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Pink Possible breast cancer awareness in their words:

Survivors, families and friends share their stories, page 8

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Aurora Cancer Care Becomes National Leader in Quality Care and Clinical Trials

Meet Tracy Bliske: Breast Cancer Nurse Navigator

New Program Empowers Breast Cancer Patients in Their Care

Learning to Livestrong After Breast Cancer

Fighting Cancer With a Fork; Recipe: Spaghetti Squash Salad with Balsamic Vinaigrette Dressing

In Their Words: Survivors, Families and Friends

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Aurora Cancer Care

Becomes National Leader In Quality Care And Clinical Trials Aurora Cancer Care was recently recognized for meeting the highest standards for cancer care by the Quality Oncology Practice Initiative (QOPI®) Certification Program, an affiliate of the American Society of Clinical Oncology (ASCO). The Program provides a three-year certification for outpatient hematology-oncology practices. Aurora Cancer Care is one of the largest groups in the country to receive this prestigious accolade and joins approximately 200 other QOPI certified facilities across the nation. “This national recognition reinforces the extremely high quality care our physicians and caregivers provide to all our cancer patients every day here in Oshkosh and across our system,” said Richard Kiefer, MD, breast surgeon with Aurora Medical Center in Oshkosh. Aurora Cancer Care received QOPI designation after receiving high scores on key quality and safety measures established by ASCO and the Oncology Nursing Society. Data reviewed for care of breast, non-small cell lung cancer, colorectal cancer, Non-Hodgkin’s lymphoma and end of life care included: • Treatment planning • Staff training and education • Chemotherapy orders and drug preparation • Patient consent and education • Safe chemotherapy administration • Monitoring and assessment of patient wellbeing

In addition, the National Cancer Institute (NCI) announced in August that Aurora Health Care will be a part of its Community Oncology Research Program (NCORP). As a result, NCI will provide Aurora $3.8 million over five years to improve cancer research and expand patient access to high-quality clinical trials in Wisconsin. The program’s goal is to improve patient outcomes by sharing and analyzing all research findings, then applying that new knowledge to individual treatment. Specifically, this research effort aims to: • Increase patient participation in NCI-sponsored clinical trials. • Link individuals to cancer trials taking place in their own communities • Broaden the recommended multidisciplinary approach to cancer care delivery research. Aurora Cancer Care was selected because of its emphasis on collaboration between multidisciplinary participants, including: medical, radiation and surgical oncologists; primary care doctors; pathologists; radiologists; cancer nurse navigators; geneticists; researchers and cancer survivors. NCORP affiliation will further benefit the community by increasing Aurora’s ability to connect patients locally to clinical trials and attract and retain the best physicians and leaders. “This program will allow more cancer patients in Oshkosh and across the county to gain access to the latest clinical trials and interventions that will give new ammunition in the fight against cancer, and through collaboration and knowledge-sharing, ultimately provide greater outcomes and allow us to offer some of the most advanced care options to our patients” said Dr. Kiefer.

In 2013, more than 4,000 women heard the words “you have breast cancer” in Wisconsin.* About one-third (roughly 1,200) of newly diagnosed breast cancer patients chose Aurora Cancer Care in 2013.** *American Cancer Society Cancer Facts and Figures, 2013 **Aurora Cancer Care – 2013 Cancer Registry

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Meet Tracy Bliske, BREAST CANCER NURSE NAVIGATOR

Aurora Medical Center in Oshkosh offers cancer nurse navigators to partner with patients and help them navigate resources and information throughout their cancer journey. Tracy Bliske, RN, has been in nursing for more than 20 years and joined as a breast cancer nurse navigator two years ago.

Q: WHAT IS A NURSE NAVIGATOR AND WHAT IS YOUR ROLE IN CARING FOR PATIENTS AT AURORA Medical Center in OSHKOSH? A: My role as a breast cancer nurse navigator is a very personalized service. I ask myself, for every patient, “What can I do to help her?” I place myself in each and every patient’s shoes. I meet with them right away, as soon as she has her first breast biopsy, before we know whether or not it’s cancer. I ask questions, get to know them and talk them through the process from the beginning. Q: WHAT KINDS OF THINGS DO YOU DO FOR THE PATIENT THAT MAKES IT SUCH A PERSONAL SERVICE? A: Whether it’s helping with appointments, preparing for surgery, finding resources for a wig, getting them started with an exercise and nutrition program, finding a support group, helping them with financial or FMLA paperwork—I do all of that. I even help them plan out a schedule, an end-of-journey goal that’s not just about survivorship, but is about enjoying life-- maybe even scheduling a vacation. I’m here for them, every step of the way.

Q: YOU ALMOST SOUND LIKE YOU’RE “PART NURSEPART COUNSELOR”. A: Oh yes. And it’s so fulfilling. (L-R) Jamie Hansen , breast cancer survivor; Amy Jones, RN, Vince Lombardi Hearing a paCancer Center; Tracy Bliske, RN; and Renata Bacon, breast cancer survivor tient say, “ just at the Lombardi Walk for Cancer in Oshkosh in June 2014. seeing your smile made all the difference,” or holding together in the community to my arm and saying “I’m so glad raise awareness and money. It’s you’re here, you’re like a special really a team effort, and we’ve got angel in my life…” I get to be a great group here. that constant familiar face always Q: IN 2014, AURORA MEDICAL letting them know that someone CENTER IN OSHKOSH WAS NAMED really does care. It can make such A BREAST CENTER OF EXCELLENCE a difference. BY USA TODAY, WHAT DOES THAT SAY ABOUT THE KIND OF CARE Q: IT SOUNDS LIKE IT CAN BE AN WOMEN RECEIVE THERE? EMOTIONAL JOURNEY FOR YOU TOO, WHY DO YOU IT? A: This doesn’t really feel like a job to me. I’ll never forget when I was 12-years-old and my grandmother, June, passed away from cancer. I’ll never forget her hospice nurse. I remember thinking, “I’m going to give back to families the way she gave back to ours.” So many of the patients have become my friends and we do events

A: Well, it’s an honor given to us by women… they chose us. That means we’re doing something right. I am so proud to work with such an amazing team. We have really high standards, and we hold ourselves accountable. But it’s not a tough thing to do when you love helping people, so we’re happy to do it. Helping patients is incredibly rewarding.

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New program empowers breast cancer patients in their care William Doubek, MD

Zahid Dar, MD

One of the unique services offered to breast cancer patients at the Vince Lombardi Cancer Clinic in Oshkosh is access to a Multidisciplinary Cancer Center, or MDCC. This platform for newly diagnosed breast cancer provides them an opportunity to discuss treatment options with all of the medical experts involved in their care plan in one sitting.

“This program is a unique opportunity for our patients,” said Zahid Dar, MD, medical oncologist with Aurora Cancer Care. “I think it helps strengthen patients’ trust and makes them feel that they are fully involved in the decision making.” The MDCC includes an opportunity for the patient to meet all of the physicians who would be part of their treatment, including general surgery, plastic surgery, radiation oncologist, and medical oncology. “While this understandably helps from a efficiency perspective, it brings all of us together – including the patient – to better understand what is happening and together to discuss the

Did you know… The first Breast Accredited Cancer Center in the Oshkosh area is at the Vince Lombardi Cancer Clinic at Aurora Medical Center in Oshkosh. best course of treatment to beat this disease,” said William Doubek, MD, plastic surgeon with Fox Valley Plastic Surgery. This “discussion” between physicians

and specialists allows medical experts to review the patient’s medical record and tests. Multispecialty physicians and supporting staff are brought together with the patient to determine the best course of treatment for a patient by reviewing their cancer diagnosis and health history, family history, risk factors, and nonmedical obstacles that may affect the patients’ treatment. “This committee helps patients understand that treating cancer is very individualized, that there isn’t a ‘cookie-cutter’ approach to anyone battling breast cancer. Every person – and every plan matters,” said Dr. Doubek.

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Learning to Livestrong after breast cancer It was 2011 when Wendy Al-Msaibeeh LeDioyt finished treatment for breast cancer at Aurora Medical Center in Oshkosh. She had been diagnosed at the young age of 39 and went through chemotherapy, radiation and surgery. Needless to say, she was feeling pretty wiped out. But one Sunday morning while reading the paper, she came across an article about the partnership between the Livestrong Foundation and the YMCA of the USA. Wendy was ready to make a change in her life, and so she made the call. She ended up being in Aurora Health Care’s first group of patients to try the Livestrong at the YMCA program in Oshkosh. The partnership gives Aurora cancer

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patients—along with other cancer survivors who have just completed treatment – a place to continue working on their health in a way that’s designed just for them. “The coaches would walk us through how to use the weight Wendy was one of the first cancer survivors to participate in the YMCA¹s Livestrong program. machines, how to do yoga or a Zumba move,” Wendy says. “And they were always there to cheer us on or make us laugh if we were having a particularly rough day.” “The first thing we do is have a one-on-one interview,” explains Dan Braun. He’s the Active Aging and Special Initiatives Manager in charge of the Livestrong at the YMCA program in Oshkosh. “We ask them, what got you here today? What was your treatment like? What kind of support do you have at home? What’s your goal? And what are your limitations?” Dan and his crew then design a workout program, and the next step is getting approval from Aurora’s medical team. It’s a 12-week program and they meet twice a week for about 90 minutes. Some sessions focus on strength, sometimes it’s yoga or a cardio activity, and sometimes all they do is talk. Dan says the group often turn into an informal support group where they encourage each other physically and emotionally. Wendy can certainly attest to that, “It really helped to workout with other cancer survivors because they understand exactly what you have been through and sometimes no words are needed.” Dan says about 40 percent of all the participants have been breast cancer survivors, and many of them stay after the program is finished. Wendy is one of them. She still works out at the YMCA three times a week and thinks it’s a great program for anyone who has battled cancer, “It’s a wonderful first step to get back to feeling healthy again, and I am now more active than I’ve ever been.”

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Fighting Cancer

Spaghetti Squash Salad

with Balsamic Vinaigrette Dressing

WITH A FORK

Ingredients:

By Molly Spaulding, RD, Aurora Health Care

Statistics show cancer remains the second leading cause of death in the United States. Though we have become better at preventing cancer deaths through advancements in technology and treatment, the truth is, it still takes too many of our loved ones every year. And unfortunately, when it comes to breast cancer (or any cancer for that matter) there is no “super food” that can guarantee you a life that’s cancer free. But what we do know is, there IS a link between obesity and the development of cancer, your weight does play a role. Maintaining a healthy weight should be a priority for everyone. The best way to do that is through an active lifestyle and healthy diet. A healthy diet is one that is full of fruits and vegetables, especially those containing fiber and anti-oxidants. Fiber is important because it helps you maintain your blood sugar and control your cholesterol levels, and it helps you to feel full, so you tend to eat less. It also helps promote good colon health. Anti-oxidants are important because

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they help inhibit “oxidation” in the body, or as I often explain to my clients, think of it as preventing “rusting” in your body. A good source for both is fruits, vegetables and some grain products. In addition to foods to add to your diet, there are some things that I recommend you can try to help reduce your risks in developing cancer: • Limit saturated fats, or fats that are solid at room temperature, like fatty meats, butter and heavy cream. These foods can increase cholesterol levels as well. • Cook lighter. So, instead of deep frying, try a cooking spray of canola oil which has a high smoke point. That way you’re using less fat and your food isn’t absorbing nearly as much of it. • Eat more fruits and vegetables, and exercise more! Think color, think variety, and get moving! I always talk to my clients about “eating the rainbow”, meaning a wide variety of fruits and vegetables that are different colors. Eating foods that are a variety of colors means you’re getting a good variety of anti-oxidants as well. TIP: Try the freezer aisle! Vegetables tend to be frozen at their peak nutritional value, so a pack of frozen vegetables could get you the most bang for your buck. Again, there is no such thing as a “super food” or a quick fix. Keep an open mind and be willing to try new things. Because you might find a new vegetable you really like—and your body will thank you for it.

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Instructions: Combine half of the squash and all the remaining vegetables in a medium sized mixing bowl. Set aside the other half of the squash. Toss the squash and vegetables well. Season with salt and pepper, and squeeze the juice from one lemon and one lime into the bowl. Lastly, add the 4 oz. of the balsamic vinaigrette and toss all ingredients in the bowl until the salad is well coated. Use the extra squash you set aside earlier, and create a base for the salad using a small ring mold. Set the ring mold in the center of your plate and place a small layer of spaghetti squash in the ring mold. Do not pat down the squash. There should be a 1/4-1/2 inch thick layer of squash. Remove the ring mold, and using tongs, place one generous scoop of the vegetable mixture on top of your “spaghetti ring.” Top with a sprig of parsley. More dressing can be added to reach your desired liking.

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in their words:

Jo Ann Harvey Story self-submitted

Cancer type: Invasive Ductal Carcinoma (IDC) Stage 2b Remission time: 14 weeks

Survivors, families and friends The impact on one woman’s or man’s diagnosis reverberates throughout her or his network family, friends, co-workers and peers. But breast cancer’s lifealtering challenges impact an entire community, as well. The Northwestern asked readers to help us highlight breast cancer’s impact for our special Breast Cancer Awareness publication. Your tributes, stories, words of encouragement and celebration pay honor and tribute to those who have fought cancer and those who are currently battling it. The goal was to try and tell the many stories created by a breast cancer diagnosis by relying on the words of those whose lives have been impacted by it. The result is a moving compilation of words of affirmation, gratitude, love and hope.

Sylvia Fischer

Story submitted by daughter, Kim Williams Cancer type: Breast Remission time: Over 10 years I’ll never forget the day my Mom (Sylvia Fisher) came over and shared her news...she was diagnosed with breast cancer. There was little emotion, just the facts...a lumpectomy and radiation were in her future. Mom is strong, tough, and a survivor. She did what she had to do with the hand she was dealt, and only let it affect her life as much as it had to. Mom continued to work through her treatments and I never heard her complain. I don’t really know if (in private moments of her own) she broke down and felt sorry for herself? If she did, I never saw that side of her. I am so proud of her strength and courage. I love you Mom!

Holly Niemeyer Story self-submitted Cancer type: Breast

Last March I went to see my doctor to get some medicine for some awful hormonal headaches that caused me terrible pain every month. During the visit he also wanted me to get some other annual testing done including the mammogram. I had the mammogram done later that week, received a call that I needed a biopsy and within a couple of days received the call that I tested positive for breast cancer. The verse in Psalm 23:4 that says: though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil; took on a whole new meaning in my life. When I was told that I have breast cancer, I immediately had two thoughts: 1. I wanted a double-mastectomy and 2. God will take care of me. I knew that whether I was in the presence of God on Earth or the presence of God in Heaven that I was in a win/win situation. Having breast cancer and going through a double-mastectomy, lymph node removal, physical therapy to regain the use of my arm and receiving chemotherapy and radiation treatments is definitely a valley to walk through, but the Lord Jesus is true to His Word and truly cares for me in so many awesome and marvelous ways. As I look back over the past 14 weeks, my experience has had some good moments: I enjoyed getting ready without doing my hair, mosquitoes would not bite me, I was thrown into menopause and therefore I have no more headaches, and the best part, no more mammograms! Life is full of choices. I could dwell on the past and possibly live in depression, I could worry about the future and have anxiety, or choose to receive the peace of Jesus Christ, which He is so freely gives me, and live for today.

Carrie Schaffer Story self-submitted

Remission time: 4 months

Cancer type: Breast cancer

I discovered my lump after my mammogram. A mammogram I received because Mom was diagnosed the previous year. I fought back with a bilateral mastectomy, 6 rounds of aggressive chemo, 4 surgeries plus reconstruction. I now have a “new normal”. This new normal is filled with love and support from family and friends. A new love of life, a new perspective, infinite faith, hope and gratitude. I am now a better, stronger, more capable woman. A woman I wouldn’t have had the courage to become on my own. A woman, God chose me to become. My cancer journey has ended, but my “new normal” life has just begun. I took my life back because of a simple double check. Get Checked, Check Yourself!

My cancer journey began on Dec 2nd, 2013. I was 35 years old and knew that my insurance probably wouldn’t cover a mammogram, however, I became scared when my mom got a call to go in for a breast biopsy. I wanted to be checked as well. I contacted my primary doctor and she ordered a mammogram per my request. I set up the appointment for Black Friday before Thanksgiving. My mom found out she had breast cancer 2 days later. I found out 4 days later that I also had breast cancer. My mom and I battled cancer together over the last 9 months. We both had a mastectomy and I underwent 12 weeks of chemo. It is September, and I feel amazing. I wake up and am thankful for everyday that I am given. I didn’t know my strength until I had no choice!

Remission time: 6 months

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Deborah Fox Story self-submitted

Cancer type: In-situ Ductal Breast Remission time: 8 years in January 2015 story: I had routine mammogram in November, 2006. Needed additional views, bx, MR and PET in Dec of same year. I went through a Lumpectomy in Jan 2007 with chemo and radiation, finished chemo with the last dose of chemotherapy on MY BIRTHDAY in 2008! My support system was the staff I worked with that kept me smiling and working through my treatment. I kept the strength to have positive energy and attitude. Fleurette Wrasse, nurse navigator was ‘my knight in shining armor,’ that journey made me stronger and the ability to help other women through their cancer diagnosis. I realize how important routine mammograms are for breast cancer awareness, since my biggest fear was I may not live to see my grandchildren grow. I’m proud to give back to patients.

Susan Muenier Story self-submitted

Cancer type: Breast cancer I love to tell my story. Not because I want attention or sympathy, but because I believe that with early detection, listening to your body, the power of prayer, and a strong support system you can beat cancer. In December 2012, I started having pain in my right breast. With my mother being a breast cancer survivor, I was concerned. But pain is not a sign of breast cancer and I could not detect any lumps. It was nothing. By January I started noticing broken blood vessels in the bottom of my breast. Still not a sign of cancer and I still couldn’t feel anything. But I just couldn’t shake the feeling that it might be something. I finally decided to call my doctor.

She didn’t seem concerned, but because of my family history, ordered precautionary tests. At the age of 36, I had my first mammogram. The doctor ordered two extra pictures of the “troubled” right breast. In the very last picture, the doctors noticed a small suspicious spot. A biopsy confirmed it was cancer. The tumor was removed two weeks later. It had doubled in size and had already spread to my lymph nodes. If I had not listened to my body, my first mammogram would not be scheduled until I was 40. The initial lumpectomy was followed by three more surgeries, four months of chemotherapy and one month of radiation. During this time, I continued to work and tried to keep my normal routine. I did not do this alone. My husband and parents took care of the kids and did the house and yard work. Family, friends and coworkers sent meals, gifts, cards, wishes, prayers, visited and helped in many ways. I never had to attend an appointment, chemotherapy session, or deal with losing my hair alone. The nurses at Aurora were always welcoming and willing to go the extra mile to lift my spirits. They made sure I was taken care of and truly cared. I would’ve never made it without this strong support system. After genetic testing, I found that I carry a rare PTEN gene mutation. At that point, the doctor suggested having a double mastectomy or monitor every six months with mammograms or ultrasounds. This was a difficult decision to make. I went to bed one night, and prayed for guidance. The next day, while attending my son’s baseball game I got a phone call. During my recent mammogram, the doctors found another spot and I needed a biopsy. Even though the spot was nothing, that call helped me decide that I didn’t want to live the rest of our lives getting those scary calls. During surgery, the pathology report found that the cancer had returned elsewhere. Luckily because it was removed early, I would not need further treatment. Because of the power of prayer, my decision to have surgery, once again, led to early detection. Next week, I am scheduled for my sixth (and hopefully last) surgery in 19 months. It has been a roller coaster journey. But I truly believe I would not be here today without listening to my body, which caused the early detection of a tumor barely visible in a mammogram picture. I know that my faith and the power of prayer helped me make the right decisions and gave me comfort

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when needed. And most important, my strong support system gave me a positive attitude and kept me fighting.

Debbie Strange Story self-submitted Cancer type: Breast Remission time: 7 years Give us a year, we will give you the rest of your life.” I heard these words of reassurance spoken by an oncology nurse, during the first of 8 chemotherapy sessions which would be followed by 35 radiation treatments. Somehow, some way, this tiny message of a timetable - entered my consciousness. These hopeful words forged a tiny pathway through the thick layer of buzzing, confusing questions in my head, how did I get here? What is in store for me? And mostly, Why? When I heard these hopeful words, they registered assurance that there would be an end to this and that maybe, just maybe I had a future to look forward to. Â Breast cancer, or any cancer was simply not on my radar. I had just turned 50 on June 23, 2006. Fast forward one month later, Sunday, July 23, when I noticed a rippling shadow on my right breast as I emerged from the shower. The light shining through the window on that Sunday morning shown like a spotlight highlighting the abnormality. I reached up to touch the ripples, only to be met with a hard lump right below the surface. “Wow what is that? And, when did this get here?” I remember thinking, followed by, “This isn’t good.” I finished drying off, got dressed and walked outside for a few minutes to gather my thoughts. Then I went searching for my husband to check it out, anxiously hoping his second opinion would tell me I had just been seeing things. No such luck. It was indeed there. A new reality. For those of us who get regular mammograms - I had never missed one in 15 years - a breast cancer diagnosis feels uncalled for - so undeserved. Just six months before, I had a mammogram and was examined by two healthcare workers. I did not have a family history. Perhaps this led to a false sense of security, because the one thing I did not do regularly was self-exams. As I was to learn later, mammograms can only do so much. If the breast tissue is dense, diagnostics cannot pinpoint all abnormalities. Fortunately, the invention of digital mammog-

raphy in the past ten years has improved cancer detection within dense tissue, however, the fact remains that regular selfexams should be a part of every person’s regular health care routine. Yes, treatment took nearly a year, and yes, it was anything but fun. However, the nurse was right; they gave me the rest of my life. Seven years so far. Seven additional years! To welcome new grandchildren, a new puppy, complete my degree, and start a new career.

Charlotte Nigbor Story self-submitted Cancer type: Breast Remission time: 4 years I am pleased to share my cancer story. Four years ago who would have thought I would be a cancer survivor. I was diagnosed February 2010 with stage 2a breast cancer. I had 4 rounds of chemo, then a lumpectomy and finally 33 rounds of radiation. The doctors and nurses at Aurora were great, making tough treatments easier. My granddaughter, Meradeth, was my biggest cheerleader. She went with me everywhere. She would say Grandma be tough, be brave. Cancer made me a stronger person and forever changed my life. I feel God wants me to help others battling cancer. 2½ years ago I started Cancer Care & Share support group. The support group draws people from surrounding communities. I get calls from people whose friends get diagnosed, or they get diagnosed. I encourage others battling cancer. Whether it’s a card, call or visit, it’s nice to know you’re not alone! Meradeth and I have done many cancer walks, including the 2013 Lombardi Cancer walk, where I was the survivor speaker. I also started volunteering in a local hospital oncology department. Now looking to the future, I look forward to dance recitals, birthdays and celebrations with Meradeth and her little sister Natasha. Watching them grow like weeds. As time goes by I think less and less about cancer and more about my future. Check-ups get easier and easier. Life is about the future! When life throws you a curve, remember Meradeth’s words of encouragement, be tough and be brave. You too will come out stronger and a survivor.

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Betty Kandler

Story submitted by Renata Bacon Cancer type: Breast Cancer

about, I play, we all play to win! Please be a winner and get a mammogram yearly. It’ll be the best thing you can ever do for yourself. Stay cancer free!

Remission time: 37 years On August 1, 2013 I was diagnosed with breast cancer after a regularly scheduled mammogram. But this story does not start there. This story started in 1976 when my Mother Betty was diagnosed with breast cancer and she still survives today. After my Mom’s surgery we were told to celebrate each year with her as there were no guarantees and if we made 5 years that would really be something! Well my Mother is my role model as a 37 year breast cancer survivor. In 1976 a diagnosis of breast cancer did not come with the treatment options of 2014. In 1976 my Mother had a radical mastectomy and the removal of all her right side lymph nodes. 1976 was long before the 1998 Women’s Health and Cancer Rights Act which now requires insurance companies to pay for reconstruction and prosthesis for breast cancer patients. A cancer diagnosis today does not need to mean certain death or being permanently disfigured by surgery. Today with early detection there are many more treatment options and many more survivors. I am thankful for those who have led the way, like my Mother Betty, all the cancer awareness programs which have helped to bring and fund the advances in cancer treatments and are Saving Lives. When in doubt check it out! Get your cancer screenings!

DEB TRAUGOTT Story self-submitted

Cancer type: Breast cancer Remission time: 5 years “You have breast cancer and we need to take it out. Then you will have thirty-three radiation treatments to make sure you receive a longer quality of life.” Hmmm. That worked for me! Great timing! My 59th birthday was coming up in October and my surgeon did her surgeries on a Thursday! What luck! A second birthday for me to celebrate on October 29th for the rest of my life! No one really wants to hear those words spoken by an oncologist but life isn’t always perfect. So as it comes, we deal with the hand we’re dealt. And, since life and living is what the game is really all

Joy Konrad Story self-submitted

Cancer Type: Breast Cancer Time in Remission: 2 years

Kathy Beulen Story self-submitted

Cancer type: Inflammatory Breast Cancer Remission time: 2 years My journey with Inflammatory Breast Cancer began in March of 2012, at the age of 49. I want to send a message to anyone reading this, we as women tend to spend a lot of time taking care of everyone else, and ourselves last. Ladies stop and take 5 minutes each day, look at your body, if there are changes see your doctor. Do self-breast exams every month, have a mammogram every year. My cancer was not diagnosed at my first appointment, it was detected four months after a routine mammogram. Be persistent, you know your body, listen to it! I would also like to thank all of the doctors and nurses who cared for me, you saved my life. To my husband, daughters, family, friends and coworkers you supported me thru this journey and I thank-you.

Becky Dahl Story self-submitted

Cancer type: Breast Cancer Remission time: One year I was diagnosed with breast cancer late April 2013. I found the lump myself and thought it was nothing cancerous until I was tested the very next day. A few days later I found out differently. To my surprise, I had become one of the Breast Cancer victims. I never thought it would happen to me. After many tests, mammograms, MRI’s biopsies and surgeries to remove lymph nodes and insert the port, my Chemotherapy began. It was a long road but I had a plethora of support from my sweetheart, family and my Breast Cancer medical team. It isn’t fun but with the knowledge and passion my surgeon had along with the rest of the team, God was with me always. He helped me stay positive and kept me believing which made the journey less scary.

Life is like an Ice Cream and as Charlie Brown said, “you have to lick it one day at a time”….just as you do with your cancer journey. In a perfect world there would be no sickness, disease, trials, tribulations and “normal” would be just a setting on your dryer. However, there isn’t a perfect world and God challenges each and every one of us to trust and rest in the comfort of His presence, and walk by faith, not by sight. My personal journey has affected me physically, emotionally, spiritually, mentally and financially and truly is not for the weak of spirit or heart. Like a butterfly emerges from a cocoon we as patients travel and experience a journey and are changed. I personally experienced denial, shock, fear, devastation, anger, trying to cope and understand the game plan or treatment strategy laid out as well as experiencing the effects and reaction to treatments, etc. All this, while trying to take one small step at a time, because it can and will overwhelm you and over take you. Truly about this time better have a “buddy system and a family and extended family of friends”. Once my treatment strategy was in place by Dr. Karen Gremminger and Dr. Rick Davis, I pretty much belonged to “Affinity” and placed my faith and trust in them as well as God. All the Doctors, nurse practitioners, nurses, technicians, therapists, dieticians, schedulers, receptionists, and other professional associates became my “new best friends!” Without each and every one of them (who I hold in my high regard and respect and hold close to my heart) I would not be here “Celebrating Life” and gosh that’s huge! And why we are here! The “Footprints” that carried me through this journey were and still are God, my Affinity Professional Group of Friends, my family (boyfriend), my extended Music, Church, Neighborhood, School and Work family of friends and “friends” that I didn’t even know I had. I think I was on every “Prayer Chain” in the city and dragged every “friend” and scheduled them to sit with me through chemo treatments. These “friends” prayed for me, nourished me, cried with me, laughed with me, held me up in the shower when I didn’t have strength, drove me to appointments, and lived and

breathed the journey and experience’s with me, and I am forever grateful and blessed! When I needed you and their (my friends) confidence, guidance, humor, praise, support, encouragement, strength, shoulders, hugs and warm blankets (because yes I had meltdowns, fears, pains and tears…. and good drugs!) you were all there for me and within my reach! You all made a difference with your smiles, acts of kindness, comfort, care, answers, phone calls, hugs, you dried my tears, and your directions and guidance, pain management, therapy, professionalism, and personal and genuine care, friendship and love. Please know that you have all left a handprint on my heart.

Barb Sitter Story self-submitted Cancer Type: Breast Time in Remission: 10 years since first, 9 years since second Angels Everywhere, Primary cancers unrelated to each other One in each breast, tough years. Lumpectomy, 33 radiation treatments, drug therapy, the first cancer ten years ago. Lumpectomy, re-excision surgery, chemotherapy, 33 radiation treatments, drug therapy, The second cancer nine years ago. Theda Clark Regional Medical Center, Surgeries. Michael D. Wachtel Cancer Center, Chemotherapy. Vince Lombardi Cancer Clinic, Radiation Treatments. Angels Everywhere. Doctors and nurses, technicians and aides, Best friend and housemate, family and friends, Neighbors and co-workers, pastors and congregation, even strangers praying. Many angels disguised as people, support everywhere on my cancer journeys. Feelings of fear and uncertainty, tamed by the gift of faith in God and God’s plan for me. Feelings of hope and determination for wellness, nourished by my medical team. Feelings of being cared for and about, nurtured daily by all those around me. Angels everywhere. Hope. A Future. Cancer-Free.

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Shelly Engelbert

Story submitted by friend, Lori Seiler Cancer Type: Osteosarcoma Time in remission: 27 years Here is a true survivor story about my friend Shelly Engelbert: Twenty-seven years ago, Shelly was diagnosed with Osteosarcoma in her leg. She had endured multiple surgeries including having a rod placed in her leg. Recently, she got another one which resulted in having her leg amputated. Through all of these set-backs, Shelly continues to stay strong especially during this most recent recovery period and is an example of strength, courage and unyielding human spirit that we can

Not only has Shelly had the strength to continue to battle cancer, she had to bury two infant sons within the last year and a half. Her son Parker was born the eternal life on January 15th, 2012. A short time later, Shelly and her husband, Eric were blessed with twins Payton and Porter. On January 7th, 2013, Porter was removed from life support and joined his brother in Heaven. Again, Shelly continued to persevere and focus on her cherished gifts, her son Brock and daughter Payton. Obviously, these tragic events have not only taken a huge emotional toll on Shelly and her family but a financial one as well. To help such a deserving family, Shellyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s friends and family are organizing a benefit for her. We want to not only help her financially but also, show our support network she has and to keep her spirits high! The benefit is scheduled for November 8th, 2014 at the Steelhead Saloon, Algoma, WI. An account has been set up at Baylake Bank along with a PayPal account: http://tinyurl.com/k5rzxs8

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Joan Gaatz

Story self-submitted Cancer Type: Kidney Time in Remission: 4 years as of October 11th Went in for my yearly physical only to hear the amount of weight loss was a concern. Had further testing and was then found to have cancer in my left kidney. Three weeks later the kidney was removed. I was extremely lucky the cancer had not left the kidney, no chemo or further treatment was needed. Four weeks after surgery I was doing my daily walk around Pearl Lake. It has been nearly four years, I am so far cancer free, normal weight back and walking the lake daily. Many thanks to Dr. Thomas G. Chulski and Dr. Daniel J. Higgins.

Mary Seaman Story self-submitted

Cancer type: Ovarian Remission time: Since 1999 May 1999 is when my life changed. The clinic doctor thought I had a fibroid but when I visited my doctor it turned out to be a tumor on my ovary. After 3-1/2 hours of surgery a hysterectomy was performed and the tumor was removed. It was Stage One ovarian cancer and I underwent 4 chemotherapy treatments. This was a scary time, but a wonderful time. The support I received from family, friends, coworkers and other chemotherapy patients was outstanding. I learned to view life differently and not let little things bother me like before the cancer. I learned to appreciate and tolerate people better. I had been given another chance. I have been in remission now for 15 years and still am monitored by the same wonderful doctor that I feel saved me.

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