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INSIDE Vol.21 Number 10

Melissa's Legacy: Support & Friendship for Area Teens Living with Cancer

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16 Gaming for a

20 Against the

34 Parent-Teacher

A 24-HOUR VIDEO GAME MARATHON TO RAISE MONEY FOR CHILDREN'S MIRACLE NETWORK

WHY SOME AREA PARENTS, TEACHERS & EDUCATORS OPPOSE THE NEW INITIATIVE

WORKING TOGETHER FOR ACADEMIC SUCCESS

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168 Things to Do This Month 46 Pumpkin Decorating Made Easy 32 Education Issue 24, 26, 36-45 Melissa's Legacy 10

EDUCATION & SCHOOL GUIDE PAGES 34-45

JOHN BOCCACINO is monthly contributor to Rochester & Genesee Valley Parent Magazine. He reported on sports and local news for more than 6 1/2 years with the Democrat and Chronicle newspaper.

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He is currently the Director of Sports Information for Keuka College. Boccacino is a Brighton native who currently resides in Webster. [Pages 10 & 20] SUE HENNINGER is a monthly contributor to Rochester & Genesee Valley Parent who enjoys writing about the unique

people, places, and events that can be found in the Finger Lakes region. [Page 16] MALIA JACOBSON is a nationally published journalist and mom of three. Her latest book is Sleep Tight, Every Night: Helping Toddlers and Preschoolers Sleep Well Without

Tears, Tricks, or Tirades. [Page 24] SANDRA GORDON is an award-winning freelance writer who delivers expert advice and the latest developments in health, nutrition, parenting and consumer issues. [Page 26]

DEENA VIVIANI is a Rochester-based Young Adult Services Librarian who writes reviews for VOYA and the RACWI Newsletter. [Page 30] Author and journalist CHRISTINA KATZ enjoys the results of carving pumpkins but the messy process not-

so-much. [Page 32] DENISE YEARIAN is the former editor of two parenting magazines and the mother of three children. [Page 34] RACHEL BLUM is an Editorial and Journalism Intern from Pittsford Sutherland High School.

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By Jillian Melnyk

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WHAT’S ON YOUR MIND? Email our Publisher, Barbara: mail@GVParent.com Email our Editor, Jillian: editor@GVParent.com

hen life hands you lemons, make lemonade. While that old adage might sound cliché, it's important to remember that beauty can be born out of tragedy. Melissa's Legacy is living proof. After her teenage daughter, Melissa, lost her battle with Leukemia, Lauren Spiker saw an opportunity to create beauty. Before she passed away, Melissa had requested that her mother do something to make a difference and make things better. And Lauren did just that. Her daughter's words inspired Lauren to found Melissa's Legacy, a Rochester-based organization that is dedicated to providing life-affirming opportunities, friendship and support for area teens living with cancer. (You can learn more about the organization and the teens it serves on page 10.) A negative event can either spin you into a downward cycle, or you can use it as an opportunity to rise and shine. We all make mistakes, and, unfortunately, we all deal with devastation and tragedy. It's part of being human. But it's about

how we handle these situations that make us who we are. You can do nothing or you can make a difference. It's the difference-makers out there who make our community a thing of beauty. To them, I offer an enormous thank you.

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Melissa's legacy SUPPORT & FRIENDSHIP FOR AREA TEENS LIVING WITH CANCER

n April of 1998, Melissa Marie Sengbusch was a vibrant, ambitious 17-year-old high school senior with big plans for college and beyond. She was beginning to make important decisions regarding her future and had taken that important first step when she applied to and was accepted into the nursing program at the prestigious University of Pennsylvania. All of her plans for a bright future were put on hold when, shortly after being accepted into Penn, Sengbusch and her family received devastating and life-altering news: Sengbusch had been diagnosed with Myelodysplastic Syndrome, a rare form of Leukemia. 10

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Lauren Spiker watched her daughter, Melissa, struggle with this disease that claims fewer than five out of every one million Americans each year. Chemotherapy treatments started in July of 1998, forcing Melissa to temporarily change her plans for college, even though she did manage to achieve a perfect 4.0 grade-point average in five classes at the University of Rochester. For eight glorious weeks, Melissa even managed to fight through her illness and attend classes at Penn. There, she excelled in her classes, made fast friends with her peers, ate in the campus dining hall and even attended a fraternity party -- all the staples of a typical college student’s life. While Melissa fought the good fight and put everything she had into battling Leukemia, in the end, she succumbed to her illness on June 22, 2000 at the age of 19. Before she died, mother and daughter

engaged in one last heart-to-heart talk, where Melissa made a request to her mother that profoundly impacted not only Lauren Spiker’s life, but the lives of hundreds of cancer-stricken teenagers living in Rochester and the surrounding areas. “Three nights before Melissa died, we were up late talking and I told her how proud I was of her for living her life, on her terms," Spiker recalls. "I thanked her for what I had learned from her during her two-year struggle. She responded by challenging me, saying ‘If you have learned anything from me through all of this, do something with it to make a difference, to make things better.'" Fourteen years later, a dying daughter’s words still resonate with Spiker, the founder and executive director of Melissa’s Legacy: Teens Living with Cancer, a support group for area teenagers who are going through the same difficult ordeal

FROM LEFT TO RIGHT / ISAIAH COX, 17, LEUKEMIA SURVIVOR; KATIE FOSTER, 15, RHABDOMYOSARCOMA; MAREESA BOYATZIES, 15, HODGKIN’S LYMPHOMA; MICHAELA DEEG, 16, HODGKIN’S LYMPHOMA; KATYA MAILLOUX-KUZ, 17, BRAIN CANCER; BRYN MUGNOLO, 16, HODKIN’S LYMPHOMA; JAMES BOTSFORD, 18, HODGKIN’S LYMPHOMA

that eventually took Melissa’s life. While Melissa was bravely battling her illness, Spiker noticed that teenagers have a distinctive road to take on the way to recovery, different from young children or senior citizens facing cancer. Oftentimes, teenagers battling cancer can fall through the cracks in the health care system. Trapped between two worlds — that of pediatric medicine and adult medicine — neither truly fits their unique challenges. Those who receive treatment and feedback from pediatricians often feel like their doctors don’t understand what they are going through, since normally these specialists are treating younger children, not teenagers. Even the waiting rooms can be off-putting, with teenagers trying to sit on undersized chairs while attempting to calm their nerves by reading the available children’s books or playing with children’s toys instead of age-appropriate materials.

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with cancer,” says At school, too, Spiker says teenage Spiker, who formed I started out Melissa's Legacy cancer patients trying to find some way to face a difficult in 2001 and says bridge that gap in services that approxroad. Their and find a way for other teens imately 60 peers often like Melissa to have the very don’t know area teenagers best life possible while dealing attend the how to handle with their cancer, whether they the news that group’s assorted meetings and one of their survive or not. ” social activities. friends has – LAUREN SPIKER, FOUNDER & “I started out cancer, and can EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF trying to find some often become more MELISSA’S LEGACY: TEENS distant and awkward way to bridge that gap LIVING WITH CANCER in services and find a way around the cancer patient. For the teenage cancer for other teens like Melissa to have the very best life possible patient, normal life is abruptly while dealing with their cancer, whether interrupted and replaced by doctor’s appointments, chemotherapy sessions and they survive or not. This group’s goal is to help teenagers have as many life-affirming lonely, overnight stays in the hospitals. “We saw first-hand how incredibly events as possible.” difficult it was to be a teenager living

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WHAT DOES MELISSA'S LEGACY PROVIDE?

The efforts of Melissa's Legacy Foundation are dedicated to helping teens living with cancer learn how to take charge, improve their physical fitness and express themselves through the arts, while providing camaraderie, outings, social events and opportunities for life-affirming occasions. FOR MORE INFORMATION on the group, including two upcoming fundraisers, the 13th Annual Celebration of Living (Oct. 11) and the 2nd Annual Bandana Bolt 5K race (Oct. 12), visit www.teenslivingwithcancer.org.

visited her in the hospital, she was ethany Marsh is a proud originally hesitant to join TLC. graduate of what many "Maybe I was in denial of the group’s members about my leukemia, have dubbed the TLC but I didn’t want to group (for Teens We could all focus so much on Living with Cancer). my illness," Marsh relateto the struggles of Marsh, a native of says. "I just wanted dealing with cancer, while Nunda, Livingston to go back to high County, was 15 1/2 our friends from high school, be with my years old when she school seemed nervous friends and be that was diagnosed with and never knew how to reckless teenager Acute Lymphothat everyone wants approach me when they blastic Leukemia in to be.” saw me." January 2005. While But it didn’t take out at a party with her Marsh long to real– BETHANY MARSH friends, Marsh started to ize the benefits of being experience pain and went to around other teenage cancer see a doctor to figure out what patients. “It was a wonderful supwas ailing her. When the diagnosis came port group and I’m still friends with many of back as cancer, Marsh was devastated. “I had those TLC folks,” says Marsh, whose cancer so many questions racing through my head: has been in remission since 2008 and who was what is cancer? How will I be treated? 'Can I recently hired by TLC as an adolescent prosurvive? What is the mortality rate?' It doesn’t gram coordinator where she helps to connect help when everyone else starts treating you other cancer patients through social media. like you are going to die because of cancer,” “We would all come together and be like the Marsh says. “It was a pretty traumatic time, Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles – we all had but when a crisis happens, you don’t have a tubes coming out of us, had lost our hair, were choice; you have to find a way to get through on all kinds of drugs to treat us and some of us it." Marsh says that when Lauren Spiker

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FROM LEFT TO RIGHT / JEN ZAFFUTS, YOGA INSTRUCTOR, BEGIN FROM WITHIN; C.J. PAONI, 18 YRS., BRAIN CANCER SURVIVOR; TAYLOR MATEO, 18 YRS., HODGKIN’S LYMPHOMA SURVIVOR

had fake limbs. These people were my friends and didn’t judge me," Marsh adds. "We could all relate to the struggles of dealing with cancer, while my friends from high school seemed nervous and never knew how to approach me when they saw me.”

dam Turner, now 15, was 11 when he was diagnosed with Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia in May 2010, the same form of cancer that afflicted Marsh. When he first started going for chemotherapy and treatments, Adam went to a support group meeting for children, but was among the oldest there so he didn’t feel like he could relate. Adam and his mother, Michele, heard about TLC, and almost immediately, Adam felt right at home with the members of the support group. “I kept questioning whether or not I was going to die because my grandpa had passed away from cancer when I was five, so it was really hard at first,” Adam says. “But everyone was supportive and told me that I wasn’t going to die and that I was a fighter who would beat this. The scars used to bug me, but now they don't. Everyone has scars, and it’s something to be proud of, that I went through and survived cancer. It’s a great group where you can talk about not just cancer, but life. No one there judges and they are there to talk and listen. It’s my second family.” “It’s not a doom and gloom group; this is a way for these kids to have a life and gain a whole new perspective,” adds Michele Turner, who regularly attended the support group meetings for parents of teenagers living with cancer. “There are days we (parents of teenagers with cancer) are angry and days when you want to cry, but with this support group, you can show your emotions around people who know what you’re going through.”

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piker says that across the country, 7,000 teenagers are diagnosed with cancer each year, and that every graduating class of high school seniors has, on average, at least one teenager who has survived cancer. The average treatment for a teenager living with cancer is roughly two-and-a-half years, so Spiker says that averages out to roughly 16,000 teenagers who are in active treatment for their cancer annually. Many forms of cancer that affect teenagers have less than a 50 percent survival rate. For those fortunate teenagers who do survive and beat their cancers, just because the cancer is in remission, doesnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t mean the complications stop there. These teenagers still have potentially 70 more years of living with health complications and problems stemming from their cancer treatments, which is important for the community to understand so that if can support these survivors in their efforts to remain cancer-free. In 2012, a second chapter of TLC was opened in Buffalo, and Spiker says the group has formed a partnership with the Wilmot Cancer Center that aims to assist teenagers in their transition from cancer patient to cancer survivor. Fourteen years after she suffered the biggest loss of her life, Spiker knows that her daughter is watching over TLC and is proud of the difference her mother has made in the lives of teenagers living with cancer. ď&#x20AC;Ť JOHN BOCCACINO is monthly contributor to Rochester & Genesee Valley Parent Magazine. He reported on sports and local news for more than 6 1/2 years with the Democrat and Chronicle newspaper. He is currently the Director of Sports Information for Keuka College. Boccacino is a Brighton native who currently resides in Webster.

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GAMING

FOR A CAUSE EXTRA LIFE: A 24-HOUR VIDEO GAME MARATHON TO RAISE MONEY FOR CHILDREN'S MIRACLE NETWORK

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s there a way to combine video games with fundraising for hospitalized children? Jeromy “Doc” Adams, founder of Extra Life, a 24-hour video game marathon launched with the support of the Sarcastic Gamer’s Community in 2008, says there is. The proof is in the numbers, with thousands of gamers and sponsors worldwide enthusiastically participating in the annual event that benefits young people with serious health issues. All the money donated through Extra Life goes to Children’s Miracle Network, a nonprofit organization that helps sick and injured kids all over the United States and Canada. Additionally, Extra Life gamers have the option of choosing a local hospital in the Network to be the recipient of their donations.

What the Gamer’s Say

Rochester resident, Andrew Knoblauch, participated in Extra Life last year and enjoyed it so much that he and his friend and colleague, Ian Auch, have already put a team together for this year’s “Game Fest” (October 25-26). “It was one of the best weekends I had all year,” he asserts. Though Andrew doesn’t classify himself as a “hard core gamer,” he readily admits to being a technology nerd. “I love technology,” he says enthusiastically. “Some people read books, some go fishing. Video games are relaxing for me. They’re a way to get my inner-child going.” His current favorite is FIFA 14, a realistic soccer game which allows gamers to build their own team from real world players and staff, which they can then use to compete in both online and offline tournaments and divisions. Andrew, a Digital Media and Public Relations Account Executive at Dixon Schwabl in Victor, had never heard of Extra Life until Ian, whose brother-inlaw works in the gaming industry, told him about the novel idea and asked if he’d be interested in forming a company team. The chance to be a kid while helping kids in need held great appeal for Andrew and Ian. “For us this was perfect,” Andrew observes. “We love to spend time together

THE DIXON-SCHWABL TEAM: ANDREW KNOBLAUCH, IAN AUCH, WILL BROWAR, WAYNE GORMONT, CONNOR DIXON-SCHWABL, TORIN BOND, MATT BIELEWICZ

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It was easy until about sixteen hours into it, then our eyes and hands got tired, our stomachs felt weird, and our senses went on ‘over-alert.’”

to stretch out, and and Dixon Schwabl remember to get is very commusome fresh air at nity oriented.” regular intervals. Before committing Andrew and themselves, the his teammates took Dixon Schwabl their participation team researched the in the Extra Life organization to make – ANDREW KNOBLAUCH, event to another level sure it was a legitimate EXTRA LIFE PARTICIPANT by asking Heather Hare, cause. Once they’d desenior public relations assotermined it was, they signed up a team of co-workers. The ciate at UR Medicine’s Golisano Children's Hospital, to set up a hospital process is simple, Andrew says. Register and create a personal fundraising page for tour so they could see where the money they raised was going to. They found the yourself or your team on the Extra Life experience extremely meaningful. Meeting website. Then try to get a minimum of four family members or friends to sponsor some of the young patients with serious you for $1/hour ($24 total). Finally, follow injuries or chronic diseases “hit them to Jeromy’s advice and “sit on your rear end the core,” Andrew says, adding, “Most of us are lucky. We have families to go home and play all types of games for 24-hours.” Sounds simple, right? Not so, says Andrew. to, jobs, and friends. For some kids this becomes their whole life, strange hospital “It was easy until about sixteen hours into rooms and medical staff every single day.” it, then our eyes and hands got tired, our stomachs felt weird, and our senses went The young men are already planning ahead for Extra Life 2015. “None of us on ‘over-alert.’” He admits that he and his teammates hadn’t anticipated the physical are event planners by any means,” Andrew confesses. “We started really late last year toll the hours of gaming would take on them. Saying they definitely learned from and late this year. We’re planning to start earlier next year though and to add some their experience, Andrew notes that this year they’ll drink less soda and more water, extras, like a raffle, to raise even more make sure to take more frequent breaks money.” In 2013 the Dixon Schwabl team CONTINUED >>> Rochester & Genesee Valley Parent • October 2014 17

DR. COOK’S TIPS FOR GAMING WITH KIDS • S et reasonable limits on number of hours spent gaming per day. Using a token system for screen time can be particularly effective. •O nly purchase games that you feel fit your family’s values. Games can often be previewed before purchase at stores. •K eep gaming units out of kids’ bedrooms. Place them in a common area where you have a clear understanding of what, and how much, they’re playing. • P lay with your kids occasionally to help you find a common ground with their interest in gaming.

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•C heck out websites like this one from the American Academy of Pediatrics to learn more about kids and gaming: www.healthychildren.org/english/family-life/media/Pages/ default.aspx

limitations (for whom strenuous raised $2,865 and their goal this fundraisers like walkathons or year is $5,000. Andrew will be triathlons may not be an challenging his past donors NATIONAL GAME option) to be part of the to do even more this year, action. along with trying to DAY BEGINS AT 8 AM Though concerns leverage social media CENTRAL TIME ON about an increasing to increase his donor amount of youth base. He encourages SATURDAY, OCTOBER screen time, couRochester-area fami25TH & ENDS AT 8AM pled with a decrease lies, groups like his, and in physical activity individuals to consider ON SUNDAY, among young people, participating as well. OCTOBER 26TH are widespread, Dr. Cook “Look beyond the obvious, notes that playing a video that it’s for a good cause,” he game expends about the same advises. “It gives you a chance to level of activity as playing a traditional be with those you care about pursuing a common interest. It’s a great way for families board game like Checkers or Monopoly. Additionally, there are benefits to gaming to bond in a unique way and to have fun that might not be immediately obvious to together. That’s what it’s all about!” parents, he says. For families who are time and resource-stretched, video games can be The Pediatrician’s a flexible and readily-available option which Perspective allows them to play together, talk about what Dr. Stephen Cook, Associate Professor of they’re doing, and have fun as a family. Pediatrics at Golisano Children's Hospital, Dr. Cook favors games that encourage University of Rochester Medical Center, group participation like dance or sports hadn’t heard of Extra Life, but observes games (which can be enjoyed by all genthat an event which raises awareness about erations) or those that are educational in children’s health and children’s hospitals can some way. However, he reminds adults that, only be positive. Dr. Cook adds that this type though there may be modest, limited physof fundraiser may actually be more incluical benefits to “exer-gaming,” it shouldn’t sive, allowing kids and adults with physical

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GET GAMING Visit www.extra-life.org to register for this year’s October event which takes place on October 25 & 26. Go to http://childrensmiraclenetworkhospitals.org/About to learn more about Children’s Miracle Network Hospitals.

replace real physical activity or outside play. Online games he suggests families avoid are “first person shooter games” and games that contain explicit adult and/or violent content. Other potential pitfalls of “over-gaming” that he urges parents to pay attention to are the commercial advertising that now embeds product images in video games, exerting a strong influence over children who are playing them, and the mindless, unhealthy eating that tends to accompany gaming over an extended period of time. It’s also crucial that parents make sure that gaming isn’t their child’s only focus, to the exclusion of all other activities. “We like to see kids be better-rounded,” Dr. Cook explains. “Just like you might not want to see your child playing only one sport or one instrument all the time.” As with anything, moderation in gaming is important. For families that plan to participate in an event like Extra Life, he feels the ideal way to model a balanced lifestyle to kids would be to follow up the marathon with a more physical family activity like bike riding or hiking.  SUE HENNINGER is a monthly contributor to Rochester & Genesee Valley Parent who enjoys writing about the unique people, places, and events that can be found in the Finger Lakes region. Contact her at www.fingerlakeswriter.com

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against the common core WHY SOME AREA PARENTS, TEACHERS, & EDUCATORS OPPOSE THE NEW INITIATIVE

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he 2014-15 school year is one month old, and by now, most of the thousands of area children enrolled in school in and around Monroe County have settled into a routine and are adjusting to another year of classes. While their attentions are focused on mastering their math, English, science and social studies skills, there is a dedicated group of teachers, parents and administrators who are working to slow down or even reverse what they see as a troubling trend in education: the Common Core Standards Initiative.

Adopted in schools for all grade levels, the common core was developed by state education commissioners, the National Governors Association Center for Best Practices (NGA) and the Council of Chief State School Officers (CCSSO). According to the Common Core Standards website (www.corestandards.org), the Common Core is a “set of clear college- and career-ready standards for kindergarten through 12th grade in English language arts/literacy and mathematics. … The standards are designed to ensure that students graduating from high school are prepared to take credit-bearing introductory courses in twoor four-year college programs, or enter the workforce.” The Common Core has been fully adopted and implemented in 43 of the 50 states, including New York. Locally, there has been plenty of opposition to the Common Core, with parents, teachers and administrators pushing for more people to opt their children out of the standardized tests associated with the Common Core. Teachers have railed against the Common Core, citing long days of testing for students in grades three through eight as an inefficient method for proving competency in a particular subject. The Stop Common Core in New York group maintains nearly 14,000 supporters on Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/groups/ StopCommonCoreinNewYorkState), and has a website, (www. stopccssinnys.com), dedicated to educating parents on the dangers and shortcomings of the Common Core. Additionally, there are many other area groups, including Monroe County Against the Common Core, which is a regional version of the Stop Common Core group. These groups are denouncing the “Race to the Top” style of testing that is associated with the Common Core. Karen Costner, a concerned parent with three schoolaged children in the Spencerport Central School District, opted her children out of this year’s school testing. She was one of more than 4,000 people to sign their names on the “Stand with Spencerport” petition last summer, calling for dramatic changes in how area students are tested in the state. Members of the group and others opposed to the Common Core are upset at the standards because they were developed and funded by “big business,” and not by educators. Also, the standards are copyrighted so they can't be changed or adjusted by individual states or schools. The Stop Common Core group is ultimately hoping for a full repeal of the Common Core, as well as withdrawing from the “Race to the Top” initiative, in favor of teacher and parent-developed standards. “The flaw with the Common Core is the standards themselves, because teachers need to teach to the test, and not to their students. These standards are not preparCONTINUED >>> Rochester & Genesee Valley Parent • October 2014

ing our children for success in methods for solving the probhigh school and college,” lem. This means that even says Costner, a mother if a student correctly As a teacher, of twins in high solves the question, your job is to help each school and also a they can still fail if seventh-grader they didn’t arrive child live up to his fullest in Spencerat the answer potential. When the bar is port. “Testing using the preset the same for every child, companies like scribed method. every child loses. Teachers Pearson can Rachel share and mine Rosner, a Brighcannot teach to each child's our children’s ton resident, is strengths and work on their testing data witha teacher who weaknesses." out our consent. currently works as These standardized the member services – RACHEL ROSNER, TEACHER & MEMBER SERVICES DIRECTOR tests have over 400 director for AutismUp, FOR AUTISMUP data points, and Pearson a support group in Rochcreates the tests and sells ester aimed at improving the products for the tests to our the quality of life for children with schools. Everything is aligned with the autism, and their families. She says that, Common Core, but the teachers aren’t with teachers’ performances tied directly allowed to comment on the results of these to the results of these tests (teachers could tests, and they do not get any useful data lose tenure or even face termination if or feedback from the tests. But we are their students performed poorly on these spending millions of dollars on these tests standardized tests) educators are under while companies are profiting, and we foot more pressure than ever to push their the bill.” pupils through the tests without regard for Other common complaints about the their comprehension of the subject. “The Common Core: the tests only accept one CCSS is forcing teachers to stop educating. type of answer, even if there are numerous They are simply doing test preparations,”

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Rosner says. “As a teacher, your job is to help each child live up to his fullest potential. When the bar is set the same for every child, every child loses. Teachers cannot teach to each child's strengths and work on their weaknesses.” Another big criticism of the Common Core is the lack of immediate results for teachers. Many area teachers are frustrated because at the end of the school year, they still hadn’t received their students’ test results. Changes have already been made to the controversial Common Core. New York State passed legislation that would remove test scores from teachers’ evaluations. Additionally, lawmakers voted to keep common core test scores off student transcripts through 2018. These changes are just the beginning for area groups opposed to the Common Core. The groups also takes issue with the state's gag order that denies educators the opportunity to discuss the results of their exams with their students or colleagues. The gag order shields the state Education Department and test makers Pearson PLC from criticism of poorly written, confusing and developmentally inappropriate exam questions and prevents the tests from being used for any instructional purpose. Cur-

rently, teachers must sign a confidentiality agreement making it illegal for them to discuss any part of the exam. Opponents of the Common Core argue this is just one aspect that keeps the tests from being a useful part of instruction. Mike Panessa is a concerned parent of two boys, Joe (age 11) and Dan (7). He believes that the Common Core’s overemphasis on non-fiction reading and writing solely using excerpts instead of the entire work is derailing children from falling in love with reading and learning by stifling their educational creativity. “The Common Core agenda hurts a child’s education by imposing a one size fits all model of learning onto students,” says Panessa, who along with his wife pulled their two boys from public school and are now homeschooling them. “Children in the middle can perform the tasks with enough repetition, while those that are gifted will likely be bored and those with learning disabilities are virtually left out of the loop. The methodology requires abstract thinking within mathematics instruction in the lower grades. This requires children to utilize the hippocampus portion of their brain rather than the pre-frontal cortex. The hippocampus is designed as temporary storage. Over reliance upon its use slows the connections and growth of the prefrontal cortex and neocortex, where high order thinking and long-term retrieval occur as mature adults. In effect, it is making children dumber.” Rosner says that in addition to the Common Core’s standards being developmentally inappropriate, the standards are also biased against students with disabilities. “There are dozens of examples throughout the Common Core Standards that simply highlight the nature of my children’s disabilities, and do nothing to measure their understanding, knowledge or skills,” says Rosner, a mother of a son, 16, and a daughter, 12 with Autism. “Foundational skills are overlooked for students with developmental disabilities in order to present students with grade-level material as required by the Common Core," she adds. "My son is in 10th grade and has the functional vocabulary of a fourth-grader. He is more than capable of understanding new concepts if presented with language that he can understand. He is also capable of being directly taught a new word. If his teachers are forced to present concepts and information using grade-level appropriate language, my son will fail. Unless teachers can work with each student at their own individual developmental level, all of these children will fail.” Looking to learn more? A great resource for parents is the links page on the Stop Common Core in New York group, which lists both pro- and anti-Common Core groups in the state and across the country. That resource can be found at: www.stopccssinnys.com/CCSS_Links.html  JOHN BOCCACINO is monthly contributor to Rochester & Genesee Valley Parent Magazine. He reported on sports and local news for more than 6 1/2 years with the Democrat and Chronicle newspaper. He is currently the Director of Sports Information for Keuka College. Boccacino is a Brighton native who currently resides in Webster.

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EDUCATION

By Malia Jacobson

Sleep,Science, and Smarter Kids

HOW SLEEP BOOSTS LEARNING

ant kids to bring home As? Start with more ZZZs. According to sleep experts and numerous new studies, lost sleep hurts learning and hinders schoolday success. That’s bad news, because today’s kids get about an hour less sleep each night than they did 30 years ago, says New York Times bestselling author Po Bronson in his book NurtureShock: New Thinking About Children.

This lost sleep comes with a steep price tag – impaired learning and diminished academic success. How does sleep boost learning? Researchers believe it has to do with the way the brain processes information during sleep. In fact, Michigan State University researchers found that children can even learn while they’re asleep as the brain integrates new information and memories. Researchers from University of Florida discovered that newborns learn in their sleep, and new research from the American Academy of Sleep Medicine shows that sleep helps students perform better

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on tests. Here is how sleep impacts learning and how to help kids get better rest at night.

EARLY SCHOOL YEARS: 3-8 For sleep-deprived kids, school trouble starts early: 10 percent of kids in early education suffer from sleep disturbances that disrupt learning, according to a German study. The American Professional Sleep Society reports that sleep deprivation significantly

worsens inattentiveness and hyperactivity in young children, leading to ADHD-like symptoms (known as “faux” ADHD). Even modest sleep deprivation is enough to hinder learning. According to a study published in the journal SLEEP, a mere hour of lost slumber is enough to bring on inattentiveness and hyperactivity in young children. A 2011 study of 6 and 7 year olds found that language skills, grammar, spelling, and

reading comprehension suffer when kids get less than 9 hours of sleep per night. HOW TO HELP: Sleep-deprived children may not appear sleepy, says Shelby F. Harris, PsyD, Director of the Behavioral Sleep Medicine Program at Montefiore Medical Center in New York. In fact, they may act hyper and goofy. But preschoolers and school-age children don’t outgrow the need for a consistent bedtime and bedtime

routine. Establish an age-appropriate bedtime that allows your child to rest for 10 to 11 hours each night.

TWEEN YEARS: 9-13 During the late elementary and middle-school years, academics become more challenging and sports more competitive. But when increasingly busy schedules start cutting into sleep, kids retain less of what they learn, says Mark Splaingard, MD, Director of the Sleep Disorders Center at Nationwide Children’s Hospital. “Long hours spent on sports practice or math problems are counterproductive, if these activities keep kids up late at night,” he notes. Kids will learn more and perform better – whether on the field or in the classroom – with sufficient shut-eye. HOW TO HELP: Parents need to understand sleep’s importance and guard kids’ sleep hours zealously, says Splaingard. That means maintaining firm school-year bedtimes and choosing after-school and evening activities that end at least an hour before kids need to wind down for bed.

TEENAGE YEARS: 14-18 Teenagers are Splaingard’s most sleep-deprived patients, a fact that doesn’t surprise him. During high school, after-school jobs, extracurricular activities, sports, socializing, and homework simply don’t leave enough time for sleep. Most teens need more sleep than parents think – over 9 hours a night – and chronic sleep deprivation hurts learning at a time when kids need lots of mental energy for tough subjects from chemistry to calculus. But teens’ busy schedules deserve only part of the blame for teens’ sleep deficits: cell phones and laptops keep teens up late, often into the wee hours. When teens finally power off their computers and go to bed, round-the-clock access to cell phones disrupts

HOW MUCH SLEEP DOES YOUR CHILD NEED? Is your child getting enough rest? Check these guidelines to be sure. Three to Six Years Old: 10-12 hours per day Seven to Twelve Years Old: 10-11 hours per day Thirteen to Eighteen Years Old: 8-9 hours per day

sleep. A new study reports that sleeping near cell phones puts teens at risk for so-called “sleep texting:" waking up and firing off text messages during the night without any recollection of having sent the texts the next morning. All this sleep disruption adds up to bleary mornings and bleak report cards. HOW TO HELP: Protect teens’ precious sleep hours with a media curfew –shut down all electronics an hour before bed and establish a “charging station” outside the bedroom where teens leave their electronics overnight. This important step keeps bedrooms free of sleep-disrupting cell phones and computers, says Harris. “The bedroom should be a place for sleep,” she notes. “It’s not a spot for homework, watching TV, or surfing the Internet.” When it comes to learning, tutors, cutting-edge gadgets, and hours of homework can’t compensate for hours of lost sleep. When parents prioritize kids’ sleep needs, learning comes more naturally, says Splaingard. “We think we’re helping make kids more successful with more activities and more homework. But what they really need is more sleep.”  Malia Jacobson is a nationally published journalist and mom of three. Her latest book is Sleep Tight, Every Night: Helping Toddlers and Preschoolers Sleep Well Without Tears, Tricks, or Tirades. Rochester & Genesee Valley Parent • October 2014

EDUCATION

By Sandra Gordon

help your preschooler start smart

TIPS FOR ENHANCING LEARNING & DEVELOPMENT

ou’ve picked up your child from her 2s, 3s or 4s program, with the rest of the day or the weekend ahead of you. Now what? It’s a common dilemma. “So many parents ask me, ‘What do I do with my child when we get home?’” says Elissa Sungar, a former preschool teacher at Stanford University Laboratory School in Palo Alto, California and the co-creator of www.ifnotyouwho.org, a free website that guides parents through 300 short and fun daily activities to help them prepare their child for kindergarten.

It turns out there’s a lot you can do to help your child keep learning all day long and it doesn’t involve workbooks or writing letters over and over. Instead, it’s about playing and interacting with your preschooler to develop the cognitive, physical, language and motor skills he’ll need to be ready for the “big school.” Kindergarten readiness is vital for a child’s long-term academic success. It’s estimated that of the millions of children who enter kindergarten each year, half are behind their peers socially and academically, which increases the risk of failure

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in school. Of the half who aren’t prepared, up to 40 percent won’t finish high school. “So much brain development occurs before age 6. You want your child ready for kindergarten and you want your child’s classmates to be ready so they can challenge your child,” Sungar says. “We need everybody on board.” Parents play a major role in the process and the subtle shifts in how you interact with your child can make a big difference. Here are three things you can do now to help your preschooler become a capable learner.

Three Things to with Preschoolers Each of these activities helps develop your child’s cognitive and fine motor skills but your child will just know he’s having fun. WHEN YOU NEED A TIME OUT Fill up the bath tub. Preschoolers love to splash around in water as well as pour it, strain and transfer it from one object to another. So plop your child in the tub along with items from your kitchen, such as plastic cups, a turkey baster or a strainer or just give them a sponge. Squeezing a sponge or turkey baster and transferring water from one cup to another enhances fine motor development. Stay in the bathroom with your child, but feel free to sit back and watch the supervised fun unfurl. Another idea: Fill ice cube trays with water and add one drop of food coloring to each cube. Let the cubes freeze overnight. Then pop one or two ice cubes into your child’s bath water and watch her have a blast mixing the colors. Another fun tub-time activity: Add a drop of food coloring to little plastic bowls filled with shaving cream and give your child a paint brush or let her explore it with her hands on the side of the tub. WHEN YOU’RE MAKING DINNER Have your child make foil letters. Ask your child to squeeze a sheet of aluminum foil into a skinny tube then see what she can do with it. Can she make a circle? A triangle? A letter, like a b? Be sure to show her what a circle looks like if she doesn’t know or point to letter examples on food labels. WHEN YOU’RE WAITING ANYWHERE Have your child go on a letter hunt. Bring along a magazine or the newspaper and have your child circle letters, numbers, animals or people with a marker.

Let your child take the lead. When playing with your child, it’s tempting to take over, as in: Now it’s time to dress the baby doll. Now it’s time to give the baby a bath. “Many adults think play should be a certain way,” Sungar says, "but that’s too limiting." To enhance your child’s creativity and confidence, guide her instead. “While you’re playing with your child, narrate what your child is doing," says Sunger, "ask questions about why she’s doing what she’s doing and what comes next, as in: “Now, you’re giving baby a bath. What’s baby going to do after her bath?” Letting your child run the show gives her a sense of control, which helps develop her thinking skills and ability to solve problems on her own. If she

has a tough time getting the baby undressed, for example, don’t do it for her. “It’s critical to let kids explore, learn from their experiences and fix problems as they happen,” Sungar says.

Give explicit feedback. Throughout your child’s day, give specific praise and negative feedback. Instead of saying, “good job,” for example, when your child shows you a picture he painted, you might say, “I like how you used the blue and the red paint. Those colors mix well together.” Similarly, if your child decides to stand up on a chair, instead of saying, “sit down,” say, “Please sit on your bottom. When you stand, you can fall off the chair and get hurt.” Get the idea? Providing CONTINUED >>> Rochester & Genesee Valley Parent • October 2014

pointed criticism and advice is more valuable than vague remarks because it gives your child direction and helps build his vocabulary. The more words, the better. “The actual number of words kids hear each day is crucial to their long-term development,” Sungar says. Save one-word negative feedback, such as “No!” or “Don’t!” for safety issues, such as when your child runs out into the street or tries to touch a hot pan. The words become more effective if your child hears “No!” or “Don’t” less often.

Allow free play. Each day, give your child the space to do her own thing. “Preschoolers need at least four hours per week – roughly half an hour each day – of unstructured play time other than preschool,” Sungar says. Down time allows children to think creatively and gives them a mental breather. Without downtime, kids can feel overwhelmed by the increased pressure to succeed at school. Overscheduled kids may not know what to do or how to play by themselves. If that’s the case, give your child options, such as “Would you like to draw or play with blocks?” Then, go do what you need to do and check back in with your child occasionally. Keep the TV, your smart phone and tablet computer all turned off. Even if your child’s favorite app is “educational,” your child isn’t learning through a physical experience when she’s using a screen. “Preschoolers learn a lot with their bodies and need to try something, fail at it and then try something new,” Sungar says. “When they’re just using their thumbs or index finger on a touch screen, they’re not using the muscles in their hands, for example, which are crucial for holding a pencil, using scissors and throwing a ball.”  SANDRA GORDON is an award-winning freelance writer who delivers expert advice and the latest developments in health, nutrition, parenting and consumer issues. Her most recent book is Save a Bundle: 50+ Ways to Save Big on Baby Gear.

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BOOK NOOK

By Deena Viviani

monster mash

ove over, Frankenstein. Make room, Mummy. Take a hike, Wolfman. There are some new monsters in town. Delight little readers with these spooky, silly, furry, and ferocious beasts and their tales – and tails!

MORE READS

Craving more monster goodness? Try these novels: MIDDLE GRADE Jellaby: The Lost Monster By Kean Soo The Lonely Lake Monster By Suzanne Selfors YOUNG ADULT Dreams of Gods and Monsters By Laini Taylor Miss Peregrine's Home for Peculiar Children By Ransom Riggs A Monster Calls By Patrick Ness Monster High by Lisi Harrison Monsters By Ilsa J. Bick Monsters of Men By Patrick Ness The Monstrumologist By Rick Yancey The True Tale of the Monster Billy Dean, Telt By Hisself By David Almond The Replacement By Brenna Yovanoff

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Maddie’s Monster Dad

By Scott Gibala-Broxhol Amazon Children’s Publishing, 2011, hardcover, $16.99, Ages 5-7 Maddie loves acting scary and being scared. She also loves playing with her dad, except these days he is always busy with work. What else can she do but build a new Monster Dad? Too bad he’s not all Maddie cracked him up to be. Immerse yourself in Maddie’s haunted house until Dad finally breaks away from his office. The author of this lovely daddy-daughter picture book hales from nearby Walworth, NY.

Big Bad Bubble

Written by Adam Rubin & Illustrated Daniel Salmieri Houghton Mifflin Harcourt, 2014, hardcover, $16.99, Ages 3-6 No one knows where bubbles go after they are popped – until now. It’s La La Land, where donuts grow on trees, and fanged, clawed, horned monsters are afraid of the bubbles blowing into their home. With the assistance of the reader, the narrator helps the monsters get over their fears. This unique picture book is a dark delight.

Crankenstein

Written by Samantha Berger & Illustrated by Dan Santat Little, Brown, 2013, hardcover, $16.99, Ages 4-7

Everyone’s heard of Frankenstein, but what about Crankenstein? You might recognize these monsters by their grouchy grumbles, whiny whines, and crabby cries. Perhaps you can scare the Cranks away by reading this book! Bright illustrations with stylized text make for emotive reading that will turn frowns upside-down.

Creepy Monsters, Sleepy Monsters

Written by Jane Yolen & Illustrated by Kelly Murphy Candlewick Press, 2013, paperback, $5.99, Ages 2-5 Colorful monsters play after school until it is time to go home, eat dinner, and get ready for bed. How many monster eyeballs can your little one find on each page? How many monsters? Simple

rhymes and short text make this a perfect bedtime tale.

Don’t Push the Button By Bill Cotter Sourcebooks, 2013, hardcover, $16.99, Ages 3-6

It’s big, it’s red, and it’s dying to be pushed. It’s Larry the Purple Monster’s button! Larry warns readers not to touch the ever-present knob on the left-hand pages until he can’t resist…. Readers will enjoy following Larry’s instructions to get the monster madness under control in this interactive picture book.

Even Monsters…

By A. J. Smith Sourcebooks, 2014, hardcover, $16.99, Ages 4-6 Monsters and humans aren’t so different. Both need to eat breakfast in the morning, put on clean underwear every day, and can be afraid of the dark. Good thing that’s something a hug can fix! Visit these monster siblings and their cute cooties while they wear their “Fur of the Loom” underwear and read a book called Even Humans. Each page has a lot to love.

Love Monster

By Rachel Bright Farrar, Straus and Giroux, 2012, hardcover, $16.99, Ages 3-6 Cutesville is made up of fluffy bunnies, squishy kitties, cuddly puppies – and a googly-eyed monster. Monster leaves town and searches high and low for a place where he fits in until finally, when he is about to give up, he finds a furry face like his own. Readers will want to hug the Love Monster and make him feel less alone no matter how pointy his toenails.

My Teacher Is A Monster! (No, I Am Not) By Peter Brown Little, Brown, 2014, hardcover, $18.00, Ages 4-7

Is your teacher a monster? Robert’s is! She scolds him in class, stomps between desks, and has a snout, green skin, and pointy teeth. At least she does until Robert sees her in the park far from the schoolyard. Maybe, just maybe, she is a real person after all. The comic book style illustrations are complete with word bubbles and frames. Kids will love pointing out Ms. Kirby’s features becoming less monster-faced as the book progresses. Another winner from a Caldecott-honored author and illustrator.  DEENA VIVIANI is a Rochester-based Young Adult Services Librarian. Read more reviews on her blog www.deenaml.livejournal.com or send her a note at DeenaViviani@hotmail.com – she loves to hear from readers!

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YOUR FAMILY ACTIVITIES

By Lara Krupicka

pumpkin decorating made easy TEN NO-CARVE APPROACHES FOR HALLOWEEN

aybe you grew up carving Jack-o-lanterns and you want your kids to follow in your footsteps. Who could blame you? Carving pumpkins is a gooey-messy-blast for the whole family. For many of us, it's a time-honored tradition. But exploring other options isn't about replacing pumpkin-carving with a Pinterest-perfect art form â&#x20AC;&#x201C; it's about having fun decorating and exploring creativity. Why not try mixing things up this year?

Select pumpkin color and size according to taste and embellish away! You'll be amazed at how many looks a simple pumpkin can pull off. For best results, choose a pumpkin with a smooth, unblemished surface. Wash your pumpkin gently with mild soap and water and allow it to dry overnight before you begin decorating. Most of these looks work best for medium-sized to small pumpkins.

then sprinkle the entire pumpkin with glitter. Or mix a few glitters in advance for a multi-color look. If you want to do a variety of colors, coat only a portion of the pumpkin, then sprinkle glitter over just that portion. Catch extra glitter on newspaper and pour it back into container. Let sections dry between applications of new colors for best results.

Polk-a-dots Galore.

The Painted Lady.

Give very young children a pumpkin and a pile of sticky felt circles. Show them how to adhere them to their pumpkin and they will be happily entertained for quite some time. Polk-adots are the simplest approach for the youngest in your clan, but you can also create a more traditional look using black felt shapes.

If you want your painted pumpkin to last, coat it with a layer of varnish or sealer first in a well-ventilated area. Flip the pumpkin over onto a bowl or jar while you paint the bottoms first. When dry, flip it over to paint the rest. Apply a couple of coats of acrylic paint. Chalkboard paint also works well on pumpkins. Try painting the whole suface or just areas with faces, Halloween scenes, or an autumn landscape. Apply another coat of varnish to painted

The Glittering Globe. Coat your pumpkin in a layer of Mod Podge or white glue,

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pumpkins for longest-lasting results. Leave chalkboard painted pumpkins unvarnished.

The Glitter-paint Combo. If you want to mix things up a bit, follow the above instructions for painting your pumpkin. Then, when completely dry, apply glitter to the pumpkin stem only. Or use blue painter's tape to create designs on pumpkin. Then apply glue and glitter for added sparkle.

All Wrapped Up. Turn your pumpkin into a spider web by wrapping it randomly all over with thick white twine. Then glue a large black spider onto the web to finish the look. For a mummified look, cut cheesecloth into long, wide strips. Fold strips to double thickness and spray with fabric stiffener. When dry, wrap

strips around pumpkin, leaving top and bottom clean. Secure strips with hot glue. Glue googly eyes and wrap with a few more strips so eyes are peeking out. Cut away a thin mouth and dab inside with black paint. When dry, coat fabric with glow-inthe-dark craft paint.

The Doodle Work-of-art. Teens and up who enjoy drawing will relish the opportunity to create temporary works of art on pumpkins using permanent markers. Supply your teen with a rainbow of colors or an array of black markers in various thicknesses -- black and colored markers works especially well on white pumpkins. Varnish afterwards for a longer-lasting work of art.

The Drippy Look. Unwrap crayons in assorted

colors. You can either do a spectrum of colors or mix things up. Consider autumn colors on an orange pumpkin or ghoulish colors on a white pumpkin. Spread out newspaper or brown bags under your pumpkins to catch any mess. Glue down crayons (just the top half) with points facing out and tipped slightly down around the pumpkin stem with a thick white nonflammable glue. Let dry. Set hair dryer to high and work your way around the crayons one at a time until they are melted to your satisfaction.

The Collaged Gourd. Mod Podge works well for applying paper or fabric to pumpkins. Paint the stems before collaging, if you want a more polished look. Then choose tissue paper, old book pages, hand-made paper, printed paper napkins, or fabric quilting scraps for best results. Cut materials into squares or strips. When using strips, cut the ends into points so they will smooth easily. Apply a layer of Mod Podge under and over material. Smooth materials with fingers as you go. Add embellishments like ribbon on dried pumpkin as you wish.

Bling-kin. Paint pumpkin with two coats of paint. Then, starting at the stem, work your way down the sides of the pumpkin with gem stickers. Create an evenly spaced over-all pattern or a dripping-with-gems look. Leave gems off the bottom so pumpkin stands flat.

Stamp-a-pumpkin. If you wish to change the color of your pumpkin, paint your pumpkin first, as described above. To achieve a stamped look on your pumpkin, don't try to stamp directly on the surface. Instead, take white tissue paper and stamp it using archival-quality ink with the image or images of your choice. Allow ink to dry thoroughly and then Mod Podge your tissue carefully to your pumpkin. Add additional collage elements to the top and bottom of the pumpkin to frame your stamp. Try using matching tissue paper or paper napkins around the top or bottom of pumpkin for a complimentary look. ď&#x20AC;Ť Author and journalist CHRISTINA KATZ enjoys the results of carving pumpkins but the messy process not-so-much. This year, she is looking forward to turning her front porch into a gallery of pumpkin art with the help of the whole family. Rochester & Genesee Valley Parent â&#x20AC;˘ October 2014

EDUCATION GUIDE

Parent-Teacher Conferences WORKING TOGETHER FOR ACADEMIC SUCCESS

t the start of every school year, parents enter into an alliance that can greatly increase their student’s chances for academic success. Parent-teacher conferences typically occur in the fall with subsequent meetings varying from one academic setting to another. Though this shouldn’t be the only time parents touch base with their child’s teacher, it will pave the way for a partnership steeped in communication and cooperation that endures throughout the school year.

That’s what Ann Marie Phillips believes. “Parent-teacher conferences are a time for me to find out how my children are adjusting to their new grade level and a different volume of work,” says the mother of Kaitlin in fifth grade and Ean in sixth. “It’s also an opportunity to get to know my child’s

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teacher and learn what her expectations are so I can support these efforts from home.” “Before the conference, parents may want to jot down questions or concerns they have based on conversations they have had with their child or things they’ve observed while watching him do homework,”

says Melissa Tabor, director of learning support and middle school teacher. “It’s also a good idea to review any work the child has brought home that may need clarification.” “Bring in old tests and quizzes that are in question, as well as current assignments if I need to get a grip on how

something is done – a math procedure, for example,” says Phillips. “Since the teachers and I correspond through my kid's agenda book, I also skim through this to see if anything we’ve previously discussed needs to be hashed out in more detail.” CONTINUED >>>

EDUCATION GUIDE Parent-teacher conference pointers ACTIVELY ATTEND. Parents should attend parent-teacher conferences so they can see their student’s work, get to know his teacher and communicate with her about their child’s academic and social progress. Parents also have a wealth of information about their child they can share that may enhance the educational experience. TAKE NOTE. Before leaving home jot down questions or concerns based on conversations you and your child have had or observations you’ve made while watching him do homework. This adds focus and flow to the meeting and ensures your questions get answered. If only one parent can attend, ask the other parent if he has concerns that need to be addressed. ASSESS ASSIGNMENTS. Review any work your child has brought home that may be in question. This includes past tests and quizzes, as well as current assignments that need clarification. As items come home put them in a special file to save for these meetings. STUDY NOTES. If, up to this point, you and the teacher have corresponded through notes or your child’s agenda book, review previous discussions to see if any topics need to be hashed out in further detail. CHECK WITH YOUR CHILD. Consider asking your child if he has questions or concerns he’d like you to address with the teacher. If he seems anxious about the meeting, let him know ahead of time what you plan to discuss, and reassure him you will follow up when you arrive home. INCLUDE YOUR CHILD. If the teacher allows, consider having your child participate in conferences as this may encourage him to take ownership and responsibility in his education. It may also

help if solutions to problems need to be addressed. LISTEN AND LEARN. During the conference the teacher will note if your child is doing well in a particular subject and address areas of concern. If there is a problem she may make a recommendation and ask for your input. SHARE ABOUT YOUR STUDENT. Briefly share your child’s likes, dislikes, strengths and weaknesses so your teacher can understand him better. Also let the teacher know of any stressful conditions in his life as this can affect his academic performance. HIT PROBLEMS HEAD ON. If the teacher addresses an academic or behavioral concern, be open to listening and working together toward a solution. NOTE THE NARRATIVE. Some teachers use forms to summarize conference discussions but you may also want to take notes to help you remember meeting details that can then be used to follow up with your child, his other parent and eventually the teacher. FOLLOW UP WITH FEEDBACK. At home talk with your child about what was discussed. Start with positive comments then share any concerns you or the teacher had. Implement an action plan to address problems and remind your child everyone is working together for his benefit. TOUCH BASE WITH THE TEACHER. Once strategies have been employed to address concerns, follow up with the teacher within a week or two to give her an update on progress at home and ask if she’s seen any changes during class time. Continue communicating about the matter, tweaking your action plan if necessary, until you begin to see results. Rochester & Genesee Valley Parent • October 2014

EDUCATION GUIDE Some schools encourage students to participate in conferences. “I like my students to come because it encourages them to take ownership of and responsibility for their education,” says Barbara Rosen, a fifth grade educator. “But the student doesn't just sit there while the adults talk I get her involved by having her show her parents her work and describe the activities and procedures we're doing in the classroom, then I'll add to it. We celebrate what she is doing right. And if there’s a problem, the three or four of us can immediately work toward finding a solution.” Last year Ean was in Rosen’s class and so participated in the conference. “At first he was a little apprehensive about going, but then Mrs. Rosen got him involved and it turned out to be a really positive experience,” says Phillips. “One thing I liked about having Ean there was it gave me a chance to see how he interacted with the teacher — if he was comfortable speaking with her and if their personalities were well matched. This year Kaitlin has Mrs. Rosen and I expect it to go equally as well.” During these meetings parents will get a glimpse of their child’s work and find out how he is progressing. “Teachers normally keep a portfolio for each student with documentation that is divided into sections,” says Tabor. “As the teacher progresses through each subject, she’ll note if the child is doing well in a particular subject and address any areas of concern. If there is a problem, she’ll make a recommendation and ask for the parent’s input.” This has been Sherry Fornwalt’s experience. “During conference time I’ll find out about concessions they are making for my son as a result of his disability,” says the mother of her fourth-grade student

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who has been diagnosed with several disorders. “They’ll also show me work they haven’t sent home, clue me in on what he’s able to do independently and let me know how he’s interacting with other kids in the class.” Teachers may also want parents to briefly share about their child’s likes, dislikes, strengths and weaknesses, as well as any stressful conditions in his life as this can affect his academic performance. “After the conference, talk with your child about what was discussed. Start with positive comments that were made, then share any concerns you or the teacher had and follow up with a preagreed action plan to address it,” says Tabor. “We have date nights on Fridays and we’ll talk about it then,” says Fornwalt. “I’ll give my son an overall picture in a positive light. Then if I need to address something I’ll mention that. If the teacher suggests we work on something like reading, we’ll go to the bookstore, purchase some books and then take turns reading. So I’m turning a negative into a positive experience to encourage him.” Follow up with the teacher too. “Once you’ve implemented strategies that were discussed during conference time, touch base with the teacher to let her know how things are going at home and ask if she’s seen any changes during class time,” says Rosen. Most important don’t let conference time be the only time you interact with your child’s teacher. Find out early on the best way to communicate then maintain a constant dialogue about your child’s academic progress throughout the school year.  DENISE YEARIAN is the former editor of two parenting magazines and the mother of three children.

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Rochester & Genesee Valley Parent â&#x20AC;˘ October 2014

EDUCATION GUIDE

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EDUCATION GUIDE

Rochester & Genesee Valley Parent â&#x20AC;˘ October 2014

EDUCATION GUIDE

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EDUCATION GUIDE

Rochester & Genesee Valley Parent â&#x20AC;˘ October 2014

EDUCATION GUIDE

www.RocParent.com

EDUCATION GUIDE

Rochester & Genesee Valley Parent â&#x20AC;˘ October 2014

EDUCATION GUIDE

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EDUCATION GUIDE Fit by Five Preschool

2051 Fairport Nine Mile Point Rd, Penfield 14526 585-388-8686 www.gtc-rochester.com Fit by Five is a progressive preschool program for youngsters up to 5 years old. The program uses physical movement including gymnastics and other sports, to teach more effectively concepts such as numbers, letters, vocabulary and reading. Fit by Five incorporates the skill of motor control (fine & gross) into its academic curriculum. The program is designed to increase each child's self-confidence by allowing the child to progress at his/her own pace in a positive, nurturing environment. Students learn by doing, they learn through their senses and they learn through play and fun.

Rochester Christian School

260 Embury Rd., Rochester, 14625| 671-4910 www.rochesterchristianschool.org At RCS, its been our mission to partner with parents to develop a child's head, heart, and hands for Jesus Christ through God's Word and academic excellence for almost 100 years. We are the only PreK-8th grade Christian school with dual accreditation in the Rochester area, where every teacher is NYS certified. RCS is independent with over forty area Christian churches represented across our community. Tour the school, meet the staff and learn more about how differentiated instruction and faith integration make us different.

Margaret’s House Child Care Center at RIT

112 Lomb Memorial Drive, Rochester, 14623 475-5176 www.rit.edu/studentaffairs/margaretshouse

Come to visit our center and see our excellent staff in action – a high quality fun-filled environment for children to learn and grow! Infants through preschool, a full-day Kindergarten, and innovative summer program activities for grades 1-4.

St. John Bonso Schools & The Chesterton Academy

501 Garfield St East Rochester, NY 14445 348-9401 www.johnboscoschools.org

St. John Bosco Schools in East Rochester has an integrated curriculum rooted in history. Accredited by NAPCIS (napcis. org), it doesn’t follows its own Catholic, classical curriculum, not the Common Core. Chesterton Academy @ SJBS is a private, independent high school offering a Catholic, classical curriculum.

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CHECK ALL YOUR EDUCATIONAL RESOURCES GUIDE (SCHOOLS, TUTORS, ENRICHMENT, AND MORE) AS WELL AS ALL OUR FAMILY-FOCUSED DIRECTORIES ONLINE FOR MORE GREAT RESOURCES AND ARTICLES

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CALENDAR

OCTOBER EVENTS

Activities • Exhibits • Theater • Storytelling • Shows • Family Fun • Outdoor Adventures Parenting Programs • and lots more for families to do in & around Rochester!

ZOOBOO

HALLOWEEN EVENT OCTOBER 11-12, 18-19 & 25-26

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Fall Festival & Scottish Highland Games Save the date for this family fest that will include sky rides, the Scottish Highland Games, live music, arts and crafts vendors and more. Enjoy the chicken BBQ, a variety of delicious crepes, fried candy bars and Oreos and other festival fare. Don't forget to make your reservation for the new aerial adventure park that is located at the top of the mountain. You won't want to miss the fun! 10am–5pm. Rain or shine. Bristol Mountain, 5662 Route 64, Canandaigua, 14424, 374-6000

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Great Pumpkin Walk

ear up for the Seneca Park Zoo's annual merry-notscary trick-or-treating event. Dress up the kids in their best Halloween costume, grab your camera and let them "go wild" at this popular event. The event includes fifteen stations to gather up treats, photo ops with costumed characters, Kid's Guide, prize for each child at exit, and of course, a chance to visit with the zoo animals. Special discounts available at the Eagle's Landing Cafe, Crater Canteen and ZooShop. Make this a family Halloween tradition! Rain or shine.

WHERE: Seneca Park Zoo, 2222 St. Paul Street, Rochester, NY 14621 WHEN: October 11-12, 18-19, 25-26 from 10am–4pm COST: Tickets are $8.50 each and available at the Zoo's Front Gate on any ZooBoo day. FOR MORE INFO: Call 585-336-7212 or visit www.senecaparkzoo.org 46

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Enjoy a magical evening walk with your family amid hundreds of twinkling jack-o-lanterns. This is a non-scary, fun event for children of all ages. The walk is approximately 1 mile round trip and strollers are welcome. No pets please. $4 admission includes refreshments; under age 2 free. 6:30-9:30pm. Rain date: October 19. Meet at the Ontario County Fairgrounds, 2820 County Road 10, Canandaigua, 14424, 234-7722, www.ontariopathways.org

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Al Sigl Community Walk About Walk, roll, and cheer for abilities at the 25th Annual Al Sigl Community Walk About that raises funds for Al Sigl Member Agencies! All walkers and rollers receive a t-shirt, breakfast and entry into the costume contest. Lots of family-friendly entertainment! Adult registration is $20 and begins at the food court at 8:30am. Walk at 9:30am with costume contest to follow. Eastview Mall, 7979 Pittsford Victor Road, Victor 14564, 442-4102 ext. 8944, www.alsigl.org

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01 * Wednesday Balloons Around the World Be amazed as local balloon artists, including Larry Moss and Kelly Cheatle of Airigami, create a large balloon sculpture to help celebrate the 15th annual Balloons Around the World event. Included with general museum admission fees. 263-2700. The Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Sq, Rochester 14607. www.museumofplay.org

04 * Saturday Amerks will host the Marlies Amerks will host the Marlies at Bill Gray’s Regional Iceplex on the campus of Monroe Community College in Brighton. 454-5335. Bill Gray’s Regional Iceplex, 2700 BrightonHenrietta TL Rd., Rochester 14623. amerks.com R

Cohocton Fall Foliage Festival Come and enjoy the heart of the Finger Lakes and celebrate the festival of colors with the 2014 theme “Autumn Paints the Hills.” Downtown Cohocton, 15 Main Street, Cohocton 14808. fallfoliagefestival.com R

Fall Festival featuring the Agricultural Fair Gather the family, cook up your famous fruit preserves, make your shopping list and 02 * Thursday head to the fair—the highlight of the harvest season. 538-6822. Genesee U-Theatre Taiwan: Sound of the Ocean Ticket holders may attend Country Village & Museum, 1410 Flint Hill Rd., Mumford 14511. a pre-performance lecture at 6pm in www.gcv.org the Peace Theater (room A14). The company will perform a customized Genesee Trail Day at Seneca version of Sound of the Ocean, its Park Zoo The Zoo’s docents will monumental work that represents share the history of the Genesee the “water of life, which nourishes River, the Haudenosaunee (Iroquois) our souls.” 389-252. Nazareth and Seneca Park. Friends from College Arts Center, 4245 East Ave., Ganondagan will be there with their Rochester 14618. artscenter.naz.edu impressive display of Seneca Nation artifacts, too. Free with admission. YWCA Empowering Women 336-7200. Seneca Park Zoo, 2222 Luncheon Keynote speaker is St Paul Street, Rochester 14621. Elizabeth Smart - “Overcoming Adversity: The Elizabeth Smart Story.” www.senecaparkzoo.org

FALL FOLIAGE FESTIVAL & THE AGRICULTURAL FAIR

Saturday, October 4: 10am – 4pm, Sunday, October 5: 10am – 4pm Gather the family, cook up your famous fruit preserves, make your shopping list and head to the fair—the highlight of the harvest season. Genesee Country Village & Museum, 1410 Flint Hill Rd., Mumford, 14511, 585-538-6822, www.gcv.org

Hear more of her inspiring story at the Ithaca Apple Harvest Festival event. 546-5820. Rochester Riverside See Oct. 3rd. Convention Center, 123 E. Main St., Rochester 14604. ywcarochester.org LEGO Castle Adventure Exhibit Opening Explore the majestic 03 * Friday castle and sit upon the royal throne. Opening weekend only, make LEGO Animal Tales - Drop-In inspired crafts and enjoy an amazing Storytime Snuggle up on a fluffy display of LEGO trains, buildings, pillow and enjoy an animal-themed story or two and a humane education and detailed scenes. Included with general museum admission fees. component. Great way to introduce the wonder of animals to the little ones 263-2700. The Strong National of the family. Held every Friday in the Museum of Play, One Manhattan Sq, Learning Center. 223-1330. Lollypop Rochester 14607. www.museumofplay.org Farm, 99 Victor Rd., Rochester R

14450. lollypop.org R

Ithaca Apple Harvest Festival This large outdoor event covers five city blocks and occurs on Friday, Saturday and Sunday Oct.3-5, 2014. Each day is full of crafters, entertainment, food, wine, games, rides, farmers markets, and lots and lots of apples. Downtown Ithaca, Rochester 14850. www.downtownithaca.com R

05 * Sunday 2014 Kidney Walk The walk will take place at Frontier Field. Registration starts at 9:30am and the walk starts at 11:00am. The walk will be a fun, non-competitive event with raffles and family activities. Frontier Field, 1 Morrie Silver Way, Rochester 14608. www.kidney.org R

Annual Buddy Walk 1-mile, easy stroll that promotes awareness of, and celebrates, the many accomplishments and abilities of infants, children, teens, and adults with Down

Syndrome. 586-7421. Webster Thomas High School, 800 Five Mile Line Road, Webster 14580. fcdsn.org R

Community Garage Sale & Super Flea Market Whatever you are looking for, you have a good chance of finding it. There will be over 100 different vendors with an astonishing variety of items for sale at bargain prices. 271-3361. Rochester Public Market, 280 N. Union St., Rochester 14605. cityofrochester.gov R

Fall Festival featuring the Agricultural Fair Gather the family, cook up your famous fruit preserves, make your shopping list and head to the fair—the highlight of the harvest season. 5386822. Genesee Country Village & Museum, 1410 Flint Hill Rd.,

Mumford 14511. www.gcv.org R

Fall Foliage by Trolley and Train Enjoy a 2-mile round trip trolley excursion that connects to a diesel train, linking the New York Museum of Transportation (NYMT) with the Rochester & Genesee Valley Railroad Museum’s country depot and railroad equipment collection. 533-1113. New York Museum of Transportation, 6393 East River Rd, Rush 14586. nymtmuseum.org R

Hispanic/Latino Heritage Family Day These events for all ages feature hands-on art activities, music and dance demonstrations, storytelling, and a variety of cultural displays. Suggested donation $5 per family. 2768900. Memorial Art Gallery, 500 University Ave., Rochester 14607. mag.rochester.edu R

Ithaca Apple Harvest Festival See Oct. 3rd. R

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LEGO CASTLE ADVENTURE EXHIBIT OPENING WEEKEND Saturday, October 4: 11am – 4pm Sunday, October 5: 1-4pm The exhibit invites children and families to explore a majestic LEGO kingdom where they can build a castle fit for a king and queen using one of the greatest building materials of all time — LEGO® bricks. The Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Sq., Rochester 14607, 585-263-2700, www.museumofplay.org

LEGO Castle Adventure Exhibit Opening Explore the majestic castle and sit upon the royal throne. Opening weekend only, make LEGO inspired crafts and enjoy an amazing display of LEGO trains, buildings, and detailed scenes. Included with general museum admission fees. 263-2700. The Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Sq, Rochester 14607. www.museumofplay.org R

Pedal with a Purpose Pedal with a Purpose is an indoor cycling event fundraiser being held by the Southeast YMCA. The event is open to everyone age 13 years and older. Sign up as an individual or

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as a team. 385-4665. Southeast YMCA, 111 East Jefferson Road, Rochester 14534. www.rochesterymca.org/cycle

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Storytime Club Have your Storytime Club passport punched once during each visit. Collect five punches and receive a free children’s book! This month: Autumn Adventures. Included with general museum admission fees. 263-2700. The Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Sq, Rochester 14607. www.museumofplay.org R

08 * Wednesday Books & Bites Teen Book Club Enjoy pizza and discuss books! The group meets at Great Northern Pizza on the second Wednesday of each month. 3597092. Great Northern Pizza, 1918 Monroe Ave., Rochester 14618. hpl.org R

09 * Thursday An American in Paris Featuring Jeffrey Kahane, guest conductor and piano performance. Tickets can be purchased at the box office or online. 454-2100. Kodak Center for Performing Arts, 200 West

Ridge Rd., Rochester 14615. www.rpo.org R

Eastman School - Music College Fair High school and college students who are interested in music will have the opportunity to meet one-on-one with admissions representatives from more than 65 of the top colleges. Admission is free. 274-1060. Eastman Community Music School, 26 Gibbs Street, Rochester, www.esm.rochester.edu/admissions/college-fair/ R

CALENDAR OF EVENTS • LOCAL FAMILY-FRIENDLY ACTIVITIES Passenger Pigeons Exhibit at RMSC The RMSC will exhibit 18 mounted Passenger Pigeons from their collections, as well as a set of eggs, 3,900 year old archaeological specimens and examples of the actual nets used to drive these birds to extinction. Free with regular Museum admission. Rochester Museum & Science Center, 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. rmsc.org R

10 * Friday Animal Tales - Drop-In Storytime Snuggle up on a fluffy pillow and enjoy an animal-themed story or two and a humane education component. Great way to introduce the wonder of animals to the little ones of the family. Held every Friday in the Learning Center. 2231330. Lollypop Farm, 99 Victor Rd., Rochester 14450. lollypop.org Columbus Day Castle Play Construct a magical kingdom using gigantic castle blocks, dress up as a king or queen, enact a story of adventure with royal court puppets, and more. Included with general museum admission fees. Materials generously provided by HearthSong® 263-2700. The

Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Sq, Rochester 14607. www.museumofplay.org R

Opens Today: DinosaursGiants of Patagonia Huge, thundering beasts darken the sky as they tower over you in the Star Theater dome! Never before seen in Rochester, this documentary-style film transports you to the dinosaurs’ world with computer graphics a generation beyond Jurassic Park. 697-1942. Strasenburgh Planetarium, 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. www.rmsc.org/ StrasenburghPlanetarium/Schedule R

11 * Saturday An American in Paris See Oct. 9th. R

Columbus Day Castle Play Construct a magical kingdom using gigantic castle blocks, dress up as a king or queen, enact a story of adventure with royal court puppets, and more. Included with general museum admission fees. Materials generously provided by HearthSong® 263-2700. The Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Sq, Rochester 14607. www.museumofplay.org R

Ellison Park Cyclocross Festival Admission to the event is free for spectators. Children’s activities include a free bounce house and a mini race course that will be used continuously both days. Ellison Park, 395 Rich’s Dugway Road, Penfield 14625. ellisoncyclocross.com R

Annual Scarecrow 5k RESOLVE is a nonprofit organization that develops and delivers innovative, community-centered solutions to eradicate domestic and sexual violence. Admission: $5-$25. Box Factory Parking Lot, E. Liftbridge Lane, Fairport NY 14450. 425-1580 x1206. Fairport Village Landing, Fairport 14450. R

The Missing Rainbow at Cumming Nature Center Be an investigative reporter as you search for colorful pieces of the missing rainbow. Travel through various habitats. Bring a small bag to collect a few objects to take home to reconstruct the rainbow. Expect to get dirty and a little wet. 374-6160. Cumming Nature Center, 6472 Gulick Rd., Naples 14512. rmsc.org

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Columbus Day Castle Play See Oct 10th R

Community Garage Sale & Super Flea Market Whatever you are looking for, you have a good chance of finding it at the Community Garage Sale and Super fleas. There will be over 100 different vendors with an astonishing variety of items for sale at bargain prices. 271-3361. Rochester Public Market, 280 N. Union St., Rochester 14605. cityofrochester.gov R

Ellison Park Cyclocross Festival See Oct. 11th. R

Fall Festival and Scottish Highland Games There will be sky rides, the Scottish Highland Games, live music, food, arts and crafts vendors and lots of fun. The Ontario County Sheriff’s Dept. has signed on to bring their Safe Child ID program on this day - 1-4pm. 374-6000. Bristol Mountain, 5662 Route 64, Canandaigua 14424. bristolmt.com R

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CALENDAR OF EVENTS • LOCAL FAMILY-FRIENDLY ACTIVITIES Fall Foliage by Trolley and Train Enjoy a 2-mile round trip trolley excursion that connects to a diesel train, linking the New York Museum of Transportation (NYMT) with the Rochester & Genesee Valley Railroad Museum’s country depot and railroad equipment collection. 533-1113. New York Museum of Transportation, 6393 East River Rd, Rush 14586. nymtmuseum.org R

Fiddlers of the Genesee With a repertoire that runs from reels, jigs, and hornpipes to waltzes, western swing and bluegrass, the Fiddlers (and guitar, banjo, mandolin, and hammered dulcimer players!) shed a whole new light on old-time music. 374-6318. Bristol Valley Theater, 151 South Main Street, Naples 14512. bvtnaples.org R

Second Sunday Family Tour Young friends and their families are invited to enjoy a story and a short tour. Included in Gallery admission. 276-8900. Memorial Art Gallery, 500 University Ave., Rochester 14607. mag.rochester.edu R

Towpath Breast Cancer Ride Run Featuring 10, 25, and 50-mile family-friendly group rides, this event is a great opportunity to contribute to an awesome local cause while having fun on your bike! 381-2808. Mendon Ponds Park, 95 Douglas Road, Honeoye Falls 14472. towpathbike.com R

13 * Monday Celebrate Holistic Living Month with HMN Celebrate Holistic Living Month with the Holistic Moms Network at our October Monthly Meeting! Holistic Living Month is an annual celebration to honor holistic lifestyle choices and to raise awareness for natural health and green living. Christ Episcopal Church, 36 South Main Street, Pittsford 14534. hmnrochester.homewebs.com/ R

Fall Fun Fair Come by the Carrousel Museum for some old-time fair fun!! Try your hand at some popular midway games, then make

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some fair-themed crafts to take home! 716-693-1885. Herschell Carrousel Factory Museum, 180 Thompson St., North Tonawanda 14120. carrouselmuseum.org R

Penguin Awareness Day Part of the zoo’s Animal Conservation Series, aimed at raising awareness about the plight of some of our planet’s most threatened species. Learn about the penguin, the threats to its habitat and ways to protect this species. 336-7200. Seneca Park Zoo, 2222 St Paul Street, Rochester 14621. www.senecaparkzoo.org R

14 * Tuesday

THE GREAT PUMPKIN WALK

MOMS Club of Penfield-East Rochester-Brighton Open to all moms who live in Penfield or are in the Penfield, East Rochester and Brighton School Districts. Meets the second Tuesday of every month. 10am-11:30am. For location, details, or questions, please email momspenfield@gmail.com

Saturday, October 18: 6:30-9:30pm Enjoy a magical evening walk with your family amid hundreds of twinkling jack-o-lanterns. This is a non-scary, fun event for children of all ages. The walk is approximately 1 mile round trip and strollers are welcome. No pets please. $4 admission includes refreshments; under age 2 free. 6:30-9:30pm. Rain date: October 19. Meet at the Ontario County Fairgrounds, 2820 County Road 10, Canandaigua, 14424, 234-7722, www.ontariopathways.org

15 * Wednesday What Moms Want - at the Perinton Community Center Join other moms and learn and discuss these topics below. Make new friends, socialize and enjoy time for yourself…you deserve it! Topic: “Organizing & Interior Design” Cost: $6.00 per session or take all 4 classes for $20.00. 451-7567. Perinton Community Center, 1350 Turk HIll Road, Rochester 14450. www.perinton.org/ Departments/Recreation/recprog/ R

16 * Thursday MAG Highlights Tour This docent-led tour of the collections is included in Gallery admission. 276-8900. Memorial Art Gallery, 500 University Ave., Rochester 14607. mag.rochester.edu R

Mother of Twins Club Meeting Are you expecting or do you have twins? Come meet other twin mothers experiencing the same joys and challenges of raising multiples. Prospective members are warmly welcomed. Laurelton Presbyterian Church, 335 Helendale Road, Rochester 14609. grmotc.com R

17 * Friday Animal Tales - Drop-In Storytime Snuggle up on a fluffy pillow and enjoy an animal-themed story or two and a humane education component. Great way to introduce the wonder of animals to the lit-

tle ones of the family. Held every Friday in the Learning Center. 223-1330. Lollypop Farm, 99 Victor Rd., Rochester 14450. lollypop.org R

Make a Dance: Exploring Contrasts Join the Harley School creating props and “instruments” for their dance and for an exciting, interactive session of movement and dance creation. FREE and developed for families with children ages 3-10 but they are open to all ages. 454-4596. Hochstein School of Music & Dance in Canandaigua, 435 East Street, Canandaigua 14424. hochstein.org R

Spirits of the Past Take an after-hours guided tour through the candlelit and spooky streets of the historic village to find costumed characters spinning tales from iconic horror literature of the 19th century. (Reservations Required) 538-6822. Genesee Country Village & Museum, 1410 Flint Hill Rd., Mumford 14511. gcv.org R

18 * Saturday Calling all Mathletes The TriMathlon is Mathnasium’s annual fun and festive (grades 2 to 5) math event. It is designed around 3 Principles of Number Sense –Counting, Proportional Thinking, and Wholes and Parts. 203-1717. Mathnasium of Penfield, 1802 1802 Penfield Road, Penfield 14526. mathnasium.com/penfield R

Cumming Nature CenterThe Colors of Autumn Uncover the wonders of nature during a delightful outdoor journey. Visitors will learn about the wonderful world of autumn. $3 per person or $10 per family. RMSC members are free. 697-1942. Cumming Nature Center, 6472 Gulick Rd., Naples 14512. rmsc.org R

Guided Museum Tour Led by a museum staff member or docent, these fun-filled, factfilled tours are a great way for visitors of all ages to discover the museum’s treasures. Herschell Carrousel Factory Museum, 716-693-1885. 180 Thompson St., North Tonawanda 14120. carrouselmuseum.org R

CALENDAR OF EVENTS • LOCAL FAMILY-FRIENDLY ACTIVITIES Harvest Festival and Auction Day long fundraiser for East Palmyra Christian School. Shop the Attic Treasures, Farmers Market, Tea Room, Silent Auction, Kids Games, Chicken BBQ (3:30pm), and Live Auction (6pm). 315-597-4400. East Palmyra Christian School, 2023 East Palmyra-Port Gibson Road, East Palmyra 14522. www.eastpalmyrachristianschool.com R

Maplewood YMCA Craft Show The Maplewood YMCA Craft Show will include raffles, door prizes, drawings and refreshments. Complimentary childcare is offered during the show for children ages 6 weeks to 12 years old. Entry to the show is free. 6473600. Maplewood Family YMCA, 25 Driving Park Ave., Rochester 14613. www.rochesterymca.org/ maplewoodcraftshow R

19 * Sunday Community Garage Sale & Super Flea Market Whatever you are looking for, you have a good chance of finding it at the Community Garage Sale and Super fleas. There will be over 100 different vendors with an as 271-3361. Rochester Public Market, 280 N. Union St., Rochester 14605. cityofrochester.gov R

Exhibition Tour: Golden Legacy The launch of Little Golden Books in 1942 made high-quality children’s picture books available for the first time at a price that nearly everyone could afford. Tour is included in Gallery admission. 276-8900. Memorial Art Gallery, 500 University Ave., Rochester 14607. mag.rochester.edu R

Admission is free; donations are welcome. 289-9149. Lehigh Valley Railroad Museum, 8 East High Street, Rochester 14548. lvrrhs.org R

20 * Monday Storytime Club Have your Storytime Club passport punched once during each visit. Collect five punches and receive a free children’s book! This month: Autumn Adventures. Included with general museum admission fees 263-2700. The Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Sq, Rochester 14607. www.museumofplay.org R

21 * Tuesday Grand Torch Light Tours Description: Experience the finale to the cemetery Halloween tour season with a special tour path lighted by torches. Multiple tour times are available, beginning at 6pm. Tickets: $8 per person in advance; $10 day of the event 461-3494. Mount Hope Cemetery, 791 Mt. Hope Avenue, Rochester 14620. fomh.org R

22 * Wednesday Neave Trio Anna Williams, violin; Mikahil Veselov, cello; Toni James, piano. 454-4403. Hochstein School of Music & Dance in Rochester, 50 N. Plymouth Ave., Rochester 14614. R

Start Bright Gala Child Care Council’s Bright Start Gala also features a silent auction, raffles, games and more. Gala proceeds benefit the Council’s scholarship fund, which enhances the education of child care providers and center staff. 654-4720. RIT Conference Center, 5257 W. Henrietta Rd., Henrietta 14467. childcarecouncil.com R

23 * Thursday Ann Taylor Art Exhibition and Sale Admission is free to the public with twenty percent of the proceeds from sales to benefit current RMSC museum programs. 271-4320. Rochester Museum & Science Center, 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. rmsc.org R

Lehigh Valley Railroad Open House A large collection of historical artifacts from the Lehigh Valley Railroad is on display at the museum. The gift shop will be open. Rail historians will give presentations at some of the open houses.

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11 * Saturday ZooBoo Halloween Event A Merry-Not-Scary Halloween in a one-of-a-kind setting. Families will enjoy costumed characters and trick-or-treat stations. Tickets are $8.50 each and available at the Zoo's Front Gate on any ZooBoo day. 336-7200. Seneca Park Zoo, 2222 St Paul Street, Rochester 14621. senecaparkzoo.org

12 * Sunday Fairport Community 1st Annual Trunk or Treat Come to trick or treat, participate in games and activities, bid in a silent auction for Halloween cakes and much more! Prizes will be awarded for best costume. Hot dogs, chips and beverages will be available for purchase. Church of the Assumption, 20 East Ave., Rochester 14450.

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Herschell Carrousel Factory Museum - Spooktaclar The annual spook-free Halloween party is great for even the youngest members of the family! So put on your favorite costume and come to enjoy games, crafts, snacks â&#x20AC;&#x201C; and carrousel rides! 716-693-1885. Herschell Carrousel Factory Museum, 180 Thompson St., North Tonawanda 14120. carrouselmuseum.org

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Grand Torch Light Tours Experience the finale to the cemetery tour season with a special Halloween tour path lighted by torches. Multiple tour times are available, beginning at 6pm. $8 per person in advance; $10 day of the event. 461-3494. Mount Hope Cemetery, 791 Mt. Hope Avenue, Rochester 14620. fomh.org

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ZooBoo Halloween Event A Merry-Not-Scary Halloween in a one-of-a-kind setting. Families will enjoy costumed characters and trick-or-treat stations. Tickets are $8.50 each and available at the Zoo's Front Gate on any ZooBoo day. 336-7200. Seneca Park Zoo, 2222 St Paul Street, Rochester 14621. senecaparkzoo.org

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Great Pumpkin Walk A magical evening with hundreds of twinkling jack-o-lanterns lining the trail - non-scary Halloween fun for children of all ages. About 1 mile round trip. Strollers welcome. No pets please. $4 includes refreshments, under 2 free. 234-7722. Ontario County Fairgrounds, 2820

County Road 10, Canandaigua 14424. ontariopathways.org Spirits of the Past Take an after-hours guided tour through the candlelit and spooky streets of the historic village to find costumed characters spinning tales from iconic horror literature of the 19th century. (Reservations Required) 538-6822. Genesee Country Village & Museum, 1410 Flint Hill Rd., Mumford 14511. gcv.org

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Giant Pumpkin Carving Jenny Bay, the Wickham Farms director of fun, will carve a 100-plus-pound pumpkin! It's free to watch. Other special activities will include for a small fee face painting, pumpkin painting, hay rides and corn maze. 377-3276. Wickham Farms, 1821 Fairport Nine Mile Point Road, Penfield 14526. wickhamfarms.com R

Make A Scarecrow at Cumming Nature Center Celebrate this spooky time of year by making your own scarecrow. Bring old clothes to dress your scarecrow and a pillowcase to make a head. We provide the stuffing and and instructions for creating your farmer's friend. Pumpkin included. 374-6160. Cumming Nature Center, 6472 Gulick Rd., Naples 14512. rmsc.org RPO Presents - Superheroes and Heroines Crash, bam, ka-pow! Celebrate Halloween early with iconic music from your favorite superheroes and heroines, including Spider-Man, Superman, Harry Potter, Captain America and The Incredibles. Performance Hall at Hochstein 454-2100. Hochstein School of Music & Dance, 50 N. Plymouth Ave., Rochester 14614. rpo.org

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3-Dimensional Haunted House Make a Halloween Haunted House in 3-D. For ages 8 - 13, registration is required and limited to 20 people. All materials are provided. 247.6446. Gates Public Library, 902 Elmgrove Rd, Rochester 14624. www.gateslibrary.org

Craft - Bat Mobile Make a bat mobile to hang at your house as a scary decoration! The Children’s Center of the Central Library of Rochester and Monroe County is combining Batman’s birthday with Halloween by hosting this fun craft. 428-8150. Central Library of Rochester & Monroe County, 115 South Ave., Rochester 14604. www.libraryweb.org

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Halloween Spooktacular Calling all witches, princesses, and superheroes! Come dressed in your Halloween costume, dance to Halloween tunes, make a spooky craft, and enjoy performances by Hilby, The Skinny German Juggle Boy. Included with general museum admission fees. 263-2700. The Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Sq, Rochester 14607. www.museumofplay.org

Haunted Jail and Cellblock Terror Set inside the Museum of Wayne County History’s Old Jail, “Haunted Jail & Cellblock Terror” is the Wayne County Halloween attraction to scare the living daylights out of you, your family and your friends. $5 per person 315-946-4943. Museum of Wayne County History, 21 Butternut Street, Lyons 14489. waynehistory.org School of Screams A haunted Halloween walk-through event in a former school building and grounds. Flashing lights, creepy characters and spooky music abound! Parents advised to use age appropriate discretion. $5.00 per person. 964-7222. Hamlin Town Hall, 1658 Lake Road, Rochester 14464.

Saturday Halloween Express All aboard the Halloween Special! Children and their parents are encouraged to wear their Halloween costumes and join us for a special spooky train ride that’s “not too scary.” 533-1113. New York Museum of Transportation, 6393 East River Rd, Rush 14586. nymtmuseum.org

day. 336-7200. Seneca Park Zoo, 2222 St Paul Street, Rochester 14621. senecaparkzoo.org

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Al Sigl Walk About All walkers and rollers receive a t-shirt, breakfast, entry into the costume contest and family-friendly entertainment the day of walk. Adult registration is $20. Registration at 8:30am, walk at 9:30am. A great way to celebrate Halloween. 442-4102. Eastview Mall, 7979 Pittsford Victor Rd., Victor 14564. alsigl.org/ news-and-events/events/73-2014walkabout Family Halloween Fest A free family-friendly Halloween party with trick-or-treating, games, activities, prizes music and more. 248-6280. St. John Fisher College, 3690 East Ave, Rochester 14618. townofpittsford.org

small children ages 8 and under. Of course children of all ages are welcome. 538-6822. Genesee Country Village & Museum, 1410 Flint Hill Rd., Mumford 14511. gcv.org ZooBoo Halloween Event A Merry-Not-Scary Halloween in a one-of-a-kind setting. Families will enjoy costumed characters and trick-or-treat stations. Tickets are $8.50 each and available at the Zoo's Front Gate on any ZooBoo day. 336-7200. Seneca Park Zoo, 2222 St Paul Street, Rochester 14621. senecaparkzoo.org

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Halloween at the Farm Free trick-or-treating around the farm. Costume parade at 2:45pm. A giant carved pumpkin will be picked up by a tractor and dropped at 3pm. 377-3276. Wickham Farms, 1821 Fairport Nine Mile Point Road, Penfield 14526. wickhamfarms.com

Sonnenberg Gardens Haunted Garden Stroll Halloween Walk-Hear strange Sonnenberg tales from the last 126 years that will leave you in goosebumps! Be ready for spooky characters during the walk. $5/ person, under 5 free. 394-4922. Sonnenberg Gardens & Mansion State Historic Park, 151 Charlotte St., Canandaigua 14424. sonnenberg.org

Trick-or-Treating in the Village Approximately a dozen of the village’s historic buildings will be open for trick-or-treating. Small bags will be provided at admissions. This program is designed for

Frightfully Delicious For ages 9-18, you can create a variety of healthy and not-sohealthy snacks in this Halloween themed program. Presented by TOPS Cooking School, all materials will be provided. Registration is required. 247.6446. Gates Public Library, 902 Elmgrove Rd, Rochester 14624. www.gateslibrary.org

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Book or Treat Wear your Halloween costume to the Evans branch to get a treat and a Halloween take-and-make craft. No registration required. Up to age 12. 336-6062. Irondequoit Public Library-Evans Branch, 45 Cooper Rd., Rochester 14617. Toddler Halloween Trick-orTreat Party Halloween activities and prizes for the littlest trick-or-treaters. Meet favorite storybook characters, dance to Halloween tunes, and play games from 10am to 2pm. Included with general museum admission fees. 263-2700. The Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Sq, Rochester 14607. www.museumofplay.org

Trick or Treat Around the Library! Enjoy a story, games, crafts and trick or treating around the library. Halloween Costumes encouraged! No registration. 247-6446. Gates Public Library, 902 Elmgrove Rd, Rochester 14624. www.gateslibrary.org

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CALENDAR OF EVENTS • LOCAL FAMILY-FRIENDLY ACTIVITIES Art and Story Stroll This hourlong story reading and art viewing experience for children 2 to 5 with accompanying adult is offered in conjunction with the exhibition Golden Legacy: 65 Years of Little Books. $5 per adult (children free). Preregister. Memorial Art Gallery, 500 University Ave., Rochester 14607. mag.rochester.edu R

24 * Friday Animal Tales - Drop-In Storytime Snuggle up on a fluffy pillow and enjoy an animal-themed story or two and a humane education component. Great way to introduce the wonder of animals to the little ones of the family. Held every Friday in the Learning Center. 223-1330. Lollypop Farm, 99 Victor Rd., Rochester 14450. lollypop.org R

Mothers Of Twins Sale Greater Rochester Mother’s of Twins Garage Sale- Double the love equals double the stuff. All clothes are hung on sized racks. All items are grouped by categories so it makes for easy shopping. 944-3891. First Baptist Church of Penfield, 1862 Penfield Rd , Rochester 14526. R

25 * Saturday Feathers in the Fall Come to the beautiful setting of Braddock Bay Park for the chance to photograph 10 species of birds of prey. Two, 2-hour session times will be offered, beginning at 12pm and 2pm. Pre-paid reservations are required. Braddock Bay Park, 199 East Manitou Road, Rochester 14612. R

Jack-O-Lantern Jog 5K and Kids Run Costumes are encouraged as this event will kick off a Halloween themed day in Canandaigua. After the race enjoy refreshments, raffles, family fun – including costume prizes, bounce house time & pumpkin crafts. 394-6866. Canandaigua YMCA, 32 North Main Street, Canandaigua 14424. www.canandaigua-ymca.org R

Make a Difference Day at Mount Hope Cemetery Participate in national Make a Difference Day by beautifying Mount Hope Cemetery! Tools and beverages are provided. Volunteers must be at least age 12; an adult must accompany volunteers 12-17 years old. 428-7736. Mount Hope Cemetery, 1133 Mt Hope Avenue, Rochester cityofrochester.gov/article.aspx?id=8589953277 R

Mesozoic Madness at RMSC The traveling exhibition will open today and continue through January 25, 2015. Don’t miss this opportunity to be transported back to the Mesozonic era at RMSC. 697-1942. Rochester Museum & Science Center, 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. rmsc.org R

Mother of Twins Club Sale Greater Rochester Mothers of Twins Garage Sale- Double the love equals double the stuff. All clothes are hung on sized racks. All items are grouped by categories so it makes for easy shopping. Clothes, toys, books, every baby item ever made. 944-3891. First Baptist Church of Penfield, 1862 Penfield Rd , Rochester 14526. R

Fine Craft Show and Sale Ceramics, glass, jewelry, metal, leather, wood, wearable art and more. The show features one-of-akind and limited-edition works by 46 master craft artists from across the country. Admission is $12 each day. 276-8900. Memorial Art Gallery, 500 University Ave., Rochester 14607. mag.rochester.edu R

Ithaca Oktoberfest The Ithaca Oktoberfest is full of rich harvest season celebrations complete with live music, sampling from regional breweries, wineries and farmers, as well as local food vendors. Downtown Ithaca,14850. ithacaoktoberfest.com/ R

Movie Madness at BVT BVT is now your hometown movie house! 2pm show will be kid friendly. $5 per show, $3 for kids under 12. Bristol Valley Theater, 151 South Main Street, Naples 14512. 374-6318. bvtnaples.org R

Sensory Friendly Films Featuring The Book of Life. The auditoriums dedicated to the program have their lights up, the sound turned down and audience members are invited to get up and dance, walk, shout or sing! 6710941. AMC Webster 12 Movie Theatre, 2190 Empire Blvd., Rochester 14580. R

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CALENDAR OF EVENTS • LOCAL FAMILY-FRIENDLY ACTIVITIES 26 * Sunday Fall Foliage by Trolley and Train Enjoy a 2-mile round trip trolley excursion that connects to a diesel train, linking the New York Museum of Transportation (NYMT) with the Rochester & Genesee Valley Railroad Museum’s country depot and railroad equipment collection. 533-1113. New York Museum of Transportation, 6393 East River Rd, Rush 14586. nymtmuseum.org R

Fine Craft Show and Sale Ceramics, glass, jewelry, metal, leather, wood, wearable art and more. Admission is $12 each day to benefit the Memorial Art Gallery; includes MAG admission. 276-8900. Memorial Art Gallery, 500 University Ave., Rochester 14607. mag.rochester.edu R

Harvest Cooking Classes The Friends of Ganondagan is offering two five-course, harvest dinner cooking classes in the Hands on Kitchen at the New York Wine & Culinary Center. Admission is $65/person, including all the food. 742-1690. New York Wine & Culinary Center, 800 South Main Street, Canandaigua 14424. ganondagan.org R

Make Every Woman & Girl Count 5K Race/Walk The Women’s Foundation of Genesee Valley (WFGV) will host the Make Every Woman & Girl Count 5K Race/Walk to raise awareness and funds to increase the Women’s Foundation’s investment in overcoming poverty in the community. WFGV is able to support . Genesee Valley Park, 99 Elmwood Ave, Rochester 14611.

dinosaurs ruled! Journey back through time to the Mesozoic Era and learn about these amazing reptiles. Did you know all dinosaurs did not live at the same time? Free with admission. 271-432 Rochester Museum & Science Center, 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. rmsc.org

27 * Monday Storytime Club Have your Storytime Club passport punched once during each visit. Collect five punches and receive a free children’s book! This month: Autumn Adventures. Included with general museum admission fees 263-2700. The Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Sq, Rochester 14607. www.museumofplay.org R

28 * Tuesday

RPO PRESENTS: SUPERHEROES AND HEROINES

Passenger Pigeons Exhibit at RMSC The RMSC will exhibit 18 mounted Passenger Pigeons from their collections, as well as a set of eggs, 3,900 year old archaeological specimens and examples of the actual nets used to drive these birds to extinction. Free with regular Museum admission. Rochester Museum & Science Center, 657 East Ave., Rochester 14607. rmsc.org

Sunday, October 19: 2pm Crash, bam, ka-pow! Celebrate Halloween early with iconic music from your favorite superheroes and heroines, including Spider-Man, Superman, Harry Potter, Captain America and The Incredibles. Hochstein Performance Hall, 50 Plymouth Ave., Rochester 14614, 585-454-2100, www.rpo.org

29 * Wednesday Food Truck Rodeo Dozens of food trucks converge at the Rochester Public Market for an evening of local food, local brew and local music featuring the Classic Rock of Dog House. 428-6907. Rochester Public Market, 280 N. Union St., Rochester 14605. www.cityofrochester.gov/ foodtruckrodeo

Grohman, clarinet; Willie La Favor, piano. 454-4403. Hochstein School of Music & Dance in Rochester, 50 N. Plymouth Ave., Rochester 14614.

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Mesozoic Madness at RMSC Make fossil imprints and dinosaur masks while learning about when

Postcards: An International Trip Music of Higdon, Aubin, Husa, Debussy, and more. The Telos Trio: Rita George Simmons, flute; Debbie

Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey Circus Surprise and wonder delights audiences with over

the top feats of strength, agility and courage. As the momentum builds so does the anticipation, anything can happen when Ringling Bros. Presents Built To Amaze! 232-1900 or 800-745-3000. Blue Cross Arena, 1 War Memorial Square, Rochester 14614. bluecrossarena.com

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LIBRARY PROGRAMS & ACTIVITIES

Saturday Morning Cartoons Do you look forward all week to watching cartoons on Saturday mornings?Anybody who loves cartoons is welcome to come. So pack up the kids, and the neighbors’ kids and be ready to laugh. 428-8150. Central Library of Rochester & Monroe County. Star Wars Reads Day Enjoy Star Wars themed games, giveaways, and grub! We’ll have Star Wars characters to take your picture with, droid building, and more! *Registration is required* 336-6062. Irondequoit Public Library-Evans Branch.

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Pajama Story Time Enjoy stories, songs, activities and a craft. A family program for all ages and pajama wear is optional! 2476446. Gates Public Library. R

Tween Tech Lab: LED Robots We're making mini robots using toothbrush batteries and LEDs. Come get creative and experiment! For ages 8-12. Please register. 359-7092. Henrietta Public Library.

Teen Writing Group Do you like to write? Have you been looking for a place to share your writing with other teens? We will be meeting on the first and third Monday of every month to write, share, edit, laugh, write... For teens in grades 7-12. Please register. 359-7092. Henrietta Public Library. R

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03 * Friday First Friday Films Enjoy short films and popcorn on the first Friday of each month! All ages, no registration. 247-6446. Gates Public Library. R

04 * Saturday ACT Prep Test This official, fulllength practice test from College Board, the makers of the ACT, is a perfect way to see how you will do on the ACT with real testing conditions. Class offered by Chariot Learning. 359-7092. Henrietta Public Library. Lego Lab Do you love building with Legos? Then this is the place for you! Each month kids will be challenged to build a specific type of structure and then display their work for all to see. This program is best for children five and older. 428-8150. Central Library of Rochester & Monroe County.

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Music and Movement for Preschoolers Kids ages 2-5 are invited to join us for an interactive music program. Music and Movement will incorporate musical instruments (bells, shakers, rhythm sticks, boomwackers...) and creative movement. Please

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Tied Pillow Craft For ages 8 - 13. Make a fleece pillow by tying the edges together! All materials are provided, and registration is required. 247-6446. Gates Public Library. R

09 * Thursday Legos Club! Hear a story, then build with the Legos here at the library! For ages 5 - 12, registration required. 247-6446. Gates Public Library.

12 * Sunday Meet the Author-Charles Benoit Librarians across the Monroe County Library System are encouraging everyone to read the same teen novel! Then come meet the author during Teen Read Week. The guest author is: Charles Benoit. 872-7075. Webster Public Library. R

14 * Tuesday

Junior Friends Library volunteers, ages 9 - 16, who meet year-round and help the library with book sales, programs, and decorations are the Junior Friends. They also get involved with community service activities. Come join the group; you'll be glad you did! 247-6446. Gates Public Library.

15 * Wednesday

Preschool Dance Party Dance up a storm and enjoy the fun Friday party! For ages 1 - 5 with a caregiver. 247-6446. Gates Public Library.

Dog Training A few dogs and many owners will learn basic commands using Clicker Training method. This is a positive and fun approach to communicating and working with a dog. Limit of 8 dogs and 70 humans. Registration is required 247-6446. Gates Public Library. R

Drop In Family Craft The library will provide everything you need to be creative as a family. Come and enjoy some family crafting time! No registration required. 247-6446. Gates Public Library. Emmie The Reading Dog Storytime Emmie, an adorable Shetland sheepdog, loves to hear stories! Bring your own book or pick one from the library. No registration required. 336-6062. Irondequoit Public Library-Evans Branch.

18 * Saturday

Meet the Author-Charles Benoit Librarians across the Monroe County Library System are encouraging everyone to read the same teen novel! Then come meet the author during Teen Read Week. The guest author is: Charles Benoit. 889-2200. Chili Public Library. Preschool SCIENCE-time Join the group for a science themed storytime. Then read stories and do hands-on science activities! Please register. 359-7092. Henrietta Public Library.

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Science Saturdays- Look Under the Microscope Ward's resident slides technician who specializes in zoology, embryology, and parasitology, will bring along their favorite microscope slides! This is your opportunity to see the unseen up-close and personal. Dust mites, bed bugs, and ticks... Henrietta Public Library.

Teen Volunteer Program Do you have community service hours to complete? Register to come and help out at the library from to earn 2 hours towards your community service requirement. You must register. 359-7092. Henrietta Public Library.

Toddler Dance Party Toddler Dance Party-Come and dance your sillies out! Toddlers/preschoolers and their caregivers will have a blast dancing along to some of their favorite tunes. 359-7092. Henrietta Public Library.

Tail Waggin' Tutors Bookloving dogs are coming to the library to listen to children read stories. Reading to calm, trained dogs who love to listen is a great way for children to build confidence reading out loud. Free. 428-8214. Arnett Branch Library.

CALENDAR OF EVENTS • LOCAL FAMILY-FRIENDLY ACTIVITIES 20 * Monday 2-Part Intro to Creative Writing This class will help you explore the basics of creative writing through a variety of activities. Participants read and discuss a short story, respond to writing prompts in a workshop setting. Registration is required and is limited to 15 people. 2476446 Gates Public Library. Batman's Birthday Celebrate Batman's 75th Birthday with us! We will have Batman-themed games, crafts, and prizes! Please register to ensure your spot at Batman's Birthday! This program is designed for ages 6-12. 359-7092. Henrietta Public Library.

21 * Tuesday Lego Club Have fun building with Lego at the library! We will provide the bricks and challenge participants to be as creative as possible! For ages 7-12. Please register. 359-7092. Henrietta Public Library.

22 * Wednesday

American Girl Club Kids ages 7-12 are invited to join us in celebrating all things American Girl! We will read an excerpt from a book, make a craft, and learn! Please register. 359-7092. Henrietta Public Library. Preschool Storytime Designed for 3 year olds - Kindergartners. This program includes stories, songs, rhymes, and sign language. 359-7092. Henrietta Public Library.

Time For Tots Ages 1-5 with a caregiver. Forty minutes of free play with toys, followed by a short story time. No registration. 429-8294. Gates Public Library.

23 * Thursday K- 2nd Grade Stories and Crafts For ages 4 - 8 years, stories, games, activities and a craft. Registration is required. 247.6446. Gates Public Library.

NOVEMBER 01 * Saturday Lego Lab Do you love building with Legos? Then this is the place for you! Each month kids will be challenged to build a specific type of structure and then display their work for all to see.This program is best for children five and older. 428-8150. Central Library of Rochester & Monroe County.

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Teen Improv Coffee House A talented local group of students will perform an improv show! Come and enjoy some funny skits and improv games that include audience participation. Show your support for these talented teens. Refreshments will be provided. For all ages. Pleas... 359-709 Henrietta Public Library.

27 * Monday

Teen News Tonight (TNT) New books will be displayed and attendees get first dibs on popular new teen titles. New programs will be discussed and and posters will be made. Food and games will be played at the end.This program counts toward community service hours. 359-7092. Henrietta Public Library.

29 * Wednesday Teen Game Night Teen Game Night-Hang out with your friends at HPL's monthly Teen Game Night! Play games and enjoy refreshments. 359-7092. Henrietta Public Library.

Emmie The Reading Dog Storytime Emmie, an adorable Shetland sheepdog, loves to hear stories! Bring your own book or pick one from the library. No registration required. 336-6062. Irondequoit Public LibraryEvans Branch. Tail Waggin’ Tutors Animals are ideal reading companions because they create a relaxed and comfortable environment. The Tail Waggin’ Tutors program allows kids to practice reading to calm, well-trained dogs. 428-8150. Central Library of Rochester & Monroe County.

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Time For Tots Ages 1-5 with a caregiver. Forty minutes of free play with toys, followed by a short story time. No registration. 429-8294. Gates Public Library.

Greece Public Library 2 Vince Tofany Blvd., Rochester 14612 greecepubliclibrary.org 225- 8951 Henrietta Public Library 455 Calkins Road, Henrietta 14607 hpl.org || 359-7092 Central Library of Rochester & Monroe County, 115 South Ave., Rochester 14604. www.libraryweb.org 428-8150.

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AL SIGL WALK ABOUT Sunday, October 26: Registration begins at 8:30am

Walk, roll, and cheer for abilities at the 25th Annual Al Sigl Community Walk About that raises funds for Al Sigl Member Agencies! All walkers and rollers receive a t-shirt, breakfast and entry into the costume contest. Lots of family-friendly entertainment! Adult registration is $20 and begins at the food court at 8:30am. Walk at 9:30am with costume contest to follow. Eastview Mall, 7979 Pittsford Victor Road, Victor 14564, 442-4102 ext. 8944, www.alsigl.org R

The Snail and the Whale A tiny snail longs to see the world, so she hitches a lift on the tail of a humpback whale. Follow the tiny snail’s amazing journey, as seen through the eyes of an adventurous young girl and her seafaring father. Performance again at 7pm. 315-781-5483. Smith Opera House, 82 Seneca Street, Geneva 14456. thesmith.org

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30 * Thursday MAG Highlights Tour This docent-led tour of the collections is included in Gallery admission. 2768900. Memorial Art Gallery, 500 University Ave., Rochester 14607. mag.rochester.edu R

Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey Circus Surprise and wonder delights audiences with over the top feats of strength, agility and courage. As the momentum builds so does the anticipation, anything can happen when Ringling Bros. Presents Built To Amaze! 232-1900 or 800-745-3000. Blue Cross Arena, 1 War Memorial Square, Rochester 14614. bluecrossarena.com

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Animal Tales - Drop-In Storytime Snuggle up on a fluffy pillow and enjoy an animal-themed story or two and a humane education component. Great way to introduce the wonder of animals to the little ones of the family. Held every Friday in the Learning Center. 223-1330. Lollypop Farm, 99 Victor Rd., Rochester 14450. lollypop.org

November 01 * Saturday Animal Birthdays - Polar Bear Sing “Happy Birthday” song and treats for the birthday animals at 2 pm. Touch table station. Bring a gift to the party - check the website for suggestions. Included with admission. 336-7200. Seneca Park Zoo, 2222 St Paul Street, Rochester 14621. senecaparkzoo.org R

Art of the Carrousel A variety of hands-on crafts and activities help you learn the process of creating the beautiful hand-carved carrousel that are Allan Herschell’s legacy. 716-693-1885. Herschell Carrousel Factory Museum, 180 Thompson St., North Tonawanda 14120. carrouselmuseum.org R

Hess Mobile Museum Launch Guests may explore the mobile museum, see examples of the toy trucks from the last 50 years. The mobile museum will be accompanied by outdoor activities for kids— including a photo op, Kids’ Zone, and a bank of toy truck computer

games. 263-2700. The Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Sq, Rochester 14607. www.museumofplay.org R

Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey Circus Surprise and wonder delights audiences with over the top feats of strength, agility and courage. Anything can happen when Ringling Bros. Presents Built To Amaze! Shows at 3pm and 7pm. 232-1900 or 800-745-3000. Blue Cross Arena, 1 War Memorial Square, Rochester 14614. bluecrossarena.com R

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Go Green Recycle Rally Go Green! Recycle Rallies give members of the community the opportunity to recycle larger items such as televisions, computers, monitors, DVD players, microwaves and video game systems. 336-7200. Seneca Park Zoo, 2222 St Paul Street, Rochester 14621. senecaparkzoo.org R

CALENDAR OF EVENTS • LOCAL FAMILY-FRIENDLY ACTIVITIES Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey Circus Surprise and wonder delights audiences with over the top feats of strength, agility and courage. Anything can happen when Ringling Bros. Presents Built To Amaze! Shows again at 5pm. 232-1900 or 800-745-3000. Blue Cross Arena, 1 War Memorial Square, Rochester 14614. bluecrossarena.com

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Voices of Autumn Maryellen Giese directs Hochstein Singers and Youth Singers. Solo vocal students from Voice Dept. also in recital. 454-4403. Hochstein School of Music & Dance in Rochester, 50 N. Plymouth Ave., Rochester 14614. R

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Monday Kicks for Ages 2 to 6 Playful learning activities designed for 2- to 6-year-olds, one Monday a month. Included with general museum admission fees. 263-2700. The Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Sq, Rochester 14607. www.museumofplay.org

Animal Tales - Drop-In Storytime Snuggle up on a fluffy pillow and enjoy an animal-themed story or two and a humane education component. Great way to introduce the wonder of animals to the little ones of the family. Held every Friday in the Learning Center. 2231330. Lollypop Farm, 99 Victor Rd., Rochester 14450. lollypop.org

Toy Sale Stop in to the Southeast Y for a Quality Used Toy Sale! Proceeds to benefit area families. Toys, puzzles, books and more. The sale runs November 3 - 15. Anyone can stop in! 385-4665. Southeast YMCA, 111 East Jefferson Road, Rochester 14534. www.rochesterymca.org/toysale R

05 * Wednesday Guided Museum Tour Led by a museum staff member or docent, these fun-filled, fact-filled tours are a great way for visitors of all ages to discover the museum’s treasures. 716-693-1885. Herschell Carrousel Factory Museum, 180 Thompson St., North Tonawanda 14120. carrouselmuseum.org R

Happy Birthday, Mr. Sax A bicentennial celebration of the birth of the saxophone’s inventor. Vertex Saxophone Quartet: Chisato Eda Marling, soprano saxophone; Kristin Nicole Bayer, alto saxophone; Mark Kraszewski, tenor saxophone; Nancy Boone-Bahr, baritone saxophone. 454-4403. Hochstein School of Music & Dance in Rochester, 50 N. Plymouth Ave., Rochester 14614. R

06 * Thursday Art and Story Stroll Creative Workshop instructor Carol Kase reads the classic Little Golden Book Chicken Little. $5 per adult (children free); call to preregister. 276.8971. Memorial Art Gallery, 500 University Ave., Rochester 14607. mag.rochester.edu

08 * Saturday Fly Guy and Other Stories This brand new musical brings to life seven of the most popular and charming children’s books. Fly Guy has met his match, and her name is Fly Girl. Best enjoyed by boys and girls ages 4 and up. Next show at 2pm. 461-2000. JCC Hart Theatre, 1200 Edgewood Avenue, Rochester 14618. tykestheatre.org R

National Toy Hall of Fame Celebration A weekend of toyfilled revelry in conjunction with the 2014 National Toy Hall of Fame toy induction. Included with general museum admission fees. 263-2700. The Strong National Museum of Play, One Manhattan Sq, Rochester 14607. www.museumofplay.org R

Sunshine SINGERS Children age 4-12 with Down syndrome will perform. 454-4403. Hochstein School of Music & Dance in Rochester, 50 N. Plymouth Ave., Rochester 14614. R

09 * Sunday Crescent Trail Hike Guided Hike organized and hosted by the Crescent Trail Association. Adults, teenagers, and children supervised by an adult are welcome to participate. 234-1621. Crescent Trail, E. Jefferson Road, Fairport 14450. www.perinton.org/Departments/ parks/hikingctha/ R

National Toy Hall of Fame Induction The 2014 toy honorees are revealed at a public ceremony that takes place in the National Toy Hall of Fame. Included with general museum admission fees. 263-2700.

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By Rachel Blum

pumpkins galore FIVE AREA PLACES FOR PICKING OUT THE PERFECT PUMPKIN

ith Halloween around the corner, now is the time to take the family on a trip to the pumpkin patch! Nothing says Fall more than decorated pumpkins in front of the house. There are many places to visit and each farm has its own special fall-themed activities for the entire family, so don't limit yourself to just one patch!

Green Acre Fruit Farm

3460 Latta Road Rochester, 14612 234-0252 www.greenacreupick.com Open Daily 9am -5pm Bring the kids and pick pumpkins directly from the field! There is nothing more fun than picking your own pumpkin with your family. The farm also offers 22 varieties of apples.

Gro-Moore Farms

2811 East Henrietta Road Henrietta, 14467 359-3310 www.gromoore.com Mon-Fri: 8am-6:30pm, Sat-Sun: 8am-6pm Fall is family fun time at Gro-Moore Farms, and you are going to love your visit to Pumpkin Hollow. Visit the kid-friendly Petting Zoo, the Pumpkin Slide, watch the kids navigate the Trike Maze, "No Left Turn" Maze, and much more! Plus, of course, pumpkins!

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Stokoe Farms

256 South Road Scottsville, 14546 889-7948 www.stokoefarms.com Sat-Sun through Oct. 26: 10am-5pm At Stokoe Farms, they are dedicated to sharing their farm heritage with you and your family. Take a wagon ride to the pumpkin patch to pick your own special pumpkins from the vine. Enjoy over 35 thrilling activities and animals on the farm. There is fun for all ages...and don't forget to stop for lunch!

Whittier Fruit Farms

219 Whittier Road Rochester, 14624 594-9054 whittierfruitfarm.com Mon-Fri: 10am-6pm, Sat-Sun: 10am-5pm Everybody has their own pumpkin fantasy and Whittier Fruit Farms aims to have just the pumpkin you are looking for: Tall, Fat, Huge, Small, for jack-olanterns, pies and decorations. Additionally, the tractor and wagon will take you to the Pumpkin Patch on Saturdays and Sundays in October or you can pick one up at their farm market.

Brown's Berry Patch

14264 Roosevelt Hwy Waterport, NY 14571 682-5569 brownsberrypatch.com Open Daily 9amâ&#x20AC;&#x201C;9pm Grab a wagon from their wagon coral to carry pumpkins and/ or your kids. No baskets or bags are required. After picking, have your pumpkins weighed at our weigh station in the Marketplace.

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