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4 Through the brides eyes

The wedding of Thomas and Michelle Verbos

8 Kelley’s Country Creamey

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10 Engaged? Start planning now!

14 Local photographers answer questions on every brides’ minds

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{ the wedding } By Taima Kern Action Reporter Media

Through the brides eyes: The wedding of Thomas

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the first attempt at marriage falls through, and they are left with the decision to grow old alone, or to try it again. But a second wedding is never the same as the first. Some traditions seem silly the second time around, or not applicable at all. But just because some things aren’t the same doesn’t make a second wedding any less important than a first.

In 2010, Michelle Jean Odekirk, from Fond du Lac, met Tom Joseph Verbos, who was originally from Kenosha, but was living in Fox Lake, via match.com. Michelle had already been married once before, and Tom had two previous weddings, so agreeing to tie the knot again was an interesting experience. They were married two years later on June 23, 2012 at the Crystal Ballroom in St. John. verbos wedding continued on page 6 >>>

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instead, for Michelle to walk on her own to meet Tom, and then the couple proceeded down the aisle together. Michelle and Tom also chose to abandon the traditional bridesmaids and groomsmen. Instead, their daughters, Michelle’s two and Tom’s one, stood up for them, each choosing their own dress in more-or-less matching colors and walking down the aisle ahead of their parents. “It was important to us to have them walk together as we were joining the family and it seemed appropriate they should walk side by side together as new sisters,” says Michelle. “We didn’t do the garter toss either… way to tacky for an older couple!”

“Honestly, it all went better than we had hoped,” says Michelle Verbos. “I think it is because our only real expectation was that we say ‘I do’ and become Mr. and Mrs. Verbos. Nothing else really mattered so we really had very little stress. ” “Because it wasn’t a first wedding for either of us

we kept it as simple as possible. We wanted it to be memorable, tasteful, and meaningful. We both know we accomplished that by taking out some of the traditions that would have seemed ‘tacky’ for people our age,” remarks Michelle. For example, Michelle was not given away by her father, as she had been at her first wedding. They chose,

They did, however, keep the presence of a “flower girl” and “ring bearer,” in a sense. The ring bearer was Michelle’s threeyear-old great-nephew, and his 27-year-old mother, Michelle’s niece/god daughter walked with him as the flower girl, just as she had when she was five, in Michelle’s first wedding. Overall, Michelle and Tom had just over 100 guests, at their outdoor wedding, trying to keep the party small. The easiest part of their wedding was finding their venue. They stumbled across the Crystal Ballroom in St. John while driving

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around on a Friday night looking for a good fish fry. “They had an entire package available and we had the ceremony, reception and dance all onsite. They even provided the cake (we got to pick the flavors), the decorations, and the music for the dance,” says Michelle. With an 11 a.m. ceremony, lunch reception and small dance, the whole ordeal was wrapped up by 4 p.m. and the newlyweds got to spend their evening alone together with dinner at the Cedar Lodge. A simple mix of tradition and non-traditional made the Verbos wedding a fun events for Michelle, Tom and all others involved. Michelle rates her wedding a 10, simple, tasteful, and better than expected. Planned in only a few months, Michelle says that she can “honestly say it was the happiest day of my life. I felt as if I could fly that day and for several days after. I just could not stop smiling.”

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Ice cream is heavier than regular cake; won’t that limit the size and complexity of the design? Kelley’s Country Creamery can build cakes as high as three tiers, but a single cake isn’t the only option. They can also make sheet ice cream cakes for the guests, so the cutting cake can be smaller, or you can order Kelley’s signature Diamond Drops for the guests, the ice cream variant of a cupcake. In addition, the cake doesn’t have to be 100 percent pure ice cream. Kelley’s Country Creamery can also provide cake/ice cream hybrid cakes. Kelley’s has served parties up to 550 be-

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Diamond Drops? What are those? Diamond Drops are individual ice cream treats in the shapes of diamonds, topped with a variety of delights. Diamond Drops can be selected in assortments, all in one flavor, all in five selected flavors, or really whatever you’d like to do. Every one of the creamery’s 200 flavors is fair game, and that includes more gourmet flavors, simple flavors, flavors that appeal to children, and much, much more.

This all seems so complex; won’t it be vastly more expensive than a traditional cake? Kelley Country Creamery has worked a number of bridal shows both here in Fond du Lac at Bridal Faire, and up in Green Bay, and

they have put a lot of care into making sure that their cakes and diamond drops are comparably and competitively priced, so there’s nothing to stand in the way of screaming for ice cream on your special day.

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the big decisions The decision to get married is the first of many big decisions you will be making in the weeks and months to come. Here are some things to consider right away: • Pick a date. Talk with your fiancé and family (and your fiancé’s family) about potential wedding dates to ensure the important people in both your lives will be able to take part.

A to-do list for brides-to-be • Choose a location. Because most popular bridal spots are just that — popular — you may want to start searching for a location quickly. • Organize the bridal party. Make careful decisions about who you want supporting you leading up to the big day, and who will be displayed in front of everyone in your life. • Pick a style. Many brides choose wedding styles that are reflected in their save-the-dates, invitations, ceremonies, receptions and thank-you cards. Choosing a theme and color scheme in the beginning will help narrow down options later.

• Hire a caterer. Take into account the dietary needs of your guests by offering a variety of menu options, including a vegetarian dish. • Order the cake. Whether you choose a large multi-tiered cake or cupcakes, remember to keep your budget in mind—and pick flavors you and your fiancé truly enjoy. • Make the announcement. Decide how you want to let the community know of your planned nuptials. Do you want to take professional engagement photos? Do you plan to contact your local paper? Will you include a link to a wedding day website on your save-thedate or your wedding invitations?

• Select your guests. The number of guests you invite will directly influence the cost of your wedding. • Set a budget. Budgeting for your wedding is crucial, as this will have a great impact on every other aspect of your day, as well as your honeymoon. Plan for a little wiggle room for unexpected expenses.

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• Get the gown. On your wedding day, everyone will be awaiting a glimpse of your gown. Listen to your instincts and choose a gown that “feels right” and reflects your personality and style. • Dress your party. Once you have chosen the wedding dress of your dreams, speak with your fiancé about his wishes for his suit, as well as the bridal party attire. • Hire a photographer. Choose your professional photographer wisely. With a walk down the aisle, father/daughter dance and toast, your father is sure to get photographed, but your mother might get overlooked. Make sure to ask the photographer to get shots of your mother throughout the day as well. engaged? continuted on page 12 >>>

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• Choose your flowers. Once you set the date, discuss with your florists which flowers are in season to help narrow down your selection. You may love tulips, but if you have a winter wedding, they may be hard to come by, and may be more expensive. • Book the entertainment. Do you want a DJ or a live band? Talk with your fiancé about your music preferences, as well as the types of tunes you want played at your reception to keep your guests on the dance floor.

in advance of the wedding day. • Practice reciting your vows and speeches until you feel comfortable. • Wear your wedding heels around the house to “break them in.” Pack a back-up pair of flats to wear during the reception. • Remember to ask for help. Designate members of your family or close friends to specific assignments.

wedding day before the big day details • Create a website for your wedding to keep guests informed of events and for easy access to registry information. Provide accommodation information for those guests traveling from out of town.

• Provide bottled water for your wedding party. To ensure no one gets over-heated, hide water near your bridal party during the ceremony for emergencies.

• Insure your engagement and wedding rings against loss, damage, theft or mysterious disappearance. According to a survey conducted by Jewelers Mutual Insurance Company, 44 percent of married women either don’t insure their engagement ring, or don’t know for certain whether their engagement and wedding rings are insured.

• Choose meaningful gifts for your wedding party. Necklaces, earrings or bracelets are great for bridesmaids; cufflinks are perfect for groomsmen.

• Make sure your marriage license, travel documentation and insurance information are ready to go and stored in a safe place

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Below is a list of common questions answered by three local photographers to give brides and grooms some ideas of the things they should be asking when they attend their consultations.

What are some things that you get asked a lot when you meet with brides planning a wedding, and how do you respond? Q. Are you available? A. Mary Quick, of Quick

& Smart Photography says: We have multiple photographers available to accommodate almost any date.

Q. How long have you been

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One of the most stressful

aftereffects of weddings is collecting the photos. So often you see brides and grooms taking their photographers to court over something that was messed up, some miscommunication that led to no photos of the grand march, or being charged more than expected and having your photos held ransom. The easiest way to avoid this chaos is to keep an open communication with your photographer and have them explain everything.

A. Aileen Andrews, of Can’t Stop Photography says: Fifteen years. It runs in the family, my father, Royce Edwards, was wedding photographer for 18 years, both he and I were/are self-taught. Q. Do we have to do formals before the wedding?

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raphy says: At my studio, the answer is no. However, I have found that the big reason for not doing the formals before the wedding is, ‘I don’t want him to see me in my dress until I walk down the aisle.’ This is solved by having an empty church (obviously before we want to start the formals), with just the groom at the altar, with the bride being escorted into and down the aisle by her father, then her father and I leave, giving them the only 10 minutes of their wedding day to themselves, and the Groom sees her in her dress and can appreciate her beauty in the dress she selected.

tractive thing in a photograph. Shooting up a person’s nose is also not very pretty. You can ‘take a few pounds’ off a person just by your camera angle.

Q. Can I get a picture of that? A. Aileen Andrews says: Yes!

A. Kris Alt says: It really depends upon what the bride and groom want on their wedding day. I usually recommend studio type preliminary portraits (on a studio background) with studio lighting. This can be achieved either coming to my studio before (sometimes after) the wedding or I can take a background to the church. I always say ‘I have backups for my backups for my backups.’ In other words, a lot of equipment.

Q. Please show us examples of

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A. Mary Quick says: We have many examples on our Web site. You may make an appointment to come in and look at samples of albums. Q. Why do you shoot from on top of a ladder?

A. Kris Alt says: Well, first of all the most obvious [answer] is, I’m only five feet tall. The second [answer] is, when photographing the ‘formals’ in front of the altar, pews are not the most at-

Q. How many photographers will be at the wedding?

Mary Quick says: We typically have three photographers at a wedding. The photographers depend on their availability.

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Q. What’s your turnaround time?

A. Mary Quick says: Proofs will be available online and in a proof book in two weeks.

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Some things that photographers want you to have set in stone before contacting them are:

Mary Quick says: Tardiness and not sticking to a time table makes the wedding stressful for both the bride, groom and the photographers.

-What is your budget for wedding photography for your wedding? -How large is your wedding party? -What are your venues? -What type of coverage are you looking for? How long would you like us to stay? -Is there any type of restrictions or special permissions needed for your ceremony? Are there any special circumstances or special requests that we need to know about.

else that day. They should have experience. The availability of professionally printed high quality images for the family and friends. A good photographer should have knowledge of posing and lighting of individuals and groups.

Aileen Andrews says: I am pretty easy going. Most churches do not allow flash during the ceremony, so when people use it, it bugs me a bit. Outdoor weddings are a bit different. If there is a videographer I tend to talk to them so we eliminate being in each others pictures as much as possible. I am not a big fan of being in others photos. I usually take the pictures first (because the couple is paying for professional photos) and then let the “paparazzi” take theirs and I am ok with that. This is a special day and if time allows everyone should share history in the making.

-What is the color theme? -Are both the Bride and Groom parent together or are there a divorce? If divorced, can they be next to each other or do they need to be separated? -Are there going to be special surprises anything extra special that one would want photographed. For example, releasing of butterflies/doves? A loved one that may have passed away special tribute during ceremony or dance? -Where is the reception going to be and what is the timing between dinner/ceremony?

As a wedding photographer, what things might the bride and groom inadvertently do that would irritate you?

What are your favorite wedding photos to take?

Mary Quick says: Bride and Groom together alone for portraits is one of our favorites. The bride getting ready before the ceremony is a favorite. The relationship and warm moments between loved ones that is expressed all during the wedding. Aileen Andrews says: My favorite shots are the bride with her bridesmaids, in addition to the groom and his groomsmen. I do enjoy borrowing the parents of the bride for a photo with the groom, as well. I like to keep things fun and try to mesh with the couple’s personalities to make those special memories. Every wedding is different, every couple is different.

Kris Alt says: My favorite wedding photos to create are those of just the bride & groom, alone, with no one else in the room/ area. I can get them to relax with me and create some exceptionally beautiful memories with just letting them “chat” between the two of them. What should brides and grooms look for as the mark of a good photographer when trying to select one?

Mary Quick says: It is important that your photographer is easy to get along with. They are with you more than anyone

Aileen Andrews says: First, can they afford them. There are many great photographers in the area and all have their own flare. Look at samples. This helps the bride and groom know the style of photographer. The couple needs to feel comfortable around the person they hire and comfortable with what they are paying them for. Some photographers are based on hours, some just ceremony and charge more for dinner and grand march. All this is needed to be taken into consideration and if there are additions to anything, get it in writing. Have a contract that both you and the photographer each sign which includes any extra charges. Kris Alt says: A true professional photographer will either have a studio or the credentials to go along with it. One of the most important credentials is if they belong to the Professional Photographs of America. They would have insurance, just in case something would happen. This also shows that they want to advance themselves IN the field of professional photography and are not just ‘shooting your wedding for extra cash.’

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Nedrebo’s Formal Wear is one of the best specialty locations for the men in your wedding. A Wisconsin-based company, with their plant situated in Madison, they offer locations in Fond du Lac and Oshkosh and a number of highly-trained consultants. Nedrebo’s offers a wide selection of colors and fits, and can match, find or make just about any vest color to a dress purchased elsewhere, because though weddings are so often referred to as “her big day,” the guys are just as important.

In addition, many of the sales associates have been with Nedrebo’s for many years, and are all professionals. Jennifer Slattery, the store manager of the Fond du Lac and Oshkosh locations has been with the company since 1997, and she’s seen every possible situation, and knows how to get out of any pickle.

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“Prices can be found in any range,” says Jennifer. “We can find something within your budget if you’re on one. If money is no object, we carry a line of designer tuxedos that tend to be on the higher end of things. There is truly something for everybody.”

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“Most people come in six months ahead of time,” says Jennifer. “But we can also provide service on a last-minute basis.” In addition, they also offer modifications on those orders that are placed well in advance as the wedding approaches, just to make sure that everyone is fitting in the tuxes as close to perfectly as possible.

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“We’re seeing a lot of multi-colored weddings,” says Jennifer. “different browns and greens are in too, and sometimes yellow.” In addition, the lesser-used neutrals: grey, tan and brown vests, pants and jackets with white shirts and making themselves recognized.

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Jennifer would also like to let the community know that Nedrebo’s is no longer in the mall! They moved to their new location, at N6663 Rolling Meadows Drive, just south from the Rolling Meadows/Hwy 23 ( Johnson St.) stoplight, in August of 2012. The location is marked on the mini-mall sign as simply “tuxedos” but they are there, waiting for people to stop and try something on! For more information on Nedrebo’s, check out their Web site, at www.nedrebos.com, or call the store at 921-6125.

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