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Defining YOUR Spring Fashion Everyone was VERY FASHIONABLE at The 2nd Annual Black Tie For PAWS on March 23rd at Doggie U K9 Academy. Fellow judges Suffok County Legislator Tom Cilmi, Lori Stuck Zegel and so many supporters came out to help raise funds for Shelter Link and Almost Home Animal Rescue & Adoption. Beautiful tuxedos and mini dresses worn by the dogs were priceless and it was truly difficult to pick a winner. Congratulations to Pork Chop the beautiful Pit who won the male best dressed! To learn more about this amazing event visit doggieuk9.com

“I have heard with admiring submission the experience of the lady who declared that the sense of being perfectly well-dressed gives a feeling of inward tranquility which religion is powerless to bestow.“ ~Ralph Waldo Emerson, Letters and Social Aims. What is our fascination with clothes? Why do we find comfort in that perfect black dress, confidence in that beautifully tailored business suit, and feel sexy in those sling-back red stilettos? Perhaps it is because our daily fashion choices reflect our state of mind, personality or mood to the world, without saying a word. What are your clothes saying? They may speak volumes. Are you bold and daring, quiet and reserved, something in between, or a little bit of both? That whimsical scarf may say, “Don’t take the world too seriously” while that flowing floral skirt may say, “I love nature”. It has been said that clothes make the man, or in our case the “woman”. Business coaches often preach to dress for success, look the part and you’re halfway there. That grey pinstripe suit says, “I’m the right person for the job” not only to the interviewer but to us. Our clothes can give us that little extra confidence just when we need it the most. So, whether you are ready to conquer the world, or have some much needed “R & R”, wear what you feel great in, and portray the person you want to be at that moment. Our Spring issue is filled with the latest must-haves in soft fabrics and bright hues. Find those pieces to accessorize your classics to keep you trendy and chic, whether it’s that must-have crisscross front chiffon top or that cerise ruffled dress. Sometimes we all need to indulge ourselves.

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MAGAZINE

Spring 2013

PUBLISHER Ta n y a L e e

F E AT U R E S 28

COVER STORY IVANKA TRUMP

STRONG ISLAND WOMAN DR. VIRGINIA MAURER, MD T H E M A U R E R F O U N D AT I O N

SPRING BRIDAL H O N E Y M O O N D E S T I N AT I O N S

DEPARTMENTS BEAUTY&FASHION Romantic Looks,

Vibrant Pastels

Define Spring Fashion

BACHOLORETTE GUIDE

FITNESS

H E A LT H & W E L L N E S S

FOOD & NUTRITION

I N S P I R AT I O N

PET CARE

F A M I LY & R E L A T I O N S H I P S

HOME & GARDEN

AUTO CARE

TASTE:

BUSINESS & FINANCE

TECHNOLOGY

W I N E TA L K

IN THE KITCHEN

SHOWBIZ WIZARD

Custo Barcelona’s X-Ray collection showcased architectural lines and lighter textiles. While Custo Barcelona’s X-Ray’s graphics were inspired by the ocean, Chado Ralph Rucci embraced bold, vivid pinks, bright yellows, acid greens and saturated oranges. Greens were the focus of Nanette Lepore’s work, complimented by prints in black and white. Peachy corals also made their way down the runway in off-the-shoulder dresses, flowery, flowing skirts. n Adriana Vater | Spa Adriana Salon & Spa 631-351-1555 | spaadriana.com

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WineTalk

Wine Tasting 101 The whole wine tasting craze may seem overwhelming and off-putting to most people. Learning the basics of tasting, and the simplest of wine terms will give you confidence to taste in any social situation. There is a whole wonderful world of wine out there, and learning some simple tasting steps and wine terms will give you the self-assurance to step out of your comfort zone and discover wines from around the globe.

SEE:

Begin by pouring a small amount of wine into a large wine glass, hold the wine up to the light. You are doing this for two reasons; you are looking for any indication that the wine is flawed, and to give you a hint of what type of wine you will be drinking.

2 SWIRL:

Gently swirl the wine in the glass, either by

placing it on the table or at eye level. The legs or tears of the wine will give some foresight into the alcohol content and “body” of the wine. You are also releasing the bouquet or aroma of the wine.

3SMELL:

Two things that you do not want to smell are moldy aromas or a vinegar-like scent. These are indications of a flawed wine. Look for fresh fruit aromas, notes of floral, herbs and earth. These are the beginnings of building your wine tasting vocabulary.

B E A U T Y & FA S H I O N

Zang Toi’s collection was inspired by the charm of the French Riviera. Elegance merged with a modern tailored look. From ball gowns to tailored, tuxedo-cut suits, the collection showcased canary yellows, lavenders and soft pinks with the classic chic of black and white colors.

GLAMGUIDE TO 2013

Fun sophistication lends an exciting vibe to Spring fashion. Fresh looks from the Fashion Week runways offer romance with a fun twist of vivid pastels.

PUBLISHER’S LETTER

All photos © John S. Vater

Carlos Miele showed off his animal side with cheetah, leopard and zebra prints. Form-fitted and flowing maxi-length dresses paired with beaded belts and shoes; jeweled necklines contrasted beautifully with leather and chiffon details. Carolina Herrera also featured fluid chiffons, organza and tulle along with her signature column gowns.

Vera Wang was inspired by India using colors like gold, green, purple and turquoise to the Nehru collar and Choli jacket.

There are four simple sTeps to tasting wine like a professional: see, sWirl, smell and TAsTe.

There are four simple components in a wine to look for- a harmony between SWEET, ACIDITY, TANNINS and BODY. SWEET vs. DRY: If there is no indication of sweetness, the wine is considered dry. How sweet a wine will taste is indicated by the acidity and alcohol levels, the amount of tannin present, and whether the wine is still or sparkling. ACIDITY: Too much acidity, and a wine is tart and unpleasant, too little and the wine is flat and uninteresting. TANNINS: Are components that “dry the mouth” and gives structure to red wines. BODY: The impression of weight or fullness on the palate is the body of the wine. Full-bodied describes a wine with fullness of flavor in the mouth, light-bodied means the opposite. Take every opportunity offered and taste, taste, taste. There are wonderful wine bars all over Long Island that offer flights (samples) of a variety of wines. Many of our wine shops and liquor stores offer free weekly tastings. There are more than forty wineries on the east end of Long Island with tastings and tours available at most. The majority of restaurants now offer a selection of wines by the glass, that you can try without committing to a full bottle. Home wine tasting parties are becoming popular too. The more you taste, the more you will discover. Be bold, be brave, be daring. Travel around the world through a glass of wine. n Lorraine Pomes │ 631-767-8815 wineshopathome.com / lorrainepomes

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BEAUTY&FASHION Romantic Looks,

Vibrant Pastels

Define Spring Fashion

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Fun sophistication lends an exciting vibe to Spring fashion. Fresh looks from the Fashion Week runways offer romance with a fun twist of vivid pastels. Zang Toi’s collection was inspired by the charm of the French Riviera. Elegance merged with a modern tailored look. From ball gowns to tailored, tuxedo-cut suits, the collection showcased canary yellows, lavenders and soft pinks with the classic chic of black and white colors.

Custo Barcelona’s X-Ray collection showcased architectural lines and lighter textiles. While Custo Barcelona’s X-Ray’s graphics were inspired by the ocean, Chado Ralph Rucci embraced bold, vivid pinks, bright yellows, acid greens and saturated oranges. Greens were the focus of Nanette Lepore’s work, complimented by prints in black and white. Peachy corals also made their way down the runway in off-the-shoulder dresses, flowery, flowing skirts. Vera Wang was inspired by India using colors like gold, green, purple and turquoise to the Nehru collar and Choli jacket. 6

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Can Wear Short Hair Just about any woman can pull off short hair, PERIOD. I’m not saying that short hair is for everyone-some women have such a fear, they hide behind their long hair. To say you can’t wear a short haircut is simply not true. That doesn’t mean that we can all wear the Miley Cyrus haircut, but there’s one out there for every woman. Just put your hair in a ponytail and see what areas of your face you like, and what you want to hide. That’s the start of finding the right cut with your stylist. Short hair on women is all about the confidence that woman has. It’s all about their look. Most women who run million dollar businesses have short hair because they want to be taken seriously. It’s all about the confidence that is shown on their face, and not about their hair. The benefit of short hair is that it’s quick and easy, it can be fixed in all of 5 minutes. It need not be washed every day, most of the time the way you went to bed is the way you wake up! Just remember to look at different styles you might like, then enjoy cutting it off! If you have to take baby steps to do it, then enjoy all the different looks. Make sure you trust your stylist when going short, it’s not the day to pick a new one. You’re nervous already, so let it be fun and enjoy, you’re going to look amazing! Remember, that cut makes it all about YOU as a woman-it’s you that people see, not your hair. n Grazia Cooney and Colleen White CSI Salon & Spa │631-320-1554 │cshihairsalon.com

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BEAUTY&FASHION glAM guIde tO 2013 SprINg Style — MeN, tOO! It’s Spring! Finally, we can feel the warmth overtake the bitter cold the winter doused us with. Goodbye brutal wind and puffy jackets! Hello picnics, lovely walks, outdoor cafes, sexy dresses, pretty colors, and accessories galore. Ahh... where to get started…

Spring Cleaning

Time for the exhilarating task of closet-editing. This makes space for the new, while repositioning what you love. Looking over what you have helps you to discover what you need. Thoughtfully go through your wardrobe. If you haven’t worn something in a while, give it away or toss it! One girl’s trash is another one’s treasure!

What Are Some of Spring’s Main Trends?

From the visual (a display of graphic contrasts) to the textural (the use of lace, leather and beading), it’s farewell to modesty. Peek-a-boo pieces are big for Spring, as proven by a bevy of designers. Is the skin-flashing look for you? No matter what, there’s also fierce loyalty to shape this Spring. The peplum is sticking around, along with a range of silhouette-making styles including short suits. For big impact and multi-purpose use, get a glam bold-colored (or white patent!) trench.

What About Color?

Bright-colored pants are everywhere this season, including floral prints. Things were simply blooming on the Spring 2013 runways! Find one fantastic pair and you can pair it with any solid shirt for a sharp Spring outfit. With eye-popping colors, black-and-white prints, and sorbet pastels, your choice can really help you stand out in a crowd. 10

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BACKtoBASICS Spring is for Men Too

Less is (Way) More This Spring, men’s style is about keeping it simple, a happy mantra indeed for most. However, men DO need one piece that brings their look to life. Instead of mixing busy patterns, try taking a solid suit and shirt and then bringing them to life with a fresh print tie. The point is to make 1 or 2 pieces count. As far as color, conventional wisdom says gray suits get darker this time of year. I say ignore that mantra. Once the weather warms up, pale gray is flat-out cooler, literally and figuratively. The shoe choice for Spring? Loafers. No longer designated as casual, a high quality pair can march right into the office with you.

Don’t Forget Accessories

Arguably the most important aspect in updating one’s wardrobe: accessories. Stacking jewelry is mandatory and, at last, a binding excuse to buy two of everything. Mismatched or matched, to stack is to create, influence, and inspire. Pick up some bangle bracelets, standout sunglasses, and one daytime and nighttime bag. Stark white (especially patent) or transparent will go with all the colors you’ll be wearing and thereby save you money.

Now That You’re All Put Together Now that you’re feeling confident, radiant and bright, just like Spring... looking for something to do in your fresh new style? Check out the Spring 2013 Costume Institute Exhibition at Metropolitan Museum where punk fashion will be the focus. “PUNK: Chaos to Couture” will examine punk’s impact on high fashion, from the movement’s birth in the 1970s through its continuing influence today-it runs from May 9th-August 14th.

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BEAUTY&FASHION The Ultimate Bachelorette’s Guide To Helping Add A Little Spring Decoration In Preparation For The Big Day!

As the Ultimate Bachelorette, I wanted to share some ideas I’ve come across over the years to help my friends and family celebrate the most special times in their lives.

Bridal Shower

April bridal showers May bring tons of household appliances, but flowers will add a sweet touch to the brides day! A favorite Spring theme of mine is the Flower Theme. Whether you use Gerber daisies or roses, each table should have beautiful bouquet centerpieces. A wonderful idea and great addition to your table setting would be a flower pen. This looks a lot better than a ball point pen for the shower games.

How to create a flower pen souvenir (Instructions courtesy of Etsy.com.)

What You’ll Need Pretty Silk Gerber Daisy Flower

minute ferry ride transports you to the beautiful land of Fire Island. Fire Island’s popular restaurant, Island Mermaid takes reservations for big parties without an additional charge. Fire Island has an array of bars and clubs to choose from, so if the party begins at Sunset it could very well end in the wee hours of the morning. Just don’t forget to check your ferry schedule or you may need to take a water taxi back!

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River Rocks (sold in dollar stores) Floral Tape (check your local craft store)

What You’ll Do • Remove top off pen. • Trim flower stem so the length will be just long enough for the stem to fit down into the pen. • Add a thin amount of hot glue to flower stem, and insert into pen. Allow to dry. • Begin to wrap the floral tape around the pen {it will stick to itself when stretched}, so pull the tape fairly tight as you wrap. • Wrap all the way up to the base of the flower, then trim off the floral tape and secure. • Grab your jar, fill it with river rocks, and pop your pretty flower pen into it!

New York, New York! Take a train into the city and let your inner 80’s child out! “The Awesome 80’s Prom, New York City’s Most Popular Off-Broadway Interactive Show”! For more information, go to http:// awesome80sprom.com. Another fabulous idea is going to the theater. Nothing is richer in culture and shows than Broadway. Make a reservation for a pre-theater dinner special and then go see “Mama Mia” or “Cinderella”.

Destination spa Many local spas have specials for the bride and her maids to relax before the big day. I’d suggest surfing the web for the best deals. The most important thing to remember is to have fun, relax and rejuvenate.

Games

Check out the website weddingfavorsunlimited.com. This will offer the bridal party a wealth of information on planning and printing shower games.

Bachelorette Party

Spring forward with these great ideas for April and May! Looking to stay local? A favorite theme of mine is a Sunset Dinner with a side of Beach. A twenty

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When planning a party, make sure you check out the boards on Pinterest.com. Beach theme? Pinterest has it. Flower theme? It’s up there too! This will help guide you through all the steps to creating a perfect party and wonderful memories!

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Looking to sail out of the country with your new husband and experience the richness of the Mediterranean? Ruby Princess is currently sailing 12-Day Grand Mediterranean Cruises! On all Princess Cruise ships, the staff treats you like royalty. Make sure to splurge on the specialty restaurants because they have such a romantic setting. They will give you and your loved one time to enjoy delicious food and sweet treats. For booking information, go to princess.com.

The Norwegian Gem

Anchors away! Sailing to Florida and the Bahamas? Of course the first cruise on our list is Norwegian Gem. Not that we are biased or anything, but this ship is truly the Gem of the ocean! The Gem has a trendy, four-lane bowling alley conveniently located next to a swanky nightclub. If you like to dance, make sure to attend the NCL White Party toward the end of the cruise. Chill out by the pool during the day, win some money in the casino then enjoy a sensual couple’s massage. Accommodations range from the luxurious multi-room or romantic suites, to spacious and affordable staterooms. For booking information, go to ncl.com. 14

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During the summer, Jewel of the Seas operates in the Baltic and has also sailed to Norway and Iceland. This ship is known for wide-open spaces and panoramic views. Visit the tranquil solarium pool or reach new heights on Royal Caribbean’s signature rock-climbing wall. The entertainment on Royal Caribbean ships is always amazing. Visit one of their 16 bars and lounges, or take in a Broadway-style show and enjoy every minute. For booking information, go to royalcaribbean.com. n Sara Fingerman

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STRONGISLAND WOMAN Dr. Virginia Maurer, MD The Maurer Foundation Dr. Virginia Maurer, MD has been championing breast cancer education for decades. When she first started private practice, Dr. Maurer discovered there wasn’t much accurate information available to women about breast health. In 1995 she established The Maurer Foundation, a non-profit that brings educational programs on breast health and breast cancer awareness into communities, reaching girls and women in schools, through peer-to-peer programs, at corporate seminars, empowering them to take charge of their own health. “If you get into the heart of a community, you can really make an impact,” said Dr. Maurer proudly, noting that all monies raised by the Maurer Foundation go to high schools and colleges, to support free in-school programs offered by the Foundation’s educational team. The Maurer Foundation is dedicated purely to educating women on breast cancer awareness, risk reduction and early detection. “Women need to be actively involved in their own health, because early detection saves lives,” she said. It is because of this vigilance to early detection that “we’re seeing a higher percentage of patients being diagnosed at Stage 1, resulting in a long list of 20+ year survivors,” said Dr. Maurer, who notes that while this is great news we’re all still very much at risk. “Women think if their mammogram is normal, or if they don’t have a family history, then they’re not at risk. That’s not true: more than 70 percent of breast cancer patients don’t have a family history,” she said. Dr. Maurer understands this all too well. A prominent breast surgeon and breast cancer specialist, Dr. Maurer is also a breast cancer survivor, finding her own cancerous lump only through breast imaging. The lump itself was not palpable.

“Women must be proactive. Get mammograms regularly. Do self-exams. Talk to your doctor,” she said. “Breast cancer can happen at any age, as early as your late 20s. Women need to be aware of their breasts and immediately pursue anything that feels abnormal.” Realizing that women have a tendency to put their own needs on the back burner, the Maurer Foundation offers a free Alarm Clock service on the website to remind women when it’s time for their next mammogram and breast health exam. “Women must support one another,” said Dr. Maurer. “I encourage patients to take friends with them when they get their mammograms, go to lunch or dinner afterward. If there’s an unexpected turn of events, your friends will already be by your side to help you through it.”

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EviL TWin Anyone who has ever dieted has met weight loss’ evil twin, the plateau! No one ever wishes to meet the plateau, it just shows up when your dieting is going well. You pleasantly move forward with your diet plan, exercising and passing up a coveted dessert or glass of wine, and counting your calories. You hop on the scale one day hoping to see the usual weight loss you have become so accustomed to in previous weeks, and there it is looking you square in the face-the beginning of your weight loss plateau. This is not the first time you got the dreaded visit, nor will it be the last. The question is how you can make these visits as short as possible. The fact is, it may not be anything you are consciously doing or not doing. Think back, way back into the history of man, to a time when sporting a few extra pounds was a good idea. Extra fat had a purpose, food was scarce. It is a natural defense for our body to hold on to pounds for dear life after an initial weight loss. Progress in your diet will naturally slow down, and eventually even stop when your food and exercise intake is constant. So the

question is, do I cut my calories again, exercise more? Here is what you need to know about calories: the fact is that it takes calories to burn calories. When you decrease your calorie intake, you also decrease your metabolic rate. What this will do in turn, is allow your body to accept fewer calories which will create hunger and prevent you from losing fat. In order for you to have your metabolic rate remain high, you need

to keep your calories slightly BELOW your maintenance calories. A deficit greater than 500-700 calories makes it much harder to maintain your lean body mass. Here is the formula you need to use in order to determine your lean body mass for women: kg (body weight divided by 2.2) x 23= calories per day. Good luck and good-bye weight loss plateau!

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What’s In It For Me?

These little stalkers follow us in a good way. A 5.3 ounce serving stands tall with only 20 calories, 3g protein, 3g carbs, and 0g fat. FYI, those of you that do not have a scale in your kitchen, 5.3 ounces equates to just over a measuring cup in size. I do recommend picking up a scale, though, it’s a great way to keep track of your serving size portions. Asparagus is a top produce item in many nutrition categories. It’s the Mary Poppins of the vegetable kingdom…perfect in every way. It’s extremely low in sodium, has no cholesterol, and is rich in potassium, which makes it friendly to today’s heart-healthy consumer. There are 3 grams of fiber per serving, which should chip away at your 25g per day goal. Asparagus contains “A-list” amounts of vitamins C and B, and a nutrient known as GSH, which has been studied to reduce cancer development. Nice! It also provides us with 60% of our RDA of folic acid. A deficiency in folate can cause pregnancy complications, mental confusion, cognitive declines, mental depression or behavioral disorders.

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To get the best possible flavor out of our asparagus, we’ve got to follow 3 simple rules: 1. Make sure the spears you buy are vivid green, crisp, and firm. 2. Take a whiff, don’t feel awkward. If the bunched asparagus smells objectionable, leave it sitting for the uneducated woman who chooses not to pick up GEM Magazine to read Mikey T’s nutrition tips! 3. On the back ends, the asparagus should be moist and fresh-looking. If it’s cracked or dried like grandma’s feet…do I even need to say it? If refrigerating it before cooking, follow my storage tips. Cooking asparagus ASAP is important. Once this veggie has been harvested, the sugars like to transform to starch, so the fresher, the better. I personally purchase mine right when I am going to use them.

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tedious, much like cutting the crust off the kids PB&J sandwiches. So Mikey T has two options for you: One, wrap them up in a damp cloth, toss them in a plastic bag and refrigerate. Make sure it is not airtight, that will cause stalks to become soggy. Option two, we can trim an inch off the base, wrap a damp paper towel on the end, and stand them upright in a glass. Fill with a few inches of good old H2O. Place a plastic bag loosely over the tips and store in the fridge. I would date the bag just so you know when it was placed away. Remember, fresh asparagus perishes quickly, usually 3-4 days. Quick tidbit, do not wash your asparagus until ready to cook.

some pounds than by making a salad? The freshness of a crisp salad on a summer day, with fresh brewed, sugar-free iced tea can set your pallet into an array of things I cannot discuss in public. Let’s make this quicker than your Saturday night date. Here’s your shopping list: • 2 teaspoons freshly grated lemon zest • 1/4 cup lemon juice • 1/4 cup extra-virgin olive oil • 1/2 teaspoon salt • 1/4 teaspoon freshly ground pepper Add these items first into the bowl and then toss in the next grouping. Can it be any simpler than that? It cannot!

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InspIratIon&EmpowErmEnt The Key Spring Ingredient! I asked a question of my coach recently: What is the one thing that really moves a person forward to create and sustain a business? When I heard the response, my insides were doing a high five. You see, I have been in a difficult place assessing where I am in my life, and figuring out the balancing act between dedication to my business, (which, right now has me working way too many hours) and not enough high-quality attention to my husband and family, never mind my friends. Why am I sharing this with you? Because I have the sense I am not alone. Asking the question, what is important and finding an answer that works for you and for your love relationship seems complicated. So when I heard the answer distilled in one word, I was so grateful. PASSION. Passion is defined as a compelling emotion, strong fondness and enthusiasm for something. It may or may not include love, though in some sense I think love is inherent in passion. When you feel passion, other people notice, and your effervescence can trigger their enthusiasm. Passion can also be just as evident when you are quietly strong, feel very clear about what you are doing and saying, and your commitment to being fully present shows.

I think an inherent aspect of passion that is often taken for granted is being mindfully engaged. You don’t have to make yourself be present, you simply are. When I am mindfully engaged in what I am doing, whether it is one-on-one with my therapy or coaching clients, meeting someone for the first time, with my husband, or speaking at live events, the key to a meaningful encounter is passion. So what if you have difficulty accessing passion for something or someone? When I help clients who are “depressed,” anxious or don’t feel good enough, finding the thread that accesses passion is the key. Here are some suggestions to help you find your passion. Get clear about: 1. What you like-hobbies, activities, type of environment 2. The story of your life-write it down and find the gems 3. Your accomplishments-no matter what size 4. Talents, innate gifts and strengths-things that come easily to you Passion doesn’t exist in the absence of clarity. Go get clear. n OnFire Alyse Parise LCSW | 631-689-6272 Psychotherapist and Certified Business Coach alyse@walktalkconnect.com | walktalkconnect.com

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How To Make The Best Life Choices Many decisions are made during the course of each day. Each decision we make, no matter how incidental it may seem, impacts the rest of that day, and every day thereafter. Everyone is at a crossroads each moment of each day–it’s just that we never stop to reflect on the fact that every decision we make can have life-changing consequences. A client recently recounted a story from her youth. She told me that one Friday, instead of doing her usual thing of going to the local hangout with her colleagues for a few drinks after work, she decided she would call this new guy she recently had met and see if he was available to take in a movie and a bite to eat afterwards. The rest is history-they have now been married for twenty-two years. As she said to me “If I hadn’t made that call on that Friday afternoon, we wouldn’t have married, my three children would not exist, and I probably wouldn’t have been propelled along my career path the way I have been, given that my husband has helped me so much and been so supportive.” Little choices that we mindlessly make can change the very course of our life. You have made those choices, so have I. And, yet, the vast majority of us make those choices completely unwittingly, paying little or no attention to the consequences of each of our actions. Only the very fewwhat one of my college professors termed “uncommonly successful” people-have the presence of mind and the selfawareness to realize the importance of the moment-every moment-and, in so doing choose their actions reflectively, mindfully. The converse, for what the same professor might call “normal people”, is to settle for an ordinary life that is not mindful of the opportunities that each moment can potentially create. And therein lies the secret to mindful happiness and success, far beyond the perceived pre-determined routes on which most normal lives meander. We simply need to re-learn to be attentive-not seeking out, searching for or hankering after life’s next opportunity, but simply fully attentive to and mindful of the present moment, the here and now, the only time and place we have. So, you can take the first step on a journey of discovery that will change your life right here, right now. In doing so, you will realize that the choice between mindful happiness and success and the mundane alternatives is not a matter of luck, education or social status-it is simply a matter of choice. Your choice. n Paula Klee Parish │ paula@paulakleeparish.com

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TIPS TO KEEP YOUR PET WELL-HYDRATED As pet parents, we control what our dogs and cats eat and drink. We measure food, but how many of us measure the amount of water we provide our pets daily? Water is one of the most important nutrients you can provide to achieve optimal health. The amount of water each dog or cat requires and consumes can be very different, so it’s your job as the pet owner to make sure your pet is getting enough water throughout the day. But how much do they need? To help put this into perspective, here are some examples from an article by JT Clough, a dog trainer in California: “A 7-pound adult Maltese with activities consisting of one 20 minute slow walk and some light indoor activity, would need approximately 1½ cups of water throughout the day to maintain a proper level of body fluid. A dog weighing 65 pounds would require approximately 7 cups of water depending on exercise, anxiety, climate and diet.” (Dogtrainingsandiego.com) Pet water requirements are influenced by factors such as species, size, level of activity, local climate and the kind of food being fed. Talk with your veterinarian about how much water your pet should consume on a daily basis. In my household, we start the day with 8 cups of water distributed between 2 bowls. By the end of the day, I know how much is consumed and am also aware of empty bowls requiring replenishment. Keeping water bowls full is an easy way to increase intake. Just like staying well-hydrated promotes good health in humans, it’s important that our pets get enough fluids as well. Know the amount of fluids your pet needs to be healthy, put a system in place to keep track of what he’s

drinking, and then take measures to increase his water intake if needed. These simple steps will keep your pet happy, healthy and well-hydrated. n Bettie Hamilton, a Northport resident, is the VP of Marketing & Product Development for Halo, Purely for Pets. halopets.com

FAMILY&RELATIONSHIP Get A Voice Launches National Campaign To End Social Cruelty The Get.A.Voice Foundation is a not-for-profit organization dedicated to raising awareness of the growing incidences of bullying-in schools and out, and the impact on children. Its mission is to provide educators guidance in the area of character building, conflict resolution and non-bullying strategies. It provides children with resolution alternatives, coping abilities and outlets to diffuse the negative, destructive nature of bullying and other forms of intimidation that target children. The program has been successfully implemented in public and private schools, before and after school programs and clubs since 2003.

46 states have enacted anti-bullying statutes in response to the public outcry against the rising number of bullying incidents throughout the country, some of them with fatal consequences. The New York Legislature enacted the Dignity for All Students Act (DASA) on September 13, 2010. This law is intended “to afford all students in public schools an environment free of discrimination and harassment…to foster civility in public schools and to prevent and prohibit conduct which is inconsistent with a school’s educational mission.” DASA seeks to provide a safe school environment for students against harassment based on “race, color, weight, national origin, ethnic group, religion, religious practice, disability, sexual orientation, and gender.” NY. EDUC. LAW §12 (McKinney 2011). The Get.A.Voice Project fulfills the mandates of this law and is being embraced by school districts as a viable, ongoing solution towards helping end social cruelty. Founder and CEO Laurie Mandel, stated that “Get.A.Voice has not only made a tangible difference in the schools and communities who have embraced the program, but the program itself has been developed into a series of classroom-based programs which are now available nationwide through The Bureau For At-Risk Youth.” One elementary principal commented, “Get.A.Voice provides solutions to a problem every principal faces. It’s a pro-active way of addressing the everyday language issues that often leads to bullying.” On April 25th, the Get.A.Voice Foundation will be having a fundraising dinner at the Thatched Cottage in Centerport to honor former NFL player Don McPherson for his ongoing support in promoting the Get.A.Voice Project. Other attendees include Leah Laurenti, American Idol alumni, who will be performing at the event.

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Finding Vera

In the Days that Followed

Our family had traveled thousands of miles to the Ukraine to find Vera, but Katia, Darya and Irina’s biological father had not been true to his word. Disappointed ourselves, there was little we could do to comfort our daughters from the emotional disappointment and broken hearts left in the wake of their father‘s lies and manipulation. In the days that followed however, the girls were given renewed hope in finding Vera. From information provided by their newly found maternal uncle, we learned Vera had not been given to a mother in the next hospital room that had delivered a stillborn. This story had been fabricated by an intoxicated and confused father. We were also told that the girl’s biological mother did

not pass during Vera’s delivery. Sadly, she had expired while breast-feeding the following morning. We finally uncovered the name and location of the hospital where Vera was born. We had searched so many other hospitals with no success. We now knew the name of the delivering physician, and the administrative facility where Vera’s records and documentation were filed. With this newly found information, Olga, our investigator, agreed to carry on our search. Once again, there was hope that we would be able to find Vera, so that Katia, Darya and Irina would be reunited with their lost sister. During the final days of our trip in the Ukraine, at the girl’s request, we visited the orphanage where they

spent nearly two years before finding their home in the United States. They wanted to see friends and teachers they had left behind. They also wanted to visit Nikolai. They met Nikolai at the orphanage. His role was to watch out for the children’s wellbeing. Nikolai was a retired police detective and loved children. He also had a sweet spot in his heart for Katia, Darya and Irina. They would often go to his office for protection and he would surprise them with a stray piece of candy. When we finally met up with Nikolai, we shared with him our long journey and disappointing results. As all three girls stood around him, tears in his eyes, he volunteered to team up with Olga and join our investigative team. He vowed that he too, would not stop his search until Vera was found.

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! a m a Sweet M Momentum Teen Program At-risk kids graduate high school. Estranged relationships with parents are mended. Kids apply to “reach” college and get in. These are just some of the results of the workshops at Momentum Teen. The group, which is based on an adult program called Momentum Education, teaches teens to reach their goals and live the life they dream about through experiential learning, said board member Tamara Azar. They start with a two day basic program where they explore different distinctions. Kids are taught to break through old fears and procrastination to achieve their goals. They explore their belief systems and create visions for their ideal world. In the basic class, they dispel myths and learn what they do not know. For example, if they do not know they can do well in school, they learn ways that they can. This is done by working in pairs and playing role play games. After completing the two day workshop, teens go on to the 90-day leadership program where they focus on friends and family, finance, education, community and health and wellbeing. They set goals in each of those areas and work with mentors to achieve those goals. The mentors are adults who have graduated or are in the process of going through the adult program with Momentum Education. Momentum Teen is a non-profit organization founded by Robin Lynn, a life coach and inspirational trainer, in 2008. Lynn passed away from pancreatic cancer in 2010, and since then there have been nine leadership teams. The program is free, and is open to all 13-17 year olds. The organization has served 500 kids in the basic class, and about 400 in the leadership class. No one is ever turned away. The classes are taught in Manhattan and Bayshore. For more information or to register for a Momentum Teens basic class, go to MomentumTeens.org. For more information on the adult classes, go to MomentumEducation.com. n Dana Klosner │ info@gemmagazineli.com

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Home&Garden HIddeN TReASuReS IN YOuR HOMe After living in a home for a number of years and looking at the same furnishings for all those years, a homeowner often has a difficult time seeing the potential of their rooms and the furnishings in them. They want to make a change, but don’t know where to start.

TRANSFORM WITH COLORS When we think of Springtime, we think of changes, but also new beginnings. As water nourishes the soil to give birth to life, color refreshes and rejuvenates the energy of the home.

Interior redesigning can bring a fresh perspective to help clients achieve the look or feel they would like to create in a room, but haven’t been able to achieve on their own. There are HIDDEN TREASURES just waiting to be discovered in most people’s homes, but they need a trained eye for design to find them. That’s where Interior Redesigning comes in. Interior redesign is similar to traditional interior decorating because you aim to capture the client’s personality and style. The difference with interior redesign is that you use a client’s existing furnishings and accessories for most of your design to bring a designer look to a space that needs to be “freshened up”, or just restyled.

Your room is like a canvas on which you can have fun with colors. Before putting the paintbrush to your canvas, create a color scheme. A large room with furnishings would do well to have a palette of five hues. Smaller spaces such as a foyer or a powder room can get away with two. Creating a color plan can be a daunting task, so it is helpful to see how others pull together combinations for the home. A good place to start is your neighborhood paint store. Every year, paint companies come out with ideas for the interiors. Their brochures present color stories for various rooms in the home. Each story has three key elements: the main color, an accent color, and the coordinating colors. Together, these ingredients create harmony and balance in the room.

moment or timeless colors, hues that do not go out of style. Look closely at a hue, and you will see that it has either a cool or warm undertone. When you detect the underlying color, the process of coordinating colors becomes less daunting. For example, if the grey wall paint has a pink undertone, then any warm colors in the red family will work well with this color. If the grey has a blue undertone on the other hand, it will work well with any cool tones of blue. Putting other grey color swatches up against the one you are considering will help you pick up the subtleties.

Depending on the style of your home and what you love, you can choose current colors, the trends of the

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Creating a color scheme for your room is similar to building a work of art. It is a process of working and reworking the palette until it resonates with you.

Interior redesign is environmentally friendly because it helps the homeowner to repurpose and get more life out of their existing furniture and accessories, and it is budget friendly and more cost effective because you can literally shop in the comfort of your own home!

Leone Homes in keeping the legacy alive through two generations

of estate homebuilders. Frank Leone, Jr. has followed in his father's footsteps (Frank Leone, Sr.) by becoming a master builder of fine estate homes. Estate care and maintenance is more than just a business at Leone Homes. For Frank Leone, it has been a way of life for over forty-years. Leone Homes has been a trusted name in the construction and estate management business throughout Long Island’s Gold Coast for over four decades. The Leone family prides itself in the reputation they have built within the finest, upscale communities of the North Shore of Long Island. Frank Leone has built and maintained some of the communities’ finest estates. Leone Homes has built its reputation by earning the trust of homeowners within Long Island’s Gold Coast community and has always maintained their security and confidentiality.

Leone Homes Management • Landscape Design & Maintenance • Pool Care & Maintenance • Estate Renovations & Repairs • Seasonal Transitions • Resident Services Coordination • Security & First Responder Services • Insurance Claims • Estate Management 24/7, 365 days a year Leone Homes Management • Luxury Estate Home Building • Complete Renovation & Restorations • On-site Project Manager assigned to each home • Superior Quality Craftsmanship • Highest quality materials used on all Projects • Complete client satisfaction Guaranteed Frank Leone, President Frank Leone has over two decades of experience in construction and management. He takes pride in addressing the specific needs of the individual homeowner of luxury properties and understanding the daily requirements necessary to maintain such massive estate homes. His loyalty, reliability and attention to detail is truly valued by each and every customer. Frank Leone is the President of the Oyster Bay Historical Society, where he is known for his charitable contributions and support for his neighborhood.

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To Keep It Clean! Teresa’s Family Cleaning, a commercial and residential cleaning company, gives Long Islanders tips on creating non-toxic alternatives to toxic cleaning products. We are constantly looking into “green” alternatives to conventional chemicals. Below are some tips on how to use everyday products you already have in your home to replace their toxic counterparts. • Soap residue can dull your dark clothes. Adding a cup of white distilled vinegar in the final rinse cuts down on residue, keeping your dark clothes looking their best. • Did you know that non-seasoned meat tenderizer can remove stubborn sweat stains from your clothing? Simply moisten the stain with warm water, then sprinkle with the meat tenderizer. Allow to sit for about an hour then launder as usual. • You don’t need expensive chemicals to clean your marbletopped furniture. Instead, make your own cleaner by adding three tablespoons of baking soda to one quart of warm water to clean delicate surfaces. • Got ants? Try setting any of the following items in a thin line at their point of entry: cayenne pepper, cinnamon or dried coffee grounds. You can also use a string soaked in lemon juice or citrus oil. The ants will not cross over (use caution for homes with pets and children) • Got mold and mildew? Tea tree oil has numerous uses around the home

and because it is a natural anti-fungal, it makes an effective anti-mold spray. Add one teaspoon of tea tree oil to a cup of water in a spray bottle. Spray mixture on the moldy area and let dry. Do not rinse, repeat as necessary.

• Hydrogen peroxide can be an excellent, safe, alternative to chlorine bleach. It’s ability to kills germs, and bubbling action makes it easy to clean hard-to-reach areas such as behind a kitchen or bathroom faucet.

• Your dishwasher does more than just dishes, it can be used to sanitize items as well. Toss in your kitchen sponges when you do a load of dishes and use it to sanitize your toothbrushes, toothbrush holders, soap dishes, nail brushes, plastic makeup brushes, plastic toys and more! Make sure you place these items in the top rack and run on a normal cycle.

• Coffee grounds are a great help around the kitchen. Use the grounds to scour those greasy pans and rub on your hands to remove strong food prep odors such as garlic and onion.

• Did last night’s pasta sauce stain your favorite plastic container? Have no fear, the amazing lemon is here! Simply rub lemon juice on the stained area and let dry in a sunny place. Wash as usual. • Have you ever tried castile soap? It can be found online and in any health food store and is extremely versatile. Made from olive oil, it can be used on your body as a cleanser, as well as a non-toxic household cleaner! When mixed with water, a few drops make an excellent all-purpose cleaner for all hard surfaces. For a super clean toilet, add a few drops of soap and a bit of baking soda for an effective, non-toxic toilet cleaner.

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• Caked-on food around the inside of those casserole dishes? Here’s a highly effective, non-toxic solution you can try at home. Simply add 3 tablespoons of salt and 1 cup of boiling water. Let stand until water cools and then wash it out as usual. All clean! • According to the ASPCA, mothballs are a common household hazard to our pets. Instead, try filling sachets with cedar chips (found in craft stores), lavender & rosemary or even dried lemon peels and hang in your closet (safely out of the reach of pets and children) Not only are these safer for you and your pets, they smell ALOT better!

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AUTOCARE We’ve made it into Spring 2013 Yes, we’ve made it into spring time and what a relief. We’ve had to deal with nasty storms, cold and snow, and a blizzard we haven’t had for decades. It was a tough one, but it was winter, right? Well, now we can go outside and evaluate if we have any winter damage. Now is also the time to maintain our vehicles, and put them in shape for the springtime driving ahead. One of the biggies would be your transmission, because winter is a very harsh time. If you’re having any issues shifting, delayed engagement or slow shifting, bring it to someone you trust for a check over and service. Let’s not forget those times we slid into the curb, or went through more than a few potholes. These conditions have an effect on our steering, suspension, frame components and of course, alignment. How about our tires, all that spinning on ice and snow can take lots of rubber off, so have them checked as well.

What I’m saying is that this is a good time to avoid surprises, breakdowns, and problems we don’t need. Have a safe and happy Spring and early vacation. n Kevin Albinowski President: Keystone Tire & Auto Repair Inc. 631-957-8473 │ KeystoneTireAuto.com

FHA Guaranteed Loan Changes Federal Housing Administration (FHA) guaranteed home purchase loans initiated on or after April 1st will be affected by a higher upfront mortgage insurance premium and an increase to monthly mortgage insurance premiums (MIP). In addition, for loans assigned on or after June 3, 2013, the monthly MIP will no longer be removed after 5 years or when 22% equity is reached for the property. Instead the monthly MIP for purchases originated when over l0% is used as the down payment, will remain in effect for 11 years, and for the life of the loan for those purchases where the borrower has put down less than 10% at closing. The FHA does not issue loans, but rather offers insurance to FHA approved lenders. FHA insurance makes these loans more attractive to lenders because it protects the lender’s interest should the homeowner default. The FHA collects MIP to offset these losses. However, with the unforeseen amounts of foreclosures and short sales that flooded the market in recent years, the FHA fund has become severely depleted. As a result, the FHA has issued these revision policies, affecting the cancellation eligibility

and the mortgage insurances fees associated with FHA loans. Lower down payment and less stringent eligibility requirements have made FHA purchase loans very popular among first-time home buyers, and those with limited funds. As the real estate industry is beginning to slowly recover from the collapse of the real estate bubble; realtors, buyers, sellers and mortgage professionals alike, are left to wonder what the repercussions will be, to a still fragile industry. Despite these FHA changes, realtors are anticipating another busy Spring season. After the cold of winter, blooming shrubberies and trees offer a warm welcome to potential buyers, making it the ideal time to showcase a home. With rates still at historic lows, and home prices starting to pick up in many areas, don’t let the opportunity for home ownership pass you by. While your realtor is helping you find the perfect home, remember, mortgage products continue to evolve and change, so ask a licensed mortgage professional to find the right mortgage product for you.

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Home&Garden up in your white garden during the evening. Another tip Garden Rooms recommends is installing water features like fountains and small ponds to allow for maximum light reflection throughout the space. By smartly planning your white design, you will get the most out of your garden all year round, as the white stones, dramatic lighting, and reflective water features will please the eye even after flowers cease to bloom.

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in Your “White” Garden Springtime on Long Island…temperatures mellow, the last patches of snow melt, the warm sun shines, and new flora stretch up from the earth after a long, somnolent winter. This season, long associated with fertility and life, is (not surprisingly) a time when many choose to get married! One of the many things to be considered when you are planning a wedding is your garden. Just imagine the breathtaking beauty and ethereal essence of celebrating this magical occasion with your true love in a lush, soft, all-white garden. White, symbolic of light, purity, and innocence, has been used as the traditional color scheme of nuptial affairs since the late nineteenth century. The custom of a “white wedding” is credited to Queen Victoria of England, who chose to wear a white wedding dress during her 1840 wedding ceremony, in which she married Prince Albert. Prior to that time, American and European brides had typically worn heavier gowns of all different colors detailed with stitches of white and silver thread. After World War II, the trend became essentially the standard at weddings both in Europe

and the United States, thanks in large part to assimilation of the public to the “white weddings” portrayed in Hollywood and the media at this time. To create an all-white garden that can be enjoyed even after wedding season comes to a close, first consider the hardscape in your space. Installing light-colored stone features such as white granite or marble will reflect sunlight all throughout your outdoor space during the day, but also shimmer in the moonlight at night. Lighting is also a great way to accentuate the light-colored stone features set

One romantic white and green variety flowering during the Spring (just in time for your wedding!) is the “Bleeding Heart Alba,” a delicate plant with slender, sinewy stems, numerous heart-shaped blooms, and fern-like leaves. For a late-summer wedding, the prolifically blossoming “Honorine Jobert Japanese Anemone” adds a delightful touch to your white wedding landscape. Another way to guarantee an around-the-clock perfect white garden is to plant flora that blooms at night. The “Moonflower” is a species with smooth, white trumpetshaped flowers that unfurl during the evening hours, remaining open until sunrise. Besides being quite beautiful, “Moonflowers” emit a sweet fragrance, and are very heat and drought-tolerant. Imagine yourself surrounded by fragrant white blooms, verdant green leaves, dramatic lighting, and calming water features, all arranged beautifully around a crisp, white stone patio and retaining walls. The juxtaposition of light and dark, landscape and hardscape, hard and soft create a romantic and gorgeous space to enjoy with your true love all day, all night, and all year long. n Mary Rosenvinge Garden Rooms and Landscapes Northport 631-754-8065 gardenroomslandscapes.com

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Small Claims Court

It’s inevitable…one day you will probably find yourself named as a plaintiff or defendant in Small Claims Court. In Small Claims Court, an individual can sue for up to $5,000 in money damages, but they cannot sue to compel someone to do something, or for pain and suffering. A corporation, partnership, or association can also commence an action in Small Claims Court, and this is called a Commercial Small Claims case. There are special rules that apply to Commercial Claims and Consumer Transactions, so make sure to read “Your Guide to Small Claims & Commercial Small Claims in New York City, Nassau County and Suffolk County” found at nycourts.gov/courts/nyc/civil/pdfs/smallclaims.pdf before you proceed with filing an action.

General Advice for your Small Claims Case • Every judge (or Arbitrator) has his/her own “style” when presiding over a case. In all likelihood, the judge will not be anything like Judge Judy, so be prepared to deal with any type of personality, from strict to informal or anything in between. • The plaintiff will present their case first. The defense will be heard afterwards (which may include a counterclaim). Do not interrupt any party (especially the judge) when they are speaking, and be respectful of all parties and court personnel. Take notes while the opposing party is speaking because you will have the opportunity to explain or refute their statements. • Remember that you are telling a story so give sufficient relevant details of your claim or defense. Do not give extraneous facts or information. Focus on the issue(s) only.

• Conduct some research on the Internet to determine what the “elements” of your cause of action are. For example, what you must prove in order to prevail. • Bring original documents to court and at least one copy (preferably two) of all documents. Clip the documents together, put a tab on each document, and add an index (cover sheet) that identifies every document you will be presenting. The judge will appreciate the organization. • Try to anticipate what the opposing party will be saying in/ bringing to court and prepare responses, if possible. • Prepare, prepare, prepare. Review what you are going to say in court, and the documents you intend to present before your court date.

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A Yearly Insurance Reveiw On October 29th, 2012 New York and the Tri-State area was hit with the ‘Perfect Storm’, Hurricane Sandy. Insurance carriers were on alert and ready to handle the claims that would result from this severe storm. The company I represent had about 900 adjusters flown in from all over the country to help the thousands of homeowners suffering the loss and damage to their homes, autos or personal property. We handled over 80,000 claims, which included approximately 25,000 total-loss automobiles. We learned some valuable lessons from Hurricane Sandy, but most of all, we learned how little we knew about our insurance coverage. I urge everyone to review their insurance policies and coverage. Your declarations page lists the type of policy you have, limits of coverage, endorsements, deductibles, discounts, surcharges and premiums. The policy booklet lists what is covered and the exclusions in the policy. We should never assume that every loss will be covered. Your insurance broker or agent should be contacting you on an annual or semi-annual basis for a review. Changes in your life such as marriage, divorce, death of a spouse, an addition to your family, or new home purchase could result in a change in your insurance needs. An insurance professional is well-equipped to recommend proper coverage for your protection.

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Long Island, and is expected to be the biggest movie ever to be made in the state, creating up to 3,500 jobs along with roles for up to 11,000 extras! Filming will take place at the Marcy Armory in Brooklyn as well as two stage facilities on Long Island, Grumman Studios and Gold Coast Studios in Bethpage.

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Finally, the sixth annual “Sound Success for ALS” Benefit Show will take place on Sunday, April 28th at Napper Tandy’s in Smithtown. Proceeds to benefit the Eleanor and Lou Gehrig ALS Research Center at Columbia University in NYC. Doors open at 3pm and music starts just a half hour later. Confirmed bands include Long Island’s Uppercut, Atomic Mary (featuring members of TomTom Club and Blue Man Group), The Martin Briley Band (top 40 hit “Salt In My Tears”), Ricky Byrd (Joan Jett and the Blackhearts) with Kasim Sultan and Shaun Willy, and Stevie Marshall and 2013 Grammy winner his Deputies (with an Billy Vera will be all-star band). Confirmed performing at the celebrities coming newly re-opened are: NY Yankee Jimmy Cutting Room. Leyritz, Olympic Gold Deer Park’s Tamela Tamela D’Amico Photo by Barry Druxman Medalist Derrick Adkins, D’Amico produced Cindy Fox “the Naked Billy’s big band album, Cowgirl”, and also has a duet on it with him. best-selling author KerriAnn Brosky She will be joining him at the Cutting Flannigan (The Ghosts of Long Room on May 25th to celebrate it’s Island), etc. Admission is only $20! release. Tamela will be performing at Tickets available at the door. the newly refurbished Suffolk Theater For more information, please call on October 12th! In between, she 631-335-8886. is writing music for her new album and working on TV and film projects. n Mick DuRussel, The Showbiz “The Amazing Spider-Man 2” has Wizard is an entertainment writer begun production in Brooklyn and based on Long Island. on April 16th, 2013. Patti LuPone Two-time Tony winner Patti LuPone will show a group of incredibly fortunate students how it’s done on a new episode of HBO’s Masterclass, premiering April 1. The episode will feature LuPone teaching and working with a class of students. The episode will also include footage of LuPone dating back to 2010, when she was starring in Broadway’s”. The episode will continue to air on HBO through April 30.

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