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inside: 6 Give your marriage a good start with a perfect wedding
16 Brides show short wedding gowns more of the love
congratulations! Your wedding is about you, which is why we hope our 2015 Wedding Planner will inspire you with ideas for showcasing your personal style and coming in under budget - no sacrifices necessary. From the budget to the perfect dress, we give you expert advice on how to pull off a perfect wedding no matter what your constraints. Dive in. Heed some of our tips and have a fabulous wedding!
22 Wedding budget 24 Engaged? ... Start planning now! A to-do list for brides-to-be
30 Got kids?
Make your wedding a family affair
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An elegant and romantic wedding with the latest in fashion trends and colors can be done with a budget-friendly price tag, say Brooke and Ryan Retherford of Sheboygan. “It’s a day. It’s over in eight hours. I don’t need the most expensive thing, but still wanted it to look very nice,” Brooke said. Being organized and engaging talented family members and friends are a couple good ways to help ease the costs, she said. Brooke suggested using some free online planning calendars to stay on track. They also helped her think of items that she never would have planned for otherwise. Then, she worked closely with her mother. “I let (Mom) take the reins. I was too stressed out and I’m glad she did it, she did a good job too,” Brooke said. The bouquets held by the wedding party were from Hobby Lobby for under $100. Her sister-inlaw, who owns a salon in St. Louis and specializes in airbrush makeup, did her makeup. Her hair was done by Courtney Peterson of Shear Imagination in Cedar Grove, and her mother and aunt “did a wedding continued on page 8 >>>
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ton of work” in regards to organizing, decorating and baking. The couple was married Sept. 27, just over a year after their engagement, on the beach of Lake Michigan. Keeping stress and expenses low for her dad was a priority for the 25-year-old bride. She still has vivid memories from her freshman year of high school as she watched him suffer a heart attack before her eyes and had having to be resuscitated. “For him to be there (at the wedding) was a miracle to me. It was such a special moment for him to walk me down the aisle and do the father-daughter dance together,” she said. Her planning began with locating the right dress. It took until she purchased a second dress, but then “it fit like a glove” (fortunately, she was able to return the first one). The lace sleeves were conservative for a church wedding and removable for dancing at the reception, a perfect combination for Brooke. Then she took that theme and followed it through for the reception décor. The sophisticated and trendy look of lace and burlap at the reception was a page out of “Brides” magazine. The fine touches, antiques, thoughtfulness and attention to detail were apparent in every corner.
A glance at the “cake” table tells the tale. Across a typical banquet table was artfully placed barbed wire, which told the story of the couple’s love and expected life. wedding continued on page 10 >>>
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It began by encircling a picture of the engaged couple, wrapping up a photo taken that day from the ceremony, stretching out to a clock representing the hands of time, to three cupcakes on an antique baby scale signifying the three children the couple hope to have one day, and circling back to the beginning. Wooden crates embraced by lace doilies alongside rustic candelabras spanning across the table did not hide the exquisite lace-looking cake wrapped in a burlap bow. It resembled an old-fashioned hat and was presented alongside antique tea cups, plates and hundreds of uniquely decadent cupcakes. It was a look put together by Brooke’s family. To tantalize the tongue, cake and cupcake f lavors ranged from pumpkin spice and lemon to Snickers and raspberry. The tables were adorned with Mason jar center pieces filled with baby’s breath. Guests took home gifts of personalized koozies skillfully hidden inside of paper bags sealed with a raffia bow alongside a framed chalkboard that read, “To have and to hold to drink while it’s cold.” Even the guest book was unique. It consisted of journal pages that could be scrapbooked – one of Brooke’s favorite hobbies. wedding continued on page 12 >>>
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The entire event is sure to be remembered for a lifetime by the couple’s 200 guests. Brooke’s fondest memory from the day was seeing the expression on her groom’s face as she walked down the aisle on her father’s arm, combined with seeing all of the friends and family who “showed up and knowing we were supported…that was awesome,” she said.
both getting on each other’s nerves and if we could do this all over again it would be destination wedding.” Whether in town or away, Brooke’s advice is to remember why you are planning a wedding: It’s not for the glory or to appease others, it’s to celebrate your union for a life together, she said.
Her biggest advice for the newly engaged? “Plan a destination wedding,” she laughed.
“It’s about you and your spouse creating a marriage,” she said.
She then added, “Planning is stressful; it was harder the last month. We were
Allison Thompson can be reached at allithompson@sbcglobal.net.
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By LEANNE ITALIE, Associated Press
Helen Bradley isn’t one of those women who fantasized about her wedding as a girl, so when the time came to tie the knot on the 10th tee of a golf course, she wanted to be relaxed, comfortable and economical.
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A short gown was just right for her September nuptials, said the 27-year-old bank worker in Madison, Wisconsin. “I had tried on a few long dresses and none of them felt like me. I’m a very practical person. My mom picked out the short dress from a sale rack and it’s rare that I would like anything that my mom picks out,” she said with a laugh. Once the domain of older or remarrying brides, short gowns are enjoying a little more of the love, from luxury brands like Monique Lhuillier, Oscar de la Renta and Marchesa to more affordable offerings at David’s Bridal, which has a bustling retail website and about 300 stores around the country. The short looks aren’t just stand-in dresses originally intended for bridesmaids or cocktail parties. Designers are offering a greater range of shorter styles as more brides break from tradition and personalize their weddings. “A lot of people are doing more intimate settings, so a shorter dress just feels more appropriate. If they do the big wedding, some change into a shorter dress so they can dance and have a good time,” Lhuillier said. DRESS continued on page 19 >>>
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“Her huge train came off to become a mini and she took it off to Judy Garland’s ‘Zing! Went the Strings of My Heart,’” he said. “It covered the grandeur of the ceremony and the fun of the party.” Long gowns remain the clear majority of the $2.6 billion-a-year bridal gown market, noted Darcy Miller, editorial director for Martha Stewart’s bridal site, Marthastewartweddings.com. But “more and more brides seem to be seeking no-fuss, lightweight and easier silhouettes,” she said. Some “want a dress they can run on the beach in or travel with to their destination wedding.” In this Oct. 12, 2013 photo released by Stephanie Chaney Casanova shows her wearing a BHLDN short dress from Anthropologie’s bridal line at her wedding to Juan Pablo Cortazar Casanova in Lincoln Park in Chicago. The short looks aren’t just stand-in dresses originally intended for bridesmaids or cocktail parties. Designers are offering a greater range of shorter styles as more brides break from tradition and personalize their weddings. (AP Photo/Chris Whittaker)
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Exactly how short is up to the bride. There are minis, high-low hemlines (high in the front and lower in the back), knee lengths, tea lengths below the knee and so-called “transformers,” where a long train or sheer skirt detaches to show off a short dress underneath. Designer Zac Posen put his own sister in one of the convertibles — in red — for her 2004 wedding.
At David’s Bridal, 26 of the 75 gowns launched for spring 2015 are short, said Anne Acierno, executive vice president for design, merchandising and product development. Posen creates luxury short looks but also includes a few in his Truly Zac Posen collection at David’s Bridal. He said red-carpet trends inf luence some brides, and these days they’re seeing more short, fancy dresses. Among high-profile brides to go short recently were fashion “it” girl Olivia Palermo and actress Cheryl Hines, who married Robert F. Kennedy Jr. last August in a strapless, white, tea-length creation by Romona Keveza. Vera Wang makes short gowns too, in a range of pricepoints that include her White collection for David’s Bridal. DRESS continued on page 20 >>>
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“I think you should wear what you feel most beautiful and most comfortable in, and also what is most you, most individual,” Wang said. Shorter dresses can be less expensive — a huge factor for Bradley at her country club wedding before 125 guests. The reception was in a cozy room with a big fireplace, wood floors and sconces all around. Her dress cost $400. She spent another $100 on a chunky glass statement necklace with matching earrings, and $99 for a pair of 4-inch Calvin Klein heels in dusty gold with a T-strap and side buckle.
left much of the fabric unusable. She regrouped, found another seamstress and was able to salvage some of the original fabric for the bodice of a new gown, inspired by the strapless, full, Vivienne Westwood design that “Sex in the City” character Carrie Bradshaw wore when Mr. Big jilted her at the altar in the first movie based on the TV series. Unlike Bradley out on the golf course, Mitchell wore her short gown for a church ceremony.
“Everyone asked me, ‘Aren’t you This May 3, 2013 photo released by Dale Janee worried about the Schroeter shows her wearing a vintage dress on church? Is it long her wedding day with husband Jakob Schroeter in “I’m an accesenough?’” the Zug, Switzerland. (AP Photo/www.savvyspice.com) sory person, so I knew freelance graphic when I saw the dress it designer said. “I was, was a blank canvas,” Bradley said. “I could like, no, I’m not worried. We wanted it go out and pick the perfect necklace and to be fun, but we didn’t want it to be too the perfect shoes and you could see them.” casual.” But embellished, hand-sewn, custom short gowns aren’t necessarily cheaper, depending on the materials and designer. Emmy Mitchell, 33, of Columbus, Ohio, wore custom when she went short for her 2011 wedding. She had originally planned to modify the 75-year-old, long, ivory satin gown worn by her mother and grandmother, but a mishap with a seamstress
Mitchell’s advice for others who want to go short? “Go with your gut. Just go for it. It was the best decision of our wedding. It made everyone loosen their collars and say, ‘OK, this is a fun event. We can all cut loose tonight.’” Follow Leanne Italie on Twitter at twitter.com/litalie
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Here is a basic breakdown of what you can expect to spend your wedding budget on. A good tip, and to avoid stress, allot about 5% of your total budget for a “just-in-case” fund.
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Wedding Ceremony Location Fee Officiant Fee / Donation Accessories (rings, pillow, basket, unity candle, etc.) Organist, Vocalist Fees Miscellaneous Costs SUBTOTAL
Wedding Reception Location Rental Tables / Chairs Silverware / Cups Wedding Favors and Gifts Food / Caterer Bartender Beverages (cocktail hour) Disc Jockey (DJ) Live Band and/or Musicians Cake Cake Knife and Server Miscellaneous Costs SUBTOTAL
Attire Bride’s Ring Groom’s Ring Wedding Dress Headpiece / Veil Bride’s Accessories (shoes, gloves, jewelry, etc.) Hair, Makeup and Nails Groom’s Tuxedo or Suit Groom’s Accessories (shoes, tie, cufflinks, etc.) Miscellaneous Costs SUBTOTAL
Photo & Video Engagement Photos Photographer’s Fee Videographer’s Fee Miscellaneous Costs SUBTOTAL
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Flowers & Decorations Bride’s Bouquet Bridesmaid’s Bouquets Groomsmen’s Boutonnieres Ceremony Flower Decorations Reception Flower Decorations & Centerpieces Miscellaneous Costs (flowers for parents, grandparents, ushers, etc.) SUBTOTAL
Stationary Wedding Invitations Reply Cards Postage Reception Seating Cards Miscellaneous Costs (thank you notes, save the date cards, etc.) SUBTOTAL
Transportation Car Rental (Limo) Miscellaneous Costs SUBTOTAL
Honeymoon Wedding Night Accommodations Travel Costs Honeymoon Accommodations Meals Spending Money Passport Miscellaneous Costs SUBTOTAL
Other Expenses Marriage License Wedding Planner Fees Gifts for Attendants Bride’s Gift to Groom Groom’s Gift to Bride SUBTOTAL
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Engaged? start planning now! A to-do list for brides-to-be Family Features 24 | l ak eshore wedding pl anner | 2 015
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Preparing for the big day means planning a multitude of details; everything from the flower arrangements to that something blue must be decided upon well in advance of the ceremony. Here are some tips to help ensure your big day goes off without a hitch.
The Big Decisions The decision to get married is the first of many big decisions you will be making in the weeks and months to come. Here are some things to consider right away: Pick a date. Talk with your fiancé and family (and your fiancé’s family) about potential wedding dates to ensure the important people in both your lives will be able to take part.
Select your guests. The number of guests you invite will directly inf luence the cost of your wedding. Set a budget. Budgeting for your wedding is crucial, as this will have a great impact on every other aspect of your day, as well as your honeymoon. Plan for a little wiggle room for unexpected expenses. Choose a location. Because most popular bridal spots are just that — popular —
you may want to start searching for a location quickly. Organize the bridal party. Make careful decisions about who you want supporting you leading up to the big day, and who will be displayed in front of everyone in your life. Pick a style. Many brides choose wedding styles that are ref lected in their save-the-dates, invitations, ceremonies, receptions and thank-you cards. Choosing a theme and color scheme in the beginning will help narrow down options later. Hire a caterer. Take into account the dietary needs of your guests by offering a variety of menu options, including a vegetarian dish. Order the cake. Whether you choose a large multitiered cake or cupcakes, remember to keep your budget in mind—and pick f lavors you and your fiancé truly enjoy.
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Make the announcement. Decide how you want to let the community know of your planned nuptials. Do you want to take professional engagement photos? Do you plan to contact your local paper? Will you include a link to a wedding day website on your save-thedate or your wedding invitations? Get the gown. On your wedding day, everyone will be awaiting a glimpse of your gown. Listen to your instincts and choose a gown that “feels right” and ref lects your personality and style. Dress your party. Once you have chosen the wedding dress of your dreams, speak with your fiancé about his wishes for his suit, as well as the bridal party attire. Hire a photographer. Choose your professional photographer wisely. With a walk down the aisle, father/daughter
• Bobby pins, elastic hair bands • Hairbrush • Hairspray • Panty hose • Nail file, nail polish, remover • Baby powder • Makeup • Stain remover • Tissues • Sewing kit with scissors • Ballet flats • Pocket mirror • Extra post-earring backs • Static cling spray • Antacid • Pain reliever • Bandages • Deodorant • Dental floss • Eye drops • Bottled water • Breath mints • Duct tape — for last-minute dress fix-ups and to adhere to the bottom of slippery dress shoes
dance and toast, your father is sure to get photographed, but your mother might get overlooked. Make sure to ask the photographer to get shots of your mother throughout the day as well. Choose your flowers. Once you set the date, discuss with your f lorists which f lowers are in season to help narrow down your selection. You may love tulips, but if you have a winter wedding, they may be hard to come by, and may be more expensive. Planning continued on page 28 >>>
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Book the entertainment. Do you want a DJ or a live band? Talk with your fiancé about your music preferences, as well as the types of tunes you want played at your reception to keep your guests on the dance f loor.
Before the Big Day Create a website for your wedding to keep guests informed of events and for easy access to registry information. Provide accommodation information for those guests traveling from out of town. Insure your engagement and wedding rings against loss, damage, theft or mysterious disappearance. According to a survey conducted by Jewelers Mutual Insurance Company, 44 percent of married women either don’t insure their engagement ring, or don’t know for certain whether their engagement and wedding rings are insured. license, travel documentation and insurance information are ready to go and stored in a safe place in advance of the wedding day.
Practice reciting your vows and speeches until you feel comfortable. Wear your wedding heels around the house to “break them in.” Pack a back-up pair of f lats to wear during the reception. Remember to ask for help. Designate members of your family or close friends to specific assignments.
Wedding Day Details Provide bottled water for your wedding party. To ensure no one gets over-heated, hide water near your bridal party during the ceremony for emergencies. Choose meaningful gifts for your wedding party. Necklaces, earrings or bracelets are great for bridesmaids; cuff links are perfect for groomsmen. Create individual envelopes for tipping drivers, caterers, musicians, etc. Separate envelopes will help ensure you don’t forget anyone.
Plan for weather In case of rain — Order a tent or choose a venue with indoor space for last-minute protection from the elements. Offer extra umbrellas to usher people from their vehicles to the venue. In case of heat — Place fans throughout the venue and provide plenty of water for guests. In case of cold — Space heaters can be placed throughout the space to warm up the room in advance of the event. ●
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Got kids? Make your wedding a family affair By SARAH WOLFE, Associated Press
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When Angelina Jolie wed Brad Pitt in one of the most publicized nuptials of the 21st century, she wore a jaw-dropping silk and satin gown designed by Donatella Versace. Embroidered on her f loor-length veil were colorful drawings by the couple’s six children. One even read “Buttock Fatock.” Eldest sons Maddox and Pax walked Jolie down the aisle, daughters Zahara and Vivienne tossed f lower petals, and daughter Shiloh and son Knox were ring-bearers. Pax baked the wedding cake. It all sounds very Hollywood. But it’s not just Brangelina. Many brides and grooms have children from previous relationships, and are going beyond the traditional to find ways to incorporate them into their weddings. Yes, the kids add cuteness. But it’s often more about blending families.
In this Nov. 1, 2013 photo provided by Courtesy of The Pros, wedding planner Amanda Morris incorporated the 4-year-old daughter of a Chicago-area couple into their wedding a variety of ways. Here, a special flower girl box reads “Daddy here comes Mommy.” (AP Photo/Courtesy of The Pros)
The need to create a family bond early is vital to stepparents’ success” - Stacey James Wheeler
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from Wheeler after he proposed to their mother. “I let them know I was committing to be there as a parent and to raise them as my own,” he says. Like Jolie and Pitt’s brood, many children take part in the ceremony as f lower girls, ring bearers and readers, while others walk their mother down the aisle.
In this Nov. 1, 2013 photo provided by Courtesy of The Pros, a Chicago-area couple made the grand entrance into their wedding reception with sparklers burning overhead. Their 4-year-old daughter loves them, and wanted to make her a priority in their nuptials, wedding planner Amanda Morris says. (AP Photo/Courtesy of The Pros) <<< family continued from page 31
Children also can help light a “unity candle” or participate in what’s become known as a “sand ceremony,” in which the bride, groom and children pour different-colored sand into a container to symbolize a new union. San Francisco physician Kyra Bobinet and her fiancé, Josh Leichter, designed wedding bands with a diamond for each of their four children.
“The need to create a family bond early is vital to stepparents’ success,” says Stacey James Wheeler, a California-based family dynamics researcher and author, whose wife had two daughters when they married more than 12 years ago. “Involving the children in our marriage was a great way to do that.”
“Our kids will be our only bridesmaids and groomsmen, setting them apart as special attendants to the wedding,” Bobinet says. “We’re inviting them to offer words of support for our partnership, so it gives them a voice and a choice in the matter.”
The girls were f lower girls, and received an engraved locket and a verbal commitment
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In this Nov. 1, 2013 photo provided by Courtesy of The Pros, wedding planner Amanda Morris incorporated the 4-year-old daughter of a Chicago-area couple into their wedding a variety of ways. One was this semi-sweetheart table, in which the little girl sat between her mother and father during the reception. Signs reading “I’m hers,” “I’m theirs” and “I’m his” decorated the chair backs. (AP Photo/ Courtesy of The Pros) <<< family continued from page 32
dy Sloane and her husband, Bob Czworka, danced down the aisle with their four children to the song “Love is Strange.” All four kids stood with them under the Jewish chupah, or canopy, during their ceremony in Sunrise, Florida, and at the reception sang a song written by two of them. “I gave my daughter and two ‘bonus daughters’ necklaces that said ‘daughter,’ and my son a commemorative keepsake box,” Sloane says. Chicago-area event planner Amanda Morris created a semi-sweetheart table for a newly married couple and their 4-year-old daughter. The little girl sat between her mom and dad at the reception, and each sat in a chair with signs that read, “I’m his,” ‘’I’m hers” or “I’m theirs.” Morris also created a “favorite things” station instead of a traditional dessert
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