Beck-Berman and Rachel Beck-Berman pose with some of the apples they “picked.”

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Join the community at Nov. 10 Kristallnacht Service T he community is invited to the annual Kristallnacht Remembrance Service to be held on Sunday, Nov. 10, at 2 p.m., at Emek Sholom Holcaust Memorial Cemetery.

The special keynote speaker will be Steven F. Windmueller, Ph.D., a renounced specialist on politial issues and American Jewish Affairs He is the Rabbi Alfred Gottschalk Emeritus Professor in Jewish Communal Service, Jack H. Skirball Campus, Hebrew Union College – Jewish Institute of Religion, Los Angeles.

The title of his talk is “Combating Anti-Semitism One Lesson at a Time.”

A specialist on political issues and American Jewish affairs, Dr. Windmueller holds a doctorate in International Relations from the University of Pennsylvania and has held academic appointments at several major institutions of higher learning. He has appeared nationally syndicated media offering commentaries on Jewish public affairs matters and has served as a consultant and program resource specialist to a wide array of institutions including the American Jewish Committee, the Anti-Defamation League, the Jewish Council for Public Affairs and the Jewish Federations of North America.

Over the years his articles and monographs have appeared in a wide array of Jewish and general publications and books. His Pew-funded research on the major national Jewish community relations agencies appeared in “Jewish Polity and American Civil Society: Communal Agencies and Religious Movements in the American Public Square” (Roman and Littlefield, 2002).

Prior to coming to HUC-LA, he has held

KRISTALLNACHT REMEMBRANCE SERVICE Sunday, November 10th, 2019 2:00 P.M

Steven F. Windmueller, Ph.D.,

a number of prominent positions within the Jewish community over the course of a thirty-year professional career. Most recently, he served for ten years as the executive director of the Community Relations Committee of the Jewish Federation of Los Angeles.

Dr. Windmueller had previously served for 12 years as a Federation director in upstate New York. He began his professional career on the staff of the American Jewish Committee.

From 2006-2010, he served as the dean of the Los Angeles Campus of the Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion. In March of 2009, he was appointed to his current position.

He has written extensively on the

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The ESHMC is located inside Currently, he is writing about Jewish political behavior, having released Forest Lawn Cemetery, 4000 Pilots Oldest Holocaust in North America Lane,SiteRichmond. several studies *Second on Jewish votingMemorial Editor’s note: Dr. Windmueller is Inge patterns.

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Roots, a program on Palestinian-Israeli initiative set for Nov. 18 D on’t miss an opportunity to learn about Roots, an exciting and groundbreaking Palestinian -Israeli initiative for understanding, nonviolence and transformation. The public is invited to the program that is open to the community.

The program will be held at Temple Beth-El, 3330 Grove Ave., in its historic Main Sanctuary in Richmond, on Monday, Nov. 18 at 7 p.m.

Shalom Israel RVA (an initiative of Temple Beth-El) and the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond have made this event possible, with additional support from Second Presbyterian Church, First Baptist Church, The Innerwork Center, Sisterhood of Salaam Shalom, Kehillah, First Mennonite Church, and Congregation Or Ami. www.JewishRichmond.org

Roots is a unique collaboration of Palestinians and Israelis building a grassroots model for coexistence.

Roots works primarily among those who have traditionally been marginalized by, threatened by, and opposed to peace and compromise: religious settlers, religious Muslims, and veterans of the Palestinian armed resistance and the Israeli prison system.

Roots aims to help Israelis and Palestinians discover the humanity of the other, overcoming suspicion and building trust; ease tensions and improve life on the ground; and transform perspectives, creating the foundation from which peace can sprout.

Roots was founded in 2014 by Israelis and Palestinians led by Ali Abu Awwad, Shaul Judelman, and Rabbi Hanan Schlesinger. The initiative’s

base, Merkaz Karama (Dignity Center), is a little Garden of Eden in the heart of Gush Etzion, on land owned by the Awwad family abutting the Palestinian town of Bet Ummar.

It is one of the rare places accessible to both Palestinians and Israelis without special government permits, allowing unmediated gatherings and deep conversations between people from both sides.

The Palestinians and Israelis involved in Roots do not hide the many deep disagreements between them. They are profoundly aware of the complexities of the conflict and of the lack of equality between the two sides.

What unites them is their honest search for human understanding and nonviolent resolution to the conflict.

Palestinians and Israelis in the West

Bank, Palestinian Territories, Judea and Samaria often live in geographical proximity – yet in separate universes with no real human contact.

They know next to nothing about the other and view each other with suspicion and fear. In the Gush Etzion-BethlehemHebron area, Roots is changing that reality.

The event organizers hope you will join us to learn from the leaders of Roots, to deepen your understanding of the Israeli-Palestinian conflict, and get inspired by what is possible when people reach out across the divide for learning, dialogue, and peace-building.

All are welcome.

For information, call (804) 355-3564.

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‘The Land of Israel is dripping and oozing with Jewishness’ Editor’s Note: The following are remarks written and delivered by young adult Rachel Schwartz about her love of Israel during recent Kol Nidre Services at Or Atid. Those in attendance were inspired by her heartfelt remarks about Israel and wanted to share them with the greater Richmond Jewish community. She plans to return to Israel in November to study Torah.

By Rachel Schwartz ello everyone. My name is Rachel Schwartz and I grew up here at Or Atid.

I am lucky enough to have had the opportunity to have traveled to Israel twice in the past year. The first time was last summer. I went on Birthright Israel, which is the 10-day free trip to Israel that thousands of Jews go on each year. I had a great time and fell in love with the country.

This past summer, I was made aware of another opportunity to go back. I applied for a trip called “Akiva,” named after the famous Rabbinic sage, Rabbi Akiva, who began his Jewish learning at age 40, and became one of the most important rabbis in Jewish history.

This trip is named after him because it is designed for young adults in their 20s who have an eagerness to learn and grow in their Judaism, no matter their level of Jewish education or background.

While Birthright is focused on exploring Israel and having a fun time, Akiva is focused on learning about the very special and unique relationship we have with G-d. I was intrigued by the trip when I heard it was educationally-based because that was the one aspect of Birthright I felt I was missing.

I wanted to learn more about Judaism, since it has always been an important aspect of my life, and being able to do that in Israel seemed like the perfect opportunity. Instead of hopping from city to city, as Birthright does, we lived in the Old-City of Jerusalem, just a short walk from the Kotel.

We studied every morning with Rabbi Benzion Klatzko, the leader of the trip, as well as other well-known Rabbis.

Our lessons ranged from understanding Judaism as a series of relationships rather than a religion, to the theory of everything – a paralleled religious and scientific view of the beginning of creation.

The trip took full advantage of the opportunity of being in Israel. Instead of sitting in class and hearing stories of our matriarchs and patriarchs, we went to their tombs. We were able to learn about their importance while praying at these holy sites. Imagine saying, “G-d of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob,” while standing next to their eternal resting places.

Walks through Jerusalem or bus rides were filled with stories teaching us morals through a Jewish perspective, such as the importance of not speaking Lashon Harah,

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literally “evil speech,” or the importance of being appreciative of everything we’re blessed with. Every night when I went to sleep I looked forward to the next day because I knew it would be packed with lessons, stories, and spiritual awakenings. I tried to absorb as much of the information as possible.

As the 16-day trip was coming to an end, I dreaded the reality of going back home, away from Israel, and away from a place of beauty, learning, and growth. I wanted to stay and continue, as I learned so much in my time there. I knew that if I just had more time I could learn so much more. My love for Israel grew significantly every day I was there, and by the end of the 16 days, I was so moved that I decided to return to continue studying Torah.

When I texted my parents and told them I had news, they first asked if I had gotten married to an Israeli. When I explained what I wanted to do, they responded with support - much more than I anticipated.

But then my mom asked the question, “Why Israel?” She asked why I had to go all the way there to study, and why I couldn’t go to a place such as New York.

At first, I didn’t have an answer for her. “There’s just something about Israel,” I would say. “It’s an indescribable feeling.

I can’t explain.” I thought about it for a while.

Why Israel? I can read books and articles anywhere. Why would I quit my job, not renew my lease, and leave everything behind to move over 5,000 miles away, especially just for several months?

Eretz Yisrael. The Holy Land. There is something so magical about it. The Torah itself states (Deuteronomy 11:12) that the land of Israel is ... “The land that G-d, the Almighty’s, eyes are on from the beginning of the year to the end of the year.”

It means to say that there is a special supervision, a special divine providence that takes place there. The Land of Israel is dripping and oozing with Jewishness – the street names, the Synagogues, the language, the blessings—the whole soundtrack to Israel is Judaism. The soul of Judaism is breathing there.

You hear words of blessings from storekeepers, from bus drivers, from beggars asking for money; the Emunah, the faith of Judaism is on the lips of everybody there. All of this creates a beautiful environment that is so conducive to being Jewish. Israel is the place where millions of Jews for thousands of years have stood, prayed, and fought.

Being in Israel gave me a sense of clarity. I recognize how important it is to have a relationship with G-d. I recognized that life has purpose, and I realized how uplifting and transcending it feels to

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Rachel Schwartz posing for a photo in Israel. Contributed Photo.

connect to the Jewish people, Torah, and G-d through doing Mitzvot in Israel.

While I was there – the holiest land in the world, in the holiest city in the world, praying at the holiest site in the world filled me with clarity. I became aware of how I treated those around me, my perspective on life, my reactions to uncontrollable situations, and my eagerness to learn and connect to people around me.

I don’t want to give up on that indescribable experience I had because I had a taste of what it can lead to - a more fulfilling and happy life.

We are taught that Israel is a land overflowing with milk and honey. This is our tradition’s way of saying that Israel has an abundance of blessing.

Mark Twain said that the existence of the Jewish people is a historical mystery. It doesn’t make sense. The odds are always against us.

The way the land works, the fact it is ours, is

a reflection that G-d exists, and that we are an Am Segulah - a treasured nation.

I am so grateful for the experiences I had. I am so grateful that I was able to build a connection to Israel, and I’m so excited to go back to Israel in just a few weeks and study Torah, the instruction manual to Jewish life, while developing a stronger relationship with G-d. Thank you.

Rachel Schwartz, 23, has been an active member at Congregation Or Atid for many years and had her Bat Mitzvah at the Synagogue. She graduated from Christopher Newport University in December 2018 with a degree in Environmental Biology. She will soon be attending seminary in Jerusalem “to learn how to live the best possible life through a Torah perspective.”

The Reflector would like to thank Sue Geller for bringing these moving and eloquent remarks to our attention and seeking permission to reprint them for community members.

(From left) Team Israel pitcher Jon de Marte and Assistant Coach Nate Mulberg pose for a photo during the recent Olympics qualifying baseball tournament. Contributed Photos

Jon de Marte, a University of Richmond alumni, throws a pitch during an Olympics qualifying game.

Israel’s Olympic baseball team features two from Richmond

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srael has had many historic accomplishments, but few expected an Israeli baseball team to be playing in the Olympics.

That will change in July since Team Israel recently qualified for the 2020 Summer Olympic Games in Tokyo, and Richmond has the distinction of having two members of the team – Pitcher Jon de Marte and Assistant Coach Nate Mulberg.

Mulberg is an assistant baseball coach at the University of Richmond, while de Marte is a UR baseball alumni and has played professional baseball for three years with several minor league and independent teams.

“Jon had such a big part in our team getting to the Olympics,” noted Mulberg. “He also has been a big part of the Richmond community for eight years and lives here in his off-season while playing minor league baseball.”

Mulberg added, “Neither of us would have probably been part of this team if Jon had not decided to come to UR to play baseball from New York.”

Being part of Team Israel has been very special and emotional for Mulberg. “Judaism has been a big part of my life.”

He grew up in Cherry Hill in Southern New Jersey, attended Hebrew School three days a week, went to Jewish Summer Camp and his family were members of the local JCC. He also went on a Birthright Israel trip a few years ago, played baseball for the JCC Maccabi Games in his hometown and was on the 2009 Maccabiah USA Baseball Team. Unfortunately, due to an illness, he was not able to travel to Israel to play with that team.

He recalls attending local ceremonies for the JCC Maccabi Games in New Jersey and hearing the remarks from the daughter of one of the Israeli athletes who was murdered during the 1972 Summer Olympics in Germany. www.JewishRichmond.org

“This was when I was 14. I was tearing up listening to her speak. I know a lot about this horrible tragedy and I have never forgotten her remarks.”

He noted, “Just being part of the Israeli baseball team has been very emotional. This means so much to me. It’s an honor. Fusing together Israel and baseball is so important to me. I am so thankful for the opportunity.”

Mulberg thanked the UR administration for being allowed to be part of Team Israel for more than three weeks.

“Having a chance to be part of an Olympic qualifying baseball team while representing Spider Baseball, Richmond Athletics and the University of Richmond as a whole is a tremendous achievement that means a lot to me. I am so thankful to Team Israel head coach Eric Holtz for giving me this opportunity, and coach Woodson and the Richmond Athletic Administration for allowing me to pursue this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity.”

Mulberg said, “This experience (this summer) was extra special because I got a chance to work with Jon, who I coached during my first year here at Richmond. Jon and I have remained close since then.”

He was invited to join Team Israel by head coach Eric Holtz who called him soon after the team won the 2019 European Baseball Championships - B-Pool - in Bulgaria in July.

Mulberg and de Marte had kept in touch during these games in Bulgaria, but he did not expect to be asked to be part of the team. “Yes, it may have one of my dreams to be part of this team at some point in the future, but I never expected it so soon.”

Following the call and meetings with UR administration, he made plans to join the team in Bonn, Germany, in early September.

His main responsibilities as an assistant coach for Team Israel was coaching first base, throwing

batting practice, and helping the coaching/ administrative staff in any way they needed.

In these championships, there were 12 teams in two groups. The top 5 would qualify for the next round in Parma, Italy. Team Israel finished 4th in Germany.

In Italy, it was six-team tourney and only the first place team would get a bid for the Olympics.

“All these teams in Germany and Italy had high-level professional baseball players.

Everybody was good and competitive. But in Italy, we knew only one team would make it. A lot had to go right. Only the team with the best record would move ahead.”

Mulberg said, “Jon pitched a lot, particularly in the Italy game. He saved the day for us. They were 2-0 and we were 2-0. So, we looked at it as the championship game.”

Team Israel is full of professional baseball players, some with many years of major league experience like first baseman Danny Valencia and Ty Kelly.

“They all had a sense of what to do and were great to coach and work with. This group of guys are special and cared about the team first.”

He continued, “I had never been around players that cared more about the team success than individual success. Everybody was very supportive and respectful of each other. They wanted to do well to help the team win. There were no egos.”

With Richmond, de Marte was an Atlantic 10 All-Academic honoree as he served as a team captain during his final season and led the team with five home runs. He also was a leader on the mound, leading the team with a 2.67 ERA in 17 relief appearances in his final UR season.

During his career, he made 25 total appearances and six starts on the mound. He pitched in 52.2 innings and struck out 54 hitters. As a hitter, de Marte finished with a .298 career average with 15 doubles, five home runs and 51 RBI.

In high school, he had been a Two-Time New York State Baseball Player of the year before playing at UR, graduating in 2017. “When I was in high school, this was never something on my radar. It’s more than a dream come true,” de Marte noted.

He had been part of Team Israel since the summer of 2018, but the team’s first game was not until July 2019.

“Guys were playing all over the country and in Israel, but we kept in touch. We never were able to practice together. When they got to Bulgaria this July, the team had two days of practice. I did not arrive until the day before the first game since I was playing professionally in the U.S.” He found playing for Team Israel very rewarding.

“What was really neat about this experience was when I have been playing professionally you want to win, but you really want to do well as a player to get signed by a major league team.

“This team all had the same goal – to win as many games as possible to put ourselves in the best position to make it to the Olympics.”

He said it was similar to high school and college ball where all the players have the same goal of winning as a team. “Danny Valencia, who played major league baseball for nine years, said it was ‘the most fun he had playing baseball.’”

“Ty Kelly played in a World Series and you would not have known it. And others had extensive experience. From day one, everyone wanted to know everybody. We all got along well.

“There was so much team chemistry and camaraderie. Everybody had the same common denominator. We all connected and were playing for the country of Israel – the Jewish State,” he noted. “We all wanted to put Israel on the map for baseball. This made it the most incredible baseball experience of my life.”

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Virginia Holocaust Museum Happenings

Rule of Law Award Day T

he Virginia Holocaust Museum and the Virginia Law Foundation honored John Grisham with the 2019 Rule of Law Award, and David Bobzien posthumously, with the 2019 Civility in the Law Award on Thursday, Oct. 10.

The award presentations followed the Virginia Law Foundation’s CLE workshop entitled: “Hate Crime Legislation and Prosecution in Virginia.” The guest speaker was Professor Kami N. Chavis, professor of Law and Director of the Criminal Justice Program at Wake Forest University School of Law. About the program A central lesson of the Holocaust is the centrality of the Rule of Law in the preservation of civil societies. This program established by the VHM’s Nuremberg Courtroom Committee and the VLF honors individuals whose life and work emulate the highest ideals enshrined in the principals of the Nuremberg Military Tribunal and later the International Court of Justice.

John Grisham delivers remarks after accepting the Rule of Law Award. VHM Photos

Irv Blank, chair of the Nuremberg Courtroom Exhibit Committee at the Virginia Holocaust Museum, gives John Grisham a tour of the permanent Nuremberg Exhibit prior to the Rule of Law Award program.

The large gathering at the Rule of Law Award dinner at the Virginia Holocuast Museum. The annual event was hosted by the museum and the Virginia Law Foundation.

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The community is invited to attend the Annual Meeting of the Virginia Holocaust Museum Wednesday, December 11 | 5:30 p.m. |Free and open to the public Evening agenda includes: • CEO Report • Installation of Officers and Trustees • Awards • Celebration of 50 years of the Jewish

‘Holocaust by Bullets’ Exhibit on display thru Dec. 30 T

he Holocaust by Bullets was the systematic killing of Jews that started before the creation of concentration camps in the exSoviet Union and continued until WWII’s end.

Yahad-In Unum (“together” in Hebrew and Latin) is a Paris-based non-profit organization established in 2004 by Father Patrick Desbois and dedicated to systematically identifying and documenting sites of Jewish and Roma mass executions by Nazi mobile-killing units in Eastern Europe during World War II. “Holocaust by Bullets” presents the results of Yahad-In Unum’s research investigations in the exSoviet Union. It also underscores the “Holocaust by Bullets” as a precursor and model for mass crimes today.

The exhibit showcases the painstaking research–succinctly yet approachable–to enable the visitor to uncover, step-by-step, the crime committed against Jews and www.JewishRichmond.org

Roma by the Nazi killing units.

It gives viewers a chance to learn about this lesser-known side of the Holocaust, through eyewitness testimonies, photographs, and quotes.

This traveling exhibit was produced by the Yahad-In Unum.

Background Between 1942-1944, more than two million Jews were massacred when Nazi Germany invaded the Soviet Union. In a period of two-and-half years, the Nazis killed nearly every Jew in the region.

The mass murder was part of Hitler’s genocide of the Jewish people. Until recently, this chapter of Holocaust history, was relatively unknown.

More than 1,700 mass killing sites and interviewed over 4,000 local, non-Jewish eyewitnesses in Ukraine, Russia, Belarus, Moldova, Lithuania, Romania, Republic of Macedonia and Poland.

American Hall of Fame Exhibit with a presentation by Rabbi Scott Nagel of Congregation Beth Ahabah.

Space is limited. Registration required.

RSVP to Brett Schrader at bschrader@vaholocaust.org or by calling (804) 257-5400, ext. 243 by December 6.

Violins of Hope Spring 2020

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irginia Holocaust Museum and Virginia Museum of History and Culture will partner to bring violins played by Jews during the Holocaust to Richmond next year.

Amnon Weinstein began curating his collection just over two decades ago, which debuted in North America in 2012. The museums will tell the stories of the violins while on display in interactive exhibits and in live concerts played by Richmond Symphony and other local musicians across various venues in Richmond.

The museum is located at 2000 East Cary St., Richmond. There also is free off-street parking More details coming soon.

For details on a special concert at the Weinstein JCC, visit: https://weinsteinjcc.org/events/violins-of-hope-chambermusic-concert

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Enterprise Circle/ Jewish Book Fair speaker set for Nov. 8

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specially for the foodies in the community, on Friday, Nov. 8 at 8 a.m., the Jewish Book Fair in partnership with JCFR’s Enterprise Circle, Mark Federman, author of “Russ & Daughters: Reflections and Recipes From The House that Herring Built” will be the guest speaker.

He will share the delightful story of his immigrant family’s journey from pushcart to iconic New York restaurant.

Breakfast will be included in the price of admission and will feature bagels, bialys and babka straight from Russ & Daughters’ restaurant in New York City.

For details, visit: https://weinsteinjcc.org/events/book-fairevent-with-mark-federman

We Need You. Continued from page 3

Adam Plotkin In the 60s and 70s, we came together to support our brothers and sisters in Russia. With Jews under increasing oppression, like me, you might have had a metal bracelet with a name on it, and joined in chanting “Let My People Go” and followed the stories of heroes like Natan Sharansky.

Together, through our collective action, we brought those Jews to freedom in Israel and to cities across the country including right here in Richmond. You were there.

Incidentally, I can remember being in the car with mom driving by KBI and asking her why there was a sign advertising free Soviet “jewelry.”

Daniel Staffenberg In the 80s, we came together as one voice on behalf of Ethiopian Jewry. We advocated and facilitated one of the greatest airlifts in modern history. Over 8,000 souls were airlifted from certain death to a new life in Israel; fulfilling their lifelong dream. You were there, and you are still there today with head start programs, job training and support for Ethiopian Israelis.

And in the 90s, challenged with how to create and inspire connection for young Jews growing up in the most affluent and integrated time in Jewish history, you were there to fund and support programs like BBYO, NCSY, Jewish Camp and Birthright Israel – a radical idea that today has touched the lives of over 700,000 young people, many of whom are leading our communities and understand the concept of global Jewish responsibility.

Adam Plotkin And what about our future? How do we insure that no Jew goes hungry, that our community stays strong and our connection to Israel and our Jewish memory endures?

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The answer is the same as it always has been – by collective action and by working together.

We need you to be there for the child who struggles to fit in, the family who struggles financially and the Jew who doesn’t quite, feel connected.

We need you – to power our community and provide the critical support our agencies and Synagogues look to us for, as they struggle with increasing security costs, increasing requests for scholarships and a desire to innovate and evolve.

We need you to be there to insure that no Jew in Richmond, Venezuela, Ukraine or Israel goes without – that no Jew feels alone.

For 85 years, our Federation has supported and sustained our community. We have launched awardwinning programs, been there for our agencies, touched countless lives and rescued and renewed Jewish life across the world.

Our work together may have evolved over time, however, its importance has not waned. Federation is the glue that holds us together. Today, while our historical communal support remains, we are also looking to the future, creating opportunities to connect and inspire Jewish journeys and create Jewish connections.

For all who gave to the campaign last year, we thank you – your gift is hard at work in Richmond and all over the world. The truth however is, the needs are growing and we need to respond. This year we hope that when you get that call that you consider increasing your support to meet those needs.

We set a goal for this year of raising $1 million for the 2020 Campaign prior to the Grand Event.

As of tonight, we have raised $1.1 million ($1.22 million at Reflector press time), and we are seeing an average increase of 17 percent from our donors. It’s

remarkable - 17 percent – and a great statement of support and trust and we are working hard to continue the momentum.

Now, I can’t stand here as Campaign Chair and not ask you to help us ensure this continued success.

So, I’d like for you to listen to a few things. Ideas that might help you appreciate even more what you do and can do to aid those who so desperately need our help.

Think about the power of each dollar. A $100 increase provides Hebrew classes for Ethiopian Jews making Israel their home, a $180 increase provides ten college students with an on-campus Shabbat dinner providing connections during a critical time in their lives and a $1,000 increase gives a child in need their first overnight camp experience. This is one of the best ways to inspire and build future Jewish involvement.

Other options: $36 — A hearty food package for a hungry family $200 — A day of nursing care $500 — A scholarship for a high school student to attend a trip to Israel $5,000 — Newborn care packages for ten Argentinean Jewish families living in poverty We know these needs don’t go away. And we know how lucky we are to be here, the ones giving, and to have achieved what we have. I hope you will consider these simple but critical needs and know how easy it is to give just a little more? It will fundamentally and positively change someone else’s life.

Thank you for all you do and for being part of our community.

L’Shana Tova.

To reach out to me, email daniel@jewishrichmond. org. www.JewishRichmond.org

Gathered for a photo at the JCFR Grand Event are (from left) students Julia Funk, Unitha Cherry, Omer Genosar, Michael Paul, Eliana Fleischer, Lindsey Paul and Josh Jeffries, UR Jewish Chaplain and Director of Religious Life.

Photo by Adrienne Winkelmann Epstein

A busy New Year for Jewish Life at UR E

ven with a fall break in the middle of the month, Jewish Life at the University of Richmond enjoyed a busy month of October.

In addition to Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur observances, a trip to the Federation Grand Event, and a full week of Sukkot programming, the group also celebrated a special Family Weekend Shabbat and co-sponsored a discussion with the Multifaith Student Council on “Sukkot, Wandering, and the Idea of Home.”

As has become tradition, Jewish Life hosted students for dinner and services on Erev Rosh Hashanah, and provided additional transportation for students to attend local services in the community throughout the holiday.

The group also hosted a small Tashlich service and Rosh Hashanah Apples and Honey event on Wednesday, Oct. 2.

Kol Nidre dinner was also provided before services, with a break the fast meal hosted on campus Wednesday evening, Oct. 9 following an afternoon Yom Kippur Torah study.

Between observing the High Holidays, six UR Hillel student leaders were fortunate enough to attend the Grand Event with Deborah Lipstadt, hosted by the Federation. The visit prompted many discussions on campus

in the weeks that followed, and students were grateful for the opportunity to attend.

Among the participants was Unitha Cherry, a senior at Richmond and an active member of Hillel. “The whole experience made me think about how important community is to Judaism,” said Cherry. “Dr. Lipstadt was telling each of us to stand up and be proud not because of Anti-semitism but inspite of it. Seeing all of my friends from other temples made me realize no one is alone in this.”

Lastly, after building and decorating two Sukkot on campus, UR Hillel hosted a second annual apple picking trip to Carter Mountain. This followed a week of programs in the Sukkah that included a special Shabbat, game night, Sushi in the Sukkah, and multiple discussions and meals throughout the week.

Please contact Josh Jeffreys, Jewish Chaplain and Director of Religious Life, at JJeffrey@richmond.edu, for more information about Jewish Life at the University of Richmond and upcoming events.

Thank you Friends of Reflector The Reflector staff and

Jewish Community Federation of Richmond thank Rhona and Irv Blank Tom and Donna McClish Halina Zimm for their recent donations to the Friends of Reflector.

As always, we thank the community for supporting the Reflector.

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A Day at the Museum Together features Survivor Halina Zimm H

adassah members from Richmond and Charlottesville and members of the community were treated to a special program at the Virginia Holocaust Museum on Oct. 13 featuring two local legends.

Almost 150 people were in attendance at the Day at the Museum that featured historian Charles Sydnor and Hadassah friend and local Survivor Halina Zimm. Chaired by Claudia Biegler and Elaine Ragone, every detail of the program was planned to perfection.

The morning started with a talk from Dr. Sydnor, noted Holocaust expert and historian.

He regaled the group with stories and history, as well as updating guests on ongoing efforts to unearth evidence from the Holocaust. He also shared current and future efforts to educate the public on this period of history.

For the next part of the program, groups either stayed with Dr. Sydnor for Q & A, went on a guided docent tour of the permanent exhibits of the museum and a small group was treated to a rare behind-the-scenes look at the archives of the museum.

Following a catered boxed lunch, by Garnish Catering and a chance for guests to mingle and

visit, Halina Zimm shared her poignant and personal story of her experiences during the Holocaust. Surrounded by many friends and family members from Richmond, D.C. and New York, her emotional story brought many in the room to tears. Her talk ended with her saying, “I can forgive but I will never forget.”

Hadassah Richmond Keepers Co-Chair Janie Schwarz said, “It was so wonderful to see so many people partaking in a community Holocaust Program. The Holocaust Museum can educate us all!”

Lynn Schwartz praised the co-chairs for the day and thanked them, but also reflected that “Halina made the day! She is a reminder of how lucky we are to be where we are.”

Next year, Hadassah Charlottesville will be in charge of a joint program for all members.

Thanks to Robin Jackson for the Hadassah articles.

Halina Zimm with Janet Meyers and her granddaughter Tova Zimm.

LEFT - Halina Zimm speaks to the gathering at the Virginia Holocaust Museum.

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Nearly 150 Hadassah members and friends from Richmond and Charlottesville attended the special Day at the Museum program at the Virginia Holocaust Museum and listened to two keynote speakers on Oct. 13. www.JewishRichmond.org

Sisisky Fellows speak at Keepers of the Gate event

Hadassah Happenings

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adassah’s Keepers’ of the Gate were treated to a lovely event at the home of Janie Schwarz.

Brunch was served as attendees heard from Rachel Peters and Amanda Braun, two of Richmond Jewish Foundation’s Sisisky Fellows who recently traveled to the Ukraine.

Future programs and learning opportunities are planned for Richmond’s Keepers.

Keepers of the Gate commit to an annual recurring gift of $1,000 or more. Their pledge and resources ensure Hadassah’s impact every day, in Israel, the United States and around the world. Richmond has the greatest number of Keepers of any chapter in the Southern Seaboard Region, showing the dedication and commitment of our members.

For more information on becoming a Keeper, contact Janie Schwarz at (804) 3645881 or mcschwarz@comcast.net or Lynn Kessler Amy Krumbein and daughter, Joyce Slater. at (804) 741-4880 or Icanw8@aol.com.

Book Group The next Book Group is Dec. 8 at 1 p.m., at Weinstein JCC, Senior Room to discuss “The Cast” by Amy Blumenfeld.

This novel centers on a group of 9th grade friends who produce a “Saturday Night Live” style video to cheer up a seriously ill friend. They become a supporting cast for life. Filled with humor, drama, forgiveness, and deep friendship, it was inspired by the authors friends and family as she faced childhood cancer.

NOTE: The book was chosen as the Community Read this year, and Richmond Hadassah is co-sponsoring the author to speak during the Fife-Davis book fair at the Center on Nov. 19 at 7 p.m. See Page 11.

Hadassah members and friends receive a special behind-thescenes tour of the Virginia Holocaust Museum on Oct. 13 during the special event.

Hadassah Richmond Lunch & Learn Yoga with Karen Levitt, Nov. 3, noon, at Weinstein JCC. A beginner lesion good for all! Wear comfortable clothes and bring a mat or towel.

Certified through Integral Yoga of Richmond, Karen Levitt, a Hadassah Richmond member, has been teaching Hatha yoga in the community for 20 years. She is the co-founder of Heart of Yoga, RVA. She also brings Mindful Yoga Therapy to veterans coping with Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. For info contact Marilyn Trownsell: mtrownsell@ aol.com or 804-467-7798.

Sisisky Fellow Rachel Peters talks to Hadassah members (left) Janie Schwarz and Marian Winer about her experiences in Ukraine. (Right) Amanda Bruan, another Sisisky Fellow, also spoke.

Lunch Bunch

Hadassah Richmond ladies enjoy a recent Hadassah Lunch Bunch!

Hadassah & Friends Lunch Bunch The next Hadassah & Friends lunch bunch is Friday, Dec. 6 at 12:30 p.m., at Firebirds in Short Pump Town Center (near Dick’s Sporting Goods).

If there is inclement (snow) weather, the group will meet the following Friday (Dec. 13).

Please contact Marian Winer, 270-7898 or mfw118@verizon.net, by Thursday Dec. 5 of your attendance.

ORDER 2020 MAHJONG CARDS Get ahead of the game - order your 2020 mahjong cards now.

Cards are $8 for standard size and $9 – large. For the same price, Hadassah gets a portion of your card purchase! Please send your name, address, phone number, mahjong ID number (if you have it) and what size card you want with your check made payable to “HADASSAH” to Toby Rosenthal 4412 Bromley Lane Richmond, VA 23221.

You have until January 15 to order.

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Wendy Umanoff lighting project at Väsen Brewing Company. Contributed Photo

Plans for The Valentine project. Contributed Photo

Richmond-based Artist Wendy Umanoff Makes her Craft + Design Debut at Main Street Station, Nov. 22-24 T

he Visual Arts Center of Richmond’s 55th Annual Craft + Design Show opens on Nov. 22, bringing over 150 artists from across the country to exhibit their work in Main Street Station’s renovated train shed.

New to the show this year is Richmond-based artist Wendy Umanoff, who works with residential and hospitality clients across the country to create custom lighting designs.

Umanoff grew up in a Jewish family just outside of New York City and graduated from Parsons School of Design with a bachelor of fine arts in sculpture.

Her father was a mid-century furniture designer and her mother was a sculptor.

“What got me inspired to make art was watching and witnessing what my mom and dad did,” Umanoff said.

“There was a lot of creativity in the house.”

The artist remembers watching her father spend years transforming the family’s three-acre yard with weekend landscape design projects.

“At dinner, he would sketch designs on napkins and tablecloths,” she said.

“He was always designing in his mind.”

Now well established in her own creative career, Umanoff says she understands her father’s passion for design.

After graduating from Parsons, Umanoff lived in New York and worked in visual merchandising for many

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Richmond-based artist Wendy Umanoff.

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years. Her interest in lighting grew when she moved to Richmond and starting producing a column for Rhome Magazine called “Repurpose This.” One of her columns focused on repurposing items for lighting projects and after creating the fixtures herself, Umanoff hung the completed light fixtures in the Fan-based store, Strawberry Fields Flowers, where she was working at the time. Richmond-based lighting supplier, Shades of Light, saw Umanoff’s work in the flower shop and the artist began making custom designs for Richmond clients.

Since then, she’s been busy working with homeowners and businesses all over town to design one-of-a-kind lighting elements.

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was one of Umanoff’s first big projects. Her vision for this custom-made chandelier was solidified after she gathered inspiration from the museum’s historical archives and studied architectural details of the Valentine’s building.

“That’s one of my favorite fixtures to this day,” she said.

A hanging fixture for Väsen Brewing Company is another project that Umanoff said is memorable. Working alongside one of her fellow Craft + Design artists, Kyle Lucia of Phoenix Handcraft, Umanoff helped create a sculptural piece incorporating antlers and lights, entitled “Antler Branches.”

Wendy Umanoff custom chandelier at The Valentine.

The artist also had a (Photo Credit: Casey Godlove) hand in designing a piece for Hardywood Park’s new place the weekend before Thanksgiving, brewery, Hardywood West Creek. kicks off Richmond’s holiday shopping Umanoff said what excites her most season and brings out a crowd of about projects like these is not necessarily thousands of art lovers. This museumthe thrill of seeing one of her pieces in quality craft show begins on Friday with a busy space, but the process and the Patrons’ Preview from 6-9 p.m. relationships she builds along the way On Saturday, there’s the Rise + Shine with clients. breakfast event from 9:30-11 a.m. The “I’m passionate about the work that I show is open to the general public on do and I love connecting other people to Saturday and Sunday from 11 a.m. to 5 that,” she said. p.m.

Find Umanoff in booth #221 at Craft + Design. The event, which always takes www.JewishRichmond.org

Foundation Happenings

Lower your taxes while investing in a Jewish education T

he tradition of Jewish education is as old as the Torah itself and is one of Richmond Jewish Foundation’s key values.

The Virginia General Assembly adopted a program in 2012 that provides state tax credits for persons or businesses making monetary or marketable securities donations to approved scholarship foundations like Richmond Jewish Foundation that provide scholarships to eligible

By Robert Nomberg students for qualified educational expenses president & ceo incurred in attending eligible nonpublic schools. richmond jewish foundation RJF is currently providing tax credit scholarships to RTA, Aleph Bet Preschool, Weinstein JCC Preschool, Orchard House School and the 7 Hills School.

RTA President David Hecht stated, “The Virginia Educational Improvement Scholarship Tax Credits Program offers a wonderful opportunity to pair RTA donors to families and students like never before. Donors are able to make a major tax-deductible contribution to the ongoing financial well-being of RTA and in doing so provide deserving students access to the amazing educational and cultural experience that is the RTA family. We at RTA continue to be appreciative of our donors and this program and encourage prospective donors to please look into it as this year 2019 comes to a close. This school year has just started and there are still opportunities to make a dramatic difference in the life of Jewish children here in Richmond.”

Donors who contribute to the fund receive a federal and state tax deduction, as well as a state tax credit. The tax savings for donors can be significant. Individual or business donors receive a tax credit equal to 65 percent of the donation. Student eligibility for receiving these scholarships is based on several factors, including annual household income.

The minimum donation amount is $500.

The maximum donation amount for individuals and married couples is $125,000. There is no maximum limit for any business entity.

Individuals can use the tax credits against their Virginia personal income tax liability.

The process for obtaining a tax credit is fairly simple: • Obtain a Preauthorization Form from RJF • Send the completed Preauthorization Form to RJF for submission to the Virginia

Make the choice today to impact the future.

Call (804) 545-8656 to include a gift in your will or trust.

robert@rjfoundation.org www.createlegacy.org

Department of Education (DOE) for approval of your tax credits.

• Donate to RJF with your check or securities transfer information within 180 days of the date of approval (Tax credits become void after 180 days.)

Make checks payable to Richmond Jewish Foundation.

After you have made your donation: • Within 20 days of receiving your gift, RJF will: o Send you an acknowledgement of receipt of your gift, and o Send the DOE a notice that your

gift payment has been received.

• Within 30 days of receiving notice of payment, the DOE will issue your Tax Credit Certificate.

• The Tax Credit Certificate must be attached to the tax return in which the credits are being claimed.

For more information about determining your personal tax savings contact your financial advisor. To apply for a tax credit under this program please call the RJF office at (804) 5458656 or visit https://www.rjfoundation.org/ community/tax-credit-scholarships.

The Global Day of Jewish Learning Sunday, November 17, 2-4:30 p.m. • Weinstein JCC A free day of programs with Richmond area Rabbis and other special speakers For registration and details, visit https://weinsteinjcc.org/events/global-day-of-jewish-learning www.JewishRichmond.org

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