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“If you grow up gay, or in a household that’s agnostic, when most people are religious, then from the get-go, you are saying that there are things that the majority of society believes that I don’t believe.” — Political analyst Nate Silver, who is openly gay, on how his identity helped shape his ability to view politics through statistics and polling versus punditry. Silver, who blogs at FiveThirtyEight, has gained international notoriety after successfully predicting how all 50 states would go in the presidential election. (The Guardian, Nov. 17)

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“I’m well aware I’m the first woman elected to the Senate from Wisconsin, and I’m well aware I will be the first openly gay member. I didn’t run to make history. I ran to make a difference.” — U.S. Rep. Tammy Baldwin (D-Wisc.), who on Nov. 6 became the first openly gay candidate elected to the U.S. House, in a recent interview on her historic victory. (Green Bay Press-Gazette, Nov. 18)

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11.23.12 NEWS World AIDS Day: How close is a vaccine? Page 4 By the Numbers: HIV around the world. Page 4 Georgia events mark World AIDS Day. Page 8 Viewpoint: Adjusting our lens on black gay men. Page 10 HRC leader speaks out on post-election priorities. Page 13 Uganda ‘Kill the Gays’ bill draws protests. Page 18

A&E Gay-inclusive band Pentatonix brings a cappella magic to Atlanta. Page 21 Photos: Ben Cohen’s StandUp Magazine launch, Lost-n-Found Youth vigil. Page 22 Food Porn: Chicken dinner date with the mystery man. Page 24

HOLIDAY GUIDE “I reasoned, if you say, ‘Yes, I am a fag, what’s the big deal?’ then it’ll deprive the finger-pointers of their fun.” — Gay Olympic diver Matthew Mitcham, writing in his new memoir, “Twists and Turns,” about his decision to come out in high school. The new book also details the Australian star’s struggle the crystal meth addiction. (Syndney Morning Herald, Nov. 17)

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Research ‘renaissance’ cited, but vaccine still years away

‘Different virus in each person’

Finding a vaccine for HIV has proven so difﬁcult in part because of the nature of the virus. Because of its ability to change, HIV has required a new approach.

BY THE NUMBERS • HIV AROUND THE WORLD •

By Matt Schafer World AIDS Day, Dec. 1, features the slogan “Getting to zero: zero new HIV infections, zero discrimination, zero AIDS related deaths” for the years 2011 through 2015. While it is unlikely the “zero” goal will be reached by 2015, three decades of HIV analysis has sparked a “renaissance” of medical research that is leading scientists in new directions in their search for an effective vaccine. Dr. Wayne Koff, the chief scientific officer for the International AIDS Vaccine Initiative, started researching HIV shortly after the first cases began appearing some 30 years ago. “We’ve seen in the last three or four years a plethora of data that we in the AIDS vaccine development field are calling a renaissance, and as someone who has been in the field since the beginning I don’t use that term lightly,” Koff said. It took almost 20 years of research to get AIDSVAX, the first potential vaccine, into human testing in 2003. While that vaccine didn’t reduce viral load, Koff said it was important because “it proved that we could safely conduct an HIV human efficacy trial.” That trial eventually paved the way for the 2009 Merck RV144 trial in Thailand. That study included more than 16,000 participants studied over a course of six years. “In a surprise to many of us in the field, this showed a modest efficacy of 31 percent when compared to control group,” Koff said. “While that wouldn’t result in a workable vaccine because the efficacy was only 31 percent, it did show that a vaccine was possible, and there have been several studies examining why that vaccine was effective.” According to the International AIDS Vaccine Initiative there are at least 37 different vaccine trails currently underway across the globe, each exploring different potential cures, and each providing key information in the search for an effective vaccine. Koff said that in order to make a product that could be given to the public, a vaccine would have to be at least 50 percent effective in testing. For example, the Centers for Disease Control & Prevention estimates that the yearly flu vaccines have efficacy rates of around 50 to 70 percent.

WORLD AIDS DAY

34.2 MILLION Estimated people living with HIV around the world

2.5 MILLION New infections in 2011

1.7 MILLION AIDS deaths in 2011

30 MILLION

Cumulative deaths related to HIV around the world

World AIDS Day, Dec. 1, features the slogan ‘Getting to zero: zero new HIV infections, zero discrimination, zero AIDS related deaths.’

“Because this virus mutates so much we can’t just use the old form of using a weakened form of the virus,” Koff said. “The measles vaccine that’s licensed is just a weakened form of measles. The licensed polio vaccine is a weakened version of polio, but HIV is a crafty virus… and we learned a long time ago that you can’t just take a weakened version of HIV.” Viruses are non-living pieces of proteins wrapped around either DNA or RNA. Viruses cannot reproduce on their own, and so they invade cells and take over the cell’s machinery to make copies of themselves, which often destroys the cell in the process. Because HIV is an RNA virus it has been especially difﬁcult to treat. “It is an RNA virus which is prone to making mistakes, unlike DNA. If it makes too many mistakes then it stops being HIV, but if it makes a standard amount of mistakes that RNA replication typically makes, it changes the amino acids, and makes a different virus,” Koff said. “HIV is different across the world, and the isolates are very different in each individual. It’s essentially a different virus in each person.” Because of that, researchers have different ways to stop the virus, and many of the vaccine candidates target the protein capsule that carries the DNA. Koff said researchers are ﬁnding more sites on HIV that are unique to that virus and can be blocked by broadly neutralizing antibodies.

• HIV IN THE USA • Think of a lock and a key, Koff said. If you have a molecule of a T-Cell, that part is only going to go into a receptor on HIV. If researches can bind that site and keep that virus from infecting the cell, the spread of HIV in the body can effectively be stopped, Koff explained.

Human trials under way

Another factor that makes the virus more deadly is that it infects T-Cells, a type of white blood cell that is a critical link in the body’s immune system. Attacking the T-Cells and using them as a host helps allow the virus to spread, and leaves the body open to secondary infections. A former Emory University researcher, Dr. Hariett Robinson has been exploring a multistage attack that she thinks could result in a vaccine that could not only keep people from being infected, but reduce the viral load in people who are already HIV positive. Robinson has worked on the vaccine for over a decade and has moved to GeoVax, a private company dedicated to making a vaccine, where she serves as chief scientific officer. Her vaccine consists of DNA modified to prime an immune response and an inert virus that could boost an immune response. Please see VACCINE on Page 6

1.1 MILLION

Estimated people living with HIV in the United States

1 IN 5

HIV-positive Americans who do not know their status

50,000

New HIV infections every year

Percent of new infections who are men who have sex with men

641,976

Cumulative U.S. AIDS deaths through 2009 (most recent statistics available) Sources: CDC, World Health Organization, UN AIDS, amFAR

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Researcher: HIV vaccine needed to end epidemic VACCINE, continued from Page 4

“The DNA prime is sort of like pouring water down a pump, where you pour a little bit of the pump down the well to prime it. It’s the little bit that allows your body to recognize the virus and fight it,” Robinson said. Robinson’s vaccine started Phase II human trials in January 2009 and involves 225 participants at sites in the United States, including Emory University’s Hope Clinic, and South America. The next stage, scheduled to start in 2014 and last three years, would examine high risk populations, which would include gay men. Robinson’s team is also moving forward with a separate trial to test if the vaccine can control the infection in those who have already been exposed. “For people who are positive already, we have a therapeutic application that we are working on, and we have a very small open label trial going on,” Robinson said. “In that trial we have several people who have recently undergone seroconversion. They go on drugs within 18 months of their infections, and they have to have the virus well controlled and then we give them the vaccine.”

‘Crafty virus’ still kills millions

HIV research has seen unparalleled expan-

sion in the years since Merck made the results of the Thailand trial public. “What we expect to see now, between now and the end of the decade, [is] a series of human efficacy trials that are building on the [Thailand] stories, that are building on the better vectors that have advanced into clinical trials,” Koff said. Researchers routinely build on each other’s results and failures. Robinson’s vaccine is different from other previous vaccines because it includes a macrophage colony stimulating factor, which helps activate the immune system. “They’re the ones that will see the virus-like particles and take that to the B-Cells and the Tcells to initiate the immune response,” Robinson said. That vaccine uses techniques that have not been tested before, and more new studies are published nearly monthly. In October, the Centre for the AIDS Programme of Research in South Africa reported finding two new vulnerabilities in the HIV protein coat. In November a Canadian research team announced successfully clearing Phase I human testing with a virus that uses dead HIV virus. “There have been a series of vectors of vaccine candidates, some are weakened forms of viruses, some of them are different forms of

Dr. Harriet Robinson is researching an HIV vaccine that she hopes could not only keep people from being infected, but reduce the viral load in people who are already HIV positive. (Photo courtesy GeoVax)

boosts, some unique collections of antibodies… there are a number of studies that are about to go into trials that — just based upon the results in the primate studies — look to have a better chance at being more effective then the studies that have come before them,” Koff said. While there are more studies using newly

discovered techniques in the hopes of finding an effective cure, researchers are leery of setting timelines, or making overly optimistic predictions. Even if Robinson’s vaccine proves to be highly effective it would be years before it is available to the public. “For the preventive vaccine? I really think we’re going to have it, but I think it’s going to take at least five years, and then it’s going to be years before we can a make a product that we can manufacture that your doctor can give you,” Robinson said. Koff is often asked if HIV could ever be fully eradicated like small pox and said he doesn’t know the answer. “I don’t know if we know enough to fully answer that,” he said. “The reality is that we need a vaccine first. We have a lot of other tools in the tool box about HIV prevention, but without a vaccine it’s unlikely that we’re really going to be able to end the epidemic. “I want to emphasize that, because every day you hear stories about … education, condom use, circumcision,” Koff added. “But even with all of those we still have over 7,000 HIV infections every day, and several million deaths from AIDS every year. The virus is crafty enough that it continues to find ways above and beyond our current prevention methods.”

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Atlanta, other Ga. cities to honor World AIDS Day METRO ATLANTA

Free HIV testing Nov. 28, 8 a.m. - 5 p.m. DeKalb Addiction Clinic 455 Winn Way, Decatur, GA 30030 Condom Fashion Show November 28, 6 p.m. Morehouse College Sale Hall 830 Westview Drive, Atlanta, GA 30314 Described as “A high-energy, one-hour fashion show where designers will compete for having created the best design/garment out of non-lubricated, non-packaged, expired condoms to promote safe and healthy sexual decisions to reduce the social stigma surrounding condom usage.” AID Atlanta open house Nov. 29, 5 p.m. — 8 p.m. 1605 Peachtree St., Atlanta, GA 30309 www.aidatlanta.org The public is invited to an open house which includes tours of the agency, exhibits and refreshments. Free HIV testing will also be offered throughout the week and free parking is available at rear of the building. RSVP to openhouse@aidatlanta.org Free HIV testing for Georgia Gwinnett College students at the Ric Crawford Clinic (formerly AID Gwinnett) Nov. 29, 2 p.m. — 7 p.m. Georgia Gwinnett College 1000 University Lane Lawrenceville, GA 30043 Free HIV testing at the DeKalb Board of Health Vinson Clinic Nov. 29, 8 a.m. — 5 p.m. 440 Winn Way Decatur, GA 30030 Free HIV testing at the Aldredge Health Center Nov. 29, 8 a.m. — 4 p.m. 99 Jesse Hill Jr. Drive, Atlanta, GA 30303 World AIDS Day Memorial Quilt on the Quad at Emory University Nov. 30, 3 p.m. — 5 p.m. www.emoryhillel.org/aidsquilt Presented by Hillel at Emory. Panels and speakers at Winship Ballroom in Dobbs University Center; shabbat dinner follows at Marcus Hillel Center. This is the largest collegiate display of the AIDS Memorial Quilt in the world. This year will include performances by Emory a capella groups, speakers in the Emory and Atlanta community who will discuss AIDS/HIV research efforts, and stories from survivors and families of those who have passed away from the disease.

Numerous events scheduled around the state By Dyana Bagby dbagby@thegavoice.com Georgia events to recognize World AIDS Day, Dec. 1, include everything from free HIV testing at malls to a screening of a newly released documentary about HIV in the South to a town hall meeting to discuss the impact of HIV/AIDS. Many events are scheduled in metro Atlanta, as well as Augusta, Macon and Valdosta, among other cities. In Atlanta, HIV agencies like AID Atlanta, Positive Impact and the Ric Crawford Clinic (formerly AID Gwinnett) will offer free HIV testing; Fulton and DeKalb County health departments are also teaming up to provide free HIV testing at places such as Greenbriar Mall and South DeKalb Mall. In addition to HIV testing, a townhall meeting is set for Nov. 30 at Atlanta’s Auburn Avenue Research Library. Atlanta City Hall will be lit up with red lights Dec. 1 to commemorate World AIDS Day; the same day, Atlanta’s Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence will host a vigil at 7 p.m. at Smith Park, located at the intersection of Piedmont Avenue and Monroe Drive. At Morehouse University, a Nov. 28 fashion show with outfits made from condoms will highlight an evening of working to eliminate the stigma of HIV/AIDS as well as promoting condoms to pracWorld AIDS Day Town Hall Meeting Nov. 30, 3 p.m. - 5 p.m. Auburn Avenue Research Library 101 Auburn Ave., Atlanta, GA 30303 HIV/AIDS service organizations, healthcare agencies and community members will gather to discuss the state of HIV in Atlanta and participants will be able to ask panelists how counties plan to “Get to Zero,” the theme for this year’s World AIDS Day. Power2Endure’s The Red Party “Celebrating Lives Focused on a Cure” Nov. 30, 6 p.m. at The New LeBuzz 585 Franklin Road, Marietta, GA 30067 www.power2endure.org HIV testings, counseling, education, entertainment by DJ Birdman and the Divas Cabaret. Appearances by Atlanta Sister of Perpetual Indulgence Ursula Polari and Mr. SE Leather Mark Wingo. Free HIV testing at Greenbriar Mall Dec. 1, 12 p.m. - 4 p.m. 2841 Greenbriar Pkwy., Atlanta, GA 30331 Free HIV testing at South DeKalb Mall Dec. 1, 11 a.m. - 3 p.m. 2801 Candler Road, Decatur, GA 30034

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World AIDS Day Opening Ceremony Nov. 30, 6:30 p.m. Paine College Chapel 1235 15th St., Augusta, GA 30901 www.paine.edu HIV/AIDS Walk Dec. 1, 10 a.m. Paine College Chapel

Emory University will have the largest collegiate display of the AIDS Memorial Quilt on Dec. 1 to honor World AIDS Day. (Photo by Dyana Bagby)

tice safe sex. Emory University’s Hillel group will once again sponsor the world’s largest campus display of the AIDS Memorial Quilt, set for Nov. 30. There are events planned also in Augusta, Savannah, Macon and Valdosta with Valdosta holding events over several days, including a screening of the newly released documentary “deepsouth” that explores, among other issues, HIV in the rural South. City of Atlanta World AIDS Day observance Dec. 1 City Hall will be lighted red as in years past. The annual program in City Hall will take place but ﬁnal details were not known at press time. Free HIV testing and counseling at Positive Impact Dec. 1, 10 a.m. - 2 p.m. 60 Eleventh St., Atlanta, GA 30309 www.positiveimpact-atl.org Joining Hearts Host Drive at Einstein’s Dec. 1, 2 p.m. — 5 p.m. 1077 Juniper Ave., Atlanta, GA 30309 www.joininghearts.org In support of World AIDS Day, Joining Hearts invites supporters to to learn more about future plans. Einstein’s will donate 20 percent of bar sales between 2 p.m. — 5 p.m. to Joining Hearts. World AIDS Day Candlelight Vigil at Smith Park Dec. 1, 7 p.m. on the corner of Piedmont and Monroe http://on.fb.me/SJFaij, www.atlsisters.org Hosted by Atlanta chapter of Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence. Following the vigil, the Sisters will conduct a “condom ministry” in local bars

Red Ribbon Ball Dec. 1, 7 p.m. River Room of St. Paul’s Church 605 Reynolds St., Augusta, GA 30901 www.saintpauls.org Tickets $35; Proceeds to beneﬁt St. Stephen’s Ministry, providing support services to persons with HIV/AIDS. Worship Service of Remembrance Dec. 2, 4 p.m. MCC of Our Redeemer 557 Greene St., Augusta, Ga. 30901 www.mccoor.com The service will include music, liturgical dance, storytelling and opportunities for commitment and action.

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Free HIV testing Dec. 1 Central City AIDS Network, Inc. 2020 Ingleside Ave., Macon, GA 31204 www.rainbowcenter.us

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World AIDS Day vigil Dec. 1, 6 p.m. Johnson Square www.savpride.com www.mybrothazhome.org Hosted by Savannah Pride and My Brothaz H.O.M.E.

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‘deepsouth’ documentary screening Nov. 30, 4:30 p.m. Valdosta State University Union Theatre www.deepsouthﬁlm.com www.valdosta.edu Sponsored by South Health District and VSU Health Promotions. Discussion with director Lisa Biagiotto and reception to follow.

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Adjusting our lens

Young black gay men, HIV and the future Viewpoint by Charles Stephens and Kenneth Maurice Pass

On Dec. 1, we commemorate World AIDS Day. Last month, we celebrated the 22nd anniversary of AIDS Walk Atlanta, perhaps one of the most enduring rituals of the local HIV/ AIDS community. These two milestones are part of a series of significant events over the past few months locally and nationally: The United States Conference on AIDS, also in October; National Gay Men’s HIV/AIDS Awareness Day in September; and the much anticipated International AIDS Conference held in Washington, DC, back in July. Throughout these high profile events and activities, one message remains clear: We are at a turning point in the HIV/AIDS epidemic. Scientific evidence seems to be pointing in that direction. Recent studies have shown that if an HIV-positive person is put on treatment, they are less likely to transmit the virus.

Charles Stephens and Kenneth Maurice Pass

There has also been evidence in recent studies indicating that the HIV drug Truvada can be effective at preventing HIV among HIV-negative people if taken daily and with monitoring by trained clinical professionals. This suggests an additional tool in an ever-expanding toolbox of HIV prevention options. However, even in the midst of such stunning success, the impact of HIV among young black gay men provides a needed and humbling perspective on just how far we have left to go. And

thus, even as we witness the breathtaking progress of science and medicine in the context of HIV/AIDS, we must also remember that HIV stigma, homophobia, racism, and other forces of vulnerability for young black gay men, will not be treated with a pill. We have to address the social and political alongside the clinical. There will be limited success in the realm of HIV prevention or treatment, unless we address the impact of HIV among young black gay men. After all, it is imperative for the success of any movement, and certainly our collective progress as a community, to be measured not only by the continued conditions of the most privileged but also by the most vulnerable. This is not merely a matter of political signiﬁcance, but also a matter of moral urgency. We must ﬁrst continue to drive home the fact that HIV is not merely an issue of behavior, but also has social and structural implications. For example, we know that homelessness and housing instability, along with issues of poverty and economic distress, are problems that affect young gay men. These challenges create conditions that make them more vulnerable to HIV, and lead to poorer health outcomes if they are HIV positive. Stigma too, as it relates to anti-gay stigma, creates conditions that disempower young black gay men from seeking treatment and prevention resources. How we address the structural issues facing young black gay men is intricately tied to our

success in addressing HIV. Next, we must inspire resilience and confidence in young black gay men, while also inspiring a collective vision of being gay and black as parts of a whole. This creates a stronger and more affirmed sense of identity, and this reinforces the political urgency to continue to fight injustice and inequality. Though there has been considerable thought and effort put into understanding the complexity of identity from a cultural perspective, this has not always made its way into the HIV conversation. The relationships between culture, identity, and the social forces that shape health outcomes have to be met head on. Cultural affirmation is a part of developing and sustaining individual and collective resilience. Finally, we should consider not only the present, but also the future of the movement. The innovations developed today are as effective as the leaders who are able to usher them in. Working together, young black gay men and allies, we will bring an end to the epidemic. Kenneth Maurice Pass is a junior at Morehouse College studying psychology and public health. He is president of SafeSpace, Morehouse College’s gay-straight alliance and student advocacy organization, as well as an undergraduate research fellow and health policy intern. Charles Stephens is an Atlanta-based writer. He is co-editing an anthology called “Black Gay Genius” and helped to develop the social marketing campaign From Where I Stand: www.fromwhereistand.org

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Uganda’s ‘Kill the Gays Bill’ expected to pass

Plan for the Anti-gay bill would be a ‘Christmas gift,’ parliament leaders say unexpected when you’re healthy. By Dyana Bagby dbagby@thegavoice.com

Uganda’s Anti-Homosexuality Bill, known by opponents as the “Kill the Gays Bill,” was expected to be voted on this week in the African country’s Parliament, where leaders said they want to pass the bill before the Dec. 15 recess as a “Christmas gift” to citizens. At press time on Monday, Nov. 19, Ugandan newspaper The Daily Monitor reported the bill was likely to be debated Tuesday, Nov. 20. The Speaker of Parliament, Rebecca Kadaga, wrote in a Nov. 13 letter that there is high public pressure to pass the bill. She has stated she wants the bill passed before the end of the year to give as a “Christmas gift” to the people of Uganda. “I write to reiterate my earlier instruction to your committee to expeditiously handle the review of the report on the bill. As you are aware, there is high demand by the population to address the escalating problem of promoting and recruiting minors into homosexuality,” the letter states in part, according to an article posted to the Monitor’s website Nov. 16. Numerous Western countries have promised to withhold foreign aid if the bill is passed and protests have occurred in the U.S., including one in Atlanta on Nov. 14 at the state capitol. J.R. Rich, 28, from Midtown, organized the small Atlanta protest. He held a “Shame on Uganda” sign and said he wanted to raise awareness among lawmakers as well as citizens of what is taking place in Uganda, located in East Africa. “We are trying to raise awareness to anyone we can, especially our Congressmen on the Hill,” he said. “They [in Uganda] are trying to enact legislation, that is going to pass according to their House Speaker in Uganda, that would a make their already illegal homosexuality law punishable by much tougher standards including the death penalty,” Rich said. “That is wrong. It’s genocide for anybody they kill and it’s an extreme infraction of civil rights and human rights. We feel the UN should be involved and we want Congress and the president to come out publicly against it,” Rich added. Uganda may be a world away from the steps of Georgia’s Gold Dome, but Rich believes everyone should be aware and interested in stopping the anti-gay legislation. “Growing up as a Jewish man, as a gay man, the Holocaust has weighed on me at times. If someone is not going to speak for them, who will speak for me if this happens here?” he said. “We all need to speak out, we all need to be involved, we all need to care.”

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MORE INFO www.theGAVoice.com For coverage of the vote on Uganda’s anti-gay bill, visit www.thegavoice.com The bill includes two categories: “aggravated homosexuality” and the “offense of homosexuality.” “Aggravated homosexuality” is punishable by death and includes a parent or authority ﬁgure who has same-sex relations, someone who is HIV-positive, or those who commit homosexual acts with minors. The “offense of homosexuality” is punishable with a life sentence and includes those in a same-sex marriage and Ugandans who have same-sex relationships outside Uganda. Homosexual relationships are currently illegal in Uganda and those caught can now be imprisoned for 14 years.

American Christian ties to Uganda bill

The bill was originally introduced in 2009 by Parliament member David Bahati and was resurrected in February. Bahati is a member of The Fellowship Foundation, better known as The Family, an international Christian organization based in the U.S. that organizes the annual National Prayer Breakfast. In 2010, President Barack Obama and Secretary of State Hillary Clinton spoke out against the Ugandan bill at the National Prayer Breakfast. The objectives of the bill, as stated in the ofﬁcial document: “provide for marriage in

Several Atlanta activists protested Uganda’s ‘Kill the Gays Bill’ on Nov. 14 at the Georgia State Capitol. (Photo by Dyana Bagby)

Uganda as that contracted only be between a man and a woman; prohibit and penalize homosexual behavior and related practices in Uganda as they constitute a threat to the traditional family; prohibit ratiﬁcation of any international treaties, conventions, protocols, agreements and the declarations which are contrary or inconsistent with the provisions of this Act; prohibit the licensing of organizations which promote homosexuality.” Throughout the bill are references to homosexuality being a threat to “traditional families.” Bahati wrote the bill after attending a 2009 conference in Kampala, Uganda, led by antigay activist Scott Lively of California’s Abiding Truth Ministries. Rachel Maddow, host of “The Rachel Maddow Show” on MSNBC, has reported extensively on the Uganda bill and its ties to American evangelicals. She has interviewed investigative reporter Jeff Sharlet several times about his stories about The Family and its connections to the anti-gay Ugandan bill. But Rick Warren also has connections to the bill. Warren is known for being anti-gay and LGBT people were dismayed when he was invited by President Barack Obama to give the invocation at his inauguration four years ago. Warren is also friends with Pastor Martin Ssempa, an outspoken anti-gay preacher who is a regular visitor to Warren’s One Saddleback Church in California and a strong supporter of Uganda’s Anti-Homosexuality Bill.

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HRC president: ‘We have to be smart and strategic moving forward’ Head of nation’s largest LGBT group reflects on election, Supreme Court cases By Ryan Watkins rwatkins@thegavoice.com As euphoria from the Nov. 6 general election fades, LGBT advocates look forward to continued progress in Congress and an upcoming Supreme Court decision on whether to hear several gay marriage cases. The Nov. 6 vote was, without a doubt, the “gayest” election in the history of American politics. From four state-level gay marriage victories in Minnesota, Maine, Maryland and Washington to the election of Tammy Baldwin (D-Wisc.) as the country’s first-ever openly gay U.S. senator, equality advocates had much to celebrate. But there’s plenty of work that remains unfinished. An all-inclusive Employment NonDiscrimination Act, universal marriage rights for all of the country’s gay and lesbian couples and working to eradicate bullying of LGBT youth are some of the items that remain on the agenda of the Human Rights Campaign, the nation’s largest LGBT political group. HRC President Chad Griffin knows full

well the impact of the recent election victories. “It was an incredible sweep across the country,” Griffin told GA Voice in a telephone interview this week. “I’m so proud of all of the work the team did. It was the biggest mobilization that HRC has ever engaged in. In those four marriage states we invested $5.5 million.” He’s also mindful of the work that must be done. “To have such victories only increases the pressure,” Griffin said. “We have to be smart and strategic moving forward.”

Next stop: Supreme Court?

Perhaps the next batch of equality victories will come courtesy the U.S. Supreme Court. On Nov. 30, the court will consider whether to hear arguments on several legal challenges to the Defense of Marriage Act, a 1996 law that prevents the federal government from recognizing same-sex unions, as well as California’s Proposition 8, a state constitutional amendment that bans gay marriage. Griffin played a key role in the Prop 8 battle. As the co-founder of American Federation for Equal Rights, he was instrumental in the lawsuit that challenged the constitutionality of the anti-marriage law. “I won’t pretend to be able to predict what these justices will do or what cases they take,”

AFER and the ACLU [American Civil Liberties Union]. I think the partnerships there are tremendous. If you look at these cases, they are well litigated across the board.”

What about Georgia?

Human Rights Campaign President Chad Griffin said he expects the U.S. Supreme Court to ultimately decide the issue of same-sex marriage. (Photo courtesy HRC)

Griffin said. “I think it’s likely that they take one or more cases before them. If they don’t take Prop 8 then marriage could begin [in California] within hours or days. Either way, we are within the window of Prop 8 being erased from the books and that will be a victory.” HRC does not usually participate in legal cases, like the DOMA lawsuits or Prop 8’s challenge. Despite his history with AFER, Griffin said HRC will continue leaving that kind of legal advocacy to other gay rights groups. “We have incredible partner organizations,” Griffin said. “We have Lambda Legal, GLAD [Gay & Lesbian Advocates & Defenders],

Georgia is still a decidedly red state and has a constitutional amendment that bans same-sex marriage. A poll conducted over the summer by CNN and ORC International found that while attitudes on marriage equality are shifting in favor of gay couples, Southerners continue to lag well behind the rest of the country. With a state legislature and governor decidedly Republican, any movement toward marriage equality is highly unlikely to originate under the Gold Dome. “I believe that ultimately this issue will be decided before the U.S. Supreme Court,” Griffin said. “These important civil rights issues have always come about before the court. The momentum is important. It’s quite clear where the country is headed on these issues.” But Griffin and HRC remain confident that progress can be made in places like Georgia. “In states where we won’t see marriage on the ballot, we have to make advancements there, too,” Griffin said. “In places where we’re unlikely to see ballot measures, that doesn’t mean that we can’t continue to advance.”

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itch Grassi is one of two openly gay members of Pentatonix, the a cappella group that came to fame by winning the NBC series “The Sing Off” and continues to draw new fans via YouTube through covers ranging from Gotye to “Gangnam Style.” Lead vocalists Grassi, Scott Hoying and Kirstie Maldonado performed as a high school vocal trio in Texas, adding members Avi Kaplan and Kevin Olusola before competing last year on “The Sing Off.” The diverse group released “Volume 1,” a six-song EP including their cover of Gotye’s “Somebody That I Used To Know,” in June and released “PTXmas,” a holiday CD, this month. We caught up with Grassi, age 20, as Pentatonix embarked on the multi-city U.S. tour that brings the group to Atlanta’s Variety Playhouse on Nov. 29. How did your musical background lead you to Pentatonix? Mitch Grassi: Pentatonix started out as a trio with Kirstie, Scott and me, because we had been in choir for most of our high school careers. I guess that was a big influence. More than that, especially now, currently with the music we are doing, we all have different musical influences. I would say that mine is a little bit more electronic. Scott’s is a little more R&B. It’s kind of a melting pot of different genres. A pentatone is defined as “a gapped

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scale with five notes; usually the fourth and seventh notes of the diatonic scale are omitted.” Tell us something about the choice of Pentatonix as the name of the group. The pentatonic scale is a scale that’s very popular in R&B, soul and pop music. We use a lot of it in general and when we are writing music. It’s a five-note scale and we have five members, so we thought it was pretty appropriate. Do members of the group have assigned tasks? For example, are harmony or rhythm parts assigned to specific people or are the duties evenly distributed? That’s an interesting question. I would say that Kevin and Avi are the rhythm section and the rest of us are the vocalists. Sometimes we’ll switch positions. I actually really do like doing rhythms, but it rarely happens because I can’t get those low ends that Avi can usually get. Four of the six songs on the “Volume 1” EP are covers. What is involved in the group’s song selection process? We’ll discuss our favorite songs of the time or songs that we always really wanted to do as a group. It was a bit difficult at first, because we had so many possibilities and options. In the

end, I think we chose the right ones. It was just a matter of, can we arrange these songs for the group, will it sound good, are we going to have a good lead vocalist? There are a bunch of factors, basically. What was involved in the songwriting process of the two originals, “Show You How to Love” and “The Baddest Girl”? That was quite a process in itself, because we had never done that before. We knocked out the covers for the EP first and then we were like, “now what do we do?” (When it came to writing the songs) I think it was melody first. We had a friend named Ben Bram help us out with the arranging process. It was difficult. It was trial and error. Pentatonix’s six song EP has the “Volume 1” label – when can we expect “Volume 2”? We’re hoping next spring at the latest. Is that also going to be an EP? We’re still in the deciding process [laughs]. It would make sense if it was a second EP, but I think we’re ready to pop out an album. Pentatonix is embarking on a US tour. What can people expect from your show? If they’ve seen any of our earlier shows,

MORE INFO www.theGAVoice.com Pentatonix Thursday, Nov. 29, 8 p.m. Variety Playhouse, 1099 Euclid Ave. Atlanta, GA 30307 www.ticketmaster.com they can expect more of a “show.” We’re putting together some different things, some treats hidden in there. We’re going to change things up a little bit and make it more interesting. It’s going to be a real show. What are the advantages and disadvantages of being one of two gay members of Pentatonix? There are actually more advantages than disadvantages. I think it’s a great thing. I love that our fans are so accepting of it. It’s amazing; it makes me feel so close to them. Some people might say that beeing openly gay in the music business might deter you from having a career, but I don’t think that’s true. My career, as a queer person, has been pretty successful. We’re still on our way up, but I think we’ve been doing an amazing job. I love the support. I’m proud.

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Retired rugby star turned anti-bullying advocate Ben Cohen launched his new StandUp Magazine and hosted the Compete Sports Diversity Awards in Atlanta Nov. 14. Cohenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Atlanta-based StandUp Foundation works to end anti-LGBT bullying and also combats homophobia in sports. (Photos by Katina Lear)

Lost-N-Found rallies for homeless LGBT youth

Spending 48 hours living atop a U-Haul truck was a valuable lesson in humility, according to Rick Westbrook, executive director of Lost-n-Found Youth, an Atlanta nonprofit that provides emergency shelter to homeless LGBT youth. Westbrook lived atop a truck parked by the gay gift store Brushstrokes for two days beginning Nov. 6 to raise awareness and collect about $1,200 in cash and gift cards, along with donations of clothing and non-perishable food. Supporters also gathered Nov. 7 at the truck for a candlelight vigil. (Photos by Dyana Bagby)

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Robert had a longtime rule for himself. If he encountered a man to whom he was overwhelmingly attracted, he turned his back and fled as far and as fast as he could. He learned in the past that such charismatic men made bad boyfriends, usually requiring constant attention. They were flirtatious with everyone and made Robert feel like a barely present shadow. That situation came up at the last Food Porn Supper Club meeting. A man named Lee arrived late and introduced himself to Robert. He had black hair and blue eyes, and obviously hit the gym frequently. Robert felt himself in the kind of awe that usually cued him to get up and leave. But that would be extremely unmannerly at a dinner he was hosting. So he avoided eye contact with Lee. After dinner, his friend Janet drove him home. “I saw your reaction when Lee arrived,” she said. “Please, shut up, Janet,” Robert replied. “I don’t need to hear it.” “Hear what?” Janet asked. “I’m just observing that, as usual, you turned away from a man obviously interested in you.” “Merry Christmas,” Robert said, noting the Christmas tree lot at Ansley Mall. A few days later, Robert received an email from Lee inviting him to dinner. His immediate response was to delete the mail, but he imagined the scolding he would get from Janet. So he wrote Lee back that he’d like to join him. Lee responded that he would meet him at Bantam and Biddy, the new restaurant in Ansley Mall, at 7:30 Saturday night. When Robert walked through the parking lot toward the new restaurant, he saw Lee standing near the door. He gulped and had an immediate impulse to turn around and get in his car. But he heard Lee shouting his name. “I’m over here, Robert!” They shook hands and went inside. They perused the menu at the front of the restaurant where diners order. The restaurant’s name derives from the specialty here: rotisserie chicken. Still, there are other dishes on the menu, like meatloaf, fresh vegetables, a cobb salad, chicken pot pie, and pork schnitzel. “Have you eaten here before?” Robert asked. “A couple of times,” Lee said. “I really like it.” “It seems kind of expensive to me for chicken,” Robert replied. “It’s not Chick-fil-A,” Lee responded. “Everything here is local. The chickens lived very pampered lives before they were executed. And that makes them expensive.”

Recommended Bantam & Biddy: This restaurant specializes in rotisserie chicken, served on the bone, in a cobb salad, turned into sausage or a pot pie. The pork schnitzel and grass-fed beef meatloaf are also good choices. 1544 Piedmont Rd (Ansley Mall), 404-907-3469, www.bantamandbiddy.com Robert laughed. Lee, who ordered the meatloaf, apparently knew food. Robert ordered a quarter of the rotisserie chicken. They ordered a variety of sides like mac and cheese, pickled beets with goat cheese, and fennel slaw. “So,” Robert said as they sat down, “thanks for inviting me to dinner. This was on my list but I hadn’t made it yet. You seem to be a foodie, right?” “I guess so,” Lee replied. “I grew up with a mother who dragged me to every restaurant in New York…and Paris, too, for that matter.” “Wow, sounds like you had quite a privileged childhood,” Robert said. “That must have been great fun.” “I was lucky,” Lee said. “But it wasn’t always fun. I staged quite a few tantrums in restaurants. What five-year-old wants to eat snails?” “What do you do for a living?” Robert asked. “I have to use the restroom,” Lee said. When he came back a few minutes later, he asked Robert how his Thanksgiving had been and whether he was looking forward to Christmas. “I went to Savannah for Thanksgiving with my parents,” Robert said. “It was the usual two days of mind-numbing boredom. I don’t go home for Christmas, though. I am cooking dinner for a group of friends, as always. What about you?”

Food Porn is a new fictional series by longtime Atlanta food critic Cliff Bostock. Set in real Atlanta restaurants, it chronicles the adventures of Robert, a gay man in search of a husband — or at least a good meal. For past chapters, visit www.thegavoice.com “I haven’t decided,” Lee said. “I find the holiday tedious. It should only be celebrated every 10 years or so. But that would ruin the American economy, literally. Christmas even drives people to kill themselves in greaterthan-usual numbers.” “Honestly,” Robert said, “I assumed you loved Christmas. You are very handsome. You know that. Every gay man in this restaurant stared at you when we came in. I think anyone would assume you love going to all the Christmas parties.” “Nope, not at all,” Lee replied. “I’m not anti-Christmas if it’s toned way down, like the French do. I don’t like the Fourth of July, either. Religion and nationalism are two of America’s severest defects. I do like Halloween.” Their entrees arrived and a few minutes of silence followed as they sampled the food. “It’s as good as you promised,” Robert said, “but I’m still curious. Can you not set aside the religious meaning of Christmas and enjoy the food, friends, and family?” Lee shrugged. “Sure, I guess.” He looked down at his plate and ate a chunk of meatloaf. Not long after, they said good-bye. “I enjoyed it,” Lee said. “Are you open to getting together again?” “Sure,” Robert said, somewhat surprised. He was curious why Lee avoided telling him his occupation and seemed so generally undisclosing. But his attraction to Lee was not diminished. He would get the scoop on him somehow.

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WORDIE WARS Ok, word nerds, this is the game for you and your crew. Be proud to be the best speller, wordsmith or grammarian in the room as you tackle all manner of word construction and trivia. $24.95 at Heliotrope.

You just thought we were done with the liquor. You probably know someone who would love to recieve some specialty liquor like this Smokehead Scotch or this Vixen Vodka. It’s not holiday-centric, but it’ll get you just as tipsy! Scotch $44.99, Vodka at Tower Beer, Wine & Spirits

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VINTAGE CHIC HOME DECOR Take a loved one’s home décor to the next level with this set of Europeaninspired accessories. • Wilco 4x6 wood frame, $33 • Wilco Bird easel frame, $26 • European soaps, $4.95-$7.25 • Aquiesse Candles, $20 • Voluspa candles, $19-$25 All from Brushtrokes

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Do your games of Words with Friends turn into “Words with Frenemies?” Share your love of the original crossword game — that would be Scrabble, for those under 30 who’ve never heard — with these smart home accessories. Mugs $11, Coasters (above) $18 (full set), Board towel $8.95 at Heliotrope

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Midtown’s favorite men’s clothing store has its own athletic label now. What’s sweeter than giving this set of branded workout gear (or um, lazy day clothes) to your guy for when he stays over? Hoodie $59, Ringer T $42, Shorts $35 at Boy Next Door

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Mix this Sea Plane long-sleeve “party shirt” with these Fresh jeans and tada! You’ve got two new pieces for your man that work together and separately. Sea Plane shirt $59.99, Fresh Jeans $79 at Boy Next Door

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BOCCIA TITANIUM ID WATCH These Boccia Watches are all solid titanium, not titanium plated. They come in most of the colors of the rainbow and they’re built to last. The strap is made of rubber, which means it’s good to go wherever you do. $145 at Worthmore Jewelers

OLD WORLD LUXURY FOR HIM OR HER If love is timeless, this hand-braided leather necklace with Tahitian or freshwater pearl and shipwreck coin is a close second. The coin is a “geniuine 8 reales cob piece of eight, salvaged from the treasure ship Consolacon that sank in the year 1681.” Fancy! $279 - $1,850 (coins vary) at Worthmore Jewelers

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‘Birds of a Feather’ Holiday Dinner Theatre Nov. 23-24, Dec. 6-8 at Jungle 2115 Faulkner Road, Atlanta, GA 30324 www.jungleclubatlanta.com

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By Ryan Lee Downtown Atlanta will be more bustling than Santa’s workshop on Dec. 2, as thousands of LGBT Atlantans turn out for the 10th annual Toy Party at AmericasMart #3 For more than a decade, the Toy Party has allowed LGBT locals and an increasing number of heterosexuals to play Santa’s elves by donating holiday gifts for underprivileged children in Atlanta. “It’s amazing how every year it gets bigger and bigger,” says Nick Gold, a member of the advisory board of For The Kid in All of Us, the volunteer non-profit that organizes Toy Party. “It’s amazing to see, and we expect maybe as many as 5,000 people will attend the Toy Party this year.” For the Kid was founded to elevate what had been a small holiday party hosted by Alex Wan, who asked guests to bring a gift for charity. Since then, Wan has been elected to the Atlanta City Council, more than 35,000 toys have been collected for local charities and the Toy Party has become a gem of gay Atlanta. “What began a decade ago as a house party where everyone brought an unwrapped toy has grown into one of the ‘must attend’ events of the season,” says Alison Hall, For the Kid board president. The event “ensures that underprivileged kids in our community have a gift on Christmas morning,” Hall says. The number of agencies that receive gifts from Toy Party has grown to two dozen in 2012. They range from HIV/AIDS organizations like Jerusalem House and AID Atlanta, to elementary schools and churches, to groups that support homeless youth and those with developmental disabilities.

Holiday Guide “Once all of the toys are collected on Dec. 2 from Toy Party, they get re-distributed later in the month, just in time for Christmas,” Gold says. “So the kids that are connected to these charities will have a gift to open on Christmas morning.” As the Toy Party has grown, so has the cost of producing such a grand event. This year’s party marks the first time For the Kid will charge a $5 cover charge in addition to a gift. “Last year, the admission price was an unwrapped toy valued at $25 or more, and this year the gift needs to be $20 or more, and then also a $5 donation to help defray the costs of the event,” Gold says. “It kind of works out about the same.” For the Kid is also introducing tiered options for attending the Toy Party: the general admission of a gift and $5, an Ultra Lounge admission that offers “a little piece of the VIP experience” for $50 and an unwrapped toy, and a full-blown VIP that costs $250 and an unwrapped toy. The general admission area will include the beats of DJ Vicki Powell and entertainment inspired by Cirque du Soleil in honor of the theme of this year’s Toy Party, “Cirque de Jouets,” which is French for “toy.” The Ultra Lounge will be situated within the main ballroom, but will rescue attendees from the Toy Party’s legendary drink lines by offering private bars and wait staff. The extra generous elves who opt for the

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LGBT holiday happenings Toy Drive for Jerusalem House Nov. 23 at Model T 699 Ponce De Leon Ave., Atlanta, GA 30308 www.modeltatlanta.com

Toy Party, created by For the Kid in All of Us, has collected more than 35,000 toys over the last decade to make the holidays happier for under-privileged children. (Photo by Brent Corcoran/RNZ Photography)

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Atlanta Gay Men’s Chorus Holiday Concert Preview Dec. 1, 1:30 p.m. at Red Clay Theatre 3116 Main St., Duluth, GA 30096 www.eddieowenpresents.com

Atlanta Santa Run Benefits CURE Childhood Cancer Dec. 8, 2 p.m. in Midtown Atlanta www.atlantaspeedorun.org Christmas Concert & Silent Auction With Jason & DeMarco Dec. 8, 7 p.m. First Metropolitan Community Church 1379 Tullie Road, Atlanta, GA 30329 www.firstmcc.com Ho Ho Hoedown PALS Bingo Dec. 12, 7:30 p.m. at Jungle 2115 Faulkner Road, Atlanta, GA 30324 www.palsatlanta.org United4Safety Holiday Cookie Contest Dec. 13, 6:30-9:30 p.m. at the Philip Rush Center 1530 Dekalb Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307 www.united4safety.org Atlanta Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce Holiday Party Dec. 13, Details TBA www.atlantagaychamber.org

Toy Party Dec. 2, 5-9 p.m. at Americas Mart 3 240 Peachtree St., Atlanta, GA 30303 www.forthekid.org

Festival of Lights with Congregation Bet Haverim Dec. 14, 6 p.m. at Central Congregational UCC 2676 Clairmont Road, Atlanta, GA 30329 www.congregationbethaverim.org

Toy Party After Party Dec. 2, 8:30 p.m. at W Atlanta –Downtown 45 Ivan Allen Jr. Blvd., Atlanta, GA 30308 www.chriscolemanenterprises.com

Southern Bears Christmas Party Dec. 14, 7 p.m. at the Rush Center 1530 Dekalb Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307 www.southernbears.org

Atlanta Executive Network Holiday Party Dec. 6, 6:30-9 p.m. at The Fifth Ivory 794 Juniper St., Atlanta, GA 30308 www.aen.org Naughty & Nice Holiday Gala Benefits CHRIS Kids Dec. 7, 7-10 p.m. at Mint Salon 985 Monroe Drive, Atlanta, GA 30308 www.chriskids.org Atlanta Gay Men’s Chorus Holiday Concert Dec. 7, 8 p.m., Dec. 8, 2 p.m. and 8 p.m. Cathedral of St. Philip 2744 Peachtree Road, Atlanta, GA 30305 www.agmchorus.org VIP ticket will have access to an open bar in a private area, with an exhibition by performance painter David Garibaldi. The new-age artist who creates pop portraits to an accompanying song made it to the finals of the most recent season of “America’s Got Talent,” as he and his entourage, David Garibaldi and his CMYKs, awed audiences and judges with their rapid-rhythm paintings of Mick Jagger, Albert Einstein and the Statue of Liberty. The suggested price of gifts for admission

OurSong ‘Twisted Holiday’ Concert Dec. 14, 8 p.m. at Emory University Canon Chapel Dec. 15, 8:15 p.m. Clayton State’s Spivey Hall www.oursongatlanta.org Atlanta Freedom Bands ‘Holiday Fantasy’ Concert Dec. 15, 8 p.m. North Decatur Presbyterian Church 611 Medlock Road Decatur, GA 30030 www.atlantafreedombands.com Be sure to pick up our Dec. 7 and Dec. 21 issues for even more holiday events. to Toy Party has risen over the years, from the early days of a $10 gift for access to an open bar, to the $20 gift and tickets from $5 to $250. But many attendees go much further than the recommended gift price, buying bicycles, video game systems and other big-ticket toys. In addition to the 35,000 toys and gifts cards donated at Toy Party over the years, For the Kid has also raised more than $470,000 for local charities through Toy Party and its summer event, Backpack in the Park.

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Sarcasm, sentimentality and more Local theaters offer diverse takes on the holidays By Jim Farmer Holiday time at local theaters traditionally brings familiar offerings as well as some newer fare, much of it appealing to LGBT patrons. Of course, “The Santaland Diaries” will be back for its 14th outing at Horizon Theatre. The comedy has proven to be the grandest gaythemed offering of the entire season. Based on gay writer David Sedaris’ own experience, as told in his “Holidays On Ice,” it stars Harold M. Leaver as the snarky title character, forced to work as a department store elf during the holidays one year when money is tight. Leaver’s co-stars are Enoch King, now in his sixth year, and LaLa Cochran. Leaver still shakes his head at how successful “Santaland” has become. What started as a staged reading now often sells out its entire run. Last year, Leaver says, was the most successful season yet and 2012 will be ripe with all sorts of pop culture and political references. Lesbian director Cathe Hall Payne is staging “Nuncrackers – the Nunsense Christmas Musical” at Onstage Atlanta. The holiday follow-up to “Nunsense” features a cast of nuns trying to raise money and all original songs, says Payne. Onstage is also producing “Merry Little Holiday Shorts,” a series of eight one-act plays. Payne is directing one of the shorts, “Fruitcake,” as are gay artists Charlie Miller (“Very Trudy Christmas”) and Barry West (“Introduction” and “Colic & Petty Thief: A Christmas Story”). These are the last shows at the current location before the company moves to a new home in 2013. Located at the home of the late, great Theatre in the Square, the new Marietta Theatre is presenting “Tuna Christmas.” It’s part of the “Tuna” trilogy by openly gay Ed Howard, also the artistic director of the new troupe, and

For the 14th year, Harold Leaver stars in ‘Santaland Diaries’ at Horizon Theatre, the stage adaptation of gay humorist David Sedaris’ hilarious, biting account of his days as a department store elf. (Photo via Facebook)

Holiday Guide features two actors — William Murphey and Douglas Berlon — playing a plethora of characters, including women. Gay actors Spencer Stephens and Bryan Mercer are teaming up again for Synchronicity’s musical “A Year With Frog and Toad.” Although more about friendship than the holidays, it’s proven to be a popular fixture and is a Suzi Award winner. Elsewhere, out actor Glenn Rainey appears in Theatrical Outfit’s “The Gift of the Magi.” Perhaps the most lavish holiday onstage treat is the Alliance Theatre’s “A Christmas Carol,” again featuring Chris Kayser doing a

turn as Scrooge. The Alliance also has a new offering this year, the musical “Holiday With the Chalks,” featuring a country western trio who are setting up a honky tonk at the Alliance’s Hertz Stage. Libby Whittemore, the popular chanteuse, brings her inimitable pipes – as well as her alter ego, Connie Sue – to Actor’s Express for “Ho, Ho, Home for the Holidays and a Connie Sue Day Christmas” in December. Among the new holiday offerings, gay bar Jungle Atlanta turns into a Parisian nightclub – at least for two upcoming weekends. “Birds of a Feather,” a re-imagining of the gay French classic “La Cage Aux Folles,” opens there Nov. 23. Originally a 1973 play about the chaos that ensues when a young man brings his fiancée’s conservative parents home to meet his barowner father and his father’s gay lover, “La Cage” became a 1978 film, which bore two sequels. It spawned a 1983 Broadway musical, penned by Harvey Fierstein, as well as the 1996 film “The Birdcage” with Robin Williams and Nathan Lane. Director Tony Smithey is taking some liberties with his premise. In his take, which is set in Atlanta, a young couple has to deal with one’s straight parents and the other’s gay parents while on college break during the Christmas season. “We have also added a few characters,” he says.

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Two years ago, a stage version of “Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer” opened during the Christmas season at the Center for Puppetry Arts and became a sensation. It’s back as well this year and its tale of an outsider looking for acceptance is especially relevant – and fun. Other treats include: “Little Women” at Fabrefaction; “White Christmas” courtesy of Atlanta Lyric Theatre; the Martin Luther King drama “The Mountaintop” via True Colors; “It’s A Wonderful Life” at Ansley Park Playhouse and a “live radio play” version of the same show

MORE INFO www.theGAVoice.com ‘Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer’ Through January 6 at Center for Puppetry Arts www.puppet.org ‘The Santaland Diaries’ Nov. 23 – Dec. 30 at Horizon Theatre www.horizontheatre.com ‘Nuncrackers – The Nunsense Christmas Musical’ Nov. 23 – Dec. 22 at Onstage Atlanta www.onstageatlanta.com ‘Birds of a Feather’ Nov. 23 – Dec. 8 at Jungle Atlanta www.jungleclubatlanta.com ‘A Christmas Carol’ Nov. 25 – Dec. 24 at Alliance Theatre www.alliancetheatre.org ‘The Gift of the Magi’ Nov. 29 – Dec. 23 at The Balzer Theatre www.theatricaloutfit.org ‘Holiday With the Chalks’ Nov. 30 - Dec 25 at Alliance Theatre www.alliancetheatre.org ‘Merry Little Holiday Shorts’ Dec. 6 – 16 at Onstage Atlanta www.onstageatlanta.com ‘Tuna Christmas” Dec. 7 - 23 at Marietta Theatre www.mariettatheatre.org ‘A Year With Frog and Toad’ Dec. 7 -30 at 14th Street Playhouse www.synchrotheatre.com ‘Ho, Ho, Home for the Holidays and a Connie Sue Day Christmas’ Dec. 15 – 23 at Actor’s Express www.actorsexpress.com at Stage Door Players; “West Side Story” at the Cobb Energy Center; “Christmas Canteen” at Aurora Theatre; and the irreverent “Invasion: Christmas Carol” at Dad’s Garage.

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It’s just not the holidays without music to put you in the festive spirit. Atlanta’s gay and lesbian choruses are poised to host their annual holiday concerts with inclusive messages of peace and hope. The Atlanta Gay Men’s Chorus returns to the Cathedral of Saint Philip for its annual holiday concert, this year called “And on Earth, Peace.” The concerts are set for Dec. 7-8, including the traditional ice cream social after the 2 p.m. show on Dec. 8. The chorus also offers a preview show Dec. 1 at Red Clay Theatre in Duluth. Kevin Robinson, artistic director for AGMC, said this year’s theme of peace goes hand-in-hand with the season. “It is always an appropriate time to sing about and celebrate the promise of joy to the world and goodwill to all persons,” Robison says. “But perhaps it’s especially important to sing these universal messages of hope during an election year, where the volume of the rhetoric can get in the way of reminding us all of what we most desire — peace.” The concert is slated to include such holiday classics as “Deck the Halls,” “O Holy Night” and a remake of the famous “Little Drummer Boy/Peace on Earth” duet between Bing Crosby and David Bowie. It will also feature special guest Megan Mashburn. Robinson praises the Cathedral of Saint Philip, calling the venue a “guest star” of the annual show. “The Cathedral itself must be considered one of the recurring ‘guest stars’ of our December holiday concert,” he says. “Its reverent beauty and ringing acoustics greatly add to the experience for both our audiences and the chorus itself. We feel extremely privileged to be invited back year after year.” The AGMC, now in its 32nd season, also has a new holiday CD that will be available at the concerts. It can also be downloaded from iTunes and the chorus website.

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OurSong, Atlanta’s mixed gay and lesbian chorus, will host its holiday concert, “Twisted Holiday,” on Dec. 14 at Cannon Chapel at Emory University and Dec. 15 at Spivey Hall at Clayton State University. While many of the songs OurSong will perform during the show are recognizable, Robert Glor, artistic director, says that the chorus wanted a new take on memorable classics. “It was born from trying to find different ar-

The Atlanta Gay Men’s Chorus offers December concerts featuring both traditional and contemporary holiday tunes. (Photo by Brent Corcoran/ RNZ Photography)

MORE INFO www.theGAVoice.com Atlanta Gay Men’s Chorus ‘And on Earth, Peace’ Preview on Dec. 1, 1:30 p.m. Red Clay Theatre, Duluth Concert on Dec. 7, 8 p.m. Dec. 8, 2 p.m. and 8 p.m. Cathedral of St. Philip www.agmchorus.org OurSong ‘Twisted Holiday’ Dec. 14, 8 p.m. Cannon Chapel at Emory University Dec. 15, 8:14 p.m. Spivey Hall at Clayton State University www.oursongatlanta.org

Holiday Guide rangements of traditional things,” Glor says. “It’s a fresh new look to the music. We realized these were ‘twisted’ from what they originally were.” That inspiration led to the concert’s theme. Glor notes he and his associate artistic director, Ellen Chase, spent many hours during the summer looking for new arrangements. “I spent a lot of time in the summer, listening to music,” Glor says. “I’d go to YouTube and I’d go to the music vendors’ websites. We look everywhere we can to find different arrangements.” While the chorus promises new takes on classics, there will be some modern music included, as well, Glor says. Works from contemporary composers Kevin Memley and Bob Chilcott will also be featured. “It’s really great, beautiful music,” Glor said. OurSong, now in its 11th year, will perform in two different venues: one intown at Emory University and the other outside of the city at Clayton State University.

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Winter wonderlands Don’t miss these favorite ATL holiday traditions By Laura Douglas-Brown ldbrown@thegavoice.com Atlanta may not be a typical winter wonderland, but the season is still filled with events and attractions to get you in the holiday spirit. While not as LGBT-specific as Toy Party or gay chorus concerts, you’ll also find plenty of “family” at these beloved traditions.

GARDEN LIGHTS, HOLIDAY NIGHTS

Nov. 17-Jan. 5 at the Atlanta Botanical Garden www.atlantabotanicalgarden.org “Garden Lights, Holiday Nights” at the Atlanta Botanical Garden is among the newest traditions on our list, debuting last year. By turns whimsical and ethereal, this lovely lighted walk through the 30-acre garden uses more than 1.5 million low-energy lights to create a vision that is nothing short of delightful. Among the new features this year are the Vincent Van Gogh-inspired “Starry Night Walk and “Liquid Lights,” a lighted fountain display in the Cascades Garden described as “an icy cool vibe.” Favorites from last year also return, including the “Orchestral Orbs” display set to holiday music on the Great Lawn.

SEASON OF MAGIC AT PIEDMONT PARK

Nov. 22-Jan. 1 in Piedmont Park www.piedmontpark.org LGBT Atlanta’s unofficial backyard gets into the spirit with the second-annual Season of Magic. Enjoy holiday lights throughout the park, along with a carousel and horse-drawn carriage rides. While you’re there, don’t miss the ice-skating rink now in its third year at Park Tavern. Opening Nov. 23, the rink is in a heated tent complete with music and rink-side dining. Enjoy dinner from MetroFresh and cocktails in the Glow Bar.

ICE SKATING AT CENTENNIAL PARK

Nov. 21-Jan. 27 in Centennial Park www.centennialpark.com Billed as the only outdoor skating rink in Atlanta, Centennial Park’s rink has been a favorite for more than a decade. As you skate, and after, enjoy the Holiday in Lights display, with 20 miles of lights and a nearly 60-foot Christmas tree.

DECATUR BONFIRE

Dec. 13, 7-8 p.m. in Decatur Square www.decaturdba.com A favorite with families, including many with two moms or two dads, the Decatur Bonfire warms you up with marshmallow roasting around a huge bonfire and visits with Santa in the community bandstand.

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Nov. 30, 8 p.m. Cobb Energy Performing Arts Centre www.cobbenergycentre.com Saxophonist extraordinaire Dave Koz, who just happens to be gay, brings his Christmas Tour to the Atlanta area for the 15th year. “Friends” joining Koz this year to offer fresh takes on holiday favorites include percussionist and singer Sheila E., known for her work with Prince and Cyndi Lauper, among others; “The Voice” winner Javier Colon; pianist David Benoit and singer/songwriter Margo Rey.

Holiday Pops concert promises a variety show with everything from “the season’s merriest songs” to Santa dancing the jitterbug.

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Christmas with the ASO: Dec. 6-8 ASO Kid’s Christmas: Dec. 9 & 16 Handel’s Messiah: Dec. 13 & 15 ASO Gospel Christmas: Dec. 14-15 A Very Merry Holiday Pops: Dec. 19, 21-22 www.atlantasymphony.org The always-lovely Atlanta Symphony Orchestra offers holiday concerts in multiple musical styles. Christmas with the ASO features 400 singers and musicians, including the symphony, the Morehouse College Glee Club, and more. Handel’s Messiah is a traditional spiritual favorite, while the Gospel Christmas offers both modern and traditional pieces. The annual

‘Garden Lights, Holiday Nights’ debuted in 2011 at the Atlanta Botanical Garden and quickly earned its spot among the city’s most beautiful and beloved holiday traditions. (Photos by Joey Ivansco)

Nov. 22-Feb. 18 Stone Mountain www.stonemountainpark.com It’s the least-gay tradition on the list, and it’s packed with families and kids virtually nonstop. But c’mon, it’s snow, in Atlanta! Bring your kids, your nieces and nephews, or heck, just round up a group of friends for a day of tubing, roasting marshmallows and more. Look up at the Confederate carving on the mountain, then look around at the diverse crowd around you, and see how far the South has come. That’s something to be happy about, at the holidays and year ‘round.

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Comedian Eddie Sarfaty, who has appeared on “The Today Show,” Logo’s “Wisecrack” and in the documentary “Laughing Matters,” performs to benefit adoption services at CHRIS Kids. 8 p.m. at Dad’s Garage, 280 Elizabeth St., Atlanta, GA 30307, www.chriskids.org

Wednesday, Nov. 28 The dynamic duo of Amy & Freddy return to Atlanta with a new show to make you laugh and sing along. 8 p.m. at Mixx Atlanta, 1492-B Piedmont Ave., Atlanta, GA 30309, www.mixxatlanta.com

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The Santaland Diaries, an Atlanta theater tradition, brings gay humorist David Sedaris’ satire about working as a Macy’s elf back to the stage. Opens tonight, runs through Dec. 30 at Horizon Theatre, 1083 Austin Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307, www.horizontheatre.com For more holiday theater offerings, see story on Page 44. Edie Cheezburger presents The Other Show, featuring Jasmine Antoinette, Justice Tyana Taylor, Miami Royale, Violet Chachki and special guest Arrianna Paris. Doors open at 8:30 p.m., show at 9:30 p.m., DJ Thomas Byrd spins pop and top 40 after. Jungle, 2115 Faulkner Road, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.jungleclubatlanta.com City of the South Theatre Company presents “Birds of a Feather,” aka “The Birdcage,” complete with a three-course meal for the Holiday Dinner Theatre at Jungle. Opens tonight with shows Nov. 24, Dec. 6-8 at Jungle, 2115 Faulkner Road, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.jungleclubatlanta.com The Model T hosts a Toy Drive for Jerusalem House,, which helps those living with HIV. Model T, 699 Ponce De Leon Ave., Atlanta, GA 30308, www.modeltatlanta.com Traxx Girls presents the Friday night Banjee Girls hip-hop party from 9 p.m. – 4 a.m. at My Sister’s Room, 1271 Glenwood Ave., Atlanta, GA 30316, www.mysistersroom.com

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As performance art troupe gloATL prepares for their debut at Aqua Art in Miami, Atlantans are invited for the local dress rehearsal here. 8-10 p.m. at Goodson Yard at the Goat Farm, 1200 Foster St., Atlanta, GA 30318, www.gloATL.org

DJ Brett Long spins for Mr. and Miss Atlanta Eagle bar night,, Atlanta Eagle, 306 Ponce De Leon Ave., Atlanta, GA 30308, www.atlantaeagle.com

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Atlanta’s Every Womyn presents an “LGBT Old School Game Night,” with games like Monopoly, Scrabble, Twister, Musical Chairs and much more to benefit Lift Up Atlanta. $7. 7 - 10 p.m. at the Phillip Rush Center, 1530 Dekalb Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307 Take a break from leftovers with the Turkey Relief Dance Party featuring DJ Rapko from Q100 at My Sister’s Room, 1271 Glenwood Ave., Atlanta, GA 30316, www.mysistersroom.com Mon Cherie presents The Chamber Reunion II, harkening back to the glory days of Atlanta’s former fetish bar with aerial artists, fetish and burlesque performers, DJs Jennocide and Alabaster, host Devin Liquor and much more. 9 p.m. – 2 a.m. at The Masquerade, 695 North Ave., Atlanta, GA 30308, www.moncheriepresents.com Traxx Clubs presents a Thanksgiving Extravaganza with Kenya Moore of “Real Housewives,” who also appears at the Traxx Girls party. DJ Eclipse and DJ Angel X spin house and hip hop. XS Ultra Lounge, 708 Spring Street, Atlanta, GA 30308, www.xcessultralounge.com

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Daring Divas is the new Saturday night show at Blake’s feauring Charlie Brown, Shawnna Brooks, Angelica D’Paige, Savannah Leigh, Michelle Paris and The Lady Shabazz. Blake’s on the Park, 227 10th St., Atlanta, GA 30309, www.blakesontheparkatlanta.com

Sunday, Nov. 25

The Armorettes, Atlanta’s legendary fundraising drag troupe, takes over at 8 p.m. at at Burkhart’s, 1492 Piedmont Ave., Atlanta, GA 30309, www.burkharts.com

Monday, Nov. 26

New restaurant Bantam + Biddy donates 10 percent of today’s proceeds after 5 p.m. to Pets Are Loving Support, which helps people with HIV and other health issues keep their pets. Located at Ansley Mall, 1544 Piedmont Ave., Atlanta, GA 30324, www.palsatlanta.org

Writing With Intent is open to writers of fiction and creative non-fiction; group offers motivational exercises, constructive criticism and more to keep you on track. 6:30-8:30 p.m. at Charis Books & More, 1189 Euclid Ave. NE, Atlanta, GA 30307, www.charisbooksandmore.com Catch the $3,000 grand finale of Absolut Talent karaoke. 11:30 p.m. at Burkhart’s, 1492 Piedmont Ave., Atlanta, GA 30309, www.burkharts.com

Tuesday, Nov. 27

Lesbian social group Fourth Tuesday hosts its monthly dinner. Cocktails at 6 p.m., dinner at 7 p.m. at Pappasito’s Cantina, 2788 Windy Hill Road, Marietta, GA 30067, www.thehealthinitiative.org

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“Laugh Your Balls Off” at Cockpit’s queer comedy night, held the last Tuesday of the month. 8:30 p.m. at Cockpit, 465 Boulevard SE, Atlanta, GA 30312

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The Atlanta Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce hosts a Business Builder Luncheon at 11:50 a.m. East Point Corner Tavern, 2783 Main St. East Point, GA 30344, www.atlantagaychamber.org Poetry Atlanta and the Georgia Center for the Book host the last “Poetry Atlanta Presents” event of the year, featuring Eve Hoffman, Travis Denton and Robert Wood. 7:15 p.m. at Decatur Library, 215 Sycamore St., Decatur, GA 30030. http://poetryatlanta.blogspot.com

Cherie Priest reads from “The Inexplicables.” 7: 30 p.m. at Charis Books & More, 1189 Euclid Ave NE, Atlanta, GA, 30307, www.charisbooksandmore.com Lesbian blues rocker Michelle Malone performs with Levi Lowrey and Gareth Asher. 8 p.m. at Eddie Owen Presents at the Red Clay Theatre, 3116 Main St., Duluth, GA 30096, www.eddieowenpresents.com On Thursdays, check out Dancefloor Divas with Phoenix of “RuPaul’s Drag Race.” 11:30 p.m. at Burkhart’s, 1492 Piedmont Ave., Atlanta, GA 30309, www.burkharts.com

Friday, Nov. 30

On the eve of World AIDS Day, the Red Party celebrates “Lives Focused on Cure” with HIV testing from 6-10 p.m. and show at 10 p.m. with DJ Birdman and the Divas Cabaret. Benefits Powertoendure. org at LeBuzz, 585 Franklin Road, Marietta, GA 30367, www.thenewlebuzz.com Directed by openly gay Brian Clowdus, “A Diva’s Christmas“ delivers an eclectic mix of Christmas standards and contemporary favorites belted out by Alison Brannon Wilhoit, Kylie Brown and Dasie Thames. The touring show kicks off in Dahlonega tonight and runs through Dec. 21; Atlanta-area dates include The Hill at Serenbe (Dec. 1), West & Mill in West Midtown, (Dec. 2), Spice Market at W Midtown (Dec. 8), Café Circa in downtown Atlanta (Dec. 9 and Dec. 16) and Haven in Brookhaven (Dec. 10). www.serenbeplayhouse.com It’s the last ManShaft party of the year: the LeviLeather edition. 10 p.m. at Cockpit, 465 Boulevard SE, Atlanta, GA 30312, www.facebook.com/cockpit.atlanta

Friday, Nov. 30

Gay saxophonist Dave Koz brings his Christmas show back to Georgia. 8 p.m. at the Cobb Energy Center, 2800 Cobb Galleria Parkway, Atlanta, GA 30339, www.cobbenergycentre.com

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Camille Paglia — social critic, best-selling author of “Sexual Personae,” and also a lesbian —presents her latest foray into the world of Western art with “Glittering Images: A Journey Through Art from Egypt to Star Wars.” 6:30-8 p.m. at SCAD Atlanta, 1600 Peachtree St., Atlanta, GA 30309, www.acappellabooks.com/upcoming-events

Hannah Thomas and Emily Kate Boyd perform their rock/country tunes. 9:30 p.m. at Eddie’s Attic, 515-B McDonough Road, Decatur, GA 30030, www.eddiesattic.com

Saturday, Dec. 1 Today is World AIDS Day. For a full schedule of events, please see page 8.

Barry Brandon’s Bedlam parties present The Masquerade, a birthday celebration for Eber Teles de Oliveira. This one is billed as a private event, so you must RSVP to attend. 10 p.m. – 3 a.m. at iLoungeatl, 1287 Glenwood Ave., Atlanta, GA 30316, http://on.fb.me/UKsTdR

Atlanta Gay Men’s Chorus offers a preview of their annual Holiday Concert. 1:30 p.m. at the Red Clay Theatre, 3116 Main St., Duluth, GA 30096, www.eddieowenpresents.com

Monday, Dec. 3

The gay Dixie Bowling Invitational hosts a beer bust to watch the SEC Championship game and raise funds for Lost-N-Found Youth and ACS. 3-6 p.m. at Burkhart’s, 1492 Piedmont Ave., Atlanta, GA 30309, www.dixiebowl.org This year’s theme is “The Hunger Games” as LeBuzz hosts the preliminary competition for Mister Georgia USofA Male Illusionist & Classic, an official precursor to the national contest. 8-11 p.m. at LeBuzz, 585 Franklin Road, Marietta, GA 30367, www.thenewlebuzz.com

Sunday, Dec. 2

Toy Party, the biggest holiday part of the year, features DJ Vicki Powell, cocktails, food and more to collect a mountain of toys for underprivileged kids. Admission is $5 plus a new, unwrapped toy worth $20; VIP admission levels also offered. 5-9 p.m. at Americas Mart 3, 240 Peachtree St., Atlanta, GA 30303, www.forthekid.org The Toy Party After Party keeps the holiday spirit going. 8:30 p.m. at the W Atlanta –Downtown, 45 Ivan Allen Jr. Blvd., Atlanta, GA 30308, www.chriscolemanenterprises.com

The Atlanta chapter of PFLAG hosts its First Monday Support Meeting where attendees are divided into small groups led by a trained facilitator. 7:30 - 9 p.m. at Unitarian Universalist Congregation, 1605 Northeast Expressway NE, Atlanta, GA 30329, www.pflagatl.org

Monday, Dec. 3 On Mondays, play Family Feud at 11:30 p.m. with host Wild Cherry Sucret. Blake’s on the Park, 227 10th St., Atlanta, GA 30309, www.blakesontheparkatlanta.com

Tuesday, Dec. 4

Every Tuesday, sing out at Mary-oke starting at 9 p.m. at Mary’s, 1287 Glenwood Ave., Atlanta, GA 30316, www.marysatlanta.com Tuesdays, Thursdays and early Saturday, get your country on with 3-Legged Cowboy nights at the Heretic, 2069 Cheshire Bridge Road, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.hereticatlanta.com

Wednesday, Dec. 5

Every Wednesday, watch “The X Factor” at 8 p.m. on the big screens at Amsterdam Atlanta, 502-A Amsterdam Ave., Atlanta, GA 30306, www.amsterdamatlanta.com Charlie Brown hosts “Drag Idol 5” every Wednesday at 10 p.m. at LeBuzz, 585 Franklin Road, Marietta, GA 30367, http://on.fb.me/MYbqiy

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Saturday, Dec. 1

Tuesday, Dec. 4 Tuesdays, unwind with a sing-along with pianist David Reeb at 8 p.m. at Mixx, 1492-B Piedmont Ave., Atlanta, GA 30309, www.mixxatlanta.com

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On Wednesdays, catch the Lust & Bust Show with host Lena Lust and featuring Shawnna Brooks. 11 p.m. at Blake’s on the Park, 227 10th St., Atlanta, GA 30309, www.blakesontheparkatlanta.com

Thursday, Dec. 6

SAGE Atlanta, a support and social group for LGBT elders, meets starting at 10 a.m. on Thursdays at the Philip Rush Center, 1530 Dekalb Ave., Atlanta, GA 30307, www.sageatl.org

The gay Atlanta Executive Network hosts its annual holiday party. Half-off your first cocktail with a donated toy or gift card. 6:30-9 p.m. at The Fifth Ivory, 794 Juniper St., Atlanta, GA 30308, www.aen.org Pulitzer-winning journalist Isabel Wilkerson discusses her book “The Warmth of Other Suns: The Epic Story of America’s Great Migration.” 7:30 p.m. at Charis Books & More, 1189 Euclid Ave NE, Atlanta, GA, 30307, www.charisbooksandmore.com Thursdays at 9 p.m. get your “Glee” on the television screens at Amsterdam, 502-A Amsterdam Ave., Atlanta, GA 30306, www.amsterdamatlanta.com Thursdays are 18-and-up College Night at My Sister’s Room, 1271 Glenwood Ave., Atlanta, GA 30316, www.mysistersroom.com

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Friday, Dec. 7

Hometown duo Indigo Girls perform with the Georgia Symphony Orchestra. 8 p.m. at Cobb Energy Center at Cobb Energy Centre, 2800 Cobb Galleria Parkway, Atlanta, GA 30339, www.cobbenergycentre.com

Friday, Dec. 7 – Saturday, Dec. 8

Friday, Dec. 7 The seventh annual Art Vision raises funds for Positive Impact, which provides mental health and other services for those affected by HIV. This year’s theme is “Uncharted: Travel to Enchanted Lands.” 7-10 p.m. at Stone Four Studios at Studio Plex, 659 Auburn Ave. NE #131, Atlanta, GA 30312, www.artvisionatl.org Publicity photo

Join Mint Salon for the Naughty and Nice Holiday Gala, a night of fashion, food and beverages complete with silent auction, DJ and door prizes. A portion of proceeds benefits CHRIS Kids. 7-10 p.m. at Mint Salon, 985 Monroe Drive, Atlanta, GA 30308, www.chriskids.org

The Atlanta Gay Men’s Chorus performs its 32nd annual holiday concert, “And on Earth, Peace,” with soprano Megan Mashburn. 8 p.m. Dec. 7, 2 p.m. (followed by free ice cream social) and 8 p.m. Dec. 8 at The Cathedral of St. Philip, 2744 Peachtree Road, Atlanta, GA 30305, www.agmchorus.org

Friday, Dec. 7-Monday, Dec. 10

The Heretic hosts a weekend of events to celebrate the bar’s 21st anniversary. DJ Lydia Prim spins Friday at 10 p.m., DJ Mickey Friedman spins 10 p.m. on Saturday. Monday is the invite-only Customer Appreciation Party from 8-10 p.m., so ask a staff member for an invitation. Heretic, 2069 Cheshire Bridge Road, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.hereticatlanta.com

Saturday, Dec. 8

Watch or join in as 300 scantily clad runners take to the streets for the Atlanta Speedo Run to try to raise $150,000 for CURE Childhood Cancer. Runners need to raise $250 to participate. Run begins at 2 p.m. and takes a 1.5 mile course on West Peachtree and Peactree streets, through the heart of Midtown. www.atlantaspeedorun.org

Saturday, Dec. 8 Gay Christian artists Jason & DeMarco perform as First Metropolitan Community Church hosts its annual Christmas Concert and Silent Auction. 7 p.m. at First MCC, 1379 Tullie Road, Atlanta, GA 30329, www.firstmcc.com Singer-songwriter Shawn Colvin performs at 8 p.m. at Agnes Scott College’s Presser Hall, 141 East College Ave., Decatur, GA 30030, www.eddieowenpresents.com

Wednesday, Dec. 12

Ho Ho Hoedown is the theme for this month’s PALS Bingo. Doors at 6:30 p.m., program at 7:30 p.m. at Jungle, 2115 Faulkner Road, Atlanta, GA 30324, www.palsatlanta.org

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Topher Payne is an Atlanta-based playwright, and the author of the book “Necessary Luxuries: Notes on a Semi-Fabulous Life.” Find out more at topherpayne.com

My grandmother on my mother’s side, the widowed commander of a brood of six children, was presented with the daily task of staying afloat on a very limited budget. She rose to the challenge, stretching every morsel of food and inch of fabric to cover the demands of her family. Her resourcefulness truly shined every December, when she created lowcost alternatives to the usual holiday fare. As a tribute to my late grandmother, my Mama still prepares her “unbaked fruit cake,” a sticky-sweet mishmash of condensed milk, vanilla wafers, and candied fruit, formed into a loaf and left to harden on the counter for several weeks. It barely qualifies as food. The polite but unfortunate relations who have attempted ingesting this concoction have either lost teeth or experienced instantaneous insulin shock. My sister Shannon and I have spent years reminding Mama that the only reason our grandmother prepared this monstrosity is because she was poor. Had the option of preparing actual fruitcake been financially viable, she would have gleefully done so. Perhaps a more fitting tribute to our grandmother would be baking the fancy fruitcake that eluded her all those years. Mama remains unmoved by our entreaties, declaring unbaked fruitcake a sacred family tradition, whether any of us like it or not. My birthday’s next week — it’s my Jesus year. I’ll be 33, which is as far as Jesus got if you don’t count the Resurrection. According to some interpretations of the Mayan calendar, it’s as far as I’ll be getting as well. Considering I’m currently living in a world where they’re taking away Twinkies and I can’t have Chick-fil-a for ethical reasons, I’ve made my peace with the possibility of things wrapping up in the next month or so. But then there are others who say that the 2012 “End of Days” prophesies refer to a new age of enlightenment — a radical shift in human interaction. There’s evidence to support that.

My marriage license recently picked up service in a few new states. The next time I go to Colorado, I can apparently get totally baked without fear of retribution. It’s all terribly exciting, although I’m sure there are people who would take these as signs that the world is ending. I make little notes every birthday of things I’d like to achieve in the coming year. I am notorious for my overplanning. “Get in shape” is always on there. So is painting the house, and getting this damn tattoo of a typewriter I’ve wanted for about seven years. One year I actually put “Stop overplanning” on the list. I don’t know why I do it to myself. I suppose it’s tradition. Perhaps Mama and I would be well-advised to consider what “tradition” really is. It’s intended to be an activity you actually enjoy repeating, like watching “Revenge” with my husband, or drinking a whole pot of coffee on Sunday mornings. Annually preparing a brick of cookie crumbs and neon green cherries, or making a list of things you never actually do, is not tradition. It’s just making the same mistake over and over and not learning anything. I’ve had the same conversation about the typewriter tattoo with my husband Preppy for years. I talk about wanting it, then talk myself out of it because I might have to cover it if I get an acting gig. This year, Preppy tried a different tactic when I brought it up. He pointed out that I spend a lot more time as myself than I do as someone else, so shouldn’t I do what would make me happy? I’m gonna hold out hope on the notion of this new age of enlightenment, even in a world without Twinkies. For good or bad, my Jesus year will be what it will be. Sometimes the results will be fantastic, and sometimes it’ll be an unbaked fruitcake: The best mix of what I have to work with at the moment, with the hope of something better later. No lists this time. Let’s just see what lies ahead.

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