GRACE DECEMBER 2013

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DeCeMBer 2013

Holiday ISSUE

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HOLIDAY GLAM STEPPING OUT

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CHICAGO, NEW ORLEANS & NASHVILLE

iNduCTiON CEREMONy

DR. GLENDA BASKIN-GLOVER

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AS TOLD BY

CHRISTINA STEVISON As I reflect on the past year, I am amazed and thankful for all the blessings I continue to receive: all the beautiful memories created with those I love; the nights filled with gutbusting laughter and fellowship with the magnificent women I’m blessed to call friends; the love and support I receive from family on a daily basis. Everyday I’m humbled to have the opportunity to support GRACE’s mission to inspire, inform, and empower our readers and community.

As I continue to discover my power within, I find myself in awe and deeply moved by the lives of other individuals.

One of those individuals is 12 year-old entrepreneur Moziah Bridges, founder of Mo’s Bows. Bridges is a testament that we’re internally equipped with the necessary tools to make our wildest dreams come true. He is featured in this month’s issue of GRACE, where we share a glimpse at the inspiration for his famous handcrafted bow ties.

Also, in this issue, GRACE covers the Inauguration of the 8th President of Tennessee State University, Dr. Glenda Baskin Glover, a phenomenal woman with an illustrious career. In her Inaugural address, Glover said, “I’m living witness that God can do exceedingly abundantly above all you could ever ask, ever hope or imagine.” I couldn’t agree more!

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Email speakout@gracemagazine.com or send us a letter to P.O. Box 3180 Memphis, TN 38173

In addition we have a holiday planning guide with suggestions on everything from regional family holiday travel destinations, to decorating the perfect Christmas tree.

You will be delighted with the Holiday Glam Fashion to make you the bell of any ball and tips on how to toast your New Year.

To close, on behalf of GRACE Magazine, staff, and myself, we would like to extend our sincerest gratitude for your support of our Holiday Issue. Here’s to you and your loved ones this holiday season. May you cherish every moment shared.

In Sisterhood,

Christina

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DR. GlenDa GloveR a native Memphian Soars To new Heights DecoRaTinG Decorating with Petals Studio

Mo’S Bow TieS Feeling Good in Bow Ties

GRaceFUl oUTinGS Ministry celebrates Five Years of Serving Homeless Families

a PeRFecT TRee! Trimming Your Tree

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SAVING MONEY AND ENERGY AT HOME winter is here!

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A HEALTHY SMILE can Mean a Healthy You

PERSONAL FINANCIAL WELLNESS “even if you are on the right track, you’ll get run over if you just sit there.” -will Rogers

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PLANNING A “STRESS-LESS” DINNER Hosting your first christmas dinner can be nervewrecking

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HOW TO SERVE CHAMPAGNE whether you’re the host of the toast or just the guest with finesse, you can increase your popularity by knowing how to serve a proper glass of champagne.

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is a Memphis trial lawyer specializing in wrongful foreclosure, real estate litigation, bankruptcy, and asset protection.

Attorney Harris is known for his ability to find creative solutions to complex legal issues helping clients recover substantial money damages from wrongful foreclosure actions. He also has had much success securing the removal of void and unenforceable judgment liens against residential and commercial real estate.

Attorney Harris is a member of the Memphis Bar Association, Tennessee Bar Association, Memphis Urban League, Nexus Leadership Academy and Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity. Attorney Harris is a member of the Shelby County Tennessee Youth Court Initiative Counsel where he serves as Youth Court Judge or Adolescent Mentor. Harris classifies his law practice simply as . . . “All things housing.”

Contact: Michael L. Harris, Esq. Harris Law Firm, PLLC 901.500.3337

rON FArmer is the owner of Metro Services.

Metro Services offers full service repairs in automotives, lawn care, electrical, and home improvements. Since opening in 2008, the business has grown tremendously and has now expanded to carpentry and mechanical services. You can find Ron here at GRACE Magazine. He will answer questions and offer advice to GRACE readers in a new column “Rap2Ron”. Please forward any questions you may have to rap2ron@gracemagazine.com

LATASHA STONum joins GRACE® Magazine as our new Account Executive. A college graduate of University of Memphis where she received a Bachelors of Arts in Fashion Merchandising with a minor in Marketing Management. LaTasha has extensive experience in marketing, customer service, and hospitality. From Austin, Texas, LaTasha is an animal lover and has volunteered for the Memphis Humane Society for a number of years and is also a member of the University of Memphis Alumni Chapter.

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Discovering Our Power

As THE HOlidAys AppROACH And You Prepare To Make Your New Year’s Resolution…

FIRST, Discover Your Power

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veryone has desires in life, things they hope to achieve: goals and ideals that spring forth from their attempts to reconcile their future with their past and present. In some regard, it is magical to conceptualize something as a thought and systematically build toward its entry into the real world. Your talent for making things happen determines how much power you have over your future.

Who Are You? Such a broad question may seem intimidating at first. But the answer isn’t as hard as you might think. Everyone can benefit from taking just a few minutes to step outside themselves.

Empowering your life requires honest self-evaluation. You must see and examine the package that is “you”. It’s as simple as finding a quiet spot to meditate, putting on your favorite, relaxing tune and asking some questions. How do you feel about yourself? Are you where you hoped to be in life? Are

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Founder Tina L. Birchett (1960 – 2013) Publisher & Ceo Christina N. Stevison editor-In-Chief Toni Harvey executive editor Lisa Lew Art Director Detric Stanciel

Production/Circulation Director Chris Boyd Account executive Latasha Stonum Contributing Writers Nana Chase, Tyrone Chester Ronald Farmer, Kimyatta Gilliam Michael L. Harris, Esq., B. Henderson Ann Leung, Latasha Stonum, Tay Vin Contributing Photographers Clarence M. Neal, Issac Singleton Detric Stanciel, J. Xavier Thomas

CorreCtion:

Please accept our deepest apologies for errors printed in our November 2013 issue.

On page 2, we incorrectly stated the birth date of our founder, Tina Birchett, as April 26, 1960. Ms. Birchett’s correct birthdate is April 25, 1960. We also did not include two Graceful Brides’ pictures in last month’s issue. The marriage photo of Sampson Allen and Barbara Campbell was omitted. Also, the marriage photo of Branden Williams and Monique Rogers was omitted. These beautiful brides are featured in this month’s issue.

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you single? In love? Are you religious?

What are your political views? Are you aware of what’s happening around you?

What makes you cry? Laugh? Sigh? How do you enjoy yourself? Empowering your life is a matter of understanding exactly how much internal power you have as an individual. You live each day reacting to so much. Don’t get so caught up in the daily routine that after a while, you forget who you are. Self -improvement is about empowering your life.

Generating positive self-image from within before it can be manipulated by external factors is essential to achieving your dreams and empowering your life. Insecurities are just points about yourself of which you aren’t completely sure about.

Questioning yourself objectively and learning both the positive and negative aspects of your persona can help direct self-improvement efforts and encourage mental health. It can also improve your relationships with others. The confidence you have in yourself is directly proportional to your understanding of your personal qualities.

You can do anything you want!

What do you have to offer the world? Outside of job interviews, personal statements, applications, and all those crafted forms of selling yourself, have you ever truly thought about what you can do? What are your talents, abilities, hobbies and the like?

Write all the things you feel you’re good at or would be interested in trying or doing. Do you have a keen eye for decorating? Are you a computer wizard or really good with technology? Maybe you’re particularly giving or a great friend. By simply taking the time to stay true to your talents and gifts, you drastically increase the effectiveness of your role in planning your life. You are not simply here to exist.

You are here to live and do the things you love to do. It is up to you to ensure you’re able to make a living while still crafting a life that is both rewarding and satisfying.

Confidence comes from the belief that

you are worthy of success and good fortune. Self-confidence and belief in yourself is essential to your quality of life. Once you figure out that there are plethoras of things you’re good at, you’ll feel more than worthy of successful living, your confidence will grow, and you’ll be a lot more joyful. The most important thing to do after you catalog what you can do is to do it. Spend your time crafting your talents and learning to put them to work in the real world. By investing in your God-given gifts, you are putting yourself in a position to live a blessed and empowered life, one that you don’t feel alienated from.

What Do You Want?

Knowing what you want is about lining up your goals and actions with your beliefs. You know who you are and what you can do, but knowing what you want is a key step to empowering your life.

By now, you should have a pretty good idea of what drives you. Reflect on your answers to the first two questions about who you are and what you can do? Cherish and value the qualities that make you unique.

Think of them every time you make a move in life.

Knowing where you stand and what matters to you is the first step to knowing what you want. It gives you something to fall back on. In times of struggle, your only motivation might be the singular belief that it is your destiny to achieve. Tell yourself that every day. You have passions, like flames, already set ablaze; No rain can kill that fire.

Life is more than just philosophy. It is the application. What you actually do is still the single most effective means to progress. With that said, make a conscious effort to include your abilities and personal gifts in everything you do. Find jobs that match your interests and maximize the opportunity for you to contribute to society. Know that you have something valuable to express and make sure you have an adequate platform to do so. The

How do you feel about yourself? Are you where you hoped to be in life? Are you single? In love? Are you religious? What are your political views? Are you aware of what’s happening around you? What makes you cry?

Laugh? Sigh? How do you enjoy yourself?

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money will come. What’s important here is the quality of your life.

Even if you’re your own boss, make your own hours and have an awesome position on paper, it means nothing if you’re not doing the things you love to do, expressing the feelings you want to express, or living the life you want to live. Many cheat themselves because they invest all their energy into one thing, usually something external. It could be a relationship, a job, a family issue, anything. However, try to think of your life as a canvas and the act of living is the paintbrush. You, my friend, are the color. Everything you think and do adds color to your life and contributes to the bigger picture. Some colors will show more than others, but no one color makes the entire portrait. You owe it to yourself to know what colors you have and paint the picture you want to see.

Use what you know about yourself to shape your future goals and never hesitate to reach high. Most will never take control of their lives and go after what they really want. Consequently, their minds will remain in existential purgatory.

With the media constantly sensationalizing the lives of others and glamorizing the human experience, it’s easy to assume your lowly lot in life is the final word. You have this one earth as your canvas and the opportunity to create a unique, one of a kind picture.

Upon that premise, know that there is nothing in life you cannot do. The only difference between you and the most successful role model you have is circumstance, action and opportunity.

Once you understand you can do anything, it’s simply a matter of investing the time and patience into making your dreams reality. If you set goals, write them down, and mark them off as

you achieve them, it will build your confidence and carry you through the difficult tasks. There’s nothing wrong with wanting the most from life, but understand every goal has its price and you must be prepared to do what you have to in order to succeed.

By investing in your talents and interests and learning about them daily, you are investing in you. The rapid changes in technology enable us to learn more than ever about practically any subject. The internet has consolidated more media than you could have ever imagined possible. The more you know, the greater the chance you’ll put yourself in a position to capitalize on rare opportunities. Also, it makes the world much smaller when you follow the latest trends in areas such as politics, entertainment, or education. Being aware is half the battle. It enables you to network effectively and direct your efforts more efficiently. You can also get a better idea of how others like you have found success and made their dreams into reality.

Using the power of learning and self-reflection, you can learn to create the world you desire. Suddenly the boundary between where you are and where you want to be isn’t so strong. By harnessing the power of self-perception and self-image, you can become a better person--better in the sense you are more aware of what makes you uniquely valuable. From that point, you can invest in cultivating your true self and using that understanding to strengthen your resolve, resiliency and passion in life.

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You go GIRL!

Dr. GlenDa Baskin-Glover

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native Memphian has built another monument in Nashville. From the humble beginning of a four room house with no running water or indoor facilities located in the impoverished community of Boxtown (South Memphis), TN, Dr. Glenda Baskin Glover rose to join the ranks of an extremely elite group. . . . On

October 24, 2013, only seven individuals had the honor of carrying the title of President of Tennessee State University (“TSU�).

But, twenty-four hours later, a Memphian, Dr. Glenda Baskin Glover, product of Memphis Geeter High School, became the eighth President of Tennessee State University. As a member of the now elite eight, Dr. Glover is unique in many ways, but,

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Chancellor John Morgan and Dr. Glenda Baskin Glover

most notably, she is the first female and the first Memphian.

All in attendance of Dr. Glover’s Investiture left in awe of the new President. In her Inaugural Address, Dr. Glover offered a pride in her past and her hope for the future. Throughout Dr. Glover’s Inaugural Address, she wove the theme of Roots and Wings -- remembering your roots, learning from the growth of those roots and taking that growth to the heights of soaring wings. Dr. Glover said, “Roots and wings are the greatest gift a university can give to its students.

Roots can help a student lay the foundation of success, while wings can help them to soar as high as possible.” She advised those present that it does not matter where you come from, it’s how determined one is to succeed that counts.

Those listening to Dr. Glover’s address were instantly aware of her poise, passion and pride. She recounted an experience as a student at TSU where she didn’t have $300 to return to school for the semester. But, her mother told her to go anyway. Arriving at school without the $300, she stood in line with much trepidation that she would be turned away. Instead, a booming voice called her name, offered her a scholarship, and she continued college. She ended the memory with a thank you to the University

“for giving me the wings and the roots to be the person I am.”

Dr. Glover made it clear in her Address that her roots have shaped her fervor for TSU to soar. She followed the $300 memory with a glimpse of its effects. She was able to point to one of her accomplishments -- as Interim President, Dr. Glover sent out an SOS to the community and business partners, alumni, student and staff to assist students with financial hardships. In response to Dr. Glover, an “overwhelming” response raised more than $500,000 in just six days. Much like Dr. Glover’s $300 experience, 350 students survived being turned away or purged from school for lack of funding.

Dr. Glover shared her determination to emphasize academic excellence among TSU students. She emphasized her education roots were founded at TSU and she intends to plant those same roots in today’s students and expects her students to develop wings as she did. Of course, this is a tall order. Dr. Glover is only one of two African American women in the country to hold the collective credentials: Ph.D., CPA, and J.D. If any one person can plant the seed of growth at TSU, Dr. Glover is that person. Her vision as a leader will carry TSU to great heights and each student there will find his/her wings to soar among the best. The message was

Dr. Glenda Baskin Glover

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Dr. Glenda Baskin Glover and John G. Morgan, tennessee Board of regents Chancellor

etched in stone when Dr. Glover declared in her address “ It is an awesome responsibility to lead the institution that gave me my foundation. I am humbled by the oath I have taken, and take my responsibility very seriously with God’s help to lead this great institution to its highest.”

In glorious fashion, Dr. Glover ended her Address with this charge -- “Run on students, faculty, staff, until you reach your God-given destiny. Run until families have been reestablished and oppressed people have been liberated. Run until the naked have been clothed and the hungry have been fed. Run until wars have been halted, human rights have been defended and higher education is the order of the day. Run ‘til you have established your roots, spread your wings and TSU has soared to its rightful place in history.”

Dr. Glover’s soaring speech left no questions. All present left knowing that TSU’s future lies in incredibly capable hands and that

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Dr. Glover’s vision will transform each student’s life, will impact generations to come, and, certainly will make the world a better place. We Memphians are proud to have one of our very own nurturing those roots! Dr. Glover, You Go Girl! G December 2013 | GrAce 13

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Food

sTREss-lEss Planning a “Stress-Less” Christmas Dinner

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fter marrying in June, my sister decided to serve her first “married” Christmas dinner in her new home. With great excitement, we all traveled there, rejoiced in seeing one another, had a grand time opening presents, and then, sat down for dinner. Every morsel on the table looked perfect and had a mouth-watering aroma! Our father had the

honors of carving the turkey. As we sat with plates in hand, he slowly cut and placed the first leg on the platter. He continued to cut as we watched in anticipation. Suddenly, loud, roaring laughter arose from the table. It started with Daddy, but spread instantaneously as we each realized he was holding a wax paper bag with his carving tools. My sister hadn’t removed the bag of gizzards and neck from the bird’s cavity! Moreover, it wasn’t done! Needless to say, we didn’t eat turkey. The ham, December 2013 | GrAce 15

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however, was magnificent! Since then, my sister has become the perfect “hostess with the mostest” and holiday cook.

Hosting your first Christmas dinner can be nerve-wrecking. So, I asked my sister to share a few of her “stress-less tips” (and her famous eggnog (see page 19)). These few steps will make your meal come off like you’re an old pro: STEP 1: GET A HEAD COUNT Several factors will influence what you serve, but the size of your guest list ultimately dictates! A larger crowd forces you to prepare multiple entrées, which means more time in the kitchen juggling the various cooking duties and less time with your guests. Once you confirm how many guests, you can select your menu.

STEP 2: STICK TO THE BASICS Many tables are loaded with tons of food. If you are planning a large crowd, your first thought is to cook enough of each dish for all of the people at your party. Stop. Keep it simple. Pick just a few options: Meat: Limit choices to 2 Fruits/Vegetables: Make 3 Choices.

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Stick to the ones you do best.

Starches: This is where we tend to go overboard because so much falls in this category, but stick to 2 starches (Macaroni & Cheese, Candied Yams, Mashed Potatoes, or Dressing) plus bread or roll Fats: Think gravies or sauces Desserts: Try to have 2 choices. This is a good item to ask guests to bring. If that’s the case, just prepare your 1 favorite and allow guests to bring others.

Major Lesson: First: Always consider dietary restrictions. Our father is diabetic. We always have sugar-free ice cream for him. Second (most important): If guests are bringing food, NEVER permit your guests to bring anything that is a “critical” menu item. If they are late, a last minute no-show, or just a ‘can’t make it,’ the missing guest may delay and/or ruin your dinner. Ask your guests to prepare dessert, bread, or drinks (but have backups -- just in case).

STEP 3: DON’T REINVENT THE WHEEL Make Lists, check them twice… then re-make the lists! Think through every dish and every item needed to prepare the dish. List everything -- from the dish recipe to the platter serving the dish. However, the one list most

first-timers forget is to prepare for available prep and storage space. When preparing for prep space, keep in mind – the space you will need in your refrigerator, how much counter space is available; how many serving dishes you own; and, how many storage containers (for after dinner) you have. Keep it simple: Purchase extra boxes of large zip-lock bags.

STEP 4: EARLY FOOD PREPARATION IS KEY! Make a list of your Dinner Menu and all the ingredients needed to make that dinner. The goal is to make your dinner day as simple as possible. Remember Step 3 -- “Don’t Reinvent the Wheel.” If you are cooking anything on your meal day, the best plan is to have all ingredients ready to mix and cook.

Consider purchasing already chopped/sliced/ prepared ingredients/foods: • Frozen options: chopped onions, green peppers • Fresh ingredients: chopped onions, chopped peppers, chopped celery, minced garlic • Pantry items: Minced Onions, Minced Garlic, Cream of Celery Soup, Chicken Broth, Beef Broth • Frozen or fresh rolls (yeast rolls, Hawaiian bread, etc.)

Prepare any ingredients that you may need in your recipes: • Boiled eggs • Chopped meat (for gravy or dressing) • Season any meats and wrap the day before cooking STEP 5: PLAN HOW YOU COOK Know all your cooking surfaces and options.

Determine if you can use “other” kitchen appliances (crock pots for vegetables and/or meats; toaster ovens for bread; microwave; turkey fryer; etc.).

Can you really cook everything the day of dinner? Do you have the oven/stove capacity? Do you have refrigerator capacity to store all the food and ingredients?

Know your schedule for dinner and plan backwards from dinner time . . . give yourself an extra 30 minutes to accommodate for slower cooking ovens. Sometimes, it may take longer when the ovens have food on every single available space/rack. Be mindful

of this.

Be sure to check the meat temperature with a meat thermometer --- the WORSE thing ever is an undercooked turkey (there is little recovery other than more cook time and a delayed dinner).

Be sure to add prep time to your schedule.

Try to have ALL ingredients “prepped” before the day of dinner. The only cooking should be mixing the ingredients and putting them in the oven or on the stove.

IteM Ham (10 lb) 1 hr 45 min Turkey (10 lb) 3 hr 20 min Greens (3 hr) Green Beans (1 hr) Macaroni & Cheese (1 hr)

Know the cook times for precooked dishes/ meats. If you would like to warm any precooked meats, you need to know the time needed to warm a large amount of food.

Be sure to check the cooking times for each item. This can be found in the back of any cookbook. Always factor in thawing times (for example: a 12 pound turkey needs 3 days to thaw IN the refrigerator). Determine the best time to start cooking/baking your meal. The table below is a good sample to follow: G

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Recipes

VEIL EGGNOG

Holidays are not complete without Eggnog. Sure, you can always pick up a carton at the grocery store – BUT it is much more satisfying and tasty to make it yourself!

INGReDIeNTS: 12 Eggs (Separated) 1½ Cup Sugar 9 oz. Bourbon 9 oz. Brandy

1 qt. Whole Milk 1 pt. Heavy Cream 1½ oz. Rum Nutmeg (To Taste)

DIReCTIoNS: Beat the egg yolks until thick and lemon-colored. Slowly beat in ¾ cup sugar (a little at a time). Combine the Bourbon and Brandy and slowly add to the yolks (beating after each addition). Beat the egg whites until stiff. Add the remaining sugar (a few tablespoons at a time). Carefully fold into yolk mixture. Pour milk (½ cup at a time) into the eggnog) (mixing gently after each addition). Add the Heavy Cream (½ cup at a time). Add the Rum (1 tablespoon at a time) (to prevent curdling). Refrigerate for about 10 hours or overnight. Pour the chilled mixture into a glass, garnish with nutmeg. Enjoy! G

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Graceful Dining

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h e t h e r you’re the host of the toast or just the guest with finesse, you can increase your popularity by knowing how to serve a proper glass of champagne. It’s one of the civilized arts everyone should master, and you already have the skills to do it.

THe cHILL Champagne’s flavor blossoms when the beverage is chilled but not ice cold.

The recommended serving temperature is 45°F, which is several degrees warmer than it would be straight from the refrigerator. You may think you want your champagne as cold as you can get it, but champagne is wine, not soda, so keep an open mind. It’s worthwhile to buy a few inexpensive splits (quarter bottles of about twelve ounces) and taste it both ways.

To bring a bottle of champagne to the recommended temperature, stand it in a bucket with equal amounts of ice and cold water for half an hour. In the refrigerator, two to three hours of chilling will do. Never put champagne in a freezer. Even if you remember to remove the bottle before it explodes, the extreme cold will degrade the beverage and ruin it.

THe GLASS For the last several years, the flute has been the glass

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of choice, on the theory that a small circumference and straight sides gave the bubbles a long float to the surface. The downside is that the small circumference also concentrates the escaping bubbles, stinging the nose with pinpricks of carbon dioxide. Ideally, the bubbles in champagne act as tiny blenders whose constant rising motion keeps the drink from settling. Recently, many restaurants have begun to serve champagne in ordinary wine glasses. Designers are still trying to design the perfect vessel for champagne. Until then, serve the beverage in stemmed flutes or classic stemmed wine glasses whose rims are slightly narrower than their bowls.

To keep glasses from warming the champagne, chill them in the refrigerator for 30 minutes to an hour before serving, or set them in the coolest room in the house several hours ahead of time.

THe cOrk Scenes of corks popping and champagne foaming are only fun at the movies. In real life, they are a terrible insult to champagne.

The magic of sparkling wine lies in the bubbles, and you don’t want to waste them. If the bottle is wet from chilling in a bucket, dry it thoroughly. Remove the foil cover at the top of the bottle to expose the cork and wire cage. Position the bottle at about a 45-degree angle with

the bottom pressed against your body and the top pointing safely away from people, pets and fragile objects. Untwist the wires to loosen the cage. Grasp the top of the cage and cork firmly with one hand and use the other hand to rotate the bottle. As you turn the bottle, gently ease the cork out.

When the cork comes free with a soft pop, you’ve done your job well. Never twist the cork itself, as it may break or crumble into the champagne. If you get a stubborn cork that will not release, run the neck of the bottle only under hot water for several seconds, then, try easing the cork out.

THe POur Pouring, like opening, is about preserving the bubbles.

This means you don’t want a foamy top layer. Holding the glass by the stem, tilt it at a slight angle and pour against the side of the glass.

Add about an inch of champagne, then pause and wait for the foam to subside. Continue pouring an inch at a time until the glass is about two-thirds full. As you finish, give the bottle a slight twist of the wrist to prevent stray drops from marring your perfect pour.

TO STOre If you don’t serve the entire bottle of champagne, don’t try putting the cork back in. That’s nearly impossible and even if you could do it, getting it out again would be quite a task.

There are special stoppers you can purchase made exclusively for champagne bottles. This is the best way to store leftover champagne. However, if you don’t have one of these caps, you can simply leave it open and upright in the refrigerator.

After a day or so, the fizz will be gone so make sure you drink the entire bottle within a day or two of opening.

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ave you ever been to a social engagement and heard a boorish, slightly inebriated guest demanding your attention so he can make a toast? “Everybody be quiet! Listen up!” We’ve all heard rude commands like that at one time or another. Unfortunately, what we expect to be a brief and hopefully poignant blessing can sometimes turn into a lesson in sufferance.

So how do we avoid being the one person in the room whom everyone wishes would sit down and be quiet? How do we present an effective and proper toast that truly imparts our feelings of good wishes and goodwill without being unmannerly or too long-winded? Know the important do’s and don’ts of giving a toast.

HOw TO Give a pROpER TOAsT Etiquette for Raising the Glass in Cheer

by KimyaTTa Gilliam

Do Know the Rules – Don’t Commit A Toast Faux Pas The first thing you must know is the accepted format for delivering a toast. Don’t raise your glass first then say ‘Cheers’ and proceed to your speech. You’ll be embarrassing yourself whether you know it or not. A proper toast has three components and they must be followed in exact order: • THE INTRODUCTION - telling who or what is receiving the blessing; • THE SPEECH or well wishing - recitation of your toast; • THE ACCOLADE or acceptance - raising the glass and acknowledgement by the guests with a clink of glasses and a response of “Cheers.”

Do Be Concise – Don’t Be LongWinded When asked to give a toast - keep it brief. Don’t let the family skeletons out the closet. Often, we have to suffer through mindless diatribe that possibly humiliates the one being honored, while we, the guests, are ushered into a holding-cell of sympathetic and bored embarrassment until it’s over.

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Do Speak Early – Don’t Wait Until the End Offer the toast near the beginning of the celebration. Don’t wait until half of the guests have gone home before offering the official congratulations and best wishes. An early toast can also be a good way to break the ice and get the social mixing started.

Do Keep It Clean – Don’t Use Foul Language Profanity in a speech most often comes across as gratuitous and cheap. Although you might be certain the recipient of the toast has been known to use a well-placed, off-color word or two, that doesn’t mean the guests approve the vernacular. Keep it clean and respectful. If you tell a joke, make sure it doesn’t offend anyone.

Do Be Technically Savvy – Don’t Abuse The Microphone If there’s amplification in the room, don’t grab the mic and say, “Is this thing on? Test, test!”

Arrange beforehand with the person who is providing the sound to set up the microphone and do the testing.

Do Memorize – Don’t Read When you walk up to the podium, be confident.

Have a note card if you must, but glance at it only for reference. When you’re toasting an individual, it’s rude to read from a card. You must look at the person being congratulated otherwise, you end up looking and sounding insincere.

Do Have the Right Beverage The beverage of choice for a proper toast is customarily champagne or wine. However, juice or cider is also accepted.

Take the time to educate yourself on toast etiquette and you’ll be the ‘toast of the party.’

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eeping gums and teeth healthy go beyond just a nice smile because poor oral health can be the root cause of serious health problems such as heart disease. Research shows that there is a correlation between the health of the mouth and the health of the body. If the dentist visit results are good, chances are the overall health of a person is good as well. Research also shows that good oral health may prevent the development of diseases and health problems such as heart attacks, memory loss, strokes and pre-natal complications.

STARTING WITH THe GUMS Many health problems originate at the gums. Research shows that more than 90% of disease afflicting the whole body or of individual organs stem from gum (periodontal) disease.

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by ann leunG Symptoms of periodontal disease include: • Pain, tenderness or sensitivity • Red, swollen or receding or bleeding gums • Sores on gums • Loose teeth • Change in bite or fit of dentures • Bad breath Be aware that signs of gum disease are not always obvious; some symptoms can be mild or non-existent. With regular oral exams, a dentist can detect problems at early benign stages.

If neglected or left untreated, poor oral hygiene may lead to serious health conditions. Taking care of your teeth and gums and getting regular checkups will certainly help prevent gum disease, cavities, tooth loss, unnecessary pain and costs.

WHAT YoU CAN Do To HeLP PReVeNT DISeASe An annual visit to the dentist for a full oral

exam plus twice a year teeth cleaning is recommended. Dental exams can detect potential health issues including poor nutrition, hygiene, overall growth and development or jaw misalignment. At home do the following: • Brush for at least 2 minutes once in the morning and before bedtime • Floss between teeth and down along the gum line of each tooth where brushing cannot reach • Replace toothbrushes as soon as the bristle shows wear • Eat a healthy diet -- rich in vitamins A and C • Avoid smoking or chewing tobacco Preventive care and regular dental checkups — the surest way to detect early signs of periodontal disease.

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TakinG THE BiTE OuT Of The Cost Of Dental Bills by ann leunG

Oral care is a big part of overall health, and you can only brush it off for so long before you end up in a dental chair.

But what may induce more anxiety than the dreaded drill is the bill.

TRY THESE SIMPLE WAYS TO REDUCE DENTAL COSTS. 1 Know how much local dentists charge for each procedure or treatment. Without knowing this information, it is impossible to maximize dollars. Search on sites such as www.health.costhelper.com or www.brighter.com to get information on local dentists’ charges. You can also call local dentists for quotes or search online for estimates to get an idea of how much dentists charge in a specific area.

2 Find ways to lower your charges such as offering to pay cash instead of charging with a credit card. Or bring in the entire family for a group discounted rate. Be flexible with appointment times. Demonstrate loyalty and set up future appointments, if applicable. These small steps are of value to dentists.

3 Ask about less expensive alternative treatments. If initial treatment plans are too much of a financial burden at the time, ask if there is another way to remedy the problem with another procedure (filling vs. a crown) or to reduce costs by using a less expensive lab or materials.

4 Time your dental needs/appointments and spread them out to strategize out-of-pocket costs. Ask if the recommended treatments can be delayed (without risk of worsening) and/or if you can spread the treatment out over time to help maximize how much an insurance plan will pay for the service rendered. This helps you place large costs into separate insurance calendar years. For example, if an appointment or procedure is scheduled for November, try moving the next appointment to January.

5 Consider visiting a local dental school such as University of Tennessee Dental School on Madison Avenue. Students monitored by faculty can perform dental work from general cleanings to chipped tooth repairs. Savings are as much as 50% off the regular price and sometimes are free. However, appointments are

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often in the early morning or evening and can last twice as long as a dentist’s office because the students’ work must be reviewed. But the wait might be worth it considering the money saved.

6 Make regular dental visits and treat them as preventative measures against dental and health problems.

Problems that are avoided or addressed early can reduce or completely eliminate expensive services in the future.

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Twas the day after Christmas, when all through the house The tension was stirring with mom and her spouse The gifts given were purchased with care With hopes that somehow extra cash would be there Each present was special and bought on sale With new credit cards, sure not to fail Now the bills are coming, with interest and fees Attached with a short note stating, “Pay your bill please” But there’s a lesson, I’m sure to bet It’s the season of love, not the making of debt Give gifts on a budget, and you’ll be blessed Sure to greet the New Year, without being stressed.

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hristmas is truly the most wonderful time of the year. Parents usually stay up late trying to create the perfect holiday experience, while children behave in hopes of getting what they want. For many families, however, Christmas is also a time of sacrifice, using credit cards, payday loans, and deciding which bills to pay. For those feeling the holiday financial squeeze, Christmas does not have to set you back financially. In fact, you can save a few bucks by following these guidelines: GIVe YoURSeLF A GIFT: A BUDGeT! Holiday shopping can take a toll on your checking account, especially if you don’t know what you can afford to spend. The best way to avoid overspending is to create a realistic budget and STICK TO IT! It also helps to make a gift list and adjust the pricing of the gifts you choose to fit within your budget. However, under no conditions should you spend money not within the budget.

STICKING TO YOUR BUDGET IS TOTALLY POSSIBLE, BUT IT REQUIRES DISCIPLINE. SHoPPING oNLINe Online shopping can yield big savings for consumers. For example, in-store shopping usually leads to extra expenses like gas costs, and unexpected food shop purchases. This adds up quickly.

Shopping online allows you to save on gas, food, and gives you access to more product than in-store shopping. If you shop online,

be sure to look for vendors offering free returns and free shipping.

Be sure to check the refund policy and exchange policy before purchasing gifts online.

USe CReDIT CARDS WITH CAUTIoN Credit cards are great for shopping when you can afford to pay the card balance quickly. Holiday shoppers should avoid charging gifts on credit cards unless the funds to pay the bills are already in place. For those who want to avoid carrying cash, your shopping money can easily be loaded onto a prepaid reloadable check card. In fact, placing your shopping money on a prepaid card will help you avoid overspending and making impulse purchases with your bill money.

GIVe LoVe Christmas is about love, family, friends, and goodwill towards all people. LOVE cannot be purchased at the shopping mall. Family cannot be ordered online or placed on layaway.

Friends are not manufactured in a warehouse owned and operated by a Fortune 500 conglomerate. The greatest gifts we can give those on our Christmas list is unconditional love, commitment to family, loyalty to friends, and goodwill towards heaven and humanity. G TWAS THE DAY AFTER CHRISTMAS, WHEN ALL THROUGH THE HOUSE, THERE WAS LOVE MERRY CHRISTMAS and HAPPY NEW YEAR! December 2013 | GrAce 29

Money Matters

DownshifTinG yOuR CAR iNsuRANCE TO lOwER COsT Shopping around for better priced auto insurance? What do you need to know?

Well, there are lots of ways that you can save money. These ten tips money-saving ideas may apply to you.

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ombine Policies – Do you have a homeowners or renters insurance policy? If so, is it with the same insurance company that provides your auto insurance? If the answer is no, you’re paying too much – for both policies. Almost every insurance company that sells auto insurance wants its policyholders to also buy homeowners or renters insurance from their company.

These insurers offer multi-policy discounts. Usually, these discounts are at least 10% and some insurers apply the discounts to both the auto and the homeowners/renters policy. *TIP: Talk to your agent about multi-policy discounts.

GooD DRIVeR, GooD PRICe – It’s no secret, the better your driving record; the less you will pay for auto insurance. But did you know that most people qualify as “good drivers” and are eligible for discounted premiums? Some good drivers pay a lot more than others, however.

*TIP: Make sure you’re getting the best discount for your driving record. Talk to your agent. And remember, be a safe driver. It will save you money.

LoW MILeAGe, LoW PRICe – On average, people drive 1,000 to 1,250 miles a month. That is what insurance companies consider average use. *TIP: If you drive less than the average, you could be eligible for low-mileage discounts, which some insurers offer.

HIGH-PRoFILe, HIGH-CoST – The type of car you drive is a major factor in what you pay for insurance. Is your vehicle a magnet for thieves? Is it more expensive to repair than most cars? If the answer to either of these questions is yes, you’re possibly paying more than the average car owner pays for insurance.

RAISe YoUR DeDUCTIBLe – The deductible is the amount you pay before insurance kicks in if you have a claim. For example, if you have a $250 deductible and you have an accident in which your car sustains $2,000 in damage, you pay the first $250 and your insurer pays the balance, $1,750. The lower the deductible you choose, the more you pay in premiums. *TIP: If it’s been years since you’ve had an accident, you may be better off raising your deductible and paying less each year for insurance.

DRoP UNNeCeSSARY CoVeRAGeS – Let’s say you have an older car, one not worth very much. There’s really little point in having collision and comprehensive coverages. You don’t have much to protect. Remember, too, that you have to subtract your deductible from any potential payout you might get. *TIP: As a general rule, any car worth less than $1,000 shouldn’t have collision and comprehensive coverage. Between the deductible and the extra expense of these coverages, the cost is probably greater than the benefit. How much is your car worth? An auto dealer can tell you, or there are plenty of books that have values of vehicles going back many, many years.

Additionally, keep in mind, the State of Tennessee requires drivers to satisfy the state’s financial responsibility requirements of maintaining liability insurance with the minimums of the following: • $25,000 for one injury or death • $50,000 for all injuries or deaths • $15,000 for property damage for one accident DISCoUNTS, DISCoUNTS, DISCoUNTS – Auto insurance companies offer several discounts for a variety of reasons. If the car has automatic seat belts, air bags, anti-lock brakes, antitheft devices, etc. If the driver is a good student, which is especially valuable if you have teenage children who will be on your policy. *TIP: Make sure you are taking advantage of all the discounts available to you!

TAkING THe DeFeNSIVe – Many insurance companies also offer discounts to those who have recently taken defensive driving courses.

LoW-CoST AND HIGH-CoST AReAS – Are you planning to move? If you are, you should take into account the cost of insurance. Generally, the more urban the area, the higher the premium. The costs can vary even within a community. *Fact. Rates can vary greatly from state to state.

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pERsONAl fiNANCiAl wEllNEss “Even if you are on the right track, you’ll get run over if you just sit there.” - Will Rogers by ann leunG

Last issue, we discussed methods to start preparing your personal finance and steps to ensure control of your financial future.

This issue, we share methods to improve your financial future.

and how much you owe. Knowing your net worth is your gauge of how you are doing and whether or not you’re making progress. Your Assets minus your Debts equals your Net Worth.

KNOW YOUR CREDIT PROFILE Your credit score and your credit reports are essentially a record of how responsible you’ve been with your finances over time.

Then determine the interest rates offered on credit cards, loans, or can be used to screen your job application or even determine whether or not you can rent an apartment. Your financial payment history determines your FICO score, which range goes from 300 to 850. Most sources suggest a good credit score range is somewhere between 700 and 759.

To do: Search “net worth calculator” and you’ll find free online tools to get you started on where you stand between your assets and debts. You need to review these numbers at least once annually.

To do: Go to annualcreditreport.com and get your free credit report. You are entitled to a free report each year so steer clear of any site that requires payment! Check your reports for any mistakes and follow the directions for filing a dispute.

DETERMINE YOUR NET WORTH You must know how much you earn, own

SAVE, SAVE, SAVE First, you should save for retirement while you’re making money because there will be a time when you won’t make any money—but you must still support yourself. This means part of every dollar you earn during your working years should go toward funding your non-working years.

Second, you must create an emergency fund. This is money to carry you if there is a serious illness and or loss of job.

To do: For retirement: If your employer offers a retirement plan, sign up and have your contribution automatically deducted. If not, open a Roth IRA and fund it automati-

cally. Open an account at a no-load fund company such as Fidelty.com or Vanguard. com. You can also open an account at a discount brokerage such as Ameritrade. com. Be aware of initial minimums required to open an account. Some IRA accounts require $500-$1,000, or so. If you don’t have the minimum amount to invest, inquire whether you qualify for a lower initial minimum investment if you agree to make ongoing investments or permit automatic monthly deductions from your paycheck. In this case some fund companies drop the amount to as low as $50.

For an emergency fund: Aim to save three to six months’ worth of living expenses in your emergency savings and only use it for true emergencies. Have the amount automatically deducted from your paycheck every pay period.

LAST BUT NOT LEAST… “If you don’t know where you are going, any road will take you there.” Lewis Carroll So have a plan to pay down debt, build savings, or, set aside enough for retirement so you can achieve your major life goals. G

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Snow-covered trees and icicles dangling from rooftops may be beautiful, but they are also warnings of dangerous driving conditions on the roads. Winter weather is an inconvenience that can turn deadly when unprepared drivers take to the roadways. Follow these steps to ensure safe arrival to your destination this winter. by rOnald Farmer

1. Equip your vehicle with the right set of tires.

For most people, all-season or all-terrain tires will be acceptable for winter driving.

2. Check your tire pressure. Once you are confident in your tire choice, test the air pressure on all four tires. A 10 degree drop in air temperature means a 1 psi drop in tire air pressure. Most vehicle manufacturers suggest air pressure that is slightly higher for cold weather driving on winter tires. If you are using all-terrain tires, check to make sure your air pressure in at the suggested psi (pounds per square inch) in your owner’s manual. Always check tire pressure when the air in the tires is cold, meaning you should drive only a short distance before performing your tire maintenance.

3. Check your vehicle’s fluid levels. Having enough windshield wiper fluid is crucial to ensuring your visibility during the winter months, as dirt from other vehicles can quickly cover your windshield while driving. You should also check your anti-freeze, brake fluid, power steering fluid, and oil levels. If you are unsure how to check each fluid, consult your owner’s manual for detailed instructions. Always make sure your gas tank is more than half-full.

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an accident, it is imperative that you have an emergency kit. Look for a kit that includes jumper cables, a flashlight with batteries, a first aid kit, a rain poncho and cold weather blanket, an emergency traffic cone or triangle, and a road flare. You should also keep an ice scraper, and a bag of rock salt or cat litter to use for traction underneath your tires in case your car becomes stuck in the snow or ice. Pack a bag containing a change of clothes, a hat, scarf, gloves, rain boots, and extra blankets, as well as a large bottle of water and a pack of granola bars.

5. Consider a paid roadside assistance program such as AAA for

emergencies. Some dealerships also offer these services at a reasonable price when you purchase a new vehicle.

It is also advisable to carry a cell phone with you in case you need to alert your loved ones or the authorities of your whereabouts during a storm. Remember to listen to the weather forecast on your radio particularly during severe winter emergencies. If you are driving in an ice storm and you are uncomfortable proceeding, pull over to a safe area and wait for the storm to pass. Following these steps will help you prepare for the dangers of winter driving. G

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MidwEsTERN TRAdiTiONs – ChiCaGo

Any time of the year, Chicago is a great place to visit. But, one of the best times is during the Christmas holiday season. There is so much to offer: sightseeing, exploring the city, the lavish decorations, people watching, feasting on your favorite Chicago dishes and of course shopping! Chicago never gets old and neither does the holiday sights, sounds and traditions.

CHRISTMAS ARoUND THe WoRLD – Each year, the Museum’s 45-foot Grand Tree is decorated with lights and ornaments and surrounded by more than 50 smaller trees each decorated by Chicago’s ethnic communities representing their various cultures and holiday traditions. Stroll through the trees, enjoy intermittent falling “snow” and take in performances on the Holiday Stage. Free with Museum entry.

MACY’S – For most Chicagoans, Macy’s will never replace the iconic Marshall Field’s. Some of the Christmas traditions of Field’s continue including the beautifully elaborate Christmas decorations; delicious gourmet Frango mint truffles; and the elegant, but comfortable, Walnut Room, which still remains a favorite and a welcomed respite for Christmas holiday shoppers to have lunch.

MICHIGAN AVeNUe – North Michigan Avenue is Chicago’s premier shopping with eight city blocks of shopping. It includes upscale department stores to multi-story megamalls to luxury boutiques to brand name retail chains --- one after another. Known as the Magnificent Mile it boasts over 460 stores, as well as incredible restaurants, hotels and attractions. The avenue abounds with activity year round but is truly at its best during the holiday season; with its million white lights lining the entire avenue – truly a magical sight.

ICe SkATING – The setting for this popular attraction located in Millennium Park is the most beautiful after dusk. The city lights reflect off of Chicago’s Cloud Gate sculpture, known as “The Bean,” and with Chicago’s skyline as a scenic backdrop. The rink is free, but skate rentals are $10. Millennium Park itself is Chicago’s second most popular tourist attraction.

Zoo LIGHTS - The Lincoln Park Zoo flips on the switch this year from November 29 until December 23 lighting up a most spectacular sight. The Lincoln Park Zoo is brilliantly decorated and features a family-oriented holiday celebration, showcasing luminous displays and holiday-season activities throughout zoo grounds. Admission is free.

A CHRISTMAS CARoL – For many this is a beloved holiday tradition. Housed in a state-of-the-art, two-theater complex, the Goodman always puts on an excellent production of Charles Dickens’ timeless tale. This year’s production promises “new magic” on stage such as electrifying arrivals of the ghosts and other surprise elements.

THe NUTCRACkeR – The Joffrey Ballet celebrates the 26th annual presentation of The Nutcracker, one of Chicago’s most popular holiday traditions and known as America’s #1 Nutcracker. Even those who are not dance enthusiasts will enjoy the music of Tchaikovsky’s famous score played by a live, full orchestra. Awe-inspiring with splendid costumes, larger than life scenery, and enchanting storytelling, it is a sophisticated way to spend an evening.

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Travel Trends MuCH MORE THAN MARdi Gras – new orlEANs

New Orleans offers an abundance of things to do that are fun, festive and family-friendly during the Christmas holidays. Here are just some of New Orleans’ favorite holiday events!

CeLeBRATIoN IN THe oAkS - Celebration in the Oaks in City Park is one of the most spectacular holiday lights festivals in the country, visitors pour into the park to see the magical winter spectacle. City Park’s famous oaks are swathed in hundreds of thousands of twinkling white lights and light displays are scattered throughout thirteen gated acres of the park, including the Botanical Garden, Storyland, and Carousel Gardens.

HoLIDAY IN THe PARk LIGHTS - The park sparkles for the Christmas holidays with thousands of twinkling light displays throughout Lafreniere Park. Exhibit features LED lights with fantastical displays such as a lighted 60-foot sea serpent in the lagoon, a princess and her magical castle and a gingerbread man. Old favorites include holiday characters, the beloved Lombardi Trophy between two Saints Players, the Teddy Bear Factory, and Snowman Island.

CHRISTMAS IN THe DISTRICT – Tourist and locals alike celebrate the season in New Orleans’ historic Art District with dazzling lights along Convention Center Boulevard. The area is filled with amazing art galleries, fine restaurants, and world-class museums.

Carolers and holiday concerts provide the sounds of the season.

DeLTA FeSTIVAL BALLeT - The 32nd annual production of Delta Festival Ballet’s Nutcracker has become a holiday tradition. It is the most lavish production in the New Orleans area with a cast of over 130 dancers, elaborate sets, beautiful costumes, and superb dancing. It

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is also the only production in the area performing live with the Louisiana Philharmonic Orchestra.

THe NUTCRACkeR – A Tale from the BAYoU - This treasured ballet production has drawn sold out audiences since its inception in 1991, and continues to thrill children and adults alike. The New Orleans’ version of The Nutcracker incorporates local landmarks and features world-class guest dancers, the Baton Rouge Symphony Orchestra and more than 300 area children.

TeDDY BeAR TeA AT THe RooSeVeLT – The Roosevelt is one of the South’s first grand hotels. Its Teddy Bear Tea is a holiday journey to Santa’s Wonderland. Santa and Mrs. Claus welcome visitors as they enjoy a presentation of delicate tea sandwiches, scones, desserts, and holiday cookies served with sparkling wine for adults and hot cocoa for the children. oAk ALLeY’S CHRISTMAS BoNFIRe PARTY - This year marks the 38th anniversary of this joyous event at Oak Alley known also as one of New Orleans’ most beautiful settings. The mansion is dressed in fresh fruit, greenery and seasonal floral arrangements, reminiscent of Creole Christmases past. There is Creole cuisine, live entertainment and festivities set in the famous alley of oaks and the antebellum mansion.

24TH ANNUAL FeSTIVAL oF THe BoNFIReS – Many enjoy Christmas on the river that include Cajun food, live entertainment, crafts, Santa’s “Very Merry Forest” and carnival rides. Each night is capped off by the lighting of a bonfire.

ALGIeRS PoINT BoNFIRe AND CoNCeRT – The annual event of the Algiers Bonfires light up the New Orleans skyline and Mississippi River and provide the background for an evening holiday concert on the river. The lighting of bonfires is to guide Santa or Papa Noel on Christmas Eve, a traditional brought to Louisiana by the French at the end of the 19th century.

MusiC CiTy MERRiMENT – NAsHVillE

Throughout the month of December, Nashville offers tons of festive opportunities during the Christmas Holiday Season. There is an unlimited supply of Christmas and holiday events and down-home activities to be found and explored in the Nashville Metro Area.

NASHVILLe BALLeT PReSeNTS NUTCRACkeR - The beloved holiday tradition of Nashville’s Nutcracker returns to the stage for its 6th year with even more dancers and magical characters. This interpretation of the holiday classic is set in Nashville and includes introductions to local historic character of Nashville’s past as well as the all the familiar characters we have come to know.

THe FeSTIVAL oF LIGHTS – Located in Lebanon, the driving tour includes hundreds of thousands of lights, beautiful lighted scenes, and animated displays.

Visitors can enjoy million of lights on display without leaving the car. The Festival Of Lights drive through Christmas Tour is a magical wonderland, covering several acres including Fiddlers Grove. A drive through Fiddlers Grove is a step back in time including over 40 village houses all lit up for Christmas.

CRoFT HoUSe CHRISTMAS – Croft House is known for its traditional Victorian Christmas tour. The home is decorated for the holiday season with greenery, ribbon and vintage adornments collected over the years by the Croft Family, the former tenants of the Grassmere property who owned the land and home for five generations.

HoLIDAY CeLeBRATIoN AT CHeekWooD - Cheekwood showcases the sights and sounds of the season with lavishly decorated grounds, artfully trimmed trees, and unique holiday activities. Visitors can enjoy the Museum’s Concert Series held in the intimate Drawing Room for seasonal sounds of some of Nashville’s best choirs and finest musicians. From bluegrass to big band and choral to classical, there is sure to be something for everyone. oPRYLAND CHRISTMAS LIGHTS - Each year Opryland flips the switch gracing the entire property with the twinkling of two million lights marking the start of the holiday season. It draws visitors from near and far to see this annual spectacular site. Enjoy closer views of the decorations and lights by taking a horsedrawn carriage ride after sunset.

ICe! - Each year, professional ice sculptors come to Gaylord Opryland Resort to create a frozen world from two million pounds of ice. In addition to past years’ favorites such as a nativity scene and Frosty the snowman, this year there is an added New York theme including buildings, cabs, bridges and the Statute of Liberty.

RADIo CITY CHRISTMAS SPeCTACULAR - One of the longest-running Rockettes shows outside New York City, the holiday performance features “The Parade of Wooden Soldiers,” “The Living Nativity” and even Santa Claus himself. With a multitude of costume changes, the dancers dazzle with their outfits and 300 kicks per show. G December 2013 | GrAce 39

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Mo’s Bow Ties, Looking Good & Feeling Good

by TOni Harvey photos by deTric sTanciel

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I WAIt tIl thE pIECEs “spEAk to mE.” I hAvE A ConCEpt I WAnt for thE boW tIE And I usE It. If It spEAks to mE.

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s soon as you step into the home of Moziah Bridges, you are instantly aware of a quiet strength and deep family roots. The room is full of subtle, yet profound, visions of the family’s faith, history and stability. In one corner, a large painting of two ancestors with weary facial lines of slavery opens a window into the family’s proud enduring past. The other corner hints of the family’s guiding strength --- a carving which simply says Ephesian 6. The soft warmly painted room demands a sense of tranquility and stability……. Then, in glides a cyclone of pure energy – Moziah! Immediately you are swept into a melodic moment of awe. If his smile doesn’t capture you, his amazing confidence will. His first words to me were “Hello, my mom is not here yet. We can get started, but I think it best to wait for her.” Wow! . . . My interview was just hijacked by an 11 year old. Fortunately, our photographer kept his wits….. stating “Well, let’s start with pictures until she gets here.” And so, I entered the world of Mo’s Bows! A Great adventure!

Mo’s Bows was created by Moziah (fondly known as “Mo”) when he was a mere 9 years old. After learning to sew; he made his own bow ties; and, the rest is history. GRACE sat down with Mo and his mom, Tramica Morris, to get his story.

GRACe: our readership spans close to 100,000 people. So lots of people will learn about you from this interview. How would you describe yourself to them?

Mo: I think I am a fun, talented, smart, charming, good looking young man.

GRACe: Give us an idea of who Mo is – what are your favorite books?

Mo: I guess my favorite book is Diary of a Wimpy Kid: Roderick Rules – it’s about a middle school kid who imagines ways to deal with his teachers, events that happen in school. He imagines funny goblins and funny things while growing up and handling middle school. My other favorite book is The Hunger Games. My 46 December 2013 | GrAce

favorite part is when Peeta and Katniss are in the fire and help each other.

GRACe: You have accomplished a lot for such a young man. Tell us how you got started.

Mo: I got started when I couldn’t find a bow tie I liked. I wanted to wear bow ties because I like the way they looked and I couldn’t find any that “spoke to me.” So, my “lovely” grandma helped me make a bow tie for me to wear.

She taught me how to sew so I could make my own bow ties. I started making and wearing them.

People asked about them so I decided that I wanted more people to wear bow ties. I wanted bow ties to be “in-style” and I wanted bow ties to have a “comeback,” so, I opened Mo’s Bows.

GRACe: Do you still sew the bow ties yourself?

Mo: Yes. I hand pick the fabrics myself and decide the styles; like what colors to mix or what the bow tie will “say.”

GRACe: How do you select fabrics / designs?

Mo: I wait til the pieces “speak to me.” I have a concept I want for the bow tie and I use it. If it speaks to me.

GRACe: How does it “speak to you?”

Mo: It just speaks to me… sorta like the Pier One Commercial when the items on the shelf speak to people as they walk by … it just speaks to me.

Tramica Morris (Mo’s Mom): This may help you understand. Mo and I have a story about “it speaks to me.” It started when we were looking for a home. We came to see this house. It was in a “much need of work” status, but I could see the potential. Mo didn’t like it. When we were leaving, I asked Mo did he like the

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house. He replied no. When I told him I liked it. Mo asked me why. I responded “it speaks to me.” Mo’s response was “Mom, houses don’t talk.” We laughed; I explained it and it has been our inside mantra since.

GRACe: In one of the articles I’ve read about you, you are referred to as an innovator. How would you respond to that?

Mo: Innovator? Yes, I think I am. I want to give back to the community. I am a motivational speaker. I want to bring back the bow tie!

GRACe: You are a motivational speaker? Tell us about that.

Mo: Well, I have been a speaker to other kids. I tell my story and hope it will spark others to follow their dream and try to make a change.

GRACe: What advice do you give other kids?

Mo: I tell other kids to “Figure out what you like doing and find

out how you can make money doing it.”

GRACe: I read that you started the “Go Mo Summer Camp Scholarship” for other kids. Can you tell us about that?

Mo: Yes. I have a Mo’s scholarship. I wanted to give back to the community. So, I created a bow tie named Go Mo! Anyone buying the Go Mo! Bow tie, 100% of the money for the bow tie goes to my scholarship to send a kid to summer camp. I selected a camp in the community to send kids for the summer. I chose Glenview Community Summer Camp because it is one of the few in Memphis that serves a lunch at camp. Most summer camps here, you have to bring your own lunch. My mom and I found out that summer is the highest time of child hunger because so many kids only get breakfast and lunch at school when school is in, and, when school is out, they don’t have those meals. So, I wanted to support a camp that helps feed kids. One way for me to help stop hunger here with Memphis kids.

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Mo’s

GRACe: You give motivational speeches to speak with other kids and, of course, you work Mo’s Bows, home and school. Do you have fun time too?

Mo: Oh, yes. I have lots of fun time. My fun time is playing with my friends outside. We ride bikes.

But my favorite time is what I do with my mom. I like to go eat ice cream with my mom. She is my favorite person.

GRACe: I know having a small business can be overwhelming. How do you handle it?

Mo: Yes. I know what I want my bow ties to look like. I am learning how to do business. But, mostly my mom helps me with the business part.

GRACe: What has been your biggest challenge in working with the business?

Mo: The most challenging is balancing time between school and Mo’s Bows. School is first and then, I have to find time for family and fun time.

GRACe: What has been your most rewarding experiences with Mo’s Bows?

Mo: The most rewarding has been the ability to help others with my foundation. I also have had personal awards. I have won several awards for my dancing.

GRACe: Dancing? Tell us about that.

Mo: I dance. I have danced in dance groups. I like tap and jazz.

GRACe: What has been your biggest surprise with Mo’s Bows?

Mo: My biggest surprise was getting a call from O Magazine and then I got a call from The Today Show.

GRACe: What has given you the most pressure?

Mo: The most pressure I have had is one thing.

Some people have written things about me on the internets that are not true and not pleasant. It upsets me. But, my mom calms me down and I move on.

GRACe: How do you overcome things like that?

Mo: My mom tells me to never give up. She tells me even if the bow tie is ugly, keep working on it. My mom is my strongest supporter and motivator. She always reminds me that I have to do my best. She respects that I am the owner of my own business. She helps by letting me do things with my ideas. Well, she does tell me when and how to do things and she guides me, but still lets me do my creative thing. Her answer to any of my requests or crazy ideas is usually “of course, but . . .”

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mo's 2013 Holiday collection GRACe: I see your mom is the most important person in your life. Do you have other role models?

Mo: Yes. I have role models – well, my number 1 is Daymond John. He is the founder of FUBU. He is my mentor. He is like me. His mother helped him get started. Like me, he is a fashion innovator. He changed fashion when he created urban gear and everybody started wearing urban gear. I talk to him about fashion and he gives me fashion advice and business advice too.

GRACe: Which designer do you admire most? And why?

Mo: I admire Ralph Lauren he has a great sense of style and he keeps up a quality look in his fashion. I also like him because we have so much in common. He started at the age of 10, I started at the age of 9. He started making neck ties, I started making bow ties. He is one of the world’s greatest designers and his designs are lasting. I want that too and I want my look to last forever.

GRACE: Where do you see yourself in five years?

Mo: Well, in five years, I want to be a student at Parson School of Design in New York City.

GRACe: How about ten years?

Mo: In ten years, I want to own my own clothing line. I want to continue to make bow ties, but I want to add pocket squares, blazers and cool pants. I want a fun, funky line for kids. Right now, I want to add more bow ties, skinny neck ties, and pocket squares to my current line.

GRACe: What thoughts would you like to leave our readers?

Mo: Oh, I do have a saying I live by…. I think Frederick Douglas said it . . . it goes like this . . . “If it is to be, it’s up to me.” I feel if it needs to be done, I can’t wait on others, I can do it and its going to be me to get it done.

During the interview, it was easy to see the strong bond between Mo and his mom, Tramica Morris. It was extremely clear how much love is there. Both their faces light up when they look at each other and I noticed their eyes twinkle when they talk about the other. I asked Tramica what she thought of her son, the innovator. She responded “I never thought of Poppie (as she fondly calls him) as an innovator. I knew he was special from the beginning. I just never thought of him as a leader or a changer…. But, now I understand that Poppie is “just that . . . a leader of new things. And yes, he is an innovator.”

Since our interview, Mo has become 12 years old. In his twelve years, he has accomplished much. I am sure the Mo-cyclone I had the pleasure of meeting soon sweep the fashion world and bring back bow ties. . . . . I can’t wait.

You can find Mo’s Bows at James Davis, Dixie Picker, A. Schwab, Juliet’s Pocket Squares, Kindred Spirits, and, Dixon Gallery & Garden Gift Shop.

Mo’s Bows can also be found at mosbowsmemphis.com

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t just wouldn’t be Christmas without the Christmas tree! Do you spend hours tirelessly decorating your tree – and then, tell your neighbors and friends you let your kids decorate the tree because it didn’t quite look like you planned? Decorating a tree doesn’t have to be complicated. You can decorate a tree worthy of a retail store window by following these foolproof instructions.

Before starting, find the perfect location in your room for the tree. A corner is an ideal place. It is out of reach from foot traffic and children playing. You’ll also want to make sure the tree location is near an electrical outlet. Decide your color scheme. It should match your room’s décor.

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pREpARATiON

In addition to the tree, you will need a ladder; 4 or 5 quilts or old towels; a tree stand, oral wire; a few electrical surge bars; ornament hooks; tree skirt; and, an old sheet.

First, you want to prepare your work area. Gather quilts (or lots of old towels) and place them in the location where your tree will be. The quilts help you rotate the tree easily and also cushions the fall for crystal ornaments if they fall to the floor while you are decorating. Place the corners of the tree stand on top of the quilts. Do not stack the quilts too high. This will help avoid the tree tipping over. Also, test the rotation to assure you can move the tree safely. If your tree is tall, place the ladder near the tree for you to climb to reach the top areas.

Next, gather all your ornaments, long or short, and separate them according to style and color. Typically, you want to have at least 3 colors that are complementary to each other. If you start with three colors, you can add a color or take away a color.

Place your ornaments on a nearby table (covered with an old sheet). Pull any other eclectic decorations you wish to display on your tree down from that attic. This can range from tree branch decorations to homemade ornaments. Place these on the table.

Last preparation – lay your garland out on the floor to keep it from tangling. Again, you want to have at least 3 colors that complement each other. Using the floral wire, tie two pieces of wire, approximately 3-4 inches apart from each other, around the garland and proceed to fluff the section in-between the wire. This will make the garland look fuller in your tree. Continue this process throughout the entire garland.

Place the garland on one end of the table next to the ornaments.

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liGhTs

Your lights should be the first objects placed on your tree. Hopefully, your lights are already untangled.

Your lights should be the first objects placed on your tree. Hopefully, your lights are untangled.

Check each strand to make sure the strand works. Place the electrical surge bars near the tree.

The best time to place the lights on the tree is at night. The night affords you the ability to seethe lights as they will appear when lit. This will also help with placement. Start by taking the string of lights and run it along the trunk from the base of the tree up to the first set of branches.

Run the lights along the underside of the first branch; loop it around the end of the branch; and, bring it back to the trunk along the top of the branch. A time-old trick is to step back, (to thepoint farthest place in the room away from the tree), and, look at the tree while squinting your eyes. You will be amazed at how well you can identify the spots you missed.

Repeat until you have an evenly-lit tree. Once you’ve placed the lights on the tree, you are half-way there!

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Place the wired garland throughout the tree using the same wrapping method of the tree lights.

Place one color garland on the tree at a time, making sure the one color reaches the top to bottom of the tree. Take your time placing the garland on the tree so you achieve a nice clean flow. Try not to get the garland tangled in the lights. If your tree sits in a corner, this step becomes easier because you’ve place the quilts under the tree to move the tree around so that the entire tree is full of garland.

Now it’s time for the fun part, placing the ornaments on the tree!

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ORNAMENTs

This is a great step that the whole family can enjoy, especially small children.

You don’t want to place all the ornaments on at one time. Place them on the tree according to size, starting with your dominant color. Complete one color at a time. Next, you can add your other decorations. Try not to add too many decorations. You don’t want to make your tree look too full.

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by rOnald Farmer

ith the Farmer’s Almanac predicting a “colder than average” and a “nastier than usual” winter season for 2013/2014, the utility bill is bound to go up- and with most Americans still struggling to find economic stability a colder than average winter is not a welcome prediction. Thankfully, there are several ways to combat higher energy usage which translates into saving money for other things. Whether you rent an apartment or own your own home, take a moment to look through the list below and see what you can do to save your money while saving the planet too. reverse ceiling fans: Most people don’t know that you can use your fans during the winter to keep your house warm. On every ceiling fan there’s a switch that allows you to reverse the direction of the blades. Switch it so your ceiling fan rotates clockwise. The change will push warm air down and force it to recirculate throughout the room. Don’t forget to make the switch again when it starts

to warm up!

Change furnace filter: Yes it’s easy to forget, but it’s important to replace or clean furnace filters once a month during the heating season. Dirty filters restrict airflow and increase energy demand.

Get a programmable thermostat: Most people know the age old trick of turning down the thermostat before bed to save a few bucks on the heating bill, but many people simply forget to do this after a long, stressful day. Add to this the cold morning routine of shuffling to the thermostat in the early morning hours to get the heat turned back up and the allure of saving a few bucks quickly loses its luster. Programmable thermostats are often easy to install and can be a relatively quick and painless Do It Yourself (DIY) project. They are also more accurate than a standard thermostat and can turn the heat down after you are in the warmth of your bed and then turn it back up well before your feet hit the floor in the morning.

Check the insulation in your home: Every home should have sufficient insulation in the attic to help keep homes warmer in the winter and cooler in the summer. If you are in an older home, you can take

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Wrap your pipes: Insulating your pipes reduces heat loss and can raise hot water temperatures delivered through your pipes, which allows you to reduce the heat on your boiler. That will save you money on your gas bill. And by making your pipes energy efficient, you also don’t have to wait as long for hot water when you turn on the shower, which helps conserve water and time. Wrapping your pipes with insulation will also help prevent your pipes from freezing during those long cold nights. You can get pre-slit pipe foam at a local hardware store. Simply cut the foam to the length you need, wrap it around the pipe, and fasten it in place with duct tape.

Check smoke and carbon monoxide detectors: Winter sees an uptick in the number of home fires and cases of carbon monoxide poisoning because people are running their furnaces and boilers overtime in order to keep warm. To keep your family safe, check the batteries on your smoke and carbon monoxide detectors and change them if needed.

Check your door and window seals: After a while, a house starts to settle into its foundation and things that were sealed perfectly suddenly aren’t as tight as they used to be. Door and window seals are not exempt from this process and are also exposed to daily activity that has the potential to dam-

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age them. From people trying to carry in the groceries and brushing against the frame to the angry teenager slamming the door or window, a home’s seals need to be maintained as much as any other part of the

ergy saver that anyone can do.

When you stop the drafts, you keep the heat in your homewhere it belongs.

Get some plastic weatherization kits for your windows: Most home improvement

house. An improperly fitting seal will either make the door or window more difficult to close or it will allow unwanted temperatures into (or out of) your home or apartment.

If your seals have become worn, head to the local home improvement store and get ready for another “DIY” project.

If you live in an apartment, make a maintenance request to have it fixed.

Use a door (or a window) sock: Basically, window socks are long, flexible, cloth tubes filled with cotton, or another filler material, that are placed at the base of a door or window to keep the cold air from coming in through that gap that always seems to get bigger every year. This is a simple and extremely inexpensive en-

stores carry these for between $10 and $15 and use the heat from a hair dryer to activate the shrink wrap technology. There are kits for inside application as well as kits for outside application. Do not use outdoor kits on the inside of a home as the adhesive in an outside kit is generally much stronger than the adhesive on an indoor kit and can damage the window framing when you try to remove it next spring.

Get some outlet insulators: We often overlook the fact that outlets provide direct access to their walls and generally do not come pre-insulated. This oversight translates into money going out of your pocket, into your walls, and out of your home. Outlet insulators are easy to install (just unscrew the outlet cover, place

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the pre-cut insulation piece, and replace the outlet cover).

They are generally very cheap and readily available at home improvement stores and of course on the web.

Prop open the oven door after you are done baking: While it might seem counter-intuitive, this simple step can add instant heat to any kitchen. Granted, the heat will eventually dissipate from the oven even if the door is left shut, but generally the instant rush of warm air can make a kitchen much cozier and as an added bonus, the heat can linger for hours if the house is properly insulated. In either case, having the warm air rush into an open room is much more economically sound than having it slowly seep into the back wall and floor behind the oven.

If you have small children or pets do not do this if they have access to the kitchen.

Prepare a 72 hour kit: In many cases, a 72 hour kit could mean the difference between life and death. It is estimated that after a major disaster, it may take up to three days for relief workers to reach some areas. It would be wise to consider a 72 hour kit that you could live on for 7-10 days. Plan your 72 hour kit according to your family’s size.

While all of these tips won’t work for everyone, even using just one can significantly cut back the cost of heating your home this winter. Saving money and energy doesn’t have to be a huge ordeal, even something as simple as insulating your outlets can conserve enough heat and energy to actually make a noticeable difference on your next heating bill. So what are you waiting for? G

Growing up with Grace

anDrIa JOneS - K

I would go to my grandmother’s.

I would buy a pony and give it to my best friend.

MaDISOn neaL - 3rD

I would spend the day with my family.

I would buy a cow for the homeless people.

WILLIaM PeGUeS - K

Go to Texas.

Get a race car that goes up and down the wall and I would give it to my cousin.

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LaWrenCe FInnIe - 5tH

Spend time with my family.

I would give money to the homeless.

SaVannaH FaYne - 5tH

I plan to go to my grandmother’s to celebrate the holidays.

I would give food and water to the people in Philippines who lost everything in the storm.

CaneCIa MCIntYre - 5tH

I plan to go upstairs and buy 5 gifts from the secret Santa for my family.

I would give a lot of love to the loneliest person in the world to make him or her feel better.

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anDre Grant - 5tH

I would open presents with my family.

I would take some of my presents and give them to kids who didn’t get presents and then I would give them hugs and then I would give food to the poor and needy.

aSYa tUtWILer - 1St

I would go to the north pole to see Santa Claus.

I would get presents for my mom and lots of hearts and kisses for her.

CHLOe BrIDGeFOrtH - 1St

I would help my mom build a Christmas tree for the house.

I would give Barbie Dolls to my friends.

aLIYaH taYLOr - 1St

Spend time with my family.

I would help people learn how to be kind and I would give Santa the best prize ever.

Peter WeSLeY MCKISSICK - 5tH

I would go snowboarding in Minnesota.

I would create a potion that would bring back to life Albert Einstein so he could make more inventions that would help people in the world.

arIanna tUrner - 2nD

I would go to my friend’s house.

I would give a present and an ice cream princess doll to my friend.

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CeCe JOneS - 2nD I would go to the north pole to visit Santa.

I would buy two American Girl Dolls and give it to two girls in the homeless shelter to make them happy.

aManDa XIaO - PK

I would go to my friend’s house.

I would buy my friend Emma a real bunny.

KaLeB neaL - 4tH

Spend time with my family.

I would buy a diamond necklace for my girlfriend Chayse.

taMIa rOBInSOn - 3rD

I would go to my grandmother’s house.

I would give my cousin a toy and would give my big sister a new phone.

JOSeLYn HaMMOnD - 3rD

I would go to Atlanta with my family.

I would buy my mom some jewelry.

MaUrICO Green - 5tH

I would wrap presents, go to church, eat with my family and then we would all open our gifts.

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MaDISOn SHeLtOn - K

I would go Christmas shopping with my mom.

I would buy my sister a surprise Barbie doll.

anILa FarIaB - 3rD

We celebrate Ramadan and I would give up not being mean to people.

I would give lots and lots of happiness to sad people.

DeStIn COLLInS - 3rD

I would like to go to New York City with my family.

I would like to give my dad a truck.

COrLIa MICKenS - 3rD

I would go to Toys “R” Us and go shopping.

I would give my cousins baby dolls.

tYLer MCGOWan - K

Would go to McDonald’s.

I would buy a wrestling man and give it to my sister.

aneeSa WILSOn - 2nD

Take my mom and 3 of my friends to Disney World.

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CHarIS CarrOL - 2nD

I will be with my family.

I would buy my friend Madison a pet cat.

ZaCCaI CannOn - 4tH

Spend time with my family.

I would give money to my baby sister.

MaDISYn rIX - 5tH

I would go out of town with my family.

I would buy food and give it to the needy poor people.

aZarIa BOYD - 5tH

I would go to Europe with my family.

I would buy a cup of forever friendship to share with Canecia to be friends forever.

DeVIn eLLIS - 4tH

I would give a party at my mom’s house.

I would get a tablet and lots of love for my mom.

BRE’ASIA BUCHANAN - 1ST

I would go and play with my baby dolls.

I would get me a baby sister for my mom to have.

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aMaUreY tHOMaS - 4tH

I would go to Spokane, WA and go skiing.

I would give a glass measuring cup of love to my mom.

CHrIStIan BrIDGFOrtH - 1St

I would get my mama to take me to the north pole.

I would make cookies and milk for Santa.

DeStInY DentOn - 4tH

Go to Africa to help the people with my mom.

Give money away to poor people.

anDre BOYD - 3rD

I would go to Russia.

I would take my friends with me.

I would give food and water to the people in the Philippians who lost homes during the storm.

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was the guest speaker. Perry challenged attendees to look within themselves for the power to help human suffering in their own communities. “Poverty is not simply the hunger, nakedness, and homelessness, he said. “But, there is also another poverty of being unloved, unwanted, and uncared for. When those two things converge in a community, the effects are dangerous and discouraging.” Perry went on to say December 2013 | GrAce 69

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that there is much that we cannot change in the world around us, but each of us has the ability to help feed, clothe, and house a hungry person.

Shelby County Mayor Mark Luttrell was also present at the event and said that homelessness is one of the most pressing issues facing our world today. “What better organization than the faith-based to address one of the most critical issues facing our communities, our nation and our world? What better organizations than faith-based to emphasize and remind us all of our responsibility to help alleviate homelessness and poverty in our world?

This is why I chose to be here tonight,” Mayor Luttrell said. Mayor Luttrell expressed appreciation to several churches that are partnering with HER Faith Ministries in the faith-based initiative to address homelessness.

Among the recognized churches were: Bethany Christian Church, Castalia Baptist Church, Central Christian Church, Collierville Christian Church,

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Decatur-Trinity Christian Church, Greater Middle Baptist Church, Mississippi Boulevard Christian Church, New Song Baptist Church, Pleasants Christian Church, St. Peter Baptist Church, Temple of the Saints of God in Christ.

Pastor Furniss Harkness Bethany Christian Church The ministry recognized several indi-

viduals and organizations that have helped the organization to achieve its missions. A posthumous recognition was also made to the late businesswoman and entrepreneur Tina Birchett, founder of Grace Magazine and the Sisterhood Showcase. HER Faith Ministries Executive Director Elaine Sanford stated, “We cannot allow this evening to end without recognizing the contributions made over the years by our dearly beloved, Tina Birchett. She was a woman with big heart whom we know is looking down upon us tonight. She was dearly loved and she is sorely missed.”

HER Faith Ministries is a faith-based organization which provides housing, emergency food, clothing, transportation assistance, and medical care for homeless and needy women and children. The ministry receives no government funding or grant support, but is supported by contributions from individuals and area churches.

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closet consisting of clothing for the entire family (men, women, children and baby clothing).

The Ministry accepts all types of clean clothing in good condition which can either be recycled through use by needy families or offered at a minimal cost in quarterly yard sales which serve as fundraisers to help to offset ministry costs.

HER Faith Ministries, Inc., provides spiritual guidance and care, outreach support, and basic human service assistance to people in need.

Specifically, HER Faith serves the needs of women and children in Memphis and Shelby County in the following ways: TEMPORARY HOUSING. The ministry provides a home for women and children in safe, affordable and secure housing. A fullyfurnished, shared residence is available to families (mothers with up to two children). Families share common areas of the residence. The ministry provides emergency food, clothing, bedding, and other household items. The ministry house is funded through individual donations, contributions from the faith community and the minimal gifts from residents. This service is offered in partnership with the YWCA. EMERGENCY FOOD. HER Faith Ministries maintains a food pantry stocked with non-perishable items. The ministry also supports community outreach efforts to feed the homeless.

Volunteers sort donated clothing receive appropriate clothing for all seasons.

CLOTHES CLOSET. The ministry maintains a fully-stocked clothes

TRANSPORTATION ASSISTANCE. Many families do not have personal automobiles. They must therefore rely on public transportation. Through the generous gifts of our Board of Directors, friends, and supporters of the ministry, we are able to assist mothers with children in purchasing bus passes for public transportation to and from work, to various social service agencies, to school, and other business concerns.

PRISON OUTREACH. For more than six years, the Ministry has provided spiritual guidance and support to incarcerated women and those who have been released from prison and/or jail. Many times, ex-offenders find it difficult to make the transition back to communities, homes, and prior relationships which can bolster their re-entry and help to ensure a successful and permanent return to home.

COMMUNITY OUTREACH. HER volunteers support the community in various ways. For example, we secured air conditioners for needy families over the extremely hot summer months.

HER Faith Ministries exists to help women and children to address these challenges.

If you would like to join us in helping needy women and children, please call our office at (901) 324-3705. You may also send me an email at ministersanford@aol.com. The ministry accepts donations of any kind (clothing, household items, appliances, furniture, baby items, etc.). You may also make a tax deductible cash gift to the ministry, if you wish.

Please make your tax deductible gift on this web site using a credit card or Pay Pal Account. Or, you may mail your check to: HER Faith Ministries,Inc. 3396 Park Avenue Memphis, TN 38111

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NaKeisha Green, owner of Petals Studio, offers the following tips to set a beautiful holiday table. Since 1999, Petals Studio has served the Memphis area with unique floral arrangements. Ms. Green is best known for her decorating finesse and imaginative flair creating artful arrangements that fit any budget. Petals Studio reaches beyond floral décor and creates a magical ambience using linens, furniture, flowers and special lighting. To make your holiday table decorating a joyful experience, Green offers the following tips: 1. START WITH THe RIGHT CeNTeRPIeCe A centerpiece sets the tone for the rest of the table decoration. Your centerpiece should complement your table not dominate it. Don’t cover the table with so many decorations that the effect is overcrowded and confused. Be mindful of the height of your centerpiece. Everyone seated at the table should be able to make eye contact with each other. Make sure your centerpiece is breathtaking but not overtaking.

2. SeLeCT YoUR CoLoR SCHeMe Ms. Green encourages customers to use colors they like. She emphasizes that Christmas centerpieces can be holiday without using the traditional red. Here, Green used soft pink roses accented with green holly for the holiday centerpiece. Berries, magnolia leaves and pine cones and greenery accent the centerpiece.

3. Be CReATIVe – The best centerpieces use unique vessels to add additional flair. Green’s table uses a snow-laden home accented in grays and silver.

4. CoNSIDeR USING CANDLeS – Green suggests the use of lots of candles, especially if you are serving dinner. Candles give your table and room a romantic, cozy feel. Votive candles can be scattered among taller accent candles to add symmetry and intrigue.

It’s the little details that make a difference when you’re decorating a table for Christmas. Plan your decoration well. Contact Petals for your next floral arrangement needs. G Petals Studio 946 N. Germantown Road Cordova, TN 38016 901.791.2534 December 2013 | GrAce 73

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hristmas is my favorite time of year. I love the music, the decorations, and traditions, and yes, even the “hustle and bustle.” I love all the memories of past Christmases. I love the unique smells of chestnuts, live Christmas trees, and family feasts. I love to hear jingling bells. They immediately make me think of Santa and his reindeer – even though I’m no longer supposed to “believe.” I am obsessed with eggnog, that heavenly concoction that thankfully only appears this time of year. And I love cuddling up on my sofa watching one of my all-time favorite movies, “It’s a Wonderful Life.”

For those who haven’t discovered the film, it’s the 1946 Christmas classic starring James Stewart (another personal favorite) as George Bailey. George is a man who grew up and remained in a small community even though he dreamed of doing bigger and better things. Time after time, he gave up his personal aspirations to help others. When something goes terribly wrong and his sacrifices seem to backfire on him, he decides the only solution is suicide. An angel in the form of a shabby old man intervenes. He shows George all the lives he touched and how his different things would be if he had never been born. It sounds a little morbid, I know, but in the end you can’t help but rejoice for George Bailey and be inspired by his example.

“It’s A Wonderful Life” makes me rejoice because it celebrates the things I cherish most – Family, Faith, and Friends. I rejoice because it reminds me that we each matter because we have been given the wonderful gift of life. I rejoice because it makes me reflect upon all of the special people who have touched my life and how different things would be without them. I rejoice because it reminds me that there is always “a way out of no way.” I rejoice because it reaffirms my belief in unexpected angels.

Best of all, I rejoice because it’s Christmas and I’m reminded of the best gift I can give this season. In the world of iPads and XBoxes, it’s easy to get caught up in buying the “newest” and the “hottest.” The best gift any of us can give, however, is age-old. We can give the most valuable thing we possess – ourselves.

We can give in sacrificial big ways or in meaningful small ways. The magnitude doesn’t matter. We can give a charitable donation or an elderly person a seat on the bus. We can give our time to a soup kitchen or a smile to a child. We can give a hand to someone carrying groceries or advice to a teen. We can give gadget-free, love-filled time to our families. We can give – and should give – unselfishly to others, expecting nothing in return, because Life was given to us. It’s the greatest gift of all.

Whether you celebrate Christmas or not, I wish you the joy of giving to others. This holiday season, I wish you special time with family and friends. I wish you the gift of “believing” – be it in Santa, angels, or something else. I wish you endless happiness and hope in good things to come. I hope you rejoice at all the positive people and possibilities around you. It truly is a wonderful life!

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