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Sporting a Boner Patrick Colson-Price

My high school years were quite the blur, but I did my best to save some of the best memories to reminisce on for the future if and when I would ever feel the need to be sentimental. My memory bank was mostly full of adrenaline-filled track and field races, high school dances, and of course, my first time kissing and exploring the male body in person. Unfortunately, a few bad memories still linger in my head. One of those memories comes from the need to feel accepted for who I was while climbing the social ladders of high school. It sounds like the typical thought process of a gay high school teen slowly emerging from his or her social shell.

I’d been called gay or faggot plenty of times. It didn’t faze me. I knew I liked men and wasn’t ashamed of my interest. It’s the fact that the people calling me those names had secrets of their own to hide. Their skeletons were just as boney and limp as mine, but they basked in name-calling so no one else would call them by what they really were: hypocrites. There were a group of girls that knew what to say and when to say it. I had my suspicions from day one. They were a little too masculine.

Many of them played on the women’s basketball team, but I never assumed so I kept my mouth closed. Fast forward years after we graduated, slowly but surely, one by one, each of the name callers revealed they were more like me than they cared to admit back in the day. They turned out to be gay. Shocker.

I never thought anything of it. I even considered making a few cryptic Facebook posts calling their behavior out, but refrained from engaging in any childish activity. It seemed to be that way for the most part in upstate South Carolina, at these high schools where being gay was NEVER ok, no matter how popular you were or how many friends you had by your side. This leads me to the title of this piece, “Sporting a Boner.” We all know high school boys are raging with hormones, jerking off multiple times a day, looking for

anything to fuck. At my school, it was no different. I’d see the popular, macho football players claw through the hallways with girls swooning over them in all directions, but little did they know, those same guys would be in the showers after school taking more than just basketballs in their hoops. Between the guys, it was something known but not talked about.

There were a handful of track guys I was on the team with that were very close with one another. Rumors swirled amongst the few gay students including myself, of secret circle jerks on the weekends or experimenting in cars after Friday night football games. The idea was an extreme turn-on. I wanted it to be my reality. But sadly, because it was known that I was gay, those guys jumped hurdles to stay far away from me.

Even during practice when temperatures were soaring into the ’90s, the men would strip to their spandex to cool off before, during, and after our runs. I’d do the same, but it came at a cost. I’d get shunned for “staring” at others crotches even though I wasn’t. Their response, “Don’t look at my dick man, you’re gonna get turned on and get hard!” Turns out it wasn’t me who was sporting the boner. I learned years

down the road that my teammate suspicions were more accurate than I’d imagined. And on a several occasions, while they were in their spandex, they’d occasionally pop a hardon when goofing off with one another. It’s safe to say this world is filled with hypocrites regardless of age, gender, sexual orientation, religion, or political affiliation.

I say all of this for those who may harbor resentment towards their former high school acquaintances or anyone who seems to find more joy in criticizing those for living their most authentic lives: it’s ok to be angry. I feel anger every time I post moments of my life with my husband and those who pointed fingers at me in high school, like and love what they used to despise and make fun of. I feel anger towards many of the hypocritical stances politicians take and continue to stand by. If I’ve learned anything though, it’s that people do change. That change has allowed me to accept and forgive those harsh words and actions of my former classmates. In a way, we’ve grown and changed together which has given us the power to teach those younger than us the right way to treat others. If we keep doing this, we’ll change the world for the better.

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NEWS

The Trevor Project Launches 24/7 Text and Chat Support YOUTUBER TYLER OAKLEY COURTESY PHOTO

Staff Reports The Trevor Project has been battling LGBTQ youth suicide for about two decades with their 24/7 phone line. However, their text and chat support was only offered from 3pm to 10pm.

Not anymore. The Trevor Project has announced an expansion of its services with a 24-hour online chat and text feature.

For many, especially young people, it’s easier to reach out in a text rather than by call. 63 percent of young people who had utilized the Trevor Project’s online chat services did so because they “felt it was easier to be themselves,” than over the phone. That’s why, with the help of AT&T, the Trevor Project will better be able to reach out to and support young LGBTQ people.

The Trevor Project promoted the new 24/7 text service with a video featuring gay YouTuber Tyler Oakley, who talked about how much he needed this service growing up gay in Michigan.

Oakley recalls his friend, the only person he confided in that he was gay, outing him before the school musical.

“My heart dropped. Maybe I couldn’t trust anyone,” he said. “I remember….feeling helpless and alone. I just remember thinking, ‘I don’t know how I’m going to get through this day.’ That would’ve been the moment I would’ve reached out to the Trevor Project.”

If you’re needing help and want to talk to one of the Trevor Project’s professional counselors 24/7, you can do so here. You can also call 1-866-488-7386 or text START to 678678.

Georgia Ranks Low in Survey on LGBTQ-Inclusive Business Climates Staff Reports

“Societal marginalization of LGBTQ people — which can often be subtle and hard to measure — has real and serious economic costs,” the report reads. “Major legislative efforts extend further legal discrimination, such [as] the Religious Freedom Restoration (RFRA) law … and North Carolina’s passage of the HB2 “Bathroom Bill,” damaged those states’ reputation for being business-friendly and harmed tourism, resulting in significant economic losses.”

A new survey ranked the states on LGBTQinclusive business climates, with Georgia ranking low nationally but relatively high regionally.

The LGBTQ Business Climate Index ranked the states on a number of measures, including legal and non-discrimination measures, political and religious attitudes, health access and safety, work environment and employment, and youth and family support.

On the flip side, those more LGBTQfriendly reaped the rewards.

The index found that Massachusetts ranked the highest nationwide with a score of 90, followed by California (89.67) and Connecticut (87.53). Georgia received a 45.33, placing in 38th.

The three lowest-ranking states nationally were South Dakota (34.53), South Carolina (32.90), and Mississippi (31.17).

Among the Southeast region, Georgia ranked fourth, after North Carolina (51.2), Florida (53.2), and Virginia (60.73).

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However, the Southeast region was the lowest-ranking region in the country, with an average rating of about 43. The highestranking region was the Northeast, with a score of about 81.

Out Leadership, the sponsor of the survey, wrote about the negative economic effects low-rated countries could see because of their lack of support — or blatant attack — of the LGBTQ community.

“Research demonstrates that companies where LGBTQ people are supported enjoy increased profitability and stock prices as well as increased employee productivity,” the reports adds. “Our index suggests that a similar relationship exists on a state policy level, and that states that aim to make LGBTQ people more welcome and included legally and culturally will experience significant rewards for doing so, particularly in terms of residents’ well-being and productivity.”

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NEWS

House Judiciary Committee Passes Equality Act Michael Lavers, Washington Blade courtesy of the National LGBTQ Media Association The House Judiciary Committee on Wednesday approved a bill that would add sexual orientation and gender identity to federal civil rights laws.

The Equality Act, which U.S. Rep. David Cicilline (D-R.I.) reintroduced in the U.S. House of Representatives in March, passed the committee by a 22-10 vote margin with all Republican committee members voting against it. The openly gay Rhode Island Democrat in a statement after the vote said “fairness and equality are core American values.”

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discrimination of any kind,” said Cicilline.

U.S. Rep. Jerrold Nadler (D-N.Y.), who chairs the committee, spoke in favor of the Equality Act at the beginning of the markup, which is the first time one has taken place for the perennial bill.

“This is long-overdue legislation that will explicitly prohibit discrimination against lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and gender non-conforming Americans and strengthen nondiscrimination protections for women and others,” said the New York Democrat.

founder of Black Trans Men who said he lost his job in Texas because of his gender identity.

“All Americans need permanent, explicit nondiscrimination laws in place and enforced.”

The Equality Act would specifically add gender identity and sexual orientation to the Civil Rights Act of 1964 and the Fair Housing Act. The bill has 240 co-sponsors in the House from both sides of the aisle. U.S. Sen. Jeff Merkley (D-Ore.) has introduced the Equality Act in the U.S. Senate.

Equality Act supporters who spoke on a conference call with reporters on Tuesday agreed with Nadler.

“It’s time for Congress to add explicit federal LGBTQ nondiscrimination protections to our nation’s civil rights laws,” said the Human Rights Campaign in a tweet.

“The American dream is broken when all states are not united,” said Carter Brown,

Advocates have urged the full House to approve the Equality Act. TheGeorgiaVoice.com

ASK THE DOCTOR

The Importance of Getting a Physical Patrick Colson-Price It’s the inevitable check-up that your doctor urges you to get at least once a year. Test after test reveals exactly what’s going on in your body as it should. But on occasion, patients steer away from making their appointments for their annual checkup and soon forget it altogether.

“I would say about 60 percent of people show up to do your annual exams and about 40 percent don’t,” said Allene Harrison, a nurse practitioner with Absolute Care. “The healthier the city, the more people who actually show up for their physicals.”

Across Atlanta, health has become a vital part of many lives. From exercising at the gym to hitting the Beltline for cardio, it’s easy to stay in shape if you’re willing to put in the work. That work includes making sure your doctors visits are constant.

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panels to check for thyroid disease, it’s better safe than sorry for her patients. “I do a complete metabolic panel, so I look at someone’s blood glucose levels, all of their central electrolytes, their kidneys, and liver,” she said. “I typically do some vitamin levels.

I do a Vitamin D check because studies show a deficiency in Vitamin D can increase the risk of patients getting certain cancers.”

As much as her physicals can inform patients of the stability in their bodies, making it to the doctor is part of the challenge for people in rural parts of Georgia and even in metro Atlanta. In many communities, access to healthcare is limited and healthy food options are few and far between. “Whether it’s education, whether its lack of funds or socio-economic status, eating good and eating healthy can be costly,” said Harrison.

“Even before I became a primary care nurse practitioner, I feel like people over the age of 35 should really be seen annually for a wellness prevention checkup,” said Harrison. “If you can catch things pretty quickly such as high blood pressure, high cholesterol, if there are some abnormalities in the kidneys, livers, those are things that should be closely monitored.”

According to statistics, the average cost of a physical exam without insurance can range anywhere from $50 to hundreds of dollars. But the good news for patients with insurance plans is that most insurance providers cover at least one wellness visit per year. Harrison says for your health and peace of mind, never miss out on what’s really going on within your body because it could save your life.

During her physicals, Harrison leaves no stone unturned. From blood cell counts to look for any signs of infection to thyroid

For more information on setting up your yearly physical with Absolute Care, visit their website at https://www.absolutecare.com.

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HEALTH

13 Facts About Allergies 50,000,000 Americans who suffer from some form of allergies

The scariest allergy, according to polled Americans in 2018: penicillin, as it’s one of the most common causes of fatal anaphylaxis. The most disgusting allergy? Cockroaches.

170 foods trigger allergic responses

The CDC reported that between 1997 and 2008, the prevalence of the peanut or tree nut allergy appeared to have tripled in American children.

Once an allergic reaction gets to a serious point (anaphylaxis) the only treatment is epinephrine.

It’s not that we’re allergic to pets — sometimes they’re allergic to us! Human skin cells (dander) can cause rashes in cats and dogs.

One reason not to get those piercings? According to the Mayo Clinic, jewelry containing nickel can trigger a lifelong metal allergy.

British-born entrepreneur (Jasper Lawrence) flew to Cameroon and stomped around latrines barefooted with the goal of acquiring hookworms to defeat his own allergies. That worked, so he started a business where he’d sell hookworm larvae to allergysufferers around the globe. (Accept here in America, where the FDA prohibits it.)

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Allergies to shellfish, nuts, fish, milk, eggs, and other foods cause an estimated 200 deaths in the U.S. each year.

Up to 40,000 American women may be allergic to seminal plasma, exhibiting an immune reaction to male ejaculate.

Even abstinence isn’t foolproof for these ladies! Women with autoimmune progesterone dermatitis will develop allergic rashes to their own sexy-time hormones.

(That’s scarier than cockroaches, c’mon.)

One more reason to hate climate change: Researchers report that pollen season in North America has lengthened since 1995 — by 16 days! Y’all remember what it did this year. Lord.

Most food allergies are from an immune response to a certain protein. In 2004, researchers at Trinity College in Dublin, Ireland tried to counter the allergic reaction by injecting mice with parasites, giving the rodents’ immune systems a threat their immune systems evolved to fight, distracting them from the food proteins. The experiment was a success!

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SPORTS

Riding for a Cure Patrick Colson-Price

The journey isn’t an easy one. In fact, giving up was on Fred Gransee’s mind many times throughout his training and even during the AIDS Lifecycle ride itself. But there was a purpose for each mile ridden, each dollar raised.

“ It beats you up. You get to certain points

where you’re just so tired. Your body starts to ache but you just push through. You just know that the end is in sight”

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“Anytime I felt like there was self-doubt or anytime I ever felt there was a moment I was in over my head, I went back to friends and family that I’ve lost,” he said. “I sat there and thought of how fortunate I am to be able to do something like this and suck it up and stop feeling sorry for myself.”

Before his first ride three years ago, Gransee had never been on a cycling bike outside of gym spin classes. “I kind of laughed at it at

first. 545 miles is nothing. I go to spin class all the time. I got this,” he said. “When I got on a real bike and not a spin bike, it made all the difference in the world.”

It was several friends who talked him into the ride which starts in San Francisco and ends in Los Angeles. The seven-day ride takes riders through a variety of terrains and elevations, but unlike many competitive rides, it’s not about who finishes first.

“You see people come together pushing others on and supporting one another to finish the ride,” said Gransee. “When you do the AIDS Lifecycle, there’s something called the love bubble. For that one week, it’s 3,000 people CONTINUES ON PAGE 11 TheGeorgiaVoice.com

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CONTINUED FROM PAGE 10 who don’t judge you on your race, creed, your nationality, your social status or how much money you make. It’s all truly love.”

Gransee is part of Team Fubar, based out of Los Angeles, but since moving to Atlanta, he’s has recruited several locals to join his team. Last year, the 115 person team, raised $950,000. This year, their goal is $1,000,000.

They’re about halfway to their goal, but there’s still one month left to go until riders line up and ride for a cure for HIV/AIDS. He’s also had to train with a different mindset and set of goals in order to compete with that of California’s unique geography.

“I know what the challenges are. I know the elevation changes I’ll face in Los Angeles versus here,” he said. “For me, I step it up with endurance rides. I try to pick up as much elevation here in Georgia as much as a possibly can. I also lean on spin class to make up for challenging myself with the endurance and elevation gains.”

Emotion is abundant on this ride. Spectators and riders alike know it’s a test of physical, mental and emotional vulnerability. “It beats you up. You get to certain points where you’re just so tired. Your body starts to ache but you just push through. You just know that the end is in sight,” said Gransee. “But it’s peaceful and serene. It gives you a lot of TheGeorgiaVoice.com

time to think. It gives you a lot of time to dig inside of yourself and make sure you’re really doing this for the right reasons.”

Even those on the sidelines have a connection to the mission of each rider. “There’s a lady every year that sets up a chair along the route. She has a poster with a picture of her son that passed away from AIDS. She’s there every year,” he said. “A bunch of us always make it a point to stop and give her a hug.

She cries and we cry. She thanks us.”

Growing up in the ’90s, Gransee saw from Kentucky a world divided in cities like San Francisco, Los Angeles, and New York. “Just seeing how people treated other people who were affected by the disease,” said Gransee.

“It was something that when I went into college and into med school, that I decided it was something I wanted to continue to focus on and see how I could contribute in the future.”

After his first ride, Gransee learned that together with his teammates, a cure could come quicker than many could imagine. That’s what keeps him and many others riding every mile and raising every dollar, so AIDS Lifecycle can soon become a ride of the past.

To donate to Gransee’s goal, visit his AIDS Lifecycle page at: www.tofighthiv.org/site/TR/Events/ AIDSLifeCycleCenter?px=3371362&pg =personal&fr_id=2110

“ When you do the AIDS Lifecycle, there’s something

called the love bubble. For that one week, it’s 3,000 people who don’t judge you on your race, creed, your nationality, your social status or how much money you make. It’s all truly love.

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Sports Leagues in the ATL Conswella Bennett If you’re looking for new ways to meet friends and you’re tired of the club scene, why not try joining an adult sports league?

Atlanta is the host of a number of LGBTQ adult sports leagues. They can be the perfect way to not only make new friends but to have fun and be healthy at the same time.

Don’t worry if you haven’t played a sport since high school or college, or have never even given athletic activity a try — many of the leagues are beginner friendly.

Check out the list of sports and decide to give one or two a try.

Hotlanta Volleyball Association is a non-profit organization whose mission is to promote goodwill, understanding, and fellowship within Atlanta’s LGBTQ community through the sport of volleyball.

HVA sponsors many activities throughout the year including athletic leagues, tournaments, socials, and fund-raising events. Open play happens weekly with beginner and intermediate levels, plus tournaments year-round.

For more information, visit https:// hotlantavball.leagueapps.com.

GO Kickball Pride League is an awardwinning inclusive organization. The summer season league registration closes June 10 at 6 pm. The summer season will begin Monday, June 17. According to the GO Kickball Pride league website, game dates are 6/17, 6/24, 7/1, 7/8, 7/15, 7/22, 7/29, 8/5, 8/12, and 8/19. Games will be played at Piedmont Park at 6-8 pm.

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league’s free agent matching technology. For more information go to www.gokickball.com/ prideatlanta.

Hotlanta Softball League is ranked as one of the largest member cities in the Amateur Sports Alliance of North America and the North American Gay Amateur Athletic Alliance. Hotlanta Softball plays two seasons — spring and fall. The spring season is currently in full swing (March to June).

According to the website, the Hotlanta Softball League also conducts a NAGAAA recognized annual Memorial Day Tournament, known as the Big Peach Softball Tournament. The Big Peach typically brings up to 47 teams and close to 1,000 players from around the country for the two-day tournament.

For more information and to register for the next season go to www.hotlantasoftball.org.

Atlanta Tennis Team Association promotes and develops the growth of tennis in the LGBTQ community and allies. According to the website, the Atlanta Tennis Team Association is an affiliate of the Gay and Lesbian Tennis Alliance. Open play is typically held Saturdays at 1-6pm at Glenlake Tennis Center in Decatur. For any last minute changes, you are encouraged to check out the ATTA’s Facebook page.

The Atlanta Tennis Team promotes social, recreational and healthy competitive tennis through various activities that include open play, mixers, clinics, singles/doubles ladders and league team play and tournaments.

Tennis played year-round dependent upon the weather. Your first visit is free. If you have fun and would like to join, become a member online at the website at www.atta.org.

National Flag Football League of Atlanta is a 7-on-7 flag football league. It’s open to not only the LGBTQ community but also friends and allies. The league is open to players of all ages and athletic abilities.

According to the website, new players must attend one of the Play and Greet Orientation sessions to meet the captains and other players. At the Play and Greet, you will have an opportunity to learn the rules and run a few plays. You will be informed at the team reveal party shortly after the draft.

For information on the next flag football season, check out www.nffla.com.

Hotlanta Soccer is always looking for new players to join their league. The league is open to the LGBTQ community, friends and allies. The group competes locally in Sports and Social Club leagues and LGBT soccer tournaments in other cities.

The league’s regular season play is about to come to an end. For more information, check out their Facebook group at www.facebook.com/groups/34244209984.

Fantastic Beasts (powerlifting) is a club providing strength training for all individuals with a focus on the LGBTQ+ community.

The club meets the first and third Sunday of each month at CrossFit Downtown Atlanta at 3:00-4:30pm is located at 315 Chester St, Atlanta, GA.

The Fantastic Beasts is VERY beginner friendly and provides instruction even for people who have never touched a barbell.

For more information contact, David Holland at dpholland68@gmail.com.

Atlanta Bucks Rugby Club was founded in July 2003 and is among the first five IGRAB teams in the United States. Members interested in participating must pay dues.

According to the website, dues are collected at the start of each season but can be staggered or sponsored. Members in need of membership financing options are encouraged to contact the club treasurer or president. Members can pay online at any time or via check/cash at training. Members can pay for a single season (fall or spring) but also have the option to pay for one year (two seasons) of dues, saving themselves ten percent.

For more information and to learn about the upcoming season go to their website at www.atlantabucksrugby.org.

Women’s Outdoor Network is an LGBTQfriendly membership-based organization that provides a fun and safe environment for indoor, outdoor and volunteer opportunities.

The group participates in a number of different activities such as walks, two-step, and line dance, hiking, bocce and etc.

For more information check out their website at www.wonatlanta.com.

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Braves to Celebrate

Stonewall Anniversary on Pride Night Patrick Colson-Price It’s a night that will honor the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall Riots, members of the Atlanta LGBTQ community and the allies that support them, all happening on Pride Night at SunTrust Park. The Atlanta Braves, a continued supporter and advocate for the LGBTQ community, say an evening like this shows just how inclusive sports in Atlanta have really become.

“We want the community to feel comfortable and experience a game, whether it’s us or Atlanta United,” said Adrian Williams, Senior Director of Diversity and Community Marketing with the Atlanta Braves. “I think that’s important to create an environment for everyone to feel welcomed in.”

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Pride Night officially started in 2011, but Williams says prior to that, the team has been a longtime supporter of equality dating back to the 1960s when the team first moved to Atlanta. Several years before the Stonewall Riots in New York City, Atlanta faced an uprising in the civil rights movement among the African-American community. The team became vocal supporters for civil rights and those who fought to make their voices heard. They continue that mission to this day and it doesn’t go unnoticed, Williams says.

“That is not only the community showing strong support for us but us wanting to continue to show strong support to the community,” he said.

Last year, the Braves sold 1,400 tickets for their annual LGBTQ Pride Night. Williams says they’ve consistently sold out their Pride programs, but this year they’re hoping to increase those ticket sales to 2,200, with the opportunity to expand to 3,000 tickets.

“We had to move our pre-game party because we were at capacity,” he said. Its new home at the Coca-Cola Roxy, just steps from SunTrust Park, will give attendees the best entertainment inside the perimeter. DJ Kimber from Nonsense ATL will spin the beats, and upon entry, guests will receive their Braves Pride shirt to take home as a souvenir.

“This year’s t-shirt will be our lowercase A with the pride flag integrated into it,” he said. “We’re really excited about that.”

In addition to all of the favorite game events, Williams notes they’re working with several key figures within the Atlanta LGBTQ community to honor the 50th anniversary of the Stonewall Riots, that took place in New York City during the summer of 1969.

The game against the Philadelphia Phillies starts at 7:20pm with the pre-game party lasting from 5:20pm to 7:20pm. Tickets are $45 and include access to the pre-game party, a home run porch game ticket, Braves Pride shirt, access to Xfinity Rooftop, and a $3 donation to Lost-N-Found.

To purchase tickets, visit https://www.mlb.com/ braves/tickets/specials/pride.

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Where to Play in the ATL Katie Burkholder

jewel of Atlanta. The miles of walkable, runnable, and rideable paved trails offer numerous access points, great views of the city, and access to some great parks, shops, and local art. Bonus: there are often free fitness classes and events hosted on the Beltline – check out their website for a schedule and a map. Beltline.org.

Are you a tyrant for tennis? Or maybe soccer is your game of choice. No matter what your sport, you need a place to play. Whether you’re looking to get some practice in, play a quick game with friends, or just get your heart pumping, here’s where you can do it across the ATL.

Tennis Grab your racket and master your backhand at any of these courts.

Grant Park This beautiful park not only holds the famous Zoo Atlanta but also four lighted tennis courts, along with free wi-fi throughout the park. 800 Cherokee Ave SE.

Hawks-sponsored court is great for sinking three-pointers. Bonus: it’s right next to free parking. You can also find indoor courts at the Grant Park Rec Center.

Piedmont Park Nestled in Atlanta’s favorite park are a whopping twelve courts – just make sure you call to reserve a court at 404-853-3461. 400 Park Dr. NE.

Piedmont Park Located next to the tennis courts and west of the Bocce courts, here you can play a casual pickup game or pay to make a reservation.

If leisure play is more your thing, go on a Friday — no reservations are allowed.

Central Park Four lighted courts surrounded by trees make this a great reclusive spot to practice or play. 400 Merritts Ave NE.

Candler Park One full court and one half court are located next to the large multi-purpose field on the west side of Candler Park.

Atlantic Station For those looking for urban views instead of natural ones, these four courts are the perfect choice for you. Go during the day, these courts are not lighted! 270 17th St NW.

Central Park Practice your shot and enjoy a great view of the city at one of four Atlanta Hawks-sponsored full courts in Central Park. Located right next to the playground, this is a great spot to have a fun day outside with your kids.

Candler Park Like Central Park, four lighted courts are surrounded by greenery. 585 Candler Park Dr. NE. Anderson Park West Atlanta, this one’s for you! These three courts are nicely shaded by trees, making Anderson Park a great place to play when the Atlanta heat hits hard. 120 Anderson Ave NW.

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Shady Valley Park Shoot your shot in North Atlanta! One full court is discreetly hidden in this beautiful secret gem of a park. 2720 Shady Valley Dr. NE.

Field Sports Soccer, basketball, softball, oh my! Whatever your sport, these multi-purpose fields are sure to cater to any need.

Piedmont Park Piedmont Park’s Active Oval hosts two softball fields and two soccer fields. These are available for reservation or leisure play – like the basketball courts, no reservations can be made on Friday.

Looking for a more casual space to play? The park also boasts two large multi-purpose fields.

Central Park The park features two multi-use fields – one lighted, the other with a diamond perfect for baseball, softball, or kickball.

Boulevard Crossing Park These beautiful five acres of greenspace boast two spacious fields, complete with soccer goals and bleachers. 500 Englewood Ave SE. Historic Fourth Ward Skatepark While the name doesn’t scream “greenspace,” this skatepark is actually accompanied by a huge multi-purpose field, perfect for a quick pickup game! Bonus: it’s right off the Beltline Eastside trail, making it easily accessible by foot. 830 Willoughby Way NE. Candler Park Right next to the basketball courts is an incredibly spacious greenspace with enough room to easily host six or more games.

Running Train for your upcoming marathon or just break a sweat!

Piedmont Park Surrounding the Active Oval is a crushed gravel running track that stretches about half a mile. If tracks aren’t your thing, there are plenty of hilly paved paths around the park perfect for training or just a leisurely stroll.

The Beltline In terms of trails, the Beltline is the crown

Herbert Taylor Park Located just north of the Virginia Highland neighborhood, this 1-mile-long trail is great for beginners and experts alike. Enjoy beautiful views of the South Fork Peachtree Creek and Rock Creek while walking or running through the shady forest. 1795 Johnson Rd NE. Zonolite Park 1.5 miles of gravel trails weave through 13 acres of beautiful old-growth forest. Get a great view of the South Fork Peachtree Creek on sandy beach-like banks. 1160 Zonolite Pl NE. South River Walking Trail Head to Southeast Atlanta to run on this 3.3mile paved path. This hilly trail tracks through dense forest and over creeks, making your run a scenic one. 2109 Bouldercrest Rd NE.

Other For swimmers, skaters, and even Bocce players!

Piedmont Park Find sand volleyball courts in the Active Oval, Bocce courts next to the tennis and basketball courts, and a paid public pool with four lap lanes at the Aquatic Center.

Arthur Langford Jr. Park This skatepark, located on the south side of the city, is great for beginner skaters.

However, all levels are welcome to utilize the numerous skater amenities available. 1614 Arthur Langford Jr Pl SW. Historic Fourth Ward Skatepark Skateboarder Tony Hawk praised this park, the first public skate park in Atlanta, saying it offered something for every skater, no matter their skill level. The world-class amenities make this a top choice for skaters across Atlanta.

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The Rise of eSports in the Queer Community O’Brian Gunn When you think of sports, some of the first ones to come to mind are likely baseball, football, and basketball. More than likely, you’d furrow your brow in puzzlement if you were told that playing video games is considered a sport; eSports, in fact. Because of their competitive nature, video games have joined the conversation regarding sports, and the queer community has openly joined the ranks of this form of competition, just as we have more traditional athletics. And just like with traditional athletics, there are plenty of hurdles for us to overcome in the virtual realm.

You may not have heard of Dominique McLean, more commonly known as SonicFox, but he’s setting the world of eSports on fire. Along with winning four Evolution Championship Series events and being recognized as 2018’s The Game Awards’ Esports Player of the Year, McLean is Black, openly gay, and a furry. McLean in unique in the eSports realm and gaming community because of his transparency, often seen wearing a fursuit during competitions. To add another distinction to his considerable professional resume, McLean is also the highest-paid TheGeorgiaVoice.com

fighting game eSports player, scooping up more than $500,000 in earnings.

While McLean is most certainly a notable figure in the eSports, gaming, and queer community, his story isn’t a common one when it comes to queer people in eSports.

Austin Wilmont is another openly gay eSports player. In 2018, Wilmont was on the receiving end of a homophobic comment by another player, one who was fined and suspended. While trash talking is rampant in any sport, it can be especially toxic in online gaming. This just lends further evidence to that fact that while we’ve come a long way in regards to LGBTQ rights, there’s still a lot of ground to cover, areas we may not even be aware needs our attention and diligence.

In 2015, a Philippines eSports league created a ruling to limit the number of transgender and gay participants in all-female tournaments.

Specifically, the league ruled that only one “gay/transgendered woman” was allowed to participate in each individual tournament day.

It’s important to note that in the Philippines, the term “bakla” refers to men who present as female but may not self-identify as female.

There was speculation that the ruling was

created to block male competitors from identifying as “bakla” to compete. That said, the eSports league never clarified whether this was the case. Instead, the league threw out the ruling and released a statement, saying “any player who self-identifies as female will be allowed to participate. We sincerely apologize for any offense we caused to the LGBTQ and gaming communities.”

Many of us desire an escape from the real world, and video games go a long way in providing us with a chance to step away from reality and immerse ourselves in a realm of fantasy. Combine that with the camaraderie and teamwork often found in online gaming and eSports teams, and our community has a great alternative. But is there any representation to be seen in the games queer people love playing so much?

Overwatch, one of the most popular games amongst LGBTQ players, has plenty to offer in terms of queer characters. The speedster Tracer has been confirmed to identify as a lesbian.

There’s speculation that the androgynous geneticist Moira is either non-binary or trans (nothing has been confirmed nor denied).

Even the Mortal Kombat series is doing its

part to include non-heterosexual characters.

Kung Jin, an archer in Mortal Kombat X, was confirmed by creator and story director Dominic Cianciolo to be gay. There are plenty of bisexual, lesbian, gay, and trans characters in the Dragon Age series, and even Grand Theft Auto, a video game series noted as being the most controversial in history, has several queer characters. Video game developers are starting to make more of an effort to create games that reflect not only the real world but their player base as well, giving us more nuanced gaming experiences that go well beyond the heterosexual white male main character.

No matter how the public feels regarding the validity of eSports as genuine sports, its impact on the queer community both in terms of video game character diversity and eSports players cannot be denied or overlooked. As the virtual realm continues to grow exponentially, there’s hope more progressive strides will be made in terms of LGBTQ representation in games. As long as the gaming industry holds onto the impression that our community has a massive disposable income to spend, they may grind to gain experience points and unlock the LGBTQ achievement, earning themselves a platinum rainbow trophy.

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Patrick Colson-Price There’s no question that Atlanta has become one of the top circuit scenes in the country over the past decade. It’s evident when you walk into Heretic Atlanta. On either side of the entrance doors, a slew of posters highlights top DJs from across the country and around the world.

There’s music blaring from Heretic and next door Xion almost every weekend, but one weekend, in particular, takes circuit to the next level. It’s called Peach Party. “I’m really happy it’s taken off the way it has,” said Promoter, Keith Allen Young. “Everywhere, no matter where I go, people know about Peach Party.”

Young thought up the idea almost a decade ago to satisfy the need for a circuit weekend during Pride Month. Since Atlanta Pride fell at the end of the year in October, he knew Peach Party in June would be a hit. This year, because of World Pride in New York, he moved the weekend into May. The change allows Young to still bring in popular talent from around the country and 16 Nightlife May 10, 2019

world without interfering with a packed event lineup for World Pride 2019. Locals see it as a preview of what’s in store. Peach Party DJ headliners, Tom Stephan from the United Kingdom and Isaac Escalante, are both set to headline one of World Pride’s largest parties, Alegria WorldPride 2019.

“I love to bring new talent in but for big weekends where people are paying a fortune, it’s hard to take chances with somebody new, if people are going to respond or travel to the city for someone new,” said Young. “You go for headliners that people recognize.” He’s also brought in Atlanta’s very own Seth Breezy to jump-start the party Sunday evening at TEN Atlanta. Other DJs including Deanne, Dee Martello, Cindel Coss, and Eddie Martinez, have worked closely with Young in the past.

“I listen to what people want and I look at prior sales,” he said. “I know which DJs I book and who’s going to see them and who’s not.”

Young, who’s working on his 400th event in Atlanta, is optimistic about Peach Party’s future. For the past two years, his team has worked non-stop to open up a new venue

to give Atlanta circuit it’s official new home.

The club’s called Future and it’s set to open later this year. “We’re hoping it’s open by Pride,” said Young.

I am very excited to have the chance to visit and DJ there.”

It’ll solidify his role in the circuit scene here in Atlanta for at least another ten years, he says. That means you can expect Peach Party, Atlanta Pride and Joining Hearts weekend to grow into a worldwide spectacle that will cement Young’s parties into circuit history.

What are you looking forward to most about Peach Party and how are you preparing for the crowd?

“As always, I’ll be scouring the internet for sexy new beats, and finding ways to mash up or mix familiar songs in new ways. I’m always excited to have the chance to share my sounds with a new audience.”

One-on-One with the Peach Party DJs

Cindel Coss

Tom Stephan Saturday 5/18 Buckhead Theatre 10pm-2:30am

It’s your first time in Atlanta and first time DJing here. What are you expecting from the circuit scene?

“To be honest, I’m not very familiar with the Atlanta circuit scene. But I do have a good friend in London who is working a great deal these days on films in Atlanta and he keeps telling me what a wonderful city it is.

Friday 5/17 Heretic Atlanta 10pm-3am

It’s not your first time in the DJ lineup for Peach Party! What was it like your first time spinning?

“The experience was phenomenal. From the parties to the attention and treatment provided by the promoters and staff behind the Peach Party, to the attendees. It was truly an honor to have been a part of the event.

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DJs aré trying to bring the best!”

I’m beyond excited to be back and to see how much bigger it has gotten over the years.”

Twisted Dee

What makes Peach Party so special for you?

“I get to see so many familiar faces as well as meet so many new souls that share the same likes as I do. They’re there to enjoy a fun weekend filled with amazing music and great friends. I also get to share my music and make people dance which is what makes me the happiest.”

Isaac Escalante

Sunday 5/19 District 7pm-Midnight What do you think you can bring to Peach Party when it comes to music that will give people a new experience?

“Every weekend, every event I always do something different to my set bringing a new experience. I’m excited to play Peach Party because the work that Keith Allen Young and all the Atlanta boys are doing it’s awesome. They deserve the best and all the TheGeorgiaVoice.com

Friday 5/17 Xion 3am-7am

What makes Peach Party the must-attend event for DJs around the country and the world?

“The patrons in Atlanta “know their music” and are very open-minded to the DJ’s expressing themselves. I never feel as ‘FREE’ as I do when I play in ATL. As a DJ, you never have to conform, and you can always be you.

This is golden for a DJ, and you always have to come with your best because folks in ATL know their music! I give Atlanta and Peach Party the #1 prize for unity, friendship, great music and for investing in all the right places.

I’m their #1 fan!”

Eddie Martinez

Saturday 5/18 Xion 3am-7am Peach Party has become a tradition for

many across the country and you’re now part of the superstar DJ lineup for the event! How are you feeling?

“This will be my first Peach Party! I have been looking forward to this event for months now! It means a lot to be part of something that has become a very special weekend for many around the country. I love seeing people really dance and Atlanta has those crowds which I love. People come out and have a great time and it shows!”

Seth Breezy Sunday 5/19 Ten Atlanta 4pm-7pm

As a DJ, what’s your favorite part about Peach Party weekend?

“My favorite part is the music. Peach Party is growing in size each year and has a reputation for great music and DJ’s. I also appreciate the people who come out to support the event.

Their intentions are always in supporting our local venues and coming out to have fun and enjoy good music.”

You’re the only local DJ in the lineup for Peach Party. What does it mean to you?

“Atlanta has one of the livest crowds when it comes to circuit parties. I always feel welcomed here in Atlanta. I was born and raised here, so it feels good to have the support of the home team on your side.”

Deanne

Sunday 5/19 Xion Midnight-Until Do the crowds at Peach Party make you feel welcomed and do you think they embrace your music and other unique styles?

“I think it has been said to me that Atlanta is a mix of “southern hospitality with a circuit mentality”. That is so true. But, don’t be mistaken, Atlanta loves to party and have a good time and they also know their music. It takes a certain something to make “the cut.”

With that being said, I feel fortunate enough to have made “the cut” over the years. But, I take that seriously and try and push myself to give my best and then some every time. I am very fortunate that they trust me, allow me to be me, and take the ride with me. As a result, I have had some of my best sets in Atlanta. That’s priceless.”

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ACTING OUT

“Cruel Intentions” Musical Hits Atlanta Stage Jim Farmer

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It was a notable hit when it came out — and now “Cruel Intentions,” celebrating its 20th anniversary, comes to town next week in a new guise of a stage musical with all its campiness and sexual hijinks intact.

In the production, wrapping up a national tour, gay actor John Battagliese plays the character of Greg McConnell. The character has been beefed up for the musical version.

An adaptation of the novel “Les Liaisons dangereuses,” “Cruel Intentions: The ’90s Musical” follows the movie virtually word for word. In Manhattan, wealthy step siblings Sebastian Valmont and Kathryn Merteuil place a bet on whether Sebastian can take the virginity of Annette Hargrove, the headmaster’s daughter. If he loses, Sebastian has to forfeit his vintage 1959 Jaguar Roadster. If he wins, he gets to bed Kathryn, the only woman he can’t have.

What the manipulative Sebastian doesn’t expect is that he will fall in love with Annette. The movie version starred Sarah Michelle Gellar, Ryan Phillippe, and Reese Witherspoon, while the earlier “Dangerous Liaisons” had Glenn Close, John Malkovich, and Michelle Pfeiffer as its key players.

The musical was created by Lindsey Rosin and Jordan Ross and has had runs in Los Angeles and off-Broadway. “I saw the show when it was done off-Broadway just before it closed,” Battagliese said. “I knew I had to be part of it and went through half a dozen callbacks before landing it.” The production uses some of the original music — most notably “Bittersweet Symphony” — as well as tunes from REM, Christina Aguilera, Boyz II Men, and Britney Spears.

The actor’s character of Greg is the closeted

football player. He is a minor character in the movie — used as a pawn tactic in the game between Kathryn and Sebastian — but the stage version fleshes him out as he struggles with coming out.

He feels the patrons of the musical are a combination of new faces and those who jammed to the movie. “For a lot of people, it was an awakening movie for them. It’s not like anything else. I think the original ‘Mean Girls’ and that form of niche teen drama following teens going through adolescence and hormones for the first time, is maybe something people can’t relate to but in their wildest teen fantasies, they’d like to. People who were teenagers when it came out are coming to see it and relive it. Many fans are teenagers now who are discovering it. I think it does stand the test of time, although many of its plot points are not politically correct.”

Having seen the movie and the musical, he’s a little more enamored with the latter. “I love the musical version a little more. There is something special to adding the soundtrack and songs to the scenes. The show is taken from the movie script. There’s this magic of the characters breaking out into songs seamlessly

that you wouldn’t think would work but does.”

The performer says that the musical is very campy but the cast plays it straightforward.

As a gay man, he also enjoys portraying a gay character for the first time. “As a gay actor, this has been a blast and so freeing. It’s a funny role but there’s truth in it.”

Running through next week is the dark comedy “The Secretaries,” which closes the season for Out Front Theatre Company. It is directed by Heidi Howard, the out artistic director of 7 Stages. It’s a dark comedy that follows the character of Pretty Patty as she joins the secretarial pool at the Cooney Lumber Mill. When things go awry, like the disappearance of male lumberjacks, she realizes that murder may be in the air.

SHOWING TIMES “Cruel Intentions: The ‘90s Musical” May 15 Cobb Energy Performing Arts Centre “The Secretaries” Through May 18 Out Front Theatre Company

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It’s 9pm on Friday at Varuni Napoli, the fiveyear-old pizzeria across from Ansley Mall.

Virtually packed when we arrived, its largely neighborhood crowd has already begun to thin out when someone begins shouting indecipherable comments. There’s a sudden explosion. Before I can hit the floor and beg Jesus not to let me die in a pizzeria, I catch sight of the terrorist – an employee wielding a confetti cannon, announcing that we will all be receiving plates of free pasta. Xanax will not be included.

Varuni is one of the pizzerias that opened during the so-called Pizza Wars that erupted in Atlanta about 10 years ago. That drama began with the arrival of Neapolitan-style pies in our pizza-dumb city. Unlike your beloved Pizza Hut pies, the Neapolitan is thin crusted and cooked almost instantly in a hellishly hot wood-fired oven. The quick cooking typically leaves the center of the pizza wet, so that you can’t pick up a slice easily. You can fold it. Or you can use a knife and fork. Or you can shut up and just cram it in your pizza-pie hole.

Five years ago, I found Varuni mediocre and for the most part still do. This is a subjective judgment — my friends liked it — but I really want flavors with more intensity than I find here. During my dinner last Friday, I most liked our starters: a plate of three arancini (rice balls) and three panzerotti (potato croquettes). Both were fried to a deep, crunchy brown finish. The panzerotti, the best, were filled with a smoky mozzarella tempered by a bit of parsley. The arancini, which seem to be appearing on menus everywhere, were more complex. The interior held fresh, not smoked, mozzarella combined with some beef and a few peas.

A red sauce was provided but I liked eating both naked. We also ordered a cluster of three “Mama’s famous meatballs.” I’m not sure they deserve fame, but they were fine — the usual ground meat in a heavy tomato sauce, topped with cheese.

We ordered two pizzas — the red Porreca Piccante and the white Oro Bianco.

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(Actually, we didn’t order the Oro Bianco, but that’s what they brought to the table.)

Both pizzas left me mystified. They certainly conformed, structurally, to the Neapolitan standard. The outer crust was billowy and chewy; the rest of the crust was thin and a bit wet in the center; the pizza was tattooed with char marks from the fiery oven. I want more crunch, but I mainly want better toppings. The Porreca Piccante was the most mystifying. The few hot Italian peppers properly earned it a spicy rating, but I could hardly find any spicy salami or “spreadable” pork sausage in its ragu sauce.

The mozzarella and pecorino were there, sort of. The Oro Bianco pie was nearly as strange. The menu lists these ingredients: fresh mozzarella, buffalo ricotta, taleggio cheese, pancetta, pecorino, basil, black truffle oil, and black pepper. That pancetta was almost as sparse as the basil leaves. I got no taste of truffle oil (which is fine, actually) and no sting from black pepper.

In the end, I yielded a good bit of my share of the pizzas to my friends. I passed on the Nutella calzone that I was dying to order … until I saw one being made and knew that it

would need a lot more Nutella.

We were done by the time the confetti canon announced the free pasta, but we held onto our seats. Soon carts were rolling around dispensing little dishes of penne pasta in a simple, light tomato sauce. It would be charitable to call the pasta al dente. It was undercooked, but, honestly, I liked it better than the pizza and that’s sad because there’s no pasta on the menu.

Varuni is open for dinner only during the week, but lunch is served weekends. A satellite operation at Krog Street Market is open for both meals every day.

Cliff Bostock is a longtime Atlanta restaurant critic and former psychotherapist turned life coach; cliffbostock@gmail.com.

MORE INFO Varuni Napoli 1540 Monroe Drive 404-709-2690 www.Varuni.us

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BEST BETS Our Guide to the Best LGBTQ Events in Atlanta for May 10-23 Friday, May 10

the garden of the body, where living things grow and wither — or survive. In the urgency born of real danger, Brown’s work is at its most innovative.

7pm

Come join the Relaunch Community BBQ for The SPOT at the Rush Center.

The SPOT offers free, fast, late-night HIV and now STI testing. Come meet the new staff and enjoy some food and drinks.

6 – 9pm

Wednesday, May 15

Celebrate the 20th anniversary of the 1999 silver screen classic “Cruel Intentions” with an all-new musical. Based on the French novel “Les Liaisons Dangereuses” and the classic cult film starring Reese Witherspoon, Ryan Phillipe, and Sarah Michelle Geller, “Cruel Intentions: The ’90s Musical” pulls you into the manipulative world of Manhattan’s most dangerous liaisons: Sebastian Valmont and Kathryn Merteuil. Seduced by revenge and fueled by passion, the two diabolically charming step-siblings place a bet on whether or not Sebastian can deflower their incoming headmaster’s daughter, Annette Hargrove.

As the two set out to destroy the innocent girl—and anyone who gets in their way — they find themselves entangled in a web of secrets, temptation, and the cruelest game of all: love. The musical features your favorite throwback hits by artists like Boyz II Men, Christina Aguilera, REM, *NSYNC, and, of course, Britney Spears.

8pm Cobb Energy Performing Arts Centre

Don’t be late for this important date! The dark and twisted energy of Wonderland will bring Ritual to life in this once a year event. Let us shock your senses and rock your world in this gothic and fantastic take on this timeless concept. DJ Lechter and DJ Caz 10 will be spinning your favorite goth-industrial dance tracks!

10pm – 3am Heretic Atlanta

Saturday, May 11

The Michelle Malone Band will be playing bluesy as well as some of Michelle’s favorite blues classics tonight at the Blues and BBQ Birthday Bash.

7 and 9:15pm Eddie’s Attic In an Atlanta Rollergirls double feature, the Rumble Bs take on the River City Rat Pack and the Toxic Shocks take on the Demons.

5pm and 7:30pm Yaarab Shrine Center Actor/comedian Eddie Izzard brings his Wunderbar International Tour to the ATL. 8pm Fox Theatre ENL Productions Proudly Presents RISE with DJ Mike Pope spinning high energy vocal house and circuit all night long.

10pm – 3am Heretic Atlanta

Sunday, May 12

Call your mother and spend Mother’s Day with Big and Little Edie, when the Plaza Atlanta Theater screens the classic documentary “Grey Gardens.”

8pm

Monday, May 13

T-Time Atlanta Trans Youth holds its weekly meeting.

7pm

Thursday, May 16

EVENT SPOTLIGHT SATURDAY, MAY 11

The former First Lady comes to town for her Becoming: An Intimate Conversation with Michelle Obama event.

8pm State Farm Arena St. Annes Episcopal Church What’s next for Stacey Abrams? The New York Times bestselling author of “Lead From The Outside,” Abrams will be joining Posman Books in conversation tonight to reveal her future plans.

7 – 10pm The Carter Center Join the League of Atlanta Pups Mondays at the Atlanta Eagle. Pup gear is encouraged but not required. A padded mosh area will be the set-up so the

pups can enjoy some play time.

7:30pm – 3am

Tuesday, May 14

The Auburn Avenue Research Library will host poet Jericho Brown who will read from and discuss his daring new poetry collection, “The Tradition.” “The Tradition” questions why and how we’ve become accustomed to terror: in the bedroom, the classroom, the workplace, and the movie theater. From mass shootings to rape to the murder of unarmed people by police, Brown interrupts complacency by locating each emergency in

Grammy®, TONY®, and Emmy® Awardwinning artist Ben Platt of “Dear Evan Hansen” fame visits the Cobb Energy Performing Arts Centre tonight in support of his debut solo LP “Sing to Me Instead.”

8pm

Friday, May 17

Amanda Palmer has released her first solo album in six years, “There Will Be No Intermission,” and is bringing it to Atlanta.

7:30pm Cobb Energy Performing Arts Centre Charis welcomes Atlanta author Jason Allen to celebrate his debut novel “The East End.” Jason will read from the novel, take questions and sign books. A tragic accident threatens to unravel two families in this gripping novel of suspense and culture clash in the Hamptons. Corey Halpern,

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2:30pm – 4pm The Atlanta International School

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7:30 – 9pm Charis Books & More

Atlanta’s own Seth Breezy will get your Sunday Funday right at the Peach Party Sunday T-Dance.

4 – 7pm TEN Atlanta The party continues with the sounds of DJ Isaac Escalante and the best lighting and sound in the ATL. 7pm – Midnight District Atlanta

Every Friday night at Mary’s Atlanta, come enjoy Bitch Please.

9pm Kick off Peach Party 2019 with DJ Cindel from Chicago spinning the hottest beats all night long! Weekend passes and individual party tickets available on the event’s Facebook page.

10pm – 3am Heretic Atlanta

Monday, May 20

End Peach Party 2019 with one final dance at Xion after hours with DJ Deanne.

Midnight – Until BJ Roosters

Saturday, May 18

Keep Peach Party going at Xion after hours with Twisted Dee. 3am –7am BJ Roosters Join the fun at the Sixth Annual LGBTQ Family Day with Atlanta Pride. There will be painting, games, and food at this family-friendly picnic. Kids of all ages are welcome as well as their grown-ups.

11am – 1pm Glenlake Park Come out and play flag football with other LGBTQ folks today. Bring your water bottles and your short shorts. Coaches, cheerleaders, and sideline fans are encouraged to come out as well.

Noon Piedmont Park Dust that pollen off your dancing shoes because it’s time to swing. This year, the MetroGnomes Stage Band presents its fifth “Spring Swing,” the season’s swankiest event. Swing dance lessons are available so you can learn a step or two so you can glide across the dance floor when the live music begins shortly after. The program includes swing and big band and pop music along with special guest vocalists.

7pm Hudson Grille Midtown DJ Pat Scott returns to the Atlanta Eagle

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EVENT SPOTLIGHT FRIDAY, MAY 17

Horizon Theatre opens “The Cake” tonight. When Della, a North Carolina Baker and devout Christian, is asked to bake a wedding cake for her best friend’s daughter, she is overjoyed. That joy is short-lived, though, when she learns that the intended is another bride. Struggling to reconcile her deeply-held belief in “traditional marriage” and the love she has for the woman she helped raise, Della finds herself in strange new territory. Inspired by a story still in the headlines, this is a new play by Bekah Brunstetter (TV’s “This is Us”) 8pm, through June 23 for the annual Britney Bash, Atlanta’s premiere summer kick-off party, benefitting P.A.L.S. 10pm – 3am Atlanta Eagle Tom Stephan from London, England, makes his Atlanta debut at the Peach Party 2019 main event.

10pm – 3am Buckhead Theatre Hogtied returns to the Heretic Atlanta.

Dust off those dog masks and come in your best fetish/leather/bondage gear for the chance to win a prize. The event will feature Bigtch Puddin,’ Meatball from The Boulet Brother’s Dragula, Alex Suarez, Cola Fizz, Dotte Com, Kryean Kally, Michael Robinson, Molly Rimswell, TJ Maxxx, Video Tronic, D’Knighten Day, Mo’Dest Volgare and SH, with DJ Zaida on deck.

10pm – 3am

Sunday, May 19

Xion is the place to be to keep the party going into the early morning. DJ Eddie Martinez makes his Peach Party debut for an after-hours party you don’t want to miss.

3am – 7am BJ Roosters Each third Sunday in May a large group of house music lovers assemble in Atlanta’s Piedmont Park Pavilion for an explosive high energy event called Indigenous House Atlanta, What makes this different from other events in the country is a unique crowd from all the original house music clubs of America, with an energy and excitement all its own every year.

Noon – 10pm The PFLAG support group for parents

Trans and Friends is a youth-focused group for trans people, people questioning their own gender and aspiring allies, providing a facilitated space to discuss gender, relevant resources and activism around social issues, 7 – 8:30pm Charis Books and More

Tuesday, May 21

Support Atlanta Pride tonight at Dine Out for Pride.

4 – 8pm Panera Bread at Ansley Mall Enjoy Retro Video Night with Mr. Richard tonight.

6 – 10pm Woofs Atlanta

Wednesday, May 22

Catch the biggest and best of Broadway as you’ve never seen it before. The biggest hits from every decade — “Annie,” “Wicked,” “The Lion King” and more, hosted by Edie Cheezburger.

Lips Atlanta

Thursday, May 23

Molly Rimswell and D’Knighten Day host Trashed Thursdays.

10pm My Sister’s Room

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EVENT SPOTLIGHT FRIDAY, MAY 31

A musical fantasy about the rise of singer (and part-time Atlanta native) Elton John, “Rocketman” opens today in metro Atlanta theaters.

CONTINUED FROM PAGE 22 Do you want to read books by amazing Black women writers? Do you want to discuss works from a Black feminist perspective(s)?

Do you want to do all of this in an awesome gem of a feminist bookstore? Then the Black Feminist Book Club is for you.

Charis Circle board chair Susana Morris is the facilitator of this group. This spring and summer Black Feminist contemporary memoirs are on tap and tonight it’s “Hunger”

by Roxane Gay. This is a Charis Circle from margin to center literary event and the suggested donation is $5.

7 – 9pm Charis Circle

UPCOMING Wednesday, May 29

The Auburn Avenue Research Library in collaboration with artist/ activist Charmaine Minniefield of The New Freedom Project will host a screening of the documentary “Fundi: The Story of Ella Baker.” While not as well known as famed leaders of the Civil Rights Movement, Ella Baker was the behind-the-scenes force that ensured the success of some of the movement’s most important organizations and events. Her life and accomplishments are chronicled in this powerful documentary.

“Fundi” was her nickname, from a Swahili

word that means a person who passes down a craft to the next generation. This event is free and open to the public.

7pm

Friday, May 31

Get ready for another “Sordid Lives” experience as Del Shores, writer/director of the iconic gay film and many more, spends a weekend at River’s Edge, with film screenings and performances.

5pm, through the weekend

Saturday, June 1

Enjoy a day of fun and rides at Atlanta Pride’s Out in the Park at Six Flags.

Patrons can enjoy an exclusive all-youcan-eat catered meal at the Private Picnic Pavilion located across from SkyScreamer from 2 – 4pm. Unlimited beer and wine pre-purchases are also available.

Friday, June 7

The Atlanta Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce (AGLCC) is a day-long conference and expo, covering topics relevant to the Southeastern LGBTQ business community. Tickets include networking, expo, general sessions, reception, keynote presentation and more with interactive panel discussions and national business leaders and an overview of the state of today’s LGBT economy.

1 – 7:30pm Atlanta Marriott Northeast

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THAT’S WHAT SHE SAID

Workplace Avengers Melissa Carter The worst part of ourselves tends to emerge when we’re placed in a defensive position, where normally hidden t h o u g h t s are strewn like weapons from our forked tongues. When I placed a colleague in such a position, his words hit me at a surprisingly deep level. He should also feel lucky I like him or my natural reaction would have cost me my job.

I am a geek, with a love of all things superhero, sci-fi, fantasy, and the like. So, when Avengers: Endgame came out of course I had a ticket the very first night. And, like most of the world, I was impressed by the film and anxious to talk to fellow geeks about the storyline. However, not everyone was motivated to get their tickets as early as I was. I found myself having to give my opinion of the movie to these friends without giving any spoilers away, which was difficult considering how excited I was to discuss major plot points with them.

A colleague who considers himself an authority on several things geek began a conversation regarding Captain America.

With an expectant look, I asked if he had seen Avengers: Endgame yet, and he admitted he had not. I wasn’t the only one who was surprised, as my cubicle neighbor jumped from his desk in shock at what this colleague had confessed. He mentioned he would see it before the following weekend was through, but we chose to continue giving him crap for having not yet gone.

I would soon learn this was the breaking point, yet I assumed our conversation was simply in jest and thought nothing of belaboring the point.

I mentioned when I was on morning radio I would give listeners a week to see a movie or watch a television show, and after that would hold nothing back in conversations regarding said entertainment. I warned the same would be true for him if he failed to go that weekend as planned, and my cubemate 26 Columnists May 10, 2019

asked him why in the world he decided to wait to go see it. The colleague in question said he had a kid, to which I turned to my cube mate and pointed at myself to suggest I had one too.

Then my colleague said, “Yeah, but you have him half the time.”

In that very moment, my thoughts went from Captain America to The Hulk, as my blood began to heat and I was ready to let him have it. You don’t go there with me. In fact, you never go anywhere negative with me where Mr. Carter is concerned.

My cubemate sensing the severity of the comment replied, “You do too. No parent is with their kids all the time.” I was relieved he had my back.

Our colleague’s defensiveness further showed as he said, “I could frankly give a sh*t what you guys think,” although trying to act as if he were kidding before he walked away.

The whole conversation was childish and should never have resulted in ill feelings, but couldn’t that be said for any argument no matter how big or small? I had to remind myself that to be a real-life superhero you have to do the right thing, despite feeling like doing the reverse. I had to let it go.

One of the first out radio personalities in Atlanta, Melissa’s worked for B98.5 and Q100.

Catch her daily on theProgressive Voices podcast “She Persisted.” Tweet her! @MelissaCarter TheGeorgiaVoice.com

SOMETIMES ‘Y’

Literary Bathhouse Ryan Lee

I attended my first writers’ conference this weekend and was surprised by how similar it felt to a trip to the bathhouse, just with more small talk.

About a hundred aspiring novelists were at an airport hotel to share part of their souls with editors and literary agents cruising for the next marketable storyteller, and almost none of these interactions would lead to a meaningful relationship.

I’ve spent the last 20 years conceiving and writing the novel I believe is now ready for representation, and had a 15-minute pitch session with an agent scheduled for Saturday.

For the last month, I’ve obsessively drafted and edited a one-page summary of my story, and honed my novel’s “hook” into an 11word sentence intended to yank the sense and soul out of anyone who reads or hears it.

I went to the Friday mixer with a hit list that consisted of five agents and editors whose online profiles suggested we might be thematically compatible. I hoped to briefly talk with each and tactfully mention I happened to have written a novel, since I’d seen warnings that cocktail hours at conferences are intended as downtime for the industry professionals attending.

I entered the ballroom and was immediately spotted as fresh meat by an organizer who came over to help me relax, and gave priceless wisdom on etiquette and how to make my book more desirable to those around us.

“The agents know why they’re here, so don’t worry about getting straight to your book,” TheGeorgiaVoice.com

she advised. “But don’t call it a literary novel, call it ‘upmarket.’ Agents hear ‘literary novel’ and tune out.”

I made contact with my first target agent, whipped out my upmarket hook and watched her shake her head in disbelief.

“Wow,” she said with wide, searching eyes.

“That sounds like it could be really interesting.”

Now gimmie my million dollars, I almost shouted. Instead, I stuttered and rambled until pausing long enough for her to ask me to send my query letter and sample chapters.

I was more coherent when I scored time with two of my other targets, both of whom were intrigued by my concept and gave me their card so I could e-mail them pages. By the time of my formal pitch to the agent Saturday, I was bracing for a bidding war to erupt in the second-floor hallways of the airport Westin.

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Not one second of our 15 minutes together was filled with the agent’s thoughts on the content of my single-page synopsis. Instead, she offered an extended lesson on structuring my pitch letter, and I zoned out thinking about how dejecting the weekend would’ve been without the three thrills I experienced at the mixer.

One of the most polite ways to show disinterest in someone when passing him in a bathhouse is to pretend you don’t see him, and that’s essentially how the agent rejected my proposal, never acknowledging the story.

I had no urge to pry out a more substantive response because she made her disinterest clear, and it’s rude to make a person at whom you’ve shot your shot say no more than once.

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