Engaged Wedding Magazine

engaged August 2008

BEACH WEDDINGS

TIPS FOR A TROUBLE-FREE BEACH WEDDING

FLOWERS

YOUR GUIDE TO CHOOSING TRULY BEAUTIFUL FLOWERS

INSPIRATION

REAL LOOKS FROM REAL BRIDES

DIAMONDS CHOOSING THE BEST DIAMOND FOR YOUR BUDGET

GOING GREEN 52 TIPS FOR HAVING A GREEN WEDDING

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We all know how expensive weddings can be so we are tremendously excited to be able to bring you this publication free of charge.

We are sure that Engaged is going to provide plenty of inspiration to help plan your big day. In this issue alone, we have some great tips and ideas for your wedding: how to choose flowers that will create that all-important visual impact, how to hold a beach wedding without the hassle, and how to look simply stunning with our beauty countdown!

Plus, don’t forget our advice on an extremely vital pre-wedding purchase - your engagement ring!

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And because we care about our social, ethical, and environmental impact on our planet, we have also dedicated several pages on how to make your wedding a little greener.

On top of all this, we have three newly-engaged couples we are following during their wedding planning, pages of real bride fashion and a heart-warming story from Wedding. co.nz’s Bride of the Year. Oh, and remember to check out the giveaways pages!!

Enjoy!

Tim & Deborah

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elcome to the first edition of Engaged magazine, New Zealand’s eco-friendly online wedding magazine.

THROUGH THE LENS

TRAVEL Beautiful Bali - the perfect place for your wedding or honeymoon

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WHAT’S NEW New products and services for your wedding

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BRIDE DIARY We follow 3 brides as they prepare for their wedding day

BRIDE OF THE YEAR We showcase our Bride of the Year winner.

DIAMONDS Your guide to finding the perfect diamond

15 68 122 JUST SIGN HERE Find out what you need to know to make it legal

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BEAUTY CHECKLIST Give yourself a home facial we tell you how!

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HEN-TASTIC! Great ideas for throwing a hen’s party

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20 BEACH WEDDINGS How to plan your beautiful beach wedding FLOWERS Choosing flowers for your big day

REAL BRIDES Celebrate how amazing real brides look on their wedding day

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GOING GREEN 52 tips for reducing the environmental impact of your wedding

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COMPETITIONS & GIVEAWAYS Heaps of prizes to win!

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capture the emotion

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Beads Glorious Beads Whether it be the perfect gift for your flower girl, bridesmaids or for you to wear on your special day, Beads Glorious Beads has it covered.

Either go to their store, or browse at www.beadsgloriousbeads.com. You can make up your own jewellery, or they can make it for you according to your vision.

Book an evening, bring your buddies in for a hen’s party to remember. If you’re not in Auckland and you see something you love on their website, they can send you all the materials for you to string up your pieces yourself.

There are a myriad of options and as always, the hardest part is deciding exactly what is right for you. www.beadsgloriousbeads.com

What’s New

Bridal Footwear Putting your best foot forward is now as simple as slipping on the newest beach and bridal footwear: the toe-G. See our article on page 23, win a pair on page 131 or go to www.toe-g.com

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Little Bottles of Heaven… evolu have recently released their range of ‘dry’ body oils.

Suitable for all skin types, the oils are made from 100% pure botanical extracts and organic essential oils. Little Bottle of Calm soothes sensitive areas while reducing redness, irritation and inflammation.

Little Bottle of Silk works to smooth and refine surface texture, helping skin regain its suppleness and lustre.

Little Bottle of Dew is an intense hydrator that helps to replenish your skin’s natural moisture reservoirs and the nutrients needed to revive its radiance and elasticity. Synthetic and preservative-free.

Check out www.evolu.co.nz and the giveaways up for grabs on page 131.

Dare to Bare!

Thought a waxing experience couldn’t be enjoyable? Think again….

Recently opened, Bare Waxing offers an affordable, quality, waxing experience with your comfort as their highest priority. Their mission is to provide the best waxing service in New Zealand – unbeatable on quality, convenience and customer care.

You can win vouchers on page 132 or simply book at www.barewaxing.co.nz!

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Halo Hydrating Perfecting Powder is revolutionary anti-aging powder from Smashbox.

It contains a number of vitamins and minerals, including Goji berry, a powerful antioxidant. The formula provides a hydrated look that won’t accentuate lines and wrinkles. Oil, talc, and paraben free.

Available from Sass in Ponsonby www.sass.co.nz.

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Aotea Centre Sunday September 14th 9am till 4pm Over 100 exhibitors, free champagne, free parking, the first 100 brides will receive a gift bag full of goodies plus fashion shows, entertainment and much more.

This is Auckland's most elegant wedding event.

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The Goss

Wedding Shows

Wedding News from Around the World

August

Charlize Theron & Stuart Townsend

Hawke’s Bay Wedding Show

Despite insisting that ‘marriage was not her thing’, Charlize Theron has been wearing a rather large diamond on her ring finger. It is understood that her long-term boyfriend, Stuart Townsend, proposed during a vacation in Belize.

24 August 2008 Centennial Event Centre, Latham Street, Napier www.hbweddingshow.co.nz

Ellen DeGeneres & Portia de Rossi The news was announced during a taping of ‘The Ellen DeGeneres Show’ after Ellen had given Portia a stunning marquis cut diamond ring set with pink diamonds.

The California Supreme Court recently struck down state laws against gay marriage.

Mena Suvari & Simone Sestito The couple met last year at the Toronto International Film Festival, with Sestito proposing to his 29-year-old girlfriend during a romantic holiday in Jamaica. Suvari was previously married to Robert Brinkman, a 46-year-old cinematographer.

Eddie Murphy & Tracey Edmonds After dating Tracey for less than a year, Eddie Murphy has popped the question. The deal was sealed with a ‘roughly 8 carat’ Cartier yellow diamond engagement ring!!

Charlie Sheen & Brooke Mueller Twice-married Charlie Sheen is set to do it all over again after proposing to real estate investor Brooke Mueller whilst on holiday in Costa Rica. Apparently Sheen presented Brooke with a $500,000 ring!!

September Taupo Wedding Show 7 September 2008 Great Lake Centre, Taupo.

For more details email taupoweddingshow@xtra.co.nz

The Wedding Show 14 September 2008 Aotea Centre, Auckland www.weddingshow.co.nz

Auckland’s Premier Wedding Expo 28 September 2008 ASB Show Grounds www.bridalshows.co.nz

Uma Thurman & Arpad Busson Arpad ‘Arki’ Busson has proposed to actress Uma Thurman.

This will be Thurman’s third trip down the aisle after previously being married to actors Gary Oldman and Ethan Hawke.

Busson was previously involved with Elle MacPherson.

Timbaland & Monique Idlett In a super quiet ceremony in Aruba, Timbaland married publicist Monique Idlett. They had been dating for almost 3 years and have a 9-month-old baby girl together.

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Aaron Goodwin Photography

Exclusively a wedding and event florist, My Wedding Flowers has gained a reputation for style, quality and service. From your first complimentary consultation to the day of your wedding, Ang Smyth and the team at My Wedding Flowers oversee every last detail, ensuring that each beautiful flower, vase and every ribbon is in its proper place and your day is perfect.

From classic to contemporary, Garden weddings to Marquee receptions The Wild Bunch captures the romance of your wedding day with gorgeous flowers reflecting your style and individuality. Contact us for a personal appointment Phone (09) 529 9547

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Outside the Square is a boutique business specialising in the design and creation of unique and exquisite beaded jewellery to compliment bridal, ball and evening wear.

Either buy on line or go through any of your own ideas with Diana and together you will create some original jewellery to treasure.

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Gold for love Titanium for life

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Your wedding invitation sets the tone for your guests. They express you as a couple and the style of your wedding day, from an exotic destination wedding to a vintage vineyard affair.

At Kate Holland Design we pride ourselves on designing stylish stationery that speaks volumes about you. We look forward to helping you create something unique for your special day.

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Delwyn & Ben

B ride Diary

Del and Ben met in May 2007 and r got engaged just under a year late on April the 25th after Ben surprised Del with a romantic proposal at the beautiful Umoya Lodge in Miranda, south of Auckland. With just a five month engagement, they will be getting married on the 19th of September this year. Ben and Del first d met at the Mission Bay playgroun introduced by a mutual friend: Ben with their then 3 year olds. They were nt single girl and Del was told Ben was told Del was an attractive, intellige rtner! Del left the playground telling pa g inin tra hon rat ma tial ten po a s wa meet up for a run – that turned into to d nte wa he if ll ca a her e giv to Ben etings before moving onto drinks at a series of café and playground me Essence Communications Limited, Dida’s Wine Bar. Ben is a Director of cations and consultancy company a specialised healthcare communi with Russell Investments. and Del is Client Services Manager , we had decided on a small, intimate “Because of our age and stage of life l close friends. Whilst we dreamt of wedding, inviting family and severa , Aitutaki or in the Whitsundays, it an island wedding in Fiji, Rarotonga ts and the wedding planning from seemed the logistics of organising fligh when a friend recommended Mollies y onl s wa It d. har too be uld wo r afa had found the perfect venue…in we t tha d lise rea we t tha and ckl Au in er looking at the website! Mollies is a fact I think I was sold on the idea aft in Auckland that is perfect for our luxury boutique hotel in St Mary’s Bay of options for having the ceremony style of wedding – there are plenty y have a fantastic restaurant and a either inside or out. In addition, the Soon after viewing Mollies in late number of beautiful suites to stay in. llies offered to close the restaurant May we confirmed our booking. Mo we both agreed that this was ideal if we booked all thirteen suites and and somewhere gorgeous for our – we have exclusive use of the venue guests to stay! nt event: our engagement drinks at Next we organised a very importa edless to say, a very fun night was The Corner Store in Eden Terrace. Ne had by all!

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estigating dress making options.

The fun continued after I started inv my hair done, a makeover, and The 26th of June was spent having s with the lovely Kate Dowman and trying on gorgeous wedding dresse A La Robe (see the side-story for the enthusiastic Elizabeth Soljak of never envisaged how enjoyable it full details of my makeover). I had iful dresses! Visiting a professional is would be to try on all of those beaut Elizabeth were able to recommend definitely worth it as both Kate and azed at how several designs I am s wa I – e gur fi my suit to es styl nt differe ked fantastic on. Having changed loo self my for sen cho e hav not uld wo I decided to visit a couple more ar, we to d nte wa I at wh of a ide my sed dress designer that has been designers, including a Wellington ba nd. Hopefully, in my next update, recommended to me by a close frie I will have chosen my dress! eymoon. We decided that, even Our next step was to book our hon there, Fiji would be wonderful. We though we weren’t getting married ort for six nights. This resort looks are staying at the Likuliku Lagoon Res week of married life together. like the ideal place to spend our first of July was another big ‘wedding The weekend of the 12th and 13th lebrant, Maxine Green, and asked ce ing dd we h wit t me We . nd’ eke we l day. She was absolutely lovely cia spe our for t ran leb ce the be to her xed style for our type of wedding. and seems to have the perfect rela been highly recommended by We also met with a jeweller who had Ben getting the engagement ring one of Ben’s friends. Rather than the design for my ring together. for me, we selected the diamond and Now, I just can’t wait to get it! ther friend we chose Jaime from On the recommendation from ano our wedding invites and other HOMEGROWN CREATIVE to design this in the near future as we need stationery. We will be getting onto we have already spoken to all our gh hou (alt out ites inv l cia offi d sen to be there). invited guests to make sure they will , but I think we are doing well given We still have to find a photographer ent and the wedding…. the short time between the engagem ing won’t be too far away. In my By the time you read this, our wedd about how the rest of the planning next update, I will be able to tell you lf!“ has gone as well as the wedding itse

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, ith some serious dress buying to do a Del agreed to let us follow her to hair and makeup trial and to one nks go of her dress fitting sessions. Our tha at Sass to Liza of Ponsonby Servilles, Aimee jak of A in Ponsonby and to Elizabeth Sol sionals La Robe, Newmarket. These profes Del got really know their stuff! Here’s how for the transformed into a fairy princess day…. First stop, hair! plied Before straightening Del’s hair Liza ap thing Kerastase Oléo Relax, a smoo ellious hair. controlling care serum for dry and reb eal Liza then sprayed Del’s hair with Lor and Tecni.Art Pli whilst straightening While putting the hair in Velcro rollers. d with Del’s hair was in rollers, it was spraye ards.

Davine’s No.9 Structuring Mist for Wiz used After the rollers were removed, Liza add Kerastase Lait Nutri-Sculpt Serum to shine. iful, Aimee at Sass completed Del’s beaut ducts. natural look using Smash Box pro ting Firstly, Photo Finish Color Correc owed Foundation Primer was applied, foll tion

by High Definition Healthy FX Founda d out in Fair F1. Del’s base was rounde ting Powder with a dusting of Halo Hydrating Perfec ee tidied Del’s in Fair. Working on Del’s eyes, Aim primed brow line with Brow Tec in Taupe and er Eye her eyes for powder with Photo Op Und Smash Brightener, 3.0 Concealer Stick, and l. Del’s Box’s Lip and Lid Primer in Natura Eyeliner eyes were then finished with Cream Mascara in Smashing Midnight Brown, Iconic and Design and Butter, Smashing, Bronze, Etch s applied eyeshadows. Aperature Blush wa Soft Lights to her cheeks before Aimee used finished with Tint as a highlighter. The look was r and Pop an application of Café Latte Lipline Gloss.

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n headed to ith hair and makeup done, we the is finding see Elizabeth at A La Robe. Elizabeth filtering that more general fashion trends are es are starting to through to bridal wear and that brid s. Here’s how she move away from traditional gown styled Del’s wedding look…. ts, skirts and tops, By using a selection of petticoa rk out what shapes Elizabeth started by helping Del to wo k. Slip dresses were and fabrics suited her figure and loo ts, delicate lace interchanged with voluminous skir styles. The pieces camisoles with simple halter-neck a to silk and cotton, ranged from organza or silk organz hand-dyed to the with many of the items able to be colouring. Elizabeth bride’s requirements and to suit her fabrics for the feel described to Del how she chooses rtain look: organza against the skin and to create a ce ilst cotton is more is softer and more romantic, wh create volume and comfortable. Layers were used to Robe’s designs, to movement, and especially with A La create different colour variations. ite shapes and After Del had selected her favour kicked in. Using fabrics, Elizabeth’s passion really stals, silk flowers, a selection of lace, Swarovski cry vintage tatting, beaded, jewelled and satin straps or dresses Del was Elizabeth virtually transformed the se touches were trying on in front of our eyes. The antic to sexy to used to change the dress from rom wanted (which pretty, depending on the look Del will have to remain a secret!!).

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LIFE’S A BEACH

Tips for Planning a Fuss-Free Beach Wedding

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t is an idyllic picture.... bride and groom strolling hand-in-hand down a deserted beach, sun setting in the background...the type of wedding that many dream of.

Fortunately, New Zealand’s huge expanse of gorgeous coastline lends itself perfectly to this type of wedding.

Whether it be a white sandy beach or slightly more rugged coastline, there is a beach wedding to suit all.

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Not only do beaches make a fantastic backdrop for the ceremony itself, but they are a ready-made venue for your photographs.

on the day. During the summer months this can be a good thing as the breeze will most likely be refreshing (especially if the guys are dressed in suits!).

However, while there is a certain romance associated with getting married on the beach, there are a few things to consider to ensure that it all goes without a hitch.

However, the downside of getting married on a windy beach is that it may be difficult for people to be able to hear your ceremony and, in particular, your wedding vows.

The Weather There is no doubt that the weather is the biggest concern for those planning a beach wedding. Studiously checking the weather reports for the week before the wedding and then waking up on the wedding day hearing the pitter-patter of raindrops on your roof can result in that sinking feeling in your stomach. The good news is that all of this can be avoided simply by having a backup plan.

It is not just the guests who might not be able to hear, but also your videographer - you definitely don’t want to end up with

The backup plan might be a nearby covered venue, a swathe of umbrellas or even using your reception venue for the ceremony.

Whatever it is, make sure that you have worked out the backup before you finalise your beach venue. This becomes important as, when you apply for your marriage licence, you need to specify exactly where you are getting married (or an alternate location) and the licence is only valid for those locations.

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an unintelligible wedding video where you can’t hear your vows!

be on the day and time when you are planning to have your ceremony.

This can be alleviated by using microphones, choosing a more sheltered part of the beach or perhaps just talking louder! It is worth going out to the beach on a windy day prior to your wedding and seeing how windy your part of the beach is. If you are having a professional videographer, discuss this with them early on in the planning so that they can advise whether it will be an issue from their perspective and what they can do to ensure that you get the best video possible.

Access

The Tide On some beaches, whether the tide is in or out will have a dramatic effect on the beauty of the setting. When choosing your beach, visit it both when the tide is in and out and find out what the tide will

Unfortunately, some of the most perfect beaches are located a little way from the nearest carpark and can only be accessed by a bit of a walk. When deciding on a beach location, take into account whether you have any elderly guests and whether they will find it difficult to get to the beach.

The Guests Assuming your beach wedding is in the summer months, you should consider the comfort of your guests when deciding on a dress code for the wedding. Guests will normally arrive at the ceremony venue half an hour before the ceremony and stay for a while afterwards – if they are standing unshaded in the summer sun

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while wearing a suit and tie (or a backless dress), it makes for quite an uncomfortable experience for them.

You may wish to have a more relaxed dress code to allow both the guests and the bridal party to be more comfortable.

It also reflects the more relaxed nature of the venue itself.

Consider having a portable gazebo or some sun umbrellas to shade the guests while they are waiting. To avoid ending up with some very sunburnt guests, have some sunscreen available (and perhaps some insect repellant to ward off any sand-flies!)

Permits Most beach wedding will require a permit of some description from the local or regional council. This is especially the case if you want to ensure that you have

exclusive use of a certain part of the beach (which we highly recommend – you don’t want to turn up on the day to find that someone has organised a touch-rugby tournament on the same beach!). These permits are usually relatively straightforward to get, but ensure that you allow plenty of time before the wedding to organise it.

And before you pop the cork on that bottle of celebratory champagne on the beach after the ceremony, you might also need another permit. If you have booked part of the beach for your use and wish to serve alcohol, you may need a special liquor licence (which deals with one-off events like weddings). It can take four or five weeks to get a licence so check with your local council well ahead of time to see if it is required.

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Brides, bridesmaids, flowergirls and guests.

Sometimes shoes will not do.

For all barefoot moments... toe-G

Phone: 0800 776693 or 09 534 0799 For more info and current collections: www.toe-g.com Page 24 : engaged : August 2008

Introducing the toe-G…

Glenda Irwin, the creator of toe-G, is a woman that likes to celebrate. Stylish and enthusiastic, Glenda reminds us what is truly important about weddings, love and life: appreciate every moment and seek joy in the simple things.

Those simple things include taking the time to see the beauty in detail and femininity.

Who doesn’t love the feel of a fresh pedicure? Or the feel of sand beneath their feet? Now imagine treating those beautiful painted toes to something other than a pair of rubber jandals borrowed from the salon…or matching your beautiful wedding dress with something a little more appropriate than bare feet….

Enter the toe-G. Sophisticated and elegant, the toe-G allows you to dress your feet - without wearing shoes.

Suitable for beach weddings, resort-wear, post-pedicure, or simply for laying on the couch enjoying the look and feel of ‘feet lingerie’, the toe-G is a glamorous alternative to bare feet.

Worn by slipping the foot through the large loop until the strap rests at the back of the ankle, the toe loop stretches forward and slips over the second toe. The strap can be adjusted for length and comfort.

This innovative product is waterproof and comes in kids’ sizes – perfect for flower-girls.

Totally new, New Zealand owned and manufactured, the toe-G costs around $20 per pair and comes in several ranges: bridal, sensual, spa, swimwear, and tiny.

The range comes in a multitude of beautiful colours with adornments.

Glenda can even customise the designs to order if you need something

in particular to match your wedding.

Glenda also makes the G-arter: a garter that can be made to match your toe-G footwear.

Glenda has had an interesting and varied career: from stylist with the Sunday Times Style Magazine to art director, photographer to prop buyer for U2 videos, art director for Smashing Pumpkins videos to Death Star director.

Since returning to New Zealand after 20 years in the UK, Glenda has started her own business ‘Boutique Blooms’ as well as inventing the toe-G. Always interested in fashion, Glenda’s passion is colour, detail and integrity: something that definitely shows in her products.

For additional information: Web: www.toe-g.com Email: glendairwin@toe-g.com Phone: 0800 776693 We tried a pair and found them to be very comfortable. The v-shape created by the inside of the lace elongates your feet, and the lace itself makes your feet feel delicate and pretty. We could see two big advantages: the prettiness of the toe-G automatically seems to make you walk more gracefully, and you wouldn’t get sand flicking up like you would with a standard jandal!

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A truly unique venue in the heart of Takapuna, one of Auckland's most alluring seaside suburbs.

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lassic and classy? Wild, bright and funky? Soft and romantic?

Next to your dress, flowers are one of the most important visual elements of your wedding day. With the ability to complement and highlight your figure, the features of your dress, your bridesmaids’ dresses, and the venue, flowers allow you to pull together the theme of your wedding, creating a colourful and fragrant impact.

Beautiful Bouquets

Flowers can be used in the bouquets for the bride and her bridesmaids, in posies or baskets for the flower girls, in the bride’s and attendants’ hair, as corsages for the mothers of the bride and groom, as buttonholes for the groom, his attendants and for the fathers of the bride and groom, for free-standing arrangements at the ceremony venue, for decorations for

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the pews or end of the aisles, as free-standing arrangements at the reception venue, on tables at the reception, as a floral decoration for the cake….the list is endless and can only be determined by your preference and, of course, your budget!

Here’s how to choose your perfect flowers!

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ertain colours speak volumes about the style of your wedding. All white or ivory bouquets look very elegant and formal. Riots of colour are great for a more contemporary look. Muted pastels say soft and romantic.

An all white floral scheme can ensure that there is no distraction from the bride on her special day. However, just remember that if you choose all white make sure there is some foliage or other material to highlight the flowers or the arrangement may not stand out, particularly in photographs.

Colours can make a bouquet stand out and draw the eye. In this case choose colours that complement the colour scheme of the wedding, including (and perhaps most importantly) the colour of the bridesmaids’ dresses. Flowers in colours that match the dresses will look subtle, while contrasting tones will call attention to the flowers.

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Thinking of doing the flowers yourself?

Most of the work will need to be done immediately before the wedding, just when things are at their most hectic. Unless the style you’ve chosen is very informal, it would be wise to leave the flowers to a professional florist or an experienced friend or relative.

The Bride’s Bouquet Body Shape

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he shape and size of your body will often determine the shape and size of flowers that will bring balance to your appearance. Your florist or dressmaker (or both) may offer some suggestions but generally the following apply: Tall and slim: A single-stem or trailing bouquet draws the eye from the top to bottom and can enhance this body type, whereas a small, round bouquet could be out of proportion to the bride’s proportions.

Tall and full-figured: The tall, full-figured bride can perfectly showcase a long, tall bouquet with trailing tendrils. Single stems, round or hand-tied bouquets call attention to your curves (which is great if you love those curves!). Just ensure the bouquet is not too small or it could look lost and overwhelmed.

Short and slim:

Alternatives to a bouquet Can’t decide on your flowers? You may decide that not to carry a bouquet at all and choose a parasol, fan, or even a bible or prayer book with a single flower tucked in it. The possibilities are endless!

A teardrop bouquet can eclipse a petite bride if it is too big, so we would suggest avoiding wider styles. Long bouquets can be used; however the length of the arrangement can draw attention to your lack of height. Make sure the bouquet’s proportions are right so as to provide vertical accents. Round posies and hand-tied bouquets suit petite brides best as they draw attention to the middle of the body and accentuate the delicate qualities of the bride.

Short and full-figured: As for the short and slim brides, the short and full -figured bride can be overwhelmed by long trailing bouquets. However, a bouquet that tapers at the bottom can be used to add an illusion of height.

If you want to avoid attention being drawn to your middle, avoid round or hand-tied bouquets, otherwise celebrate those curves!

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Dress Style

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ust as particular bouquets suit certain body shapes, some shapes complement particular dress styles and fabrics best: Large, traditional skirts: Suit bouquets with a wider trail.

Ultra-slim gowns: Suit small, round bouquets or slimmer, long bouquets.

Princess-line gowns: A teardrop or trailing bouquet will suit this style of dress best.

Simple dresses: Will suit a more extravagant bouquet to add detail.

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Light fabrics: Suit small and delicate blooms.

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Heavy fabrics: Suit richer and stronger coloured flowers.

Lace: A single posy or a single bloom will suit lace dresses best.

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The Flowers

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he type of flower should also match the style of your wedding. Roses and lilies are classic and classy; flowers like daisies will suit an informal, more natural style. Modern brides may want to add seed pods and grasses to their bouquets.

When visiting your florist think about whether you have a favourite flower? Or one that means something to your relationship with your future husband? Also consider what will be in season when you get married? Find out which flowers are sensitive to heat and cold and don’t to forget to think about the various scents of flowers, taking into account ventilation and any allergies of the wedding party.

If you intend to keep your bouquet after the wedding, make sure you discuss this with your florist and confirm that the flowers you have chosen will preserve well.

Flowers for the Ceremony and Reception

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tart by asking your ceremony and reception venue staff whether flowers and other decorations are included in the venue hire fee. Some venues allow couples to bring their own arrangements; others have their own regular florists and prefer a contribution to the costs.

Floral arrangements at a church may include a free-standing arrangement or arrangements, plus flowers for the ends of the pews. Reception venue options may include free-standing arrangements and/or table decorations. These too should be matched to your colour theme.

You may like to consider where the flowers will be most enjoyed: most of the time during the wedding is spent at the reception venue and accordingly you may like to place the bulk of the flowers there. Also think about the size and shape of the room. Churches and chapels tend to have high ceilings and therefore some flower arrangements look underwhelming if you don’t have the right arrangements. Conversely, if your venue is cosy, large arrangements will dominate it.

If the reception venue will be taking your tables down through the evening, for example to make room for dancing, it may be better to go for simple table decorations and more free-standing arrangements.

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What’s Hot:

Budget Tips:

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ng Smyth of My Wedding Flowers says that “roses are still hugely popular as bridal bouquet flowers, in elegant and classic white and ivory. In terms of shape and structure, New Zealand brides still prefer the natural look and feel of a hand tied bouquet but with a more sophisticated look, incorporating exotic greenery, movement and interesting textures.

They appreciate clean lines and good designs that reflect their personality.

Brides love to personalize their flowers with berries, crystals, shells and even family heirlooms.” Ang has “seen the introduction of colour in the choice of flowers for the bridesmaids: last year there were a lot of chocolate brown and black dresses. This year there are a lot of slate and silvery grey dresses that invite bright and dramatic coloured flowers like hot pink or red as well as subtle dusky pinks and blues.”

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o from the Wild Bunch tells us that “the romantic rose is the most requested bridal flower but mixes are becoming popular, incorporating gorgeous perfumed flowers like freesia, gardenia and stephanotis. Antique hues have, with the release of new roses like ‘Something Special’, become very popular colour schemes and beautiful hydrangeas with their increased availability are now emerging as a favourite. A classic posy style bouquet is still very fashionable with the trend lately being for a loose, more natural flow with the flowers rather than an intense compact flower design.”

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ingle blooms will be cheaper than bouquets. More structured styles will need to have every flower individually wired, resulting in more work for the florist and a more expensive option for you.

Choose flowers in season and those that are grown in your area.

Choose common flower varieties and colours.

Some churches require that you donate the flowers. If not, you can arrange for the flowers to be delivered to the reception venue.

If there are other weddings taking place at the same ceremony venue, you may be able to share the cost of the flowers.

Use ribbons on pews instead of flowers.

A flat-backed arrangement will cost less than a full arrangement, so think about whether any floral arrangements will be viewed from more than one angle.

A large arrangement for the top table can be just as stunning as flowers on every table. After all, everyone will be looking at the top table at some point in the evening and that is where the photos will be taken.

Use candles, pebbles, sea-shells etc to decorate your tables instead of flowers.

Rather than specify particular flowers, allow the florist to choose the best value on the day in the style and colour you want.

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Choosing a Florist

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ord of mouth is often the best recommendation for a florist or check out the listings in this magazine. Alternatively, ask your venue coordinator if a particular florist has worked at their venue regularly, as he or she will be familiar with the space.

Select two or three florists to visit so you can compare prices and styles.

Before you visit these florists, make sure you know the date and time of your wedding so you can make sure the florist is available. Decide on what arrangements you would like and your budget for these.

When discussing the style of flowers needed, it is helpful to take a swatch of fabric from both your wedding dress and the bridesmaids’ dresses as that will help the florist visualise your colour scheme.

Questions for the Florist • Ask to see samples of the florist’s work, either in photographs or live examples.

• What is the florist’s design style? Minimal? Traditional? Elegant? Modern? Does this fit with your intended style for the wedding?

• What flowers will be in season when your wedding takes place?

• What are some less expensive alternatives to flowers beyond your price range?

• Will the flowers you like be suitable for the style of bouquet you choose?

• Which flowers are least likely to be affected by hot/cold weather?

• Has the florist prepared flowers for weddings at your ceremony/reception venue before? What are her/his thoughts about the size of the venue and the style of flowers that will suit that venue?

• Will the florist deliver the bouquets and boutonnieres or will you need to pick them up? Will the florist deliver your flowers or spend time at the site, setting up and making sure everything is in order?

• How many weddings will the florist do on the same day or weekend as yours?

• Will the florist you are speaking to be the one to prepare the flowers for the wedding and do the set up?

• Does the florist offer rental items (vases, potted plants, arches etc)? What are the return policies for these items?

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The Contract:

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ake sure you get the following in writing before committing to a florist:

• Name and contact information of the florist, including the staff member you dealt with/will be dealing with; • Date, times and locations of your ceremony and reception; • At itemised list of all the flower arrangements you have chosen, from bouquets to centrepieces, including the names, colours and numbers of each flower; • Flower alternatives should certain blooms be unavailable on your wedding date (also include flowers unacceptable to you); • A list of anything else the florist will supply (ie vases); • Arrival times needed for setup at the ceremony and reception sites; • Where and when bouquets and boutonnieres should be delivered; • The name of the florist who will be on hand during the wedding; • Total cost (itemised if possible); • Delivery and setup fees; • Deposit amount due; • Balance and due date; • Cancellation and refund policy; • The florist’s signature on the contract!

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23 February 2008 Punga Cove Resort, Marlborough Sounds grapher: Kathryn Ross, Kathryn Ross Photography Dress: Kate Dowman, Auckland Shoes: Shoo Biz, Sylvia Park Hair: Linda Stephenson, my bridesmaid!

Makeup: Erana Kennedy, Blenheim Florist: Flowertime, Blenheim

19 January 2008 Mills Reef, Tauranga Photographer: Jane Sanders Dress: Corina Snow Shoes: Smith & Caughey Hair: Sara, The Salon By Design, Mount Maunganui Makeup: Angela, The Salon By Design, Mount Maunganui Florist: Tammy, Flower Impressions Suit: Frank Casey, Tauranga

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Michelle & Michael Jubb-Peni 7 March 2008 Yatton Park, Greeton, Tauranga Photographer: Faith from AFPNZ Dress: Made in Bali Shoes: Matahari’s, Bali Hair: Tina Neville, Image Models Makeup: Tina Neville Florist: Mother

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Amy & Tim Wilson 26 January 2008 Cornwell Park, Auckland Photographer: Hannah Richards Dress: Brides Corner Shoes: Number One Shoe Warehouse Hair: Leisa Welch Makeup: Leisa Welch Suit: Strada

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Caroline & Duncan Bruce 12 January 2008 Stone Willow, Pukekohe Photographer: Mother of the Groom Dress: Jenny’s Bridal Hair: Tracey Hendry Makeup: My Sister Florist: Designer Flowers Suit: From Australia

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Adele & Robbie McGregor 2 February 2008 YMCA Youth Camp, Kaitoke Dress: Cherie Gurney, Dressmaker, Upper Hutt Hair: Janine Haua, Hair Dresser, Upper Hutt Florist: Flowers on High, Lower Hutt Suit: Hallensteins

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Judith & Will Brunel-Morvan 15 March 2008 Musuem, Auckland Photographer: Gary Hewlett Dress: Lynda Flanagan Shoes: Astra Bridal Hair: Sarah Knight, Exile Hair Design Makeup: Sarah Wooster, Wooster Beauty Therapy Florist: Wild Bunch, Remuera, Auckland Suit: Frank Casey

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Emma & Shawn Lewis 30 May 2008 Cheltenham Beach, Auckland Photographer: Juliet Barnard Dress: Pam Armer Private Studio, Browns Bay Shoes: UK Hair: Kenji former senior stylist Toni & Guy, High Street, Auckland Makeup: Jeni Lane Florist: Onewa Florists, Birkenhead Suit: Frank Casey, Takapuna

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Natalie & Daniel Isaac 7 March 2008 Renaissance Garden, Hamilton Gardens Photographer: Gina Murray Photography Dress: Bridal Gallery, Hamilton Shoes: No. 1 Shoes Hair: Sarah Payne (Friend) Makeup: Lee Smith, Scentsations, Otorohanga Florist: Myself, with flowers from Hamilton Flower Market

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Paula & Conrad Andrew 1 March 2008 Opito Bay, Kerikeri Photographer: Jess Burges Dress: Sharon Burges Shoes: House of Brides Hair: Erica Latham, Hermanas, Kerikeri Makeup: Shiree, Persona, Whangarei Florist: Myself!

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Vanessa & Jeremy Paratene 1 March 2008 Woodbridge, Coatesville Photographer: Jeff Muir Dress: Trippz Bridal, Orewa Shoes: Pink (sent from UK) Hair: Bridget Pepper, Alternatives, Silverdale Makeup: Bridget Pepper, Alternatives, Silverdale Florist: Hannah Page, Urban Flowers Suit: Dress Circle

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Cindy & Aaron MacGregor 15 February 2008 Christchurch Arts Centre Photographer: Rachel Smith Dress: Brides by Mancini (purchased in Australia) Shoes: Overland shoes by Overland Hair: Renegade Revue, Kaiapoi Makeup: Shelley Parkin Florist: Joan, Kaiapoi Florist Suit: O'Keefe's Suit Hire, Columbo Street, Christchurch

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Adrianna & Graham Biddle 9 February 2008 Michael Savage Memorial, Auckland Photographer: Vicky Broadbent Dress: Debbie Smith, Renaissance Couture, Gold Coast Shoes: Michael Shannon - eBay! Hair: Carron Wells Makeup: Carron Wells Florist: Designer Flowers, Pukekohe Suit: Formal Wear Express, Australia

Jonelle & Richard Finnie 28 September 2007 Parents’ back verandah, Wainui Beach, Gisborne Photographer: Phoebe Tanner, Beautiful Day Photography Dress: Step X Step, Rotorua, Raylia Design Shoes: Lucia Rossi by Fabia (dyed to match dress) Hair: Sarah, Mane Street Hair Design, Gisborne Makeup: Sara, Studio 38, Gisborne Florist: Berys McDonald

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Stacey & Jason Yorke 1 June 2008 The Sofitel Fiji Resort & Spa, Fiji Photographer: Shelly Hornell, Auckland Dress: Corina Snow Bridal, Papamoa, Bay of Plenty Hair: Martelli's, Mount Maunganui Makeup: Chrissy Arnold, Fairy Fingers Florist: The Sofitel Fiji Resort & Spa

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Rachel & Dean Smith 9 February 2008 Palmco Gardens, Kerikeri Photographer: Chrissy Smith Dress: Jan Graham Shoes: Touchups Hair: ProActive Spa, Kerikeri Makeup: ProActive Spa, Kerikeri Florist: Cherry Blossom, Kerikeri

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Catherine & Michael Soper 17 November 2007 Athol, Southland Photographer: Rebecca Emmerson, Lindis Design Dress: Mandy Cleland, Gore Shoes: No 1 Shoe Warehouse Hair: Linda’s Hair Design Makeup: My bridesmaids Florist: The Flower Room Suit: RM Williams from H&J Smiths, Gore

Megan & Justin Beveridge 21 February 2008 Woodlands Country Estate Photographer: A.K.A Photography Dress: Orchid Brides, Taupo Shoes: Overland, Centre Place, Hamilton Hair: Hairline Makeup: Beauty World Florist: Floral Essence

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Ngaire & Grant Angus 12 January 2008 Muriwai Beach, West Coast, Kaipara Photographer: Aaron Goodwin Photography Dress: Pronovias, Modes of Newmarket Shoes: Mi Piacci (purchased second hand off Trade Me) Hair: Natasha Gillespie, Mods, Ponsonby Makeup: Joel Marriott Florist: Angelli Smyth, My Wedding Flowers

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Rose & James Coppard 13 June 2008 Yatton Park, Tauranga Photographer: Alec Dress: Brides On Devonport Shoes: Um, an old pair that I just loved Hair: My Chief Bridesmaid Makeup: Rhonda McCallum Florist: Blooms on Cameron Suit: Farmers

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Louise & Shem Dawson 11 May 2008 Arts Centre, Christchurch Photographer: Paul Tatterson - My fantastic Brother!

Dress: Wilkins Formalwear, Christchurch Shoes: Overland, Cashel St Mall, Christchurch Hair: Mother-in-law!

Makeup: Me! Suit: Wilkins Formalwear

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Kate & Adam Birch 3 April 2008 Castaways, Kariotahi Beach Photographer: Dreamlife Dress: Essence Shoes: Overland Hair: Rosina Wright Makeup: Christelle Suit: Exclusive Suit Hire

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Going Green

52 Tips for Reducing the Environmental Impact of your Wedding

Wedding Magazines 1. Cut down on paper usage by downloading Engaged.

2. Recycle your old paper magazines by passing them on to other brides.

Clothing 3. Buy or use a second-hand dress. www.weddings.co.nz have a substantial list of pre-loved gowns for sale. These can be altered to suit your body shape or personal style if necessary.

4. Recycle your dress by listing it for sale after your wedding.

5. Consider renting a dress and/or your bridesmaids’ dresses. The groom’s and groomsmen’s suits can be hired at any number of great suit hire places, including

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Thomson’s Menswear.

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Kingsway

When buying your dress or bridesmaids’ dresses, choose dresses that can be worn again.

Think about the fabric used in your wedding dress – organic silk, cotton, hemp or blends of these fabrics are now available.

Jewellery and Accessories 8.

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Borrow accessories to go with your dress and/or your bridesmaids’ dresses.

Reuse an old piece of family jewellery, either by using it as it is or having the piece reworked.

10. Make sure your diamonds are ethically mined – see our article on diamonds in this issue.

11. Also check out New Zealand-mined gold and silver.

12. If thinking about a platinum ring, search for recycled platinum.

Flowers 13. Use flowers from your own or a friend or family member’s garden.

14. Make sure the flowers you use are seasonal and look for locally-grown,

pesticide-free flowers. Flowers outside of season will need to be shipped from overseas.

15. Think about using plants as table or reception venue decorations. These can be replanted later.

16. Reuse ceremony reception.

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17. Consider a flower-free bouquet – check out Boutique Bloom’s ribbon flowers or think about carrying a parasol.

Stationery 18. Use 100% recycled paper.

19. Or use paper made from bamboo or hemp. These materials are natural and sustainable.

20. Employ a calligrapher to write your invitations and other stationery.

Although a calligrapher may add to the cost, there is less chance of mistake and wastage and it limits the use of non-vegetable inks used by digital printers.

21. Investigate the use of printers that use soy or vegetable-based ink.

22. If your wedding guests are internetsaavy, contemplate getting a website set up so you can invite guests by email. RSVPs can be posted online.

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23. If posting your invites, use postcards for RSVPs. This saves on the extra paper used for envelopes. Or ask your guests to RSVP by phone or email.

31. If you are using bubbles, use home-made bubbles, as this cuts down on the plastic packaging required for store bought bubbles.

24. Provide a recycling bin at the ceremony so guests can recycle any order of service programs. Limit the programs to one per couple if possible.

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25. Use email thank you cards.

Favours 26. Use local-made products to cut down on air or transport miles and to support local industry.

27. Let guests know you have donated to a charity on their behalf instead of giving them favours.

28. Give your guests a seedling to plant in their garden.

Confetti 29. Consider alternatives to paper confetti: flower petals or bird seed look great. Just make sure your seed is native plant seed – the introduction of non-native or invasive plants can upset the environment!

30. Have someone release butterflies or doves instead of throwing confetti.

32. Luckily, most of today’s photographers will use digital cameras rather than having to chemically process and print photos.

33. Arrange for your photographer to put the pictures on the internet and request that your friends and family only download and print what they need.

Venue 34. Limit the number of guests. A smaller ceremony and reception will use fewer resources (stationery, food, transport, and so on).

35. Have your ceremony and reception venues near each other to limit travel required.

36. Use local venues to support local businesses.

37. Choose a venue that supports environmentally friendly practices.

Food 38. When choosing your food, make sure

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it is made of local, in-season produce if possible. This includes tea, coffee, your cake and alcohol!

39. Also choose organic where feasible.

ingredients

40. Think about the time of day your wedding feast will be served: could you limit your food to canapés instead of a fully-fledged buffet (which often has more wastage)?

41. Ask your caterer to donate any extra food to a local food bank and to compost any food waste.

42. Think about those serving dishes and plates: crockery and cutlery that can be washed are more environmentally friendly than disposable plates and cutlery. If you do have to use disposable plates, look out for plates made from corn starch, potato or other plant fibre.

43. Emphasize to your caterers and the reception staff that everything that can be recycled needs to be recycled.

Transport 44. Encourage guests to purchase carbon credits if they are flying. Or do it for them.

45. Suggest guests car pool to, from, and

between the venues or let guests know about Green Cabs, who use hybrid cars. Alternatively, you may like to hire a bus to transport guests between venues.

46. Arrive at the ceremony the old fashioned way: use a horse and carriage!

Gifts 47. Think about if you really need gifts: don’t list items you don’t need on your gift registry.

48. If adding appliances to your gift wish list, research which brands or items have the least environmental impact.

49. You may like to make a donation to an environmental or charitable organisation one of your gift registry items.

50. Ask guests to wrap gifts in recycled paper or use gift bags (which can be recycled by you).

Honeymoon 51. Consider holidaying locally. Not only does it support local businesses, but it cuts down on travel miles.

52. If flying, buy carbon credits to offset your flights.

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B ride Diary Rebecca & Phil

Rebecca and Phil are one of the couples Engaged is following in . the lead up to their wedding Both Australian, Phil and Bec have decided to have their wedding in ir Australia, where the majority of the , families and friends are located. Bec Phil, 29, is a Project Engineer 30, is an Environmental Manager and a mutual work colleague and (Construction). They met through rs (although both admit to have been together almost 4 yea they met!!). Phil proposed to admiring each other from a far before llington in September last year: Bec during a weekend away in We a surprise 5-star hotel room Phil popped the question by organising ackers), a bunch of flowers, (Bec had booked them into a backp marry me” and, of course, the champagne, a card with “will you ed that they want to try to ring. Rebecca and Phil have decid will see, this has presented a plan a sustainable wedding. As you number of challenges... compromise. Well planning a “Some say a wedding is all about y. Being in the early stages of ‘green’ wedding feels the same wa already faced several hurdles organising our dream day, we have dding. in our quest for a carbon neutral we a venue in central Victoria, We have decided on the location: lbourne and Phil’s family north half-way between my family in Me ially a caravan park with a of Melbourne. The venue is essent ard-winning chefs. We like the café on Lake Nagambie run by aw n and venue all in one, that idea of having the accommodatio out of the event and be able way people can make a weekend lebrate our marriage. No sad to spend a few days with us to ce ts go on and the managers goodbyes at midnight when the ligh off to bed for a rest before give the cold stare, just people rolling rning. rejoining the celebrations in the mo

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One of Phil and my favourite hobbies together is eating good food and enjoying fine wine. It was important for us to make use of the seasonal local produce available in the Nagambie Lakes Region. We decided on a degustation menu with matching food and wine, making the most of award-winning Shiraz and gourmet olive oils, cheese and beef, all of which is locally grown and made. Very low carbon emissions here: low ‘food miles’, and an established venue that can wash and reuse all cutlery, plates and glasses.

Most of our family and friends will need to travel about an hour and a half to the venue, with our ‘long distance friends’ needing to fly.

This means that already we have created a need for travel to our wedding. In today’s world that is likely to be the family car, a petrol 4-6L engine with the air conditioning on to ensure a comfortable drive – hardly the most fuel efficient travel option (and therefore, a high carbon generating travel choice).

This raised all sorts of questions: How can we reduce carbon emissions What public transport here? options are available? Perhaps we can offset our guests’ carbon emissions from travel as part of our ‘thank you’ for joining in our wedding celebration?

Our next decision was invitations… keep it small they say… fewer mouths to feed, less waste, less

paper invitations required, less carbon footprint. Well, we haven’t wanted to cull back our invite list based on this principal alone, therefore, 70 guests it is. Wishing I was more creative than I really am, designing and building my own wedding invitations is a personal touch I am after. This is important to me given that we currently live in New Zealand and don’t get to see family and friends as much as we would like. Therefore, email invitations or a wedding website is out of the question. We have paper. recycled considered Zealand New Unfortunately, does not have the facilities for recycling its paper waste and post consumer product is sent offshore (to China) to be recycled. When sent offshore the paper can be mixed with plant product from unknown sources (e.g. rainforest timber from Indonesia) before being resold to New Zealand. The carbon footprint of recycled paper for New Zealand seems ridiculously high! But is carbon impact the only thing I should be considering, what about the working conditions and pay rates for the staff of these recycling factories in China? certified has Zealand New sustainable forests, with waste products from the harvesting converted into paper products but not necessarily into the lovely wedding stationary I am after.

I also need to think about the environmental impacts of the dyes

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see, lour theme I am after – as you can that are used to create the lovely co account! there are so many things to take into if there is a more sustainable option I decided to keep searching to see duct id adequately to produce the pro where I can ensure people are pa low e ensuring the product also has a I am buying, while at the same tim ct. carbon footprint or environmental effe are when I lived in Australia. Seeds r pe pa d de see out ab rd hea I had r is no paper product so when the pape ed ycl rec the ugh thro ed dd be em nts or the garden to grow lovely native pla in d nte pla be n ca it d uire req r ge lon cup: dding invitations! Just one small hic herbs. What a great idea for our we lia, Australia and our wedding is in Austra the majority of our friends are from d and the invitations will be sent from but we currently live in New Zealan lia place for shipping seeds from Austra here. What quarantine rules are in oaking with the manufacturer, Paper-G to NZ and back again? After spe cial certificates and print runs spe but ible oss imp not is it out nd fou Round, I of any bugs, adding an extra $500 free are ds see t tha ure ens to d uire are req to the cost of the invitations! ere I recycled product from Australia wh g rcin sou at g kin loo tly ren cur are We et conditions and pay rates. We will offs g rkin wo h wit ble rta mfo co re mo l fee w recycled paper from Australia to Ne the carbon footprint of shipping the s ary from companies that have policie Zealand and we will purchase station the earth – in more ways than one’. such as ‘a wedding should not cost ned far - one where our morals are questio It has been an interesting journey so lieve is important to the planet. I be we at wh and us to nt orta imp is as to what ed along the way in our quest to forc be will ises rom mp co re mo ny am sure ma st impact on the planet but the most lea the has y da ing dd we our t tha ensure friends, and, of course, ourselves.” , ilies fam our of ries mo me the on effect

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Diamonds Your Guide to Finding the Perfect Diamond

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he four Cs - working out what they all are doesn’t have to result in the one C: confusion.

Here is Engaged’s guide understanding diamonds.

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Carat Carat is the technical term for the weight of a diamond, with one carat equivalent to 200 milligrams. Diamonds weighing less than a carat are often measured using a point unit, which is equal to one-hundredth (or 0.01) of a carat. A 75 point carat is therefore a 0.75 carat diamond, being a diamond weighing 150 milligrams.

Generally the larger the carat size, the more valuable (and expensive!) the diamond will be. However, the price per carat does not increase smoothly with increasing size.

Some carats are the so-called ‘magical weights’: the half carat (0.5), the three-quarter carat (0.75) and the one carat (1.0). There is not much difference between a 0.99 carat diamond and a 1.0 carat diamond, but a 1.0 carat diamond will often command a premium price.

The old ‘size doesn’t matter rule’ applies: a larger carat with blemishes will be less valuable than a smaller-carat flawless white diamond.

Colour Ranging in colour from the extremely rare, completely colourless or ‘white’ diamond to a light yellow, brown or grey, the colour of a diamond is graded according to the International Colour Grading Scale. Determined by a visual comparison to a set of master diamonds under laboratory conditions, the scale starts at ‘D’ (exceptionally white) and goes through to ‘Z’ (tinted colour). The closer to ‘D’, the more valuable a diamond will be.

Colour imperfections are caused by chemical impurities and/or structural defects in the diamond. Sometimes the chemicals in a diamond will result in the diamond being an intense hue such as bright yellow (Z-graded) or one of the ‘fancy’ diamonds, which include pink, blue, green, and red-hued diamonds. These diamonds can be very expensive.

A colourless diamond is thought to be more valuable as it allows light to pass through the diamond better, resulting in a more sparkly diamond. However, a completely colourless diamond is hard to find, and you will find that a slight yellow, brown or grey tinge will not normally be noticeable to the naked eye.

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Cut The cut of a diamond describes how diamond has been shaped and polished from its beginning form as a rough stone to its final gem proportions. Diamond cutting is quite an art form, with many of the common shapes of diamonds needing to be cut to mathematical guidelines to ensure the diamond will refract maximum light from outside the top of the diamond, making it sparkle. Often a jeweller will have to make a compromise when cutting a diamond: it can be cut to maximise its brilliance or its size. Cutting a diamond to maximise its sparkle usually means that the diamond will end up smaller.

However, due to the relative importance of carat weight, many diamonds are often intentionally cut poorly to increase carat weight and this will greatly reduce the sparkle of the diamond. There is no quick and easy way to know if a diamond has been well cut. Instead, it will often just come down to whether you think that it sparkles like a diamond should! Don’t be afraid to compare a number of rings to see how each of the diamonds refracts and reflects the light.

The cut of a diamond is not the same as the shape of the diamond. Diamonds can also be cut into a variety of shapes, the most common of which are the following:

Different cuts suit different fingers and hands better – try on a few to see what suits you!

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Clarity Clarity is a measure of the internal defects of a diamond. Defects (called inclusions) can be caused by foreign material crystals or another diamond crystal appearing in the diamond or by structural imperfections such as tiny cracks. Whilst most inclusions do not affect the diamond’s performance or structural integrity, they can affect a diamond’s ability to reflect light.

Of all diamonds mined only about 20 percent have a clarity rating high enough for the diamond to be considered appropriate for use as a gemstone; the balance are relegated to industrial use. Of the 20 percent used as gemstones, a significant portion contains one or more visible inclusions.

The relative clarity (and sparkle!) of a diamond will be affected by the number, size, colour, relative location, orientation, and visibility of those inclusions. Diamond clarity is rated on the International Clarity Grading Scale (shown on the right).

‘Eye-clean’ diamonds are those that do not have a visible inclusion. These are preferred and therefore are more expensive. It is possible however to hide visible inclusions under the setting in a piece of jewellery.

Some imperfections will only be visible when viewed through a jeweller’s magnifying glass and again, you may find that an inclusion in your ring may not be noticeable to the naked eye.

Clarity Scale VVS1 Very, very slightly included VVS2 Very, very small inclusions VS1

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Replicas These days very good diamond replicas are being manufactured.

If you are looking for a temporary ring while you find your perfect diamond or are looking for an inexpensive alternative to a diamond engagement ring, a replica may be perfect for you.

However, if searching for an authentic diamond, you need to be aware that these replicas exist and ensure you only purchase from a reputable jeweller. A good jeweller will be able to talk to you about the 4Cs and provide certification for your diamond.

ETHICAL DIAMONDS

DID YOU KNOW....

Most of you will be familiar The largest rough diamond ever found was with the movie ‘Blood the Cullinan Diamond, at 3,106.75 carats.

Diamond’. The movie was The diamond is one of the British crown responsible for making the jewels. public aware of the ethical issues surrounding diamond The largest cut diamond is the Golden mining. Blood diamonds Jubilee, a 545.67 carat, yellow-brown (also called hot diamonds, diamond. converted diamonds, conflict diamonds or war The largest flawless and colourless (grade diamonds) are diamonds D) diamond is the Centenary Diamond usually mined in African which weighs 273.85 carats. war zones. The stones were sold to finance the buying of weapons in those countries, with the warlords and unethical diamond companies profiting.

In 1998 the United Nations officially recognised that the trade of blood diamonds was being used to fund war, and in 2000 the diamond industry met in Kimberley, South Africa to plan how the trade in these conflict diamonds could be stopped. The result was an agreement to adopt an international certification scheme, including that only officially sealed packets of diamonds would be accepted and that countries would institute criminal charges and a ban on anyone trafficking blood diamonds. After two years of negotiation between diamond producers, governments and other non-government organisations, the Kimberley Process Certification Scheme was created. The World Diamond Council estimates that since the Kimberley process was adopted only 1% of all diamonds traded are blood diamonds.

You can ensure your diamond is an ethical diamond by asking for a warranty assurance that the diamond is certified under the Kimberley Process Certification Scheme.

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Summary So which of the 4 Cs is the most important? This is completely subjective and depends entirely on what you want to see from the ring. If you want to have a big ‘rock’ on your finger, then the carat is going to be more important. To stick to a budget, you might have to get a diamond with more inclusions or not as good a colour. On the other hand, if you want to know that your diamond is as good a quality as possible, you will need to get a higher clarity rating and, most likely, will end up with a smaller diamond. Most people tend to compromise between the two.

But in the end, you need to be happy with whatever you get as you will be wearing it for many years to come!

Remember though, the diamond that you choose does not have to be the biggest or the best. Almost all of us have a limited budget to stick to and will have to compromise on one or more of the 4 Cs, whether it means getting a slightly smaller diamond or one that does not have as greater clarity or as pure a colour. However, provided that you are happy with the diamond that you choose, not only will the diamond sparkle, but so will you!

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Kate MacPherson Photographer

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o ensure that you end up legally married on the big day, there are a few basic things you need to know....

You must be over sixteen years of age.

If you are under eighteen years of age, then both of your parents or legal guardians must give their signed permission for the marriage.

You cannot be married already. If you have been married already, you must produce a copy of your dissolution certificate when you apply for your marriage licence.

You cannot be closely related by blood, marriage or adoption.

You are not required to live in New Zealand prior to the wedding or to be a resident of New Zealand. If you do not live in New Zealand, you should check with the authorities in the place where you normally live to see if there are any special steps you must take or rules that apply when you marry in New Zealand.

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the public, but a celebrant-solemnised ceremony can be performed anywhere, anytime of the day and week.

You need to obtain a marriage licence in order to get married. You do this by completing a Notice of Intended Marriage form and paying the required fee. The application must be done in person and must be done at least three days before the wedding. Once granted, the certificate is valid for three months.

If you live outside New Zealand and will arrive in New Zealand less than three days before your wedding date, you may be able to complete your application before you arrive. See the Births, Deaths and Marriages website for the appropriate form and to find out where forms must be sent.

Before you apply for your licence, decide when and where you want to get married.

You should also choose an alternative venue in the event you are prevented from marrying at your first choice (due to weather conditions, etc). You can get married anywhere you want but you must get married at the location stated on your licence.

If you change your mind about the location, you can return to the Registrar of Births, Deaths and Marriages to change it but this must be done before the wedding.

The location of a ceremony can only be changed without notifying the Registrar in extremely rare and extreme circumstances, for example, the ceremony venue burning down hours before the ceremony.

You will also need to choose a marriage celebrant and agree upon the time and place of your wedding with him or her. The celebrant can be a Registrar of Marriages, an independent marriage celebrant, a minister of a church or a person connected with an approved organisation. Make sure your celebrant’s registration will be current as at the date of your marriage. You can do this by contacting a Registrar of Marriages for a list of appointed marriage celebrants.

At the ceremony you will need two witnesses and you must use words similar to ‘I, [your name] take you [spouse’s name] to be my husband/wife’. The use of these words is a legal requirement under the Marriages Act. Upon completion of the ceremony you will be handed a signed copy of the ‘Copy of Particulars of Marriage’. The celebrant will return another copy to the Registrar who issued your marriage licence.

The fee for a registry office Marriage Licence is $170. The fee for a celebrantsolemnised Marriage Licence is $120.

For guides and forms, visit Births, Deaths and Marriages at www.bdm.govt.nz.

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Sonya & David

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Wedding of David and Sonya Cooper 12th January, 3:00pm St Paul’s Collegiate Chapel, Hamilton

avid had surprised me during my final year of my Bachelor of Education with tickets for two to Rarotonga and I was ecstatic! On the second to last night we went out to dinner at the most beautiful restaurant I had ever seen. After the most incredible meal with amazing live music, we decided to go for a long walk along the beach. The sand in Rarotonga was so soft and beautiful, shimmering white in the moonlight. The palm trees along the water’s edge had coloured lights beaming up from the roots making them glow amazingly. We danced along the beach with our feet in the warm water, indulging in each other’s company, and reminisced with a silly dance we had mastered from the early days of our relationship, as if we were two crazy teenagers. David held me close, and I remember feeling so safe in his arms then he spun me around and when I returned back to him from the spin he was on one knee holding up a ring. “Will you marry me?” he said, his voice shaking and skin pale…I quickly answered ‘yes’ to see him running around the beach jumping in the waves. I joined him as we were both so happy.

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ith one year to go we were hitting the planning hard. Photography was the one thing that meant the most to me and we spent countless hours searching the internet for the best photographers and gathering ideas.

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showed huge potential, we knew it was a out into a long skirt with a flowing train. It good decision. We were amazed to find had embroidery delicately spread across a videography package soon after. the bust which highlighted my features and fit my body type in a lovely manner. rom then the next big job was making It was accompanied with a stunning white the guest list, typically one of the most veil and a white lace parasol. dreaded tasks of wedding planning.

We were no exception, and we found it Accessories very hard. We decided in the end on an he most special accessory was a open ceremony, a reception dinner with custom-made necklace that David a special guest invite and then an open had commissioned and made in Pakistan party from later on in the evening. especially for me for our wedding day.

The wedding dress It was my name inscribed in Urdu, the Pakistani national language, dangling on had visited a lot of bridal shops and a beautiful white gold chain. David, who was amazed at some of the prices they grew up in Pakistan, wanted something of charged, not only for a dress but even his past to be a part of our special day. He the opportunity to try some of them on. had my father put it on me on the morning I promised myself that I wouldn’t waste of the wedding as a surprise. It went our precious budget on trying dresses perfectly with the dress. I had one pair of on. I knew that I would find the right dress earrings from my mother that reminded at the right time in the right shop. My me of my Nana who had unfortunately mother discovered “Ballgowns, Bridal and passed away when I was younger. I had a Beyond� and one Saturday we went in for second pair of earrings that I changed into a look. My mother and I carefully picked when I took off my veil for the reception through every gown and finally there it was: my mother and I both looked at each other and smiled. I tried it on (free of charge!) and walked out of the changing room... bringing my mother to tears, confirming that I had found it. The dress was a pure white gown that gathered around the bust and waist and then flowed

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to balance out my bridal look.

I had trouble finding shoes that were the right shade of white to match the dress. I had all of the girls helping me, looking everywhere, until one day I happened to walk past the Shoe Warehouse where I found a pair of shoes that were the perfect colour and perfect size‌and they were on sale!

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wanted to keep with my theme of roses are red but didn’t want the bridesmaids to be in red dresses as I realised that this would be too bold.

We discovered a black halter neck dress with red roses embroidered around the dress and a perfect finishing touch of a red silk wrap under the bust hanging on the sales rack at a Principals store. With the fantastic help of the staff we managed to track three other dresses down from all around New Zealand, which amazingly all happened to be the perfect sizes for the girls.

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with overseas), Jonny (a close friend of David’s) and Gareth, (a school-friend of David’s). Savage and Matt flew over from England and America a month before the wedding to help out with the last minute plans.

When it came time for the boys to try on their suits they discovered that Matt and Savage had sent over the wrong measurements and the suits made them look like monkeys with huge long arms and ¾ length dress pants! As well, Gareth had returned home after finishing the university year and had been measured properly prior to leaving… however, while at home he had indulged himself a little in his mums baking and managed to put on an extra 12kgs!!!

made ties with the exact same red material as the girls’ sashes. Together the bridesmaids and groomsmen matched beautifully… with just the right amount of colour on each outfit to break the black and link the theme together nicely.

David’s suit was the same but to separate himself from his groomsmen he wore a silver waist coat and a white silk tie to match my dress perfectly.

“The boys thought this was a great idea just in case they forgot who was marrying me, as they could easily just pull down their pants to check!! ”

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fter a little nip and tuck, the boys’ suits were stunning. They wore black double-breasted ‘Oscar’ suits with a shawl collar from Carlton Suit Hire accompanied with a black waist coat and dress shirt topped off with a classy modern ‘Euro tie’, highlighting their energetic personalities. The owner had so much fun with the boys’ hilarious behaviour as they posed in the windows with their suits on, scaring shoppers with sudden movements as they walked past.

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a v i d ’ s Nanny had embroidered custom-made underwear for the guys: the four groomsmen all had a pair of black jockey boxers with ‘groomsmen’ written on the backside.

David had a special pair of white jockey boxers with ‘groom’ on the backside embroidered in black. The boys thought this was a great idea just in case they forgot who was marrying me, as they could easily just pull down their pants to check!!

The wedding cars

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e found the task of finding the right wedding cars down in Hamilton quite an arduous task and after many weeks of talking about this, two of my close friends offered their cars. It was perfect… one was a white Holden while the other was a similar-look black Ford.

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This settled the Holden vs. Ford issue between the wedding party and the colours matched the theme perfectly.

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e always wanted our wedding to be traditional but also modern and fun. David’s Grandfather had been a minister for many years and had married all his children (including David’s parents).

When David and I became engaged we

were excited about asking him to marry us also. However, due to the fact that he had suffered a stroke 20 years earlier and was not doing too well, he felt it would be best to hand it over to a friend of his.

I remember how upset David was when he realized that it wouldn’t work out as he had imagined, but we soon came up with another idea and David asked his grandfather to bless our rings during the ceremony. He agreed and was so proud to be involved in our special day.

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he ceremony was held in the St Paul’s Collegiate chapel, where David had attended school and was the chapel prefect during his final year.

The chapel was warm and inviting. Behind the altar, there is an entire wall of glass with a beautiful stained-glass cross that looks out onto a reflection pool, meaning that when standing up at the altar, the sun hit the water and reflected beautiful colours and patterns on the roof.

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areth’s mother (who I am very close to) prepared all our flowers as a wedding gift for us. It was amazing as she knows David and I so well and knew exactly what we wanted. The church was filled with amazing flower features and red rose petals led the

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way down the aisle.

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hile the boys were greeting the guests, Dad and I were trying to carefully fit me and my dress into the car - I’m sure he was more worried about wrinkling it than I was! When we were all settled we were off… Dad looked at me and his eyes began to fill - he grabbed my hand and held on tight. Half-way to the church I looked down to notice my hand beginning to turn a shade of blue. I was so nervous that I hadn’t even realized! “Dad, my hand… you’ll have to let go you know”, I said. Dad looked back at me with a frightened and very pale look on his face… “I can’t Sonya, I physically can’t”, he whispered back to me and turned his head to look back out

the window… I smiled as he did but with a tear rolling down his cheek.

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hen we arrived I remember hearing David’s extended family playing in a string quartet as the guests arrived.

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he walk down the aisle was hilarious: one page-boy and flower-girl couple (Finn, 6 and Taylia, 6) walked down happily dropping rose petals on their way.

The younger two however (Hamish, 1 ½ and Tayla, 2) decided they didn’t want to do it any more. Hamish flipped himself on to his back and was as stubborn as a mule, while Tayla wanted no-one else but her mother to carry her down the aisle.

After a lot of coaxing with marshmallows the children quietened down, while the congregation were in hysterics!

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fter everything had settled down our music began playing (High, by The Lighthouse Family), I remembered where I was and the nerves set back in! The girls started walking out one by one until it was just Dad and I. As soon as we began to walk my dad burst into tears and started squeezing my hand again. As soon as I heard my father cry (and maybe from the pain from his squeeze blocking off the circulation to my hand!) I burst into tears also‌ what a sight it must have been watching us balling our eyes out the whole way down the aisle.

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he ceremony itself was designed by David, Craig (our minister) and myself, and it was everything I had ever dreamed of. It was short but incredible. To share

some history of our relationship with our guests, we designed a slideshow of some photos and memorabilia from the very beginning of our relationship up until our wedding day. This was played with some calm music by the quartet as we signed the register. Before the ceremony our mothers had lit our family candles and they stayed burning throughout the ceremony. Once we had said our vows we made our way over to the candles and from our family ones together lit our own. This meant a lot to me as it was a great way of expressing our love to our parents and family as we began to start our lives and eventually our own family.

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n the back room before the ceremony was about to begin, I started shaking

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and for some strange reason realized that I had no breath mints. I started to panic and the girls began to stress around me.

Next thing Dad raced out the door and was gone out of sight! I remember all of us girls just looking around confused at what had just happened but within one minute Dad was back at my side with his hands full of tic-tacs, shaking. As soon as we all grabbed one we were ready to go!

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he funny thing is that I discovered that David had had his own little panic attack we he too discovered he had forgotten his mints and sent the boys on a journey through the guests to find some!

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fter extended family and friend photos at the church David and I jumped in the cars and were off for some

quiet one-on-one time together. We had decided previously that we didn’t want to forget what the day was all about and wanted to find some time after the ceremony to spend some time together and enjoy our very first hour as husband and wife. The bridal party stayed behind to accompany guests to the reception venue and made sure everyone was happy while David and I made our way to a nearby lake where we were able to sit down by the water and reflect on the day so far. How often do the bride and groom just get to hold each other and stare into each other’s eyes and relax on such a hectic day?

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he photographers were amazing: we just did our own thing around the lake

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and they managed to catch the most amazing intimate and stunning shots.

When we were ready to move on, we rejoined our awesome bridal party at the Hamilton Gardens.

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he boys were hilarious and we had so many fun photos with us all in fits of laughter; I especially remember seeing the girls with wide eyes trying to hold in their laughter, and as I turned around I saw the boys with their pants riding low, showing all the tourists their fancy boxers!

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e were ecstatic with the Hamilton Gardens Restaurant & CafĂŠ and it proved to be really useful time-wise having the photos so close to the reception. We had so much positive feedback from guests who enjoyed strolling through the gardens and enjoying a coffee at the cafĂŠ before the reception started.

Nibbles and drinks were provided to help keep the guests’ hunger at bay while we were at our photos.

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hen we arrived at the reception we were introduced as ‘Mr and Mrs Cooper’. I will never forget that moment as we walked in, seeing our friends, family and loved ones everywhere we looked, all with smiles of support and encouragement!

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he tables were exactly how we had hoped they would look, covered with beautiful white linen, black table runners and bowls of red roses emphasising our theme. Mum had also been busy at work the months before the wedding creating incredible candle features consisting of

two hands together painted silver with a stunning red candle in the middle.

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n the tables were also our favour gift bags which were filled with our favourite Swiss heart-shaped biscuits which were baked my David’s other Grandmother. We felt that this would be a great way not only to respect David’s Swiss background but to share with our guests some of our favourite things in life.

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hile walking around the rooming mingling with guests, I suddenly saw one of my bridesmaids crying (Vanessa,

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my cousin), so I rushed over to see two picture frames of my belated grandparents all dressed up on my parents’ wedding day. I had organised this with my parents as I wanted my grandparents to be a part of our wedding day as they meant so much to me. Mum had written up a short description of each grandparent; including information about their lives, families and their own wedding days so that all our guests could get to know them as if they were there in person. Vanessa was so happy to discover that Gareth’s mum and I had decided to create another bouquet which during the reception would sit in between the photos. Later on this would be the bouquet that I would use for my ‘bouquet throw’, a special touch.

asking him to start the dance off with me, figuring that if I left it until the last minute he wouldn’t be able to talk his way out of it as he would be very nervous. But with a couple quick lessons out the back, it was all ready to go, and he did such a great job before handing me over to Jonny.

David Savage followed next, running in and grabbing me, followed by Matt, then Gareth until finally when the chorus began my husband took my hand and we started our routine.

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fter our dance, groomsman Jonny and his band started up and the dance floor was packed!!! They played amazing Jazz music and the guests just loved it with old and young alike from David’s young 5 year old cousin to our grandparents all up efore the main meals were served, we dancing. had speeches - a collection of which nce we had left the reception I were perfect and absolutely hilarious! remembered we had left the hotel Everyone had gone to so much effort to make their speeches loving, passionate, room in such a mess and was dreading walking in the door with my new husband funny and enjoyable. to discover a pig-sty. David opened the fter dinner the rest of our guests came door and when I was about to apologize to celebrate and we began with when I heard “oh my goodness!”. As I our first dance. The five boys and I had a looked in I discovered the room spotlessly couple of weeks to create and learn our clean, filled with all our presents with rose own first dance. As we had chosen ‘Lady petals on the floor leading the way to in Red’ by Simply Red and felt that after our bedroom. In the bedroom someone listening to the beginning lyrics “I’ve never had made a love heart out of flowers with seen so many men ask you if you wanted chocolates and strawberries in the middle to dance…” it would be fun to make it into and champagne to the side. I was amazed a bit of a comedy which included all the that someone had done this much for us groomsmen trying to get a dance with and discovered later that the Vanessa, me. We had many near broken bones Gareth and his parents had snuck away and elbows to the head throughout our during the reception while we were busy practising but it was all worth it! During mingling to do it for us! What an amazing the reception I surprised my brother by surprise!

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know for a fact that my wife had been dreaming of her wedding day since she was a young girl. I had often found notes with wedding ideas and scribbles of her wedding dress hidden away in old school books and magazines. When moving into our first house, I came across a very old looking box. I asked Sonya what it was and she replied, “you’ll see one day when we get married” - and left it at that.

Two years later our wedding day rolled around. The ceremony was amazing, as was the reception, and we had just begun the speeches. Sonya was the last to stand up and speak, looking terribly nervous. I noticed in her hand the box I had found so many years ago, and as she looked around the room I could see her struggling to hold back her tears and knew what she was about to say was very important to her. She set the scene by telling a story of when she was twelve years old. It was Valentine’s Day and she was incredibly excited that a young chap had asked her out two days prior and couldn’t wait to enjoy Valentines Day with her first boyfriend. She went on to explain that she had remembered watching romantic movies with her mother and sharing all those wonderful ideas that her boyfriend could possibly be about to surprise her with. Valentines Day rushed by and Sonya continued checking the doors, just in case he had left a wonderful surprise there for her. Finally the phone rang, “this was it” she thought! Sonya rushed to pick up the phone; it was him! I can just imagine Sonya sitting there with her wonderful smile from ear to ear slowly shrinking as tears started to flow as her two day old lover called to break up with her. Not soon after hanging up, Sonya’s father phoned from work and as Sonya was heart broken, she was unable to speak to him and quickly passed the phone over to her mother before running to her room in tears.

After some comforting from her mother, Sonya’s father arrived home. Sonya dragged herself over to her dad with arms reached out and tears rolling down her cheeks in need of a hug. Sonya explained that when she looked up her dad had a large bouquet of red roses in his hands for her. He sat down with her and explained that “boys would Page 103 : engaged : August 2008

come and go, but one day she would meet someone incredible and they will always protect her, but until then, that is what he was there for and that he would never let anyone hurt her”.

Sonya cherished those roses so much that she decided to keep one for her wedding day to give back to her father, so that he felt comfortable she had made the right decision and that her husband would always love and protect her just as her father always had and would forever do.

I strongly remember watching her being so brave in front of all of our guests sharing this story and turning around to see her father bursting into tears. His head was in his hands as he wept; something that was so hard for Sonya to see as she had never seen her dad cry like this before. As she gave back the rose he stood up and hugged her so tightly, I can just imagine him ten years ago comforting his daughter that Valentine’s Day in the very same way.

At that moment I realized why Sonya had always had a strong love for red roses and why she always cried every time I surprised her with some. She was very passionate about making our wedding based around the theme “Roses are Red”, something that all makes sense now. I feel incredibly privileged to be married to such a passionate and sensitive young woman and I will still continue to surprise her with her favourite red roses for a long time.”

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Your Beaut y Count down

It’s never too early to start thinking about getting your skin in tip-top shape for your big day. Regular skin maintenance will not only give you extra confidence, but it means you will be glowing for all those photographs!

Six mont hs t o go….

* Cleanse, tone and moisturise your face morning and night, using a facial exfoliater once or twice a week. Your beautician will be able to recommend products suitable for your skin type. * Treat yourself to a monthly facial – these can be customised to suit your needs: anti-aging, evening out skin tone or hydrating. * Start using an exfoliating scrub, loofah or body brush one or two times a week to slough away dead skin cells. * Moisturise, moisturise, moisturise! After every shower or bath, slather your body with your favourite lotion.

Three mont hs t o go…

* Book your hairdresser and makeup artist for the wedding day, including arranging a trial one month before the wedding. * If you are thinking about a new hair style, do it now so you have time to get used to your new ‘do’. * Plan your waxing treatments. Hair needs approximately 5-6 weeks to grow to the best length for waxing – work backwards from early in the week of the wedding and make your appointments for the appropriate intervals. * Keep up the diet and exercise!

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* Pack yourself an emergency kit for the day: lipstick, mints, dental floss, band aids, needle and thread… * Apply your final fake tan. * Keep up the water consumption, healthy eating and exercise!

The day before….

One mont ht o go…

* Wash your hair today instead of the day of the wedding as the hair oils that accumulate overnight make it easier to style. * Have your manicure and pedicure.

* Have your hair and makeup trials.

* Get plenty of sleep!

* Give yourself intensive hair conditioning treatments once a week to promote shiny, healthy hair.

* Give yourself (or treat yourself to!) weekly manicures.

* Start teeth whitening so that beaming smile will look its best! * If you are planning to self-tan or get a spray tan before the big day, do a trial now. * You’ve done well looking after yourself so far, so treat yourself to a massage!

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* Get moving – exercise can improve circulation, helping that glow! * Start thinking about your diet, as what you put in definitely shows on the outside! * Drink at least 2 litres of water a day.

On t he day…

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Hen-tastic Fantastic ideas for making the hen’s night one to remember!

Your bridesmaids… likely to be your best friends, sisters, or members of your future husband’s family, these are the girls that know you best. They have known you PE (pre-engagement) and are likely to feature in your life for many years to come. But before that married life starts, one of the bridesmaids’ main jobs as your attendant is to organise your last night out as a single woman. Engaged offers some tips for your bridesmaids…

Remember it’s the bride’s night.

Ask her what she would like or, more importantly, doesn’t like. If the bride-to-be is conservative or shy, the last thing she might want is a night that involves semi-naked men prancing around, endless nightclubs or to be publicly humiliated (or any combination of these!).

Here are a few suggestions for those brides that are not so keen on a round of bar-hopping:

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Food, food, food: Either as a starter or the main event, great friends gathered around eating delicious food is always a winner. The bride may like a champagne brunch, long lunch or blow out dinner. Ask her for her favourite restaurant or ask around. Many restaurants offer private rooms or, for the ultimate in luxury and privacy, host the party at someone’s house with a gourmet caterer or chef to provide the cuisine.

Lingerie party: An excellent way for the bride to increase the size of her underwear collection.

The groom will be impressed!

Dancing Girls: From Latin to pole dancing, a dance class can be a great bonding experience for your guests (and a great workout!).

More active brides: Sky Jump, Bridge Climb, golf, paint ball, guided kayak tour anyone?

Wine tours: Get out of the city and take a guided tour through boutique wineries, sampling some of New Zealand’s best wines, along with local gourmet food.

Paint your own: For a more creative idea, why not try painting ceramics or jewellery making. Paint the Earth holds great hen’s parties! You get to keep your own creations or donate them to the bride.

Pamper party: Sigh…who doesn’t love a bit of pampering? Especially a bride, who has probably been running around doing a thousand last minute things before the wedding.

Book into a spa for a day or half day or have the spa come to you.

Beauty on Demand and Pampered on Location both offer on location spa services. Add champagne, some gourmet nibbles, and some fantastic music and you won’t need to move from the house!

This is your chance to really show

the bride the day or night of her life – get creative! And if you’re looking for some fun games to play during the party, check out our fantastic games ideas over the page!

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GAMES

Agility games: There are a few of these: Two or more teams line up across the room. The object of the game is to pass a long balloon from the start of the line to the end, using only the knees and thighs to pass the balloon. No hands! If the balloon gets dropped or pops, then the team must start again.

Again split the group into teams and give them a frankfurter in a stocking which is tied around the first team member’s waist.

That team member has to run to the end of the room, dunk the frank in an empty glass (no hands!) and then run back.

The first team that has all of its members complete the task wins.

Place an empty cereal box (or similar) on the ground. Each guest must bend over and pick it up with their teeth without touching the ground with hands or knees.

After the first round, tear a strip off around the top of the box to make it lower. The ‘winners’ from the last round then start again, trying to pick up the box. This continues until everyone is eliminated except one person, who is the winner. If a guest can pick up the bottom of the box with just her teeth (or lips) a bonus prize can be awarded.

‘Suck for a buck’: Sew lifesavers to a t-shirt for the bride to wear on her night out. Get her to ‘sell’ the lifesavers for $1 – each guy that sucks a lifesaver off her shirt pays up (a great way to finance the bride’s drinks for the night!).

Fun with toilet paper: Spilt the guests into teams, with one of the team’s members to play ‘model’. Get the team to create a wedding dress entirely from toilet paper.

Teams should be given a set number of rolls and a set time to complete the dress. You may like to have a judging panel or have everyone vote after the dresses are shown off.

Alternatively, as each guest arrives, get them to rip two pieces of toilet paper from a roll to whatever length they choose. Once everyone has arrived, these pieces should then be used to measure the bride-to-be’s bust and her height. Whoever has the closest fit wins a prize.

Undies…togs….undies: Get every guest to buy a pair of underpants. The undies are then pegged to the washing line as the guest arrives (don’t let the bride see who the pants are from!). The bride-to-be then has to guess who bought each pair – the ones she gets wrong she must wear over the top of her clothes for the night.

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IDEAS: Money or the handbag: Get each guest to take three items from their handbag and place them in a separate paper bag. This should be done in secret. The bags are then given to a nominated person who opens each bag in turn; with the rest of the party guessing who the contents belong to. A prize can be given to the person who has the most correct guesses.

A second hand bag game rewards the guest with the most diverse hand bag contents.

Items are assigned a point value and players receive those points if they arrive at the party with that particular item in their bag. Examples could be: hairbrush (5 points), condom (10 points), picture of boyfriend/husband (5 points), spare pair of underwear (20 points), a pen of a colour other than black or blue (10 points), bottle opener (10 points), an appointment card for a manicure or massage (20 points)...and so on!

Scavenger hunt: Send the bride-to-be on a scavenger hunt.

At the beginning of the night give the bride a list of items to collect or things to do before the end of the night (or a great idea is to write the items on a t-shirt). The list could include dancing with a man with the same name as her fiancé, asking for a shot with a risqué name, talking to a guy about knitting for 30 seconds, dancing by herself, having greasy takeaways on the way home… For extra bridesmaid points, take photos of the bride as she completes her tasks and present her with a ‘Hen’s Night Album’ so she can remember her last night out as a single woman.

Quiz time: Find out just how well the bride-to-be knows her future husband. Before the hen’s night, contact the groom to ask him twenty questions about himself. At the party, ask the guests how many of the twenty questions they think she will get right. (For added incentive, place a small wager on the outcome – the winner gets half the prize pool and the other half goes towards subsidizing the bride’s drinks!)

Alternatively, you can run a quiz asking the guests the answers to a number of pre-arranged questions about the bride and groom to see which guest knows them best.

Other games: There are a number of other games out there: spin for a dare, a variation on the ‘pin the tail on the donkey’ game, dare dice…

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Love & Money

With the average New Zealand wedding costing approximately $30,000, money can quite often get in the way of what’s most important: the love between the bride and groom. However, short of eloping, there is no getting around the fact that some money will have to be spent and that you will probably have to have those difficult conversations about who pays for what!

Traditionally, the wedding expenses are paid as shown opposite.

You may find that it is more appropriate to divide the cost of the wedding a little differently, especially for second marriages, for those couples getting married at a later stage in life and for those newly engaged who earn more than their parents!

Here are some suggestions: * Add up all of the expenses and divide the costs by two: the bride’s parents pay half; the groom’s the other half. An alternative to this is that all costs, except the traditional costs such as the engagement and wedding rings, the cost of the dress and accessories, and the honeymoon are split. * Add up all of the expenses and divide the costs by three: the bride’s parents pay a third, the groom’s parents a third and the bride and groom pay the remaining third. * The bride and groom pay all expenses. * The bride’s family pays for her guests and the groom’s family pays for his using a cost per-head calculation. This of course can cause nightmares if you have shared friends! * Assign certain costs to certain people. This is especially useful when you have divorced parents. If the costs are assigned, it is helpful to have the invoice for that expense sent directly to the party paying the expense. If costs are shared, a separate account is useful.

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Whatever way you decide to split the costs, make sure you have clear lines of communication open between all the parties involved. Stick to a budget so you, your parents and his don’t have any nasty surprises, and remember it’s the love between you that most important!

Make sure to check out our next issue, where we give you tips on how to save money on your wedding!

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The bride and her family:

Marriage licence and celebrant’s fee

Stationery including invitations, name cards, the engagement announcement notice

Bride’s bouquet Corsages for the mothers and grandmothers

Reception site rental, food, alcohol and all decorations

Boutonnieres for the groom’s father and grandfathers

Flowers for the ceremony and reception

Accommodation and gifts for the groomsmen

The attendants’ bouquets, boutonnieres for the bride’s father and grandfathers

Bride’s engagement ring, wedding ring and gift

Photography

Honeymoon

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Transport

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Wedding dress and all of the bride’s accessories Accommodation and gifts for the bridesmaids

Bridesmaid’s dresses and accessories Part of the hen’s night costs

Music Groom’s wedding ring and gift

The groomsmen: Groomsmen’s suits Part of the buck’s night costs

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Kylie and Hooksy met 18,000kms from home on a hot summers day in London at the NZ Food & Wine Festival (complete with their favourite NZ culinary delights and the sounds of Dave Dobbyn in the background). Six years later, after much travelling, moving back home, buying a dog and a house together, Hooksy popped the big ast beach, question on their favourite west co y er with Goodman Fielder and Hoosk Muriwai. Kylie is a marketing manag has his own business as a builder.

k sal and the ring but what you don’t thin “You always dream about the propo to t now you actually have a wedding about after you get engaged is tha lly young age have always dreamed plan! You hear of girls who from a rea e it planned down to a tee from the of their fairy tale wedding: they hav t ss to their bridesmaid selection…. tha perfect location to the princess dre really couldn’t be further from me!

rt, xpectedly, and without a lot of effo We were lucky I guess, everything une . us in terms of planning the wedding just seemed to happen really fast for of getting married on the beach and We had both really loved the idea I\ aged we had decided to check out within the same day of getting eng the that we were looking at holidays at island options. It just so happened ) y was about to propose any day now time (unbeknownst to me that Hooks s. and Rarotonga was one of the option ts an island the suggestions and though As soon as we had decided to go to ing they do in all aspects of your wedd from other people flooded in... as ular, the Pacific Resort had so many I’ve learnt! Rarotonga and, in partic the walks of our life. We haven’t seen good reviews from people from all

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cided to just book it anyway! It hotel or been to Raro before but de date so it didn’t seem like a big was only a $300 deposit to hold the ! One task done; now we were price to pay for that privilege. Yes getting excited! rried next year we still wanted to Even though we will be getting ma t we really did deserve the break! go on holiday this year and felt tha . Unfortunately it seemed every The obvious choice was Rarotonga t to Raro this winter so the first and man and their dog was trying to ge actually came close to pulling my hopefully the last time (yeah right!) I to book the holiday!! I would find hair out with frustration was just trying g in my visa details and Pacific the ideal flights and would be enterin the flights had gone! Craziness!

Blue would flash up a box to tell me g out on the 31st of Aug, hoorah! I But I finally got there and we’re flyin k cocktails and plan our wedding can’t wait to relax on the beach, drin together! (the final sign off will be after we With the location tentatively sorted le to check out menus and start come back from Raro), we were ab whole thing is going to cost us. The getting a handle on how much this and costs – we then had to start Pacific Resort sent us menu options went from 78 to 62, which was not revising our guest list… down!! We bit ruthless. Luckily Hooksy is very an easy task. You just have to be a than me so the task was not so relaxed and far more level-headed daunting! my first wedding magazines. To My lovely friends at work bought me just opening them… and a little tell you the truth I felt a bit daunted a Bridezilla and the thought of excited too. I’m paranoid of being ce card holders could drive me getting all the right table gifts and pla would make me organise things I insane! I was worried that the mags big day. But luckily Claire was never knew I’d always wanted for the ss of wine and, after a few tears of there and she poured me a big gla ion, we were in the thick of it! her accepting my bridesmaid invitat

a dress and bridal party colours I now have some initial thoughts on ded over the next few weeks.” but more investigation is definitely nee

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What happens if we don’t have a ring yet – can we still announce our engagement?

Yes, yes, yes!! As soon as he (or she!) asks you and you accept, its official! Many couples will wait to choose their perfect engagement ring together.

Who traditionally pays for what? See our article on ‘Love & Money’ at pages 119-120.

What if my best friend is a man? Can I include him as a ‘bridesmaid’? Of course you can – just don’t make him wear a dress! He should ideally wear a suit and/or tie that co-ordinates with the groom and groomsmen’s attire (we are sure this will be part of your overall theme). A word of warning: your future husband may not like it if your male best friend helps you dress, so leave that to your female attendants or your mum!

My husband-to-be and his step-father don’t get along. Do we have to invite the step-father to the wedding? We presume that you will be inviting the groom’s mother, so yes; you have to invite the step-father if possible.

To not invite him would be both rude and awkward, and may offend your future mother-inlaw. To minimise potential friction, try to take steps to keep the step-father away from your husband. If the conflict between the two of them is extreme, you may find that the step-father will simply refuse to attend. If your future husband point-blank refuses to invite his step-father, it would be best for him to discuss the situation with his mother first.

Need Advice?

We are planning to have a buffet meal at our reception. Does the wedding party need to get up and serve themselves?

Check with your caterers or reception venue staff about this, but the answer should be ‘no’ – no one expects to see a bride in her beautiful dress in the queue for food! Food should be served to the head table. Caterers or the reception staff will either give you a selection of everything or ask you first what you would like.

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What is the order of the toasts during the reception? Etiquette books suggest the order of the toasting as: Best man toasts the bride, the groom toasts the bride, the bride toasts the groom, the father of the bride toasts the couple, the bride toasts the groom’s parents, the groom toasts the bride’s parents, the father of the groom toasts the bride, the mother of the bride toasts the couple, the mother of the groom toasts the couple, anyone else who has a wish to offer the couple should toast the bride and groom… let’s just hope the champagne lasts that long!

Traditionally, who dances with whom during the first dance? The bride and groom should dance together first, then the bride with her father and the groom with his mother, then the bride with her new father-in-law and the groom with his new motherin-law. The bridesmaids and groomsmen should get the parents on the dance floor while the newlyweds are dancing: this means the bride and groom don’t have to be searching through the crowd for their next dance partner. Open dancing can then begin, including having the new parents and the bridesmaids and groomsmen dance with each other.

If you have any questions you would like answered, please email us at info@engaged. co.nz.

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BALI HIGH

The Wilsana Villas, Seminyak, Bali

Located in the heart of Seminyak minutes

walk from the beach, the tranquil setting of the Bodyworks Spa, or from fabulous restaurants such as The Living Room, Ku de Ta, Hu’u Bar, or La Lucciola, the Wilsana Villas are a little piece of paradise.

There are two Wilsana Villas.

Wilsana 1 provides accommodation for 8-10 people, with three double bedrooms in the main house (one with ensuite, the other two bedrooms share a bathroom with its own outdoor garden) and a

separate ‘pool house’ with a double bedroom and ensuite. Wilsana 1 has an 80 square metre swimming pool, a plunge pool, large living area, dining room, kitchen, television, telephone and fax. The private balconies of the master suite offer extensive views of the pool and gardens and to the east, spectacular views of Mount Batur.

Wilsana 2 has three beautiful bedrooms,

each with its own Balinese garden bathroom, a large living area and kitchen. A media room, complete with large screen satellite television, DVD and VCR player and surround sound system (and its own bathroom!) doubles as a 4th bedroom. This villa features two bales

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overlooking a stunning L-shaped pool which incorporates a lap pool. While adult guests will literally be able to step out of the living room into the pool, childrenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s safety has not been compromised - a solid but removable pool fence can quickly be installed by staff if required.

Guests

have the choice of booking Wilsana 1, Wilsana 2 or both for a large party or wedding. A gate in the wall between the villas can be opened for access between the gardens.

BothVillasaresetinextensivelylandscaped

gardens and the decor and furnishings reflect the influence of timeless Balinese fabrics and timbers. However the present is also acknowledged: there is remote control split-system air conditioning in all

bedrooms!

Wilsana

is fully staffed with resident maids, pool attendant/gardener and security guards. The sensational staff do everything: pamper you, massage you, cook for you, bring you Bintangs, and go the extra step to make your holiday the most unforgettable experience. A separate staff residence is located at the rear of the property providing 24-hour service and security.

Wilsana can be whatever you want it to be - the centre of your exploration of the joyous, colourful and bustling life of Bali or a tranquil, tropical garden haven.

For more information, see www.wilsana. com.au.

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GETTING MARRIED IN BALI In order to get married in Bali, New Zealanders are required to obtain a Certificate of No Impediment to Marriage (CNI) from the Department of Internal Affairs - Births, Deaths and Marriages and a Consulate Certificate from the Embassy of New Zealand in Jakarta before the wedding.

You should visit www.nzembassy.com and www.dia.govt.nz for forms, charges, and to ensure this information is correct at the time of your application.

A religious ceremony as well as a civil legal ceremony will be carried out. Couples must declare a religion and they must be of the same religion. Islam, Hindu, Buddhist, Christian-Protestant and Christian-Catholic faiths are all recognised in Indonesia.

As it can be difficult for non-Indonesian speakers to liaise with religious celebrants and civil registrars, it can be extremely helpful to enlist the services of a wedding agent or planner.

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The Wilsana Villa is exclusively yours for the duration of your stay, with the following included in the price:

* Air-conditioned car to and from the airport (as many vehicles as required). * Air-conditioned car, English speaking driver, tours and transport to Kuta/Legian/ Sanur shopping district (one car available per Villa). * One full day tour per booking (one vehicle available per Villa). * One traditional Balinese massage from a qualified masseuse per adult. * Four hours babysitting each day until 6.00 pm (arrangements can be made for times after that or for additional hours). * Personal clothing laundered and pressed during your stay. *Welcome hamper upon arrival consisting of cheese slices, milk, assorted soft drinks, butter, coffee, tea, sugar, chocolate, filter water, two dozen chilled beer. * Breakfast including juice, fruits, eggs, toast, pancakes...

CURRENCY: 1 New Zealand Dollar = approximately 7,000 Indonesian Rupiah LANGUAGE: Balinese and Indonesian, with English being commonly spoken and understood TIME ZONE: Bali is 5 hours beind New Zealand FLIGHT TIME: From approximately 9 hours flight time, depending on stopovers and airline

The Ministry of Foreign Affairs and Trade provides advice on the security risks of travelling to certain countries. Before making travel arrangements, we suggest you check with www.safetravel.govt.nz.

Travel insurance is always recommended and you should check the details of your policy to ensure it covers your destination.

The international airport closest to the Wilsana Villas is Denpasar Airport (DPS).

Qantas and Jetstar fly from Auckland and Wellington to Denpasar via Sydney or Melbourne.

Jetstar flies from Christchurch to Denpasar via Sydney or Melbourne.

Flights are also available from Auckland or Christchurch via Singapore with Singapore Airlines, or from Auckland via Hong Kong with Cathay Pacific.

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The Checklist

Engaged to 9 months before Task

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Announce your engagement, including notices in the newspaper Organise for your families to meet, if they haven’t done so already Choose your bridesmaids, groomsmen, MC, flower girls, page boys Discuss the type of wedding you want, including budget Compile a draft guest list (this will help determine venue size) Choose venues for the ceremony and reception Set the date and time for the wedding Choose and book the following: • Photographer • Videographer • Entertainment • Caterer • Florist • Transport • Wedding Co-ordinator • Celebrant Start thinking about your dress (you may need to book a dressmaker) Consider purchasing wedding insurance to cover those things that are out of your control which may result in the wedding being postponed or cancelled Have an engagement party

9 months before Task

Order your wedding dress Choose your accessories: veil, jewellery, underwear, shoes and so on Choose the attire for the rest of the wedding party as applicable: • Groom • Bridesmaids • Groomsmen • Flower girls • Page boys Select stationery including: • Invitations

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Task

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• Thank you cards/notes • Place name cards • RSVP cards • Seating plan • Envelopes Book a calligrapher Send out save-the-date cards Contact rental companies to hire equipment, marquees, tables, etc Organise gift registry Start thinking about your honeymoon

6 months before Task

Order bridesmaids’ dresses Order/book the groom’s and groomsmen’s suits Help your mother and mother-in-law with their outfits Discuss your beauty regime with your beauty therapist Book in for marriage preparation course if needed Decide on and order your wedding cake Book your accommodation for the wedding night Investigate accommodation options for out of town guests Choose and purchase your wedding rings Make any honeymoon reservations

4 months before Task

Book hairdresser and make-up artist Order favours Discuss menu options with caterer/venue, including wine selection Organise entertainment if you are having children at the reception Speak with the celebrant or minister and decide on an order of service, responsibilities, speech making, readings, etc. Set your rehearsal date Let people know if they will be making a speech, doing a reading, etc Purchase wedding gifts for each other and the wedding party Organise time off work for your honeymoon Renew passports if necessary!

2 months before Task

Post invitations Write your vows Have your hair and makeup trials (remember to take your veil etc)

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Organise dancing lessons for the first dance Organise your hen’s and buck’s nights with the wedding party Confirm: • Flowers with florist – do they fit with the theme, colours, dresses • Menu with caterer • Accommodation for yourselves and your guests Organise any legal work, for example, pre-nuptial agreements, wills

1 month before Task

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Apply for your marriage licence Confirm and finalise final guest numbers Make a seating plan (allow time for disagreements!)

Have your dress fittings Organise bridal party’s final fittings (including accessories) Confirm groom’s and groomsmen’s outfits are ready Write your speech Confirm honeymoon accommodation and flight bookings Organise a house-sitter for while you are on honeymoon

2 weeks before Task

Confirm with everyone that you have booked for your wedding, advise final numbers and provide a emergency contact number to: • Venue • Caterer • Celebrant/Minister • Photographer • Videographer • Entertainment • Florist • Cake maker • Stationery • Car hire company • Hairdresser • Makeup artist • Favours • Hire company Make a list of everything that needs to be set up and/or taken to the ceremony and reception Have your final dress fitting including accessories. Take your chief bridesmaid so she knows how to how to attach your train etc.

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Make sure the bridesmaids have their dresses, footwear and accessories Have your final haircut and colour before the wedding Make sure the groom has his hair cut Finalise seating plan for reception Write place cards Practise walking around in your wedding shoes Have hen’s night and buck’s night

1 week before Task

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Pick up your wedding dress and hang it in a safe place Wedding rehearsal (you may like to give the bridal party their gifts then) Pick up hire items, including groom’s and groomsmen’s attire Confirm honeymoon arrangements Pack for honeymoon Have your engagement ring professionally cleaned Pack an emergency kit for the day Final check on arrangements and plan for the day: • Who has the rings?

• Have you paid entertainers etc ahead of time or do you need to take money?

• Who is taking the gifts home after the wedding?

• Who is dry-cleaning your dress the next day?

• Who is returning the suits?

• Make sure the bridal party are aware of their roles • Give a list of important contacts to a trusted family member or friend (can be the chief bridesmaid or the mother of the bride)

The day before Task

Relax and spend some quality time on your own!

Present each other with gifts and remind each other why you love the other Give wedding bands to the best man and/or chief bridesmaid to hold during the ceremony

The big day Enjoy yourself!

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