Publisher’s Letter...
This is our 8th wedding issue and we’ve learned it is one of our most sought after issues with brides to be or mothers of the bride coming in all year to pick one up. The mountains make a beautiful setting for a wedding. From an arbor beside the lake to a gathering at the base of a rushing waterfall outdoor weddings are a popular choice. There are some lovely chapels to be found in lush valleys surrounded by mountains or the option of a breathtaking mountaintop ceremony. Whichever you decide on you are sure to find everything you need right here. From music to photographers to wedding planners and floral designers you’ll find some of the best in northeast Georgia or western North Carolina. The beautiful bride on our cover is Leslie Land, you’ll find her love story and three others included in this issue. Weddings have certainly evolved. Destination weddings are popular and the mountains are the perfect place to tie the knot. Kendall Rumsey parallels today’s weddings with those of simpler times in his column Notes from a Southern Kitchen. Be sure to reflect on your own special day and check out the wedding directory on our website for a list of local wedding vendors. I do... appreciate you! Tracy
Publisher/Editor - Tracy McCoy Assistant Editor - Luke McCoy Art Director - Dianne VanderHorst Graphic Designer - Nikki Dunbar Office Manager/ Account Executive - Cindi Freeman Account Executive - Melissa Williams-Thomas Account Executive - Melynda Hensley Photographer/Writer - Peter McIntosh
March 2018 • Volume Fifteen • Issue Three • Copyright 2018 Georgia Mountain Laurel Mailing: PO Box 2218, Clayton, Georgia 30525 Office: 2511 Highway 441, Mountain City, Georgia 30562 706-782-1600 • www.gmlaurel.com Contributing Writers: Jean Hyatt, Mark Holloway Steve Jarrard, MD, Lisa Harris, Emory Jones, Lorie Thompson, Susan Brewer, Pastor John Hutcheson Kendall Rumsey
Copyright 2018 by Rabun’s Laurel Inc. All rights reserved. The Georgia Mountain Laurel Magazine is published twelve times per year. Reproduction without the permission of the publisher is prohibited. The publishers and editors are not responsible for unsolicited material and it will be treated as unconditionally assigned for publication subject to GML magazine’s right to edit. Return postage must accompany all manuscripts, photographs and drawings. Every effort has been made to assure that all information presented in this issue is accurate, and neither Laurel magazine or any of its staff is responsible for omissions or information that has been misrepresented to the magazine. The Georgia Mountain Laurel maintains a Christian focus throughout their magazine. Rabun’s Laurel, Inc. reserves the right to refuse content or advertising for any reason without explanation.
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In This Issue Saying I do... 10 14 16 17 18
The Snow Wedding The Land Wedding Kingwood Resort The Barn at Young Harris The Page Wedding
Arts & Entertainment 28 32
Cover Artist - Adrian Freeman North Georgia Arts Guild
A Taste 36 38
Bon Appetit The Family Table
Faith in Christ 44 48 49
Bless Your Heart River Garden R4G - Rabun for the Gospel
Health & Wellness 60
Live Healthy & Be Well
Outdoors 24 26 27
Adventure Out Mountain Nature Celebrate Clayton
Just Thinking... 52 54 56
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Dream Destination Wedding
Justin & Deven Snow by Tracy McCoy
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’ve never talked to a bride more eager to share her love story than Deven Snow. This girl loves being in love! Deven is a buyer for The Treehouse in Clayton, Georgia owned by her mom, Kelly Barnes, who runs their Athens, Georgia store. Justin Snow is the son of Linda Lapeyrouse, city manager at Sky Valley, Georgia. This is their wedding story… Justin was the first boy that Kelly let Deven ride in the car with. He was her first official date and became her high school sweetheart. They dated throughout high school and attended Prom together. The couple attended Rabun County High School and Justin graduated first and went on to attend Gainesville State University. Deven graduated a year later and went on to North Georgia College and State University in Dahlonega, Georgia. The couple parted ways as friends and went on to date others. Deven says they shared occasional texts on birthdays or holidays, but Justin had moved to South Georgia after graduating from college, and she had moved home to Clayton to join her mom in her business. She added the clothing and accessories boutique to the already fabulous Tree House on Main. Deven had just seen the end of a serious relationship and just needed to get away. One of her greatest friends, Angela Riley, suggested a road strip to Tybee Island. Just a long overdue girl’s weekend. While down there, Angela called an old friend, Devin Trusty, from high school who lived near there. It just so happened that Devin and Justin were roommates and the two came over to Tybee to hang out with the girls. It was the happiest Deven had felt in a long time, everything the couple had shared in those early years rekindled, and she realized that she still had feelings for Justin. When the weekend ended, Deven returned home and told her mom about her feelings and that she felt that she had to explore those feelings and she was moving to Savannah to pursue the relationship with Justin. Through tears, Kelly cautioned her daughter about her impulsive decision, but Deven felt that the Lord was giving her and Justin another chance and her heart had to know. She could not chance walking away and living with regret.
Justin and Deven were a perfect fit. While living on the Georgia coast, Justin finished college and Deven got her certification as a personal trainer. They remained there for 7 months before moving to Flowery Branch, Georgia, where a job opportunity awaited Justin. Deven returned to the Treehouse as their lives together just seemed to fall into place, like it was all part of God’s plan. On December 9th of 2016 the couple had plans to go see the lights at Lake Lanier and then have dinner at Chateau Elan. The day had been so busy at the Treehouse that Deven was wiped out. On her way home to Flowery Branch, she called Justin to suggest that they just stay home and order pizza. Justin seemed a bit annoyed and she wondered why. She arrived at their tiny apartment turned the key in the door and opened it to find the gmlaurel.com
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entire place lit with candles and their favorite song “I’ll Love You Forever” playing. Her eyes fell on the love of her life, down on one knee with a beautiful hand-carved ring box in his palm. She began to cry as he said the words she’ll never forget, “Deven, I have never met anyone like you. I love you with all my heart and always have. Will you marry me?” Justin had hand carved a wooden ring box for her and inside was the most gorgeous ring she’d ever seen. It was exactly what she had always dreamed of. She, of course said “Yes!” and laughing, she told me they ordered pizza and had their special date the next night to celebrate their engagement. The planning began and soon the dress search began. She found one she wanted badly online. It was designed and handmade by Australian company Grace loves Lace. She
took a weekend and flew to Miami to try it on and it was the dress! December 2nd was her grandparent’s wedding anniversary. They had the kind of marriage Deven hoped for, so that is the date that they chose. She had planned to ask her Grandfather to walk her down the aisle, but he passed away before the wedding. She walked that aisle by herself with Grandpa in her heart. They married in St. Simons at the King & Prince Hotel. It was a beautiful day and Deven was stunning in her long sleeved lace gown and Justin was dapper in blue. The wedding was accented with deep shades of burgundy. Her bouquet was truly a masterpiece. They wrote their own vows and had shared them with no one ahead of time. They married on the beach front lawn of the resort by the ocean. December 2nd was the first Super Moon and as this special day ended, the huge moon was rising as the sun set, and then it turned a most magnificent red. Many friends and family came for the wedding, the day was beautiful and the setting pristine with towering palms and lovely blue skies. Their attendants were a array of family members, old friends and new… On the Bride’s side: Matron of Honor – Alex Beck Clay Bridesmaids – Katie Keller Copeland Claire Tyler Carley Pennington Lauren Moore Riviera Angela Riley Kayla Cannon Shelton On the Groom’s side: Best Man - Devin Trusty Groomsmen Taylor Copeland Curt Kilby Barcley Matheson As Deven talked with me about the magic of the day, she exclaimed, “It was the BEST day!” Mr. and Mrs. Justin Snow traveled to Antiqua for a week to honeymoon. When I inquired about their future plans, she told me that children are definitely In their plans, maybe 3 – 5 years down the road. Right now they are working, doing some traveling, and enjoying their life together. Happily ever after… Photos by River G. West Photography
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Love at First Sight
Barrett & Leslie Land by Tracy McCoy
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magine with me a romance between superheros Deadpool and Lady Deadpool… in Orlando, Florida. It happened when Leslie Davidson and some friends planned her birthday party. They would celebrate Leslie and a guy who shared the same birthday. She was employed at Disney, as were most of her friends. The party had a Superhero theme and Leslie was dressed as Lady Deadpool. One of her friend’s newest roommates was on his way, running late and almost didn’t come, but he arrived in plain clothes, not knowing it was a costume party. Leslie was one of the first people Barrett Land (Disney’s Prince Charming) met when he arrived to the party, and as Leslie says, it was love at first sight. He was embarrassed to be the only one without super powers so she shared her mask making him Deadpool and they spent the evening getting to know each other and pranking as many party-goers as they could. That was November 2012 and Leslie and Barrett have been together every since. A super romance, if you will. In June of 2017, the couple planned a trip to St. Augustine, their favorite city. The oldest city in America, full of history and known for water fountains. It was on this trip behind a water fountain that Barrett proposed with a ring that had belonged to Leslie’s great-grandmother. The ring was created by her Geologist great-grandfather. With that special heirloom, Barrett dropped to one knee and asked Leslie to be his, forever. The answer was “yes” and they celebrated the rest of the evening. There was little discussion about where the couple would marry, and no it wasn’t Disney. You see, Barrett Land is the son of Ed Land, owner of Chattooga Belle Farm. His step-mother Kitty and father Ed bought the property for the farm in 2009 and created one of the most beautiful venues in the Southeast! With Leslie and Barrett still living in Florida it would have
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been difficult to plan and pick vendors and so forth, but Chattooga Belle Farm has done the homework for couples and have well established relationships with some of the area’s finest wedding vendors, and they offer an all-inclusive wedding package for brides and grooms. This makes it so easy to have the wedding of your dreams without all of the stress. Leslie also had the help of her parents, Mark and Laura Davidson, Barrett’s mother, Laura Land, and Leslie’s sister, DeLana Mullins, and best friend, Jacquelyn Levasseur. The wedding was put together in record time, taking place in November 2017. It was a crystal clear and pleasant day. The wedding ceremony took place at the Seneca Presbyterian Church, with the reception following at Chattooga Belle Farm. The dress was one that Leslie had first tried on in Dallas, Texas (her home state), but ended up purchasing in Orlando. The wedding was Geo-themed with Agate slices and crystals as wedding décor. The ring that Barrett proposed with is in safe keeping, the ring he slipped on his bride’s finger on the wedding day was a teardrop Moonstone surrounded by diamonds. Barrett’s ring was handcrafted from layers of dried redwood, fossils and turquoise. Their cake was made by Walnut Street Bakery, the caterer was the farm’s own Pam Headapohl, the florist was Earth Bloom, and the wedding photos were taken by Adrian Freeman: all four Chattooga Belle Farm vendors. gmlaurel.com
Many of Barrett and Leslie’s friends and close family from Orlando journeyed up to celebrate with them. Their attendants were: On the bride’s side – Matron of Honor – Jacquelyn Levasseur Bride’s Maid – DeLana Mullins Jr. Bride’s Maid – Ainsley Mullins On the groom’s side – Best Men Greg Deemer John Potter Benjamin Wesley The couple set a table up with mementos and precious reminders of relatives who had passed, with both grandmothers represented. Leslie was fortunate enough to find her grandmother’s wedding gown and placed it on the table. A lovely gesture in honor of family. Barrett and Leslie made a permanent move to the mountains this year, making their home in Seneca, South Carolina. They both are working on the family’s farm, which continues to grow. Leslie was delightful to interview and, as you can see from our cover, a lovely bride in love with her Prince Charming March 2018
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he location of Kingwood Resort will inspire the nature lover in you. The property is surrounded by over 148,600 acres of protected National Forest at the foot of the idyllic Blue Ridge Mountains. Kingwood has been a mainstay of the golf and resort living community in Rabun County for decades. Homeowners and part time residents who make their home on the property know the joy of Kingwood living. The amenities include accomodations, an 18 hole golf course, clubhouse, spa, fine dining, indoor and outdoor swimming, fire pits, mountain biking, waterfall hikes and a trout pond. Overlooking the ninth hole putting green, Kingwood Resort’s dining room, provides the perfect setting for dinner or a special occasion. This dining room is available to members, Inn guests and the public for lunch, and dinner. Kingwood Resort’s Fireside Lounge offers a relaxing atmosphere for diners as well as golfers. Whether it is your big day, family reunion or coming of age, Kingwood has all of the facilities you need for the perfect event. Kingwood Resort is located just off Highway 76 East at 401 Country Club Drive, Clayton, Georgia. The website offers up to date information, even allowing you to make reservations, visit www.kindwoodresort.com or call 706.212.4100.
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Happily Ever After Corey & Savannah Page by Tracy McCoy
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orey Page was a senior at Rabun County High School when Freshmen Savannah Reeves caught his eye. The couple began going out. Like most couples, they had their ups and downs. Corey graduated in 2010 and left for Athens to study Business Management leaving Savannah to finish high school. Savannah graduated RCHS in 2013 and attended Clemson University, also studying business. Their love for each other kept them together through it all. Savannah and Corey had talked a little about getting married one day but had made no concrete plans. On Valentine’s Day 2016 Corey gave Savannah a gift certificate for a couples’ photography package with local photographer Meredith Byrd. They scheduled to do the photo shoot at the Reeves’ lake house in early April. Corey had planned to propose to his high school sweetheart that day. Everyone was “in the know” except Savannah. As Meredith worked her magic behind the lens, Corey knelt and, pulling a ring from his pocket, he asked Savannah to be his wife. Needless to say, she said yes, and their couples’ session became an engagement session. Afterward, they joined both families for a celebration. Savannah and her best friend Ruth Forbes began planning, and she said yes to the dress at The Castle in Anderson, South Carolina. Valley Cafe was hired for the catering and her wedding cake. The groom’s cake was prepared by Regina Bedingfield. Her wedding photographer was Barbara Covington. Floral designer Cyndi Israel of Twigs, Leaves & Flowers created a lovely bouquet and flowers for Savannah and the wedding party. The Rabun County Civic Center was the venue chosen for the reception that followed the Reeves/Page ceremony at Clayton Baptist Church. Savannah’s dad, Jeff Reeves, escorted his beautiful daughter down the aisle on June 24, 2017. The sanctuary was filled with family and friends as this precious couple exchanged their vows. The attendants were: 18
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The ceremony, officiated by Pastor David Rogers, was traditional and included a precious coming together of both families. Jeff and Sharon Reeves and Jeff and Julie Page came forward with their children to pray together for their marriage and family while Michael and Keumele Keown sang a song. The wedding and reception was a celebration of the love and future of Corey and Savannah Page. The couple enjoyed a honeymoon cruise to Jamaica, Grand Cayman, and Cozumel before returning to their home in Clayton. Both of them have put their educations to work joining the family business, working at Reeves Building Supply. When they are not working, the Pages enjoy watching local Basketball (all ages), cheering on the UNC Tar Heels and Clemson Tigers. They also enjoy the outdoors, water sports, and spending time with family and friends. With their first anniversary coming up soon, they have planned a trip to St. Thomas. Can you say, “Happily ever after?�
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Rabun County Venues – Perfect for Your Special Occasion
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layton, Georgia is a unique combination of culture, natural beauty, and a sense of connection. What makes it so special? The generosity and labors of our residents. We support what is important to our community. You will feel the good vibe in our historic downtown, which is thriving more than ever as the Farm-to-Table capital of Georgia! Rabun County venues are in the heart of all the action, within easy walking distance to many one-of-a-kind boutiques and restaurants. Our venues are the hub of non-profit fundraising and celebrations, both private and public. We have a multi-use civic center, a whimsical Diner, and an intimate historic house waiting to make memories with you. Our County Park Plan is in motion, which will provide two large pavilions and an amphitheater. Our goal is to enrich recreation, wellness, and entertainment opportunities for all. In addition to events such as farmers markets, concerts, art shows and more, these venues will also be available for group gatherings. Visit and see the beginning of more good things to come! If you would like more information about any of our venues please contact us at 706.982.9432
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The Most Beautiful Day
Adam and Diana Diamond by Tracy McCoy
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can’t remember a word he said, I only knew he wanted to marry me and I said YES!” Diana Prickett was born and raised in Northeast Georgia and she claims Rabun County as her hometown. Her parents, Johnny and Lisa Prickett, have a home on Lake Rabun, and while Diana has spent many nights on the lake, she makes her home in Atlanta. Diana is currently a Kindergarten teacher at Morris Brandon Elementary in the city. When she met her future husband, Adam Diamond, it was in the board room of the Shepherd Center where they both served as board members and volunteered their time. They worked on fundraising efforts for the well known spinal injury center. It wasn’t until he asked for her phone number at the Shepherd Center Christmas party that the couple had their first date. They dated for several years and had moved in together, talking of marriage, but never making any solid plans. One night they were going out to dinner and Diana said Adam was acting strange. He told her he had to go by the Shepherd Center to pick something up from the board room. He had a plan and had arranged for the doors to be open, but somehow the wires got crossed and he had to call on security to unlock the board room. Once inside the very room where they had met, he knelt and pulled a ring from his pocket. As stated above, she doesn’t remember the words, only the love behind them and she agreed to be his wife.
Diana’s sister had just gotten engaged so their were two weddings to plan. The couple had thought of marrying at Lake Rabun, but after visiting Kingwood Country Club, they decided that would be their venue. They could easily have the wedding and reception there with the backdrop of the lush grounds and the beautiful mountains. They worked with Elizabeth from the resort and could not say enough about the ease with which she handled things. Diana created many of her decorations and was hands-on in the planning. They chose September 10th 2016 as their wedding day and it simply could not have been a more beautiful day. The rehearsal dinner was hosted by Gene and Angela Diamond, parents of the groom. They gathered at the former Hall’s Boat House pavilion, now known as Rabun Boat House. The food for the dinner was catered by Louie’s on the Lake. On the wedding day, the bride was escorted by her father to meet her handsome groom. Adam is Jewish and Diana is Christian, so they incorporated both into the ceremony. Her Uncle Reverend Jerry Prickett, and Rabbi Steven Lebow both played a part in the nuptials. Signing the Ketubah is a Hebrew wedding practice, a document is signed by the couple and two witnesses before the ceremony takes place, and then is read to the guests during the ceremony. 22
The Ketubah outlines the conditions the groom will provide in the marriage and the bride’s protections and rights. The ceremony was otherwise very traditional and lovely. Elizabeth Raymond was the wedding coordinator for this couple. Kim King of Buds and Blossoms in Clayton was the florist, making Diana’s bouquet and other floral pieces. Kelsey McCracken made the wedding cakes. Photographer Chad and Kaitlyn McCroskey took Diana and Adam’s photos, and her invitations were created by Oh my! Designs by Steph. Music was played at the reception by Underground Social Club. The bride’s hair and makeup was made beautiful by Raean Keener of Details Salon 73 and Spa in Toccoa, Georgia.
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On the Bride’s side: Bridesmaids: Melissa Alatsis (sister of bride), Callie Prickett (sister of bride), Elizabeth Mulkey, Logan Humphreys, Kara Weatherly On the Groom’s side: Harrison Diamond (brother of groom), Trey Weatherly, Blanton Tatum, Will Longshore, Charlie Humphreys, Matthew Nusbaum, David Cohen, Trey Bolling, Midd Read, Michael Holt The couple spent their wedding night at The Beechwood Inn in Clayton, and later they honeymooned in the Dominican Republic, staying at the Excellence Resort in Punta Cana. The Caribbean resort is a five star resort surrounding guests with an all-inclusive luxury experience. Diana shared that while very nice, it rained the entire time they were there. When they are not working, Adam and Diana enjoy spending time with friends and family. They travel occasionally, as well. They recently bought a house and have been remodeling, which has kept them very busy. Adam races Spec Miata cars at Road Atlanta. A member of the Sports Car Club of America, he is on the track as often as he can be. The Diamonds are living life and enjoying their sweet Goldendoodle Ellie. It doesn’t get much better than this. gmlaurel.com
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Wander... IT ALL TURNS ON AFFECTION by Josh Brown
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ince this issue is focused on love, I thought it might be appropriate to talk about this particular place that we have come to call home, and our shared affection for it. Some people have been a part of this community for generations, while others, like myself, came for years before recently making the move, while others still are just passing through. In a place with such a long history, it would be easy for “those from here” and “those not from here” to rub up against each other in ways that negatively impact each group. Places all across the world have experienced conflict like this when people move in and their goals and ambitions and values undo a way of life that goes back centuries. When this happens, the fabric tears and comes undone and the people who have been there since the beginning get left holding the short end of the stick.
affection. In fact, he believes it all turns on affection. What I think he means by that is that there can be no health, no sustainability, no future, unless there is a certain measure of affection built into everything we do. He writes, “A community is the mental and spiritual condition of knowing that the place is shared, and that the people who share the place define and limit the possibilities of each other’s lives. It is the knowledge that people have of each other, their concern for each other, their trust in each other, the freedom with which they come and go among themselves.”
One of the things that has always struck me about our particular place is how that doesn’t seem to be the case in my new home. Things aren’t always perfect and we all no doubt have very distinct differences at times. But everyone seems to be making an effort to sort out the role we play in each other’s lives. From locals extending their generous hospitality to tourists, to visitors attempting to tread lightly and respect the land when they’re wandering about. As I’ve often thought about this it seems to me the “secret sauce” is in our shared commitment to this place, locals and visitors alike. In a certain sense, we’re as bound to this land as we are to each other.
That’s certainly a mouthful and could be unpacked in a variety of different ways. But what resonates to me is this idea that a healthy community is a shared community. It’s no more mine than it is yours. While we may all be able to draw out our individual property lines, the spirit of this place rattles around in all of us and that’s much harder to claim ownership too. This is a shared place. And we all get to be a part of it as long as we are responsible and thoughtful and are committed as much to it as we are to our own agendas and wants and desires. In that sense, Mr. Berry is correct. We define and limit each other. When I make decisions, I make it with you in mind. I make it with my children in mind. I make it with my children’s children in mind. I make it knowing that it’s a shared commitment that each member is making to each other and themselves.
One of my heroes is Wendell Berry. No person has been more formative to my thoughts on community than him, and he has a belief that true community can’t happen without
It is also not lost on me that I’m one of the new kids on the block here. The only reason I am able to be a part of this community is because those who were here before me have
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been wise stewards of this land and the spirit of this place. They were gracious enough to extend their trust to me, as they have countless new residents before me. When they could have chosen skepticism about an outsider moving in, they chose affection. When they could have chosen distrust, they chose trust. I know for many of us who aren’t from here, this isn’t something we take lightly. Now that we have been accepted, we understand it is our job to roll up our sleeves and do what we can, when we can, how we can, to care for this place in the same way. When I lived in the big city, I had affection. But it was for things. I loved certain restaurants. I loved certain shops. I loved certain venues. I loved certain parks. But I never loved the land. I never loved the place. I never loved the people. Some of that was no doubt on me and my inability to find my happiness wherever I was. But some of it was that it was really hard to cultivate and care for a place and it’s people when there was no community built into the rhythms of my life. I always felt like I was on an is-
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land. Whether I was in my car on my commute or pulling into my garage and immediately shutting the door. Here I’ve stumbled into something that is quite different. Affection. Like Mr. Berry suggests, my concern for you enables me to trust you. My trusting you allows you to trust me. And on and on it goes down the line. Stacking in on itself creating a cord that can’t be easily broken. Again, it’s not always perfect. We inevitably will break each other’s trust. We will let each other down. We will fail each other. But if we are bound to each other and bound to this place, the fabric may fray, but it will not tear. It all turns on affection and we’re bound by that shared love. So with love on my mind, I hope to humbly carry on in that long tradition of caring for this place and it’s people. Y’all have my affection and I hope to earn yours.
Josh and Alex Brown and Jake and Courtney Scott moved separately to the area 2.5 years ago. After meeting and finding common interests, they decided to start Wander North Georgia in an effort to highlight the people and places that call North Georgia home. You can visit their shop in downtown Clayton where they are open 7 days a week or you can visit their blog online at www.wandernorthgeorgia.com.
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Celebrate Clayton, April 28 – 29 Giving Back to Rabun’s Youth No event of this magnitude can succeed without the support of the community. The number of volunteers who dedicate their time planning and working the festival is great. And the list of generous sponsors is long. Proceeds from Celebrate Clayton fund the North Georgia Arts Guild Scholarship Program and summer programs for local Girl Scout and Boy Scout troops who volunteer during the festival.
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he last weekend in April, thousands of visitors will be attracted to our town. Why? Because, that’s when our town hosts the 19th Annual Celebrate Clayton Art Festival. Main Street is transformed in to an Artist Market lined with cheerful tents exhibiting the work of 100 artists and artisans. Tantalizing aromas waft from festival food offerings. The Kids Art Korner livens the normally quiet Veteran’s Park. All this happens to the strains of musicians performing on the Rock House stage.
Celebrate Clayton 2018 sponsors include: The Clayton Tribune, Georgia Mountain Laurel, City of Clayton, Clayton Merchants and Business Association, Sky 96.3 WRBNFM, Michael H. Cummings II, LLC, Happy Jack Graphics, Wander North Georgia, Mishima Asian Cuisine, Deal’s Appliance, Tugaloo Gas Company, and Mountain Trophy. Many generous restaurants are donating gift certificates for the raffle and will be announced in April. We invite you to join the ranks of volunteers, sponsors, and donors to support your community and give back to Rabun’s youth. If you cannot volunteer your time, please make a donation, perhaps in honor of a scout, friend, or family member. Celebrate Clayton is presented by the North Georgia Arts Guild, a 501(c)3 non-profit organization. All donations are tax-deductible. For more information, visit CelebrateClayton. com or contact Kathy Ford, Celebrate Clayton Chairperson 706.212.9958.
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Cover Artist - Adrian Freeman
Every Parent’s Dream by Tracy McCoy
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y first impression of Adrian and Tammie Freeman was that they are a great couple; a nice balance. They are a husband and wife photography team. Adrian is the main photographer and Tammie is the second-shooter at most weddings. She is Adrian’s right-hand assistant. This wedding photography combo has worked for years and makes for a great photography team. Tammie’s help on the wedding day provides an important added dimension for the bride and groom. Adrian has studied under some incredibly talented photographers such as David Ziser, Jasmine Starr, and Rick Ferro. Adrian studies his craft and understands how light and shadows make a photograph tell a story. It is with incredible passion that Adrian speaks of his work. As a couple, they are every parent’s dream for their son or daughter’s wedding day. This dynamic couple has officially been named the all-inclusive photographer for Chattooga Belle Farm east of Clayton in Long Creek, South Carolina.
Back to the beginning; both Adrian and Tammie were born in Montgomery, Alabama. They have raised two sons and are now grandparents. Adrian worked in real-estate and the homebuilding business for 23 years. When the great-recession came, homebuilding was hit hard and Adrian looked to a lifetime hobby for a second income... photography. He began shooting sports photography through a connection with Coach Tommy Tubberville which was a wonderful experience for this photographer. When Coach Tubberville left Auburn so did Adrian’s connection for shooting sideline and team practices. Adrian was given the opportunity of being a second shooter at a wedding and it was at that time that he found out how much fun it is to photograph those sometimes hectic, but wonderful, moments of a wedding day. Soon, he and Tammie began photographing weddings. They found themselves loving wedding photography and loving working with brides and grooms, getting to know parents and grandparents, all a part of capturing wedding day images for a lifetime. As they told me, the dynamics of every wedding are different, and each couple deserves wedding photos they can cherish. As Adrian says... “When the wedding day is over, a couple has each other and pictures of their ‘big day’ for a lifetime.” When a couple sits down with the Freemans they are shown a very impressive portfolio of wedding photography. The portfolio effectively represents Adrian’s style, the quality... unmistakable. Two weeks before the ceremony Adrian and Tammie will meet with the 28
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bride, groom, possibly parents, and wedding coordinators to establish a general timeline of the wedding day. This allows everyone to be on the same page in getting the photos the bride wants and to determine how and when they are going to get those images. The Freemans share the philosophy that once a bride chooses their style of photography, they want to do their best in capturing “her vision” of this beautiful day. Taking a lot of candid shots and catching moments that would otherwise be missed is an added bonus for the bride and groom. The couple’s day is as it should be, all about them, and years later they will appreciate those photos of family and loved ones that the Freemans intentionally look for. Some of the families they have photographed have since lost loved ones (especially grandparents) and have let Adrian and Tammie know how valued and cherished those pictures are now. It was after a mission trip to Malawi, Africa that Adrian and Tammie realized the power of photographic images in telling a story. After returning home, Adrian used photos to share the mission trip and see the impact the pictures had on his church family. Each image was like a window telling a story about these wonderful people. The concept that every photo tells a story, making time stand still is what sets Adrian Freeman’s photography apart. Adrian says that at this time he already owns his dream camera. He shoots with a Canon 5D Mark III with various lenses he finds useful for different situations. They work with 3 cameras at every wedding. When asked to define his style, Adrian’s response was photo journalistic and it indeed defines his photography. A bride and groom can expect between 800 – 1,500 photos depending on the size of the wedding and the hours they have been hired to photograph. Every wedding image is reviewed and potentially edited by Adrian and Tammie before being released. Once the editing process is complete, the on-line gallery is available to the bride and groom and family. This process generally takes up to two months. Pictures can then be purchased online from the gallery. A few wedding photographs are initially put on Facebook so the couple and family can get glimpses of what was captured. Tammie has created some incredible wedding albums. Today’s wedding album is much different than the albums our mothers had, or even those we had. Today’s albums are customized and personal. They can most definitely become a family heirloom. Tammie puts much creative thought into each one she designs. A wedding album is well worth the investment. The Freemans have been coming to this area for over 25 years. Adrian and his sons have kayaked the Chattooga River for many years. The family has hiked many mountain trails. Their dream of making a home in the mountains has now become a reality. Adrian and Tammie are living near Chattooga Belle Farm, a noted wedding destination, in Long Creek, South Carolina. Adrian also works with the REMAX® of Rabun REALTOR’s team. He is licensed to sell real estate in Alabama, Georgia, and South Carolina. He enjoys working with real estate buyers and sellers, and with young couples planning their wedding day in need of an outstanding photographer. For additional information about Adrian and Tammie visit their website at www.adrianfreeman.com or on Facebook by searching Adrian Freeman Photography. They can be reached at 706.982.0993
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Carole Young McCollum’s Watercolors Love’s Labors Found by Susan Brewer arole Young McCollum’s personal sensibilities seem a mix of three rather rare elements: being gentle, good, and kind. These qualities downshift into love in the doing of her art. “I paint what I know, because that’s how to love it. Know what it does. Watch it. Experience it. Listen to it.” Her response was similar when asked for advice she would offer young people getting into art.
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“The only thing I would be able to tell them - it doesn’t matter what medium they choose - is to do what they love. What they are passionate about. If you start painting to sell, it becomes dry-bones, lifeless, and the inspiration and the love goes out of it.” She continued, “What you find is a purpose in life. For me, it’s nature.” As a child she remembers lying in the yard at home, her young eyes busy absorbing details of small plants found in plenty called henbits (a weed, actually). The tiny flowers fascinated her. Her childhood included another youthful project. “I don’t remember not drawing—ever.” Little art books, chalks, and crayons were given to her by her father. These loves merged into one. Today, Carole does watercolors of the nature she loves: swans, owls, other birds, flowers, animals, and bears. She sells originals and prints, and paints on commission, too. The tan and white dog, Myrna, pictured lying on a couch, was a commission. Carole has done small and large paintings of other pets, including birds and parrots and horses. She can photograph them herself, or use ones already taken. If you have a favorite photograph, Carole can paint that. 30
Last year, she stepped outside her comfort zone to illustrate a children’s read-aloud bedtime story book called “Goodnight, Habersham,” written by Amanda Herron. Its theme: “Say goodnight to the variety of animals, people, and places that make Habersham County such a special place….” Parents and grandparents while reading the story to their little loved ones can speak to them about these familiar places, buildings like the gazebo in Clarkesville Square, and many well-known restaurants. The high schools figure in – the book includes pictures of the Raider Stadium, aka Habersham Central’s John Larry Black Field, and portraits of the mascots of the South Habersham Rebels and the North Habersham Bobcats (these would look nice blown up to poster size on a wall). Birds and animals, rivers, falls, and a scene of Tallulah Gorge are included. Reproductions of these may be purchased by
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contacting Carole, and the book is sold at Books with A’peal in Cornelia. Her nature prints are for sale there, too. Her work has also made its way to the Sautee Nacoochee Center, the Helen Art and Heritage Center, and the Twigs and Leaves store in Waynesville, North Carolina. She was awarded Signature Membership into the Georgia Watercolor Society; this meant spending three years acquiring needed
points through participation in and acceptance into juried shows—quite a labor. Whew! Her love of nature carries on. Her dad used to take her on woodland hikes, pointing and asking, “Do you know what that is?” or saying, “Now that’s a….” Carole drives that love forward to the present day. Carole’s website is www.caroleyoungmccollum.com. Or you can reach Carole by email at caroleyoungmccollum@ yahoo.com, and by calling 706.499.3534.
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Around Back at Rocky’s by Tracey Burnette
She packed up her potenial and all that she had learned, grabbed a cute pair of shoes and headed out to change a few things. Leigh Standley
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tephanie Durham is a good ole Southern girl from middle Georgia where she spent her childhood, and as she would say, “I was raised in the country sunshine.” After an ordinary childhood and graduating high school, she hopped on a Greyhound Bus and headed to Atlanta, where she spent most of her adult life cutting hair. She will tell you that she “burned hair” for 40 years at one of Atlanta’s premier salons. At that time, she painted for entertainment and relaxation. Stephanie’s primary venue into the art world were the biannual art shows staged by a longtime Atlanta dealer. This particular dealer encouraged her to write stories on the backs of her paintings. The writing of the stories came naturally, as she loved to make up stories, about both childhood friends and animals, as well as fictional ones from her imagination. She tells the tales of birthday parties, family visits, vacations, and just everyday events like jumping rope, riding the school bus, and eating watermelon. A personal favorite is the story, with accompanying painting, of a trip to Atlanta to see the Lighting of the Rich’s Great Tree. When Stephanie fell and injured her shoulder, she knew it was time slow down and come back home to her small town. It was time to nurse herself back to health and care for her elderly mother; that’s exactly what she did for ten or more years.
“Noah’s Arc.........Please No Termites”
“Y’all Showing Out Today”
It wasn’t until after the passing of her mother that she picked up the paint brush again. Now in her 70’s, “Wildcat Stephanie,” as she calls herself, has emerged again. It’s like she picked right up where she left off with her paintings and stories alike. She never tires of those childhood memories and friends, and to where she goes in those memories. She will always tell you that “my imagination takes me all over the world, but I’m always home by 6 o’clock.”
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Stephanie’s work is available at Around Back at Rocky’s located at 3631 Hwy 53 East Dawsonville, Georgia 30534. You can also visit online at https://aroundbackatrockysplace.com/. For more into call 706.265.6030.
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Jordan Poss Authors WWII Thriller
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he year was 1943, about the mid-point of World War II, when Rabun County, Georgia Marine Captain Joe McKay finds himself thousands of miles and many worlds removed from the mountains he called home. Instead of those familiar hills, he is instead assigned to the Office of Strategic Services (OSS), where he undertakes command of a top-secret mission in the hills of Norway. Joe McKay is the creation of Rabun County native and author Jordan Poss. As the protagonist in Jordon’s latest book, Dark Full of Enemies, McKay employs his Rabunborn knowledge of mountains, rock climbing, and dams to undertake a major sabotage mission against the Nazis. Told in spell-binding narrative, this commando-thriller uses vivid word tapestries to bring the reader into the action alongside Joe and his men. Through the often unspoken word, the characters calculate the true definition of victory, as well as the cost Poss, who now lives in Greenville, S.C. with his wife, Sarah, and children Sophie and Joseph, teaches history at Piedmont Technical College in Greenwood, S.C. And he writes. In speaking about his latest book, he explains that his own focus as a historian is on military history, a subject he has studied extensively. “Americans tend to forget that the Nazis controlled places like Norway right up until the surrender in May 1945. The Germans retaliated brutally whenever there was resistance or guerrilla activity, and it’s debatable whether some of our sabotage operations were worth the civilian lives it cost.” It is against this backdrop of reality that Joe McKay leads a group of men on a mission to destroy a German-controlled hydroelectric plant deep in the mountains in Norway. From what Joe fears is a flawed plan from the get-go, he must find a way to overcome those negatives, successfully execute the mission, and get him and his men out safely, despite steep odds to the contrary. This story took Jordan about three months to write back in 2013. In the summer of 2017, he began to seriously refine the final version. The movies, “The Guns of Navarone” and “The Bridge on the River Kwai,” provided inspiration for the spirit of the book. As he began to craft the scenes, he depended on numerous
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memoirs of military veterans who had “been there, done that,” to help give his fiction a ring of reality and integrity. “I tried to be faithful to the way things like my story actually played out.” Jordan has two previous books. No Snakes in Iceland, a ghost story set in medieval Iceland, released in 2016. He’s also written the historical novella, The Last Day of Marcus Tullius Cicero. Coming later this year, is Griswoldville, a story with inspirational roots right at home in Rabun County. Set in the American Civil War, Jordan tells the fictional story of a grandfather and grandson caught up in the most tragic way, in the war where brother fought brother. “I remember getting a book from the Rabun County Library when I was a kid that told about a battle in Georgia where the only men left in the area, the young and the old, fought Sherman’s army and were destroyed.” Years later, he says, “in Sunday School, of all places,” the story he tells in Griswoldville was conceived. He cites his own grandfathers, J.L. McKay and Ed Poss, both Georgia natives, as inspiration for the grandfather in this story set between Athens and Macon. “I hope readers will see a love of family and home woven through this story.” Check out Jordan’s new web site jordanmposs.com for more about him and how to purchase Dark Full of Enemies, or his other books.
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Mountain Happenings March 16th - 25th 2018 Wine Highway Week Participating Wineries throughout Northeast Georgia Info: georgiawine.com
April 21st Cornelia Apple Blossom BBQ Festival Cornelia Info: 706.778.8585
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The Ritz Theater Toccoa Info: www.ritztheatretoccoa.com
March 24th 30th Annual Cabbage Patch Kids Easter Extravaganza Babyland General Hospital Cleveland Info: 706.865.2171 babylandgeneral.com
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April 7th Simply Elegant Taste of the Town Unicoi State Park & Lodge Helen Info: 706.865.5356
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March 30th - April 1st Easter Festival
March 17th Dancing with the Stars for Hope Haberham Central High School Mt. Airy Info: 706.776.3406 dancingwiththestarsforhope.com
March 17th Bottoms Loop Lantern Hike
March 24th Easter Bunny pictures Mauldin House Clarkesville Info: 706.754.2220
Hardman Farm State Historic Site Sautee Info: 706.878.1077
April 6th - 8th, 12th - 15th, 20th - 22nd “Fiddler on the Roof” Habersham Community Theatre Clarkesville Info: 706.839.1315 www.habershamtheatre.org
March 24th Remarkable Georgia Women
April 20 Friday Night Live: Live Music, Classic Car Cruise In Downtown Clarkesville Info: 706.754.2220
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April 7th and each Saturday Bluegrass on the Square Tallulah Falls Opera House Tallulah Falls Info: www.tallulahfallsgeorgia.org
North Georgia Zoo & Farm Cleveland Info: myfavoritezoo.com
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Unicoi State Park Helen Info: 706.878.2181
April 7th, 8th, 14th, 15th, 21st, 22nd Whitewater Boating Weekends April 7th, 8th, 14th, 15th Whitewater Watching Hike
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March 16th - 18th, 23rd - 25th “Over the River and Through the Woods” - North Georgia Community Players Dillard Playhouse Dillard Info: 706.212.2500 ngcommunityplayers.com
March 31st 12th Annual Easter Egg Hunt Hillside Orchard Farms Lakemont Info: 706.782.2776 www.hillsideorchard.com
April 21st Spring Bierfest Festhalle Helen Info: 706.865.5356
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April 28th, 29th May 5th, 6th, 12th, 13th, 19th, 20th Aesthetic Water Releases Rabun Arena Tiger Info: 706.212.0452 March 10th; April 21st Junior Rodeo
March 31st Natural Egg Dying Class
March 11th, 18th April 22nd Barrel Racing Exhibition
April 7th Sweep the Hooch
April 14th Barrels for Babies - Barrel Racing
April 14th Georgia’s First Dig - The Story of the Nacoochee Indian Mound April 21st Farm Camp (ages 6-12)
April 21st Dr. Paul Constantine - performing Americana-style music Music Barn Hiawassee Info: 706.970.2112 Georgia Mountain Fairgrounds Hiawassee Info: 706.896.4191 georgiamountainfairgrounds.com March 3rd Gene Watson, Johnny Lee & Ronnie McDowell March 24th Southern Uprising Tour with Marshall Tucker Band, Charlie Daniels Band and Travis Tritt April 27th Jeremy Camp in Concert UNION COUNTY March 23rd - 24th 2018 Spring Hammer-In & Metalwork Event Trackrock Campground & Cabins Info: 706.745.2420 georgiaknifemakersguild.com April 7th Cruise In Union County Farmers Market Blairsville Info: 678.773.5934 April 13th - 14th Georgia Mountain Storytelling Festival Union County Schools Fine Arts Center Blairsville Info: gamountainstoryfest.org April 21st Cruise-In On The Square Downtown Courthouse Square Blairsville Info: 706.745.2003 April 22nd Earth Day Celebration Paradise Hills Resort and Winery Blairsville Info: paradisehillsga.com continued
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CLAY COUNTY, NC March 31st Community Easter Egg Hunt Clay County Rec Park Hayesville Info: 828.389.3704 Peacock Performing Arts Center Hayesville Info: 828.389.2787 thepeacocknc.org
April 28th Songwriters Showcase 22 John C. Campbell Folk School Brasstown Info: 800.365.5724 folkschool.org March 2nd Wyatt Espalin & Trees Leave March 6th and Each Tuesday Beginner Contra & Square Dance March 16th Berea College Folk-Roots Ensemble March 17th, 31st; April 14th Contra & Square Dance March 23rd David Kaynor
April 13th Berea College Bluegrass Ensemble
April 21st The Midtown Men
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April 28th Popovich - Comedy Pet Theater
March 17th and the Third Saturday of the Month SEBA Jam Cowee School Franklin Info: coweeschool.org Smoky Mountain Center for Performing Arts Franklin Info: 866.273.4615; 828.524.1598 GreatMountainMusic.com March 2nd - 3rd James and the Giant Peach A Magical Puppet Adventure
March 24th Empty Bowls 2018
March 2nd - 11th “Til Beth Do Us Part”
March 30th Tina & Her Pony
March 16th The Nelson’s - Ricky Nelson Remembered
March 24th Johnny Peers & The Muttville Comix
March 31st Easter Egg Hunt
March 23rd - 24th The Day He Wore My Crown
April 7th The Legacy Motown Revue
April 5th Andy Cohen
April 13th Anthem Lights
Highlands Performing Arts Center Highlands Info: highlandspac.net March 3rd National Theatre Live “Cat on a Hot Tin Roof” March 10th MET Opera Live Via Satellite Semiramide March 17th MET Opera - La Boheme March 24th National Theatre Live - Hamlet March 31st MET Opera - Cosi Fan Tutte April 14th MET Opera - Luisa Miller April 21st National Theatre Live - Julius Caesar April 28th MET Opera - Cendrillon
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serious challenge for runners and walkers will be held on Saturday, March 31, 2018 in Otto, NC with a 390-foot elevation change. Registration begins at 9:00 a.m. and the walk begins at 9:30 am, the run at 10:00 am. Entry fees are $25 for runners before March 10, $30 before March 20 and $35 the day of the race. Walking fees are $15 before March 10, $20 by March 20 and $25 the day of the race. The fee includes a t-shirt and goodie bag, as well as a chili lunch, drink, and dessert. There will be many donated raffle items to take a chance on. The primary proceeds of this race will be donated to The Cystic Fibrosis Foundation, with a portion to Otto Community Development. CF is a progressive genetic disease and causes persistent lung infections and severely limits the ability to breathe over time. Government funding is limited and prescription medicines are very expensive, even with insurance. If you would like to run or walk please sign up at active.com or email bringittolife@gmail.com. You can call Teresa Young at 828.342.5047 for more info. 38
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Adventure Out - Chauga Narrows by Peter McIntosh
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The trailhead to the Chauga Narrows is off of Whetstone Road at the Chauga River Bridge and there’s a primitive parking area just off the road. This spot can be a bit trashy since it’s so easily accessible. We begin walking down an old roadbed with a few water-filled mud holes along the way. After about 100 yards, we’re still following alongside the river, but the path now seems more like a trail. The river along here is mostly calm, slow moving water with a small rapid every so often. Both sides of the river are bordered by beautiful River Birch, Loblolly Pine, and White Oaks. There are plenty of side trails, leading to the riverbank that are used by fishermen. (And fishermen make note: The Chauga River is stocked with trout annually by the DNR.) As we continue down the trail, it gets a bit more overgrown as we go along. There’s a nice campsite at a bend in the river and then this trail gets a little more interesting. The sound of rushing water gets louder, telling us that the narrows are nearby. The trail now climbs away from the river up into the Rhododendron. It looks more difficult than it is, but do be careful, as you could easily twist an ankle. There are a few places to scramble down to the river to see the rushing water 40
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features and all are worth checking out. There’s a pretty little waterfall just above the narrows, and then there are the narrows, a flume of rushing water dropping quickly to a really nice wading pool at the base. This is a great spot should you want to cool your toes. There are also some nice big rocks here to sit on and enjoy a snack. Happy hiking!
With the coming of Spring, a March poem I bring: Springtime is coming and I think you oughter, Get out and hike beside some cool flowing water. There’s a nice little cascade, and swift flowing chutes, The trail can be tricky so hike it in boots!
Getting there: Take US 76 E. from Clayton and go 8 miles to the Chattooga River, cross the bridge and go 2 miles to Chattooga Ridge Road on the left. Stay on this road for 5 miles until you come to the intersection with Whetstone Road. Turn right on Whetstone Road and go 1 mile to the Chauga River bridge. The pull off to parking areas, on either side of the road, just before the bridge. It looks rough, but it’s not too bad. As I said in the poem, I do recommend you wear boots on this adventure, as the last part of this trail is very rugged. I also suggest you bring a friend on this hike, just for safety’s sake. To see more of Peter’s photos or if you have a question or comment, visit: www.mcintoshmountans.com gmlaurel.com
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Mountain Nature TRILLIUMS! by Jean Hyatt
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ne of my favorite parts of spring is finding the first flowers in bloom. I love the bloodroot and the spring beauty and the little wood violets, but most of all I like finding the first trilliums. Richard has a blog highlighting trilliums that he posts to from time to time (trilliumtraveler. com) and he and I both take a lot of pictures, so it is something we enjoy doing together.
bloom. It, too, will be a new one for us. It blooms mostly along the Chattahoochee River in Georgia, Alabama, and Florida. I understand from what I’ve read about them that they are larger than most trillium, taller and with a wider leaf span, but more interesting to me is that they can be purple or yellow or variations of colors between. One photo I saw even had yellow and purple on one flower.
Some time ago, we heard about The white Catesby some lance-leaved and Grandiflorum trilliums in South trilliums may also Carolina. We were be seen in color not familiar with variations, but this that trillium, so we is a result of aging. headed over that While these two way to see if we trilliums start out a could find them. pure snow white, as And we did! We they age they take went in early April, on a tinge of pink, but some of the then grow darker trilliums and other as they fade away. wildflowers were Trilliums bloom for quite mature or past only a short period their prime. But we of time, along with walked the easy to lots of other spring moderate trail, an flowers, so it’s a almost 2-mile loop challenge to see and we took our everything you want time, enjoying the to see every spring. area’s hardwoods and flowering plants. We also saw shooting Happy looking, though, and enjoy what you do see, even if stars, forget-me-not, a Miccosukee Gooseberry in fruit, some some are elusive. beautiful false garlic in bloom, and a pale yellow trillium we weren’t sure what was. We also picked up a couple of ticks, so next time we’re bringing the insect repellent. The persistent trillium at Tallulah Gorge may be in bloom Jean and her husband Richard own and operate Mountain late this month, and after that the beautiful Catesby’s. There’s Nature in downtown Clayton. They can be reached at 706 yellow and purple trillium at Black Rock Mountain, and the 782-0838. large white Grandiflorum just about everywhere you look in ** Don’t forget to turn off your outside lights at night. Use the woods along some of the backroads. This area also supports motion detector lighting, shields, and IDA-approved lighting the white erect trillium, the Vassey’s, and the painted trilliums, so you don’t impose your light on those who want to see the among others. Georgia is a leader in native trilliums; it has stars. I believe God made night dark for a reason. Please help more confirmed species than any other state. Yay, Georgia! keep it that way. ** This year, we hope to see the Chattahoochee trillium in 42
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Volunteering for all the Paws!
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olunteering at Rabun Paws 4 Life, Inc. gives me a sense of satisfaction for helping animals that have been abandoned, abused, neglected, surrendered, or picked up as strays … motivated by the fact that I like animals better than most people! Some of these animals have come from the most heartbreaking of circumstances. That being said, I have met some great people who have the same passion to give these animals a chance… and it helps that you don’t have to hide that you are a crazy dog/cat person! I was on the original “start-up” board of Paws, but unfortunately had to resign, which was an extremely hard decision, due to the demands of my job. But, I didn’t stop doing what I could to help the shelter. There are many ways, I found, to help at the shelter, and work with the fantastic staff and board members who love animals as I do… compassionate people who share my interest in helping animals. These people work very hard to better the lives of these animals. Being the only no-kill ‘open admission’ shelter in Georgia means that Rabun Paws 4 Life, Inc. will accept all animals, for any reason, no matter what, and help get them adopted. To be clear, Rabun Paws 4 Life is a shelter, not a rehabilitation facility nor a sanctuary. So, what do I do… I work mainly remotely on my computer… Facebook, website, newsletter, Fur Ball, Pet Page in the newspaper and make Becca Neff, Animal Health Manager, special dog/cat food for sick animals. This is the kind of heartbreaking story that makes you want to be part of the Paws vital team… Ginger, a dog approximately a year old, came to Paws extremely pregnant. She had been left behind when her owner moved, left stranded to wind up pregnant by who knows what. A neighbor brought her to us because she was worried about the pregnancy. She thought Ginger may have been bred by a nearby bulldog. Ginger is a dachshund mix, and lives in Becca Neff’s office so she could keep a close eye on her. As her delivery time was obviously get closer, she took her for x-rays at the hospital because she was worried the pups might be too big if the dad was a bulldog. The X-ray showed six pups and all looked good. One night, by herself, she valiantly had the pups with no problem. When Becca came in to work Ginger was so proud and happy to show off her accomplishment. She whined and whined… wagging her tail non-stop. She absolutely loves treats, although any food makes her happy. She is so sweet and wants to love on you, she also loves her belly rubbed. She wants a forever home!
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The Golden Rule
by John Hutcheson Pastor, Tabernacle Baptist Church
years before Christ, taught, “What you do not want done to yourself, do not do to others.” An ancient Egyptian papyrus dated 300 - 600 BC reads, “That which you hate to be done to you, do not do to another.” Rabbi Hillel, one of the more prominent religious leaders in Jewish history said, “What is hateful to you, do not do to your fellow.” These are just a few of many ancient examples.
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t’s March in Georgia, and that means many things. Spring is arriving on the calendar. Trees, flowers, grass, and other vegetation are waking up after a lengthy, cold winter and coming to life to reveal vibrant colors. It also means the Masters Golf Tournament is just around the corner! Can I get an Amen? This treasured tract of land in Augusta, considered to be sacred by many, is a breathtaking display of the vibrant colors and beauty of Spring. One of the many colors on display, both at Augusta National and here in the Northeast Georgia mountains, is the color yellow in many of its varieties, including golden yellow. When I hear the word golden, I often think of the Golden Rule – the maxim that has spanned millennia, cultures, and religions, and is also known as the law of reciprocity. We find it stated by Jesus in Matthew 7:12 when He says, “So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them….” This was not a new concept per se. It had been around for centuries before Christ and showed up in various forms across numerous religions. For example, Confucius, who lived 500
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So, the concept of the Golden Rule is not unique to Christianity. In fact, many people who don’t consider themselves Christian, or even religious at all, will typically try to operate by and commend this global ethic. But did you notice anything interesting about these examples listed? Each is expressed in the negative – “Do not do to others what you wouldn’t want done to you.” That is good as far as it goes, but it doesn’t go far enough. It is a call merely to avoid hurting or offending people, but it doesn’t call them to seek to help or be gracious and kind to people. Expressed negatively, it is not an act of love but of self-interest. “I won’t hurt you so you won’t hurt me.” That’s looking out for self, not the interests of others. Jesus comes along and tweaks it by stating it positively, “So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them.” And in so doing, He shows how His standard is so much higher than man’s standard. Jesus’ standard doesn’t just address the negative: don’t do the hurtful, offensive things to others you wouldn’t want done to you; but also the positive: do the kind, gracious things you want others to do for you. It’s not good enough just because we don’t do the things to
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others we wouldn’t want done to us. That doesn’t measure up to God’s standard. We must show the love God has shown to us. Which is easier, not doing things that are harmful to others, or initiating acts of kindness toward them? The story of the Good Samaritan found in Luke 10:30-35 illustrates this well. The robbers beat up the traveler, stole his belongings, and left him for dead. They violated the negative form of the Golden Rule – don’t do to others what you wouldn’t want done to you. Along come two religious men, first a priest and then a Levite. These were men whose lives were dedicated to serving the people of God through their ministry at the temple. They each see the traveler beaten, lying on the side of the road, his life hanging in the balance. And incredulously, they do nothing! In doing nothing, they violated the positive form of the Golden Rule, which mandated they should have stopped to help the victim because without a doubt, they would want someone to do that for them. The Samaritan comes along and fulfills the positive form of the Golden Rule by offering assistance: pouring oil and wine on his wounds, binding them up, and transporting him to an inn and paying for his care. That is the love and kindness to which Christ calls us in the Golden Rule. It really is an outworking of the second greatest commandment to love others in the way that we love ourselves (Matthew 22:39). And the only way to do that is to obey the greatest commandment to love God with all our heart, soul, and mind (Matthew 22:37). So, as you see the beautiful colors of Spring, particularly golden yellow, remember the Golden Rule. Ask God to help you to live it, not just the negative aspect, but most importantly, the positive.
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Prayer is Powerful
by Sharon Jaymes
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he prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.” James 5:16b (NIV) Allan was a tough man.
Raised by a single mom with five siblings, he learned to scrap his way through life by sheer determination and grit. He married at 19, had his first son at 20, then a baby girl at 25. Over the next two decades, he advanced from driving a lumberyard delivery truck to becoming part owner of a building supply company. Allan drank heavily, fought with his wife verbally and physically, and terrorized his children emotionally. He gambled, dabbled in pornography, and had questionable relationships laced with a host of unsavory vices. But when his teenage daughter gave her life to Jesus and began praying for her family, God grabbed the chisel of grace and began chipping away at Allan’s proud heart of stone. One day he told her, “I’ll go to church with you from time to time, but I could never become a Christian. I’ve done too many horrible things in my life. God could never forgive me. I could never be good enough.” His daughter explained no one could ever be “good enough.” If we could, then Jesus wouldn’t have needed to die on the cross to pay for our sins. But Allan couldn’t wrap his mind around that kind of grace. When Allan was 46 years old, his life took several troublesome turns. After a business deal went terribly wrong, he faced an ugly lawsuit. Allan teetered on the brink of a nervous breakdown. From his perspective, he was on the verge of losing it all. From God’s perspective, Allan was right where he needed to be. One day, in a panic, Allan drove from North Carolina to Pennsylvania, attempting to find his wife at a meeting she was attending. When he couldn’t find her, he stopped by a church and asked for prayer. The church receptionist drew Allan a map and sent him to find a pastor who was out in the woods building his new church. Allan followed the scrap-paper map and found a man with a hammer in his hand and Jesus in his heart. He told the pastor everything he’d ever done in his raucous life. Then the man put his arm around Allan and said, “Now, let me tell you what I’ve done.” The way Allan later explained what happened was this: “That man had done everything I had done. I knew if God could forgive him and he could be a pastor, then He could forgive me, too.” 46
Allan accepted Jesus as his Lord and Savior that day in the woods of Pennsylvania and became one of the sweetest men I’ve ever known. Allan was my dad. From my earliest years as a Christian, I experienced the power of prayer to change a man’s life — to strengthen a man’s resolve, protect his heart and grow his faith. Today’s key verse reminds us of just that: “The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective” (James 5:16b). My firsthand encounter with God’s faithfulness to hear our pleas for the men in our lives began with my father, and continues with my husband and son. If you’re married, you have the power to open the floodgates of heaven through your prayers on behalf of your spouse. Whether your husband doesn’t know Jesus yet, has a fledgling faith, or lives a fiery, firm faith, there’s no one more qualified to pray for his relationship with Christ than you. No matter where your mate is on the continuum of faithlessness to faithfulness, you can pray with faith — “the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen” (Hebrews 11:1b, NASB). Today, let’s pray for husbands. If you’re single, then use this guide to pray for the important men in your life. Dear Lord, I pray for ________________. His Shoulders — No matter what my husband goes through today, assure him that nothing is too hard for You. Empower him to cut cords of worry with the saber of praise and to place his burdens on Your able shoulders. (Genesis 18:14; Deuteronomy 31:8; Psalm 9:10) His Heart — Place a hedge of protection around his heart to keep corruption out and purity in.(Proverbs 4:23; Proverbs 17:20; Proverbs 17:22) His Back — Protect him in the physical and spiritual realms. Keep him from the devil’s schemes that might trap him or trip him up. Thank You that no weapon formed against him will stand.(John 10:10; 2 Corinthians 2:11; Ephesians 6:10-18) His Arms — Help my husband be strong and courageous in Your mighty power. Bolster his courage when he’s afraid, and reassure him when he doubts. (Deuteronomy 31:6; Joshua 1:9; Isaiah 30:15)
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His Hands — Bless the work of my husband’s hands. Reward his efforts and bring him success.(Deuteronomy 33:11; Deuteronomy 28:12-13) Lord, I lift up __________________ to You today. In Jesus’ Name, Amen. Used by permission of the author. This article taken from Praying for Your Husband from Head to Toe: A Daily Guide to Scriptural Prayer To learn more about Sharon Jaynes books, blog, and speaking, visit www.sharonjaynes.com
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Bless Your Heart H
ey, it’s Lisa and this month I have the privilege of sharing a story. It’s a story of faith, perseverance, and clinging to the cross. It’s the story of my 42-yearold niece whose unwavering faith gave her life. With her husband Troy, and daughters Morgan (15), Molly (9) and Makenna (4). This is Kay’s heart-felt story of God’s grace & mercy.
FATHER, SHOW ME YOUR GLORY
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he paper was rigid as I pulled it from the large envelope. I wasn’t going to read the entire report. After all, my cousin Crystal, a Physician’s Assistant who was helping me get all my files together, told me, “Don’t read it…I don’t want you to get upset.” But, there it was in black and white print, a diagnosis of Metastatic Melanoma. How, what, where, and why? How could this pathology report that I was now holding in my trembling hands have my own name in big, bold print on the top? How could it be referencing my own body. I was in perfect health I thought, handling the demands of being a wife and mother of three beautiful girls, a full-time job, activities, and caring for my ailing mother. How could this be happening to ME? I am the one that cares for others before myself. The one that doesn’t want to impose on others or be the subject of attention. The final diagnosis after weeks of baffling doctors since no primary mole, suspicious spot, or discoloration could be found. Weeks of uncertainty, questions, tears, and most of all prayers that the biopsy would not show any type of cancer. But, it did.
bended knees, I pleaded with God. I promised to be God’s chosen vessel to bring honor to His name, but PLEASE spare me for my girls. My baby (Makenna) was only 3 years old. I wanted her to remember me. I wanted to be here to see them graduate, to see them on their wedding day, to see my grandchildren. I am not ready to die…I want to live! There in the quietness of the bedroom, I heard the Lord speaking clearly to my anguished spirit, “Kay, the doctors may be dismayed; but I am NOT. I have already gone before you preparing the way. Fear not, I will be with you throughout this journey, but you have to trust me.” Was I really trusting Him completely or was I placing stipulations on my trust, only if He would spare me? How could I be of so little faith? God is the only one I could count on, trust, my only true source of hope. Jesus did not conquer the cross by placing specifications. He died on the cross for us all so that we might not only be save, but also be healed in Jesus name. “By whose stripes ye were healed” 1 Peter 2:24.
There, I said it…I have been diagnosed with cancer. That day seemed to stand still, the days before my middle daughter’s ninth birthday. From that point on everything was a whirlwind. More tests, more scans, more blood work, more doctor visits. So much more than I thought I could handle. We did not have time to waste or even really think about what was happening to our family, or what the weeks and months ahead would bring. A referral to a larger hospital was made and my first major surgery was planned in a few weeks. Medical leave papers for work were completed and signed, but how could this still be happening? I was rarely sick or out, other than for the needs of my girls. We had to get ready to brace ourselves for a long fight.
The initial surgery to remove the lymph node mass, as well as additional lymph nodes in the pelvic region as a precaution, was completed on October 24, 2016, on my oldest daughters 14th birthday. Surgery went well to remove the known malignancy. I was so relieved to have the surgery behind me. I remember counting the number of stitches down my left leg over and over. Was it a coincidence that I had 39 stitches, the same number of lashes that Jesus endured before the cross so that I could be healed? This was my first sign that God would heal me if I trusted him. God knew that I needed a sign. I would suffer from loss of feeling from my hip to my left knee due to nerve damage. I knew I may also have permanent lymphedema in that leg, but oh how blessed I was to have that cancerous mass out of my body, where the enemy was seeking to destroy me.
I remember one day most vividly. After having a brain MRI early one morning, we arrived home and I went into my oldest daughter’s room and there on her bed was her bible opened to Isaiah 41:10, highlighted, “Fear thou not; for I AM with thee, be not dismayed; for I AM thy God; I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness.” I literally fell on my knees. Immeasurable tears began to flow, followed by guttural cries for help to our only source of hope, Almighty God above. There, beside the bed on
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Weeks of recovery would pass and the pathology report from surgery would indicate additional malignancy in the pelvic area lymph nodes. More scans would determine other nodules in my liver and chest areas. By this point, I was beginning to experience pains in my rib area, as well as lower back. Shooting pains down my compromised leg would almost paralyze me with excruciating pain. I could barely walk
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without crying out in tremendous pain. We would meet with the oncologist in Atlanta only to be told, “You now qualify for the newer treatment, which will only slow it down.” The walls were closing in and I could barely breathe. I looked at my husband Troy in disbelief, “How could this be happening? How did it get worse? How would we tell our girls? How?” I’m not sure how I walked out of the hospital that day, but I do know that Troy and I were not alone. God was with us that day and every day to come. I gripped my Bible the entire trip home. God’s word was my only source of true comfort, strength, and hope. “If ye abide in me, and my words abide in you, ye shall ask what ye will, and it shall be done unto you.” John 15:7.
not know how BIG! The only area that had not responded to treatment was on the liver, which could be removed, or other options were discussed like radiation or possibly maintenance treatments. God had truly performed a miracle.
By the grace of God, I have a cousin that is an amazing Pediatric Cardiologist who had connections with MD Anderson Cancer Center in Texas. I was able to get in within a week (which is unheard of) with the leading Melanoma Oncologist in the United States, who also lectures worldwide. We packed and flew to Texas to meet with him to just review my case. He came in to the room and we discussed all my reports and then he nonchalantly responded, “You are 41 and we are here to cure you for another 50 years.” That’s when we knew God had led us right where we needed to be. I felt just like Moses being led into the promised land. Overwhelming peace flooded over my mind, heart and soul.
We traveled back to Houston in late May 2017 for new scans and to meet with my oncologist. The scans indicated that the area on the liver had grown and showed an area on the tail of the pancreas and both adrenal glands. My oncologist referred me to a liver surgeon at MD Anderson. He advised two major surgeries, one to focus on the liver, and the other on the pancreas. In mid-June 2017, I had surgery to remove 60% of my liver, half of my right adrenal gland, and my gallbladder. Surgery went very well and were blessed to come home a week after surgery.
This is when the race really began. I underwent all new scans in a matter of days and a liver biopsy to confirm melanoma. The evening after my biopsy, I began my first round of a combined immunotherapy regimen, which had only been developed in the last few years, to treat advanced stage 4 Metastatic Melanoma. I remember asking to see my PET scan and they were truly reluctant to show it to me. But, I pleaded with them. I quickly realized why they were reluctant, my body looked like a dot-to-dot drawing, for the melanoma had spread to my liver, lung, chest, skeletal spine, ribs, breast, leg, arm, and small area on the brain. I responded, “My God just has a bigger miracle to perform!” My husband and the PA were at a loss for words. But, I knew without a doubt, that God had laid this path, a path led by divine intervention.
Despite a couple of weeks of rest, my liver enzymes began to rise above normal levels. Then, my pancreatic enzymes began to rise, also further indicating that my body had taken a toll from treatments. I began to get tremendously sick and it was determined that I had pancreatitis. My local oncologist started me on a strong regimen of steroids to counter the effects of the pancreatitis. Weeks went by trying to get my enzyme levels to a normal range to begin maintenance treatments.
“And the Lord, he is that cloth that goes before thee; he will be with thee; he will not fail thee; neither forsake thee; fear not, neither be dismayed: Deuteronomy 31:18. I had started back on a new type of immunotherapy in late July and had
I underwent all four rounds of treatment on schedule, which were very toxic, due to the combined regimen. Most patients do not get past three rounds without complications. But, I knew that it was God that carried me in His strong arms. I was often reminded of the precious childhood song, “Jesus loves me this I know…they are weak, but He is strong.” I have never felt His presence more in my life. On February 22, 2017, we traveled back to Houston for new scans and to meet with my oncologist. I knew God was going to show out, but I just did
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not been feeling well since. I thought the pancreatitis may be brewing again. We were on our way to Houston and I became very sick again. I was not sure if I could make the flight. But, by the grace of God, I made it to Houston and my pancreatic enzymes were the highest they had ever been. The decision was made to stop treatments and allow my body to heal before doing new scans. I was so sick. But, I was determined to get better. I was NOT going to let my circumstances define or limit me! New scans were scheduled for mid-September, two weeks after Hurricane Harvey had devastated Texas with torrential flooding. Our original flight was cancelled due to Hurricane Irma that was projected to hit our area. We were blessed to catch an earlier flight to Houston. I was also reminded that in life we are always either traveling into a storm, in the midst of a storm, or coming out of a storm. But, one thing is for sure…we know a Savior that still walks on water. “Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. I all thy ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct thy path.” Proverbs 3:5-6. God laid these verses heavily on my heart during my scans. It was not intended for us to understand everything fully as God’s plan is always higher than ours and He will direct our path if we allow Him to do so. My PET scan now showed a new malignancy on the thyroid which would now need to be removed in addition to the area on the pancreas and left adrenal gland. Surgery was planned for mid-October 2017 to allow enough time to fully recover from the pancreatitis. Even though my circumstances
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had changed, my God had not. On Sunday before my last surgery, our church choir sang, “God is on the Move.” I found it no coincidence that this same song was playing on the radio the morning of my amazing scans in February. This showed just how BIG our God is. On October 17, 2017, I had part two of that surgery in Houston to remove the diseased areas on the tail of the pancreas, left adrenal gland, and thyroid. I was at complete peace before surgery, trusting God for my complete and ultimate healing. I knew “God would be on the Move.” My sister Kim and brother-inlaw Brad, and his best friend traveled to meet Troy and I for support in Houston. My Dad and stepmom would stay at our house to take care of our girls for the week. It was so hard to leave them…we miss our girls so much each time we were in Houston. Surgery went well. It took much longer, but they were able to remove the area on the tail of the pancreas and left adrenal gland without having to take my spleen. It was also decided to take the entire thyroid gland as precaution, since treatment had also damaged the left side of the thyroid. I would be placed on a restricted diet and my blood glucose level monitored closely since they had removed 30% of the pancreas. But overall, I was so relieved to have this surgery behind me. The night after my surgery was the hardest since my journey began. The heart rate monitor kept going off and the nurse would rush in telling me I needed to relax and calm down. But, the enemy kept trying to invade my thoughts. I literally
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felt as if Satan and the Lord were in battle over me. Satan kept reminding me how hard this battle was going to continue to be: the pain from surgery, further treatments, the stress on my family, the enormous burden emotionally of being diagnosed with cancer. I was the most frightened I had ever been in my life. Then, in the stillness of that night, in Acute Care Unit, I literally rd felt God touch my forehead and speak the 23 Psalm over me. He IS my Good Shepherd and I should “Fear no evil.” Praise God He is always there when His children need him. “Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil; for thou are with me. Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies (Satan and cancer); thou annointest my head with oil (I was anointed by two dear women of God with His healing and divine oil)” Psalm 23:45. I am here to tell you that GOD IS REAL and ever present in our time of trouble if we listen and trust His voice. I about had a Baptist Shouting Fit! It was the longest night of my life. Then the next morning, a new nurse came in my room. She was wearing an unusual cross necklace. I felt God urging me to ask about the cross over and over. In obedience, I asked, “Your cross necklace is beautiful.” That was all it took. The nurse smiled in the most beautiful way and immediately replied, “It is my Saint Benedict cross that means Satan Go Away.” I immediately burst into tears. I knew this was further reassurance that He was right there with me and that Satan had no control over me unless I allowed him. Jesus had already overcome the world by enduring the cross. He had already paid the ultimate price for my healing. “By whose stripes I am Healed” 1 Peter 2:24. Glory! Healing already belonged to me if I accepted and believed in Jesus Christ. I cannot tell you how much seeing that cross necklace meant to me, further reassurance from my Savior and Lord Jesus Christ. I was reminded of the old hymn song, “Trust and obey, for there’s no other way, to be happy in Jesus, but to trust and obey.” These precious words written by John H. Sammis in 1887 still ring so true and gave me such comfort that day after my surgery. I was so emotional and kept telling Troy about my night and urging him to put these signs from God into my phone. I did not want to forget one thing about that night, including the rainbow I saw on the wall further reminding me of God’s promise. I have such an amazing husband who has cared for me in ways he should not have to. Bless him, I try not to forget about the huge burden he had to carry for our family, physically, emotionally, and financially. We have grown so much during this journey and truly learned what the vows, “In sickness and in health mean.” He is my soulmate, the one who will always have my heart. We were able to return home one week after my pancreas surgery, the day before Morgan’s 15th birthday. It was probably a little early to return home, but I had to get home before her birthday. It was the only present she really asked for was her parents to be home to celebrate her special day. I told the doctors that I was feeling alright even though I knew something was not quite right. I was so weak, weaker than I had been for my liver surgery. It was all I could do to walk a small distance.
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I felt like a robot when I walked, very stiff and mechanical of sorts. It took me forever to do the smallest of tasks. I could barely even brush my teeth. Two days later, my sister Kim and best friend persuaded me to go to the Emergency Room. It was like my motor skills were impaired. I really thought I may have had a small stroke. My medical team in Houston were consulted, lab tests and scans done. Thankfully, it was concluded that I was having side effects from one of my medicines from surgery along with an infection that could be treated. I was so relieved. Oh, how God had carried me these last few weeks. Just like he says in His word, “He is our refuge and our strength.” Two days before Thanksgiving, we traveled back to Houston for new scans. On November 22, 2017, we heard the news that we all had prayed for, believed, and claimed. My scans were clean without further evidence of metastatic melanoma. Hearing the doctors mention having a clean slate, being CANCER FREE, and my first clean PET scan in over a year brought me to my knees and tears of triumphant joy! Giving God also the glory for His faithfulness. I celebrated this past Thanksgiving and Christmas with a renewed spirit, body and mind. He is a Good, Good Father! My heart overflowed that day and has every day since. While this has been the hardest year for my family, it has also been the most blessed year of my life. For I truly learned how to LIVE…I don’t sweat the small stuff, I tell everyone how much I love them and I’m living life to the fullest. Go on the trip you have been wanting to go on (we have a Disney cruise planned.) We put God first, for He deserves our very best, and realize we are not promised tomorrow but we can live today! My daughter, Morgan, said it best in her Instagram post announcing that “This Thanksgiving is a special one because today MY MOM IS CANCER FREE!” This journey had taught me many things but here are the three that I think are most important. #1 Find your people and love them. Love them in the good times, troubled times, challenging times, and best times. They’re what keeps you going. #2 Never ever take anything for granted. Lives can change in a heartbeat, appreciate what you have. #3 Always lean on God’s promises. Even in the hardest times, He will show His mercy, grace and PERFECTION. This journey has been such a humbling experience. Mainly because my relationship with God has grown in dramatic ways. I have learned to listen for His presence in the quiet times, and in the lullabies of the birds, the yellow butterfly, the radiance of a gorgeous sunset and in the beautiful smile of each of my girls. He is with me ALWAYS and I promise, “I will praise you lord, with all my heart; I will tell of all the marvelous things you have done.” Psalms 9:1 ALWAYS!
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Live Healthy and Be Well! “Cholesterol facts and information” Stephen Jarrard, MD, FACS
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he month of March is always a good time, it seems. The hard grasp of winter loosens, and we get hints of the spring, summer, and fall ahead. This month, I’d like to start the first of a two or possibly three-part series on cholesterol. I have spoken to many of you about this over the past year or two and know there are a lot of concerns. We hear about it all the time. It is blamed for much, yet what is it really and what should we do about it? How high is high? Should we treat it if high, and how should we do that? These questions and more I hope to address as we start to enter this beautiful time of renewal and freshness. At the very beginning we should state that cholesterol itself is not only “not all bad,” it is necessary for life. You could not live, let alone function, without a good amount of it in your body. Dr. Stephen Sinatra, a prominent cardiologist from California, tells us that “…it is a basic raw material made by your liver, brain, and almost every cell in your body.” It can be converted by enzymes into many useful and needed chemical substances, such as Vitamin D, various steroids, sex hormones, bile salts for digesting fats, and is a major part of the membrane of every cell in your body. Cholesterol allows your cells to function without a cell wall (found in plants) and gives them the ability to adapt to different conditions readily and change shape rapidly.
Most of the cholesterol produced in your body comes from the liver, about 75%. The other 25% is absorbed from your diet by the gut, and a small amount is produced by other cells. It is recycled by your body. It is a key component of bile produced by your liver and stored in your gallbladder. When you eat fatty foods, it is secreted to help break down the fats, so your bowel can absorb them as a nutrient. The cholesterol portion of the bile salts is then re-absorbed in the distal small intestine. This information tells us how important cholesterol is to our life – it is key to many functions, necessary for our being, and your body does not let it be wasted. So then, how has cholesterol become such an enemy to health and wellness? Your doctor likely checks your lipid levels occasionally and may recommend treatment if your cholesterol is elevated. You are then likely counseled to avoid high cholesterol foods, reduce red meat and such, and try to adopt and follow a “healthier diet.” In some cases, a medicine may be prescribed for you to take that will help lower your cholesterol levels to what are thought to be “normal” levels (e.g., total cholesterol less than 200). I am not disputing this advice or saying it is wrong at all – there is a good basis to respect and try to manage high cholesterol levels. The main reason is that we know cholesterol is also main component of fatty plaques that can develop in blood vessels – mainly in the arteries where they may line the walls and reduce the amount of blood flow. Should this blood flow be interrupted in an artery of your heart, that will lead to a heart attack. If it happens in or on the
Within the cell, cholesterol helps with the transport and conduction of communication signals between and among cells. The nerve cells of your body, known as neurons, could not conduct efficient communication of their impulses without the “wrapping” of the cholesterol rich myelin sheath. Think of it as the rubber insulation that surrounds a copper wire. There are certain conditions in which “demyelination” of this sheath is a key factor, such as multiple sclerosis, cognitive and motor dysfunction, and it may well contribute to poor memory or memory loss.
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way to your brain, that could lead to a stroke. Both these events can be life ending at most, and life changing at the very least – so we have to be duly concerned about plaque formation. However, we now think that there are more factors involved with plaque formation than just your cholesterol level. Inflammation in your body, your factors of metabolism (such as thyroid issues, diabetes, and high blood pressure), and there is always a role of genetics and inherited factors. When your doctor reviews your lipid panel, you will note there are two types of cholesterol usually mentioned. High Density Lipoprotein (HDL) is commonly referred to as “good cholesterol,” while the Low Density type (LDL) is often given the “bad cholesterol” label. Your total cholesterol is obtained by adding your HDL, LDL, and VLDL (very low density) levels, and is recommended to be under 200. HDL is considered normal above 40, and LDL is normal below 100. But, what do these numbers really mean? We think of HDL being “good,” because this substance can counteract and compensate for “bad” cholesterol. Think of an HDL particle as a magnet, and LDL as small iron beads. The HDL can actually draw up the LDL to it, and then carry it away. In this manner, it can prevent or even reduce the size of plaques on your artery walls. So, if your total cholesterol is high because your bad cholesterol is high, and your good cholesterol is low – this may merit consideration of some treatment or at least diet control. But, if your total cholesterol is high because you are fortunate to have a lot of good cholesterol, this may not be as alarming of a situation. Next month we will start to examine what to do about high cholesterol, whether or not it needs to be treated in all cases, and the ups and downs of statin drugs as a treatment option. A great controversy has developed over these medicines, and many of you have heard or even experienced some of the adverse effects. I would appreciate hearing any of your experiences, positive or negative, to add to my information list. We really do enjoy hearing from you with any questions, concerns, or ideas for future columns and/or health and wellness related issues for the Georgia Mountain Laurel. Please send an email to rabundoctor@gmail.com, or call us at 706.782.3572, and we will be sure to consider your input. This and previous articles can be now be found on the web at www.rabundoctor.com in an archived format. If you use Twitter, then follow us for health tips and wellness advice @rabundoctor. Until next month, live healthy and be well!
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Bo n Appetit ‘
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arch has arrived, but not tropical temperatures; we’ve been teased. I can remember having snow as late as April! Hopefully these recipes will warm you up until warmer days arrive. These soups are hearty enough that they just need a loaf of French bread or a pan of hot cornbread.
Cheesy Vegetable Chowder Serves 6 – 8
10 Slices bacon, chopped 1 Cup chopped onion 1 Cup chopped carrots 1 Vegetable broth 2 1/2 Cups diced potatoes 3 Cups milk 1 Can whole kernel corn, drained 3 Cups shredded Cheddar cheese 3 Tablespoons plain flour Salt and pepper to taste Cook bacon until brown in Dutch oven or large pot. Remove bacon and set aside. In pan with drippings, cook onion until tender.
Mushroo m & Onio n Soup Serves 8 – 10
Add bacon, carrots, broth, and potatoes; bring to a boil. Reduce heat, cover and simmer 20 – 25 minutes or until potatoes are tender.
2 Pounds fresh mushrooms, sliced
Stir in milk and corn.
1 Clove garlic, minced
Combine cheese with flour, tossing until cheese is well coated.
1/2 Cup melted butter or margarine
Add to soup and stir until cheese melts.
2 Tablespoons tomato paste
1 Large onion, thinly sliced
6 Cans chicken broth 1/4 Cup grated Parmesan cheese 1 Cup dry white wine or 1/2 Cup apple cider 2 Teaspoons salt 1/2 Teaspoon black pepper Sauté mushrooms, onion, and garlic in butter in Dutch oven until onion is tender. Stir in tomato paste and simmer for about 1 minute. Add broth, cheese, wine (or cider), salt, and pepper; simmer 1 hour. 60
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Sausage Po tato Soup Serves 6 – 8
1 Pound pork sausage 5 Cups sliced potatoes 2 Medium onions, sliced 1 1/2 Cups chicken broth 1 1/2 Teaspoon salt 1/2 Cup Chopped celery 3 Tablespoons chopped parsley 2 1/2 – 3 Cups milk Cook sausage, stirring to break up, until browned. Drain and set aside. Combine potatoes, onion, broth, salt, and celery in a Dutch oven; cover and bring to a boil. Reduce heat and simmer for 20 – 25 minutes or until potatoes are tender. Add sausage, parsley and milk. Heat until soup simmers.
Okra Chowder Serves 8 – 10
12 Slices bacon, chopped 1 Medium onion, chopped 1 Bell pepper, chopped 4 Cups sliced okra 1 16-Ounce can whole tomatoes, undrained cut into pieces 1 Cup canned beans – lima, pinto or navy, drained 1 Cup canned (drained) or frozen corn 1 Teaspoon salt 1/2 Teaspoon parsley 2 Cups chicken broth Fry bacon in Dutch oven until limp; add onion and green pepper and cook until vegetables are tender. Add okra, tomatoes, beans, corn, salt, parsley, and broth. Simmer, covered, 30 minutes. gmlaurel.com
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Family Table by Lorie R. Thompson
ou can never trust the weather in March! Any given day could bring Winter or Spring weather. Or, you could have a taste of both in the same day! Rabun County has seen some of it’s largest snowfalls in March. The blizzard of 1993 was unforgettable! Some years in March, we plant our spring greens and get a nice head start on Spring gardening. Other years we huddle inside and dream of warmer days. I have always heard ‘If March comes in like a lion it goes out like a lamb”. So, here is to hoping for a few rough days early in the month and that Spring is just around the corner!
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Yesterday was a fine, warm February day. These have been rare this year. I was able to leave my doors and windows open for a bit and “air” the house out. I felt the promise of Spring and oh boy, did it feel good! Rain moved in overnight and the temperatures plunged. So, tonight’s supper will be an easy made Mexican stew called Pozole and homemade Jalapeño Cornbread. Really good Mexican food is at the top of my favorite foods list. My Sister-in-love, Ruth learned how to make homemade Tex-Mex food while living on an Army base in Texas when my brother, Cannon was on tour in Viet Nam. So, homemade tortillas, beans, enchiladas, Chili Roja, and more have always been regular features at our family get-togethers. I have taken my love for Mexican food and incorporated it into my regular family meals. Let me share my southern version of Mexican Pozole with you. Pozole can be made with pork or chicken. It features hominy, which is corn that has been through a process using lye or lime. It is nutritionally very good for you as it 62
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contains B vitamins that are easily metabolized and it tastes good! Pozole is economical, easy to make and sure to warm up a cool March evening. For the Pozole begin by peeling off the dry husk and rinsing 2 pounds of tomatillos. These are sold at Walmart or Ingles. Look for firm fruit with dry, papery, green to a brown husk. Cut the tomatillos in half and reserve. Rough chop 1 large or 2 medium yellow onions. Pour 1 T of olive oil into a large boiler. Sautee onions for 3-5 minutes over medium heat. Add tomatillos along with 1 rough chopped jalapeño pepper, and 6-8 garlic cloves. Add 3-4 red chili peppers and a couple of gmlaurel.com
Guajillo Chiles. If you don’t have these and don’t want to buy them, add 1 T of Chile powder. Add 8 chicken thighs with the skin and extra fat removed. (****Don’t throw away the chicken skin!*****) Add 1 T of Kosher salt along with 32 ounces of chicken stock and 32 ounces of water . Cook on medium heat for 1.5 hours. Remove chicken thighs to a sheet pan to cool. Strain out most of the vegetable chunks and place in a blender or food processor along with 1 cup of fresh cilantro leaves. (washed and stemmed) and the juice from one half of a lime. Pulse until smooth and add back to pot. Remove the chicken thighs from the bone and add back to the stew.. Drain a 25 ounce can of hominy and add to the stew. Taste and add more salt if needed. This stew is wonderful alone but it really shines with the addition of some simple garnishes. Very thinly sliced cabbage and radishes are wonderful in this. Place them in the bottom of your bowl and spoon the stew over the top. You can add avocado, cilantro, jalapeños, and Queso Fresco. I am happy with just the cabbage and the radishes. I often place the radishes in a bowl with a few teaspoons of white wine vinegar and let them “pickle” while the stew cooks. They really do take this stew over the top. If you really want to WOW your family, take those leftover chicken skins and put them in a heavy skillet over low heat and let them render out to make a “cracklin’”. Cook them very slowly and turn often. Lightly salt them after removing from the pan. Serve this as the final garnish on top of your bowl of stew! Now for what might be at the top of my last-meal wishlist ; Jalapeño Cornbread! gmlaurel.com
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This is reserved for special occasions and when we “really need something good to eat” treat at my house. It is fattening like a rich dessert, but it is worth it! For convenience sake, I use Yelton’s self-rising corn meal that has leavening agents already in it. My favorite corn meal “ mix” is Martha White Buttermilk Mix , but it has flour in it. if you or your family eat Gluten-free, try the Yelton’s selfrising. You will need a heavy cast iron skillet for this bread. Pre-heat your oven to 450 degrees. In a mixing bowl add 1.5 Cups of corn meal mix with 1.5 cups of whole buttermilk. Mix well. Add 1 - 1.5 cup of your choice of cheese. I used aged White Cheddar. Add 1 C of sliced “med” pickled jalapeños peppers. (These are not hot at all!) Heat your black iron skillet with 1/2 c of vegetable oil until the oil is very hot. Pour almost all the oil into the cornbread mix, reserving 1-2 T in the skillet. Stir the cornbread mix to incorporate the oil. Put 2 tsp of cornmeal into the skillet and swirl around in the remaining oil until the entire skillet bottom is covered. Pour in cornbread mix and let it sizzle. Place the hot pan into the hot oven and cook for approximately 25 minutes. The cornbread will be brown on the top and should be cooked completely through. Don’t overcook it! The middle will be a little gooey because of the cheese. Just make certain it is fairly solid. Test with a knife. Remove from the oven and run a knife around the edges to make certain it is not sticking. Invert on a plate and eat alongside the Pozole. Lorie R. Thompson is a native of Rabun County and is employed at RE/MAX of Rabun. She has been in the real estate business for most of her life. Lorie is known for her expertise in the kitchen, her giving heart and awesome family. She would love to hear from you when you try the recipes. You can reach Lorie at LorieThompson@windstream.net
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f you have dreamed of owning waterfront property in the mountains this is the home for you. This two story home is the only one poised waterfront in the Sylvan Falls community. Built in the early 80s the home sits on better than a half acre. It has three bedrooms and two baths, central heat and air and gas logs. The kitchen boasts granite counter tops, custom cabinets and hardwoods that are throughout the home. The living room’s cathedral ceilings, chair rail and rock fireplace create a country feel to the home.
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The porches that wrap around three sides and overlook the lake would likely become a prime spot in this home. This lake is known for the geese and ducks that gather there. Sure to entertain. The location offers mountain views and the community is a private subdivision sitting near Wolffork Valley. Centrally located between Dillard and Clayton, Georgia. This one is a perfect starter home, second home or primary residence for a family. The home’s furnishings can be negotiated in the sale. Call or email Sam Rumsey at RE/MAX of Rabun for more details. Cell:706.982.9673 Office: 706.782.7133 Email: samrumsey66@gmail.com
“The goal in marriage is not to think alike, but to think together.” Robert C. Dodds
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Ready To Build Your Mountain Home? Think Local!
GEORGIA MOUNTAIN HOME BUILDERS ASSOCIATION
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oing your homework will help you have a more successful experience.
We advocate and can not impress enough that choosing a local builder may well be your best option. There are many things that set the mountains apart from the rest of the state but the most important one you need to consider is how the terrain affects building a home. Local builders and contractors are aware of these challenges and are adequately prepared to address them. A home’s foundation is the material that supports everything above and inside it. But what about the support system to the foundation itself? The soil below and around a home is essentially the foundation of the foundation. Each type of soil has different properties which can influence the way a home’s foundation is supported. Knowing what kinds of soils these are and which one your house sits atop may allow your professional to catch problems even before they arise and cost you a lot of money. Sure, soil analysis is imperative but what if you were confident that the person building your dream home was working on your behalf utilizing knowledge gained through first hand experience. The Georgia Mountain Home Builders Association’s members are some of the area’s finest in the building industry. Local builders rely on happy customers. Your ability to interact with members of the GMHBA is invaluable. With a local builder, the representatives and crew building your home are based nearby. A quality contractor or builder is checking daily on the process to ensure the work meets their standards and the integrity of their company’s mission. Often a local builder has more control over costs and overhead and are likely going to provide you with a greater value. As with any local product, when you spend money in your community, it helps support the area. Although the scale is larger than buying produce from local farmers or eating at a nearby family owned restaurant, home building is no different. When you hire a local builder, you’re helping support local jobs and industry, which strengthens your town and neighborhood. Use this checklist to help you select a home builder or home remodeler to work on or build your home:
• Contact your local home builders’ association for the names of member builders and remodelers, home service pros and their affiliates : www.georgiamountainhba.com • Make sure the contractor, builder or home remodeler has a permanent business location and a good reputation with local banks and suppliers. • Find out how long they have been in the building business. It usually takes three to five years to establish a financially sound business. You want to make sure they will be around after the construction is complete to service any warranties. • Check out the company’s rating and if there have been any complaints filed with your local Better Business Bureau: www. bbb.org. • Make sure the professional you choose has sufficient workers’ compensation and general liability insurance. If not, you may be liable for any construction-related accidents on your premises. • Ask them to provide you with names of previous customers. If they won’t, beware. If they do, contact the customers to ask if they would hire the contractor, builder/remodeler again. • Ask if you can see the company’s work, both completed and in progress. Check for quality of workmanship and materials. • Do you feel you can easily communicate with the company you are considering? Remember you will be in close contact with them throughout the construction process and afterward as you live in your new home. • Make sure they provide you with a complete and clearly written contract. The contract will benefit both of you. If you are having a new home built, get and review a copy of the home warranty and homeowner manual as well. • Be cautious of unusually low-priced bids. If the builder/ remodeler is unable to pay for the materials and labor as the project proceeds, this may indicate a potential problem. Keep in mind that less expensive does not necessarily mean better! • Be certain that the builder/contractor you choose is licensed by the state. All of GMHBA’s members are state licensed. You can look for licensure at http://verify.sos.ga.gov . For member information please contact GMHBA at 706.782.9260 or visit their website at http://www. georgiamountainhba.com.
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Harry Norman REALTORS ÂŽ Luxury Lake and Mountains Camp WigWam on Lake Rabun
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amp WigWam is a 3,269 square foot custom home located on the shore of Lake Rabun. The home exemplifies fine craftsmanship with remarkable timber frame details throughout. Living rooms are made for families to gather, and the 2-story main living space in this home is no exception. The stacked stone fireplace is the focal point of this room with cedar log mantel. Shades of khaki, cool sage, and dark red clay are used on drywall in places accenting the wood, creating a perfect balance. The laurel handrails that lead you up the stairs to the sleeping quarters bring the outdoors inside. The covered porches are an extension of the main house and the perfect setting for sharing stories with friends over coffee or cocktails. The kitchen is designed for entertaining and includes custom cabinetry in rich warm cherry tones, granite counter tops, and a chef’s quality stainless steel gas range. Imagine gathering with friends and preparing scrumptious meals while enjoying the lake and mountain views. The 4 bedrooms and 4.5 bathrooms are designed to give guests comfort and privacy. A master on the main level offers beautiful views of the lake and mountains. The claw foot tub and walk-in tiled showers in the master bath welcome relaxation. The partially finished lower level offers space for another bedroom and bath, recreation room, and wet bar if completed. Some may call it the ideal place for a man cave! Gentle stairs lead to the lakefront and 2-story, 2-stall boat house with stone fireplace and screened living area. The protected cove offers a safe place to swim. The expanded grounds offer a creek with a small waterfall surrounded by native rhododendrons and hardwoods. This home welcomes you to comfortable mountain and lake living. 70
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It is offered for sale through Harry Norman Realtors® Luxury Lake and Mountain. The listing listing agent is Michael McGaughey of the firm’s Lake Team. If you’d like a tour of this gorgeous home please call 706.715.5550 or 706.212.0228. You may also take a closer look at www.lake-burton-rabun. com by searching MLS#:8321383
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By the Way…
Why I switched to ‘66 by Emory Jones
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ntil recently, I thought— and proudly proclaimed—that 1965 should hold the “Best Year Ever” title. Lots of folks feel that way. After all, 1965 was the year we first saw Bonanza in color. Plus, Bill Shoemaker won the Kentucky Derby on Lucky Debonair that year, and NBC introduced My Mother the Car. It starred Jerry Van Dyke and featured a 1928 Porter that could talk.
Why my change of heart? Well, I’ll admit to some personal bias. Even though Shoemaker came in 5th that year, the Derby fell on my birthday. Nobody forgets a thing like that, although you do forget the horse that came in fifth. I got my driver’s license in 1966, saw a movie on the big screen and had my first kiss, although, believe it or not, none of those are related. Also, I didn’t see that movie in a theater; Old man Stover just projected it on the side of his barn, but you don’t know what fear is ‘til you’ve seen Psycho on barn wood.
Someone invented Astroturf and Gatorade in 1965. I don’t think it was the same person, but I’m not sure because I was too head-over-heels in love with Annette Funicello, Petula Clark, and Nancy Sinatra to pay attention.
Another thing in 1966’s favor is that Astroturf was not invented that year. However, Texans did declare Houston’s new Astrodome to be the Eighth Wonder of World. They also declared the Alamo to be number seven, but that’s just Texans for you, bless their hearts.
I still allow that 1965 was a mighty fine year but, after considerable thought, reflection, and a review of my high school yearbook, I now believe 1966 deserves the “Best Year Ever” title.
Another reason 1966 deserves the “Best Year Ever” title is because that’s the first time they broadcast The Miss America contest in color, shattering the myth that bathing suits only come in black and white. It’s personal bias again, but 1966 is when I fell in love with Pattie Duke, Dolly Parton, and a local girl named Barb Dwyer. Barb Dwyer’s daddy kept her fenced-in pretty close, so, unfortunately, she wasn’t involved in that first kiss thing either. Another thing that helps put 1966 over the top is that it’s the year NBC picked to CANCEL My Mother the Car. The idea of a talking car was so ridiculous that everybody changed channels to watch Mr. Ed. Now I know older people will disagree with me about 1966. That crowd won’t vote for it simply because of The Beetles. They always root for 1948 or—heaven forbid—1949. I wasn’t born then, so I don’t have standing to dispute that, but I won’t sit for it either. If it wasn’t still impolite to argue with the elderly, I could prove that neither year holds a candle to 1966 without ever resorting to slides, graphs, or flip charts and magic markers. Don’t misunderstand me; people are entitled to their opinions. But get this: I recently saw some yahoo on Yahoo suggest that 1974 should have the “Best Year Ever” title. Anybody who thinks that doesn’t know if they’re riding or afoot. This may be personal bias again, but in 1966, mini-skirts were all the rage, and that settled a long-running dispute between Harley Hicks and me about whether or not girls had knees. They do, by the way. Ole Harley never will live that down.
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Notes From A Southern Kitchen Goin’ to the Chapel Kendall R. Rumsey NotesFromASouthernKitchen.com
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his month’s Laurel is all about weddings. I’ve never had a wedding, and at the ripe old age of 53, I can’t imagine I ever will.
I’ve been to lots of weddings, I’ve been in lots of weddings, I have even officiated a wedding, but that is about it for my knowledge of weddings. The last big family wedding we had was over thirty years ago when my brother married WAY up and brought Donna into our family. However, this Summer we are getting ready for a wedding and I couldn’t be more excited. My niece Chelsea is getting married in July and our family is all abuzz with anticipation. Chelsea’s fiancé Brett is a good guy, I knew they were intended to be together when I first met him, and they were adamantly “just friends.”
big day. And not to be forgotten, there must be a space for the groom and his groomsmen to dress and relax prior to the ceremony. Then there is the dress. Is it formal or casual, is there a veil, what length is the veil, or will she wear a hat, flowers, or crown and does it go along with the wedding theme? Yes, I said wedding theme. Who knew weddings had themes? I bet you didn’t know it either, but they do! Not just any themes either. You can do Hollywood Glamour, Bohemian Chic, Farm-glam, Casual, Black tie, White, tie, No tie or any combination of the bunch. It is mind-blowing all the options that go along with planning a wedding and I’m just the great Uncle! So, we are in the process of planning a wedding and I couldn’t be more excited. The dress is bought, the “venue” has been arranged, the photo shoots have taken place and hopefully the invitations are almost ready to go in the mail. Now plans must be made for the Bachelorette Weekend Get-away and the Bachelor’s Weekend. Not to mention a Honeymoon in a tropical paradise.
Brett asked Chelsea to marry him shortly after Christmas and when I got the call on Facetime I was overjoyed, I wish them nothing but love and happiness for the future as they mold their families into one.
It’s a lot of work to plan a wedding, but I know in the long-run it will be beautiful. There will be laughs, tears, and lots of love when Chelsea walks down the aisle, just as there is at every wedding.
Weddings seemed to have changed a lot over the years. Now there is the photo shoot for the engagement and the photo shoot for the invitation and the wedding day photos.
I still remember holding her the day she was born. Now to see her a beautiful, intelligent, and successful woman is heartening and a testament to her parents who brought her up with the values that will make a good wife.
There is a “Save the Date” card and then the invitation and it seems as though there is a Bridal Show every weekend with new and exciting ideas of what every bride should have on her special day.
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We’re having a wedding in July and I can’t wait, now if I can just find a way to lose 100 pounds between now and then I will be all set!
Who knew that a cupcake or donut cake Brett and Chelsea has replaced a traditional wedding cake as the trendy wedding reception dessert, not to mention weddings now take place at “venues “ on Kendall Rumsey is a resident of Clayton, GA. beautiful farms and old homes and on mountainsides. He is owner of imPRESSed, a custom imprint company and publishes the blog, Notes from a Southern Kitchen. These “venues” must have housing for the bride and her www.impressedstyle.com bridesmaids to spend the night prior to the wedding with www.notesfromasouthernkitchen.com ample space for a hair and make-up team to arrive on the 74
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Lovin’ The Journey
Time and Adrenaline by R. Mark Holloway
Everything is better in my life when there is good blood flow to my brain. My prayer life, thought life, outdoor life, and married life all benefit from a strong, steady heart rate. My friend Dr. Steve Jarrard doesn’t know it, but I measure myself against many of his monthly articles in the Laurel. Well, not so much the ones about menopause.
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turn 58 this month. That’s two shy of 60. Six decades is hard to process. 1960 was such a long time ago. I have a lot less time ahead of me than behind. But I’m not frightened or daunted...for two reasons. First, I still feel 18. There are days I think I could beat my younger self in a race. Staying fit makes you delusional. You say crazy things like, “I still feel 18.” But I really do, on some days. I strongly encourage everyone to keep a strong cardio. If blood and oxygen are essential, why not boost them both?
I acknowledge I don’t heal as fast as I once did. So I take fewer extreme risks. I still mountain bike with Greg Funkhouser and Scott Neal at night. But I have my limits. For example, Greg (who is many years older) and I were riding down the back side of Glassy Mountain in the rain. The trail is steep and challenging, especially after first riding up to the very top. We glided and ripped through the mud, rocks, roots, limbs, and mucky leaves in fading daylight. At times we were sliding and plummeting down more than riding. Just before we blasted back into civilization along Davis Gap, there was an obstacle. A wide and deep creek, whose banks are too steep to ride, is spanned by a narrow six-inch-wide piece of lumber. Greg shot full speed across the slick, algae covered post with the confidence of a Jedi master. I stopped short and walked my bike across. Folks think I’m crazy. But there are a few athletes out there who raise the crazy bar. Crazy is relative. I rock climb often. I guide more than I climb. Coaching folks beyond their fears is simply exhilarating. Staying healthy is both a reward and a requisite. Jesus promises abundant life if I’m embracing the sort of life He’s offering. And if I continue to dive headlong into daily adventures, I must weld health and abundant living together. Secondly, I can’t control the things I can’t. So my trust level rises to fill in the gaps. I can’t predict my future health and safety. But staying fit seems at least the minimum gesture of a grateful heart. Heaven is a reward and promise which dismantles any old age fears which otherwise could cripple me. Optimists and pessimists both meet life’s end. Blind optimism is probably as risky as
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terminal pessimism. But optimism just seems more fun. The optimist may crack her skull on a rock on the trail. But the pessimist could die by choking on a Twinkie sitting on the couch watching The Doctors. As spring hints at returning, I encourage you to find your outdoors. I encourage you to establish your risk baseline. Be daring, if but for a moment, and see if you feel more alive. Our adrenaline is a gift not to be bottled up. I promise you there will be copperheads, ticks, spiders, and bears out there. But the safety boredom offers is far more deadly. I want to greet the time remaining with intentionality. How would we choose to live if we were somehow penalized for dying with too much unused potential? For me, everyday is a gift-wrapped blessing just begging for the fancy paper and bows to be torn away. I’m glad we all get to be here in these adventurous, wild, and scenic mountains. Spring is coming. See you on the trail. Mark and his wife Carol are the owners of Fresh Start Property Stewards, a company dedicated to stewatrding the property and homes of their clients. They aspire to be your eyes, ears and hands while you are away, and your resource for anything you need, whether you are a full time or part time resident of the area. Both care for the properties entrusted to them as if they owned it themselves. Mark can be reached by calling 706.490.7060.
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Nothing is impossible, the word itself says “I’m possible”! Audrey Hepburn.
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Mountain top home in Clayton 5+ acres. Beautiful Views! 4BR, 3BA, updated kitchen, rock FP, game room w/wet bar, & large decks. Garage parking, workshop, 50ft RV garage, tennis court, raised garden beds, outside pavilion w/fire pit. GAMLS#8291342 $495,000