The family Issue
YOU
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february 19, 2014
Beauty for busy Tips moms
tamika jones
talks family, football and how she keeps it real
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More local. More national. More of what matters to you.
The Sunday edition of the Green Bay Press-Gazette is filled with more local arts and lifestyle, things to do and more local authors than ever before. And with a whole section of national entertainment news from USA TODAY LIFE included, you can catch up on all your favorites in one place. If it matters to you, you’ll find the whole story here.
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february 2014 contents
your style
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Top 10: Stylishly welcome a new baby to this beautiful world Beauty Tips For Busy Moms
your life page
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YOU Spotlight: Tamika Jones talks family, football and how she keeps it real
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Your Mind, Your Spirit: How to reconcile the family fantasy
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How to Keep Your Kids Active During the Winter Months
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DIY Tea Blends
your home 14
A Room Divided Tips to make roomsharing a dream
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17 YOU Said: Your feedback on the last issue and what’s happening online 22
Heard on the Street: Good News About Amazing Things Happening in Our Community
24 YOU Picks: A Sampling of Our Favorite Things From Local Merchants 30 CYLG: at the New Leaf Winter Farmers Market
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you magazine staff Publisher Scott Johnson
All in the Family
Executive Editor amelia compton wolff Advertising Director John Rowe
It was a no-brainer to feature Tamika Jones in this month’s Family Issue. When I met her last fall, she had just recently welcomed her second son, Jordan, to the family. She lit up when talking about her two children and husband, Packers wide receiver James Jones, and it was that glow we tried to capture in her Spotlight feature. Tamika’s commitment to family didn’t start with the formation of her own. During our interview, she revealed that it began decades ago as she watched her own parents and the devotion they had to family – always putting their children’s needs before their own.
Contributing Writers Amelia Compton Wolff, Melissa Gorzelanczyk, Meghan Diemel, Hannah Darling Photography Mike Peters, Press-Gazette Photography Staff
YOU Advisory Board Members
Patti Schisel The Ultimate Closet Allyson Watson, Definitely De Pere
And it’s not just her own family Tamika is passionate about – it’s families throughout Northeast Wisconsin, starting with our youngest members. The Jones’s foundation, Love Jones 4 Kids, was established in 2008 and strives to enrich the lives of children living in disadvantaged and underserved communities. By serving these children, families are strengthened from their roots. To read more about Tamika, her family and foundation, turn to page 8. Many of us already know from experience that families don’t have to be bound by blood. We can develop familial ties in all different areas of life. The YOU Magazine family is very excited to welcome back one of our own: former editor Melissa Gorzelanczyk will be making more regular appearances with a mind and spirit column, exploring topics that affect your life. Turn to page 18 to get Melissa’s tips on finding happiness even when our realities don’t match our fantasies.
Amelia Compton Wolff Editor, Green Bay YOU Magazine
Circulation Manager Dave Sielski
Sharon Verbeten Brown County Public Library
I got the pleasure of seeing some of Tamika’s family in action during their photo shoot. On photo shoot day, Tamika was armed with her mom who helped wrangle children and make silly faces when called upon to do so (like a champ, I might add). The bond this family shares is impossible to overlook.
I hope you have fun reading this issue of YOU Magazine and that it makes you want to squeeze your loved ones just a little tighter.
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Keeping up with the Joneses Story by amelia compton wolff Photos by Mike Peters Hair and makeup by Sequoia Bledsoe, Green Bay 8 | www.greenbaypressgazette.com/you | february 2014
Tamika Jones talks family, football and how she keeps it real
you spotlight
I’ve only met Tamika Jones once before, but that doesn’t stop her from embracing me like an old friend when we meet at Starbucks in De Pere. “I’m so sorry. Today’s been one of those days,” she says, taking out the iPhone headphones she’s wearing and apologizing for her appearance. Not that she should. Her hair is pulled back and she is wearing a North Face zip-up with a black and white striped T-shirt underneath. I can only assume her green manicure is a nod to her husband, Green Bay Packers wide receiver James Jones, whose team suffered a disappointing loss to the Philadelphia Eagles just the day prior. But Tamika doesn’t seem any worse for the wear. She’s dressed casually, like any mom of two young boys who requires function in her fashion, and more notably, she looks normal. “The number one question I get is ‘What’s it like to be a Packer wife?’ and I always laugh because it throws me off. I don’t feel different than any other wife,” Tamika says. “You’ll find that out about me and James. We don’t want to be too puffed up. It’s reality. It’s real life.”
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Tamika’s mother, Gwendolyn Greer (right), loves spending time with her grandchildren.
When asked what she had been listening to on her headphones, she sheepishly giggles and says, “I was just talking on the phone,” in a way that makes you know she’s probably notorious for talking on the phone. But with family scattered around the country – a sister in Atlanta, a brother in New York, another sister in Long Beach – her phone is her lifeline. “My siblings are everything to me. I talk to my mom and sisters every day,” the Southern California native says. “Three times a week we’re on four-way. My dad is like, ‘Get off the phone, there’s not that much stuff to talk about!’” Family has always been at the forefront for Tamika. Growing up as the youngest of four children, Tamika relied heavily on her siblings for not only guidance, but friendship. Tamika’s mother stayed at home to take care of the children
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The couple was married in 2008, one year after James was drafted by the Packers. Tamika has adapted to life in the spotlight with the help of Packer wives who came before her. Betina Driver, Andrea Collins and many others have imparted wisdom on Tamika, but some she’s just picked up along the way. “It’s important to maintain a sense of privacy or you’ll lose yourself,” Tamika says. “One day we’ll be done with football and we’ll go back to ‘regular life,’ so you need to stay as regular as possible.”
According to Tamika, James pursued her but she hesitated because he was an athlete and the pressure of dating a college sports star seemed unappealing (ironic, huh?). When she eventually came around, James had moved on. Timing was not on their side then, but eventually a relationship formed.
Tamika explains that her husband spent much of his childhood homeless, moving in and out of shelters until he was 15. To help children in similar situations, the couple founded the Love Jones 4 Kids Foundation in 2008 to assist homeless families in Green Bay and San Jose, California, where the Joneses live in the off-season. This year, Love Jones 4 Kids will host its fifth annual fundraiser benefitting Freedom House shelter in Green Bay.
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“We love Freedom House because they focus on keeping the family together. They help the parents get back on their feet but they don’t lose sight of the children,” Tamika says. Tamika dreams that one day her sons James Jr., 2 years, and Jordan, 6 months, will form a strong bond like she enjoys with her siblings. Their formative years spent in family-friendly Green Bay might just set them on the right path. “I love the family aspect of Green Bay. Everyone’s so nice. I think it’s the Midwest, the hominess and the warmth,” Tamika says, then pauses for a moment. “I mean, it’s really cold, but it’s a warm feeling.”
Support Love Jones 4 Kids! The Love Jones 4 Kids Foundation is a non-profit community based organization that focuses on the needs of children in the communities of Green Bay and San Jose, CA. The foundation’s goal is to enrich the lives of children living in disadvantaged and underserved communities by conducting and sponsoring a variety of programs to help young people overcome obstacles and prepare for challenges in life. Since its inception in 2008, Tamika and James, along with a host of volunteers, have worked to put this vision into action and have seen the foundation grow and positively affect the lives of many children in San Jose and Green Bay. If you wish to help, donations can be sent to: Love Jones 4 Kids Foundation P.O. Box 28144 Green Bay, WI 54324 Visit www.lovejones4kids.com to get all the information on upcoming fundraisers, including the 5th Annual Toast 2 Success event benefiting Freedom House. february 2014 | www.greenbaypressgazette.com/you | 13
your home
A Room Divided
Tips to make room-sharing a dream By Meghan Diemel 14 | www.greenbaypressgazette.com/you | february 2014
Room sharing with a sibling is a right of passage during childhood – complete with a line of masking tape down the middle of the floor and hair-raising moments for parents. But making good furniture and décor choices can bring harmony to a shared bedroom, says Debbie Roemer of Interiors of Distinction in Green Bay. “First, be sure there is natural traffic f low between the furniture,” she advises. “Second, if using furniture to create a barrier between beds, be sure the furniture won’t fall over. Anchor it to the wall if there is a risk. Third, don’t overcrowd the room; it will only look cluttered and unorganized. Fourth, create a color scheme.”
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Roemer says that utilizing large furniture pieces will ensure each child feels like they have their own space. She says placing both headboards against the largest and/or accent wall with a bedside table or bookshelf in the middle is a good place to begin. “The key to having this look good is to make sure the colors on the bedding and walls coordinate with each other,” she explains. Using the furniture piece as a center point on the wall, a stripe can be painted to match the width of the piece on the wall behind it, she says. “The center of the bedside table could have a contrasting stripe between it and then each side has a different color. Then if the right side had turquoise, the left could have chartreuse. The center stripe (width of bedside table or bookcase) could be a neutral gray that is also used on the remaining three walls.
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your home to define the space between the desks and beds can separate each side and provide some privacy. Splitting the wall with the bunks would allow you to paint two different colors.” If your bedroom space is large, another option is to place solid headboards together, back to back, to create more of a division; use paint schemes again to further separate the space, she says. “Placing a rug in front of the beds adds color and/or texture to the f loor and creates a soft feeling underfoot for getting out of bed,” Roemer adds. “Adding a larger piece of artwork over the bed or initial (‘A’ for ‘Aiden’), or monogram of the child’s initials also adds a personal touch and defines one’s space literally.”
<<< room divided continued from page 15 “A pattern to each side of the center stripe could be added to straight paint, but use caution – each side should have the same pattern or a coordinating pattern to ensure the room doesn’t get too busy with patterns,” she adds. Bedding, artwork and accessories should coordinate with the three colors on the large accent wall, she furthers. De Pere resident Stephanie Schiegg and her husband Brad are parents to three girls – Lori, 5, Abigail, 3 and Venna, 3. For the Schieggs, shared rooms became a necessity when they found out they were having twins. “At one point one room was for all three to sleep in, while the other was for getting ready and toys,” Schiegg says. “We now have bunk beds in one room with two of the girls – Lori and Venna, and the other room with a fullsize bed [for] Abigail. We let them choose who should share and we’ve actually never really had a problem.” Roemer says that bunk beds or loft beds are good options if you have the room and the ceiling height to accommodate them. “If both your beds are mounted high and you have walking space under them, you could add a desk on each side under the bunk or put two desks perpendicular to the beds back to back,” she states. “A movable curtain
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If painting isn’t your thing, she recommends using a narrow bookcase between the two beds. It can also be as easy as hanging a curtain to divide the bedroom, using a rod or hooks in the ceiling. Schiegg says that overall, mixing it up and letting her daughters have a say has worked the best for their shared-room scenario. “They tend to look out for each other in the night; [there’s] no real conf lict yet. Give it a few more years,” she adds with a smile.
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I just wanted to send you a quick note and tell you I think you hit it out of the park with this latest issue! Great job! -Jessica Diederich, via email
Visit www.greenbaypressgazette. com/you to watch a video with YOU contributor Melissa Gorzelanczyk as she discusses this month’s column and even more ways to ditch the doldrums by making peace with your present.
I have to agree with another woman who mentioned in the post about doing a most eligible bachelorette sometime in the near future. I could see a really good and big fundraiser created out of that, to help support some local causes chosen by the bachelorettes. -Liz Hays, Facebook
What do you think? The men have had their turn – is it the ladies’ time to shine? Tell us if YOU Magazine should profile the area’s most eligible bachelorettes in an upcoming issue! Weigh in on Facebook, Twitter (@YOUMagGreenBay) or send us an email at youmagazine@wisinfo.com. Readers got the chance to meet our January issue’s Most Eligible Bachelors at The Libertine in Green Bay during our Meet the Bachelors event on January 23. Thanks to all who came out for food, fun and, of course, the guys! Visit www.facebook.com/youmag for more pictures from the event. Photos by Mike Peters.
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your mind your spirit
Melissa Gorzelanczyk is a young adult author and freelance writer who lives in Green Bay. She worked in the newspaper industry for 10 years before deciding to simplify her life and follow her dreams. Her YA novels are represented by agent Carrie Howland of Donadio & Olson. Blog: www.PeaceandProjects.com
How to Reconcile the Family Fantasy By Melissa Gorzelanczyk
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Life, you imagined, would include a perfect husband, a great career, two darling, adoring children â&#x20AC;&#x201C; one boy, one girl â&#x20AC;&#x201C; and a dream home complete with an in-ground pool where you could relax holding a pink drink garnished with an umbrella. You probably know the reality, too.
Life, you discover, might include divorce, mental illness, miscarriages, layoffs, recessions, water in the basement and an umbrella that’s turned inside out as you’re running late to work.
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Barbara Meyer, a licensed clinical social worker with Innovative Counseling, Inc. in Green Bay, says women often get overly hung up on trying to be perfect. Women today “feel the pressure to have it all, and do it all really well compared to other people,” she notes. Along the way, our quest for the perfect life is inevitably met with many imperfections. What can we do to make peace with reality, especially when it hurts? How do we find happiness? How do we define a good life, now? Together, Meyer and I offer these tips:
“Write your worries in the sand. Carve your blessings in stone.”
Be your family.
Your family is unique. It has something special and diverse to offer the world. For me, being a stepmom comes with many challenges, but a lot of freedoms, too. I’m happiest when I don’t compare my family to others and focus on joy for who we are.
Refocus.
Write a family mission statement to figure out what your family stands for. What are your goals? What do you value? When times get tough, a mission statement can help you remember that things are really going okay.
Renew.
Have something you do for yourself. Yes, you are part of a family, but you are also a separate person. Make time for friends, hobbies and exercise – things that give you energy!
No one is perfect, and no one has the perfect life. We all have weaknesses and challenges that come with being human. Instead of troubles, focus on gratitude for what is going well. What’s going right with your kids? With your marriage? Write your blessings in a gratitude journal, even if you only have time to scribble one sentence or a short list.
Take a step back.
Redefine perfect.
Don’t work on serious problems in isolation. If you or your loved one is struggling with life-altering problems, go to counseling or get advice from someone you trust.
Everyone feels some self-doubt and guilt because of the unreasonable standards to which we hold ourselves. There will be family arguments. You’re going to lose your temper. You’re going to feel inadequate at times. You’re normal.
Accept and adapt.
Maybe your son isn’t an A-plus student, but he might be a fantastic cook, or a kind-hearted friend. Adapt to family differences as best as you can. Maybe you won’t have the mother/daughter relationship of your dreams, but you can work through the challenges and hopefully, find a way to live in harmony.
If someone in your family is struggling, try a neutral thought such as, “Well, Ryan had a bad day today.” Not every bad mood is reason to panic. A good night’s sleep can work wonders.
Reach out.
Practice mindfulness.
“I’m a big believer in mediation,” Meyer says. She urges women to enjoy today and not get too far ahead of themselves. Fantasies aside, you probably know this: Life, I’ve discovered, contains many loving moments, many breakthroughs and many smiles. Sometimes there is good wine, and dreaming, and hard-work that pays off. There is today, with lots of reasons to celebrate, and I’m working on that.
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By Hannah Darling
Most women can look back on their beauty regimens before motherhood and wonder how they ever had time to shower daily and blow dry their hair – let alone visit the spa or get that biweekly pedicure. For many mothers, beauty treatments, the latest skin care lines and freshly polished nails just aren’t a priority anymore. They’ve been replaced with making school lunches, changing diapers and rocking a sweet baby to sleep. However, it is beneficial for everyone if mom feels good about herself and sometimes feeling and looking beautiful can do the trick.
5-Minute Makeup “I used to do my entire makeup routine every day. I would rarely leave the house without any on,” says Becca Novy, a mother of four children under the age of six in Neenah. “That’s just not a reality for me these days. Having less time for myself is difficult, so I make sure to keep a circle of close friends nearby who are going through the same stage of life as I am.” A support group can be key for moms trying to adjust to their “new normal” and to swap advice on products and share beauty secrets. For Novy, skincare is an absolute must. “I use an aloe vera based skincare line, L’Bri, which has helped greatly with dark under-eye circles,” she says. “When I’m in a rush, I feel much better about my appearance if I can at least wash my face and put moisturizer on. A shower is even better, but that isn’t always possible first thing in the morning! Showering at night after the kids are in bed is a great trick too.” Many moms turn to aloe for its moisturizing and anti-aging properties. Some other lines that list aloe as a key ingredient in their facial cleansers and moisturizers are Burt’s Bees and Alba Botanica. With the postpartum changes in complexion many women are met with, finding a skincare routine that works is high on the list of beauty priorities. “I make sure to drink lots of water to look and feel healthy,” says Jennifer Tabbert, a mother of three in Appleton. “I’ve also tried using cucumber slices on my eyes for dark circles that are a result of sleepless nights
up with the baby.” Even with advice and support all around, it can still be tricky to find time to put on mascara, curl your hair or eat the way you’d like to amidst everyday life with kids. Sometimes a day off at the spa is a cure-all.
Feel fabulous in less than 5 minutes with this easy beauty routine: • Apply tinted moisturizer for a dewy glow with just a hint of coverage.
“I love the Kohler Waters Spa in Kohler,” says Tabbert. “My brother bought me a day at the spa after the birth of my third child. It was the perfect gift for a mother of three children all born within three years. I go every year now.”
• For an instantly polished look, apply a bold lip color. Opt for a long-lasting formula.
Even routine hair trims can be a great mini-getaway for the busy mother. It can be easy to prolong the time between these appointments with several kids’ schedules to juggle, but that hour at the salon could prove to be more important to your wellbeing than expected.
• Dry shampoo disguises unwashed hair and creates volume on the fly.
“I love going to my favorite hair stylist and having my haircut and eyebrows waxed,” says Novy. “It makes me feel like a new woman.”
• Spritz on your favorite scent for a simple way to feel refreshed.
• One swipe of waterproof mascara makes eyes look awake, yet natural.
Other quick and easy beauty musthaves? Soft lips and moisturized hands. “I use the Hemp Hand Protector and the Hemp Lip Conditioner from The Body Shop,” says Novy. “I have to have these, especially in the winter.” Keeping hand lotion and a lip balm in your purse and at your bed stand are simple steps to help mom feel taken care of. Whether it’s a coat of lipstick and a touch of blush or a massage appointment once a month, most moms can agree that self-care makes all the difference in caring for a family. Feeling and looking beautiful while doing it is a plus.
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Heard on the Street Good news about amazing things happening in our community By Amelia Compton Wolff
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Support women in our community with a weekend of shopping at reFine Consignment’s premiere event, March 27-29, at Celebration Church in Green Bay. This Green Bay-based consignment sale event will enable women to consign and shop gently used designer, boutique and name brand clothes, shoes and accessories. Lorelei Savaryn, founder of the reFine Consignment event, was inspired by a similar sale in the Milwaukee area. After giving birth to her daughter, Savaryn was unable to wear most of her pre-pregnancy clothes, but couldn’t afford to buy a whole new wardrobe. The goal of this sale is to help women find affordable fashions that make them feel good even as their bodies change. Unsold items and a portion of proceeds will be donated to local organizations that help women such as House of Hope and The Salvation Army. The event commences on Thursday, March 27 from 5 p.m. – 9 p.m. with a pre-sale for consignors, volunteers, teachers, nurses, members of the armed forces and those with a membership to a fitness or weight loss management program. The sale is open to the public on Friday, March 28 from 9 a.m. – 9 p.m. and Saturday, March 29 from 8 a.m. – 2 p.m. This sale is cash only. ATMs are available in the vicinity. More information for consignors, shoppers and volunteers can be found at www.refineconsignmentsale.com. 22 | www.greenbaypressgazette.com/you | february 2014
Yoga Open House at Greater Green Bay YMCA •
The Greater Green Bay YMCA will unveil their new dedicated yoga studios at the East Side and West Side locations on Sunday, February 23 with a special Om! Yoga Open House. The renovated studios, which comfortably fit 15 students, feature new f looring along with benches and storage cubbies, and the East Side YMCA location has a specialized heating system for hot classes. During the event, guests will be able to try new classes such as Vinyasa Flow and Restorative Yoga, meet the YMCA registered yoga teachers, enjoy live music and even win some prizes. On February 23 only, guests may purchase a 3 class yoga punch card for just $14. This event is free and open to the public. Visit www.greenbayymca. org/events/yoga-open-house for the event schedule. For more information on YMCA’s Mind/Body programming, please call Sara Embrey at 920-436-1254.
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Celebrate Brown County women past and present while raising funds for local scholarships and American Association of University Women (AAUW) fellowships at the 8th Annual Dreamers & Doers Award Luncheon on Saturday, March 29 from 11:00am-2:00pm at Heritage Hill State Park. The annual luncheon honors all the nominees who are recognized for their current contributions to the community, making Brown County a better place to live. The event is held by the Green Bay Area Branch of AAUW which works to fulfill their mission of creating a diverse group of educated persons making a positive impact on the community and on individual members. The Green Bay Area Branch provides scholarships to women who are at least 25 years of age and have returned to school to complete their first two or
New to the event this year is an evening soiree, Afterhours with Dreamers and Doers, on Thursday, March 27 from 5:30 – 8:00 pm. Guests will be able to socialize with past award winners and hear highlights from the books “Women of Northeast Wisconsin: Dreamers and Doers” while enjoying music by Randi Fay, wine by Parallel 44 and light appetizers by Chefusion. All proceeds from the events go to local scholarships for women, AAUW graduate fellowships and educational/leadership research and project grants. In 2014, a portion of the proceeds will also be used as seed money for the 2nd edition of the “Dreamers and Doers” book. For more information, contact Jill Lauritsen at 920-592-9987 or visit greenbayarea-wi.aauw.net. Tickets for the after-hours event are available online and at all Green Bay area Festival Foods locations.
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As a parent, you know your kids can get restless in the winter months while they’re cooped up inside. It’s tempting to let the tablets and video games provide hours of entertainment, but it’s important that kids stay active to keep their minds and bodies healthy. With a little creativity, you can keep your kids moving and prevent the winter blues. Here are some ideas:
Take out some throwback games
After hours of being indoors, kids will quickly get bored of their own games and toys. Take this opportunity to teach them games from your childhood. Create an indoor hopscotch court with some tape or break out that old board game from the attic. Make up new rules to refresh the games and make them original to your family. Record the game ideas in a notebook or binder so your kids can easily pick out a fun activity on the next snow day.
Cook together
Cooking is a great activity because the whole family can get involved. Assign everyone a job, like peeling, mixing or measuring. Kids can even practice their reading skills by reading the recipe aloud from a cookbook. Cooking with children also encourages them to try new foods because they’ve had a hand in making the finished product.
Tackle that big project
You may have spring cleaning plans, but get a head start on that big cleanout project this winter. Get the whole family involved in reorganizing the garage or painting the guest room. Go through old boxes or pictures with your kids and share family memories along the way. Give your kids different tasks and let them be “in charge” of different parts of the project. Once
the project is complete, you will all feel satisfied that you worked together and checked a big to-do off the list.
Go on an indoor adventure
Sometimes the cabin fever is too much to bear and you have to get out of the house. As long as the weather allows for safe travel, bundle up the kids and hop in the car in search of an indoor adventure. Find an indoor pool at a local recreation center. Take a trip to an indoor ice skating or roller skating rink. You can also start a bowling tournament with other families from school or the neighborhood. After the chilly trip outside to the car, you’ll all be longing for your warm house in no time.
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DIY Tea Blends A handcrafted cup of tea could be your new family tradition By Amelia Compton Wolff
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There’s a lot of power in a simple cup of tea. Designating a particular time each day to sit down with a cup and good company seems so refined. The ritual is symbolic of a simpler time, real or romanticized, when a slower pace was relished and conversation was an art form. Maybe hectic schedules prevent a daily tea time for you and your family, but even introducing it on a weekly basis can prove therapeutic. A warm, herbal drink and all its accruements (raw honey, fresh lemon, rock sugar) can wash away the remnants of a bad day, or even a rough week. If a cup of tea is truly your cup of tea, why not try blending your own custom mix? A trip to the herb shop (a great
selection can be found at Sweet Willow Naturals in Bellevue) followed by an afternoon of experimentation and tying little cheesecloth sachets filled with your concoctions would make for a lovely family tradition. Blending teas is a very tactile experience that can be enjoyed by all ages. Let younger children smell the herbs and feel them in their hands, older children can help mix and fill tea bags or jars, or grab your sisters for a fun weekend project. The great thing about blending teas is you can tailor each to fit your particular tastes and preferences. Use these recipes as a starting point and add or subtract as you wish – just make sure to opt for organically grown herbs whenever possible. The recipes below are measured in parts so you can blend the quantity that fits your needs. If you are blending a larger batch to keep on hand, work with cups. If you only want enough tea for a cup or two, stick with teaspoons. Be sure to use the same measuring tool for each herb to ensure the proper ratio. Repeat when you run out of tea, which hopefully is often. To blend, place all herbs in a mason jar, secure the lid and give it a good shake until mixed. Spoon one or two teaspoons of tea onto the center of a cheesecloth square. Bundle the ends, tie with bakers twine and trim the ends. You could also use a tea ball, French press or tea sac. Steep herbal teas about five minutes. Add more tea if you like a stronger f lavor. In these last few weeks of winter, try these teas hot. As warm weather approaches, don’t be afraid to try iced versions as well.
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The New Leaf Winter Farmers Market Presented by Bellin Health features more than 100 vendors selling a variety of locally sourced foods, crafts and more. Plus, there are cooking demonstrations and live music to enjoy â&#x20AC;&#x201C; pretty much something for everyone! The market is held on several Saturday mornings through March 29 at the KI Convention Center in downtown Green Bay. Go to www.newleafmarket.org for dates and times, as well as to learn about the goal of establishing a cooperative grocery store, the New Leaf Market, featuring local, healthy, fair-priced food. 30 | www.greenbaypressgazette.com/you | february 2014
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