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Vol. 29, No. 2

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Always the season to give

By Carole Townsend Staff Correspondent

Willie Frank Bailey honored page 17

Kathy Closek is good people. She also considers herself a Grayson citizen, not Dacula. “When we bought the house, we actually thought we were buying in Grayson. Turns out, our property is right on the Grayson/Dacula line,” she laughed. She loves both cities, but her business was all Grayson.

Closek is the kind of woman who doesn’t think twice about rolling up her sleeves and helping folks out, and she does it with a gracious, effortless flair that makes people feel special. The former owner of Grayson’s Olde Post Café on Grayson Parkway has had to make a tough decision; real estate developers purchased the popular eatery and increased the rent beyond Closek’s reasonable reach. And although her adoring customers were unhappy to see the doors close, Closek’s not just walking off into the sunset – not yet, anyway.

“I retired from Emory University Department of Ophthalmology. I worked there as a medical technician. While I was there, the Department built

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The Christmas Lady Building women up

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INSIDE Picture Perfect 4 Gwinnett Pulse 6 Roadrunner 26 Health & Wellness 34 Classifieds 39

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By Katie Hart Smith Staff Correspondent “Christmas is my favorite time of year!” Shirley Smith, dubbed ‘The Christmas Lady,’ by beloved friends begins decorating her Monroe home in August. When you drive into the driveway, you are immediately embraced by the Christmas spirit. From beautifully staged lawn decorations and green wreaths with red ribbons hanging in every window to a Santa Claus and Christmas tree on every outdoor porch, you can’t help but tap into your inner child no matter your age with all the seasonal wonderment.

How did Smith’s inspiration get started? “I started decorating my home in Loganville when my grandchildren came along. I decorate the entire house, inside Special Photo and out. When we moved to Monroe Shirley Smith has a collection of all twelve years ago, I continued the things Christmas inside and outside her home.

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(L-R) Keith Mays receives homemade cake from Kathy Closek.

Photo by M.T. Bagheri

Clever blend of art and storytelling

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Tracy Yardley (R), artist of Sonic the Hedgehog, joins Kyle Puttkammer at New York Comic Con.

By Carole Townsend Staff correspondent Kyle Puttkammer is passionate about what he does, and with good reason. An artist and a writer, he has found the perfect medium to

showcase both of those gifts: comic books. In 1991, Puttkammer opened Galactic Quest, “the greatest comic book store on earth,” according to the retailer’s website.

Comic books made both Marvel

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Best practices for safer online shopping

Shopping in today’s world is easier and more convenient with so many apps and online retailers at your fingertips.

Consumers can buy just about anything, anywhere directly from their laptops or mobile devices. However, it is a good idea to be aware of ways to protect yourself and your money when you are shopping online.

1. Stay with the brands you know.

If you don’t have a particular merchant in mind, search engines can be a great place to start. However, simply having a website does not mean a company is reputable. When using search engines, take a look at the spelling and grammar on the merchant’s website. Common misspellings and poor grammar are all red flags. Online reviews can be a great place to start, but keep in mind not all positive “testimonials” may be legitimate. Be cautious of a large number of overly positive reviews which occur within a short time frame and then suddenly stop.

2. Look for the lock to indicate a secu-

rity enabled site. Never buy anything online from a site that doesn’t have Secure Sockets Layer (SSL) for encryption. You will know if the site has a SSL because the URL begins with ‘https’, rather than ‘http’.

The ‘s’ at the end indicates the site is secure. If you see a green lock displayed to the left of the secured website address, it also indicates that the site is encrypted.

3. Be careful not to share more information than is needed. No online shopping site needs your social security number or birthday to complete a transaction. Avoid sending your credit or debit card details to anyone via email. Although it makes it very convenient to make repeat purchases, it is worth unchecking any option in your purchasing process that allows the retailer to store your card details.

4. Keep your computer or mobile device up to date. Make sure to run anti-virus and malware scans regularly. Check for updates to your operating system and ensure apps and browsers are kept up-to-

Merry Christmas from all of us at the Gwinnett Citizen!

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date with the latest version. Continually update and always use strong, unique passwords for each online store where you make purchases. If you haven’t changed your password for an existing account in some time, it would be a good idea to do that now.

5. Make sure your payment methods include buyer protections. With the

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Take a proactive approach in deterring fraud on your account before submitting your online order. To learn more about United’s payment services, talk with Ginger Kilman or Nancy Cain at United Community Bank. You can reach Ginger in Snellville at 770-985-2337 or Nancy in Lawrenceville at 678-376-3013.

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Gwinnett’s future looks promising!

Meredith Chastain & Meghan Schroder Meredith Chastain and I (Meghan Schroder) will be officially taking over Picture Perfect Gwinnett. We have been fans of this column since day one because

we love pictures and most importantly because it was written by my mom, Loralee Beard. We share her passion for photography and Gwinnett County.

As photographers for Magic Moment, we get to witness so many spectacular moments in Gwinnett. We will focus this column on two of the things we love the most- sports and family!

The most exciting buzz in our office this week is the Friday night football game between Mill Creek and Grayson.

We have been lucky enough to be the official photographers for both teams for many years. We spent many of our Friday nights in awe of the talent both these teams exhibit and were truly hoping they would meet in the State Championship and not be forced to knock each other out in the semis. By the time you read

this, a winner will be announced, but we are so proud of both teams and will be on the edge of our seat Friday night.

The talent at Grayson should be doing just fine for the next several years if the unbelievable 8th Grade Grayson Football Team is an indicator. These boys, coached by Matt Prior, were able to win the GFL championship in both the Division One and the Division Two leagues. The picture featured focuses on the five boys that have been with the team since they were six years old- Jake Whitten, Grady Bryant, Henry Hunter, Nick Shaddix, and Wyatt Williams.

Loyal readers may remember Nick’s brother successfully asking a date to Homecoming using our column.

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PROMISING continued from page 4 The Archer Cheerleading squad is already making their mark- even if the girls are just in second grade. These girls have won the Cheer Off Championship two years in a row under the brilliant coaching of Brandy Bortak. We can’t wait to follow this talented group of girls through high school.

As we officially put this football season to bed, we can focus on the holiday and spend time with our families. We have been busy photographing some of our favorite families for their Christmas Cards. We have decided to focus on column repeats. If you have ever attended a GAA basketball game, you will have either seen Chris Blalock - the GAA Basketball league director for many years or

his mega involved and charismatic wife, Tysha. Sons Logan and Bradley continue to amaze us with their ability to play any sport. Bradley is currently on the high school baseball team, and Logan plays both baseball and travel basketball.

The Dacula High School softball team won their region this year and advanced to the state playoffs. Coach Kristin Croteau and husband Lee met as students (and athletes) at Dacula High School, where Kristen currently teaches and recently won Assistant Coach of the Year for Softball. They have added Emilee, 4, and Eddie, 2, to the mix. Both are sure to be Dacula power hitters in a few short years.

Whether in sports or academics, ev-

eryone loves a winner. And Sandy Stephens produces an award-winning yearbook for Grayson High School every single year. Sandy and husband Chad just celebrated their 19th anniversary.

They are joined by adorable children, Audrey and Tuck. Sandy is the yearbook advisor for Grayson High School and was the Teacher of the Year Last year. With educators like her, Gwinnett’s future sure looks promising!

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Gwinnett Pulse The Promised LandA Piece of Gwinnett History

To the thousands of drivers who travel south on Highway 124, Lee Road is just another intersection between Snellville and Lithonia. But if you take the time to turn at the intersection, you’ll find that it is an entrance to a part of Gwinnett County that reflects the area’s distant past. Traveling just a few hundred feet from the highway intersection brings you to the “Stop” sign at Anderson-Livsey Road—and to the community known as “The Promised Land”.

The name traces back to the 1820s when the area was sparsely populated and an Irish immigrant named Thomas Maguire received 250 acres through a land lottery. Ultimately, Maguire built a house and several out buildings and acquired over 990 acres. Within a few years of his arrival in the southern reaches of the county, his farm had become a highly successful plantation.

Unlike the mansions that are typically associated with southern plantations, the Maguire-Livsey House is rather modest. It reflects the lifestyle of an immigrant family that came to the United States and worked to build a better and more prosperous life. For the Maguire family, the promise of “The Promised Land” was the prosperity it delivered; the fertile land in southern Gwinnett County yielded abundant crops.

Although the plantation is long gone, the original house that Maguire built remains. Known as ”The Big House”, it (and the records it once held) is said to have served as a reference for Margaret Mitchell’s novel, “Gone With the Wind”.

The house is also noteworthy because during the Civil War, it survived Union General Sherman’s scorched earth “March to the Sea”. According to historical records, Maguire, his family and his slaves hid in the woods while the Union army occupied their land. Before the soldiers left, they burned Maguire’s gin house, stables and barn and slaughtered his livestock, but spared the house.

In the 1920s, the Livsey family, which still lives in the area, purchased 110 acres of land, including the Maguire house, and ran a successful farm. “The Promised Land” continued to fulfill its promise by rewarding its owners with abundant crops and a suitable environment for raising healthy livestock.

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The historic Maguire-Livsey House, located on Anderson-Livsey Lane, was built in the 1820s on the 1,000-acre Thomas Maguire Plantation that later became known as “The Promised Land.” A series of journals kept by Mr. Maguire document life on the plantation.

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The Livsey family bought the property in the 1920s. Their descendants still live in the area today and refer to it as the “Livsey Family Big House.

One of the most historically valuable vestiges of southern Gwinnett County’s history, “The Big House”, privately owned by the Livsey family, has been unoccupied for years. And although Thomas Livsey and his family have cared for it, a full-scale restoration is needed to assure its continued survival. Fortunately, the Gwinnett County Board of Commissioners recently voted to purchase the house and surrounding 1.45 acres. The $161,200 purchase is funded by SPLOST. Plans for the house’s future haven’t been announced yet, but the county commission is joined by the Gwinnett Historical Society in applauding the purchase, which assures the preservation of the structure and the histories of the families associated with it.

Residents in southern Gwinnett County should be equally enthusiastic.

Many of the structures that were links to the area’s past were demolished when the county went through its numerous growth stages. With the preservation of the Maguire-Livsey house, south Gwinnett will soon have a revitalized stop on a tour of historic houses and buildings.

Currently, you can get a glimpse of Gwinnett’s past at a variety of houses dating from the early and mid-1800s. Some are privately owned and not open to the public, but a number of houses are publicly accessible. The Gwinnett Historical Society’s web site (www.gwinnetths.org) contains information about many of the county’s historic structures.

In 2018, Gwinnett County will celebrate its 200th birthday. And with the county’s purchase of the Maguire-Livsey house, “The Promised Land” will be a welcome part of that celebration.

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Buy your Christmas tree from NG3 and invest in next generation

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Grayson United Methodist NG3 Christmas Tree crew on a recent Saturday afternoon included from L-R Vernon Hubbard, Grayson football player Matthew Greenway, Daniel Frost, Lauren and wife Lisa Frost.

NG3 opens a Christmas tree lot in Snellville & Grayson

By Carole Townsend Staff Correspondent

There are beautiful Christmas trees for sale at several locations throughout Gwinnett County, but proceeds from the sale of trees sold at either of two lots will go right back into the community. Grace Fellowship Church in Snellville and Grayson United Methodist Church in Grayson both feature Christmas tree lots benefiting NG3, a Christian organization that invests in the lives of student athletes through intentional relationship building.

The organization focuses on character development, community service and spiritual growth, all with an eye toward developing principled leaders for today and tomorrow. NG3 staff work alongside athletic coaching staff to teach and mentor student-athletes into becoming well-rounded men and women of character.

Proceeds from tree sales at Grace Snellville will benefit NG3 at Parkview and Brookwood High Schools, and the Grayson UMC Christmas tree sales will benefit Archer and Grayson High Schools. Lawson Hale, the NG3 Director at Brookwood High School, is excited about the opportunities that he and other volunteers working the Christmas tree lots will see this month. He is an

NG3 leader for Brookwood’s football and baseball teams. One semester away from graduating Georgia Gwinnett College, and with final exams, Hale is a busy man during the month of December.

Still, the enthusiasm in his voice is evident as he talks about NG3, the Christmas tree lots, and exciting new opportunities that will open up because of the communities’ willingness to support this festive Christmas season effort.

“I love working these lots. I get to meet new people right here in our community. That gives me a chance to get to know other athletes and leaders, plus I get to meet people that just might decide to volunteer, maybe mentor another group of students.” Just as important, funds raised through Christmas tree sales will go directly to NG3 – to provide meals for kids, to help a group of young people complete a service project, and to fund scholarships awarded to student athletes based on their character.

Grayson NG3 Director Dustin Mattox has worked the NG3 Christmas tree lot at Grace Snellville since the first year, in 2013. “One of my favorite things about having these tree lots is bringing out groups of students to work them.

Sometimes we’ll have Parkview and Brookwood students working together, or Archer and Grayson. They see that it’s OK to be rivals on Friday night, but that they can also work together in the larger community the rest of the time.” Too, Mattox adds that having students spend time working alongside NG3 mentors

and leaders, is a win-win.

Mattox notes that, before the burning ban was instituted in Gwinnett County, volunteers would have a roaring fire welcoming visitors at each tree lot. Still, customers can get hot chocolate, talk to their friends in the community and meet new ones, making the quest for the perfect tree a fun family experience, too.

“We say all the time that these are trees with a mission,” Mattox said.

“These are not just for-profit lots. Yes, we earn good money selling these trees, but it’s invested right back into these young people and into the community.”

Grace Church – Snellville was the

first NG3 Christmas tree lot location.

The Grayson UMC location was added 2 years ago. In the future, NG3 leaders would like to multiply the tree lots, giving the organization the ability to fund specific school communities with the proceeds of each lot.

Grace Church in Snellville is located at 1400 Dogwood Road, SW. Grayson United Methodist Church is located at 555 Grayson Parkway.

Tree Lot Hours (both locations): Saturday: 9am – 9pm Sunday: 12pm – 8pm Mon – Fri: 5:30pm – 9pm

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NG3 Christmas Tree crew at Grace Fellowship Church Snellville (L-R) Dustin Mattox, Jon Stinchcomb, Randy Rainwater (Pastor at Grace New Hope), Aiden Mattox (on his shoulders), Elizabeth Rainwater, Anita Rainwater, Erin Mattox, Emalyn Mattox, Rylan Mattox, and Sarah Rainwater.

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The race is on

Carole Townsend

(Not So) Common Sense Thanksgiving is in the rearview mirror, and as I heard a woman remark the other day as I ran into the supermarket to pick up a few things, “the race is on.”

Oh my, just hearing those words makes me get all knotted up inside because the woman was referring to the Christmas season. That’s the race that’s on.

Remember when you were a kid, and Christmas was sitting far off and tantalizing, a whole two or three days away? Oh, the minutes ticked by with iceberg-like, slow deliberation. It seemed the Big Day would never arrive.

I miss those days. Now, when the calendar pages flip over to reveal the month of JULY, I think to myself, “Christmas is just six months away.” I make note of how impossibly fast time flies by, and I marvel at the thought that even though it’s 90-plus-degrees outside, Christmas will be here before you know it.

Why do we do this to ourselves?

I love the Christmas season. I love seeing our children more often than we do at any other time throughout the year.

Yes, I love the food and the friends and festivities. I’m coming to learn, though, that it isn’t about the busy-ness, it’s about the downtime. It’s about cuddling up on

the sofa with my husband during a stolen night with just us (and the dogs), and watching an old Christmas classic.

Doesn’t matter which one; it’s just being there with him (and the dogs).

Our children are all young adults now. There’s no rushing to get this toy or that, hiding the loot and wrapping it when they’re not looking. They have embarked on their own lives, so the most precious gift we receive during the holidays is that of their time. I miss their being little sometimes, but oh, I do not miss the craziness that used to be our Christmas seasons. With school and sports and work, how did we get it all done? It’s all a blur, frankly, so I’m not sure.

Now, I feel that we have the best of both worlds. Why? Well, as I may have mentioned a time or two before, we have a two-year-old granddaughter. The urgency and busy-ness we brought to this glorious season are behind us as a couple and as parents, and for that I am grateful. But the fun of having a young child in the house – and as often as possible – is wonderful. Are there secret presents stashed here and there? Sure, but since she doesn’t live with us (and since she’s only two), we don’t have to be too clever with hiding them.

I’ll tell you something else I’ve noticed, and oh, if I could share this with just one young mom out there, I’d feel I’ve done a pretty good day’s work. Relax. Don’t sweat the small stuff. I’ll give you an example. I used to build and decorate a Gingerbread House with the children every year. I wanted it to turn out just like the lovely picture on the box, and I expected my children to want the same thing. But they were children, so, of course, they wanted to eat some of the decorations and icing instead of putting it on the house. My son was not as detail-oriented as my daughter (and as

I), so he’d glop on the icing and shove gumdrops wherever he could find room for them. My daughter wanted straight, precise lines, shrubs that looked like shrubs, neat brickwork and straight lines of lights. Needless to say, we all ended up stressed and irritated, but the next year, we’d do it all over again.

When I enlisted my children’s help to wrap presents, I still felt the need to supervise – all in the name of neatness.

You can imagine how stressed we all were. Why did I do it? Why did the little things matter so much? I can’t answer that except to say that I’ve both matured and mellowed and now, I couldn’t care less about neatness and straight lines.

My daughter and granddaughter built a Gingerbread House last week, and it’s adorable because they made it, not because it’s perfect.

The bottom line is this: moms, relax. Enjoy them now, while they’re little, because I promise you that tomorrow they’re grown. Maybe you’ll have grandchildren, little perfect beings that I call “the perfect do-over,” but don’t wait until then. Ease off on the accelerator a bit; you’ll be surprised at what you’ve been missing.

Carole Townsend is a Gwinnett author and freelance writer. Her fourth book, BLOOD IN THE SOIL, was published April 2016. It is the true tale of a crime that took place in Gwinnett County nearly 40 years ago. Her other three books are written with Southern humor. Carole often appears on network television talk and news shows, as well as on national true crime radio shows. Her books can be found in bookstores, on Amazon.com, Barnes & Noble.com, and at www.caroletownsend. com. When she’s not writing, Carole travels throughout the southeast, talking to groups about women, writing, family and living in her beloved South.

Looking back… and looking forward

Photo by Lisa Wilmette

As we take a moment to reflect on 2016, there are many things that our community and our nation have seen change this year. There have been lives lost and babies born, governmental changes, an economy that seems to be improving in many areas, and new technologies being put in front of our faces at every turn. In a world that moves so quickly, and where change is often inevitable, sometimes it’s nice to see solidarity and stability, in our families, in our work, and in our community.

Legacy State Bank is proud to be a part of that stability. While roads may change, new restaurants and businesses pop up, and even many banks are being

bought and sold left and right, Legacy State Bank has remained rooted in what is important - our community and our neighborhoods. We do this through local ownership, local management, and local decisions for our customers.

At Legacy State Bank, we take that infused position in the community very seriously. Because of this, the bank also prides itself in knowing and investing in the local cities it serves. From interaction through local charities, to business development through the Greater Eastside Chamber of Commerce, to hosting events such as the city of Loganville’s monthly “Morning Mingle,” the bank and its employees truly make a case for being

“citizen servants.”

And it only makes sense; the majority of the bank’s employees and 500 shareholders are from, and live in, the community surrounding it! They work, play, shop and eat in the Loganville/ Grayson/ Snellville area, and are vested in the success and development of the businesses and consumers they serve.

As you go into 2017, and are deciding where to trust your financial future, or if you are tired of being a “number,” investigate the opportunity to do your banking at a locally owned and operated bank, one with longevity in the marketplace, a proven track record of success and customer service, and where employees go out of their way to get to know you- the person.

As Legacy State Bank is fond of saying: “Our legacy is around us every day; it lives in our customers’ smiles and in the way we help our fellow man… our legacy IS our community!”

From the Legacy State Bank family to yours, we thank you for the opportunity to be a part of YOUR legacy and serve you in 2016, and wish you and your family a joyful and prosperous New Year!

For more information about how Legacy State Bank can help you develop YOUR financial legacy, call 770.554.

BANK, go to www.LegacyStateBank.com, or drop by the Loganville office at 3825 Harrison Rd. today!

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Grandmothers Club determined to Consul General of conquer the terrible ‘C’ word Canada pays a visit to Georgia Gwinnett College

Photo by Emmett Clower

Auctioneer, Chuck Dowdle, former WSB-TV Sportscaster

By Barbara Rawlins

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GGC student Myra Beamon “got up close and personal” with GGC’s special guest, Canada’s Consul General Louise Blais, right, recently. Beamon is a member of the GGC Four Pillars Society and was among a group of about 75 students who had an opportunity to hear Blais speak. Blais shared a great deal of information about her career and her role as Canada’s Consul General. She also talked with the students about trade between the U.S. and Canada as well as the nations’ cultural differences. She entertained a robust question and answer session with the students to close out her visit to GGC

That terrible “C” word that keeps coming up! And when related to children, it is especially devastating. The Designing Grandmothers Club members have joined CURE Childhood Cancer Research Program to find a cure. The grandmothers donated $12,000 for this research, plus an additional $3,000 for Patient Services. Our Seventeenth Annual CURE Banquet & Auction at Summit Chase Country Club was a big success and will also go to CURE Research to help conquer this terrible “C”, thanks to our Auctioneer, Chuck Dowdle, and the generosity of those in surrounding com-

Photo by Emmett Clower

Kristen Conner (R), Director CURE Childhood Cancer, and Barbara Rawlins (L), president of Grandmother’s Club. munities.

We “Believe a Cure will be found.”

With only 4% Federal Funding for children’s cancer, a cancer treated totally different than adult cancer, CURE Childhood Cancer depends on other options for fundraising. Since we began support-

ing CURE in 2003, the survival rate of children with cancer has advanced from 2 out of 10, to 8 out of 10! The grandmothers are excited to be a part of this progress and will not give up until every child has a chance at life cancer free!

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Unbundled legal services

David Walker Attorney at Law

Today more and more people are trying to do their own legal work. Some people want to do their own divorce or probate a will. With research and effort, some can get it done. However, many legal procedures can be more complicated than they appear.

Some people can, with some assis-

tance, complete their own legal task. A client recently represented himself in a divorce. The judge told him he was likely to get custody of his child, but his pleadings did not include the necessary written provisions. Judges can’t give legal advice. Imagine what it would be like if everyone approached the judge for legal advice? A judge would never get anything done. Our office was able to complete the paperwork for him for a fee less than it would’ve cost to do the entire case. This is called “limited scope representation,” also known as “unbundling” legal services.

This process usually involves drafting legal documents, doing legal research, or coaching about how to do a hearing, but not actually going to court.

The client who wants this kind of advice is willing to do some of his own work, but can’t or would rather not hire an attorney for his entire case. In that situation, the lawyer may make less on a particular matter, but spend less time.

Our office handled an appeal for a college student who had been unfairly disciplined. The matter involved detailed student handbook rules. The student filed an appeal with documents we prepared and won her case at her hearing.

Limited scope representation does not work for every legal matter. Some are too complicated, or would require too much attorney time to deliver a product that would fill the bill. In limited scope representation the quality of legal work cannot be any less than it would for full representation.

Limited scope representation can only be done if agreed to in writing with a detailed description of what the attorney will do and won’t do in the matter. In court matters, the attorney would not be attorney of record or attend court, but would be responsible for delivering legal advice at the level required by the task.

David S. Walker, Attorney at Law David Sinclair Walker, Jr. P.C. Mailing address: P.O. BOX 871329, Stone Mountain GA 30087 Offices: •North Gwinnett Office6340 Sugarloaf Parkway, Suite 200, Duluth GA 30097 •South Gwinnett Office2330 Scenic Highway, Snellville GA 30078 Telephone 770-972-3803; Facsimile 770-921-7418 email: david.walker.law.firm@gmail.com www.walker-law-firm.com GA Bar No. 731725 Admitted in GA and D.C. UGA Law Certified Mediator no. 5194-7574-08030720

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Herbert Fowler receives 25 year Masonic Award

Photo by Emmett Clower

Left to right: Worshipful Grand Master of Masonic Order of Georgia, Gary Leazer, Herbert Fowler, Teena Fowler, Snellville Lodge Senior Warden Larry Rice.

Photo by Emmett Clower

Left to right: Herbert Fowler with his family holding granddaughter AnneMarie, wife Teena Fowler, mother Margaret Fowler, granddaughter Maggie, daughter Jessica Sears, (front) grandson Daniel

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Finding caregiver support

Aysha Cooper

Caregivers Corner

Last month, we hosted a combined class featuring Powerful Tools for Caregivers and Dealing with Dementia to try to get this information out to the community while being mindful of caregiver’s time. We know how limited a caregiver’s time can be, caring for their loved one, working, managing life, and trying to take care of themselves. Each class provides tools needed to help caregivers take care of themselves so they can have the mental and physical ability to take care of their loved one.

We welcomed several attendees with varying issues. For example, moving a parent from out of state and trying to navigate healthcare and services offered locally can be challenging. One daughter shared her experience of how difficult it was to get the appropriate funding and resources in place for her mother. It took persistent phone calls that ended up in the Governor’s office, just to get answers.

As a working caregiver, who has this kind of time to deal with all that?

Another caregiver shared the time it took with multiple doctors’ visits for her to find the right physician, the right diagnosis, and the right medication for her ailing husband. It took over a year, while suffering from her own health issues due to the stress of providing care and finding resources for her husband. Through the various stories shared during the class, we found how much we can learn from each other’s experiences.

As a caregiver, you want to know you are not in this alone. According to National Institute on Aging: Use of multiple types of support over an extended period of time helps caregivers. For example, the Resources for Enhancing Alzheimer’s Caregiver Health (REACH) clinical trial showed that caregivers who received 6 months of intensive help with caregiving strategies had significant improvements in overall quality of life. They also had lower rates of clinical depression compared to caregivers who did not participate in the program. The caregiving strategies included information sharing, instruction, role plays, problem-solving, skills training, stress-management techniques, and telephone support groups.

Caregivers reported that taking part in REACH helped them feel more confident in working with their loved ones, made life easier for them, improved their caregiving ability, improved

the care recipient’s life, and helped them keep their loved one at home. https://www.nia.nih.gov/alzheimers/ publication/par t-4-improving-suppor t-families-and-other-caregivers/ research-findings There is a disconnection between receiving your loved one’s initial diagnosis from their physician - to the resources needed to make it through in caring for your loved one. How can we fill the gap? We can start with learning from each other through

caregiver support groups. Go to your disease-specific association website to find support groups in your area.

Aysha Cooper is the owner of SarahCare of Snellville. She has a Bachelor’s Degree in Public Health and an MBA from UGA. She stays connected to her community as an Alumni of GNLI and currently serves on the board of Friends of Gwinnett County Senior Services.

Aysha Cooper can be reached at 770685-6971 or acooper@sarahcare.com.

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2017 SPLOST: thank you to Gwinnett voters

Charlotte Nash

County Business

Thanks to the many voters who said yes to SPLOST, Gwinnett will raise another $950 million for capital improvements

funded by the special purpose local option sales tax after the current program expires next March. All 157 precincts supported the proposed extension, with the final county wide tally of 63 percent to 37 percent, last month.

The County will share proceeds with all 16 cities as we have been doing for the past 15 years. I’m proud to say we started sharing SPLOST with the cities even before it was required by law. The cities’ portion will be a little more than 21 percent of the funds collected through the new program.

We have specified that 65 percent, or $468.3 million, of the County’s share will fund transportation improvements, including $30.3 million for joint city/ county projects. Another $108.5 million

will pay for recreation facilities, including $3.7 million for joint projects with cities; $67.3 million will expand the Infinite Energy Center; $52.4 million will be directed to public safety; $22.2 million will fund library relocations and renovations; and $11.2 million will be allocated for senior service facilities.

A citizens project selection committee recommended in October how to allocate funding among 10 major categories of transportation projects. After getting voter approval, the group will now study and prioritize specific projects within each category. You can follow their progress online at www.GwinnettSPLOST.com.

SPLOST collects a penny tax on every dollar spent on most retail purchases in Gwinnett, so visitors to our community

also contribute to infrastructure and quality of life improvements. Gwinnett voters have approved all but one in a series of successive SPLOST programs that date back to 1985. Those programs have raised more than $3 billion to build new facilities on a pay-as-you-go basis, saving us all about a billion dollars in financing costs.

The results of SPLOST can be seen all around us. Imagine what Gwinnett County would look like without the roads, parks, community recreation centers, aquatics facilities, police precincts, fire stations, justice and administration center, civic center, and libraries that sales tax dollars built.

We follow the same conservative budgeting process with each SPLOST program, allocating funding for only 90

percent of estimated collections. This has served us well, especially in times when revenues decline, like during the Great Recession. This conservative approach keeps us from starting projects we can’t finish. And we pride ourselves on delivering on our promises.

I don’t know how we could have accomplished so much for the quality of life in Gwinnett County without SPLOST funding. So I’m very grateful to the state legislature for providing this option back in the 1980s and to the voters of Gwinnett for your continued support and approval.

On a personal note, thank you for re-electing me as Chairman of the Board of Commissioners for four more years.

It’s an honor and a privilege to serve you and to lead this great county

DeKalb Medical Opens New Snellville Location DeKalb Medical Physicians Group is proud to announce the opening of the new Snellville location for Colorectal Southeast. The board-certified colon and rectal surgeons, Dr. Raoul Mayer and Dr. Luz P. Angel, provide exceptional quality and compassionate care using the most sophisticated tools and treatments to help patients with diverse colorectal conditions. Dr. Mayer has been practicing at DeKalb Medical for over 20 years and has been awarded as one of Atlanta’s “Best Doctors” consecutively for the last six years. Dr. Angel joined DeKalb Medical this year after practicing in New York for the last 14 years. She is fluent in Spanish and her interests include minimally invasive

surgeries, including robotic colorectal procedures and the management of pelvic floor disorders.

“We pride ourselves on being able to provide our patients a very personalized care plan for disease management. We focus on working with our patients to help them create and maintain their good health by a collaboration of knowledge and their openness to our expertise,” said Dr. Mayer. “I’m pleased that our affiliation with DeKalb Medical and their physicians group can make that happen by allowing us to grow professionally.”

These two exceptional colorectal surgeons treat a variety of colorectal conditions such as Ulcerative Colitis, Crohn’s Disease, diverticulitis, benign

and malignant tumors of the colon, rectum and anus, hemorrhoids, abscesses, fistulae, pilonidal cysts, rectovaginal fistulas, rectal prolapse, fecal incontinence, and rectoceles. Our surgeons also specialize in colonoscopies, office and outpatient anorectal procedures.

Colorectal Southeast in Snellville is located at 2220 Wisteria Drive, Suite 210 in Snellville, GA 30078. We are now open on Tuesday and Thursday during the week and can be reached at 404-5017490. Most insurance is accepted, Spanish is spoken, and our priority to provide the utmost in health and satisfaction is above all else.

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Parker Travis the artist

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Story by Mass Communication Specialist 1st Class Julie Matyascik Walk through the p-ways of USS Bataan (LHD 5) and you might see an eye-catching purple ladder that leads up to the Air Department, V-4 Fuels Division’s landing. The 14-by-7 foot space, painted to depict the flight deck and fueling station, shows a small piece of ownership aboard a warship that is longer than 2 football fields and holds over 3,000 Sailors and Marines.

Petty Officer 3rd Class Parker Travis is V-4 Division’s JP5 fuel system pump room operator and originator of this artistic creation.

“Without our rate the mission would never be able to carry on,” said Travis.

“Helicopters and birds [airplanes] cannot fly off the deck without fuel. It’s my job to purify and filter so they have clean fuel.”

For nearly five years aboard Bataan, Travis has taken pride in his job and when his division officer wanted to show that pride outside the V-4 office, Travis was the first to volunteer. Travis, along with Seaman Eusebiu Ceicovschi created a timeless work of art.

The painting was so well received he was asked to paint other spaces throughout the ship.

“I did the American flag on the back of Aircrew Survival Equipmentmen’s door and I have the opportunity to paint a 15-by-15 mural in the reclaim space down near cargo 10. It is an open wall-straight canvas, no pipes to worry about. Just a space to paint.”

From Snellville, Ga., Travis has always enjoyed art. At different parts of his

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college experience he majored in interior design, business management and early childhood education but throughout it all he enjoyed the art class electives the most.

“I do a lot of canvas work. I enjoy painting, drawing mostly,” said Travis.

In 2011, Travis decided to pursue a more challenging path for himself and joined the U.S. Navy at 24 years-old.

Today, Travis is completing his latest masterpiece. Two 10 foot high by 4 foot in diameters fuel filters in the forward pump room – painting one to look like a Monster can and the other as a Red Bull can.

“I am a jokester and a mentor, I like to build morale,” said Travis.

Little does he know, he is not only boosting morale through his personality but with his creative inspirations helping make #BataanAwesome.

“It doesn’t seem like everything has a purpose,” said Travis “But it does.”

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Charitable giving... leaving a legacy and helping others

Roger Green, MSFS,CFP

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Are you at the point in your life where you are seeking alternative ways to provide funds or leave a portion of your estate to support a cause close to your heart? Many people make gifts or bequests to charitable organizations for a number of reasons. Some of the more common motivations would include the following: •Compassion for those in need •Religious and spiritual commitment •Perpetuation of one’s beliefs and values •Support for the arts, sciences and education •A desire to share one’s blessings with others.

Whatever your reasons for giving, the U.S. tax law is designed to encourage giving when gifts are made to a qualified charity. Although the rules are quite complex and subject to change over time,

there are considerable tax savings that may occur if the giving is handled appropriately for your situation. You have many options, but here are a few to consider: Outright gift of Money or Real Estate - The donor receives a tax deduction and can avoid capital gains taxes. There are ways to donate property, such as a second home, and this can even be done in a way where you may retain the right to use the property during your lifetime or to retain the income stream from an asset during your lifetime.

Bequest by Will – Denote a portion of your estate or a piece of property be given directly to your designated cause upon your death.

Gift of Appreciated Stock - Receive a tax deduction on the full market value of appreciated stock, while avoiding the capital gains tax that would otherwise arise from the sale of this stock.

Gift of Life Insurance - When your children were young, you may have needed life insurance to provide for your family in the event of death. If your children are older, doing well, and your spouse is provided for; consider giving your life insurance policy to a charity and potentially receive a significant charitable tax deduction. Some people have had policies for so many years they can choose to stop paying the premiums and maintain a sizable death benefit that will leave a wonderful legacy when they pass. You may also designate a favorite charity as a beneficiary on your life insurance pol-

icies; donating part or all of the proceeds upon your death.

Charitable Remainder Trust – When the estate owner retains the right to the income but transfers his or her rights in the remainder to a trust, it is called a charitable remainder trust, and this is yet another way assets can be shared with others.

Charitable Lead Annuity Trust – A donor may transfer assets into an irrevocable Charitable Lead Annuity Trust (CLAT). The trust then pays a fixed dollar amount to a qualified charity for either a set number of years or the lifetimes of individuals. When the trust term has ended, the remaining assets are distributed to the donor, his/her spouse, heirs or others. Some of these are set up as non-grantor basis, with the ultimate beneficiary being someone other than the donor or his/her spouse. Such CLATs typically provide no income tax deduction to the donor, but do provide a means of transferring assets to children or grandchildren, with substantial valuation savings that help to reduce estate taxes.

Charitable Gift Annuity – When a donor transfers an asset to a qualified charity in exchange for an income for one or two lives, it is called a Charitable Gift Annuity. The income tax deduction from this arrangement will vary depending on the payout rate, the applicable tax rate, and the age of the donor. The annual payment is set at the time the gift is made, but once the donor or other named beneficiary dies, the charity has no further

financial obligations to pay.

Helping Family Before You Die Sometimes people don’t have a specific cause they want to donate to, but they do want to leave their remaining assets to their children or even help support aging parents – or they want to do both. If you have sufficient assets, I suggest you consider gifting at least some of your wealth while you are still alive. Why should your loved ones look forward to the legacy your death will bring versus you being able to witness the happiness of sharing your blessings with them while you are still around to enjoy it? While I do not generally recommend that parents take from their needed retirement reserves, I do recommend they consider gifting to their adult children while they are still alive to help them with things like the purchase of a new home or car, paying for a family trip they otherwise couldn’t afford, or even just gifting an amount periodically to enhance their lives in some way. Perhaps you want to incentivize by gifting as various adult goals and milestones are achieved – such as graduation from college or obtaining an advanced degree, marriage, a certain anniversary or birthday, or the birth of a child.

Any individual can accept a gift up to the federal gift tax exclusion amount, which is $14,000 per year for 2016 and again for 2017, without the giver incurring a tax penalty or having to report the gift. Gift givers can subtract amounts greater than $14,000 from a lifetime exemption amount (without having to pay

taxes on it). This is known as the unified credit. This amount is $5.45 million per person in the 2016 tax year, but it rising to $5.49 million for 2017 (10.98 for a married couple filing jointly). However, givers must report these gifts to the IRS by filing a gift tax return, or Form 709.

There are many ways to accomplish your charitable giving and gifting goals.

These are only a few, stated in a highly simplified fashion. Whatever gifting or giving strategy you choose, planned giving can be very rewarding. It’s wonderful to see your gift at work, or to leave a legacy - and to receive tax benefits as well.

Please consult an estate attorney, tax professional, or a financial professional, such as myself, for assistance in planning to meet your charitable giving, gifting, and other financial and estate planning goals. Call my office at 770.931.1414 to schedule an appointment for your complimentary consultation or visit my website at www.rogersgreen.com.

This is not to be construed as legal or tax advice. Please see the legal advice of an estate planning professional and the tax advice of a tax accounting professional before implementing these or other charitable giving strategies.

Roger S. Green is a Registered Representative with Cetera Advisors LLC, member FINRA/SIPC, with his office located at 3700 Crestwood Parkway, Duluth GA 30096. Hear more “Your Green”, Saturdays at 10AM on WNIV 970 AM or live at www.faithtalk970.com.

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Recipients of the Heritage Trail Medallion Under his leadership, the First National Bank of Lawrenceville became the largest bank in Gwinnett County before it was eventually sold in 1986. A notable member of the community, Hood was known for his dedication to supporting Lawrenceville’s citizens. He was known to offer personal loans to assist those who couldn’t qualify based on bank standards and often assisted individuals

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Frank Bailey laying bricks

The Heritage Trail Walkway Commemorates Willie Frank Bailey and James Victor Hood, Sr.

“This year’s honorees were known for investing their personal time, efforts, and finances into the betterment of the Lawrenceville community and its residents.”

Willie Frank Bailey founded W.F. Bailey’s Construction Company and was among the first African American business owners, both in Lawrenceville and Gwinnett County. He invested in the City of Lawrenceville by serving on the Lawrenceville Housing Authority, offering his craftsmanship skills, serving on the St. Vincent De Paul Society, and serving as a member of the Saint Lawrence Catholic Church. Bailey offered several hundred men and women in the community an opportunity for employment and even inspired many of his employees to also explore entrepreneurship.

Likewise, after moving to Lawrenceville in 1924 to join the Agriculture Finance Corporation, James Victor (Jim Vic) Hood, Sr. established himself as a true leader and mentor in the community. He later moved on to the First National Bank of Lawrenceville, where he served for 44 years as a Cashier, Executive Vice President, President, and Chairman of the Board of Directors.

By Staff Reports The City of Lawrenceville and the Downtown Development Authority (DDA) have announced Willie Frank Bailey and James Victor Hood, Sr. as the 2017 recipients of the Heritage Trail medallions and recognition. The walking trail was constructed in 2013 to pay homage to individuals - throughout Gwinnett County history - who have made significant influences to the city.

The walkway commences at the Gwinnett Fallen Heroes Memorial, ends in front of the Rhodes Jordan Park and is marked all along the way by medallions commemorating individuals who have made extraordinary contributions to the development or wellbeing of Lawrenceville and/or its residents.

“We are very pleased with our 2017 recipients of the Heritage Trail Medallion,” said Mayor Judy Jordan Johnson.

Operation Round Up

Giving an average of 50 cents per month through our Operation Roundup service assistance program, tens of thousands of Walton Electric Membership Corporation customer-owners have donated a total of more than $4.5 million since 1998. Participants in Operation Round Up elect to have their monthly electric bill “rounded up” to the next dollar and 100% of that rounded up donation is used to make life better for our communities.

The pocket change given each month extends the commitment to community on which electric cooperatives were built over 75 years ago - neighbor helping neighbor.

Here is a partial list of recent grant recipients: Adventure Bags, Inc. (Barrow, Clarke, Greene, Gwinnett, Morgan, Newton, Oconee, Walton) -- $10,000 to provide backpacks filled with age-appropriate essential items to displaced children.

Angel House of Georgia (Barrow,

Clarke, Gwinnett, Rockdale) -- $1,500 to fund substance abuse treatment for women.

Athens Regional Veterans Transport (Barrow, Clarke, Greene, Gwinnett, Morgan, Newton, Oconee, Rockdale, Walton) -- $7,000 to provide van service to veterans for medical treatment.

ALS Association of Georgia (entire WEMC service area) -- $8,000 to assist families with expenses not covered by insurance, Medicare or Medicaid.

The Cottage Sexual Assault and Children’s Advocacy Center, Inc. (Clarke, Greene, Newton, Oconee, Walton) -$2,000 Rainbow Community Center (DeKalb, Morgan, Newton, Rockdale, Walton) -- $3,000 for security lighting.

Rainbow is a homeless shelter.

Walton County Fire Rescue (Walton) -- $9,110 for recruiting, training and retaining volunteer firefighters.

Walton EMC provides electric service to 124,000 residential and business accounts in a 10-county area between Atlanta and Athens. Because its customers own the company, service -- not profit -- is Walton EMC’s primary focus.

Voted “Best Electric Company” by readers of the Walton Tribune, Walton EMC is ready to be your full service energy provider. Together with Walton Gas, we offer competitive electric and gas rates. Walton Solar is a sustainable, renewable option that’s good for you and our environment.

whose needs the bank could not afford.

In 1938, he founded Hood Insurance Agency, which continues to serve the needs of Lawrenceville citizens today.

Medallion recipients are chosen annually and as the trail continues to grow, residents and tourists are able to explore the community and learn much more about its history.

The application and nomination pro-

cess will begin again on March 15, 2017 and will continue through May 15. Applications will be available for download at www.LawrencevilleGa.org and can be returned to the Economic Development Office at City Hall or emailed toldda@lawrencevillega.org.

Editors Note: At Press Time a photo of James Victor Hood Sr. was not available.

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Aurora Theatre to spread holiday cheer with 21st annual Christmas Canteen Make spirits bright this winter by joining Aurora Theatre for its annual holly jolly tradition Christmas Canteen 2016! Striking up festive tunes through December 23, Gwinnett’s longest running theatrical extravaganza will usher in the sounds of the season with Canteen veterans Brandon O’Dell, Jen

MacQueen, Diany Rodriguez and Lyndsay Ricketson Brown, alongside powerhouse newcomers Christian Magby and Cecil Washington Jr. Complete with laugh-out-loud comedy and sparkling musical numbers, this winter wonderland revue promises a delightful experience for all!

“For the past 21 years, we have produced Christmas Canteen with the intention of giving the community an unmatched tradition that encompasses something for every generation.

This variety show has great moments of physical comedy, breathtaking costumes and most of all, spectacular musical numbers ranging from sentimental holiday favorites, fun pop songs, high energy dance numbers and patriotic salutes, just to name a few,” said Anthony Rodriguez, Aurora Theatre Co-Founder and Producing Artistic Director. “One of my favorite parts of the show is seeing the audience’s reaction. Each year, the content is unique with new material, so we can’t wait to see what our patrons think of the surprises we have in store for 2016!”

Co-directed by Anthony Rodriguez and Jen MacQueen, Christmas Canteen will come to life via the talented design team of Julie Allardice Ray (Set), Daniel Pope (Sound), Ryan Bradburn (Props), Mary Parker (Lights), Alan Yeong and Suzanne Holtkamp (Costumes), and Jen MacQueen (Choreography). With Musical Direction by Aurora Co-Founder Ann-Carol Pence (Keyboard), she will lead Canteen band members Mark

Biering (Percussion), Greg Armijo (Bass) and Jim Stallings (Guitar) in bringing audiences the sounds of the season through live music.

Adding to the yuletide joy is Aurora’s annual Festival of Trees, supporting the United States Marine Corps Toys for Tots drive and Gwinnett’s local food banks. More than 25 trees decorated by local businesses will illuminate the theater lobby for visitors to enjoy. All guests are encouraged to cast a vote for their favorite tree by placing a new, unwrapped toy and a non-perishable food

item underneath it. All of the gifts will be donated to the United States Marine Corps Toys for Tots and the food items will be delivered to area food banks.

Recommended for all ages, Christmas Canteen 2016 will be presented through December 23. Tickets range from $30-$65 with discount matinees on Wednesday, December 7, 14, and 21 at 10 a.m. and Friday, December 23 at 10 a.m., starting at $20. Tickets can be purchased online at tickets.auroratheatre.com or by calling the box office at 678-226-6222.

Oh Christmas Tree!

Keep yours from catching on fire Most of us love the wonderful, fragrant smell of a fresh-cut Christmas tree.

Twinkling lights and colorful decorations add the final touches to the dark green needles.

But Christmas trees can be dangerous, too.

From 2005-2009, about 240 Christmas trees caught on fire each year throughout the United States. These fires caused an average of 13 deaths, 27

injuries and $16.7 million in property damage, according to the National Fire Protection Association.

A Christmas tree can be completely engulfed by fire in less than 40 seconds, so it’s important to be cautious with your tree.

To help keep you and your family safe this holiday season, I urge you to follow the Christmas tree safety tips provided below.

Make sure it’s fresh •Buy a locally-grown tree. Trees transported to our area were cut earlier and are more likely to be dry.

•Break a few needles. They should be flexible, moist and sticky. They should also be fragrant when crushed. If they’re not, then the tree probably isn’t very fresh.

•Check the color of the tree. Some trees are sprayed with a blue-green dye.

The dye is harmless, but you need to make sure the paint is not hiding a dry tree.

•Shake the tree to see if green needles fall off. If they do, the tree is dry.

Brown needles that fall from the inside probably fell years ago and were trapped in the tree.

•Cut about 1 inch off the base of the tree to help the water move through it (most vendors will do this for you).

•Put the base in a bucket of water when you get it home. Leave it outside in a cool, shaded place until you’re ready to decorate.

•Check the water level daily. A sixfoot tree should use a gallon of water every two days.

Display it safely •Keep the tree in a cool room. The cooler the room, the longer the tree will stay fresh.

•Don’t put the tree near heat sources that can dry it out or even ignite it.

•Keep the tree away from doors and exits. If a fire occurs, the tree could block escape routes.

•Secure the tree so it can’t be knocked over.

•Dispose of your tree as soon as possible after Christmas. Don’t burn it in the fireplace because trees burn hot and quick. It could start a fire in your home.

Trees also contain oils that could damage your fireplace.

Decorate smart •Avoid using older, larger bulbs, which are hotter and dry out the tree.

•Don’t use lights with frayed cords.

Check all lights to make sure they are in good working condition.

•Always unplug or switch off tree lights before leaving home or going to sleep.

•Don’t burn candles on or around the tree. Use small light bulbs to light your tree.

•Avoid overloading electrical cords.

Putting more than three strands of lights together can be a fire hazard.

•Avoid combustible decorations such as inflammable reflectors for colored lights, foil icicles and tinsel.

I hope you have a safe and happy holiday season!

Jamey Toney, CFP®, ChFC® is an exclusive multi-line agent with COUNTRY Financial. He holds a Chartered Financial Consultant designation and is a CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER. For more information call 770-985-9757.

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Exterior Christmas lighting ideas for a winter wonderland

As the Christmas Season approaches and we focus on decking the halls with boughs of holly, we sometimes forget the exterior of our homes. With some strategic exterior lighting, you can easily transform your backyard into a beautiful, magical paradise that will be sure to impress neighbors, guests and passersby.

If you’ve always focused on the roofline or trees and shrubs, but you would like to add some more sophisticated exterior lighting touches, here are a few ideas.

Light up Walkways With the holidays fast approaching, many more guests are sure to be visiting your home than at other times of the year.

A great functional lighting idea is to keep walkways, driveways and the path to the house brightly lit. Consider adding lights along a concrete wall that reflect upward or downward. Exterior solar lights can also be added at intermittent points at the base of rows of trees or shrubs.

Emphasize Archways and Columns If your home has archways or columns, an innovative idea includes hanging Christmas decorations such as wreaths, large outdoor bells, bows or Moravian stars in the design feature. Ex-

terior lights can be placed directly across from the decorations and will shine directly on the design feature to highlight them at night. If you don’t have arches or columns, but you would like to hang a decorative ornament on your windows or door, you can also apply this exterior lighting technique.

Highlight an Unlit Yard Feature If you have a yard feature such a fountain, bird feature or statue, consider leaving the feature unlit and add an exterior light at the back of the feature that points upwards. The feature will glow in the subtle ambiance of the reflection of the light and create a stunning backdrop effect that will be the talk of the town. If you do not have a yard feature - a large seasonal themed yard structure such as a cross, Christmas Tree or Nativity Scene can be highlighted instead.

There are lots of ways to transform the exterior of your home into a Winter Wonderland. If you would like more information or ideas on exterior Christmas lighting, your Allgood electrician would be happy to assist you. Call Allgood Plumbing, Electric, Heating & Cooling today at 678-369-8118 or visit our website at www.callallgood.com.

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Something bigger Both students and faculty alike feel an eagerness as the end of the first semester draws close. Given a taste of a break during the week of Thanksgiving people are putting forth their final effort for the end of December. Students at Ar-

cher have put forward all their time and strength into this semester and are about to reap the rewards. With the end of the year, new opportunities are peering around the corner at Archer High school.

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The football team’s season concluded in an unfortunate defeat against Peachtree Ridge High school. However, they were able to overcome the predictions of many critics who had stated the team would not even make the playoffs. Contrastingly the Archer Wrestling Team succeeded in winning regionals again this year. Despite the loss of the coach that brought victory to the students in previous years, the dedicated athletes were able to prove their skill. All in all, Archer has had many

excellent athletes walk through its doors.

On an academic front, the students have been proving themselves within clubs. Recently the school sent off its Model United Nations team to Georgia State University for the conference held there. While none of the Archer participants received any awards at this event, the club did see promising new members enter that will surely contribute to future achievement. Many of the lesser active clubs are working diligently in order to prepare students for the coming final exams. Students have started forming individual groups to help them be in the correct state of mind for these exams. These groups focus on promoting regular study routines for its students.

Winter and spring sports have started conditioning, preparing for their seasons. The basketball team is now preparing for their highly anticipated tryouts. Students take a team sports class year-round to prepare for the season as they strive for the state championship.

Along with this both the golf and tennis team have been practicing to achieve the skill level needed to perform within their season. The tennis team started conditioning in early November and had con-

tinued their training late into December.

Meanwhile, the members of the Archer golf team while not necessarily having coordinated practice have been working individually to strengthen their skills.

The Archer Community has been coming together putting on events that are helping bond people. The National Honor Society put on a Halloween event at the start of November that brought people together to enjoy several activities such as haunted house and other activities. This event was a great success so similar events such as these can be expected in the future. Despite the fruitfulness of this organization, not every club is seeing the same level of accomplishment. This, however, can be alleviated with a guiding hand. In every direction, the Archer community has been moving forward at a great pace.

Overall the community at Archer has seen many struggles in the past month, yet has overcome them all the same. Despite the community of Archer still being relatively young, the people have started to come together to form something bigger than themselves.

Drew Patterson is a Junior at Archer High School.

Veterans honored in Snellville

By Lee Schermerhorn Philadelphia Winn Chapter NSDAR Snellville residents, “Where Everybody’s Somebody,” along with scores of attendees from surrounding communities, gathered on the lawn in front of the majestic Snellville City Hall at dusk on Veterans Day to honor veterans from every branch of service. Mayor Tom Witts and Snellville City Council Member, Bobby Howard officiated. Several notables, including Snellville VFW Commander Jimmy Jackson also addressed the group.

Local Chaplain Melvin Everson and Pastor Trey Hilderbrand from the Snellville 12 Stone Church offered a prayer and benediction for the ceremony.

The Gwinnett County Community Band provided rousing musical accompaniments throughout the evening.

The Button Gwinnett SAR (Sons of the American Revolution), and Athens SAR were well represented in period dress with muskets blazing!

Philadelphia Winn Chapter NSDAR (Daughters of the American Revolution) greeted visitors with flags, bookmarks and informative literature detailing the purposes of their organization, historic preservation, education, and patriotism.

From left to right: Jay Guest, Walker Chewning, Fred Meyer, President Button Gwinnett Chapter/State Militia Commander Bill Palmer, Gordon Woodard, Mike Watkins, Mike Ruff. Also in attendance were John Ziegler, Don Loudermilk, Harry Kitchings, HODAR (husband of DAR) Tom Jacques, Melvin Buck, Jim Lynch.

The evening came to a close after a reading of the Gettysburg Address, Laying of the Wreath, and SAR Musket Volley, followed by Taps. Visitors were also given candles as lighted balloons were released into the starry night sky as the

From left to right: Philadelphia Winn Chapter NSDAR Corresponding Secretary Lee Schermerhorn, First Vice Regent Ann Story, Daughter Lynn Jacques

Button Gwinnett SAR, Athens SAR, Philadelphia Winn Chapter NSDAR, William Day Chapter NSDAR. Front Row: William Day Chapter Kris White, Philadelphia Winn Chapter Lynn Jacques, William Day Chapter Leslie Watkins, Philadelphia Winn Chapter First Vice Regent Ann Story, Philadelphia Winn Chapter Corresponding Secretary Lee Schermerhorn Back row: Button Gwinnett SAR Mike Watkins, Walker Chewning, Athens Chapter SAR Jay Guest, Scott Collins, BG SAR Bennie Koon, Eldon Evans, Bruce Maney, Fred Meyer

Gwinnett Community Band played Stars and Stripes—a truly grand finale to a memorable evening in honor of and with gratitude for veterans everywhere!

Special thanks to Wild Wings Cafe who donated the beautiful wreath.

For more information regarding the Philadelphia Winn Chapter of the NSDAR, please visit our website at: philadelphiawinn.georgiastatedar.org Photos by Lee Schermerhorn and HODAR Tom Jacques

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Remarkable students win pageant titles

By Carole Townsend Staff Correspondent Pageants and competitions have come a long way in the past 50 or so years. In fact, what used to be referred to as “beauty pageants” are now more like a combination of working interviews, personal presentation, and philanthropic endeavors. The Miss America Organization is the largest provider of scholarship assistance for young women in the United States, rewarding these girls for service, scholarship, style and success.

Gwinnett County recently crowned two young women who exemplify these very qualities.

Brookwood High School 2015 graduate Emily Harlow was crowned Miss Gwinnett County 2017 in September. The competition included an evening gown competition, but there is so much more to winning this crown than the elegance of appearance. She and the other six contestants had to clear some hurdles that would make many adults nervous. The young women who compete in these pageants must have a pretty thorough understanding of current events. They must complete a 10-minute interview before a panel of judges. And they must do all of these things with poise, style, and grace.

Currently, a sophomore at North Georgia College, Harlow plans to attend nursing school, her ultimate goal to be a Neonatal Intensive Care (NICU) nurse.

Sounds like a lofty goal, but Emily’s mom Susan – a NICU nurse at Northside Hospital - has set a wonderful example for her daughter. Emily’s platform (her chosen “cause”) is March of Dimes, and she worked as a “Volun-teen” for 3 summers at Children’s Healthcare of Atlanta’s (CHOA) NICU. “Mostly, she kept the bedside carts stocked with anything the babies’ nurses might need, but she also got to hold and comfort crying babies,” said Susan. “That experience inspired her dream to become a NICU nurse.”

“It really isn’t about having the best hair or clothes or makeup,” said Emily of pageant competition. “It’s truly about the genuine girl making a difference.” Both Emily and her mom laugh and say that Emily did not hit the pageant trail in the manner of the television show Toddlers and Tiaras. “When I learned that I could earn scholarship money, I decided to compete,” Emily said. According to her mom, she’s earned $5,500 so far.

Soraya Bagheri was crowned Miss Gwinnett’s Outstanding Teen 2017, and for good reason. This vivacious 14-yearold has created S.U.N., a non-profit organization that collects socks, undergarments, and necessities primarily for teens in need. “I feel that teens in need are always overlooked so with S.U.N., I can help them (with) some of their basic needs,” said Soraya.

“A lot of people see pageants in a derogatory light, but the Miss America Organization promotes self confidence and community involvement in young women. They encourage young women to build each other up,” Soraya said. And while Soraya has the chance to win scholarship money if she does well in the Miss Georgia competition in June, she already realizes the benefits of making lasting friendships and serving others. “It really isn’t all about the hair and makeup. I am not one to wear much makeup and believe me, I don’t really care what my hair looks like in the morning,” she laughed.

“Of course, they want you to present

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These ladies participated in Lawrenceville’s Hometown Christmas Parade December 2nd. (L-R) Charlene Williams Canady, Miss Gwinnett County Pageant Board; Emily Harlow, Miss Gwinnett County 2017; Soraya Bagheri, Miss Outstanding Teen 2017; Becky Hall Roberts, Miss Gwinnett County Pageant Board; and Jaye Geyer, Gwinnett’s Little Miss, and Princess for Emily at the Miss Georgia Pageant 2017, June 2017 in Columbus, Ga.

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Emily, Soraya, and Jaye with Lawrenceville Mayor Judy Jordan Johnson. at the Lawrenceville Hometown Christmas Parade. yourself well, but there is so much more to that than looking a certain way.”

In addition to her philanthropy, Soraya plays piano, cello, and golf, and she runs on the Cross Country team for Grayson High School – all while maintaining her Honor Roll status. She is a member of the Principal’s Leadership Committee, Fellowship of Christian Athletes (FCA) and Student Council. In May 2016, when she completed middle school at Couch Middle School, she was presented The “Isham and Jimmie Belle Couch Outstanding Student Award,” a distinction bestowed on one 8th grader each year. School teachers and administrators select this student.

Outside of her school activities, Soraya is a small group leader for 6th Graders at Graystone Church. A Girl Scout, this young woman has completed requirements for her Bronze and Silver Awards and is working toward her Gold.

She has earned two Presidential Awards for 100 hours each of community service.

She has also been named 2016 Teen Miss Grayson.

“We’re just so proud of her. I always tell her, just go out there and do your best, and I’ll be happy. It’s not just about winning the crown. It’s about the entire experience,” said Mechelle Bagheri, Soraya’s mom. In June of next year, Soraya will finally get to compete on

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Emily Harlow, Miss Gwinnett County 2017 and Soraya Bagheri, Miss Outstanding Teen 2017 working to help stock the shelves of a local food pantry, the Southeast Cooperative Ministry. the “big” stage, where she’s served as a Princess in a sort of mentoring program working with older contestants. “She’s on the young side, and that’s OK. It will be a wonderful experience for her,” Mechelle said.

In her spare time, Soraya writes a monthly column titled “What Goes Around…” for the Gwinnett Citizen. She will compete for the title of Miss Georgia’s Outstanding Teen in June 2017, in Columbus.

For more information about the Miss America organization, visit http:// www.missamerica.org.

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Guests of Shirley Smith enjoy the Snowman in the bathtub and those that drive by her front yard enjoy the praying Santa Claus.

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Christmas is Shirley Smith’s favorite time of year.

tradition. I shop for special items all year long.”

While Christmas is considered an ‘addiction’ according to her husband, Ronny, he lovingly supports her passion.

Smith took me on a personal tour of her home and explained, “Every room has a different theme. There are numerous life-like Santas throughout the house, and a few can even be found strategically placed in the guest bathroom showers.”

Smith’s family and decorative pictures are removed, and a host of Christmas pictures take their place on the walls.

Nativity scenes, Christmas villages, carolers, holiday figurines, angels, and mischievous elves abound. When you walk into each room, it takes a moment to take it all in. You have to look from the top of the ceiling down to the floor to make sure you haven’t overlooked Smith’s special and whimsical touches.

Even the stairs are designed with care.

Decorative red poinsettias are affixed to the banister leading to the second floor and top hats sit on the banister posts. The names of all of Santa’s reindeer are listed on the rise of each stair.

There is a Christmas tree or two in every room of the house; the grandchildren’s bedroom contains two.

The Grinch decorates a green tree with pink, fuzzy ornaments on the nightstand while the other sits in the far corner of the room. It is flocked white and decorated with gingerbread men, elves, red and white swirled peppermint balls, and Santa Claus figures and Santa hats. A tree filled with holiday “spirits,” miniature wine glasses, grapes, and a variety of bar

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Shirley Smith’s new book - I want that RECIPE! can be purchased online on her facebook page, or at Parson’s Gifts in Cumming and Sander’s Consign and Design in Monroe

paraphernalia adorns the billiard room.

There is even a tree for her husband to enjoy, dedicated to tiny hot rods, road signs, tires, and gas pumps.

What are Smith’s visitor’s favorite decorations? “The snowman taking a bubble bath in the master bathroom and the praying Santa in the front yard are by far everyone’s most favorite decorations.”

When asked what her favorite decoration is, Smith laughed and replied, “All of it.

I just can’t pick out one thing. I just love it all. You can’t walk through one time.

You’ll miss seeing something.” The decorations are gorgeous and colorful.

Smith enjoys them, especially at night.

“At night, the house is aglow with all of the twinkling lights.”

In the month of November, the retired Loganville Elementary School cafeteria cook fires up the stove and oven and begins baking Christmas cookies and a myriad of baked sweet treats to give away to family and friends. This year Smith released her second cookbook titled, “I want that RECIPE!” The green hard cover, spiral bound book contains a collection of treasured family favorites that range from appetizers and beverages to soups, salads, side and main dishes, to breads, desserts, and candy. Smith’s cookbook sells for $15 and can be purchased by visiting her Facebook page, Parsons Gifts in Cumming, Georgia, and Sander’s Consign and Design shop in downtown Monroe, Georgia.

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Assisted living is about restoring independence at Benton House of Grayson Choosing an assisted living community is an important, emotional and often necessary decision for many families, and Benton House is here to help.

The sentiment expressed most frequently and strongly by residents is, “I wish I had moved sooner.”

Many people struggle with figuring out when – for them - is the right time to make a move. That question was answered by one of our most tenured team members, “It’s better to be five years too soon than five minutes too late.” Assisted living is really all about reclaiming independence. For many, seniors who live at home in isolation risk depression and a withdrawal from the friends and activities they once enjoyed. For others, living at home poses a series of potential risks that could have long lasting effects including an inability to navigate stairs, failure to properly maintain their home and other hazards that could potentially cause physical harm.

Benton House of Grayson is committed to restoring and maintaining emotional, physical and spiritual health.

Only the most passionate, skilled and experienced team members are selected to work at our community. Through our exclusive relationships with key medical and healthcare partners, our residents have access to premier care.

When it comes to fun, Benton

House of Grayson is like no other. With a rich and engaging activities program, customized to our residents preferences, Benton House residents days are filled with meaning, purpose and good times with trips to see shows, ballgames, excursions, dinners on the town and shopping.

The unique 1 story design of Benton House of Grayson has been one of the biggest attractions for our residents.

No longer having to navigate long halls, stairs or elevators gives folks a sense of freedom.

“I sure am glad I’m here” says our newest resident and Ambassador for Benton House of Grayson. We hear that a lot!

Benton House of Grayson offers Personal and Memory Care with patio and courtyard apartments. Services and amenities include onsite 24-hour trained caregivers, weekly housekeeping, laundry services, scheduled local transportation for medical appointments, shopping and other local activities, assistance with bathing and dressing and medication management. The community is pet-friendly and residents have access to a full beauty salon and secure courtyard areas.

Please visit our website for more information: www.BentonHouse.com/grayson

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DAR State Regent’s Visit

Philadelphia Winn Chapter NSDAR Group front row, left to right: Past Regent Peggy Freeman, District Director Bonnie Lashley, Regent Kitty Watters, Past State Regent Bea Fischer, State Regent Joyce Ball Patton, State Librarian Lynn Brackey, Violet Fallaw (granddaughter of==), First Vice Regent Ann Story, Second Vice Regent Connie Rifkind. Back row, Vanessa Wynn, Treasurer Emily Ford, Corresponding Secretary Lee Schermerhorn, Vivian Wiegand, Historian Randi Minor, Recording Secretary Valerie Craft, Gerda Groff, Beverley Baker, Librarian Becky Davenport, Anne Lockhart, Marcia Robertson, Chaplain Linda Olson, Miriam Machida, Judy Dyer (present, but not pictured: Juliana Mostaghim)

By Georgia DAR tradition, the State Regent is expected to visit each chapter in the state during her two-year administration. Daughters honored State Regent Joyce Ball Patton with a Tea on Saturday, November 12, 2016, at Johns Creek Methodist Church in Johns Creek, Georgia. This lovely event was hosted by four NSDAR Chapters: Suwanee Creek,

Chestatee River, Philadelphia Winn, and William Day. State Regent Patton brought greetings to Daughters and reiterated her projects, plans and “wish lists.” Regents Catherine Hyer, Nancy Tims, Kitty Watters, and Virginia Harrell presented their Chapter gifts and warm wishes to State Regent Patton for a successful adminis-

Head Table, clockwise, Suwanee Creek Chapter Chaplain Sandra Tomey, District Director Bonnie Lashley, State Regent Joyce Ball Patton, Suwanee Creek Regent Catherine Hyer, Chestatee River Chapter Regent Nancy Tims, Philadelphia Winn Chapter Regent Kitty Watters, William Day Chapter Regent Virginia Harrell

I could almost hear the exhaustion in her voice Kathy’s call was much like many I receive on an almost daily basis. Mom or dad, sometimes both, can no longer be left alone. “I’m working and not as available as I wish I could be nor as available as my mother was when her mother had to come live with us years ago”. I can hear the exhaustion and almost feel the stress – “How can I make sure mom and dad are safe? What can I do?”

These are tough issues which people in my industry deal with every day. Fortunately, there is good news. There are many, many more options available for families than even a generation ago. Help is often just a phone call away. While most of the elderly seem to feel their choices are limited to either staying at home or going to a nursing home, more properly identified as a “skilled nursing facility”, options today are as varied as the people seeking help. There are independent living facilities, assisted living facilities, memory care for those suffering from dementia, skilled nursing, large facilities, smaller personal care homes, and the list goes on. I like to say that no one solution fits all. Each family must look at their unique situation and make a decision as to what will work best for all involved. Of course the needs of the person being cared for are of primary importance but there are many other things to consider as well. For example, does mom or dad live near loved ones? Will a relocation be necessary? Is food pre-

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pared for residents? If so, is it any good?

The key when weighing alternatives is, I believe, visiting possibilities and developing a feel for each. Things to observe while there might include physical/mental condition of residents compared to the member of my family that might be moving there. Some with mild dementia may be uncomfortable in a facility where the majority of residents are much more impaired. Is the facility clean? Are the residents out in public areas or are most staying in their rooms? Again, the list could go on and on but I think you get the idea. Lastly, and perhaps this should have come at the start of things to consider, is cost. The range of costs is huge.

Some facilities may be in the $1,000 per month range while others may be well over $5,000 per month. And of course

tration.

There were 52 in attendance including Daughters, guests and one HODAR. For more information regarding the Philadelphia Winn Chapter of the NSDAR, please visit our website at: philadelphiawinn.georgiastatedar.org Photography by (HODAR) B. E. Hyer

Giving Gifts, Philadelphia Winn Chapter Regent Kitty Watters, State Regent Joyce Ball Patton

we cannot forget the option of staying in one’s own home, which is often made possible with in-home care. Most people want to stay in their homes whether that is a residence in which children have been raised or a facility where the resident needs more care than the facility is able to provide. Statistics make a strong argument for an overwhelming desire of people to stay where they are - to “age in place”. Again, no one solution is best for every situation but homecare is often the option that is most easily accepted by loved ones in need of assistance. Most family members who call us looking for direction are struggling because that loved one does not believe they need any help. Sometimes it comes down to the lesser of two evils and for most of the clients we serve it is easier to accept inhome care than it is to accept that moving into a facility is their only option.

Hopefully by the time we finish our phone call I have put Kathy’s mind at ease. There are options. Talk to someone that can explain those options to you and help your family find its best solution. If I can help you in any way, please don’t hesitate to call – I want to help.

-Tim Golden BrightStar Care (404)281-1537 PO Box 634 Lawrenceville, GA 30046 email: asktheseniorcareexpert@gmail.com

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Youth homelessness is real

Ella Thomas

Brookwood High School

“The season of giving.” This phrase is often associated with the holidays.

When this comes to mind, many times it’s the idea of giving gifts to our family and friends. However, it should extend much further than that. Many people won’t experience the joy of the holidays as we do, and many of these individuals are children. About 39% of the homeless population are people under the age of 18, meaning that some 1.6 million children in the United States will go through the holidays without a home. (Sources include National Center for Homeless Education 2012-2013, U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development 2013-2014, StandUpForKids.org). This statistic is a tragic fact, but, it doesn’t have to be this way. There are many solutions to this problem, including things that you can do yourself.

One group that is working tirelessly to end the crisis of youth homelessness is StandUp For Kids, a national non-profit charity. Centered in Atlanta, their goal is

to “end the cycle of youth homelessness throughout the United States.” This group works vigorously every day, all across America, to achieve this goal.

StandUp For Kids was founded in 1990 in San Diego, California by a group of volunteers, and it remains an all-volunteer organization to this day. This group works primarily at night time, walking the streets to distribute food, clothing, personal hygiene products, resource information, referrals, and offering a number where kids can reach a StandUp For Kids counselor in their city. Along with helping youth on the streets, they also provide platforms to teach the basic “life skills” so that they can survive off the streets and build a foundation away from that life.

By offering innovative programs, they provide homeless youth assistance, training, and resources to make a successful re-integration into society. For example, their Street Outreach program goes to the streets with the ability to locate homeless and at-risk youth. Once located, they befriend the young people and let them know that there are people out there who care. Then, they provide them with vital needs such as housing, education, medical help, and employment. After that, they supply the teens with comfort items such as food, clothing, blankets, and hygiene products. They can assist with providing counseling, social events to build a foundation away from the streets, and a mailing address to receive mail.

Their Mentoring Programs provide a broad range of assistance for those willing to commit to the program. To conform to the diversity of the communities that they serve, they conduct mentoring

in and after school, and in outreach centers/small groups.

The “in” and “after school” mentoring programs work to discourage bad decisions early on and increase high school graduation rates by instilling a love of learning in students. They accomplish this by having mentors come in to work with students on a weekly basis during the school year. These mentors develop an effective study plan, provide tutoring, and discuss personal challenges with the students to give them stability, friendship, and support. They can also provide access to computers, homework help, and life and career counseling.

The small group and center mentoring programs work with young adults ages 18 to 24 to give them the resources and support needed to overcome challenging situations. They provide necessities such as food and clothing and mentors to help provide educational and life-skills support. These mentors also set goals with each person and then work to help them achieve their goals.

Another way that SUFK is working to end youth homelessness is their Outreach and Drop-In Centers. The purpose of these settings is a safe and protective environment for kids to relax and escape the dangers of the streets. In these locations, youth can “drop-in” on designated dates and receive a hot meal, take a shower, wash clothes, use computers to work on resume or homework, and speak with outreach counselors or nurses. Many other services are provided such as identification services, referral services for available programs throughout the community, and a place to make meaningful relationships with adults who care about

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their personal health and well-being.

The real test only begins once the youth are off the streets, and StandUp For Kids realizes this. That is why they have their apartment support program.

According to SUFK, it takes about nine months to get a long-term homeless kid off of the streets, and it may take twice as long for them to feel fully capable and comfortable taking care of themselves in their own apartment. The apartment support teams monitor the apartment situation and help the young renters build a life centered around their community. To do this, they provide many services such as assistance with locating apartments, training on living alone and supporting one’s self, weekly food baskets, clothes and furniture, counseling and moral support, and housing stipends.

These are all the ways the StandUp For Kids organization is working to end youth homelessness, but they cannot do it alone. After only 16 hours of training, you can become a volunteer with the program. Another option is to become

a sponsor. SUFK relies heavily on donations. By becoming a sponsor, you can donate items from the wish lists of each location such as clothing, hygiene products, food, first aid products, bus cards, phone cards, gift certificates, and back office program support items. Also, a simple monetary donation can make a huge difference, and more than 94% of financial donations go directly to assisting homeless and street kids. Any support to StandUp For Kids goes a long way in making a difference in the lives of many, and lets children who have lost all hope know we have not forgotten them.

In this “season of giving,” I hope to inspire you to look beyond giving to friends and family and work to instill hope into the young people in our community and our world who have lost it. If you wish to get involved with this worthy cause, you can visit standupforkids.org or call 800365-4KID to learn more about donations and volunteer work.

Questions? Comments? Suggestions?

Email me at everythingella@outlook.com

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December 2016

The Gwinnett Roadrunner “ON THE RUN” By Mar y Frazier Long

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Gwinnett County Author, Historian Mary Long Photo

THE GAYLOR CHRISTMAS TREE Rae and Jim Gaylor have the most unusual Christmas tree in their Lawrenceville living room. Jim used risers and plywood to fashion shelves into the shape of a tree and those shelves hold a collection of jewelry boxes, snow globes, music boxes, Christmas village houses, Nutcracker figures, several Santas and other Christmas ornaments. One of the Santas is a large one used as a tree topper, another climbs a ladder trying to reach the top. Rae and Jim have collected Christmas items for several years and they have received some unusual ones as gifts from family and friends, all are placed carefully on the tree. You would need to invent new adjectives to really describe the decorations in the Gaylor house, especially the ones on the living room tree. Christmas really lives there and when you see the big Santa topped tree you know Christmas is on the way.

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Brooks Coleman, Gloria James and Donnie McQuaig at the Gwinnett Retired Educators Auction

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She’s got her letter for Santa ready!

FASCINATING FACTS •Thomas Edison was deaf from the age of 12 when he was trying to board a train at Frazer Station, Michigan. A conductor took hold of his ears to pull him aboard and Edison later said he felt something snap in his head. Edison only went to school for three months in Port Huron, Michigan. Edison was a brilliant inventor who invented the light bulb.

•The word “fan” meaning an admirer or a devotee is short for the word “fanatic.”

•Income tax was first collected in 1914.

•The name Santa Claus came from the Dutch dialect name for Saint Nicholas—Sint Klass.

•America purchased Alaska from Russia for $7,200,000—about two cents per acre.

PAST DECEMBER EVENTS •James Edward Oglethorpe was born December 22, 1696.

•US Presidents born in December were Martin Van Buren born 12/5/1782, Woodrow Wilson born 12/28/1856, Andrew Johnson born 12/29/1808.

•The Continental Army camped at Valley Forge, Pa. December 1777.

•Amendment 21 repealing prohibition passed December 1933.

•War of 1812 ended officially December 1814.

•The Aurora Theater in Lawrenceville has presented 21 amazing Christmas shows.

QUOTABLES The world needs more warm hearts and fewer hot heads.

Flattery looks like friendship much as a wolf looks like a dog.

Some who do their duty as they see it must have a blind spot.

If you are afraid of criticism you’ll die doing nothing.

A grandmother is a baby sitter who watches the children instead of television.

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Patricia Tucker retired from Dyer Elementary worked as an active educator for 33 years, 25 in Gwinnett County

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Gwinnett Historical Society Member Harriette Nichols is the society librarian.

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Al Herndon

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Glenda Richard retired from Creekland Middle School Sharon Larkin retired from Hopkins Elementary

SALUTE TO A VETERAN Al Herndon was born in Snellville, one of the eleven children of Archie Dean and Rubye Lee Herndon. Al was the ninth child and one of six brothers who served in the military during WWII. Al was in the army and he served in Germany for nearly two years. Al and Winifred Mason were married after the war and they have been married for 62 years.

AMANDA RILEY BASKETBALL COURTS The basketball courts at Briscoe Park in Snellville were officially named honoring the memory of Amanda Riley.

Amanda was a student at Brookwood High School when she succumbed to cancer. The Amanda Riley Foundation was established by Amanda’s parents Barbara and Steve Riley and this foundation supports children and their families who are fighting cancer.

HORSES IN DOWNTOWN LAWRENCEVILLE The famous Clydesdale are performing in the December 2 first ever Christmas parade in the county seat town. The parade begins at 7 and Santa will accompany the horses, his reindeer are resting in preparation for the December 24th tour.

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Beverly Mays GCREA Secretary retired from Norcross High School

BROOKS COLEMAN AUCTIONEER FOR GWINNETT RETIRED EDUCATORS State Representative Brooks Coleman donated his talents as an auctioneer at the November 18th auction held by the Gwinnett Retired Educators Association.

Proceeds from the auction fund scholarships for Gwinnett students and teachers and the 2016 auction was a success due to Brooks’ talents as master auctioneer.

Brooks has donated his talents to this

The November 21st meeting of the Society was held in the Historical Courthouse in Downtown Lawrenceville and Betty Warbington presided. The program was presented by Laura Elliott from Rainbow City, Alabama. Laura Coleman gave a talk about Georgia Volunteer Regiments during the War Between the States, focusing primarily on the 16th Volunteer Infantry Regiment.

Men from Gwinnett served in the 16th.

Photos and letters from soldiers were part of the interesting presentation.

Joe Byrd author of Confederate Sharpshooter a book about Major William E. Simmons Civil War veteran from Lawrenceville. Joe now lives in Forsyth County. auction for many years. Brooks Coleman represents the 97th District in the Georgia House of Representatives and among the many honors bestowed on Brooks Coleman is the naming of a school in his honor during 2016.

Gwinnett County Historical Society co-president Betty Warbington presided over the society meeting and the punch bowl on November 21st.

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Society member Frances Johnson’s ancestor fought in the War Between the States. Frances is a regular volunteer in the society office.

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PHOTOS FROM THE PAST

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Grace Arbor Volunteers at Lawrenceville United Methodist Church in 2008 Front Row Robin Dill, director and Cindy Leake, assistant director. Standing Volunteers Imogene Allen, Wanda Child, Elaine Coxworthy, Barbara Stewart, Virginia Osborne, Emily Boegli

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Lawrenceville Women’s Club Officers in 2006, Seated Nicole Hallmark, Carrie Sheehan and Sandra Strickland. Standing Janna Hayes, Theresa Bullock, Brenda Falkler, Jody Prescott.

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Bill and Barbara Maner were married in December over 50 years ago

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2012 PHOTO OF Marine Veterans Gene Lowry, Carson Green, Maurice Johnson and Roy Beaty

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This Christmas tree is near the entrance to the Military Museum in the Gwinnett County Historic Courthouse

Christmas tree on the second floor of the Historic Courthouse

Tree at Lawrenceville First Baptist Church, Nancy Segars did many of the decorations by hand

GWINNETT HISTORICAL SOCIETY CURRENT EVENTS Gwinnett County Commissioners agreed to purchase the Maguire-Livsey

House to Anderson Lane south of Snellville. The home is historically significant.

The house was constructed in the 1820’s.

Genevieve Bigner has been named Snellville City Planner. She graduated

from UGA with a BS in landscape architecture and a Master’s Degree in environmental planning and design.

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December 2016

Love rolls!

Who’s watching the kids?

“In addition to what will we be giving our loved ones, we need to decide who will be taking care of them - and who will be taking care of us.”

James Miskell

Estate Planning

It is natural to focus on our families during the holiday season, to think about everything they add to our lives and how lucky we are to have them. As people think about Estate Planning, they often focus on dividing and distributing their belongings and financial assets. They

decide who gets which of their favorite possessions. They decide which family members get money and how much, and perhaps that a certain amount of money will go to a favorite charity. This focus on “things”, however, neglects an important issue. In addition to what will we be giving our loved ones, we need to decide who will be taking care of them—and who will be taking care of us.

This issue is especially crucial if you have minor children. If both parents are deceased, who will serve as Guardian? When a minor child is left without a parent guardian as the result of death, Probate Court can appoint a Guardian to

care for the child until adulthood. Who will Probate Court appoint as Guardian?

Well, it depends upon who applies to serve. While it would be nice if all extended families had good relationships, unfortunately, that is not the reality for some people. There may be disagreement between relatives about who is best suited to serve as Guardian and there may be competing petitions. Clearly, this is not ideal for a child who is trying to adjust to the loss of their parents.

Conservators are appointed by the Probate Court to handle the financial affairs of those who need Guardians.

Just as the Guardian cares for the person, the Conservator is charged with the duty of taking care of the finances in the best interest of the ward. This is often the same person as the Guardian, but it can be another person. Do you know someone who is nurturing but terrible with money? One person may be an ideal Guardian but someone else may be a better choice for Conservator. Who will Probate Court appoint as Conservator?

As with Guardianship, the process can be complicated by disagreements within the family that result in objections and even competing petitions.

It may seem obvious that minor chil-

dren need a Guardian and Conservator appointed to look after them and make decisions on their behalf, but it is also true for those with a mental disability that leaves them unable to care for themselves. One day it may also apply to you.

If you are unable to make or communicate significant decisions concerning your health and safety or the management of your property, who will take care of YOU? There must be a way to avoid some of this uncertainty. There must be a way to ensure that the people you trust to watch over your loved ones are, in fact, appointed by the Court. The good news is that it is possible. You have the power to remove uncertainty from the process by nominating—ahead of time—the people you know are best suited to serve as Guardians and Conservators.

By consulting with loved ones and qualified professionals, you can develop a plan for the future and execute the best documents to make that plan a reality.

Your family will be grateful that you did.

The time to start is now.

James M. Miskell received his law degree from the University of Georgia in 1993. His Asset Protection, Estate Planning and Elder Law practice has offices located in Lawrenceville and Johns Creek.

He offers educational workshops and free consultations to assist clients as well as fellow professionals in creating individualized solutions. Visit his website: www.

LetsTalkEstatePlanning.com. For more information, see his ad in this issue.

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Photo from left to right: Dori Cole, Proprietor of Lawrenceville Ted’s Montana Grill, and Kendall Robinson, founder of Love Rolls

By Staff Reports During the 17th annual Gwinnett Great Days of Service, Ted’s Montana Grill partnered with Kendall Robinson, founder of Love Rolls, Inc., a non-profit that works with family, friends, student organizations, along with local and corporate businesses to collect rolls of toilet paper for those in need. As part of the service day, Ted’s donated two cases of Envision toilet tissue, while U.S. Foods matched the donation with two additional cases that were distributed to local agencies in partnership with the Atlanta Community Food Bank in effort to supply rolls to those less fortunate – with LOVE!

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Tis the season

Marlene Ratledge Buchanan Hey Y’all

It is beginning to look a lot like Christmas - and it was just Halloween!

I understand that there are only eight weeks between Halloween and Christmas, and that during that time we have to squeeze in Thanksgiving. Retailers make the majority of their profits during these weeks. I do understand all that. However, I hate Christmas shopping. I really do.

I love the decorations, but our country’s financial situation and “political correctness” have taken away all the beautiful extravagances of the holidays. We used to go to the Northlake Mall when James was small. It had the prettiest Santa Claus. We would just walk around and look at the beautiful windows and the

displays in the center of the Mall.

Of course, we always did Santa Claus. James was ready to see him, until he saw him!

We would whisper and cajole, and finally he would reluctantly approach this Paragon of Christmas. Once he had accomplished the first approach and lap sitting, he would be ready to go again.

One of my early jobs was being Santa’s elf and photographer at Atlanta’s big Sears on Ponce de Leon. That is probably when I made two big life decisions.

One was a career move. I learned right then that I couldn’t teach the little ones.

Give me the big teenagers in the throes of adolescent angst, not the young ones.

I didn’t know what to do with those who cried a lot, peed on Santa or threw up.

(Not to say I didn’t go through boxes of Kleenex with the teenagers. Mostly it was the parents crying. The teenagers knew all the answers.)

As Santa’s elf, I was expected to make these frightened little ones smile and laugh at the big fuzzy man. Yeah, right! Because of this experience, I was prepared for James’ reluctance. I had lots of practice. I took a lot of pictures of mamas holding their children and sitting in Santa’s lap. The kids didn’t get much out of it, but one of my Santas LOVED it. He

was replaced after the first few days.

The other impact of being an Official Santa Elf is that I don’t care for Christmas shopping and I can take holiday music for only so long. I was so conditioned at Sears that when Gene Autry’s “Rudolf the Red-Nosed Reindeer” played I knew Santa had to take a break. Now, when I hear it, I have to take a break.

The best part of being Santa’s Elf was enjoying all the smiles and laughter.

However, there were plenty of other reactions as well. Mamas and Daddys would bring in their little ones. Some would be scared to death while others couldn’t wait to get to Santa. The children would be dressed in such cute outfits. Upon arriving at the mall, parents went first to Santa’s Place because 10 minutes later the beautiful outfits might be disheveled. Many would be full of throw-up.

It just depended on how frightened and nervous the parents had made the little ones about meeting “The Man”. Parents were their children’s own worst enemy at Santa’s Place.

Most of the seasonal labor was college kids and mothers. We had the best time talking to shoppers and laughing with them and each other. We were diligent workers, on our feet for eight solid hours, but we tried our best to enjoy the

“Tips to help seniors enjoy the holidays from Dogwood Forest of Grayson” Holidays provoke memories, which can be especially powerful in the later years of life. Seniors whose memories are impaired may have difficulty remembering recent events, but they are often able to share stories and observations from the past. These shared memories are important for the young family members as well. We suggest using picture albums, family videos and music, even theme songs from old radio or TV programs, to help stimulate memories and encourage older seniors to share their stories and experiences. Here are some other things to think about to make the Holidays easier on everybody!

1. Plan ahead. If older family members tire easily or are vulnerable to over-stimulation, limit the number of activities they are involved in or the length of time they are included. The noise and confusion of a large family gathering can lead to irritability or exhaustion, so schedule time for a nap, if necessary, and consider designating a “quiet room” where an older person can take a break.

2. Eliminate obstacles. If a holiday get-together is held in the home of a senior with memory impairment or behavioral problems, don’t rearrange the furniture. This could be a source of confusion and anxiety. If the gathering is in a place unfamiliar to an older person, remove slippery throw rugs and other items that could present barriers to someone with balance problems or who has difficulty walking.

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3. Avoid embarrassing moments.

Try to avoid making comments that could inadvertently embarrass an older friend or family member who may be experiencing short-term memory problems. If an older person forgets a recent conversation, for example, don’t make it worse by saying, “Don’t you remember?”

4. Create new memories. In addition to memories, seniors need new things to anticipate. Add something new to the holiday celebration, or volunteer for your family to help others. Enjoy activities that are free, such as taking a drive to look at holiday decorations, or window-shopping at the mall or along a festive downtown street.

5. Be inclusive. Involve everyone

in holiday meal preparation, breaking down tasks to include the youngest and oldest family members. Older adults with physical limitations can still be included in kitchen activities by asking them to do a simple, helpful task, like greasing cooking pans, peeling vegetables, folding napkins or arranging flowers.

6. Monitor medications and alcohol. If you have senior family members, be sure to help them adhere to their regular schedule of medications during the frenzy of the holidays. Also, pay attention to their alcohol consumption during holiday parties and family gatherings.

Call Dogwood Forest of Grayson for more information 678-496-2319.

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job and make the people happy.

Sears had a huge restroom that had a beautiful lobby area with tables and chairs. Many of us would meet in there and have our brown-bagged lunches. As women would find a seat, we would hear the shoes drop! I can’t remember ever laughing so hard as when we would all sit around together.

In all the years I worked for Santa, none of our Santa Clauses were Christian. They were Jewish. I found that interesting. I don’t ‘know why they were

all Jewish, but they were. I learned a lot about their faith, and maybe they learned a little about Presbyterianism. Anyway, we had a good time.

That is what I think we should be about. Laughter, enjoying one another and taking a break when “Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer” plays. Just stop.

Whatever your beliefs are. Just stop. Hug somebody (preferably a family member or dear friend), take a deep breath and smile.

Happy HO-HO-HO, Y’all

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12 ideas for Christmas from About Face Skin Care

Chrissy Thomas

About Face Skin Care

Who wants a partridge or turtle doves to have to care for? No. You have better options for your true love to pursue this season. Send Santa to About Face Skin Care to find the perfect gift to leave under your tree! Here are our staff picks to complete everyone’s list.

The BEST part? Mention this article and receive 15% off through December 16th!

1. The Signature Facial. Need a moment to relax, feel pampered AND get a great facial? Look no further. Our talented staff of aestheticians will guarantee a perfect mix of both leaving you with a glam glow for the New Year!

2. Laser Hair Removal. Are you tired of plucking, waxing and tweezing those hairs on your chinny, chin, chin?

We hear you! Laser Hair Removal is safe for all skin types and will give you the soft, smooth, hair free skin you are looking for! May be used to treat any unwanted body hair.

3. See Your Spots GO! Age spots are a sign of sun damage and can often be the reason many women feel they HAVE to wear makeup. Why put up with that? Lumecca IPL is a treatment that will break down red and brown spots on the skin leaving a more youthful appearance.

A bonus side effect? Pores are tighter and wrinkles are less noticeable!

4. Banish That Bulge. If that tummy roll troubling you? Have you tried diet and exercise with no real

change? You need to consider Body FX Fat Reduction System. Body FX is a treatment system that actually permanently breaks down the top thirty percent of the fat cells in the area treated. May also be used to treat thighs, knees, arms, backs and any other pudgy areas that are troubling you.

5. Professional Brow Waxing.

Even if you are experiencing hair loss in the brow area, it is still important to see someone who understands this process to keep brows neat and shaped. We are the pros. Purchase a series of six or twelve treatments to keep brows looking great all year long!

6. Save Your Face! Calling all side sleepers! Do you wake up with creases across your face? Are they taking longer and longer to fade every morning? We have a solution. The exclusive design of this comfy pillow will allow you to enjoy that awesome side and tummy sleep, but allow your cheek and eye to be free from pressure. Another bonus- you can breathe easier without the pressure on your nose!

7. Fractora Facial Tightening.

This is hands down, no question, the best treatment me and my staff have ever witnessed. The amazing effect of adding micro needling and radio-frequency together has blown us away. After using this system for two years, we are even more satisfied than ever. You will love it!

8. Votivo Candles. Our signature scent is Red Currant. It continues to be a crowd pleaser after fourteen years of business. This time of year, clients also love some of our holiday scents like Icy Blue Pine. If you are looking for stocking stuffers or hostess gifts, you are in luck.

9. 180 NonSurgical Facelift. Are you ready to turn the clock back five to seven years? Look no further. This boot camp program lifts facial muscles, smooths skin, evens discolorations, and tightens skin of the face and neck. After fourteen years of service, I can testify that these clients seem ageless. This is

definitely the treatment that put us on the map!

10. Lovely Lashes. Have you always craved those long, luscious lashes? Latisse is your answer! Latisse is a product that you put on your lash base (like eyeliner) before bed each evening.

Within eight weeks, you will notice fuller, darker and longer lashes. Once you finish the initial nightly routine, use the product three times per week to maintain your results!

11. Double Chin Blues. It is a family trait. Whether you weigh twenty pounds or two hundred, you have that pesky double chin. We have an answer for you! Kybella is a treatment that breaks down the volume of the double chin and gives you a thinner chin and more defined jawline. An added bonusthe skin of the lower face tightens and lifts! Can we say two birds with one stone?

12. Makeover Your Makeup.

Have you been doing the same eyes for ten years? Have your eyes changed in ten years? Most likely it is time to update your look. Schedule a makeover with our talented makeup artist and pick up tips and tricks. Try our medical grade mineral makeup, Youngblood Mineral Cosmetics, for a makeup that treats skin while making it flawless!

Gift certificates may be purchased in person or online at www.aboutfaceskin. com. You may also schedule appointments online or give us a call at 770.935.FACE (3223). We offer a free consultation to discuss your treatment options. About Face Skin Care wishes you a very Merry Christmas, Happy Hanukkah, and any other holidays you are celebrating. We look forward to meeting you!

About Face Skin Care and About Mind and Body are located on Janmar Road in Snellville, behind Lowes. Our address is 1569 Janmar Road, Suites B and C, 30078.

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A Christmas Poem

Jonathan Howe

Lead Pastor Graystone Church

Once a year we decorate our houses from head to toe with a tree, stockings and mistletoe.

On the outside, we string up lights and more and our neighbors try to even the score.

There’s talk of the North Pole and elves on the go, and Rudolph pulling Santa as he says Ho! Ho! Ho! After Thanksgiving, the shopping begins, and the husband thinks it will never end.

The kids make their list and check it twice, but with Santa they’re never really rolling the dice.

This year it’s Barbies, smart phones and X Box. They must have been watching those commercials on Fox. The wife never wants you to buy her too much… just clothes, perfume, diamonds and such!

And what to get for that special guy?

A gift certificate from Best Buy! They have DVD’s, surround sound, and big screens. so he can build the home theatre of his dreams.

We attend parties and do the holiday thing.

For White Elephant, we’re not sure what to bring.

The TV is filled with classics to see… some really good movies full of Christmas glee.

Like Christmas Vacation, It’s a Wonderful Life, and Home Alone and ESPN’s college bowl week really is fun.

It’s time for our extended families to come together to eat lots of food and talk about the weather.

What’s the meaning of Christmas after all?

It must be more than a leftover cheese ball.

Christmas is the celebration of Jesus’ birth.

He came from heaven to grace the earth.

Born in a manger cushioned with straw…

Our God came to save us all.

Jonathan Howes has a Bachelor of Science Degree in Finance from Jacksonville State University and a Master in Divinity Degree from Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary. He is the lead pastor for Graystone Church.

Locations include the Ozora Campus: 1551 Ozora Road Loganville, GA 30052 and the Walton Campus: 723 N Broad St Monroe, GA 30655.

Phone: (770) 466-3159 Email: info@graystonechurch.com Website: GraystoneChurch.com Blog: http://toliveischrist.cc Twitter: @JohnnyHowes

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Veterans honored at Ashton Senior Living

Photo by Lydia McGill

Keynote Speaker, Frank Marchese Photo by Lydia McGill

On November 11, 2016, Ashton Senior Living honored their veterans with a special program provided by Key Note Speaker Frank Marchese, (HODAR) husband of Philadelphia Winn Daughter Anne Lockhart. Frank is pictured kneeling - center front.

Residents of Ashton Senior Living in Lawrenceville and guests, including some members of Philadelphia Winn Chapter NSDAR, observed and celebrated Veterans Day with a special program provided by Keynote Speaker Frank Marchese (HODAR—husband of DAR).

Past Regent of Philadelphia Winn Chapter, Lydia McGill, current State Chair of Constitution Week, presented veterans with caps of their branch of service, gave flags to widows, sisters, sons and daughters of veterans, and everyone enjoyed dessert!

Speaker Frank Marchese, husband of Philadelphia Winn Daughter Anne

Lockhart, spoke about his family’s three generations of military service to America. He chose to discuss the story of his father, Frank John Marchese. Young Frank grew up in a strong military family as his dad was career military. He started serving at Jump School at Fort Benning and was assigned to the 101st Airborne, “F” Co. 502nd PIR in 1943. His group jumped into Holland in Operation Market Garden in September 1944. This began his fight into Germany with his unit.

His Dad was awarded the Netherlands Bronze Cross by the Dutch Ambassador for his gallantry in Holland. He was injured in his service and chose to recover broadside so he could rejoin his buddies.

He rejoined his unit in France just in time for the Battle of the Bulge and went on to Bastogne, Belgium to defend critical crossroads. Frank’s dad spoke on one occasion that he and another trooper, who spoke German, went out on a patrol to sneak up on the German lines to gather information. They heard the Germans talking, and Dad asked his friend, “What are they saying?” “They’re bitching about the food,” came back the reply!

“Things were tough all over, I guess,” Frank said. After WWII, Frank’s dad decided to reenlist and was promoted to a warrant officer and became a general’s aide. He retired in 1964 as CWO-3 and

lived to be 95 years of age. In his later years he talked of his service to Frank, even sharing his Hollywood movie break

in 1949 when he played an extra and tech advisor with his 82nd unit in the movie “Battleground!”

Frank James Marchese enlisted in 1966 and began his training at Fort Benning, AIT at Fort Lewis and Artillery OCS at Fort Sill, and finished his three year commitment as an Artillery officer at Fort Bliss, Texas. He served during the Vietnam War, 1966 to 1969.

Mike Marchese, grandson and son to father and son, served in Kuwait in the Army, and Michael Hamrick, sonin-law, served in Iraq as a Marine/Army.

Joe Willingham, Anne Lockhart’s father, served in the Army Air Corps in a B-17 squadron in WWII. Frank and Anne hope their grandsons will not have to fight in a war, “but we won’t discourage them from the military experience,” they said.

Philadelphia Winn Chapter NSDAR and Ashton Senior Living salutes an awesome patriotic American family!

Submitted by Past Regent Philadelphia Winn Chapter NSDAR Lydia McGill, State Chair, Constitution Week & HODAR Frank Marchese

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“Christmas 2016, maybe the best Christmas ever!”

Rev. Robert Thompson Chapel Woods Presbyterian Church

Every Christmas Season that comes around we should be reminded of the glorious scene in the dead of night before a group of shepherds watching their flock. Wonder if we knew this time was our last Christmas as we know it. Would

we treat it any differently? Would it mean any more to us this time? Hear again Luke 2:13-14 which states: “And suddenly there appeared with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host praising God and saying, ‘Glory to God in the highest, And on earth peace among men with whom He is pleased.’” (NASB) These words from the heavenly host are short but are full of eternal importance for us “men”. So eternal and so important to us that it bears the particular necessity of understanding our relationship to the Lord God Himself. All men on the earth are told through this proclamation: “Glory to God in the highest, And on earth peace among men with whom He is pleased.” Peace with God through His grace to His people is the message of Christmas! With so much ill will towards our fellow men around us today, so many countries in turmoil and reports of growing unrest and disasters, remembering

this glorious truth declared in praise to our Lord God is an essential foundation for our eternal joy! A joy that is everlasting and present for us now especially during this Christmas Season. “Peace among men with whom He is pleased.”

Peace among men because of peace with God due to His favor to us through our Lord Jesus! Glorious! Joyous!

Day after day so many people are losing their souls, pursuing their self-will and greed in rebellion against Almighty God! I encourage you especially this time of year, especially this year, to focus your life on the above event that ensures your relationship with the Heavenly Father.

This may very well be the last time we will have the freedom and resources to enjoy Christmas as we know it. Christmas is the season to receive His peace.

Receive the Christ and call on His name for the forgiveness of your sins. The Lord Christ was given to suffer and die for

your sins instead of your having to pay for them. Make peace with God and receive life eternal!

May we who have already received this gift, this “Good News” make sure all those we are around are given the opportunity to receive it! Let us strive to make peace and reconcile family members and friends that need to receive the Peace with God through Jesus Christ. Like never before may we pursue good will, not ill will, towards our fellow man because of peace with God. Christ Jesus the best Christmas present ever! There is no other peace or hope available to man except through this best gift. This is Christmas!

May you and your family enjoy Christmas this year like none before, with the Glory to God, peace with God through His grace in the gift of Christ. May you offer this gift to all you know and all you are around this Christmas Season. May this be your best Christmas ever!

Robert Thompson has been the senior pastor of Chapel Woods Presbyterian Church in Snellville since May 2003. He graduated from Covenant Theological Seminary in 1986. Robert is also Chairman of the Board of Presbyterian Evangelistic Fellowship. He and his wife Wanda have been married for 43 years. They have three adult daughters, Amanda and twins Rebecca and Sarah.

Amanda is married to Jerry Jones and they have three daughters of their own. Rebecca is married to Wesley Payton; they have two sons. Sarah is married to Mark Magdziarz and they have two daughters and two sons.

Chapel Woods Presbyterian Church 3800 Lenora Church Rd., Snellville, GA 30078 web: www.chapelwoods.org e-mail: pastor@chapelwoods.org phone: 770 978 1445

Tim Stewart Funeral Home Operation Toy Soldier toy drive

By Beth Volpert Johansen Staff Correspondent All four locations of the Tim Stewart Funeral Homes will be celebrating the 6th year of Operation Toy Soldier. The holidays are a season for joy and celebration, but for many servicemen and women, it can be a time of stress.

The pressures of providing a meal each day does not leave a great deal of room for toys from Santa. That’s where Operation Toy Soldier comes in. They love to facilitate the magic of the season.

“We dropped off our collection barrels the week before Thanksgiving and picked them up on December 23rd,” says Tony Price of Tim Stewart Funeral Homes. “We collect new, unwrapped toys and any cash donations people want to give.” The cash donations come in handy

for older kids who might want and need something as practical as a pair of running shoes. “These kids are not expecting an iPod, they want for basic needs,” says Tony. “Being able to supply a toy or a gift card for shoes to a struggling parent is a real blessing.”

Operation Toy Soldier began after Tim Stewart Funeral Homes’ support of J-9 Family Assistance with backpacks through the Alpha Company, 1-121st Infantry Battalion located in Lawrenceville, GA. This led to the establishment of Operation Toy soldier. This year, OTS added The American Legion in Monroe.

Among these brave GA National Guard soldiers are men and women who will not admit need for themselves, but set aside pride for their children. “We get an application with a list of things that the kids are into - Legos, Transformers... and we

try to match up the collected toys with the kids,” says Tony. Volunteers sort and bag the toys along with the application in order to make as many dreams come true on Christmas morning as is possible.

“We get a lot of support from local businesses and government entities because all of our collections stay local,” says Tony. “Everything we collect stays in Gwinnett and Walton Counties.” Tony knows that the families of the children don’t want the attention given them and works hard to help preserve the dignity of each parent who feels the need to ask for help. “It’s not like anyone wants to ask anyone for help, but we feel it is our duty to supply toys to this cause,” says Tony. “It shows us, all the volunteers and employees, that we really don’t have any real problems, we are blessed.” The

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Local volunteers helping children in need by way of Tim Stewart Funeral Home Operation Toy Soldier. problems faced by many soldiers are pervasive throughout the year, but allowing a group like Operation Toy Soldier to step in and solve a few minor challenges seems to bring blessings to all those involved.

“As funeral directors, this is a particularly somber time of year,” says Tony.

“If we can bring joy to children, then we feel something positive is happening just inside our doors.”

Operation Toy Soldier finishes up their collections with a huge drive at the Army/Navy Store in Snellville on November 17th from 11 – 5. The American Legion Riders from Loganville assist with cash collections. Thank you for giving back to our local area soldiers and their children... you will be part of the magic.

Each year we have the privilege to help so many who have served and gave the ultimate sacrifice to ensure our freedom. Our commitment to the community is made possible each year by the generosity of the Stewart Family. They continue to allow our staff to find ways to help the community. Operation Toy Soldier is just one of many outreach programs they are behind.

It takes a team of people to make things

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Operation Toy Soldier volunteers and a barrel full of donations.

happen and Tim, Gay, Frankie, Jason and Angela are a big part of our success in giving back.

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Twelve Christmas Blessings thought of taking a playful approach and created the “Twelve Christmas Blessings,” sung to the last countdown verse of the merry, old English Christmas carol, “Twelve Days of Christmas.” Enjoy!

Twelve Christmas Blessings

Katie Hart Smith From the Heart

Looking back through 2016, Jeff and I have a lot to be thankful for. First, we give God all the glory and appreciation because He is at the center of our hearts and in our marriage. In addition, I have loved writing for The Gwinnett Citizen this past year. I have had the opportunity to interview and meet many amazing people who are doing great things in Gwinnett. I truly enjoy highlighting and focusing on the positive and good news in our community – where helping hearts and hands take action. I have also really loved being a contributor in my “From the Heart” opinion column. It’s an honor to be able to share my heart-felt stories with you.

To summarize our year-at-a-glance, I

30 years in pediatric nursing 27 years at the Lawrenceville Police Department 25 years at Children’s Healthcare of Atlanta 23 years as a published author 13 European counties in 19 days 11 years of wedded bliss 6 months until Jeff defends his doctoral dissertation An incredible loving and supportive husband (“ba-da-ba-ba” – insert if you like singing the Miss Piggy/Muppets version of the song) For the love of family and friends 3 fabulous furry babies 2 published novels And, a brand new titanium right hip!

I want to wish you and your families the happiest of holidays and Merry Christmas, from my family to yours.

Many Blessings, Katie.

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Health, Beauty & Wellness Health over the holidays has never been easier All the hustle and bustle of the holiday season may make it feel like there’s hardly a moment to spare. With travel planned, celebrations scheduled and fun to be had, a flu bug or upset tummy in the

midst of all the holiday festivities is the last thing anyone wants to worry about.

While these illnesses are notorious for their bad timing, convenience when scheduling an appointment is just what

the doctor ordered. With online scheduling, you can make a doctor’s appointment anytime or anywhere with just a few simple clicks.

The Basics of Online Scheduling To make the scheduling process easier than ever, Gwinnett Medical Group is introducing online scheduling for two primary care practices: Bostock Family Medicine and Covenant Family Medicine.

This contemporary change to scheduling and providing care is centered on improving the patient experience. Online scheduling couples the convenience and comfort of scheduling an appointment wherever or whenever you’d like, with the familiarity of seeing your primary care doctor.

To take advantage of this convenient, easy to use service, visit gwinnettmedicalgroup.com/scheduling. Once you schedule your online appointment, you will receive a confirmation email that provides helpful information, such as: • Contact information • Directions and a map • Materials to bring with you • Additional links for adding to your calendar, paperwork and canceling the appointment.

Health Over the Holidays This holiday season, make stress and exhaustion a thing of the past. Don’t let full schedules and holiday plans keep you

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from getting the care you need. Gwinnett Medical Center offers you and your family peace of mind so you can focus on the important things this holiday season.

Rest assured knowing that you have the

power of online scheduling 24/7.

Enjoy scheduling your next doctor’s appointment online by visiting gwinnettmedicalgroup.com/scheduling.

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Eastside Medical Center is now a designated lung cancer screening center

By Staff Reports Eastside Medical Center is now a designated Lung Cancer Screening Center. Eastside Medical Center’s Comprehensive Diagnostic Imaging Program is now ACR accredited for low-dose CT scanning that provides state of the art imaging for lung cancer screening. Eastside

Medical Center recognizes the significant number of lung cancer cases in the community and is growing their services to meet the needs of the surrounding population. Lung cancer causes more deaths than colon, breast and prostate cancer combined, according to the National Lung Screening Trial. Not only is Eastside Medical Center growing its ser-

vices in this area, they are also educating their employees about preventative measures that can be taken to reduce the risk of lung cancer and encouraging them to spread the word. Eastside Medical Center’s locations are all proud smoke free facilities. In correlation with Lung Cancer Awareness Month, Eastside Medical Center participated in the American Cancer Society Great American Smokeout event on November 17, 2016. The purpose of the day is for smokers to use this day as their quit day and pledge to a healthy life free of tobacco. According to the American Cancer Society, around 40 Million Americans still smoke cigarettes, and tobacco use remains the single largest preventable cause of disease and premature death in the world. Eastside Medical Center used this day, and the days leading up to the event, to educate their employees on the risks of using tobacco and let them know that they have support in the fight to quit smoking. The educational initiative was led by Paulette Zinkann, oncology program leader at Eastside Medical Center who states, “The hospital is working to better educate our employees and the community on the degree to which smoking can increase your risk for developing lung cancer.” According to the National Lung Screening Trial approximately 1 in 14 Americans will be diagnosed with lung cancer. “Preventative diagnostic testing for those who meet the criteria is available at Eastside Medical Center with our low-dose CT screening,” Zinkann shared. The National Lung Screening Trial conveys that this technology can detect the deadly disease early and reduce lung cancer mortality by 20 percent. “The message we are giving to our employees, in partnership with the American Cancer Society, is that they must remember that in the fight to quit smoking, support can make a huge difference. We asked our employees who use tobacco to take the pledge to quit smoking with a friend on the day of the Great American Smokeout and provided them with tips and resources to assist in

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Eastside Employee, Sha’Neka Wright-Register posting her words of encouragement in support of those pledging to quit smoking in honor of the Great American Smokeout.

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Employees posted words of encouragement in the fight against smoking and to support lung cancer prevention on November 17, 2016. their journey,” said Zinkann. Encourage your friends and family to join you on your journey to becoming smoke-free and assist in educating those loved ones who do have a history of smoking to seek out medical advice on how to seek preventative diagnostic screening. If you

would like more information on the lung cancer screening services that Eastside Medical Center has to offer, call 770-7362421 to take the lung cancer risk assessment and determine your eligibility for the low-dose CT screening.

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It’s that time of year again Concussion baselines now available for children ages 5-11

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Katie Clower, Office Manager, Mazzawi Family Dentistry

By Katie Clower

It’s that time of year again... Open Enrollment. Many dread this time of year.

We are faced with tough decisions to make for our self and our family. Is the plan I’m selecting going to be affordable while providing the coverage I need for the upcoming year? Deciding which health care plan to select can be a stressful task—premiums, copays, deductibles, In-Network, Out-of-Network, PPO, DHMO, DMO, etc.

How can we choose?? Understanding the many options available helps us to make informed decisions for not only our budget but for our health care needs.

One of the most frequently asked questions we get is “do you take my insurance”? This is a very important question for everyone and one you should know before enrolling into a new plan. Will you

be able to see that provider you like to visit? For some that’s a deal breaker, so being informed ahead of time helps avoid unpleasant surprises when you present your insurance card during a visit. The best place to start is determining if you are “In Network” or “Out of Network”.

“In Network” simply means that the provider is part of the insurance network.

This plans offers a negotiated discount, therefore, you typically pay less when you use one of their providers. “Out of Network” refers to providers that are not part of the insurance network. Most “Out of Network” providers will still file your insurance for you. However, you are responsible for any amounts not paid by the insurance.

As the subscriber, it’s your responsibility to determine whether your provider participates or not. The best way to do that is to call the number on the back of your insurance card or contact your HR plan administrator. You will need to ask if you have “In Network” and/or “Out of Network” benefits. Most PPOs typically offer “Out of Network” benefits, while DHMOs and DMOs require you to see a provider on their list. As for Medicare, patients are required to go to a Medicare provider and State Funded Plans (ex: PeachCare) must go to “In Network” providers. It is important that you understand the coverage under your insurance plan. Simply paying an insurance premium and hoping your service is covered would be doing yourself a disservice. Research your plan and take full advantage of your benefits! We, at Mazzawi Family Dentistry, are always here to help clarify coverage if needed.

Paige Havens

The Concussion Discussion It’s official. Concussion care for our children has kicked to a whole new level. The FDA has now approved ImPACT Pediatric®, bringing online the first concussion assessment tool specifically designed for children ages 5-11.

ImPACT Pediatric® is the only FDA-cleared concussion evaluation aid currently on the market that allows doctors to establish a cognitive baseline for pediatric patients that provides valuable insight into changes in the brain if an injury occurs. Having a baseline on your child enables doctors to better gauge the impact of a concussion if it happens and formulate a more personalized course of treatment.

ImPACT Pediatric® was developed

by ImPACT Applications, Inc., the maker of ImPACT®, known to be the most

scientifically validated computerized concussion management tool for patients ages 12-59. Since 2006, more than 12 million ImPACT® tests have been administered. The recent approval and release of ImPACT Pediatric®, specifically designed for younger brains, allows doctors to now use this trusted resource with their pediatric patients.

ImPACT Pediatric® (IP) is a computerized test that measures key aspects of cognitive functioning, such as cognitive speed, impulse control, memory, nonverbal spatial span and more. Initially a baseline test is given to well patients.

The baseline captures how the brain functions on a normal day. Should a child experience a possible concussion, they can then be given the IP test post-injury, which allows the doctor to compare the baseline and post-injury tests to better gauge how your child has been impacted by the injury. Because the baseline is a unique snapshot of your child’s brain, it helps doctors formulate an individualized course of treatment for your child, rather than having to base treatment on general normative data. IP makes it easier for your doctor to monitor your child’s recovery and helps them make a more informed decision about when it is safe to release them back to sports and other physical activities.

Rather than testing young children in a group setting via a bank of computers, IP is administered one-on-one via an iPad with a parent or guardian present.

IP only takes about 10-15 minutes to complete and is uniquely designed to hold a child’s attention.

IP is available in English, Canadian French and Spanish.

Up to now, concussion management for younger children has been reactive.

IP now allows parents and physicians to be much more proactive. Research shows that nearly 2 million children suffer concussions from sports and recreational activities each year. Theirs are the most vulnerable of brains. As a record number of children below the age of 12 are engaging in youth sports and other concussion-susceptible activities, this newest innovation in the field of concussion management could not come at a better time.

So, where can you get a concussion baseline test for your child? I’m pleased to share that The Concussion Institute at Gwinnett Medical Center-Duluth is one of the first healthcare providers in our community certified to administer the ImPACT Pediatric® baseline tests for our children. Call 678-312-7880 today to schedule this important baseline for your child and have a piece of mind that you’re being as proactive as possible with their healthcare. Better yet, be head smart and make it your New Year’s resolution to get baselines for your entire family and enable your doctors with this invaluable treatment tool should any of you ever sustain a head injury.

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Wait until spring to install grass sod

Tim Daly

Gwinnett County Extension Agent I recently observed a landscape company installing bermuda sod to a lawn by a new home. It was brown and in a dormant state due to the cold temperatures. The question arises as to whether or not sod installed in winter will survive and green up the following spring. Transplanting warm-season sod, which includes bermudagrass, centipedegrass, zoysiagrass and St. Augustinegrass, in winter, is possible.

However, the chances of it surviving and becoming established are less than if it is planted during the warmer weather.

In warm season turfgrasses, upon the arrival of cold weather, grass blades stop growing and turn brown. However, the roots and the crowns, which are the structures where the leaves emerge, continue to grow at a reduced rate. New grass blades will appear when warmer weather returns in spring.

If a warm-season turfgrass is dormant, how will you know if it is alive and healthy? You could be purchasing sod that has not been properly cared for during the growing season, have hidden pest problems, or is dead. You will not know the overall quality of the sod or how much of it is alive until it begins to green up the following spring.

Successful transplanting of dormant sod is dependent on purchasing and planting healthy material. Ideally, the sod should be installed within a few days after harvesting and being placed on the pallets. However, dormant sod on pallets may have been sitting for an extended period of time in a holding yard.

The ability of sod to survive when installed during dormancy is dependent upon keeping the roots from drying out and avoiding low-temperature injury. The loss of moisture is frequently a serious problem since newly transplanted sod has an undeveloped root system. The warm, dry winds of late winter and early spring increase the demand for water. However, the combination of low soil temperatures and a limited root system reduces the sod’s ability to absorb water. Keeping the sod moist, but not soaking wet, will improve its chances of surviving. Often normal winter rainfall is adequate. However, if supplemental irrigation is needed, then apply roughly one inch of water every two weeks. Check the sod periodically by pulling on the ends and edges of the sod to make sure the underlying soil is moist, and the roots are growing into the soil.

Roll the sod thoroughly after laying to eliminate air pockets to help reduce the amount of water loss and improve root contact with the soil. Do not apply any fertilizer until after it greens up in the spring since it could lead to premature green-up that increases the likelihood of damage from hard freezes. Under such conditions, turf recovery is possible only from deep growing rhizomes, which newly sodded turf usually lacks. Good soil preparation, adequate soil-to-sod contact, and most importantly, proper water management to prevent the sod from drying out is essential for winter planted sod to survive.

So, if you want to have your lawn sodded during winter, remember installing dormant warm season sod in winter is possible but be aware of the risks involved. You may end up with a healthy attractive lawn in the following growing season, but then again, you may not. The best course of action is to wait until the warmer months for the planting of sod to improve the chances of it surviving and becoming established.

Timothy Daly is an Agriculture and Natural Resources Agent with the University of Georgia Cooperative Extension, Gwinnett County. He can be reached at 678-377-4011 or tdaly@uga.edu.

December 2016

Christmas traditions

Soraya Bagheri

Grayson High School As crazy as it seems, Christmas is here. Stores have had their Christmas decorations out for about a month now, and every mother in Grayson already has boxes full of Christmas decorations somewhere in their house. Everyone has their own Christmas traditions, so this month I’ll share mine.

In my house, my mom had our Christmas decorations lined up to be put out a week after Halloween. Yes, Halloween. So, you can imagine, the inside of my house right now looks like Santa’s Workshop at the North Pole. With 3 Christmas trees, stockings of course, Christmas blankets, Christmas villages, basically everything Christmas.

The Christmas activities slowly start off by watching every Christmas Hallmark movie made until they re-run all of them. From there, we simply spend time

with our friends and family. We typically go to Stone Mountain with our family during the holidays and enjoy the park with all of the lights, we do a drive by of all of the Christmas lights in our neighborhood and in our community, and always go ice skating. My favorite place to ice-skate during the holiday season is Avalon. Its always a lot of fun going with your friends, especially when one of them doesn’t know how to ice-skate, because its funny to watch. We also go see the annual lighting of the Christmas tree in Grayson. Another tradition is always going to see the children’s Christmas play at my church. When I was in elementary school, my cousin and I would sing in it, up until I decided to have a role in it. It was always fun learning the songs and the lines for the play. As I’m older its fun to watch, because it reminds me of the times that I was in it. I also love how the kids are reenacting the Christmas story, because it really brings back the importance of the season. And none the less, Christmas morning. I surprisingly don’t wake up early on Christmas morning, I always sleep in, open presents, and eat my mom’s Christmas breakfast that is always the best.

And finally for my favorite tradition, Christmas Eve. On Christmas Eve we always go to my cousin’s house and read the Christmas story, watch The Polar Express, bake and decorate Christmas cookies for Santa. Even as a freshman in high school I still really enjoy it. It is

a time for my family and I to get together and simply enjoy time together and laugh. With all of our busy schedules it’s not often that we are all able to do that.

With a mom like mine, Christmas clearly starts early and is carried on for as long as she can stand to see Christmas lights. So, you can imagine how easy it was for her to highly suggest her 14 year old daughter take pictures with Santa Clause. That daughter would be me. I have no little siblings, and yes I promise I am in high school. Once again, this year, my mom took me to sit on Santa’s lap, tell him what I wanted for Christmas, and take a picture with him. And let me tell ya, I have never been in a more awkward situation in my life, but I guess that comes with being an only child. It makes for good memories and laughs. Although, I can’t complain, Christmas only comes around once a year, so you better enjoy it while you can.

For whatever, you and your family do during the holiday season, enjoy it.

And don’t forget the true meaning for the season. And as weird as it is saying this, you can read my next article next year in 2017! Happy Holidays and Merry Christmas!!! ***Any questions, comments or recommendations email What Goes Around at: whatgoesaroundcitizen@gmail.com And that’s what’s going around! Soraya Bagheri is a freshman at Grayson High School.

My recipe for a stressfree holiday season

Cindy Pitts Gilbert Sister Knowitall

Dear Sister Knowitall, Can I avoid the stress and anxiety I feel during the holidays? I want to be present and enjoy time with friends and family.

Sometimes I really just want to hop on the Polar Express and run away for the holidays. ~Sincerely; Mental Leedone Dear Mental Leedone, Ah the time of year for peace on earth and joy to the world right? For many of us it is anything but. We have two opposing hormones working in our bodies based on how we react to life. Cortisol the fight or flight, stress hormone. Oxytocin the comfort and trust, love hormone. To get stress-free it makes logical sense to raise oxytocin and lower cortisol. Oxytocin actually counters the effects of cortisol therefore, one might say that where there is love there can be no stress. Here’s my

recipe for a stress-free holiday.

Breathe into the bottom of your lungs, count to 10. Breathe out slowly.

Repeat 3-5 times. Instant relaxation. Try a deep yawn, exhale to release cortisol from your body. When that pesky auntie sends your peace of mind off the cliff, yawn. She’ll think you are bored and cortisol goes down.

Stop worrying about what other people think. Do your best, then let go. Those who matter know your heart.

What other people think of you is none of your business anyway.

Don’t sweat the small stuff. We all have our Christmas calamity stories. If you have one of your own this year, laugh it off. Like the year I spilled Ambrosia all over my dad. It can be a funny memory for years to come.

When we cuddle hug or kiss, we get a dose of Oxytocin thus the nickname the love hormone. Get under that mistletoe, grab your partner, here we go, give’em a hug and dose-si-do. No partner? Call your mom, her voice releases similar levels as being in close proximity or a hug. You know that bear hug kind of friend? Seek them out this season. They are oxytocin inducer for sure.

Enjoy an epsom salt and lavender bath. Lavender is an essential oil known for relaxation. Epsom salt pull toxins from the body and relieves tension in achy muscles.

Sitting daily, 15-30 minutes, in mediation or prayer can make a huge difference in your approach to life. We see

things more clearly and it creates a sense of centeredness. Enjoy the calm of twinkling lights or glowing flames of your holiday decor.

Picking the right gift may stress us out but the joy of giving to those in need can’t be matched. Have an attitude of gratitude; Accept where we are in life.

Smile and you’ll get one back. Laughter and exercise increase endorphins that are released by your brain to make you feel good.

Stressed spelled backwards is Desserts? Coincidence? Munch on Strawberries dipped in dark chocolate. The Vitamin C in the strawberries fight free radicals, reduces cortisol and dark chocolate releases endorphins. Win win.

Singing offers feelings of pleasure, again from endorphins. Group singing is cheaper than therapy, healthier than drinking, and certainly more fun than working out. Caroling anyone?

Save this link: http://tinyurl.com/ babiespuppieskittens. Enjoy pictures of babies, puppies and kittens to put a little love in your heart.

Cindy Pitts Gilbert is Director of Training for Know It Training for Professional and Personal Development in Gwinnett County. She is also the Home Remedy Guru of the Blog Sister Knowitall: sisterknowitall.blogspot.com. She has been learning natural home remedies after she developed allergic reactions to chemicals in household cleaning products. Send your questions to: askme@sisterknowitall.com

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GGRA welcome home bar-b-que celebrates men and women coming home from jail or prison as returning citizens

Tim Chadwick, a recent returning citizen, and his fiancée Lisa Lewis, enjoying each other’s company after a long absence. Welcome home Tim, we are proud of you, keep up the good work!

Deputy Jacob Baird, Lt. Laura Alkins, and Janis Hale holding daughter Keturah. Lt. Alkins and Deputy Baird are involved with GRIP, Gwinnett Reentry Intervention Program, which received a Certificate of Commendation from Governor Deal and was presented at the program following the dinner.

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Chaplain David Burgher of Bridge the Gap Ministries, Fully Pardoned Citizen Deborah Spence and her daughter, Desiree Cochran, a returning citizen, single mom, and graduate student at Georgia State University.

The purpose of the Greater Gwinnett Reentry Alliance, GGRA, is to establish an active network for the many ministries, churches, individual volunteers, as well as law enforcement agencies involved in reentry to achieve greater results by working together. The keyword here is “active” and GGRA wants to add

When the cops are gone

Bill York

Nonagenarian Being curious at age 77, I attended the Gwinnett County Citizen Police Academy in 2003. I wanted to know what police officers were confronted with in that line of work.

Along with 20 people of different ages and backgrounds I got my mind packed with an education.

We practiced traffic stops, drug busts, home invasions and attended workshops for many police departments. We saw crime detection personnel dissecting a cadaver found in the trunk of a car. I asked the specialist how she could eat.

She said, “I learned to cope.”

I shot in competition with the swat team. Even though I was a navy marksman in WWII, I lost.

On a movie screen I was confronted with a situation that the police encounter requiring a decision: a tall figure walking toward me at night; good guy-bad guy? I hesitated too long to make the determination. I was shot. If that situation had been real, my wife would be a widow and my kids would be without their father.

I wondered how often police officers are confronted with a similar decision.

I rode with an officer to an actual shoot-out between rival gangs. I saw a rear window explode in a parked car. It’s a scary experience.

We were allowed a helicopter ride, mine searching at night above a wooded

area for a rapist, a heat detector revealing the rapist hiding among trees, the pilot directing the police searching below. I watched the man being taken down.

I thought about when I arrived in Atlanta in 1964. I could walk around at night without apprehension. Not today.

The situation has changed; people now roaming the streets late at night armed with an arsenal. That is nightly danger confronting the police.

When an officer stops a car he has no concept of the mental condition of the occupant; maybe thugs, maybe mind-numb from alcohol, maybe a drug pusher, maybe an addict, a gun hidden, armed and desperate.

According to a CNN reporter, 61 police officers were killed in the line of duty through Nov. 25, 2016, up 44% over 2015.

It is a foreboding trend.

When I was young there were vigilantes in the communities.

The crime rate was low because punishment was immediate and severe.

We respected police officers and did as ordered when stopped. We didn’t have concealed weapons or drugs and most drivers never had criminal records. We were too busy making a living.

Because of concerns for their personal safety plus debasing vilification many officers are finding other work to provide for their family. When it reaches the point where there are too few police officers we will suffer increased anarchy.

Then when you have a home invasion and dial 911 for help and the operator says there are no police available for the call you will discover how vital the police really are.

When the cops are gone; when you have to defend your family against; home invaders, carjackers, marauders, arsonists and other criminals, you will pray for the return of police officers.

York is a WW II navy veteran and retired President of York Furs in Buckhead. You can contact him by email at: Sioux2222@gmail.com

to this network.

As shown in photos, the ultimate goal for a citizen re-entering society is to be ‘fully pardon.’ GGRA helps these people receive that coveted Governor’s Certificate and all the rights that come with it.

GRIP, which is an initiative of Sheriff Butch Conway’s, identifies inmates who will be homeless upon their release and/ or want to seek rehabilitative services to help them “break the chains” of their addictions which keep them so down and out. An exciting new twist for GRIP took place recently when a baby was born to an inmate at the jail whose mother had asked for GRIP assistance in getting into a rehab residence that would accept pregnant women and their babies. Deputy Baird and her attorney Stacy Levy were able to make the necessary arrangements but the baby decided she did not want to wait! This story has a happy ending, or maybe a new beginning would be a better way to put it, which is what GGRA and GRIP are all about!

Reunions like this were common as Fully Pardoned Citizen Tony Kitchens; Regional Reentry Counselor with Department of Community Supervision greets an old friend, Chaplain David Burgher.

We are excited to share good news about the Greater Gwinnett Reentry Alliance and how it is helping reduce recidivism at the Gwinnett County Jail and the Georgia Prison System as well. Join us

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It’s never too late to read your first comic.

A first time comic reader discovers Galactic Quest. Kyle Puttkammer helps customer select comics.

and DC Comics industry giants for decades (think Superman, Ironman, Captain America and their buddies), but as is true of anything else in life, change is the only constant. Kyle has been in the industry for nearly 25 years, but he is one of many relatively new players in the world of creating new comic books and the characters that make them come alive.

He revels in the changes and opportunities of today.

“Comic books, when well done, are just as exciting as a television or movie series. Think about it; Superman has had more stories told about him than any other fictional character, ever. There’s been a new comic book about him every month since 1938,” said Kyle, adding that then, of course, came the movies about the superhero.

The hit television show The Walking Dead was a comic book well before it was a seasonal TV hit. And surprisingly, hit television shows that have been canceled are often continued in the pages of comic books. Dexter is one example of such a resuscitation; the Ghostbusters movie franchise is another.

“Comic books certainly aren’t just for kids anymore. Now, there are dramas, romance, action adventures, science fiction, just about any genre you could name can be found in comic books,” said Jami Jones, store manager of Kyle and Cynthia Puttkammer’s Galactic Quest store in Lawrenceville.

So who’s reading comic books, with all the genres and choices available to a large and growing market? “Back before the nineties, there was a stigma associated with comic books. They were for kids only,” said Kyle. But then in the early 2000s, the industry turned around, “and there was literally a ten year period where there was really only adult material. The kids’ market was really underserved,” Kyle said. He and Cynthia saw that as a problem because they were looking for entertaining, appropriate comic books

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The cover of the next Hero Cats comic book, drawn by Kyle Puttkammer and his daughter Andrea.

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Kyle Puttkammer introduces new readers to Hero Cats at New York Comic Con.

“Comic books, when well done, are just as exciting as a television or movie series...” ~ Kyle Puttkammer for their children.

Enter the world of “indie” (independent) and smaller publishing companies.

Just as has happened in the world of book publishing, these smaller companies gave emerging writers and artists a platform for sharing their creations, and the result has been nothing short of an incredible explosion of talent.

By blending the expressions of the written word and hand-rendered illustrations, comic books have become a feast for both the mind and the eye. In fact, the illustrations are so painstakingly detailed that the artists are called just that – artists. “There is a penciler, then an inker, a colorist and a letterer,” Jami said. And because there has to be mindshare between the storyteller and the artists, teams that work well together often stay together.

Comic book retailers, writers, artists, and publishers connect with each other at conventions such as Comic Con, Dragon Con, and several other popular gatherings. Kyle’s first original comic book creation, Galaxy Man, is a husband, hero and father. His wife is lost in outer space, and the astronomer gains superpowers when a meteor hits his observatory. Penciler Allen Belk brought Galaxy Man and other characters in the series to life, and the series remains popular today.

Hero Cats of Stellar City is Kyle’s second original comic book series creation. Published by The Action Lab, this series has a strong following; each Hero Cat has a different superpower, and together, they fight villains on the side of Good and Right. Several artists collaborate to create the rich and detailed art in the pages of every book. Artist Jenny

Parks is known around the world for her cat drawings, and she has created some of the series’ special covers. Hero Cats is appropriate and entertaining for all ages.

It’s likely that many have heard stories about comic book collectors hitting the jackpot with an old Marvel or DC Comics issue. How is the value of a comic book determined? “Well, it’s not that simple,” said Jami. “Collectors often buy certain issues because they just love the series. Yes, you can actually have, say, an old issue of a superhero comic series, but if there were nineteen million printed, that’s not saying a lot.” The monetary value of old comic books is determined by the rarity of the issue, as well as the condition of the book. The sentimental value is determined by the collector.

Kyle has loved comic books and the stories hidden inside them since he was a kid reading the exciting Star Wars series. His excitement and passion for this art form are evident when he talks about what he does for a living. “I absolutely love introducing someone to their first comic book,” said Kyle, and for a moment, he is that 10-year-old kid again, grinning and excitedly sharing his latest action-packed discovery. That excitement is contagious.

Comic Book fans and collectors can shop for comics, board games, action figures and model kits at Galactic Quest’s two locations: Galactic Quest, 116 East Crogan Street, Lawrenceville; and Galactic Press, 4264 Sudderth Road, Buford 30518. Also, visit online at www.galacticquest.com, and on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/ herocatscomics.

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Make someone happy!

Joan Miller

The Blind Ladies

I love to help people find the perfect window covering, be it a blind, shade, or

soft treatment. When meeting a homeowner for the first time, I am almost always asked, “What do you think?” It’s not a simple answer. I have to know what is needed to create the perfect solution, so I get there with questions. Are you in need of privacy or light control, or both?

Do you want this to be decorative or functional, or both? What is your budget?

Budget is so important when planning a project. It helps determine which products or ideas can realistically be recommended and implemented.

Another factor in presenting a specific product or window covering idea is inspiration or what will work with your décor. Sometimes I draw inspiration

How to help your children be academically successful

Carol Wood

Total Learning Concepts MAKE EDUCATION A PRIORITY IN YOUR HOME It is important for a child’s success academically that his/her parents insist that academics come before any other extracurricular activities. It is a student’s job to be in school. I tell students often, “Your parents go to work each day. Your job each day is to be a student”. If a student has below level abilities or poor study habits and attitudes, those problems must be addressed in order for him/her to be a successful student. A student attending the school’s extra help programs and attending tutorial meetings with teachers to work before or after school hours, must come before club meetings or athletic practices. If you are a parent who takes your child to ball practice even though he/she is making poor grades and/or demonstrating lousy study skills and attitudes, you have sent the wrong message to the student, one that academics is second to other priorities.

BECOME PART OF THE TEAM WITH YOUR CHILD’S TEACHERS AND SCHOOL It is a known fact that children do better in school when their parents are involved in their education. Let your children know that you and their teachers and school are on the same page, working towards the same goals. You must present a united front to your children with those involved in their education. If and when you disagree with a teacher, never let your children know this. Take your issue privately to the teacher and discuss your concerns candidly. You will most likely be enlightened by your meeting with the teacher and learn things about your children’s academics that you did not know. If children know their parents disagree with their teachers about a topic, they will often use that as their excuse for not being successful.

HOLD YOUR CHILDREN ACCOUNTABLE AND

RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR SCHOOL WORK When your children are successful in school, be sure to congratulate them and tell them how proud you are of their effort, attitude, and accomplishment. When they are not successful because they have not applied themselves and demonstrated poor study strategies and attitudes, hold them accountable by having consequences in place. You must be sure to then hold firm to the consequences you have set. Children will often argue and yell to try to get their way. You must stay calm and firm with them while reminding yourself you are in charge. It is your job as a parent to teach your children responsibility and accountability for their choices regarding their school work. Otherwise, they will not perform to their abilities and they will most likely carry irresponsibility into other areas of their lives.

CATCH YOUR CHILDREN DOING THINGS WELL It is so easy to correct our children and point out all the things we want them to do better. After all, isn’t that our job to correct them? Maybe so, but you will find that by catching them doing something good or correct instead of always something bad or incorrect will have far reaching positive effects! The first time you catch them doing something good and state, “John, I am so impressed with the way you put together your science project” or “Wow, Susan you really attacked the material for that test”, they will give you a look that says, “What is up with you?”. Don’t react, just move on to another topic. It is amazing to see the impact your positive comments will have on your children. These positive remarks will fuel more positive behaviors from your children.

By practicing these principles regarding your children’s academics, changes will begin to take place. Remember, however, like your children, you will have good and bad days yourself employing these new principles. When you falter, pick yourself up and resume your new strategy. It took time for your children to get into the academic position they are currently in and it will take some time to resolve it.

Carol is the Founder & Owner of Total Learning Concepts, Inc. Visit www. totallearningconcepts.com for information about their tutorial and test preparation services. For more information about Total Learning Concepts, Inc., please call 770381-5958 or visit their website at http:// totallearningconcepts.com

from a piece of artwork or maybe even furniture. Overall, the space defines the solution. Each home has its own personality and it is up to me to work within the parameters of needs, wants, budget, and design.

The best part of what I do is making

someone happy. I strive to accomplish this every single time. When we have agreed on a project, and I hear, “I can’t wait to see this done,” I know I have done my job! And on installation day, that is confirmed!

From my family to yours, have a very

Merry Christmas, Happy Chanukah, Happy Kwanzaa…hope I didn’t miss anyone!

If you would like help bringing an idea to life, please call Joan at The Blind Ladies: 404 918-5288 or visit the website: www.theblindladies.com

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a kitchen downstairs, and I’d make breakfast for physicians and residents when they met. I retired after 31 years there, but I soon saw that just staying home was not for me,” Closek said. While she was out driving one day, she saw that the Grayson Café was for sale.

“I bought it, and I owned it for 8 years. People just loved the food, and we made so many friends there. All of us were on a first-name basis. Everyone there were friends. Jon Stinchcomb (New Orleans Saints) and his wife came in all the time. They do so much good for the Grayson Community.”

“I loved that café, and there were some times that people would come in hungry, but they couldn’t pay for their food. I never turned anyone away.

Sometimes, people just need help,” Closek said. She’s been true to her word, too, having cooked an entire Thanksgiving meal for residents and staff at The Quinn House in Lawrenceville for 8 years now (she missed last year because she was out of town).

What difference could one meal possibly make to one person? According to Quinn House Assistant Director, Closek’s selfless generosity means the world, giving so many a meaningful day of “normal” in a life that is often chaotic. “We get a lot of people who come in here from different walks of life, but the common factor is desperation, whether with addiction or some other kind of suffering. It’s hard at first. When someone does something nice for you, it brings that sense of normalcy, of family.

I’ve seen real miracles happen here.”

The Quinn House residents and staff (all former residents, by the way) are instrumental in doing good things for the community around them, such as providing gift boxes of necessities.

When someone does something for them, it’s not forgotten. “Mrs. Closek is so selfless. It’s unusual to meet someone who genuinely loves to be generous to others.”

“This is where my heart is,” said Closek. “Some of the people at the Quinn House have nowhere else to go. They have no family. This is something that I love to do, and I’m happy to do it.” Of course this year, there’s a slight kink in the plan; Closek no longer owns and operates her café in Grayson, but will that stop her? No. “I’ll just cook it in my kitchen at home!,” she laughed. “We’ll deliver it, and on Thursday, they’ll have a fresh, homemade dinner. Everyone deserves that, don’t they?

Closek is hoping that someone or some group in the Gwinnett community will provide Christmas dinner to The Quinn House. “I will not be able to this year; our daughter is having a baby!”

Closek said. Looks like it might be a pretty good year yet for one of Grayson’s most giving women.

The Quinn House is located in Lawrenceville for the past 25 years. It was founded by John and Carrol Quinn; they began by bringing homeless families into their private home when they saw

Photo by M.T. Bagheri

(L-R) Quinn House Assistant Director Keith Mays, Kathy Closek, John Closek, Justin Felton and Alex and Jeff Schieman (Kathy & John’s grandsons) delivering Thanksgiving dinner Thanksgiving morning at the Quinn House in Lawrenceville.

Photo by M.T. Bagheri

Kathy Closek (Left) delivering turkeys to Chef Keith at the Quinn House on Thanksgiving Day this year. the various needs of area families and individuals. As their outreach grew, so did The Quinn House. Now, The Quinn House is a multi-task, non-profit Outreach Operation that assists hundreds of people in Gwinnett County and other areas of the State.

The Quinn House Residential Program offers a 40-day Drug and Alcohol

Program to help individuals get back on their feet and re-enter society in a stable and productive way. The Quinn House is located at 120 South Perry Street in Lawrenceville. Phone 770-962-0470. For more information about other outreach programs, visit www.thequinnhouse.com.

Email quinnhousefb@gmail.com.

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