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Israel and Palestine Katie Burkholder
It is difficult to visit any news outlet right now and not see coverage of the ongoing conflict between Israel and Palestine. As you may have noticed, we have yet to publish anything on the situation. This has been intentional, though not because of a lack of care.
We as an organization completely understand the impact and severity of the conflict, and we feel deeply for all the lives that have been threatened and lost, and that will continue to be lost. It is not because I do not deem the conflict important enough to cover that I have chosen not to include any coverage in Georgia Voice. Our mission at Georgia Voice is to create a space for LGBTQ Atlantans to see themselves. We are hyperlocal because we believe that small-scale community matters, and we very rarely, if ever, cover issues of global scale. In the age of social media, where the importance of place continues to dwindle as news from all over is always available to us, I believe it is deeply important to scale back
and connect to what is right around you. I hope to make Georgia Voice a landing place for y’all to do just that.
From a resource perspective, we are made up of a very small team, and we simply do not have the capacity — the money, the access, the contacts, the education, or the experience — to cover complex stories of international geopolitical conflict like what is happening between Israel and Palestine in a way that is nuanced and accurate. And quite frankly, I would not deem it an ethical practice to make money off this very real and deadly conflict, off the Middle Eastern lives that are being lost, by sharing another white Western perspective, especially when I recognize this resource dearth exists. While I do personally have my own opinions on the situation, I recognize that I am a white Western woman; just because I have a platform does not mean the world needs to hear what I have to say about it. The belief I am willing to share, and that I try to imbue in all our coverage regardless of topic, is that colonialism is unethical, violent, murderous, and wrong, and how those impacted by colonialism respond to it is not for me or any other white American to deem right or wrong.
With all that said, if the opportunity arises to share a personal, local story of a queer Jewish or Palestinian Atlantan relating to the conflict, we will not shy away from it. If you are interested in keeping up with the situation on a more regular basis, I suggest @ Jewishvoiceforpeace, @muchachafanzine, and aljazeera.com. You can also read the article by Sukainah Abid-Kons we published last spring, “Emory Professor Dr. Sa’ed Atshan’s Research Delves into the Queer Palestinian Reality,” on our website. And if you are an American who is struggling with feelings of dread and impotence at the constant inundation of this horrifying news, take a step back and breathe. There is little if any power you have over global affairs, and scaling back and focusing on your community is a good thing, even if it feels small in comparison. Check on your Middle Eastern friends, especially those of Jewish or Palestinian descent, to make sure they're safe and coping. If they need help, help them. Volunteer at or donate to a local organization, like Palestine Children’s Relief Fund Atlanta. Engage in local politics. Just because the impact isn’t global doesn't mean it's not important.
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NEWS BRIEFS Staff reports Read these stories and more online at thegavoice.com
House Spending Bills Once Again Include Anti-LGBTQ Riders A letter to President Joe Biden and Democratic congressional leadership sent on Wednesday by 163 members of the U.S. House of Representatives, including Congressional Equality Caucus Chair Mark Pocan (D-Wis.) and the eight other openly LGBTQ co-chairs, objects to Republican members’ efforts to “hijack the appropriations process to restrict the rights and fundamental freedoms of LGBTQI+ people.” With the November 17 funding deadline looming, the letter argues, “These members lack the votes and public support to pass their anti-LGBTQI+ agenda into law as standalone bills, so they are working to include them in must-pass funding legislation.” These total more than 40, according to the letter, which specifies they fall largely within four categories: • Gender-Affirming Care Ban Riders: These riders would restrict access to evidence-based, medically necessary care for transgender people or eliminate funding to organizations that provide such care. • License to Discriminate Riders: These riders would create a license for people and organizations—including those receiving taxpayer funds—to discriminate against LGBTQI+ people under the guise of religious liberty, and they prevent the federal government from adequately responding. For example, they prohibit the federal government from reducing or terminating a federal contract or grant with an organization that discriminates against LGBTQI+ people if the organization justifies their discrimination based on the belief that marriage should only be between a man and a woman.
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LGBTQI-inclusive Executive Orders (EO Nos. 13985, 14035, and 14091) meant to ensure the federal workforce is an inclusive and affirming workplace for employees with marginalized identities.
Breast Cancer Remains a Hidden Threat to Lesbians, Bi and Queer Women Breast Cancer Awareness Month has come to a close, once again with no outreach to lesbians, bisexual and queer women. Yet it has been true for decades that LBQ women are at greater risk than their heterosexual peers. These women are both at higher risk for breast cancer and have a lower likelihood of getting the same standard of care as their heterosexual peers. LBQ women often feel invisible in the discourse on breast cancer. The disparities in how LBQ women are treated by the healthcare system is an impediment to care and that can translate into lives lost.
• Pride Flag Riders: These riders would prohibit funds from being used to fly pride flags at covered facilities.
Fear of having a negative experience with a health care provider can lead some women to delay or avoid medical care, especially routine care such as early detection tests. Missing routine cancer screening tests can lead to cancer being diagnosed at a later stage, when it can be harder to treat and where treatment is more extensive.
• DEI EO Riders: These riders would prohibit funds from being used to implement, administer, apply, enforce, or carry out three
Another problem for LBQ people can be a lack of health insurance coverage due to affordability. Lower incomes can make it
harder for many LBQ women to get quality health care. There may be a higher breast cancer risk for women who have used some hormone therapy after menopause. Women who haven’t had children or haven’t breast-fed and women who are older than 30 when they first give birth are also at a slightly higher risk. The LGBT Cancer Network acknowledges that lesbians especially are “invisible” because the large national cancer registries and surveys do not collect data about sexual orientation. So, while racial, ethnic and other groups of women can discern their risk and how to address it from specific data, lesbians cannot. The prevalence of breast cancer makes this lack of data especially problematic for lesbians. The LGBT Cancer Network says that the community has a “disproportionate cancer burden” and notes, “There is adequate research to confirm that lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people have a unique ‘cluster of risk factors’ that would lead us to have both greater cancer incidence and later stage diagnosis. We estimate that there are over 1 million LGBT cancer survivors in the country today. This disproportionate burden of disease is referred to as ‘health disparities.’” The American Cancer Society recommends lesbians and bisexual women begin annual mammograms at 45 but earlier if they have family history, a genetic mutation, or other risk factors. ACS also recommends those women receive an MRI as well.
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F.L. “Bubba” Copeland was the duly elected mayor of Smiths Station, a town in Lee County, Alabama. It is part of the neighboring Columbus, Georgia, metropolitan area. Copeland was also pastor of the First Baptist Church of Phenix City, which sits across the Chattahoochee River from Columbus. By all accounts, Bubba – as he was known in this small town of 6,756 – was popular, respected, and beloved, but early November 3 he died by suicide after a far-right publication published photos and a story detailing the pastor-mayor’s private and secret life. Lee County Sheriff Jay Jones told media outlets that Copeland, a married father of three, “took his own life” around 5pm. According to the sheriff, at around 4:15pm CT, his deputies received information regarding the mayor needing a possible welfare check. Deputies found Copeland in the Beulah community area, where a slow pursuit began. Officials say the mayor turned onto Lee Road and pulled over. When he exited his vehicle, he produced a handgun and used it to take his own life. The tragic death of the pastor-mayor stemmed from an article published by writer Craig Monger on the far-right wing media website 1819 News earlier in the week. 1819 News is a website that was once owned by the Alabama Policy Institute, a conservative group that is staunchly antiLGBTQ and has filed multiple lawsuits against same-sex marriage. Monger’s article disclosed Copeland’s secret online social media alter persona Brittini Blaire Summerlin, which listed Copeland self-labeled as a “transitioning” transgender woman. Monger went on to
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Alabama mayor F.L. “Bubba” Copeland PHOTOS VIA INSTAGRAM publish screenshots of other photos and entries including some photos that 1819 News alerted readers with the caution: “WARNING: EXPLICIT PHOTOS.” Copeland told Monger that he could confirm that he operated the various social media accounts, and it was him who was featured in the photos. He claimed it was only a means of “getting rid of stress” and called the postings a “hobby” and a “fantasy.” The pastor-mayor said his erotica and transgender persona were “purely fiction.” According to Monger, after the interview, Copeland promptly deleted the accounts and asked them not to be made public due to his family and position as a Baptist pastor. Reaction from the Christian anti-LGBTQ right groups was unsympathetic. “We have become aware of the alleged unbiblical behavior related to the pastor of the First Baptist Church of Phenix City.
We are praying for the leaders of the church family as they seek to determine the truth concerning these accusations. As the people of God, we pray for the pastor and his family as well. We are in consultation with the Russell Baptist Association’s leadership as they endeavor to assist the First Baptist family during this critical time of need,” the Alabama Baptist State Convention and Alabama Baptist State Board of Missions said in a statement to the Alabama Baptist, a news outlet for the state’s Baptist churches. Former Phenix City Schools Superintendent Larry DiChiara angrily posted on his personal Facebook page: “I am so angry right now and heartbroken. I witnessed a good man be publicly ridiculed and crucified over the last few days to the point that he just took his own life today. I just want to ask you people who thought it humorous to publicly ridicule him, ‘Are you happy now?’ What crime did he commit?”
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FiNCA to FiLTER Adalei Stevens
Queer women-owned FiNCA to FiLTER coffee shop has become a pillar of community and affirmation in the West End and Old Fourth Ward neighborhoods — providing free Plan B contraceptives “no questions asked,” equitable menu prices and safe spaces for marginalized groups. “We’ll know that we’re successful,” founder Kayla Bellman told Georgia Voice, “when our community can walk into a FiNCA, and they feel like it was designed for them.” Bellman lived and worked in Guatemala before moving to Atlanta in 2018, where she received her master’s degree in development practice from Emory University. Armed with her education and experience in the “coffee lands,” Bellman launched a coffee pop-up with Wild Heaven Brewery & Gardens in the West End that quickly necessitated a permanent location. FiNCA to FiLTER opened its first store in 2020, inside Wild Heaven Brewery. The name, Bellman said, was inspired by the farmto-table movement. “Finca,” which means “farm” in Spanish, references her love and appreciation for all that coffee means to her. “Coffee promised prosperity, equitable pay, meaningful work for women,” Bellman said. In April, FiNCA announced that it will partner with ARC Southeast to offer free Plan B contraception, generically called mifepristone, after the Georgia General Assembly enacted a six-week abortion ban. In response to the reversal of Roe v. Wade, ARC Community Outposts offer safe, reproductive health care options throughout Atlanta, including at Charis Books & More, CreateATL and Hodgepodge Coffeehouse.
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FiNCA to FiLTER founder Kayla Bellman FiNCA’s “queer and caffeinated” branding encourages both staff and patrons to “show up authentically,” which Bellman says is essential to the queer woman-led business. “Through this authenticity, we build trust with neighbors,” she said. “I think we see ourselves as stewards of both the queer community and queer professionals … To us, being a queer-led business means showing up authentically as ourselves, not hiding from anyone and creating the space for others to do their thing.” From drag queen story times to artist fairs, FiNCA platforms queer voices and businesses. Last October, Atlanta-based artist Barry Lee partnered with FiNCA to combine Lee’s signature style and the shop’s “queer and caffeinated” slogan on T-shirts and mugs for Atlanta Pride. FiNCA named Kristen Consuegra the 2023 Queer & Caffeinated Artist Collab.
“This shirt design is a collage of influences that have shaped my journey as a queer nonbinary person,” Consuegra said of their design. “Incorporating imagery from movies, newspapers, posters, and graphics of queer liberation movements, it pays homage to the art that inspired me to embrace my identity. It facilitates a deep understanding of the cultural and historical contexts that have shaped queer narratives.” FiNCA offers equitable and accessible pricing from menu to merchandise. While the shop offers coffee for as little as $2.50 and sweets starting at $2, a seasonal rotating menu keeps things interesting. This season’s Specialty “Foraging Menu” offers sweet potato lattes, elderberry tea, and a sweet espresso Scorpio Spritz. In 2019, Business Insider found that the “fat tax” results in “difference in price between items — clothing, bikes, furniture, etc. — made for those in the plus-sized community and those who are not.” So, Bellman said it was important to her that clothing sizes and menu prices did not ostracize the community.
“You’ll see that XS and XXXL are priced the same,” Bellman said. “Although most people in retail understand the price to [the business] is not the same, it’s how we understand kind of prioritizing our community and making sure that access to our goods is equal. So, there’s both the big lines, right, putting our money where our mouth is, but it’s also the small intentional actions that help both our customers and our team see themselves represented in what we do.” Bellman is also branching out to connect the neighborhoods on the Southside Beltline trail with natural wine bar, Side Saddle Wine Saloon. Natural wine is a burgeoning industry, largely led by POC and queer women, focusing on a low-intervention approach to winemaking. Check out the newly opened Old Fourth Ward FiNCA location at 652 Angier Ave. on the ground floor of Iris O4W or visit finca.coffee. Learn more about ARC Community Outposts and safe reproductive options in Georgia at arc-southeast.org/ programs/planbsoutheast.
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MAKES MEAL PLANNING PERSONAL Hunter Buchheit Read the full article online at thegavoice.com.
Project LeanNation is a place for everyone to show up, enjoy their time, and get some good food.
The world runs on finding the next good meal. For many people nowadays, that meal comes shipped straight to their door. Over 31 percent of Americans use third-party meal delivery services — companies like Home Chef and Hello Fresh lead a market focused on convenience and efficiency. But what people gain from having their foods pre-prepared they lose in the joys of acquiring it: someone asking them how their day was shopping at the grocery store, or even the knowledge of what’s going into the plate they’re sticking in the oven.
and we can help align you to your goals. If you have bigger questions, we can refer you out to a nutritionist or other people who can really help you identify what your goals are.”
Project LeanNation (PLN) is a health franchise with over 18,000 members that is centered on providing its customers with nutritious prepared meals to fulfill their needs while also giving them a warm, welcoming, and informative in-person experience. According to Shane Lucas and Sam Stowell, the queer founders behind Project LeanNation’s new Intown location, eating healthy doesn’t have to be so opaque or impersonal. “PLN takes the heavy lifting out of being healthy,” Lucas told Georgia Voice. “We like to say that being healthy can be accessible to anybody.” Their new brick-and-mortar location was built on this tenet of accessibility, conveniently located in the center of Atlanta’s Beltline.
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Project LeanNation offers around 28 meal options in two sizes: smaller lifestyle and larger athlete portions. COURTESY PHOTOS Lucas is a longtime member of the fitness industry, and he sees both the merit in eating well, knowing what you’re putting into your body, and having a support system of knowledgeable, caring people to cheer you on. But an issue he saw was that a lot of meal companies don’t provide that comprehensive system of reinforcement, engagement, or education. “[They] just deliver to your door each week and that’s the only thing you get,” Lucas said. “You don’t have anyone to talk to, or a person to ask questions to. Our community approach and having our LeanNation storefront is in part to help people who are either at the start of their journey with questions and don’t really know what they’re doing, or people who are already incorporating healthy eating and just want a bit of help and some meals always ready to go. You can talk to us about your goals,
When discussing the sizable slate meals, consultations, and other services his new Intown LeanNation storefront offers, Stowell pointed to the in-house InBody scanner as one of many examples of the benefits to an in-person location, “[The scanner’s] a really cool way of looking at what your body is made of. Rather than just hopping on the scale, it can check much more than your weight. It can check body fat, water weight, muscle mass, and where their muscle is placed on their body. Some people will come in for just the scan itself, then get interested in our meals and about everything else we have to offer.” When visiting the store, customers from all walks of life can choose from dozens of meal and food options, discovering the one that works best for them, and knowing, as Stowell noted, they won’t be stuck with the same slate of options for too long, “There’s lots of good variety, and our menu rotates every 10 weeks,” he said. “At any one time, we have around 28 meal options.” More than just offering services, Stowell and Lucas want to engage with their local Atlanta
community. And they have been, through donations and various events every month. “On November 30th, we’re doing a men’s health talk in the store,” Lucas said. “Last month we did a women’s talk, and we’re also looking to do a free workout for the community.” Describing his and Stowell’s connection with the importance of building community, Lucas pointed to their own identities. “We identify as gay men,” he said. “And for us the community aspect is probably the most important piece because what we know is that we have found so much success in our LGBTQIA+ community to truly support our efforts in this. We also know what it feels like just to be a person and to have a safe space to go to that is welcoming whether you identify as a part of the LGBT community or otherwise. We’re making a space where we do our best to make sure everyone feels welcome. Our world is always evolving, and that space is really important for us to curate in our community.” Project LeanNation, they summarized, is a place for everyone to show up, enjoy their time, and get some good food. Project LeanNation is located at 701-1 Highland Ave NE. Learn more at projectleannation.com.
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Unearthing Farm:
Combating Food Insecurity and Social Isolation Katie Burkholder Despite being the wealthiest country in the world, food insecurity continues to permeate the United States. One in eight households, or 44.2 million Americans, lack access to affordable and nutritious food, according to the Food Research and Action Center, and the statistic only gets worse in the South. The region with the most food insecurity, the South is home to 14.5 percent of people facing food insecurity. Unearthing Farm and Market is hoping to change that. The people behind the hyperlocal farm bought land in a neighborhood that was formerly a food desert and worked years to make it habitable for agriculture. “The whole reason why we started the farm, why we started growing produce in this area, is because for the longest time, until Lidl opened up down the street, that part of Kirkwood was considered a food desert,” Pritali Amrutkar, the volunteer coordinator for Unearthing, told Georgia Voice. “The point was to reduce food insecurity, and the mission and the goal is for people to have access to outdoor space, to fresh food, and for it to be accessible.” The structure of Unearthing is simple: every Saturday, they host a market selling the food they grew on the land, as well as food from other local farmers, like Southern Cap Mushrooms. To ensure everyone can have access to this freshly grown produce, Unearthing operates on a pay-what-youcan model, and nobody is turned away if they can’t afford it. Those who can’t make it on Saturdays can swing by the farm during nonmarket hours to find a fridge stocked with veggies. Anyone can help tend to
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Trees ATL Unearthing Grow With Pride. the land with the head farmer, Marianna, and they have a steward program where people can work their own plot of land. Through this model and the power of food, community is created.
involved with the production of food slows everything down a little bit. It gives you that sense of connection to the earth, to the food that you eat, to the people that you did this work with.”
“I’m South Asian, and I’m also an immigrant,” Amrutkar said. “For me personally, food has been the biggest thing that brings people together; that is the foundation of community … I think that isn’t lost in the Western world entirely. We have big feasts where people celebrate, [but] I think food has become something that we’ve commodified; you eat because you need fuel so you can work … Something about running a farm or garden, producing food, and having people
It’s not only the food that brings people together; it’s the space. Unearthing’s mission is to provide both food and a public green space for people to come together, thus acting as a necessary “third place” — a sociological theory that people need a third place to gather outside of home and work. Referred to as the “ of society, third places — despite their importance — are dwindling. Amrutkar has been at the farm for only
a year and a half and has already seen firsthand the impact of having a third place on people. Unearthing is cultivating a space where relationships between volunteers can flourish: they show up, work together, and when the work is done, they sit together, talk, and connect. “We are made of what we consume — in a scientific sense, as well as a philosophical sense,” she said. “The conversations plus the work, it all comes together.” Unearthing Farm and Market is at 1534 Memorial Dr. SE. Its markets are every Saturday from 10am to 3pm. Learn more at unearthingatl.org or on Instagram @ unearthingfarmandmarket. If you’re interested in volunteering, you can DM them on Instagram, fill out the form on their website, or just show up.
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A. Uncle Nearest 1884 Small Batch Whiskey Every batch of Uncle Nearest 1884 Small Batch Whiskey is hand-selected by the founders and curated by fifth-generation Master Blender, Victoria Eady Butler, who’s signature is on the back of each bottle. Aged a minimum of seven years and bottled at 93-proof, this is a smooth sipping whiskey. $49.99, Tower Beer, Wine, and Spirits; 2161 Piedmont Rd; buckhead. towerwinespirits.com.
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B. Mingle Mocktail Gift Box Whether you choose the bottle or ca set, each custom gift box includes a variety of non-alcoholic spirits, a Let’s Mingle canvas tote bad, and a recipe card. $64.95, Mingle Mocktails; minglemocktails.com.
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C. Custom Message Shortbread Cookies Take your texting skills to the next level and tap out a personalized cookie message for the one(s) you love. Just submit your special message and Celine Zhou will put it on these elegant, delicious, vanilla shortbread cookies. $39.99, Uncommon Goods; uncommongoods.com.
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D. Williams Sonoma Truffle Pantry Crate Splurge on a brilliant and decadent gift for the truffle lover or adventurous cook on your list with this collection of truffle oils, sauce, and butter. $129.95, Williams Sonoma; 675 Ponce de Leon Ave; williams-sonoma.com.
E. Jeni’s Splendid Holiday Collection Who said it’s too cold for ice cream? Give the gift of holiday cheer with the gift of Boozy Eggnog, Brown Butter Almond Brittle, Buckeye Frenzy, Darkest Chocolate, Merry Berry, and White Chocolate Peppermint. $68, Jeni’s Splendid Ice Creams; various locations; jeni’s.com.
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F. Gin Making Kit Sure, you could give the gift of gin. But what’s better than getting creative and making your own? This set comes with everything but the alcohol: juniper, nine different botanicals, corked glass bottles, labels, filters, a funnel, and a recipe guide. $60, Uncommon Goods
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A. Le Creuset London Mug Set
Give the gift of the rainbow to the coffee lover in your life with this simple but classic set of mugs! $79.95, Cook’s Warehouse; 1544 Piedmont Rd. NE #403-R; cookswarehouse.com.
B. The Grinch Nonstick Cast Aluminum Cake Pan You’re a mean one, Mr. Grinch! Whether they’re naughty or nice this year, the baker in your life will love this Grinch cake pan. $44.95, Williams Sonoma at Ponce City Market; 675 Ponce de Leon Ave. NE; williams-sonoma.com.
C. Le Creuset White 12 Days of Christmas Dutch Oven Illustrated in a charmingly vintage scrollwork style, swimming swans, leaping lords, a partridge in a pear tree and other icons from "The 12 Days of Christmas" adorn the snow-white enamel. This wintery Dutch oven is perfect for cooking and baking holiday favorites. $379.95, Crate & Barrel; 3400 Around Lenox Rd. NE; crateandbarrel.com.
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D. Ankarsrum Original Stand Mixer The Model 6230 machine is available in black diamond and red with the Basic attachment package of bowls, beaters, and whisks. $749.95, Cook’s Warehouse; 1544 Piedmont Rd. NE #403-R; cookswarehouse.com.
E. Fritaire BPA Free and Self-Cleaning Glass Bowl Air Fryer Fritaire is the air fryer you will enjoy using every day — chic, colorful, and essentially self-cleaning! The tempered glass bowl design allows 360° heat circulation and visibility.Available in orange and sage. $199, Cook’s Warehouse; 1544 Piedmont Rd. NE #403-R; cookswarehouse.com.
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Holiday Recipes Divine Ikpe
Thanksgiving is often not the most veganfriendly holiday. Bring any of these delicious plant-based dishes to this year’s Thanksgiving dinner to be the favorite of vegans and meat eaters alike!
Vegan Mac and Cheese SERVES UP TO 10
Ingredients: • 16 oz macaroni pasta, cooked in salted water (gluten free or regular) • ¼ cup vegan butter • ¼ cup gluten-free or regular all-purpose flour • 2 ½ cups plain unsweetened non-dairy milk • 3 cups shredded vegan cheddar cheese • 1 tsp salt • ½ tsp ground black pepper • 2 tsp old bay • 1 tsp garlic powder • 1 tsp onion powder • 1 tsp chipotle powder • 1 tsp poultry seasoning Instructions: 1. Cook pasta in salted water according to package directions in a large pot.
Vegan Mac and Cheese COURTESY PHOTO 5. Add cheese and stir. Add in salt, pepper, old bay, garlic powder, onion powder, chipotle powder and poultry seasoning. Vegan cheese takes a bit longer to melt, so keep stirring over medium heat until fully incorporated into a thick, smooth, cheesy sauce. 6. Add in cooked pasta and stir until fully coated, turn off heat. 7. Let cool, then serve!
Almond Crusted 3. In the same pot, melt the butter over medium Pear Galettes 2. Strain the pasta and set to the side.
heat. Once the butter is completely melted, whisk in the flour until it forms a smooth paste. 4. Slowly incorporate the milk, whisking until it’s completely incorporated. Let this simmer for a few minutes until it starts to thicken. Stirring occasionally so that it doesn’t burn.
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SERVES 6 TO 10
Ingredients: for galette crust • 1 and ¼ cup frozen vegan butter • 2 cups all-purpose flour • ¾ tsp salt
• ½ cup (very cold) water • All-purpose flour (for rolling) • 3 tbsp vegetable oil or olive oil (egg wash substitute) • ¼ cup sliced almonds (for topping)* for the filling • 3 small pears • ½ cup granulated sugar • ⅔ cup brown sugar • ¼ cup water + 2 tbsp of water for optional cornstarch slurry • 1 tsp vanilla extract • 1 tbsp cinnamon • ½ tsp allspice • ½ tsp nutmeg • 1 tsp of ginger • 1 tsp salt • 1 tbsp of cornstarch (optional) Instructions: for the crust 1. Get a medium-sized bowl, put all-purpose
flour and salt in the bowl and mix. Cube the frozen butter and add to the bowl and mix everything. 2. Slowly pour water into the bowl and knead the dough with your hands (or a stand mixer if you have one) until chunks of butter are visible. Slowly add in the (very cold) water and continue kneading until your bowl becomes clean. 3. Then plastic-wrap (or use a sustainable alternative) the dough and place it in the refrigerator allowing it to rest for at least one hour. for the filling 1. If you’re making the dough the same day that you make the galette, when there are 35 mins left on the time for chilling the dough, start working on the filling.
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side so that it can curdle.
2. Peel and core the pears then thinly slice them, set them aside.
4. In a small mixing bowl, mix together the dry ingredients: all-purpose flour, sugar, baking powder, baking soda, salt, and cinnamon.
3. Preheat the oven to 375 F 4. In a saucepan, put the sugar with the water, vanilla, cinnamon, allspice, nutmeg, ginger and pears on a low-medium heat until the liquid becomes thick and the pears get reduced (5 to 10 mins). If it isn’t thickening, whisk 1 tbsp cornstarch and 2 tbsp water in a small bowl then add it to the pot. Remove it from the heat.
5. Reserve 1-2 tbsp of dry ingredient mixture to the side in a small bowl. 6. Once the milk and apple cider vinegar is curdled (5-15 mins), add the rest of the wet ingredients: vegetable oil, vanilla extract, brown sugar, blood orange ginger beer. 7. Add the dry ingredients to the wet ingredients and fold the batter until it’s thoroughly combined, try not to overwork it.
putting together the galette 1. Foil and oil a sheet pan. 2. Remove the dough from the fridge, put it onto a floured surface and roll it out flat.
8. Get the small bowl with the reserved dry ingredient mixture and add the blueberries to it. Toss the blueberries in the mixture until they’re coated.
3. Shape the dough into a rectangle and cut into quarters. 4. Poke the dough with a fork a few times to create vents.
9. Carefully fold the blueberries into the large bowl with the cake mix, try not to break them.
5. Put 2-4 tbsp of filling in the middle of each quarter and fold up the sides.
10. Spread the mixture into the cake pan.
6. Get your sliced almonds and push them into the sides of the dough.
11. Put the cake into the oven and bake for 40-45 minutes or until a fork inserted into the middle of the cake comes out clean.
7. Brush the pastry with vegetable or olive oil.
12. Once done, take the cake out of the oven and let it cool on a wire rack for around 15 minutes. Once the pan is no longer hot to touch, carefully remove the cake from the pan and put it directly onto the rack.
8. Place each galette onto the sheet pan and put the pan into the oven for 15 minutes or until golden brown. 9. Remove from the oven and let it cool for at least 5 minutes. 10. Eat alone or serve with ice cream. *If you have a nut allergy, omit the almonds or substitute them with brown sugar.
Blueberry Citrus Spice Cake SERVES 14
Ingredients: for the cake • 1 cup non-dairy milk
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Blueberry Citrus Spice Cake COURTESY PHOTO • 1 tsp apple cider vinegar • 2 cup all-purpose flour • 1 tsp baking powder • ½ tsp baking soda • ¼ tsp sea salt • 1 ½ tsp cinnamon • ¼ tsp turmeric • ½ tsp allspice • ½ tsp nutmeg • 1 ⅓ cup brown sugar • ⅓ cup olive oil • 1 cup frozen blueberries • 1 tbsp apple cider vinegar • ⅔ cup blood orange ginger beer
for glaze • ¼ cup powdered sugar • 2-3 tbsp non-dairy milk • ½ tsp vanilla extract Instructions: for the cake 1. Preheat oven to 350 F. 2. Take out a cake pan and generously oil or butter the pan. 3. In a large mixing bowl mix together the apple cider vinegar and milk and set to the
putting it all together 1. To make the glaze, use the small bowl that you used for the blueberries earlier and whisk together the ingredients. 2. Once incorporated, drizzle the glaze on top of the cake. 3. Once the cake is fully cooled down, serve! If you happen to have leftover glaze, it (along with all leftovers) can be stored in the fridge for four days. If you refrigerate leftover cake, let it get back to room temperature before eating it.
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Iconic ‘The Wiz’ Stops in Atlanta Before Hitting Broadway Next Spring Jim Farmer Before it makes a welcome return to Broadway in the spring of 2024, the celebrated musical, “The Wiz,” is embarking on a national tour, with a stop in Atlanta beginning November 14, courtesy of Broadway in Atlanta. Many of the central players in the return are Atlantans and a few are out. Brian A. Moreland, one of the producers, first saw “The Wiz” growing up in California as an 8-year-old, taken by his mother to see the show. Afterward he started a performing career and then moved into producing. “As a producer, this is one of those properties I’d check on every single year,” he said. “I’d call the estate and ask if it was available and the answer would always be ‘no.’ Finally about four years ago I called and I was told it was. I started the journey then [to bring it back] with Kandi Burruss and Todd Tucker.” A huge challenge in reviving the musical is pleasing all those who remember the stage version almost 50 years ago and the 1978 film with Diana Ross and Michael Jackson.
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“That is one we wrestled with — how do we make this thing that has so much history, that means so much to so many people, and make it relevant for today?” Moreland said. “We kept elements of the original 1975 production and kept it and infused it with new elements. There is new choreography and dance arrangements, but still all the dancing you know.” Moreland promises a new version of the musical, based on the original choreography by George Faison, and the return of the Stephanie Mills song, “Wonder Wonder Why” that was added to the 1984 revival. “There is really something for everyone here,” he said. “If you are big fan, you’ll be very satisfied.” He is aware that the show has a strong LGBTQ appeal. “I think the reason is, it is about what the show stands for,” he said. “It is home and I think, as a gay man, people are always searching for their individual drive, their place where they can feel safe and loved. I’m of the age where I think about ’Cheers.’ You want to go where someone knows your name and that place is surrounded by love
and friends and community. That is what is in ‘The Wiz,’ and that is in the original version of ‘The Wizard of Oz.’ It’s the community and safe space where you feel accepted, feel a part of and people accept all of us.”
She also understands its broad appeal.
At a media day in early October, Moreland joined Burruss, Tucker, out choreographer JaQuel Knight, and performer Melody Betts, who plays Aunt Em/Evillene in this new version and performed a number from the new production. The new production stars Nichelle Lewis as Dorothy and Deborah Cox as Glinda, while Amber Ruffin is updating the book.
For Knight, who worked on Beyonce’s “Single Ladies,” it was the only thing he knew as musical theater growing up. He remembers it all vividly, especially the dancing.
“The Wiz” has always been a constant for Betts and her family and friends. It’s why she, too, is an actress and singer. “It has stayed in my life up until the present,” Betts said. “It was something that was important to my family. We had a copy of the movie. We listened to the music all the time. It’s been in my life 40 years. It’s also been a part of my culture since its inception. Even when I am away from my family, we all know the lines, and we all had conversations about it. It was intricately spread throughout my entire existence.”
“It is a classic — and iconic,” she said. “Everyone is represented. Everyone can come in no matter where you are from, what your origin is, and relate.”
“I hope we all do them proud,” he said. “I am so honored to be a part of this production because I think we have done a great job for everyone, which is the hardest part of a revival. We have to make everyone proud, from Black Twitter to your grandmothers.” Like Moreland, he feels it’s a comfort piece. “Sometimes you have to create a home with your tribe,” he said, “and we can all relate to that.”
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“The Prom”
November 10, 8pm through November 11 Out Front Theatre Company In “The Prom,” four fading Broadway stars are in desperate need of a new stage. So, when they hear that trouble is brewing around a small-town Indiana prom—and the press is involved—they know that it’s time to put a spotlight on the issue… and themselves. The town’s parents want to keep the dance on the straight and narrow—but when one student just wants to bring her girlfriend to prom, the entire town has a date with destiny. Now, Broadway’s brassiest are coming to join the fight and they are ready to kick-ball-change the world. The musical had its world premiere here in Atlanta before moving to Broadway.
How Barriers to Wellness Cause Violence to Trans and Gender Expansive People November 15, 2pm Virtual
Transformation Journeys Worldwide and Kinsey Wellness present the Community Event: How Barriers to Wellness Cause Violence to Trans & Gender Expansive People. While Transgender Day of Remembrance honors gender diverse people who have suffered lethal violence, the daily harm experienced by trans and gender expansive (TGX) folks comes in many forms. In this fireside chat, Dalia Kinsey —a queer, Black, nonbinary Registered Dietitian and author of “Decolonizing Wellness” — will share insights into the wide range of violence experienced by TGX people and what YOU can do about it. RSVP link - https://www. eventbrite.com/e/how-barriers-to-wellness-causeviolence-to-trans-gender-expansive-peopleregistration-734722573997?aff=
“The Everyday Feminist: The Key to Sustainable Impact Driving Movement We Need Now More Than Ever” “The Wiz” November 14, 7:30pm
Charis Books and More, Virtual Charis welcomes Latanya Mapp Frett in conversation with Dázon Dixon Diallo for a discussion of “The Everyday Feminist: The Key to Sustainable Social Impact Driving Movements We Need Now More Than Ever,” an invigorating exploration of impactful feminist movements and strategies for replicating their success. In “The Everyday Feminist: The Key to Sustainable Social Impact-Driving Movements We Need Now More than Ever,” accomplished feminist activist and executive Latanya Mapp Frett delivers a powerful and practical exploration of the factors that make a feminist social movement impactful in its place and time. In the book, you'll discover popular and notso-popular social movements and the leaders, art, research, and narratives that drove them. The author explains what made these social movements so effective and explains the steps that organizations, nonprofits, and social impact professionals can take to replicate that success on the ground and in the present. You can RSVP at this link – https://www. crowdcast.io/c/everyday-feminist
PALS Bingo
November 14, 7:30pm Lips Atlanta Hostesses Budda D and Erica Lee and special guest performers will delight, amaze, and shock you as they call bingo, put on a show, and help raise money for PALS. Tonight’s theme is Superheroes vs. Villains Bingo.
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November 15, 7:30pm through November 19 Fox Theatre “The Wiz” is the groundbreaking twist on “The Wizard of Oz” changed the face of Broadway— from its iconic score packed with soul, gospel, rock, and finger-snapping 70s funk to its stirring tale of Dorothy’s journey to find her place in a contemporary world. Audiences get to enjoy the epic grooves of such beloved, timeless hits as “Ease on Down the Road,” which became the show’s break-out single, and the bona fide classic “Home” in this spectacular revival. Featuring a book by William F. Brown and a Tony Awardwinning score by Charlie Smalls (and others), director Schele Williams (‘The Notebook,” revival of Disney’s “Aida”), choreographer JaQuel Knight (Beyonce’s “Single Ladies”), Amber Ruffin (additional material), and Joseph Joubert (music supervision, orchestrations, & music arrangements) conjure up an Oz unlike anything ever seen before.
“A Christmas Carol”
November 17, 8pm through December 24 Alliance Theatre The Alliance Theatre’s beloved production “A Christmas Carol” returns to The Coca-Cola Stage with its stunning new adaptation, featuring a brilliantly reimagined set design and striking new costumes. Described as “high art of the season…a nostalgic feast for the eyes,” by The Atlanta Journal-Constitution, audiences will be transported to the streets of London to revisit the
EVENT SPOTLIGHT “Rigoletto”
November 10, 8pm; November 12, 3pm Cobb Energy Performing Arts Centre Giuseppe Verdi’s definitive tragic opera “Rigoletto” comes to Atlanta as a co-production with the Houston Grand Opera and the Dallas Opera. Rigoletto is a master of the tongue, a wily wordsmith with a malicious edge. But as he finds himself cursed by an affronted courtier, Rigoletto will discover the true consequences of his words will have an indelible impact on that which he holds most dear. Jasmine Habersham returns home to perform the role of Gilda in The Atlanta Opera’s production. Courtesy photo
timeless redemption story of Ebenezer Scrooge, told with beautiful live music and an all-star cast.
Early Saturday Drag King Show November 18, 9pm My Sister’s Room
Don’t miss the Early Saturday Drag King Show tonight!
PFLAG Support Group November 19, 2:30pm Spiritual Living Center
The PFLAG support group for parents and families of LGBTQ children meets in person today.
Trans and Friends
November 20, 7pm for youth, 8pm for adults Charis Books and More Trans and Friends is a youth-focused group for trans people, people questioning their own gender and aspiring allies, providing a facilitated space to discuss gender, relevant resources and activism around social issues.
“Maestro” November 20
Out On Film hosts an advance screening of the acclaimed “Maestro,” starring Bradley Cooper as cultural icon Leonard Bernstein. The film, directed by Cooper, focuses on Bernstein’s
lifelong relationship with actress Felicia Montealegre Cohn Bernstein (Carey Mulligan). For location and to RSVP, visit outonfim.org.
Thanksgiving Day Dinner November 23, 5pm Atlanta Eagle
Come have Thanksgiving Dinner with your Chosen Family. Richard and team will be providing turkeys, hams, mashed potatoes, dressing and more! Bring a dish if you wish and enjoy drink specials, football, and community!
Atlanta Gay Men’s Chorus Holiday Concert
December 1, 8pm; December 2, 2pm and 6pm Cathedral of St. Philip The Atlanta Gay Men’s Chorus returns to kick off the holiday season with their 43rd annual holiday concert.
Toy Party
December 3, 6pm Biltmore Ballrooms The For the Kid in All of Us annual Toy Party is Atlanta’s premier “see and be seen” fundraiser for Georgia’s children and families in need. With the belief that giving should feel good and is worth celebrating, organizers are planning the biggest event ever, including a Silent Auction. VIP admission begins at 5pm.
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Myah Ross Monroe’s House of Love November 10, 9pm Atlanta Eagle
Featuring Zhane Dawlingz, Malaysia Black, Tristan Panucci Dupree, Jordyn Sinclair, Tameka X, Beverly Johnson, Zimora Evans, and Muffy VanBeaverhausen. Reserve your table reservations@atlantaeagle.com.
Mary’s 25th Anniversary Celebration November 10, 10pm Mary’s
Mary’s celebrates 25 years with DJ Headmaster and a free gift to the first attendees! $5 cover.
Yotto
November 10, 11pm District Atlanta
Country Night November 14, 8pm Atlanta Eagle
The dance lesson begins at 8pm before the dancing begins with DJ Dice at 9pm!
Trivia Night
November 14, 8:30pm Atlanta Eagle With DJ DeWayne.
Ruby Redd’s Birdcage Bingo November 15, 8pm Atlanta Eagle
Alt3r
November 15, 10pm Star Community Bar
With JD Farrell and Zexter. Tickets at bit.ly/ YOTTOATL2023.
Join the girls of Alt3r – Katrina Prowess, Hera Kane, and Kiki’s Dream – for their monthly drag show! This month’s theme is Alt3r Ever After! $5 cover.
Peepshow: Burlesque Brunch
Karaoke Night
November 11, 1pm City Winery
Enjoy brunch and performances by Ada Manzhart, Ava Cado, Coco Rose, JayBella Banks, Mecca Mwah, and hosts Royal Tee and Brigitte Bidet. Doors open at 11:30am. Tickets at citywinery.com.
Joining Hearts Beer and Margarita Bust November 11, 4pm Atlanta Eagle
$10 all-you-can-drink beers and $20 allyou-can-drink margaritas, all benefitting Joining Hearts.
November 16, 9pm The T
Rock House Karaoke November 16, 9pm Atlanta Eagle
Atlanta Eagle
Myah Ross Monroe’s House of Love
Featuring Misti Shores (pictured), Lena Lust, Amber Divine, and co-host Shawnna Brooks. $5 cover. Photo via Facebook
November 17, 9pm Atlanta Eagle
Featuring Zhane Dawlingz, Malaysia Black, Tristan Panucci Dupree, Jordyn Sinclair, Tameka X, Beverly Johnson, Zimora Evans, and Muffy VanBeaverhausen. Reserve your table reservations@atlantaeagle.com.
November 11, 9pm Atlanta Eagle
November 17, 9pm Mary’s
Featuring Misti Shores, Lena Lust, Amber Divine, and co-host Shawnna Brooks. $5 cover.
Gay pop videos with DJ Headmaster. $5 cover.
ALOK and DJ EU
November 17, 11pm District Atlanta
Tickets at bit.ly/ALOKATL2023.
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Mr Charlie Brown’s XXX Rated Cougars Queerbait
November 11, 11pm District Atlanta
EVENT SPOTLIGHT Mr Charlie Brown’s XXX Rated Cougars
Mr Charlie Brown’s XXX Rated Cougars November 18, 9pm Atlanta Eagle
Featuring Misti Shores, Lena Lust, Amber Divine, and co-host Shawnna Brooks. $5 cover.
Karaoke Night
November 19, 7:30pm The T
Anfisa Letyago
MUG CHECK!
Tickets at bit.ly/ANFISAATL2023.
Every month, My Sister’s Room hosts this open stage drag show for everyone from newcomers to tenured talent.
Ron Pullman
November 17, 11pm Atlanta Eagle $5 cover.
November 19, 8pm My Sister’s Room
Trivia Night
November 21, 8:30pm
Atlanta Eagle With DJ DeWayne.
Ruby Redd’s Birdcage Bingo November 22, 8pm Atlanta Eagle
Timmy Trumpet November 22, 10pm District Atlanta
Tickets at bit.ly/TIMMYATL2023.
Karaoke Night November 23, 9pm The T
Rock House Karaoke November 23, 9pm Atlanta Eagle Hosted by Raqi.
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THAT’S WHAT SHE SAID MELISSA CARTER
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A Different Kind of Eating Melissa Carter As we approach the holiday season, many events will surround food — not just for one or two events; most events will encourage guests to indulge in quite a bit of food. For many holiday parties, that means plenty of alcohol as well. There is nothing wrong with these festivities, they’re what make the holiday season social and fun. However, as someone who has struggled with IBS just about my entire life, it’s difficult sometimes to say no to things you know are bad for you. If I eat or drink things I shouldn’t, I’ll pay for it the next day — and maybe the next — and hope the sacrifice was worth it. For others who have more serious conditions, making the wrong selection doesn’t just bring a little discomfort; it could be life-threatening. I know a few women who have celiac disease, and if they do decide to go to a holiday party they simply don’t eat anything there. One year, I hosted a Boxing Day Bake at my house, which took place the day after Christmas, and baked several selections for everyone to take a sample of. I knew one of my friends had a digestive issue and made a cake specific to her needs. That way she didn’t have to use the “it’s OK, I’ve eaten already” excuse not to participate. Most
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hosts don’t consider that anything could go wrong with their food if they’ve never known someone whose stomach or gut doesn’t work quite right. Mr. Carter’s school is a peanut-free establishment, and I know many who roll their eyes at such a restriction. The argument is always, “We never had peanut allergies when I was a kid,” when the reality is we likely did, but it wasn’t as understood. And for the few that suffer from it, it’s hard to see insensitivity from nearly everyone around you. People either see you as weak or as a diva. When it comes to food, it’s best not to judge. Digestive discomfort, like vomiting, diarrhea, or farting, are certainly not things we talk about at parties. If someone expresses an interest in any type of diet, from gluten-free to vegan, it’s best to be encouraging and learn more about it rather than scrunching your face in disagreement. It may be easier for them to label their food preferences like that rather than having to explain an underlying medical issue. Unfortunately, I don’t have an easy way to ask for my needs. “I’ll take the low FODMAP selections from the menu, please” doesn’t have a familiar ring to it. Enjoy the holidays and indulge when you can, just don’t be afraid to ask your guests if there is a way to make their experience a little more inclusive and certainly don’t give someone a hard time because they don’t eat or drink as you can. I know they will appreciate the consideration.
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