The Blessing: A Legacy Revisited

Reflecting on the history and significance of one of Gamma Phi Beta’s first songs.

“The Blessing” is one of the first songs many Gamma Phi Beta members learn. Traditionally sung before meals by collegiate members and featured at international events, this cherished song holds a special place in our history and traditions. Written in 1875 by Charles Moss, the future husband of Frances E. Haven, “The Blessing” is one of the Sorority’s earliest songs.

In 2022, representatives from the Ritual and History Committee and the Belonging and Inclusion Committee collaborated to conduct a thorough review of the Ritual Manual. This review aimed to ensure our rituals align with the principles of belonging, equity, diversity and inclusion (BEDI) while preserving the intent of our Founders and early contributors.

As part of this process, a detailed review of “The Blessing” was conducted. Historical research revealed that the original version of the song, as written in 1875, did not include the word “amen” at the end. This addition appeared in a later version of the Gamma Phi Beta's songbook, published in 1964. There was no record of who added this in the songbook or why it was added.

Guided by historical accuracy and the goal of maintaining fidelity to the Founders’ intent, the Ritual and History Committee recommended that “The Blessing” be restored to its original wording. This recommendation was approved by the 2022-24 International Council. The following changes were adopted to honor the historical significance and accuracy of “The Blessing:"

• The Sorority will restore “The Blessing” to its original format and remove all references to “amen.”

• Collegiate chapters and individual members will have the option to sing “The Blessing” at chapter meals.

• “The Blessing” will remain a part of opening exercises at chapter business meetings.

• “The Blessing” will continue to be sung at international Gamma Phi Beta events.

While the review considered concerns raised about certain phrases, including “Our Father,” the recommendation was to allow individuals to opt out of singing if they find these words objectionable. This decision preserves the song’s historical integrity while providing members with personal choice.

By embracing this historical version, we ensure all members feel a connection to the legacy of our Founders through the same words they sang nearly 150 years ago.