HOMELY HOMILY

BY GLENN STEVENS

Queer reads

There is no doubt that a well written book on issues on LGBTQ+ for anyone wanting to find their way can have a massive impact knowing you’re not alone and most importantly empowering you to be your true self.

With this in mind, I would like to highlight four books that I have recently read as part of my journey to be a better trans ally, for those making their own gender journey and for everyone who would like to be better informed.

There may be those who bemoan the inclusive alphabet, LGBTQ+; instead of seeing this as a minefield of confusion, see it as a treasure trove of better understanding the diverse group of fabulous people out there.

Gender: A Graphic Novel by Meg-John Barker and Jules Scheele

Because it’s a graphic novel, I found this a really user friendly way of getting a good insight of the history of gender which showed just how connected we all are in the fight to be seen, understood and respected regardless of which letter we find ourselves using. One of the most important themes in the book is that of recognising our own sense of self and to respect, embrace and celebrate other people’s journeys.

A Quick and Easy Guide to They/Them Pronouns by Archie Bongiovanni, Tristan Jimerson

This slim volume is an easy way to learn to understand the use of genderneutral pronouns and why this is important to understand their use.

The Making of a Man: Notes on Transsexuality by Maxim Februari

I absolutely love this book, packed with a wide range of information not only regarding Februari’s journey of transitioning but also answers a host of questions people ask a transgender person, along with reminders of the type of question you really do not need to ask.

As well as writing about his own journey, Februari also gives some fascinating information on transgender history, all written in an easy to access style of writing as well as a dash of humour when needed.

Trans: A Memoir by Juliet Jacques

Within this memoir, Jacques takes the reader on a very personal journey of discovery and gives an insight to what it takes to become your true self, searching for an understanding of who they are, while growing up in a time and place where speaking about being transgender was not the done thing. It is only when Jacques moves to Brighton does she have the full confidence to explore being the woman she is.

Despite Brighton being flagged as a liberal town, Jacques still encountered transphobia both in her workplace and around town, which is something that still happens today.

My main thoughts from reading these books is about the greater need for tolerance required by us all. Should you be one of those people who thinks it is OK to loudly express your opinions regarding someone else's gender or sexuality, take a step back, think about the language you are using and consider something positively inclusive for all.