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Volume 67 | Issue 12

HAPPY HANUKKAH

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During the Kristallnacht Remembrance Ser�ice on Sunday, November 10, speakers shared stories with communit� members about their family members who perished in the Holocaust, addressed ways of combating Anti-Semitism and reﬂected on the the histor� of the Emek Sholom Holocaust Memorial Cemeter�. Photos by Rachel Loria

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oin the community on Sunday, Dec. 8 from 9:30 a.m. - 1 p.m. to make and answer the call on Super Sunday to support the work of the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond. Community leader and JCFR board member Helen Griffin will chair the event this year along side grandson Peter Chumbris set to be held at the Weinstein JCC. Your gift to the 2020 Annual Campaign supports Jews in our community, in Israel and around the world. The Federation will once again present the Spirit Award grant of $1,000 to the local agency that has the highest percentage of its board and staff working on Super Sunday. Additionally, another $5,000 of grants from Let’s Give RVA will be up for grabs for agencies and Synagogues that pitch in to ensure Super Sunday is a success! Volunteers also will be eligible to win prizes donated by local businesses and organizations.

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On Super Sunday your phone conversation can make a difference in the lives of Jews in our community, in Israel, and around the world. Work with other Federation volunteers and help us make a positive impact in someone’s life. To volunteer, contact Jesse Feld at jfeld@jewishrichmond. org or call (804) 545-8623. To make a gift to the 2020 Campaign, contact Jesse Feld, Federation director of development and engagement, at (804) 545-8623 or jfeld@jewishrichmond.org.

Ellen Renee Adams, President Daniel Staffenberg, Chief Executive Officer Raymond (Skip) Kozakewicz, Editor Sara Rosenbaum, Director of Impact and Community Planning Jesse Feld, Director of Development and Engagement

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‘In Spite of Anti-Semitism’ Editor’s Note: The following essay, “In Spite of Anti-Semitism,” by Glen Allen high school student Claudia Sachs recently won the Esther .J. Windmueller “Never Again Award” by the board of directors of the Emek Sholom Holocaust Memorial Cemetery. She read her essay at the Nov. 10 Kristallnacht Remembrance Service. By Claudia Sachs s a Jewish high school student in Virginia, I’m often tempted to be proud of my Jewish identity because of Anti-Semites. Part of me wants to show the haters that even when they try to hurt us and literally “shoot us down,” we will continue to attend synagogue and observe Shabbat because we will refuse to let them win. Yet out of fear and now, habit, I have identified all the exit routes in my synagogue. I sit near the Bimah so I could escape behind the arc in the event of an emergency. I look behind me every time I hear the door of the sanctuary creak open. Still, I refuse to believe that the future of the Jewish people depends on fear and trauma. I would like to affirm my Judaism because I like the community, the prayers, and rituals. As a Jewish advocate and activist, I have chosen to embrace my Jewish identity in spite of Anti-Semites. While I do honestly live in fear and

Wishing you and your family a Joyous hanukkah

Daniel Staffenberg Chief Executive Oﬃcer Jewish Community Federation of Richmond

Claudia Sachs delivers her awardwinning essay at the Kristallnacht Remembrance Service. Photo by Rachel Loria.

my peers laugh at “Holocaust jokes” and mock my traditions, I hold rituals like Passover Seders and the lighting of Shabbat candles too close to my heart to let hate and ignorance blow out the flames of my Jewish identity. When we speak about combatting Anti-Semitism and remembering the Holocaust, we always say, “never again.” I also want to ensure that “never again” will we sacrifice our ancient traditions and customs in the face of Anti-Semitism. Dating all the way back to the Spanish Inquisition, Jews have had to disguise themselves and assimilate in order to feel safe. “Never again” will I feel compelled to practice my Judaism because of Anti-Semitism.

The officers, Board of direcT irecTors and sTaff of The JeWish communiTy federaTion of richmond High school students thrive on conformity. And while I may end up buying different shoes and a colorful lunch box because of peer pressure, I will not disguise myself because of AntiSemitism. In spite of Anti-Semites, I will wear my Star of David necklace, and I won’t tuck it away every time I walk into a crowded space. In spite of Anti-Semites, I will put my Menorah in the window, and I won’t hide it in the back of my house. In spite of Anti-Semites, I will proudly let people know that I am Jewish. For the sake of all future children, we must “never forget” the Holocaust. And we must “never forget” who we are and how our beautiful traditions like Tikkun Olam have helped to repair this broken world.

‘Where there is faith, there is hope’ E

very December Jews around the world celebrate Chanukah, the Festival of Lights, by lighting candles, singing songs, eating Latkes and Gelt (real or chocolate candy coins), and playing with a Dreidel In America, most Jews give holiday gifts. Chanukah commemorates the political courage and military prowess of the Hasmonean priestly family better known as the Maccabees. The priest Mattathias led a band of Jews in the hills of Judea in a revolt against the Syrian King Antiochus, who forbade Jewish practices under penalty of death, and against the Jews who abandoned the Law and traditions of Judaism for popular Greek culture. Mattathias’ son Judah took charge of the rebellion after his father’s death. He was given the nickname Maccabee (“hammer”). With a brilliant campaign of guerilla warfare, the Maccabees successfully fought the thousands of troops sent to crush the rebellion. After three years of fighting, the Jews

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entered Jerusalem in December 164 BCE. They found the holy Temple desecrated by foreign soldiers. They cleansed and re-dedicated the Temple on the 25th day of the Jewish month of Kislev. The Hebrew word Chanukah means “dedication.” The Maccabean victory over 2,000 years ago marks what is probably the first struggle for religious freedom in human history. From the start many people realized that the religious significance of Chanukah lay in the miraculous nature of the Maccabean victory. The Jews were greatly outnumbered and fought against incredible odds, but God’s will prevailed. The Rabbis proclaimed the public reading of the words of the prophet Zachariah 4:6, “Not by might nor by power, but by My spirit, says the Lord.” Moving away from the political background of the festival, the sages turned to a popular legend about the origin of the cus-

Light your Menorah. Wear your Star of David. Wear your Yarmulke. “Never again” will we let Anti-Semites dictate the story of our people. Claudia Sachs, 16, is a junior at Glen Allen High School. She is passionate about combating Anti-Semitism and fighting for social justice. She is a state finalist in Forensics, a nationwide public speaking competition, and her social justice work has been featured in the Richmond Times Dispatch, NBC12, and the Guardian. She loves working with children and is determined to use her voice to fight for equality, education and peace. Last summer, she was among three Richmond teens who took part in the Partnership2Gether Hadera-Eiron Southeast Consortium Tikkun Olam Teen exchange. They spent 10-days in Israel with Israeli teens and then hosted an Israeli teen in Richmond a month later.

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tom of kindling lights for eight days. The Jews found in the Temple only enough ritually pure oil to light the Menorah (eternal lamp) for one day, yet the oil miraculously burned for eight days. They ordained a public display of lights, the story goes, to proclaim the miracle. Since the light of the Chanukah candles was declared holy, another light (called the Shamash) must be used to light the candles and to provide light to see by. The Chanukah lights shine forth and declare to the world: Miracles do happen! Where there is faith, there is hope! The medieval Jewish mystics added another spiritual dimension to the holiday. While seven represents the weekday, mundane world as it is, the number eight symbolizes the world as it ought to be. Similarly, in music, the eighth note completes the octave and brings harmony to the seven preceding notes. Thus the Chanukah Menorah symbolizes the light of the Messiah. In lighting the

Rabbi Dennis Beck-Berman Congregation Brith Achim

candles we try to rekindle the inner spark of holy light inside us all which longs to shine forth in the messianic age of love, peace and joy.

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Adam Plotkin talks about his earliest memories of the Federation and the Campaign.

David Galpern speaks about his New York and Richmond experiences.

Men share stories about their Jewish lives, experiences, future By Jesse Feld Director of Development & Engagement JCFR s many know, Richmond is home to one of the oldest active Jewish communities in North America. Dating back to the 1760s, there has been active Jewish life here in central Virginia. This year’s JCFR Men’s Division Campaign event was built with the effort to honor this rich history, signify the present and take a look into the future. Chaired by Men’s Division Co-Chairs, David Galpern and Brian Greene, the event called ‘Jewish Richmond: Yesterday, Today and Tomorrow,’ was successful in raising community, awareness and funds for the Federation Annual Campaign. Almost 40 men came to Beth Sholom Senior Living and enjoyed drinks, food and friends in the Parkside Assisted Living community room. The attendees heard from a bevy of speakers. Brian Greene, also a Federation board member, was the emcee of the evening and led the conversation from the roots of Jewish life here in Richmond all the way to the future. He started by introducing JCFR Annual Campaign Chairman and longtime Richmonder, Adam Plotkin, who spoke about his experience growing up in such an established community. Adam regaled of the times when Richmond’s Jewish community was asked to step up to give the most precious gift – the gift of freedom. This, of course, is better known now as Operation Exodus, when as a community and country we stood together to free Soviet Jewry and ensure Jewish continuity for our brothers and sisters around the world. Adam spoke about what it was like seeing such a monumental effort as a child. Richmond and our Jewish community was able to play a strong role because of the strong foundation of history which was already formed. The tone of the evening changed then when the conversation moved toward the present and future of Jewish Richmond. David Galpern, who was born and raised in New York,

spoke about how it was easy to settle down in Richmond because of the strong Jewish community. David, also a Federation board member, mentioned there may not be 20 options for everything, but whatever kind of Jew you want to be, there is at least one or two outlets for you here in Richmond. He spoke about his family, his children who study at Rudlin Torah Academy, his wife, Robyn, who represents Richmond on Federation’s National Young Leadership Cabinet, and how they fit in today. He noted that he used to think he would represent the future, but the truth of the matter is that his time to lead and act for the community is right now in the present. Finally two dynamic young men closed the evening by talking about the future of the Jewish community. Both recently took Federation-funded trips to Israel that helped form their thoughts and ideas of how they’d like Jewish Richmond of tomorrow to look. First, Nate Mulberg about how his Jewish identity was revitalized after a Birthright Israel trip. Nate is an assistant coach on the University of Richmond baseball team, and since his Birthright trip, he has become more involved and begun thinking about what kind of community he’d like to help build. The Birthright trip was Nate’s first visit to Israel, and through many connections, and what can only be described as B’sheret (Hebrew/ Yiddish for meant to be), he was asked to be one of the assistant coaches on the Team Israeli national baseball team in September, which then qualified for its first time in history for the 2020 Olympic games! Had Nate missed that trip to Israel, he may never have felt the connection he does today, and could have missed the opportunity to represent the Jewish homeland in the Olympic Games in Tokyo next summer. Nate was followed by Xavier Beverly, who also took a recent trip to Israel, but his was through Honeymoon Israel. Honeymoon Israel provides immersive trips to Israel for locally based cohorts of couples who have at least one Jewish partner,

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Rachel and Xavier Beverly show the Challahs they made during their Honeymoon Israel experience in 2018. early in their committed relationship, creating communities of couples who are building families with deep and meaningful connections to Jewish life and the Jewish people. Xavier, who is a co-owner and head chef at the The Camel in Richmond, talked about how the trip helped bond him and his wife, and opened up dialogue for them to talk about how they’d like their future community to look. Xavier noted that in early-to-midDecember, he and his wife, Rachel, will be expecting their first child. He touched on the ideals and aspects of Jewish life they are hoping to instill in their child, and said that his experience going to Israel, and bonding with the group has helped them understand exactly what kind of Jewish life they are prepared to give their child. Four different speakers, four unique and different stories, all of which were not possible without the strong foundation that has existed for years for members of the Richmond Jewish community. As we all know, times change, but no matter what the needs are for the community, we understand that Jewish continuity is paramount, and there is no organization better poised to meet the continually changing needs of the Jewish community like the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond. The JCFR was there yesterday, is here

Brian Greene welcomes attendees at the event and talks about his Richmond Jewish experiences.

(Right) Nate Mulberg prays at the Western Wall during his Birthright Israel experience. Photo by Rotem Tasca

today, and with your continued support, will be here tomorrow and many years to come. If you are interested in making a gift to the Annual Campaign, or are interested in having a Legacy conversation to ensure the future, contact Jesse Feld at the Federation by calling (804) 545-8623, or by sending an email to jfeld@jewishrichmond.org.

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8 days. Shred the potatoes. Pour the oil. Crispy, crunchy latkes. Almost ready. Just one more. And more and more. A taste for Chanukah. Almost gone. Shred the potatoes. Pour the oil. Happy Chanukah from all your friends at Publix.

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Jewish Community Relations Committee

David Cohen joins Federation as director of JCRC D

avid Cohen joined the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond as Jewish Community Relations Committee director in early November. Cohen, a passionate supporter of Israel, has 20 years experience as a Jewish communal leader who has done extensive work in the areas of Jewish community relations, Jewish education and Israel advocacy. This includes serving as associate director for the Anti-Defamation League’s New England Region and senior associate for Israel and Middle East Affairs at the Jewish Federation of Greater Philadelphia. While with ADL, he oversaw their “Comfronting Anti-Semitism” program and developed a curriculum to address Anti-Israel initiatives. He also oversaw outreach efforts to Interfaith communities, diplomats and legislators. During his time with the Philadelophia Federation, he is proud to have worked in the commuity and on-campus to respond to BDS (Boycott, Divestment, Sanctions) activities. He also worked on re-energizing pro-active Jewish com-

munity outreach, creating programming partnerships with local Synagogues and agencies, and forging relationships beyond the Jewish community. A native of David Cohen Contributed Photo Boston, Cohen’s diverse professional background includes experience working closely with high school and Hillel students as well as educational programming with local day schools, congregations and non-Jewish organizations. He holds a B.A. in History from Brandeis University; a Master of Arts in History from Boston University Graduate School of Arts and Sciences and a Master of Arts in Jewish Education and Organizational Leadership from Hebrew Union College, Jewish Institute of Religion, To reach Cohen, call (804) 545-8626 or email dcohen@jewishrichmond.org.

School info from JCRC T he Education Committee of the Federation’s Jewish Community Relations Committee reminds parents that we can be of assistance to both students and staff as they continue to navigate the new school year and observance of Jewish holidays and traditions throughout the year. Through many years of meeting with and developing healthy relationships with public school staff throughout Central Virginia, we believe we are poised to assist families and professionals when issues arise. We have ongoing relationships and open lines of communication with all the local schools systems and have already assisted parents with various issues during the first month of the school year. We also have assisted in bringing resources to districts to support diversity and inclusion and have encouraged

continued conversations. As well, we annually provide school districts with a calendar of the current years Jewish holidays. Also it is helpful to inform us of those issues that you are able to handle within the school without our assistance. It is always great when that occurs and we appreciate knowing about and thanking staff when things work out right. Best wishes for the remainder of the school year. We are here to support students, families and school professional staff. If issues arise or if you have any questions or concerns, please contact David Cohen, director, Jewish Community Relations Committee, JCFR, at (804) 545-8626 or dcohen@ jewishrichmond.org.

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SAVE THE DATE Virginia Jewish Advocacy Day Wednesday, February 5

Hosted by Jewish Community Relations Committee of the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond

For details, contact David Cohen, Director, Jewish Community Relations Committee, JCFR (804) 545-8626 or dcohen@jewishrichmond.org.

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Join the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond for

HANUKKAH AT THE HOF

J OI N US IN CE LE BRAT I NG TH E F ESTI VA L O F L IG HTS

Community members sort and pack the donations of food and personal care items at the JCFR office on Oct. 27. JCFR Photos

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Helping our neighbors By Amanda Braun Development & Engagement Associate JCFR n the afternoon of Oct. 27, members of the community came together to help our neighbors through the Food & Personal Care Drive held at the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond office. Generosity abounded as donations of items such as toothbrushes, canned soup, paper goods, and more were piled high in The Rosenthal Conference Room over the month of October. Volunteers made it possible to sort through the many donated items, which

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were organized to benefit the specific needs of Jewish Family Services’ Care Closet, Keneseth Beth Israel’s Food Assistance Pantry and Beth Sholom’s The Woods Food Pantry. The Federation was happy to offer both a family-friendly volunteer opportunity, as well as benefit vulnerable members of our community through this Food & Personal Care Drive. For more engagement opportunities, or ways to find out ways volunteer in the community, contact Amanda Braun at (804) 545-8621 or abraun@jewishrichmond. org.

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ou rely on your friends to provide you with information that you can trust. The Reflector, which has served Richmond's Jewish Community for more than a half a century, is one of those friends. The Reflector provides pertinent information about everything from local agency developments, meetings, Synagogue and organization news to major events in the area, in Israel and around the world. A true friend, The Reflector provides a synopsis of what is happening in the region, deals with critical issues of modern Jewish life and the people who are making things happen in Jewish Richmond. The Reflector serves as that valuable resource to stay connected with your Jewish community. Ad revenues and an annual allocation only take care of some of the expense to produce the monthly newspaper. So, we rely on our Friends for help. Please see the enclosed remittance envelope with this issue of The Reflector; complete the form on the envelope and return it to us with your contribution. Thank you for being a Friend!

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Mark Federman shares the story behind Russ & Daughters “This is my demographic. Aging Jews who love to eat.” uthor Mark Russ Federman kicked off his talk to community members Nov. 8 with this remark in talking about his family history on Manhattan’s Lower East Side and his book, “Russ & Daughters: Reflections and Recipes From The House that Herring Built.” He added, “I even see a few here who might be older than me.” These remarks drew laughter from the attendees. The event was a Jewish Book Fair program in partnership with JCFR’s Enterprise Circle that was moderated by John Jay Schwartz. During his remarks, Federman shared the delightful story of his immigrant family’s journey from pushcart to iconic New York restaurant. He remarked that to many Jews he encounters across the country in his travels talking about his book “the motherland is not Israel but the Lower East Side.” Federman noted that “more Jews can trace their roots back to the Lower East Side than to Israel. The Lower East side represents primarily in this country the culinary origins of much of what we eat.” The program also included a documentary on Russ & Daughters with several scenes of

(From left) Author Mark Federman and John Jay Schwartz hold Federman’s book following the program. JCFR Photos

Author Mark Federman discusses the history of Russ & Daughters speciality restaurant started by his grandfather on the Lower East Side. It is now operated by fourth-generation family members of the founder, Joel Russ.

Supreme Court Associate Justice Ruth Bader Ginsberg describing the Lower East side restaurant and the fish store. The 105-year operation was started by Federman’s grandfather, Joel Russ, an Eastern European Polish Jew, later operated by the author’s parents, then by the author and now is owned and operated by Mark Federman’s cousins. He emphasized it is not and has never been a deli. It is called an “appetizing store.” Federman described the history behind the numerous Lower East speciality shops that were begun by immigrants and operated by their families for many years. “Food and money was not only happening across the counters,” he

noted. “It was the conversation about their family members. They formed relationships that lasted many years. However, you could schmooze all you wanted, but you had to give them a good product.” He said, “we have lost this interaction today with all the national stores.” Federman emphasized “it was a tough business and nothing romatic about it. It was a hard living standing on your feet 10-12 hours a day, six days a week. There was no Food Network to promote a business.” He added, “Selling fish was a tough business.” Breakfast was included at the event and featured bagels, bialys and babka from Russ & Daughters’ restaurant.

Network JCFR Wine Tasting On Nov. 13, Network JCFR gathered for a Wine Tasting evening at Richmond Wine Tasting.

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RTA Happenings

Younger runners are ready for the start.

Runners at the start of the race in 2018. Photos

by Bob Weisberger

Run-a-Latke set for Dec. 15

rganizers of the 10th Annual Habib Family Run-a-Latke 5K and OneMiler, benefiting Rudlin Torah Academy, are busy pulling together the final details for the run on Sunday, Dec. 15, at the Weinstein JCC. Runners can expect a special event this year for the 10th anniversary, with a big party indoors at the JCC and a special medal to commemorate the occasion. The one-miler and the medal are sponsored this year by Designer Deliveries. Starting at 9:30 am, the one-miler and 5K are out-and-back races on a flat course. The event is all about family fun, with a warm indoor post-race party and great food, including, of course, latkes, as well as hot chocolate and donuts. Please

plan to arrive and park early, as crowds can get large. The 5K race is chip-timed but open to all ages and runners of all levels. All runners will receive a t-shirt and a highquality race medal. Both races start and finish at the JCC. Registration for the onemiler is $20 from now through Dec. 14. The 5K is $35 until race day. Registration is available online at runsignup.com/ Race/VA/Richmond/RunALatke. For more information on RTA or to schedule a school visit, call (804) 3531110 or visit www.rudlin.com Rudlin Torah Academy is supported, in part, by a generous contribution and programming grant from the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond.

Save the Dates Events in 2020 An Afternoon of fun at the new golf Drive Shack: Friday, February 7 Mah Jongg Madness: Sunday, March 29 For information or to register for any of the these events, call

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Elliott Bender and Rabbi Yosef Bart with the Run-a-Latke mascot.

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program, but RTA needs your help to fund it. Donors get a 65 percent VA State tax credit as well as state and federal deductions, minimizing out of pocket expenses. And if stocks are gifted, there may be no real cost at all! Please consider making a pain free gift and support RTA! For more information, please call or write Robert Nomberg at Richmond Jewish Foundation. (804) 545-8656, or Robert@rjfoundation.org. RTAâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s children thank you! www.JewishRichmond.org

JFS Happenings

Be a light for low-income seniors and people with disabilities this Hanukkah!

JFS is collecting gift cards for our clients who otherwise couldn’t afford to celebrate. (Wal-Mart, grocery stores, fast food and family restaurants are favorites.) If you’d like to light up Hanukkah for a neighbor in need, please mail or drop off gift cards at JFS. Thank you!

Life & Legacy: Jessica Samet A s the Life & Legacy program enters its fourth and final year, JFS staff interviewed Life & Legacy and JFS Board member Jessica Samet to hear her perspective on the program and her own legacy. How did you ﬁrst get involved with JFS? I first came to JFS as an intern Masters of Social Work student in about 1993. I was fortunate to have Ellen Glass as my field instructor! When I was asked to join the JFS Board a few years ago, it felt I had come full circle. Is there a speciﬁc JFS program you connect to the most? In my current work as a social worker for The Alzheimer’s Association, my focus is on supporting families and individuals living with dementia. Because of this, the home care, care

management and senior engagement areas of JFS are closest to my heart. There’s so much new science out there pointing to loneliness as a cause of poor mental and physical health in seniors. JFS takes that very seriously and trains all our volunteers and staff to engage with senior clients like friends or family members. Why did you decide to make a Life & Legacy gift to JFS? Serving others is one of the most important values in our family. My husband, Richard and I have always been involved in organizations and causes that are meaningful to us. We also model it to our kids, hopefully passing down that drive to help others however they can, be it with their time and expertise or financially. Making a gift to Life & Legacy is a way that we can continue to be of

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help even after we are gone. Because of Life & Legacy, I know seniors and their caregivers will get the care they need from JFS for many years to come! For more informaton about JFS, visit www. jfsrichmond.org, contact Morgan Goad at mgoad@jfsrichmond.org or call (804) 2825644 ext. 231.

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The Adolf-Adams JCC Forum Celebrates Leonard Bernstein

At a prior-year Breakfast at the J are several who made it happen - Kenny Bendheim, Leslie McGuigan, Mike Morris and Rick Nelson. Staﬀ and volunteers will once again gather Dec. 25 to cook and serve a delicious breakfast for the community. JCC Photos

Socialize and celebrate at Breakfast at the J J

oin us on Wednesday, Dec. 25 from 9-11 a.m. for “Breakfast at the J” and enjoy delicious eggs, light and fluffy pancakes, bagels and fruit and socializing with friends and family!

This event is free, but participants are requested to kindly RSVP their attendance plans to (804) 285-6500.

amie Bernstein, the oldest daughter of revered composer and conductor Leonard Bernstein, along with Grammy-nominated singer and Broadway actress, Alexandra Silber, will be the featured guests of The AdolfAdams JCC Forum: A Tribute to Leonard Bernstein Through Story and Song presented by McGuireWoods LLC and McGuireWoods Consulting PC on Saturday, Jan. 11. The forum is set for 7:30 p.m. at the Weinstein JCC. Jamie will invite community members into her family’s private world and share her deeply intimate story about her legendary father. Tales will include a fantastic set of characters that populated the Bernstein’s lives including the Kennedys, John Lennon, Stephen Sondheim, Jerome Robbins and Betty (Lauren) Bacall. Meanwhile, Alexandra will perform a selection of Bernstein’s music to complement the stories and round out an extraordinary evening consisting of both story and song as a tribute to 100 years of Leonard Bernstein. Arts + Ideas sponsors and subscribers at the Promoter level and above are invited to attend the VIP Meet and Greet reception sponsored by Virginia Linen Service. All guests are invited to attend a dessert reception and book signing, sponsored by Susie

Jamie Bernstein, oldest daughter of revered composer and conductor Leonard Bernstein, will be the featured guest at this year’s AdolfAdams JCC Forum. Contributed Photo and Ronnie Adolf, immediately following the program. Jamie Bernstein is a writer, broadcaster and filmmaker. Her memoir, “Famous Father Girl,” was published in 2019. Jamie travels the world as a concert narrator. Her documentary “Crescendo: The Power of Music” is available on NetFlix. Alexandra Silber has starred on Broadway, including a run as Tzeitel in the Tonynominated revival of “Fiddler on the Roof.”

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Menorah Lighting: Community members along with Weinstein JCC staﬀ and members come together for the annual Menorah lighting on the Neil November Plaza at a previous event.

Community Menorah Lighting

he Weinstein JCC is excited to once again host its Community Chanukah Menorah Lighting. Join friends and family in the Neil November Plaza on Monday, Dec. 23 at 5:30 p.m. as all recite the blessings, sing songs, and celebrate the Festival of Lights together. www.JewishRichmond.org

Israeli Film Festival line-up announced for Jan. 23-30 F

or 10 years, the Weinstein JCC’s Israeli Film Festival, sponsored by Weinstein Properties, has played a vital role in spotlighting and supporting Israel’s thriving film industry. The annual event seeks to provide an understanding and exploration of Israel’s social and cultural diversity and provide opportunities to engage our community through meaningful and educational dialogue. This year’s Israeli Film Festival will take place Jan. 23-30, and will A documentary on renowned wildlife show a total of six films at various photographer and explorer, Amos Nachoum, will locations in the local Richmond be screened at the Science Museum of Virginia in area, including the Science Museum this year’s Festival lineup. Contributed Photo of Richmond, Virginia Museum of History and Culture and Byrd Theatre in addition to the Weinstein JCC. The Israeli Film Festival will open on Thursday, Jan. 23 and, in celebration of Israeli culture, film-goers are invited to a special pre-event Israeli-Kosher dinner sponsored by Chris and Marc Greenberg and Blackwood Development from 6-7 p.m. The meal will feature Israeli cuisine favorites. Dinner tickets must be purchased in advance at weinsteinjcc.org/events at a cost of $15 per person. The dinner is included in the subscription for Promoter and Above sponsors and subscribers. Highlights of this year’s festival include the screening of the 2019 Ophir Award Winner for Best Picture and Israel’s Official Selection to be considered for the Oscar for Best Foreign Language Film, “Incitement.” A psychological thriller, “Incitement” chronicles the year leading to the assassination of Israel’s prime minister Yitzhak Rabin in 1995. On the backdrop of Rabin’s efforts to end once and for all the Israeli-Palestinian conflict, the film is told through the journey of the assassin. It examines all the forces that acted on him, from his personal quest to become a hero in the eyes of his peers, and the rejection he faces from his love interest to the intense incitement of politicians and religious leaders. “Incitement” will be shown at the Byrd Theatre on Sunday, Jan. 23 at 1:30 p.m. Another highlight for this year’s festival is the addition of a new theatre partnership with the Science Museum of Virginia. The film, “A Picture of His Life,” will be shown on Wednesday, Jan. 28 at 7 p.m. followed by a talkback by a museum staff member. The film is a documentary about Amos Nachoum, one of the greatest underwater photographers of all time. Nachoum swam with crocodiles and killer whales, anacondas and great white sharks, but one major predator has always eluded him, the Polar bear. He tried before and barely escaped, but now, after four decades in the wilderness, Nachoum is determined to give it one last shot. The complete lineup of films are as follows: “The Unorthodox”- Thursday, January 23 at 7:30 p.m. at the Weinstein JCC “Love In Suspenders”- Saturday, January 25 at 7:30 p.m. at the Weinstein JCC “Incitement”- Sunday, January 26 at 1:30 p.m. at the Byrd Theatre “Redemption”- Tuesday, January 28 at 7 p.m. at the Weinstein JCC “Picture of His Life”- Wednesday, January 29 at 7 p.m. at the Science Museum of Virginia “Golda” - Thursday, January 30 at 7:00 p.m. at the Virginia Museum of History and Culture For complete film descriptions and details or to purchase tickets, visit weinsteinjcc.org. Tickets to individual films are $12 each ($10 JCC Members) and included for Arts + Ideas subscribers and sponsors. Get an “All Films Pass” which includes 1 ticket to all six films for $65 ($55 JCC Members). www.JewishRichmond.org

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Alon Shaya Featuring food and stories inspired by his cookbook/memoir, “Shaya: An Odyssey of Food, My Journey Back to Israel”

February 27, 2020 doors open at 6pm

Family Club: Families joined Judaic Specialist, Dawn Kowal and Preschool teacher, Rachel Peters, in a special Shabbat in the Garden as part of the new Family Club initiative.

Emceed by Melissa Chase of 103.7

This amazing evening of immersive and interactive dining happens just once a year!

IFF images: A documentary on renowned wildlife photographer and explorer, Amos Nachoum, will be screened at the Science Museum of Virginia in this year’s Festival lineup.

This signature fundraising event sold out last year!

Get your tickets today at weinsteinjcc.org .

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Families joined Judaic Specialist, Dawn Kowal and Preschool teacher, Rachel Peters, in a special Shabbat in the Garden as part of the new Family Club initiative.

Weinstein JCC Preschool Introduces “Family F

amily Club is a new initiative coordinated and facilitated by Weinstein JCC Preschool Teacher Rachel Peters, with the goal of enhancing family engagement within the Weinstein JCC Preschool and larger community. Through pop-up events that foster the Jewish values of Community, Tzedakah, and Acts of Love and Kindness, families will have a designated time and place to build deeper connections and a sense of belonging. Rachel explains, “I believe through rich family engagement opportunities we are able to nourish, support and care for each other. I look forward to building a foundation that fosters future generations to grow up with a deep appreciation of stewardship, kehilah (community), as well as an awareness of their personal identity within a global community.” Rachel was inspired by a recent trip to the Ukraine as part of The Susan and Mark Sisisky JDC Global Enrichment Fund. With the strong support of JDC, Rachel witnessed

communities in Ukraine that are actively and intentionally investing in all the people of their towns and cities. She is excited to cultivate full-circle opportunities for young people and their families that encourage a purpose and a place at the Weinstein JCC. Family Club kicked off with a model Kabbalat Shabbat in the Weinstein JCC’s Edible Schoolyard garden on Friday September 20 with over 100 participants of all ages. Rachel Peters and Preschool Judaic specialist Dawn Kowal led the families in prayers, lighting the candles, and singing Shabbat songs. Preschool families of all faiths participated in this sweet and lively Shabbat celebration. The feedback was immediate and overwhelmingly positive: “Thank you for making this so easy, we are an interfaith family, and this was a great way for my family to participate and share in the ritual of Shabbat.” “It was great to have this early so my family could participate before we go home and get ready for Shabbat dinner.”

The second Family Club event was a successful Sukkot Kabbalat Shabbat in the Garden facilitated by Rachel and Dawn on Friday, October 18. Once again families enjoyed Shabbat together as well as celebrating Sukkot with blessings, food and songs! The third Family Club event was on Saturday, November 16 at 6:30 p.m. for a Havdallah celebration at Chimborazo Park in Church Hill that included enjoying the InLight Richmond exhibition. It kicked off with a Community Lantern Parade, which Preschool families participated in after celebrating Havdallah together. The children and family members had flashlights, glowsticks, and lanterns which was a perfect way to bring in the light of Havdallah! The Weinstein JCC Preschool and Rachel have been pleased with the success of Family Club and looks forward to planning future opportunities to bring families together!

JCC Forum Continued from page 13 In addition, she has published two books: her debut novel, “After Anatevka” that chronicles what happens to the characters of Hodel and Perchik as well as her memoir, “White Hot Grief Parade” about losing her father to cancer when she was 18. She received a Grammy nomination for playing Maria in the recording of West Side Story with the San Francisco Symphony and has performed with symphony orchestras across the globe. Tickets are $45 ($40 JCC Members) if purchased by Dec. 31 and prices will increase to

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$50 for all after this date. Tickets to The Adolf-Adams JCC Forum are included in the Arts + Ideas subscription series. Visit weinsteinjcc.org for more details.

The Weinstein JCC is supported, in part, by a generous contribution and programming grant from the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond.

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Monday, December 9 • 11:15 a.m.

Special Food for Thought Chanukah Event • Free! Join us for a special Chanukah celebration that will include holiday information, lighting of the Menorah, songs by the Grand Tones and our preschool children, and a full holiday meal with latkes!

Richard Waller

“The Museums Of University Of Richmond: One Of Richmond’s Best Kept Secrets” Before joining the University of Richmond in 1990, Waller worked at the Brooklyn Museum of Art for 19 years and taught at New York’s Parsons School of Design. He has been a curator, judge and organizer of many historical and contemporary art exhibitions and has written extensively on visual art, but is thrilled to call Richmond his new home. Richard Waller is executive director of University museums, including the Joel and Lila Harnett Museum of Art and Print Study Center and the Lora Robins Gallery of Design from Nature.

EnRich trip after the program • 1:30 p.m. • Open to the community Tour of the Lora Robins Gallery of Design from Nature

Transportation from the JCC is provided. This trip is free and limited to the first 48 people who sign up.

Reservations a MUST!

• RSVP to Shari Menlowe-Barck at 545.8611 or sbarck@weinsteinjcc.org

EnRich for Life is generously supported by: Shelly Bendheim Janus The Ernst and Anne Fischer Older Adult Fund Of Richmond Jewish Foundation Shari Menlowe-Barck & Michael Barck

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Lunch and programs take place at the Weinstein JCC unless noted otherwise

Questions? Visit us online or give us a call! weinsteinjcc.org jfsrichmond.org 285.6500

282.5644, ext. 265

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Synagogue Happenings

OneJob will perform during the Or Ami New Year’s Eve party Dec. 31 at the Synagogue. Contributed Photo

Or Ami happenings in December By Lenette Howard ur timing is perfect this year for Or Ami’s New Year’s Eve Party. Just as Chanukah ends, you can complete your holiday package with even more fun! On Tuesday, Dec. 31, from 7 to 10 p.m., enjoy live music by OneJob playing Top 40 songs (https://www. thejoband.com/) at the unbelievable cost of $18 in advance or $25 at the door. Food, beer, wine, and non-alcoholic beverages will be available. If that’s not enough, you can bid on the following in the silent auction: A week at a home in the Hampton’s, gift cards from Buckhead’s, Brio, Burger Bach, Fleming’s, and many other restaurants. Cooper’s Hawk Wines, jewelry, china, oil changes, legal services, babysitting, theater tickets, museum memberships, ballet tickets, artwork, wearable art, and much, much more. Tickets are available online, or for more information, contact Congregation Or Ami’s office at (804) 272-0017. Children are always front and center at Or Ami. For the babies, a Pizza playgroup is scheduled for Sunday Dec. 17 at 4 p.m. at Bella Italia, which is on Ironbridge Road. Kindly RSVP by the 7th – playdate@Or-Ami.com. Preschoolers have a Torah Tots scheduled on Saturday, Dec. 8, with a Chanukah program from 10:30 a.m. until noon. On Dec. 15, from 11 a.m. to 12:30 p.m., Sarah’s Tent will be about cooking Chanukah foods with our younger children. Our school-age kids always look forward to the Religious School Chanukah party to be held this year on Dec. 15 from 10 a.m. until noon. We will celebrate with Latkes, Sufganiyot (jelly doughnuts) and

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fun games and crafts. You do not have to be an Or Ami member to be welcome at any of these activities. Shabbat Services On Dec. 27, all are encouraged to attend an especially meaningful Shabbat Service at 7:30 p.m. Bring your favorite Menorah (and candles) to light our Chanukiyot in the big window of Or Ami’s sanctuary. This lovely way to celebrate the Festival of Lights is enjoyed by all who have attended in the past. On Dec. 6 from 7:30 p.m. - 8:45 p.m., the second in a series of events on Ending Racism will highlight Friday night’s service. Our “Jews of All Hues” panel will help others learn about the experience of being both Jewish and a person of color, sure to be an interesting and informative topic. On Dec. 13, we will have our Longtime Member Shabbat Service, and on Dec. 20, before services, Lisa Halberstadt will lead us in Jewish Meditation. If you or someone you know is thinking about converting to Judaism, or interested in learning more about Jewish religion and culture on an adult level, you will not want to miss Rabbi Ahuva Zaches’ “Introduction to Judaism” course. The course, which begins Jan. 7, offers an incredible opportunity to explore Jewish life on a deeper level. Over 16 weeks, you will learn about diverse voices in Jewish thought, Jewish life cycle events, holidays, and major Jewish values. The class is open to everyone, and you do not have to be Jewish or a member of Or Ami to register. The class meets every other Tuesday, from 7-9 p.m. Tuition is $50 ($36 for Or Ami members) and a partner, family member, or a friend are welcome at no additional cost.

To learn more, go to https://or-ami.com/intro-to-judaism/ or contact Rabbi Ahuva to register at (804) 272-0017. Congregation Or Ami is located at 9400 Huguenot Road, Richmond, Virginia 23235. Join us as we explore Jewish wisdom, customs, and celebra-tions. Friday Shabbat Services begin at 7:30 p.m. with a potluck Oneg to share afterward. A potluck brunch and Torah Study will be held on these Saturdays – the 7th, 21st, 28th from 10:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m., with a diverse group of lively learners. All are welcome, and membership is not a prerequisite. For more information on any of our programs, or to verify any activities, please call our office. Want to know more about Or Ami? Contact us at Belong@Or-Ami.com or check us out at www.Or-Ami.com, follow us on Facebook at facebook.com/OrAmiRichmond, or catch us on Twitter@oramirichmond. We welcome your interest and your inquiries. For more information on any of our programs or any other activities, please call our office at (804) 272-0017

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Or Atid’s Helen and Sam Kornblau Religoius School 2nd Annual Latke Cook-Oﬀ By Submitted by Alison Litvin ecember brings the Festival of Lights, and the Helen and Sam Kornblau Religious School of Congregation Or Atid is ready for a fantastic Hanukkah celebration this year! Families are looking forward to continuing a new tradition, the Latke Cook-Off, during school on Tuesday, December 17. In the weeks leading up to the cook-off, students will explore flavors of the world by comparing different potato pancake recipes; including the Indian Aloo Tikki, the Hawaiian Uala pancake, the Korean Gamjajeon, the Brazilian batata suiça, and more! Students will study the various flavor profiles, breaking down the recipe by identifying the role each ingredient plays. Students will then team up to create their own unique latke recipes, working together to carefully choose their base ingredient, mix-ins, spices, and toppings. With brand-new, never-beforemade recipes, students and their families will prepare, fry, and plate their unique latkes. Highlights from last year’s cookoff include Plantain Latkes with an Avocado Crema, Italian-themed Eggplant Parmesan Latkes, topped with fried eggs for a truly eggcellent dish, Cinnamon Apple Latkes, and

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more! Check out the student-made recipes from last year, listed at the end of this article. Give them a try at home- you won’t be disappointed! This tasty tradition is a fun time for all, and as parent volunteers fry the latkes, students will share the Hanukkah spirit with games and music. There will be dreidels to spin, songs to sing, and of course, many latkes to eat! Students and families will gather to light the Hanukkah candles, setting all the menorahs side-by-side as the candles glow throughout the night. The Latke Cook-Off brings everyone together for a uniquely delicious evening, and everyone goes home with a belly full of latkes and new recipes for the cookbook. With everyone working together the night is a delicious success, bringing families closer together as we celebrate Hanukkah with our own Or Atid twist. The Kornblau Religious School is always open to interested families who are looking to start, continue, or explore their own Jewish Journey. In class, students discover new ways to interact with Jewish holidays and traditions, Israeli culture, Hebrew and Tefillah, and the weekly parsha. For more information about the school, and to schedule a tour, please contact Education Coordinator, Alison Litvin, at relschool@oratid.org, or call Congregation Or Atid at (804) 740 4747.

Congregation Or Atid Happenings D

ecember is Busy at Or Atid – from the Klezmer Band on Dec. 13th to Volunteering on Christmas Day Life & Legacy Live at Or Atid Congregation Or Atid will pay tribute to its Life & Legacy donors with a special Shabbat service on Friday night, Dec. 13th. The Klez’m’or’a’mim, Richmond’s longest established Klezmer band, will perform Craig Taubman’s Friday Night Live repertoire. Originally performed by Taubman and his ensemble at Sinai Temple in Los Angeles and then released as an album in 1999, Friday Night Live sets the prayers and psalms of Kabbalat Shabbat and Ma’ariv to contemporary melodies and arrangements and explores new ways of engaging spirituality with community. Guests and friends are welcome to attend. Services begin at 7:30 p.m. Or Atid’s Social Action Committee Helps Those in Need The Social Action Committee has coordinated efforts to assist Feedmore for many years. As in the past, we once again conducted the “Corners of our Field” campaign during the High Holidays at Or Atid. We are proud that our congregants donated 1,040 pounds of food to the Central Food Bank’s FeedMore Program. On December 17th, our volunteers

will again participate in the BackPack program at Feedmore, filling 1,000 bags. Each bag provides 3 weekend meals for one hungry child in the Greater Metro Richmond community. On Christmas morning we will join the volunteers at the non-profit organization, Our Shepherds Way Relief Center, to serve breakfast and distribute clothes, emergency food and toiletries to people who live without shelter year round in Richmond. This is one of the few organizations that serves breakfast and they typically serve about 110-220 people a day. We look forward to helping those who are impoverished, as we support the value of Tikkun Olam. Book Club on December 11th Book club members of Or Atid look forward to another engaging meeting on Dec. 11th when they discuss “The Lost Vintage” by Ann Mah. This fascinating novel is part mystery and part love story, depicting the power of the human spirit and the pull of the human heart. The compelling story ranges from the vineyards of modern day Burgundy to the terrors of Nazi-occupied France. Undoubtedly the book club will have another lively discussion, enjoy delicious food, and have fun socializing with one another.

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Fall celebrations at Beth Sholom

Board members at Beth Sholom’s 2019 Annual Meeting are: (Back Row/From left) Leonard Goldberg, PhD; Jonathan Perel; Beth Siegel-Stein; Dan Heller; Rufus Phillips, Charles Perschetz; Susan Davis; Rick Gary; Dan (From left) Jonathan Joseph, Board chairperson, Beth Sholom Senior Siegel; Morris “Mo” Funk; (Front Row) Ben Humphreys; Janet Gale; Jonathan Joseph; Elise Scherr, Dr. Catherine Living; Ellen Renee Adams, president, Jewish Community Federation of Richmond; and Morris “Mo” Funk, president and CEO, Beth Sholom Senior M. Kelso; (not pictured, Stanley Ullman, Jim Weinberg). Beth Sholom Photos Living.

eth Sholom Senior Living celebrated its 73rd Annual Meeting on Sunday, Oct. 20. Chairperson Jonathan Joseph welcomed board members, employees, community leaders and friends. After an opening

prayer by Rabbi Randi Nagel and “Hatikvah” along with the National Anthem sung by our own Jody Smith, Beth Sholom Life Enrichment, Federation President Ellen Renee Adams installed our new Board

Member Dr. Catherine M. Kelso. Morris “Mo” Funk, CEO closed the meeting with the year in review i

Alzheimer’s Event

Dr. Catherine M. Kelso, new Board member, Beth Sholom Senior Living.

The Beth Sholom Team at Wall to End Alzheimer’s on November 2.

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Beth Sholom Happenings

Beth Sholom wishes you a Happy Hanukkah.

Robert Hand leading the “Movement Session” at the Parkinson’s Workshop

Parkinson’s Workshop features medial experts, discussions T he multipurpose room at Beth Sholom Senior Living came alive again on Sunday, Oct. 22 with the Parkinson’s Wellness Workshop: Research and Technology with Parkinson’s. Caregivers. Family members and those living with Parkinson’s disease filled the Sarah Bell November Auditorium to listen to guest speakers Ingrid Pretzer-Aboff, RN, PhD on Optimizing Vibration Therapy to Improve Gait and Balance in Parkinson’s Disease. Followed by Dr. Mark Baron who presented Eye Tracking as a Biomarker for Manifest and Prodromal Parkinson’s Disease.

The program ended with round table discussions and a movement session with Robert Hand, PT, DPT, NCS, MSCS. The Beth Sholom’s Outpatient and Inpatient Departments specialize in treating people affected by Parkinson ’s disease. This workshop was free and sponsored by Beth Sholom Lifecare Community’s Push for Parkinson’s Program which is supported by a programming grant from the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond. If you or someone you know would benefit from this service, please call for more information at (804) 421-5250.

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‘I’m Still Here’ event

Board members and friends at the “I’m Still Here” event on November 3rd (l to r) Jonathan Joseph, Rufus Phillips, Morris Funk, Beth Siegel-Stein, Dr. John Zeisel, Judith Levy, Janet Gale.

Round table presenters Hunter Sellers and Angela Joseph with Generations Home Health. Dr. John Zeisel presenting at Beth Sholom.

Round table leaders at the Beth Sholom Parkinson’s Workshop: (back row l to r) Alexander Stamenkovic, PT; Mark Baron, MD; Robert Hand, DPT; Leisel Hymes, DPT, Fred Woodlief, Abu Qutubuddin, MD : (front row l to r) Katie Easley, CCCSLP, Hunter Sellers, CCC-SLP, Tod Steffenilla, PT www.JewishRichmond.org

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Synagogue Happenings

Beth-El welcomes new Youth Programs Coordinator Simona Spiegel

Simona Spiegel Contributed Photo

ello Everyone! My name is Simona Spiegel, and I recently became the new Youth Coordinator at Temple Beth-El. I have been working with Beth-El as the Teva (Nature) Instructor since January of 2019 and will continue in this position in addition to being the Youth Coordinator. Youth Programs are a cornerstone of Jewish Education. I will be involved in both formal education with KOACH, our 8th and 9th grade class and informal education with our Youth Groups, Ruach, Kadima and Beth-El Teens.. This month we have two fun programs ready. As the new coordinator, I am excited to see our students engage with cherished traditions such as Tu B’shvat and Shabbat, but to also guide them towards a meaningful spiritual Judaism that is practiced in their everyday life. Looking ahead, we will be gathering to celebrate Shabbat and holidays with our friends in fun new ways, but also with mindfulness. Tu B’shvat will take on new wings as we go beyond planting trees and learn how to practice Tikkun Olam in our community gardens. I’ve loved working with our families and look forward to serving you all in this new capacity. A little about me. My hometown is Abingdon, and I have lived in Richmond for almost two years. I grew up in a very small Jewish community so I am excited and blessed to be working in Richmond’s thriving Jewish Community. Youth Programs were not accessible to me growing up, so it is rewarding to provide

these valuable opportunities for our youth here in Richmond. I graduated from Mary Washington in 2018 with two degrees in Anthropology & English. I served as a full-time Literacy Tutor for Richmond’s underprivileged children during the 2018-2019 school year. In addition to working at Beth-El, I am the Communications & Events Coordinator for the One Tree Many Branches Interfaith Friendship Club. Religious School News December Religious School Calendar: Sundays: Dec. 8 & 15 Wednesdays: Dec. 4 & 11 Pre-K, KOACh and Confirmation meet: Dec. 8 & Dec.15 KOACH - grades 8&9 meets from 10 a.m. -– noon Confirmation class meets from 10:30 a.m. - noon. Shabbat Services Temple Beth-El Tot Shabbat Services Saturday, Dec. 7. For families with children from infants to age 5. Open to the entire community Families can enjoy a Shabbat service geared for young children and filled with music, stories, movement and more. A musical, meaningful service is designed for wiggles. Come meet at 11:15 a.m. in the Kiddush Room at 3330 Grove Ave. Richmond. Stay for Kiddush lunch after services. Hanukkah Hanukkah Oh, Hanukkah! Come light your Menorah! Sunday, Dec. 15. The event is 10 a.m. - noon at the Religious School, N. Parham Road. Games, Cookie Walk, Hanukkah Crafts, Music, Face-painting, Menorah Museum and much, much more. Gift Shop will be open for pre-Hanukkah shopping and also enjoy the Men’s Club Latkes. Fun for the Entire Family! Let’s usher in the holiday together! Open to the Community.

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(ABOVE AND BELOW) Teens experience a Havdalah that is full of laughter and light. Beth-El Photos

Youth Program Our Youth Groups offer social programs outside Religious School hours. Participates have fun while deepening their engagement with each other and to their Judaism. Some events only for the kids and teens, some are for the entire family! Some events will be free, while others will have a small fee or donation to support the activity/project. The teen group is led by our teen board under the guidance of our Youth Programs Coordinator Simona Spiegel. Sunday, Dec. 8: RUACH Event: Rugrats Hannukah, 12:15- 2 p.m. Join your favorite Rugrats characters and celebrate the Festival of Lights! Decorate donuts, make Chanukah crafts , play games and enjoy the Rugrats Hanukah special.

Cost: $5 and bring a nut-free dairy/ parve bag lunch Location: Multi-purpose room, Religious School building RSVP: Simona at youthcoordinator. bethel@gmail.com Saturday, Dec. 14: KADIMA event: Havdallah and Bowling Teens in grades 6-8 get together for Havdallah and Bowling Date: Dec. 14 Time: 5:30 – 9 p.m. Cost: $15, Location: TBD RSVP: Simona at youthcoordinator.bethel@ gmail.com For more information about all programs and activities and our vibrant Religious School education program, email r.brand@bethelrichmond.org. or call (804) 3553564 ext. 111. www.JewishRichmond.org

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NOVEMBER THEATRE/ARENSTEIN STAGE (From left) Chava G.; Tova L.; Ilana Lessin, Elizabeth Fitzgerald, Sarah Francis; Raaya F. and Tzofia F. in the Sukkah. Photo credit: Roberta Sachs

MUSIC BY RICHARD RODGERS LYRICS BY OSCAR HAMMERSTEIN II BOOK BY DOUGLAS CARTER BEANE

Women and children sing and dance at first Women’s Singing in the Sukkah Event O n Thursday, Oct. 17, Chol HaMoed Succos, it may have been a cold, dark night, but there was a wonderful turnout of women, teens, and children for the first KBI Singing in the Sukkah event. In addition to in-person attendance, the event was live streamed on Facebook Live and attended by women from as far away as Lynchburg, Baltimore and Wilmington, Del. The event was the brainchild of Yehudis Gruber and was brought to life through the creativity and efforts of Claudia Sachs and Gruber. The event’s invitation encouraged

women to “Bring your voices and, if you like, your instruments. Most of all, bring yourselves. This will not be a performance but an opportunity to connect to each other and HaShem through song.” It was a joyous event for all who attended, both in person and remotely. More all-female events including song sessions are in the works; if you would like to be notified of upcoming events, contact Yehudis Gruber directly. Her contact information may be obtained from the KBI Synagogue office.

The group of women and children pose for a photo; all participants attended the Singing in the Sukkah Event. Photo credit: Roberta Sachs

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Women learn together at KBI Ladies Brunch and Learn O

n Sunday, Nov. 3, women gathered to attend a learning program entitled Ladies Brunch and Learn. The event was hosted at a local home. Rabbi Meir Aronowitz led a discussion on the nature of time and the central message of life. One attendee, Leah Skaist remarked, “After we were asked to ponder the central meaning of life, a lively discussion ensued, as we shared what would be the main message we personally would want to

communicate with the world.” She continued, “The session was very thought provoking; it allowed each person to analyze her place in the world--and her priorities.”

(From left) Noa Klestzick, Michele Goldenberg-Reinke, and Ilana Gimpelevich listen to Rabbi Meir Aronowitz Photo credit: Judy LevineMaizels

Chabad Happenings

KBI: Save the Dates Upcoming Events at KBI: Please save these dates in your calendar and contact the Synagogue office if you want to be informed of event updates. ••••••••• Wednesday, Dec. 25, 5-7 p.m. On Dec. 25, from 5-7 p.m., all are invited to attend a family event called Beth’s Diner. During the event, various food items will be available for sale, including burgers, hot dogs, bbq beef sandwiches, and sides. All food items will be available for purchase and will be sold separately. ••••••••• Sunday, Dec. 29, Time To Be Determined: KBI will be holding a youth and family program in honor of Chanukah on Sunday, Dec. 29, early afternoon (exact time TBD). Activities will include a magician and balloon twisting. This event will be open to the public and details will be forthcoming.

Chabad of Virginia Open House

Join us on December 9th at 5:30 p.m. for our first Chabad Open House! We will be open to the entire community to discover the many facets of Chabad of Virginia – learning, community involvement, Aleph Bet Preschool and children’s’ activities, the Sterling Mikvah, Friendship Circle, of course a synagogue, and so much more. Come find your opportunity to connect!

Chanukah on Ice

It’s time for the 18th Annual Chanukah on Ice celebration! This Richmond community tradition continues this year at Skate Nation on December 22nd from 4 to 6 PM. Join the community for skating, laser tag, giant menorah lighting and Chanukah refreshments. Please go to Chabadofva.org for more details. Need accommodations? Contact Sarah Kranz at sarah@friendnshipcircleva.org or 740-2000.

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Beth Ahabah’s campus renovation and expansion receives ‘Golden Hammer Award’ C

ongregation Beth Ahabah is the recipient of the 2019 Golden Hammer Award for Best Placemaking, awarded Oct. 24 by Historic Richmond and Storefront for Community Design. Beth Ahabah received the honor for its campus renovation and expansion project, completed in November 2018. The Golden Hammer Awards were started in 2000 with a goal of honoring excellence in neighborhood revitalization projects throughout Greater Richmond. Over 35 projects were submitted in 2019 and 10 winners were announced, in the categories of Best Adaptive Reuse, Best New Construction, Best Placemaking, Best Residential, and Best Restoration. “It was a great honor to be recognized,” said Larry Salzman, president of the congregation when a $5 million renovation and expansion project began in October 2017. “Our congregation has thrived because we have embraced change throughout our long history. Our new campus provides an important link between our past and our future, and enables us to do more with the community and for the community.” Salzman worked to nominate Beth Ahabah for the award. “The Sanctuary at Congregation Beth Ahabah was built in 1904 and is a truly magnificent structure,” he said. “Some of its systems and some campus facilities were badly out of date. We considered relocating to the suburbs but decided that our Sanctuary was too important to leave behind. The challenge was, how do you tie a new structure to a

magnificent 115-year-old historic temple? How do you make the entire campus secure, accessible to all, with modern multi-purpose indoor and outdoor spaces and technology capabilities, and efficient HVAC and other systems? How do you connect three buildings that were built at different times (Sanctuary 1904; Joel House c. 1912; Education Building 1957) that have different floor elevations?” Architect Shinberg Levinas Architectural Design Inc., and contractor Kjellstrom & Lee Construction made Beth Ahabah’s vision a reality. Historic Richmond, in presenting the award, said: “The new modern structure successfully ties together three buildings with different floor elevations and beautifully complements the historic streetscape with its massing, scale and materials. While a cornice line and water table at the base visually connect to architectural elements of neighboring structures, the new building’s design is a bold, modern statement.” Salzman concluded, “We can be proud that in our time we addressed important needs and positioned Congregation Beth Ahabah to meet the needs of future generations.”

Maria Gorodetskaya of Shinberg Levinas Architectural Design (left); Larry Salzman, immediate past president of Congregation Beth Ahabah; and Cantor Sarah Beck-Berman; accept the Golden Hammer Award. (Photo by Magali deVulpillieres

A view of Beth Ahabah last winter. Contributed Photo

BAMA collections include Sabbath and Chanukah Menorahs By William B. Obrochta

Executive Director Beth Ahabah Museum and Archives

he Beth Ahabah Museum and Archives (BAMA) wishes you a very happy Chanukah. The festival of Chanukah is worthy of our enthusiastic celebration. The holiday’s eight days of dedication of the altar commemorates the Jewish freedom fighters’ victory over the Syrian King Anticochus over two thousand years ago. The universal theme of Chanukah is this fight for religious freedom. We mark the holiday with special services, prayers, special foods, games, and songs. We exchange gifts, but also are encouraged to also give to charity in the true spirit of the holiday. The festival of Chanukah recounts the story of freedom and includes a host of heroic figures. We celebrate Chanukah in our homes with our families and friends, recalling its

message about the age-old struggle of the Jewish people to remain Jewish in a largely non-Jewish world. The museum’s collections include many Sabbath and Chanukah Menorahs. Most are simple and unadorned; others are more ornate and unusual. Travel Menorahs, often called pocket Menorahs, were made because it was not always possible for Jews to remain at home during the holidays. The silver Menorah shown in the photo at the right was crafted in Poland during the last decade of the 19th century. It was made in the form of a book and the Hebrew letters on its spine spell “Chanukah.” It was donated to the museum by Saul and Jackie Viener in 1986. The large oil-burning brass Menorah also came from 19th century Poland. It depicts the façade of a building that may be a synagogue, as suggested by the arched windows.

Two birds perch atop the balustraded roof while two others appear on the sides and serve to affix the front grate, which can be removed for cleaning. The side panels depict two rampant lions holding twin servant lights, which would have been used during the Sabbath. The final Menorah was made in 21st century Virginia by Linda Gissen. Gissen used an acetylene torch to melt bronze, which she applied to her sculpture one drop at a time. Of her art, one critic wrote: “Inspired by her Jewish heritage, Gissen informs her work with a spirit—sometimes of awe and reverence—sometimes a wry playfulness.” The Menorah was donated to the museum by Anne Long. The nightly lighting of the Menorah symbolizes our spiritual resistance to those who would do us harm. Let’s remember, “not by might and not by power, but by My Spirit, says the Lord.” We hope to see you over the holiday.

William B. Obrochta, museum executive director, displays the three Menorahs described in the article. The Beth Ahabah Museum and Archives is Richmond’s museum of Jewish history and culture. We are located at 1109 W. Franklin St. and are open Sunday through Thursday from 10 a.m. - to 3 p.m. Contact us at (804) 353-2668 or bethahabah.org.

Community Happenings

It’s Food Festival Time Again! S

halom, Jewish food lovers! Come enjoy two days of Jewish food, music, and shopping at the 13th annual Richmond Jewish Food Festival. As always, this family-friendly festival is held on the Sunday-Monday of Martin Luther King, Jr., weekend, Jan. 19-20, at the Weinstein JCC. Hours are 11:30 a.m. -7:30 p.m. both days. A variety of traditional Jewish and Israeli foods are available, including a selection of vegetarian, vegan, and no-gluten dishes. All food is strictly kosher, and all ingredients are peanut- and dairy-free. Our extensive and tasty bakery selection will be back, as will a variety of exciting beers and wines. Relax and enjoy live music both days. Richmond favorites My Son, The Doctor and the Klezm’or’ami’m will return, playing their special brands of Klezmer, Jewish, and Mediterranean music. Local Jewish talent, including Alan Pollack on piano, will be performing, and children’s choirs from the Weinstein JCC preschool and the Rudlin Torah Academy will be back to excite the crowds. A large group of new and returning vendors will also be on hand, selling unique local and Israeli products. People can park easily on the north

Felafel, schwarma, hummous and salads. Photos by by Leo Vaynberg. side of Monument Avenue, opposite the Weinstein JCC, then catch the complimentary shuttle to the festival doors. As always, admission, entertainment, and the parking shuttle are absolutely free! We encourage community members to visit the festival website, RichmondJewishFoodFestival.com, often, as it is updated regularly with the latest information. We want you to love Jewish food, entertainment, and culture as much as we do! The 2020 Richmond Jewish Food Festival is generously sponsored by Designer Deliveries, Weinstein Properties, and the Weinstein JCC.

Shakar Laron preparing a Felafel. Some of the baked goods offered.

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Sofie Stahl Award for 2020

Nominations being sought for an outstanding volunteer by Dec. 20 W

ith few exceptions, the highly coveted Sofie Stahl Memorial Award has been given annually since 1960. Presented each year, Gila Chapter of Jewish Women International (JWI) and the Stahl family proudly honor a Jewish woman who has demonstrated a life long commitment to helping her community. Through nominations being sought now from individuals, synagogues and Jewish organizations and chosen by previous recipients, the awardee will receive her special tribute at a brunch on April 19 at the Weinstein JCC. www.JewishRichmond.org Founded in 1897, JWI is the leading Jewish organization working to empower women and girls by ensuring and protecting their physical safety and economic security, promoting and celebrating intergenerational leadership, and inspiring civil participation and community engagement. Inspired by its legacy of progressive women’s leadership and guided by Jewish values, JWI works to ensure that all women and girls thrive in healthy relationships, control their financial futures and realize the full potential of their personal strength. As in past years, proceeds from the Sofie Stahl program support JWI’s National Library Initiative. To nominate someone, all that is required is completion of a form – electronic (preferred) or hard copy – providing the name and short biography of an exceptional Jewish woman who possesses outstanding qualities demonstrated

through her history of volunteerism. Anyone – individual in the Richmond community or as part of a Richmond area Jewish organization or Synagogue – is encouraged to complete and return the nomination form. The deserving individual’s bio should include a short history of her volunteer/community contributions (Jewish and secular) and years of service, outstanding achievements in business or professional associations, and a short description of how the nominee’s leadership participation has made significant contributions to the Jewish community. An electronic template of the nomination form may be requested by emailing Meryl Bernstein at mamameryl@ verizon.net. Completed forms, sent to Meryl Bernstein, will be accepted via email (mamameryl@verizon.net) or USPS (send to: JWI, Gila Chapter, c/o Meryl Bernstein, 2806 Burrard Street, Henrico, VA 23233). For questions, please call (804-3603131) or email Meryl. The deadline to receive these nominations is Dec. 20.

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How Jewish Life at VCU has changed my life Editor’s Note: Jenna Hasher is from Virginia Beach and is a Sophomore at Virginia Commonwealth University. She is studying Public Relations and Dance, and is on the leadership team at Jewish VCU. By Jenna Hasher ollege, a word that for so many seems daunting. It is a challenge to leave home in general let alone without your family. That is why it is so important for students to find their group, their safe place, friends that will always be there for them. A home away from home. I was lucky enough to find that with Jewish Life at VCU. My journey with JVCU begins a little over a year ago when I saw Jewish Life at a tabling event. I approached them and was instantly met with positivity and open arms. I was invited to join them for Shabbat Dinner every Friday night and even the High Holidays. However, soon student life got the best of me and I was unable to attend or carve out the time for the organization, even though I really wanted to. By the time second semester had rolled around I had made a promise to myself that I would start attending more regularly and get more involved with something I felt so passionate about. That was the best decision I have made since attending university. I instantly clicked with a group of students who I am still very close with and we currently walk to Shabbat Dinner every Friday night together. Soon I couldn’t get enough of spending time with JVCU. It felt like a second home. No matter what was going on in my life, I could leave it at the door and just have a fun time with friends. This semester I couldn’t be happier to say I am leading a new program with JVCU. We call ourselves the Matza Ball Society and we make and deliver Matza Ball Soup to students around campus. Knowing that I get to spend a Sunday making soup with my friends and then delivering it to other students is such a rewarding experience to say the least. It is amazing to see what a simple act of kindness can do to brighten someone’s day. Jewish Life at VCU has encouraged me to be the person I always wanted to be. It provides me with just the right balance of school, friends, and volunteering my time in the community. I am so thankful for the experiences JVCU has given me so far and I can’t wait to see what comes next! To learn more about Jewish Life at VCU, or to sponsor Jenna or another student for the spring semester, please contact Rabbi Friedman at rabbi@jewishvcu.org or 804-601-4613. Jewish Life at VCU is a proud recipient of support, allocations and grants from the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond.

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Jenna Hasher (left) holding matza ball soups for delivery with Zack and CJ.

Jenna Hasher (middle) learning Conversation Hebrew with Hannah (right) and Sydney (left)

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Better Together has a Shabbat Experience

A RTA students with (from left) Maria Bonilla, Judy Feldstein, Weene Leyman and Halina Zimm. Photos by Sudan Press.

“Shabbat” experience is always Better Together! This month’s program began with the seniors and students learning and discussing lessons in Pirkei Avos (Ethics of our Fathers). Next up was a Mega Challah bake...rolling, twisting and braiding beautiful challahs together- what a treat! Seniors and students then shared their favorite school subjects as part of a guided interview process. In keeping with the theme of the program, they also discussed favorite stories and memories about their own personal Shabbat and holiday celebrations. These great conversations were enjoyed over steaming bowls of chicken soup. The students then prepared beautiful Shabbat bags for each of their senior friends and the program ended with the students and seniors working together to create magnificent Shabbat flower arrangements. RTA and the Weinstein JCC would like to invite All Seniors to join us for our next Better Together Event Wednesday, December 18 11:00 - 12:30 @ Weinstein JCC For more information or to make a reservation please email BetterTogetherRVA@gmail.com Or contact Sorah Plotnick at 516-642-9067

RTA students pose with Joan Ruby (standing) and (seated from left) Polly Sweeney, Shari Menlowe-Barck, Fran Blum and Shelia Walker.

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Zachor: Remember: Zachor Alex Keisch welcomes community members to the Kristallnacht Remembrance Service. Photos by Rachel Loria

Community members listen to remarks.

“The past is never dead. It is not even past!” William Faulkner ommunity members gathered at the annual Community Kristallnacht Remembrance Service on a warm Sunday afternoon, Nov. 10, at the Emek Sholom Holocaust Memorial Cemetery to honor the memory of the six million Jews who perished in the Holocaust. Alex Keisch, vice president of the Emek Sholom board and committee chairman, began the program by reading aloud the names of the 11 people who were murdered on Oct. 27, 2018, at their Synagogue in Pittsburgh. “One year and two weeks ago yesterday, these innocent victims were slaughtered while praying at their Tree of Life Synagogue. It was the largest slaughter of Jews in American history.” He noted the madness continues with nearly 2,000 Anti-Semitic attacks the past year and this year is probably going to turn out even worse. Zachor. Remember. Remember. Zachor.”

Keisch, “a refugee from that horror where six million were murdered in Europe for their faith,” told community members, “ we are here today to honor those six million loved ones who were lost. May their memories always be a blessing.” He asked the second and third generation of Survivors “to carry things forward. So, the Holocaust will never be forgotten or repeated.” Keisch said the 416 names on the wall in the cemetery of more than names. “Each has a soul. Each has a story by those who were left behind.” Holocaust Survivor Dr. Roger Loria and a member of the Emek Sholom board and the Virginia Holocaust Museum, spoke about his relatives whose names are on the wall. Loria, who was born in Belgium, spoke about family members who perished in the Holocaust. “During the night of August 15-16, 1942, the Antwerp Police arrested 1,000 Jews, including 280

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children. They were deported to death camps two days later. These included my maternal grandfather, my mother’s sister, her husband and their four-year old daughter. They were taken in this raid and deported to Auschwitz. We never saw them again. Their names are (From left) Second Generation Survivor Rachel Loria and Claudia Sachs. Loria presented the Esther J. Windmueller “Never Again Award” to the on the memorial here. Loria said 61.8 percent of all high school student. Contributed Photo the Jews living in Belgium were murdered upon arrival at the convice was Dr. Steven Windmueller, to wipe away the Jewish presence.” centration camps. He said our enemies today deHe listed other family mem- who grew up in Richmond. He is professor emeritus, Hebrew Union scribe us “as too white. They see us bers who died in concentration College, Jewish Institute of Relias part of a culture that needs to be camps and buried in a mass grave gion, Los Angeles, and is a cousin isolated, defamed and removed.” in Poland. of Inge Windmueller Horowitz. Windmueller noted in the last “After the war, my mother and His remarks centered around five years, America reported the I were repatriated in Belgium and “Combating Anti-Semitism highest number of hate crimes difound were the only Survivors of Through Education.” rected at a particular community.” any extended family.” “ ... messages of hate and He said this hatred also is diHe learned, however, many violence have created a uniquely rected at “our neighbors.” years ago that several distant cousdifferent framework of hatred (to“The assault on Jews continues ins did survive through letters he day), Windmueller noted. “If the across the world.” received and shared their stories 1930s was defined by the ideas that Windmueller described the on how they survived. a nation could lead itself to destroy memorial at Emek Sholom as a “These stories can never rethe Jewish people, then in the 21st place the loss of our family fabric and who we were and how we century what we are seeing is the Continued Next Page capacity of small groups of indilived,” The keynote speaker at the ser- viduals of hate societies that seek www.JewishRichmond.org

Survivor Dr. Roger Loria tells the story of family members.

Dr. Steven Windmueller delivers his remarks titled “Combating Anti-Semitism Through Education.” Photos by Rachel Loria.

statement of “who we are and what we need to become. It reminds us of the very essence of what Judaism has been for us and our people. It is framed that every life is sacred. It represents the core of how we see ourselves. Proud and engaged Jews.” He said Jews have partners who have come to the table. Emek Sholom represents a partnership with others who speak out against hate and against those who speak out against Jews. “Law, not violence defines the American creed. Those who are committing hate today do not listen or respond to the voices in the past (of reason). They will be responsive to the voices that say, no here, not now, not in this town. Those folks are all of us. Those who are partners with us and those who will become our future allies in our alliance for an different society.” The winner of the Esther J. Windmueller “Never Again Award” was announced at the gathering by Second Generation Surviror Rachel Loria. She presented the award to Claudia Sachs, a student at Glen Allen High School Sachs,, 16, then read the essay. The full essay is reprinted on Page 3 of the Reflector. The service ended with the community members and friends reciting Kaddish. The event included Color Guard from American Legion Post 144 and the playing of “Taps.” Ben Ipson blows the Shofar at the beginning of the service.

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Leadership2Gether in Richmond By Sara Rosenbaum Director of Community Impact and Planning JCFR CFR and the Richmond community welcomed five members of the Partnership Leadership2Gether Delegation from our Israeli sister city of Hadera-Erion in November. During their time in Richmond the group volunteered at Beth Sholom Parkside and FeedMore. They also explored some of our extensive history, both Jewish and general community. The group spent time visiting Beth Ahabah Museum and Archives and Congregation Beth Ahabah. They had a thoughtful discussion about the differencesâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; in Israeli and American Judaic practice

with Rabbi Scott Nagel. The trip happened to coincide with our Election Day and all the Israeli participants joined their hosts at polling places to see our process in action! After the Richmond visit, the delegation joined a Leadership2Gether Shabbaton in Jacksonville with other members of the Partnerhsipâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s South East Consortium. Thank you to our generous host families: Adler, Dinkin, Krumbein, Staffenberg, Skrome, Weinstein and Rosenbaum. For more about P2G programs, contact Sara Rosenbaum at (804) 545-8629 or srosenbaum@ jewishrichmond.org.

Members of the P2G Delegation Leadership team outside Beth Ahabah Musuem and Archives along with William Obrochta, (gray suit jacket) excutive director; and Amy Roberts, (front/pink sweater). JCFR Photos

The Israeli P2G leaders at the FoodBank.

Posing with Rabbi Scott Nagel are (from left) Yafit Eliahoo, Maya Shoham, Shira Suisa, Moran Lazar Vershilovsky, Limor Teitler Lamy and seated Roy Talmor.

The P2G leaders at a Federation Executive Committee meeting.

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Community forum held to address Anti-Semitism M

ore than 200 people attended a special community forum, “Three Perspectives on Anti-Semitism” held on Nov. 7, at the University of Richmond’s Jepson Alumni Center, Robins Pavilion. The panelists were Humberto I. Cardounel Jr., chief of police, Henrico County; David Archey, special agent in charge of the FBI Richmond Field Office; and Ethan Felson, executive director, Israel Action Network, New York City. The moderator was Jamelle S. Wilson, dean, School of Professional and Continuing Studies, UR. It was sponsored by Jewish Community Federation of Richmond, Weinstein JCC and UR’s Osher Institute. Special guests were Carole and Marcus Weinstein and UR President Dr. Ronald Crutcher and Dr. Betty Neal Crutcher. In welcoming remarks, Wilson gave special recognition to Richard November, longtime community leader. “I’d like to thank Richard November, a great supporter of and leader within each of these organizations and the initiator of this event. She noted, “It was his, ‘You know, I have an idea’ comment that led to the creation of this important conversation.’” During the forum, the panelists provided a general overview of their organizations and their specific interactions with the Jewish community. They also shared details on local, regional and national hate and Anti-Semitic activity, how to respond to this activity in general and how each of the organizations becomes aware and follows incidents and helps to prevent them. Each responded to general questions posed by Wilson and later from community members who wrote questions on note cards. Wilson added, “Our goal for this forum is to be informative and thoughtprovoking.” Among the questions asked of the panelists were: How has the conversation around hate crimes and anti-Semitic activity evolved/changed over the course of your careers? What has been the impact of technology and social media on the conversation? What advice do you have for communities to prevent anti-Semitic activity specifically, and hate crimes generally? What do you say to members of the community or to specific communities that are concerned for their safety? Archery reviewed federal crime statutes regarding hate crimes and how the FBI investigates, identifies and responds to hate crimes. “We have made hate crimes among our highest priorities whether an act of violence or a threat of violence,” Archery noted. www.JewishRichmond.org

The FBI defines hate crimes as a committed criminal offense, which is motivated, in whole or in part, by the offender’s bias(es) against a race, religion, disability, sexual orientation, ethnicity, gender, or gender identity.: He said while hate speech is not necessarily a crime, the bureau does monitor this activity. “The FBI stands ready to act quickly and prevent crimes. We are always seeking good, solid leads.” Archery also reviewed how the FBI coordinates with state and local partners and its counter terrorism activities. In addition, he provided national statistics. “Unfortunately, they are increasing.” Cardounel, who noted he is a Henrico County native, shared how his department works with state and federal law enforcement as well as other city and county law enforcement. “We have a have had a long and close relationship with the Jewish Community Federation of Richmond and local Rabbis as well as with faith-based communities,” he said. He added, “We are always asking, where and how can we get involved with the communities? How can we help. Doing nothing, is not our mantra.” The chief noted that there is no state hate crime statute but the department still monitors hate activity. Felson explained he works for the Jewish Federations of North America that works with Jewish communities locally, nationally and around the world.”AntiSemitism has always been on our minds and never more than today. We work closely with the Richmond Jewish Federation and with other Federations particularly on our Secure Community Network.” He defined Anti-Semitism in a number of ways for the gathering using several Jewish Holidays – Purim Anti-Semitism and Hanukkah Anti-Semitism. Felson said, “Purim Anti-Semitism looks at Jews and says they do not belong on this earth. That is Pittsburgh. No more Jews. Hanukkah Anti-Semitism says you get to live. You just have to give up your religious identity - that whole Jewish thing. Your cultural identity, your national identity. If you strip that away, you can exist.” Anti-Semitism has not changed a lot

From left, David Archey, Humberto I. Cardounel Jr. Ethan Felson. through many years and centuries, he said. “Charlottesville is one example of cultural AntiSemitism. The chant, ‘That Jews will not replace us’ was not about a Jew taking my job but that Jews undermine society for their support of the oppressed, for immigrants and others.” Felson talked about how the Secure Community Network is assisting local Jewish communities including Richmond. He also noted the cost of protecting Jewish communities locally has grown significantly by Synagogues, Day Schools and agencies. SCN is helping Jewish communities on their security needs and by providing training and resources.

He said “a lot of Anti-Semitism is at play today. We have to stand-up to it and confront it whenever we see it. Terrorism is out there and we have to be aware of it.” Felson also reviewed a number of Anti-Semitic campaigns against Israel that seem to trigger more hate crimes around the world. “Hate crimes are increasing and occurring around the world and not just to Jews.” Social media and technology has helped make Anti-Semitism more prominent, the panelists agreed and discussed. “Over many years, people were taught very carefully to hate Jews. That is what led to the Holocaust.” Photos by Kevin Schindler of UR.

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Hadassah Happenings

2020 Elinor Bloom Marshall Humanitarian Award

adassah Richmond is pleased to announce Ann Eisenberg as the recipient of the 2020 Elinor Bloom Marshall Humanitarian Award. Ann will be presented with the 2020 Award in recognition of her selfless generosity of spirit, time, talent and resources and her shared commitment to Hadassah’s missions and the community at large, Among her many responsibilities, Ann has served as president of the Hadassah Richmond Chapter and president of the Hadassah Southern Seaboard Region, founded Hadassah Richmond’s Check it Out program, and is currently serving as

a Certified Leadership Trainer for National Hadassah. Ann and her husband, Elliot, are Founders at the Center for Emergency Medicine at Hadassah and Keepers of the Gate. The Elinor Bloom Marshall Humanitarian Award, established in 2011 by the Richmond Chapter of Hadassah, honors the memory of our loving friend, Elinor Bloom Marshall Z”L. Elinor’s dedicated service to her community and Hadassah, her unfailing warmth and compassion, her love of Judaism and above all, her generous spirit toward life and her fellow mankind are the cornerstones

of this award. This award is given by Hadassah Richmond every other year to an individual, or individuals who embody the authentic spirit of Elinor and this humanitarian award. If you would like to assist in planning this celebration, please contact Hadassah Richmond Fundraising VPs Hedy Lapkin at (804) 687-8626, hedylapkin@gmail.com or Nannette Shor at 804-640-0621, shornannette4@gmail.com. The date of the Elinor Bloom Marshall Humanitarian Award celebration in Ann’s honor will be announced in the near future.

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ORDER YOUR 2020 MAH JONG CARDS Get ahead of the game. Order your 2020 Mahjong cards now. All cards are the same price whether you order them directly or through Hadassah, so why not support our local Hadassah Chapter? Cards are $8 for Standard size and $9 for large size. Use the convenient order form below and send It along with your check made payable to “HADASSAH” to Toby Rosenthal; 4412 Bromley Lane; Richmond, VA 23221

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wegmans.com Book Group: Dec. 8 adassah Richmond Book Club will meet on Dec. 8 at 1 p.m. at the Weinstein JCC to discuss “The Cast” by Amy Blumenfeld. While this is the book that was read for the Community Read, participants are invited to come and discuss the book further or if you were unable to attend the Community Read event.

This novel centers on a group of 9th grade friends who produce a “Saturday Night Live” style video to cheer up a seriously ill friend. They become a supporting cast for life. Filled with humor, drama, forgiveness, and deep friendship, it was inspired by the authors friends and family as she faced childhood cancer. For info on the Book Club Programs contact Deborah Cohen at Deborah.Cohen2468@gmail.com. Shabbat Under the Stars ne-hundred Hadassah women, men and guests joined together recently for our annual Shabbat Under the Stars, hosted by the generous and supportive Hannah and Alan Cohen. A delicious meal was served, catered by Kenny Bendheim. After the service, prepared by Elaine Ragone, the Cohen’s talented granddaughter treated guests to her beautiful voice singing several Jewish and Yiddish songs. While guests enjoyed a special evening, they were also extremely generous donating over $1,800 in Tzedakah for Hadassah hospital and research. n Jan. 12, Hadassah is pleased to partner with Weinstein JCC Adult Programs Department for Mahjong and Game Day. More details to come.

LUNCH BUNCH Join us for Hadassah & Friends Lunch Bunch, Friday, Dec. 6 at 12:30 p.m. at Firebirds Wood Fired Grill at Short Pump Mall. The restaurant, which boasts a polished- casual atmosphere offering upscale dining at a modest price, is located near Dick’s Sporting Goods at the mall. Bring a friend or come to meet new ones! It’s a good time to socialize with other Hadassah members or people interested in learning more about Richmond Hadassah.

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Virginia Holocaust Museum Happenings

The community is invited to attend the Annual Meeting of the Virginia Holocaust Museum Wednesday, December 10 | 5:30 p.m. |Free and open to the public Evening agenda includes: • CEO Report • Installation of Officers and Trustees • Awards • Celebration of 50 years of the Jewish American Hall of Fame Exhibit with a presentation by Rabbi Scott Nagel of Congregation Beth Ahabah.

‘Holocaust by Bullets’ Exhibit on display thru Dec. 30 T

he Holocaust by Bullets was the systematic killing of Jews that started before the creation of concentration camps in the exSoviet Union and continued until WWII’s end. Yahad-In Unum (“together” in Hebrew and Latin) is a Paris-based non-profit organization established in 2004 by Father Patrick Desbois and dedicated to systematically identifying and documenting sites of Jewish and Roma mass executions by Nazi mobile-killing units in Eastern Europe during World War II. “Holocaust by Bullets” presents the results of Yahad-In Unum’s research investigations in the exSoviet Union. It also underscores the “Holocaust by Bullets” as a precursor and model for mass crimes today. The exhibit showcases the painstaking research–succinctly yet approachable–to enable the visitor to uncover, step-by-step, the crime committed against Jews and

Space is limited. Registration required. RSVP to Brett Schrader at bschrader@vaholocaust.org or by calling (804) 257-5400, ext. 243 by December 6.

Roma by the Nazi killing units. It gives viewers a chance to learn about this lesser-known side of the Holocaust, through eyewitness testimonies, photographs, and quotes. This traveling exhibit was produced by the Yahad-In Unum. Background Between 1942-1944, more than two million Jews were massacred when Nazi Germany invaded the Soviet Union. In a period of two-and-half years, the Nazis killed nearly every Jew in the region. The mass murder was part of Hitler’s genocide of the Jewish people. Until recently, this chapter of Holocaust history, was relatively unknown. More than 1,700 mass killing sites and interviewed over 4,000 local, non-Jewish eyewitnesses in Ukraine, Russia, Belarus, Moldova, Lithuania, Romania, Republic of Macedonia and Poland.

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Year-end Tax Planning

Year-end Tax Planning Ideas It’s that time of year again. Year-end has always been an advantageous time to review certain strategies to reduce overall income tax liability. Now that it has been almost two years since the 2017 Tax Cuts and Jobs Act (“2017 tax act”) was enacted, it’s important to determine whether some new techniques could help cut your federal and state tax bills while offering some opportunities to create your charitable legacy. Determine Your Tax Bracket By Robert Nomberg One of the first steps to take is to estimate your president & ceo 2019 tax bracket. The top bracket this year is 37 richmond jewish foundation percent for married couples filing jointly with adjusted gross incomes greater than $612,350. The other rates for joint filers are 35 percent for incomes over $408,200; 32 percent for incomes over $321,450; 24 percent for incomes over $168,400; 22 percent for incomes over $78,950; 12 percent for incomes over $19,400; and 10 percent for incomes of $19,400 or less. If you expect to be in the same or lower tax bracket in 2020, it may be beneficial to defer taxable income until next year. However, one of the key changes made by the 2017 tax act, the large increase in the standard deduction discussed below, must be factored into any yearend calculations. Action Item: Shift some of your tax burden to a future year. Tried and true strategies for lowering your tax bill include deferring receipt of a bonus payment to 2020, accelerating remaining deductions into this year by prepaying a deductible expense, maximizing contributions to qualified retirement plans, or making larger charitable gifts. Put those saved tax dollars in your pocket rather than the government’s. Itemize or Standard Deduction? One of the most significant changes in the 2017 tax act was the dramatic increase in the standard deduction. For 2019, married couples filing jointly can claim a standard deduction of $24,400 ($27,000 for those over age 65). It is estimated that because of this increase, coupled with the $10,000 limitation to the deduction for state and local taxes and the elimination of other deductible items, less than 10 percent of all taxpayers will be itemizing their deductions for the 2019 tax year. If you claimed itemized deductions in the past, you may now want to consider “bunching” those deductions into one year in order to exceed

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the standard deduction amount and claim the standard deduction in other years. Perhaps the easiest itemized deduction to bunch is that for charitable contributions. One way to accomplish this is to combine tax-deductible contributions that would otherwise be given in two or more years into one. Action Item: Make charitable contributions in the “bunching” year to a new or existing donor advised fund (“DAF”). Claim the charitable deduction in the year you make the contributions and spread distributions to charities over several years. Another 2017 tax act change that increased the annual cap on cash contributions to charity from 50 percent of adjusted gross income to 60 percent can make “bunching” even more attractive. Action Item: Donate to RJF’s education tax credit fund to receive a state tax credit of 65 percent of your donation. Are you Over 70½? If you are at least 70½ years old and are considering donating to charity, it may be more beneficial to make the donation from an individual retirement account. Over the past ten years, many individuals have used the IRA charitable rollover to transfer up to $100,000 each year directly from their IRAs to various RJF endowments including the Genesis Fund. Qualified charitable distributions can count against the “required minimum distribution” amount but note that transfers to a DAF, supporting organization, or a private foundation do not qualify. An IRA Charitable Rollover is not deductible, but because it is not included in gross income, the net effect may be the same as it would have been had you made a charitable contribution. As a bonus, you do not have to itemize to get the tax benefit of your gift, so you can still claim the higher standard deduction under the 2017 tax act. Action Item: Use your IRA Charitable Rollover to fund an existing endowment fund or to establish an endowment fund to support a charitable cause of your choice. You can also rollover your IRA to the RJF Genesis Fund.

Investment Assets The year 2019 continues to be another good year for the stock market and other investment assets. As year-end approaches, it is an opportune time to review your investment portfolio and consider timing the recognition of capital gains and losses for assets held long-term - more than one year- and short-term. The top income tax rate on long-term capital gains remains at 20 percent. (A 3.8 percent tax on net investment income could also apply). Part of your capital asset review could be consideration of a gift of appreciated securities to charities. You can avoid paying any capital gains tax on the value of securities transferred to your fund at RJF, and you may be able to receive a charitable contribution deduction for the full fair market value of the securities at the time of the gift. Action Item: Consider gifting appreciated stock held for more than one year. They are fully deductible up to 30 percent of adjusted gross income and any excess can generally be carried forward and be deductible for up to an additional five years. Action Item: Donate appreciated stock, to establish a DAF or add to an existing DAF. It is an excellent way to maximize tax savings from such gifts and retain the privilege of making grant recommendations in the future. Action Item: Sell depreciated stock, recognize the tax loss and then donate the proceeds to a DAF, existing endowment or create a new endowed fund. RJF remains available to work with you and your professional advisors to maximize the benefits of these and other tax planning strategies for you and the Jewish community. We strongly suggest that you check with your financial and legal advisors before making any decisions. For more ideas or to discuss these options, please call me at (804) 545-8656

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