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Welcome to the first ever Scottish Asian Wedding Directory We know how important your special day is to you and everyone who will share this with you. It should be an amazing experience for everyone who is a part of this memorable day. We know every detail from outfits to the table setting matters. Everything should meet and exceed your expectations. With the Exhibition now in its 8th year and running successfully, we felt it was time to introduce an Asian Wedding Directory, which would not only compliment your visit to the Awaz Wedding & Lifestyle Show, but also be your handy companion in helping organize your Big Day regardless of when in the near future it is. In this first issue we have some great features such as: • Sultana Malik takes us through her exclusive Rishta Journey • Nilufar Jessie Islam gives us top Fashion tips for the Bride to Be • Naina Bhardwaj with the essential guide to Asian Weddings. Also, featuring experts who offer their advice on everything from health, beauty, fashion and lifestyle to interiors and venues. It’s the ideal guide, to give you a taste of the glamour and splendour of everything your wedding should entail.

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ESSENTIAL GUIDE TO

ASIAN WEDDINGS

By Naina Bhardwaj

Sikh Weddings

The Sikh marriage is a very special ceremony in which two individuals are joined in an equal partnership. The Sikh ideal of marriage is explained as the joining together of two souls. This is referred to as Ana-z-nd Karaj and literally translates to ‘Blissful Union’. Marriage is seen as a commitment before Waheguru and the purpose is so the individual has companionship on their spiritual path. Both individuals have the right not to marry the partner chosen for them. It was given statutory recognition during the British rule in India by the Anand Marriage Act 1909. The Official Sikh Code of Conduct or, The Rehat Maryada, specifies that no thought should be given to caste, race or lineage. As long as both the boy and girl profess the Sikh faith, they may be joined in wedlock by the Anand Karaj ceremony. The Rehat Maryada strictly forbids any sort of dowry arrangement as marriage is not to be viewed as a business transaction. Sikhs are generally encouraged to stray away from Hindu like traditions of consulting horoscopes to fix an auspicious date for the wedding. An engagement ceremony may take place before the wedding but this is not necessary. It is most likely held in the Gurdwara where Waheguru is thanked for bringing the couple together. The groom’s mother visits the bride and gives her a gold ring. The Anand Karaj ceremony can be performed in any Gurdwara or home where the Sri Guru Granth Sahib has been respectfully installed. Most marriages take place in the 10

morning and any Amritdhari Sikh, – or baptised Sikh who practices the prescribed code in daily life - both man and woman, can perform the wedding ceremony. The ceremony starts with a meeting of the two sides called Milni at which holy Shabads, or hymns from the Guru Granth Sahib are sung. An Ardaas (supplication) is also often said at the Milni although this is not prescribed. The two sides say greet each other with “Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa, Waheguru Ji Ki Fateh” which translates as “The pure one belongs to God, victory belongs to God”. The marriage ceremony takes place at a congregational gathering in the holy presence of Guru Granth Sahib. Shabads are sung and the boy and the girl sit side by side facing Guru Granth Sahib. The girl sits on the left side of the boy. The couple and their parents or guardians stand up and an Ardaas is offered, seeking the Blessing of Waheguru to begin the Anand marriage. The main ceremony is very simple. The bridegroom wears a sash over his shoulder. The end of this is placed (by the bride’s father, guardian or any other responsible person) in the hands of the bride. The officiating person reads the four lavan (stanzas) from Guru Granth Sahib. Sikh husband-wife love is modelled on the love between human soul and the Supreme Soul as described in the four lavan which are hymns composed by the Fourth Guru in the Suhi Raag section of Guru Granth Sahib. After the reading of the first stanza, the couple rises and walks slowly round

Guru Granth Sahib, the bridegroom leading the bride to theaccompaniment of music. The same hymn is sung by theragis, or religious singers, in the background. After returning to their position in front of Guru Granth Sahib after each of the four lavan they should remain standing while the next stanza is read before commencing the next circle. After the four lavan, the ceremony is concluded with the customary singing of the six stanzas of the Anand Sahib (Song of Bliss). There is an Ardaas of completion of the ceremony. The bride and groom vow fidelity to each other in the presence of the Guru Granth Sahib and the holy congregation. They accept their obligations by bowing before Guru Granth Sahib. The Anand marriage is a sacrament and no document is necessary. This is followed by a Holy Vaak (random reading of a hymn from Guru Granth Sahib) being read out and the serving of Karah Parshad, or sweet pudding, to the congregation. The bride’s father places flower garlands over the couple and ties one end of the groom’s scarf to the end of the bride’s head scarf. This shows that she is leaving her father and joining her husband. Finally everyone has langar, or food from the free kitchen. Numerous cultural customs are conducted before and after the religious ceremony. Many families organize parties before and after the wedding including the reception. However these are cultural practices rather than religious ones. Image by Rukhsana Ahmed

Christ ian Weddings

Christians believe that marriage is a gift from God, one that should not be taken for granted. It is the right atmosphere to engage in sexual relations and to build a family life. Getting married in a church, in front of God, is very important. Marriage is a public declaration of love and commitment. This declaration is made in front of friends and family in a church ceremony.A couple may marry in their local Church of England parish church if either the man or woman lives in the parish. Before 2007, they could not be married in another parish unless they had attended church services there for six months and were on its electoral roll but the Church of England then initiated a change in the law to make it easier for couples to have a wedding in a parish other than their own. The change makes it easier for a couple to marry in a church where there is a family or other special connection although these connections are somewhat limited as to what the Church of England sees as qualifying connections. Before the actual ceremony, there are several things the couple must do. Firstly, they must arrange to have their Banns, or a public announcement of a forthcoming marriage, read out on three Sundays during the three months before the wedding. They must be read

out in the parishes of both people. If the Banns cannot be read out for any reason, a special licence can be issued by the Bishop of the Diocese. Secondly, the couple must speak to the priest about hymns and prayers they may want on the day. Many couples want to include extra touches, such as flower arrangements or musicians.

The ceremony itself is fairly simple. At the beginning the service, the priest welcomes the congregation and then reads out what Christians believe in marriage. The couple then make their promises in front of God, stating that they will love, comfort, honour and protect their partner as long as they both shall live. These are simply referred to as the declarations. The couple then make their vows to one another. However in the traditional Church of England wedding vows the couple exchange rings too.This is followed by the Proclamation or the priest telling the couple that they are now husband and wife. Prayers are then said for the couple. This may include a prayer for the gift of children, but this is optional. After this there are readings from the Bible followed by a sermon. The ceremony finally ends with the signing of the register by the bride and groom, along with two witnesses as is a legal requirement. They couple then

receive a legally binding marriage certificate. The Catholic Church teaches that ‘God himself is the author of marriage’, which is his way of showing love for those he created. Because a marriage is a divine institution it can never be broken, even if the partners are legally divorced, as long as they are both alive the Catholic Church considers them bound together by God. Before a marriage takes place, a couple must spend time with the priest to talk about the sanctity of marriage and their role within the church in preparation for their life together. Questions concerning family and children, lifestyle choices, money issues, and religion will be asked. These marriage preparations are known as Pre-Cana. There are two types of Catholic marriage ceremony. One is with Mass and celebrates the Eucharist, which lasts for about an hour. The other is without Mass and only takes about 20 minutes. The ceremony with Mass begins with the entrance rite of a procession which may include a hymn. The priest then greets the congregation and the Penitential rite and opening prayers are said. There is then the Liturgy of the Word or Bible readings; one from the Old Testament, a responsorial psalm, a New Testament reading, a Gospel acclamation, a Gospel reading and a HOMILY, which is a practical sermon rather than a theological one. There is then the rite of marriage whereby questions are asked about the couples’ faithfulness to one another and their willingness to being up children. Then the vows are made and the rings exchanged. This is followed by the Liturgy of Eucharist where gifts are presented and the altar is prepared. This is followed by the Eucharist prayer. Then Sanctus Sanctus, Memorial Acclamation and Great Amen are sung. Next is a communion rite. The Lord’s Prayer is said which is followed by a nuptial blessing. Then follows the Sign of Peace, AGNUS DEI and Communion Hymn, which is sung. The concluding rite is where a final blessing is made, as well as a dismissal and the couple kisses. There is a recessional hymn which accompanies everyone out of the church. In a wedding without Mass, the Liturgy of the Eucharist is missed out. Images by Caroline Anne Photography

Hindu Weddings In Hindu scripture, marriage is a sacrament with strong moral and ethical values. It is meant to unite the bride and the groom so that they essentially become one in soul and spirit. It is also seen as the beginning of a new family unit and the coming together of two extended families. The Hindu wedding lays emphasis on three essential values: happiness, harmony, and growth. Hindu sacraments are called samskars and the sacraments performed at the time of a wedding are called Vivah Samskar which marks the stay of the second and the most important stage of life called the Grihistha Ashrama, which involves the setting up of a new family unit. Thus it is said that three quarters of human life, then, depends on the success of marriage. Haldi ceremonies often come a few days before the wedding. During this haldi, a paste made of turmeric, gram flour, curd, sandalwood and rose water is applied on the hands, feet and face of the bride and the groom. The yellow colour of the paste is believed to brighten the skin colour bring good luck.

families. The bride and the bridegroom then exchange garlands - or Jayamaala - and declare: “Let all the learned persons present here know, we are accepting each other willingly, voluntarily and pleasantly. Our hearts are concordant and united like waters.” This is followed by the ritual of Kanyadaan where the father of the bride pours sacred water in her hand and then places her hand in the groom’s hand. This ritual signifies the father officially giving away his daughter. Then the groom’s sister usually ties the end of his scarf to the bride’s sari to represent the external bond that comes with marriage. The priest lights a fire to honour the god Agni, the Fire God, and recites mantras in Sanskrit. Oblations are offered to the fire whilst saying the prayers. The words “Id na mama” meaning “it is not for me” The Mehndi ceremony usually follows are repeated after the offerings. This this and the bride and all of her close is then followed by Panigharani ritual family members, and sometimes friends, during which the groom takes his bride’s get the palms of their hands and feet hand with the bride’s right hand on top decorated by a professional henna artist. of the groom’s right hand. Their hands The henna is believed to enhance the are then tied together several times bride’s beauty. When the groom arrives whilst the priest recites holy verses. at the Mandap, or a specially decorated canopy where the wedding will take place, he will be given a welcoming drink of milk, ghee, yoghurt, honey and sugar. The arrival of the bride is referred to as the Kanya Aagaman.

Shilarohan is the ritual of the bride climbing over a rock to symbolise her willingness and strength to overcome difficulties in pursuit of her duties. This is then proceeded by a ritual called Mangalfera, the bride and groom walk around the fire four times praying and exchanging vows of duty, love, fidelity, and respect. Sapta-Padi is the main and the legal part of the ceremony. The end of the bride’s sari, which hangs over her shoulder, is tied to her husband’s scarf to show that they are joined together. The couple take seven steps, around the sacred fire signifying the seven wows which are exchanged; the first for food, the second for strength, the third for prosperity, the fourth for wisdom, the fifth for progeny, the sixth for health and the seventh for friendship. A symbolic matrimonial knot is tied after this ceremony.The newly married couple then receive Ashirvada - or Blessings - whereby the couple touch the feet of the elders and the priest whom they are blessed by for a long and prosperous married life.

The Jayamaala is when the bride’s parents welcome the bridegroom and his family at the boundary of the house where the wedding is taking place. A red Sindoor Tika (a kind of kum-kum powder mark) is applied to their foreheads. Members from both families are formally introduced, marking the start of relationship between two Images by HALO Media House

Muslim Weddings

In Islam, a person should be properly married, and this should include both the religious ceremony and the legal requirements of the law of the land. Marriages are not considered to be ‘made in heaven’ between ‘soul-mates’ destined for each other; they are not sacraments. They are social contracts which bring rights and obligations to both parties, and can only be successful when these are mutually respected and cherished.If and when such contracts are broken, either party is entitled to seek divorce. It is not assumed that a couple will remain together ‘till death do us part’.

Islam is realistic, and aware that many marriages go wrong and break down for all sorts of reasons. However, most marriages commence with the best of intentions, and the state of marriage is regarded as the ideal way for Muslims to live. Celibacy is disapproved of and sexual intimacy outside marriage is forbidden. Thus it is important that both partners getting married should do their utmost to make the partner happy and satisfied in every respect.Muslims are encouraged to look for a spouse on the grounds of compatibility through piety, rather than for good looks, or wealth, or prestige. People from very diverse backgrounds can be very happy together if their understanding and practice of Islam is compatible. It is forbidden in Islam for parents (or others) to force, coerce, or trick youngsters into marriage. A Muslim husband has to agree a financial deal with the prospective wife before marriage. This money present is known as the Mahr, and is a payment made to the bride which is hers to keep and use as she wishes. The reason is that even if the girl has nothing, she becomes a bride with property of her own. If the bride later seeks a divorce which the husband

does not wish for, she is allowed to return him the money and seek what is known as a Khul divorce. Normally, if a divorce takes place for the usual reasons, the bride would be entitled to keep the Mahr.The Prophet (pbuh) set the example of modest sums, and many Muslim women generously use their money to support their husbands and families in some way, although they are not obliged to do so. If a woman has money of her own, she is not obliged to spend it on her husband or family, but a Muslim husband has the obligation to be able to keep and support his wife and children himself, at his own expense. If a wife goes out to work, or donates money, this is regarded as an act of charity or sadaqah. The Muslim wedding ceremony is known as a Nikah. It is a simple ceremony, at which the bride does not have to be present so long as she sends two witnesses to the drawn-up agreement. Normally, the ceremony consists of reading from the Qur’an, and the exchange of vows in front of witnesses for both partners. No special religious official is necessary, but the Imam is often present to perform the ceremony and perhaps also give a short sermon. There are certain things which are basic to all Muslim marriages. Marriages have to be declared publicly; they should never be undertaken in secret. This is usually achieved by having a large feast, or Walimah, which is a party specifically used for this purpose of publicly announcing that the couple are married and entitled to each other. Many wedding customs are a matter of culture and not of Islam. They often include pre-nuptial parties and gatherings and the entire process may end up lasting several days.

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3 STYLING LESSONS FOR THE

WEDDING SEASON By Nilufar Jessie Islam

For all my daring and fashion driven brides who are wanting to add an edgy bridal twist to their upcoming wedding look then I have a few key styling tips to share which will help you achieve this.

LESSON 1 DARING DRAPES For the brides with no styling boundaries, I advice you to be a little risky, daring and get out of that your comfort zone without the fear of showing a little skin. If your petite I recommend you drape the front of your gown subtly leaving little folds at the front and back without being swamped under too much fabric and this will help flatter your height and body frame. For the more modest brides I would recommend the belted and tucked in dupatta drape which has been successfully running for the past two years and is a safer option which flatters most body shape but works better if you have the height, because the belt at the waistline breaks your height down and balances the proportion better only if your tall.

LESSON 2 LAYER UP THOSE NECKLACES My heart truly belongs to layered necklaces this season. This style is great if you want to achieve that ethereal Johdha Akbhar look but this time fresher, slightly lighter and contemporary. You can create this look successfully by layering a Saat Lada with a Polki Choker. This style look will add a wow factor especially if you have decided to go more understated with your wedding gown and silhouette. By layering up necklaces, this will help to lift your overall look and add more of a fashion statement.

LESSON 3 DON’T BE SCARED TO COLOUR BLOCK A dash of colour can’t hurt anybody. Colour block is a well recommended for those brides who want to create a bold, lively and majestic look on their wedding day. Mix jewel tones for statement purposes also you can play around with different textures and prints. Don’t be too safe with your colour choices, the bolder and contrasting the better. However for the brides who are tempted by the look but think its too risky, I advise you pairing a muted colour with an accent colour: for example a dusky grey paired with a hot pink or soft peach paired with emerald green. You can also take the pastel block approach if your wedding theme is more vintage therefore you can pair gold with pale blush; also why not try powder blue with a pale purple haze.

SHAPING YOUR BODY USING ALTERNATIVE WEIGHT LOSS THERAPIES AT HEALTH SANCTUM

Every girl s wedding day is one of the most important and memorable days of her life. With vows on the horizon, the desire for a slimmer figure and body shape is stronger than ever. So much thought, care and (dare we say it) expense goes into making the day perfect; you and the wedding dress must look amazing. But fear not, changing your entire lifestyle for months on end to feel fabulous on your big day is no longer necessary due to the new technologies that have emerged. These cutting edge technologies have been used by celebrities we all know including Cheryl Cole and Shahrukh Khan and are now available to YOU. We can help you lose weight and feel great! The best news is that there are lifestyle change packages and also exclusive wedding packages available for 2016!

Hypoxi therapy involves sitting in a vacuum pod and gentle cycling. The ‘Vacuum Cavitation Therapy’ from below the waist increases blood supply and encourages circulation. Scientific trials have found that women can lose three times more on their thighs using Hypoxi therapy compared to normal fat- Hypoxi: Sculpt/Reshape your figure burning training and exercise. with minimum time and effort Regular use of this therapy can result in an average loss of one dress size in a month! Another alternative weight loss therapy that has proven to give significant results in a short amount of time is Technoshape. With Technoshape, a belt goes around the midriff using patented ‘Pressure Pause Therapy’ to stimulate the circulation around the stomach area to promote fat burning and to achieve a slimmer midriff. Expect amazing inch loss from the stomach Technoshape: The fastest and area with regular sessions, and a easiest way to lose inches firmer, flatter body. Free trials are available on all weight loss technologies!

Left: Developer of Technoshape with Shahrukh Khan Right: Cheryl Cole showing off her toned hips & legs

Health Sanctum, a unique alternative therapies clinic in the Southside of Glasgow, has introduced slimming treatments using tested and effective technologies. This includes ‘Vacuum Cavitation’ for Hypoxi therapy which targets the lower body and ‘Pressure Pause Therapy’ for Technoshape targeting the stomach/midriff area. Research shows that 80% of women have a tendency to accumulate fat on the lower body creating an imbalance (basically, a "pear shaped" body). Hypoxi is the perfect solution for this common problem.

It really works - if I use it properly, it gets rid of the pouchy bits on my thighs" Cheryl Cole on Hypoxi Therapy.

These technologies and treatments are unique to Health Sanctum as they are not available anywhere else in Glasgow or across Scotland. Health Sanctum experts will also provide you with a personalised health nutrition & mentoring service to help you meet your targets and goals on weight loss.

We at Health Sanctum believe in a holistic, effective and lifelong approach to healthy living which makes you healthy and beautiful before, during and long after marriage. To help brides LOOK and FEEL their best, the clinic is also offering tailored one-to-one consultations in Homeopathic treatment, specialist dietary advice, and massage therapies. Our approach is to build you up with pure and high quality supplements and superfoods which can hugely improve your skin and hair as well as your stamina and energy levels. When combined into our carefully planned bridal or lifestyle change programmes by our experienced practitioners, the results are jaw-dropping! Don't take our word for it - try it for yourself! Customers can now enjoy convenient access to a Hypoxi, Technoshape and Homoeopathy Clinic five days a week, before or after work, even during lunch breaks for fast and effective treatments. Pop in and let the practitioners know all your bridal needs and you will receive personalised treatment, care and mentoring to make your big day worth the wait. Good luck from all of us at Health Sanctum and we look forward to meeting you!

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WHY VISITING

WEDDING EXHIBITIONS HELP BRIDES PLAN THEIR BIG DAY

by Sultana Malik

With the 28th of February around the corner the Awaz Wedding & Lifestyle show is Scotlandâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s first ever Scottish Asian wedding exhibition, now in its 8th year. This annual event has hundreds of prestigious wedding suppliers, biggest venues in Scotland, one of a kind catwalk show and mouth-watering catering for all the excited future Brides. The Awaz wedding & Lifestyle show is a full packed event will leave you inspired with ideas! Attending exhibitions is a great idea for brides and for the wedding party, makes you gain contacts, familiarise yourself with face-to-face supplier, compare pricing from wedding providers and even most of the time get discount booking that day. Our wedding expert has attended some of the most recognised wedding exhibitions including the Awaz Wedding & Lifestyle show 2015. On arrival attendees are signed up to the Awaz newsletter and are given a goody bag filled with brochures and money off vouchers which is ideal for bride-to-bes. Most suppliers approach Awaz to be part of the only Scottish Asian Wedding Exhibition in Scotland, with reputation alone this exhibition is always a most see event in Scotland.

FASHION Throughout the day there are 2 fashion shows one at 2pm and 6pm. Executing the most outstanding wedding designs on the most beautiful show-stopping models in Scotland. Shamaila Razaq choreographed the fashion; with 8 years of experience with the fashion industry, Shamaila does not disappoint her audience. The fashion show is a spectacular show bringing bridal gowns to life. It was great to see a mix of fashion and entertainment with a scene from the boys at the Royal Dhol Force.

STALLS Making appointments with a number of wedding suppliers can be time-consuming, Scotland has around 200 plus fashion boutiques, the Awaz Wedding & Lifestyle event is the only event that brings all these fashion houses under the one roof. The great thing about attending was getting face-to-face communications between suppliers and receiving great discount if booked on that day. Great news for bride-to-bes - Awaz lifestyle and wedding exhibition is on the 28th February! Tips for brides - Bring a note pad and pen, organise and plan on what suppliers you want to talk to ie photographer, makeup artist or cake makers. Think of a realistic budget before approaching suppliers and ask if they are willing to work alongside your budget, take a break between the fashion show and exhibition stalls, and most important HAVE FUN! This is one of the fun stages of wedding planning! Shopping and finding the right supplier for you! 16

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THE GROOM So, the big day is finally arriving, while the bride-to-be has probably already planned out most of her wedding dress, the grooms usually tend to leave things last minute, when it comes down to choosing the right outfit. It’s important to let your bride bask in the limelight, but don’t forget, having her groom looking sharp is also equally important to her.

Let’s face the facts. Men have a hard time picking out the perfect outfit for their wedding, not an easy task when everyone in your family is trying to have a say. Leaving things to others to handle might be the easier option, but that could also backfire when it comes to choosing your wedding outfit. After all it is your big day and it is critical to get it right as days like these pretty much come once in a lifetime. Appearance is everything, and a key aspect of a mans appearance on his wedding day is being the best dressed man there. Now, how do we go about choosing the perfect outfit? Decide on a dress code. Communicate with your bride-to-be about the wedding clothing preparations. Sherwinis or suits? Colour coding in an asian wedding is most likely the choice, if you’re going traditional. But for a more formal mens look, ask for direction and guidance from your groomsmen/best man in terms of what they should be wearing too, from the colour of the ties right up to the accessories. Start preparing at least 90 days before your wedding day. Have a tailor working on your suit just a few weeks before your wedding can result in the spending of more than required, just because you left things last minute. Tailors will not only charge extra for being rushed and making yours a priority over others, but that can also lead to mistakes. All can be easily avoided with some upfront planning.Try on your outfit in advance before your wedding day. That way you will have enough time for alterations if needed. Also picking the right shoes and wearing them around the home, without getting them dirty of course, will take away the harshness of a tight fit new shoe feeling. Start planning early and don’t rush. taking part in a wedding that you feel you have directly contributed to makes it that much better. As a result - you will have a day that your bride, family and yourself can cherish for a lifetime.

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MIDAS TOUCH SS16 by Nilufar Jessie Islam

Decadence of gold transcended on the catwalk in many of the fashion shows at Amazon India Fashion Week. It seemed to me as Midas himself had made the gowns with his own golden touch, putting the audience in a dreamy trance. As the models moved the light touching and then bouncing of all the elaborate gold embroidery gleamed, almost creating a golden halo around the figures to give the idea of heaven’s royalty. As a Textiles Design graduate, I have been trained to identify the key seasonal trends and put together mood boards, highlighting the key aspects and focus of the fashion movement. Looking at the resources collated, it is very evident that “gold” is the must wear shade, for wedding gowns to come this 2016. Not only have the top designers used gold in their recent collections’ but they have executed them in different styles, which varies from the simple Saharan, to Hollywood glamour and then finally to the classic traditional wedding gown, however now injected in all over gold replacing the red.

Tarun Tahiliani approach to the gold trend is to combine traditional aesthetics with modern designs. Tahiliani uses sophisticated drapes, gold netted dupatta, eclectic, daring juxtapositions and a visceral fusion to make up a grand golden collection.

To my opinion there are two types of brides, you have the Traditionalist and the Experimentalist, however there is always a part of us who wants to be both. Especially those girls within my generation will understand this struggle; because our mothers wore red on their wedding day therefore it would be an honor to carry that tradition on and to be signified as the classic Asian bride. Where as on the other hand there is that doubt of looking repetitive and missing out on the only potential chance to make a statement to inspire the upcoming brides of the future. Brides, I believe there is no longer the need to be torn apart and now you have the chance to be the Traditionalist and Experimentalist combined as one bride with the ideal golden wedding gown. In reference to designers such as: Sabyasachi, Tarun Tahiliani, Siddartha Tytler and Faraz Manan, have made ground breaking movements in the world of bridal fashion by combining elements of tradition and innovation to suit the two types of brides making the search for the perfect dress more to our advantage.

Faraz Manan has a more glitz and glamorous approach to the gold trend. His recent collection executed with detailed eastern craftsmanship and artistic technique. Faraz Manan underlines, cool and subtle hints of gold in his bridal collection creating an ideal fashion story with a more contemporary and glamorous taste.

Siddartha Tytler uses novel silhouettes, innovative structural elements, new fangled patterns finishes with gold embroidered trimming on the edges of the gowns to interpret the gold trend. Wear-ability and originality are the essential elements in his latest collection.

To all my dear brides, take my advice and “Go for Gold” as there is no doubt that gold will be a triumphant choice. The advantages of wearing gold are overwhelming; you will have the chance to feel like royalty, elegant, glamorous with the final touches of tradition. You don’t have to fight the battle with yourself from being a Traditionalist or Experimentalist, because by choosing to go gold for your wedding you can be both.

Sabyasachi translates the gold trend in his collection through these trademarks: regal saris on gold velvet and net, the most intricate gold embellishment and recently lehengas printed with the darkest of blooms sprinkled with gold beads and sequences.

The Bridal Lookbook

By Sultana Malik

Do you ever get butterflies from things that excite you? This is the exact feeling blushing brides get organising their fairytale wedding. You are the centre of the party, make sure it’s not just the dress everyone is talking about but your hair and makeup is what everyone’s focal point will be. Each and every bride have their own perfect bridal image. Here is our top two favourite makeup themes.

Simple and Classic A timeless vintage classic look is one of our favourite makeup themes at the moment. This is a simple yet breath-taking theme. The minimisation complements the overall look as well as concentrates on a bride’s natural beauty. CREATING THIS LOOK: For the face use a subtle but radiant highlighter to enhance the bride’s complexation, steer away from bronzers / dark blush. Using brown tones on the eyes give it that extra natural look which complements the bride’s complexion. Keep the lips soft and gentle for that classic finish. TRENDS: The Lace umbrella – Rocking the Corn Exchange Wedding Fair 2015 Run away and also the Asian Bride Live London 2015 fashion show.

Traditional Beauty The traditional Bollywood bride is what we all grow up dreaming of what our wedding would look like. This classic 50s Asian bride look can never change with time and can even be carried on through generations. This theme is all about the statement lip colour, pigmented eyes, thick lashes and heavy on the bronzer. CREATING THIS LOOK: Ensure this photo ready look stays put by preparing the face with a great primer. A thick bottom liner finishes this look by giving your look a full cat eye statement to complete your colour palette. Using a darker Lip liner to your lipstick helps pop out your lips. TRENDS: The signature nose ring following the release of Bajirao Mastani is a huge fashion statement that is taking the Asian Fashion industry by storm. 22

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RISHTA STAGE 1 Since deciding it’s finally time to become a wife, I’ve been an emotional wreck. Being someone’s Mrs, moving out, leaving my family and knowing I will no longer be my dad’s responsibility. Being number five of six sisters you can understand the anxiety. I’ve always preferred my own company, been socially awkward, grumpy and always faded into the background. I’m not the typical Asian girl who knows how to cook, do daughter duties and is fluent in her native tong.The thought of being a Mrs means changing my definition for what ‘home’ is. And to be totally honest, this all scares the daylight out of me! As a bride-to-be, often my thoughts are to RUN NOW!

RISHTA STAGE 2: Thaher had told his dad unplanned and in turn gave me a few days to tell my family that I will have an important telephone call. If you know you will get a Rishta, ladies I highly recommend telling you parents or older siblings. This gives everyone time to process and acknowledge you as an adult and find out a little background of your chosen choice. Once Thaher told his dad, the first thing he wanted to do is speak to my dad. Within that week my parents JUST arrived back from a visit from Bangladesh, I was crazy busy being a bossy bridesmaid and at the same time preparing myself for this HUGE life change! I was so emotional that week, saying goodbye to my best friend as I gave her away and trying to come to terms that I will be also embarking on this journey.

RISHTA STAGE 3: The initial call from Thaher dad to my dad was something I’ll always remember. In our culture, it is very traditional, almost like time hasn’t moved! The groom’s father would ask the bride’s father for his daughter’s hand in marriage. Here is where the ice is broken between both families and the first introductions happen. I’ve never felt so excited, emotional and full of butterflies like I did on this day. I really did feel like a child listening in on adult conversations and I’ve never in my life wanted two people to connect so badly. My dad and my future husband’s dad – the two most influential people in both our lives.

RISHTA STAGE 4: Why did no one tell me about how emotionally stressful meeting the family would be? My parents invited Thaher’s family over for lunch. I got up early as I couldn’t sleep (like the excitement of the first day of school) and I changed my mind on my outfit choice around 5 times. Mashallah, I literally have the nicest most humble in-laws ever. Now I understand more than even why Thaher is such a patient and kind-hearted person.Once I finally met everyone, they all seemed to calm down and relax a little. It was pretty intense meeting his Nan; it was just like in ‘Bend it like Beckham’ where she checked my hands and feet for colour and how well I look after myself (Good thing I pay special attention to my feet). I could not stop laughing, as it’s pretty intimidating in front of a room full of my family and my soon-to-be family. My mother in-law gave me a gold necklace, which was a sign of welcome. Mid way through the day I changed into a saree my in-laws got me and covered half my hair as a sign of respect to my elders. Tips: Ladies relax. I know you hear these horror stories of In-laws but judge the guy you’ve chosen because that indicates what kind of family you will marry into. Appreciate and enjoy the Rishta process, it’s always good to go by traditions as then you can carry this on into the next generation.

RISHTA

JOURNEY

By Sultana Malik

THAHER’S RISHTA PROCESS: My dad had called Sultana’s house and started talking with my father-in-law, at first it was quite slow conversation, as you would imagine, two strangers speaking with each other. Whilst the conversation carried on, it started to pick up, my father and father-in-law had mutual friends and knew each other from many years ago when my dad lived in Scotland. This was the ICE BREAKER!! It made them feel comfortable and was on common grounds; this put a smile on my face that they were getting along.We got invited to go up to Sultana’s house for lunch and to be honest it was really nerve racking and slightly awkward. Growing up in the western world you get used to the culture here and not the traditions of our parents. Everyone in one room and trying to come up with a conversation to get everyone talking, at one point I wanted to start laughing. When I first saw Sultana come out, she looked beautiful, I wanted to go over and hold her and not let go! However that would be a no go in front of your elders! My parents talked to her but my Nan examined her!!! This was funny; she was looking at her feet and hands to see if they were clean etc. This is a traditional joke that usually an elder does with the bride-to-be, especially in Bangladesh.

THAHER’S NIKKAH EXPERIENCE The Nikkah day was eventful to say the least. All I wanted to do was to be with Sultana, there was nothing else in the world I wanted other than that. Nevertheless being the eldest and first son to get married, I had to look after all my family members and friends as they came to Scotland first time. I had 40 odd people to look after. On the day we were quite early as we were told to come at a specific time. It was good because it got everyone seated calmly etc. When everyone seated, we had the Imam to start the process of the Nikkah (Islamic marriage) I basically had to agree with the marriage and then did a prayer for the new Rishta. Sultana came after and was walking pass to be seated at another table before joins me. She looked like a Princess from a fairy tale, I felt like the luckiest guy in the world.

THE DETAILS Sultana’s Dress: Majestic by Eliza Sultana’s makeup and hair: Afsheen Ali Mua Sister’s Dresses: Fabeha Luton Thaher attire: Next suit, shirt, tie and handkerchief from TM.Lewin Bouquet and Cake display: SBS Creations Nikkah Theme: Pastel vintage with a mix of Scottish Asian Photographer: Jordan Moffat Photography Accessories: Necklace, Rings and bangles from London, South Hall, Shoes ASOS and Vintage tear shaped studs & Hair accessor from Jon Richard WHAT WAS THE HIGHLIGHT OF YOUR DAY: My dad taking me to my seat and giving me a hug away WHAT IS YOUR FAVOURITE LITTLE TOUCHES: Making my décor personal by bring my Scottish culture with a Scottish table WHAT WAS THE BEST BUY: Personalised frame, which was drawn by my cousin and space to include personal messages from our bridesmaids and groomsmen WHAT IS YOUR SAVING TIP: Shop around, buy your own. Not only would it look personalised but also gives that extra touch. BRIDE’S ADVICE: Take a moment, breath and look around. Appreciate your memories on your day. You can follow my journey as a Scottish Asian bride with #100DaysofaScottishAsianBride. I talk about the steps and the organisation involved in creating a perfect day. I cover my experience in the wedding planning industry in Scotland and how Asian weddings play such a huge part of our Bangladeshi culture. We grow up dreaming about our Big Days and I hope to inspire and educate others just like myself on how to be the ‘perfect bride’. Keep an eye on issue 2 of the Scottish Asian Wedding Directory for the #ThaherWedsSultana wedding article! 29

Keep Fit & Healthy With your big day approaching, one thing will be on your mind. LADIES - “WILL I STILL BE ABLE TO FIT INTO THAT LEHNGHA?” MEN- “WILL THE BUTTONS ON MY SHERWANI STILL CLOSE WITHOUT THE GAPPING HOLES?” Don’t panic! these 5 health and fitness tips will make you feel more confident in front of the camera and give you one less thing to worry about.

1reachPlanning in advance and giving yourself time to your goal takes the stress out of a last min-

ute faddy diet, most of which show no results, and putting extra strain on your body could result in an opposite effect. If you stress more, you eat more! Remember the feeling you get when you look good and people notice? Keep yourself motivated with your thoughts in place.

to a new physical routine. Start of by ditching your long phone conversations with your friends, instead, arrange a time where you can walk and talk, keeping things fun will make you want to do that little bit extra. So, before you know it, you will be walking miles without strain!

3in the Music! We all love to listen to our favourite tunes car, so why not get into a good workout routine

4ing.Healthy eating doesn’t have to be borYou can create delicious meals whilst

with your favourite tracks. I always find music makes you workout faster and keeps you motivated. Also, being in a gym environment keeps you focused and gives you the opportunity to experiment with different equipments.

5budged, Give it time. Just because your scales haven’t it doesn’t mean your not losing weight!

Scales can be misleading at times. A good idea is to not judge your fitness by them. Remember - muscle is more dense than fat and you may find that you weigh a little more as you build your strength. Your reflection in the mirror and the way you see yourself, along with the clothes you have been wearing, is enough to confirm that you are on the right path. Don’t give up!

2bigGetjumps. active. Small steps are better than Your body needs time to adjust

still cutting out the unhealthy stuff. There are loads of websites that offer ideas and support to kick start your appetising diet and create a healthy eating plan to go with your chosen lifestyle.

A GOOD RULE TO REMEMBER BEFORE ANY TARGET : IT TAKES 4 WEEKS FOR YOU TO NOTICE YOUR BODY CHANGING, 8 WEEKS FOR YOUR FRIENDS TO SPOT THE DIFFERENCE AND 12 WEEKS FOR EVERYONE ELSE.

Vitality & Beauty with

Yoga

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Looking beautiful on your big day is easy with tried and tested methods of Yoga that have been around for centuries. Practicing Yoga will keep us cool, calm, relaxed and will make us enjoy the day. One will be energized to cope with the process leading up to the final moment. Planning for the wedding is endless, looking for an appropriate venue, Catering, Dress, Jewellery, Mehndi, makeup, hairdo and the bridal glow. Money cannot buy the bridal glow, it will come only from practicing Yoga. It is natural to get married but, unfortunately, a roller coaster of varied emotions can make one tired and fearful because, it drains oneâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s energy and can make you anxious and tense. Both the bride and bridegroom will take a lot of emotional pressure and the outcome will be self-neglect. The most important factor is how one is looking and feeling on that day by being energized, calm and relaxed, so that you really enjoy your big day, otherwise, it will show in your behaviour and looks. If you are relaxed you will wear a natural smile and glow leading up to the wedding. Furthermore, personal space for recouping energy, reflection and rest is essential for wearing a natural smile with radiance, which will reflect in all the wedding photographs. AYURVEDIC detox massage will help to detox body for wedding. It relaxes the body and mind by improving circulation and oil will help to remove dry skin. Practicing Yoga includes Asanas,

Pranayama and Meditation. Look for Yoga classes in your area. You might have to try a few, before deciding which one you prefer. ASANAS will prepare our physical body by stretching, toning and being flexible. If you cannot find any class, try few stretches at home, for warming the body. Standing Asanas include Warrior 2, Triangle. Lying Asanas include Cat, Cobra, Locust, Bridge pose, Shoulder stand and Shavasana. PRANAYAMA keeps the mind and body relaxed. Usually, the mind runs 100mph and the attention span is very low. Pranayama is the inner energy and strength that radiates in face, body and mind. It makes the mind still. Pranayama is by sitting in Lotus Asana and perform alternate nostril breathing.

The message of Yoga is Ahimsa, meaning Non-violence. It begins from within by not being critical of your self, let it go and enjoy, whatever happens during the preparation for the wedding. Accept it if it is not in your control. Take 3 deep breaths to nourish your vital energy Centre, third chakra (Solar Plexus) and you will find contentment within yourself.Yoga practice should never be forced or strained. Your body will slowly do its own work. Mindful Yoga will bring results.We are all different individuals, practicing stretch, twist and align in our own way that will balance the mind and any incident will not make you unhappy. Finally, with Yoga, vitality and beauty will make you perfect on the day.

MEDITATION helps us to live in the present moment. It will generate energy within oneself. Moreover, it helps to reduce stress and calm the nerves, providing beauty sleep with a peaceful mind. Sitting with eyes closed and doing deep inhaling and exhaling, focusing mind on breathing, during meditation. Finishing for energy: Rub the palms together, keep warm hands on your eyes and smooth away your face. At the end of practicing Yoga, one feels refreshed and relaxed with natural beauty being rejuvenated for the joyful day that follows.

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PODIATRY by Afshah Yaseen

Pamper yourself from head to toe No one can deny that taking your shoes off at the end of a long day is just sheer bliss! One of the most important things you should include in your beauty regime is to look after your feet, as healthy feet will lead you to a healthy lifestyle.

fshah Yaseen, Podiatrist at Hair Body & Soles, says â&#x20AC;&#x2DC;Many brides worry so much about other details of their wedding, for example choosing the perfect wedding shoes, but little thought is given to the condition of the feet going into them.Those brides that do worry about the condition of their feet often turn to a beauty therapist but never consider or aware of a podiatrist. While a beauty therapist is good for a pedicure they are unable to treat the root of the problem. Beauty therapists are not qualified to use medical equipment such as blades and other extensive instruments unlike a podiatrist.

SO WHAT DOES A PODIATRIST DO? A podiatrist is a specialist that diagnosis and treats conditions of the foot, ankle and leg. Experts say that foot care is one of the most important things in the management of health problems. For example, medical conditions such as diabetes, rheumatoid arthritis and blindness require the attention of a Podiatrist. A bride-to-be needs to be thinking about looking after her feet, before and after her big day. Therefore it is important to start looking after your feet as soon as possible.

Over the four years of working in private practice I have gained a lot of experience in dealing with simple to complex foot problems, covering a range of treatments including:

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Callous (hard skin) Athletes Foot (fungal infections) Verrucas Hyperidrosis (sweaty feet) Bromidrosis (smelly feet) Fissures (cracked dry heels) Onychomycosis (fungal nails) Onychauxis (overgrowth or

AFSHAH’S GUIDE TO HEALTHY FEET : • Book a consultation as soon as possible. Within a consultation you will receive a full comprehensive biochemical assessment, analysis of your footwear, range of motion in your joints etc. You will also receive a full treatment depending on your foot condition. • Clean and dry your feet thoroughly and change your socks daily • Apply moisturiser twice a day. If you are washing your feet often (Wadu), moisturiser should be applied to the feet after each wash followed by covering them with socks, ideally cotton.

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• Footwear is a major concern in foot health problems. We are all guilty of wearing shoes that look great but bring tears to our eyes from discomfort of a killer heel. A comfortable pair of shoes worn for a long period of time is recommended when looking for wedding shoes. Broad heeled shoes are ideal for a long day with heels no higher than 1.5 - 2 inches which has straps/ buckles to keep your foot as secure as possible inside your shoe. Avoid open back 6inch pin heels! (examples of footwear given in pictures)

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At Jadore Functions, we believe the food at your wedding should be as much of a talking point as the Decore. We therefore exclusively work with our established catering partners “Baverchi”. With over 15 years of experience in the market, our experienced events team, together with our wedding specialist, will work hand in hand to produce a tailor- made menu reflective of your personal style, fitting in perfectly with the overall look and feel of your wedding day. When you choose food by Baverchi to cater for your wedding, you can be certain of many things- the food will look wonderful and taste delicious, the staff will be helpful and beautifully turned out and the tables will look stunning. Our food is cooked on the day, for each and very event. We use only top quality ingredientsgarden fresh vegetables, meat, poultry and dairy produce.Authentic spices, rice and lentils sourced from all over the world. Our chefs take pride in personally overseeing the preparation of all necessary factors prior to the cooking process. They have many years of experience in the international cuisine. Well respected and acknowledged in the community with consistent delivery of high quality service. Reputation for honesty, punctuality and professionalism. We use specially commissioned kitchen facilities with a capacity to feed up to 3000

guests a week and up to 1800 guests on any one-day. This cannot be achieved without also ensuring the food is cooked and served under strict food safety & hygiene standards. We regularly invest in the latest equipment and staff training to ensure the food reaches our clients in the best possible condition. Facilities regularly inspected by Glasgow City Council for hygiene and other private inspection firms for process and procedures. We are on the “Approved List of Caterers” for The Hilton Group, Marriot Hotels and Sheraton Resorts among others. If you are looking for information about how we can enhance your wedding then call us today and discuss the many options at hand.

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WEDDING FUN FACTS The largest wedding attendance was a Jewish wedding in Jerusalem in 1993 where 30,000 people attended. The term “best man” dates back to the times when Scotsmen kidnapped their future brides. The friend of the groom who had excelled at the abduction was acclaimed to be the best man. Queen Victoria’s wedding cake was three yards wide and weighed 300 pounds.

WEDDING RINGS are often placed on the third finger of the left hand because ancient Egyptians be-

lieved the vein in that hand (which the Romans called the “vein of love”) ran directly to the heart. In many cultures around the world - including Celtic, Hindu and Egyptian weddings - the hands of a bride and groom are literally tied together to demonstrate the couple’s commitment to each other and their new bond as a married couple (giving us the popular phrase “tying the knot”). The English believe a spider found in a wedding dress means good luck. Yikes!

In Egypt, the bride’s family traditionally do all the cooking for a week after the wedding, so the couple can relax. Rain on your wedding day is actually considered good luck, according to Hindu tradition!

A PEARL ENGAGEMENT RING IS SAID TO BE BAD LUCK BECAUSE ITS SHAPE ECHOES THAT OF A TEAR.

FEBRUARY 10TH IS WORLD MARRIAGE DAY. The colour BLUE, thought to be symbolic of virtue and innocence of a first love, has been associated with weddings much longer than white. An old wives’ tale: If the younger of two sisters marries first, the older sister must dance barefoot at the wedding or risk never landing a husband.

“TYING THE KNOT” initially came from an ancient Babylonian custom, in which The phrase

threads from the clothes of both the bride and bridegroom were tied in a knot to symbolise the couple’s union. Literally tying some type of ceremonial knot at a wedding ceremony can be found across cultures. Most expensive wedding ever? The marriage of Sheik Rashid Bin Saeed Al Maktoum’s son to Princess Salama in Dubai in May 1981. The price tag?

$44 MILLION!

If your

BRIDESMAIDSare less than thrilled about matching dresses, tell them

they’re good luck! The tradition of matching maids dates back to Roman times, when people believed evil spirits would attend the wedding in attempt to curse the bride and groom (how rude). Bridesmaids were required to dress exactly like the bride in order to confuse the spirits and bring luck to the marriage.

A Swedish bride puts a silver coin from her father and a gold coin from her mother in each shoe to ensure that she’ll never do without. In the symbolic language of jewels,

SAPPHIREi n a wedding

a ring means marital happiness.

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If the groom drops the ring during the ceremony, the marriage is doomed. Wedding rings are made of gold because it was believed that it was the most pure of all metals and therefore symbolic of the union of marriage. In Egypt, the bride’s family traditionally do all the cooking for a week after the wedding, so the couple can relax. Much like the modern tradition of feeding wedding cake to one’s spouse, in ancient Rome, couples pledged their unity by sharsharing food Today a Japanese bride and groom drink sake together, Jewish couples drink from the same cup of consecrated wine, and Muslim couples eat from the same piece of sweet desert.

JUNE WEDDINGS ARE NOT A NEW THING. THE ROMAN GODDESS JUNO RULES OVER MARRIAGE AND CHILDBIRTH, HENCE THE POPULARITY OF JUNE WEDDINGS. In English tradition, Wednesday is considered the “best day” to marry, although Monday is for wealth and Tuesday is for health. he custom of tiered cakes emerged from a game where the bride and groom attempted to kiss over an everhigher cake without knocking it over. Moroccan women take a milk bath to purify themselves before their wedding ceremony. Aquamarine represents marital harmony and is said to ensure a long, happy marriage.

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Wedding

Favours

By Sultana Malik

Letâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s go back 10 years ago where favours first came into our wedding plan diary. Wedding favours play a huge part to the guests at the wedding, not only is it a personal way to thank our guests for attending but also a big part of the event atmosphere and theme. Once everyone is seated, the first thing to do is look at the table with your favours in front of them! Personalising your favours gives your guest a sense of involvement on your wedding day (although being there is already being involved) and helps with completing your overall theme.

PERSONALISED FAVOURS Imagine in a year from now after the wedding your friends are still using your favour box to store their safety pins? Not only can you make your boxes personalised but also useful to your guestâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s TIPS print your wedding hashtag on the box? Or the bride and grooms name along with the date?

LASER CUT Summer 2015 was the year Asian weddings dipped into the western vintage theme. This brought us a whole market of laser cut boxes for our guest, so elegant also classic and timeless.

TRENDS Conducting research noticed some upcoming trends such as cardboard cones, with a rose at the end. You can either keep it simple and empty inside or fill with confetti and sweets. Or you can go with the classic clear cellophane bags filled with sweets. Another popular trend is a very traditional approach with a distractive paisley element mix with South Asian material. For example a saree box or also a throwback to the mirror work from Choli Ke Peeche Kya Hai.

Ladies make sure your gifts are personal to you, either by theming the favours into your wedding look or even adding it as a personal touch. Make sure you love your favours! Recommended: @sweeties_uk @InduldgewithLancsco

WEDDING Themes By Sultana Malik

With so many wedding themes , choosing one can be a difficult choice. Get inspired with 8 of our best wedding themes for 2016.

ENCHANTED FOREST Sofia Vergara and Joe Manganiello tied the knot in November 2015. The most talked about winter wedding 2015 left everyone mesmerised by the beautiful décor! The enchanted forest is a great way to turn the most basic venue into a real life fairytale.

FLOWER POWER You can’t expect anything less than for Kimye to will come along and change the wedding décor industry! In 2014 Kim Kardashian and Kanye West celebrated their wedding ceremony in this bespoke floral wall. This can we altered to a more traditional look by using a deep colour pallet for the mehndi.

DAY GARDEN PARTY A garden party is a huge trend in America at the moment. This fun, fresh and light theme is great for an intimate mehndi in a family garden.

HALDI Name of a spice and Armenian gold – the Haldi theme is a wonderful traditional theme can work well with a 21st century bride. Keep your mehndi minimum and reflect tradition by having a simple mehndi with a colour palette of Yellows, oranges, greens and mustard tones.

MOROCCAN Take your guests to Marrakesh with this Moroccan themed décor. With some key exotic touches transform the venue into a \beautiful colourful celebration – colour pallets of purples, and blues.

DRAPE GODDESS Every bride wants to make their venue look different – a quick but easy way to transform your venue is by draping the walls – this creates a clear canvas to work with but keeps the look beautiful and classic.

VINTAGE Huge this summer for 2016! The vintage western theme! This simple but classic theme is a timeless look for a more contemporary bride.

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WeddingCHECKLIST Having a wedding checklist is a good and easy way to plan your wedding. A listed reminder on what needs to be done, a year in advance leading up to your special day.

3 MONTHS TO GO Not far from the Big Day

All systems go from here. The busiest time is usually the last 3 months, when the time flies by. But donâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t panic - the checklist will keep you right.

1 YEAR TO GO

What type of wedding and location Decide wither its a Summer Wedding or Winter Wedding. This should help you decide on what dress code or theme you would go for. e.g. a summer wedding - light clothes and colours etc. : Set the date and start planning your budget : Decide on Location : Look at venues and book : Start making a guest list : Decide and book the entertainment : Start looking at honeymoons with your partner and book.

6 MONTHS TO GO

Now that there is only 6 months to go

: Decide on a wedding card design and start sending out the Invitations. : Create a personal plan and wedding list : Choose a wedding cake : Start buying required gifts for Bride/Grooms family : Buy favours and decide on colour scheme with event planners. : Arrange, if you like, for a wedding rehearsal. : Book a bride & bridesmaid make up & hair trial

1 MONTH TO GO

The last month of planning! Still loads to do.. : Good idea to confirm all arrangements - venue, photographer, catering etc. : Make travel arrangements if needed for you and your guests : Have a final outfit fitting. : Any speeches to be made?

Preparations should be in full swing! Time to move on to choosing that perfect outfit : Choose your outfit and make any adjustments if needed : Choose footwear. : Keep in touch with all your bridesmaid/groomsmen and make sure everything is up to date with their outfits etc. : Make final decisions on flower arrangements : For the bride-to-be, make sure you are on check with make-up artists, hairstylists, mehndi bookings (if required) etc. : Choose the rings : Plan any pre-wedding parties with friends and family. : Sort out photography and videography : Arrange caterers and taster sessions.

FINAL WEEK

Only seven days left to go! By now you should be more or less ready for your big day. Now that all the hard work has been finalised. Relax and prepare for your wedding day. : Get hair & Make-up done : Last minute check on the rings. Who will be handling them? : Check with friends and family if everything is going to plan.

Relax and let everything fall into place. Best of Luck!

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