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Attorney: Transgender inmate sexually assaulted again Latest in a series of incidents with Ashley Diamond

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February 2015 The SPLC files a federal lawsuit against the GDC claiming that Ashley Diamond had been denied medical treatment and had been sexually assaulted by other inmates at Georgia State Prison.

By PATRICK SAUNDERS Ashley Diamond, the transgender Georgia inmate who filed a federal lawsuit against the Georgia Department of Corrections (GDC), says that she has been sexually assaulted again.

The revelation comes following a July 5 court filing in Diamond’s case against the state, which began in February when the Southern Poverty Law Center (SPLC) filed suit saying she had been denied hormone therapy, sexually assaulted by other inmates and tormented by inmates and staff.

This latest filing states that on or about June 10, Diamond was in the process of being transported from Rutledge State Prison to Augusta Medical Center for a medical appointment. To facilitate the trip, she was temporarily held at Georgia State Prison, the same prison she was transferred from in May over safety concerns. Diamond alleges that the inmate who was in the holding cell with her on June 10 sexually assaulted her.

According to Diamond, the perpetrator threatened her on the way back to Rutledge State Prison, warning her not to say anything about the attack. She reported the incident to GDC officials upon her return, and the alleged perpetrator was transferred to another facility on June 29.

Investigators continue to look into the incident and a Prison Rape Elimination Act (PREA) complaint has been filed.

“What this means is Miss Diamond is still not out of harm’s way,” says the SPLC’s Chinyere Ezie, lead attorney in Diamond’s lawsuit. “We’re hoping that the court will call the parties for a hearing sooner rather than later. We are concerned about Miss Diamond’s current status. The court is in the best position to begin to address some of her concerns.”

Retaliation claims made against warden Diamond, a Rome, Georgia, native who has performed as a drag queen in Atlanta, also alleges that Rutledge State Prison Warden Shay Hatcher, who is a defendant in the case, shared

Early April 2015 The U.S. Department of Justice issues a statement in support of Diamond, saying that denying her hormone treatments is unconstitutional.

Elton John and R.E.M.’s Michael Stipe also issued a joint statement, demanding justice for Diamond and for all transgender inmates in Georgia.

Ashley Diamond says the incident happened in a holding cell at her former prison. (Photo courtesy Southern Poverty Law Center)

information from the PREA complaint about the June 10 incident with other inmates. Her attorneys claim Hatcher did so in retaliation against Diamond for filing the lawsuit.

“We understand the recent disclosure of the substance of her sexual assault allegations to be an instance of retaliatory conduct,” Ezie says. “PREA is very clear that sexual assault allegations are to be treated confidentially.

In spite of that, the warden disclosed the identity of the person who Miss Diamond made the allegations about to other prisoners, which has led to daily threats and being called a snitch, which puts her in a great deal of danger in the prison environment.”

The July 5 court filing cites a June 29 incident in which an inmate reportedly told Diamond to recant the sexual assault complaint “or else,” and incidents on July 5 and 7 where groups of inmates confronted her, calling her “a snitch.” Diamond says the threats are ongoing and that she is afraid to leave her dormitory, including for meals, without an escort.

Hatcher denies the allegations made against him, and GDC officials did not return a request for comment on the matter.

‘Take that garbage off your face’ On July 20, Diamond’s attorneys were

contacted by an unnamed individual who claims they witnessed Diamond being put into solitary confinement that afternoon for wearing makeup.

They are still gathering details on the incident, but Diamond, who was wearing lipstick, foundation and eyeliner, was reportedly told by a guard “to take that garbage off your face” and she refused. Diamond’s attorneys say they plan on filing additional papers with the court as early as this week with details of the incident.

Meanwhile, they’re staying focused on one goal in particular—getting Diamond out of Rutledge State Prison.

“The Georgia Department of Corrections should follow the federal PREA guidelines. They outline a very detailed procedure which is currently the law that calls for individualized determination for where to place a transgender inmate,” Ezie says. “We’ve really yet to see any evidence that this procedure has been followed in Georgia. Rutledge is an inappropriate facility because half the defendants reside there.”

As to why Diamond hasn’t been placed in a women’s prison, Ezie says they are asking themselves the same question.

“The federal PREA guidelines are like-

Mid-April 2015 The GDC restores Diamond’s hormone treatments, although Diamond’s attorneys voice concerns that the dosage appears to be too low to be therapeutic.

Late April 2015 U.S. District Judge Marc Treadwell denies Diamond’s request to be transferred to a lower-security prison for her safety.

May 2015 GDC officials agree to transfer Diamond from Georgia State Prison to Rutledge State Prison, a medium-security facility in Columbus.

July 2015 Diamond alleges that she was sexually assaulted in a holding cell at Georgia State Prison, a stopover on the way from Rutledge to a medical appointment in Augusta. wise clear that prisons should not have a blanket policy of where to house transgender female or male prisoners,” she says. “Obviously from Miss Diamond’s story alone, there are reasons to have concerns about the wisdom of that process.”

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Political newcomer takes on RFRA Lesbian family members influence Taylor Bennett’s House District 80 run

By PATRICK SAUNDERS Heads didn’t so much turn as snap when the results came back in the July 14 race for House District 80, and sitting on top was Taylor Bennett, the 29-year-old former Georgia Tech quarterback who is now a labor and employment lawyer.

Bennett, a Democrat in his first run for office, bested three Republicans and will have a tough fight on his hands when he faces former Brookhaven mayor J. Max Davis in an August 11 runoff.

Should he prevail, he plans on fighting something that’s caused an uproar in each of the last two legislative sessions—state Sen. Josh McKoon’s (R-Columbus) so-called “religious freedom” bill, which many believe will lead to more anti-LGBT discrimination.

Bennett has made the issue the centerpiece of his campaign, and not just because he’s an employment lawyer who has represented people fired for their sexual orientation or gender identity—both his mother and sister are gay.

“As a labor and employment attorney and obviously my personal connection to the issue, watching the Georgia legislature literally try to figure out ways to discriminate, especially to the LGBT community, I didn’t want to sit by and just watch this unfold in front of me,” Bennett tells Georgia Voice.

“I’m thinking, is my mom going to be able to come to Georgia and have lunch with her son and have to face discrimination to come see me? That was something that got at me pretty deep.”

The House District 80 seat carries with it some history as it relates to the Religious Freedom Restoration Act (RFRA) fight.

State Rep. Mike Jacobs (R-Brookhaven),

Taylor Bennett, 29, also favors a hate crimes law and an LGBT anti-discrimination law in Georgia. (Courtesy photo)

who held the seat until being appointed by Governor Nathan Deal as a judge on the DeKalb County State Court earlier this year, amended the bill in this year’s session to add an anti-discrimination clause. The amendment effectively killed the bill, but McKoon has vowed to propose it again in 2016.

“We need to ensure that the next representative from HD 80 is equally committed to fighting discrimination, especially as it relates to the LGBT community. Taylor Bennett is that person,” says Jeff Graham, executive director of Georgia Equality, who endorsed Bennett. “His mother is a lesbian and he understands firsthand the struggles of the LGBT community here in Georgia.”

Bennett also confirmed his support for a hate crimes law and an anti-discrimination bill that would cover employment, housing and public accommodations.

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Georgia senators help defeat LGBT student protection amendment Vote comes as GLSEN releases report on anti-bullying policies

By PATRICK SAUNDERS Seven Republicans crossed the aisle to vote in favor of the Student Nondiscrimination Act (SNDA), but Georgia’s senators stayed put as the amendment to an education bill fell eight votes short of the 60-vote threshold required for passage.

The failure of the amendment, which would have provided nondiscrimination and anti-bullying protections for LGBT children in schools, comes just as an LGBT education organization releases a report on the lack of protections for LGBT students across the country.

The Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network (GLSEN) released “From Statehouse to Schoolhouse: Anti-Bullying Policy Efforts in U.S. States and School Districts” on July 15, one day after SNDA failed in the U.S. Senate.

Johnny Isakson voted against the Student Nondiscrimination Act on July 14.

(Official photos)

The report showed that nearly three in 10 (29.5 percent) U.S. school districts do not have an anti-bullying policy. And of the 70.5 percent of U.S. school districts with anti-bullying policies:

• Fewer than half (42.6 percent) enumerate protections for students based on their actual or perceived sexual orientation.

• A minority (14.1 percent) enumerates protections for students based on their gender identity and/or gender expression.

• About a quarter (26.8 percent) requires professional development for staff to address bullying and harassment in their schools.

• Fewer than one-third (30.3 percent) stipulate accountability for incidents of bullying and harassment to the district and/or state.

• Only 3 percent of district policies include all three elements—LGBT enumeration, professional development requirements, and accountability stipulations.

The report also found that 75 percent of Georgia school districts have anti-bullying policies, but only 1.7 percent have policies enumerating LGBT protections. The national average was 9.9 percent with LGBT protections.

“The critical point is that without federal protections, states like Georgia that are

unlikely in the near future to pass state-level protections will be forced to fight battles for LGBTQ student rights at a slower, district-by-district pace,” says Emily Brown, field organizer at Georgia Equality. “This will negatively affect those students in small, rural districts that may have small numbers of LGBTQ students and who lack access to gaystraight alliances, LGBTQ community centers or other affirming community resources.”

Georgia Equality will continue to work with school districts across the state to enact anti-bullying policies that enumerate sexual orientation and gender identity as protected classes, as well as partner with the Georgia Safe Schools Coalition and GLSEN in their efforts.

“These programs will always be necessary, but without federal or state policies or laws that protect LGBTQ students, they are mere stop-gap measures,” Brown says.

The offices of Sen. Johnny Isakson and Sen. David Perdue did not respond to a request for comment about their votes on SNDA.

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NEWSBRIEFS Vandals deface LGBT church in Augusta, Georgia Vandals spray-painted an LGBT church in downtown Augusta with Bible passages and suggestions that LGBT people burn.

The incident occurred on July 21, as first reported by the Augusta Chronicle.

“Burn Leviticus 18:22 Lies” was spray-painted across the front doors of Metropolitan Community Church of Our Redeemer, while another passage, Leviticus 18:20, was spray-painted on the front steps with the words “You’ll Burn.”

The church’s pastor, Rick Sosbe, was part of the first gay couple to receive a marriage license in Richmond County following the June 26 U.S. Supreme Court decision striking down same-sex marriage bans nationwide.

The incident occurred roughly three weeks after a rainbow flag was stolen from the front of the church.

“I was angry,” Sosbe told the Augusta Chronicle. “I was very sad and I thought, ‘Just why?’ To me, it seems so interesting that they’re saying on there that you’ll burn – in other words saying ‘You’ll burn in hell,’ I’m sure – and quoting scripture. Is that what Christianity – right-wing, fundamentalist Christianity – has come to?”

Sosbe and his partner, Michael Rehn, married on June 30. He said this was the first time an anti-LGBT incident has happened at the church and that he plans on discussing the installation of security cameras when the church’s board next meets.

Judge quits marrying couples in protest of Supreme Court decision A magistrate judge in central Georgia says he would rather not perform any weddings at all than be required to perform weddings for same-sex couples, so he’s out of the marriage business.

According to 13WMAZ, Dodge County Magistrate Judge Lonnie T. Parkerson made the announcement during a wedding for an opposite-sex couple, saying he was moved to do so after two women came in to get married.

“I want y’a’ll to know you’re the last wedding that I’m ever gonna do,” Parkerson says in a video sent to the station. “They were already scheduled so I’ll do them too. I just can’t do it the other way, y’all, it ain’t right.

The Bible explains it just like that [snaps)] what marriage is. That is a marriage right there [points to couple getting married].

What came in my office the other day was

Dodge County Magistrate Judge Lonnie T. Parkerson says he will no longer perform marriages of any kind because of the U.S. Supreme Court striking down same-sex marriage bans. (Screenshot via 13WMAZ)

two ladies, it’s not a marriage.”

Parkerson, who is a banker by profession and in his third term as magistrate, confirmed his decision to 13WMAZ in a statement, saying in part, “I’ve been approached about a wedding I performed yesterday and about two weeks ago I had some people come in the office and asked me to do a wedding and I’m not doing weddings any more since the Supreme Court passed the law that they did.”

Bill to ‘protect’ clergy from performing same-sex marriages House Speaker David Ralston (R-Blue Ridge) has told his fellow House Republicans that he wants them to adopt a “pastor’s protection act” ensuring no faith leader can be forced to perform a same-sex wedding—even though clergy already appear to have that protection.

The comments came at a caucus meeting on July 11 in Jekyll Island, according to the AJC. Ralston said he planned on advocating for the bill when the 2016 legislative session

begins in January.

However, it appears that faith leaders already have those protections under the U.S. Constitution.

“The First Amendment already protects the right of pastors to decline solemnizing any marriage inconsistent with the tenets of their faith. Obergefell did not change that fundamental principle,” out constitutional scholar Anthony Kreis tells Georgia Voice.

“It was always permissible, for example, for a rabbi to refuse to perform a marriage for an interfaith couple notwithstanding their constitutional right to marry civilly.”

Georgia Voice found instances in the past of faith leaders refusing to perform interracial marriages as well, and doing so without consequence. And the Family Research Council, who are designated as an anti-LGBT hate group by the Southern Poverty Law Center, have a page on their website dedicated to assuring members of the clergy and other concerned parties.

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“Moreover, the defiant act of flying of the gay rainbow

Before it kills again.”

“I don’t like labels, but everyone needs them to understand what is going on. So, OK, I get it. Give me ‘American.’ There is nothing wrong with being an American, purely.”

—Radical right wing news and opinion site Breitbart blames the rainbow flag for the killing of four Marines and a sailor in Chattanooga.

(Breitbart News, July 18)

—Raven-Symoné on how she does not like labels concerning her race or sexual orientation. (People Magazine, July 13)

flag, especially in the wake of the Supreme Court’s ruling that legalized same sex marriage in all 50 states, is undoubtedly offensive to devout Muslims, and therefore provocative. It is time to shame and marginalize the gay rainbow flag — this offensive, provocative symbol of hate and oppression must be tossed on the ash bin of history.

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By Simon Williamson

The courage of coming out Simon Williamson lives with his federally-recognized spouse in the wild yonder of Newton County. Follow him on Twitter at @simonwillo.

We all had to be brave.

Caitlyn Jenner has given the country yet another opportunity to declare who is not a hero in relation to the military, and the country has responded in the best way it knows how, furiously, across any Facebook page within typing distance.

Nonetheless, since Jenner got under the skin of angry folks by daring to be called courageous by other people, this perpetual whining has shown the greater public may be on the side of LGBT+ folks when it comes to marriage (and the ridiculous legal effects attached to it) but woefully ignorant of the pain and danger of living a life in secret, which is ultimately something all of us who fit within our abbreviation have undergone.

“Part of our quest for perfection, or projecting the perfect image, is it provides us with a weapon. In a world that despises us for being black and gay, maybe we think if we are just as good, if not better, we have a chance.

Maybe we think only through perfection, can we be loved.”

Atlanta is the city of perfect black gay men, or rather the illusion of perfection.

Perfect bodies. Perfect jobs. Perfect homes.

Perfect cars. Perfect clothes. Perfect credentials. Perfect boyfriends. And if you’re not yet perfect, you better be working toward it, always.

But the thing with unattainable ideals is that you eventually discover that they are unattainable for a reason, which is why I think some of us become very disillusioned and experience significant despair along the way.

Not all of us are driven toward perfection.

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Even in families where our incongruency with the basic gender binary has been perfectly acceptable, there was risk in our decisions to come out. Because, like a top bottoming for the first time, once out there is no going back in. No one knows for sure that Parent A and/or Parent B will be fully supportive, and anyone who has ever attended a school with pubescent or older peers will be able to relay the horror of being untypical. Horror. Worse than not being able to show off your brand new 9-months-of-taste-free-food abs because you stupidly got a sunburn.

Being forced to hide one’s self from the world is a cruel and unusual punishment, and is only relatable if you have had to go through it. There is the very real danger

of anyone finding out and hating you, or abusing you, and in far too many cases, killing you. And there is the perpetual guardedness you have to carry around, which, in my case, wore me to the emotional bone.

I have another story about an emotional bone, but I was drunk and he was so pretty. And we had just seen “The Fault In Our Stars.”

Back to the topic at hand: just because Caitlyn Jenner might be a Hollywood celebrity, cashing in on her fame, doesn’t mean she was spared the pain and paranoia so many of us have endured. I was all teary and emotional for months before I came out at age 19. I don’t even want to think about what it must be like hiding yourself into your 60s. It is also outrageously impor-

“Channel 2’s comment section might be whining about connoting Jenner and courage, but anyone in our family will be able to tell you it was never easy. It might be nothing like fighting in the military. But it was fucking terrifying.” tant for trans people everywhere to know there are trans people everywhere.

Over the last few years we have had Laverne Cox, Chaz Bono and Janet Mock light up our screens, and show the world that trans people exist, and now we can add Jenner to that powerful list.

As a young gay man, I decided to come out because the winner of a British singing competition did. Don’t ever doubt the value and sincerity of a potent symbol to people who are struggling to deal with what they are hiding. Channel 2’s comment section might be whining about connoting Jenner and courage, but anyone in our family will be able to tell you it was never easy. It might be nothing like fighting in the military. But it was fucking terrifying.

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By Charles Stephens

Being thrice as good Charles Stephens is the Director of Counter Narrative and co-editor of ‘Black Gay Genius: Answering Joseph Beam’s Call.’ around. It haunts us. It’s a voice we internalize, a voice that is very much rooted in the racist, masculinist, heterosexist culture we live in, and survive. A voice that Toni Morrison once described as the “master narrative.”

Part of our quest for perfection, or projecting the perfect image, is it provides us with a weapon. In a world that despises us for being black and gay, maybe we think if we are just as good, if not better, we have a chance. Maybe we think only through perfection, can we be loved.

As little boys we imagine that if we are just good enough, we can be accepted. If we are just smart enough we can deflect the disappointment of our parents, once they

discover our sing-song voices or the slight swish in our walk. We can hide behind our accomplishments: grades, extracurricular activities, awards.

When I was in high school for example, all of the other black gay boys I knew were overachievers. It’s often how we found each other. Then we would come out, often into black gay men’s communities where we struggled again not so much for acceptance but for recognition and affirmation. The most painful thing is to be around other black gay men and feel completely invisible.

Structural violence isn’t just about downward social mobility, it’s also about upward social mobility. Both are connected to the

same system. This notion, which is in fact a reality, that we have to work twice as hard and be twice as good in a culture that despises us is very much linked to structural violence. And if you are black and gay, you have to be thrice as good, a kind of tripleconsciousness.

Black gay men are far from the only group that seeks to use social status symbols as weapons and for protection. But I often wonder if for us, the consequences of such a course of action, are more severe. No matter how perfect we attempt to become, we will never embody the ideal that these notions of perfection are based on. And so perfection for us is the sword that cuts both ways. www.thegeorgiavoice.com

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This was the 28th year of the event, which took place at Piedmont Pool, with 100 percent of tips and admission sales going directly to the beneficiaries. Check out our photo gallery as the (largely) male contingent drank, splashed and danced into the night, capped off as always by a fireworks display. (Photos by Ryan Lee)

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BEST OF ATLANTA AWARDS Your votes. Your voice. Your winners.

You came, you saw, you clicked. And clicked, and clicked, and clicked. Two months and over 100,000 votes later and we are proud to announce the winners of the 2015 Georgia Voice Best of Atlanta Awards.

The open nomination period for our sixth annual Best of Atlanta awards began in late May, in those backward times when same-sex marriage was still illegal. After a month, the votes were tallied and your finalists were announced.

Then it was time for the final voting period.

Some of the finalists let the process take care of itself. Others mounted campaigns through social media to garner votes. And now we present your choices for LGBT Atlanta’s best in Arts & Entertainment, Community, Eats, Nightlife, People, Pets, Services and Shopping.

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Atlanta’s LGBT community is invited to The Georgian Terrace Hotel on Friday July 24 from 6 p.m to 10 p.m. to enjoy light bites from your favorite restaurants like Henry’s Midtown Tavern, Campagnolo, Green Ginger and DaVinci’s, enjoy wine and signature cocktails courtesy of Green’s, move your body to the DJ’s beats and watch as the winners of Georgia Voice’s 2015 Best of Atlanta Awards

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are crowned. Admission is free, so come on down and kick off your weekend right!

Congratulations to the winners and finalists alike!

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CHARIS BOOKS It’s been around for 40 years and is Atlanta’s favorite bookstore: Charis Books (www.charisbooksandmore.com). With a welcoming home in Little Five Points, a great selection of new and topical LGBT books and established classics, plus a calendar full of community and special events, it’s no real surprise.

The Edgewood Barnes & Noble (www.barnesandnoble.com) is second, and Book Nook third.

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Adult Bookstore

BRUSHSTROKES For those not in the mood for “Anna Karenina,” Brushstrokes (www.brushstrokesatlanta.com) is your top place for reading material of a more adult, spicy nature. With all sorts of books and magazines and DVDs—and an abundance of toys and other unexpected items—this is the place you want to drop cash.

Tokyo Valentino/Inserection (www.tokyovalentino.com) takes second and Southern Nights (www.facebook.com/SNVatlanta) third place.

Tattoo Shop

TIMELESS TATTOO Need a place to get that first tattoo or to add more to your body work?

Timeless Tattoo on Cheshire Bridge Road

(www.timelesstattoola.com/) has been an Atlanta institution since 1995—and Cap Szumski and crew are known far and wide for their service and professionalism. They are able to ink patrons on their first visit.

In second place is Liberty (www.libertytat2.com) and in third is Southern Star (www.southernstartattoo.com).

Clothing Store

LOST-N-FOUND THRIFT & CONSIGNMENT Over the last few years the Lost-NFound Thrift & Consignment store (www. lnfy.org) has been a powerful fundraising tool for homeless youth. Now it has an amazing, sprawling location with all kinds of cool, great clothes. It’s a nice place to spend money for a very worthy cause.

In second place is Boy Next Door (www.boynextdoormenswear.com) and in

third, Rag-O-Rama (www.ragorama.com).

Florist

FLOWER COTTAGE When it comes to getting bouquets together or just a rose or two to say “I love you,” Flower Cottage in East Point (www.flowercottageonmain.com) is the winner. Whether it’s an array of stunning summer flowers, birthday flowers or a “get well soon” ensemble, the choices are pretty limitless here.

In second place is Carithers (www.carithers.com) and third goes to Foxgloves & Ivy (www.foxgloves.biz).

Gift Store

BRUSHSTROKES The Gift Card Boutique at Brushstrokes (www.brushstrokesatlanta.com/store) is the place to go for aisles and aisles of birthday/ relationship/holiday cards, but it also features

clothing items, especially T-shirts, and all kinds of LGBT novelty items. Fairly new are the store’s home and décor and kitchen offerings, which give the store an added depth.

Marketplace 120 (www.marketplace120. com) takes second place and Stanton Design (www.stantonhomefurnishings.com) third.

Furniture/Home Decor

MITCHELL GOLD + BOB WILLIAMS Looking for something classic yet affordable for the living room, or the kitchen, or any part of the house? Or any kind of accessories imaginable? Mitchell Gold + Bob Williams (www.mgbwhome.com) claims victory here, with a terrific location in Buckhead open every day of the week—for those big or small furnishing needs.

In second place is Domestic Comfort (www.domesticcomfort.com) and in third is Horizon Home.

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Jewelry Store

JONATHAN BUCKHEAD LGBT marriage is legal—finally!—and Atlanta’s premier choice to shop for jewelry is Jonathan Buckhead (www.jonathanbuckhead.com). Owner Jonathan Shapero knows his business inside and out and can fill custom orders in a heartbeat—for a quick wedding or a long engagement. He is also involved in community organizations throughout the city.

In second place is Worthmore (www.worthmorejewelers.com) and Brown & Company (www.brownjewelers.com) takes third.

SERVICES Doctor

DR. MELANIE THOMPSON Readers chose Dr. Melanie Thompson,

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founder and executive director of the AIDS Research Consortium of Atlanta (ARCA), as top physician this year. She is a dedicated provider of care and advocacy for people with HIV and AIDS, and she has been a strong proponent for the use of PrEP to help prevent new infections with the virus.

In second place this year is David Morris of Pride Medical (www.pridemedical.com); in third is Scott Parry of Intown Primary Care (www.intownprimarycare.com).

Financial Planner

ZAK KOFFLER Zak Koffler of Morgan Stanley (www.morganstanleyfa.com/zak.koffler) profits most in this category for 2015!

The out certified financial planner (CFP) steers the fortunes of many Atlantans, both straight and LGBT, and is active in many associations, including The Trevor Project, Southern Jewish Resource Network (SO-

JOURN), and the Atlanta Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce.

Don Dusick of Cornerstone (yourcorneronline.com/about.htm) gets second, with Larry Waller of HLM Financial Group (www.hlmonestop.com/ourteam.php) in third.

Dentist

DR. CHIP HILL Filling first place this year, Dr. Chip Hill (www.chiphilldds.com) is crowned our top dentist! The Midtown professional has been practicing in Atlanta for nearly 20 years.

He has a perfect 5-star rating on yelp.com, proving that when it comes to caring for our readers’ teeth, he really knows the drill.

Dr. Tammy Bregman (www.myatlantacosmeticdentist.com/Atlanta-DentistTammy-Bregman-DMD-FAGD-13896) is in second, with Dr. Tom Sparkman (www.sparkmandds.com) in third.

Bank

BB&T Georgia Voice readers have invested in BB&T (www.bbt.com) as their number one bank this year. The 143-year old financial institution, founded in North Carolina, today has 15 locations in the Atlanta area and a demonstrated commitment to serving the LGBT community; the company is both a sponsor and a vendor each year with Atlanta Pride.

Delta Community Credit Union (www.deltacommunitycu.com) has second place to its credit, and Regions Bank at Ansley Mall deposits third.

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The pharmacy in the Kroger pharmacy at Ansley Mall is second place this year, with AbsoluteCARE (www.absolutecarehealth. com/atlanta) third.

Realtor

KATHY KELLY Kathy Kelly (kathykellysells.com) takes first place this year. The Decatur spouse and parent has lived most of her life in the ATL, and she believes her educational background in business and social work have helped to make her a better real estate agent. Georgia Voice readers have made a down payment on that claim!

Justin Ziegler arrives in second place, and Bradford Smith sets up camp in third.

Dermatologist

DAMON MAULDIN, M.D. Damon Mauldin, M.D., (www.dermga. com/providers/damon-v-mauldin-md) puts skin in the game with his number one placing this year. The Little Rock native has lived in Decatur with his wife and children for 11 years, and he joined Dermatology Associates of Georgia in 1999 and is site partner at the practice’s Decatur office. His interests include general medical dermatology and skin cancer surgery.

Tiffany Hamilton (www.hamiltonderm. com/providers) is the runner-up, and William Wray (www.atlantadermatology.com/ biographies_wray.php) takes third place.

Gym

GRAVITY FITNESS Gravity Fitness (www.gravityatl.com) muscles into this category’s first place in 2015. The Midtown fitness center, on Faulkner Road off Cheshire Bridge, has been providing the iron for fitness-minded Atlantans to pump for over eight years. It also provides a wide range of other services,

including massage, classes, personal training and sauna.

Urban Body (urbanbodyfitness.com) spots second, with the Anytime Fitness (www.anytimefitness.com) in Midtown lifting third.

Hair Salon

AUTHENTIC BEAUTY SALON & STUDIO Authentic Beauty Salon & Studio wins this year. The multitalented Julia Thaiese, hair stylist, makeup artist and cosmetologist, is a Paul Mitchell graduate who has worked with brides, with models and on movie sets in the Atlanta area for many years. She also loves to teach others the craft.

Bubbles (www.bubblesatlanta.com) is second this year, and Stephen Harvey Salon (www.stephenharveysalon.com) is third.

Spa

BLISS Bliss (www.blissworld.com) in Midtown lives up to its name for a majority of readers,

as it wins this category in 2015. A range of treatments and products can be found there, from massages and facials to waxing to laser applications. Several products are available to purchase for home use as well.

Second place goes to Blue MedSpa (bluemedspa.com), and Exhale (exhalespa.com/locations/atlanta) wins third place.

Lawyer/Legal

DAN GROSSMAN Dan Grossman (dangrossmanlaw.com) double-dips this year, since he has also won Best Male Activist. He is a fearless defender of the rights of LGBT people in Atlanta, most famously in the case of the Atlanta Police Department raid on the Atlanta Eagle bar. He’s the man you want when it’s time to question authority.

Jennifer Gibbs (gibbsmabe.com) takes second place, with Kathleen Womack (www.kwomacklaw.com) in third.

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PETS

Veterinarian

NORTH DEKALB VETERINARY CLINIC What’s the best place to call when your dog or cat takes ill? Serving the Decatur, Emory and Atlanta areas for more than 30 years is North DeKalb Veterinary Clinic (www.northdekalbvet.com), your top choice for vet service. Open six days a week, the clinic has four veterinarians and a friendly staff to make the visit bearable.

Ansley Animal Clinic (www.ansley animalclinic.com) grabs second and Briarcliff Animal Clinic (www.briarcliff animal.com) is third.

Pet Store

THE PET SET The Pet Set (www.thepetset.com) takes honors here, with a wide array of food, playthings and everything else for the little ones at home. Its website lists its win-

some inventory, such as the KONG classic rubber toy, a weight loss supplement, dental treats and all sorts of other tasty and healthy pet treats.

Pet Fancy (Roswell) (www.thepetfancy. com) is second, and Kirkwood Feed & Seed (www.kirkwoodfeedandseed.com) third.

Doggie Dare Care

PIEDMONT BARK Perennial fave Piedmont Bark (www. piedmontbark.com) triumphs here. The company, based in Midtown, offers tremendous support when you can’t be with your dog—extensive, carefully planned day care and activities, washing and grooming options, even a self-serve dog wash. Dog owners feel safe leaving their pets here for a reason.

In second is The Pet Set (www.thepetset. com) and third is Kirkwood Bark and Lounge (www.barkandlounge.net).

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COMMUNITY

Grooming

THE PET SET When it’s time to get Muffy that summer haircut or a new look for that fancy event, The Pet Set (www.thepetset.com) is where you like to go. With two locations, one in Midtown and the other in Buckhead, as well as mobile assistance, The Pet Set offers spa-like services, including foods and treats with all-natural ingredients.

Piedmont Bark (www.piedmontbark.com) is the runner-up and Fur Side Pet Grooming (www.fursidepetgrooming.com) is third.

Pet Events

ANGELS AMONG US PET RESCUE Dedicated to saving dogs and cats from high-kill shelters, Angels Among Us Pet Rescue (www.angelsrescue.org) corralled the highest number of votes here. The organization has all kinds of events throughout the Atlanta area and North Georgia to raise money to save pets, including pet adoptions and the Best Friends Pet Conference.

In second is For the Love of Paws and in third, K9s & Cocktails Big Deck Party (www.facebook.com/ events/365542563650598).

LGBT Nonprofit

LAMBDA LEGAL No organization has done more nationally to secure marriage equality than Lambda Legal (www.lambdalegal.org), and Georgia Voice readers showed their appreciation by naming the group best LGBT nonprofit. The local branch of the LGBT rights group challenged Georgia’s constitutional ban on same-sex marriage with the suit Inniss v. Aderhold, which finally brought the Peach State to the front lines of the marriage battle.

The saintly work Lost-N-Found (www.lnfy.org) is doing with homeless LGBT teens earns the group second place, and the Atlanta Prime Timers (www.primetimersww.com/atlantapt) are honored with third for fostering a vibrant community among LGBT seniors.

Sports Team/League

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ner’s podium as the best sports team/ league. With year-round open play, leagues and major tournaments such as The Hooch and the esteemed Peach International Tennis Championships, ATTA has a reputation for welcoming athletes of all levels of skill.

The blockbuster Toy Party (www.forthekid.org) finishes second, with the always explosive Joining Hearts pool party (www.joininghearts.org) rounding out the top three.

The women’s softball team, City of Light Miracles, slides into second place, while the Hotlanta Volleyball League (www.hotlantavolleyball.org) takes home the bronze.

POSITIVE IMPACT As the 35-year epidemic fades from the consciousness of many, the folks at Positive Impact Health Centers (www.positiveimpact-atl.org) continue to expand their efforts to end the disease. From groundbreaking programs like The M.I.S.T.E.R Center (www.mistercenter.org) to literally breaking ground on new facilities on West Peachtree Street, the organization is committed to being a positive force for LGBT health in Atlanta.

LGBT Charity Benefit

EAST POINT POSSUMS It used to be hard to imagine that anything could fill the hole in the early summer calendar when Atlanta Pride moved from June to October, but the East Point Possums (www. eastpointpossums.com) have made their annual drag show one of the biggest nights of the year. Drag queens from all genres and parts of the city join forces to raise money for charity, turning the downtown square of East 26 Best of Atlanta July 24, 2015

HIV/AIDS Nonprofit

AID Atlanta (www.aidatlanta.org) finishes second, while Jerusalem House (www.jerusalemhouse.org) is third.

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House of Worship

NEW COVENANT CHURCH OF ATLANTA It’s understood that when it comes to spirituality, many LGBT Atlantans are looking for something new, which may be why New Covenant Church of Atlanta (www.newcovenantatlanta.com) was voted best house of worship. Led by Bishop Randy Morgan, New Covenant Church brings a strong Christian foundation to Cheshire Bridge, “where the spirit of God is being poured out upon ALL people.”

Second place goes to City of Light (www.firstmcc.com) and Saint Mark United Methodist Church (www.stmarkumc.us) takes third.

LGBT Blog or Website

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the city’s favorite LGBT blog. The site also delivers solid news, but the eye candy and cattiness are what make it irresistible.

Relationship blogs round out the top three, with Equally Wed (www.equallywed.com) and Juan & Gee (www.juanandgee.com) finishing second and third, respectively.

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Business Person

EMILIO LOURDES Georgia Tech graduate Emilio Lourdes has been managing The Havana Club for almost three years now, and the huge (15,000 square feet) Buckhead nightspot has never been more popular.

The city’s hottest DJs can be found spinning there nightly, and the biggest celebrities go there to unwind after a hard day of movie-making.

Bob Fawcett of The Pet Set (www.thepetset. com) came in second, with Frank Bragg of Radial Café (www.radial.us) in third.

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Party Promoter

BILL KAELIN Georgia Voice’s regular columnist Bill Kaelin wins this category again in 2015, as he has done in multiple years past. His company, Bill Kaelin Marketing, provides “one stop” shopping for “all your marketing, branding, consulting and event needs.” He has been making the scene(s) in Atlanta for over six years now.

Melissa Scott, CEO of Traxx Girls (www.traxxgirls.com) takes second place, with Barry Brandon of Barry Brandon Marketing (www.barrybrandonmarketing.com) running third.

Politician

JOHN LEWIS Staunch longtime ally, Congressman John Lewis of Georgia’s 5th District, is Georgia Voice’s favorite politician for 2015.

His unwavering support for LGBT employment and marriage rights have brought him victory in this category over several years, and he joined in the celebration last month when the Supreme Court affirmed marriage equality for us all.

Atlanta City Councilwoman Mary Norwood polls second, and out Georgia representative Karla Drenner takes third.

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MONICA VAN PELT Local drag superstar Monica Van Pelt glams her way past the competition to take the top spot in this category. Van Pelt, the ebullient host of Synergy Saturdays at Burkhart’s, is also a staff diva at Lips Atlanta and has been a staple of the Atlanta scene for many years.

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Georgia Equality executive director Jeff Graham wins second place, and UGA law professor and constitutional scholar Anthony Kreis lands in third.

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Activist for Trans Rights

GABRIELLE CLAIBORNE Gabrielle Claiborne is Georgia Voice’s top vote-getter in this category this year. The longtime activist and entrepreneur is president of Claiborne Enterprises, owns a Mary Kay Cosmetics franchise, is active in the Metropolitan Community Church and is a member of Atlanta Pride’s Board of Directors. She is also an in-demand public speaker.

FOOD

Best Asian

LITTLE BANGKOK Little Bangkok (www.littlebangkokatlanta.com) is a hole-in-the wall restaurant on eclectic Cheshire Bridge Road who have been serving up the best Thai food in the city for more than 20 years. While the lobby is the size of a postage stamp, the wait is never long and the service is quick. The staff is excellent and the food is simply divine. Be sure to order the Tom Ka Soup, with chicken, mushroom and green onion, served dramatically in aluminum pots with Sterno flames warming it. The curries here are also excellent, with the Massaman Chicken being a favorite.

Giselle Lawn is in second place and Alissah Brooks placed third.

Female Activist

CATHY WOOLARD Cathy Woolard, former Atlanta City Council president and past candidate for Congress, wins this category for 2015. She was the first openly gay elected official in the state of Georgia, and has been a tireless advocate for our rights and issues throughout her career. She is currently in the running to succeed Mayor Kasim Reed.

Linda Ellis, executive director of The Health Initiative (thehealthinitiative.org), and Laura

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Gentle, now programs manager with Lost-NFound Youth, are second and third, respectively.

Male Activist

DAN GROSSMAN Local attorney Dan Grossman, the 2015

winner of this category, was part of the legal team that successfully sued the city of Atlanta on behalf of The Eagle after the Atlanta Police unlawfully raided the gay bar in 2009. He has worked diligently to continue to hold the APD accountable to the LGBT community since then.

Second place went to Doc Chey’s (www.doccheys.com) and Nam Phong (www.namphuongatlanta.com ) nabbed third.

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Best Bar Food

WOOFS Belly up to Atlanta’s only gay sports bar, Woofs (www.woofsatlanta.com), for a great meal while catching a game on the big screen. Georgia Voice voters say Woofs’ menu of burgers, wings, pizza and, of course, tater tots, beat the rest when it comes to serving up a winning dish. Don’t forget to order a beer or cocktail to wash it all down.

Flying Biscuit (www.flyingbiscuit.com) comes in the number two spot and Ria’s Bluebird (riasbluebird.com) rounds out the category at third.

Burkhart’s (www.burkharts.com) took second place and Max’s Wine Dive (www.maxswinedive.com) finished third.

Best Sunday Brunch

Best Coffee House

CAFÉ JAYA Café JAYA (www.cafejaya.com), which bills itself as a nonprofit community coffeehouse and tea room, is just one of many gay-owned businesses located in the heart of Stone Mountain. Serving up Selva Negra Estate Coffee from Nicaragua, Café JAYA’s blends include only a few roasts to ensure freshness daily, including a special dark roast, Smoke Rise, created exclusively for the store.

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Last year’s winner, Starbucks (www.starbucks.com) in Ansley Mall, lovingly dubbed “Bearbucks,” placed second and Dancing Goats in Decatur (www.batdorfcoffee.com) placed third.

Best Breakfast

RADIAL CAFE Placing second among Georgia Voice readers in 2014, Radial Cafe (www.radial.us) takes the top spot this year. Choose from the

ROXX Gay people are known for loving their Sunday brunches and always popular LGBT restaurant Roxx takes the crown this year.

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Max’s Wine Dive (www.maxswinedive.com) takes second and Poor Calvin’s (www.poorcalvins.com) finishes third.

Best Local Chef

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PATRIC BELL-GOOD, MAX’S WINE DIVE Chef Patric Bell-Good (follow him on Twitter @ChefPatricBGood) fell in love with cooking at 12 when he took the top prize in a school bake-off with his banana nut bread.

He honed his craft while studying at the Art Institute of Atlanta’s School of Culinary Arts, graduating with honors in 2002. His cooking has been recognized as “One of the Best Breakfasts in Georgia” from Southern Living, “Best Breakfast” from Jezebel, and he’s been an Eater Atlanta “Hottest Chef Competition” semi-finalist. He was also last year’s Georgia Voice runner-up in this category.

Second place goes to Javier Viera of 10th and Piedmont (www.eatoutatlanta.com/ 10th-piedmont) and Kevin Phan of Poor Calvin’s (www.poorcalvins.com) coming in third.

Best Bakery/Sweet Treats

HIGHLAND BAKERY Georgia Voice readers cannot get enough of Highland Bakery’s (www.highlandbakery.com) goodies, voting this the Best Bakery since 2011. The lesbian-owned business mills its own chemical-free grains to make everything from cinnamon rolls to rosemary garlic bread. This business also bakes its own bagels and specializes in creating just about any kind of custom cake you may desire.

Blueberry crumb cakes, mini donuts, scones and muffins are also made from scratch all day, every day.

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Best Late Night

LANDMARK DINER Last year’s runner-up is this year’s top vote getter as Landmark Diner (www.landmarkdiner.com) beats out the competition. Its motto is “Where Stars Meet At Night” and this is the place to be to soak up some booze or cure the munchies after partying all night, whether a Saturday or a Tuesday. Open 24 hours, the diner’s menu includes dozens of dishes covering everything from egg platters to a Thanksgiving-inspired oven-roasted turkey platter to Greek specialties such as Greek Souviaki (two skewers of marinated pork), Moussaka (eggplant with sliced potatoes and seasoned ground beef) and, of course, Spanakopita.

R. Thomas (www.rthomasdeluxegrill.net) comes in second with third place going to Loca Luna (www.loca-luna.com).

Best Mexican

LAS MARGARITAS The gay owner of this restaurant and his sweet mother have been running this LGBT hot spot for nearly two decades.

Las Margaritas (lasmargaritasmidown. com) is the place to go for Latin fusion food coupled with all kinds of fun, including the Crazy Bitch Bingo. Mexican specialties range from Stuffed Crabmeat Chile Relleno to Carnitas to Flautas Supremas. A veggie menu is available.

Second place goes to La Hacienda (www.lahaciendamidtown.com) and Tacos and Tequila (www.tandtatlanta.com) takes third.

Best New Restaurant

TWISTED SOUL If you haven’t tried Twisted Soul in Decatur (www.twistedsoulkitchenandbar) then you are missing out on one of metro Atlanta’s best dining experiences. This is Southern dining at its finest, with its already famous Southern Marinated Fried Chicken. There’s also the Cocoa Crusted Rack of Lamb, but don’t shy away from the divine Seafood Mac-N-Cheese (with lobster, shrimp and crawfish tails). And can we get an “amen” for the bar, where mixologists pour signature moonshine cocktails and drinks named the Butter Pecan Shooter and the Sweet Pot Pie Martini.

Max’s Wine Dive (www.maxswinedive. com) nabs second and Dragon Bowl (www. dragonbowlatl.com) finishes in the third spot.

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Best Patio

HENRY’S The servers’ T-shirts don’t say “Midtown’s Biggest Deck” for nothing at this lesbian-owned restaurant. Located on 10th Street just a short jaunt from Piedmont Park, Henry’s (www.henrysatl.com) patio, with sunny and shady seating, provides one of the premier Atlanta Pride Parade watching sites in the city. This popular patio is also dog friendly.

Roxx (www.roxxfanclub.com) takes second with Joe’s On Juniper (joesonjuniper. com) placing third.

Best Italian

ALFREDO’S When you want to feel like you are eating in an Italian grandmother’s kitchen, take a trip to Alfredo’s (1989 Cheshire Bridge Road, 404-876-1380) for comfort red-sauce dishes and an attentive staff. The restaurant opened in 1974 and is one of Atlanta’s oldest Italian dining establishments. The restaurant’s interior, with dark wood paneling and mirrors everywhere, is a throwback to an earlier era. Diners are loyal and many have been eating at Alfredo’s since the 1970s. The fried calamari is an excellent start to a meal and the Padrino, or Godfather, with three veal preparations, is always a favorite. Save room for dessert, especially the cannoli. And be prepared to drop some coin—this establishment is not cheap.

Finishing number two is Campagnolo (www.campagnoloatl.com) and placing third is Osteria 832 (www.osteria832.com).

Best Romantic

CAMPAGNOLO The casual Italian restaurant Campagnolo (www.campagnoloatl.com) is the top vote getter. Opened in 2012, Campagnolo’s offers a warm interior as well as a spacy patio near the corner of the crossroads of gay Atlanta—10th and Piedmont. The location is perfect for people watching whether on your first date or as newlyweds enjoying a night in Midtown. After a filling meal, take a walk to Piedmont Park and continue the romance with a stroll around Lake Clara Meer.

Campagnolo edged out Agave (agaverestaurant.com) and Apres Diem (apresdiem. com) for Most Romantic restaurant.

Henry’s owner Maureen Kalmanson (Photo by Patrick Saunders)

Best Takeout

DOC CHEY’S When you don’t feel like dining out and don’t want to cook, the best place to pick up takeout is Doc Chey’s (doccheys.com), according to Georgia Voice readers. With locations in Grant Park, Morningside-Virginia-Highland, and now Emory, there’s a Doc Chey’s within driving distance of many living in Atlanta.

Second place finisher is Su’s Chinese (www.suschinese.com) and taking the third spot is Chico and Chang (www.chicoandchang.com).

Best Vegetarian

RADIAL CAFE Gay-owned Radial Cafe (www.radial.us) keeps its title as Best Vegetarian, repeating as the number one vote getter after taking the title last year. The Biscuits and Vegetarian Gravy as well as the vegetarian sausage are delicious enough to fool any meat-lover. The lunch and dinner menus also have numerous vegetarian options, including black bean burger and parsnip farroto.

Coming in second is Doc Chey’s (doccheys.com) and placing third is Chai Pani (chaipanidecatur.com).

Best Cheap Eats

ROXX For a great meal at an affordable price, there’s no better value than Roxx, say Georgia Voice voters. Most dinner dishes run

you between $10 and $15 with a nice lunch selection offering meals at lower prices.

Chai Pani (www.chaipanidecatur.com) is the next top vote getter and placing third is Doc Chey’s (www.doccheys.com).

Best Restaurant

BACCHANALIA When you want to eat at the finest restaurant in Atlanta, you go to Bacchanalia (www.starprovisions.com/bacchanalia). Featuring contemporary American cuisine, Bacchanalia is owned by the wife-and-husband team of chefs Anne Quatrano and Clifford Harrison. The duo also own Star Provisions, Floataway Café, W.H. Stiles Fish Camp, and Little Bach. Seasonal menus are created for their restaurants that use only organic ingredients, many from their own farm.

Second place goes to Max’s Wine Dive (www.maxswinedive.com) and Poor Calvin’s (www.poorcalvins.com) finishes third.

ARTS & ENTERTAINMENT Comedian

BRENT STAR Funnyman Brent Star (brentstarcomedy.wix.com/brentstar) wins here. Brent can be found at events all through the year, CONTINUES ON PAGE 44

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he word is out about DeKalb’s food scene, and no one here is really surprised at the reaction. Our chefs and bartenders are constantly pushing the envelope and challenging the traditional definition of dining, and these efforts are not going unrecognized.

Located just east of Downtown Atlanta and convenient to Midtown, DeKalb’s hidden gems are gaining national, and in some cases, even global recognition.

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In second is Julie Osborne (www.facebook.com/ComedianJulie), while Ian Aber (www.rooftopcomedy.com/comics/ianaber) nabs third.

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DARRICK WILSON Darrick Wilson was involved in a recent 48 Hour Film Project movie and can been seen in Next Level’s recent “Colors Atlanta” project.

Plus, he has a few film listings on IMDB. He’s your choice as Atlanta’s favorite actor.

Topher Payne (www.topherpayne.com) finishes second and Freddie Ashley third.

DJ

LIZ OWEN The reader’s choice for best DJ is Liz Owen. She’s been around town a while, and is now getting her due. Liz throws down beats at locations such as My Sister’s Room and at Blake’s, where she spins for Girls Night. It’s hard to stand still when she is doing her thing.

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Drag King

JORDAN MICHAELS MCCORD Atlanta’s Jordan Michaels McCord is once again the top vote getter here. Besides winning drag king competitions everywhere in sight, the entertainer is a much-seen figure hosting and performing at My Sister’s Room at events such as Sexy Saturdays and Raw Talent. As busy as this keeps the performer, Jordan also has time to dabble in acting and modeling along the way.

Hayden Fury is your second favorite, and Kaymen Syder Cooter Giavanni third.

Drag Queen

EVAH DESTRUCTION She is a perennial presence all over town, and Evah Destruction (www.facebook.com/ EvahDestruction) is the drag queen you adore the most. She can be seen on Fridays at Jungle’s “The Other Show” and frequently at Burkhart’s and Lips Atlanta as well. She’s tough and talented and beloved.

Evah defeated fierce competition from the likes of Violet Chachki (www.violetchachki. com) in second and Dymond Onasis (www. facebook.com/dymond.onasis) in third.

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NIGHTLIFE

ers still like morning fixture The Bert Show and its mix of today’s top pop artists in rotation throughout the day, its quirky on-air personalities and its contests. The station has long supported LGBT issues and its devotion is genuine.

BURKHART’S Whether you’re ready to test your pipes in karaoke, or sit back and watch the pros perform during one of the weekend drag shows, Burkhart’s (www.burkharts.com) leads the pack as the best overall bar for Georgia Voice readers. The joint also has one of the largest, yet coziest patios in Atlanta nightlife, a surprisingly tasty steak dinner, a venerable poker table – and free popcorn!

WABE (www.wabe.org) comes in second and B98.5 (www.b985.com) third.

Musician

J TYLER Repeating as champion in this field is J Tyler (jtylermusic.com), the young Atlanta artist who has taken the hip-hop field by storm.

He’s openly gay in an industry where being so hasn’t always the wise, traditional thing to do—and it hasn’t hurt his career at all. He performed at Gay Day at Six Flags Over Georgia last year, among other rainbow gigs.

In second is Tim Joyce.

Writer/Playwright

TOPHER PAYNE He’s as prolific as ever: Topher Payne (www.topherpayne.com) wins here. For years he has produced plays all over Atlanta stages, but earlier this season Chicago’s Steppenwolf Theatre Company presented his comedy-drama “Angry Fags,” and in the fall his award-winning “Perfect Arrangement” bows at Primary Stages off-Broadway. In 2015 he even got an agent!

Johnny Drago finishes second and Michelle A. Daniel third.

Best Overall Bar

Atlanta Eagle (www.atlantaeagle.com) finished a strong second, while Mary’s (www. marysatlanta.com) rounded out the top three.

Bartender

CHAD MCDANIEL @ OSCAR’S TONY JACKSON @ ATLANTA EAGLE Georgia Voice readers poured a lot of love on quite a few bartenders, but Chad McDaniel of Oscar’s (www.oscarsatlanta.com) and Tony Jackson of Atlanta Eagle (www.atlantaeagle.com) emerged as the most charming and heavy-handed of the bunch. Chad’s martini mixing and encyclopedic knowledge of show tunes, and Tony’s bare-chested bartending helped the two surge past a crowded field of beloved pourers.

In a five-way tie for third were Dustyn of Burkhart’s (www.burkharts.com), Alfons at Heretic (www.hereticatlanta.com), Michael at The Model T (www.modeltatlanta.com) and Matt and Bernadette at Mary’s (www.marysatlanta.com).

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Lesbian Theme Night

COUNTRY NIGHT @ HERETIC You can take the lesbian out of the country, but every once in a while a girl wants to kick her heels and do-si-do, which is why Country Night @ The Heretic (www.hereticatlanta.com/thursday) sashayed its way to this year’s best lesbian theme night. The girls gather on Cheshire Bridge every Thursday and select Saturdays, when they nearly burn the barn down with their hotness.

The monthly Swank (www.facebook. com/bellissima.atlanta) parties at 10th & Piedmont was runner-up.

Best Gay Bar

BURKHART’S After a quarter century of serving up boys and booze, Burkhart’s (www.burkharts. com) remains the favorite spot for gay men looking to party in Atlanta. With two levels of tipsy boys, drag shows such as Tossed Salad with Brigitte Bidet, and the Saturday night Synergy show with Monica Van Pelt and Shawanna Brooks, it’s no wonder that Burkhart’s maintains its reign.

Second place went to Mary’s (www.marysatlanta.com), and Atlanta Eagle (www.atlantaeagle.com) took third.

Dance Floor

ATLANTA EAGLE Once looked at with a leery eye due to its burly men and legendary backroom, Atlanta Eagle (www.atlantaeagle.com) continues its emergence as the go-to dance floor to sweat away the week’s problems. With a DJ line-up that includes Chris Kind and Ron Pullman, the beats at the Eagle will have your spirits in full flight.

The Heretic (www.hereticatlanta.com) and Jungle (www.jungleatl.com) took second and third place, respectively.

Drag Show

THE ARMORETTES The no-good do-gooders known as The Armorettes (www.armorettes.com) continue to be Atlanta’s most endearing drag troupe. For three-and-a-half decades, the ladies have been using off-color camp drag to raise money for HIV/AIDS organizations via their annual Easter Drag Races

Shawnna Brooks helps keep Burkhart’s everyone’s favorite gay bar. (Photo via Facebook)

and their weekly show at The Hideaway.

The always-entertaining The Other Show (www.facebook.com/TheOtherShow) at Jungle finished an admirable second, and the queens of Tossed Salad (www.burkharts. com) at Burkhart’s clawed their way to third.

Place to Meet Women

MY SISTER’S ROOM The dynasty of My Sister’s Room (www.facebook.com/msratl) as the top place to meet women has grown as the lesbian bar moved from Decatur, to East Atlanta, to its upcoming location in the heart Midtown.

From the King of Thrones drag king shows to the Traxx Girls dance parties, no venue in Atlanta offers the variety of beautiful and available women.

Also be sure to check out second place finisher Henry’s (www.henrysatl.com), or the Women’s Outdoor Network Social Group (httpwww.meetup.com/wonatlanta), which finished third.

Afterhours

XION When you’re not ready to call it a night until the sun comes up, there’s no better place to keep the party going than Xion (www.cariocaproductions.com), winner of this year’s best afterhours. A powerhouse roster of local, national and international DJs stop by the booth on Cheshire Bridge to keep the energy high in the wee hours of the morning.

Besides Waffle House, the other best bet for late night fun is to try to get laid at runner-up Flex (www.flexspas.com/#!atlanta) or third place finisher Manifest4U (www.manifest4u.org).

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Back when he was writing the script for what would eventually become the film “Boulevard,” Douglas Soesbe hadn’t forecast any particular actors for the leading role. But when Robin Williams became interested in the project a number of years later, Soesbe knew it was perfect casting. “I can’t even imagine anyone else,” he says.

But what was headed towards being an indie drama last year, perhaps with a small theatrical release, has turned into something more with the death of Williams in August of 2014.

“Boulevard” marks William’s last on-screen film appearance.

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CONTINUED FROM PAGE 51 Williams plays Nolan Mack, a 60-year-old who has been married for decades to Joy (Kathy Baker) and has a safe, long-time job at a bank.

One night while out driving, he meets hustler Leo (Roberto Aguire) and his life changes.

Soesbe wrote this originally 10 years ago and did a rewrite three years ago. By that time he knew Williams was attached. When he first wrote the script, he wrote it for Los Angeles and Nolan was a college professor.

He decided to keep the structure the same,

but changed the locale.

“We felt that Los Angeles was too cosmopolitan for the story to be happening in, and by putting Nolan in a less rural environment than a college campus it was more difficult,” he says. “It was filmed in Nashville but now it’s set in a nameless city.”

The young character of Leo was meant to be kind of a mystery.

“Leo was a catalytic force,” says Soesbe.

“I intentionally underwrote Leo; he is almost like a ghost. Something traumatic has happened to him. I think, in a pre-Stonewall age,

Nolan shut himself down when he was a certain age and never ever developed beyond that point in developing himself. Leo represents Nolan’s youth. He’s like a son to him. The fact that he is a hustler removes the expectation and intimacy. He can’t become attached to him. They can keep a wall between them.”

One of the obstacles facing Nolan, Soesbe says, is that he grew up in an era where being gay itself was illegal. Soesbe, who is himself gay, wrote the script in part because of all the friends his age who did get married because that was what society expected of him.

“That happened a lot,” he says. “There was so much pressure then. Being gay was a negative thing. You felt guilty, horrible. I think a lot of gay men who loved a woman as a friend thought they could make it work.

It was better than being alone. Some have survived; I know some men who are still in those relationships. Some blew up.”

He admits many older men have told him that “Boulevard” is their story – and younger audiences have acknowledged the comingout process isn’t easy anytime. “It is gratifying,” he says.

Williams was a Julliard-trained actor who got noticed early for comedy but was equally adept at dramatic roles such as “Good Will Hunting” - which won him an Oscar - and “One Hour Photo.”

“The comedy was something he did on the side first and then he realized that was so much of where his talent laid,” says Soesbe. He also never shied away from gay roles in films such as “The Birdcage” and “The Night Listener.”

Soesbe wasn’t on the set for the 21-day shoot much – just three days – but talked to Williams some during the time. He recalls the actor being extremely well prepared and someone who brought passion and research to his craft.

Williams did see a rough cut of the film before he passed and he posted on Facebook that he liked it. Soesbe honestly doesn’t know if the film would have gotten a release if Williams had not passed away so unexpectedly.

“I don’t even know if it would,” he says.

“Today’s market is all about explosions. Studios are reluctant to release these small movies.”

The screenwriter’s own coming out process was bumpy. He went to gay bars growing up but didn’t tell his family. His family was not homophobic but they knew nothing about it.

“It just wasn’t part of their world,” he says. “My brother was very macho, maybe a little homophobic when younger, but he is very gay-friendly now.”

He admits that “Boulevard” is the most personal script he has ever written – his others have been TV and cable movies and thrillers/genre pieces. Yet the experience has given him motivation to do more small-scale work like it. He recently finished another script that deals with a gay character – this one a younger man and the oft-turbulent relationship with his father.

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ACTING OUT Faith and sexuality converge

By JIM FARMER

When the 17th annual Essential Theatre Festival opens on July 24, it does so with the new play “The Old Ship of Zion.” It’s the professional premiere of the work, written by Columbus, Georgia native Natalia Naman, and deals with gay issues set against a religious background. We caught up with Essential Theatre’s artistic director Peter Hardy, who is also directing the production, to talk about the play and this year’s festival.

Georgia Voice: Tell us about “The Old Ship of Zion.”

Hardy: It’s about a small, struggling AfricanAmerican church in Columbus, Georgia and its members. It presents a young man, Quincy, and his struggle. It’s presented in a sympathetic and positive way. It does show the experiences others have had with the church in a positive way; it doesn’t just say the church is bad.

Quincy is on his way towards accepting all parts of himself, his nature as a gay man as well as a man of faith. You don’t have to deny one or the other. I actually don’t know of any other plays that have explored that, at least with the African-American church.

This is more of a thorny issue than with some churches.

I think it’s a wonderful play. We choose plays we do, not based on any content— we’re just looking for the best from our submissions. I think it’s warm and funny and has seven distinct characters.

What is the lead character going through?

Quincy is in a school, and he comes from Americus, Georgia. He’s away from his family, a freshman in college. He talks about how he feels isolated as he begins to realize he is a stranger to himself and those who know him best. He is in the process of understanding things. It doesn’t come easily, as in real life.

Another character is a pretty flamboyantly openly gay man in the choir that no one talks about. Everyone knows it. It’s kind of a “don’t ask, don’t tell” kind of thing—okay as long as it’s not mentioned or discussed.

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knows and wonders if maybe [what he is going through] is just a phase, or maybe if he prays enough it will go away. He is trying to find out what options he has. Does he ignore it? Does he hide who he is? That is what a lot of people have to face.

What is the other show in repertory?

“Lillian Likes It,” written by Joshua Mikel and directed by Shannon Eubanks. It’s about people communicating on the Internet, about how people spend more time talking online than in person. It starts as a social comedy/ satire but gets more complicated and serious.

Your history includes a lot of LGBT themes in the work.

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EATING MY WORDS

By CLIFF BOSTOCK

Four distinctive food finds in ATL Hungry? Here are four restaurants I visited in the past week: Ah-Ma’s Taiwanese Kitchen (931 Monroe Drive, 404-549-9848): This tiny jewel in Midtown Promenade became one of my favorite restaurants as soon as it opened almost a year ago. “Ah-Ma” means “grandmother” in Taiwanese. Thus, the cooking is a homey blend of traditional dishes from Taiwan’s multicultural heritage—mainly Chinese, but with plenty of notes from the era of Japanese occupation. Interestingly, the Chinese themselves did not arrive on the island until after the Dutch and Spanish settled it in the 17th Century (thus sayeth Wikipedia).

As a nation with one of the world’s densest populations, Taiwan is famous for its huge nighttime street markets. So it’s no surprise that, besides home-style dishes, Ah-Ma’s reflects our recent obsession with worldwide street food. AhMa’s is cheap, it’s filling, it’s not fiery-spiced. It honors natural, earthy flavors, but unexpected ingredients can take the palate by surprise.

I’m particularly fond of the bao—white, delicate buns served slider-style. One night last week, I ordered two. The first was stuffed with pork belly, pickled mustard greens, cilantro, and crushed sweet peanuts. The other, called the Dirty Bird, featured a fried chicken cutlet, house-made wasabi aioli, pickled daikon radishes and carrot strips. Both of these dishes stimulate all the senses. They’re beautiful, they have a light touch, and they tour the palate with slightly bitter, sweet and salty flavors. Juicy textures collide with crunchy ones.

Bone Lick BBQ (1133 Huff Rd. NW, 404-343-6574, www.bonelickbarbecue.com): I love Bone Lick, mainly for its mustardy Carolina-style sauce, although its sweeter tomato-based sauces hit the spot too. The restaurant had its start as a wildly popular pop-up at P’cheen (R.I.P.) on Monday nights. Chef Mike LaSage then opened this full-service, rustically decorated restaurant.

I especially like the Texas-style brisket. A warning, though: it can be a bit dry, which sometimes means the meat was not given sufficient rest time after cooking. The fat doesn’t coagulate. However, I recently took my leftover brisket home and found that a night in the rewww.thegeorgiavoice.com

Wahoo Grill’s pan-seared grouper over white grits with ratatouille is a customer favorite. (Photo by Cliff Bostock)

frigerator plus low heating created a much juicier meat. Recently, I pigged out on the slightly spicy house-smoked sausage. You’ll also find perfect ribs, chicken, and pulled pork.

Wahoo Grill (1042 W. College Ave., 404-373-3331, www.wahoogrilldecatur.com): It’s been several years since I visited this fish/ seafood-based restaurant. Get a seat in the rear dining room and you’ll have a view of the restful gardened patio. You can eat out there if you can take the heat.

My most recent dinner was a special of panseared grouper with fresh ratatouille stuffed into a hollow yellow tomato. It spilled onto the plate, cozying up to some creamy white grits. I also tried the restaurant’s inexpensive and generous starter plate of charcuterie and cheeses ($9). Some other dishes include fried chicken, shrimp and grits, sesame-crusted ahi tuna, seared scallops, and a steak. All dishes are tagged with possible allergens; vegetarians can find plenty to eat.

Mezcalito’s (304 Oakland Ave., 678-705-7008, www.mezcalitoscantina.com).

This Mexican-style restaurant and tequila bar serves pretty average tacos and enchiladas. I usually skip those. My favorite is the chunks of pork tenderloin cooked in a red mole. I’d like the mole to have deeper, fruity notes, but that’s a minor complaint.

Cliff Bostock is a longtime dining critic and psychotherapist turned life coach. www.cliffbostock.com.

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The Sundance hit “Tangerine,” starring trans actresses Kitana Kiki Rodriguez and Mya Taylor, is about a working girl searching for the pimp who cheated on her; it opens today at the Midtown Art Cinema, www.landmarktheatres.com The Atlanta Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce hosts its Fourth Friday Mixer/Networking event at Ameriprise Financial, 5:30 p.m. – 7:30 p.m., Wildwood Center, www.wildwood-center.com Tonight is the world premiere of Natalia Naman’s gay-themed “The Old Ship of Zion” at 8 p.m., running through August 21, presented by Essential Theatre, www.essentialtheatre.com

The Beach Boys perform at the Atlanta Botanical Garden, 8 p.m., www.atlantabotanicalgarden.com Out musician Dave Koz joins Rick Braun and Kenny Lattimore at the Cobb Energy Centre, 8 p.m., www.cobbenergycentre.com Get ready for the number one dance party every Friday night with Blue Diamond Ent and Traxx Girls. Doors open at 9 p.m., My Sister’s Room, www.mysistersroom.com

SATURDAY, JULY 25

Ten Atlanta hosts a Bottomless Beer Bust for $10, as well as jello and pudding shots, with all proceeds benefiting the Atlanta Gay Men’s Chorus and Atlanta Gay Women’s Chorus, 1 p.m. - 5 p.m., www.tenatlanta.com Join Charis Books in welcoming local author Tiffany Davis, who will sign books from her series “The Bastille Family

Chronicles,” which covers the lives of the six Bastille siblings, most of whom have followed in the footsteps of their late, renowned surgeon grandfather. 1:30 p.m. – 3 p.m., www.charisbooksandmore.com Phoenix and Shangela from “Rupaul’s Drag Race” and musician Jason Walker join forces for Out in the Harbor, 6:30 p.m. to dusk at Six Flags. Visit sixflags.com/ overgeorgia and enter the promo code PRIDE Guyton Maurice and his quartet (Arthur Turner, Craig Shaw, Adam Goodhue) will bring their unique twist on an eclectic set of what they like to call “fine music” for this show at The Velvet Note, Maurice’s last before making the big move to Los Angeles, 7:30 p.m. and 9:30 p.m. shows, www.thevelvetnote.com WUSSY Mag is throwing “Forever Young,” a queer prom hosted by Laganja Estranja from “Rupaul’s Drag Race” and Brigitte Bidet, featuring performances

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TELL US ABOUT YOUR LGBT EVENT Submit your LGBT event for inclusion in our online and print calendars by emailing event info to editor@thegavoice.com For the Kid in All of Us presents the 10th annual Backpack in the Park, the summer garden party where backpacks filled with school supplies are collected to help Georgia’s most vulnerable students.

Includes a complimentary brunch buffet, festive beverages, live entertainment, and silent auction. To attend, simply donate a backpack ($30 at www.forthekid.org, or $40 at the door) or sign up to become a VIP donor, 12 p.m. – 3:30 p.m., Cator Woolford Gardens at the Frazer Center, www.frazercenter.org/ inclusive-community/gardens Wake up and make joyful noise with the Sisters of Sequin at Gospel Brunch with performers Bubba D. Licious and Justice Counce, 12:30 p.m. followed by a 1:30 p.m. show, Lips Atlanta, www.lipsatl.com

9 p.m. at BJ Roosters, www.bjroosters.com

THURSDAY, JULY 30

SAGE Atlanta hosts a social hour and games at 10 a.m. and then a general meeting at 11 a.m., Phillip Rush Center Annex, www.rushcenteratl.com Now that the Supreme Court has made marriage legal in all 50 states, Charis Books welcomes Lambda Legal attorney Beth Littrell, who is among the litigators in Georgia’s Inniss v. Aderhold case for marriage equality, to discuss what the ruling means for Georgians. Bring your questions for a wide-ranging discussion about marriage equality and beyond. The suggested donation is $5. 7:30 – 9 p.m., www.charisbooksandmore.com

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Dragavanza Events presents Sunday Funday Beerbust Round 2, a benefit for Ready 4 Hope featuring DJ Christopher Kind, 2 p.m. - 7 p.m., The Hideaway, www.atlantahideaway.com Out director/artistic director Robert Egizio stages a version of the musical “The Mystery of Edwin Drood” at his Stage Door Players, with a 2:30 p.m. curtain tonight, running through August 2, www.stagedoorplayers.net

MONDAY, JULY 27

DJ Super Blue works the crowd at Bulldogs, 893 Peachtree Street, Atlanta, GA 30308, www.facebook.com/bulldogsbaratlanta.com

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WEDNESDAY, JULY 29

Tony Bennett and Lady Gaga join forces for a dream of a musical night at Chastain Park, 8 p.m, www.classicchastain.com (Photo via Facebook)

by Kryean Kally, Ellisorous Rex, and others, 9 p.m. – 3 a.m., Heretic, www. hereticatlanta.com

Monroe, 10 p.m., www.facebook.com/ MissGeorgiaPOA?fref=ts

It’s Panther L/L Bar Night at the Atlanta Eagle, 10 p.m., www.atlantaeagle.com

Certified rehab counselor and ordained minister Rev. Angela Denise Davis will speak on “Saving Room For Grace” at 11 a.m. at First Existentialist Congregation, www.firstexistentialist.org

Porsha Daniels will be crowned as the first ever Miss Georgia Pride of America at Fuzions Bar and Grill in

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SUNDAY, JULY 26

“American Idol” fave Crystal Bowersox returns to Eddie’s Attic with guests Marshall Ruffin and Sarah Potenza, 8 p.m., www.eddiesattic.com The all-new Latino Tuesday kicks off with DJ Karlito, Blake’s, www.blakesontheparkatlanta.com

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FRIDAY, JULY 24

Ruby Redd’s Birdcage Bingo starts at 8:30 p.m., with $3 well drinks all night, then Tyler King hosts Beauty and the Beat karaoke at 11 p.m., The Hideaway, www.atlantahideaway.com It’s Amateur Night every Wednesday at

‘Wicked’ star Idina Menzel will sing “Let it Go” and a bunch of show tunes when she visits Chastain Park Ampitheatre tonight, 8 p.m., www.classicchastain.com (Publicity photo)

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CONTINUED FROM PAGE 57 Come line dance at the Heretic tonight with free lessons beginning at 8 p.m. and then an open dance at 9 p.m., www.hereticatlanta.com Faces Lounge in Marietta’s new All Star Cabaret is every Thursday at 10:30 p.m. and 12:30 a.m. with the likes of Heather Daniels and Coco Chanelle, www.faceslounge.com Dancefloor Divas with Phoenix of “Rupaul’s Drag Race” is tonight at 11:30 p.m. at Burkhart’s, www.burkharts.com

FRIDAY, JULY 31

Edie Cheezburger presents “The Other Show,” the most unique drag show in Atlanta. Admission is $5, Jungle, 10 p.m., www.jungleatl.com

SATURDAY, AUGUST 1

Actor’s Express has opened the classic musical “Rent,” with several queer characters, with Freddie Ashley directing, with a show tonight at 8 p.m., running through August 16, www.actorsexpress.com

FRIDAY, JULY 31

The new film ‘Boulevard’ stars Robin Williams – in his last role – as a closeted gay man, Midtown Art Cinema, www.landmarktheatres.com.

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It’s two parties in one. DJ Rob Reum spins inside while DJ Daryl Cox turns up the music outside at TEN Atlanta, www.tenatlanta.com

SUNDAY, AUGUST 2

DJ Chad Jack gets the late night partiers revved up, 3 a.m., Xion, www.xionatlanta.com Hoping to make the playoffs, the Atlanta Dream take on the Phoenix Mercury at 3 p.m., Philips Arena, www.philipsarena.com

complimentary hors d’oeuvres at the bar, www.twistedsoulkitchenandbar.com The Atlanta Pride Festival Dyke and Trans March Community Feedback Forum is tonight from 7 p.m. – 8 p.m., Phillip Rush Center, www.rushcenteratl.com Patti Labelle and Common will perform while the Reverend Al Sharpton will give the keynote speech at the Vote 2 End HIV event, presented by AIDS Healthcare

Foundation in partnership with AID Atlanta, free admission, 7 p.m., The Fox Theatre, www.vote2endhiv.org The Hideaway hosts Ian Aber for Hot Mic comedy nights, 10 p.m., www.atlantahideaway.com

UPCOMING SATURDAY, AUGUST 8

In August 2005, Fiona Zedde’s first book “Bliss” was published to a warm

and loving reception. Now, ten years later, Fiona is celebrating a decade of being a published author with cake, wine, special guest performances, and a surprise announcement, 7:30 p.m. – 9 p.m., Charis Books, www.charisbooksandmore.com

WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 12

Hear “Karma Chameleon” and more as Boy George and Culture Club come to the Fox Theatre tonight at 8 p.m., Fox Theatre, www.foxtheatre.org

They’re creepy and kooky – catch “The Addams Family Musical” at a matinee today, 3 p.m., running through August 16, OnStage Atlanta, www.onstageatlanta.com Regina Simms emcees the New Faces event with singers, dancers, musicians, drag kings and queens and more, 9 p.m., Friends on Ponce, www.friendsonponce-atl.com

MONDAY, AUGUST 3

MAX’s Wine Dive, the Midtown restaurant and wine bar, teams up with some of Atlanta’s best drag queens for “Monday’s a Drag” — a viewing party from 6 p.m.

– 10 p.m. featuring a classic drag movie or TV show. Ten percent of all food and drink sales from each week’s event will be donated to Lost-N-Found Youth. www.maxswinedive.com/atlanta-12th-street/ The Atlanta PFLAG monthly support group meets tonight from 7:30 – 9 p.m. at the Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Atlanta, www.uuca.org

TUESDAY, AUGUST 4

Straight flush! Tuesday night is poker night at The Model T, beginning at 7 p.m., www.modeltatlanta.com

WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 5

Crazy Nights Karaoke is every Wednesday at 8 p.m. at My Sister’s Room, www.mysistersroom.com Nicole Paige Brooks, Mychelle LaCroix DuPree and Mo’Dest Volgare host Wild Out Wednesdays at Felix’s, www.felixsatlanta.com The Heretic hosts the Pig Dance Blackout Party with DJ Stan Jackson, 10 p.m., with no cover, www.hereticatlanta.com

THURSDAY, AUGUST 6

Come out to the lesbian-owned Twisted Soul for Food Fighters Thursday.

Every Thursday enjoy $5 drink specials and

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THAT’S WHAT SHE SAID

By MELISSA CARTER

Action figures and workforce changes I just received my Hillary Clinton action figure in the mail, thanks to Kickstarter. The crowd-funding effort explained that “dolls like Barbie have a long history of sending out the wrong message” to young girls, so they created this doll as the antidote.

As fun as it is to have my little plastic politician, let’s not lose sight of how important it is to all women that the former First Lady, Senator, and Secretary of State is running for president again. This is not about politics, or an attempt to recruit votes for the Clinton campaign. To really appreciate what Hillary is trying to accomplish now, we must first look at where she came from.

During a recent trip to the salon, I sat in the waiting room with a woman named Deborah. Bragging about my new toy as we waited for our chairs, I soon discovered Deborah was the same age as Clinton. So I had her describe for me what it was like to enter the professional world as a woman when they did. And the answers were sobering.

“They always asked about what birth control I was using at job interviews,” she described, “and how could I prove I wouldn’t get pregnant while on the job. I finally came up with a story about a hysterectomy, making it impossible, that I used at job interviews.”

You should be able to trust your doctor, but even Deborah was judged when she simply wanted to get birth control.

“When I went to get some, my male OBGYN wouldn’t give me any, because I wasn’t married,” said Deborah. “He wouldn’t condone letting me get ‘spoiled’ before marriage.”

Of course you expect men to discriminate against women 40 years ago, but even women jumped on the sexist bandwagon.

“I remember trying to get a job as an account manager and being interviewed by a woman who told me I couldn’t be considered for anything but typing,” she said.

“That’s because women’s fingers were de-

“This is not about politics, or an attempt to recruit votes for the Clinton campaign.

To really appreciate what Hillary is trying to accomplish now, we must first look at where she came from.” signed to handle tiny typewriter keys and men’s fingers were just too big to handle them. It was the way God intended so I could do typing or nothing.”

In regards to today, Deborah said she is relieved that no one is talking much about Hillary’s hair or her figure, that they are talking about her impact in the world.

I certainly never had to endure the same experiences Deborah did while looking for a job. Despite continued sexism I have experienced when it comes to salary, progress is being made for women in the workplace and should always be appreciated.

I’m glad I helped fund that Kickstarter campaign, and agree that a doll who is important for being skinny and dating a guy with a tan line is incredibly outdated for young women. The next step? Go from having a presidential candidate as an action figure to a female president on United States currency.

Melissa Carter is one of the Morning Show hosts on B98.5. In addition, she is a writer for the Huffington Post. She is recognized as one of the first out radio personalities in Atlanta and one of the few in the country. Follow her on Twitter@MelissaCarter

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A Supreme Court victory provides a boost to any birthday plans, as I found out when the same-sex marriage ruling kicked off the weekend of my 35th. The last weekend in June wound up being an enchanting blur of bar-hopping and giddy, hopeful conversations with strangers, and a personal contentment upon reaching an age where I am undeniably Grown.

Yet my most distinct memory from that weekend was the amiable bigotry I gagged on while finishing my first drink at Blake’s.

My friend and I were at the bar when we started chatting with two guys, one of whom was black and celebrating his birthday, and his best friend, a white heterosexual. My friend complimented the beauty of their friendship, and they exchanged tipsy professions of their fraternal love for one another, across categories.

My friend drifted into conversation with the birthday boy, while the kick-ass bestie and I plunged into an intoxicating discussion.

“So what was it like at Auburn?” the white, heterosexual best friend asked. “It must’ve been sweet, huh? I mean—I don’t wanna be That Guy, but you had scholarships, right? As a minority.”

I kept my cup toward my face and my straw in my mouth to buy time to absorb the nerve and/or naïveté thus revealed within someone who theretofore had seemed so enlightened.

“I had several scholarships,” I said in a clarifying tone. “Some were minority-based, but many weren’t. I’d like to think ... and I think others would think ... that I earned whatever I got. And I guess I will be That Guy and note that a couple of them were from The New York Times.”

Truthfully, the New York Times scholarships may have been among the minority-based ones, but he didn’t need to know that. Because he clearly didn’t know that $1,000 stipends are not the muscle that lifts kids from the ghettos to college degrees at out-of-state-tuition rates, and he was oblivious to any merit or ingenuity that a minority student might exhibit to aid his matriculation through higher education.

“You’re a super cool dude and you seem to

“The management at Blake’s is an embarrassment to our city and our movement, but the short-lived dress code was surprising only in how lazy it was in concealing its intent.” have a good heart, but that was a dick thing to say,” I said. “It’s a hurtful presumption, and not what I was expecting from you.”

We likewise should not expect a marquee element of LGBT Atlanta like Blake’s to use coded racism to steer members of our community away from its establishment—especially as our movement shifts its fight to the realm of public accommodations. The management at Blake’s is an embarrassment to our city and our movement, but the shortlived dress code was surprising only in how lazy it was in concealing its intent.

I’ve been in the parking lot at 10th and Piedmont and seen groups of white guys debate whether to go into Blake’s or party across the street; sometimes someone will blurt out something along the lines of “It’s too dark in Blake’s,” but more often facial movements and knowing glances guide the groups across the street. If I witness these encounters as a casual patron, surely the folks who run Blake’s are aware of the rising unease among their longtime customers due to the influx of black gay men on certain nights.

The overwhelming majority of black men who (used to) go to Blake’s were young and middle-aged professionals, whose experience and merit are degraded when Blake’s—the management, and the traditional clientele—classifies their way of dress, and by implication their very presence, as threatening and unwelcome. The crowd at Blake’s is willing to get ratchet and yell “Bye Felicia” all day, but let authentic black people and culture arrive in their space, and see how quickly they turn into That Guy. Ryan Lee is an Atlanta writer. www.thegeorgiavoice.com

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